Since your little she-warrior’s birthday is coming up, it’s time to start planning her party. It will certainly be super epic, but it won’t be as nearly as interesting without an awesome present. But what do you get your daughter when she has almost everything that she needs? Here are some ideas for girls of all ages from ages 5-to-15.

5th Birthday: Finger paint. This is a gift perfect for kids of all ages (adults can join too) and can be used to create a number of colorful and creative art. However, since these paints are made with natural ingredients, they can be smeared all over the body and give you peace of mind that your little one is playing safely while exploring her talents.

6th Birthday: Karaoke machine. This is the time when kids start to really develop a passion for music so if you know your girl loves to jam to her fave tunes, make sure to provide her with a good karaoke machine. Every machine comes with a microphone and a bunch of new songs. And it’s such a perfect birthday gift because she can try it out with her friends right there at the party.

7th Birthday: Some sparkly jewelry. Now that you know your daughter isn’t putting everything shiny in her mouth anymore, you can start thinking about jewelry. This is also a time when little girls start getting into beauty and fashion, so why not give her a nice little piece of sparkle? If you’re not a jewelry expert, check out websites like Jewelry Jealousy where you can find all sorts of buying guides and ideas that will be super useful. This website is great for everyone, but especially dads who have no idea where to start with buying jewelry for their little girls! 

8th Birthday: A garden kit. A garden kit will give your daughter a green thumb for sure. She can grow and nurture her own plants and learn all about botany and nature. Soon, she’ll have her own kingdom to play with!

9th Birthday: Room décor. Most girls want their personal space to be perfect. So, if your kid loves to decorate her space with personal things, help her out by grabbing some modern, artistic and empowering décor. A framed quote is a super popular décor piece and can really inspire her every day.

10th Birthday: Legos. Legos are internationally loved by both girls and boys, so getting your daughter a set is a great idea. While there are classic sets that can provide hours of creative play, there are also specialized sets like Wonder Woman, Women of NASA and Mindstorms Robot kits that can inspire your little girl to do amazing things!

11th Birthday: A safe diary. Do you want to provide your little girl with a safe space to express her feelings? Get her a diary with a lock! This will keep all her secrets safe even from her prying siblings and its beautiful cover will encourage her to take her diary with her everywhere she goes!

12th Birthday: Books. Is your daughter growing up to be a little book worm? Excellent—enrich her library with a new set of books! Make sure to send the right message though, and buy something that will inspire and empower your child. Luckily, that kind of literature is getting more and more present, so today you can find all sorts of amazing books for girls that will instill ideas about healthy friendships, relationships, and lifestyles. There’s so much a girl can learn from the right book!

13th Birthday: A musical instrument. It’s very healthy for kids to play an instrument—it’s good for the soul and for the brain. So, if you want to start with something small, opt for a colorful little ukulele that she can experiment with.

14th Birthday: A Polaroid camera. Taking photos on an iPhone is fun, but there’s something super special about Polaroids. Give your daughter that snap-and-shake experience by grabbing a camera she can use not only to document her birthday but the rest of her life!

15th Birthday: Organic makeup. As your little girl gets older, there’s a possibility she will get into makeup and beauty and that’s completely normal at that age. Luckily, you can provide her with a safe experience by picking organic makeup sets that are perfect for gentle skin and contain all sorts of non-toxic colors and glittery things many girls love!

Even if you don’t find your perfect gift on this list, you’ll certainly find some inspiration for your little girl’s birthday and get her something she’ll truly enjoy! 

Morgan Rose Elliott is an aromatherapist, yoga instructor, animal lover, a happily married mother of two. She enjoys reading biographies and writing poems, sunny days on the beach and any shape of vanilla. Crazy about the '80s, her favourite band is Duran Duran and she is obsessed with Stranger things.

Gorgeous calm waters, predictable rain-free weather, constant refreshing breeze, and welcoming locals. . . it’s no wonder travelers tend to put Aruba on repeat once they visit this One Happy Island. Aruba Marriott Resort invites you to immerse yourself in all the island has to offer, and even rewards guests who are up for the challenge of unplugging. Take the plunge and hear how a trip to Aruba will make for One Happy Family.

The Basics

As great as family time can be, plenty of personal space is an absolute necessity. Aruba Marriott Resort has the largest rooms on the island, at 500-square-feet, with an additional 100-square-foot balcony that overlooks the mesmerizing blues of the Caribbean Sea.

The Digital Detox

Think you’re up for the challenge of a digital detox? Aruba Marriott Resort is sweetening the pie by rewarding guests who are willing to ditch their phones for the majority of their stay. Pony up your phone, which will be stored in a safe, and the resort will give you a disposable camera to capture memories old-school style, plus bonus Marriott Bonvoy points to redeem for a future stay.

On-Property Entertainment

Enhance your cultural travel experience by opting to visit Aruba during their month-long Carnival season and you’ll quickly see why they call themselves One Happy Island. You’ll experience a colorful celebration full of exciting dances, cheerful music and over-the-top costumery that celebrates the bright spirits of the local culture. If you can’t make it to the official Carnival, Aruba Marriot Resort has you covered with a mini Carnival at their beachside La Vista restaurant every Thursday night.

All the kids really care about is the size of the pool and whether or not there’s sand to bury a sibling, or maybe you. To answer both, the pool does not disappoint with a cascading waterfall, hot tub and swim-up bar with kiddie cocktails on command and the sand is prime for castle-making and moat-digging. As a parent, you’ll appreciate the calmness of the water that makes for a low-key ocean experience.

At a kiosk next to the resort, you can rent floats, paddleboards, kayaks and (we highly recommend for big laughs) schedule a 4- or 8-person tubing ride. You get to dictate the speed and excitement level to the driver via hand gestures and if you give your kids that control, just hang on for dear life!

photo: Donkey Sanctuary Aruba via Maria Chambers

Off-Property Play

At one time donkeys were an important mode of transportation on the island. But, as cars replaced donkey-powered transport, some 1,400 of these four-legged friends were left to roam aimlessly where they were often hit by the cars, fell prey to disease or were turned into lion food for visiting circuses. Donkey Sanctuary Aruba was created as a safe haven where each donkey was given a name, nourishment, a cozy place to take a snooze and an abundance of all-important love. Now, travelers can have playdates with the donkeys and, for a small fee, try a hand at feeding the sweeties.

photo: De Palms Snorkel Adventure via Maria Chambers

For a truly unforgettable experience, take the kids to swim with the fishes on a De Palms Snorkel Adventure tour via a 70-foot-long catamaran. You’ll explore three fish-filled snorkeling spots, including swimming above one of the largest sunken cargo ships in the world, the German’s SS Antilla. Your per-person fee includes lunch, drinks (including alcoholic beverages for adults), and snorkel gear. Pro tip: If your kid has their own snorkel gear, bring it. With so many people in the water all using the same gear, it’s helpful when your kid’s snorkel looks different to help track them in the water. 

Where to Dine

All this play will leave tummies grumbling, for sure. If you’re looking for on-property convenience, you’ll find a Ruth’s Chris Steak House with 5-star steak and seafood options, the beachside Atardi which specializes in seafood and stellar ocean and sunset views, La Vista makes friends with the pickiest of eaters with a wide array of buffet options all day, The Lobby is your answer for the inevitable island sushi crave, and Waves Beach Bar and Grill comes through with the casual pool-side lite bites and cocktails.

Oh, and for your morning fuel, mosey on down to the Starbucks for a caffeine fix or Gelato and Co. for an acai bowl or smoothie (and then cruise back by for a late-night gelato feast).

With so many options at the resort, you don’t technically need to ever leave. But, if you want to swap one beautiful scene for another, make a date with The West Deck. It’s set outdoors on a large wooden deck overlooking a white sandy beach, where fidgety kids can play bags and architect sand castles or be entertained watching planes and departing cruise ships with live music floating in the background.

photo: Linda’s Dutch Pancakes via Maria Chambers

Some would say it’s rude to not at least try Dutch cuisine while on a Dutch island, and it may as well be a pancake. Savory or sweet, let your taste buds guide you at Linda’s Dutch Pancakes, where you can plant your face in a 20-inch Dutch pancake. If you’re unfamiliar, Dutch pancakes are thinner than a pancake, and ingredients requiring cooking are cooked into the pancake.  Choose from preset combinations, like Strawberries & Whipped Cream or Brie, Walnuts & Honey, or imagine your own creation.

When to Go

The island has an average rainfall of under 20 inches a year and sits completely outside the hurricane belt. These truths, coupled with the fact the average daytime temp is a temperate 82 degrees, makes it an ideal tropical destination year-round.

Airport Information

Book your flight into the Queen Beatrix International Airport (AUA), which is about a 20-minute drive to the hotel. Give yourself a bit of extra time when you depart because you will go through both Aruba security and U.S. Customs, which saves you time when you land into the U.S.

photo: Maria Chambers

Good to Know

  • We’ll answer the #1 question every American asks when leaving the country. Yes, you can drink the water. It’s actually one of the safest waters to drink on any island.
  • US dollars and Aruba’s local currency (florin) are accepted across the islands.
  • The local language is called Papiamento, but English is widely used.
  • There’s a fully-stocked shop near the lobby where you can purchase essentials like sunscreen, and the selection is good, so no worries about packing your own.
  • There is a nice 24-hour workout facility with free weights and machines, for those that like to keep up their exercise routine on the road.
  • Fun fact: Aloe is Aruba’s largest export, so give an aloe-infused cocktail a whirl in The Lobby Bar.

Aruba Marriott Resort & Stellaris Casino
L.G. Smith Blvd. #101, Palm Beach, Aruba
Online: marriott.com

— Maria Chambers

Photos provided by Aruba Marriot Resort, unless otherwise noted.

This trip was paid for by Aruba Marriott Resort and all opinions expressed here belong to the writer.

Warm summer days are gleefully upon us, which also means there are days where refuge will be needed when temps hit sweltering. When you want a time out from the elements—or just a cabin fever reprieve—head to the cinema. These theaters are known to be extra family friendly. (Translation: Nobody will be upset when you show up with your mom-tourage).

photo: Tivoli Theatre via Yelp

Tivoli Theatre
Why We Like Them: Overall value and old-timey simplicity

The best movie value is Tivoli Theatre, which is just one of the equally-swell 14 suburban theaters owned by Classic Cinemas. Inexpensive ticket prices and free refills on all drinks and popcorn keep cinema outings affordable for families. Customer experience is the priority, and it shows in the way employees seem to appreciate every person who walks in the door and every dollar spent. They also have an organ performance every Friday and Saturday evening 30 minutes before the last two showtimes.

Kick off summer mornings with the $1 Wednesday Morning Movie Series, running June 5 through August 7, at all Classic Cinema theaters. Employees dress as popular characters and facilitate games in the lobby prior to the 10 a.m. show time of a family-friendly flick.

Matinee: $6
5021 Highland Ave., Downers Grove
Online: classiccinemas.com

photo: Davis Theater courtesy of Justin U. via Yelp

Davis Theater
Why We Like Them: Long live the street-front theaters!

Feel like you live in a small town, for just a few hours, while nestled in the big city. The simplicity and friendly atmosphere of Davis Theater is what makes the Lincoln Square mainstay special. A renovation in 2016 didn’t strip away any of the charm and this neighborhood favorite is now making homemade caramel and cheese popcorn, along with other fun flavors. A few times around the block and you can usually find street parking. No messing with garages or trekking down long hallways to get to the show. It’s great for parents who want their kids to experience movies the old-fashioned way, without all the flash of newer theaters.

Matinee: $9
4614 N. Lincoln Ave., Lincoln Square
Online: davistheater.com

Showplace Icon Theater
Why We Like Them: Nap-worthy reserved seating, it anchors a pretty cool shopping development and, oh, that popcorn!

Calling all bacon lovers! The bacon-flavored popcorn is reason enough for you to try this South Loop movie palace. Sample the selection of popcorn salts or ditch the popcorn altogether for a brownie in a skillet.

Showcase offers guests reserved seating. This is fabulous news for parents, as you no longer need to fret about arriving early to secure prime viewing space. It’s not just any reserved seating, either: It’s leather, comfortable, spacious and your three-year-old won’t get scrunched in the usual folding chair.

Matinee: $5
150 W. Roosevelt Rd., South Loop
Online: showplaceicon.com

photo: Facets birthday parties

 

Facets
Why We Like Them: They bring us the annual Chicago International Children’s Film Fest and their birthday parties are a blast!

We absolutely cannot have a list of favorite Chicago theaters without mentioning Facets. Not only can you host a memorable birthday party for your kids, they host film camps and bring us the annual children’s film fest (in it’s 36th year!) that was the first to be recognized by the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences, which means films screened at CICFF can go on to win Oscars®.

No matter your kiddo’s film interest, you’re bound to find something that peaks their interest—animated features, child-produced shorts, documentary short films, live-action features and more! (Even some that will appeal to the teens in your house.) Keep on eye on their schedule and support this neighborhood gem.

Facets Multimedia
1517 W. Fullerton Ave., Lincoln Park
Online: facets.org

photo: CMX Cinema

CMX Cinema
Why We Like Them: Grab and go made-to-order gourmet delights

See a show like never before with the innovative CMX Cinema. Relax in super comfy, oversized reclining chairs, while noshing on grab-and-go and made-to-order gourmet delights like pretzels, milkshakes, sandwiches, and pizza. For parents that want an adult only VIP dinner-and-a-movie experience, pop over to the CMX CinéBistro, offering a full menu.

Locations in Skokie and Arlington Heights with plans to expand into more Chicagoland markets, so keep your eyes peeled on their website for updates.

photo: Studio Movie Grill

Studio Movie GrillI
Why We Like Them: In-movie food/drink service and lots of personal space

Hello, food heaven. The in-movie food service puts the end to days of you attempting to corral your kiddos toward the theater while juggling their drinks, popcorn and candy.  Just sit back, relax and let the food come to you. As an added bonus for parents, the extensive menu includes alcoholic bevvies.

Seats are equipped with built-in trays. And with the leg room this theater offers, you won’t have to worry about getting the stink-eye from the person in front of you; your precious has no chance of kicking their seat.

For families with kids with special needs, SMG offers family friendly movie showings where the lights are turned up and the volume is lowered and kids are free to move around, talk and even dance in the aisles. Check their website for details.

Matinee: Before noon $6.50; $8.50 kids after noon; $5 all day long on Tuesdays
301 Rice Lake Square, Wheaton
Online: studiomoviegrill.com

AMC River East 21
Why We Like Them: Special movie showing options for kids with special needs

AMC has partnered with the Autism Society to offer unique movie showings where lights are brighter, sound is minimized and the kiddos can dance, walk or sing in the aisles. Their Sensory Friendly Film program is available on the second and fourth Saturday (family-friendly) and Tuesday evenings (mature audiences) of every month. They also offer assistive moviegoing options for those with hearing and vision impairments.

Oh, and did we forget to mention their heated leather recliners? It might just turn into nap time for the littles. Never a bad thing.

322 E. Illinois St., Near North Side
888-AMC-4FUN
Online: amctheatres.com

— Maria Chambers

featured photo: personal creations via flickr

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“Where can I put this, so nobody gets it?” my daughter asked, holding the half-finished art project she was working on as I pushed three kids and my husband out the door for 8 a.m. school drop-off.

“In your drawer,” I suggested, knowing my two-year-old wouldn’t venture into that off-limits territory while her older siblings were at school.

In our family, each kid has one drawer in their bedroom entirely to themselves, where they can store their most prized possessions. When you’re used to sharing a room with three siblings, getting a whole new drawer is like being gifted a mansion. Raising four kids in a two-bedroom apartment requires some ninja organizational skills plus one essential rule: everyone—and everything—needs a place to be.

Most of our apartment is communal. We share school supplies and spots at the table, bathrooms and bins of books, toys and technology. But to coexist peacefully, it’s crucial to give our kids one thing: a sliver of personal space.

Shortly after my youngest turned two, we traded our crib and toddler bed for a second set of bunkbeds. With the newly available floor space, I was determined to give my kids a storage area that was completely their own. I considered large cubed cubbies, a bookshelf, a desk, inboxes and treasure chests. 

We ultimately decided that getting a second dresser would be the most useful for storing their clothes, which just keep getting bigger each year! It also provided an extra drawer for each child to use as the kid version of a junk drawer. The great part about a drawer is that everything inside is out of sight rather than an eyesore.

This drawer is where they can store the special projects they are working on or toys they want to keep out of their siblings’ hands. Prizes from school carnivals, goody bag trinkets and old Valentines find their home in the drawers. My son parks a toy semi-truck, loaded with Pokemon cards, in the drawer under his bed. My older kids store their Bibles and chapter books in their drawers. My two-year-old tucks away some plastic cupcakes, GoldieBlox figurines and a book her sister made for her. My four-year-old uses her drawer for her piggy bank, knitting and an Else purse filled with the “special learning cards” she has completed. 

One day early on, I found an entire bunny tea party set up in my oldest daughter’s drawer, which now includes her unicorn necklace, Calico Critter puppies and latest doodles.

My kids love to incorporate items from various sets into their play simultaneously, so at the end of the day we find My Little Ponies set up in a scene using magnifying glasses from the Busytown game and eraser animals having a party in a house made of Legos and 8½” x 11” paper taped together.

When the 5 o’clock sweep comes around, we return all those gazillion pieces to their designated spots. Building sets in the shoe box, electronic toys in the TV cabinet, dress-up clothes in the wicker basket and so on.

In the past, after clean-up time, we’d still be left with random projects—special treasures that my kid wouldn’t want to get mixed up with everyone else’s stuff or scooped up with the recycling. Items that were priceless to one child at that moment, yet meaningless or even annoying to the rest of us, would end up loitering on our dining room table or kitchen windowsill indefinitely.

Now, thanks to something as simple as a catch-all drawer, my evenings in the living room and kitchen are free of kid-litter and, thus, way more peaceful.

We set a couple ground rules to make this system work:

No hiding someone else’s stuff. If another family member has any claims on an item, it belongs in our shared spaces, not your personal drawer. If the drawer can close, I will resist the urge to clean it out. 

No food—and certainly no half-eaten lollipops. 

No judgement. Whatever you choose to store in your drawer in fine with me. Just because I would throw out a crumpled-up paper airplane or the box a toy came in, it doesn’t mean those can’t be deemed special treasures.

If my kids want to be alone, they can climb into their beds. With the addition of the drawers, the few possessions they claim as their own have a home now too.

What space can you carve out for your kids?

Kristin Van de Water
Tinybeans Voices Contributor

Kristin Van de Water is a former journalist and teacher who relies on humor, faith, and her mom crew to get her through the day. Raising four kids in a two-bedroom NYC apartment, Kristin is always on the lookout for life hacks to save time, space, money, and her sanity.

With an extended family getaway, it means getting people together who don’t usually share the same space. Read on for expert tips from Kid & Coe’s hosts on how to make the best of a multi-generational break—plus our best tip for solving family politics!

Before we dive deep, Zoie Kingsbery Coe, founder of Kid & Coe, shares her five essential multi-family travel rules:

  1. Always book a daily housekeeper from 9 a.m. to 12 p.m. It sounds like a lot, but when you divide it up, it’s the cost of a dinner out.
  2. Buy groceries freely and split the cost at the end of the trip.
  3. Book babysitters for a couple of nights a week to help with dinners and bedtimes.
  4. Everyone has to have their own car.
  5. The person who takes the lead in booking gets the biggest room.

Now, let’s dive in to everything you need to know about planning and booking your extended, multi-family vacation together!

Where to start

“How many times do you actually get some time out and gather all your favorite people together at one place at one time?” asks Susanne Frenk of Windrift Hall in Coxsackie, New York, a country manor house with spacious grounds and room to sleep up to 13. She counsels towards the “seize the moment” philosophy:

“Switch up the routines and get yourself a personal chef, a personal fitness trainer or yoga instructor, find a local forager showing and explaining nature around you and pick up some dinner items on your way. Work with the locals, get your meat from a local farm, pick your own flowers or apples at a local orchard. Bond over new experiences and expand your horizons together: you’ll be surprised how family dynamics can be switched up when you switch your routines.”

Get practical

When you bring families together, personal space is often at a premium—and it can be a problem. Look for properties to rent with an extra building, apartment or guest house for those who don’t want to be woken by children at 6 a.m. and make sure there are multiple lounge spaces so the whole group can spread out and split into smaller groups when needed. There are other essentials: a dishwasher and outdoor space.

“The best thing to look for is a home with space to spread out and many nearby activities so that no one feels trapped,” says Lauren Aichinger of Clearwater Cabin, a Catskills lodge sleeping up to 14, plus babies. “Kids should be able to do kid stuff without bothering the adults and adults should be able to relax without feeling guilty.”

Appoint a chief

Clio Wood, owner of the 8-bedroom Manoir la Croix Residence in France, says that every big group needs a chief. “Someone has to be in charge—someone who is not afraid to tell people what to do! Give this person money from each family unit to put into a pot for the week and use this to buy group groceries and pay for meals when out. And make sure you buy this person a really nice bottle of wine to say thank you.”

“Keeping the communications simple via your chief really helps the property owner/manager as well as the holidaying group. If email gets a bit confusing, try a Doodle poll for decision making or the old-fashioned phone for more involved discussion.”

Avoid bedroom bust-ups

Think about sleeping arrangements at this planning stage too. “A recent group left after four days because they couldn’t get the kids to sleep when they were sharing a room together,” says Lauren. “The parents were exhausted, kids were cranky and they just gave up. Sleeping arrangements are important to consider!”

“Most people can’t decide which bedrooms to assign to which families and whether or not all the kids are allowed to share one or two rooms or if they have to be with parents,” says Clio. “I suggest having a discussion about this early on so you don’t end up with fisticuffs when you arrive. But also be flexible about your setup. You don’t want to miss out on a really amazing property and fantastic holiday just because you can’t decide who’s bunking with whom.”

Think about entertainment

When you’re choosing a property, take into account what there is to do nearby so there are some options for all the family to enjoy. Colleen advocates for planning new things together and sharing the organization so nobody feels overburdened. Taking part in the planning gives each group a sense of ownership too—they’re not just along for the ride.

“We all have a job each day. Each couple takes turns being an activity planner, grocery shopper and babysitter. We each got to make the vacation feel like our own for a day.

“I’m a true believer that a shared experience can bring people together. This past vacation we rented a bike with a huge front bucket for the kids. It was fun to learn how to push two 4-year-olds and an infant in a car seat around town and then watch my family do the same. The kids loved it as well and it’s become the number one memory from the trip. In the past we’ve put together small cooking competitions, visited obscure tourist spots and rented kayaks. These shared moments give everyone something to focus their attention on away from how tricky it can be to travel with extended family.”

A little bit of research before a trip—checking out local attractions via the tourist board website for example—can help make this happen. Asking the property owner what they can recommend is also a great tip for planning offbeat family entertainment.

Navigating family politics

There’s just one thing to do when the going gets tough:

“Family politics? Drink wine and have a time out,” says Clio.

“When things go wrong—in my book, have a nice glass of wine and breathe for a few moments. What else can you do?!” says Lauren.

“Bring wine. Lots and lots of wine,” says Colleen.

Looking for a place to book your big group? Check out our list of properties for more than 10 guests at Kid & Coe.

 

Kid & Coe , Content Partner
Tinybeans Voices Contributor

We know how to travel with children. With plenty of children between us and more stamps in our passports than we can count, the team at Kid & Coe has first hand experience of the highs and lows of family travel. With hand-picked accommodations around the world, plus insight from local parents about how to get the best out of their destination, we’re minimizing the pain points and revolutionizing how families travel.

When you, your husband and first-born child are down for trying any and every food—Dried kiwi? Delish! Spicy crab sushi? More please! Escargot? Yum!—it’s quite the shocker when your second born hits the high chair hating pretty much everything you put in front of her.

In a good week, we can get her to nibble on rice, corn, and edamame…every day. Swap one of those foods for something else, and all bets are off. She’s not having any of it. In a not-so-good-week her palate prefers to cycle through foods with too much sugar, fat or salt (pre-packaged muffins have to get boring at some point, right?).

And now that she’s a bonafide three-nager with an opinion, she seems to have an excuse to not want to eat anything under the sun—from too-crunchy broccoli to too-drippy ice cream (seriously!). As you can imagine, prepping something that I know she will eat and that’s healthy has been super time consuming and stressful.

So, we decided to try out Nurture Life, ready-to-eat meals that are fresh-made, wholesome, and conveniently delivered on a weekly basis ($47/five meals a week; $89/ten meals a week). In addition to broadening baby girl’s horizons, with each new meal she tried, I was able to save my sanity and counter some of her commonly dished out excuses for not wanting to eat.

The excuse: “I only like mac and cheese.”

Nurture Life’s menu features seasonal dishes that change four times a year and Favorites that stay on the menu all year long. The Seasonal Menu features more adventurous dishes like Pork Cassoulet and Tropical Fried Rice. The Favorites Menu offers healthier versions of classic kids faves, including mac and cheese and meatballs. Our girl is pretty rigid about the flavors she enjoys, so the Favorites were familiar and recognizable–she devoured them. What I liked was that the meals are developed by pediatric registered dietitians to ensure my tot gets a variety of flavors in just the right proportions, because my girl would surely eat an entire plate of just white rice if you let her. Real talk.

The excuse: “Wahhhh, my food is touching!”

This has got to be one of the most popular reasons tots don’t want to eat their meals. How dare the chicken and rice touch each other on a plate! Since when did green beans and potato hash need personal space? My three-year-old’s point was mute during our week with Nurture Life’s pre-packaged meals. The food comes ready to heat-and-eat in portioned and partitioned containers. You can eat straight from the container for quick clean-up, or food can be scooped onto a plate (if food touching isn’t a thing for your kid).

The excuse: “There are green things.”

This phrase is common in our household and is often followed with, “I hate green things.” She also doesn’t like orange or red things, which is problematic when you’re trying to fill her up with nutritional goodness. Nurture Life links up with globally inspired chefs who use kid-friendly quantities of herbs and spices like bay leaf, cilantro and ginger to complement their fresh ingredients. Translation: Instead of always hiding or masking vegetables in with other things, they simply make the veggies taste better for bambinos. And they really do! Don’t tell her, but I snuck a taste here and there for verification, and found that the vegetables in particular had a subtle, but interesting flavor profile.

The excuse: “I didn’t cook it.”

Ummmmm…you’re three, so obviously you aren’t going to be stir frying away in the kitchen, my dear. But, I get it. Little ones, including mine, love to be involved in the kitchen. And all of the experts agree that toddlers who help prepare their own meals are more likely to eat said meal. Even though Nurture Life’s meals are microwavable, I tried to give our picky eater a part in meal planning. She helped put her meals in the fridge after they arrived, she picked out what she wanted to eat, she vented the packaging and she popped it in the microwave for reheating. The result was she tried every single thing. #winning

Got a picky eater too? Give Nurture Life a try with this special offer: Receive $30 off your first order with code REDTRI at checkout.

copy and photos by Ayren Jackson-Cannady

As a child, remember when you used to grab your bike and friends and head down to the park to play on the playground for hours? The value of play is undeniable, as it is closely tied to the development of cognitive, motor, physical, and socialization skills, and it is a powerful element in the development of the total child. But what exactly happens when children play and how do the elements involved lead to more significant cognitive development?

I turned to Deborah Stevens-Smith and Jami Murdock and below is what they shared with me about the seven elements of play and how they contribute to the development of the brain and benefit learning in the classroom:

1. Balancing

Balancing, which occurs in many types of play, is essential to the development of reading and writing skills, as well as problem-solving. Kids who develop balance and stability have better body awareness, coordination, muscle strength and endurance. Learning balance also helps children with concentration, which is essential for sitting and paying attention in class and helps develop eye-hand coordination, aiding children in appropriately placing letters and words on a page as they write.

2. Sliding

Playing on the slide and sliding down helps children with spatial awareness, which aids in letter placement when learning to write, by forcing them to judge the right time to start and when to put their feet down at the bottom to stop. It also enhances balance, coordination skills and teaches patience and cooperation, as they wait in line to use the slide. As children decide how to vary the way they slide using different techniques, critical thinking skills are developed as well.

3. Brachiating

Brachiating happens as a child is crossing the monkey bars, swinging with their arms from one hold to another. This type of play strengthens the upper body and develops grip strength, while also increasing endurance, flexibility and eye-hand coordination. Brachiating helps develop fine motor skills, which are necessary for coloring, cutting, writing and painting, as well as the upper body strength required to sit with correct posture. Additionally, this form of play develops kinesthetic awareness, helping kids understand personal space and moving without bumping into things.

4. Spinning

Spinning allows children to experience shifts in their weight, develop depth perception, balance and the cause and effects of motion. Spinning is the most potent form of sensory input that the brain takes in and processes, developing decision-making skills as children must think while in motion. It also enhances vestibular stimulation, which helps the brain decide if it is ready for more learning and can process what’s taught.

5. Climbing

As children climb, they need to make decisions, solve problems, and even visualize the solution, helping them to gain confidence, learn to cope with fear and stress, and develop self-reliance. All the stretching, reaching, swinging, pulling, and pushing with their limbs improves spatial awareness and reasoning, and enhances problem-solving and decision-making skills. Climbing also helps determine a child’s hand dominance, while developing coordinated eye and head movement so that they can perform tasks such as copying from the blackboard and reading across a page.

6. Swinging

Swinging assists the proprioceptive system which involves motor planning and control, detection of the movement position of the body and coordinated movements. It also strengthens arms, legs and children’s core, as it takes a great deal of coordination to make a swing move. Additionally, swinging promotes risk-taking (in a positive way) and develops the fine motor skills needed for writing and manipulating objects.

7. Sensory Development

Sensory experiences through play can stimulate excitement, calmness and alertness that contribute back to the classroom learning environment. The different textures present when playing, such as sand or the smooth metal on slides, provides a smorgasbord of sensory experiences. This sensory stimulation builds neural connections in the brain, supports language development, cognitive growth, fine and gross motor skills, problem-solving and social interaction skills. It also enhances memory, calms an anxious or frustrated child, helps children learn sensory attributes and learning through experience!

Each of the seven elements of play aid in early childhood development that shapes a child’s future learning ability. Understanding the biological impact of these elements will lead to understanding how cognitive growth is enhanced every day through play proving that the power of play transcends from the playground to the classroom!

Featured Photo Courtesy: The Genius of Play

Anna Yudina is the Director of Marketing Initiatives for The Toy Association™, a not-for-profit trade association that represents toy companies. Currently, she’s spearheading The Genius of Play™, a parent-focused movement raising awareness of play as a crucial part of child development and encouraging families to make time for play daily.

After the cute pregnancy announcement comes the slightly less-adorable reality of childbirth education. But it doesn’t have to happen in a sterile environment with a group of strangers. The Parent Craft Collective, tucked into a garden apartment in Brownstone Brooklyn is a space so cozy you’ll think you’re dropping in on a friend. This new one-stop-shop offers an intimate experience of personalized classes, prenatal care, and newborn expertise. We went along to check out their new digs.

photo: via Parent Craft Collective Facebook page

Personal Space
There’s a simple mid-century modern aesthetic to the Parent Craft Collective. The subtle wall art of the pelvic bone and the uterus is one of the few giveaways that it’s actually a prenatal education center.

Parent Craft founder and midwife, Casey Selzer is one of the key players in the collective and offers birth and labor sessions that are practical but not prescriptive. A mom of three, she was determined to offer personalized classes that were less about having a rigid birth plan and more focused on embracing the unknown with confidence. (As anyone whose given birth will tell you, that’s a healthy mindset!)

Meetups for All
Parent Craft offers classes for every stage of pregnancy. Group birthing classes are limited to no more than five couples and provide a toolkit of techniques to prepare for labor.  A class dedicated to the first weeks of newborn craziness (aka The Fourth Trimester) is offered to graduates of the birth sessions and covers the basics on the postpartum body and newborn care.

There’s also a preconception Seeds class for couples still in the planning-a-pregnancy stage who have questions or want help choosing a provider. Private sessions on any topic are also available, either at the Parent Craft space or in your own home.

Call The Midwife
The collective has a room overlooking the garden dedicated to prenatal visits by Community Midwifery Care. The staff of certified midwives provides the full range of pregnancy and postpartum support. At the heart of their practice is the understanding that each pregnancy is unique and they emphasize the importance of individualized care.

Community Centered
On Tuesdays and Wednesdays, babies replace bumps when the Parent Craft Collective hosts weekly breastfeeding and infant support sessions through Baby Caravan as well as newborn movement sessions provided by Child’Space NYC.

Community is at the heart of the collective and in addition to helping parents feel informed and able to enjoy their childbirth journey, staff are keen to partner with other organizations going forward to make their services more accessible to everyone, as well as strengthen and celebrate the bonds that are being made under their roof.

371 8th St.
Park Slope
347-762-6244
Online: parentcraftcollective.com and parentcraft.org

where did you do prenatal care and education? Tell us about your experience in the comments!  

-Emily Myers

photos: unless otherwise noted, Emily Myers; main photo: Jerry Lai via Flickr

 

New Year’s resolutions are about bettering ourselves, setting goals and achieving them. When my 7-year-old son came to me and asked if he was too young to make a New Year’s resolution, I was quick to tell him, “Absolutely not!” His resolutions didn’t need to be anything truly life-altering or even that hard to achieve.

I suggested that we sit together to make our New Year’s resolutions. He was excited by this idea and so was I. What better way to kick off 2018 than setting goals as a family that we can help each other achieve?

If your child is interested in making a New Year’s resolution—or even more than one—here are some great suggestions for ones that you can make and accomplish together.

1. Less Screen Time

My son isn’t the only one guilty of this. Yes, he enjoys playing on his Xbox and iPad any chance he gets, but I too am guilty of paying more attention to my phone than the conversation at the dinner table. Making an agreement to limit screen time as a family is a great idea!

There are a few ways you can achieve this. Start by turning off the television during dinner and agreeing that no phones or electronics are allowed at the table. Dinner is a special time for parents and their children to bond, discuss the day’s events, ask questions, and catch-up. We all lead extremely busy lives and dinner is the perfect place to join together for some quality time and conversation.

If your child enjoys screen time after school, set a timer. Maybe allow 20 minutes after homework or 15 minutes before, whichever works best for their learning process. I used to allow my son to play on his iPad before bed but learned that screen time before bed can actually negatively impact a child’s sleep patterns.

As the adult, you can set the same timer for yourself or agree to not use the phone while you and your child are engaged in an activity together. Often times, Facebook, Twitter or texts can wait.

2. Get Active

This resolution is one that a lot of people make at the beginning of each New Year, but if you’re making a resolution with your child to be more active, be sure not to emphasize weight loss. Getting active means going for walks after dinner, taking the stairs instead of the elevator and playing outside instead of sitting in front of the TV.

Depending on your child’s age, you can keep track of their activity goals in a variety of ways. For younger children, you can make a chart. Each time they perform a physical activity add a sticker to the chart. Or set aside 30 minutes each day for physical activity and keep a tracker to ensure you’re meeting your goals. Be sure not to reward your child with a treat or snack once they hit their activity goals. Rewarding exercise with food can have negative consequences.

If your child is old enough, an activity tracker for kids can be a very useful tool. These devices help track the number of steps you take in a day. This can be a great motivator to get outside and walk. If you can afford it or find a deal, purchase yourself and your child matching trackers. Some brands offer friendly competitions and messaging. You and your child can stay connected and encourage each other to hit your daily goals.

3. Make Better Food Choices

Our children look to us for guidance, support, and an example. Setting a good example for your child means teaching them healthy habits. Together, you can work on making better food choices.

For example, my son loves McDonald’s (who doesn’t?). Unfortunately, our grocery store is right next to this fast food chain, which means that my son got into the habit of wanting McDonald’s every time we went food shopping. And I found that I was allowing it. So, we discussed limiting McDonald’s to only twice a month—every other time we went food shopping. This way, he can still enjoy this treat, but in moderation. We also downsized from a medium to a small french fry. Small changes really add up.

As the parent, you can try making healthier desserts with more natural ingredients and less artificial flavoring. There are so many healthy and surprisingly tasty ingredients that you can easily swap out for the full-fat versions. For example, nonfat Greek yogurt can act as a substitute for sour cream, butter or even oil in many recipes. If your recipe calls for a sweetener, opt for pure maple syrup or even agave honey.

4. Take Care of the Earth

This is a great resolution for parents and children alike and can be achieved with just a few simple changes to your regular routine.

If you don’t already recycle, add a small recycling bin to your kitchen. This allows for your child to place empty water bottles, milk cartons, and other recycled materials directly in the bin. You can even place them in charge of monitoring this. If mommy or daddy throw a magazine or newspaper in the garbage, your little helper can remind you that it actually belongs in the recycling bin.

Earth Day, which is celebrated on April 22, is a great time to educate both your child and yourself on the importance of keeping our Earth a safe and healthy place. But there’s no need to wait until spring. Visit your local library and find books on recycling. The more knowledge you have, the easier it will be to follow through on your goals.

5. Be Kind

This should go without saying, but it never hurts to get a little reminder in being kinder both to ourselves and others.

This is a perfect resolution where you can lead by example. Hold the door for someone at the store, allow a car to pull out in front of you, or offer to carry someone’s grocery bags. Next time you get dressed in the morning comment on how nice you look and how great you feel. Self-love is something many of us don’t exhibit often enough. Your child watches everything you do and they will quickly pick up on the little acts of kindness you display each day.

Do you have more than one child? Perhaps your kids can make a resolution to be kinder to one another. They can share their toys, respect one another’s personal space, and help their younger siblings.Being kind should be a resolution 365 days a year!

Make This Year Great!

Accountability is a great to make sure your goals are met. And what better way to achieve this than working together as a family? When you share common goals, you can work together to stay on track and make great things happen.

What will your resolutions look like?

 

Featured Photo Courtesy: Ian Schneider/Unsplash

I am a 32 year old mother of a son and wife to an officer. I am honest about both the love and struggle of parenting. I enjoy being active and writing is my passion, second only to my family.

Kids say the darndest things – and with these funny parents, those things immediately go on Twitter. We’ve rounded up the most hilarious 140-character quips from kid to parent. Scroll below and see how many you can relate to.

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