No, I’m not pregnant now. But I was a little over two years ago. And as soon as my good news was confirmed I was determined to research and understand whatever I could to have a peaceful, natural pregnancy and birth.  

The first thing I did was research my prenatal vitamins. My OBGYN gave me about 10 boxes of vitamins to sample and I took one look on the back of each box and sure enough, there were dyes, preservatives and synthetics in EVERY. SINGLE. ONE.  

So I headed to the Health Food Store. I committed to Garden of Life’s MyKind Organics for the following 2.5 years (up until I stopped breastfeeding about a month ago). They cost $50 a month, and I took 3 a day, one with every meal. I am a firm believer that the horse pills that are made with synthetic ingredients that you get on your drugstore shelf are responsible for a lot of the stomach discomfort women experience during pregnancy. These guys are food based and super gentle on your tummy.  

I also upped my fish oil intake 2-3x what is was before. My preferred choice is New Chapter’s Wholemega. Realizing that the brands that were labelled for moms actually had less mg per softgel than the others, I stuck with a brand recommended by the “expert” at Whole Foods and my midwives.  

I switched to working with midwives around 20 weeks of my pregnancy. I did not want to deliver my baby in a hospital if I could avoid it. Although it may sound crazy or risky, I believed strongly that if other women around the world had the choice and were delivering their babies in their bathtubs at home or in birth centers, why couldn’t I?  

I increased my healthy fat and protein intake, like crazy! I know it may not be for everyone, but from the information I gained from my midwives, Hypnobabies training, and tuning into my body, I knew I needed more protein. I prefer a (mostly) plant-based diet for myself and clients, however, this was only temporary. So I ate eggs, some fish (of course googling which fish were safe during pregnancy every single time we ate out), organic chicken or grass fed beef nearly every day. Avocados and chia seeds were already a staple for sure.  

What did I eliminate? In addition to the traditional recommendations like raw cheeses, alcohol, caffeine and sushi, I made sure to stay away from all cold cuts, processed foods, fast foods, and I REALLY watched my sugar intake. I had this crazy idea in my head that if I ate too much sugar I would get gestational diabetes, so I limited myself to about 1-2 cookies a day.  

I also walked. And walked and walked. I walked an average of one hour per day for 6 days a week during my pregnancy. Something was telling my system that regular weight bearing exercises and cardio were not going to work for me (I was having a very high number of braxton hicks contractions for the majority of my pregnancy) and I wanted to keep the peace instead of push myself. It was the best way to keep my little one in position and give me the fresh air and movement I craved.  

And I meditated. With the help of my Hypnobabies tracks, homework and Naam Yoga Meditations, I made sure to meditate several times a week to envision a healthy, happy birth exactly as I had dreamed. Of course I needed to nap a lot too, so these went hand in hand.  

There’s an overwhelming amount of information out there about pregnancy and birth. I trusted my gut and focused on the books, advice and information shared with me from those I trusted the most. Make sure to always consult with your midwife or OB if you have questions about your pregnancy or baby. 

Nicole L. Schmitz, helps others to improve their energy, digestion, sleep, nutrition, weight, and health conditions with simplified, cleaner eating, and better self-care. She is a mother, aspiring yogi, writer, and artist, loves living by the beach, and inspiring others to make clear and confident healthy lifest‌yle choices every day. 

 

Fed is always best, but if you make the choice to breastfeed that doesn’t mean it’s always smooth sailing. New research has found that certain breastfeeding relaxation treatments can help moms feel less stressed and babies eat and sleep more.

A new study published in The American Journal of Clinical Nutrition tested the effects of a relaxation intervention on nursing moms. The researchers measured how the treatment impacted maternal psychological state, breast milk intake, milk cortisol levels and infant behavior and growth.

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The trial was small and included just 64 first time moms who delivered a healthy full-term infant and were exclusively breastfeeding, but it resulted in lower stress scores for the women and longer sleep duration and higher weight gain in infants versus the control group.

The relaxation therapy involved an audio recording which encouraged relaxation through deep breathing and gave positive messages about breastfeeding and mother-baby bonding. The moms were asked to listen to the recording daily while breastfeeding or expressing milk for a period of at least two weeks and were encouraged to listen beyond the initial period whenever it felt useful. They recorded their uses in a diary. The moms in both the intervention group and control group also received standard breastfeeding support in the form of pamphlets and directories of lactation consultants and breastfeeding support groups.

The intervention group had significantly lower stress scores than the control group. A 59 percent increased intake of breastmilk was observed in the infants in the intervention group versus a 39 percent increase in the control group. The infants in the intervention group also recorded significantly higher sleep duration by an average of 82 minutes per day over the control group.

“Our trial highlights the importance of minimizing and reducing maternal stress, because the experimental relaxation intervention influenced infant behavior, breast-milk cortisol, and volume at one timepoint, and subsequently infant growth,” the study’s authors concluded. “Given that the intervention tool is simple and practical, it could easily be used in future interventions aimed at increasing the rates and duration of breastfeeding.”

—Shahrzad Warkentin

 

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You worry about pesticides, herbicides and all other kinds of -cides that pop up in your kiddo’s lunch. But what about plastics? According to new research, published in the journal Environmental Science & Technology, Americans eat somewhere in between 39,000 and 52,000 microplastic particles a year. But before you ditch grocery store life for 100 percent homegrown eats, read on for more info on what you can do to reduce the risks.

Before you start stressing (or freaking out) over this study’s stats, take a look at what the numbers mean. The researchers looked at foods/beverages that make up 15 percent of most Americans’ diets. And while they did find significant plastic contamination, there are steps you can take now to potentially minimize this issue.

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If you’ve never heard of microplastics—these are super-small (sesame seed-sized_ particles of plastic that get into food, water and the air. Humans ingest the plastic particles while eating and drinking. We also inhale these particles just by breathing.

After reviewing data from 26 studies (representing 3,600 samples) the researchers found that air, bottled water and seafood were the largest sources of microplastics.

Switching from bottled to tap water is another way to reduce exposure to microplastics. According to the data review, people who get their daily water intake completely through bottled water may ingest an extra 90,000 microplastic particles each year. In comparison, tap water drinkers ingest 4,000.

Reducing the number of plastic products you use, making a dent in the microplastic particle problem.

—Erica Loop

 

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Every parent has had a day or two (or a thousand) when that extra cup of coffee is vital to keeping you awake until you tuck the kids in. But how much is too much? According to new research you can safely drink 25 cups of coffee per day.

A recent study presented at the British Cardiovascular Society’s conference found that compared to those who drank less than one cup a day, coffee drinkers who consumed anywhere from five to 25 cups a day did not have a higher risk of arterial stiffness, which can increase the risk of stroke and heart attack.

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The question is, should you drink 25 cups even if it is safe? There are other factors to keep in mind. For example, pregnant and breastfeeding women should consult with their doctors on how much caffeine intake is safe. Those with heart disease and high blood pressure should also be cautious Alice Lichtenstein, a professor at the Tufts Friedman School of Nutrition Science and Policy warned TIME.

There’s also the issue of sleep deprivation. While you might need that caffeine boost to get you through the day, it could also be keeping you awake when you finally get a few minutes for some much needed shut eye.

While most people would likely find it difficult to even consume 25 cups a day, after all that’s more than one cup an hour, the important take away is, that extra cup or two on a rough day shouldn’t cause harm.

—Shahrzad Warkentin

 

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Children refusing to eat what you put in front of them can be stressful for parents. However, independence in meals is completely appropriate for children, as they learn to discriminate based on newly recognized qualities of food, such as taste, texture, presentation, and familiarity.

If you have a fussy eater at home, you’re not alone. I took an informal survey of about 10 parents, and more than half of them identified their children as being fussy eaters.

Fussy children can make meals hectic. Concerns about wasting food and whether your child eats enough “good” food (or even enough food) are common concerns. Subsequent power struggles can make meals a burden. And planning your child’s preferences can be almost impossible.

However, there is good news: Some of the typical behaviors of fussy eaters, such as refusing new foods and times when your child only wants to eat their favorite food are normal.

Based on the experience of my little ones and the dozens of little ones of family friends, with time and repeated exposures, without pressure, most children will accept new foods. You can also breathe easier: the vast majority of children who consider themselves fussy do not really have severely restricted diets or suboptimal growth.

Over the years, here are the strategies we’ve learned that you can use to create happier and healthier meals.

1. Change Your Perception

The first step for exhausted parents is often a change of perception. During the preschool years, slowing growth (compared to the rapid growth seen during childhood and childhood) can affect dietary intake. Psychological changes can also cause kids to, naturally, develop a sense of independence.

As agents of their own preferences and actions, preschoolers prefer to feed themselves. They can develop strong opinions about food.

By labeling our children “fussy”, we are labeling behaviors that are considered appropriate for development as non-conforming.

When we consider that children reject food as nonconforming, interactions with our child during meals often become stressful. We tend to focus on getting our children to comply with our requests, rather than promoting a healthy relationship with food.

Instead of seeing children as non-conforming, we can recognize this display of independence in meals as completely appropriate for their age. Your child will discriminate based on newly recognized qualities of foods, such as taste, texture, presentation, and familiarity.

Focus your attention on encouraging your child’s healthy eating without pressing. Enjoy the time you spend together during meals, instead of focusing on your child’s intake.

2. Accommodate Them

Accommodating your child’s preferences during meals is a win-win situation: They exercise some independence, while also eating the foods you have prepared.

During the meal planning stages, ask your child what she would like to eat during the week or take your child to the grocery store and ask them to choose a vegetable to try.

Accepting children’s preferences does not mean you have to eat chicken fingers every night. If you are serving a spicy Thai dish, consider making a version with fewer spices for your children.

3. Have Children Try New Foods

Don’t press your children to eat foods that they don’t like. It’s okay if your child does not like broccoli. Plenty of adults don’t either.

As with many things, repeated daily exposure, offering non-food rewards for tasting unpleasant foods and parents who eat the same food as the child has shown to be effective methods for helping increase adoption of healthier types of food.

The use of rewards such as stickers can improve the acceptance of new foods by your children and make repeated exhibitions more fun. Praise your child for trying new foods, but stay neutral if they choose not to eat it right away.

4. Establish a Healthy Eating Model

It is also important that you eat with your child when he offers you new foods. You can not expect your child to eat vegetables if you don’t eat them either!

Children with parents who model healthy eating habits have been reported to be less “demanding” and to be more likely to taste unpleasant vegetables and eat more fruits and vegetables.

5. Children Make Excellent Cooks

Engaging the whole family in the preparation of the meal can relieve stress during the meal. And there is no reason you have to make dinner all alone! Have your child wash food while cutting, set the table while dinner is in the oven, or prepare a portion of the meal that can be largely automated using a rice cooker or microwave.

Children who participate in meal preparation have more positive attitudes towards food and are more likely to later eat the food they help prepare.

Make your children head chefs! You’ll help increase their ownership and self-confidence by doing so and teaching them good habits for life.

Im a lover of all things food and drink and can offer tips on the best cookware, restaurants and recipes that you'll be sure to love.

Protect the Planet!  Eat sustainably!  We hear these phrases a lot, but what do they really mean and why is it important?   We’ve seen our food ecosystem undergo a rapid and significant transformation from small, local farms to huge industrial systems. Not only is the global population we need to feed growing, but our eating habits have evolved; we now demand a greater variety of food that’s less expensive, available where we want and when we want it. This has made our food less healthy, heavily processed and preserved, which damages our environment, our planet and our bodies.

But it’s not all gloom and doom; we can all do little things to eat more sustainably, and one by one, create big change together.  Doing so combines the best nutritional science that supports a lifetime of personal health and wellness with a lifest‌yle and food choices that protect the health of our planet.  Therefore, a sustainable diet is one where you choose the healthiest foods possible that have a lower impact on the environment.  So, how exactly do you do you that?

Make plants a priority.  Try to make half your plate fruits and vegetables! Plants can provide the protein your body needs, along with vitamins, minerals and phytochemicals to maintain health and protection from disease.  Legumes, lentils, tofu, tempeh, and seitan are a few examples of excellent sources of plant protein.

Find whole foods.  Whole foods are foods that are close to their natural form as possible, for example, less processed and tinkered with.  Up your whole grain intake by mixing half whole wheat flour and half white flour the next time you bake cookies (your kids won’t even know!) or mix half brown and half white rice with your favorite meal.  In addition, fresh fruits and vegetables in their natural form are fantastic choices, as well as seeds and nuts since they all provide the most and widest variety of nutrients possible, helping you maintain your health and prevent disease.

Reduce animal intake.  What a lot of people don’t realize is that animal food production has a devastating impact on the environment due to greenhouse gas emissions, land used for livestock feed instead of food to feed humans, and the vast water requirements of animal food production. Does this mean you need to give up eating meat? No, but there are a number of things you can do to play your part in protecting the planet.

• Eggs, dairy, poultry, and pork have a lower environmental impact than red meat so switch up your animal protein sources to eat a few less hamburgers, steaks and roasts.

• Reduce your usual portion size of animal protein or combine both plant and animal sources.  For example, blend your burger with mushrooms or legumes, or have a beef and bean burrito. To reduce meat and increase whole grains at the same time, add ¾ cup uncooked oats to each pound of ground beef or turkey when making meatballs, burgers or your favorite meatloaf recipe.

• Think of beef, lamb or veal as your condiment that provides great taste but does not need to contribute large amounts to the meal.  For example, re-imagine your Sunday dinner as less of a big roast and more of a surf and turf with a few bites of red meat with a great seafood choice with lots of vegetables.

• Experiment with recipes such as a stir fry, salad, grain bowl, or pasta dish where animal protein is not the star of the show but plays a more supporting role.

Think local and seasonal.  Many of us have grown accustomed to having a wide variety of fresh produce available at our supermarkets at all times of the year. We import fruits and vegetables from around the globe to make them available to us even when they’re not in season locally.  Eating seasonally means that you eat produce when it is grown in your local area, which helps support local farmers and reduces the time and distance between harvest and market. Look for farmers markets and community supported agriculture (CSA) in your community.  You’ll enjoy fresh products that were grown in your community or nearby that taste great, and you might even get to know your local farmer!

Seafood that’s sustainable. Choosing seafood that is either caught or farmed in a sustainable way helps protect the harvested species, other species and the ocean itself.  How can you tell how sustainable your seafood is? It’s a lot easier than you might think- Monterey Bay Aquarium Seafood Watch has a free mobile app that classifies fish with “best”, “good”, or “avoid” categories to help you make sustainable choices for a healthier ocean.

Reduce waste.  It’s hard to believe, but about 40 percent of the food we eat ends up in the landfill.  You can do your part to reduce food waste starting in your own home with a few changes to your routine.  Start by planning meals for the week and take your ingredient list to the grocery store.  Take it a step further by planning your meals with the intent of utilizing the food that is in your refrigerator or pantry, maybe with a shelf life that’s about to expire. You can also freeze leftovers to use another day and don’t discard food after the sell-by date which does not impact food safety at all.  Also, store food correctly to extend its life and If you’re not sure how, check out the free FoodKeeper mobile app.

I have a passion for public health. As a Registered Dietician, I’ve been fortunate enough to turn that passion into a career with Chartwells K-12, where I help give millions of students across the country the nutrition and nourishment they need to live healthy, happy lives.

While the bulk of the holidays has passed, it can be especially chaotic when you are nursing a baby this time of year regardless. Family, friends and a multitude of festivities are bound to interrupt your regular feeding schedule. Here are a few tips on how to breeze through the holidays so you too can take part in the fun.

Keeping Track

Stay organized by creating a list of all your expected events and set reminders on your smartphone for your baby’s feeding schedule. It will truly make a difference during the hustle and bustle of the season. Nursing complications are a common occurrence that may interrupt precious holiday time. With frequent feedings, your milk supply stays consistent and helps prevent complications such as mastitis, clogged milk ducts and breast engorgement.

Additionally, we encourage you to prepare a nursing bag in advance with all the items you’ll require to pump or nurse with ease, no matter where you are. Choose to wear clothing that gives easy access to the breast or does not require undressing completely.

Pay Attention to Your Baby’s Needs (& Yours, Too)

Do what works for you and your family. When it comes to pumping and nursing, it is important to stick to what is most comfortable. Normal holiday stress can inhibit letdown, so extra nursing sessions can be a great way to relax and spend quality time together with your baby.

Staying hydrated is an essential part of expressing milk that is rich in nutrients. It is easy to forget about drinking water during holiday festivities due to consumption of large meals and various snacks, so remember to keep up your water intake to ensure a smooth process while breastfeeding.

Sleep is another vital factor in milk production. Between family functions and social events, it can be easy to lose a few hours of sleep to rush and get things done in time. Make sure you prioritize you and your baby’s rest.

Have Fun & Enjoy Yourself!

Holidays, such as New Year’s, are for appreciating precious family moments, focusing on friends and being grateful for your time together. For breastfeeding mothers, this chaos does not have to completely alter you and your baby’s feeding schedule. The most important part is to have fun and celebrate with the people you care about most.

With a little bit of planning and the help of your family members and support systems, this time of year becomes that much more enjoyable and easy to navigate.

Rachael Sablotsky Kish
Tinybeans Voices Contributor

Rachael Sablotsky Kish is the Co-Founder and Chief Operating Officer of Imalac, a med-tech company which created Nurture, a hands-free breast massage system for nursing mothers that uses an attachable massage component to replicate hands-on pumping. Kish is a Certified Lactation Counselor (CLC), educating and training women on breastfeeding.

If someone asked you, “How much sugar does your kid eat?”—do you think you’d know the real answer? According to new research, you might not. A recent study shows that parents aren’t always adept at knowing how much sugar is in the foods that their kids eat.

Sugar consumption is believed to be one of the leading factors of childhood obesity, which is why in 2015 the World Health Organization recommended that everyone—kids and adults—should limit their daily sugar intake to less than 10 percent of all calories consumed. For kids this equates to about 45 grams of sugar a day. However, it isn’t always easy to determine how much sugar is in the food we eat.

Researchers at the Max Planck Institute for Human Development in Berlin surveyed 305 German families with at least one child between the ages of 6 and 12. They measured the body mass index of the kids and had parents complete a quiz asking them to estimate sugar content in specific foods.

According to the study published in the International Journal of Obesity, parents often underestimate how much sugar is in certain foods that kids regularly eat that they don’t automatically equate with sweets, like pizza and ketchup. About three quarters of the parents underestimated the sugar content, with seemingly healthier foods being more highly underestimated.

The sugar content of yogurt, for example, was underestimated by 92 percent of parents—by 21 grams on average. The highest BMI measurements in the kids was associated with the parents who underestimated sugar content the most, suggesting that sugar intake could be related to weight gain.

The study’s authors believe the “findings suggest that providing easily accessible and practicable knowledge about sugar content through, for instance, nutritional labeling may improve parents’ intuition about sugar.”

Not sure about how much sugar might be hiding in your food? This chart from 9Round.com breaks down all the surprising amounts of sugar are in everyday foods—even those you might not realize have sugar in them:

—Shahrzad Warkentin

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We’ve all heard that too much sugar isn’t a good thing. But cutting back on it can be hard to do on a holiday like Valentine’s Day where heart-shaped candies rule.

Here are three simple, colorful and fun ways to indulge and say “I Heart You” to your favorite little loved one this Valentine’s Day—without all the sugar. Your kids won’t even know what they’re missing—pinky promise.

1. Ruby Red Soda

On average, about half of kids’ sugar intake is from drinks like soda, sports drinks and fruit punch. A 12-ounce cola has a whopping 32 grams of sugar. It’s clear we need to ditch the sugar-sweetened drinks. But Valentine’s Day calls for something more exciting than water!

This Ruby Red Soda, featured on the cover of my cookbook, Mom’s Sugar Solution, is a great solution. It’s fun, simple, and completely free of artificial dyes and sugar.

2. Brownie Bites

In addition to beverages, baked goods and other desserts are the other major source of sugar in our diets, especially on a day like Valentine’s! Not only are most baked goods overly sweetened, but the portion size is out of control. I’m a firm believer in enjoying sweets now and then, but we need to scale back their size.

My Mom’s Sugar Solution recipe for Brownie Bites is super scrumptious and way lower in sugar than a store-bought version. They’re also gluten-free, but you’d never know it!

3. Apple Peanut Butter Rings

Valentine’s Day is full of sweetness, but just 10 of those cute little Valentine’s conversation candies rings in at at whopping 28 grams of sugar—more than your kiddo should be eating in a whole day.

Instead, try these wholesome Apple Peanut Butter Rings, which are naturally sweet and colorful. Insider tip: any apple will do, but my kids’ favorites are newer varietites like Ambrosia, Kanzi and Kiku. They’re bursting with flavor!

What other ways will you be taming your little sugar monster this Valentine’s Day? Share with me in the comments below.

Featured Photo Courtesy: Josh Newman via Flickr

Laura is a Chicago-based registered dietitian nutritionist, the author of Mom's Sugar Solution, founder of Smart Eating for Kids, spokesperson for the Illinois Academy of Nutrition & Dietetics and mom to two elementary-aged kids. Her approach to healthy eating is all about simiplicity and fun!

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Everyone wants a healthy baby. But whether or not we say it out loud, sometimes a mom or dad is secretly hoping for a particular gender to complete the family. And, it turns out, there are some science-backed things you can do to help your wish come true.

If You’re Hoping for a Baby Boy, Stock up on Bananas
A study published in the Proceeding of the Royal Society B found that women with diets high in potassium (found in bananas, as well as potatoes, clams, and artichokes, among other foods) are more likely to bear sons.

“We were able to confirm the old wives’ tale that eating bananas and so having a high potassium intake was associated with having a boy, as was a high sodium intake,” the study’s lead author Fiona Mathews, a specialist in mammalian biology at Exeter University, told the Guardian newspaper.

— and, Drink Milk. With Cereal
The study also found that diets higher in calcium led to higher numbers of boy babies. “The old take about drinking a lot of milk to have a girl doesn’t seem to hold up,” Mathews said in a CNN report. “In fact, more calcium meant they were again more likely to have a boy.”

There’s more: Mamas who want boys should also start their day with a bowl of cereal, since daily cereal consumption also appeared to result in more male births. Of women eating cereals daily, 59 percent had boys, compared with only 43 percent of boy births for women who reported eating less than a bowlful per week, the report said.

Hoping for a Baby Girl? Cut the Salt, Skip the Bananas & Load up on Magnesium
Mamas hoping for a little girl might want to try a diet low in salt and rich in beans and hard cheeses, according to scientists from Maastricht University in Holland. Their research found that women with a diet high in magnesium and calcium, and low in sodium, appeared more likely to give birth to girls. This was in conjunction with the timing of intercourse, which the scientists said should be avoided the day of and the day before ovulation.

“In total, 32 women satisfied the conditions of the prediction rule and the observed percentage of female babies in this group was 81%,” a report published in the journal Reproductive Biomedicine. “The conclusion of the study is that a maternal diet together with timing of sexual intercourse and use of a prediction rule will lead to an increased probability of a girl baby.”

The researchers also told moms who want baby girls to avoid potassium-rich foods.

No matter what gender you’re hoping to have, all pregnancy (and pre-pregnancy) diets should be packed with nutrition. Because, of course, all we really want is a healthy baby boy or girl.

For more gender-swaying myths versus realities, click on this article from Daily Mail.

Did you try anything to sway your baby’s gender? Tell us in the comments below.