The beginning of the summer brings relaxed days and endless sunshine but for some little ones, the break from the school’s routine and structure can be challenging. Change is difficult for young children, and the transition to summer is a big change. While every child deals with transition differently, parents can minimize the upheaval by helping them manage the shift from the familiar to the unknown.

Here are our top five tips to make the transition to summer as smooth as possible for your little ones.​

1. Celebrate the End of the Year

While the end of the academic year may be bittersweet, it’s a great time to celebrate your children’s achievements, both in and out of the classroom. Take your child out for a fruit popsicle and ask them about their favorite project from school or what they’re looking forward to most about summer. Help them create a memory scrapbook or poster to commemorate what they learned over the school year, all the fun activities they took part in, and the awards they received.

2. Enroll in Summer Camps

Summer camps are an incredibly effective way to add structure children’s summer days and mimic the early morning routine of the school year. It is also a great way for your child to meet new friends, stay socially and intellectually engaged, and explore a new skill or talent. Summer camps also promote independence, cooperation, and teamwork: skills that help children succeed in school.

Can’t find a summer camp that fits your schedule? We’ve got you covered with flexible, engaging summer programming from language immersion to arts intensives to hands-on engineering sessions. Easily search for a passionate educator, invite a few friends, and let us bring a one of a kind summer camp experience to the comfort of your home.

3. Stick to a Schedule

The most challenging part of the transition from school to summer is the lack of daily structure. Creating a summer schedule for your child can mitigate the chaos of a slew of unstructured days. Create a weekly calendar at the beginning of summer and engage children in the planning process. Make sure the calendar is visible to children, and include representative drawings and stickers so children who aren’t yet able to read will know, at a glance, what the day holds.

4. Countdown to Adventure

Summer can be a time of spontaneous adventure. At the beginning of the summer, co-create with your children a list of fun activities to do before the summer ends. Sprinkle your summer calendar with these adventures and countdown to each occasion. This allows children to emotionally prepare for what’s next!

Inviting a few friends from school allows little ones to socialize with children their age while strengthening those relationships.

5. Leave Time for Learning

Just because school is out, doesn’t mean learning should stop. Ask your children what they enjoyed learning in school and brainstorm ways to recreate that experience at home. If they were fascinated by how seeds grow, plant tomatoes at home. If they were enthralled by art, commission an art sculpture made from recycled materials from them. Prevent summer slide by reserving the morning for play-based learning and exploration and the night to read together. Not only will this ease the transition into the summer, but it will also ease the transition out of it as well.

This post originally appeared on Dearest Blog.

I'm an NYC mom who is passionate about early education. I created Dearest to solve the quality issues of child care in the city, by connecting families with a community of educators who can take excellent care of the children while inspiring and teaching them.

The family vacation is often lampooned as a torturous rite of passage—full of backseat bickering, auto (and emotional) breakdowns and the odd smells. While these common adversities do happen, they don’t have to destroy your family’s vacation. In fact, the family vacation still offers plenty of benefits for kids and family bonding.

Family getaways can strengthen bonds through shared experiences and memories—good and bad. Only the family knows how funny Dad’s poolside cannonball is. Or how a flat tire at midnight can inflate fears of being stranded. Vacation experiences like these become part of your family’s collective memory. And they can bring you together or divide you up.

But with a little planning and strategy, you can make sure your family vacation is packed with meaningful moments. Here are some bonding ideas to try during your next family getaway.

Try a New Activity or Sport

Before you leave for your trip, make a list of possible activities or sports that no one has ever experienced. Sharing first times and epic fails builds a collective empathy and appreciation for one another’s efforts. You may want to include your children in constructing the list. Regardless, include enough options to appeal to different interests, but not so many that it invites argument.

Choose activities that have small to medium time investments. All day hikes into the woods may sound exciting, but trekking six miles will over-stretch the group’s interest and energy levels. You’ll end the day with sore feet and grouchy dispositions. Instead, try learning to surf with your teenager. It’s healthy, unscheduled and you look cool even when falling. Or visit a small, quirky museum that’s interesting, yet takes a short time to take in. The point is don’t over commit the group to any one thing, despite how awesome it sounds.

Plan Downtime

Over-scheduling your vacation is what makes it feel like work. Don’t fill every moment with deadlines and must-see sites. Nothing bad will befall your family if you have to forego the Statue of Liberty. Everyone needs time to relax and recharge, so be flexible and schedule plenty of time to veg out.

But if you can’t get over the fear of missing out, combine downtime with something you can do alone as a group. Short naps, watching TV, screen time, reading, snacking or playing board games will let you relax and recharge together. Downtime is the part of your home life you bring on vacation. It connects you to your normal routine, resets the group’s energy and prepares you for the next leg of the trip.

Do Informal Dining

Most vacation plans include plenty of eating out. But formal dining can be a big stressor, especially for parents with young children. The fine china and fancy meals only make a kid’s bad behavior stick out more. Keep formal dining to a minimum, so you’re not ending your five-star meal as a ball of anxiety. Instead, opt for cafe fare or local family restaurants where the vibe is more relaxed.

Better yet, take the opportunity to turn meals into a bonding experience. Pack a picnic and go to the park. Grab some hot dogs, buns and a s’mores kit to cook over an open fire. Order from hotel room service, dress fancy and dine in your hotel room. Get take out and drive to a scenic overview. Pick a local restaurant at random and go on a culinary adventure. Cook a family favorite in your vacation home kitchen.

There are plenty of options for fun and adventurous informal dining. And it’s easier to have a legitimate bonding moment when you don’t have to worry about keeping your elbows off the table.

Build a Vacation Scrapbook

While most families construct their vacation scrapbooks after the fact, creating one while on vacation can foster bonding. Use scrapbooking as an excuse for you and your family to store keepsakes, record memories or post pictures. Organize your scrapbook chronologically or randomly. Divide it into sections by person or event … or not at all. You can construct one from physical materials or build an online scrapbook.

While you should encourage everyone to participate, don’t make it mandatory. That will only equate making memories to “doing homework.” Take a moment to ask your children why they are keeping or recording something. Why is it special to them? What did the experience mean? Use their answers to get to know them better and help them to explore their feelings. And explain your own reasons for including things. Use the opportunity to demonstrate how family traditions are about sharing stories and memories.

Brandon Jarman is a recent Brigham Young University graduate who is currently living In Salt Lake City. When he’s not writing, he enjoys spending time with his family, hiking and eating delicious Mexican food. He and his wife are expecting their first baby at the end of August.

Chronicle special moments of your child’s early days with a beautiful DIY baby memory book your little one (and you!) will treasure. These nine creative ideas for documenting your little one’s momentous start to life will transform a traditional baby book into something extra special.

Save Your Favorite Messages

Mish Mash

When the well wishes pour in after your pregnancy announcement and baby's birth, save screenshots of heartfelt Facebook posts and loving text messages. Visit the Mish Mash blog to see how to create a cool pocket in your scrapbook for holding printouts of your favorite messages.

Create a Year in Review

Life, Love and Lucy

Before you know it, your baby has turned one and time keeps zooming onward. Remember this miraculous year by creating an infographic for your keepsake book with a year in review like this one from Life, Love and Lucy. Include important milestones like number of teeth, favorite books, what makes baby laugh, and which long-distance relatives got baby snuggles.

Design a Month in the Life

Collect

Whether you want to document the month before your baby’s arrival (when you scrambled to finish the nursery, fold the teeny-tiny baby clothes and pack your hospital bag) or your baby’s first days and weeks of life,  Collect is a free app that lets you create a beautiful visual one month at a time.

Remember the Baby Names You Considered

Ritzy Rosebud

You scoured books to create lists (and lists) of potentially perfect names for your baby. Remember your rejected list of monikers with this clever idea from Ritzy Rosebud. Scan your scribbles (use Fontifier to create a font of your actual handwriting) and add the top name contenders to your memory book. Your baby will get a kick of knowing what their name almost was, and you'll have a helpful naming resource if you have another child.

And the Envelope, Please...

Newly Woodwards

Take this tip from the Newly Woodwards blog: Kraft paper envelopes (or homemade envelopes) make the perfect receptacle for saving congratulatory cards, hospital bracelets and other birth day memorabilia right in your memory book.

Once Upon a Time...

Plucky's Second Thought

Every fairytale starts at the beginning, and your story should be no different. This set of free printable pages (found on the Plucky's Second Thought blog) leaves room for you to fill in the sweet reactions to a positive pregnancy test.

Tricks Up Your (Photo) Sleeves

One Lovely Life

Photo sleeves (sometimes called photo pockets) come in a variety of configurations and let you mix precious artifacts with photos and tell-all information cards documenting precious milestones. One Lovely Life provides awesome photo inspiration to get you started.

Track Your Baby Bump

Ritzy Rosebud

Include images of your growing bump in your DIY scrapbook. You and your child will love to look back on your body's amazing transformation. Consolidate your images to a single-page collage, or dedicate a page for each bumpdate like Ritzy Rosebud did.

Create a Visual Time Machine

Mish Mash

Did you battle a 1000 year storm on your way to the hospital? Or was it uncharacteristically sunny on the day your ray of sunshine was born? Consider including images from the newspaper, the weather forecast and even the gossip rags to tell the story of your baby's first days and weeks of life.

—Meghan Meyers

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If you blink, you’ll miss it! With the inevitable closure of both Toys”R”Us and Babies”R”Us on the horizon, retailers everywhere are stepping in to fill the void the toy and baby gurus are leaving. This week, craft giant Michaels is offering a discount when you show your TRU or BRU gift card.

From now until Saturday, May 12 simply bring in your gift cards when you do your craft shopping at Michaels. You’ll receive a $5 discount when you purchase $20 or more!

It’s such a bummer that we are bidding farewell to some of our beloved stores, but this discount is a reminder that it’s time to get creative and look for new places to shop when we need gift and activities.

Michaels is so much more than just a place to buy faux florals and scrapbook paper. Use this coupon to check out tons of fun supplies for crafts like jewelry, beading, painting, Perler beads, foam designs and yarn. The best part? It’s screen free fun and we’ll take all the discounts we can get!

––Karly Wood

 

Feature Photo: Mike Mozart via Flickr

 

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Crafting and outdoor exploration come together with this project—learn how to build a boat that floats and sails. The best part? You’ll only need to buy a couple of supplies because the main part of this barge is made from sticks that you find outside. Read on for the step-by-step instructions and you’ll soon have a ship to sail the high seas (or slow streams).

What You’ll Need

1 piece of paper (patterned scrapbook paper is nice, but plain construction paper also works)

2 craft sticks

string or twine

scissors

hot glue gun

glue stick

14 sticks in similar sizes (5-6 inches long works well)

How to Make the Boat

1. Start by wrapping 12 the sticks together with your twine. We used Kid Made Modern Craft Twine (target.com, $9.99) to add a pop of color, but white string would also work just fine. Tie one end of the twine to the end of one stick and wrap the string around a few more times, then move on to the next stick. Wrap the twine around that stick a few times and then use the same piece of twine to wrap the third stick and so on and so on until 12 of your sticks are connected. (You’ll use two elsewhere.) Don’t worry too much about how many times you loop around or how perfect your wrapping is. Knot off the twine on the last stick. Then, do the same thing on the opposite side of your sticks.

2. Wrap two sticks onto the bottom. Now add two more sticks, one on each end of your boat, to the bottom of your group of sticks. Again, tie a knot on one end of the stick then weave your twine in and out of the connected sticks, looping the twine around each stick and then around the stick on the bottom. Repeat for the second stick.

3. Cut 2 triangles out of your paper. Ours measured 5-inches along the side and bottom, but you may want to adjust based on the length of your sticks. We used Kid Made Modern Print Palooza patterned paper (target.com, $7.99 for 150 sheets). However, if you have plain construction paper, ask your child to decorate it with stickers, crayons, markers, or any other way you like.

4. Add the craft sticks as your mast. Line up the craft sticks along the edge of the triangle to create your mast. Use a hot glue to secure the craft sticks.

5. Glue the triangles together. Ask your child to cover the two triangles with glue, using the glue stick. Then, press them together to complete your sail.

6. Connect the sail to the raft. Slip the craft stick in between two of the sticks in the middle of your boat. Use a piece of twine to wrap around the craft stick and around the two middle sticks until it feels fairly secure. To give it extra support, add hot glue all around the area where the craft stick and twigs come together.

7. Sail your boat. Once the glue has cooled and dried, your craft is ready for its first voyage. Fill a baby pool or other vessel (even the bath tub!) with water and watch your homemade schooner float.

8. Create some wind. Want to get your boat moving faster? Use a straw to blow it across the water.

9. Take it to the park. For further experimentation, we took our model to the park so it could sail in a real stream. Even after several sails and a few capsizes, our sailboat has held up.

Happy sailing!

Project inspired by Minieco’s handmade boats.

Have you crafted any boats with your kid? Tell us about your design in a comment.

–Julie Seguss

 

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LA is filled with parents who work in the entertainment industry, and alongside the cool perks (hello, Frozen screeners!), it also can mean long stretches on location. And our local, dedicated military families are no strangers to this separation struggle. So whether you’ve got a feature to shoot in Mumbai, a casting call in the Big Apple or deployment to the Middle East, we found tips and tricks that help kids cope when parents have to travel.

photo credit: Matthew Hurst via Flickr

Leave a Little “You” Behind
Even if you can’t “physically” be there for your kiddos while you’re traveling, your smiling face can be a great comfort to them while you’re away. For a totally unique twist on a family portrait that will brighten up your tot’s room, check out the adorable custom watercolor portraits by Sophie & Lili. Simply purchase the portrait package you want and email artist, Jennifer Vallez, a festive photo of your family that you’d like recreated. Easy as pie!

Shutterfly is another go-to resource for parents who travel. Personalization is the name of the game here. Print your mug on a mug so the kiddos can admire your face while sipping some special hot chocolate you left behind for them. Create a calendar with hilarious pics of the entire brood and have your tot cross off each day you’re closer to coming home. If your mini-me could use an extra snuggle while you’re gone, Shutterfly can even print pillows and blankets showcasing an image. (Like a picture of you, holding out your arms for a hug.)

One moment your children will likely miss most while you’re out of town is the special bedtime story you share together every night. Hallmark, mad genius that they are, created Recordable Storybooks so you can read to your rugrats whenever, wherever. Classics like Goodnight Moon, Guess How Much I Love You and Disney faves likeToy Story: You Can Count on Me, allow parents to record themselves reading the story as your little one follow along in the accompanying hardcover book.

photo credit: Sophie & Lili on Facebook 

Keep in Touch Tech
Whether you’re catching up on their school day from across the country or you’re reviewing your daughter’s ABC’s in a monster voice that only you can do, Skype and FaceTime have become absolute saviors to parents who travel. Set regular chat dates so you and your babes have something to look forward to.

While you’re jaunting around the globe, family game night may fall by the wayside, but that doesn’t mean you and your giggly gamer can’t still enjoy a some competitive fun. Try playing a turn based mobile app game with your little one from wherever you are. The Flying Alphabetinis is the first turn based multi-player word puzzle game for little ones (think Words with Friends for the small fry set). Just don’t be too surprised when they kick your butt. Another classic game to check out is Connect Four – Four in a Row where players battle it out by taking turns dropping their color checkers into slots on the top of the board. Or if you have a budding artist on your hands, Draw Something might be right up their alley: players take turns guessing what the other is drawing. Better brush up on your Picasso skills, mom and dad.

Generic postcards from the Eiffel Tower or Poughkeepsie Best Western are swell, but for a more personal “I’m thinking of you,” digital postcards are a wonderful alternative. Upload photos from your glamorous travels, personalize a message to your loved ones, add in their mailing address, then let Postcard on the Run do the printing and sending. In a few days, your family will receive a real postcard in the mail. (Yep, real snail mail! Like in colonial times.)

photo credit: Quinn Dombrowski via Flickr

Books to Ease the “Missing You Blues”
The minute you utter the words “business trip,” your kiddos mysteriously come down with a case of the “missing you blues” as evidenced by their tiny death grip on your leg. A few children’s books in particular can help them better cope with any separation anxiety they may be feeling. The Invisible String by Patrice Karst weaves a charming tale about a very special invisible string that binds people from heart to heart, so no matter how far away you might be, you’re always connected. When I Miss You by Cornelia Maude Spelman features a young guinea pig who gets distressed when mom and dad go away on a trip. She not only learns ways to comfort herself, but is reassured that her parents will always return. When Daddy Travels by Harriet Ziefert is a flap book that shares the story of lovable Lily and George who miss their Dad terribly when he travels for work. Tikes can lift the flaps to discover all the ways their Dad keeps in touch while he’s gone.

Sometimes, all a tot needs to feel close to you is a little 411 on the place you’ll be visiting. Miroslav Slasek created a beloved series of kids books over the years highlighting various locales around the world. From This is London to This is Hong Kong to This is New York and many more, Slasek shares his impressions of these exciting places through vibrant illustrations and playful text that will leave your tike begging to read it again and again.

photo credit: Patrice Karst on Facebook

Special Surprises Never Fail
If you’ve got a stack of post-it notes, you have a pile of surprises at the ready. Try writing a simple note to your tot for every day you’ll be gone and leave them in easy to find locations for kids to discover during your absence. Maybe a note in their backpack, lunchbox, sock drawer, under their pillow or in the tub (assuming anyone can convince them to take a bath). Just a little something special to let your babes know they’re on your mind.

Bring back trinkets and treasures from your travels. Kids always dig t-shirts, hats, snow globes and delicious candies. Even the soaps, lotions and potions from your hotel room can make for a great haul.

Before you head off on your journey, leave an empty scrapbook behind for your little one to fill with photos, tickets, stickers, art projects, homework from school – whatever they’re up to you’re away. Explain that you’ll make a scrapbook of your adventures as well to swap with them when you return.

photo credit: Dimitris Siskopoulos via Flickr

Ask your kiddos if you can take their favorite stuffed animal with you on your trip so you don’t get lonely, then email daily photos of their furry pal whooping it up during your travels: having breakfast, attending meetings, sitting in the director’s chair, hitting the beach, watching cartoons from your hotel room, whatever you can come up with. Be creative—it’s a guaranteed hit with your kids!  If they’re too small to sleep without their special “lovey” you can get a doppelganger “stuffed sibling” and bring that look alike on your travels, and they can keep their special friend at home to snuggle while they’re missing you.

What some unique ways you keep in touch with your tots when you have to travel for work? Let us know in the comments section below!

– Jennifer O’Brien

 

 

Our kiddo’s first birthday is one that they’ll, scratch that, we’ll always remember. While our little birthday boy or girl probably won’t recall the cake flavor, who showed up, or the color of the party decorations, at least we’ll have plenty of photos and videos to remember the occasion. And thanks to photographer Cathy Murai, now we can share the pics from one-year-old Wilson’s Suessical birthday party, inspired by the book Oh! The Places You’ll Go! With the help of crafty friends and an awesome party planning team, Wilson’s family was able to pull of this party that blended traditional Korean culture with the wacky and whimsical world of Dr. Seuss. Just take a look at all the hard work that went into this celebration and grab some inspiration for your next DIY party.

Wilson’s parents were inspired by the Dr. Seuss book Oh, The Places You’ll Go! and it’s positive message about the endless possibilities that lie in one’s future. Wilson’s mom says she wants the best for her son, and the themes of Seuss’ book really resonated with her high hopes for Wilson. Using the playful colors from the book, Wilson’s mom and her two party planning superstars, Hanna and Christina from One Sweet Day, took over the banquet room at the Los Coyotes Country Club in Buena Park, transforming it into whimsical playspace for Wilson and all of his party guests.

While the party planning team from One Sweet Day crafted the majority of the decorations at the party, Wilson’s family received lots of help from friends, who also happen to be rather creative and imaginative themselves! They created several of the table toppers, including the yarn balls and felt poms as well as the tablecloths, centerpiece stationary, and the dessert buffet stand. The yellow and teal color scheme came directly from Oh, the Places You’ll Go! as did the font for the photo board, the table decorations, and signage.

To play off the whimsical motif of Seuss’ book, Wilson’s family hired a caricaturist to create wacky and humorous drawings of the party guests and a photo booth complete with silly hats, masks, and jewelry. According to Wilson’s mom, the kids loved getting themselves drawn in a cartoon form but they also really enjoyed taking pictures in the photo booth with all the crazy and kooky props.

Wilson’s family also wanted to blend some traditional Korean activities into Wilson’s party. The Korean doljabi game involves laying out certain objects before the birthday boy or girl and based on what he or she picks, reveals something about their future talents or career paths. It’s amazing how perfectly this traditional game fit in with the themes of Seuss’ book, and by the looks of things, everyone was pleased with Wilson’s choice.

The party was a big hit with the littler partygoers, and as a way for guests to share their memories of Wilson’s special day, each was invited to create their own page in a scrapbook for Wilson. Using pictures from the photo booth, markers, and stickers, they went all out designing beautiful and memorable pages to let Wilson know how much fun they had at his party.

Before the guests left the party, they were given a Dr. Seuss floor puzzle and book to take home. We love the colored bottle vases filled with flowers that look like they jumped right off the pages of a Dr. Seuss book.

Wouldn’t it be nice if we all had friends who could craft like Martha Stewart? When we asked Wilson’s mom how she was able to organize such an awesome party she said that internet research was her go-to resource for ideas (read: Pinterest). She gathered all the ideas and inspiration herself and was able to find friends and party planners who made her dream a reality. With all that pressure off the hostess, she was able to spend quality time with Wilson preparing for his special day. We can only imagine what Wilson’s mom has in store for the next party!

Like this story if you’re inspired to throw a Dr. Seuss party for your kiddo. What is your favorite part of this amazing party?

— Scott Wardell

A very special thanks to Cathy Murai photography for all of the amazing photos!

Flush with all the toys and clothes your tot could ever want? Consider throwing a present-free party for your child’s next birthday. You might have tried doing this in the past, but found that folks like getting something to commemorate a wee one’s birthday and have a hard time showing up emptyhanded. So if you feel your guests’ presence is truly the only present your child requires, you may need to suggest some alternatives.

One fun option is a book exchange. Ask invitees to wrap a book without a gift tag and take it to the party. This works with new books, or you can specify that they bring gently-used books. At the end of the festivities, each child selects a wrapped gift to take home. There’s no need for party favors, and everyone has fun getting a chance to give and receive. We love this example (and photo above) from mom blogger Jennie Dixon.

Another idea you’ll enjoy for years to come, is asking guests to bring a letter to the birthday boy or girl in lieu of a present. More than cards, letters will give your friends and family a chance to express their personal thoughts and wishes. You’re bound to get a range of funny and heart-warming sentiments. Save them as they are, or get creative and use them as components for a scrapbook or time capsule.

For an activity-based idea, request that children bring beads to the party instead of a gift. Set up a kid-sized craft table with plastic lacing string, and combine all the beads in a bucket. Everyone’s contribution makes a fun party-time project. Plus, each child heads home with a special friendship necklace or bracelet.

Older kids will understand the importance of having guests donate the money they would have spent on a gift to a charity instead. Take some time to talk to your birthday celebrant about the organization they’d like to support. Some charities that are geared toward the needs of children—such as the Make-A-Wish Foundation, Ronald McDonald House Charities, or Big Brothers Big Sisters—may really resonate with your little one. Or, if there’s something happening in the news that they keep hearing about (i.e. Haiti), they’ll feel a connection to that. Then you can all feel better about having used their birthday as an opportunity to help others.

—Kristen McClusky