When setting up your baby registry, you’ll find plenty of helpful lists of things to buy. But do you really need that pee-pee teepee? (no.) That humidifier? (also no.) Read on for 10 more things not to buy.
A wipe warmer: Let your kiddo learn an early life lesson in handling adversity. Cold wipes won’t kill him. And dried out wipes won’t clean him.
An over-the-door stroller hanger: If you live in a small space, you’re probably looking for lots of smart storage solutions. The over-the-door hanger seems like a great idea, but imagine trying to lift even the lightest stroller after a C-section. Even if you had the smoothest possible delivery and recovery, unless you’re really fit you’ll find that infant seat hard to carry, so lifting a stroller over your head every day may not be the wisest idea. You also want to make leaving with the baby as easy as possible. It’s hard to hang a stroller when it’s full of diapers, wipes, and water bottles. Better to have a stroller a bit in your way than be constantly packing and re-packing it.
A baby carrier: A baby carrier is an awesome item to have, but isn’t the best item to register for. Your baby may be too small to fit into the carrier you picked during the first trimester. If your baby requires any medical procedures, she may not be able to be in some types of carriers. Your baby might just plain hate the carrier you chose. If you can sit with a little bit of uncertainty, hold off on the carrier until after the baby’s born. If you know a lot of other mamas and babies, ask to try out their carriers to see what works best for you before you buy.
Telescoping baby gates: These easy-to-disassemble and pack gates seem like the perfect thing to take to Grandma’s, but buy one and you’ll soon learn that no two doorways are the same size.
Any kind of snot-removal device: Whether it’s a sucker or a bulb syringe, or some new thing yet-to-be invented, there’s no medical benefit to removing anything from your baby’s nose.
A baby food maker: Babies are humans. Babies can eat the same foods as other humans. A blender will suffice. If you’re lucky enough to have future grandparents who want to spoil your baby, register for a Vitamix and some ice cube trays. Both will still be useful after the baby switches to solid foods.
Bibs: A baby will drool on the single square inch of shirt left uncovered by her bib. A toddler will find ever more inventive ways to slip food between the bib and his shirt. Just pack a few extra shirts in your diaper bag. Speaking of which…
A diaper bag: Seriously, you’re suggesting we not buy diaper bags? Yes, you need *somewhere* to keep your baby gear. But the volume of barely-used diaper bags on eBay suggests that those beautiful giant bags are more pleasant to carry empty than filled. The bigger your bag is, the more gear you’ll end up carrying around. Consider repurposing a small tote bag and sizing up if and only if you find you need more room.
A diaper pail: Okay, we’re with you on the bibs and the diaper bag, but how are we going to survive without a diaper pail? No, it’s not feasible to run to the garage or the dumpster with every dirty diaper, at least not in those early months. But there are also these useful items called trash cans, which are often just as well-sealed and much less expensive than diaper pails. Simple Human makes an excellent one with an inner can designed to hold plastic grocery bags.
A breast pump: This is an item you probably want, but shouldn’t register for. The Affordable Care Act has made it possible for most women to get high-end dual-pumps (Medela’s retails at around $300) through their insurers.
A note on registries: If you’re just starting out with your registry, you’ve probably looked at Buy Buy Baby, a reasonable place to buy baby gear. That stores= and others like them will also give you helpful lists of registry items you need. Just keep in mind that those stores are in the process of selling baby gear.
Other discount retailers, such as Target and Amazon, have excellent registry services. These companies also want you to buy baby gear, but they have a slightly longer end-game: research on shopping habits suggests that the store where you buy your diapers is the store you’ll try to buy everything else. So companies like Target and Amazon work hard to gain your business through their registry perks.
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If you’re planning your baby registry or stocking up before the big day, focus your to-buy list on these essentials that will get you through those first weeks. High chairs, toys and even the crib can wait. This is what you’ll really need when baby arrives.
Diaper Changing Pad
A changing table is handy if you have the room, but for outings and travel, a portable diaper changing pad is all you'll need. And as your child gets older, you may prefer the simplicity of changing them on the floor, couch or bed. This one, from Skip Hop, has a wipe-clean, zip-off changing pad and roomy pockets for diapers, wipes, bum cream and hand sanitizer. It also features a zippered front pocket for your phone, keys and wallet. Best of all, it folds up into a sleek clutch you can wear on your wrist, clip to your stroller or toss in a diaper bag.
We love: the Pronto Signature Changing Station, available at skiphop.com.
Infant Hat
MORI
Hats on babies are not only adorable, they're necessary in certain conditions. A hat will keep baby warm and comfortable in cooler temps and block the sun from their sensitive scalp. As a general rule, put a hat on your baby if you feel the weather is cold. And if your baby looks or feels flushed or appears uncomfortable while wearing a hat, take it off.
Keep track of baby's feeding, sleep and diaper schedule, as well as developmental milestones, immunizations and illnesses, with one of the many awesome apps out there. You'll be able to pick up patterns to help you establish a baby routine that maximizes comfort (yours and baby's), and you can more easily answer any of your pediatrician's questions.
You can start reading to babies the day they're born, and you should! Babies love your voice and find it soothing, and bonding with your babe over a book is a great way for you to get some relaxation amid the stressful, sleepless early days of motherhood. Studies show that regularly reading to your baby builds language comprehension and reading skills too. So visit your library for board books; stock your shelves with classics; or sign up for Literati's baby book club and have age-appropriate books sent to your door.
Tiny babies can make big messes. And when you're a new mom, you want your cleaning products to be safe and toxin-free, but you also want them to be super effective. Truce cleaning products have you covered. We especially love the peppermint-scented all-purpose cleaner, which cuts grease, leaves a streak-free finish and contains only five ingredients (water, isopropyl alcohol, hydrogen peroxide, organic castile soap and essential oils).
We love: Truce cleaning products, available at truceclean.com.
Diapers
Abby & Finn
A stockpile of diapers and wipes is essential for any new parent. Take the guesswork out of when to reorderwith a diaper subscription service that brings the goods to you. Perks of ABBY&FINN include a convenient "set it and forget it" approach, mix and match with multiple sizes and designs in the same box, and the ability to select from a range of frequencies. All of their diapers are eco-friendly and toxin-free, and are comparable in price to Pampers subscribe and save.
Wraps are a helpful carrier option in the early months as the fabric keeps babies close and is soft on their skin. Some look tricky to fasten, but if you ask a sales associate or watch a YouTube video, you'll catch on quicker than you think. You can also pick a style (like this one) that makes it as easy as putting on a t-shirt.
We Love: Baby K'tan PRINT baby carrier, available at babyktan.com, $60.
Swaddle Blankets
aden anais
Loose blankets are a safety hazard for the first year of baby's life, but swaddling blankets are a life-saver. Wrap baby like a burrito to keep restless arms and legs from jolting them awake. These are also great as stroller covers, nursing covers, park blankets, and more.
Top priority: the car seat. You'll need one installed in your car before you leave the hospital with your newborn, so this is one purchase that can't wait. Look for one with a high safety rating. If you plan to buy a stroller from a different brand, check that there's an adaptor for your brand of car seat.
Diaper changes can leave sensitive baby bums irritated, and rashes from wet diapers, certain soaps or baby wipes, or even food intolerances are common. Keep a diaper cream like Triple Paste (a mom favorite!) at the ready to smooth on at the first signs of redness, and you can stop discomfort in its tracks. This ointment is fragrance-free, hypoallergenic, and thick to create a protective barrier on baby's skin. Buy a set of smaller tubes so you can keep one in your diaper bag, another at your changing station and a third at the grandparents' house.
We love: Triple Paste, available at amazon.com, $30 for a 3-pack of 2 oz. tubes.
Bassinet
Chicco
With multiple nightly wakeup calls, you'll want to keep baby within reach. A bassinet by your bedside keeps baby close enough for you to soothe them quickly, and to peer over to watch them sleep.
Give your arms a rest during breastfeeding or bottle-feeding with a fit-to-your-body pillow. In later months, baby can use it to practice tummy time and sitting up.
Your newborn doesn't need a fancy wardrobe at first, as newborns spend most of their time sleeping or snuggling at home. An arsenal of onesies makes dressing your baby quick and easy, and soft cotton in solid colors will match your other baby clothes.
We Love: Primary Organic Babysuit 5-Pack, available at primary.com, $45.
Infant Tub
Boon
A tub that's designed for newborns makes bathing baby easier in those early months. Choose one that converts to a toddler tub to get maximum use out of it.
We Love: Boon Naked 2-Position Collapsible Baby Bathtub, available at amazon.com, $70.
Bibs
Bumkins
Bibs aren't just for babies who eat solids. They're handy for bottle-feeding and catching spit-up and drool. Buy them in bulk. You'll be swapping and washing them often!
We Love: Bumkins Super, available at target.com, $13.
Diaper Bag
7 a.m. Enfant
Getting out of the house with your baby is a must in the first weeks, not just for your sanity, but also for the little one's doctor's appointments. Arm yourself will a well-organized diaper bag so you're prepared with everything from a fresh onesie to a burp cloth and warm blanket.
We Love: 7 a.m. Enfant Soho Diaper Bag, available at 7amenfant.com, $85.
Baby Monitor
Nanit
Video is key for checking in on your baby without disturbing them. Some monitors, like this one, work with an app so you can monitor from your phone when you're away from home. Even grandparents can tune in to watch baby sleep.
We Love: Nanit Pro Camera, available at nanit.com, $299+.
Slow-Flow Baby Bottles
LUX
Whether you're feeding your baby formula or pumped milk, look for bottles that mimic the shape of the breast and slow down the flow of liquid to reduce colic, spitting up, burping and gas.
Middle-of-the-night feedings and diaper changes go a lot smoother with a soft light that doesn't wake up baby or your partner. Better yet, choose an illuminated gadget that doubles as a sound machine. The repetitive sounds of white (static) or pink (rainfall) noise can help soothe your newborn throughout the night.
Swaddling from scratch isn't for every parent (especially in the middle of the night), and some infants can wiggle out of a swaddle blanket like a mini Houdini. These sacks make it easy on both of you with simple zippers and Velcro. Baby will feel snug, and you'll feel like a superstar swaddler!
We Love: HALO SleepSack Swaddle, available at halosleep.com, $25.
Natural Pacifier
Natursutten
When your baby is crying and you've tried everything from shushing and milk or formula to a diaper change, a pacifier gives baby some comfort. Sticking to orthodontic designs may protect your baby's future teeth, and a one-piece design isn't only safer but also easier to clean.
We Love: Natursutten Orthodontic Rubber Pacifier, available at amazon.com, $12.
Celebrate your favorite babies and toddlers with holiday gifts they’ll love and use for years to come. We’ve divided our holiday gift guides for babies by age to help you find what you’re looking for.
Our Favorite Holiday Gifts for Newborn Babies to 6 Month Olds
Monti Kids
Here they are, presents that go beyond the baby registry. These gifts for newborns and babies up to 6 months celebrate their names, decorate their nurseries, help them with developmental skills and more. Check out our 2020 holiday gift guide for newborns to 6 months.
Top Holiday Gifts for Babies 6 to 12 Months—Toys, Gear & More
Lakeshore Learning
Give growing babies a new way to see the world, toys that delight, and gear that will grow with them. You'll find all this and more on our list of holiday gift ideas for babies under one.
Oh, Baby! Our Favorite Holiday Gifts for 1-Year-Olds
Bella Luna Toys
Yes, they'll be excited about the boxes and brightly colored wrapping paper, but these baby gifts for a one-year-old celebrate their growing brain and all the new skills they learn between 12 and 18 months. From a scooter and a table just their size to a musical instrument and a combination basketball hoop and soccer goal, there's a gift in here to delight every baby on your list. Check out our favorite gifts for one-year-olds.
Toddler Gift Guide for 18-24-Month-Old Boys & Girls
Little Navy
Toddlers love to build, move, learn, and cuddle with their dolls and stuffies, so our holiday gift guide for toddlers age 18-24 months is full of toys and gear to help them. Read on to find your toddler's new favorite presents in our gift guide for kids under age 2!
—Eva Ingvarson Cerise
featured photo: iStock
Editor’s Note: Prices and availability reflect the time of publication.
Expecting a bundle of joy is an exciting time full of bliss and wonder. However, becoming a new parent can be a daunting task to say the least. As exciting of a time as this is, it’s totally normal to have feelings of uncertainty—especially when it involves the huge expenses that come with having a baby.
The Cost of Raising a Baby
Having and raising a baby isn’t cheap. According to a USDA report, it costs middle-income families anywhere from $12,000 to $14,000 per year on child-related expenses alone. Here is a quick look at average expenses for each necessary baby item:
Diapers: $70 – $80 per month
Formula: $50 – $150 per month
Clothing: $60 per month
Baby Food: $83 per month
Doctors’ Visits: $3,000+ for the first year
Not only that, but you must take into account other things like furniture, equipment, childcare, and more. With all of these expenses, it’s safe to say you’ll be looking for any opportunity to save money on baby supplies!
Here are a few tips and tricks that can help you save money and prepare for motherhood.
1. Leverage Gently Used Supplies
Reusing baby items is a great way to save some extra cash! However, not all baby items are suitable as a hand-me-down. Below is a list of items that should be great for reuse, but keep in mind that some items may have manufacturer expiration dates you should observe for safety:
Clothing
Car seats
Furniture
Toys
Baby monitor
Carrier
Stroller
Bouncer/swing
2. Sign up for registries. Registries are a great way to receive samples or full-size products for your baby! Some great places to start include Amazon Baby Registry and Babylist.
3. Coupon Chief has a list of the best free baby stuff you can get, including products, samples, coupons, and more. This is a great resource that covers almost all the basic needs for your baby at virtually no cost.
4. Join a community. Thanks to social media, connecting with people can be as simple as a click of a button. Facebook groups are a great way for mothers to support each other, share advice, or sell lightly used items.
To all the new mothers and mothers-to-be out there––you are amazing! It is easy to get overwhelmed with the finances of having a baby, the lack of sleep, and tremendous responsibility it takes to be a mom. Nonetheless, it is important to acknowledge your own needs and mental health from time to time. It can seem impossible at times, but taking time for yourself is necessary and important. Whether it’s taking a bath after baby falls asleep or catching up on your favorite show while a partner or family member is on baby duty, some “me-time” is essential. Here are a few more ways new moms can catch a break.
Remember to be patient and kind to yourself. Use these printables of inspirational mantras and quotes to practice self-love and give yourself a gentle reminder of your incredible achievements as a mother.
Whether you’re expecting or just welcomed a new arrival into your family, these tips and tricks are a sure way to save you money so you can spend less time worrying about finances and more time with your new bundle of joy. Congratulations on the newest addition to your family!
Congratulations, you’re having a baby! In all your planning for diapers, baby gear, toys and clothes, it suddenly dawns on you that this can also be an opportunity to offer your child something more meaningful: a better, more giving, more sustainable future. As you’re making your registry, here are a few products that are changing the world for the better, and what could be a better gift than that?
The Cuddle + Kind founders wanted a way to give back, and they did just that, developing a model in which the purchase of a doll can feed ten children in need. Since September 2015, purchases have helped provide more than 8 million meals! In addition to that, the hand-knit dolls are ethically created in Peru, offering more than 750 artisans a sustainable, fair-trade income. And the dolls are beautiful, soft, cuddly and meant to be snuggled. With so many different styles and choices, there's a Cuddle + Kind for every baby. The company also sells inspirational prints for the nursery (shown above); each purchase provides five meals to children in need.
The word "bombas" comes from the Latin word for bumblebee, a creature that works with its fellow hive members to make a real difference in the world around them. Bombas, as a company, strives to achieve the same impact, donating one pair of socks for every pair of socks purchased. The company’s founders found that socks were the number-one item requested in homeless shelters, and since its foundation, the company has given away 29,262,619 of them. The Bombas mantra is “bee better,” and you have the chance to do the same by adding Bombas socks to your baby registry. Bonus: They’re adorable. You can even order a family pack pack that has matching socks for moms (or dads) and toddlers.
TOMS isn’t a new company, but it was one of the first to offer a give-back option for shoppers, founded on the one-for-one model that donated a pair of shoes for every shoe purchased. Since its foundation in 2006, TOMS has given away more than 95 million shoes in 85 countries, and the numbers continue to grow. A new direction for the company directs a portion of proceeds to the support of physical safety, mental health and equal opportunities for all. And TOMS baby shoes? So cute you’ll wish they made them in your size. Oh, wait! They do.
This play gym is so lovely in design it may as well be a piece of art for your floor. But, more importantly, it’s designed to grow with your baby, including five developmental zones created to promote brain and motor skill development. What’s more? The Lovevery Play Gym is created using 100% baby-safe materials, with organic cotton, water-based, non-toxic finishes and sustainably harvested wood, providing an opportunity for you to give back to the earth by supporting sustainable farming practices. Even the plastic and silicone components of the gym are manufactured without BPA and phthalates. And it comes with a Lifetime Lost Parts promise.
There are so many diaper choices on the market, and knowing their use and disposability can make it difficult to justify their price. However, Abby + Finn Diapers offer a better solution, one that provides a quality product for your little one while also helping those in need, as the company donates 30 diapers for every monthly diaper box purchased. Made without chlorine, heavy metals, latex, fragrances, lotions, moisturizers, allergens, dyes or any substances known to be harmful to the environment, these diapers provide a clean alternative to traditional diapers and offer an easy way for your registry to give back. Added bonus: Abby + Finn has a subscription service, so you never have to worry about running to the store when you reach your last diaper.
Did you know that, on average, children are exposed to at least 27 harmful chemicals each day, through regular, everyday body care products like sunscreen, shampoo, and lotion? Erbaviva, a USDA certified-organic company, creates skincare products for babies (and everyone else!) that are free of pesticides, fertilizers and chemicals such as parabens, phthalates, sulfates, and more. Erbaviva’s handcrafted packaging is sourced through a nonprofit that collaborates with local villagers in northern Thailand to provide sustainable income and support a mobile children’s clinic. Further, Erbaviva partners with the Blinknow Foundation to help provide quality education and a safe environment for Nepali youth. And the Erbaviva products are effective, including such items as Sniffles Chest Balm for stuffy noses and Tummy Rub to sooth baby’s upset stomach. They have some great products for pregnant mamas as well!
You don’t think about strollers being environmentally friendly, but the Greentom line of strollers is made from just over 12 pounds of recycled high-quality post-consumer plastic and 74 recycled PET bottles. And when your little one outgrows the stroller, it can be recycled and reused. It’s what they call a “true circular solution,” as it creates no waste and actually uses waste to clean up the environment by creating new products. Calling themselves the greenest stroller on planet Earth, Greentom strollers have award-winning designs, incredible functionality and customization choices, and offer a way for you to save the planet with every stroll, a must-have for the conscientious gift registry.
Celeb mama Blake Lively recently welcomed her third baby with hubby Ryan Reynolds. Now that the actress is a pro at the whole mommy-ing thing, she’s teaming up with Amazon Baby Registry to share her faves in a curated guide.
Lively said, in a press release, “I understand how overwhelming it is to be a new parent. What they don’t tell you is it never gets less overwhelming, but with each kid, I do learn more. Before I had my first, I was lucky enough to have the parents in my life who I trusted most share their “must-haves” with me. I hope to do the same for you with my baby registry picks. Good luck! You’re gonna’ need it.”
With categories such as diapering basics and sustainable on-the-go essentials, you’ll love absolutely everything on this must have guide!
Find everything you'll need in Lively's nursery registry. Check out the Halo Bassinest Swivel Sleeper ($279). This pick rotates and swivels 360 degrees, includes a nightlight, has three soothing sound and a back to bed reminder.
Lively's choices for on-the-go mamas include the Baby Jogger Mini Double Stroller ($449). Even though this choice has a higher price tag, it seats two and has plenty of storage space.
Diapering Basics
Amazon
Lively's picks include everything you'll need for diaper duty—from diapers to a place to put them (when your baby is done with them, of course). Along with other essentials the actress also added Burt's Bees 100% Natural Multipurpose Ointment ($8.99).
—Erica Loop
Featured photo: Courtesy of Amazon Baby Registry/Guy Aroch
With a dizzying array of baby products to choose from, it can be really challenging to decide which items you need on your baby registry. If you need a little inspiration, look no further than Lauren Conrad’s Amazon Baby Registry.
The expectant mom has done the legwork for you by compiling some of her favorite Amazon items into a registry of must-have items for all soon-to-be-parents. “This time around, it’s about getting the entire family ready for the baby’s arrival. I use Baby Registry to save on upgrades like a baby monitor and an additional stroller seat with the 15% Completion Discount,” Conrad said in a press release.
Some of the items Conrad picked include the 4moms mamaRoo 4 high-tech enabled swing, Cocoon Cam baby Monitor, Pampers Swaddlers, Comotomo Baby Bottle and Philips Avent Pacifier. Conrad also signed up for the Diaper Fund, which allows friends and family to contribute to the cost of purchasing diapers through Amazon.
As a mom already, Conrad understands the never-ending diapers that come with a new baby. “Of course I know I’ll need more diapers. The Baby Registry Diaper Fund is a really convenient way for friends and family to gift you something you really need, without having to hide 20 boxes somewhere in the house!,” she said.
Conrad also recommends expectant parents sign up for a Welcome Box for their Baby Registry, which comes filled with sample baby products to try out. Conrad explained, “Amazon’s Welcome Box was so fun to open! The swaddle blanket, bottles, onesie and other sample products reminded me there are a bunch of things I still needed. And I loved getting a second box for baby number 2!”
You can check out Conrad’s complete Amazon Baby Registry for more ideas here.
I was among the first of my friends to have kids, which meant navigating the baby gear scene somewhat blindly. I walked through the aisles of Babies ‘R’ Us and Buy Buy Baby scanning whatever seemed useful, but not having much product advice beyond what my mom found useful 25 years ago. It wasn’t until I joined a playgroup of other new twin moms and took some parenting classes at the 92nd Street Y that I could chat about and see park blankets, pacifiers and push toys in action.
Raising kids inevitably means acquiring stuff. When you live in a two-bedroom apartment, in New York City space is at a premium. If something is no longer useful, I happily toss it or pass it along to a friend. I’ve compiled a list of sanity-saving gear for the first five years. These 50 products are worth the precious square footage they take up. If only I knew about them when registering!
Essentials for Sleep
Summer Infant SwaddleMes and Halo SleepSacks: Velcro makes for a great “baby burrito.” I find that swaddled babies sleep longer because their flailing arms don’t startle baby awake. Thanks, Dr. Harvey Karp andThe Happiest Baby on the Block!
MAM pacifiers and clips: Because there is no “upside-down,” baby can more easily pop these pacifiers back in. Glow-in-the-dark versions are brilliant. Clip a pacifier to baby’s car seat and carrier so you don’t have to fumble to find it.
Brookstone sound machine: My baby lets out a contented, sleepy sigh when she hears that rumble.
Blankets and Beyond security blanket animals: Introduce a lovey to your baby that you can replace if lost. Take a picture of all lovies with their labels visible to simplify your hunt for a replacement later on.
Carter’s Zip-Up Sleep & Play: Because who wants to search for snaps during the 3 a.m. diaper change?
Essentials for Food
Medela bottles: I pumped right into these and used them to feed my twins. The tops have just the nipple and a ring. Less parts = less dishes.
Nursing pillows: Double Blessings for twins, Boppy for singletons. These double as tummy time supports and lounge chairs.
Medela Easy Expression Bustier: Hands-free pump bra so you can relax, be productive, or just imagine you’re Madonna while pumping.
Tovolo silicone ice cube tray: Freeze homemade baby food purees. Pop out and store frozen cubes in Ziplocs. Defrost a cube or two for a quick meal.
Green Sprouts waterproof bibs: Rinse off and hang to dry for the next meal.
Fisher-Price SpaceSaver high chair and portable booster seat: These buckle onto regular adult chairs. The high chair cover easily snaps off to machine wash. Portable option is useful for long trips or dinner at a friend’s house.
Munchkin SureGrip straw cups: We used these to transition off milk bottles at a year and still use them at 5 years.
Munchkin Snack Catcher: Minimize spills and encourage independence.
The First Years Take & Tossplastic bowls, sippy cups, straw cups, and divided plastic plates: We use these daily for cereal, water, smoothies and meals. Avoid the dreaded, “Mom! My food is touching!”
Contigo water bottles: My favorite yet in the battle against leaks.
Beech-Nut fruit/veggie purees in disposable pouches: I use these on-the-go snacks to keep my baby awake in the stroller while rushing home for a nap. They are also good for incorporating vegetables that baby would spit out if served straight up.
OXO Tot dishwasher basket and drying rack: For the abundance of bottles, sippy cups, pacifiers, pump parts, straws and small accessories that are now part of your life.
IKEA adjustable-height toddler table and chairs: Great for meals and activities as kids grow.
Essentials for Travel
Lillebaby Nordic carrier: Great for naps on-the-go and for boarding airplanes with pre-walkers.
Baby Jogger City Select double stroller: As a city family, our stroller acts as a car. The sturdy wheels can handle snow, rocks, curbs and stairs. We’ve used various combinations and directions of car seats, stroller seats and a glider board.
Summer Infant 3D Lite: This lightweight umbrella stroller folds easily as we hop on the bus.
Graco Snap N Go stroller frame: The infant car seat easily clicks in, which is great for those first few months before baby can sit up in a regular stroller seat.
Graco Nautilus 65 LX 3-in-1 Harness Booster: This car seat transforms into two stages of booster seats for your growing child. My kids love to store their treasures in the cup holder and side cubbies.
JJ Cole BundleMe stroller bunting: Keeps baby cozy with just a light jacket. I wish I could crawl into this “stroller sleeping bag” on blustery mornings!
Aden + Anais muslin blanket/nursing cover: An airy cover-up for babies who are nursing or sleeping in a carrier or stroller.
PackIt freezable lunch box: Built-in ice packs save me a step on busy mornings.
Graco Pack N Play: Sets up in a minute. The basic version is affordable enough to keep one at each grandparent’s.
Usborne wipe-clean activity books: Keep kids busy on airplanes and cars and while waiting at the doctor’s office or restaurants.
Essentials for Health and Safety
DenTek Kids floss picks: These plus power toothbrushes and fluoride toothpaste are my best friends in the fight against cavities.
Summer Infant Ultimate Crib Sheet: This pad snaps to crib slats for easy changing, so there’s no need to hoist up the mattress. This is especially helpful when kids get sick or wet the bed at night. The three layers serve as a sheet, absorbent mattress pad, and waterproof pad.
Crib that converts to a toddler bed with side rail: Encourage independence, save your back and prevent falls. This setup can easily last for four years.
Safety 1st Finger Pinch Guard: Having these on my doors has saved us from many tears! Easily removable.
Puddle Jumpers: Life jackets that let kids practice their swimming strokes.
Diapering and Potty Essentials
Walmart Parent’s Choice diapers: Best deal out there. Size 1s are less than 10 cents each! With a wetness indicator strip, there’s no guessing whether baby needs a change.
Babies ‘R’ Us disposable changing pads: These are especially helpful when public restrooms don’t have changing tables and who knows what’s on the floor. I keep one on my changing table at home in case of a blow-out.
Aquaphor Healing Ointment: Skin protectant for diaper rash, drool rash, chapped lips, irritated skin and minor cuts.
Playtex Diaper Genie: I spent an entire year with three kids in diapers. Tossing diapers in the outdoor trash just wasn’t going to happen and this was great at locking away odors.
Babies ‘R’ Us diaper booster pads: Add absorbency to nighttime diapers.
Baby Bjorn Potty Chair: With my twins, it was useful for each to have his own potty so we could have “potty parties” together. My third went right for the regular toilet seat with the help of a step stool.
Essentials for Play
Fisher-Price Rainforest Bouncer: A great place to set baby down during your speed shower.
Infantino Twist and Fold Activity Gym and Play Mat: This easily collapses to store under a couch.
Lamaze toys: These colorful, textured toys clip onto car seats and strollers so they don’t fall overboard like our Sophie La Girafe did.
Fisher-Price Jumperoo: Gives baby a new vantage point and works the leg muscles.
Land’s End and KEEN water shoes: Sturdy treads prevent playground wipe-outs during sprinkler season.
Micro Kickboard Mini Scooters: Three wheels help new balancers. A solution for longer walks as you transition out of the stroller.
JJ Cole Outdoor Mat: This water-resistant blanket folds compactly into its own bag and is perfect for the park or beach.
Essentials for School
Skip Hop Zoo backpacks: The smallest doubles as a safety harness. The regular size works well for preschool.
Pottery Barn whiteboard calendar: Home base for coordinating school events, playgroups, playdates, birthday parties, babysitters, date nights, Sunday school volunteering, work commitments, doctor’s appointments, vacations, visitors and community events for our family of six.
Plastic homework folders: Protect papers from that inevitable water bottle spill.
Inchbug labels: Dishwasher- and washing machine-safe adhesive name labels. Perfect for labeling clothes, backpacks, folders, water bottles, lunchboxes and shoes. Reusable Orbit Labels are great too.
Expecting moms: I hope you’ll use this as a registry cheat sheet. New moms: I hope this will save you time as you weed through the gazillion products in the baby gear industry. Veteran moms: Thanks for chatting up your gear with me. Let me guess, did you just nod your head as you checked off all of these beloved items stocked in your own home?
Kristin Van de Water is a former journalist and teacher who relies on humor, faith, and her mom crew to get her through the day. Raising four kids in a two-bedroom NYC apartment, Kristin is always on the lookout for life hacks to save time, space, money, and her sanity.
Preparing for a new baby can be an overwhelming time. Deciding what you need and what to add to that baby registry isn’t always easy. A new survey reveals some insights into how expectant parents build their baby registries.
Using data collected on more than 300,000 gift givers Babylist, a universal baby registry service, has compiled a report on buying habits of expectant parents and baby gift givers. The survey revealed that while 50 percent of items registered for are $20 or less, the average amount spent by gift givers is about $130. Grandparents are the most likely to splurge on gifts, versus other family and friends who are more budget conscious.
When selecting a gift, most prioritized practicality over sentimentality, with 44 percent wanting to gift something needed versus just 14 percent wanting to give a gift that is personal and thoughtful. One quarter of gift givers purchased something off registry to bundle with items on the list.
The data also revealed trends in registry items, with several selections on the rise in popularity. Between 2017 and 2018 baby bottles on registries increased by 11 percent, followed by baby monitors with a nine percent increase and strollers with an eight percent increase.
Most baby registries are created during the second trimester, though only 11 percent say they feel like they’ve researched products and feel prepared. On average Babylist users spend a whopping 40 hours building their registries. Fifty-two percent of what registrants add to their lists end up getting deleted.
The U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission recently announced a recall for Beaba Babycook Neo steam cookers/blenders. The glass bowl part of these baby food makers can shatter, potentially causing injury. Representatives from Beaba did not immediately return Red Tricycle’s request for comment.
If you have this product in your kitchen, or wherever you prep your kiddo’s food, read on for more information about this recall.
Recalled Product Description: Beaba Babycook Neo
The recall includes Beaba Babycook Neos purchased between Jul. 2018 and Feb. 2019 in the Midnight (dark blue with a white-handled glass bowl) and Cloud (white with a gray-handled glass bowl) styles. Midnight cookers/blenders have the reference number 912645 on the bottom. The Cloud style has the reference number 912646 on the bottom.
Why The Beaba Babycook Neo Was Recalled
Beaba issued the recall after receiving nearly 300 reports of the glass bowl shattering. This includes three minor injuries.
How to Tell if Your Beaba Product Is Part of the Recall
Turn the product over and read the sticker on the bottom. The stickers of the affected products will have “Beaba” written at the top left and the reference number identified below as REF 912645 or REF 912646.
For a full list of retailers the product was sold at, visit the CPSC’s website here.
What Parents Can Do
If you have this product, stop using it immediately. Remove the blade and lid from the bowl. When you receive a replacement you will not get these items—you will only get a new bowl. Visit the Beaba website here and upload one photo of the reference code from the bottom of the product and a second photo of your proof of purchase with date (this can include a receipt, order confirmation or screen shot of the fulfilled item from your baby registry).
Customers will get a replacement bowl shipping confirmation email five to seven business days after submitting the photos and request. If you have questions, contact Beaba at 855-602-3222 from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. ET Monday through Friday or email the company at contact@beabausa.com.
—Erica Loop
Photos: Courtesy of the U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission