Here’s another reason to get pumped for Tokyo. To support breastfeeding during the Olympic Games, Willow has offered to send the brand’s Generation 3 wearable breast pump to Olympic athletes, coaches, training staff and onsite support.

Although organizers of Tokyo’s events had banned athletes’ families from attending the Games due to Covid-19 safety protocols, they’ve now made an exception for Olympic participants with nursing children. In response, Willow is offering to send them the pump and has made this their message: Being a breastfeeding mother and a world-class athlete do NOT need to be mutually exclusive.

Athletes and other busy moms love the hands-free technology and full mobility of this wearable pump. The Willow all-in-one breast pump fits inside your bra with no external tubes, cords or bottles, so it’s great for on-the-go, even if where you’re going is the Olympics!

The pump is spill-proof in any position, so you can lie down, bend over, jump on a Zoom call, tend to kids or train for your Olympic sport while pumping that liquid gold. Check out the Willow breast pump on their website and learn more about their generous Olympics offer on this Instagram post.

—Eva Ingvarson Cerise

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Hanging out at home awaiting baby’s arrival or nesting after you’ve given birth means needing comfortable clothing to lounge around in, day or nightor both. Here are our favorite ways to stay cozy while you’re holed up at home.

Women's Ultra-Soft Bamboo Jogger Pant from Cozy Earth

Cozy Earth

Here's why you need these joggers: They're softer than your favorite old t-shirt. They have pockets for your phone, pacifiers or anything else you're toting around. The bamboo-based fabric is temperature-regulating so you'll feel cool and cozy even with a baby sleeping on you. And also? You'll look like a million bucks in them, especially if you pair them with the brand's pullover crew or lounge tee.

Available at cozyearth.com, $108.

"Damn You're a Good Mother!" Chari-Tee by Boob Design

Boob Design

Remind yourself what a great job you're doing with this inspirational t-shirt from Boob Design. In addition to the confidence boost, you'll feel good that 10% of revenue a leading women's rights organization. The top is designed to work with and without a bump and featured a figure-flattering front panel that even works for nursing. 

Available at boobdesign.com, $69. 

Jane Maternity & Nursing Pajamas by Kindred Bravely

Kindred Bravely

This ultra-soft fitted sleepwear set is stylish enough to wear all day and night, and you'll likely be wearing it long after your child is done nursing. Thanks to the clever construction of the top, you can lift the top's nursing panel for breastfeeding while you stay warm and covered.

Available at kindredbravely.com, $34.99.

CozyChic Unisex Robe by Barefoot Dreams

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To know Barefoot Dreams is to love them, so get ready to fall head over heels for this calf-skimming robe. Just as soft and cozy as the brand's beloved blankets and cardigans, the robe doesn't shrink or pill. And it's machine-washable, so it can take on all of baby's messes.

Available at nordstrom.com, $74.25–$99.

Slumber Party Top from JJwinks

JJWinks

The Slumber Party top is perfect for those long, sleepless nights and cozy mornings with your baby. The signature top from JJwinks, this stylish piece features the company's amazing Light Hug (soft elastic shelf) inside to keep you bra-free and comfortable. The double back strap adds a touch of sexiness to this chic top.

Available at jjwinks.com, $75.

Poppy Leggings by Anook Athletics

Anook Athletics

Available in tall (28.5”) and short (26”), these leggings come in two neutral colors (heathered char and heathered stone). Both colors and lengths feature a waistline power mesh that won’t have you pulling or adjusting the belly band every five minutes. It’s supportive and giving enough for a growing bump and offers compression after baby is born. The extra-wide gusset with antimicrobial liner offers ventilation, and the moisture management knit material wicks away sweat.

Available at anookathletics.com, $98.

 

Grown-Up PJs by Primary

Primary

Moms love Primary's clothes for kids for their great quality, timeless style, easily matchable colors and classic patterns, all at a reasonable price. And thanks to the recent launch of pajamas in adult sizes, you can lounge in style while twinning with your littles. Bonus: They come in unisex sizing, so you can deck out the whole family. 

Available at primary.com.

Mother Tucker Moto Style Leggings by Belly Bandit

Belly Bandit

With an ultra-high waist and compression for postpartum belly support, as well as a nice boost to your bum, these leggings are just what a new mom needs to feel like herself again. Available in olive green, steel gray and black.

Available at bellybandit.com, $89.95.

Nursing 3 Piece Sleep Set

Motherhood Maternity

A short robe, elastic-waist pants and a polka-dotted tank top (with nursing clips if you need them) make up this cute set for new moms. It's comfy for sleeping in and you'll feel covered up if someone stops by unexpectedly.

Available at motherhood.com, $34.99.

The Back in the Game Nursing Jumpsuit from HATCH

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HATCH

Stylish and functional, yes, please! This chic jumpsuit looks sophisticated, especially in this rich brown shade (it also comes in black), and it features an ingenious double layer of fabric at the V-neck that you can pull aside for nursing or pumping. 

Available at hatchcollection.com, $248.

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We’re here to remind you that summer’s coming, and it’s time to just put on the suit already, mom. The first step? Find a swimsuit that’s as unique and fabulous as you are. We rounded up 14 bathing suits moms across the country adore. No matter your size, shape or style preference, these women’s swimwear picks will win you over thanks to their well-made, on-trend and comfortable styles. Scroll down to find a swimsuit that suits you.

BCA By Rebecca Virtue Swimsuits

Who says mom suits need to be frumpy? When you're in the mood to don something a little stylish poolside, check out the BCA by Rebecca Virtue line at Walmart. The affordable collection features one pieces and bikinis in classic silhouettes that include retro high waisted options. We also love the simple, yet fun patterns that up your swim style in the best way.

Available at Walmart, $16.88+

The Sidestroke from Summersalt

Summersalt

This popular suit fits all shapes and sizes and comes in a dozen different color combos! It's got compression, is stylish and there's even a long torso option! 

Available at Summersalt, $95. 

Tankini from SouqFone

Amazon

This adorable and stylish tankini suit comes in dozens of different colors and prints, has plenty of tummy coverage and high-waisted bottoms for extra control. Plus, the price point is so great, you can buy two or three to mix it up! 

Available at Amazon, $9.79 & up. 

Swim and Beachwear Collection from Duluth Trading Co.

Duluth

Moms looking for swimwear that can withstand an active day at the beach should definitely check out the new line from Duluth. You'll find mix-and-match pieces that will let you dig a sandcastle, go for a swim and lug that overfilled wagon down a long beach. We especially love the thoughtful details like anti-slip grippers (to prevent the dreaded ride up), adjustable straps and everyone's favorite—pockets! Pieces include a one-piece swim dress, swim shorts, tankini top and long-sleeve shirt for extra projection.

Find the whole line here

Swimwear from Boden USA

Boden USA

Boden is another brand that consistently attracts mom fans every swimsuit season. Their breadth of styles and patterns ensures you’ll find something to fit your taste. Pictured here is Boden’s Santorini swimsuit, which features body-sculpting lining, a built-in shelf bra with lightly padded cups and boning at the side seam for extra support and flattering side paneling. Bonus: it’s machine washable and is made with material that’ll give you enough support to chase your toddler through waves, splash pads and slip ‘n’ slides.

Available at BodenUSA, $90 & up. 

Raspberry Tie-Dye One Piece from Terez

There's much to love about the swimsuit collection for Terez, but we love that while their one-piece suits provide ample coverage, they come in tons of fabulous prints! The fully-lined pieces have cute coverage in the front and offer a low back to give a simple style a little more pizazz! We also loved that they are made from a recycled poly blend that results in a silky feel with tons of stretch.

Available at Terez, $180.

The Tulum from Andie

While there are several Andie suits to choose from, including these new styles and a maternity suit, we were especially wowed by this simple one-piece that reminds us of the swim team suits of our youth with a little added class. The criss-cross back straps offer added support and you can choose from over a dozen different colors.

Available at Andie Swim, $95. 

Tempt Me Tankini

This tankini has a ruched waist, which makes for added tummy control, a high one-shoulder strap that means everything stays in place and includes a padded push-up bra for extra support. Sizes range from XS to XXL and come in over 15 different colors and prints.

Available at Amazon, $34.99. 

Nursing Suit from MOLOCO

Moloco

Leave it to a mom to create a nursing-friendly swimwear line that's stylish and functional. Mika Oakes, the brains behind MOLOCO, is a former fashion industry insider, yoga teacher and mama to a five-year-old son in Brooklyn. Her designs include one- and two-pieces, both perfect for nursing moms. Each one features a hidden nursing panel for easy access for baby (read: no annoying clips here that'll expose your whole breast). Bonus: the style is versatile enough to wear both pre-and post-breastfeeding.

Available at Moloco, $128.

Kona Sol Swimwear from Target

Target

Kona Sol is a Target size-inclusive line that’s made for women of all shapes. The collection is available in sizes XS to XXL as well as 14W to 26W (select styles only). According to Mark Tritton, executive vice president and chief merchandising officer, Target, “We know the search for the perfect swimsuit can be daunting. Our goal is to make shopping for swimwear fun, easy and inspiring.”

Available Target, $19.99-$39.99 

Swimsuits from Knix

Knix

Moms may know Knix for their uber-comfortable bras and undies. And the good news is, back just in time for summer is their popular swimwear line. The three different styles will feature Knix’s built-in wire-free bra technology and all will go up to 2XL (covering sizes 2-20) with some fitting a G cup. Choose from three colors: black, rose and peacock. Not only is the swimwear made for real mom bods, but we love that Knix backs up their collection with real women of all shapes and sizes in their marketing and social media campaigns. The new summer line features real customers!

Get updates on their 2021 Swimwear launch by clicking here. 

Maternity Suits from HATCH

HATCH

Pregnant mamas flock to HATCH for their chic styles that are anything but frumpy maternity wear. We love that HATCH makes pregnancy look and feel sexy and effortless, and their new swim line is no different. Featuring seven styles from a one-piece ruffle to a two-piece that will still make you feel confident in the height of pregnancy, HATCH's swim collection is a must for any pregnant mama looking to elevate her style this summer.

Available in sizes small to extra large at HATCH $188-$218

Classic Esther Williams Suit

Esther Williams

For moms who want a bit of old-school glam to their swimwear look, turn to Esther Williams. Our Managing Editor swears by this style as it has lasted her a whopping 16 years—her exact quote, "best. swimsuits. ever." From classic sheath one-pieces to two-piece separates and an A-line swim dress, Esther Williams is vintage swimwear at its best.

Available at Esther Williams, $79.

Saint Somebody

Saint Somebody

Embrace your curves with Saint Somebody. Designed in Australia and made in Bali, these swimsuits come in classic colors and modern cuts. Made for women size 8-16, Saint Somebody promotes their collection as perfect for women at the higher end of ‘regular’ sizing and the lower end of ‘plus’ sizing. No matter your body type, Saint Somebody will make you feel confident and comfortable in a suit that actually fits!

Available in multiple designs at Saint Somebody, starting at $79.

—Erin Lem, Erica Loop & Karly Wood

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And you thought it was just about baseball. Whether your sluggers are obsessed with the Braves or your family is just looking for a fun way to spend a summer afternoon, a trip to Truist Park delivers. From a cutting-edge kids’ area in the stadium to a splash pad on your way out of it (not to mention the baby changing tables in every restroom), you’ll be singing Take Me Out to the Ball Game all summer long. Keep reading for our favorite things you won’t want to miss about a trip to Truist Park.

Truist Park Kids Zone

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Hope & Will's Sandlot, presented by Children's Healthcare of Atlanta, is a state-of-the-art kids' zone with a rock-climbing wall, zipline, carnival games, and more. You'll find it in sections 152-155. Games and attractions require a token to play, which can be purchased in the Sandlot for $1 each. 

Home Run: Kids 14 and under can enjoy interactive games and experiences in Hope & Will's Sandlot at no charge, every Sunday.

Kids Club

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Kids ages 3-14 can gear up like the pros and get exclusive offers for Braves games and events all year long by joining the Kids Club. The All-Star Membership is $34 and includes Ozzie AlbiesT-Shirt Jersey, headband, arm sleeve, socks, drawstring bag, and more. Or, opt for the free Braves Rookie Membership and get invitations to exclusive Kids Club access-only events. Memberships can be purchased online or at Truist Park during a game day.

Home Run: After every Sunday home game, kids ages 4-14 are invited onto the field after the game to run the bases just like a professional baseball player. No reservations are necessary—just line them up at the 3rd base ramp (section 131) at the bottom of the 7thinning. If you join the All-Star Kids Club, you can gain VIP Access to Kids Run the Bases, but you don't have to be a member to participate on Sunday's base runs. 

Food

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First things first: outside food and sealed plastic bottles of water are allowed inside Truist Park as long as it fits inside a clear, gallon-sized plastic bag. One bag of food and one bottle of water per ticket will be permitted, which can save families headed to see the Braves play a considerable amount of money. Or, choose among some of Atlanta's best restaurants just outside the park, in The Battery. 

Home Run: If you spring for buying food from the vendors at Truist Park, we love the H+F Burger in the outfield and behind home plate. And for dessert, don't miss an opportunity to have a High Road Craft tomahawk bar, which is dipped in chocolate and topped with mouth-watering toppings. 

 

Potty & Nursing Room

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Finally! Somebody gets it! There are diaper changing stations In. Every. Bathroom. At. Truist. Park. If this doesn't make you a Braves fan, I'm not sure what will. Luckily, it's not the only reason to get behind Atlanta's hometown team. Family restrooms are found in sections 120, 143, 140, 148, 152, 313, 323, 329 and 346.

Home Run: Truist Park offers a lounge that is a fully dedicated space for nursing mothers that's staffed by a Guest Services ambassador. Located on the lower level near the left-field gate at section 141, the air-conditioned nursing lounge is equipped with comfortable rocking chairs, a diaper changing station, and a play area for toddlers.

 

Mizuno Glove Rental

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If you forget to bring your glove for trying to catch a foul ball (or home run), you can rent a Mizuno glove at two locations in the ballpark. Glove rentals are free but a $1 charge is added to your card until the glove is returned. The glove must be returned by end of the game or you will be charged the entire cost of the glove. 

Home Run: For your best bet to catch a ball, the Home Run Porch seats can be found just beyond the outfield wall running between the left-field foul pole and the start of the Chophouse seats in right-center. Not only are these seats some of the most affordable in the park, but they're also a favorite of ball hawks looking to snag a souvenir during pre-game batting practice. Just be sure to wear sunscreen, because this part of the park gets very little shade.

Monument Garden

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Learn about the history of the Atlanta Braves at Monument Garden, featuring artifacts, memorabilia, statues, and sculptures. Children will especially love the interactive displays and audio features. Find it on the Lower Level, Section 125, and don't miss the Hank Aaron tribute of hundreds of bats that spell out 755 (for his 755 home runs). 

Home Run: Head to this spot when you need a little cooling off. The giant fans and shade in this area are good at their jobs. 

—Shelley Massey

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Babies are lots of things—precious, sweet, funny, adorable, the list goes on. But one thing they are not? Easy. And that applies whether you’re a first-timer or a seasoned pro at the mom game. The good thing is, you’re not alone in navigating the crazy, messy, amazing journey of being a baby mama. Those who have gone before are always ready to offer their best advice. Here are 25 short-and-sweet parenting tips on everything from sleep and must-have baby gear to self-care.

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1. Go slow and spend lots of time at home. It will keep mommy and baby healthy.

2. Have a routine and stick to it.

3. When in doubt, put them on the boob or add water (bath, shower, sprinkler, hydrate).

4. Don't scroll Facebook while you nurse in the middle of the night. It’s harder to get back to sleep, and you’ll miss out on savoring the time with your baby. It really goes by so quickly, although it doesn't feel like when you're nursing several hours a day!

5. Never wake a sleeping baby.

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6. Oldest and best advice in the book: Rest when they rest. Housework can wait.

7. Babies get bored, too! A change of scenery, like a walk around the neighborhood, can work wonders on a grumpy baby.

8. Find your village and ask for help. And if someone offers to come help if you need a shower or a nap, or to do the dishes, take them up on it!

9. There is no such thing as holding your baby too much. Embrace the little moments, be present, and enjoy that little person.

10. If the baby is fed, clothed, and loved, you’re doing everything right. There will be a million opinions on your parenting, so be kind to yourself as long as you know you’re doing your best.

11. Be patient with yourself and baby. You are both new at this. It takes time to get into the swing of things.

12. Tomorrow is a new day.

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13. Take time for yourself. When your needs are met, you are more centered, patient and compassionate.

14. Don’t spend tons of money on baby clothes right away. There is ALWAYS a mom who is desperate to get rid of all the cute little outfits she sadly never got to use because babies grow out of things so fast.

15. Electric nail file. #gamechanger

16. Onesie pajamas with zippers only…unless, of course, fumbling with snaps when you’re bleary-eyed and half-asleep during middle-of-the-night diaper changes sounds like fun.

17. Try out different baby carriers until you find one that works for you, then baby wear as much as you can. It makes things so much easier.

18. Velcro swaddlessafe and snug.

19. Gripe water!

20. If you have anxiety while baby is sleeping, get an Owlet or other sleep monitor. Your rest is worth it.

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21. Go with your instinctsthe mom gut is always right.

22. It’s said often because it’s so true: The days may seem long, but the years are short.

23. Do what works for your baby, and don't worry about what anyone else says or does. What’s good for one person’s child may not be good for yours.

24. Don’t compare your baby’s milestones to those of other babies.

25. You are all that your baby needs!

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It’s 2 am, and your baby is bright-eyed and seemingly starving. Your astute mama instincts tell you it’s going to be a while before either of you gets back to sleep. Don’t stress! Instead, give your mind a rest and stream the latest binge-worthy show while you nurse or bottle-feed your baby back to a peaceful slumber. Whether you want pure escapism, laugh-out-loud comedy, or a suspense to keep you from dozing off, we’ve got you covered. Here are 10 series that will keep you fully entertained during those sleepless nights.

Ted Lasso

Apple TV

Truly one of the most touching shows of 2020, Ted Lasso is based on a character from an old NBC Premier League ad campaign. The comedy from Apple TV+ offers so much more than just laugh-out-loud moments, of which it has plenty! Jason Sudeikis is utter perfection as an American college football coach who is recruited to coach (or "manage" in British English) world football, aka soccer, in England. It's a fish-out-of-water story that often has Ted learning the rules of British football while balancing his own life and that of his team. The only downfall is that there's only one season so far; pacing is necessary. 

Available on Apple TV+

Dead to Me

CBS Studios / Netflix

Dead to Me is an American dark comedy or tragicomedy (take your pick) starring Christina Applegate and Linda Cardellini as women who bond during grief therapy. The series premiered on May 3, 2019, and is filled with twists and turns. Each episode leaves you eager for more. It's binge-worthy content at its finest. 

Available on Netflix

Schitt's Creek

Netflix

Ew, David! It has cultivated a cult following, racked up a record-breaking number of Emmy wins in its sixth and final season, and delivered a message of hope and equality during a time when audiences needed it most. Schitt's Creek tops our list for binge-worthy television. The quirky Canadian comedy created by father and son Eugene and Dan Levy will have you laughing out loud while nursing your little one back to sleep. If you haven't started it, get ready for a fun ride. You've got six seasons of getting to know and love the Rose Family. 

Available on Netflix

Lupin

Netflix

Easily one of the most intriguing new shows of 2021, Lupin burst onto the scene in mid-January and took the world by storm. The series will transport you from your nursing lounger to the beauty and charisma of Paris. It's an engrossing espionage thriller that lives up to its source material and then some. We're not surprised that it scored 98% on Rotten Tomatoes! The first half of Lupin's first season is out now, while the second half is coming this summer. 

Available on Netflix

Big Little Lies

Big Little Lies is one of the bestTV shows to binge watch
Netflix

You might even look forward to those late-night feedings once you hit play on Big Little Lies. Based on the same-titled 2014 bestseller by Liane Moriarty, the darkly comedic tale of murder and misbehavior is set against the backdrop of the idyllic beachfront town of Monterey, California. Told through the eyes of three mothers (Madeline, Celeste and Jane, played exquisitely by Reese Witherspoon, Nicole Kidman and Shailene Woodley), the series explores the world of seemingly perfect lives that quickly unravel from deceit. After you fly through the first season, know that you only have one more to go! 

Available on HBO Max

Succession

HBO

Family drama at its finest! Succession is a satirical drama that tracks the lives of the Roy family and the international media conglomerate controlled by aging patriarch Logan Roy. The show is brought to vivid life by a super talented ensemble and will have you laughing one minute and squirming in your seat with discomfort the next. The show gets better and better as it progresses, so give it a chance and stick around.

Available on HBO

The Crown

Netflix

If you've been watching The Crown since it debuted in 2016, you're already a super fan, but if you haven't watched previous seasons, we encourage you to skip right to season four. The drama showcases Queen Elizabeth II's reign and events that shaped the second half of the 20th century. And season four introduces audiences to Princess Diana; it's certainly the best season yet. 

Available on Netflix

Sweet Magnolias

Netflix

Mothering can be exhausting, so you may need something sweet and wholesome to get you through. There's no better choice than Sweet Magnolias. Romance, friendship and family life are at the heart of this darling show about three women who have been best friends since childhood. It's got all the feels of a Hallmark movie and is a welcome escape from some of the dark or ultra serious shows out there. Real life is serious enough, so escaping to a small town and watching good friends go through the twists and turns of adulting is just what the doctor ordered. 

Available on Netflix

Firefly Lane

Netflix

Based on a bestselling book by Kristin Hannah, this series follows best friends Tully and Kate, played as adults by Sarah Chalke and Katherine Heigl, as they support each other through good times and bad with an unbreakable bond that carries them from their teens to their 40s. The series will get you hooked and is as consumable as a hot batch of french fries. It's ten episodes and they go by in a breeze. Luckily, season two is in the works.

Available on Netflix

Ginny and Georgia

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Calling all Gilmore Girls fans! Ginny and Georgia is the dramedy for you. While the mother-daughter duo at the center of this Netflix show find themselves butting heads more than Rory and Lorelai, the hourlong drama welcomes the comparison. It also surpasses expectations by being unique and refreshing. It embraces layered topics like wealth and privilege, and the show's pace and excellent performances make it a breezy binge. 

Available on Netflix

—Aimee Della Bitta

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I never had that feeling in life that I truly fit in or I was doing what I was supposed to be doing. What was my purpose in life? They say we all have a purpose here on Earth. What is mine? What was I supposed to be doing?

From early on, starting in grade school, I always felt like the odd man out. I got along with everyone, but I felt like I was not truly included or welcomed like some of the other kids. At birthday parties I felt alone. I watched other kids clicking more and meshing with one another. Not me. I knew I wasn’t truly in the group. I would sit there and feel uncomfortable and want to run out the door as quickly as possible. I wanted to go home.

Even up through high school I felt this way. I grew up in a small Midwest town where everyone knew everyone’s business. Again, I got along with pretty much everybody but it still wasn’t a good feeling. I started to skip school and miss a lot of my classes. I got off track and felt even more lost and alone.

Years later, I went to nursing school and at age 37 I started my new career. I became a Registered Nurse and worked in the ICU. I love what I do, and at that time I still couldn’t think of anything I’d rather be doing.

But guess what??!!! That all changed once my twins were born.

I loved being a mother but I still wanted to work and have a career. But then my son got diagnosed with autism at age 3. Then I knew, this was it. This was my purpose. My thing in life was to be there for my son. I was the one for him. He was the one for me. I was always a stubborn person and a little set in my ways. I was never one to back down from a good fight. What a perfect fit I was, to have an autistic child.

There are many battles a parent of an autistic child must fight. My personality would help my son to get the best in life. I would fight for him tooth and nail for everything. I wouldn’t rest until he got what he deserved. I believed in him and I fought hard. I would fight any battle for him. He is my purpose.

I fought to get my son services and therapy to help him grow. I went toe-to-toe with the school district, one of our biggest battles. They wanted to put my son in a severe classroom. I knew that was not where he needed to be. A parent knows what’s best for their child. They live with their child, and see them every day and night. How could strangers know what’s best for my son? I fought like a mama bear fights for her cub. I won and got my son the education he deserved, and he is doing very well. I finally have some of the school team on our side now. They see the potential and skill set my son has. He is unbelievably smart and knows so much more than people give him credit for. I believed in him and always will.

I will always go to battle for this kid. I will never let anyone tell me that my son can’t do something when I know he can. Parents, we are our children’s biggest advocates. Your child has rights and you as parents do as well. Don’t give in to what someone says. Go with your gut instinct and go to battle. Never let go of the dreams and hopes you have for your child. You will win!!

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Wendy Robles lives in California with her husband and twins. She's an ICU Registered Nurse, she advocates for her patients and her son who is on the autism spectrum. Through her blog she tells her experiences of raising a child on the spectrum, the good and the ugly. 

 

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I was one of the lucky moms who got to work from home. I got to contribute financially to my family, and at the same time spend precious time with my baby. A dream come true, right? Well, it was much harder than it sounds. What most people don’t understand, is that working from home meant my baby controlled my schedule.

The other day, I had a conference call at 9:30 a.m. for 30 minutes. Perfect! That was just in time for my daughter’s first nap, so I could take the conference call without her cooing in the background. I woke up that morning confident that I could tire her out in time for the call and that I could give everyone my undivided attention during the meeting.

Here were the events that pursued:

9:20 AM: I received a text from my manager that the meeting was delayed 15 minutes. Okay, not the end of the world. My daughter was already sleepy so I was in the process of putting her down for her nap, but perhaps she could still sleep through the whole meeting. 45-minute naps are not unheard of, right?

9:43 AM: Another text. They needed another 10 minutes. All right, no worries.

9:55 AM: Yet another text. The meeting was delayed to 10:15 a.m. Most likely Zoe would be awake by then, but that’s okay. She might be playing and cooing in the background during the call, but my coworkers were pretty used to hearing baby noises by now.

10:15 AM: The meeting finally started, but surprisingly, my daughter had not woken up yet. I anxiously looked at the baby monitor like it was a ticking bomb, hoping that she would by miracle sleep another 30 minutes. But 5 minutes into the meeting, she woke up screaming like someone was about to take her hostage. I put myself on mute, threw the phone on the ground, and ran to grab her. With my baby still in a bad mood and howling in my ear, I sprinted back to get my phone and tried to listen to my coworkers as much as I could.

Man did my daughter wake up on the wrong side of the bed. I tried distracting her with different toys, laying her down on the ground, walking her around the room…nope, she was not having it. I strained to hear my call and prayed that nobody would need me or ask me a question. Taking myself off mute would be a horrible idea right now.

However, I knew that I would have to speak eventually. There were topics on the agenda that needed my input, so my plan of action was to get my baby to be quiet immediately. I whipped out the magical boobs…or at least, they were magical when my son was an infant. It didn’t matter what was bothering him, as soon as I popped him on my breast, the world was a better place.

My daughter, unfortunately, does not share the same sentiments toward my milk jugs. I tried nursing her, and she just seemed to get angrier. Panicking, I started walking around the room again with her while trying to nurse her at the same time.

Wait, there was hope! She finally latched on and seemed to have quieted down for a few seconds!

Luckily, I was able to speak a few sentences while frantically pacing around the room feeding my daughter. Just as I spoke my last words, I could feel my let-down reflex happening, so I quickly pressed the mute button again just as my daughter pulled off my breast, angrier than ever.

For those of you who do not breastfeed, let-down is essentially when you turn on the faucet and the milk really starts to flow. Unfortunately for my daughter, my let-down was quite forceful, so instead of a faucet, think of the Hoover Dam opening its gates and all the water flowing out. My daughter quickly pulled off so she wouldn’t choke on my milk, which left my boob uncovered, shooting milk everywhere. I was holding my baby with both arms and had the phone wedged between my ear and my shoulder, so there was no way to somehow pull up my bra.

Just when this was all happening, our dog walked into the room. She got sprayed in the face by my breast milk and she got excited thinking I was playing with her. She chased me around the room, jumping and licking at my breast milk as it sprinkled the carpet, the sofa, everything. My coworkers, clueless about what was happening, continued their deep discussion, and all I could do was listen and try to remember what was being discussed as much as I could over my daughter’s cries.

I was sweating as if I had run a marathon, and my arms were burning from holding my baby for the past 20 minutes. Finally, my let-down stopped and my dog calmed down (though she continued to lick the carpet whenever she found a spot with milk on it). 

At least, there was peace and quiet. My daughter popped back on my boob and started nursing again, and I could sit down on the sofa and relax. I turned my attention back to the call and I heard, “Okay good call everyone, let’s get back together again after lunch.”

Seriously?

Betty Boiron is a mother of two who strives to inspire other moms to embrace motherhood as the hot mess it is. When she is not busy chasing after her kids or digging herself out of piles of laundry, you can find her writing on her blog Mombrite.

 

Getting quality healthcare for your kiddo just got easier. Blueberry Pediatrics is a new app that gives you access to a virtual pediatrician 24/7!

Whether your littles all have the same tummy ache, you’re not sure if your newborn is nursing enough, or you have any other concern, Blueberry is like a pediatrician in your pocket.

Access the app for a visit with a board-certified pediatrician any time day or night. Blueberry’s doctors are on call whenever you need them for whatever you need them for.

Jonathan Kahan, Chief Medical Officer and Co-Founder of Blueberry Pediatrics, said in a press release, “As a doctor and a father myself, I know firsthand the anxiety that comes from caring for your sick child. There’s nothing more reassuring than having an expert to call for help, and that’s what our team provides.”

Kahan added, “With the low cost of membership and the high value of care, we want parents to see us as a vital part of their medical solution, a subscription that every family should have to navigate their children’s health.”

The Blueberry Pediatrics app is currently available for users in California, Florida, New Jersey, New York, Pennsylvania and Texas on iOS, Android and online. To use the app, join Blueberry Pediatrics for a monthly membership fee ($18 for one month).

After you join, a call will be scheduled with Blueberry’s Chief Pediatrician and you’ll be introduced to the Blueberry pediatric team. When a question, concern, or illnesses creeps up, just use the app to schedule a virtual appointment with a board-certified pediatrician and you’ll be chatting within 15 minutes.

You’ll also get an at-home medical kit (one time $100 fee) that includes a finger pulse oximeter, ear infection kit and forehead thermometer. Visit the Blueberry Pediatrics website here for more information.

—Erica Loop

Photos courtesy of Blueberry Pediatrics

 

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Have baby, will travel? Yep! Make it much easier to leave your home with these tricks for feeding your baby when you’re out and about. Whether you’re breastfeeding, formula feeding or if your kid more of a snacker, our list of helpful hacks promises to make your park trips, errands, road trips and flights go more smoothly. Keep reading to see it all.

Hacks for Nursing & Bottle Feeding

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1. Get an inflatable travel nursing pillow to keep in the car, and pop it in your carry-on when you travel by plane. When you’re not in transit, that pillow can give your baby a cozy, supported spot to sit or lay on.

2. No need to cry over spilled or spoiled milk. Just bring more formula or pumped breast milk than you think you’ll need. On active days, especially warm ones, your baby will likely be more thirsty than when you’re chilling at home, and a change in routine can also mean a change in feeding habits.

3. Pre-portion formula into small, snack-size plastic bags and fill clean bottles with the amount of water you need. Mix and shake, and it’s bottle time! Bring along additional water in case of spills or if you need more water for drinking.

4. While at home, get your child used to bottles made with room-temperature formula or breastmilk in case you aren’t able to warm bottles while you’re out. With powdered formula, water must be heated to at least 70 degrees Fahrenheit and then cooled until it’s safe for baby to drink.

5. If your babe isn’t going for the room-temperature beverage, there are ways to get hot water to heat your formula bottles or breastmilk bags. Fill large-mouthed travel mugs with hot water before you leave the house, and they’ll keep the water hot for hours. When it’s time for feeding, place the formula bottle or breastmilk bag in a bowl or empty travel mug and pour the hot water into it. Gas stations and coffee shops will also give you hot water (usually for free!) if you tell them you’re using it to warm up your baby’s bottle.

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6. Keep pumped breast milk cold with an ice cooler or freezable lunch bag until you can refrigerate it.

7. Wear a nursing tank under your top so your stomach isn’t exposed when you’re breastfeeding. It also keeps you warmer on chilly days.

8. A swaddle blanket isn’t just for tucking around your baby when it’s chilly or covering the car seat during naptime (leave some of the car seat uncovered so it doesn’t get too hot under there). A swaddle blanket is also handy for slipping over yourself if you’d like some privacy to breastfeed.

9. This is a game-changer for road trips and car outings: If you pump milk, buy the accessories so you can pump in the car. Get an extension cord that plugs into your cigarette lighter, and you can even pump in the backseat!

10. Bring soapy water that you can use to rinse out formula or breastmilk from bottles. Give the bottle a shake to clean them out, and you’ll remove most of the liquid and smell. Pack a clean plastic bag or another container to keep them in until you can wash them properly.

11. Changing your routine might change your focus while breastfeeding. To remember which side you last nursed on, place a hair tie or ring on that hand. Move it after each nursing session, and you’ll always know which side to start nursing on.

Hacks for Baby Snacks

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1. When you’re out and about, whether you’re in a stroller, car seat or sitting outdoors, snack cups with lids that allow little ones to reach their hands in are the key to less mess. The cups are fairly spill-proof, and your child will love the autonomy of grabbing their own snacks.

2. Have you seen those plastic pillboxes they sell near the pharmacy at drugstores? Pick up a large one and pack it with a variety of small snacks, like puffs, Goldfish crackers and dried cranberries. Kids will love having an array of options, and you’ll be glad not to have to pack big containers of snacks. Open all the compartments for a baby buffet or just one at a time to contain messes. When kids get older and hungrier, switch to a larger container with small compartments, like a crafting box or a tackle box.

3. Freeze applesauce pouches or yogurt pouches before you leave the house, especially on hot days. They’ll act as ice packs for veggies and sandwiches when you’re en route, and then you can give your child a cool, slushy treat.

4. Bring along sandwich bags filled with folded paper towels (wet towels in one bag, dry towels in the other). The towels can wipe up any spills, and you’ll have a baggie for food wrappers and other items you’re throwing away.

5. Coffee liners make handy snack plates you can throw away—one less thing to lug around.

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6. If your child is just starting solids, bring along foods that don’t need to be heated, just mashed, like bananas and avocados. Just bring a spoon to mash them up and a knife to cut the avocado.

7. If you’re going on a longer outing, like an all-day or multi-day trip, save some new snacks for the trip home. If your child is over the traveling, a different snack will perk them right up.

8. Looking for a healthy, filling meal you don’t need to heat up? At home, mix raw eggs with finely chopped veggies—roasted or raw. Pour the mixture into mini muffin cups and bake to make a toddler-size treat you can bring with you anywhere.

9. Bring plastic wrap and straws with you if you’ll be getting food from restaurants. If a restaurant only has plastic or paper cups, wrap plastic wrap over the top and pop a straw through. If the cup gets knocked over, the mess will be mostly contained.

10. If you frequently travel by car, a portable car vacuum can keep your car, including the car seat, from getting covered in crumbs. Get the kind that plugs into the cigarette lighter, and you won’t have to worry about it losing its charge.

11. In your kitchen, keep a dedicated snack drawer or shelf with baby-approved store-bought snacks so you can grab and go when you’re in a hurry. Keeping all the kid stuff together also makes it easier to see when you’re running low.

—Eva Ingvarson Cerise

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