Looks like Prime Day has some competition! Target has announced Deal Days, its biggest digital sale of the summer. This year it spans three full days, an extra 24 hours from previous years—and you won’t have to step foot in the store to get the savings.

From June 20-22, you’ll find discounts on thousands of items online, including electronics, home goods, toys and for the first time, food and beverage items. There’s no need to wait for shipping in many cases, with order pickup, drive up and same-day delivery with Shipt available.

Some of the hottest deals right now? An Instapot for $70 off, Apple Airpods Pro for $60 off, a Chromebook for $100 off and a Bissell All-in-One Wet Dry Vacuum for $50 off. Happy shopping!

––Sarah Shebek

Featured image courtesy of Target

 

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If you’re in major family planning mode, it might also be a good time for a career change. Career Expert site Zippia recently studied the best and worst jobs for expecting moms who are looking for paid maternity leave (because who isn’t?) and the results are pretty interesting.

Zippia scraped over one million job listings to determine which companies were likely to offer paid maternity leave by searching for specific keywords. Those jobs with the highest percentage of keywords offered the most maternity leave benefits. Here’s what they discovered.

photo: Matthew Henry via Burst

The following job titles had over 10 percent of listings that mentioned maternity leave:

1. Senior Reliability Engineer

2. Lead Engineer

3. Electronics Tehnician

4. Senior Recruiter

5. Technical Support Engineer

6. Technical Recruiter

7. Compliance Analyst

8. Sales Manager

9. Software Test Engineer

10. Enterprise Account Executive.

 

Notably, all of these job titles require tons of experience and don’t apply to the majority of job seekers who likely work in entry or mid-level careers.

Zippia also noted the worst job options when it comes to getting paid maternity leave, with less that 1 percent offering the benefit:

1. Cook

2. Server

3. Sales Engineer

4. Case Manager

5. Architect

6. Sales Specialist

7. Machine Operator

8. Systems Administrator

9. Administrative Assistant

10. Material Handler

 

Many of the worst job options for paid maternity leave pay less than $30,000 annually, adding to the already difficult challenges of how moms can afford to take time off for baby. Obviously not everyone can afford to make a huge career change, but knowing which jobs offer a paid leave definitely helps when it comes to planning––and waiting for the U.S. to finally get its act together on offering a national paid maternity leave program.

––Karly Wood

 

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Jurassic Park is back—just not on the big screen. The iconic original flick from the mega-popular franchise is the subject of a new Monopoly game.

From T. Rex to the velociraptors, your littles are all about the prehistoric world in the Monopoly: Jurassic Park Edition. Now you can join in with the dinosaur play in a way that’s fun for your entire fam!

Photo: Amazon

The Monopoly Jurassic Park Edition (for players eight-years and up) is based on the OG 90’s film so instead of buying railroads and building hotels, this game requires the players to secure the park. You’ll have to avoid the T. Rex’s rampage and activate the electronic gate to get paid.

The amount of money each player gets depends on whether the gate plays the movie theme or gives a major dino roar. Along with rushing away from a Rex on a rampage, players can also build fences and charge rent for dino protection.

As if that’s not enough, the Hasbro Gaming Tiger Electronics Jurassic Park LCD Video Game is also available for fans of the paleo fave. Retro game lovers will love this version that was inspired by the original handheld game of the 90’s.

Find Jurassic-themed Monopoly game on Amazon for $32.96, and the Tiger Electronics version at retailers nationwide beginning Aug. 1 for approximately $20.

—Erica Loop

 

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It’s time to get ready to hit those Black Friday sales. In recent years, shopping commenced before the turkey was served. It can be challenging to plan out your Thanksgiving menu along with your holiday shopping. To help keep our calendars organized, RetailMeNot has compiled a list of confirmed and projected Black Friday store hours.

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Happy shopping!

A.C. Moore
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Opens at 5 a.m.

Academy Sports + Outdoors
Thanksgiving Day: Closed, shoppers can get deals online or in-store from November 22-28
Black Friday: 5 a.m. to 11 p.m.

Ace Hardware
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Varies by location

Ann Taylor
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Varies by location

Apple
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: 8 a.m. to 10 p.m.

Army and Air Force Exchange Service stores
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Opens at 5 a.m. or 6 a.m., but times vary by location

Banana Republic
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: 8 a.m. to 9 p.m., but check local mall hours

Barnes & Noble
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Varies by location

Bass Pro Shops
Thanksgiving Day: Yet to be announced
Black Friday: Varies by location

Bath & Body Works
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Yet to be announced

Bed Bath & Beyond
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Yet to be announced

Belk
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Opens at 7 a.m

Best Buy
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Open at 5 a.m.

Big Lots
Thanksgiving Day: 7 a.m. to 1 p.m.
Black Friday: 6 a.m. to 11 p.m.

BJ’s Wholesale Club
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Yet to be announced

Burlington Coat Factory
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Yet to be announced

Cabela’s
Thanksgiving Day: Yet to be announced
Black Friday: Yet to be announced

Costco
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Yet to be announced

Crate & Barrel
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Opens at 8 a.m.

CVS
Thanksgiving Day: 24-hour locations open; check others locally
Black Friday: Regular hours

DICK’S Sporting Goods
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Yet to be announced

Dillard’s
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Yet to be announced

Dollar General
Thanksgiving Day: 7 a.m. to 10 p.m.
Black Friday: Normal hours

DSW
Thanksgiving 2019: 5 p.m. to 10 p.m.
Black Friday 2019: Regular hours

Express
Thanksgiving Day: 5 p.m. to 1 a.m., but times vary by location
Black Friday: 6 a.m. to 10 p.m., check local mall hours

Family Dollar
Thanksgiving Day: Open, but times vary by location
Black Friday: Normal store hours

Finish Line
Thanksgiving Day: Open from 6 p.m. to 12 a.m., but check your local store
Black Friday: 6 a.m. to 10 p.m.

Five Below
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Opens at 8 a.m.

Fleet Farm
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: 6 a.m. to 9 p.m.

Fred Meyer
Thanksgiving Day: Open normal hours, but some locations may close early
Black Friday: Opens at 5 a.m.

Fry’s Electronics
Thanksgiving Day: Many are closed
Black Friday: Check location, some open 8 a.m. to 9 p.m.

GameStop
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Yet to be announced

GAP
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: 6 a.m. to 9 p.m.

Guitar Center
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: 7 a.m. to 9 p.m.

Half Price Books
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Opens at 9 a.m.

Harbor Freight Tools
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Yet to be announced

Hobby Lobby
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Opens at 8 a.m.

Home Depot
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Yet to be announced

HomeGoods
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Open at 7 a.m.

IKEA
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: 10 a.m. to 9 p.m.

JCPenney
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Opens at 5 a.m.

JOANN
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Yet to be announced.

Kmart
Thanksgiving Day: 6 a.m. to 12 a.m.
Black Friday: 6 a.m. to 10 p.m.

Kohl’s
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Open at 5 a.m.

Lowe’s
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Yet to be announced

LOFT
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: 6 a.m. to 10 p.m.

Macy’s
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Yet to be announced

Marshalls
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Opens at 7 a.m., closing times vary by location

Michaels
Thanksgiving Day: Yet to be announced
Black Friday: Yet to be announced

Modell’s Sporting Goods
Thanksgiving Day: 6 p.m. to 2 a.m.
Black Friday: Opens at 6 a.m.

Navy Exchange
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Opens at 5 a.m.

Neiman Marcus
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Opens at 8 a.m.

New Balance
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: 10 a.m. to 8 p.m.

New York & Company
Thanksgiving Day: 
6 p.m.
Black Friday: Opens at 6 a.m, but check local mall hours

Nordstrom
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Opens at 8 a.m, but check local store hours

Office Depot and OfficeMax
Thanksgiving Day: Closed, but sales start online at 12:01 a.m. ET
Black Friday: Opens at 8 a.m.

Old Navy
Thanksgiving Day: Opens at 3 p.m. and many do not close, but some close at 1 a.m.
Black Friday: Many stay open from Thanksgiving until 11 p.m., but some open at 5 a.m.

PacSun
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: 6 a.m. to 10 p.m.

PetSmart
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Yet to be announced

Pottery Barn
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Yet to be announced

REI
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Closed

Rite Aid
Thanksgiving Day: 24-hour locations are open
Black Friday: Opens at 7 a.m.

Sam’s Club
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Yet to be announced

Sears
Thanksgiving Day: Yet to be announced
Black Friday: Yet to be announced

Sephora
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Check local stores

Shoe Carnival
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Check local stores

Sportsman’s Warehouse
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Check local stores

Staples
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Opens at 9 a.m.

Sur La Table
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Opens at 7 a.m., but check local store

Tanger Outlets
Thanksgiving Day: 6 p.m. to 12 a.m.
Black Friday: 12 a.m. to 10 p.m.

Target
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Check local stores

T.J.Maxx
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Opens at 7 a.m.

Tractor Supply Company
Thanksgiving Day:
 Closed
Black Friday: 6 a.m. to 9 p.m.

Ulta Beauty
Thanksgiving Day: 6 p.m. to 12 a.m.
Black Friday: Check local stores

Walgreens
Thanksgiving Day: Open regular hours, including 24-hour locations
Black Friday: Open regular hours

Walmart
Thanksgiving Day: Closed
Black Friday: Opens at 5.am.

World Market
Thanksgiving Day: Closed but sales start online
Black Friday: 7 a.m. to 10 p.m.

—Jennifer Swartvagher

Featured photo: RetailMeNot

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Grocery shopping has been made easier. Just in time for the holiday season, Whole Foods will now offer one-hour pickup at all locations nationwide for Prime members. Prime members can shop thousands of bestselling items including fresh produce, high-quality meat and seafood, holiday favorites, everyday staples and other locally sourced items all available with free, one-hour pickup on orders of $35 or more

Whole Foods

Prime members can open the Amazon app or visit www.amazon.com, click the Whole Foods Market tab, select a pickup store and start shopping. Once you’re ready to checkout, select a one-hour pickup window that works for you and place your order. When you’re ready to pick up your order, check-in using the Amazon app to let us know you’re on your way. The majority of customers who check-in using the Amazon App before arriving at the store wait just one minute to receive their orders after arriving. Learn more at www.amazon.com/wholefoods.

In addition to grocery pickup, Prime members in more than 2,000 cities and towns can receive unlimited free, two-hour delivery on more than 170,000 items from Amazon Fresh and Whole Foods Market on orders of $35 or more. In addition to groceries, Prime members can find toys, gifts, household products and everyday essentials, electronics, Amazon devices and more available with free, two-hour delivery from Amazon Fresh. Learn more at www.amazon.com/grocery.

—Jennifer Swartvagher

Featured photo: Fallon Michael on Unsplash

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This week has been a big one for shopping. While Amazon Prime Day was a hit, Target’s Deal Days also took home the bacon when it came to screaming deals. So what did everyone buy?

Target’s no membership required sales were 2.5 times bigger than last year, and shoppers saved millions on popular items in Home, Beauty, Toys and Electronics. “As we kicked off the holiday season with Target Deal Days, guests shopped deals on thousands of items, making this our biggest and most successful Target Deal Days ever,” said Christina Hennington, executive vice president and chief merchandising officer.

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photo: Target

As the holidays approach, it was obvious that guests started checking off their lists early. Top selling products included KitchenAid mixers, Apple Airpods and tons of toys from this year’s giant toy list.

Also not surprising, guests using Drive Up and Order Pickup skyrocketed this year, growing nearly 300 percent from last year. Holiday shopping season has officially begun!

––Karly Wood

 

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The long-awaited Amazon Prime Day is here! The two-day event is back from hiatus and is bursting with deals on all things electronics, home, baby, kids and fashion. We’ve rounded up the scoop on lightning deals and everyday essentials to stock up on as we head into winter. Keep scrolling to see our faves.

Electronics, Digital Media & Personal Care

Echo Dot with Smart Plug ($24, 68% off)

Apple Airpods ($115, 28% off)

Bose QuietComfort 35 Noise Canceling Headphones ($199, 43% off)

23andMe Health & Ancestry Service ($99, 50% off)

All-new Fire HD Kids Edition Tablet ($79.99, 43% off)

Kindle with front light ($59.99, 33% off)

Insigna 24" Smart TV, Fire Edition ($79.99, 47% off)

Fitbit Versa 2, Versa Lite and Aria Air (Up to 30% off)

Home & Kitchen

iRobot Roomba Vacuum ($199 38% off)

Keurig K-Mini Coffee Maker ($42, 47% off)

Instant Pot Pressure Cooker, 3qt ($49.99, 58% off)

Echo Wall Clock, Mickey Mouse Edition, ($34.99, $30% off)

Stasher Reusable Bags (select sizes  30% off)

Hurom ($100 off select juicers, blenders and accessories)

Amazon Basics Kitchen Essentials (up to 40% off items that include coffee pots, dinnerware and baking essentials)

Tineco Cordless Vacuums: A10 Hero ( $149.99, 25% off), A11 Hero ($181.00, 30% off) *Starting on 10/14, Smart Vacuum: Pure One S12 ($399.99, 30% off), Wet/Dry Vacuum: iFloor3 ($209.99, 30% off) *Starting on 10/14

Car Seats, Strollers & Baby Gear

Check out our fave baby items here! Some other amazing deals include:

Buckle Me Baby Coats ($5 dollar off coupon on the Toastier coats and $10 off on the Toastiest coats)

Britax Convertible Car Seats (30% off)

Evenflo select products (20% off)

Elvie Breast Pumps (15% off)

Maxi-Cosi (30% off select car seats)

Tomme Tippee (20% off select products)

LÍLLÉbaby Complete Airflow Six-Position Baby Carrier ($75, 40% off)

Ergobaby 360 All-Position Baby Carrier ($97.91, 25% off)

Top diapers & wipes brands (30% off)

Regalo Baby (30% off select products)

The Baby's Brew Single warmer ($60), Set ($68), Baby shower set ($92)

The bökee ($16.99, 25% off)

Graco products (save up to 20%)

Amazon Essentials for baby (save 20%)

Summer 3D Lite Convenience Stroller ($79.99, 11% off)

Pampers Bundles (20% off)

Kids Gear

Cubcoats (up to 33% off)

Vaschy Kids Backpacks ($19.99, $5 off)

Contigo Autospout 3-Pack of water bottles ($17.99, 31% off)

Bentgo Lunchbox ($21.99, 43% off)

Dream On Me Brookside Toddler Bed ($80, 20% off at checkout)

Beauty

Foreo, BaByliss Pro and T3 (up to 40% off)

Dipping Powder Nail Starer Kit ($20, 47% off)

Kenra Dry Volume Burst ($12, 30% off)

Rose Quartz Face Roller ($9, 37% off)

Clothing & Accessories

Levi's Apparel (up to 40% off)

Fossil Smartwatches (up to 50% off)

Amazon Activewear Brands (up to 30% off)

Wolverine, KEEN and Bates shoes (up to 20% off)

Face masks (up to 30% off)

––Karly Wood

All photos: Courtesy of Amazon/Feature photo: Christian Wiedeger via Unsplash

 

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With COVID-19 cases on the rise across the much of the country, many state and local governments are requiring people to wear masks when they leave their homes.The CDC advocates wearing face coverings to help prevent the spread of the virus. Now more and more national retail chains, including Target, Walmart, Costco, Trader Joe’s and more, are requiring face masks in stores for shoppers as well as staff. Typically, these restrictions do not apply to children under two or those with a medical condition that prohibits them from wearing a mask. Looking for a face mask that will fit your kiddo? We’ve rounded up the best ones right here

 

Face masks

Editor’s Note: At the time of publication these are the stores requiring face coverings. We’re doing our best to keep you up to date and will update the list as more stores change their coronavirus protocols.

Here are all the major retailers requiring customers to wear face coverings in locations nationwide:

Walmart

On Jul. 15 it was announced that masks would be required at all Walmart and Sam’s Club outlets starting Jul. 20. To help ensure consistency with this new process, all stores will have a single entrance. Employees will be stationed at store entrances to remind customers of the requirement and supply disposable masks to those who arrive without one.

Amazon  

The e-commerce brand instituted a mask requirement on Jul. 20 at Whole Foods supermarkets and Amazon brick-and-mortar stores. They will continue to offer free, disposable masks to customers who do not have their own.

 

Kroger

Effective Jul. 22, all customers will now be required to wear a mask. “We are taking this extra step now because we recognize additional precautions are needed to protect our country,” the company said in a statement released on Jul. 15. 

 

Costco

Since May 4 the warehouse store has required all customers to wear a face covering.“This is not simply a matter of personal choice; a face covering protects not just the wearer but others, too,” said President and CEO Craig Jelinek.

 

Walgreens

On Jul. 16, the drugstore announced that they would be requiring all customers to wear a face covering effective Jul. 20. Kevin Ban, Walgreens chief medical officer said,  “As cases continue to rise in many parts of the country, it’s critical we, as businesses and members of the community, do everything we can.”

 

Home Depot

All customers must wear a face mask effective Jul. 22.  “Social distancing captains and store associates will be available to provide masks to those shoppers who may not have one,” the company said in an announcement on Jul 17. 

 

CVS

The pharmacy chain will now require all customers wear face coverings effective Jul. 20. In a statement on Jul. 16, Jon Roberts, the company’s chief operating officer said, “We’re not asking our store employees to play the role of enforcer,”What we are asking is that customers help protect themselves and those around them by listening to the experts and heeding the call to wear a face covering.”

 

Target

The retailer updated their Coronavirus Response Page on Jul 16. Starting Aug. 1 all customers will be required to wear a face covering. Stores will provide disposable masks to shoppers who arrive without one.

 

Lowe’s

Effective Jul. 20, all customers will be required to wear a face mask.  In a statement on Jul. 17, CEO Marvin Ellison said, “For the safety of everyone in our stores, we ask that customers wear masks, and to make this new standard less restrictive, we will make masks available to those who need them.”

 

Albertsons

Effective Jul. 21, all customers will be required to wear a face covering the parent company of Albertsons, Safeway, Vons, Jewel Osco and other grocery chains announced Jul. 16  on its corporate website.

 

Apple Store

As Apple begins opening its retail stores, they announced that all customers will be required to wear a face mask. “Face coverings will be required for all of our teams and customers, and we will provide them to customers who don’t bring their own,” according to their opening letter. 

 

Best Buy

All customers are required to wear a face covering. The electronics chain will provide a mask for those who do not have one according to a statement released Jul. 14.

 

Publix

Beginning Jul. 21, all customers will be required to wear a face mask according to a statement posted to their coronavirus updates web page.

 

ALDI

Effective Jul. 27 face coverings will be required for all ALDI customers as a “an enhanced safety measure intended to help limit the spread of COVID-19.”

 

Trader Joe’s

On Jul. 15, Trader Joe’s announced that they are now requiring customers to wear a face covering.

 

H-E-B

The Texas grocery chain released a press statement saying, “In areas that do not have a local ordinance in place, H-E-B stores will require the use of masks or facial coverings.

 

Macy’s 

All customers will be required to wear a face mask effective Jul 22. According to a statement released Jul. 17, if a customer does not have a mask, the store will provide one.

 

Verizon

According to a statement on the store’s web page, customers are required to wear cloth face coverings.

 

Kohl’s 

Starting Jul. 20, all customers will be required to wear a face mask. According to a statement released Jul. 15, “Store associates have been trained on the new health and safety measures in place, and we have associate greeters at the entrance of each store to welcome shoppers and remind them to wear masks.”

 

Starbucks

As of Jul. 15, all customers are required to wear a face covering. According to a statement from the coffee chain, “It is our responsibility to protect our partners and comply with local public health mandates. As such, our partners have the right and responsibility to refuse service to customers who are not wearing facial coverings.”

 

Meijer

Effective Jul. 20, the supermarket chain is requiring face coverings for all locations throughout Michigan, Ohio, Wisconsin, Indiana, Illinois and Kentucky.

 

Rite Aid

As of Jul. 21, customers will be required to wear face masks. According to a statement released Jul. 17, a free mask will be provided for those who come without one.

 

Gap

Masks will be required in all stores including Gap, Banana Republic, Old Navy, Intermix, Athleta, and Janie and Jack, starting Aug. 1 according to a Jul. 20 update to the companies coronavirus response page.

 

American Eagle

Customers at American Eagle and Aerie stores are now required to wear a face covering. Face masks are available to any customer that may need one.

 

 

BJ’s Wholesale

Effective Jul. 21, all customers will be required to wear a face mask. Out of an abundance of caution, they are also temporarily stopping food sampling in their clubs.

 

Menards

According to the store’s COVID-19 Policy page, all customers are required to wear a mask. Face coverings are required on children unless in arms or seated in shopping carts.

 

PetSmart

On Jul. 17 the pet supply chain updated its coronavirus information page to require all customers to wear face coverings.

 

Panera Bread

Beginning Jul. 15, all customers will be required to wear a face mask except while seated and eating or drinking.

 

—Jennifer Swartvagher

Featured photo: Vera Davidova on Unsplash

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As a couples’ therapist and practice owner, I’ve noticed a dramatic upswing in calls from couples requesting therapy. The stresses due to the pandemic and the economy are causing so much angst and uncertainty. Add in children and you compound the difficulties of social isolation and insecurity during COVID-19 and in 2020.

At my private practice in Toledo, Ohio the phone has been ringing off the hook from couples everywhere are on the edge and struggling due to the side effects of COVID-19. Couples are being weighed down by the amount of time they are now spending together with their significant other in close quarters, uncertainty about the future, parenting challenges, financial worries, and fear of getting sick.  

As a parent, being alone at home with, very likely, only the company of children and a significant other right now may feel overwhelming, exhausting, depressing, or lonely. Reaching out to our significant other for comfort and support is a logical choice, but with the emotional strain of the global pandemic, our partners are likely struggling too. This recent increase in stress can lead to more frequent disagreements, disappointments, conflict, and arguments. To assist partners to deepen their connection with their spouse or significant other, and even thrive, during this time, I am recommending five no-fail ideas to help create a strong relationship foundation.

1. Move Your Bodies Together: Time spent together working in the yard, or simply taking a walk together will help you connect. Not only are you carving out intentional time for each other, but you are also raising endorphins together while building emotional intimacy through conversation. It doesn’t have to be intense discussion—simply exchanging thoughts and stories is enough. So, get those sneakers on and get moving, and holding hands never hurt anyone either.

2. Step Away from the Remote and Shut off the Electronics: The glowing screens of televisions, phones, tablets, and video games can be real relationship killers. The number of couples I see in therapy who mention their partner’s obsession with social media, online gambling, adult videos, or gaming apps is higher than ever. Take responsibility if you are one of the guilty ones. These activities are fun and highly addictive. They are created that way so advertisers can make money from the people who are addicted. Try being counter-cultural and carve out screen-free time in your home. Pick times of the day, or days of the week where you commit to being electronics-free. Make plans to go to a farmer’s market, cook dinner from a new recipe, visit a local park, work together on a home improvement project: anything but stare mindlessly at a screen while ignoring each other.

3) Spend Time Talking and Learn More about Each Other:As a couples’ counselor who, myself, has been with the same man for 27 years, I am continually amazed that I learn new things about his life before me. There are so many stories to share: from our childhoods, our years in high school, our families of origin, our hometowns, and more. Ask questions beyond “What should we have for dinner tonight?” to try and draw more from your conversation time together. “What’s your happiest holiday story?” , “What’s your most vivid memory from third grade?” , “Which was your favorite grandparent?”, “What got you in the most trouble as a kid?” Continuing to get to know your partner, even after decades together, will continue to strengthen the bond you share. 

4. Allow Space for Emotions and Process Feelings Together: Whether you or your partner is the one feeling frustrated, sad, hopeless, angry, or irritated with all the changes thrown our way because of the pandemic, go with it. It’s important to feel and process our emotions, otherwise, we get caught in an unhealthy pattern of stuffing our feelings down and numbing them with food, alcohol, shopping, and other maladaptive coping skills. There is great significance in discussing with your partner how you feel, and what you think is at the root of those emotions. Allow space for your partner to do the same with you. Take an attitude of curiosity: don’t seek to fix the problem or rescue your partner from their emotion. Simply ask questions and give them space to share their thoughts. This builds trust, connection, and ultimately greater closeness. 

5. Be There for Each Other by Offering Practical Support: So many people in therapy report feeling lonely right now. Even in a partnership, while quarantined in the same house, we can feel isolated and alone. Take the time to check in with your spouse or significant other by specifically asking “How can I support you today? How can I be a good friend for you right now? Is there something you could use my help with?” Showing you care by offering yourself as a helper to your partner can create greater trust and commitment for couples. Letting your person know that you have their best interest at heart is a sure-fire way to increase positive, loving feelings between the two of you. A great friendship is at the core of every epic love story. Strengthening the friendship we have with our partner by helping them with a chore, holding them when they are sad, listening when they want to talk, or watching a funny movie when they need to laugh are small ways we can deepen our friendship with the people we love.

A romance that survives the stress brought on by a global pandemic is good, but a romance that thrives despite the stressors of this time is even better. Choosing to make time to connect with our partner is an intentional decision. With the stressors of modern life, putting time and effort into our most important relationship is something that we need to constantly prioritize. Make a commitment to follow these simple tips so that you can not only make this time of social isolation bearable but maybe even a time that the two of you look back on warmly as you remember the ways in which you intentionally grew closer together.

Erin Wiley, MA, LPC, LPCC, is a clinical psychotherapist and the Executive Director of The Willow Center, a counseling practice in Toledo, Ohio. The clinical focus of her therapy work is marriage, family, parenting, and relationships. She has extensive training in marriage counseling from the Gottman Institute. 

If you played any video games at all growing up, chances are your fingers graced the buttons of a Tiger Electronics LCD Game. A far cry from the cartridge games of Nintendo, Tiger games themed-units came with a screen, two buttons, a D-Pad and terrible music.

Now, the time-wasting games are making a comeback! This weekend, Hasbro will be unveiling four “new” games that include The Little Mermaid, Sonic the Hedgehog, Marvel X-Men Project X and Transformers Generation 2.

For now, Hasbro, who purchased Tiger Electronics back in the late ’90s, has only released the names of these four titles. There’s no word yet if the 150+ legacy titles will also become available in this relaunch.

You can preorder all four games for $14.99 each at GameStop. There’s been no set release date, but they are expected to ship sometime in the fall.

––Karly Wood

Photos: GameStop/Composite: Red Tricycle

 

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