Apart from (or should we say in addition to) sticker charts, bribery and guilt, getting the kids in on the household duties doesn’t have to be all pleading. Here are five ways to make cleaning up way less of a chore. Scroll down to make it happen. 

photo: Donnie Ray Jones via flickr 

1. Play Cinderella

Just own it: be the wicked stepmother who enslaves the poor Cinders and condemn her to a life of drudgery (well, just like 20 minutes). Dress ’em up in “rags” (just chop up some outgrown clothes and don an apron) and demand the sink full of dishes be clean and the floor swept. Bonus: later you get to play the Fairy Godmother who makes wishes come true (especially ice cream wishes. Wait, isn’t this just bribery?) You can also try playing Snow White out: specifically the scene where she tidies up the home of the 7 Dwarves: very useful for making beds.

photo: Jaro Larnos via flickr

2. Supermarket Wars

This requires two teams so it works best if you have either an older sibling or another parent to shop with. Kids who are old enough to find a few things in the store on their own can form their own team if you feel they are safe on their own in the store. Divide your shopping list into two lists: for example Mom’s team has produce, pet food and paper towels and Dad’s has dairy, snacks and canned goods. Double check your lists to make sure you’ve got everything you actually need between the two. Now form teams, and head to the store. When you arrive, each team gets a shopping cart and their list and then…they are off. Meet at the checkout or if you’ve got two grown-ups, check out and bag the groceries to complete the game. You can get more elaborate by deducting points for forgotten items and adding bonus points for staying under budget.

photo: kangheungbo via pixabay

3. Restaurant Romp

Want some help chopping up veggies and washing up the pots and pans? Play restaurant or Top Chef with your little culinary cuties. Have them clock in for their shift, say hello to fellow co-workers (siblings and/or stuffed animals) and ask their boss for the to-do list for dining prep before tonight’s dinner service. Got a white board? Write the night’s menu and tasks on it. Now hang out in the kitchen chatting about things but keep reminding everyone that there’s only so many minutes left “before we open for dinner” to keep them on task (and keep it real!). 

photo: laterjay via pixabay 

4. Fake Out

You can have some sudsy dudsy fun without actually doing the dishes: just make a pretend set up like the one here. You’ll need non-breakable dishes, plastic cups, a tub of soapy water and a tub of “clean” water and, if you’ve got one, a dish drainer. Who knows? Maybe they’ll be begging you to do the dishes tonight after all. One things for sure: you’ll have at least a few minutes minus the “I’m boreds.”

Tip: Obviously, don’t fill a sink up with sharp objects when little ones are on the job. Choose dishes they can wash, dry and put away. You may not have it done the way you’d do it, but you’ll be inspiring them for future (teenage years?!?) of service.

photo: Tim Malabuyo via flickr 

5. Play Hero
It’s a bird, it’s a plane, it’s…SuperBedMaker! Okay, they might not go for that name but grab those capes and see what feats of heroism your little superhero is capable of when it comes to sheets and blankets, putting away toys or other feats of amazing cleanliness. The whole family can don capes and see what they can do in an hour or less. Able to clean the counters off in a single pass? Fold laundry with a single hand? Go team! 

What’s your way of “tricking” the kiddos into doing their part around the house? Share your tips in the comments below. 

—Amber Guetebier

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Staying in a hotel can be great, especially for short stays. But for longer trips, I look for an apartment or house to rent. Having a kitchen saves us money by not eating out constantly, and if you are traveling with kids, it means you don’t have to tiptoe around a hotel room after they go to bed. Even better, many properties have washer/dryers which means half as much packing to do.

VRBO (Vacation Rental By Owner) is my go-to website for vacation rental properties, and I have always had success finding my family’s vacation lodging here. All of my transactions have gone smoothly, and the properties have typically exceeded my expectations. Finding the right property takes quite a bit of time, but it’s worth the effort. Here are some tips when searching VRBO for that perfect vacation rental.

1. Know your general itinerary first.

Before you can answer where you want to stay, you need to know what you want to do on your vacation. If most of your activities revolve around shopping and eating downtown, look at downtown properties that are within walking distance. Conversely, if you plan to hike or visit multiple attractions, choose an area that minimizes your drive time. As they say in real estate, “location, location, location” applies here, too.

2. Enter the actual dates you plan to stay.

When searching for a property, enter the actual dates of your visit. If you don’t enter dates for your location search, your results will usually list the “average price per night” and its availability will be unknown. Without dates, you’ll see the average of the rates charged during the low season and the high season. This price can be misleading if you are planning to visit during the high season when you can most certainly count on a higher price than the listed “average.”

3. Use the “Search When I Move Map” option.

Once you’ve determined what you want to do, you’re now ready to find where you want to stay. The “Search When I Move Map” option allows you to precisely pinpoint the properties that are available in the area you’d like to stay. Tip: Zoom in to see exact street names. You can then enter a general address on Google Maps to see what surrounds the property and map the distance to other attractions.

4. Look closely at the photos.

You’d be surprised how much you can learn about a property by looking at its photos. Does the furniture look worn? What is the view out the window? Is the bathroom remodeled? Is the property decorated nicely or is it cluttered? You’ll get a good general sense of the property layout, cleanliness and st‌yle just by looking at the photos. Also, experienced owners will have multiple photos of the bedrooms, bathrooms, kitchen and living areas, whereas owners new to VRBO don’t always include this detail. Go with the experienced owner. Additionally, if the photos are blurry or poor quality, keep looking.

5. Read the reviews.

You can learn a lot from the people who have stayed at the property before you. First, the star rating is important. Look for properties with at least 4/5 stars with dozens of reviews. You want lots of reviews because that means the owners have been doing this awhile and have the kinks worked out.

In addition, the reviews can often be a goldmine of information. You can learn about a great restaurant in the neighborhood or an activity that’s close by and shouldn’t be missed. You can also find out whether the sleeper sofa is actually comfortable, the level of street noise, and other property quirks.

Seriously, the reviews are usually the best source of information on the property. Read several of them. I also like to single out the worst reviews and make a point to read them as well. Keep in mind that sometimes there is just no pleasing people and terrible reviews will be written regarding events completely out of the control of the owners. However, if something did go disastrously wrong, I like to read how the owners handled it.

6. Realize many properties are not listed by the actual owner.

In fact, you’ll often be dealing with a property manager rather than the owner. Although VRBO stands for “Vacation Rental By Owner,” it’s increasingly common for property management firms to list their properties on VRBO. The downside is that those properties are often more expensive than private owner listings. The upside is that you have a rental property management firm available if anything goes wrong, such as a broken air conditioner or leaking sink.

7. Count on additional fees.

Although the price per night might look like a steal, keep in mind that you still need to pay cleaning fees, taxes, and a service fee. These additional fees can easily add up to the equivalent of an additional night’s rent.  Tip: VRBO charges a service fee for booking through their site. I have often paid a check to the owner to avoid it, especially with properties I am returning to for a second time.

8. Check to see if the property is listed on other vacation rental sites.

Once you’ve found the property you like, check to see if it’s listed on airbnb or booking.com. I’ve sometimes found the same property to be less expensive on other sites. If your property is listed by a property management company, check their website too.

9. Want to travel with your pet?

You can search properties with a filter “pets allowed” to see which allow pets. Expect to pay an additional fee. I’ve found that for the most part, these properties can be just as nice as those that don’t allow pets. Look for hardwood floors and read reviews regarding cleanliness to increase your chance of a suitable property. Tip: I’ve sometimes had success asking a “no pets allowed” property if they would consider allowing a pet. It doesn’t hurt to ask, especially if you have a well-behaved dog with an excellent track record at home. Be willing to put down a sizable deposit.

10. Look at the cancellation policy.

Cancellation policies varies by property. Be aware of the cancellation timeline and any fees you would incur if you need to cancel it. A strict cancellation policy versus a more flexible one is sometimes the deciding factor for me when choosing between two properties.

Following these tips can save you lots of frustation using VRBO and improve your chances of finding that perfect house for your family vacation.

Featured Photo Courtesy: nhattienle94/Pixabay

A researcher at heart, I love planning trips: Scouring guidebooks, websites and vacation rental listings is actually fun for me! For my family, a fantastic vacation gravitates toward scenic beauty and local food. I'm the creator of Simply Awesome Trips, a website providing family-friendly trip itineraries to cities and outdoor destinations.

 

Kids of all ages and abilities are in for a treat at the brand new Rotary PlayGarden. Slides, swings and kinetic art are just some of the many features of this awesome new playground right near Mineta San Jose Airport. Bonus: toddlers will be delighted by the ability to check out the many planes that fly overhead as they are landing at the airport! Read on to explore everything that the PlayGarden has to offer!

Inclusive Play for All Children
This new addition to Guadalupe River Park is the Rotary Club of San Jose’s centennial gift to the community. Its unique design definitely accomplishes the goal of encouraging inclusive play for all children. The ongoing maintenance of the PlayGarden was taken over by the Guadalupe River Park Conservancy, which also provides volunteer staff at the entrance to ensure a safe and fun play experience for all visitors.

Slides, Slides for Everyone!
Lots of research went into the design of this playground, which is evident from the choice of slides that are available. Concrete was selected instead of the usual plastic slides as the planners learned from the special needs community that plastic slides can interfere with cochlear implants. There is an extra wide slide available so that kids can slide next to their caregiver and also some shorter slides for the younger kids. All slides are wheelchair accessible by ramps to the top of the hill.

Merry-Go-Rounds
One of the most popular features at the PlayGarden is the two-story rope merry-go-round. Kids can easily get the merry-go-round moving but it doesn’t go so fast that little ones would be scared. Older kids can climb to the top for even more fun. Right next to the rope merry-go-round is a super cool feature—the wheelchair accessible merry-go-round. With the assistance of a caregiver, a child in a wheelchair can get on the merry-go-round for a fun (and safe!) ride with his or her friends. The youngest visitors will also enjoy this feature as it has a bench and easy on and off access.

Climb to the Stars
Tons of climbing features are included in the PlayGarden, from the rock walls on the sides of the slides to the rope feature totally devoted to kids who like to climb. None of these are very far off the cushy ground—great because, inevitably, what goes up, must come down!

Art You Can Play With
Some of the more unique features are the many animal sculptures that kids are encouraged to play on and climb over. At the top of the slides are a dragonfly and other flying bugs—inquisitive kids will notice that if you spin the circle at the bottom of the structure you can get the bugs to fly!

Other Fun Features
Toddlers will love the musical installation where they can bang attached mallets on musical pipes to create all sorts of groovy tunes. There is a sand feature (bring your own shovels) which is raised off the ground allowing access by a child in a wheelchair. In the very back is a rubber trampoline surrounded by a rope climber that is a big draw for the younger kids. The water feature looks cool but is currently not turned on due to the drought.

Good to Know
The entire PlayGarden is fenced with only one entrance/exit point. There is ample parking right near the PlayGarden. Across the street are many food options including Panera and Chili’s. The park has limited hours: 10 a.m. to 6:30 p.m. in the summer as it is staffed by volunteers during that time to maintain the cleanliness of the facilities. There are restrooms and water fountains on-site. Shade is at a minimum at the park so make sure you wear hats and bring sunscreen. You can reserve the six picnic table area (for a toddler birthday, perhaps?) as well as the small amphitheater for 2 hours with a $100 donation.

Rotary PlayGarden
Guadalupe River Park
Coleman Avenue at Autumn Street
San Jose, Ca
Summer hours: 10 a.m. to 6:30 p.m.
Online: rotaryplaygarden.org

Have you visited the Rotary PlayGarden? Let us know what your favorite feature was in the comments below!

—Kate Loweth

All photos by the author.

Rain, rain, go away. Mama really needs the kids to go outside to play. When they are bouncing off the walls, break out of the house and take them to one of these Atlanta-area, indoor play spots. Go grab the socks, and read on to get a jump on what you need to know before you bounce.

Monkey Joe’s
With two locations in Roswell and Cumming, Monkey Joe’s wins points for its toddler area (for ages 3 and under), overall sanitation level and friendly staff. Try this spot on hump day (Wednesdays) when admission is discounted.

Address: 700 Holcomb Bridge Rd. Suite 200, Roswell; or, 5055 Post Rd., Cumming
Phone: 678-381-0400, 770-887-5678

Leapin Lizards
Pick this spot for a playdate so you and your pack of parents can sit in their lounge area and still see your tots. Don’t miss their BAM (Bust A Move) dance classes taught by former Miami Heat dancer, “Miss She She,” as well as their awesome party packages.

Address: 185 Sams St., Decatur
Phone: 404-537-3030

Hippo Hopp
Hit Hippo Hopp if you want a larger spot that serves up more bounce for your buck. Stay for a snack at their bistro-style cafe that serves up organic foods and gluten-free options. Although parking at this popular spot can prove problematic during busier weekend times, it wins accolades for its eco-friendly philosophy, cleanliness and healthy menu offerings.

Address: 1936 Briarwood Ct. NE
Phone: 404-634-4964

Skyzone
Beware that this indoor trampoline park is geared towards older kids and you will have to shell out $2 for their SkySocks. Big kids will love their dodgeball programs and camps—and that they can literally bounce off the walls. Pricing runs by time so arrive ready to spring into action.

Address: 1425 Market Blvd., Roswell
Phone: 678-745-9900

Catch Air
As one of the newest play spaces on the block, Catch Air has a lot to offer. With locations in Midtown, Sandy Springs, Snellville, Cumming, Johns Creek and Marietta, this biz thinks beyond the bounce house with ball pits, interactive dance floors and merry-go-rounds. Although the whole spot is aimed at the under 12 set, there is a special “Tiny Town” area sectioned off for smaller tots.

Address: Click here to see a list of locations

Where does your brood like to bounce? Share your spot with us below!

—Phebe Wahl

Photos courtesy of Monkey Joe’s via Facebook, Leapin’ Lizzard via Facebook, Hippo Hopp via Facebook, SkyZone Roswell via Facebook, and Catch Air Midtown via Facebook

Today’s Tip:  Clean out a drawer today.  (Perhaps that one that drives you crazy every time you open it?)

Organization can be grouped with personal cleanliness, a state with clear psychological benefits. We talk about washing away our sins, wiping the slate clean, and psychologists study the “Macbeth effect”:  Washing your hands seems to “scrub away mental turmoil,” according to University of Michigan psychologist Spike Lee.

Inside of sighing (or screaming) with frustration when once again, you can’t find the tape you think might be in that junk drawer, clean out the drawer.  If you don’t have time for that, make your bed today.  Giving ourselves a bit of order can give us more than a bit of happiness.

We’ve teamed up with  our friend Christine Carter,  to bring you 52 simple tips (one each Monday!) on bringing joy and happiness into your own Mommyhood. Get more happiness tips by taking the Raising Happiness class or by reading Christine’s blog.

Want more great tips?
Happy Mom Tip #1: Disconnect
Happy Mom Tip #2: Stop Rushing Around
Happy Mom Tip #3: Express Gratitude