Want some good news for a change? Some of Portland’s most beloved local artists and small shops are finding inspiring ways to stay connected, support the community, and stay in business during the global pandemic. And they’re feeling the love in return! When social distancing is getting us down, it’s good to know our favorite shops and circles are still out there. Read on to learn how to connect with and support them, so we can all gather together again when the crisis lifts.

Photo: via Hammer and Jacks.

Hammer + Jacks

In response to the pandemic and out of concern for the most vulnerable among us, the most compassionate thing we can do as a community is give each other some space. But what do you do when your business is a community space?

So much more than a toystore, Hammer and Jacks’ adorable indoor playspace has become a vital community hub in the Foster-Powell neighborhood over the past four years. From lactation support groups and kindie music concerts, to storytimes in Spanish and birthday parties, there’s always been something happening. Until now.

“It’s been a complete 180,” Owner Jillian Sevick says. “To go from being a gathering space to figuring out how to stay connected while doing [social distancing.] But there has [also] been an amazing outpouring of community.”

Even before Kate Brown officially ordered businesses to close under the shelter-in-place order, Hammer and Jacks closed their doors and began doing curbside pickup and home delivery only. Things got quiet around the store, with neighbors picking up bundles of toys outside the store, holding their kids up so they could wave at “the toystore lady” through the storefront window. A week later, after a lot of conversation, they began discouraging people from coming to the shop and switched to no-contact porch deliveries only, opting not to overload the postal system with non-essential business.

For now, the orders are still coming and the family-run business is still making free deliveries. Sevick is grateful for the opportunity to support Portland families in a safe way. She says the community has really shown that they care, and that she wants to cry every time she hears that customers want to support small businesses, and not just Amazon.

An added bright spot? Many H+J customers have opted to include balloons with their toy delivery. Sevick recalls delivering a rainbow of balloons to one house, where a child was feeling a little sad about her “virtual birthday party. After dropping off the package, Sevick received a text with a video of the girl spinning and dancing in the balloons.

“It took her from feeling glum about having a birthday party under quarantine, to lighting up when she saw the balloons,” Sevick says. “So yes it’s nice to feel the community behind us and have a sense that we can still go on. And at the same time, for me it’s an emotional boost to still be able to do this work, and support families under quarantine.”

Hammer and Jacks
6416 SE Foster Rd.
Portland, OR 97206
info@hammerandjacks.com
503-894-9150

Order online: hammerandjacks.com

Photo: via Red Yarn Productions.

Red Yarn

A Red Yarn show is about more than just the music. It’s about the friendships made between kids and parents alike, and the way the community gathers to sing together even during hard times. The Portland performer is known for his warm personality, lively puppetry, and lyrics that manage to combine folk style and fun with political awareness and responsiveness.

At a time when many families in Portland and elsewhere are grappling with major upheaval, music remains a salve. Though Red Yarn can’t perform as usual under the stay-at-home order, he’s begun reuniting with fans during livestream performances.

“My first few Facebook Live shows were pretty rough with lots of technical issues, but a few tech-savvy parents generously reached out, gave me some pointers, and now I have a decent little system going in my living room,” says Red Yarn, aka Andy Furgeson. “I’ve always been wary of technology taking the place of ‘real’ human connection, but I’ve been amazed how engaging and connecting these livestream shows have felt.”

One surprising result of the virtual concerts is reaching more introverted kids, who might not be as likely to get up and dance at his in-person shows. Three times a week he broadcasts to living rooms everywhere via Facebook Live, during times he would have been doing his weekly shows at Taborspace, Village Ballroom, and Mississippi Pizza (all of which are amazing businesses, Furgeson points out, that deserve our support right now.)

This concern for others is central for Furgeson and characteristic of Red Yarn shows. While there are several ways that families can donate to support Red Yarn’s livestream performances during the pandemic, Furgeson stresses that he wants everyone to tune in, whether or not they are in a position to donate.

“I would especially like to invite parents who have been laid off or who are facing a major loss of income due to the Coronavirus crisis to tune in guilt- and donation-free,” he says. “So many people are hurting right now, and will continue to be hurt by the economic and health impacts of this crisis. I know a lot of artists and small business owners or employees who can’t shift their model so easily, and I’m trying to do what I can to spread the love.”

Though connecting virtually is different, he says it’s wonderful to witness artists, community-leaders and activists use technology to help others make it through a scary time.

Check out Red Tricycle’s largest, most comprehensive virtual events calendar of family-friendly activities  to find more virtual events.

Red Yarn Livestream Performances
Monday and Wednesday at 10 a.m.
Thursday at 4 p.m.
Online: facebook.com/redyarn
Stream music for free at redyarn.bandcamp.com
Watch music videos at youtube.com/redyarnfilms.

Photo: via Mimosa Studios

Mimosa Studios

Talk about going above and beyond for your customers. When the shelter-in-place order hit Portland, Mimosa Studios Owner Austin Raglione had to think fast. How could they continue offering the experience of their full-service ceramic painting studio to families cooped up at home?

“We’d offered take home painting kits in the past, for parties and gatherings, so it was a model we already had in place,” Raglione says. “It’s been popular [since the order], and I think a lot of people who don’t know about it would love it. It’s a tough road for a lot of kids and families stuck at home, and this is a great craft to bond over together.”

Raglione remembers doing crafts with her mother when she was growing up, and she loves being able to make people happy by helping them create memories during a tough time. The Take Home Painting Kits ($20-$30) come with all the ceramics, paint, brushes, and instructions needed to paint right at home. The kits are delivered to Portland-area homes, along with free pick-up for finished works, to be taken to the studio for firing. Once Mimosa Studios is able to reopen to the public, customers can pick up their work, fired and ready for display or use in the home.

The kits are easy to order online, and they offer 10% off for families who have lost employment due to the crisis. You can choose from unpainted ceramic mugs, garden pots and gnomes, magical figurines, or bowls. If there’s a specific figure or item you’re looking for, you can call during business hours and staff will help find the right item to pack up for you. All materials are sanitized before delivery, and the paint is washable, so it’s safe to set up at the kitchen table.

After nearly 20 years in business, Raglione says Mimosa Studios has always been about building community, and that’s what she wants to focus on now, too. Before the pandemic, she enjoyed seeing people connect at the family-style table in their small studio. Now, closing the studio doors is the best choice she can make for the community, even though it’s hard.

“We want to be part of the solution, not part of the problem,” she says. “If people can support small businesses to whatever extent they’re able, that’s going to help everyone.”

Mimosa Studios
1718 NE Alberta St.
503-288-0770 (Wed. and Sat. 10 a.m.-2 p.m.)
Delivery on Mon., Wed., and Sat. (free)
Order Online: mimosastudios.com

 Photo: via Green Bean Books.

Green Bean Books

For many of its devoted customers, the temporary shuttering of the whimsical red-painted children’s bookstore in the beloved Alberta Arts District came as a blow– one in a long string of necessary closures in response to the pandemic. Beyond the hand-picked selection of children’s books and the big green reading couch at the center of the store, there was the community of families that met weekly for multilingual story-times, craft sessions, and music circles. How could they carry that warmth and connection into the unexpected shift to social distancing?

“The hardest part for us has been getting our online ordering up and running,” says Owner Jennifer Green. “We have always prided ourselves on being an experience store: one in which you really have to go into our store in order to feel the magic. Now all that is not possible, so we are figuring out an online book ordering system.”

While they work on creating an easy-to-use online ordering system, the small team of booksellers is available daily by phone for book recommendations and ordering. With the ability to order just about any book through their distributors, including adult books, they encourage customers to pick up the phone and purchase a book. Clean and safe curbside pick-up is available, along with free porch delivery for homes on the east side of the river and reasonably close to the store.

“Customers have been so kind and concerned and we really feel embraced by our strong community of readers!” she reflects. “It has felt like one big group hug some days! (And) we will need continued support to get through this.”

One way to do that is to purchase a gift certificate for future use, which can be mailed or kept at the store for phone orders or once doors open again. Consider purchasing an audiobook through partner Libro.fm, with all sales supporting Green Bean Books. Already have enough books to last you through the crisis? Order a surprise bundle to be delivered to a friend in need of a little cheer, or purchase a stack of books to be delivered to the Children’s Book Bank, a  nonprofit working to distribute books to kids in need in the Portland area.

Green Bean Books
1600 NE Alberta Street
503-954-2354 (daily from 11 a.m.- 4 p.m.)
Online: greenbeanbookspdx.com

Call during business hours to place an order, and check back for online ordering!

-Melissa Poulin

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Teachers deserve more than an apple or freshly sharpened bouquet of pencils when it comes to showing them your appreciation. So why not do something thoughtful to show them how grateful you really are? Here are five ideas for recognizing and thanking your children’s amazing teachers.

1. Nominate a teacher for an award!
The Oregon Lottery has partnered with The Oregon Department of Education to offer a Teacher of the Year program! Nominate a teacher who truly inspires students and makes a difference in the community. The winning teacher receives $5,000 and a special fund to cover all travel costs for the year, plus $5,000 for his or her school. Just in the past two years, the Oregon Lottery has awarded $537.7 million to K-12 public education. (That’s about $460 per student each year!) Nominations for the 2021 award are open until January 31, 2020. And just think about all the textbooks, computers, services and equipment that money can buy!

2. Say something special
Let your child’s teacher know how much you appreciate them by putting pen to paper and writing a heartfelt and sincere note. Be specific with your gratitude. Tell them what they do that you find so wonderful and valuable for students. If you have a specific story to highlight then go for it. There is perhaps no such thing as too much praise in this case! Then, have your child write a card with a poem and/or drawing that illustrates what an impact the teacher has had in their life.

3. Give a really great gift card!
Who doesn’t love permission to buy something just for fun? Pick out a gift card for your child’s teacher and know that they will appreciate the gesture. There are practically infinite online retailers to choose from, in addition to local restaurants and bakeries, bookstores, spas or salons, and fancy food markets.

4. Make something delicious in the kitchen
You don’t have to be a great chef to whip up something sweet to gift a teacher. Bake a batch of cookies, brownies or muffins either from scratch or from a store-bought box. Even better if you enlist your kid to help you! You can have fun in the kitchen making roasted chickpeas or nuts, a warm soup or sauce, homemade granola or whatever your family enjoys and wants to share with a special teacher.

5. Shop local!
Track down the most popular favorites at all your local haunts and get a little something from each store. Grab the best coffee beans, bagels or doughnuts, deli pickles and a gift certificate for a manicure around town and wrap up everything in a basket or tote to gift to your child’s teacher with a quick note of thanks.

 

Do you know a deserving teacher making a difference for students in your community? Nominate them for Oregon Teacher of the Year at OregonTeacherOfTheYear.org!

—Whitney C. Harris

Trick-or-treating is tons of fun, but there’s more than one way for families to celebrate Halloween in Portland. If your family takes this beloved holiday seriously, you are going to want to keep reading! We’ve come up with a list of indoor events that will thrill you little ghosts and goblins. Read on for our favorite picks.

Halloween at the Portland Children’s Museum

Evelyn Cirignotta

On Halloween day bring your little animals, monsters, witches, superheroes, or ballerinas to the Portland Children’s Museum for a special quest!  Kids will Trick-or-treat to each exhibit and have the opportunity to participate in a spookily fun art project or slimy sensory experience. Museum staff will be handing out candy-free goodies like glow sticks, hand-made Halloween buttons, and toys for a perfectly marvelous sugar-free Halloween that everyone can enjoy! This happens on October 31 from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. If you already have plans mark your calendar for October 28th  for a playful, festive, and NOT-SO-SCARY evening of Halloween fun at the museum. Note: this is for members only. Kids can  trick-or-treat in the exhibits for candy, stickers, pencils and more, decorate Trick-or-Treat bags, and have fun with glow-in-the-dark painting!  
Oct. 28, 5:30 –7:30 p.m.
Oct. 31, 10:00 a.m.–3:00 p.m.

Free for members, $11/non-members

4015 SW Canyon Road
503-223-6500
Online: portlandcm.org

Portland's Aerial Tram Halloween Ride

xflickrx via Flickr

Wear your witch's hat but leave the broomstick at home! Portland’s Aerial Tram will do the flying for you. Expect a day of frightful and delightful family activities, including face painting and Halloween arts and crafts for kids, and TRAM rides. Kids under 6 ride free with a fare-paying adult.

Oct 26, 11:00 a.m.–3:00 p.m.
3303 SW Bond Ave.
Portland, OR 97239
Online: gobytram.com

Kennedy School TRICK-OR-TREATING!

Jesse Michael Nix

On Halloween Day from 4:30 p.m. until 10 p.m. you can take your kids to the halls of the Kennedy School for Trick-or Treating adventures, dinner out, live performances, and so much more! It’s free for everyone and all ages are welcome. Dinner is not included but we recommend you stay and feed those little cute monsters… or else. Starting at 4:30 p.m. there’s a Willamette Radio Workshop in the Kennedy School Theater. Trick-or-Treating begins at 4:30 p.m. and ends at 6:30 p.m. all throughout the Kennedy School Halls. If you’re feeling the energy stay a bit longer for a live musical performance from the Coastline! Click here to see some images from last year’s fun filled event!

Free for Everyone
Oct. 31, 4 - 10p.m.
5736 N.E. 33rd Ave
503-249-3983
Online: mcmenamins.com

Story Slam: Halloween Edition at Beaverton Library

San José Public Library

Get in the Halloween Spirit with a spooky storytime slam at the Beaverton Library! Tell or listen to a story based on the themes “Trick or Treat” and “Spooked, Frightened, or just Plain Scared.” Beaverton City Library's Story Slam is a friendly, open-mic storytelling competition. Potential storytellers will put their names in a hat; names will be picked from the hat and those chosen will take to the stage to tell their true, personal, 5 to 8-minute story. You and your kids can put your names in the hat to tell a story or just attend to enjoy the show! Stories must be told from memory. The winner receives a $10 gift certificate to The Book Corner. This program is free and open to the public; recommended for ages 13 and up. Potential storytellers should arrive 15 minutes early to speak with the event host about their planned story.

Oct. 30, 7 – 8:30 p.m. 
12375 SW 5th St, Beaverton
503-350-3600
Online: beavertonlibrary.org

Halloween Party and Open Gym at the Playground Gym

Sarah S. via yelp

Experience a fun-filled Halloween Party along with an open gym. The Playground Gym will have their space full of fun equipment and mats and will provide crafts, games, story time with a princess, a fire dancing performance, and more. Costumes more than welcome. 

Oct. 31
3-6 p.m.
$8 for 1 child, $12 for 2, $15 for 3
5215 N Lombard St.

More info here.

Halloweek Arts at Smartypants

smarty pants via yelp

Have a not-so-spooky time at this Halloween event. For the entire week leading up to—and on—Halloween, your kids can get crafty at Smarty Pants. They'll enjoy getting creative while waiting to hit the streets to trick-or-treat.

Oct.25-31
9 a.m. - 6 p.m.
5512 N Montana Ave.
Event details here.

—Annette Benedetti

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To strike up some serious fun for kiddo’s next birthday bash just book a spot at the bowling alley. Many of them offer all-inclusive party packages (think: lanes, shoes, lunch, and signable bowling pins), making party planning a piece of cake. If you’re game, check out these seven alleys that have all of the perks your little bowler could want.

Shake & Bake Family Fun Center

Shake & Bake Family Fun Center

Bowling and roller skating under one roof? Done. Bowling deals include Family Matters Monday, when a family of four gets a game, shoe rentals, a pizza slice and a soft drink for $20 between 6 and 10 pm. Wednesdays are Family $1 Night between 5 and 9.

Birthday party packages include: Two hours of bowling, soda, pizza, ice cream cup, signature bowling pin, bestive baloon bouquet. ($179.90/up to 10 guests).

Where: 1601 Pennsylvania Ave. (Baltimore, Md)
When: See website for schedule.
Online: skatenbowl.com

Bowlero

Bowlero

Boasting more than 22,000 square feet of fun (and 18 lanes), Bowlero Leesburg is the second Bowlero location to open in Virginia. But it's not your run of the mill alley--spin on fun—there's blacklight lanes, interactive games, and inventive menus. There's also an arcade and laser tag area to take your visit to a whole new level.

Birthday party packages include: 2 hours of bowling, shoe rental, $5 arcade card/ $5 gift card per kid, food, drinks, and a chocolate chip cookie cake ($34.99/kid).

Where: 1602 Village Market Blvd. #100 (Leesburg, Va)
When: Hours change by season; see website
Online: kingpinzbowl.com

Rinaldi’s Riverdale Bowling Center

Rinaldi's

This quaint family owned and operated facility has been holding court in the D.C. area since 1960. With tons of updates, the center has all of the modern amenities of newer alleys, but with that family run feel you’ll fall in love with.

Birthday party packages include: Two hours of bowling, two menu items, soda, french fries, partyware, a signable bowling pin, $5 gift certificate for each guest ($18.99/kid; 5-20 kids).

6322 Kenilworth Ave. (Riverdale Park, Md)
301-864-5940

White Oak Duckpin Lanes

White Oak Lanes

A fave among local parents with tots, the smaller, lighter weight pins and balls used in duckpin bowling are especially awesome for little people with little arm strength.

Birthday party packages include: One hour of bowling with bumpers, free shoe rental, one hour use of party room, pizza or hotdogs, soda. ($16/kid; 8-20 kids).

11207 New Hampshire Ave. (Silver Spring, Md)
301-593-3000
Online: whiteoaklanes.com

Brunswick Zone

Brunswick Zone

This super-sized bowling center features 32 lanes of bowling awesomeness—plenty of space for you and your family to snag a lane.

Birthday party packages include: Two hours of bowling, two menu items, soda, french fries, partyware, a signable bowling pin, $5 gift certificate for each guest ($18.99/kid; 5-20 kids).

7100 Carved Stone (Columbia, Md)
410-381-7750
Online: bowlbrunswick.com

Bowlmor Bethesda

Bowlmor

No drab beige and gray décor here. Bright colors and glow-in-the-dark lanes make this alley appealing to youngsters and grown-ups alike. Work up an appetite and servers will bring fried pickles and jalapenos or a pizza cupcake to you at your lane. Plus, there’s an arcade when knocking pins down loses its luster.

Birthday party packages include: Two hours of bowling, two menu items, two side options, soda and juice, a signable bowling pin, chocolate chip cookie cake, $5 gift certificate for each guest ($31.99/kid).

Where: 5353 Westbard Ave. (Bethesda, Md)
When: 4 pm to 1 am Monday, 4 pm to 11 pm Tuesday through Thursday, noon to 2 am Friday, 11 am to 2 am Saturday and 11 am to 10 pm Sunday
Online: <a target="_blank" href="http://www.bowlmor.com/bethesda/"> bowlmor.com </a>

Annapolis Bowl

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ot serious bowlers? Consider joining one of the youth leagues here. The pee-wee league is for ages 4 through 8 and meets weekly for 35 weeks to practice. Or just set up shop at one of 32 lanes during open bowling times.

Birthday party packages include: Two hours of bowling, soda, pizza/hotdog, tub of popcorn per lane, ice cream cup, balloons, invites, ($15.95/kid).

Where: 2057 General’s Hwy. (Annapolis, Md)
When: Youth leagues meet at 9 am Saturdays; 9 am to midnight Sunday through Thursday, 9 am to 2 am Friday and Saturday
Online: <a target="_blank" href="http:// gobowlingannapolis.com"> gobowlingannapolis.com </a>

—Ayren Jackson-Cannady and Stephanie Kanowitz

 

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From the grand (Nats stadium, anyone?) to an intimate restaurant room, you won’t want a shower at one of these local destinations to end. But don’t worry, with baby on the way the party is just getting started.

Photo: Punchbowl Social

For the mom that’s a big kid at heart…
The mom-to-be may not be able to sip on one of Punchbowl Social’s signature and infamous cocktails, but delish imbibes are just the tip of the fun iceberg at this new swanky gastropub. Old-school games like bowling, shuffleboard, Ping-Pong and private karaoke rooms, meld with a modern design that blends mountain lodge, Victorian, industrial and mid-century modern. In other words, this baby shower is an Instagramers dream! Idea for party favors: A custom CD loaded with top hits from baby’s birth year.

Punchbowl Social
4238 Wilson Blvd Ste. 1180 (Arlington, Va)
Online: punchbowlsocial.com

Photo: Mount Vernon Inn via Facebook

For the mom who’s a history buff…
Soak in all of the history at the Mount Vernon Inn Restaurant, just steps from the mansion that George Washington built himself in the 1700s. Many rooms (or the entire restaurant) are available for parties up to 260 people. Ask about guided tours of the gardens or see the rarely visited Mansion basement for a one-of-a-kind baby shower. Idea for party favors: Heirloom seeds from the plants grown on the Estate.

Mount Vernon Inn Restaurant
3200 Mount Vernon Memorial Hwy. (Mount Vernon, VA)
703-780-0011
Online: mountvernon.org/inn

Photo: April S. via Yelp

For the mom who wants to be Kate Middleton for a day…
Built in 1926, the Glenview Mansion is a historic and picturesque venue to celebrate the arrival of a little prince or princess. For big parties (up to 200), the Mansion and Formal Gardens are hired for the entire day on weekends. But if the royal party is on the smaller side, consider a shower during the weekday when individual rooms are available. The best part is you can choose any caterer you want! Idea for party favors: A sparkly dress-up tiara, so guests can show who’s boss (er, queen) at home.

Glenview Mansion
603 Edmonston Dr. (Rockville, MD)
240-314-8660
Online: rockvillemd.gov

Photo: Washington Nationals

For the mom who never misses a baseball game…
If mommy-to-be already has a Nationals jersey in size Infant for her lil’ slugger, then take the party to the ballgame. How cool would it be to open presents on the field, or do a Q&A with mom in the press conference room? Be sure to ask about extras—behind the scene tours, mascot appearances or a red carpet entrance. Caterers are also onsite whether you want to munch on ballpark food or from the five-star menu. Idea for party favors: Boxes of Cracker Jacks, of course.

Nationals Ballpark
1500 S. Capitol St., SE (Navy Yard)
202-640-7368
Online: washington.nationals.mlb.com

Photo: Paint Your Own Pottery via Facebook

For the mom who likes to get her hands dirty…
With babies come tons of keepsakes that mom will want to preserve, so why not have the guests help out?Think: A frame for that first ultrasound, a mug for that morning cup of coffee she’ll need after a long night with the babe, and a box for hospital bracelets. Choose from over 600 pieces in their studio. Finished work is available for pickup in a week. Feel free to bring snacks and cake but be sure to let them know first. Idea for party favors: A gift certificate to come back and create something for themselves.

Paint Your Own Pottery of Fairfax
10417 Main St. (Fairfax, VA)
703-218-2881
Online: createlikecrazy.com

Photo: Mrs. K’s Toll House

For the mom who brunches…
This restaurant sits atop an actual old tollhouse that was last used in the 1900s! Enjoy brunch surrounded by antiques collected by the owner herself, an actual Mrs. K. Skip the mimosas, but still indulge in omelets made-to-order, Belgian waffles, and heavenly pastries and danishes. Private rooms cannot be reserved for Sunday Brunch at Mrs. K’s, so this spot is perfect for smaller showers. If you still want a private space (like a room or the patio), they are available any other time during the week. Idea for party favors: Brunch in a basket–all of the fixins (pancake mix, syrup, can of blueberries) for brunch at home.

Mrs. K’s Toll House
9201 Colesville Rd. (Silver Spring, MD)
Online: mrsks.com

—Ayren Jackson-Cannady and Lisa Ng

What do you want for Mother’s Day? Flowers? Chocolate? A nice bottle of pinot? Even though these gifts are more than welcome, you probably wouldn’t say no to a little time off. And now Kraft wants to pay for it!

In celebration of Mother’s Day, Kraft is paying your babysitter bill though its “Mother’s Day Away” promotion. This means you can have a kid-free afternoon at the spa (using the gift certificate your S.O. scored) or go out for an adults-only dinner with the girls.

Sergio Eleuterio, Head of Marketing for Kraft said, in a press release, “Mother’s Day is a day to celebrate Mom in all of her greatness, but we know the holiday doesn’t stop the challenges of motherhood—temper tantrums, sleepless nights and picky eaters.” Eleuterio went on to add, “With Kraft “Mother’s Day Away” we are giving moms across the country the chance to have what they secretly really want: some time for themselves.”

To qualify for this promotion visit Kraft’s “Mother’s Day Away” website and upload your babysitter bill receipt. Kraft will pay for up to $100 in sitter costs, with a total of $50,000 available for all mamas across the country.

—Erica Loop

Featured photo: Courtesy of Kraft

 

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Babies are unique, and these days, so are the baby showers that celebrate them. Expecting moms and dads come to parenthood from a wide range of paths, and a baby shower is your chance to celebrate this milestone with gifts to support both baby and parent. Whether they’re seasoned parents or expecting for the first time, give them just the right gift from one of these local spots. Read on for all of the details.

Photo: Babywearing via Flickr

Baby Boutiques
For something new and different, head to one of Portland’s many specialty boutiques for parents and babies. We love Sellwood’s The Bull & the Bee for ultra-soft muslin swaddles and organic onesies, or NE Portland’s Milagros Boutique for one-of-a-kind wraps and soft carriers. In the Pearl, stop by Posh Baby for the latest in high-tech baby gear as well as smaller baby items from popular brands. And don’t forget Seahorses, a retailer and community space created just for dads, with great gear as well as a calendar of father/child classes and events. Note: Seahorses is shifting gears away from retail to become a non-profit community space in 2018, so now is the time to shop.

Toys
Have fun picking out a new toy for the baby-to-be at one of several remarkable local toy shops. Friendly staff at Kids at Heart Toys can help you choose something geared toward babies’ developmental needs, with a great selection of toys in each age group. Locally-owned Hammer + Jacks, Spielwerk Toys, and Oodles4Kids are just a few of Portland’s many other great options. On the westside, check out Thinker Toys and Child’s Play.

 

Photo: Beanstalk via Yelp

Consignment stores
No need to break the bank. Portland parents are known for their eco-consciousness, and we’ve got a plethora of children’s consignment stores to prove it. On the east side, you can hit up Beanstalk, Piccolina, Smallfry, and Sweetpea’s for everything from used baby carriers and onesies, to high-end strollers and handmade headbands. Over on the other side of the river, try Hoot-n-Annie and Baby & Me. Most baby items are used for such a brief window of time, you’ll find like-new options for many of the items on your friends’ wish list. Read more here.

Self-care for parents
Sometimes a baby shower leaves a new parent with eleven teeny-tiny pairs of pajamas and nothing to support the parents’ needs in the demanding first weeks of a baby’s life. Give the gift of self-care and support with a gift certificate for a postpartum massage, pilates, or yoga. Try Zenana Spa, the Bhaktishop or Mamalates. Don’t forget to check out these local mama spas as well.Local doulas also offer postpartum packages for weary new parents: you can give the gift of extra sleep or light housework with Doula Love and Mother Tree. Finally, help them eat healthy without doing the cooking. Portland’s new vegan meal delivery service Fancyplants offers gift certificates for home-delivered, delicious plant-based meals.

Photo: Baby Shower via Flickr

Outside the Box
Babywit is a Portland-based online retailer of unique clothing for babies and their families—heavy on the snark. Check out their selection of T-shirts geared toward new moms and dads. Or pick up one of their trademark Wondersuits for baby, featuring an easy pull-down panel in the back.

The usual suspects
While all of these local stores are likely to supply the most-frequently requested registry items (Sophie la Girafe, anyone?), we’d be remiss not to state the obvious. Shop the registry! It might not be super exciting to give your friend the first aid kit or basic blue bathtub on their registry, but parents put these lists together for a reason. Pair one small practical item from the registry with a special gift from a local shop. Or give the gift of food: a gift certificate to your friend’s favorite grocery store, a homemade frozen lasagne, or a jar of homemade soup can be a lifesaver during a new parent’s first few weeks.

What are your go-to spots for great baby shower gifts? Share your ideas in the comments.

—Melissa Poulin

Remember getting invited to a friend’s birthday party when you were a kid? Remember feeling so excited to get to see your friends, do something special and have birthday cake? It was such a blast!

How about now? How do you feel when your child gets invited to a birthday party? Excitement? Dread? Mix of both? Last weekend, my kids were invited to a friend’s party and they were super excited to go. While I was there, I was chatting with one of the dads who said, “My social life is bringing my kids to parties. We have three today and another one tomorrow.” I laughed because four seemed like a record weekend and yet I could easily see how that could happen.

Like it or not, the birthday party circuit is a part of your life as a parent. There’s tons of advice out there on how to reduce the stress of planning and throwing a party—but how about managing all the birthday party attendance that becomes part of your life as a parent? Yes, you can take the stress out of going to birthday parties and having fun going to them, too!

If you have younger kids, know that tagging along on the birthday circuit doesn’t last forever. My oldest is 10 years old and his parties are all of the drop-off variety these days, which has opened up a whole different kind of reality. Last month, I ran into some friends who were out on a date night while their kids were both at simultaneous birthday parties. Living the dream! If the stars ever align like that for us, I’ll be pretty excited. But in the meantime, I also really do like doing the birthday party thing and look forward to going to them. Once both my kids are older, I think I’ll genuinely miss it.

What’s so great about birthday parties, anyway? Here’s what I think.

Birthday parties offer a chance to see your kids hanging out with their friends. 

I long to be a fly on the wall when my kids are at school to be able to watch them and play with their friends. It’s one of my favorite parts of hosting playdates and a great chance to see a part of their world that I might not normally get to see. Parties let you do all that and get to know their buddies and see them together.

You get to connect with other parents in your community. 

I love talking to fellow parents. At this last party, I had a great conversation with another mom about why she chose to send her kids to the schools they were going to and I really learned a lot. I genuinely find these conversations fascinating and a great way to meet parents within our school and neighborhood, trade information and make parent friends.

Your kids learn how to be a good guest. 

My kids look forward to these times because of all the fun naturally. But I think it’s also great for them to learn how to be generous and thoughtful about their friends. They learn how to be a good guest. We try to teach our kids about giving and generosity in other ways too but this might be one of the most tangible ways that they learn to do that.

So, how do you maximize the fun and cut back on the stress? Here are my seven best tips for how to have more fun at your next kids’ birthday party.

Plan Your Savvy Birthday Party Circuit Strategy

1. Find your magic number. How many parties are too many parties? Through trial and error, figure out what works best for your family and politely decline the ones that go over your number. For our family, I have learned over the years that we can do one birthday party a weekend and have a blast—any more than that and things start to come apart at the seams. For a special circumstances we might break that rule, but generally we try to hold to it—and we’re all happier because of it. But your family may be different. Maybe you’re like the dad I talked to and four is great for you. Find your sweet spot as a family and try to stick to that.

2. Divide and conquer. If you’re co-parenting and only one partner goes to the party, the other one can do something else and relieve you at another point. One of you may enjoy the birthday party scene and the other not so much. Or if you know another family that is invited too, carpooling might save time and energy.

Tackle All Those Gifts Like a Boss

3. Stock up on birthday cards. If your kids don’t like making cards and you don’t want to have to run to Target just to buy yet another a birthday card, stock up on gender neutral birthday cards ahead of time.

4. Keep some gift cards towards experiences on hand. My son once got a pair of movie tickets as a birthday gift and loved it—so now, we often like to give those as gifts to others. Other experience-type activities that are great are gift certificates to a local frozen yogurt place, ice cream shop or kids bookstore. Another upside with these kinds of gifts is that there is no wrapping required! Just stick it in the card.

5. Save yourself a trip to the store. If buying a gift, put your Amazon account to use and order it as soon as you RSVP so you aren’t scrambling with that last-minute Target run.

Party Like a Pro With Your Kids

6. Talk through expectations. You can remind your kids about wishing the host happy birthday and thanking them for the invitation. If you think there’s something at the party they may struggle with—taking turns, watching someone else open gifts, not being the one who gets to blow out the candles—talk about it ahead of time. While having these talks don’t guarantee these issue won’t surface at the party, they’re good to have regardless.

7. Ask a follow-up question. After a party, I really like asking my kids not just if they had fun but also asking them how they were a good friend or demonstrated kindness to others. Over time, I think this helps them learn that it’s nice to have a good time but that it’s also really important to be kind and celebrate others. If I noticed them doing those things, I point them out too.

Do you love or hate the birthday party circuit? What are your tips on how to take the stress out of juggling multiple birthday parties?

Featured Photo Courtesy: timkraaijvanger via Pixabay

Tracey is a working mom of boys who loves to blog about that crazy journey at her site www.balanceisboring.com. She is a devotee of black coffee and list making and is an incurable loud laugher. 

At every age, there’s a reason not to pay retail for awesome kids’ clothes. Babies grow lightning fast. Toddlers really do a number on their duds. And big kids? They actually have opinions! (That feeling when you order the most adorable—and expensive—dress from a boutique catalog and your daughter refuses to wear it? Not great.) Happily, here in the Bay Area, we live in a veritable smorgasbord of fabulous kids’ consignment stores. No matter where you live, you can find a local shop packed with used baby and children’s clothes, gear, and toys, for a fraction of the brand-new value. And better yet? Get an even better deal by bringing in your own gently-used items to consign for cash or store credit.

Photo credit: Jade Pugh

San Francisco

Monkei Miles
San Francisco has a dearth of kids’ consignment shops, so budget-conscious locals all cheered when this hip and friendly new boutique, decorated with vintage toys, opened last summer. The owner, a former buyer for fan favorite Chloe’s Closet, has an eye for sourcing cute, cool, high-end used kids’ clothes (sizes newborn to 12), which she sells back at incredible prices. You can also find unique toys, mobiles, locally-made art and children’s jewelry. Keep kids busy in the reading nook, complete with comfy bean bag.

Insider tip: The owner buys used clothes on the spot for cash or credit (no consignment, no waiting!). Call for an appointment.

Monkei Miles
1523 Irving St.
San Francisco, Ca
415-650-3031
Hours: Tues.-Sun., 9:30 a.m.-5:30 p.m.

Chloe’s Closet
This San Francisco consignment favorite has three locations. The Bernal Heights store has long been a go-to for city moms and is on pretty much every “Best Kids’ Clothing Store” list in the city. From toys to costumes to maternity clothes, parents will find everything they’re looking for and will likely go home with much more. The Bernal location sells clothes for kids (from newborn to size 12) and moms, while the Inner Sunset location sells only kids’ items (newborn to size 10). The Berkeley location features kids’ sizes newborn to 12 as well as women’s maternity. (Note that you can consign women’s maternity and non-maternity clothes at all three locations, whether or not they can be sold there.) Be sure to check out the detailed “How to Consign” section on the website before you go. No appointment is necessary, and they buy anytime they’re open.

Insider Tip: The store’s Twitter feed occasionally offers coupons or call-outs for in-demand items.

Bernal Heights
451 Cortland Ave.
San Francisco, Ca
415-642-3300
Hours: Mon.-Sun., 10:30 a.m.–6 p.m
Online: chloescloset.com

Inner Sunset
616 Irving St.
San Francisco, Ca
415-664-4611
Hours: Mon.-Sun., 10:30 a.m.–6 p.m
Online: chloescloset.com

Berkeley
1545 Solano Ave.
Berkeley, Ca
Phone: 510-900-6043
Hours: Mon.-Sun., 10:30 a.m.–6 p.m
Online: chloescloset.com

Photo credit: Chloe’s Closet

Hunter’s Threads
Nestled in the heart of the Outer Sunset, Hunter’s Threads offers a plethora of second hand scores for your children, AND doubles as a resource for families seeking therapy for developmentally delayed kids. Unique to the consignment world is Hunter’s Threads approach to ascertaining their inventory. Unlike other shops where you are compensated for your hand me downs, HT accepts clothing on a donation basis. This means, you can clear out your clothing without worrying about the re-sale value or the label. The result? An easy KonMari session—clean, clear and donate. Your closet is left with the appropriately sized delicious duds for your wee one. It also means that HT can resell clothing at a lower cost (think Goodwill pricing vs. Chloe’s Closet) as they do not have a consignment fee. Hunter’s Threads also has their own line of clothing, adorned with their logo to drive awareness to the cause.

Good to know: Hunter’s Threads closed on Mondays

Hunter’s Threads
2124 Taraval St.
San Francisco, Ca
415-463-2453
Online: huntersthreads.com

Mox Box
Do you crave stylish, fun and affordable clothes for your kids (ages 2-12) but dread paying retail prices and lack the time to browse consignment stores? You might be a great fit for Mox Box, an innovative and convenient personal shopping service for kids, founded by two San Francisco moms. Fill out an online form describing your child’s age, size and taste, then wait with bated breath for a box packed with 14-17 used and new (or all new—your choice) pieces, with brands like Mini Boden and Tea. (Shipping is free!) See the website for pricing and details.

Insider tip: Send back your kids’ own outgrown, gently used clothes for a credit on your next box.

Online: Moxboxkids.com

Photo credit: Mox Box

East Bay

Snickerdoodles
Snickerdoodles is a locally owned, family-operated consignment shop specializing in a wide range of high-end but affordable used clothing, shoes and toys. Fabulous deals can be found here. They pride themselves on great service and new sellers are always welcome. The shop is located in charming downtown Danville close to other fun shops and restaurants so you can make an afternoon out of the outing. The consignment hours are limited; see website for specifics and guidelines.

Insider Tip: The owners recommend bringing in clothing laid flat (such as in a laundry basket) for faster service.

442 Hartz Ave.
Danville, Ca
925-820-4956
Hours: Mon. 12 p.m.-5 p.m.; Tues.–Sat., 10 a.m.–5 p.m.
Online: snickerdoodlesdanville.com


A Wee Change
Don’t want to spend a fortune on maternity clothes? This well-stocked store in a shopping mall (plenty of parking!) in Walnut Creek has one of the largest selection of used pregnancy gear around, ranging from posh working outfits to nursing bras. They also feature all styles and brands of kids’ clothes up to size 16. It’s easy to keep kids entertained here with the toys they’re welcome to play on and try out, and a TV to distract if all else fails.

Insider tip: Don’t forget to browse the clearance rack, with last-chance buys as low as $1.

1551 Palos Verdes Mall
Walnut Creek, Ca
925-930-8442
Hours: Mon., 11 a.m.-5 p.m.; Tues.-Sat., 11 a.m.-6 p.m.; Sun. 11 a.m.-5 p.m.
Online: aweechange.net

Growing Pains
Located in an unassuming strip mall in Concord, tiny, pleasantly-packed Growing Pains is a treasure trove of gently used clothes and toys for the very young. You may not find as many items for older kids and teens, but babies and toddlers are extremely well represented. One of the biggest selling points is that unlike many chic consignment shops, this one is happy to buy and sell lower-end brand like Carters and Target, to mix in with the pricier items. Super friendly service makes selling and shopping here a pleasure.

Growing Pains
4425 Treat Blvd., Ste. K
Concord, Ca
925-687-7280
Hours: Mon.-Fri., 9 a.m.-6 p.m.; Sat., 10 a.m.-6 p.m.; Sun., 12 p.m.,-5 p.m.

Berri Kids Boutique
While their brick and mortar boutique in Pleasanton has closed, you can shop an even wider selection (and consign by mail) at their sleek website. They have a fantastic inventory of new and like-new children’s clothing, books, toys and gear at 40-60% off retail prices. They buy clothing outright, and accept baby gear on consignment. Clothing items range from 12 months to 10 years. Note that they do not accept clothing brands from big box stores including Circo and Cherokee from Target and Arizona from JC Penny. They also won’t take cribs, mattresses, stuffed animals or car seats. Favorite brands recently found here are Baby Gap, Crewcuts, Tea and Janie and Jack. Check their website for all their detailed guidelines.

Online: berrikidsboutique.com

Grove Street Kids
Grove Street Kids has been a popular spot for moms with growing kids for over a decade. Owner Anne Marie Elliott is a mom who loves giving back to the community while combining her passions for eco-responsibility and fashion. The efforts have paid off: Her shop has received numerous “Best Kids Boutique” awards in the Bay Area. The charming window displays and play area in the back keep kids and moms happy. You will find clothes for resale from newborn sizes to 10 years old. Women’s and maternity clothing are also found here. See website for consignment days and times, as well as tips on what they accept.

Insider Tip: Popular brands and styles can now be found at their online shop for purchase to pick up at your convenience, or to have shipped directly to you.

1385 Shattuck Ave.
Berkeley, Ca
510-843-5437
Hours: Tues.–Fri., 11 am to 5 pm; Sat., 11am to 3 pm; Closed Sunday and Mondays
Online: grovestreetkids.com

Photo credit: Grove Street Kids

 

Silver Moon Kids
A longtime favorite which moved from Grand Avenue in 2011, Silver Moon carries both new and used apparel for ages 0-12, plus unique and sought-after gifts, toys and books. Looking for a fantastic birthday gift for your hip friend’s toddler? Pick up an Oaklandish onesie, Appaman jersey, the latest Robeez, or trendy Salt Water sandals. As far as consignment, the owner is looking for brand name, current clothing in excellent condition. They pay 40 percent in cash or 60 percent in store credit.

Insider tip: Ask for the cute wrapping and bag for your birthday gift.

Silver Moon Kids
3233 Lakeshore Ave
Oakland, Ca
510-835-2229
Hours: Mon.-Sat., 10 a.m.-6 p.m.; Sun., 10 a.m.-4 p.m.
Online: silvermoonkids.weebly.com 

Ruby’s Garden
From the gorgeous, artsy décor and displays, you won’t believe this place is consignment. Friendly staff, occasional live music, parties and pets—Ruby’s Garden is the perfect model of a welcoming, locally-owned business. They offers both new and used clothing (new clothes up to age 12; used clothes up to age 8), with an emphasis on hip, trendy, vintage and urban. Ruby’s also feature cool books and toys, making the store a great pre-party shopping stop. Sell your own stuff for store credit only; see website for hours.

Insider tip: Most first Fridays of the month, Ruby’s Garden throws a Bunny Party, from 6-8 pm, with juice, snacks, wine–and bunnies!

Ruby’s Garden
5026 Telegraph Ave
Oakland, Ca
510-595-5325
Hours: Mon.-Sat., 10 a.m.-6 p.m.
Online: rubysgarden.com

Photo credit: Ruby’s Garden

North Bay

Outgrown
This consignment shop in downtown San Rafael has been around for almost 30 years and its buyers have developed a keen eye. The shop offers gently used clothing for infants through size 14, and you’ll also find one of the better used toy, book and DVD collections here. Need some adorable decals for the nursery? Chances are Outgrown will have it. Need a baby crib for your little “mama” at home? We bet you’ll find it here. Consignment is accepted every day until 2 p.m.

Insider Tip: Save your Circo and Sprockets gear for the Goodwill bag. This store sticks to its high-end acceptance policy.

1417 4th St.
San Rafael, Ca
415-457-2219
Hours: Mon.–Sat., 10 a.m.–4 p.m.

Play it Again Kids
At Play it Again Kids, in business since 1991, the owners know what Marin moms are looking to buy. They have a vast inventory that changes every day. The shop won’t accept clothing with stains, nor will they buy battery-operated toys before they’re demonstrated to work, which should give buyers confidence and help sellers sort through what to bring in. No appointment is necessary to sell (although consignment ends at 4 p.m.), and you’ll get 40 percent of the selling price for items priced higher than $50, and 30 percent for items priced lower.

Insider Tip: If you’re selling larger items like furniture or equipment, you have the option of arranging for the store to pick it up.

783 Andersen Dr.
San Rafael, Ca
415-485-0304
Hours: Mon.–Sun., 10 a.m.– 5 p.m.
Online: playitagainkids.com

Ella Bunbee
Shop at Novato’s only kids’ consignment store for strollers, gear and seasonal clothes of all brands, in great condition and wonderfully organized. But there’s more to love! The folks at Ella Bunbee are committed to community service. Shoppers are encouraged to fill out a card stating how they will be kind to the community and to clip it to a display branch. The store also accepts shoes for charity for Soles4Souls, and, through the Community Closet program, makes sure that donations that can’t be sold go straight into the hands of families in need.

Insider tip: Need a truly useful gift for a mom friend? Pick up a gift certificate!

867 Grant Ave
Novato, Ca
415-892-3552
Hours: Mon., 9 a.m.-12 p.m. (intake only); Tues.-Thurs., 11 a.m.-5 p.m.; Fri.-Sat., 11 a.m.-6 p.m.
Online: ellabunbee.com

North Bay Just Between Friends Children’s and Maternity Consignment Sales Event
This is the North Bay’s largest maternity and consignment sales event. It happens just twice a year and the next sale is September 14–17 at the Sonoma County Fairgrounds. Each sale has over 500 families consigning and boasts over 100,00 items including clothes, toys, books, games and gear. This event is highly organized, so much so that the space resembles a department store. Go to their website for admission information, selling details and free consigning tutorials.

Insider tip: Consigners get to shop first, and if you volunteer to work the sale (as a “Helper”), you’ll get even more back on your sales.

Dates: Set. 14-17, 2017
Sonoma County Fairgrounds
1350 Bennett Valley Road
Grace Pavilion
Santa Rosa, Ca
Online: northbay.jbfsale.com

Photo Credit: North Bay Just Between Friends (JBF)

South Bay

Kid to Kid
Kid to Kid is great because they will simply pay you cash on the spot (or offer store credit) for your clothes, toys, books, DVDs and equipment—no waiting until your items sell. Their huge selection runs the gamut: Recent summer finds include great swimsuits, Melissa and Doug toys and a huge stroller selection. You can also find maternity items here. Stop in and leave with several items for the price of one retail piece! There is a play area for kiddos so moms can shop uninterrupted. Follow them on Facebook and stay on top of store promotions and sales (they have two semi-annual sales).

Insider tip: Your kids will love going inside the child-sized door next to the big one!

2666 Homestead Rd.
Santa Clara, Ca
408-244-2248
Hours: Mon.–Fri., 10 a.m.–8 p.m., Sat., 10 a.m.–7 p.m.; Sun., 11 a.m.–6 p.m.
Online: kidtokid.com/santaclara

 

Photo credit: Mili T. via Yelp

Outrageous Outgrowns
This huge semi-annual sale is packed with more than 40,000 used items at prices lower than those of the typical consignment store. This amazing three-day extravaganza of buying and selling happens each spring and fall; the next event takes place October 20-22. Don’t be overwhelmed by the size of this sale; the high level of organization makes it a breeze to shop. If you plan to sell, be sure to register in advance, and check the website for more information.

Insider tip: Sunday (the last day of the sale) is known as Half Price Day. Many vendors slash prices even further!

Dates: October 20-22, 2017
Santa Clara County Fairgrounds, Expo Hall
344 Tully Rd.
San Jose, Ca
Hours: October 21, 22nd and 23rd 2016, 9 a.m.–5 p.m.
Online: outrageousoutgrowns.com

Photo credit: Bird in the Nest

Peninsula

Bird in the Nest
This adorable little boutique in downtown San Carlos is a gem. Shop here for a well-curated selection of affordable clothes, toys, books and maternity wear. They have both new and recycled kids clothing, from newborn to 7 years. Call to see what they are currently buying and to make an appointment. Bird in the Nest will pay you cash or trade on the spot, and they also consign larger ticket items.

Insider Tip: This store is easy to visit with your baby or toddler as they have a play area, changing station and nursing chair.

1568 Laurel St.
San Carlos, Ca
650-592-1983
Hours: Mon.–Sat., 10 a.m.–5:30 p.m.; Sun., 11 a.m.-4 p.m.
Online: thebirdinthenest.comt

The Lovely Bump
Nestled in downtown San Bruno, this light and airy shop will dash any misgivings about shopping consignment. The clothes are pressed and hung on wooden hangers, it’s stroller-friendly with wide aisles, offers a children’s play area (with an in-house turtle!) and features a range of new and almost new clothing, baby linens and gear. Call to set up a selling appointment to sell; guidelines are on the website.

Insider Tip: They provide evening appointments to accommodate working parents.

509 San Mateo Ave.
San Bruno, Ca
650-583-1159
Hours: Mon.–Sun., 11 a.m.–6 p.m.
Online: lovelybump.com

Do you have a favorite shopping spot for gently used kids clothes? Tell us in the comments below!

—Erin Feher and Emma Bland Smith