Staying at home for months on end has had us all online, and shopping online, a lot more. Our DC Editor Meghan Yudes Meyers feels us. A working mom with two kids, we asked Meghan for her top 12 products that have gotten her through the pandemic, the summer, and beyond. Read on to hear more from Meghan.

As a working mom of six-year-old twins, I’ve spent the past five months feeling a little bit like I’m on the ultimate episode of Survivor. Like you, I’ve navigated the new challenges (and adventures!) that come with raising kids in a pandemic world. I’ve brushed up on ways for us to stay healthy and invested in products that allow us to enjoy our home in new ways. Below are some of my favorite mom hacks and survival gear for quarantine life with kids. Scroll on for my must-haves to help get you through another week!

Healthy Measures

Suds2Go

For years, wipes were my can't-live-without mom crutch. But these days, my Kinders don't appreciate me pulling out a pack of wet ones. Enter Suds2Go. It's a portable hand washing station that makes cleaning up on-the-go a cinch. Officials tout that hand washing is the best defense against viruses, but even if a restroom is open (and most aren't) I aim to avoid these germ havens. Suds2Go is now a permanent fixture in my mom bag. 

Get yours here, $36.99. 

Oximeter Blood Oxygen Saturation Monitor

My kids are still at the touch everything phase, so I've been avoiding trips to doctors' offices like the plague. I read about a simple device that can help me gauge whether respiratory issues require a trip to our ped or the local ER; it's an Oximeter Blood Oxygen Saturation Monitor. By slipping this meter on the end of your finger, you can quickly check a heart rate and oxygen saturation. I purchased one made for kids, but it works for everyone in our family. 

Buy yours here, $23.95

Anti-Blue Light Glasses

Adam Winger via Unsplash

If you have school-age kids, chances are they will be spending the majority of their school day online this fall. These glasses work for those that don't have a prescription for eyewear, but still want to protect their eyes (and mind) from the harmful effects of blue light.

Get them here, $15.90. 

New Adventures

The Nature Anywhere Window

The Nature Anywhere Window lets you turn any room of your house into a wildlife observatory. Simply wet the suction cups and slap this bird feeder onto any glass surface; voila instant home viewing! It took the birds in our hood a few days to feel comfortable eating at our eye level, but they soon learned we were harmless. We even got two different bird nests in our yard! 

Buy yours here, $28.90. 

Blast Zone Magic Castle

Some of our favorite places have still not opened, so I've done my best to replicate those experiences within our four walls (and, lucky for us, in a backyard). We got a supersized bound house so that each kid would have enough room to bounce without jumping into one another. We're looking forward to the day when we can jump with friends, too (yes! It's big enough for that, too).

Get it here, $597.88. 

Hape Adjustable Telescope

We've been finding new ways to make our outdoor activities more interesting... and educational. These magnifying glasses have become a must on our nature walks. But when we want to get a better look at the birds or a distant landscape, we pull out our binoculars or this telescope

Get yours here, $19.44.

School At Home

Canopy Tent

We're spending as much time outside as possible, but while we welcome the fresh air, we don't always want to be in the sun's direct rays. I can skip slathering the kids in sunblock with this portable tent. It's perfect for quite classroom activities, like reading and  painting. 

Get it here, $59.99. 

Portable Caddy

We've logged an excess number of hours at home so far this year, so I plan on trying to make our classroom as mobile as possible this fall. This caddy tote let's each of my kiddos bring their necessary supplies with them. We can easily relocate from the dining room table to our maker space to our outdoor classroom with all our necessary supplies. 

Get it here, $14.99. 

Jonti-Craft Creativity Board

I'm obsessed with this double-sided magnetic wipe board that let's my kids work on their individual educational needs at... get this... the same time. You can use dry erase pens to practice letters, sight words, numbers and math problems. Or get into some STEM fun with magnet play. 

Get it here, $340.20. 

Independent Play

SmartGames Snow White

Like a lot of parents, I'm experimenting with new ways to carve out work time from home. While Disney+ has been a go-to for Zoom calls, I've been trying to find more ways to keep my kids occupied without using screens. Both my littles love games and puzzles, so these brain challenges by SmartGames build cognitive skills while also increasing their confidence; they can be done independently! 

Get it here, $26.99

OOLY Colored Pencils

My kids are creative bundles of energy; give them some craft supplies, and they are self-sufficient for a solid 60 (at least!). I love all of OOLY products because they feature bright, vibrant colors, but these colored pencils are some of my faves. With two kids heading off to Kinder soon, pencils let them practice the fine motor skills they'll need in (or out of) the classroom. And with more control over their art work, they are able to master more difficult drawings.

Find them here, $16.99. 

Simolio Headphones

Alireza Attari via Unsplash

These days, headphones are a must in our house. They let my kids rock out on their electric guitars while I'm busy on my computer. They also come in handy for letting kids watch a movie by themselves or getting joining an online Zoom class without retreating to a different room. 

Get them here, $25.99. 

All images, except those credited, courtesy of retailers.

Editor’s Note: At the time of publication, all items were available for purchase.

—Meghan Yudes Meyers

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The pandemic is here to stay (at least for a while), which means you’re looking for fresh ways to entertain your kids and spend time together. Use this as an opportunity to try something new. Our editors—all moms working at home with their families—dish on their favorite toys, gear and games that have gotten them through even the toughest of days. From gear to get the kids stargazing to products that will turn you into a DIY popsicle superstar, read on for new ideas and products your kids will flip for.

Kelty Mesh Low-Loveseat

mom watching kids playing in a creek at campground
Kelty

Our Bay Area Editor, Kate Loweth, loves this loveseat-style camping chair for beach days, lake days, backyard camping and all the summer fun. It's low enough to bring to use at backyard movie nights and the mesh bottom is perfect for when you want to park yourself in the creek all day (like her family did at their recent glamping vacay at Wildhaven Sonoma). 

Get yours here, $107.53. 

Get more recommendations from Kate here

Fancy Sidewalk Chalk & Painter's Tape

Our Atlanta Editor, Shelley Massey, is nuts for sidewalk chalk. Chalk is cool, but donut chalk is epic. And when you're heading out to your driveway for the 1,000th time, nothing will pump them up more than some fancy chalk and a roll of painter's tape, which is guaranteed to amp up the creativity factor. For inspiration on what to do with all that chalk, check out our favorite ways to have fun with sidewalk chalk, here

Available for $14.95 on Amazon.

Get more recommendations from Shelley here

DIY Paracord Bracelets

Chicago Editor Maria Chambers has older kids and this was the perfect way to keep them entertained on socially-distanced meet-ups with friends. When they were knee-deep in quarantine and most things were closed, she and her kids learned how to make paracord bracelets. Her daughter now wears hers every day. It was a fun project and also interesting to learn all the uses for the bracelets when used by soldiers and hunters. 

If you're interested in making bracelets for soldiers as a family community service project, find the details on where to send and how they're used here

Buy your colorful paracord here, a kit is $30.49. If you're looking for colors appropriate to donate to soldiers, buy the kit here, for $14.49.

Get more of Maria's recommendations here

Spooner Boards Freestyle

via Amazon

Our LA Editor, Shannan Rouss, had this super-rad recommendation that will get your kids active. Her son became obsessed with surfing after he saw a Mickey Mouse Clubhouse episode about it. Or maybe it was Lilo & Stitch that sold him on the idea. Regardless, he's only 4, so he's not ready for surfing lessons (plus physical distancing and all). So instead, he "land surfs" on the Spooner Board Freestyle. It took him a few attempts to get the hang of it, but he's mastered a 180 spin and is working on his 360.  

Shop now for a Spooner Board Freestyle, $44.

Get more recommendations from Shannan here

MaxUSee 70mm Refractor Telescope with Tripod & Finder Scope

NYC Editor Mimi O'Connor had this fun idea for getting kids interested in stargazing. Her daughter got this telescope as a birthday present. This was inspired by recent stargazing activity and bought with the hope of using it when they headed upstate for a bit later in the summer. (They use the free app SkyView Lite for help finding constellations in the city.) It's a nice combo of not too complicated, but with enough features to be a level up from basic. 

Get yours here, $61.99.

Get more of Mimi's recommendations here

4 Person Beach Tent Sun Shelter

This sun shelter tent is one of Portland Editor Annette Benedetti's favorite pieces of outdoor equipment. It comes in handy whether her family is relaxing at a park, hanging out on one of their local beaches, or having a picnic in their front yard. It's easy to put together and keep mom and dad sheltered from the elements while they watch their kiddos play.

You can buy it here for $69.99.

See all of Annette's faves here

gofindit - Outdoor Nature Scavenger Hunt Card Game for Families

Our San Diego Editor, Beth Shea, recommends this fun card game to entice the kids to get off devices and get outside. It's designed for ages 3+ but it's engaging for people of all ages. The cards ask you to find specific item descriptions on your jaunt such as: "furry," "wow," "small," and "thin." You could even use it on road trips and anytime you leave the house to up the ante on any excursion. 

Get yours here, $12.50.

Get all of Beth's recommendations here

Tovolo Ice Pop Molds

Seattle Editor Allison Sutcliffe recommends this item to get you through those hot, hot months of summer. With the warmer-than-usual weather Seattle's been having, her kids have been downing homemade popsicles by the dozen to cool off. She's gotten a ton of mileage out of these BPA-free molds. The fact that she gets to control what goes into them . . .added bonus!

Get yours here, $11.99.

Find all of Allison's favorite things here

The Nature Anywhere Window

Our DC Editor, Meghan Meyers, loves this pick for bringing a little bit of nature inside. The Nature Anywhere Window lets you turn any room of your house into a wildlife observatory. Simply wet the suction cups and slap this bird feeder onto any glass surface; voila, instant home viewing! It took the birds in her hood a few days to feel comfortable eating at eye level, but they soon learned that her family was harmless. They even got two different bird nests in their backyard! 

Buy yours here, $28.90. 

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—Kate Loweth

Featured photo: iStock

 

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Staying at home for months on end has had us all online, and shopping online, a lot more. Our Seattle Editor, Allison Sutcliffe feels us. A part-time, working mom with three kids, we asked Allison for her top 12 products that have gotten her through the pandemic, the summer and beyond. Read on to hear more from Allison.

I’m a work-from-home mom of three kids (ages 2, 9 & 12), and like many Seattle families, I’ve had to pivot hard these past few months, trading summer camps and the annual family vacay for outdoor games and backyard movie nights instead. Because we’re all in this together, I thought I’d share the gear that’s making it happen for us (and keeping me sane, too!) in the hopes it does the same for you. Scroll down to see what I can’t get enough of right now.

Orion 10012 SkyScanner Telescope

We had no idea we’d be in for the stargazing summer of the century when we picked up this tabletop telescope for my oldest daughter's pandemic-style birthday. Even though we didn’t spot Neowise (so bummed!), we pull it out often to check out the moon (in amazing detail!) and spot planets and bright stars in the summer sky. My favorite part is that it's so portable. We can easily take it anywhere and set it at kid height so everyone can take a peek.

Get yours here, $99.99.

Tovolo Ice Pop Molds

With the warmer-than-usual weather we’ve been having, the kids have been downing homemade popsicles by the dozen to cool off. We’ve gotten a ton of mileage out of these BPA-free molds. The fact that I get to control what goes into them… added bonus!

Get yours here, $11.99.

Curious Kids Nature Guide

Hiking has been our family’s go-to, socially distanced outdoor activity since the beginning of the pandemic. As restrictions have loosened, and we’ve ventured out further and further, we keep going back to this bookshelf fave that highlights local eco systems and inspires us to seek out new terrain and see what we can find in the forest and on the beach.

Get yours here, $12.59.

Beet World

courtesy Beet World

Since we first started staying home, I can’t tell you how many clothing sizes my toddler has been through! Instead of hitting the stores, I’ve added a few playful pieces from Beet World to her wardrobe. I can’t get enough of this local, mom-owned biz that gives back and is focused on sustainability. Beet World’s been a lifesaver for birthdays, too. Their newly-added mystery gift boxes make shopping for friends and family, near and far, a cinch, no matter what the occasion.

Get yours here, prices vary.

Painted Learning Tower & Activity Boards

We’ve been doing a lot of baking recently (hello, quarantine 15!), and my two year old wants in on the action. So we splurged on this learning tower that lets my toddler safely “help” alongside us. I love the multi-function of this souped-up step stool. Seriously. We removed a side panel so she climbs in an out at will, hopping off to play with the activity boards when she's had enough mixing, pouring and stirring. We all win with this one!

Get the tower here, $239.99 and the activity boards here and here, $39.99-44.99.

KEEN Kids’ Seacamp II CNX-C

Not a new obsession but a reliable one. New pair. Every year. Each kid. We wear them pretty much everywhere—tidepooling, hiking, boating and exploring the neighborhood. What can I say? I’m a sucker for a practical shoe.

Get yours here, $29.95 & up.

Paint & Plant Pizza Herb Growing Kit

Admittedly, I don’t have the greenest thumb, but this handy herb growing kit has been just what my kids needed to get interested in gardening. We tranferred the original plants and they're doing just fine in pots on the deck, and new herbs are growing in the kitchen window as we speak.

Get yours here, $24.99.

Qwixx

Everyone in the family loves this game, even our youngest (we let her roll the dice for us). It's easy to learn, quick to play and we can bring it anywhere (it fits in my diaper bag as easily as my purse). Plus, there's enough luck mixed in that anyone can win. My kids love that part the most!

Get yours here, 7.99

Reusable Swim Diaper

Where were these things when my oldest was born? Seriously love using this diaper with my toddler whether we’re at the beach, splashing in the kiddie pool or running through the sprinkler in the backyard. It’s my guilt-free summer gear for baby.

Get yours here, $16.97.

Pacific Breeze Easy Set Up Beach Tent

Although we haven’t gotten around to much camping this summer, we’ve tooled around the Sound seeking out secluded beaches every chance we get. When we find a spot we set up this lightweight pop-up shade that keeps everyone out of the sun and acts as a home base. My tween can set it up and take it down on his own (love it!) and it's packs up easily too. We love throw 'n' go gear!

Get yours here, $74.99

Kubb Outdoor Tossing Game

We knew we’d need to turn our backyard into a play zone to get the kids through the summer, so we ordered Kubb and haven’t looked back. Everybody’s into the strategy of it and I love that it's one more thing to do outside, close to home with the kids.

Get yours here, $49.99.

Alligator Bubble Blower Machine

This one is a kid obsession in our house. The big kids love turning it on almost as much as my two-year-old loves playing with the bubbles it makes. Needless to say, we’ve had a lot of impromptu bubble dance parties in the backyard.

Get yours here, $14.99.

Editor’s Note: At the time of publication, all prices were current and all items were available for purchase.

All images courtesy of retailers.

—Allison Sutcliffe

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Looking for a few new ways to entertain the kids this weekend, beyond all the home science experiments and movie nights—no judgment. (Like, really, none at all, because right there with you.) Fortunately, we’ve uncovered some unique ideas especially for LA parents. From a big night-sky event you can see from your own backyard to story time with celebs, here are 7 awesome activities for your #SaferAtHome weekend.

It’s a Girl!
Spend some time with the latest addition to the Los Angeles Zoo, an adorable baby gorilla named Angela. Stop by the zoo’s Instagram or YouTube channel to see little Angela and mom N’djia in action.

Seeing Stars
After the sun sets on Sat., Mar. 28, take the kids outside to gaze up at the sky for a chance to see Venus, the crescent Moon and the star cluster Pleiades. According to NASA’s Jet Propulsion Laboratory in Pasadena, the Pleiades are so bright they can be seen by the naked eye, even in urban areas. But grab binoculars or a telescope and you’ll be treated to a truly dazzling display of lights.

Rock On!
LA’s most popular kids musicians (and regulars on the birthday party circuit), The BeatBuds are doing live shows every Friday. Check their Instagram account for more information.

Story Time
Jennifer Garner and Amy Adams have joined with Save the Children and No Child Hungry to create Save with Stories in response to COVID-19 school closures. Visit them on Instagram to hear stories read by Reese Witherspoon, Kamala Harris, Brie Larson and more!

Museum Day
Check out all the fun and educational online resources from some of our favorite local museums. Find out how to build a balloon car, create a colorful rain cloud and more. Get all the details here.

–Shannan Rouss

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Is your pint-sized astronomer obsessed with anything having to do with outer space? If so, or if you’re just want to take in a super-sized celestial show, look up! According to NASA, Jupiter is at its biggest and brightest this June.

The largest planet in the solar system will rise at dusk and stay visible all night long for most of the month. This means your fam has the perfect opportunity to view the gas giant—even if you don’t own a telescope.

If you do happen to have a telescope (or even binoculars) on hand, go ahead and set it up. The magnified view will give you a look at Jupiter, its four largest moons and possibly even its big red spot.

Along with the awesome astronomy action going on with Jupiter this month, you can also catch a glimpse of Mars and Mercury. The two planets will come close together for a post-sunset sky show on Jun. 17 and 18.

—Erica Loop

Featured photo: EvgeniT via Pixabay

 

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Cursing under our breath and profusely sweating. No, it’s not the scene from that barre class we took last week. We’re describing the last time we set up—and dismantled—a pack and play. Now, thanks to Skip Hop’s newest product innovation, their portable travel crib, the days of trying to figure out how to collapse those pesky side rails are long gone. Skip Hop’s new travel crib, which just debuted this March, is a cinch to set up and it even expands to a playpen in mere seconds. We recently took it for a spin and here’s what we found.

It’s more than just a crib

The duplicity of this product is why we’re gaga over it. When you want to convert the pack and play from sleep mode to play pen mode, simply unzip the fabric mesh sides and bottom to expand it. The sides telescope to expand 60% larger so your child now has room to move around and play. The ease of conversion will blow your mind.

Plus, the product comes equipped with two convenient pads: one mattress pad with a fitted sheet for sleep mode and another water-resistant mat for play mode. It’s easier now than ever to toggle between sleep and play mode without having to buy more accessories or gear.

It’s easy-to-carry and compact enough for real travel

The travel crib comes with a travel bag and it all (crib, mattress sleep pad and play mat) all fold up easily. With a sling to carry, this travel crib is designed for travel. The entire thing comes in at 15 pounds. And, breaking it down and fitting it into the travel bag is as intuitive as it comes. Bring it to grandma’s house, set it up in your living room to wrangle your toddler or pack it for your next road trip.

It won’t break the bank

Skip Hop’s new travel crib retails for $180, which is far cheaper than the more expensive, light pack and plays on the market. We love that it’s not only a travel crib, but an expandable playpen so you’re really getting two products in one.

Buy yours at skiphop.com for $180.

Copy by Erin Lem; photos courtesy of Skip Hop

 

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The City of Angels may be chock full of stars, but the Griffith Observatory gives families the best opportunity to see the ones in the sky. Between the mesmerizing planetarium shows that take kids on a journey of cosmic exploration and discovery, fascinating exhibits, and telescopes that provide the most amazing views of LA and the stars above, the Griffith Observatory is the perfect pitstop for all the astronomers in your family.

photo: Griffith Observatory

Samuel Oschin Planetarium 
The Samuel Oschin Planetarium is a truly magical and memorable experience for families. As the Zeiss Star Projector and digital projection system transform the dome into the night sky, visitors are transported to worlds beyond their wildest dreams.

Presently, the planetarium offers three shows to choose from that are presented by a live and engaging storyteller: Centered in the Universe takes visitors on a journey of cosmos; Water is Life leads the audience on a search for water and possibly life beyond Earth while Light of the Valkyries (their 75th anniversary show) reveals the magic of the Northern Lights.

Live presentations are scheduled every 60-to-90 minutes. Note that children under 5 are only admitted to the first show each day (12:45 p.m. on weekdays and 10:45 a.m. on weekends).

Insider Tip: It gets quite dark in the planetarium at the beginning of the show, so prepare your astronomers, especially those that may be afraid of the dark. Tickets may only be purchased on-site at the Observatory for that day’s shows—no advance purchases are available.

photo: Griffith Observatory

The Exhibits

Within the Griffith Observatory, there are two floors of incredible exhibits waiting to spark the imaginations of visitors and encourage them to ponder their own relationships to the universe.

Don’t miss: Scales that tell guests how much they would weigh on each planet and our moon, the Foucault Pendulum—one of the largest scientific instruments in the world that proves Earth is spinning on its axis, and the Tesla Coil which discharges sizzling lightening sparks to the walls of its alcove.

photo: Griffith Observatory

The Telescopes

The main highlight for every Griffith Observatory visitor is getting to look through the famous Zeiss telescope on the roof. More people have looked through this telescope and learned about the movements of the heavens than any other telescope on Earth! After checking out this viewfinder, make sure to check out the other telescopes located on the vast terraces that provide more earth-bound, breathtaking views like the Hollywood sign, DTLA, and the Pacific Ocean.

photo: Jennifer O’Brien

Observatory Events

Special events occur all year long at the Griffith Observatory, but little ones will especially love the “Let’s Make a Comet” presentation in the Leonard Nimoy Event Horizon Theater during holiday breaks and summertime. During the 30-minute show, visitors help create a comet out of household ingredients.

Once a month, the Observatory hosts a Star Party where kids of all ages can look through dozens of telescopes on the lawn and interact with astronomy enthusiasts from local astronomy clubs, as well as Griffith Observatory employees.

Insider Tip: If you plan on visiting the Griffith Observatory on a Sat. or Sun., try to arrive right as close to 10 a.m. when they open to the public. Crowds will be lighter, and there should be available parking (with the exception of holiday weekends which can get a little crazy to say the least). If you become a member of Friends Of The Observatory, you can reserve parking ahead of time and even book tickets to the planetarium shows.

Where to Eat: Hungry star watchers can grab a bite on the lower level of the Observatory at Wolfgang Puck’s Café at the End of the Universe. A vast menu (including meals for kids) is available with everything from soups and salads to sandwiches and sweet treats. Visitors will find plenty of seating inside or outdoors on the terrace with stellar views of the city and Hollywood sign.

2800 E. Observatory Rd.
Los Angeles
213-473-0800
Online: griffithobservatory.org

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–Jennifer O’Brien

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Temper tantrums. There’s no telling when or where they will strike. Just thinking about them makes a parent break out in a cold sweat. But what if there was a way to stop meltdowns before they start? It’s possible, trust us. We looked high and low for tools and tricks to keep tantrums at bay, and below are our favorite mom-tested-and-approved methods. Take a peek and try one (or a few) out the next time your kid starts to go blue in the face.

1. Check out The TantrumBox. After experiencing their own kids’ tantrums, Allison Steinberger (a teacher and mom of two) and her physician husband researched and came up with the TantrumBox, which is a list of 100 fun ways to prevent a tantrum in addition to sensory products, which are great at distraction. Items in the box include a tangle toy, a telescope kaleidoscope, play-doh, among others.

2. Hug it out. After studying more than 100 tantrums, researchers at the University of Minnesota concluded that tantrums often involve anger and sadness. And since anger tends to fizzle out quicker than sadness, the way past a tantrum is to tend to the sadness, which leaves us with hugs! That’s right–enveloping your wailing child in a warm, well-timed hug may help ebb the tide of a tantrum.

photo: iStock

3. Take a deep breath and stay calm. A surefire way to escalate your kid’s tantrum is to flip out and start losing your cool. Taking a deep breath before entering the fray may help steady your nerves and keep everything in perspective. Remind yourself that ALL kids have tantrums, and this too will end.

4. Try a distraction like acting silly. They say laughter is the best medicine, but it’s also great at distracting your child during a temper tantrum. Making a silly face or a funny noise might just turn your child’s head away from what they’re tantrum-ing about and make them laugh. It’s worth a shot.

photo: iStock

5. Create a calming center. Sometimes temper tantrums are born out of anxiety and frustration. A great way to counteract that, especially when you’re at home, is to create a calming center in a quiet room or corner of your house. You can search on Amazon for items—including the Calm Down Jar, which is a tube filled with a glittery gel and water that your child can swish back and forth. There are also fidget toys, fidget spinners, homeopathic calming tablets, calming essential oil, and more.

6. Just walk away. Not every parent will be comfortable with this method, but sometimes just walking away and letting the tantrum fizzle out works great. Obviously, this way works best if you’re at home or in a contained spot (not out at a restaurant, the mall, the movie theater, etc), but if you can just leave the room, your child may lose interest in their tantrum and calm down on their own.

photo: Chi Yoga

7. Yoga breathing. A big trend now in nursery schools is tiny yoga, and part of this practice is teaching children to deep breathe and be cognizant of their breathing. Practice this when she’s not having a tantrum so she understands the practice and enjoys the calming effect. Once she’s mid-tantrum, just calmly ask her to take a few deep breaths and hopefully, this will work to calm her down.

8. Validating and empathizing with your kid. Guess what? Your kid has a temper tantrum when he’s upset or sad or unsettled or for a million other reasons, but the main reason is that he’s not happy about something. Why not try showing him you understand and that you get that he’s upset? Validating why your tot is upset may open the door to communication instead of screaming, wailing, etc.

9. Try picking up a book. There are tons of books out there about warding off temper tantrums but the one we’re excited about is No More Tantrums.  In author Maria van Lieshout’s newest addition to the Big Kid Power series, she tackles tantrums and different ways both parents and kids can fight through them. Advice for kids includes ideas such as “Big kids use their words” and “When I’m upset I take a little break.” The illustrations are adorable and are great for demonstrating to children the different ways to calm down.

10. Preparing them and setting out expectations. If you’re going to a restaurant, let your kids know beforehand that there won’t be ice cream for dinner. If you’re heading to the movies, let your kids know what they can and cannot get from the concession stand. Why? Because giving kids parameters and guidelines often help them feel more in control. We’re not saying this will eliminate tantrums on the road, but it will help lessen them since your children will know beforehand what’s allowed.

—Felissa Allard

 

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2017 is a big year for those looking skyward, with a total solar eclipse scheduled to cross the U.S. on August 21st. Gear up for that big day by getting the kids interested in all things beyond our atmosphere. From museums to planetariums to gatherings of astronomy buffs, there are tons of opportunities to encourage your kids’ cosmic curiosity. Read on to see what’s available near you!

Photo: Chabot Space and Science Center

East Bay

Chabot Space and Science Center
The Chabot boasts three powerful telescopes allowing 180 degree access to the sky above. Two planetarium shows are included with each general admission to the center. Daytime viewing on the observatory deck happens on Saturdays and Sundays with volunteers available to point out the sun, moon or Venus. On Friday and Saturday evenings after the sky goes dark, visitors have complimentary admission to the observatory deck to access the telescopes.

10000 Skyline Boulevard
Oakland, Ca
Online: chabotspace.org

Lawrence Hall of Science Planetarium
A visit to the Lawrence Hall of Science is incomplete without a stop at the planetarium. Offering six interactive shows from 11:30 a.m. – 2:30 p.m., kids can learn how NASA’s Kepler space telescope discovered thousands of planets orbiting other stars or how astronomers measure stars and galaxies without ever going out into space. Planetarium tickets are $4 in addition to the admission price.

One Centennial Drive
Berkeley, Ca
Online: lawrencehallofscience.org

Photo: Hiller Aviation Museum

Peninsula

Starlab Planetarium at the Hiller Aviation Museum
Crawl through a short tunnel to enter the Starlab Planetarium and you will be rewarded with glittering stars projected overhead. Learn about the constellations, planets and more in this one-of-a-kind show. Ideal for kids 5 and up, tickets for the shows can be purchased at the museum gift shop on the day of the show. Check the online calendar for showtimes.

Hiller Aviation Museum
601 Skyway Road
San Carlos, Ca
Online: hiller.org/event/starlab

Photo: Chabot Space and Science Center

South Bay

Montalvo Arts Center
Once per summer, Montalvo welcomes astronomers of all ages to join them for their Starry, Starry Night program. Stargaze through telescopes set up on the Great Lawn, engage in cosmic art-making activities and be transported by star-inspired stories and poetry. After enjoying the evening’s festivities, you are welcome to roll out your sleeping bags and sleep under the stars. The event concludes the next day with a pancake breakfast.

Date: June 22-23
Price: $50/adult, $25/child
15400 Montalvo Road
Saratoga, Ca
Online: montalvoarts.org

DeAnza College Fujistu Plantetarium
Head to DeAnza College for some out of this world fun! In September through March they offer afternoon programs on Saturdays and Sundays for families. Programs like “The Magic Tree House” teach kids about the night sky with presenters available to answer questions. Special for 2017, learn about the eclipse this summer by attending one of their showing of “Totality” – an examination of how and why eclipses occur. (Showing on June 24, July 15, July 29, August 5 and August 12.)

21250 Stevens Creek Boulevard
Cupertino, Ca
Online: planetarium.deanza.edu

San Jose Astronomical Association
Join the San Jose Astronomical Association as members set up telescopes and share their knowledge with the public at their free In-Town Star Parties and special events like the Mercury Transit. All ages welcome. If you have your own telescope, arrive early to set it up. An hour before the star party, there is an astronomy talk which is also open to the public.

Various locations in and near San Jose
Online: sjaa.net

Halley Hill Observatory
The Halls Valley Astronomical Group hosts monthly star parties at Joseph D. Grant County Park in the hills east of San Jose. Telescope docents are present to point out stars, planets and more to kids and parents alike. Book a nearby campsite for the weekend to get the full experience and avoid having to drive down the windy road at night. Looking for more nearby stargazing adventures? Check out the Lick Observatory on top of Mt. Hamilton for their stargazing events.

Joseph D. Grant Park
18405 Mt. Hamilton Road
San Jose, Ca
Online: hallsvalley.org/starparties

Photo: John Belew via San Francisco Amateur Astronomers

Marin

Astronomy Nights on Mt. Tamalpais
Mt. Tam is the site of a gathering of the San Francisco Amateur Astronomers group where the public can hear a lecture on topics like how black holes can blow bubbles or how astronomers measure distances to far-away galaxies. Lectures are followed by public viewing through the telescopes. The group meets monthly from April through October.

Mt. Tamalpais
3801 Panoramic Highway
Mill Valley, Ca
Online: sfaa-astronomy.org

Photo: SFSU Observatory

San Francisco

City Star Party and Telescope Night
Join the San Francisco Amateur Astronomers group and other star-lovers at this monthly gathering in San Francisco. Monthly location varies so check the schedule for this month’s spot. New members who bring their telescopes will have access to the collective wisdom of more-experienced members to answer scope questions. Or wait in line to see if you can see the rings of Saturn in one of the group’s telescopes that are set up for public viewing.

Online: sfaa-astronomy.org

San Francisco State University Observatory
During the fall and spring semesters, the public is invited to join students and professors for viewings on Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday nights at the SFSU Observatory. The observatory houses four telescopes and knowledgeable folks are always present to answer questions.

1600 Holloway Avenue
San Francisco, Ca
Online: physics.sfsu.edu

Morrison Planetarium at the California Academy of Sciences
The 75-foot dome at the Morrison Planetarium provides a virtual view of the cosmos that precisely mirrors its real-world counterpart. See traditional star programs, special films and even live broadcasts from Academy scientists in the field. Tickets to the planetarium are included with admission.

California Academy of Sciences
Golden Gate Park
55 Music Concourse Drive
San Francisco, CA
Online: calacademy.org

Photo: Kate Loweth

Worth the Drive

Fremont Peak Observatory
Looking for a stargazing road trip? Head down to San Juan Bautista and then drive up to the Fremont Peak Observatory. Every Saturday from April through October when there is not a full moon, the observatory is open to the public with a discussion followed by viewing through the 30-inch diameter “Challenger” Newtonian telescope. Daytime solar programs are held on certain days from 2-5 p.m. where special filters are used to see details on the surface of the sun. Make a night of it with camping at Fremont Peak State Park and walk over to the observatory for the show.

San Juan Bautista, Ca
Online: fpoa.net

Where do you take your stargazers for some telescope time? Let us know below!

-Kate Loweth

If your little Galileo has a twinkle in his eye over every light in the night sky, we’ve found where to go to wish upon a star. From planetarium shows and high-powered telescope viewings to a weekend of wonder camping with amateur astronomers, here are the 7 best spots to stargaze as a family.

Photo: Jake Kokot via Unsplash

See Stars in Balboa Park
Tour the incredible solar system with the Fleet’s own astronomer who narrates “The Sky Tonight” show in their beautiful theater before you head outside and stargaze with the experts. The San Diego Astronomy Association (SDAA) sets up several telescopes for free public viewing. They’ll gladly help little starlings take a peek and see what heavenly bodies they can spot. Look forward to viewing a total solar eclipse this August. Star parties happen the first Wednesday of each month on the Prado by the Fleet Science Center.

Insider’s Tip: The telescope line is shortest during the show (and it’s free). So if your kiddo won’t last the night, skip the show and head straight for the stargazing.

Showtimes: 7 and 8:15 p.m. (first Wednesday of the month; recommended for ages 5 and up)
Cost: Stargazing free; Sky Tonight show $16.95/adults; $14.95/children

Fleet Science Center
1875 El Prado
San Diego, Ca 92101
Online: rhfleet.org

Photo: Palomar College Planetarium

Behold the Night at Palomar College Planetarium
Palomar College welcomes the public every Friday night to enjoy their newly built planetarium. Two planetarium shows inspire wonder and imagination. “The Sky Tonight” is a live narrated tour of the current sky, highlighting the moon, planets and many constellations and their mythology. A second full-dome feature follows (see schedule here) or you may wander outside to search the night sky through large tracking telescopes that are set-up for free public viewing at dusk.

Insider’s Tips: Buy tickets online (shows can sell out). Each show requires a separate ticket. Arrive early because late seating is not allowed! Kids must be 5 to attend the planetarium shows; no exceptions.

Showtimes: The Sky Tonight 7 p.m.; Full Dome Feature film (varies) 8:15 p.m.
Cost: $6/adults; $4/children

Palomar College Planetarium
Comet Circle East
San Marcos, Ca 92069
Online: palomar.edu/planetarium

Photo: Bruno Sanchez-Andrade via Flickr

Star Light, Star Bright: San Diego Astronomy Association
If your family is ready for an outdoor adventure, bundle up and head to one of these free, fun events further from city lights that will allow for a more authentic, clearer view of the sky. Local astronomers from SDAA share their knowledge of the heavens with curious stargazers while using high-powered telescopes. Wear warm clothes and bring your own telescope or binoculars if you’d like. The constellations change with the seasons, so there is always something new to explore. Viewing begins at dusk.

Insider’s Tips: Lasers and flashlights interfere with viewing. Bring a small red flashlight instead if you have one. No food or drinks are allowed in observation areas near telescopes. 

East County
When: Second Friday of each month
Where: Kumeyaay Lake Campground Parking Lot
Two Father Junipero Serra Trail
San Diego, Ca 92119
Online: mtrp.org/campground

North County
When: Third Friday, every other month
Where: Goodan Ranch/Sycamore Canyon Reserve
The site is located at the east end of Poway, offering a pretty dark sky with an amazing panoramic view of the city below.
Online: sdparks.org/content/sdparks/en/park-pages/GoodanSycamore.html

When: Fourth Friday of each month
Where: Mission Trails Regional Park West Sycamore located in Scripps Ranch
Online: mtrp.org/west_sycamore

Photo: Cherie Gough

Camp With Astronomers on Palomar Mountain
Dust off the tent and enjoy an exciting camping weekend exploring the stars with high-powered telescopes provided by local amateur astronomers. The windy drive that climbs the 4800 feet to the camp is an adventure in itself. Held one weekend a month at Palomar Mountain’s Observatory Campground April through October, this family-friendly event includes great interpretive talks on Saturday night to help you understand what you’re seeing up above. During the day, hike the 2 mile trail to the Palomar Observatory where you’ll be in awe of spectacular views. Explore the visitor’s center or take a guided tour, but make sure little scientists are aware that the telescope here is for researchers only.

Insider’s Tips: Many campsites run adjacent to a stream. Bug repellant is a must. Cell phone service is iffy at best.
Online: nanzscience.com/explore/index.html

Photo: Gemelitas via Tripadvisor

Out-of-This-World Night in Julian
Astronomer and owner of Observer’s Inn, Michael Leigh, takes visitors on a journey through the cosmos five nights a week. Using a laser, he clearly points out the visible constellations. Leigh makes the evening tour interesting for all; visitors range from young children to NASA scientists. Kids will gaze in wonder at sample pieces of meteorites and rocks from Mars. Be sure to check out the stars and planets for yourself using his research level telescopes on the observation deck. Observers’ Inn is also a lovely B&B, mostly serving as a romantic getaway. Drive up in the evening or stay at a nearby campground with the kiddos.

Sky tours begin around 8:30 p.m.. Closed Sun. and Th. Call for a reservation.
Cost: $30/person

Observer’s Inn
3535 Highway 79
Julian, Ca 92036
760-765-0088
Online: observersinn.com

Where do you go to see stars in San Diego? Tell us in the comments.

— Cherie Gough