From Malibu to Irvine, here’s your definitive guide to the best playgrounds around Los Angeles

There is one thing for certain in this life that parents can count on and that’s kids gotta move their bodies. With that in mind, here is an exhaustive roundup of the best playgrounds in Los Angeles that is bound to become your best friend (along with our round-up of the best picnic spots in LA). Pro Tip: Before you head out to one of these top rated playgrounds, don’t forget to check LA County Parks for information on any closures—there’s nothing is worse than disappointed kids that have too much energy. Oh, and the sunscreen. Don’t forget that, either.

The Best Playgrounds around Los Angeles

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1. DTLA: Grand Park Playground

This top spot isn't just a playground: it's the whole world of downtown Los Angeles discovery at your toddler's fingertips. The Grand Park playground is stellar in its own right (a long tube slide, tons of rope ladders, and a Seussian series of soft play tunnels, but immediately surrounding it is the playground that is DTLA. Within a short walk is the cornucopia of food, drink, and treat options at Grand Central Market, a delightful ride up or down Angel’s Flight, and a visually appealing scoop of Bae Ice Cream in Little Tokyo. 

200 N. Grand Ave. 
DTLA
Online: grandparkla.org

Related: Fun Activities, Culture & Cuisine for Kids in Little Tokyo

2. Fairfax District: Pan Pacific Park Playground

Walking distance from family-friendly mothership, The Grove and The Original Farmer's Market, Pan Pacific Park features three different playground areas that offer inclusive play for all abilities. In addition to the kids playground, there are basketball courts, a top-of-the-line athletic field, and plenty of picnic and barbecue areas.

7600 Beverly Blvd. 
Fairfax
Online: laparks.org

3. Santa Monica: Tongva Park Playground

Right across the road from the Santa Monica Pier is another little piece of kid park paradise—the Tongva Park playground. With an awesome climbing wall, three tall slides that are built into the hillside, whirly twirly seats that spin, climbing structures and a roller slide, your littles will love spending an afternoon here. And when the temps heat up, there’s even a splash pad to help kiddos cool off.

Insider Tip: Look for metered street parking by the Starbucks on the south side of the park. If that fails, you can always find a spot at the nearby Civic Center. And it you’d rather forgo parking all together, take the Expo Line to the last stop at Colorado and 4th St.—from there, it's a quick and easy walk to Tongva Park.

1615 Ocean Ave. 
Santa Monica
Online: tongvapark.smgov.net

Related: 30 Fun Activities to Do in Santa Monica with Kids

4. Santa Monica: South Beach Park Playground

Ahoy! Located on the Santa Monica beach next to one of LA's best bike paths is a nautical playground fit for all sorts of swashbuckling adventurers. With climbing ropes, swings, a roller slide, and sandpit with water pump, your curious captains will have a blast pretending they are ocean explorers adrift at sea. A soft rubber padded play area covers the entire park’s floors so parents breathe out a sigh of relief while they breathe in that fresh ocean air. Just watch out for when the pirates get hungry. Bonus: you're a mere 15 minute walk from the baklava croissant at Gjusta

3400 Barnard Way
Santa Monica
Online: smgov.net

5. Beverly Hills: Coldwater Canyon Park Playground

With plenty of shade, a lovely stream and tall billowing trees, Coldwater Canyon Park is one of our top go-tos whenever we’re in Beverly Hills. This gorgeous spot oozes peace and tranquilty and is perfect for an afternoon picnic or playdate. After kids work up a sweat on the playground, they'll love taking a cool dip in the stream.

Insider Tip: While you’re more than welcome to picnic anywhere you like in the grass, picnic tables must be reserved ahead of time.

1100 N. Beverly Dr.
Beverly Hills
Online: beverlyhills.org

6. Malibu: Malibu Bluffs Park Playground

What’s better than a day at the playground? A day at the playground with mind-blowing views of the Pacific Ocean. Your beach bumming brood will dig Malibu Bluffs Park with its huge playground, sandpit, zip line and climbing wall. After they work up an appetite, stop by Malibu Farm right down the road for a bite overlooking the water.

24250 Pacific Coast Hwy.
Malibu
Online: malibucity.org

Related: Your Family Guide to Malibu

7. Malibu: Malibu Park at Cross Creek Playground

This first-responders-themed playground offers a fire truck, police car, lifeguard station and more for kids to explore. Designed by the same nonprofit that brought LA Shane’s Inspiration in Griffith Park, the equipment is accessible and inclusive for children of all abilities.

23401 Civic Center Way
Malibu
Online: malibuparkatcrosscreek.com

Related: Have a Firefighting-Obsessed Kid? Then This Firefighting Museum Is a Must-Visit

8. Griffith Park: Shane's Inspiration Playground

As the first universally accessible playground on the west coast, this special place has set the bar for how much fun kiddos of all abilities can have when given the chance to play together. Recent renovations have somehow made this playground better than ever. Littles will love playing on the ship, two forms of zip-lines (one with a buddy seat!), and even an accessible merry-go-round! The playground also offers sensory-rich, musical instruments and Too Small to Fail early childhood interactive literacy panels to encourage families to talk, read and sing to their little ones. 

4800 Crystal Springs Rd.
Griffith Park
Online: shanesinspiration.org

 

9. Griffith Park: Fern Dell Playground

Located at the end of the kid-friendly Fern Dell Trail (one of our favorite hikes with toddlers), this towering nature-inspired playground was recently refurbished. Designed for kids ages 2 to 12 years old, it's fully equipped with five slides (including three that are 8 ft. high!), plus a rope ladder, climbing rocks, tree stumps, lily pad ladder and more. For some reason, the playground hasn't yet made it onto Griffith Park's official map or the LA Parks website, but trust us, it's there! Bonus: a quick drive away are the Griffith Park pony rides and a ride-along-train.

2333 Fern Dell Dr.
Griffith Park 
Online: googlemap.com

10. Burbank: Mountain View Park Playground

Small but impressive, this neighborhood park remains under the radar for most. It's located in the Rancho Equestrian area of Burbank, where stables abound and cars stop for horses. (You might even see one during your visit—giddy-up!) Big kids will love the tall, sloping slides in the larger play area, while tots can explore a smaller structure with a climbing wall and faux cave and boulders. There's also plenty of sand for diggers to enjoy.

1401 W. Riverside Dr.
Burbank
Online: burbankca.gov

11. Burbank: Johnny Carson Park Playground

A second Burbank find, the playground at Johnny Carson Park has bridges, ladders, rings and beams to challenge kids' climbing and coordination skills. Another perk? A large grassy area for running around and a path for practicing bike riding. And although the park is in an urban setting, you can cross a bridge behind the playground to discover a sweet little nature trail. 

400 S. Bob Hope Dr.
Burbank
Online: burbankca.gov

 

12. Van Nuys: Lake Balboa Anthony C. Beilenson Park Playground

Lakes in Los Angeles are not the norm so if you’re looking for a playground that feels more like a weekend getaway than just another city park, Anthony C. Beilenson Park delivers in spades. With a universally accessible play structure that’s almost as big as the park itself, little ones and toddlers have more than enough elbow room to swing, shimmy through tunnels and romp around on the jungle gym.

It's lakeside bike path is one of our favorites with kids! Your little two-wheelers can pedal past gaggles of honking geese and quacking ducks. Once your brood has had their fill of land-based activities, hop in a swan paddle boat (for a small rental fee) and tour the lake the way the ducks do!

Insider Tip: Afternoons tend to get busy, so if you plan on renting a bike or paddle boat, we recommend arriving earlier in the day.

6300 Balboa Blvd.
Van Nuys
Online: laparks.org

13. Granda Hills: Bee Canyon Park Playground

Tucked in a residential neighborhood bordering Granada Hills' sprawling O' Melveny Park, the playground at Bee Canyon Park can only be accessed by crossing a cute wooden bridge. The playground has a larger structure for older kids, and a smaller one for littles. While the equipment is beginning to show its age, the bucolic, hidden setting is what makes this place so special. 

13150 Sesnon Blvd.
Granada Hills
Online: laparks.org

14. Chatsworth: Chatsworth Park Playground

In keeping with its rock-filled surroundings, this massive park is all about climbing and boy does it deliver! Perfect for little billy goats that are climbing the walls at home, let them loose here where they can scamper until their hearts (and hooves) are content. From rock walls to a giant web, tree stumps to a man-made boulder, if it's climbable, this playground's got it. 

Insider Tip: If your toddling tots are still too tiny for the big playground, make your way to the smaller, shaded one tucked behind the recreation center.

22360 Devonshire St.
Chatsworth
Online: laparks.org

15. Woodland Hills: Woodland Hills Park Playground

We all know how hot Los Angeles can get (especially in the Valley) so finding a playground with ample shade is a huge plus in our book! Woodland Hills Park has two separate play areas, both catering to different age levels, that are fully covered by bright blue canopies. There is even a fully shaded picnic table area.

5858 Shoup Ave.
Woodland Hills
Online: laparks.org

 

16. Pasadena: Reese’s Retreat at Brookside Park Playground

A’hoy mateys! Reese’s Retreat inside Pasadena’s Brookside Park offers pint-sized pirates a coveted chance to channel their inner Captain Jack Sparrow. Your pirates-in-training will have plenty of room to hoist the sails and fire the cannons while they guide their trusty ship over a padded ocean floor. This universally accessible play space also features tons of swings and slides for landlubbers of all ages, as well as a cool sand and water area that’s guaranteed to leave a lasting impression in ye car (aaarrrggghhh!). We highly suggest bringing an extra change of pantaloons.

Insider Tip: If you want to make a whole day of it, this park is very close to family favorite Kidspace Children’s Museum and literally next door to the Rose Bowl Aquatic Center (swimming anyone?). The parking lot is free but not when there are major events taking place at the neighboring Rose Bowl. Make sure to check the Bowl's schedule before you head to this park to avoid crowds and parking fees.

360 N. Arroyo Blvd.
Pasadena
Online: facebook.com

 

17. Culver City: Culver City Park Playground

Part playground, part futuristic art installation, this intimate hilltop play space showcases much more than just monkey bars and seesaws. Whimsical, state-of-the-art play equipment was created to challenge the younger set both mentally and physically. Nearby, older ones can try out a fitness hike up the famous Culver City stairs or strap on a helmet and hit up the skate park. For those littles who want to get their hands wet, there’s a sand and water area with a working water pump and water wheels where they can build dams and construct sandcastles.

9910 Jefferson Blvd.
Culver City
Online: culvercity.org

Related: Biking, Hiking & Eating in Culver City

18. Baldwin Hills: Kenneth Hahn State Recreation Area Playground

Clocking in at 338 acres, this urban oasis is one of the largest inner-city parks in Los Angeles, making it a great spot to let your wolf pack run free for an afternoon. Sure, there are a couple of cute playgrounds here, but the big draw is the natural beauty plunked smack dab in the middle of the city. Babbling brooks, a Japanese garden, a small but charming waterfall, and a duck-filled pond are only some of what makes Kenneth Hahn so special. Throw in family-friendly hiking trails, spectacular views of the city, acres of grassy fields and even an actual visitors center and you’ve got yourself a diamond in the rough just waiting to be explored!

Insider Tip: For an extra special treat, cross the Park to Playa pedestrian bridge near the Japanese garden and pay a visit to the Stoneview Nature Center—it’s stunning!

4100 N. La Cienega Blvd.
Baldwin Hills
Online: parks.lacounty.gov

19. Marina Del Rey: Glen Alla Park Playground

This nautically-themed, universally accessible park is perfect for young scallywags who like to make a quick getaway. This fully-enclosed playground has oodles of swings, slides and enough climbing things to fill an active tot’s afternoon. Because of the flat, expansive layout, it’s pretty easy to have eyes on everyone (which is super helpful if you’ve got a larger gang in tow). Glen Alla also has plenty of shade, picnic tables, and a large grassy area surrounds the perimeter, in case you decide to let your Houdinis loose outside the gates for a bit.

Insider Tip: The delicious Del Rey Farmer’s Market sets up shop on the sidewalks surrounding this park every Fri. afternoon from noon–7 p.m. This can be a fun bonus to a Fri. park visit but it also makes the already tricky parking options that much slimmer so plan accordingly!

4601 Alla Rd.
Marina del Rey
Online: laparks.org

20. Highland Park: York Park Playground

York Park was built on the site of a former gas station, and while the parklet covers just a third of an acre, it is a little slice of metropolitan magic. While you won’t find much in the way of grass, the urban space is covered with a bright teal and orange, shock-absorbent surface and two main play surfaces. With a beloved snake slide (in-the-know Eastsiders don't call it "Snake Park" for nothin'), an urban forest and musical instruments, this pocket park provides outside entertainment in the middle of the city and is a perfect place to stop and let the kids run wild. York Park is also securely gated and enclosed so you can breathe easy that your little escape artists will be safely contained.

4948 York Blvd.
Highland Park
Online: laparks.org

21. Manhattan Beach: Polliwog Park Playground

Covering 18 acres, Polliwog is one of the largest parks in the South Bay and boasts a scenic amphitheater overlooking a giant duck and turtle-filled pond as well as a botanical garden, natural wildlife refuge, picnic tables, gazebos, and even a museum.

But honestly, who cares about all that when you have one of the coolest playground slides in LA that features curly slides, wavy slides, and winding wack-a-doodle slides. With three expansive play areas to choose from (including a concrete boat in the middle of a sand ocean), it’s best for your mini minnows to start at one end of the park and work their way to the other. Make it a family furry affair and bring your pup on this outing as there is a large dog run on one end of this pooch-friendly park!

1601 Manhattan Beach Blvd.
Manhattan Beach
Online: citymb.info

 

22. Torrance: Los Arboles “Rocket Ship” Park Playground

Blast off to Torrance’s “Rocket Ship” Park and treat your little space cadets to a 28-foot-tall rocket tower they can actually climb inside of and slide down (after they’ve simulated a proper launch of course). Situated on top of a hillside, this hidden neighborhood gem of a park offers spectacular ocean views stretching from the Santa Monica Bay to the San Gabriel Mountains. With a mix of new and old playground equipment, scenic swings and sand for days, your young rocketeers will certainly be over the moon!

Know Before You Go: Kinda like space, there are no restrooms at this park so good to plan ahead just in case!

5101 Calle de Ricardo
Torrance
Online: torranceca.gov

23. Irvine: Adventure Playground

You’re going to want to pack an extra set (or two) of clothes before heading out on this adventure. One of Irvine’s best-kept secrets, this University of CA Irvine adjacent park is chock-full of everything your little loves could possibly want and more! Prepare for your rugrats to get nice and dirty here as there is a large mud play area as well as water pumps on deck to help build that perfect sand castle.

Along with an incredible castle-like structure, a tree house, kid’s fort building zone, concrete slides, and even a sensory garden, your little piggies will never want to leave! The best part for parents? This park is fully enclosed so while the kiddos wallow in the muck, you can sip coffee and watch them go hog wild from the comfort of a bench.

Insider Tip: There is little shade here so hats and sunscreen are a must. Because of the mud and water features at this park, we recommend bringing a change of clothes (there are hoses near the bathrooms to spray the kids down before it’s time to go). Also, the water pump station is closed every Mon. for maintenance.

1 Beech Tree Lane
Irvine
Online: cityofirvine.org

These back-to-school books are sure to soothe the new year nerves

Whether your kids are headed for the classroom for the first time or they’re heading to a brand-new school, stress levels can be high (for both parents and kiddos). We love the idea of incorporating these back-to-school books into the bedtime routine. They talk about what it’s like to be without mom and dad all day, validate anxious feelings, and show kids that they’re not alone. These back-to-school books also teach little ones ways to handle those jitters so they can feel ready for whatever adventures the school year brings.

From kindergarten help to handling food allergies, these books have everyone covered. We’ve made sure that there’s something for every kiddo. Get the family together and snag a few of these great reads to make sure everyone is feeling their best this year. Backpack, lunch box, and new back-to-school books. That’s a winning combination!


Nothing Stays the Same is a good back-to-school-book
Mighty + Bright

Nothing Stays the Same (but That's Okay): A Book to Read When Everything (or Anything) Changes

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Every kid will face change: whether it's a new house, family changes, or moving schools. Author and child behavior expert Sara Olsher reminds kids (and their grownups) that it's actually okay. Facing our fears and the unknown is scary, but Olsher aims to give kids knowledge—the best defense against anxiety and fear. Whether it's a big change or something small, this book will help normalize the inevitability of change, giving kids the confidence that they can handle it. Ages: 4-10


I Am Every Good Thing is a Back-to-School book
Nancy Paulsen Books

I Am Every Good Thing

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Author Derrick Barnes captures the young and confident Black narrator of this book perfectly, demonstrating the pure joy of childhood where each day brings challenges and adventures. The vivid and beautifully done illustrations by Gordon C. James make this book one that will inspire your kids to embrace their own beauty even if things aren't always perfect or they make mistakes. This one teaches them to stay true to their truth, even when they are misunderstood or called things they're not. Ages: 3-8


Misty the oven mitt is a back to school book
America's Test Kitchen

Mitsy the Oven Mitt Goes to School: A Story About Being Brave

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In this heartwarming and playful back-to-school book from America's Test Kitchen, we meet Mitsy, a young oven mitt who has spent her whole life in the mitten factory. When she's accepted to Miss Copperpot's Academy for Useful Utensils, she's definitely nervous. But her first days at school bring together a great cast of characters, inspiring kitchen facts, and a story to empower kids so that when they feel nervous like Misty, they remember that they can do anything. Ages: 4-8


Jessica Kingsley Publishers

The Nervous Knight: A Story about Overcoming Worries and Anxiety

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'The Nervous Knight' by Lloyd Jones gets kids talking about what causes them to be anxious, thanks to a young knight-in-training who's never without his armour. When we get kids talking, we can normalize these feelings and help them problem solve ways to feel better. This one also includes a guide for parents to help keep the conversation flowing. Ages: 5-7


Viking Books for Young Readers

Not Yeti

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Monsters are loud. And rude. They like to smash things and they always need to be right. But not Yeti. Yeti is different. He bakes banana bread and sings to whales and always has something nice to say. This book by Kelly DiPucchio gets kids thinking about the benefits of being different so that they have the confidence to be themselves everywhere, including at school. Ages: 4-8


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Random House Books for Young Readers

What If…? Answers to Calm First-Day-of-School Jitters

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Young kids can have lots of anxiety, especially when faced with something new, (like starting school, of course). Luckily, Elmo and his Sesame Street friends are here to relieve those first-time jitters! This back-to-school book by Sonali Fry answers lots of questions (What if I don't like my teacher? What if I don't know where the bathroom is?) to ease your little one's worries. Ages: 4-6


Flamingo Books

My School Stinks!

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The whole family will love this hilarious back-to-school story by Becky Sharnhorst. Told through journal entries about a boy who finds himself at a new school where the other students are REAL animals, he's even dealing with a locker buddy who bites! Is faking sick going to get him out of school? You'll have to read to find out! Ages: 5-7


Mascot Books

Am I a Unicorn?

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In her latest book, author Stephanie Sorkin teaches children the valuable lessons of embracing their uniqueness and accepting others for who they are inside. The story touches on self-esteem and diversity, ultimately teaching the important lesson of accepting everyone's individuality. Ages: 5-8


The King of Kindergarten is a cute back-to-school book for little kids
Nancy Paulsen Books

The King of Kindergarten

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Starting kindergarten is a big milestone. The hero of this back-to-school book by Derrick Barnes is ready to make his mark! He’s dressed himself, eaten a pile of pancakes, and can’t wait to be part of a whole new kingdom of kids. Starting school with positive energy is a great way to get past all of the new school year nerves. Ages: 4-6


Mascot Books

Nutley the Nut-Free Squirrel

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Being different can be hard, especially when you are dealing with a nut allergy. This sweet story from author Stephanie Sorkin delves into the ups and downs of food allergies in an easy to understand way. Bonus: all proceeds from this book go to F.A.R.E, an organization dedicated to food allergy research and education. Ages: 2-6


How to Be Kind in Kindergarten: A Book for Your Backpack

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From the best-selling author D. J Stenberg, here’s a guidebook that shows kids how to be kind in the new and exciting world of kindergarten. Helping out classmates and cheering up kids who look sad are great ways to make new kindergarten friends. Ages: 3-5


Orchard Books

The Worrysaurus

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It's a beautiful day and Worrysaurus has planned a special picnic. But it isn't long before a small butterfly of worry starts fluttering in his tummy. This book by Rachel Bright normalizes feelings of worry and helps to problem solve ways to make yourself feel better. 

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From outdoor adventures to intimate tea parties, these San Francisco birthday party venues are some of the best ways to celebrate your little one’s next big day

Celebrating birthdays with friends and family has never been more special than those first few years of a kiddo’s life. Whether you are commemorating that very first birthday, or you’re looking for an unforgettable birthday theme or festive favor ideas, there are plenty of Bay Area birthday party venues that make planning the big day stress-free so that you so you can focus on the special birthday kid. From a space-themed soiree or a rock climbing wall to a pizza-cooking session or a ballet class, there’s something for everyone, and for every age, too. But because San Francisco covers a lot of ground, consider narrowing your search based on these popular geographic regions throughout the city. Once you pick the spot, go ahead and get that party hat on and have some fun! Because these options are guaranteed to make your little one’s birthday party the invite everyone will want to receive!

San Francisco

San Francisco Zoo
Birthday parties at the SF Zoo include use of party room overlooking the chimps, zoo admission and ride tickets for guests, your choice of catered lunch, birthday cake, gift for the guest of honor, face painting, and more. Not only that, you get a party coordinator so you can relax and enjoy yourself. Add on an animal encounter for a memorably wild time, explore the grounds, and catch a train or carousel ride with your guests after the festivities.

Sloat Blvd. and Great Hwy
Online: sfzoo.org

Play Haven
Play Haven is perfect for crawlers, toddlers, and preschoolers who want to party. A mini rock climbing wall and art station are just a few of the highlights of this play space that encourages creativity and hands-on learning. Birthday celebrations can happen during regular open play hours, or pay a little extra to have exclusive use of the space. They also have food and face paint add-ons to make your party over the top.

254 Laguna Honda Blvd.
Onlineplayhavensf.com

Little Artistas
With two SF locations in Glen Park and Noe Valley, Little Artistas will let your party guests and birthday kid get messy with art in their studio (bonus: no clean up for you!). Their two-hour parties start with an hour of art that's tailored to the birthday child, followed by an hour of food and merriment. Add on a face painter for some bonus fun. Good to know: They will also bring the party to you if you prefer to have a home party.

Multiple locations
Onlinelittleartistas.com/parties

Little Oceanauts
With a three-story obstacle course play structure, trampoline, slides, and ball pit, kids will have plenty of room to run and burn off those cupcakes. A separate area for toddlers and infants means everyone stays safe while having fun. Don't forget to bring socks!

1917 Ocean Ave.
Online: littleoceanauts.com

Related: Active Indoor Birthday Party Spots for the Rainy Months

East Bay

Children's Fairyland 
Step back in time at this amusement park in Oakland that has been around since 1950. Birthday boys and girls can celebrate their big day next to Cinderella's slipper, in the Japanese tea garden or in the circus-themed area. You can rent a space and plan your own gig or have the park take care of all the details for you. Fairyland is ideal for kids eight and under as it has kid-sized rides, friendly animals and storybook performances.

699 Bellevue Ave.
Oakland, CA
Onlinefairyland.org

Fentons Creamery
Your little ice cream lovers will scream for Fentons party packages. The banquet hall is perfect for hosting and the party menus range from grilled cheese to chicken fingers. Top it all off with one of Fentons custom-made ice cream cakes.

Multiple locations
Online: fentonscreamery.com

Chabot Space & Science Center
Shoot for the stars and host your outer space birthday party at Chabot. The adventure begins with an hour and a half in a private party room decked out with a festive celestial theme, tables and chairs for all your guests and a dress-up photo booth. Spend the rest of the day taking in a Planetarium show, exploring the interactive exhibits and peering through high-powered telescopes.

10000 Skyline Blvd.
Oakland, CA
Onlinechabotspace.org

StemChef
Located at the Blackhawk Plaza in Danville, StemChef is a cross between an escape room and an interactive museum, where kids work as a team to solve puzzles related to a monthly theme and uncover hands-on science concepts that culminate in a delicious dessert. StemChef is a great birthday activity and was founded by Dr. Ashie Bhandiwad, who started cooking with her inquisitive three-year-old daughter and introducing her to STEM fields in the process. Bonus: this party is drop off only!

1 Stoneridge Mall Rd.
Pleasanton, CA
Online: stemchef.com

Silliman Aquatic Center
Splash down any time of the year at this 32,000-square foot indoor pool that has two water slides, a zero-depth activity pool and a 245-foot lazy river. There's something for every age from toddlers to teens. Reserve the teen room that includes two pool tables, a PS3 and Wii. Or grab the activity room that has a Foosball table, Wii and ping pong table. All guests have access to the pool either during or following the party.

6800 Mowry Ave.
Newark, CA
Onlinenewark.org

See more East Bay birthday party recommendations here.

Peninsula

Mints & Honey
Modern and creative, this neighborhood café and design studio space is perfect for littles looking for something a bit more sophisticated. While the basic package offers two hours in the space to make it your own, our favorite is the HoneyComb Crafttea Package that sets everything up for a petite party with crafts and afternoon tea. With different themes for both boys and girls, it’s one party that is totally photo-ready.

1524 El Camino Real
San Carlos, CA
Onlinemintsandhoney.com

La Petite Playhouse
This spacious, underwater-themed playhouse is sure to be a hit. From climbing and sliding to shooting some hoops, your party will have plenty to explore. You'll have exclusive use of playhouse for one hour, your own private party room, a coordinator to help with all the planning and not one thing to set-up or clean-up. Geared toward the 10 and under crowd with separate baby/toddler area.

1264 Oddstad Dr.
Redwood City, CA
Online: lapetiteplay.com

See more Peninsula birthday party recommendations here.

Related: Wish Granted! Awesome Birthday Party Delivery Services

South Bay

Tutu School
For the sugar plums in your life, the Tutu School's ballet birthday parties will be the perfect way to celebrate. Your mini dancers will enjoy a personalized ballet class, story time, crafts, and cupcake picnic with pink lemonade. Plus, every guest receives a tutu or princely cape to dress up in and take home. In addition to Willow Glen, they have 15 other locations that offer birthday parties.

1702 Meridian Ave.
Willow Glen, CA
Online: tutuschool.com

Cucina Bambini
Practice your Top Chef moves at this cooking school where the kids are put to work! Choose a pizza, pasta or cupcake theme and invite your guests to don their aprons and chef hats. The kids learn how to make dough, what goes into a good sauce and how many gummy bears can top a cupcake before it falls over. Got a favorite food that's not pizza, pasta or cupcakes? They will help you design your own personal theme for the big day!

1041 Lincoln Ave.

22 S. Santa Cruz Ave.
Los Gatos, CA
Onlinecucinabambini.com

San Jose Giants
This minor league baseball park is the perfect excursion for your little sports fan's next birthday. For $19/person, you get tickets to the game, a hot dog, drink and Guanatos Ice Cream Bar. All kids at the party get two passes to the Family Fun Zone where they can practice their big league swing. Your group will receive recognition on the video board, public address system and daily scorecard. Gigante is always around to take photos with fans and get the crowd riled up to cheer for the home team!

Municipal Stadium
588 East Alma Ave.
San Jose, CA
Onlinemilb.com

Whirlygig Parties, San Jose
The ultimate birthday party spot and a space where kids can be kids! Whirlygig has four unique play rooms, each with a theme like Farm or Beach, and can amplify the birthday fun with a customizable party theme with all the essentials! The birthday boy or girl can choose their own party theme from amazing options like Dinosaurs, Unicorns and Outer Space—there is truly something for everyone. Additionally, parents can expect delicious and gourmet food options, straight from the owner’s cooking school, Savory Kitchen—no more cardboard pizzas and sticky floors.

919 The Alameda
San Jose, CA
Online: whirlygigparties.com

See more South Bay birthday party recommendations here.

Marin

Bay Area Discovery Museum
Stress free is the name of the game at BADM. They offer two different packages in three different museum spaces so parents can pick the option that works best for the size of their party. Hosts can also choose to customize their party by adding on fun activities facilitated by BADM staff, or can select the “Blast Package” which includes all of the available activities, as well as decorations, party favors, etc. All packages include staff to help with set up and clean up so parents can actually enjoy the party themselves.

557 McReynolds Rd.
Sausalito, CA
Onlinebayareadiscoverymuseum.org

Poekie Nook
Perfect for the crafty 7-11 age group, this creative studio has been teaching hand sewing and beading techniques to Mill Valley children since 1992. Creator of the popular Poekie, birthday parties can choose between sewing or beading and get use of their upstairs room, during normal business hours. Bring your own snacks and decorations or let them do it all for you. Every guest receives a goody bag and takes home their projects.

247 Shoreline Hwy
Mill Valley, CA
Online: poekienook.com

Morning Star Farm
If your little one is desperate for a pony this year, do the next best thing and book a party at Morning Star Farm. Kids up to age eight can enjoy a pony party with pony rides, a petting zoo and a party in the outdoor picnic area. Kids eight and over can book a riding party where each guest has their own mount and gets a one hour riding and grooming lesson.

885 Sutro Ave.
Novato, CA
Onlinemorningstarfarm.info

Marine Mammal Center
Education meets entertainment at a “Barkday Party” where kiddos learn about marine mammal life (and get to make fish milkshakes, yes, you read that correctly) and you are supporting their work in rescuing and rehabilitating sick and injured marine mammals. The party includes a 2.5 hour room reservation (pre-decorated!), a 1 hour educational program, a birthday cake (for 15) and small party favors. Typically offered on Saturday mornings and afternoons.

2000 Bunker Rd.
Sausalito, CA
Onlinemarinemammalcenter.com

Marin Treks
This museum offers indoor birthday parties for kids or they can come to a park near you to put on an awesome animal show. This hands-on birthday adventure allows the birthday girl or boy and their guests to hold and learn about an amazing collection of live reptiles, amphibians, insects and arachnids. Children will learn where they live, what they eat, how they avoid predators and a whole lot more.

1559 H So. Novato Blvd.
Novato, CA
Onlinemarintreks.com

See more  Marin County birthday party recommendations here.

 

 

Sometimes, saying “I’m proud of you” can make all the difference

When you become a parent, you pick up the basics pretty quickly. It’s figuring out how to raise happy and confident kids that can be a challenge as the years go on. What we do know is that positive words for kids will go a long way to help boost their confidence and change their day for the better—sometimes it’s words of encouragement, and sometimes it’s just a simple “I love you.” In that spirit, here are 30 positive things to say to kids.

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1. You make me smile. Telling your kiddo they make you happy is one thing. But telling them they're the reason for your smile will give them happiness and a sense of pride that'll stick around all day.

2. Your words matter. The old saying "sticks and stones" isn't entirely accurate. Let your kids know that words have power.

3. Tell me one good thing that happened today. Focusing on the positive helps keep the bad stuff at bay.

4. Tell me one bad thing that happened today. It’s important to talk about the bad stuff too.

5. I'm proud of you for doing XYZ. When kids hear that someone is proud of them, it has a big impact on them. Think of one positive thing, and tell your little one about it.

Related: The Only 2 Things to Say to Your Kid after a Game

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6. Mistakes happen. Kids are a messy business, and they may ruin the nice stuff you own. But what's more important—material things (just keep the priceless china stashed away) or your kids knowing they can come to you when they make a mistake? That knowledge that you love them unconditionally goes a long way in life.

7. How are you? Asking your kiddo how she feels shows that you are interested in them. Brandi Russell, a pediatric occupational therapist, and parenting coach recommends checking in with your little ones just as you would a spouse or friend.

8. What would you do? This is a great response to kids always asking for help with things. Empower them while giving yourself a break. You may not think much of it now, but that empowerment goes a long way as they grow older.

9. What nice thing did you do or say today? Encourage kindness by reinforcing it daily.

10. Nothing will change my love for you. This phrase may seem self-evident, but sometimes kids need you to state the obvious. Rebecca Eans, the bestselling author of Positive Parenting, believes you can't go wrong with this loving reminder.

Related: 20 Empowering Things to Say to Your Daughter Every Day

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11. Don’t let mean people define who you are. There will always be bullies in life. This simple phrase helps kids know that negative voices are not the most important, and it's a lesson they can remember as they encounter difficult people as teens and adults.

12. I like it when you … Even when the kids are driving you crazy, there’s always at least one thing they did that made you smile.

13. Please. If we want respect as parents, then we need to show that same behavior to our kids. Dr. John DeGarmo, a national foster parent coach, advocates parents should always say "please" and "thank you" to model respectful behavior.

14. Clean up your toys, dishes, or whatever is left out. Encourage kids to take ownership of cleaning up their belongings, says Maureen Healy, author of Growing Happy Kids. Even if it’s just one or two items a day, it will help you in the long run.

15. That’s smart thinking. Sometimes hearing you’re smart is even more powerful than telling a kid she looks cute. That early feeling of being called intelligent is sometimes one of the memories kids remember most as they grow.

Related: 11 Important Things Dads Should Say to Their Sons

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16. I like you. Kids may hear the words “I love you” regularly, but do they know you like them too?

17. I’m proud of you. They know you love them. But do they know you’re proud of them too? Author, and clinical psychologist, Dr. Sherrie Campbell believes those words are just as important as affirmations of love to kids.

18. Thank you. Social skills and courtesy are important in the home and outside of it, and they are skills that go through adulthood.

19. I’m sorry. We all lose our temper or make mistakes. Dr. Alison Mitzner, a pediatric specialist, believes what’s important is how we react.

20. Just be yourself. Teach your kids they’re enough, and they never have to be anyone else.

Related: 10 Things to Say About Yourself in Front of Your Kid

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21. I love being with you. Amy McCready is a parenting educator who believes encouraging words and phrases go a long way to help your kids feel safe and secure. Telling your little one how you love being with them is a great positive affirmation they'll never tire of hearing.

22. Do your best. It’s not about the result. It’s about how you get there.

23. Always tell the truth, even if it’s not great. The sooner kids know you’ll still love them after hearing the truth—even if it’s not great—the more truthful they’ll be as they grow.

24. I'm listening. What do you want to say? According to Katie Hurley, LCSW, 57% of girls say they don’t always tell their parents certain things because they don’t want their parents to think badly of them. Show your kids you do care what they have to say by demonstrating you want to listen to them share information with you.

25. You don’t have to eat it. It’s tough to deal with picky eaters. Instead of fighting with your kids to eat their veggies, give them the power to say no and be in control. But don’t provide an alternative meal choice or dessert either.

Related: 7 Things NOT to Say to Your Daughter

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26. You make me happy. Because everyone wants to feel like they matter to someone else.

27. I love you. They may be simple, but Jennifer Wolf, a PCI-certified parent coach, believes there's no substitute for these powerful words.

28. What do you think we should do today? Letting your kids have a say in the day's activities will do a lot to keep them feeling satisfied and valued for more than just a few hours.

29. You make a difference... in life, in the family, and at school. When kids hear they're important, they feel empowered and happier.

30. You were right. To let a child know when they were right (and maybe you were wrong) is empowering. 

 

 

Gone are the days where having a strong vocabulary only mattered on the SAT. Kids today—now, more than ever—need a solid vocabulary, not only for success in school, but also to express themselves in a way that empowers them to make an impact on the world around them. According to Boston Children’s Hospital, the most important thing you can do to help a child experiencing heightened stress and anxiety is to listen to them. And if they have the vocabulary (and emotional awareness) to express themselves, you’ve equipped them to take control of that situation. So whether you’re motivated to build toddler language development for school success or for social and emotional reasons, you’re winning at parenting. And these language development games and activities for kids can help you do it.

1. Read Together

We’ll bet you’re already practicing this toddler language development strategy in your home without even realizing it. According to Sandra Gatlin, a fourth-grade teacher with over 30 years of experience, “The key to a broad vocabulary is to foster a love of reading in your child. Whether from reading together as toddlers, or listening to them read to you as they develop their abilities, you cannot find a better way to expand your vocabulary.”

Extra Credit: Don’t stop reading to your kids, even after they can do it on their own. Choose a book that interests them that’s above their reading level, and “talk about what you’re reading, so you can work on comprehension, too,” adds Gatlin.

Related: 40 of the Very Best Books for Toddlers

2. Go Hunting for Sight Words with Nerf Guns

“My son doesn’t want to look at a workbook or sit still after he’s been at school all day,” mom and educator extraordinaire, Anne Hart, says. So she wrote sight words on Post-It notes and stuck them on the ceiling, near the baseboards, and behind doors throughout her house. Now, her son picks up a Nerf gun and gets prizes for shooting the right word that Hart calls out. We love this strategy that supports toddler language development and makes it fun in the process.

Extra Credit: Don’t stop at sight words. You can play this game with vocabulary words and definitions. Just write the word on the Post-It note, and read the definition out to your hunter, who’ll go “hunting” for the correct word.

3. Match and Go Seek

Another great toddler language development game, match and go seek, also involves Post-It notes. Make two copies of each word, then give one stack to your child, and place the other notes on corresponding items. For instance, give your child a Post-It note with the word “tree” written on it, then place another one on the trunk of a tree in the backyard. Get more creative and advanced as his or her vocabulary grows.

Extra Credit: The National Center on Improving Literacy reports that “remote literacy learning includes a mixture of literacy learning experiences that are teacher-led, family-led, and student-led. Parents have an important role in helping develop your child’s literacy skills.” Your involvement in growing your child’s vocabulary has never been more important.

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4. Talk to Your Children

Tracy Cutchlow, author of Zero to Five: 70 Essential Parenting Tips Based on Science, says three-year-olds with whom parents regularly engage in contextualized conversation have IQs 150% greater than those whose parents don’t talk to them. And, since your child’s vocabulary can quadruple in their second year of life, you can’t start too early when it comes to talking to them.

Extra Credit: “It’s hard to know what to say to someone who doesn’t talk back,” says Atlanta preschool director Nancy Hill. “But I used to talk to my daughter so much when she was an infant that I’d be startled when my husband would come home and actually talk back to me!” She suggests listening to the sounds around you—like a bird tweeting, a truck rumbling, or a dog barking—then repeating the sound and labeling it as “bird,” “truck,” or “dog.”

5. Introduce Sneaky Synonyms

When your child tells you something, respond in a way that introduces a synonym for the word they used. For example, if your child says that the dog was “really big,” you might reply and say it sounds “gigantic.” Reading Rockets, a website dedicated to helping kids learn to read, suggests that parents keep new words active since kids learn by repetition and practice. Don’t just say it once. Instead, find ways to work it into your conversation multiple times.

Extra Credit: Kids love telling stories. Give them a topic and have them tell you a story about it. This gives you ample opportunities to introduce sneaky synonyms in an organic way.

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6. Use Word Play in Favorite Songs

Rhymes have always been used as a tool in learning, so it’s no surprise that kids love changing the lyrics for favorite songs. “When ‘Old Town Road’ was being played all the time on the radio, I changed the lyrics to I’m gonna take my mom to the grocery store, she’s gonna shop like she can’t no more…My kids caught on, and every time the song came on we’d make up a new grocery list, instead of singing the song’s actual lyrics,” said mother of four Renee Stafford.

Extra Credit: Along the same lines, you can kill plenty of time on long car rides by making a collaborative poem. One person starts the poem, then the next person adds a line, and on.

Related: Spotify Playlists for Babies & Toddlers That Parents Will Actually Enjoy 

7. Write Stories

“Verbal and written vocabularies often don’t match up, with verbal vocabulary being stronger for many years because of the help of context clues within sentence structure,” says Prof. of Early Childhood Education and Literacy Meredith Cristofferson. One way to help bridge the gap? Have your kids write their own stories. It’s like working your back muscles to improve your abdomen’s strength. Creating context for words helps you develop your use of words, and helps you look for new ways to represent ideas.

Extra Credit: Give your kids a word bank and ask them to write a story using the words you’ve given them. Be sure and provide them with a list of verbs, nouns, adjectives, and adverbs.

Related: Life Sentence: 6 Ways to Write a Story with Kids

In the rankings, a lower cost of living might be offset by a lack of access to good child-care services

When it comes to deciding where to raise a family, there are plenty of factors to consider: career opportunities, cost of living, school systems, housing, and health and safety being just a few. If you’re looking to make a move across state lines in the near future, you may want to check out WalletHub’s findings.

The personal finance website compared all 50 states across 51 key indicators of family-friendliness, including housing affordability, childcare costs, violent crime, annual family income, neighborhood support, and unemployment rates. These indicators were grouped into five main categories: family fun, health and safety, education and childcare, affordability, and socio-economics.

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WalletHub also coordinated with a panel of experts to discuss issues that include child development, how it's influenced by the state a family lives in, and what things to consider when putting down roots.

When asked what families should consider when choosing a place to raise kids, director of Barnard College Center for Toddler Development Tovah P. Klein, Ph.D. states, "Cost is essential: is this a community that the family can afford to buy or rent a home or apartment, and will they be able to move to a bigger place if or when their family grows? Can they afford the amenities they will want such as recreation, and the necessities, such as health care and child care, that this area offers?" 

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But access to educational opportunities has a huge impact as well. "Starting early in life, access to high-quality affordable early childhood education has significant implications for children’s learning and social development, family well-being, and ultimately community and state economic development," adds Melissa A. Barnett, Ph.D., director of the Frances McClelland Institute for Children, Youth and Families. And a state's level of commitment to policies that support those opportunities is something parents should be aware of. 

So, what are the best states to raise a family?

According to the findings, the top 5 best states for families to live in are:

1. Massachusetts

2. Minnesota

3. New York

4. North Dakota

5. Vermont

And the worst?

On the flip side, WalletHub also determined the lowest-ranking states, which include:

50. Mississippi

49. New Mexico

48. West Virginia

47. Louisana

46. South Carolina

 

—with additional reporting by Gabby Cullen

 

For those moments when your sitter cancels or you’ve got a last-minute meeting try flexible, drop-in childcare near Portland

Life is busier than ever with more parents working from home. While it’s nice to have the kids in the house, sometimes you need a little peace and quiet so you can get work done, whatever that may be. Luckily there are plenty of places offering drop-in childcare near Portland that’s both flexible and affordable. Childcare that works around your schedule and is available when you’re in a pinch? We couldn’t think of a more useful tool for busy Portland parents.

WeVillage

This popular flexible childcare spot takes in kids in the morning, for an afternoon or an evening. It accepts kids ages 6 weeks to 12 years old. Parents with infants will love the beautifully and specially designed rooms that provide safe and stimulating programs for your little one. The play-based preschool curriculum is a win with local families looking to get their kiddos ready for Kindergarten. There's an über convenient online reservation form on their website, making their service even more simple to use.

Ages: 6 weeks-12 years

1901 N.E. Broadway
Portland
Onlinewevillage.com

Grandma’s Place

If you need flexible, part-time childcare on the east side or in North Portland, this favorite childcare spot has three centers to choose from. The staff is heavy on teaching language skills, including baby sign language and Spanish language programming for bigger kids. They also offer interest centers for children including math, science, imaginative play, and reading.

Ages: newborn-12 years

Clark Family Center
2740 S.E. Powell Blvd.

Clark Family Annex
2706 S.E. Powell Blvd.

Rose Quarter
1730 N. Flint St.
Online: gpelc.net

Little Vikings

Students, staff and faculty at PSU can leave little ones at this weekday drop-in center that's right on campus. They offer walk-in, reserved or occasional care for up to 5 hours a day, 20 hours per week. Ask about their activity kits for parents to check out to keep their little ones busy during meetings or study sessions.

Ages: 6 weeks-12 years

1136 S.W. Montgomery St., Ste. 101
Portland
Online: littlevikings.org

Peak Academy

Located in Lake Oswego, this awesome flexible daycare option offers a variety of licensed, academic early childhood programs for children ages 1 to 12 years-old. The options are flexible and quality educational experiences while being taught by trained professionals in an enriching environment. Parents can choose from school readiness programs, no-school day camps, and drop and go care.

Ages: 1-12 years

464 First St.
Lake Oswego, OR
Online: peakacademy.com

Baerly Big Drop In Day Care

Serving the west side, near Washington Square Mall, this drop-in center offers late night options for parents and construction toys, dress up duds and sometimes field trips for munchkins. Parents like the individual care given to each child, and the array of activities available for all ages and the flexible hours. Reservations are not required, but they are strongly recommended.

Ages: 2 ½-12 years

9225 S.W. Hall Blvd., Suite. B
Tigard, OR
Online: bbigwebsite.wixsite.com