Photo: Lansinoh

Whether you’re visiting family, going to the beach, or celebrating a holiday, traveling while breastfeeding has its own set of unique circumstances and potentials challenges. However, with a little planning and preparation, breastfeeding won’t put a roadblock in your travel plans.

When you are putting together your travel plans, think about how you will facilitate breastfeeding or pumping. If you’re flying, you can call ahead to the airport and airline to find out what breastfeeding/pumping accommodations are available to you in the airport and on the plane. Depending on the length of your flight you can also try timing your feeding and pumping session around your travel times so that you can limit the number of times you have to feed or pump while traveling. Since most breastfeeding infants can travel in their parent’s laps, this can help facilitate breastfeeding while inflight, and breastfeeding during takeoff and landing can help soothe baby and help them equalize the pressure in their ears. Pumping on a plane can be a bit tricky, but I’ve definitely known plenty of moms who’ve accomplished the task. Many planes now have electric plugs available, however, be sure to bring a battery back up for your pump just in case. You can also speak to the cabin crew once you’ve boarded and let them know that you’ll need to pump during the flight. Often, they are more than willing to do what they can to accommodate your needs. Whether your breastfeeding or pumping on a plane, remember that you’ll be in tight quarters. You may want to plan an outfit with multiple layers or bring a breastfeeding cover to help you feel more comfortable.

If your plans include a road trip, be sure to map it out prior to leaving. Take into account the baby’s usual feeding times and/or your usual pumping times so that you can find suitable places to stop along the way. Breastfeeding in the car can be a little tricky considering both you and baby need to stay buckled up for safety. Finding rest stops or other stopping places along the way is usually the best option. If you are pumping, and you plan on bottle feeding during your car trip, most breast pumps can either be run on batteries or you can get a car adapter to power the pump. Just make sure to bring an extra pumping set or two so that you have plenty of clean parts, especially important if you need to pump multiple times during the trip. Be prepared for your trip to take a little longer. With the potential stops needed for breastfeeding and diaper changes, you’ll want to add an hour or two to the length of your travel time. Setting this expectation early will help avoid disappointment and frustration later.

Safe storage of your breastmilk while traveling can easily be achieved using a cooler and ice. Try to avoid placing your breastmilk storage bags directly on the ice. You can either place them in a larger zipper bag or in a plastic food storage container and pack ice around it. Make sure to have plenty of ice in the cooler and add to it frequently. It’s best if the cooler doesn’t contain other items for your trip. Opening it less frequently will help maintain a colder temperature for your breastmilk. If you’re going to be taking expressed breastmilk with you on a flight, you are allowed to bring as much as you need to. However, the TSA does have specific guidelines about screening for breastmilk. So, be sure to visit their site and check out the latest information before traveling.

Packing your bags is always a huge part of any travel adventure. When your packing for a trip as a breastfeeding mom, there are a few things you should also keep in mind. In addition to your luggage for your family, pack a small breastfeeding bag that you can carry with you—allowing you easy access at any time. This bag should include a change of clothes for both you and baby, your pump with extra pump parts, nursing pads, milk storage bags, a nursing cover, and any other items you frequently use during breastfeeding or pumping. This is one time that you won’t be sorry that you overpacked, because it’s always better to be prepared.

No matter the destination of your travels, be sure to plan ahead for your breastfeeding needs, and to be patient with yourself. Things most likely won’t go exactly as planned. However, at the end of the day, you are on an adventure with the newest addition to your family and that’s worth the extra planning.

Molly currently serves as a Certified Lactation Counselor (CLC) with Lansinoh, a global leader in the breastfeeding market. Molly attended the University of Nebraska – Omaha and has her lactation certification from the Academy of Lactation Policy and Practice.

In a world with Netflix and Disney+, it’s hard to beat the comfort of your own couch and freshly buttered air-popped corn. Unless you’ve been cooped up in your own living room for far too long. Escape the confines of your home with a trip to one of these family-friendly theaters where kids are welcome and you don’t have to worry about who gets the “best” space on the sofa because all of the seats have a good view (and, if you’re lucky, they recline). Read on for the best places to escape your abode for a family flick.

Alamo Cinema
This dinner-and-a-movie concept (available in Ashburn and Woodbridge) showcases kids and family events with a full page of tyke friendly fun like Alamo for All, sensory friendly, all-ages screenings where the lights are kept on low, and nobody has to swap diaper changes for scene changes as you can duck in and out anytime. Check out Victory Vanguard, a film club and discounts just for teens, or PBS kids T.V. show screenings where the admission price benefits your local station.

Ashburn:
20575 Easthampton Plaza
Ashburn, VA 20147
571-293-6808

Woodbridge:
15200 Potomac Town Place, Suite 100
Woodbridge, VA 22191
571-260-4413
Online: drafthouse.com

American Film Institute Silver Theatre and Cultural Arts Center
Typically catering to adult film fans, this cultural hub Imakes room for the occasional kid-friendly feature and series in their landmark theatre in downtown Silver Spring. Look out for runs like the Holiday Classic Series now playing, and special Silver Babies with first run showtimes on Friday mornings at an admission price of just $10 for parent and baby.

8633 Colesville Rd.
Silver Spring, MD 20910
301-495-6700
Online: afi.com

AMC Theaters
Most of AMC’s DMV locations now offer premium seating where everyone gets to put their feet up, as well as the traditional daytime discount for little peoples favorite movie showtime—before 4 p.m. Also consider joining the chain’s loyalty program—AMC Stubs—and take advantage of $5 Ticket Tuesdays when you purchase at the box office.

Various locations.
Online: amctheatres.com

Angelika
What’s that you say? Junior has been a bit of crybaby today? You said it, not us. But not to worry, this indie mecca with two locations in Northern Virginia, and the ultra-chic pop-up at Union Market, has you covered. Bring the babe to the movies for a mid-day Crybaby Matinee on Wednesdays in DC and Mondays in Farifax. Check under the Programs and Events tabs for the latest showings.

550 Penn St. NE
Union Market
Online: angelikafilmcenter.com

Arlington Cinema and Drafthouse
Offering Monday discounts, Saturday morning birthday party opportunities, and special events like a Christmas movie marathon, this longtime neighborhood favorite is a go-to place for families. In addition to cinematic offerings, comedy nights feature live comics from Mad TV, Comedy Central and more. And have we mentioned the pub style food, or the adult bevvies?

2903 Columbia Pike
Arlington VA 22204
703-486-2345
Online: arlingtondrafthouse.com

Old Greenbelt Theater
This lively old fashioned spot in the heart of Old Greenbelt, itself declared a National Historic District in 1997, shows both first run and arthouse movies, and hosts film and other programs for all ages, including a bi-weekly Monday morning Storytime on Screen, free to the community, and an eclectic Family Series with a broad variety of performances film fest screenings for kids.

129 Centerway
Greenbelt, MD 20770
301-329-2034
Online: greenbelttheatre.org

The Avalon
Tops on the list at this Chevy Chase Circle favorite is the Weekend Family Matineeseries which features singing, magic actsand more, including occasional family-friendly films screened in front of an old fashioned stage. Under an art deco gilded painted ceiling, the Avalon’s foreign and domesticarthouse selections make for a great date night, or perhaps brunch at the nearby Bread and Chocolate.

5612 Connecticut Ave. NW
Chevy Chase
202-966-3464
Online: theavalon.org

Cinema Arts Theatre
Located in a Fairfax strip mall, this theater offers a great matinee price ($6.50/person) and on weekdays, crowds are super small. That makes it the perfect time to take your kiddo for their first movie, or if they don’t like crowds or you simply want them to have freedom to be themselves. They’ve also got a great selection of tasty concessions, and plenty of places for a meal before or after the movie, too.

9650 Main St
Fairfax VA 22031
703-978-6991
Online: www.cinemaartstheatre.com

Cinemark Fairfax Corner 14 and XD
National chain Cinemark offers Reel Family Time/Family Day at Cinemark every Mon. Enjoy $1.25 discount on ticket prices when you have three or more people in your group. You can also check out their Early Bird program, which gives you an extra discount on matinee prices for the first matinee of the day before 1 P.M. There’s also Wednesday when they offer $5 tickets. Don’t forget Front Row Joe, the program that lets your kiddo celebrate their birthday with a private movie screening and a Movie Snack Pack of traditional movie treats.

11900 Palace Way
Fairfax, VA 22030
703-378-6550
Online: www.cinemark.com

Regal
National Chain Regal offers a couple of kid-friendly options. The second and fourth Saturday of each month at 10:30 A.M. is their My Way Matinee, a sensory friendly movie with the lights turned up and the sound turned down. Let your kiddo wander, talk, or do whatever else they like. During the summer months, don’t miss their Summer Movie Express, two movies a week that are family-friendly with steeply discounted tickets.

701 Seventh St. NW
Penn Quarter
844-462-7342
Online: www.regmovies.com

Cobb Village 14 Cinemas
Cobb Village 14 offers sensory-friendly films once a month where your kiddos can enjoy a great movie with brighter lights, lower volume, and no pressure to be still or quiet. They also have Cobbster’s Kitchen & Bar, a family-friendly full-dining service that allows you to take your food to enjoy during the movie or at the lobby tables.

1600 Village Market Blvd. SE
Leesburg, VA 20175
571-291-9462
Online: www.cobbtheaters.com

The Miracle Theater
This former vaudeville theater offers lots of kid-friendly entertainment, going above and beyond just movies. For example, they have a Polar Express Pajama Party in Dec., along with plenty of other family-friendly movies. Year-round, they have the Boogie Babes every Thursday, an interactive musical experience for kids.

535 8th St. SE
Capitol Hill
202-400-3210
Online: www.themiracletheater.com

 

The joyous gift-giving season can also be a fun time to get a little mischievous. A prank holiday gift is a great way to bring some laughs to your parties and family gatherings and this viral birthie stick gift box is no exception.

For just a few dollars, your gift is sure to be the life of the party with the Prank Pack “Birthie Stick” Gift Box. The empty box advertises a “Birthie Stick” which is a device that allows you to film a selfie of your baby’s birth.

photo: Amazon

No, it’s not a real thing, but the look on your friends’ faces when they unwrap it will be unreal. It’s the perfect talking piece for any mom’s night or white elephant party this holiday season. The fake prank box is available on Amazon for $8.

photo: Amazon

There are several other hilarious prank box options to choose from, like the Baby Shield, another pretend device meant to help make diaper changes less messy.

—Shahrzad Warkentin

 

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From a newborn with impossibly sticky poop to a toddler who won’t stay still for more than a few seconds, diaper changing challenges never stop. A single baby will literally need thousands of diaper changes in just the first year. We’ve got you, and your baby’s bottom, covered with 10 diaper hacks to make all those changes just a little bit easier.

photo: Sellers Patton via Flickr

1. Creating a Barrier
A newborn’s first bowel movements are black and tar-like. It’s called meconium and it’s a sticky mess. Right from the very fist diaper change, apply a thin layer of petroleum jelly to baby’s bottom to create a barrier on the skin. For any that does get stuck on, olive oil on a clean cloth will gently clean it off.

2. Keeping Track
In those early months, you’ll want to know how often baby goes to the bathroom to make sure they are getting enough nutrients. Your pediatrician is probably also going to ask how many diapers baby goes through in a day, so you’re going to want to keep track. Instead of relying on your sleep-deprived brain, try an app like Sleep Tracker, in which you can also record feedings, sleep patterns, and milestones.

Available on iTunes and Google Play, free.

3. Sizing Up
Blowouts up the back of the diaper are going to happen. If they start to become a regular occurrence, go up a diaper size. The height and weight guidelines for diapers are merely suggestions, so don’t worry that the diaper will be too big. What you want to check is that the leg openings aren’t loose, otherwise you might get leakage there.

photo: iStock

4. Tricks for Receiving Blanket
Chances are you received at least one package of receiving blankets in preparation for your little bundle’s arrival, and chances are you have no idea what to do with all those small, thin blankets. Laying one on top of the changing pad cover makes for a quick clean-up when things get messy. That way you don’t have to worry about constantly washing the changing-pad cover. Also, stash one in the diaper bag for on-the-go changes in your car or public changing stations.

5. Emergency Diapers
Speaking of diaper bags, there will come a time when you run out of the house and completely forget to grab yours. Or you look into the bag and realize you forgot to restock diapers! To avert disaster, keep a diaper or two and a travel-size pack of wipes in your glove compartment for such an occasion. Check your stash occasionally to make sure it’s still baby’s current diaper size.

6. Diaper Cream Brush
Another thing that’s bound to happen when it comes to baby bums is diaper rash. There are many creams and lotions on the market to clear up rashy bottoms, and one thing almost all of them have in common is that they are very hard to clean off your hands and always seem to get under your fingernails. One accessory that’s worth looking into is the Baby Bumco Diaper Cream Brush for all your application needs.

Available at bumco.com, $9.99.

7. Avoid the Spray
It has probably happened to every parent. You get baby all cleaned up and are grabbing a fresh diaper only to get wet before getting the new diaper on. A good tip for post-nap changes is to wait a few minutes for your little one to wake up. As they get older, babies and toddlers are less likely to pee in their sleep, so you want to give them time to get it all out before you expose them to the air. You can also place a fresh diaper over top of boys while you slip the old one off and double up underneath for girls while you change them.

photo: heymattallen via Pixabay

8. Clothing Hacks
Baby clothes have built-in features to help avoid diaper woes. Those shoulder folds on many onesies and some shirts are not only there to help get the tops over baby’s head. You can also use them to take clothes off by pulling them down instead of up, which keeps baby’s face and hair clean in the case of a blowout. For curious toddlers who like to play with zippers and snaps, put them in their pajamas backwards to keep little hands out of messy diapers.

9. Make It Fun
Diaper changes can be stressful for parents and babies alike. For younger babies, sing a song or recite a nursery rhyme to keep them calm. For fidgety toddlers, set aside a few easily washable toys that are reserved for diaper time only to keep their minds distracted and their hands busy. Your little ones may actually come to look forward to changing time!

10. Overnight Diapers
For heavy night wetters, look for diapers specifically labeled for nighttime. They are more absorbent than regular ones, so it’s less likely that your little one will wake up in the middle of night soaked. You can also slip a Sposie Booster Pad into any type of diaper for extra absorbency.

Available at sposie.com, $11.99-$12.99.

—Katie L. Carroll

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Cuddle Up! Find the Best Winter PJs for Your Baby

Brrr! Long, cold, wintry nights mean soft, warm, breathable pajamas are a must. It’s time to step up your baby PJ game. If you’re looking for seasonal styles, or options for easy diaper changes and temperature control, then you’ve come to the right place. Here are 15 pairs of pajamas for your sleeping beauty.

Snowman Baby & Toddler Bamboo Viscose Zippy from Little Sleepies

Little Sleepies

This may be the most versatile sleeper we’ve seen. It’s made with soft and stretchy fabric that helps little ones regulate body temperature and is easy on sensitive skin. The PJs are designed with a double zipper for easy diaper changes and fold-over hand and foot cuffs for keeping babes warm and cozy (and free from scratches!). Plus, the sizing is super flexible given extra long arms and legs. A portion of each sale is donated to Alex's Lemonade Stand Foundation for Childhood Cancer.

Sizes: Newborn-9T and adult S-XXL

Available at littlesleepies.com, $29.99.

Royal Blue Polka Dot Footie from Pineapple Sunshine

Pineapple Sunshine

Made with 100% Peruvian Pima cotton, this ultra-soft footie by Pineapple Sunshine is like a ray of warm sunshine on any cold winter day. The zip-front styles all come in custom prints, many with a contrast hand crochet trim like the beautiful royal blue polka dot style. And it wouldn’t look out of place at a fancy restaurant or family gathering.

Sizes: Newborn-12M

Available at Little Birdies Boutique, $58.

ergoPouch Sleep Suit Bag

ergoPouch

Here's how your baby can sleep seamlessly from car seat to stroller to crib all winter long. The ergoPouch converts from sleep bag to sleep suit with a smart four-way zipper. Made with 100% organic cotton filling, stretchy side panels, long jersey cotton sleeves with fold-down mitts, and grip pads on the feet, this can be worn in place of traditional jammies until spring thaw!

Available at ergopouch.com, $69.99.

Inverse Parsnip Pajama Set from Lewis

Lewis

A deep, lovely mauve with a winter harvest design, the Inverse Parsnip pajamas epitomize timeless sleep style. The top and bottom pair are made with 100% organic interlocking knit cotton, which is soft for both slumber and play. These PJs are pretty enough to eat, and perhaps you’ll inspire an interest in root veggies!

Sizes: 18-24M

Available at lewisishome.com, $48.

Knotted Gowns from Orchid Babywear

Orchid Babywear

Your baby will look like a holiday gift warmly wrapped up in this knotted gown. It’s made with a rayon-spandex blend so baby can stretch and grow and breathe while the gown design keeps them semi-swaddled. Simply untie the bottom for quick diaper changes and fold over the wrist cuffs to protect baby’s hands when needed. A matching cap and bow are perfect for photo opps too!

Sizes: Newborn-3M; fits approximately 5-15 lbs.

Available at orchidbabywear, $24.99.

Lost in Space Organic Cotton Sleeper from Zutano

Zutano

The brand that makes those amazing fleece baby booties also has some pretty great pajama options. The new Lost in Space sleeper is made with GOTS-certified 100% organic cotton and comes in a great color palette for hiding breakfast spills and stains! Rib cuffs on the arms and legs and a zip up the front mean this style is practical and comfortable too.

Sizes: 12-24M

Available at zutano.com, $32.

Thicket Waffle Set from Lake

Lake

Babies and tots will find comfort in a set of feathery Pima cotton pajamas with tons of color options to choose from. The color "thicket" feels particularly festive and evergreen. Best of all, the PJs come in men’s and women’s sizes too, so you can all cuddle up with coordinating styles.

Sizes: 0M-10Y

Available at lakepajmas.com, $58.

MerinoSilk Infant Loungewear Set from Nui Organics

Nui Organics

Invest in a merino silk sleep set for your baby and you may be paid back in restful nights. This crew and leggings combo helps little ones regulate body temperature while staying breathable against their delicate skin all night long. Throw a sweater, maybe some pants, and some socks on the next morning for ultra-warm layering as winter gets underway!

Sizes: 3-24M

Available at nuiorganics.com, $61.

Ski Memories Onesie + Hat from Petidoux

Petidoux

Can’t you just smell the pine trees and freshly fallen snow? The retro vibe of this ski-inspired PJ is perfect for baby’s first winter. Made with 100% Peruvian Pima cotton, the onesie is pre-washed and pre-shrunk so you can be sure it will last all season.

Sizes: 3-9M

Available at petidoux.com, $65.

Happy Holly Organic Sleep & Play Pajamas from Burt's Bees Baby

Burt's Bees Baby

Not only does Burt’s Bees have the best skincare products, but Burt's Bees Baby makes wonderful pajamas too. The Happy Holly Organic Sleep & Play Pajamas are just roomy enough to take your babe from crib to playroom floor, and for every little wiggle in between! The footie has no-slip grips for safe cruising and convertible mitts with fold-over cuff for the littlest ones. The PJs are made with 100% organic, GOTS-certified cotton.

Sizes: Newborn-9M

Available at burtsbeesbaby.com,  $13.95.

Pajamas from Finn + Emma

Finn Emma

Finn + Emma is known for its heirloom quality clothing, which is why these tree-print pajamas are an easy choice for long winter nights. Made with 100% organic cotton, the PJs have a wide elastic waistband for fitting around growing tummies. And the goods are GOTS-certified and ethically made in India with non-toxic, eco-friendly dyes.

Sizes: 12M-4T

Available in November at finnandemma.com, $34.

Rainbow Star Zip Footie from Primary

Primary

If you shop Primary for basics, then you’ll appreciate this rainbow star pajama that also comes in solids. Zip up your kiddo in this multicolored wonder, sing a few verses of “Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star,” and send them sweetly to dreamland in 100% combed cotton rib.

Sizes: 0-24M

Available at primary.com, $19.50.

Spiral Loungewear from nununu

nununu

If you’re looking for something beyond traditional baby jammies, look to nununu. The spiral loungewear is utterly unisex and great for families who lean edgy. With a soft waistband and shell fabric cuffs, this long-sleeve-and-leggings combo is made out of 100% cotton and comfortable enough to spend an entire winter vacation lounging around in.

Sizes: 0M-14Y

Available at nununuworld.com, starting at $77.

Footie from Kyte BABY

Kyte BABY

The magic in this footie is the silky, soft bamboo rayon. Babies can sleep soundly because the fabric stretches and breathes as well as comforts all night long. We love the teal hue, along with the coordinating sleep bag for cold nights, but babies will be happy in any of the earthy-bold color options.

Sizes: Newborn-24M

Available at kytebaby.com, $29.99.

Certified Organic 2-Way Zip Sleep & Play from Carter's

Carter's

Didn't think innovation in PJs was possible? Think again. Carter's just released a new two-way, inverted zip sleeper that zips up or down to keep baby's body covered during diaper changes. The 100% organic cotton rib style is simple, cozy and the most affordable option we've seen. Sizes: Preemie-9M Available at carters.com, $12.

Holiday Safari Pajama Set from Sammy + Nat

Sammy Nat

The more your baby wears these PJs, the comfier they get! Made out of 100% Pima cotton, the two-piece pajama set is hypo-allergenic and a solid choice when the weather starts to cool. Each time they go through the wash, they'll further soften, like snow in the morning sunshine!

Sizes: 12M-10Y
 

Available at sammyandnat.com, $49.

—Whitney C. Harris

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The balancing act of keeping your baby snuggly and warm while trying to change that diaper in the middle of the night isn’t easy. Luckily Carter’s new 2-Way Zipper is the perfect solution.

The new 2-Way Zipper is part of the popular Carter’s Sleep ‘n Play collection. The footed pajamas now feature a zipper which can be zipped up and down both from the neck and from the toe, making it much simpler to change your baby without undressing them completely. This is big plus for those middle of the night diaper changes where the slightest chill can mean a crying baby, or worse a stream of pee mid-change.

Available in Carter’s stores and online starting now, the new 2-Way Zipper line is available in sizes from preemie to nine months. It comes in a variety of styles and patterns including ribbed, fleece, terry, pointelle, thermal and organic fabrics for the fall and winter season.

You can check out the full collection starting at $8 online here.

—Shahrzad Warkentin

All photos: Courtesy of Carter’s

 

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While most of us are still stuck in a haze of diaper changes and midnight feedings, Allyson Felix is breaking records. The Olympic sprinter recently beat out Usain Bolt to hold the record for the most gold medals at the track and field World Championships—and she had a baby a mere 10 months ago.

Not only has Felix won a total of nine Olympic medals (and counting!), but she also battled preeclampsia and had to deliver daughter Camryn at 32-weeks via C-section.

So how does Felix balance a rigorous running schedule with mommy-ing. The track phenom told ESPN last December, “Having a child felt like I’d be risking my career and disappointing everyone who expected me to always put running first.”

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The then-new mother added, “I know what I’m living for and what matters to me. I’m not just running to win the most medals anymore. I’m not pushing myself because that’s what everyone expects of me.” At the time, Felix wasn’t sure if she’d go back to competitive running or, if she did, how well she would do. As it turns out, in less than a year she’d sprint her way to a new world record!

—Erica Loop

Featured photo: Allyson Felix via Instagram 

 

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Becoming a parent for the first time is one of life’s wildest, most-impossible-to-prepare-for transitions. Once you’ve had a baby, it takes time to feel like your body is yours again, and things will never be the same anyway (nor should they be expected to be!). The same goes for you as a person. During the postpartum period, your thoughts, feelings and perspective changes, and it can take time for you to get back in touch with your pre-baby self. To encourage the process along, here are a few things you can do to reconnect with the old you while embracing your new reality as a mom.

1. Sleep.
We’re making this #1 on our list because we think it should be #1 on your list, too, Snagging some extra Z’s restores and refreshes the mind, body and soul in a way that nothing else can. While baby naps, throw laundry to the wind, leave the sink full of dishes, and give yourself permission to sleep while baby sleeps. (It’s the oldest trick in the new-baby book for good reason.) You may just wake up feeling as good as “old” again.

2. Laugh.
When was the last time you had a really good belly laugh? If it was while baby was still in residence in that belly, it’s time to reconnect with your sense of humor. Call up your funniest friend, turn on a TV show that makes you laugh so hard you could pee your pants (much easier now post-birth!), or, if you’re ready to make a night of it, hit up a local improv comedy show and get ready to giggle the night away. 

3. Join a moms group.
Being a new mom is bewildering, and your post-partum self could use some solidarity. At least for now, your new reality includes diaper changes and infant sleep struggles, so finding friends who can relate with the challenges, hopes, fears, joys and downright weird topics of this season of your life will give you a renewed sense of belonging. 

mom friends pushing strollers
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4. Hang with your baby-free friends.
This may seem like direct opposition to the previous point, but hear us out. Staying connected with friends who aren’t in the baby stage can help keep you connected to the you that once was. Kid-less friends are more likely to do things you did pre-baby, like going to concerts, baseball games, museums, etc. While these excursions may not be doable on the reg, attending an occasional cocktail party (or even just hearing a friend tell you about one) may have you feeling more in tune with yourself.

5. Drink coffee.
We’re convinced that coffee solves pretty much everything. (After all, during these sleepless newborn days, your yawns are really just silent screams for coffee.) But even if the caffeinated nectar of the gods isn’t your thing, what matters is the ritual of setting aside the responsibilities swirling around you, even if only for a moment, to slow down and appreciate what’s in front of you—especially if what’s in front of you is the home decor aisle at Target and the drink in your hand is from the in-store Starbucks.

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6. Clear the baby clutter.
Look around the room right now. Do you see baby blankets and toys here, diapers and wipes there? If baby stuff has found its way onto most surfaces of your home, it’s time to find a central spot to stash the infant items. Keeping baby’s things in a collected spot rather than strewn about may be the mental signal you need to help you feel a little more like you. While little one is an incredible part of your life, he or she needn’t take over every area of it. 

7. Sweat it out.
Squeezing in a sweat sesh a few days a week will get your endorphins surging through your system, whether it’s a casual walk in the fresh air with baby strapped into the stroller or a jog on the treadmill at your local gym that offers childcare.

mom working out with baby
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8. Shop!
We’re not suggesting you go on a Carrie Bradshaw-style shopping spree, but adding a few staples to your wardrobe that fit your new shape will help you transition from pregnancy through the postpartum period. Because trying to wiggle your post-baby self into pre-baby pants…well, ain’t no one got time for that.

9. Pursue intimacy with your partner.
While your healthcare provider likely laid down the hammer on intercourse for six weeks post-partum, make an effort to reconnect without sex. Cuddle on the couch, smooch like teenagers, or give each other a massage. And while we are all about being real, a swipe of lip gloss and some dry shampoo can go a long way toward giving you the confidence you need to get romantic.

10. Embrace the new normal…and how amazing you are.
Before you try out every point on this list trying to conjure up your pre-baby self, remember that just feeling like the “old you” isn’t the goal. What’s more important—and realistic—is realizing that this new (and, dare we say, improved!) version of you deserves to be celebrated. The you who is tinged with spit-up and hasn’t showered in recent history gave life to another human being. And, let’s be real, that’s way more amazing than anything your old self ever did.  

Your baby’s first year is an extra special time. As tiny as they are, they are growing and learning fast. Help them have the best early experience of the world around them by getting them out on the town. We have rounded up 8 must-dos around Portland during Junior’s first year. Read on for baby sign language classes, soaking pools, museums and more.

Portland Children’s Museum
It’s never too early to introduce your baby to PCM. The entire museum will offer stimulating sights and sounds that will have your tot in awe (take a slow walk through the Enchanted Forest and you’ll see what we mean). Outdoor Adventure has a specific Toddler Area (also appropriate for babies) that’s fenced in and includes water, sand and grassy areas for a complete outdoor sensory experience.

Hours: 9 a.m.-5 p.m. daily

Portland Children’s Museum
4015 SW Canyon Rd.
503-223-6500
Online: portlandcm.org

Munchkin Playland
When you need a break but baby has energy to burn, Munchkin Playland is a great option. Built for kiddos 42 inches and shorter, this is a baby and toddler haven with soft, squishy structures for climbing and small slides that are just the right size for mini tumblers. A full coffee bar means that the grown-ups are covered and the menu includes everything from freshly-made paninis to applesauce pouches (because they really know their babies). Their customers love the clean environment and easily-accessible restrooms with changing tables.

Hours: Monday through Friday, 9 a.m.-5 p.m., Saturdays and Sundays, 9 a.m.-1 p.m.

Munchkin Playland
18335 NW West Union Rd
503-533-5438
Online: munchkinplayland.com

photo: Seahorses PDX

Seahorses PDXSeahorses PDX is becoming an institution on Hawthorne, known for celebrating the modern dad by offering quality, durable products for babies and kids. But their local success has let them to find their passion, supporting local parents and caregivers. They offer baby-wearing, stroller-pushing dads (and now all caregivers) events like PJ Story Hour and Carseat Basics along shows by local kid-friendly musicians. It’s the perfect place to get support while exposing your baby to their first kiddie concert!

Hours: Check the calendar for events.

4029 SE Hawthorne Blvd
971-352-6130
Online: seahorsespdx.com

Kennedy School Mommy Matinees and Soaking Pool
For an innovative playdate idea, invite the crew to join you for a Mommy Matinee at the Kennedy School’s historic theater. The first movie of the day on Tuesday through Thursday each week is fuss-friendly, so you can bring babies and no one will mind if you have to stand and pace, shush the little one to sleep or comfort nurse. After the movie, put on swimsuits (and a swim diaper for baby) and head to the heated, salt water soaking pool for a relaxing float together. Area residents get in free (must show I.D. with 97211 as the zip code), others are $5 per guest.

Hours: Tuesday through Thursday, first showing of the day, $5/adult, $3/child 12 & under (babies free with an adult)

Soaking pool: Children are welcome 11 a.m.-6 p.m.

Kennedy School Movie Theater
5736 NE 33rd Ave.
503-249-3983
Online: mcmenamins.com

Oregon Zoo
We’re fortunate to have one of the nation’s best zoos in our town, so why wait to get Baby acquainted with the animals? The zoo is friendly for kids of all ages, and babies have a great view from a stroller, front pack or backpack. The younger the babe, the closer she’ll need to be in order to be able to see the animals, so we recommend features like the sea otters, the aquarium of fish, the cheetah (it likes to lounge right in front of the window) and the colorful pictures in the new Education Center. The restrooms in the Elephant Lands building are quiet and easy to get to for diaper changes, and the building is air-conditioned on hot days for indoor seating in which to take a nursing break.

Hours: 9:30 a.m.-6 p.m. daily

Oregon Zoo
4001 SW Canyon Rd.
503-226-1561
Online: oregonzoo.org

photo: Micah and Me via Facebook

Micah and Me Performances
If you were to ask the Portland babies, they would find a Micah and Me performance for every day of the week. Their upbeat and playful tunes catch the attention of even the youngest audience members, and parents like supporting a local, original band with legit talent. They appear regularly at some of our favorite spots, such as Beanstalk Montavilla, Alberta Street Pub, Portland Children’s Museum and Mississippi Pizza. Check their Facebook events page for a complete list of upcoming events.

Online: micahandmerocks.jimdo.com

Baby Sign Language Classes
American Sign Language is a fantastic way to communicate with babies in their first year, regardless of their hearing abilities. The first time your baby signs “more,” “all done,” “milk” and even “mommy” and “daddy,” you will have opened a door to communication that will strengthen your bond in an exciting new way. Classes like Portland Early Learning Project, Westside Baby Sign Language and Tiny Talkers offer workshops and regular classes for parents of babies as early as 5 months old.

Classes: Check out our suggestions here.

Hit the Trails with Hike It Baby
The next great spot to go with baby is, well, anywhere! Hike It Baby is made for moms (and dads and caregivers of all types) who want to get outdoors and bring the baby along for the ride. Hikes are available in a variety of lengths and difficulty levels, and it’s easy to find one near you using their online search tool. Just make sure to browse the safety guidelines and register online before showing up to your first hike. There are an infinite number of things for babies to observe in nature, and this is the perfect time to venture out with the trees and wildflowers in bloom.

Online: hikeitbaby.com

—Annette Benedetti

 

From the newborn days to toddlerhood, there is one thing that remains constant in the ever-changing landscape of parenthood: diaper changes are no fun. Parents have come up with some unique ways to avoid changing diapers according to a new survey.

The survey of 1,000 American parents conducted by baby product company Munchkin showed that one third of parents said they had faked taking a nap in order to avoid the dreaded diaper change and one in four parents had faked an errand to get out of diaper duty.

All those diaper changes at home are exhausting enough, but the real stink stress hits when the inevitable blow out happens when you’re out and about. According to the Munchkin survey, 94 percent of parents have been forced to change a diaper in the car, two out of three parents admitted to changing babies in a store dressing room and 14 percent have even changed a diaper in their stadium seat at a sports game.

Changing diapers on the go can sometimes get a little messy and 44 percent of parents said they have resorted to using a power washer to get smells out of car seats and strollers.

Munchkin has come up with solution to the problem of on-the-go stink with a brand new product, Toss Disposable Diaper Pails. The Toss is designed to trap the stink for easy transportation until you can reach a suitable place to throw away those stinky diapers. “Diaper changes happen outside the nursery more than ever, and parents need a reliable disposal option that has their back whether they’re around the house or on-the-go,” said Steven Dunn, Munchkin CEO and Founder. “Toss not only keeps smells at bay, but is also a practical, portable solution for the stinky and unpredictable situations that come up throughout the baby care journey.”

The new Toss Disposable Diaper Pail is now available at retailers nationwide including Target and Amazon.

—Shahrzad Warkentin

All photos: Courtesy of Munchkin

 

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