Have you ever read an article or a blog about the benefits of a sit-down dinner with your family. You quickly decide that from this point forward, you’re going to enforce that rule in your house too. Perfection: that’s what we’re after, right?

Well, we’re going to stop you right there…We’re two moms, just like you, living in a guilt-filled world of soccer games, math tutoring and yes, even sit-down family dinners. Oh you don’t have sit-down family dinners every night? Shame! Well, we say, shame on those who are shaming us! After all, the ideal version of what a family dinner should look like—a perfectly set table with smiling kids politely chatting away and parents happily doling out a homemade meal—well, isn’t actually all that ideal or practical these days.  

Raise your virtual hand if you’ve ever had that “family sit-down dinner” in the car on the way to dance practice or ordered a “freshly cooked” meal from the local restaurant? We certainly have and we’re proudly closing up those takeout containers as we’re tap, tap, tapping away on our laptops! Let’s face it … life’s busy and far from perfect. So, let’s all take a breather and agree that no one’s perfect, dinner time is whatever everyone makes their best effort to have. The bottom line? We just want to have a moment to connect with our kids—that’s what gathering over a meal is really for: the potential for really amazing conversations and a chance to connect. 

We know you’ve got the “How was your day?” question covered for opening up those mealtime chit chats, but have you tried asking your kids about the news? News topics are natural conversation starters. Whether it’s news about the latest space achievement or why athletes are kneeling during the national anthem, asking a question about something happening in the world right now—something real, relevant and interesting—sparks infinite amounts of lively conversations.

Each week, we at Xyza News produce a dinner table conversation question that’s linked to something happening in the news. So after you’ve asked your requisite “How was your day?” check in, try following it up with our weekly dinner table conversation question and watch the conversation sparks fly!

For our inaugural post on Red Tricycle, we’re starting with a simple but important question: What can you do to help the environment?

Here’s the scoop: Plastic straws have been in the news A LOT lately because of their negative impact on the environment. Many places around the world have banned these environmentally-pesky things and it looks like several companies are following suit.

Starbucks, for example, has decided to phase out plastic straws from all of its 28,000 stores by 2020. Any guess on how many straws that would eliminate per year? One billion! The solution? Starbucks plans to use unique lids that allow customers to drink cold drinks without hassle.

American Airlines and Hyatt Hotels have also promised to phase out straws in their operations, but the two companies are going about it a bit differently. Hyatt will offer straws only on demand beginning Sep. 1 and American Airlines will be using biodegradable straws instead of plastic ones. SeaWorld in San Diego, California, is also banning straws and plastic bags, and Bon Appétit will remove plastic straws from all of its restaurants by 2019! It just goes to show how one small act can produce a ripple effect of planet-friendly choices around the world.

Talk to your kids about what you can do to help the environment! What have they learned—and more importantly, what can they teach you?

Featured Photo Courtesy: skeeze via Pixabay
Joann Suen & Sapna Satagopan
Tinybeans Voices Contributor

We're two perfectly imperfect moms who have five very different kids between the two of us. We believe that topics in news are a fantastic way to spark conversations in families. That's why we started the Dinner Table Conversation series here at Xyza: News for Kids. Won't you join us in the conversation? 

Quality (summer)time isn’t just about camps and popsicles. When it comes to spending time together as a family, we thought up 10 summer family activities to get you logging serious togetherness and serious fun. So grab the sunscreen and read on for inspiring ways to bond all summer long.

Take In the Great Outdoors

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Now that it stays light out well into the evening, there’s even more time to spend outdoors after camp, work or other summertime activities. So commit to an after-dinner stroll once a week or use the weekend to go exploring. Best part? No matter where you live, awesome national parks are within reach. You can skip the summer crowds with our list of under-the-radar national parks in every state!

See Stars and (S')More

Allison Sutcliffe

When the sun does set, and those stars come out, turn off the TV and head into the backyard or out to the front stoop for some stargazing. If you want to go all out with forecasts, gear and snacks (even more than s’mores!), plan a complete astrological adventure with our how-to-stargaze guide. If you like your stars with a splash of spontaneity, give one of these interstellar apps a go.

Dive Into Major Fun

Great Wolf Lodge

From north to south and east to west, nothing says summer quite like a dive into a refreshing swimming pool. So be sure to get the whole family splashing about. If the kids are water safe, spring for passes to a community pool this, hit up a local splash pad with tots of any age, or check out one of the awesome new water resorts opening across the country this summer.

Gather Round for Family Story Time

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Who doesn’t love a good story? Taking the time to bond over books gives everyone in the family a chance to listen (and read, depending on age level) and compare takeaways afterward. Talking about what we read is a great jump on reading comprehension, too. For a whole summer’s worth of inspiration, check out our list of 100 best books to read before the kids turn 12.

Plan a Picnic

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Whether you spread out a blanket in the backyard, load up for a table spread at a local park or playground, or invite the neighbors over for a full-on picnic party, a picnic is a fun way to shake up mealtime with al fresco dining. It’s a novel way to have the kids help out too, from prepping lunch to packing up the basket to picking that perfect spot in the sun or shade.

Fire Up Family Game Night

Yeti in My Spaghetti

Raising little competitive spirits? Put them to fun family use with a weekly game night. For preschool players, go for Go Fish, Guess Who, or classic Candyland. For older gamers, get out Otrio or one the many Monopolies now available. Our roundup of the best board games for every age and stage also promises to get everyone participating.

Find a Fair or Festival

Vermont Festival of Foods

Is it even summertime if you don’t hit up a carnival, county fair or street fest? This is the season of hayrides and Ferris wheels, cotton candy and ring toss, movies or concerts in the park and prizes and laughs galore. If you’re looking for summer festivals that are a little off the beaten path, we have you covered. And be sure to check out one of our local or national Red Tricycle guides for the kind of summer fun the kids will be sure to remember.

Try Something New

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Everything’s more fun if you’re not the only first timer, so work in bonding time by taking a family vote and trying something brand new. Take up rock climbing or dune surfing. Learn about flora and fauna at a local nature center. Fearless fliers may even fancy aerial trapeze. Who knows, by the end of summer you or the kids may just have a new hobby or passion to pursue throughout the year. If you need ideas, we found something fun to try in every state.

Make Meals a Priority

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If summer feels just as busy as the rest of the year, you can still commit to a family meal as often as you can, especially when summertime cooking can be as easy as quick pasta, fresh salads or throwing something on the grill. In the spirit of gathering around the table, we have mealtime tips to share that sound good year round.

— Jennifer Massoni Pardini

 

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Truth: there are a few universal pain points every busy parent deals with no matter where you live or how many kids you have. The biggest for many of us? Mealtime! Food blogger and mom of three, Siri Daly can relate. Her popular food blog, Siriously Delicious and her new cookbook of the same name (it debuts this month) is devoted to simple recipes for the real home cook.

We recently spoke to Siri about how she makes dinnertime more enjoyable and less hectic, mealtime traditions she shares with her kids and husband, Carson Daly, and goods she always has in her pantry. Read on to hear from Siri and don’t forget to check out the recipes she shared with us.

Red Tricycle: Do you have any family rituals or traditions when it comes to mealtime?
Siri Daly: We try and sit down together almost every night, even if Carson and I end up eating a little later than the kids. Usually, we play some sort of game during dinner, favorites being 20 Questions or Telephone. Have you ever tried playing Telephone with a 3 year-old? It’s pretty comical.

RT: For parents pressed for time in the evenings (who isn’t?!), can you share any wisdom to make dinnertime more enjoyable and less hectic?
SD: Um, let them have ‘screen time’ while you’re cooking? KIDDING! (Sort of.) Planning ahead is key, if possible, and using any free time you have on the weekends to prep fruits and veggies will help when it comes time to cooking meals. I love simple recipes that involve one or two pots and that can be ready in 30 minutes or less. As far as the eating process, I find it’s more pleasant to sit at a table, away from any distractions like homework or television. Even if dinnertime goes by quickly, it’s important to pause for a bit to check in with each other.

RT: Are your kids open to trying new foods and cuisines? Do you have any advice to parents whose kids may have a picky palate?
SD: Welllll, they are certainly getting better! My son, who is the oldest, is the most willing to try new things, so my advice is to be patient! If they are picky at a young age, their palates will develop with time. Also, as discouraging as it sometimes feels, it’s important to keep trying because they are always changing their minds. That said, in my experience, it never helps to force anything on them (or maybe I just gave birth to control freaks?) so again, patience is key. And when all else fails, I sneak veggies into their meals!

RT: What are 5 things you always have on-hand or in your pantry?
SD: Good olive oil, Sriracha sauce, a chunk of fresh Parmesan cheese, almonds, and spaghetti.

RT: What’s the most memorable meal you’ve ever had?
SD: I love sushi, and the first time I went to Nobu in New York City with Carson was very memorable for a couple of reasons. First, as someone who was introduced to raw fish as a twenty-year-old…in WISCONSIN…eating the delicious cuisine in a big, coastal city was a real treat. Second, Carson and I had just started “crushing” on each other. Is that a thing people say? Anyway, the flirty vibe at dinner is always something I’ll remember, along with that first bite of crispy rice with spicy tuna and that first sip of a lychee martini.

RT: If you could eat one dish for the rest of your life, what would it be? How about your kids?
SD: Probably a perfectly prepared Spaghetti Carbonara with that delectable, creamy egg sauce and crispy pancetta. For my kids? Boxed Mac & Cheese!

Siri shared three recipes with Red Tricycle. Check them out here:

Perfect Banana Mini Muffins

Grilled Cheese Roll Up Dippers

Sneaky One Pot Mexican Pasta

 

 

Siri Daly was a television writer and producer before becoming a stay-at-home mom of three young kids. She started her popular food blog, Siriously Delicious, as a place to keep track of the recipes that worked for her continuously busy life. Married to Carson Daly, she is now a regular TODAY food contributor and resident comfort-food expert, often cooking on-air with her husband. They live in the greater New York area. For more of Siri’s wit and humor and a peek into her life as a busy mom, visit siriouslydelicious.blogspot.com.

For a fuss-free dinner, you’ve got to try this crock pot recipe from Jenny of Dragonfly Home Recipes. Unlike some sloppy joe recipes, this one has a short list of ingredients that you probably already have in your fridge and pantry. Even picky eaters are sure to gobble these up.

Ingredients
1 pound ground beef
1/2 cup onion, finely chopped
3/4 cup ketchup
1 tablespoon sugar
2 tablespoons chili sauce
1 tablespoon Worcestershire sauce
1 tablespoon mustard
1 tablespoon vinegar
Hamburger buns

Method
1. Brown the meat and onion in a large saucepan.

2. Using a slotted spoon, spoon the meat mixture into your crockpot, trying to leave most of the fat in the saucepan to discard. Place the rest of the ingredients in the crockpot and stir to combine. Cover and cook on low for 4 to 5 hours.

3. Serve on buns with a salad and/or coleslaw. Enjoy!

This recipe and photo come courtesy of Jenny from Dragonfly Home Recipes, a Michigan-based blogger who shares fresh recipes using in-season ingredients. Check out her blog for more mealtime inspiration.

 

Editor’s Note, November 2018: For our most up-to-date story on awesome utensils and tools for kids mealtime, click here for our most recent coverage.

 

You chop their food into little pieces. You’ve had food flung at your head. You spend a good portion of your time wiping down the floors, walls, and cabinets. Are you: A) the lead nutritionist at a zoo, or B) the parent of a toddler during meal times? Assuming the answer is in fact, B, then perk up, buttercup! We’ve got a dynamite list of tools to help make “feeding times” easier for you and more fun for the wild things in your life.

Fred & Friends Dinner Winner Plate

Everyone wins at dinnertime with Fred & Friends Dinner Winner Plate. Your tiny diners will love eating their way to the finish line, and you'll love that it's a natural silencer to the question "How many more bites do I have to take?" Want to give the little ones even more motivation to make it to the finish line? Try putting a chocolate kiss on the last partition of the game board and watch them plow through supper.

Available online at amazon.com
$18.27.

Photo: Fred & Friends

How do you manage mealtime mayhem with toddlers? What other gizmos should we add to our list? Tell us in our comments section below. 

— Shelley Massey

You know reading to your baby is important, but what kind of books with she really love at this age? Let your future bookworm get acquainted with story time by sharing cuddly, cloth books that provide sensory experiences and interactive elements. Flip through our 12 finds to see our top picks including a precious bedtime story she’ll love through toddlerhood and a clever cloth text on nuclear physics (really!).

Good Night, Teddy

You and Baby will spend a day with a teddy bear as you read this story. Take him through mealtime, playtime, bath time and more, before you finally tuck him into (pajama clad and all) bed.

Available on Amazon.com, $13.25.

What’s your baby’s favorite book? Tell us in a Comment.

–Julie Seguss

It’s Wednesday, September 24. Here’s what you need to know to make this day the BEST ever.

1. Get into the Bay Area Discovery museum for free today thanks to their First Free Wednesday Program. Toddler circle time, a nature walk and a fun story time awaits.

2. Already dreading cooking dinner tonight? Check out a local delivery service that’ll make mealtime a cinch.

3. Take a cue from our writers and map out your fall adventures with their family’s personal recommendations. 

For more ideas for things to do click here.

photo credit: BADM

Mealtime usually ends with more food on the floor than in bellies. Chicago mom and writer Selena Kohng found a way to fix that. She turns breakfast, lunch and dinner into visual feasts, and shares her food art creations on her blog, How About Cookie, and via Instagram and Twitter. Click through the album to get inspired by her latest and greatest.

Pear Hot Air Balloon

A plate of cauliflower is one thing. (Usually an awful thing, for a kid.) A plate of cauliflower clouds and pear hot air balloons? That's another thing entirely. Turn the mealtime battlefield into a playground, and your picky eater just might steal a nibble.

Have you tried to be creative with your kid’s meal? Let us know about it in the Comments below!

— Food art styling & writing by Selena Kohng

When mealtime becomes a battle, sometimes you have to put down your forks. That’s right — let your kiddos eat with their hands. Home to the largest population of Ethiopians in the nation, D.C. has more than 45 Ethiopian restaurants (where forks are optional) in a five-block radius, and even more outside and around town. Ethiopian food is kid-friendly, mom-approved and full of palate-expanding adventures. Here are three of our favorites.

Etete
Etete might look traditional, but don’t let the ho-hum façade fool you. Inside, culinary wonders await, including marinated short beef ribs and gomen (fresh garlic collard greens). Big kids will stay busy by taking a crack at guessing which D.C. political celebrity (looking at you, President Clinton and Rep. Mike Honda) peeks over their shoulder. 

Insider tip: Utensils are optional at Ethiopian restaurants – in fact, some don’t even offer them – because their main attraction is injera – a gray, spongy, sourdough-like bread that looks like a pancake and is served underneath most dishes, and used to mop it all up.

1942 9th St. NW (U St. Corridor)
202-232-7600
Open daily, 11:00 am-1:00 am
Online: Eteterestaurant.com

Gebeta
Gebeta’s bright green walls and corner piano with Ethiopian pianist Araya Woldemichael tickling the ivories (call for times) sets this place apart from others in the area. Brightly colored African art adorns the walls giving little ones plenty of eye candy. Try a vegetarian sampler which comes with four, six or eight meatless dishes like Misir Wet (lentils with onions) and Fassolia Wet (fresh green beans and carrots) .

Insider tip: If you took the metro or walked to this spot, order a glass of Tej (a traditional honey wine), or a bottle of Tella (a home-brewed beer). Kids can sip Ambo, a carbonated mineral water from the highlands of Ethiopia; tell them it’s soda, and they’ll never know it’s good for them!

8123 Georgia Ave. (Silver Spring, Md)
301-588-0000
Open Tues.-Thurs., 11:30 am-11 pm; Fri., 11:30 am-12:30 am; Sat., 11:00 am-12:00 am; Sun., 11:00 am 11:00 pm
Online: Gebetaethiopianrestaurant.com

Enjera Restaurant
With indoor and outdoor seating, there’s something for every diner at Enjera. It’s slightly more upscale (think: tablecloths and glassware) than your neighborhood pizza place, but still cozy enough to bring the kids along. The waitstaff is super attentive and very helpful. If, for example, you have no idea what Habesha FitFit is but are dying to try it. Hint: It’s marinated beef in a spiced red pepper sauce.

Insiders tip: Desserts aren’t really a part of Ethiopian food, so you may only find American options, or cut fruit. However, much to the benefit of tired moms everywhere, Ethiopia is the birthplace of coffee so you can round out the meal with a cup.

549 23rd St. (Arlington, VA)
703-271-6040
Open Mon.-Fri., 11:00 am-2:00 am; Sat.-Sun., 9:00 am-2:00 am
Online: enjerarestaurant.com

Have you ever tried Ethiopian food with your family? Let us know in the Comments section below.

—Hilary Reidemann

Photos courtesy of paul s. via Yelp, Yonas B. via Yelp, Rae Marie Y. via Yelp


No matter if it’s pizza night or you’re throwing your heart into a four-course feast, mealtime is family time. Connecting with your kids, both in the kitchen and at the dinner table, is really something to savor.

Get mealtime inspiration and tips from Jacqui Boland, CEO & Founder of Red Tricycle, in the first of our video series about good, smart family living, presented by Microsoft Surface 2. Like you, Jacqui is a busy parent that loves making meaningful ties with her son. The Surface 2 tablet from Microsoft makes it possible.

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