9 Awesome LEGO Table Storage Ideas

by Gabby CullenMay 7, 2020

As a parent, you’ve probably thought about investing in a LEGO table. Or several. After all, what could be better than a one-stop-shop to keep their bricks organized and their time occupied? Since there’s no time like the present to get organized, we found a ton of awesome options—even an IKEA table perfect for LEGO. Whether your home is minimalist chic or teeming with toys, there is a LEGO table with storage that’ll fit the bill. And your décor. See our top picks below.

IKEA Table

While this storage system isn't technically a table, all you'd need to do is glue a few base plates to the top of the unit. The colorful bins underneath make a perfect place to stash LEGO bricks, and you can easily buy two or three of these to create a whole LEGO wall!

Buy it here, $66.99.

Classic

It doesn't get any more classic than a rectangle shape with four LEGO base plates on top. We like the mesh net storage spot in the middle and the fact that there are six different sizes to choose from, depending on the space you have available.

Buy it here, $169.99.

Budget-Friendly

This 2-in-1 LEGO table is not only easy on the wallet, but it's perfect for first-time builders, as it's compatible with both regular bricks and DUPLO bricks as well. The chairs are included in the price, and you can put the smooth cover on when the kids are ready for crafts or snacks.

Buy it here, $44.32.

All-in-One

Melissa & Doug knows their play tables. This one has plenty of storage for toys, and the big play area is ideal for LEGO, trains, dollhouses or anything else your kid loves.

Buy it here, $124.99.

Clean Lines

If you prefer your kids' furniture to have clean lines, this LEGO table might be for you. Designed to be lower to the ground, this is a good fit for toddlers and preschool kids. The chic bins below also make for easy clean up and storage.

Buy it here, $95.95.

A Splurge

A little pricer than our other top picks, the big bins and bright primary colors caught our eye on this LEGO storage table. What a fun addition to the play room!

Buy it here, $217.99.

A Multi-Tasker

This play table does it all! Not only is it perfect for LEGO play, but it can also be a water table, a sand table and a regular craft table. Phew! We also love the fun colors that are perfect for younger kids.

Buy it here, $71.98.

On-the-Go

Who says LEGO tables have to stay put? For on-the-go LEGO storage fun, check out this cute table top option. The top lifts off to display separated spots for certain bricks, and the baseplate on top will keep the pieces where they need to be—on the table instead of on the ground.

Buy it here, $28.95.

A Roll-Up Mat

Who says your LEGO table needs to actually be a table? If you don't have room for one more thing at home, opt for a mat that rolls out when you need it and stashes away easily when you don't. Since this one doesn't come with storage capabilities, be sure to check out our creative LEGO organizing ideas here.

Buy it here, $28.99.

—Gabby Cullen with Felissa Allard

Editor’s Note: At the time of publication, all items were available for purchase/All images courtesy retailers

Lin-Manuel Miranda Announces New School Program, #EduHam at Home

by Jennifer SwartvagherApril 28, 2020

Lin-Manuel Miranda just announced an extension of the Hamilton Education Program, a classroom initiative that walks through Miranda’s Hamilton creation process and ends with students making and performing their own musical theatre pieces. #EduHam at Home is an extension of the program. While schools are closed, the #EduHam allows students to be creative theater artists while adhering to social distancing guidelines.

Hamilton and The Gilder Lehrman Institute of American History launched #EduHam, a free digital program for students and their families to explore the world of the Pulitzer Prize-winning musical and America’s founding era.

Upon registering, students receive a welcome video from Miranda as well as access to mentorships that will help them create their own performance in the form of a song, rap or monologue which they are then encouraged to submit for consideration. Ten performances will be selected to be shared on the Hamilton website with one selected by the Hamilton team to be tweeted out.

Additional resources include videos clips from Hamilton and interviews with Lin-Manuel Miranda, selected cast members, and Ron Chernow, whose biography of Alexander Hamilton inspired the musical. #EduHam at Home also provides an American history curriculum, introducing students to the people, events, and documents of the founding era. The program is recommended for students in 6th through 12th grades but open to all ages.

“Out of everything that has come from Hamilton, I am most proud of #EduHam and of the students who have created their own incredible work from primary sources,” said Miranda. “I’m thrilled that we can make Hamilton learning a family experience, led by the students at home during this unprecedented time.”

—Jennifer Swartvagher

Featured photo: Hamilton via YouTube

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15 Ways to Goof Off with the Kids Today

by Amber GuetebierApril 12, 2020

photo: CK, Carl, Carlo, Carlito via flickr

Leave the dishes. Skip the errands—even if it’s just for 10 minutes—and get ready to goof off with the kiddos. Here are few suggestions:

1. Make a fort. Get inspired by these epic creations (but just pillows and blankets will do, too.)

2. Enjoy a stand-up routine and tell some jokes.

3. Dust off your boa and heels and get ready to play dress up.

4. Create some messy, messy art.

5. Make silly faces and try to get the other person to laugh before you do.

6. Throw a dance party in your living room. Right now! Here’s a playlist to amp you up.

7. Put a party hat on your forehead and pretend you are a unicorn.

8. Goof off and learn at the same time by playing some DIY math games.

9. Teach your kiddos about the primary colors and make a color wheel to paint a clearer picture.

10. Turn your kitchen counter into a science lab.

11. Lounge around and watch a movie, ideally from bed or with a pile of blankets. Or better yet, from the comfort of a fort.

12. Find out what’s up your sleeve right now by learning a few magic tricks.

13. Slow things down and mimic the sloth (this one is great for tired parents).

14. Stage an elaborate tea party and invite all the stuffed animals, vehicles and dolls in your house to attend.

Adopt a pet rock and learn how to name, care and feed it.

—Amber Guetebier

featured photo: amitsurti via pixabay

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Fathers Are Parents, Not Babysitters

By Kiana Keys

Tinybeans Voices Contributor

March 14, 2020

Fathes are not back-up, the help, or the assistant.

In fact, they aren’t adjuncts in any shape or fashion. They are tenured parents with full-time roles and responsibilities, other duties as assigned, and no union rights available. Fathers are parents, not babysitters. And yet I often hear them referred to in these auxiliary roles, as if they are dangling onto a family unit by a mere thread. Sometimes they even jokingly refer to themselves this way: “I’m on dad duty tonight.” I know, I know, it’s sometimes said out of love. But words matter and get stuck deep down in our subconscious and have an impact. “Duty” implies that it’s some sort of unwanted gig and “tonight” sounds like a temporary, obtrusive and interim hang-up. Why?

I know some women feel that the grunt of the housework and child-rearing falls on them as the primary caretaker, and their significant others naturally kind of settle into these sub-roles where they are playing an outfielder position…only jumping in when a random ball rolls their way. In fact, I hear many of my girlfriends complain about the sheer exhaustion and burden of carrying the family on her shoulders.

Are fathers on the clock?

What is it with these circumstantial parental phrases that we commonly use? Like, how the word “watch” is to denote a temporary sit-chee-ation. No, fathers do not watch their own kids. Fathers and mothers must both drop this “temporary help” mentality and bring fathers to the forefront of parenthood to stand side-by-side as equals. It matters.

Words matter. Roles influence how we see each other, and our children are watching. Fathers should not willingly accept these labels, or allow this “substitute-parenting” phenomena to define their role in a family. We have to break down this narrative, kick this sucker to the curb, and #NormalizeFatherhood.

Why does it seem “weird” when fathers take on a primary role?

Just recently, a dad’s post went viral when he tackled the misconception that fathers are powerless in a mother’s absence. He denounced the assumption that he was completely handicapped and totally incapable of caring for their 6 children while mother, Jessica Martin-Weber, was away on business.

And then I thought to myself, the real news is that this story went viral. It made headlines because the narrative states that he is an anomaly. An exception to the rule. Perhaps, a rebel of some sort. But, there are so many fathers that do in fact subscribe to this primary parental role and it’s great that he is telling their story. Why? Because I’m convinced more fathers are actually doing this than not and it’s time to bring them all into the conversation.

Two primary caretakers in a household is actually common.

I’m here to tell you, some of us are blessed to witness this every day. I come from a household where we are both primary caretakers. Yes, our different strengths and interests manifest in how we divide stuff up. But when I say we are both in the trenches in this thang, I mean it and we both have the gray hairs to prove it!

I think about all the fathers I know who are giving their 100% and assuming a full-time role. It’s not weird, it’s not strange. It’s pretty common and I can point many of them out for you. I would be way over my word-count if I listed them all here, so I won’t…but I digress. Let me start wrapping this thing up.

Dads may get things “wrong” sometimes…and that’s OKAY!

Sometimes it’s our fault fathers are demoted to babysitters. We’ve got to stop beating dads up. Are you guilty of “my way or the highway?” Many of us moms build fathers up to knock them right back on down. We plead with them to step up and take on more responsibilities, but then we are guilty of nagging them and critiquing them on how they aren’t doing it to our liking.

We don’t like the outfits they picked up for the kids. It took too long to change the baby’s diaper and the onesie is mis-snapped. Their disciplining game SUCKS. We are guilty of going on and on and on, emasculating the very men we want to step up. Our rhetoric translates into “your parenting isn’t good enough.” How hurtful is that?

Well I have news for you that you may not want to hear. It’s totally okay if they do things “wrong!” Ask yourself, did my child survive? Was my child happy? If the answer is yes, then congratulations, you just empowered a father. And here’s the kicker….perhaps it’s not wrong at all! It’s just not your way. Allowing them to do it their way is the key to empowerment and success. We have to learn to relax, relate, release and let a father take control to do his thing his way. The gift of parental autonomy is critical in molding a great dad.

We must empower fathers to stay clocked in.

Two things need to happen in order for fathers to thrive in a primary role: 1) Fathers need to stay in the game as the real MVP, and 2) Mothers need to CALM DOWN and let them score. We have to remind fathers of their value every day and appreciate what they bring to the table. And many people will probably wonder, why encourage them and give credit for something they should be doing anyway? I feel you! And the answer is this: Because!

Dismantling an outdated narrative and telling a new story requires effort and action. And it starts within our own households. Furthermore, we must build up fathers for several reasons… to share the burden of parenthood, to allow them to grow deeper into fatherhood, and to teach our children what a father is so they pass those ideologies down to their own children. Fathers are parents, not babysitters and it’s time we change this narrative. One dad at a time.

This post originally appeared on Sassy Plum.

Kiana Keys

Tinybeans Voices Contributor

I am a writer, wife, and mother that balances many areas of my life. My love for both writing and motherhood intersected in 2016 when I co-founded Sassy Plum- a website that publishes content for families. I'm also the founder of a mom’s group that consists of over 200 women.

Primary’s New Sustainable Swimwear Line Arrives Just in Time for Spring

by Karly WoodMarch 12, 2020

Your fave kids clothing brand for simple style, bold colors and unisex design has a new collection! Just in time for spring and summer, Primary has launched its new Sustainable Swim line.

Available now, the 35+ piece collection features styles for babies and kids and is made with recycled materials. The line features rash guards, swim trunks, swim tops and bottoms, one pieces, swim diapers and even an adorable hat.

Each piece ranges in price from $10 to $34 and is made with sun-blocking UPF materials. Despite the function, each and every Primary suit is beyond adorable!

Choose from polka dots, solids and stripes in an array of colors. There’s a suit for everyone, including a pair of grown-up trunks that match a baby and big kid version!

Primary’s new line of swimwear is part of their commitment to its sustainable initiative set in 2015. Along with the line, Primary also now offers sustainable synthetic options in activewear and hope to meet their goal of 100% sustainable materials for all synthetic styles by the end of 2020.

––Karly Wood

All photos: Courtesy of Primary

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I Did Not Vote. But Before You Judge Me, Read This First

By Lynda Lin Grigsby

Tinybeans Voices Contributor

March 5, 2020

Photo: Marginally Okay

I did not vote in the primary election. Please put your pitchforks down, figurative or not.

I tried. I really, really tried.

Between herding two little kids, ages 8 and 4, running our household, and all the other endless little tasks that make being a stay-at-home mom the most unrecognized superhero of all time, I failed my civic duty.

“It was poor planning,” I texted my husband, then to help express my feelings, I added a sad face emoji. But really the feeling behind the little yellow face with the upside-down smile was a feeling of being an abject failure.

Of all the tasks on my to-do list on Super Tuesday, voting was probably third, behind feeding and connecting with my family. I carried my sample ballot with me in my giant mom purse. It was nestled between the 40 bandages for boo-boos, the emergency granola bars to calm hangry meltdowns, and the book I have been reading for the last year. I am on page 10.

I crammed for the primary election like it was finals week in college. I quickly read the candidates’ statements and the ballot initiatives. Then I looked up endorsement articles like they were Spark Notes telling me how to think. Lastly, when still undecided—I’m just going to put it all out there—I looked at the political party as a tie-breaker.

I did this between school drop-offs, pick-ups, endless errands, appointments, and extracurricular activities. I really wanted to check that box on Super Tuesday.

And I wanted to involve my kids.

My first-born son has been coming to vote with me since he could toddle alongside the little corral in the basketball gymnasium. At our first election experience as a family of three, our little guy was knee-high, shaking the leg of the table while my husband tried to fill out the right dot, then he was waist-high peering over the table while I voted with one hand and held his baby sister in the other.

For the longest time, the “I voted” stickers was the piéce de résistance for my kids, worn like badges of honor while they played in the park after enduring the silence and stillness of the polling place. Now 8 years old, my son passes his sticker to sister’s eager hands. He is more interested in learning about the candidates, the issues, and which way I voted.

So on Super Tuesday, I waited until after I picked them both up from school to go vote.

Our voting center is within walking distance from our house in the suburbs of Los Angeles. It is located in a basketball gymnasium where my son first learned to make a jump shot. Usually, we walk right in and get swallowed up by the 10 poll workers looking for anything to do.

This Super Tuesday, the line of people snaked around the entire perimeter of the gym and out the door.

“Wow,” my 8-year-old exhaled. “This is like Disneyland.”

Except at the end of the line, there is no promise of a thrilling ride. Just a sticker.

The lines symbolized something bigger, right? Voters were galvanized to make their voices heard. Go, democracy!

This is all great unless you have young kids, who ate the emergency granola bars in the first 10 minutes in line. My 4-year-old sang and danced all the songs from “Frozen 2” then we all played “I Spy” until I am sure we ran out of things to spy.

“I don’t know how much longer we can wait here,” I texted my husband, who was stuck at work. “Maybe someone will roll out a TV with cartoons.”

No such luck.

Ahead of me were moms in similar duress. Little kids, whose little bodies were not built to stand in long lines, were falling apart. Threats were hurled. Then slowly, moms started dropping like flies.

One little boy stood on a bench and jumped down on top of his little brother like a professional wrestler. Their mom connected eyes with me as if to say, “That’s it!” And they left.

And after 45 minutes of pretending to be the mysterious voice from the enchanted forest in “Frozen 2,” my daughter said she was hungry and she didn’t care about voting anymore.

We were only halfway to the front of the line, so I called it, too. The voting center was open until 8 pm. We will walk home, have dinner and come back. Surely, the line would be shorter, right?

No such luck.

The line was out the door and down the sidewalk by the time we came back. People were standing with the slumped shoulders posture of defeat. As we walked up, my daughter slapped her brother in the back, yelled, “You’re it!” and ran off full speed until she slipped and fell.

She howled in a way that told me even 40 bandages wouldn’t do. That’s when I knew voting was not going to happen.

“Why is voting so hard?” my 8-year-old asked.

It’s a good question. News stories from the “LA Times” continue to come in about long lines, and glitches in the new voting system. I was not the only one.

Watching the poll results come in without my vote was surreal. It made me wonder if the other mothers who were forced to leave because of the long wait were able to cast their ballots.

I could have voted earlier. I should not have forced the issue of making it an experience with my kids, but in the end, it was not my fault. A voting system that doesn’t make it easy for mothers with young children to vote is a broken system.

The presidential election is eight months away. That’s plenty of time to fix it.

So the next time a mom says she did not vote, spare your judgment. Just give her a hug. Her kid might have body-slammed his little brother in line while she tried her hardest to perform her civic duty.

Lynda Lin Grigsby

Tinybeans Voices Contributor

Lynda is a creative person, a wife, a mom and half a CrossFit athlete. Just half, because rope climbs suck. Despite the shiny veneer, the cracks in her identity make her marginally okay.

This New Collab Is Making It Even Easier to Create Keepsake Photo Albums

by Amber GuetebierMarch 4, 2020

You’ve got hundreds (possibly thousands) of photos of your little bundles. The problem is, most of them are still on your phone. Luckily, this common dilemma just got even easier to solve.

Tinybeans, the family photo sharing app that helps parents capture and organize their children’s life stories online, announced its launch with Chatbooks, an automatic photo books app. Now Tinybeans families can add photos and captions they have saved in the Tinybeans app to a Chatbooks photo book, through a safe and secure integration.

Tinybeans is a modern day baby book at parents fingertips that helps save them time. Tinybeans was created by parents so that all families have a safe space for their children’s memories. The primary advantage for parents is not having to give away ownership of the images and videos they post. The app itself, also includes additional privacy features not typical of larger social media sites.

It’s super easy and convenient to use. Once you install the Chatbooks app, selecreate a standard photo book and choose Tinybeans as your photo source. (If you don’t already have the Tinybeans app, you should! It’s an awesome way to record milestones and share with friends and family but still remain private. Use code REDTRI20 to get one month of Premium for free). You can select what photos you want to include and have them shared directly to create a beautiful keepsake photo album.

—Amber Guetebier

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Insanely Adorable Valentine’s Day PJs That Will Warm Your Heart

by Jennifer SwartvagherJanuary 21, 2020

The holidays aren’t the only time of year you can dress your kids in adorable seasonal pajamas. Trade in your reindeer and snowmen for hugs and kisses. Your kids will have visions of candy hearts dancing in their heads when you tuck your little ones in on February 14th.

Check out these Valentine’s Day themed pajamas that are sure to make your heart swoon.

Posh Peanut Queen of Hearts Pajamas

Featuring hand-drawn pink hearts on a teal background, this design even comes in an adorable matching set for mom too! Sizing is available for infants through age 10, and the women's lounge wear set is available in XS-2XL.

Available at Posh Peanut, $11-$65.

Primary Rainbow Heart Pajamas

Primary features designs in sizes for the entire family. These fun rainbow heart pajamas are made from 100% combed cotton.

Available at Primary, $16-$26.50.

Pottery Barn Kids Heart Appliqué Nursery One Piece Pajama

Turn around this one piece pajama to reveal a sweet surprise. Made of 100% cotton knit, these pajamas are available is sizes 0-3 months to 18-24 months.

Available at Pottery Barn Kids, $39.50.

Janie and Jack Forever Valentine Collection

From sweet footed PJs to quilted heart one-piece, you'll find something for the love of your life to wear this Valentine's Day. Newborn styles range from 0-24 months. Check out the entire collection (which includes much more than PJs) here.

Available at Janie and Jack, $44

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Burt's Bees Valentin's Day PJs — Burt's Bees

You'll have heart eyes when your baby wears these roomy fit zip front footie Valentine's Day pajamas. Featuring a slip free grip which is great for little ones on the move, these pjs will keep your little one's tootsies warm and snug.

Available at Burt's Bees Baby, $13.95.

Mori Hearts Zip-Up Sleep & Play One-Piece

Your little one will have sweet dreams when they wear these pajamas. Made from organic cotton 30% and 70% bamboo from viscose they feature a soft heart detail on the chest.

Available at Mori, $42.50.

Hanna Andersson Candy Hearts Pajamas

Hanna Andersson Valentine's Day PJs — Hanna Andersson

Wrap your entire family up in candy hearts with these adorable Valentine's Day pajamas. The long johns come in seamless, organic fabric and are available in a variety of prints.

Available at Hanna Andersson, $25-$50.

Valentine's Day Snug Fit Cotton PJs

Show your little ones how much they are loved with these sweet heart pajamas. Crafted with soft cotton, this comfy set s available in sizes for every member of your family.

Available at Carter's, $12-$27.

Posh Peanut Rex Pajamas

This little dinosaur is going to roar their way into your heart this Valentine's Day. These Rex pajamas are adorned with an adorable dinosaur holding a heart along with a bow and arrow. Made of soft bamboo viscose these pajamas are available for baby as well as your big kid.

Available at Posh Peanut, $34-$35.

Cat & Jack "Heart of Gold" Lap Shoulder Romper

Roar! Tell the world your little one has a heart of gold with this sweet romper featuring gold shimmering lettering. This cozy pajama is made from a soft and breathable fabric blend.

Available at Target, $7.99.

—Jennifer Swartvagher

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This Christmas, I’m Speaking My Kids’ Love Language

By Kristin Van de Water

Tinybeans Voices Contributor

December 17, 2019

Photo: Kristin Van de Water

“Are there any new presents under the tree?” chirped my daughter the moment she bounded through the door after school. “Are these all the presents we’re going to get?” she asked, re-inspecting the loot and grumbling, “Why does Zachary get the biggest gifts?”

Fifteen minutes after school pickup—and I already needed a mommy timeout. I can’t stand seeing materialism brainwash my daughter, leaving an ungrateful heart in its wake.

During gifting seasons, my daughter shows an utter lack of gratitude for the bounty before her. Even when she unwraps something on her wish list, she blurts out, “I don’t like Legos…I wish I had the purple one…Did I get any money? Can I pick out anything on the computer?”

Thankfully, my daughter’s fascination with gifts isn’t limited to receiving them. Her favorite activity is wrapping up toys and odds and ends from around the apartment and presenting them to friends and siblings. Last week, my daughter gave one such gift to her classmate and then saw how sad that friend’s little sister was upon not receiving a gift of her own. My daughter was so distraught with the situation she spent several hours that weekend wrapping up trinkets in various boxes and taping them together into the shape of a bird to present it to the little sister.

You can imagine the delight shared by both parties when Monday’s playdate rolled around. These sweet gifting rituals amongst playmates have nothing to do with monetary value. It’s about the surprise, thought, anticipation, unwrapping, and reciprocation.

After witnessing this joyful exchange, I reassessed my resentful perspective on the central role of gifting during a season that’s about so much more. I threw out my previous assumption that my daughter was a victim to materialism and considered the possibility that gifting was simply her way of feeling emotionally connected to others. In other words, gifts are her love language.

Gary Chapman, author of The 5 Love Languages of Children: The Secret to Loving Children Effectively, explains that people feel loved in five primary ways, called love languages:

Acts of Service
Quality Time
Physical Touch
Words of Affirmation
Gifts

While all kids love gifts, some enjoy snuggles or a special family outing just as much as physical presents. That’s the case for three of my four kids. But for my 7-year-old daughter, gifts are her primary love language.

Because receiving gifts ranks lowest on my list of how I feel loved, I’ve traditionally struggled to understand my daughter’s fascination with presents.

I feel loved through acts of service and physical touch. As a result, in my attempt to show motherly love, I default to taking care of my kids’ physical needs and showering them with hugs and kisses. But to a daughter who never snuggles deeper into a hug (if I tried to cuddle her as a baby, she would stretch out her legs to try to stand up), my actions are undoubtedly lost in translation.

“Notice how your child relates to you,” Chapman suggests. “Typically, kids show love in the way they’d like to receive it.”

My daughter is a prolific writer and crafter, creating books, cards, pictures, songs and paper treasures to gift to family and friends. She wrote two stories this afternoon and “published” them just in time to read aloud as bedtime stories—giggling all the way at her own jokes!

What joy! What a gift! It amazes me that I’m only now realizing that I should reciprocate. So, I brainstormed ideas on how to gift my daughter words of affirmation.

Tuck a note in her lunchbox: “You tell funny jokes! Here’s one of mine…”
Set up toys into a playful scene, labeled, “Good morning! We can’t wait to play with you!” so she sees it when she wakes up.
Say, “I love the way you draw! Could you teach me to draw a cute puppy?”
Stick a post-it on one of her in-progress stories. “I’m your biggest fan! Your stories are creative and fun to read.”
Write a thank-you note. “Thank you for breaking up your little sister’s tantrum with tickles and a story. You’re a great big sister!”

As fun as these ideas sound, this is another tricky area for me because words of affirmation rank second-lowest on my love language list. At first, I assumed that compliments would unhealthily puff up my daughter’s ego rather than teaching humility. I don’t want her to grow up feeling entitled or grow numb to praise. I also don’t want her to base her value on another’s verbal approval.

But then I looked at it through the lens of my own love language: acts of service. Just because I feel emotionally connected to my husband when I wake up to a basket of clean laundry doesn’t mean I’m overly dependent on others taking care of me.

Therefore, I shouldn’t lament my daughter’s fascination with gifts as a problem or dependency to be fixed, but rather as one unique facet of her personality.

Luckily for me, this means the joy of Christmastime giving doesn’t have to stop come January. I have a daughter who delights in thoughtful surprises throughout the year. I cherish those sweet good-morning notes slid under my door and look forward to loving her in ways that speak into her heart.

This doesn’t mean hugs and dinner prep should come to a full stop just because they are my love language, not hers. According to Chapman, “The goal is to give your child heavy doses of his or her primary love language while continuing to include the other four. This teaches the child how to receive and give love in all five languages.”

When my kids grow into adults who love on spouses and children of their own, I pray that they both know and show genuine, self-giving love—even if it sometimes feels like they must speak in a foreign language to make that happen.

Kristin Van de Water

Tinybeans Voices Contributor

Kristin Van de Water is a former journalist and teacher who relies on humor, faith, and her mom crew to get her through the day. Raising four kids in a two-bedroom NYC apartment, Kristin is always on the lookout for life hacks to save time, space, money, and her sanity.

Cuddle Up! Find the Best Winter PJs for Your Baby

by Whitney C. HarrisOctober 28, 2019

Brrr! Long, cold, wintry nights mean soft, warm, breathable pajamas are a must. It’s time to step up your baby PJ game. If you’re looking for seasonal styles, or options for easy diaper changes and temperature control, then you’ve come to the right place. Here are 15 pairs of pajamas for your sleeping beauty.

Snowman Baby & Toddler Bamboo Viscose Zippy from Little Sleepies

Little Sleepies

This may be the most versatile sleeper we’ve seen. It’s made with soft and stretchy fabric that helps little ones regulate body temperature and is easy on sensitive skin. The PJs are designed with a double zipper for easy diaper changes and fold-over hand and foot cuffs for keeping babes warm and cozy (and free from scratches!). Plus, the sizing is super flexible given extra long arms and legs. A portion of each sale is donated to Alex's Lemonade Stand Foundation for Childhood Cancer.

Sizes: Newborn-9T and adult S-XXL

Available at littlesleepies.com, $29.99.

Royal Blue Polka Dot Footie from Pineapple Sunshine

Pineapple Sunshine

Made with 100% Peruvian Pima cotton, this ultra-soft footie by Pineapple Sunshine is like a ray of warm sunshine on any cold winter day. The zip-front styles all come in custom prints, many with a contrast hand crochet trim like the beautiful royal blue polka dot style. And it wouldn’t look out of place at a fancy restaurant or family gathering.

Sizes: Newborn-12M

Available at Little Birdies Boutique, $58.

ergoPouch Sleep Suit Bag

ergoPouch

Here's how your baby can sleep seamlessly from car seat to stroller to crib all winter long. The ergoPouch converts from sleep bag to sleep suit with a smart four-way zipper. Made with 100% organic cotton filling, stretchy side panels, long jersey cotton sleeves with fold-down mitts, and grip pads on the feet, this can be worn in place of traditional jammies until spring thaw!

Available at ergopouch.com, $69.99.

Inverse Parsnip Pajama Set from Lewis

Lewis

A deep, lovely mauve with a winter harvest design, the Inverse Parsnip pajamas epitomize timeless sleep style. The top and bottom pair are made with 100% organic interlocking knit cotton, which is soft for both slumber and play. These PJs are pretty enough to eat, and perhaps you’ll inspire an interest in root veggies!

Sizes: 18-24M

Available at lewisishome.com, $48.

Knotted Gowns from Orchid Babywear

Orchid Babywear

Your baby will look like a holiday gift warmly wrapped up in this knotted gown. It’s made with a rayon-spandex blend so baby can stretch and grow and breathe while the gown design keeps them semi-swaddled. Simply untie the bottom for quick diaper changes and fold over the wrist cuffs to protect baby’s hands when needed. A matching cap and bow are perfect for photo opps too!

Sizes: Newborn-3M; fits approximately 5-15 lbs.

Available at orchidbabywear, $24.99.

Lost in Space Organic Cotton Sleeper from Zutano

Zutano

The brand that makes those amazing fleece baby booties also has some pretty great pajama options. The new Lost in Space sleeper is made with GOTS-certified 100% organic cotton and comes in a great color palette for hiding breakfast spills and stains! Rib cuffs on the arms and legs and a zip up the front mean this style is practical and comfortable too.

Sizes: 12-24M

Available at zutano.com, $32.

Thicket Waffle Set from Lake

Lake

Babies and tots will find comfort in a set of feathery Pima cotton pajamas with tons of color options to choose from. The color "thicket" feels particularly festive and evergreen. Best of all, the PJs come in men’s and women’s sizes too, so you can all cuddle up with coordinating styles.

Sizes: 0M-10Y

Available at lakepajmas.com, $58.

MerinoSilk Infant Loungewear Set from Nui Organics

Nui Organics

Invest in a merino silk sleep set for your baby and you may be paid back in restful nights. This crew and leggings combo helps little ones regulate body temperature while staying breathable against their delicate skin all night long. Throw a sweater, maybe some pants, and some socks on the next morning for ultra-warm layering as winter gets underway!

Sizes: 3-24M

Available at nuiorganics.com, $61.

Ski Memories Onesie + Hat from Petidoux

Petidoux

Can’t you just smell the pine trees and freshly fallen snow? The retro vibe of this ski-inspired PJ is perfect for baby’s first winter. Made with 100% Peruvian Pima cotton, the onesie is pre-washed and pre-shrunk so you can be sure it will last all season.

Sizes: 3-9M

Available at petidoux.com, $65.

Happy Holly Organic Sleep & Play Pajamas from Burt's Bees Baby

Burt's Bees Baby

Not only does Burt’s Bees have the best skincare products, but Burt's Bees Baby makes wonderful pajamas too. The Happy Holly Organic Sleep & Play Pajamas are just roomy enough to take your babe from crib to playroom floor, and for every little wiggle in between! The footie has no-slip grips for safe cruising and convertible mitts with fold-over cuff for the littlest ones. The PJs are made with 100% organic, GOTS-certified cotton.

Sizes: Newborn-9M

Available at burtsbeesbaby.com, $13.95.

Pajamas from Finn + Emma

Finn Emma

Finn + Emma is known for its heirloom quality clothing, which is why these tree-print pajamas are an easy choice for long winter nights. Made with 100% organic cotton, the PJs have a wide elastic waistband for fitting around growing tummies. And the goods are GOTS-certified and ethically made in India with non-toxic, eco-friendly dyes.

Sizes: 12M-4T

Available in November at finnandemma.com, $34.

Rainbow Star Zip Footie from Primary

Primary

If you shop Primary for basics, then you’ll appreciate this rainbow star pajama that also comes in solids. Zip up your kiddo in this multicolored wonder, sing a few verses of “Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star,” and send them sweetly to dreamland in 100% combed cotton rib.

Sizes: 0-24M

Available at primary.com, $19.50.

Spiral Loungewear from nununu

nununu

If you’re looking for something beyond traditional baby jammies, look to nununu. The spiral loungewear is utterly unisex and great for families who lean edgy. With a soft waistband and shell fabric cuffs, this long-sleeve-and-leggings combo is made out of 100% cotton and comfortable enough to spend an entire winter vacation lounging around in.

Sizes: 0M-14Y

Available at nununuworld.com, starting at $77.

Footie from Kyte BABY

Kyte BABY

The magic in this footie is the silky, soft bamboo rayon. Babies can sleep soundly because the fabric stretches and breathes as well as comforts all night long. We love the teal hue, along with the coordinating sleep bag for cold nights, but babies will be happy in any of the earthy-bold color options.

Sizes: Newborn-24M

Available at kytebaby.com, $29.99.

Certified Organic 2-Way Zip Sleep & Play from Carter's

Carter's

Didn't think innovation in PJs was possible? Think again. Carter's just released a new two-way, inverted zip sleeper that zips up or down to keep baby's body covered during diaper changes. The 100% organic cotton rib style is simple, cozy and the most affordable option we've seen. Sizes: Preemie-9M Available at carters.com, $12.

Holiday Safari Pajama Set from Sammy + Nat

Sammy Nat

The more your baby wears these PJs, the comfier they get! Made out of 100% Pima cotton, the two-piece pajama set is hypo-allergenic and a solid choice when the weather starts to cool. Each time they go through the wash, they'll further soften, like snow in the morning sunshine!

Sizes: 12M-10Y

Available at sammyandnat.com, $49.

—Whitney C. Harris

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