At long last there’s no reason to cry over dumped milk. Breastmilk, that is. If you’re a pumping mom that’s enjoyed a glass of wine or two, then chances are you’ve been faced with that heartbreaking moment when you poured a bottle of liquid gold down the drain. However, scientific evidence says there’s no good reason to pump and dump. Read on to find out how you can safely drink and pump or nurse instead.

photo: Miles For Milk

Despite what you’ve heard in movies and mommy groups, there is no legitimate reason to pump and dump when you have a drink or two. Studies have shown that although consuming alcohol can temporarily decrease your milk supply, drinking occasionally while breastfeeding has not been linked to any adverse effects on nursing babies. The amount of alcohol present in breastmilk is approximately 5-6 percent of the mother’s weight-adjusted dose. In other words a very minimal amount. In fact, some research has shown that there is actually a higher concentration of alcohol in some fruit juices than in the breastmilk of a woman who has consumed a few drinks.

So what do you do if you want avoid any alcohol content in your breastmilk? Simply wait it out. Alcohol concentrations in breastmilk are the same as in blood and accordingly they behave the same way, peaking 30 minutes to an hour after you had a drink and disappearing entirely once you are completely sober. How long that takes exactly depends on several factors, like your weight and how much you’ve had to drink. On average your breastmilk should be booze-free 2-3 hours after you had a drink. Giving you just enough time to get home from your date night and let your head hit the pillow before your baby inevitably wakes up crying.

While a college style bender is not recommended, the occasional glass of wine with dinner is perfectly safe, so spare yourself the pain of dumping such a precious commodity. The next time this myth creeps up in conversation be sure to share the knowledge. After all, friends don’t let friends drink and dump.

Does this surprise you, or will you let it change your behavior? Tell us in the comments!

Ashley Grimm experienced every parents worst nightmare – the loss of a child in a tragic car accident. Ashley tells her story in a viral Facebook post, explaining how four-year-old Titus was not one for wearing seat-belts and frequently unbuckled himself despite her many attempts at keeping him securely fastened. A rock hit the side of her axle, rolling her van into the side of a cliff, instantly killing Titus.

Ashley then gives advice every parent should hear. “I feel led to write this to all you Mamas because I have a longing to look each of you in the eyes and tell you this: ‘Hold your babies tight’. That’s all I want to shout to the world.”

We encourage you to read the full post below.

 

We wish the Grimm family much strength and love.

Just over 15 years ago, Genevieve Piturro was volunteering at youth shelters and foster homes reading to children before bedtime. That’s when she noticed something heartbreaking—the kids would head off to sleep in their street clothes, because they had no other options. When Genevieve returned for her next visit, she brought 12 new pairs of pajamas, one for each child, promoting one young girl named Maria to ask, “What are these?” 15 years (and a couple Oprah appearances) later, Genevieve’s Pajama Program has made night a little easier for millions of kids in need by providing warm pjs and books to read before bed. Learn more by watching the video below. And don’t forget the Kleenex.

 

Do you know of any other inspiring programs that help kids in need? Tell us about it in the comments below!

–Erin Feher