Today, Feb. 17 is Random Acts of Kindness Day 2021, so we’ve made a list of 21 easy yet impactful ways to spread some love around San Diego with your kids. These small acts of charity will make a big difference in the lives of many––and we’re certain your little do-gooders will have warm hearts and soaring spirits for helping out. Read on for where to start creating a culture of kindness.

Beth Shea

1. Visit Children’s Nature Retreat to feed over 140 rescue animals. Kids will practice kindness while interacting with amazing creatures including zebra, horses, camels and pigs.

2. Incorporate Meatless Mondays into your family’s dinner plans. Here’s our great list of plant-based recipes to get you started.

3. Even the youngest tots can learn animal empathy at San Diego Children’s Discovery Museum’s Fun Animal Fridays. This month they can meet a gecko and a python!

4. Donate pet food to AniMeals. Your donation will help local pet owners who need assistance paying for their pet food. Find a drop off location for donations near you.

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5. Make ‘Welcome Duffle Bags’ for San Diego Center for Children so kids and teens placed in foster care will have some items to call their own.

6. Visit one of our favorite donut shops with the little ones… and buy an extra dozen to give to the administration office at your kid’s school.

7. Eat locally-grown foods and shop at one of San Diego’s Farmer’s Markets to support local growers. 

8. Go thru a local coffee shop's drive thru with your kids and buy drinks for the people in the car behind you.

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9. It’s Girl Scout Cookie time. Donate a box to troops via San Diego’s Operation Thin Mint when you order your cookies.

10. Volunteer as a family at one of these San Diego charities and non-profit organizations.

11. Get a jumpstart on your spring cleaning and donate your kids’ gently used toys and outgrown clothing to a local charity.

12. Leave some healthy and delicious packaged snacks and drinks and a thank you note in your mailbox for your mail carrier or at your front door for Amazon delivery drivers.

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13. Join forces with local organization Surfrider Foundation to protect the ocean and beaches. See how to volunteer here

14. Not enough time to garden? Order up a weekly CSA box of farm fresh produce and know that your veggies are fresh, sourced locally, and helping farmers in the community make a living.

15. Teach your kids to be kind to themselves and practice mindfulness and meditation through the practice of yoga. This creates an outward ripple effect for them to create love and joy in the world.

16. Drop off flowers or a lovely plant for a neighbor or family member who is feeling isolated.

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17. Help an elderly neighbor weed their garden––or mow their lawn or start them a garden featuring their fave vegetable.

18. Check out the San Diego Humane Society's Wish List and donate an item or two to help animals in need.

19. Plant a fruit tree in a communal area of your neighborhood so everyone may reap the rewards of fresh picked fruit.

20. Lend a hand to San Diego North Coast Knitters Guild by knitting a hat, scarf, mittens or slippers, etc. for a variety of worthy recipients who cherish the items.

21. Adopt or foster an animal. Here are some great places to adopt a pet, and most organizations need foster parents for pets too.

––Beth Shea

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Nestled close to the D.C. 16th Street line and stretching North, up New Hampshire Avenue, the multi-ethnic enclave of Silver Spring offers theater, restaurants, and urban hiking for families. Re-live your young adult days and schedule a date night at The Filmore, or hook up the bike trailer and spend a sun-filled afternoon on the family-friendly paths of the Northwest Branch.

Photo: Downtown Silver Spring

#1 You could spend all day downtown.
Whether it’s Summertime at the fountain with your favorite little merpeople, or skating at the open air rink in Winter, Silver Spring’s revitalized downtown district is rich in family fun all year long.  Free outdoor music dominates the warmer months, including the annual Silver Spring Jazz (September) and Blues Festivals (June).  Fall’s Maker Faire on the plaza outside the contemporary Silver Spring Civic Center, is also a big hit.

Insider Tip:  Take a break from the outdoor frenzy, and pop into the art gallery inside the Civic Center at the foot of Fenton Street.

Online: downtownsilverspring.com

#2 You have a thing for the arts.
When the babysitter checks in, you check out the events calendar at the American Film Institute’s Silver Theater, or across Colesville Road at The Fillmore, where the choice may be a critically acclaimed film screening, or not for G-Rated audiences punk show. At Silver Spring Black Box Theatre (formerly Roundhouse) indulge in the latest tour de force from the resident company, Forum Theatre, a longtime Washington area acting company.

Insider Tip:  Click here to learn more about Forum Theater’s unique pay what you can program available for a show’s entire run.

#3 Nutella for breakfast is no big deal.
Pancakes and french toast are off the griddle when your crew hits Fenton Café for a tasty breakfast treat of either savory (think: chicken and avocado), or sweet crepe creations made with kiddo’s choice of Nutella or other confection.  The European coffees and an kid’s eye view of the crepe makers are also a highlight.

Insider Tip:  While an expanded eating area is anticipated, as of this writing, the cafe is a bit cramped so plan to crepe it up early with the family.

Online:  silverspringdowntown.com
8311 Fenton St.
301-244-5587

#4 You (or a neighbor) is a legit craft beer aficionado.
Parents don’t let other parents skip kicking it with pals, when you can bring the kiddo along too.  At Denizens Brewing Co., the all-ages beer garden welcomes families (and dogs) looking to soak up a little sunshine while tasting a few craft hops.

Insider Tip:  Head to nearby Acorn Park with the bright eyed and bushytailed in your party where murals depict the town’s founding, and you might also find the original source of the Silver in the Spring.

Online:  denizensbrewingco.com
1115 East West Highway
301-557-9818

#5 You count window shopping as a cardio workout.,
While kiddo samples organic cheese or crunches on fresh picked Jazz (apple that is) at the weekly all-seasons farmer’s market in downtown Silver Spring, you find yourself wandering the pedestrian friendly thoroughfare to check out the retail selection, including DSW and H&M.  Fenton Street Market (FSM)’s arts and crafts vendors sadly are gone, but they are looking for a new Silver Spring area home.

Insider Tip:  Go to the FSM website to join their mailing list for the scoop on this year’s plans.  In the meanwhile popular FSM vendor TuTu’s Storybooks with multicultural children’s volumes not found anywhere else, is online at tutusstorybooks .

Online: localharvest.org

#6 You blaze trails (and sidewalks) by bike.
Your bicycle trailer is already hooked up, ready for adventure on the intersecting paths of Sligo Creek and the Northwest Branch.  One of the most immersive natural world respites in the Mid-Atlantic, this trail system is complete with streams, trees, and playground breaks along the way.  With ten plus miles from PG County to Wheaton, many trails are paved (think: stroller-friendly) and accessible to families in surrounding neighborhoods on bikes, or just out for a walk or all day hike.

Insider Tip:  A great short and woodsy walk is between Brookside Gardens and Wheaton Regional Park where you can reward the kids with a miniature train or carousel ride (April-September).

Online:  Northwest Branch Stream Valley Park or Sligo Creek Stream Valley Park

#7 The library is your (and their) happy place.
Artfully arranged munchkin-sized shelves stacked with multiple copies of everybody’s favorites, along with some your little bibliophile has yet to discover, ensure nobody goes home empty-handed from the new Silver Spring library (opened June 2015).  Also featuring a lego play area, and all ages programming for the littlest of patrons on up, this is more than just a place to practice using inside voices.

Insider Tip:  Consider street parking near the intersection of Cedar and Wayne Avenues where you can stop in at Whole Foods for lunch before crossing the street to the library.

Online: montgomerycountymd.go

#8 Brunch is the most important meal on weekends.
You regularly wait in lines longer than the milk, eggs and toilet paper run at the grocery store for a seat by the popular pickle bar at Parkway Deli. With corned beef, blintzes, and matzo ball soup, plus kid favorites like mac and cheese on the menu, this Silver Spring institution is a family’s brunchtime dream come true.

Online: Parkway Delihttp://theparkwaydeli.com/
8317 Grubb Rd,
301-587-2675

Insider Tip:  Parkway has a convenient carry-out counter where you can get a quick fix of prepared foods, or order from the menu.  You can even order from the pickle bar to go!

#9 To unwind you make a bee line for the garden.
You recall baby and me bonding time walking the never-crowded landscaped lanes of Brookside Gardens where the conservatory rivals Federally funded counterparts, with one of the most beautiful and tranquil displays in the D.C. metro area.  Transforming itself seasonally, Brookside is a family haven hosting Wings of Fancy in the Spring with hundreds of butterflies occupying the indoor space, and an over the top train exhibit each Winter.

Insider Tip:  Don’t forget to check out the summer camp offerings at Brookside’s Nature Center through Montgomery County’s Recreation Department

Online:  Brookside Gardens
1800 Glenallan Ave.
301-962-1400

#10 Festival hopping is a family affair.
Your weekend calendar is already booked with highly anticipated area festivals representing a multitude of ethnicities from  FestAfrica, an annual gathering in downtown Silver Spring, projecting 8,000 attendees over two days in August, to the blue and gold onion domes of St. Andrews Church as backdrop to the Washington Urkranian Festival on September 17-18 this year.

Insider Tip:  Go to the website Fairs and Festivals for a nine page listing of events in Maryland, and search on Virginia too.

What are some of the other signs that say you’re a Silver Spring parent?

–Carolyn Ross

San Juan Island getaways are what Seattle summers were made for. Getting away with the kids in tow? Let’s just say it isn’t as easy as it seems. Enter Pebble Cove Farm, a cozy B&B on Orcas Island that caters to kids as much as their parents, so there’s no need to take a vacation from your vacation. Sit back, relax and read on for the inside scoop on this island oasis.

photo: Allison Sutcliffe

Down on the Farm
Tucked into a cove near Deer Harbor on Orcas Island is where you’ll find Pebble Cove Farm, a four-acre parcel of peace and quiet, and an easy weekend getaway for PNW families. This B&B has been around since 2006, after a two-year conversion from dilapidated barn into posh modern inn, and they’ve been welcoming families since the very beginning.

Owners Mike and Lydia Miller have three boys of their own, so they totally get kid-friendly. They’ve tricked out their B&B with indulgences that have complete kid-appeal, like a rowboat, a private island, even a horse to hang with. Plus, without the grandfather clocks, fragile antiques and frilly fixings of a typical B&B, parents can indulge and relax just as much as the kids do.

photo: Allison Sutcliffe 

A Sweet Suite
The whimsical, rustic décor in the Pebble Cove Farm Family Suite ($175-$275 per night) fits the property’s vibe perfectly, stylish without taking itself too seriously. The suite has two adjoining rooms so there’s plenty of space for your entire crew. Use the pull-out couch in the living room for the munchkins or let them bunk with you in the comfy queen in the bedroom. In the living room is where you’ll find the kitchenette. It’s got everything you need to cook a made-from-scratch breakfast of warm eggs plucked from the hen house that morning mixed with fresh-picked veggies and herbs from the garden. Foraging for delish eats is part of the fun of this DIY-spin on the typical B&B breakfast.

photo: Allison Sutcliffe

The sitting room table seats four. And you’ll find a slew of kids’ books, and movies everyone can watch tucked into the console drawers, so there’s no need to take up space in the suitcase with these kid-in-tow travel essentials. If you need a bit more room or want more privacy, consider renting out The Cottage ($220-$325 per night). It’s got much of the same with a bit more space and a private balcony.

photo: Allison Sutcliffe

Take to the Seas
Besides the view, one of the coolest perks of staying at Pebble Cove is taking the rowboat out to Pirate Island. From the moment your minis spy the driftwood fort flying an oversized pirate flag, they’ll be begging to take the trip. Rowing out at low tide is definitely more challenging than when the tide is in, but it’s worth it if your Little loves tide pools. Tons are exposed when the water’s out and they make for some fascinating exploring. Skull Island is another rowable option, just left of Pirate Island. Watch the tides to help make the in-and-out rowing easier if you choose to make this journey. Psst! If your little mates are more the high seas types, the Miller’s have kayaks to rent ($40/2-hours, double; $30/2-hours, single) and a boat tour that can be booked for up to six people ($200/hour). Ahoy, matey!

photo: Allison Sutcliffe 

A Yard of One’s Own
The Millers are all about guests making themselves at home. And there’s no place easier to do it than in the oversized backyard. It’s got everything you need to wear out your wiggle worms and still have them begging to come back and play tomorrow. Play catch, run around or blast off on the playground-grade swing set, this yard is set for limitless play. Best part? There’s a stocked box full of baseballs, soccer balls, pogo sticks and more that get lonely when they’re not getting used. Just behind the swings, you’ll find a cool little playhouse, complete with a ladder and lookout, perfectly proportioned for your sidekick. And the nearby hammock provides a sweet spot for parents to perch while the kids play. You relax. They run. What’s not to love?

photo: Allison Sutcliffe

Farm to Table Dining 
In typical backyard fashion, this one’s got a shared gas grill and a large beachside fire pit just begging for some marshmallow roasting and star gazing on warm summer nights. Both are there for guests to use to grill up an easy dinner or delish lunch. Plan to bring along some grillables (or grab them when you get on island) and then pair them with fresh pickings from the Pebble Cove Farm garden. We’re thinking a crunchy tossed salad and sun-warmed berries should do the trick. It’s an easy way to make a farm-to-table dinner with delicious backdrop to match.

photo: Allison Sutcliffe

The Wild Life
Since Pebble Cove is a working organic farm, seeing animals wandering the property is all part of the fun. Buddy, the horse, is almost always out in the yard, helping to keep the grass “mowed.” He’s super friendly and draws in kids like a magnet or a new Disney movie. They just can’t get enough of him! The goats and chickens like to roam too. Little farmers can follow them around or head to the animal pen for a wild meet and greet when the mood strikes. Remember to have the kiddos bring their food scraps while they’re at it. Feeding leftovers to the animals is a big part of the sustainable eco-system at Pebble Cove Farm.

photo: Allison Sutcliffe 

Play in the State Park
There are a few places around the island that are worth leaving the farm to check out. On a sunny day one of the most magical views in the state is high atop Mt. Constitution in Moran State Park. From this elevation you can spot Mt. Baker in the Cascades, check out some of the other islands in the Straits and give a friendly wave to our Canadian neighbors, eh. It’s a lookout that’s worth the drive or the hike (there are two that lead to the summit), and the observation tower is a fun climb to make with your sidekick. Be sure to stop at the gift shop and pick up a nature scavenger hunt for your littlest explorers. It’s a fun way for them to be on the lookout in the forest.

photo: Allison Sutcliffe

Beyond the summit, the park has a few hikes that are just the right speed for the tot lot. You’ll find the trailhead to the Cascade Falls hike near the bottom of Mount Constitution Road. In under 10 minutes you’ll reach Cascade Falls, the first of a few waterfalls in the area. Stay and play here, or keep exploring along these easy trails. Taking a hike around Cascade Lake is another easy one with the Littles. It’s flat and follows the perimeter of the lake, so there’s no getting lost. Pack a picnic to enjoy along the trail or in the day use area. And consider taking a paddleboat out on the lake in the summer. They’re available for rent through Labor Day.

photo: Allison Sutcliffe

Hit the Town
Getting to downtown Eastsound from Pebble Cove Farm is a pretty straight shot. Its flower-lined streets and peaceful views make it a total stroll-worthy spot on a sunny afternoon. And if it rains (or even if it doesn’t), you can duck into one of the many cute shops that have popped up along the main strip in the last decade or so. The local bookstore, Darvill’s, doubles as a coffee shop, and they’ve got a great collection of books authored by locals. Plus, story time on Fridays for little literati to enjoy. Printshop Northwest is another worthwhile find. They’ve got groovy graphic prints and lots of blank shirts. Pair some up and the whole fam can sport matching island threads around the city.

photo: Allison Sutcliffe

Where to Dine 
Fresh and local is the name of the food game in Eastsound. Restaurants like Rose’s Bakery Café, Mia’s and The Kitchen make finding a great bite easy. It’s a pretty sure bet that no matter where you stop, you won’t be disappointed. And the casual island attitude means having kidlets in tow is never too taboo. As for desserts or sticky gooey breakfast goodies, Brown Bear Baking and Kathryn Taylor Chocolates are sure to satisfy your sweet tooth.

Be Travel Wise
The word is out on the San Juan Islands, so ferry reservations (in either direction) are a must. Book a scenic or express ferry online, or call 511 from your mobile to save a spot. Even with a reservation, plan on arriving at the ferry dock at least 45 minutes before boarding to ensure smooth sailing.

Pebble Cove Farm
3341 Deer Harbor Rd.
Eastsound, Wa 98245
360-376-6161
Online: pebblecovefarm.com

Do you plan to take the kids to Pebble Cove Farm this summer? Have you already been? Tell us about your experience in the Comments below.  

— Allison Sutcliffe