You might cry over spilled milk, but you’ll definitely shed tears over the cost of shipping breast milk for active duty moms. The Coast Guard has come to the rescue, however, with a new policy that covers shipping costs for breast milk.

Moms on duty who want to send breast milk home to their babies now qualify for a new financial program titled Coast Guard Mutual Assistance, Breast Milk Shipment, which will cover the shipping costs for up to $750 per year. The new policy was in response to feedback received in the Women’s Retention Study and Holistic Analysis conducted by the United States Coast Guard.

photo: Skeeze via Pixabay

The reimbursement program applies to all active duty members including PHS Officers and USN Chaplains attached to the Coast Guard, as well as reservists and their spouses and Coast Guard civilian employees.

Eligible members can apply for reimbursement for their shipping costs at the end of any period of time away from home which is longer than 72 hours. They must submit receipts within 60 days of return. Members who paid to ship breast milk prior to the establishment of the program are also eligible for reimbursement for any expenses incurred from Jan. 1 to Aug. 31, 2019.

—Shahrzad Warkentin

 

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The ‘80s called and said “remember how awesome your fanny pack was, why not put them on your shoes?” Or something like that. A new line of Crocs with fanny packs has just been released and now you can wear your shoes and carry stuff too.

The Crocs, which are the result of a collab with cult Japanese clothing line Beams, feature a tiny nylon, zip-top fanny pack attached to the ankle strap of classic-style Crocs. The ankle strap can also be flipped over so that the pouches sit on top of your shoes.

The pouches are designed to hold small items, like keys or cash, so they won’t do much good for stashing those wipes and diapers, but if you’re going for a quick stroll and need your hands free for the kids, they could come in handy.

The fanny-pack Crocs are available in two colors, Ultraviolet and Tropical Teal, on the Beams site for or 5940 yen, or about $53 per pair.

—Shahrzad Warkentin

All photos: Beams

 

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As a parent, you probably spend 75 percent of your awake hours searching for things your kids have misplaced, which can be especially challenging when you’re on a mad dash to make it out the door for school in the morning. One dad’s viral hairbrush hack will ensure that your kids will never leave the house with unbrushed hair again.

Fed up with never being able to find a hairbrush, dad Mike Thiessen decided to take matters into his own hands and make sure the hairbrush never left the bathroom again. As Thiessen shared in a Facebook post that has since gone viral, the simple solution to lost items is to chain them up.

Thiessen attached a metal ring to the hole at the end of the hairbrush and then linked it to a long chain which he attached to the wall with an eye hook. The clever hack received tons of positive feedback with other parents wanting a similar set up at home.

And why stop there? Just think of the possibilities. You’ll never search desperately for that TV remote or the scissors again.

—Shahrzad Warkentin

Featured photo: Emma Simpson via Unsplash

 

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Two years ago after a particularly ugly loss to the Raiders, someone said to me, “A wise person wouldn’t get too emotionally attached to the Broncos this season.”

It was way too late for that!

Let me tell you a story…

In 1960 my Grandfather invested in some season tickets for a team we call the Denver Broncos. He went to every single home game, as well as a couple of Broncos Super Bowl losses. On occasion, my parents got to go to a game at which point my siblings and I would go to our others grandparents’ house where my Nanny and Grandad would teach and later grill us about the rules of the game. And when the weather totally sucked (and no one else wanted to go) we kids would get the opportunity to go to the game with my Grandfather.

Which meant most of the time, we watched them on TV, every single weekend, we watched the Broncos with my Mom and Dad. My Mom whooping it up, my Dad couch quarterbacking and the kids soaking it all up, learning the plays and memorizing the roster.

Fast forward – those same tickets are still held in our family, priority number 139. Every Broncos home game you can count on Uncle Pete, my brother Ryan and assorted other O’Mearas and Kimmels to cheer on the home team. And every so often, the kids, my grandfather’s great grandkids, get the chance to go.

So, you ask, why are the Denver Broncos so near and dear to my heart? It comes down to one thing….family.

Football is family.

Tonight, it’s true tonight more than ever. You see, my dear Dad passed away three weeks ago, so tonight is the first time in my life that I’m watching the Broncos game without him.

Don’t get me wrong, there were lots of games where we watched from separate places, but I knew he was paying attention. I knew he’d be complaining about that infrequent shovel pass he always hated; I knew he’d be rolling his eyes while chanting  “In-com-plete” in his living room and I could practically hear his infamous “noooo” when he didn’t like what he saw.

And of course, those same thoughts are playing in my head tonight…but it’s just not the same.

As I sit here tonight watching our favorite team kick off their season, the finality of his death is staring to hit. And hit hard.

As I write this post, this game is getting close and I can feel my anxiety building. And suddenly it feels like a whole lot more than just a game, it feels like an epic battle. A classic Broncos 4th quarter battle, so many of which we celebrated winning together. Surely my beloved Broncos are going to honor my Dad with a win, right?

Flash back to that comment a couple of years ago. That very year, my beloved Broncos won Super Bowl 50 – an amazing win by the under dog. Every minute of it enjoyed by our family despite the fact we didn’t watch it together. Once again, a game bringing us closer.

So tonight, I lean on those memories of my Dad to get me through because I know one thing for sure. For this Momma, football is, and always will be, about family.

#footballisfamily

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As a working mom with three boys...one his, one mine, one ours...I frequently find myself talking about motherhood with other women. For some strange reason, some of them think I have the answers...trust me, I don't. But I do know one thing...this mom shit is hard!

While the world knows the joy of ordering toilet paper by voice command thanks to Amazon’s Alexa, kids have been largely left out of the fun. In the growing field of voice assistants, Mattel is ready to take part. Meet Aristotle– the A.I. powered at-home monitoring device for kids.

Photo: Mattel’s nabi

It’ll answer your kid’s burning questions, play them music, work as a nightlight, and monitor them while you’re in the other room via the attached camera. You can even customize it for child interaction, such as requiring the word “please” in voice commands.

Parents can also order supplies from trusted retailers on the device, all while restricting purchasing capabilities so the kids can’t get carried away with the credit card.

“Raising kids can be hectic and we saw a need for an IoT (Internet of Things) system that simplifies the complex and dynamic lives of families, while providing them with peace of mind.  Our goal with the launch of Aristotle is to provide parents with a platform that simplifies parenting, while helping them nurture, teach, and protect their young ones,” says Jim Mitchell, VP and GM of nabi, Mattel’s tech line for kids.

Aristotle is slated to hit stores this June and retail for about $300.

Will this be added to your shopping cart this summer? Tell us in the comments below!

Photo: Pixabay

If you’ve ever wondered where your children’s smarts come from, look no further than their mother. Years of research rounded up by Psychology Spot confirms that most of your intelligence is passed down from your mother.

We’re about to get a bit science-y here. Children’s intelligence genes are attached to the X chromosome, and since our mothers have TWO of those bad boys, it’s twice as likely our intelligence comes from our maternal side. And even if your father passes off a few of his intelligence genes to you, chances are they won’t have an impact on your brain since they only work if they come from your mother.

“If that same gene is inherited from the father, it is deactivated,” reports the study in Psychology Spot. “Obviously, other genes work the opposite, are activated only if they come from the father.”

And even if you or your little one aren’t the sharpest tool in the shed, don’t worry. “The importance of the emotional relationship for the development of the brain has been demonstrated by researchers at the University of Washington, who revealed for the first time that a secure bond and the love of the mother are crucial for the growth of some parts of the brain,” the report added.

“These researchers have analyzed for seven years the way mothers relate with their children and have found that when supported emotionally their children and adequately gratified their intellectual and emotional needs, at age 13 the hippocampus of the kids was 10% greater than that of children of mothers who were emotionally distant. It is worth mentioning that the hippocampus is an area of the brain associated with memory, learning and stress response.”

Ah, yes, some good ol’ TLC.

What are your thoughts? Tell us in the comments below! 

H/T: Fatherly

 

 

Daily
Today Is Scotch Tape Day
We’ve grown attached.
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Get the kiddos amped about the simple art of using tape to make amazing things.

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It can remove pet hair, dry your clothes and keep your pants on. Tape is your friend and here are 12 tape hacks you will use every day.

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Bust out this easy and cute tape dispenser for all that washi tape you simply must keep around.

{ Today’s ideas brought to you by Glue }

photo credit: ando_yo via creative commons flickr

 

For those who were BK Skiers (before kids) the dream of the day when you are able to delight in skiing again and share the experience as a family might be a reality this year. Here are some great tips for getting your little ones out on the slopes.

Keep them warm. Think snow and kids and the vision of the bundled toddler barely able to walk with all of the padding comes to mind. While warmth is essential, ease of mobility is now key as well.

  • When choosing those adorable little snow duds, consider potty access. The all in one full zip snowsuits can be tricky, especially in chilly bathrooms. Ski bibs are a great alternative for easy access and keeping the snow out. Check labels to ensure your pants and jacket are water-proof, or at the very least, water-resistant.
  • Think layers.  A well dressed kid is one with multiple layers enabling you to adjust to changing temperatures. Start with a lightweight base layer to keep body heat in. Socks should provide warmth and wick sweat away from the feet.  Synthetic materials are better than their cotton brethren, which will hold moisture and cause your little one to feel chilled.   In colder weather, add a long-sleeve T-shirt and sweatpants over the long underwear.
  • Don’t forget a comfortable pair of goggles or sunglasses to protect eyes from glare, wind, and sprays of snow. Many manufacturers make specific child sizes for a better fit.

Get the right gear. A good thing to remember when you first introduce young children to skiing is that it should be fun and at this stage, it’s more about getting them comfortable then actually skiing.  Seasonal rentals are a great cost effective way to have your child in the proper sized equipment as they grow bigger. Buying gear isn’t a bad option either, especially if you have multiple kids. With it’s typical light use, beginner ski gear can be used many times. So how do you measure your child for proper fit?

  • Kids three and under should have skis that come up to roughly, between their shoulder and their chin. This length lets them feel the sensation of sliding yet still able to get around, get up easily, and side step or slide and glide. In general kids do better on skis they feel comfortable on.
  • If your child is four or five years old, both weight and height need to be considered when choosing skis for beginners. A good rule of thumb is to pick skis that stand between their chin and nose. Skis are measured in centimeters and most children starting out are comfortable on skis that are 88-90cm.
  • The ideal way to find the proper sized boots is to actually try on some different sizes at a shop.  Remove the liner from the boot before they step in so that you can check the length and width directly. Ski boots are measured in what is called Mondo Point sizing, which is the length (in centimeters) of the sole of the foot. Have your child stand on a tape measure, being sure to read the centimeter side of the ruler from heel to toe.  Most young kids will measure between 15 and 21 cm, which is translated as size 15.0 and 21.0.
  • Don’t forget to cover that noggin with a properly fitting ski helmet! You can buy or rent, but helmets are critical gear since most head injuries happen at low speeds.xxx

photo credit: phareannah via creative commons flickr

Have some fun inside first. No doubt about it, those stiff boots, clunky helmets, bug goggles, and giant boards attached to your feet can be scary business! Avoid the tears and let your little ones have some fun inside gearing up and sliding across the carpet with some help from mom or dad. Let them practice putting on and taking off the boots and be sure to demonstrate binding use. Our three year old felt much more comfortable once he realized the loud “click” of a binding did not mean the skis were now permanently attached to his feet.x

Consider enrolling in school. Ski school is the best way for your child to get a comfortable introduction on how fun skiing can really be in a fun and low pressure environment. Child specific ski instructors are the experts on handling an army of pint sized snow-monsters and by the end of a couple of days most are able to actually get their gear on and off, be familiar with a tow rope or chair lift (with help of a grownup), go straight (french-fries), slow down, stop (pie), and even turn a little.  Most programs are half or full day and require advanced reservations. We found a couple of half days in a row was the best way to really introduce the kids to the concept.x

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Get your own gear ready. The most practical thing a parent skier should own is some kind of  hydration backpack. Pack it with snacks, extra layers, extra gloves, and sunblock. The water is probably the most important item though, since a dehydrated kid is a cranky kid. If you are teaching your child to ski yourself there is a variety of gear that can help with this endeavor. We tried several of these contraptions, but the Lucky Bums Ski Trainer (pictured above) was by far the favorite. The grab handle on the back is perfect for loading kids on and off the chair lifts and it also has a handy self enclosed backpack to stash the straps.

 

A store geared towards outdoorsmen might not seem like family fun destination of you are looking for this weekend but if you head over to the new Bass Pro Shop in San Jose you just might be surprised. Activities for kids, Santa’s Wonderland and gear for even the smallest camper is all available under one (very large) roof. Plus, the attached Uncle Buck’s Fish Bowl and Grill is not to be missed (who doesn’t like under water bowling?). Read on to learn why you should set up camp at this outdoor emporium ASAP.

Come In to Explore the Outdoors
The 140,000-square-foot Bass Pro Shop is easy to spot from highway 85 on Almaden Espressway. Before heading into the store, make sure you check out the boats and recreational vehicles on display in the parking lot. Little skippers will enjoy being able to climb aboard and play captain.

As you walk through the main entrance you will be transported to a cozy lodge in the woods. A massive fireplace greets you and hand-painted murals cover the walls and ceiling. See if you can spot the California condor above the front door. The dioramas in each department depict realistic landscapes that were built from actual foliage from nearby Tilton Ranch. Look down and you’ll see animal footprints that you can follow throughout the store.

Kids will instantly be drawn down the main aisle to the far wall display where a mural of Yosemite surrounds a tank with tons of large fish that are local to our area. Kids can step right up and press their faces against the tank. If you happen to be there on a Saturday at noon, you are in for an extra special treat. This is when they feed the fish and talk about all the different species in the tank—what they like to eat, their natural habitats and other interesting facts.

Photo by the author

Near the tank you will find a display of fishing rods for the smallest anglers (some in the ever-popular Disney Princess and superhero designs). Bass Pro wants kids to get interested in all sorts of outdoor sports from an early age and has small sized equipment available. In early February they will host the Fishing Classic which is a special promotion where kids can practice casting into a bucket and learn about the sport from the pro fishermen on staff.

The store carries camping gear for families, camouflage clothing in all sizes and even pool toys in the summer months. You can find out about in-store events by signing up for email notifications or by going to the store’s Facebook page. Families can look forward to camping workshops, in-store scavenger hunts, boating safety classes and other events throughout the year.

Photo by the author

Santa’s Wonderland
A seasonal favorite at all Bass Pro Shops is Santa’s Wonderland. From early November through Christmas Eve, a large section of the store is transformed into a winter wonderland. Kids can meet with the big man himself and get a free 4×6 photo taken. If you plan on visiting on a busy weekend, consider stopping by early in the day to grab a Bass Pass which will allow you to see Santa at a specific time later in the day (and avoid the line). Seasonal crafts and games are also available.

Uncle Buck’s Fish Bowl and Grill
A destination in and of itself, Uncle Buck’s Fish Bowl and Grill is conveniently attached to Bass Pro so that you can even grab a meal while you are visiting. This combination bowling alley and restaurant is designed with an Atlantic Ocean theme with sea creatures on every surface and even appearing to come out of the walls. The menu includes many kid favorites like pizza, burgers and even alligator for the more adventurous eaters.

The bowling alley is integrated into the restaurant and bar and allows patrons to order from the restaurant menu while bowling. Kids will love the great white shark and octopus ball returns. Starting in early 2016 they will be offering birthday party packages for both children and adult parties. Two party rooms (one with a pool table) are available for bigger functions.

Bass Pro Shop
5160 Cherry Ave.
San Jose, Ca
Hours: Mon.–Sat. 9 a.m.–9 p.m., Sun. 10 a.m.–8 p.m.
Online: basspro.com

Uncle Buck’s Fishbowl and Grill
Hours: Mon.-Thurs. 11 a.m.–9 p.m., Fri.–Sat. 11 a.m.–11 p.m., Sun. 11 a.m.–8 p.m.
Online: restaurants.basspro.com

What outdoor adventure are you planning next? Let us know in the comments below!

–Kate Loweth

Photos courtesy of Bass Pro and Uncle Buck’s Fish Bowl and Grill except where noted.

Got a kid who is Jonesing for their own set of wheels? The local skate park might be just the thing. There are plenty of spaces in the District and its surrounding areas for tiny Tony Hawk wannabees to grab some air and perform a few tricks while nabbing a little bit of freedom that comes with a board attached to a few wheels. Get ready to grind and carve with your tyke at these DMV approved parks.

Photo: Allie_Caulfield via Flickr

Maloof Skate Park
Located in Lot 3 (across from the DC Armory) at RFK Stadium, Maloof Skate Park sprung up in 2012 and was created by Pro Skater Geoff Rowley and California Skate parks. This 15,000 square foot space is all about the skate. Inspired by D.C.’s Freedom Plaza and the surrounding Pennsylvania Avenue architecture it is an entirely free space that is perfect for skaters of all ages.

2400 East Capitol St., SE (Armory)
Online: eventsdc.com

Powhatan Springs Park
Another 15,000 skate park in Arlington offers kiddos the chance to practice their ollies and kickflips in an area that is a combination of street-style elements with a mixture of half-pipes and bowls, ensuring a well-rounded afternoon of skating fun that is welcoming to all ages and skill levels with parents picture taking welcomed. Kids 10 and under must be accompanied by an adult in the skate space and helmets are de rigueur.

6020 Wilson Blvd. (Arlington, Va)
Open: Sun-Thu, Sunrise-9 pm; Fri-Sat, Sunrise-10 pm
Online:  parks.arlington.us

Schuyler Hamilton Jones Skateboard Park
If ramps and rails are your little skaters M.O. then a trip to Schulyer Hamilton Jones Skateboard Park is in order. This Alexandria park has a variety of rails to grind on as well as areas where kids can work out their latest tricks. A street course and a small half pipe are located here. This is a sweet spot for a beginner that caters to the younger skating crowd. Skateboarding lessons are also available at the park so your tot can take their skills the next level.

3540 Wheeler Ave. (Alexandria, Va)
703-838-4343
Online: alexandria.gov/recreation

Wakefield Skate Park
When it comes to skateboarding this park means business. Run by the Fairfax County Park Authority it offers up both a Freestyle course and a Competition course. That means twice the fun that’s loaded with bank ramps, grind rails, a four foot quarter pipe a grind box and even a euro gap. Fun for all ages, but especially skate newbies, the park offers camps and classes for little ones ages six and up through the summer months. Take advantage of this fast-paced outdoor time that breaks them away from the electronics.

8100 Braddock Road (Annandale, Va)
Open: Mon-Sat, 7 am-8 pm; Sun, 9 am-8 pm
703-321-7081
Online: fairfaxcounty.gov/parks

Where does your little skateboarder go to practice moves? Tell us in the comments section. 

—Victoria Mason