This post is shared from one of our favorite moms, Heather Reese, from Its A Lovely Life. You can read it on her blog here

You all know I love a good list. I make to-do lists, holiday lists (so I don’t forget anything specifically for those big days) and of course, a summer bucket list.

This year we have Alaska (checked off), St. Croix (checked off), rafting, horseback riding, stargazing, glamping, a cruise (checked off) and Europe on our lists. The kids all helped us pick these places and then I have spent hours, weeks, months and what feels like years planning all these trips and activities.

Pete and I REALLY thought we nailed it on our family summer bucket list. We thought we did such a great job that we were practically GLOATING to anyone that would listen. We thought the kids were BEYOND thrilled.

Then we took them one by one and asked them what would be at the top of their summer bucket list if they were creating it on their own.

You guys, my eyeballs nearly popped out as they were talking. I guess I shouldn’t be surprised by what they said. They are all thrilled with what we have on our summer bucket list and can’t wait to do it all… but they also said that if they wrote out the list on their own, they would add the following to the top of it:

Maddie said that her list would have… you guessed it… SHOPPING at the top.

She kindly added that we didn’t even have to make any extra trips to make her contribution happen. She said she would be tickled pink to just tack it on to our other planned trips. I mean, shopping in London doesn’t sound so bad, does it? Or maybe block out some extra time in NYC for a new wardrobe? Ha! Teens!

This should come as absolutely NO surprise… but Ashley said she would be thrilled to add more fitness to our bucket list.

She actually said that maybe we should skip a couple smaller trips so that she can go to the gym more. I tell you, people, you offer your kids the world, and they are just as happy staying home. It kinda reminds me of when I used to buy her a cool gift that came in a big box and she wanted to play with the box more than the gift. I’m trying not to take this personally.

Emmy’s idea for the summer bucket list cracked me up.

She wanted to know if we could just do a challenge where we go to a place with trampolines every single day this summer. Now, I love a good trampoline park… but every day? No. Thank. You.

No matter what we end up doing this summer, if it is from the parent’s summer bucket list or the kiddos… one thing remains the same… we all need snacks to fuel these adventures. Just like how planning our summer bucket list can be hard when it comes to getting everyone to agree, the same can be said for the snacks we enjoy.

That’s okay. I’ve been doing this mom thing for long enough to always think ahead for snack time and I already know I have the snack of the year in my back pocket. Okay, not really in my back pocket, because that would be, well…not great, especially since I only wear dresses… but you get the picture.

Want to know what I’m so excited about? Jif® Power Ups™, a new line of chewy granola bars and creamy granola clusters!

Boom! Both products have absolutely no corn syrup and 5g of protein, 2g of fiber, good fats and most importantly, peanuts are #1 ingredient. WE LOVE PEANUTS so this is totally going to be a crowd pleaser, or at least in our case, a family pleaser! Jif® Power Ups™ snacks can definitely help fuel whatever is on your (or your kid’s) summer bucket list!

Want to see just how delicious these are? You can read more about Jif® Power Ups™ here.

 

Heather Delaney Reese is a Lifestyle and Family Travel Writer currently on the road with her family 150 days a year, sharing exceptional family memory making moments and life’s everyday fun times. Read more of Heather’s stories at Itsalovelylife.com.

If “quit horsing around!” is a common phrase in your house, it may be time to give in and actually encourage some horsing around. With real live horses, that is! San Diego offers some beautiful horseback riding farms and trail rides for the entire family. Whether you’re looking for an introduction to horses before committing to signing your child up for lessons or just a fun family day out, these 5 spots won’t disappoint.

Photo credit: Leah Singer

Pony Land: An Experience For the Little Ones
Many of San Diego’s horseback riding experiences are for kids that are a bit older, but not Pony Land! They offer pony rides for children ages 1-12 years old, plus wagon rides and a petting farm.

Hours: Weekends 12 – 5 p.m.
Cost: Pony rides: $5/two laps around the track; Petting Farm: $5/15 minutes
Great for all ages

2606 Hollister St.
San Diego, Ca
619-636-0720
Online: ponylandsandiego.com

Photo credit: Happy Trails Horse Rentals Facebook Page

Happy Trails: Horseback Riding on the Beach
What is more picturesque than horseback riding on the beach? With all the miles of coastline in San Diego, you would think it would be an experience easy to find. Not so! There is only ONE beach in San Diego that allows horseback riding tours, so make the drive to San Diego’s Tijuana River Valley and enjoy a beautiful horseback ride while looking for dolphins, pelicans, seals and more.

Hours: Weekdays 10 a.m. – Sunset; Weekends 9 a.m. – Sunset
Cost: $90/2 hours; $125/3 hours
Riders must be ages 6+

2225 Hollister St
San Diego, CA
619-443-3517
Online: happytrails-usa.com

Photo credit: Bright Valley Farms Facebook Page

Bright Valley Farms: Escape San Diego With Over 52,000 Acres of Riding Trails
One Yelp reviewer claims that trail rides with Bright Valley make you feel like you’re not in San Diego anymore! If that’s the escape you’re looking for, Bright Valley Farms in Spring Valley is the place to go. They also offer birthday parties if your little cowgirl or cowboy wants something unique and different.

Hours: 9 a.m. – 4 p.m.
Cost: $45 for 1 hour; $60 for 1.5 hours
Riders must be ages 7+

12310 Campo Rd.
Spring Valley, Ca
619-670-1861
Online: brightvalleyfarms.com/rentals

Photo credit: Sweetwater Farms Facebook page

Sweetwater Farms: Saddle Up For A Nature Ride in Bonita
For a good old-fashioned trail ride, visit Sweetwater Farms in Bonita. They are known for their horseback riding lessons and shows, but offer relaxing tours on what they call “sure-footed dude ranch horses” who are gentle enough for everyone. Keep Sweetwater Farms in mind for summer and holiday camps too; kids can get the full horse experience, including grooming, riding, feeding, bathing and more.

Hours: Tuesday – Sunday
Cost: $45/hour
Riders must be ages 7+

3051 Equitation Ln.
Bonita, Ca
619-252-5544
Online: sweetwaterhorses.com

Photo credit: Adventures in Horseback Facebook Page

Big Schott Ranch: Adventures On A Ranch
Big Schott Ranch is all about adventure. 357 acres of it! Head to Ramona and enjoy the pristine views and educational experience the trail guides have for the family. The guides are known for making the family trail rides fun by sharing facts about the area and nature, like which plants can be used to make pancakes. You may even spot some of the wild turkeys, snakes and lizards known to make an appearance on the trail!

Mom and dad take note: they do offer wine country horseback tours too! Perfect date idea.

Hours: 9 a.m. – 6 p.m. (tours by reservation only)
Cost: $65/person for a 1-1.5 hour trail ride
Riders must be ages 8+

25279 Creek Hallow Dr.
Ramona, CA
760-670-8050
Online: bigschottranch.com

Leave a comment with any spots we missed!

— Ginger Anderson

One crucial job of a father is to show his little girl how she deserves to be treated, so she doesn’t put up with anything less when she starts dating (cringe!). Even if your little one isn’t at all near her teen years, it’s always a great time for dad to take his princess out on the town and shower her with time and love. Plus, a daddy/daughter date means mom gets a little time to herself! Dads can really get creative and go beyond the normal dinner and a movie with these five sweet father and daughter date ideas. Click through the slideshow to check out the ideas.

Pan For Gems and Stones in Julian

Head to Julian for a “treasure” of a date: the Julian Mining Company. Dad and his little girl can head back in time and pan for gems, stones and gold like early Californians did. After the treasure hunt is done, downtown Julian offers cute diners and famous pie you don’t want to miss.

Insider's Tip: At certain times of the year Julian Mining Co. offers fresh raspberries or pumpkins you can pick yourself.

Hours: Saturdays 10 a.m. - 4 p.m. and Sundays 12 - 4 p.m.
Cost: varies

4444 State Hwy 78
Julian, CA
951-313-0166
Online: julianminingcompany.com

Photo credit: Panning for Gems by CinCool via flickr

Do you have any sweet father-daughter date ideas to add to our list?

— Ginger Anderson


Looking for an easy escape from the urban sprawl?  Ellensburg offers a laid-back atmosphere that’s fun-filled for the entire family with shops, museums, kid-friendly restaurants, hiking, fishing camping and more!

Living in the city means many things–you know the location of every drive through coffee shop by heart (and their weekday versus weekend hours) and you’re perpetually wearing (or at least packing in your trunk) rain gear. But, when it comes to exploring outside the confines of the city, sometimes we think our city slickers could use a lesson in vibrant cultural experiences beyond the concrete jungle.

For a taste of culture, history, and family fun head to Ellensburg, situated at the intersection of I-90 and I-92. While Ellensburg may sound familiar for being the home to Central Washington University, the city with its population of 18,000 plus, features a variety of arts and performances, sports, outdoor activities like hiking, fishing, snowmobiling, and horseback riding, and a community that takes pride in its strong family environment.

Ellensburg, just a stones throw away from Seattle, will expand your family’s horizons as you visit a sweet local u-pick pumpkin patch, take a driving tour through history, and explore a 217 acre park.

Looking for a date night activity that will really get you going? Well, giddy-up! Horseback riding in the Bay Area has never been so convenient and so fun, with countless ranches and stables ready to give you and your family a majestic day with horses. Whether you’re a cowboy at heart or a horseback riding novice, whether you’re taking the kids along or looking for a romantic activity alone as a couple, 7×7 has the dish on the best places to learn, ride, and play. So jump on up and gallop away to a new and exciting date night!

Learn

Skyline Equestrian Center and Ranch
Whether you’re a bareback champion or a wishful greenhorn, the Skyline Equestrian Center and Ranch in the Oakland Hills is the perfect place for learning the basics of horseback riding. Starting at $40, group and individual lessons cover English-style riding, as well as tacking, grooming, and handling. More advanced equestrians learn how to take on dressage and some jumping techniques. 5750 Redwood Road, Oakland, 510-336-0850, skyline-ranch.com

Ride

Mar Vista Stables
A 15-minute drive south of SF brings you to Mar Vista Stables, where you can take your boarded (or rented) steed up and down the sand dunes and through low tide. Perched on a picturesque bluff of Thorton Beach, the livery offers hour-long guided rides for $40. The 3-mile trail takes you through blooming succulents before getting down to the surf, where you can sometimes see dolphins swimming. Mar Vista is cash-only and has about 20 horses on hand, so don’t worry about a reservation unless you have more than five in your party. Private lessons are also available for beginner, intermediate, and advanced riders. 2152 Skyline Blvd., Daly City, 650-991-4224, marvistastable.com

Miwok Livery
The Western-style Miwok Livery leads daily trail rides through the Marin Headlands. For $75 an hour, you can wind through the hills of Golden Gate National Recreation Area and catch glimpses of the ocean, Mount Tamalpais, and San Francisco’s skyline. Make a reservation at least a week in advance, and if it’s open, stop at the farm stand on your way up Tennessee Valley Road for delicious fruit and some carrots to feed your horse. 701 Tennessee Valley Road, Mill Valley, 415-383-8048, miwokstables.com

Play

Stern Grove
If you’re more of a ringer than a rider, check out Stern Grove’s horseshoe throwing pits. Well-maintained and not too crowded, the eight courts are home to casual Friday evening games. Other times, the SF Horseshoe Pitching Club (sfhorseshoepitching.com) hosts tournaments here and at Golden Gate Park’s 16 pits. Farther west into the park, patrolling officers mount their horses at the red Golden Gate Park Police Stables. Visit any 9 a.m.–2 p.m. to pet and feed the equine force. Stern Grove Court, Sloat Boulevard and 19th Avenue; Golden Gate Park Court, Fulton and Stanyan streets; Police Stables, James W. Bloesch Road and 36th Avenue, 415-752-6255

For more information and insider-tips, read the full 7×7 article here.

Written by John Knight

This is our weekly guest post from our friends at 7×7, a site that keeps you up on the best of SF. We’ve teamed up for an exciting partnership to bring you a fantastic Date Night idea each week. Be sure to check out their blog for hourly doses of the best of SF.

Did you know that statistically most babies born in the United States are born in August? Must be all that mistletoe! Are you planning a birthday bash for your kid? We’ve found 8 of the best venues for hosting a memorable celebration! From horseback riding to garden planting and theater going to dance parties, fun will be had by all at these locales!

Little Saplings Gardening Party
If your little sprout has a green thumb and an affinity for gardening, he or she will really ‘dig’ a party thrown by Little Saplings. Their birthday party entertainment package features custom designed gardens to take home, storytelling, a guest entertainer and a photographer to capture every special moment.

Horseback Riding Party at Traditional
Invite your little buckaroo to saddle up for a horseback riding party at the Traditional Equitation School. Kids can really get on their high horse during this fiesta which includes a lesson on horse safety and parts of the horse, a demonstration and hands-on experience with grooming and tacking, and a group riding lesson. Giddy-up!

Giggles N Hugs
Voted #1 Birthday Party Place by Nickelodeon, popular children’s restaurant and playspace Giggles N Hugs offers a wide array of semi-private and private parties you can tailor to your kiddo’s liking. Themes little ones will love from princess affairs to disco shindigs, and extras such as cotton candy and snow cone machines, jugglers, magicians and balloon artists, are all available to make a tyke’s special day over the moon.

Dragonfly DuLou
This kids lifestyle boutique and family club has a private and whimsically decorated courtyard complete with plasma cars and a mini basketball court that is an ideal setting for birthday parties. Activities include bubble bonanza, face-painting and a magician. They also offer a weekday lunchtime party with Music Together, wherein 12 guests, ages 1-4, may enjoy a 45 minute Music Together party as well as snack and cake time.

Under the Sea
This indoor playground has multiple locations all over Los Angeles, and was voted the best spot for theme parties by L.A. Family Magazine. Several tiers of party-throwing options are available, all of which offer your child and his guests two hours of private use of the facility. Under the Sea characters including mermaids, princesses, pirates and clowns will entertain. Pizza, juice and cake, face painting, party favors, a treasure hunt, and time to play in the entertainment center’s moon bounce house, turbo slide, climbing structure and sea castle are all included. Under the Sea also has a soft baby corner filled with safe and educational play equipment for their tiniest guests.

Party At Play
Music and dance parties, art parties, characters and clowning parties, and magic parties, the party playlist at ‘Play’ has something for everyone! Check out their site for sample parties, or create your very own based on your kid’s interests. Baby music and Messy Art parties, and extravaganzas with themes of robots, outer space, prince and princesses, even a build-a-playhouse party all make this versatile venue sure to please the wee one one his or her big day.

Santa Monica Playhouse
If you’ve got a little drama queen or king on your hands, perhaps a birthday bash at Santa Monica Playhouse is just the ticket. They offer a myriad of options for kids parties for ages 2 and up: Fairytale, Theater Tea Party, and Create-A-Play themed birthday parties are sure to bring forth the thespian in each guest. The Family Theater party sounds like it would be a hit with acting games and partying with a gaily-costumed fairytale character, birthday cake and punch. Then enjoy one of Santa Monica Playhouse’s award-winning Family Theatre musicals in which the birthday child gets to make a guest appearance on stage and receive a specially autographed gift as the entire audience sings “Happy Birthday!”

Your Home Sweet Home
As the saying goes, ‘there’s no place like home.’ Often times the best birthday parties are thrown in the comforts of a child’s own surroundings with close friends and family on the guest list! If your babe is turning one, festivities thrown on a grand scale may be overwhelming, so sticking with the familiar backdrop of your home or a favorite park will help ensure that the guest of honor has a wonderful time.

What are you favorite places to party in Los Angeles? Let us know in the comment section below!

– Beth Shea

At 11,245 feet tall, Mount Hood reigns supreme as Oregon’s loftiest peak. The stunning summit overlooks the Columbia River Gorge; a glorious region with numerous family adventures to offer. Families may indulge in year-round skiing and snowboarding at Timberline Ski Area, the only ski area in the country that is open all 12 months of the year! Additionally, kids will enjoy apple and pear picking at Mount Hood Organic Farms in the fall, skiing or snowboarding and snowtubing at SkiBowl in the winter, and an abundance of spring and summer excursions like hiking, fishing, camping, horseback riding, white-water rafting, and mountain biking. The array of activities families may experience together is sure to inspire you to check out this invigorating setting.

Go: Year-round for all different types of adventures, varying by season.

Approximate travel time: Mount Hood is 50 miles east of Portland, so approximately 1-1.5 hours.

Possible lunch spots: Celilo offers a sophisticated gourmet menu that is also affordable and kid-friendly. Many regard the restaurant as a destination in and of itself in Hood River.

How to dress: Weather appropriate depending on season and activities of choice.

Need to know: Take a 35 mile-long scenic drive along Oregon’s ‘Fruit Loop’ which includes over 15,000 acres of fruit trees. Stop at farms and roadside stands along the way to indulge in fruit picking and tasty treats.

Bonus: Parents who are movie buffs will enjoy beholding The Timberline Lodge on Mount Hood, as this location provided the exterior backdrop for the film, “The Shining.”

Cost of trip: Moderate

Online: Mount Hood/The Gorge

—Beth Shea