Preparing for a new baby can be overwhelming, even when you’ve been around the block once before. There’s the gear you need to get, the plans to put in place, and the tiny but potentially troublesome task of telling your firstborn. Looking to head off any early sibling rivalry? Introduce your child to the concept of a sibling with some of these books all about bringing a new baby home. They make becoming a big brother or sister seem like your family’s next big adventure.

The Sister Book by Todd Parr
This simple and oh-so-sweet read details all different kinds of sisters, with kid-friendly illustrations to accompany each. “Some sisters like to be dressy. Some sisters like to be messy.” The book just released this spring and features plenty of cameos by baby sisters and even a spot to attach of photo of the young reader’s sister.

Available at amazon.com, $12.17.

Babies Don’t Eat Pizza: A Big Kids’ Book About Baby Brothers and Baby Sisters by Dianne Danzig, illustrated by Debbie Tilley
Big siblings get a legit education on what to expect when a little one enters the picture, with words like “uterus,” “umbilical cord” and “adopt” introduced in this detailed picture book. Danzig covers it all from snacktime to sleepytime, and the crying in between, all with a small dose of humor, while keeping the big sibling an important part of the plot.

Available at amazon.com, $8.15.

You Were the First by Patricia MacLachlan, illustrated by Stephanie Graegin
Parents will appreciate the literary walk down memory lane this book provides, from baby’s first smile to throwing a ball and everything in between. The narrative ends with the possibility that another baby may join the family, sleeping in the same “basket with the yellow ribbon wound round.” It’s a touching image and one that gently introduces the idea of a younger sibling.

Available at amazon.com, $14.69.

A Name for Baby by Lizi Boyd
The writing is as beautiful as the illustrations in this sweet story about finding the perfect name for a baby mouse. “A name has to hum. I’ll listen for one,” goes this breezy tale as animals come to visit, each with a new name suggestion. Nature lovers will delight in this new release from early summer.

Available at amazon.com, $12.32.

How to Grow a Dinosaur by Jill Esbaum, illustrated by Mike Boldt
Ideal for little kids who love to be silly, this 2018 release weighs the good and the bad of having a new baby in the house, with plenty of nods to the dino-adoring set. Cartoon-like illustrations and big, bold words are attention-grabbing for toddlers at its best.

Available at amazon.com, $12.75.

There’s Going to Be a Baby by John Burningham, illustrated by Helen Oxenbury
Listen in on an ongoing conversation between a mother and her young son in this book about a baby’s impending arrival. The little boy wonders aloud about what is to come, with equal parts curiosity and concern that children will relate to with ease. The illustrations have an almost retro-like quality and are sure to spark conversations between parent-child reading partners.

Available at amazon.com, $7.99.

Mama’s Belly by Kate Hosford, illustrated by Abigail Halpin
Get ready to say “aww” as you page through this mother-daughter story full of love and expectation. It covers many of the real aspects of pregnancy, including a disappearing lap (much to the older sibling’s dismay) and a mom whose back hurts and who is too tired to play. But older kids will find relief in discovering that the big sister doesn’t have to share her blanket with the baby; they’ll simply make a new one for her.

Available at amazon.com, $11.06.

I Am Helpful by Suzy Capozzi, illustrated by Eren Unten
This book for early readers will capture the attention of a slightly older child (4-6 years) and illustrate the important role they will play in the home when a new baby enters the picture. The effect will inspire confidence and perhaps even problem-solving in big siblings managing such a special life adjustment.

Available at amazon.com, $9.79.

The New Small Person by Lauren Child
Kids can relate to the jealousy and frustration felt by Elmore Green in this read-aloud book. Elmore goes from being the most important and charming person in his house to having to share space and attention on a daily basis. His annoyance is made abundantly clear…until things change one night when he’s sharing his bedroom and wakes up from a nightmare. “It was nice to have someone there in the dark when the scaries were around,” he says.

Available at amazon.com, $10.78.

Hello in There!: A Big Sister’s Book of Waiting by Jo Witek, illustrated by Christine Roussey
Does your child love an interactive reading experience? This oversized and charmingly illustrated book lets little ones lift the flaps to reveal a gradually growing baby hanging out in mom’s burgeoning belly.

Available at amazon.com, $11.42.

—Whitney C. Harris

featured image: sathyatripodi via Pixabay

 

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January is National Bath Safety Month, so now is a good time for a few tips on keeping baby safe in the bathtub. Babies are wiggly little people. They don’t follow instructions and when they’re all wet, they become slippery, wiggly little people! Not all babies love baths, but most do and as long as you follow a few rules for tub time, you will too.

Sponge bathing is the right place to begin

There is a lot to be said for a good sponge bath for newborns. After all, they don’t have the ability to regulate their body temperatures very well so a full immersion might be more than they can handle! Sponge bathing allows you to keep baby warm with towels and only wash the parts that need it: face, diaper area, and hands.

Full immersion isn’t recommended until the umbilical cord stump falls off anyway, as it is best to keep that area dry to avoid complications like infection. Wait the week or two it will take for the stump to dry up and fall off before considering a full bath for baby.

Moving on to a baby bath is your next step

When you and baby are ready to move beyond sponge bathing, the next best bet is a baby sized bath. Whether you put a baby bath in the tub or go directly to the kitchen sink, choose a warm environment and make sure that you can can stand or sit comfortably. Attempting to get the baby out of the bath if you’re awkwardly positioned could be dangerous! Remember: slippery and wiggly!

Babies don’t need a daily bath; in fact, too many baths can dry out their skin. Every few days, fill up a baby tub or the kitchen sink with around three or four inches of warm water. Why a baby bath? A standard bathtub is hard to manage until baby can sit up. A baby tub will give you the ability to control the water depth and baby’s movements, with its gentle slope.

  • Have a hand supporting the head and neck as you slip them in, feet first. They can get used to the water more easily this way, which is less likely to trigger crying!
  • Start washing at the top and work your way down; and don’t use too much soap, as it can be drying. Less is more in this case.
  • When done, lift them out the same way they went in and get them wrapped up in a warm, snuggly towel.
  • Don’t let bath time run long: the water will cool quickly and baby won’t enjoy that!

Since you can’t step away from a baby in a bath for even a second—children have drowned in less than an inch of water!—have all the things you’ll need handy:

  • Towels; more than one is a good idea… just in case!
  • A thermometer designed for baths, to make sure that the water temperature isn’t too hot or too cold.
  • A soft face cloth for washing all the parts.
  • Mild, baby formula soap.
  • A plastic cup for pouring water on their heads and on their bodies throughout the bath, which helps keep them warm.
  • A shampoo cap, which keeps the soap out of your baby’s eyes when rinsing.
  • A bath toy, for older kids.
  • Fresh diaper and clothes.

When can you transition baby to a standard tub?

When your baby can sit without being held up, you can transition to a regular tub. They are still wiggly and slippery though, so you still need to be very careful before, during and after!

With all these tips, both you and your baby can enjoy bath time—safely.

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Geneuviève Thibault
Tinybeans Voices Contributor

Geneuviève Thibault is the co-founder of bblüv baby essentials. Geneuviève and her husband launched bblüv to provide thoughtfully created, well-designed, safe and durable baby products that will make life simpler for the modern parent.

Did you know that newborns in Finland head home in cardboard boxes and babies in Japan partake in crying competitions? While women worldwide may share the common experience of childbirth filled with excitement, joy, discomfort and exhaustion, the way babies are celebrated after birth varies greatly in different countries and cultures. Here are a dozen unique birth customs to explore.

Photo: Courtesy of Finnbin

1. Find the Best Freebies in Finland
With one of the lowest infant mortality rates in the world, the Finnish government has figured out that providing cardboard boxes, complete with soft bedding, clothing, diapers and other baby necessities has been the key. Babies have a safe place to sleep and expectant mamas are given an incentive to get prenatal care, (they have to pick up their box at their prenatal appointment). It’s a win-win for all. Wish you could have one? Move to New Jersey, the first US state to hand out free baby boxes in an effort to lower the infant mortality rate. Or, buy your own cardboard baby box from Finnbox. For $450 it’s stocked with everything from Baby’s layette to toys to must-have health items like a thermometer and nail clippers.

2. Polynesian Super First Birthday Parties
If you thought first birthday parties were getting out of control in your hometown, let us tell you that first birthday celebrations are an even bigger deal in Hawaii. In Polynesian cultures this major milestone is marked with a first birthday luau, which can include hundreds of partygoers, with attendees bringing a gift of money for the guest of honor.

3. Free Help in Holland
For the first eight to ten days after the baby is born, mothers in Holland receive “Kraamzorg,” paid for by the government. Kraamzorg is when a nurse comes to the home and helps with the baby, giving tips on breastfeeding, baby care, doing laundry, light housework and preparing meals. The care giver also helps take care of other children in the house. The goal of the care provider is to support the mom while she recovers. How amazing does that sound?

Photo: Maria del Carmen Calatrava Moreno via Flickr

4. Japanese Crying Competitions
Babies are celebrated in Japan by partaking in an event called “Nakizumo.” Babies compete against each other to see who cries first. It is believed that babies who cry a lot are healthier than those who don’t and will grow a lot faster. It gives a whole new meaning to the phrase “cry baby.”

 

5. Enjoy Solo Recovery in Malaysia
Women in Malaysia experience 44 days of confinement after they give birth. It’s called “Pantang.” While they’re in Pantang, they sit by the fire, apply hot stones and oils to their bodies and bind their bellies using “benkung.” These practices are thought to aid in the mother’s healing process.

6. More Rest for Mexican Mamas
Similar to Malaysia, women in Latin America observe “La Cuarentena.” For a period of six weeks, they are prohibited from sex, physical activity and some types of foods. Family members and friends step in to take care of the household duties and allow the mom to recover and heal without worry.

Photo: Whitney Lauren via Flickr

7. Baby’s First Head Shave in India
Hindus shave their baby’s heads at some point in the first year, believing that it removes any bad luck from a previous life. It’s also believed that shaving the head helps promote brain development. A tuft of hair is left at the front of the head to protect Baby’s memory.

8.Placenta Planting in Brunei
The umbilical cord and placenta are treated with reverence and respect in Brunei. After the birth, they are wrapped in a white sheet and buried near a tree or flowering plant by a male relative. They believe the fertility of the woman is connected to the treatment of the placenta and umbilical cord.

9. A Twist on Gift Giving in Brazil
It is customary in Brazil for the woman who just gave birth to give gifts to those who come to visit her and the new baby. Usually such gifts are small like candies or small souvenirs and are chosen by the mom-to-be before her due date.

Photo: Carsten ten Brink via Flickr

10. Nicknames Rule in Bhutan
Babies in Bhutan are named by a local priest 3 days after birth. Interestingly, last names don’t exist in Bhutan and all the first names have religious significance and are not gender specific. You can imagine that this leads to lots of identical names and possible confusion. Thankfully everyone uses nicknames.

11. Baby’s Eighth Day In Israel
The “Brit Milah” is a Jewish custom that occurs between sunrise and sunset on the eighth day after the male baby is born. The baby boy is circumcised by a Mohel, with family and friends in attendance. This ritual is followed by a celebratory meal.

12. Toasting New Moms in Turkey
New moms in Turkey rely on a traditional drink called Lohusa Şerbeti to help get their milk supply going. Translated, the word means “post-partum sherbert.” It is made with sugar, cloves and cinnamon and is served to guests who come to visit the baby as well.

The ways that different cultures and countries celebrate babies is quite diverse! What are some ways that you celebrated the birth of your baby? Please share.

-Sarah Blight