Summer nights under the stars are some of the best, but the mosquitoes attacking you in the dark are not. It might seem like nothing can combat that endless, annoying itch that follows a bug bite, especially for kids, but one simple tool promises to stop the itch of a mosquito bite by sucking out the poison.

When the bug spray fails you try The Bug Bite Thing Suction Tool. The device uses suction to minimize itching, redness and swelling after a bug bite or sting, including those from mosquitoes, bees, wasps, chiggers, fire ants, fleas and more. The company says it works by sucking out the poison and irritants that cause the itching and inflammation.

It might sound too good to be true, but it does have some promising five star reviews on Amazon. “I cannot stress to you enough how much better this simple little tool has made my quality of life during summer in Ohio. It rains a lot. There are a lot of mosquitoes. Omg so many mosquitoes. I have horrific allergic reactions to mosquito bites. We’re talking bumps swelling to the width of softballs within minutes of the bite. This tool doesn’t make those bumps go away, but it stops the itch IMMEDIATELY,” wrote one reviewer.

At just $10 for a device that can be used over and over again, it’s definitely worth a shot to end that itch. It’s safe to use on adults and kids, but the company does recommend that you practice using it before hand to show kids what the suction will feel like before you actually need to use it.

—Shahrzad Warkentin

photos: Courtesy of Amazon

 

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Making the transition from milk to solids is eventful and, at times, nostalgic. The little baby that you’ve been steering into a brand new world suddenly becomes a little human with likes, dislikes, and strong opinions. You miss the newborn baby smell because along the way it’s been swapped for…other smells, more “this is a little kid in the making” smells.

When you start feeding your little one new foods, the smells are definitely one of the bigger changes to adapt to, but so is the increased challenge to you being the one leading. Now, they lead. They sometimes scream. They don’t want, until all they do, is want. This is true whether you’re feeding them avocado for the first time or our Broccoli Ever After. We know it’s hard and we know that repetition is key, but here’s a list of things you may not have thought to expect when you were expecting.

1. They may not like it right away. We talk about this reality often on Fresh Bellies. I mean, how amazing would it be if your little one just took to golden beets instantly? Amiright. Most of the time though, that’s not the case. Experts recommend trying new foods at least an average of 10 times before deciding whether your little one actually likes it and it’s because your little one may not even know if they like it before the 11th try. This is an entirely new world to them and skepticism seems to be knee jerk no matter how old they may be.

2. Veggies come with an extra side of gas. Okay, we just have to say it—babies fart. When you give little one’s veggies? It results in healthy bowel movement and they may fart more. In most cases the baby farts aren’t a serious medical matter, they just take a bit of adjusting to because, well, your babies used to not be little humans with the smelliest of farts. In the long run, it’s an okay tradeoff because a baby that eats all the beets and green veggies is one with a healthy gut and has bigger chances of becoming an adventurous eater as an adult.

3. Their breath smells like…lunch. Add this to the list of things that are somewhat small, but still highly unexpected when you start feeding your kiddo more diverse foods. Your baby is going to have a strong breath after some meals. What an unexpected thing to make you feel like your little one is all grown up! And yet, after a serving of anything with garlic or onions, for example, there is no question that your little one’s breath will be reminding you of what they had for lunch.

4. Make it half and half (or a little less if it’s been a long day). It’s all about portions and all about presenting a new food without masking, but without spooking your kiddo either. Experts recommend pairing a food your little one already trusts with the new one you’re trying to introduce them to. It’ll help them feel like they’re not in completely foreign territory and therefore trust the new food a bit more.

5. It’s not you, it’s them! Parents, you’re awesome! Keep reminding yourself that your kids are a work in progress and learning to eat healthy takes time. Give your little one the space to surprise you. Venture to feed them all types of foods, even ones that aren’t your favorite. You might have hard feelings towards beets, but your little one may be obsessed. 

I'm the Founder & CEO of Fresh Bellies baby food brand. I've won foodie awards, pitched to Shark Tank and appeard on Forbes and CNBC. Originally from Guayaquil, Ecuador, I live in New York with my husband, Fernando and daughters, Isabella and Alexa Luna.

As a Pediatric Sleep Consultant, I pride myself on staying up to date on the latest—and safest—sleep recommendations, so when I saw the online buzz about a recent study in the Journal of the American Medical Association about the harmful effects of white noise machines, I felt my heart sink to my stomach. I frequently recommend white noise machines to clients who have environmental noise waking up their little ones early in the morning or throughout the day, so yes, I was freaked out. After all, these were reputable news sources making these claims.

However, as is all too often the case, the headlines were inflammatory and drastically misleading. After reading the article and looking further into the studies it referenced, I discovered that in actuality the headlines were clickbait meant to scare parents into clicking on the link. While I do not have a degree in audiology, I do have a background in research methods and know a thing or two about debunking a news story. To me, this was a quintessential article fear-mongering article meant to terrify parents.

It began with a classic worry-inducing headline, went on to list a few points about the potential harm that [insert any topic here] could be doing to your child and ended with a one-liner in the last paragraph essentially stating that, “Most experts agree that if you have even the slightest modicum of common sense, this isn’t something you need to worry about.”

Let’s unpack the story that have so many parents tossing their noise machines in the trash, shall we?

What’s Wrong with Baby Sound Machines?

The article in USA TODAY starts with the headline, “Caution Urged for Infant Sleep Machines!” and by the second sentence, claims that a study shows that white noise machines, “could place infants at risk of developing noise-induced hearing loss.” The study they’re referring to tested 14 different machines along with the volume of noise emitted at different distances.

The results? All 14 machines tested exceeded 50 decibels at 100 centimeters from the sensor (with the threshold of 50 decibels being the recommended noise limit for hospital nurseries). So, if hospital nurseries set sound machines to 50 decibels and every one tested exceeded that, does that mean there is not a sound machine on the market that does not damage a baby’s hearing? Well, wait, how loud is 50 decibels?

To avoid going into all the painfully boring details of how decibels work, here’s some relative perspective:

  • A vacuum cleaner is 75 decibels
  • A shower is around 70 decibels
  • A normal conversation is about 60 decibels
  • And a quiet conversation at home is around 50 decibels

So, using a bit of logic, it would seem that the reason pediatric nurseries are suggested to keep the noise below 50 decibels has more to do with creating a sleep-friendly environment than preventing hearing loss. The lull of a quiet conversation is definitely not enough to do any type of hearing damage! I think we all can agree on that!

But My Sound Machine Goes Up To Over 85 Decibels!

It was found that three of the noise machines tested were capable of putting out more than 85 decibels of white noise. That’s closer to the level of a garbage disposal or blender and is the point where North American occupational health and safety associations recommends that people wear hearing protection if they’re exposed to it for a full work day.

So, it sounds like there is potential for hearing damage should you put one of these three sound machines on at full blast and place it right next to your baby’s crib. I’ll admit, that’s worth letting parents know about. But I have two thoughts here:

If you turn on a blender-level noise machine on maximum volume in your baby’s room and expect them to sleep, I think you need to try that little experiment on yourself first. Let’s be honest about how many of us can sleep well—if at all—next to a lawnmower or when your husband is making his morning smoothie. I would think that common sense would prevent parents from cranking these things to level 11 and leaving them next to baby’s head overnight.

Warning parents about the potential harm of white noise machines can be done in a calm, non-panic-inducing manner.

Keep Your Sound Machine!

I try not to let it get to me, but it really does drive me absolutely crazy when media outlets take a perfectly rational study like this one—whose only conclusion is to suggest that the machines should ship with some kind of instructions on how to use them safely—and try to cause a panic in order to draw “numbers” to their website. I wouldn’t be at all surprised to hear that this has caused at least a few parents, who are of course extremely concerned about protecting their babies, to throw away a great product that helps their little one get the sleep they need just because of some inflammatory headline with a bit of fine print.

The one thing that every parent, pediatrician, scientific researcher and academic can agree upon is that we all need sleep. It is a basic human requirement.  We suffer without it and we thrive when we prioritize it. If your little one sleeps better when you have a white noise machine between their crib and the door or window, please don’t buy into the idea that you might be damaging their ear drums.

As long as you’re keeping the volume at a reasonable level, all you’re doing is helping them get the sleep they need.

If you are concerned about the decibel level of your sound machine, I’d recommend downloading the Decibel X app on your smart phone to give you some peace of mind & give everyone a good night’s sleep!

Jamie is a Certified Pediatric Sleep Consultant and offers personalized sleep solutions to exhausted families nationwide. With a background in child development and infant mental health, she keeps up to date on the latest evolutions in the field which allows her to blend technical knowledge with empathy and compassion to tailor her support.

Editor’s Note: Here at Red Tricycle, we respect and celebrate every mom’s feeding journey. Bottle? Boob? It doesn’t matter—we believe fed is best. Our Spoke Contributor Network is inclusive and open to all parenting journeys—yours, too!

Interested in sharing your child’s feeding journey? Whether it’s transitioning to formula or introducing solids, to navigating food allergies or raising your kids vegetarian—Spoke is the place to share your rockstar moments and inspiring journeys. Submit your own feeding story to Spoke right here.

 

 

If you have recently given birth and are a working mom, that means you’re probably preparing to go back to work and, for many, pumping will be part of that journey. Although that isn’t the fun part of going back to work, showing off the pictures of your new baby is! It’s now been eight weeks since I gave birth to my third child and our team at Imalac is in the thick of getting ready to launch Nurture this summer.

As I am shifting back to work full time, I thought I would share some tips for nursing moms on how to smoothly transition from breastfeeding a newborn to pumping at the office.

Plan, Prioritize, Pump

If you have read any of my blogs before, you already can guess my first and biggest tip—plan ahead. I think that’s a rule of thumb for most things in life. But in this case, preparation will be a lifesaver as you get back to work.

Planning the night before is a huge help for me in visualizing how I will take control of my day and manage my time accordingly. Whether it’s packing lunches for my older kids or laying out clothes for them and myself, I feel it gives me the ability to prioritize with a clear mind and minimize my daily stress.

I also recommend setting an alarm to wake up before your children. This is an important time to have for yourself and give you some peace while getting dressed and ready for your day. This helps to avoid scrambling to get yourself and everyone else out the door simultaneously.

An early start to your day can also help allocate time to nurse and bond with your new baby before your other kids or partner wake up. Alternatively, you can use your early waking hours to pump. This is a huge time-saver that will easily mark one more thing off your to-do list as well as help maintain your milk supply.

Do Not Disturb

When getting back to work, it is a good idea to have a transparent conversation with your supervisor and coworkers regarding your choice to pump. Make sure they are aware that you will have to make time throughout the day to pump and ask to take your time into consideration with work-related tasks, meetings, etc. Scheduling “pumping hours” on your calendar is a professional way of updating your coworkers so that you won’t have to constantly announce or ask for 30 minutes to pump.

If you are in a meeting, consider talking about your situation in advance and excuse yourself when it’s time. The most important aspect of getting back to work as a nursing mom is that you are on the same page as your supervisor.

Another suggestion I recommend is to buy or make your own “Do Not Disturb” sign to hang on your office door or other designated pumping area that will signal to your coworkers that you are unavailable. A hard knock on the door while you are pumping can be a little unnerving and certainly won’t help you get that milk out any quicker!

While having a space to pump will vary depending on your situation, you should be able to find an area that is private or makes you feel comfortable. If you are in an employee-centric workplace, they may even have a designated lactation room.

Seeing Double

If it’s possible to have two or more sets of pump accessories or other tools you may use, you can keep one set at home and the other in your car or office. This can help alleviate the stress and time associated with pumping and reduces how much stuff you have to lug back and forth.

In addition, handling more than one shoulder bag is not only uncomfortable for the day-to-day pumping mom, but detrimental to your back and health over time. Instead, my tip is to use a backpack to carry the items you will need for a successful pumping experience when being on the go. I always like to pack necessities such as quick wipes that can be used to clean the pump parts, as well as an ice pack to properly store milk.

Ultimately going back to work can be a daunting proposition, but setting good expectations for yourself, your peers, supervisors and family can make a big difference. Planning ahead and investing a little extra in whatever you can do to make life a little more convenient for you will help ease the transition.

This post originally appeared on Imalac.
Rachael Sablotsky Kish
Tinybeans Voices Contributor

Rachael Sablotsky Kish is the Co-Founder and Chief Operating Officer of Imalac, a med-tech company which created Nurture, a hands-free breast massage system for nursing mothers that uses an attachable massage component to replicate hands-on pumping. Kish is a Certified Lactation Counselor (CLC), educating and training women on breastfeeding.

Every night, when I put my two younger children to bed, my oldest and I dig in to some series. We pick a show or a book we will both like and we read or watch something together for a little while. It helps us connect. We’ve watched fantasy series, read Roald Dahl books, played cards and worked on puzzles and homework projects.

But usually, by the end of the day I’m so tired that TV seems like the easiest and least stressful way for us to just sit down and BE together. We grab a blanket and cuddle up and after (or for him, during) we talk about messages we saw. Things that people said and did that were “wrong” or “mean” and how people could have been different or better. It’s TV. It’s not anything special. But we turn it into something special for us.

Recently, we started watching Netflix’s Tidying Up with Marie Kondo together and it’s been so much more than a shared television show that we both happen to enjoy. It’s given us a way to connect beyond our nightly “dates” before bedtime, but throughout the day as well. My son was instantly in love with this show because organization is his “thing.” After the first night (and first episode), he woke up the next morning excited to come home from school and DO LAUNDRY!

If the idea of kids doing mundane chores around the house isn’t enough for you, it gets better.

We’ve now finished the series and every day since my son comes home from school and pulls out something new of his to purge. He shares with me stories about why certain items of clothing, books or toys he finds remind him of a memory from a family trip, a day with me or an experience he had. We’ve been able to reminisce and strike up conversations that I wouldn’t have even thought to start all because we are pulling all of the crap out of our closets and folding it into tiny squares. He tells my why things he keeps spark joy and why the things he choosing to get rid of were so good to him, but he’s moved on.

He found a picture that reminded him of a special day and he told me the entire story of every event in this one day that he remembered. It was an average ordinary day for me, but for him—it was memorable and special. It made me think of all of the times I felt as if I should have done more, been better, been more “fun” as a mom. What I see about the events of our day and the way my kids perceive them are light-years different.

I may remember the time they fell off their bike where all I did was slap on a Band Aid, boo-boo kiss it and send them on their way. But they remember it as quite possibly one of the most catastrophic injuries to date. For them, I swooped in and saved the day. They recall me sweeping in with my cape and antiseptics smothering them with love and affection and making sure they were ok. They remember the flavor popsicle they were given after. They remember the type of Band Aid, how the alcohol stung and the smile on my face when I hugged them and told them we were all done and they would be better really soon. I barely remember some of these days at all and if I do it’s a fuzzy, mere memory of some small event that at the time seemed very minor in the grand scheme of things. But for him and this day in particular, it was something so much more. And he remembers all of that.

photo: Matthew Henry via Burst 

Between the stories and working together we have strengthened our bond as mom and child. We have a common project to complete, we are a team and for once in our lives we are partners, equals. He has every right to choose his own items and he does so with attention, thought and consideration. I don’t urge or push him to keep or toss anything. It gave him a sense of independence and purpose and me a helper to get through this with my sanity in tact.

It also gave us a chance to talk about how fortunate we are. We have ALL. THIS. STUFF. Much of which we are now purging, which means we are LUCKY. We are so privileged to have been given the opportunity to not need in many ways. We might have our rough times, patches where money is tight and we have to really stick to our budget. We have to forgo on some of the extra things we love like eating out, going to the movies or picking out candy in the checkout line. There are times we feel as if we are struggling to keep it together as a family. And as a single mom that guilt rings true more often than not. But, seeing all of our things has helped us both realize that we could have it much worse off.

We’ve had discussions about donating and what it means to help others. We want to take our things we no longer need and give them to others that might not have the things they need to get through. And maybe, we will be able to put a smile on someone else’s face and give them a memory just as great as our items have brought us one day. We talk about what that means, to give to others, and why helping others is so important. It’s showed me a very generous, gracious and humble side of my son that I had only gotten glimpses of before. He’s so thoughtful and philanthropic for his age and it makes me proud that I raised him to be that way.

Not to mention that living in a house where our things are much more organized and everything “has a home” has creates so much more free time for us to do things we love and less stress looking at all of the clutter and feeling overwhelmed.

I would like to say I recommend this series as a way to “tidy up” and purge your home. But I recommend this series for SO MUCH MORE than that. Even if you don’t watch the show, you can use organizing your home as a way to promote the bond between you and your child. You’d be surprised what going through a cabinet of snacks or a toy box of old things can do for your relationship.

It’s brought us so much closer and with the house just about cleaned out and organized, we have been living in a much less cluttered, emotionally overwhelming state overall. I think the organized house helped boost our moods. But the process of getting it there is really what brought us the most “joy”—and even more so because we did it together.

featured image: Matthew Henry via Burst 

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I'm a single mom of three and realtor living in a suburb of Chicago. In my abundant spare time I like to write about parenting, family, divorce and raising a young transgender child. I'm just trying to raise kids who know how to turn off lights when they leave a room. 

A 2016 study published in The Journal of Pediatrics found that nearly 95 percent of new parents misuse car safety seats. You might think you’re the exception—but when it comes to your kid’s safety, it’s better to play it safe than sorry. Here are some of the most common car seat mistakes parents make—and how to fix them.

Recently, Cars.com released its 2018 Car Seat Check Honor Roll, which revealed the results of 85 vehicle safety tests. The site found that only nine percent of the 2018 and 2019 model-year vehicles tested earned perfect scores. Even though some cars are safer than others, choosing the right seat and using the correct installation method are both major parts in the child-car seat safety equation.

For Child Passenger Safety week, we spoke with Cars.com Editor-in-Chief—and certified Child Passenger Safety Technician—Jenni Newman about some of the more common mistakes parents make when it comes to car seats.

Skipping the Manual

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Car seats aren't like IKEA furniture, so a lot of parents just toss the manual. Reading both the manuals for your car seat and your car can help you to keep your baby safe.

According to Newman, "Some automakers don't recommend car seat installation in the middle position of the back seat, for instance." Newman also told us, "You want to make sure you comply with both the automaker's and car-seat maker's recommendations."  

Choosing the Wrong Seat for Your Car

You have a car. You have a car seat. And now you have a perfect pair. Right? Not always.

Newman notes, "Not all car seats will work in all cars." The dimensions of your car's seats may rule out the use of some safety seats. So what should you do if your car and your car seat aren't compatible? Obviously, you could get a new car—but we're pretty sure getting a new car seat is the easier and less expensive option.

Not Asking for Help

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Car seats can be confusing—especially for first-time parents. If you think you probably-sort-of-maybe installed your child's safety seat correctly, it's best to get help from a pro.

Luckily, Sep. 29 is National Seat Check Saturday. The Safe Kids Worldwide website can connect you with a car seat check event in your area. If you can't make it to one of these events, check with your your child's pediatrician or your local police or fire department; they may be able to connect you with a certified passenger safety technician.

Using the Wrong Type of Seat

There are three main types of car seats: rear-facing, forward-facing and booster seats. Each type of seat has a sub-type, such as convertible, all-in-one, rear-facing only or combination. Always follow the guidelines set by the National Highway Safety Administration (NHSTA).

If you're in doubt, ask an expert. A certified child passenger safety technician can make sure that you've chosen the right seat, too.

Switching Positions Too Soon

Switching your child from a rear-facing to front-facing position is a long-awaited rite of passage. What parent doesn't want to see their baby's smiling face in the rear-view mirror. But changing positions too soon can have serious consequences.

The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) recently updated its car seat safety guidelines to recommend that parents keep children rear-facing until the reach the height and weight maximum limits set by their specific car seat manufacturer. For some kids, that could mean they stay rear-facing until up to age 3. 

—Erica Loop

All photos: Courtesy of Amazon

 

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Depression is a serious issue among adolescents. And that’s why the new AAP guidelines call for universal depression screening for teens. What can often seem like teen angst, moodiness or just typical teenage drama may actually be something that requires real medical attention. With one out of every five teenagers experiencing depression, according to the AAP, the updated guidelines are more than welcome.

There’s a problem affecting our teens — and it’s depression. Scratch that. It’s undiagnosed depression. Even though depression is becoming increasingly common in teens, it often goes undetected. Almost half of teens who suffer from depression are diagnosed by doctors. And that’s just not good enough.

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In an effort to cut this stat down, the AAP’s guidelines recommend depression screenings for all children ages 12 and up. This doesn’t mean that only the kids who show signs of depression or are at risk receive services. Nope. ALL teens need screenings.

Depression screenings don’t have to take place in a mental health setting. The annual well-visit, school/sports physicals or any other time that a child sees the doctor are all opportune times to screen.

Instead of face-to-face interviews, many pediatricians choose self-reported surveys that the teen fills out. The use of questionnaires reduces the embarrassment factor and may make a teen less likely to lie or cover-up their feelings.

The hope here is that by encouraging doctors to regularly screen all teens, the medical professionals can catch potential problems early on and provide the help that depressed adolescents desperately need.

What do you think about the new AAP guidelines? Share your thoughts in the comments below.

—Erica Loop

 

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Getting the kiddos to bed is. a. struggle #forreal. But studies show that kids that have an earlier bedtime, (between 6 to 9 p.m.) sleep longer, are healthier, and have stronger cognitive skills compared to children that fall asleep later in the evening.

Studies found that children who sleep later in the evening — 10 p.m. or later — took longer to fall asleep, and were more likely to wake up in the middle of the night. Additionally, the well-rested munchkins don’t just sleep better: they were able to function to a greater degree at school. A study monitored 7 to 11 year-old students, and their sleep cycle. The students who were put to bed an hour earlier for five nights were rated by their teachers (who were unaware of the children’s bedtime) as being less irritable and impulsive than usual.

In another study, researchers reported that 18-month-olds who went to bed before 10 p.m. were at a lower risk for motor, language, and social deficits compared with kids who went to bed later.

So other than better rest and behavior in school, what other health factors can come into play? Well, kids with late bedtimes are more likely to be overweight. One theory is that sleep creates changes to the hormones leptin and ghrelin, which regulate appetite and hunger.

While researchers point out that there is no standardized bedtime for children, they recommend that you try to incorporate an earlier sleep schedule by getting the children ready for bed 20 minutes to an hour earlier. Monitor their behavior the next day, and adjust accordingly.

Learn more at Slate.

Photo: Lars Plougmann via Flickr

What time do your little ones go to bed? Tell us in the comments below!

H/T: Slate

If you have a teething baby, you might need to check their favorite chew toy. Parents are reporting black mold growing inside of the toddler teething toy Sophie the Giraffe. Pediatric dentist and mother of two toddlers, Dana Chianese, said she was cleaning a Sophie the Giraffe toy last month when she smelled something musty coming from a hole on the toy, Good Housekeeping reports. Out of curiosity, she decided to cut her children’s Sophie the Giraffe and found mold growing inside.

Photo: Dana Chianese/ Good Housekeeping

Dana reportedly always cleaned the toy according to the directions – with hot, soapy water applied with a damp sponge and never submerged it into water. “It still hurts my heart to know that for a month I allowed my babies to chew on moldy toys,” she told Good Housekeeping. “I no longer buy any chew toys with a hole or recommend any.”

Another parent on Amazon reviewed the toy and stated “Beware!! If you have a drooly baby, moisture will get in the hole and you’ll end up with mold!”

Photo: Stephanie Oprea via Amazon

Have you taken a look inside your Sophie the Giraffe? Let us know what you find in the comments below!

Photo: Martin Thomas via Flickr

Parents, stop whatever fun activities you thought you needed to do with your kiddos this summer. Psychologists are giving you a break, and recommend that your little ones get bored this season.

Psychologists and child development experts suggest that over-scheduling children during the summer is unnecessary and could ultimately keep kids from from discovering what truly interests them. Lyn Fry, a child psychologist in London with a focus on education, says, “if parents spend all their time filling up their child’s spare time, then the child’s never going to learn to do this for themselves.”

Dr. Teresa Belton, visiting fellow at the University of East Anglia with a focus on the connection between boredom and imagination, told the BBC that boredom is crucial for developing “internal stimulus,” which then allows true creativity.

So what should we do? Nothing?

Experts suggest on working with their children, and make a simple summer bucket list. The activities can be ride a bike, take some pictures, learn a new card game, etc.

Then, when your child (inevitably) comes to you whining, tell them to look at the list and pick something.

Lyn Fry says, “I think children need to learn how to be bored in order to motivate themselves to get things done. Being bored is a way to make children self-reliant.”

Do you think this is true? Let us know in the comments below!

H/T: Quartz