Regular attendance at school is vital to ensure a student’s academic success, as well as their future health and yet more than 6.5 million U.S. kids miss more than 15 days of school each year. The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) hopes to change that with new guidelines to prevent chronic absenteeism in schools.

According to the AAP, missing a lot of school not only leads to poor academic performance, but it can also increase the risk of unhealthy behaviors as teens and adults, such as smoking and substance use. This is why the AAP is recommending that preventative steps be taken in treating chronic absenteeism as a health risk.

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The new AAP report, “The Link Between School Attendance and Good Health,” highlights some effective steps to help improve attendance at schools, including proper hygiene and hand-washing, school-located vaccination programs and access to nurses and counselors. Some of the AAP recommendations to pediatricians are:

  • Stressing the importance of regular attendance starting in preschool by checking school absences with parents at well-visits;
  • Encouraging parents to make the school nurse aware of any health concerns;
  • Providing clear guidance on when kids should stay home due to illness and when it’s safe to go to school;
  • Avoiding writing medical excuses for absences when they are not necessary and encouraging parents to send kids back to school as soon as they are all enough.

Check out the full report for more recommendations here.

—Shahrzad Warkentin

 

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For those of you needing motivation, a kickstart, or a fire under your buttto get out there and “kill it’ in 2019—this post isn’t for you. 

For those of you who are tired and just want to love yourself now the way you are, this post is absolutely for you and for me. Resolve to change nothing in 2019. Resolve to let yourself off the hook. Resolve to feel joy NOW—not “When I can…When I have… or when I am…”  

I have made New Year’s resolutions the majority of my time on this planet. Some successful, some not. Most of them revolving around weight loss, getting fit and overall outward aesthetics. The past couple of years I have resolved to not change. I have let myself off the hook. At most, I’ve taken a moment to smile and tell myself “feel more joy this year”‚but no goals, no steps and mostly, .no beating myself up when I’m not successful.   

This change came about when I entered my ’30s and noticed that what I want the most, is to be kind to myself. Historically, I have struggled with too many negative thoughts, feelings and overall bull-shirt I told myself. So now, every January I un-resolve and just allow myself to be.   

Be content. Be joy. Be peace.   

If you need it, here is your permission to just be and love yourself in 2019. You are doing just fine. Your kids are fine. We are all doing the best we can.   

Every first of January I listen as others begin their journeys and I exhale. I breathe out, smile and tell myself, I am doing great. To be clear, anyone reading this post could easily peer into my life and find numerous things that could use improvement. I could be “fitter” or “tighter.” I could spend less money. I could fold more laundry and drink less gin. However, the point is, I am already content with myself now, just the way I am.  

Remember that line from Bridget Jones Diary—when Mark Darcy tells Bridget, “I like you, very much. Just as you are.”  It rocks her world to be liked, just as she is. A slightly “pudgy”, drinking, smoking swearing, mess of a women. We can all be our own Mark Darcy’s. Like yourself now, just as you are. 

Resolve to let all the B.S. and “shoulds” go. I am on year three of my resolution to have no resolution and I can assure you it does not grow old. Every year I start out loving myself the way I am. It is the best resolution I never made. So, here is to you, just as you are, in 2019. 

Mary Elizabeth Tellefson
Tinybeans Voices Contributor

I am a single mom in my 30s living life with as much joy and gratitude as I can with my two crazy, adorable and precious girls. We love to sing loud, play big and snuggle hard. We love tacos and donuts and making each other laugh. 

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After decades of diligent research, a 75 year Harvard study that involved over 700 people and generations of researchers has finally found the answer to a fundamental question. What makes people’s lives fulfilling and happy? Despite the long road to reach it, the answer is very simple: love.

The Grant and Glueck study tracked two groups of men from 1939 to 2014: 456 poor men growing up in Boston’s inner city and 268 Harvard graduates. Over the years, the men studied have led all kinds of different lives, including lawyers, doctors, alcoholics, and even one very famous Harvard graduate, President John F. Kennedy. Those who are still alive are now in their 90s.

The study, which is ongoing and has evolved over the years to include the wives and children, has revealed many different findings, like the most important thing to do in order to age well is avoid smoking. The key thing that they discovered over the years, however, was that health and well-being were most influenced by relationships, especially the ones with spouses.

In a TED Talk on the subject, Dr. Robert Waldinger, the study’s current director said, “Those good relationships don’t have to be smooth all the time. Some of our octogenarian couples could bicker day in and day out. But as long as they felt that they could really count on the other when the going got tough, those arguments didn’t take a toll on their memories.”

In other words, cherish your significant other, but don’t sweat the small stuff. As long as you have a strong, loving relationship, the battles over who changed the baby last and whose turn it is to take out the trash are secondary when it comes to being happy.

Do you think love is the key to happiness? Share your thoughts in the comments!

Two years, $69 million and an additional 50,000 square feet later, the Queens Museum reopened its doors earlier this month to reveal a new and greatly improved cultural center. It’s bigger, better and fun for kids. Keep reading to find out why.

What’s New

Where an indoor ice skating rink once stood, a huge open-air gallery now dominates underneath a 48-foot-high atrium, which showers the area with natural light. A series of galleries surround the old ice skating area, full of works by both international and local artists. The museum has also opened a new café on the first floor, which serves tasty sandwiches and pastries.

What Kids Will Love

The museum’s crown jewel is still what it was before its makeover: the Panorama of the City of New York. This 9,000-square-foot architectural model of all five boroughs will elicit oohs and ahhs from everyone in your family. Kids can walk around the model on elevated walkways and watch as tiny airplanes take off from LaGuardia Airport, point out their favorite skyscrapers, and maybe even spy a miniaturized version of their apartment building.

Peter Schumann’s exhibit “The Shatterer” features two large-scale installations, which feature puppetry, drawing and papier-mâché sculpture. The artwork is completely drained of color, and entering the exhibit space is a bit like walking into a black and white movie. Kids will be wowed by the larger-than-life cartoonish animals and people and enjoy flipping through oversized handmade books on display.

Located on the second floor, An Inclusive World” is a traveling group exhibition that brings together self-taught and formally trained artists. Kids will get a kick out of Issa Ibraham’s Super Supper, which imagines superheroes in Leonardo da Vinci’s Last Supper. They’ll also dig the odorama of Vida Sabbaghi’s Untitled (face 1), which is a bas relief made out of spent cigarette butts. One whiff is better than any public service announcement on the harmful effects of smoking.

Hands on Fun for the Whole Family

Executive Director Tom Finkelpearl is a big-time tennis table fan and, for the inaugural weekend, installed ping pong tables in the museum. Set up outside the Panorama area, kids and adults can squeeze in a few games between visiting exhibits. And if they’re lucky, the kids can challenge Mr. Finkelpearl to a game. (No word yet if the ping pong tables will be a permanent fixture, but we hope so!)

The Queens Museum will continue to hold its weekly drop-in family workshop on Sundays from 1:00 pm to 5:00 pm. From building monsters to designing city blocks or making puppets, in these classes, kids use the Museum’s artwork as a jumping-off point for their creations. No advance registration is necessary (yay!).

What’s Next

In 2015, both kids and parents can expect to see a new library branch that will be housed within the museum – the first of its kind. And coming this April, mom, dad, and other art connoisseurs can look forward to the exhibit Andy Warhol’s Most Wanted Paintings, which caused a sensation when they were first displayed at the 1964 World’s Fair almost 50 years ago.

Getting There

The museum is located within the 898-acre Flushing Meadows Corona Park. Smack dab in front of the 12-story-high, fountain-encircled Unisphere, the museum is walking distance from playgrounds, skateboard parks, and soccer fields.

Queens Museum
New York City Building
Flushing Meadows Corona Park
Queens, Ny
Phone: 718-592-9700
Hours: Wed. to Sun.: 12 p.m. to 6 p.m.
Cost: Suggested: $8/adults, free/kids under 12.
 
Have you been to the Queens Museum? What’s your family’s favorite exhibit?
 

–Alice Perry

All photos courtesy of Alice Perry, except photo number six courtesy of Queens Museum.

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