It was January 4th, 2020 at 9 a.m. I’m sitting in my robe on my bed, no pants, messy hair everywhere, staring over my bulbous baby belly at my outstretched hands. My hands are now significantly more swollen than they were yesterday. There is a stiffness in my finger joints that I had started to feel the day previous but it had doubled overnight as I slept. 

I was concerned. I typed daily for work and this swelling was going to make life mildly frustrating. Pregnant women balloon up all the time though, right? At 35 weeks along during my first pregnancy, it made sense that my tiny body’s process of packing on the pounds had finally moved away from my butt and thighs to other parts of me that had been awaiting increased thickness.

I ended up posting a question on Facebook asking for advice from my fellow moms about how to reduce swelling because I had been experiencing this strange hand swelling and stiffness over the past 48 hours.

I eventually got up and waddled to the bathroom as expecting mamas are known to do. While taking care of business, my bestie Jonathan (not a mom or parent, but a trained medic) texted me an article about various causes of pregnancy swelling. Within the article near the end, the term preeclampsia was mentioned as well as its symptoms. It’s a high blood pressure complication that can lead to serious harm to the baby and mother.

I felt my gut metaphorically drop as my baby girl literally kicked around. I apparently had more pain and correlated symptoms with preeclampsia than just sudden swelling and stiffness resulting in dexterity reduction. Preeclampsia is most often experienced by women starting in the 34th week or in the later weeks leading up to full term. Preclampsia can also cause pain in the upper right side of the torso as well as lead to nausea. Oh snap.

I often experienced pain in my right side near my ribs but had always attributed it to baby pressing on my ribs with her little feet. Was I wrong in this assessment?

The past two days I had been consistently nauseous. Should I be taking my queasy tummy more seriously as an issue?

I was definitely in the range of time where preclampsia could hit at 35 weeks.

And my hand swelling was definitely its own unique kind of awful.

So, what do I do as an anxious individual with all these new scary worries swirling through my head? I go stare at my body in our bathroom’s full-length mirror.

Lo and behold, I noticed that my shins looked thicker. And then my feet. They were puffy too. Hmmm. I tested out my toes and ankle joints. Stiff just like my hands. I tried moving everything around. Alas, my knees and elbows were stiff during movement too! Eeep! TOO MANY COINCIDENCES.

Must not panic.

Back on my bed, I stared at my phone for at least five minutes. I hate phone calls and also asking for help. Both make me feel awkward and embarrassed. Alas, my next step required me to do BOTH.

I called my hospital’s triage center and spoke to the on-call doctor about all that I had been experiencing within the past 48 hours as well as my discovery that they suspiciously lined up with preeclampsia—hence the call. WHAT DO I DO????

She honestly wasn’t too concerned and didn’t think I needed to drive over for testing.

BUT. She did advise me that if I was still feeling anxious or paranoid about possibly having preeclampsia to go do one simple thing:

Go to your local pharmacy and use their free blood pressure checking machine!

Her pro advice: If my reading’s top number was over 140, or the bottom number was over 90, that meant that my blood pressure was too high and it was necessary to head on over to the hospital.

But if my BP reading was under the numbers she had specified, I would save myself the hassle of having to pay a hospital triage bill for a false alarm.

So, off to the drugstore I went.

And, it turns out, my blood pressure was fine. Hallelujah!

I was just finally packing on those pounds and swelling as mothers generally do… but really late in the game.

Lesson learned? It is always appropriate to call your provider with questions, no matter how silly, panicked, or complicated your question may be. If it’s about a symptom you’re dealing with you may very well be catching something early! But most of the time your pregnancy paranoia will be assuaged instead.

I am a first time mom entering into parenthood with my sweet husband as our baby girl is due on February 10, 2020. I love to write and have turned my hobby into a freelance career creating content  such as blog posts, news updates, and newsletters for small businesses!

Eleven-year-old Sasha Bogosian was diagnosed with cerebral palsy at birth and has spent a big part of her life receiving treatment at Children’s Hospital Los Angeles. She hasn’t let her challenges stop her from pursuing her dreams, however, and thanks to her artwork she has managed to raise thousands for the hospital through The Sasha Project LA.

When she was nine years old Sasha underwent a procedure that put her in an ankle-to-hip cast for 60 days. To keep her occupied during that time, Sasha’s mom Isabell taught her how to paint on clothing. Her new found skill quickly transformed into a passion and Sasha began to paint custom jeans.

Sasha didn’t stop there, however. She wanted to help other patients with her new passion and, together with her mom, she established The Sasha Project LA, a non-profit raising funds for CHLA’s art therapy programs. For a donation Sasha will handpaint your jeans or other denim item and all of the proceeds go to the Mark Taper-Johnny Mercer Artists Program at CHLA, which allows patients and their families the chance to express themselves through dance, drama, visual arts and music.

Sasha’s art work has caught the attention of many celebs who have ordered her custom designs. Now something of a celebrity herself, Sasha and her mom Isabell are starring in a new web series, Real Moms, which follows the stories of ten moms who bond through raising children with life-altering medical conditions.

—Shahrzad Warkentin

All photos: Courtesy of The Sasha Project LA

 

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The ‘80s called and said “remember how awesome your fanny pack was, why not put them on your shoes?” Or something like that. A new line of Crocs with fanny packs has just been released and now you can wear your shoes and carry stuff too.

The Crocs, which are the result of a collab with cult Japanese clothing line Beams, feature a tiny nylon, zip-top fanny pack attached to the ankle strap of classic-style Crocs. The ankle strap can also be flipped over so that the pouches sit on top of your shoes.

The pouches are designed to hold small items, like keys or cash, so they won’t do much good for stashing those wipes and diapers, but if you’re going for a quick stroll and need your hands free for the kids, they could come in handy.

The fanny-pack Crocs are available in two colors, Ultraviolet and Tropical Teal, on the Beams site for or 5940 yen, or about $53 per pair.

—Shahrzad Warkentin

All photos: Beams

 

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Sometimes all a little one needs is something snuggly and soft, like an Abby Hatcher Fuzzly friend! Create your own Fuzzly inspired by Nickelodeon’s Bozzly. Tune in Weekdays on Nickelodeon for more Abby Hatcher.

Required Supplies

  • Colorful Sock
  • Stuffing
  • Hot Glue Gun
  • Mini Pom Poms
  • Felt Squares
  • Black Marker or Puff Paint

Steps

  1. Gather the required supplies to have handy.
  2. Fill the sock with stuffing and then fold back the ankle portion of the sock and attach with hot glue, enclosing the stuffing.
  3. Using felt and scissors, cut out ears, eyes, arms and legs. Hot glue into place.
  4. Choose pom poms to glue on for eyes and nose. Use a marker to draw on any other details!
  5. Use extra stuffing or felt to create a fun tail for your Fuzzly and attach with hot glue.
  6. Create any additional accessories out of felt for your Fuzzly and enjoy!

Image courtesy of Spin Master Entertainment

Before your tot ventures out into the snow, check to see what they’re wearing on their feet, because a recent Target toddler boot recall may impact your little’s next snowy adventure.

According to a representative from Target, “Target is committed to providing high quality and safe products to our guests. Earlier this week, Target voluntarily recalled Cat & Jack Chiara Unicorn Ankle Fashion Boots because of the safety concerns identified in the CPSC press release.” So if your kiddo has this rainbow footwear at home, read on for more information.

Recall Description: Target Cat & Jack Chiara Unicorn Ankle Fashion Boots

The current recall involves the unicorn style boots in sizes 5 to 13 and size 1. The boots are lined with white faux fur, have a white zipper and are unicorn-themed. Look for a silver glitter horn and similarly sparkly inner ears. The boots also have pink, purple and blue faux fur beneath the unicorn’s horn and multi-hued stripes on the back.

Why the Boots Were Recalled

The CPSC issued the recall following four separate reports of the unicorn’s horn detaching. While there are no known injuries as of now, the detached horn presents a potential choking hazard.

How to Tell If Your Child’s Boot Are Part of the Recall

Along with the description above, look for the model number “TARGET0930156XX” on the inside tag. The “XX” corresponds to the boot’s size. For a full list of recalled item numbers, visit the CPSC’s website here.

The boots were sold in Target stores, online and on Google Express between October 2018 and November 2018.

What Parents Can Do

Do not allow your child to wear the boots. Return the recalled item to any Target retail location for a full refund. If you have questions about the recall, contact Target at 800-440-0680 from 7 a.m. to 8 p.m. Central, daily. You can also visit Target.com and click on “Recalls” or visit the retailer’s Facebook page for more information.

—Erica Loop

Photos: Courtesy of the Consumer Product Safety Commission

 

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Let’s face it: there’s a lot you can’t do when you’re nursing. Taking a shower, cooking a meal or cleaning the bathroom are pretty much impossible. But there are still ways to be productive while feeding your little one. Here are 10 ways to multi-task during your next bottle or breastfeeding session.

Photo Fun

If you’re anything like me, the camera roll on your phone is basically an endlessly scrolling montage of your child’s adorable face. Are you backing up those photos? Just think how upset you’d be to lose that image of junior’s first smile, tooth or haircut. An app like Google Photos allows you to save your pictures online so they’ll still be accessible if something happens to your phone. You can also create and share albums in the app—yes, you can do this one-handed while you nurse!

Making a List, Checking It Twice

Maybe it’s not glamorous, but I find that breastfeeding is the perfect time to make a grocery or Target list. I use the Notes section on my phone to type out what I need (diapers, inevitably). Plus, I can just copy, paste and email the list to my husband if he’s on errand duty.

Tune In

There are days when I desperately need to hear another adult voice. Enter the podcast. In a matter of seconds, I’m launched out of my messy living room and into the (equally messy) world of politics … or I immerse myself in culture, comedy, self-help advice or more. Plus, the number of podcasts about raising kids continues to grow. Get started by downloading “The Longest Shortest Time,” “Coffee + Crumbs” and “The Shameless Mom Academy.”

Best Sellers

Put down the phone and pick up a book… or a magazine, newspaper or Kindle! Nursing is a great time to relax with a good read. Before my daughter was born, I felt guilty when books took me away from washing dirty dishes, paying bills, prepping meals or all the other tasks on my never-ending to-do list. But now I tuck into the latest bestseller guilt-free as my hungry newborn eats. Paperbacks, I’ve found, are supremely easy to hold in one hand.

Sweat Sesh

People work out on airplanes, so why not while nursing? Try a few simple exercises to get the blood moving. I recommend ankle, neck and shoulder rolls, followed by a gentle twist to each side. Then go for a figure four: Bend one leg so the ankle rests on the knee of your opposite leg and lean over to stretch your glutes. If you’re feeling extra ambitious, hold tight to your baby as you stand and squat 10 times. Finish it all off with your Kegels.

Nom Nom Nom

I had no idea that breastfeeding would make me so dang thirsty. I keep a water bottle on each side of my glider to encourage constant hydration. Whether you’re breastfeeding or bottle feeding, follow your child’s example and use that time to eat and drink. Who knows when you’ll get another chance to chow down, what with changing diapers, overseeing tummy time and so on. Keep a stash of granola bars or nuts in reach, put a spoon in an open yogurt container in the fridge, grab a string cheese on your way to nurse and make sure you keep your water bottles filled.

Dear Diary

Those first few months of your baby’s life are such a magical time, but figuring out how to care for this new person is often exhausting. Your reserves are tapped. You’re not sleeping. And yet, when you look back on this period in the future, you may wonder how time went so fast. Preserve these special days by making a video or audio diary. It’s as simple as using a voice memo app on your phone. As your baby eats, record a few thoughts about him or her, what you’ve been thinking and feeling, or anything else that comes to mind.

Clear the Clutter

You might be metaphorically chained to your chair when nursing, which makes it difficult to do any “actual” cleaning. However, this limitation doesn’t extend to your cellphone. When was the last time you took a cold, hard look at your contacts and apps? You probably don’t need the phone number of your friend’s cousin whom you met years ago or the contact information for the shuttered takeout place down the street. As for apps, be ruthless about which ones you actually use and delete the rest. One bonus from this clutter-clearing exercise? More storage space for photos of your darling kiddo.

Reach Out

Now that you’ve culled your contacts, it makes sense to reach out to some of the folks who made the cut. Pick up the phone and give them a ring. Get ready to share stories of your little one’s latest exploits, and don’t forget to ask what’s happening in their lives, too!

Blissful Adoration

Okay, so maybe gazing wonderingly at your baby while you feed him or her might not always feel productive. But there’s also nothing wrong with redefining the meaning of “productive,” especially when you have a newborn. You’re keeping this tiny human alive with milk or formula—what’s more productive than that? So take a moment or two (or 10) to bask in this single and singular task before tackling the other items on this list.

Featured Photo Courtesy: Keiko Zoll

I'm a Chicago-based writer and editor, mom and fitness enthusiast with a weakness for chai lattes and baked goods. You can find my articles in Midwest Living magazine, various university publications, and online at aSweatLife.com, Refinery29, A Practical Wedding and elsewhere. 

Photo: Google

We’ve all been there: It’s midnight and you’re Googling “small bumps on baby’s arm” or “round itchy rash.” Next thing you know, you’re trying to figure out whether you should rush to the emergency room immediately. After all, it might be “dermatitis” but it could be a flesh-eating bacteria.

Fortunately Google is improving its algorithm, so we can perform a better self-diagnosis (and hopefully stop worrying about throat cancer when all we have is a cold).

This new algorithm will give users a list of related conditions when they search their symptoms. It will also give an overview description for individual symptoms and include self-treatment options. Additionally, the medical terminology will be translated into simpler terms for us, non-health professionals, to understand.

So the next time you’re worried about your “child with ankle pain” a Google search will be a more helpful place to start.

Are you a frequent patient of Dr. Google? Tell us in the comments below!

H/T: Mental Floss

 

From the soccer carpool to the never-ending assortment of mismatched socks, sometimes there are days when you’ve only got a few seconds (or 140 characters) to get in a good giggle. Well, sit back and get ready to scroll because we’ve scoured the Twitterverse for moms and dads that rap about the highs and lows of parenting, and the results are hilarious.

1. True Story.

https://twitter.com/Playing_Dad/status/717514663697768448

2. He’s ready for adulthood.

3. Yeah, that’ll be great.

4. There’s nothing like a good nap.

5. Creepy much?

6. May 8th, Don’t forget.

7. School = Mt. Midoriyama

8. Hah!

https://twitter.com/est1975blog/status/717838683781611521

9. Smart thinking.

10. Ooh, she’s good.

 

 

Do you have any #funnyparenting moments to share with the Red Tricycle Community? Tell us in the comments below!

Seattle in the winter is wet and cold, crisp and windy, with brief moments where the sun breaks through the clouds. How do you keep looking good under all of those coats, hoods, and umbrellas? The art of layering, explained by the lovely and always fashionable Seattle Magazine, can keep you warm and stylish. Date Night never looked so good while being so very comfortable.

Club Monaco manager Sean Frazier creates dapper, preppy appeal with Northwest-ready layering pieces.

WHY WE LOVE THE LOOK:
When in doubt, put on another layer. That is style dogma according to Frazier, who layers (multiple) timeless, classic men’s silhouettes at a time to suit life in all-over-the-map Northwest temps.

“I’m drawn to anything I see that has the potential to go over, under, around or with other pieces, like long, elegant scarves or a cotton blazer worn as a jacket,” the Capitol Hill resident says. The result is gentlemanly with an added ounce of the debonair, pulling in hip-again pocket squares and ’60s-esque eye bobs. Or, the long and lanky style blogger often rolls up his favorite skinny jeans above the ankle to show off a pair of mod striped socks.

THE ENSEMBLE:
Gray and navy cotton striped T-shirt, by and from AllSaints Spitalfields; gray cable-knit button-up sweater, navy cotton blazer and tan wool/cashmere scarf, all by and from Club Monaco; The Hill-side black polka-dot pocket square, thehill-side.com; Hazelwood dark skinny jeans, Blackbird; striped black and white socks, J.Crew; vintage Allen Edmonds lace-up Oxford shoes, a Brooklyn find; brown tortoiseshell eye bobs, Blackbird.

Click through to the full article to see the best places to shop in store and online for these great looks!

This is our weekly guest post from our friends at Seattle Magazine, which keeps readers on the pulse of restaurants, personalities, arts, entertainment and culture that reflect the tapestry of our dynamic landscape. We’ve teamed up for an exciting partnership to bring you a weekly dose of fantastic Date Night ideas throughout greater Seattle.