May the 4th be with you! LEGO is helping Star Wars to celebrate this epic holiday with a very special offer—a free Tatooine Homestead micro-build set and a free Imperial Shuttle.

The small-scale plastic brick builder set features the entire Lars family home from Star Wars: A New Hope.

Photo: LEGO

Along with a scene straight out of the film fave, this micro-build also includes a landspeeder, Sandcrawler and studs representing Luke Skywalker, R2-D2, C-3PO, Aunt Beru, Uncle Owen and two Jawas. The 217-piece set is age-graded for builders ages eight-plus and is just over 1.5 inches tall, 3.5 inches wide and 6.5 inches deep.

To get your Star Wars: Tatooine Homestead set for free (while supplies last), purchase at least $85 worth of LEGO Star Wars merch between May 1 and May 5. Visit the LEGO website here for more info on the free with-purchase micro-build.

Wait! That’s not all. Star Wars fans who shop LEGO Stores in-person can score a free Imperial Shuttle set with purchases $40 and more from May 1 through May 5.

—Erica Loop

 

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Our first book list for 2021 is intentionally eclectic: poetry and prose, fantasy and biography, a graphic novel, a suspenseful account of a Navy Seal rescue operation, and a classic “summer friendship and self-discovery” story. Several choices representing multiple voices—something for every reader.

We curated this diverse set of books to reinforce and support what we know to be true:

  • The more children read, the more they will enjoy reading
  • The way to get kids hooked on reading is to give them books they enjoy!

Among our aspirations for our children are a high degree of literacy and a love of learning. Those aspirational paths are lined with books, for it is only by reading—and more reading—that children build their reading “muscle” to a degree that scanning the pages becomes nearly effortless, and they can lose themselves in the narrative.

Neil Gaiman, prolific author of books for children and adults, loves libraries and seizes every opportunity to promote reading, literacy, and this value of “reading choice” for children.

“The simplest way to make sure that we raise literate children is to teach them to read, and to show them that reading is a pleasurable activity. And that means, at its simplest, finding books that they enjoy, giving them access to those books, and letting them read them.”

“…We need our children to get onto the reading ladder: anything that they enjoy reading will move them up, rung by rung, into literacy.”

Our list of recommended books for your children comes with a recommendation for you—encourage your children to read by helping them find books they like—fiction or nonfiction, traditional or graphic novels, books that seem too easy, or repeated selections from a single genre. Let their choices be based on their taste and let them lead the way, after all, reading should be pleasurable. As children become better, faster readers, the universe of books they enjoy will naturally expand.

Our New Year’s resolution will be to populate our monthly lists with a variety of readings, with hopes of introducing the young readers in your house to books they will love. 

Here are our favorite books to begin your challenge:

Grades Kinder to Second:

Just Ask Written by Sonia Sotomayor, Illustrated by Rafael Lopez
United States Supreme Court Justice Sonia Sotomayor celebrates the different abilities kids have in this book set in a lovely garden. In the same way that different types of plants and flowers make a garden more beautiful and enjoyable, different types of people make our world more vibrant and wonderful. When we come across someone who is different from us but we’re not sure why, all we have to do is Just Ask.

The Seed of Compassion: Lessons from the Life and Teachings of His Holiness the Dalai Lama Written by Dalai Lama XIV, Illustrated by Bao Luu This child-friendly introduction to Tenzin Gyatso, the fourteenth Dalai Lama, is part life instruction, and part auto-biography. Through examples, he reminds children that compassion is something that must be nurtured, that you may not have all the answers of how to act compassionately in a certain situation, but that “you can build compassion day by day. It takes practice. And even when you slip and don’t make a compassionate choice, tomorrow presents the opportunity for you to try again.”

Grades 3-4

A Hatful of Dragons: And More Than 13.8 Billion Other Funny Poems Written by Vikram Madan
This is a quirky collection of poems are designed to be read aloud, with rhyme, meter, alliteration, and page turns all used quite effectively. The illustrations are also funny, as repeated characters create a bit of a search and find feel. The subtitle comes from a “Mad Libs” st‌yle page with 7 options for each of 12 blanks. What a great discussion piece as children are introduced to some fantastic language.

Max & the Midknights Written & Illustrated by Lincoln Peirce
In this lighthearted graphic novel hybrid, Max wants nothing more than to be a knight!  He soon gets his chance when his uncle Budrick is kidnapped by the cruel King Gastley. Joined by a band of brave adventurers—the Midknights—Max sets out on a thrilling quest to save Uncle Budrick and restore the realm of Byjovia to its former high spirits! If you love this one, check out the sequel, Battle of the Bodkins.

Grades 5-8

The Line Tender Written by Kate Allen
Summer in her hometown of Rockport, MA, changes drastically for Lucy when a local fisherman accidentally catches a great white shark. Suddenly, Lucy is confronted by images of her late mother, a marine biologist who specialized in sharks. This sends her on a journey of science and self-discovery. Since her father is always working, Lucy must navigate these strange waters with just her best friend Fred by her side. Lucy’s story is one of redemption, not just for her, but for those around her, especially the people whom she cares about the most. 

All Thirteen: The Incredible Cave Rescue of the Thai Boys’ Soccer Team Written by Christina Soontornvat

This fascinating account of the most ambitious cave rescue in history is great for kids who have graduated from the I Survived Series. Even though we know that the boys were rescued, the narrative is suspenseful and creates a book that is hard to put down. The attempts from international rescue teams, including US Navy Seals, are explained in great detail. There are photos, maps, sidebars, scientific explanations, and graphics to help understand what the boys were going through. Anyone who enjoys reading about how people can rise to heroism during times of crisis will find this book a good choice.

Keira Pride is the Head Librarian at Stratford School, the leading independent private school founded with a vision of creating a unique, multi-dimensional, educational foundation for children. As Stratford's Head Librarian, she manages the library services department across campuses throughout Northern and Southern California. 

In a typical year, Santa’s helpers can be found at malls, restaurants, and parks, happy to listen to your little ones Christmas lists and relay the message to the Big Guy, himself. But 2020 isn’t typical, and finding a Santa in Atlanta could be a little trickier than usual. The solution? Hire a Santa to head to your home, or park, or playground, and observe a socially distant visit with your elves. Keep reading for where to find a Santa for hire, below.

Santa Rick

Santa Rick is a Santa Claus for hire in metro Atlanta, as well as throughout Georgia and the Southeastern United States. Available for private parties, events, home visits, photos, parades, and even for special deliveries, you can count on Santa Rick to be just the jolly ole' elf you need this season.

Extra Nice: With any Santa Rick booking, you can also hire live reindeer (with or without sleigh), balloonists and face painters, Christmas carolers, a Santa chair or bench, and photographers (who can print “on the spot” souvenir photos, or provide digital downloads).

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Online: santarick.com

The Real Black Santa

The Real Black Santa

The Real Black Santa is taking virtual visits to a whole new level this holiday season, bringing Christmas cheer and joy to your family through the computer. Partnering with Jinglering, you can celebrate the Christmas season with The Real Black Santa safely in today's new norm.

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Online: therealblacksanta.com

Santa Willie

Santa Willie is a performing Santa for hire that will bring the spirit and excitement of the holiday season to any special event in your home or office. Santa Willie performs primarily in the East Cobb, North Atlanta area but will travel to locations in the Greater Atlanta and North Georgia area.

Extra Nice: In small group, home visits, Santa Willie does not require children to wear a mask; however, he has his favorite festive ones to don to keep everyone comfortable. He also disinfects his suit and brings extra pairs of gloves everywhere he goes. Be sure to talk to him about your Covid precaution needs, and he's happy to accomodate. 

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Online: santawilliega.com

Sugar Hill Santa

Santa Jeaux has a summer home in Sugar Hill, Georgia, so when he's. not at the North Pole it's easy to find him in the Atlanta metro area. At his home visits, children of all ages will be delighted with his Christmas stories, songs and a bit of Christmas magic. And won’t they be surprised and excited to find out that he knows their names, the names of their pets, school teachers and even their personal elves?!

Extra Nice: As part of a home visit, Santa Jeaux can be booked to eat dinner with the family, all the while spreading the joy of the season with the children. At the end of the meal, when mom says that she forgot to fix a dessert, Santa Jeaux can come to the rescue with the ingredients for making and decorating Christmas cookies with your children.

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Online: sugarhillsanta.com

St. Nick Express

St. Nick Express

At St. Nick Express, portraying Santa is a family tradition. This particular St. Nick learned the traditions of feeding reindeer, making toys and wrapping presents from his dad and uncle, who both also portrayed Santa. For families looking for authenticity, this Santa is also a member of the Order of Real Bearded Santas.

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Online: stnickexpress.com

Santa Martin

Santa Martin is available for home events, including cookies with Santa, breakfasts with Santa, and parties. He's also available for special "Sneak Peaks," where your kids can catch a glimpse of him placing their gifts under the tree.

Extra Nice: Add a special treat to your holiday event and include Mrs. Claus! She is such a big help to Santa and loves children of all ages. Mrs. Claus is also available without Santa for private bookings such as storytelling and photo shoots.

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Online: santamartin.com

Featured photo courtesy of iStock.

—Shelley Massey

 

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Get your taste buds ready! Once Upon a Farm has just launched its newest organic, cold-pressed, fruit and veggie blend.

Farmer Jen’s Sweet Potato Pie is now available exclusively on the Once Upon a Farm website. But wait! For every Farmer Jen’s Sweet Potato Pie pouch purchased, $0.25 will be donated to Save the Children (up to $50,000), a non-profit organization helping kids across rural America.

Farmer Jen’s Sweet Potato Pie is made with organic ingredients that are cold-pressed and blended to hold in flavor and nutrients. The pouch features sweet potatoes, coconut milk, sweet dates, vanilla and no added sugar.

Co-Founder and Chief Brand Officer, Jennifer Garner says, “This new recipe holds a special place in my heart, drawing inspiration from my Grandma Exie’s delicious sweet potato pie recipe and using sweet potatoes planted and harvested by my Uncle Robert on our family farm in Locust Grove. Taking it one more level of love, a portion of product sales will aid the incredible work Save the Children continues to do.”

You can purchase a specialty 12-pack of Farmer Jen’s Sweet Potato Pie and a Farmer Jen’s Sweet Potato Pie Variety Pack only at onceuponafarmorganics.com.

––Karly Wood

All photos: Courtesy of Once Upon a Farm

 

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Ready or not, here comes Clifford! The big red dog is coming to the big screens on September 17, along with beloved pal Emily Elizabeth, in a live action movie.

Paramount Pictures is giving us a first look at this larger than life pup with the drop of the official trailer. It’s rated PG and will be exclusively in theaters. Back to school season just got more fun!

 

Middle schooler Emily Elizabeth (Darby Camp) meets a magical animal rescuer (the one and only John Cleese) who gifts her a red puppy. But that puppy is about to turn into a giant ten-foot dog and fill the family’s small apartment in New York City. While Mom (Sienna Guillory) is away for business, Emily teams up with zany uncle Casey (Jake Whitehall) for an adventure in the Big Apple. Based on the beloved Scholastic book character, Clifford will teach the world how to love big!

—Jennifer Swartvagher

Featured photo: Paramount Pictures

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Thanksgiving this year may be missing Great Aunt Sue’s famous pumpkin pie and Uncle Joe’s flag football game, but some things will never change: a day to reflect and be grateful for everything we do have. Connect with your loved ones and give thanks—even if it is at a distance or virtually—with a Thanksgiving gathering. Evite has dozens of festive Thanksgiving invites perfect for your virtual party or intimate gathering. Whether you’re throwing a Friendsgiving or a traditional feast with all the Grandma-approved fixins’, Evite has an invitation perfect for the occasion. Scroll through for 10 of our favorites to get you in the spirit of the season.

It’s All Gravy

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Family Gathering

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Fall Party Thanksgiving Dinner

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Gold Leaf Giving Thanks

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Happy Thanksgiving Florals

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Give Thanks

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Cocktails and Leftovers

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Fall Treats Bake Sale

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Winner Winner Turkey Dinner

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Let’s Eat

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copy by Erin Lem; photos courtesy of Evite

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There’s been quite a bit of talk about death at our house lately. It hasn’t been prompted by anybody’s funeral—it’s just a natural rite of passage, part of growing up and realizing that, well, you’re alive. You keep having birthday parties every year, and your rudimentary math skills and interactions with great grandparents suggest that one day you’ll be very old like them, and very old people eventually die. Long gone are the days when you firmly believed that people lived to be 100 years old, and after that, they became babies again.

When I was the same age as my kids, around 9 or 10, I remember being freaked out by the same realizations. I went to my parents, as one does at that age, certain that they’d have all the answers. But my parents basically dismissed my fears, I guess in an effort to make me forget about them. They seemed almost amused that I was upset, which made me feel embarrassed. No reason for me to worry about that, death was part of life, they said, and that was that. So I did what most introverted kids would do—I sucked it up and didn’t mention it again, and tried to figure things out on my own.

My parents’ heart was in the right place, but their reaction did nothing to soothe my anxiety. Dealing with those fears at a young age isn’t easy, and I was determined that when I had kids, I would listen to them and help them sort things out. By that time, I figured, I would have all the answers, I would share my adult wisdom with my kids, and everything would be just fine.

Now that I’m an adult with children of my own, I don’t have as many answers as I’d like, but I have earned my humble share of wisdom. One of the things my kids have taught me is that, as much as we’d love for them to be happy all the time, they are people, not fragile figurines, living in the real world. It can be scary, but being honest with them is always a better route than dressing everything up with fairytales and marshmallows. My goal has always been for my children to never be embarrassed to come to me with questions or fears. Which is a wonderful goal when most of what you’ve had to deal with is along the lines of monsters under the bed, but one evening recently, as I was tucking my youngest into bed, he blurted this one out:

“Are dead people dead forever?”

We had been talking about The Beatles just a minute before, discussing why Ringo Starr chose to change his name from Richard Starsky. You don’t see these conversations coming, because children often jump from one thought to the next with a speed that I can’t match no matter how many cups of coffee I pour in the morning. So you don’t get that moment of, “ah, yes, let’s talk about that,” when you sit your kiddo on your lap and you launch into your well-thought-out speech, which is emotional but grounded, beyond soothing, and will comfort them for the rest of their lives.

No, it doesn’t go like that. Instead, you’re at the very edge of a twin bed, holding a dog-eared book on your lap. You are way more tired than he is. But that’s the thing about parenthood, you have to be on your toes and ready to go to bat at all times.

So you hold him close and you answer honestly — yes, dead people are dead forever. And that’s okay. What you need to know is that life is a gift. We can choose to complain and be unhappy, or we can make the most of our gift. Living is the only thing we know how to do. So I would say, let’s get really good at that. And let’s treasure the people we love, while we have them and long after they’re gone. Let’s honor them by learning from them, carrying their memories and lessons with us, and loving every minute of this awesome gift we have.

The worst thing we can do with tough conversations is to answer their questions by not answering them. Evasive, vague stories and niceties don’t work with children. They might not see right through you today, but they will eventually. If a child is asking if dead people are dead forever, telling her that we keep uncle Tony alive in our thoughts is only going to leave her confused. It might tie her over for a while, but the thing is, kids are people. Eventually, as we all do, they figure things out. And they value honesty. Meeting them at an age-appropriate level and being honest, reassuring, and kind is the best seed we can plant for our kids to confidently go on to find answers on their own.

“Is bisabuela gonna die soon?” asked my youngest about my 91-year-old grandmother. Again, this one comes completely out of nowhere, as we’re walking back from school. He had just been telling me about the bean and tomato dip they made in the classroom. It’s hard to know where to start when you’re caught off guard. When in doubt though, it always works to simply answer the question. So I told him that nobody knows when they’re going to die, but bisabuela will likely die in a few years as her health is not what it used to be. She’s one heck of a tough cookie though, so we get to enjoy her company for a while longer still. I told him I’m so happy that he gets to spend time with her, and that she absolutely loves it every time she sees him. He said he would be sad when she dies, and I said I would be sad too.

And with that, he was satisfied and moved on to lobbying for a snack as soon as we got home.

 

This post originally appeared on Medium.

Brooklynite transitioning to village life // Mom to two curious souls // Brand strategist + writer // Musing about donuts 60% of the time

   

Maybe it’s a cultural thing, but many families have different inclinations when it comes to nicknames at home. Parents call their children various names that range from the cute and funny to the ridiculously weird. And I think it’s okay. Parents have dibs on their children’s names and whatever they choose to christen them sticks for a very long time, at least until they start revolting.

Husbands and wives also have pet names for one another. Often, names they call each other could even be used to interpret the partner’s mood.

Honey

Boo

Bae

Babe

Those are good signs that everything is fair in the relationship. Sometimes, it’s a good sign that maybe there could be some action in a full moon. But when she starts using your first and last name in a single sentence and starts to sound like your mum? Then you know there’s trouble.

But, hey, the dynamic is expected. It’s predictable and traditional. There’s a minimal amount of pet names children can call their parents. For the most part, we have Daddy, Papa (Baba), Pops, Dad, and by his first name when the parent is a new step parent trying to gain the partner’s children’s endearment—at least that’s what I see in the movies. Then for the mothers, we have Mum, Mommy and Mama. There’s just some unspoken rule that the names don’t go beyond these.

But what happens when children start to break the rules? What happens when children begin calling parents Honey, Boo and…Babe. Yes, Babe! That’s my predicament and there seems to be no way around it. Let me give you some background, so you’ll understand why I feel it’s weird.

An Introduction to African Naming

It takes several years in the typical African family before children find out their parent’s real names. If you ever did find out their names, it was probably on some loose documents. I found out my parents’ names from their wedding invitation card I found lying among some old papers. I think I was around 11 years old at the time.

Here’s how it goes down in Yoruba Culture in Nigeria. From the moment you get married and start having kids, your entire identity centers around either the name of your first child or where you live. So, my elder brother’s name is Ayo. To every family member, especially the second generation, my parents were no longer Olufemi and Olaitan but were now called Daddy Ayo and Mummy Ayo respectively.

And that was the same for all my aunts and uncles. I never knew their first names. It was Mummy Ikeja, Mummy Ikorodu, Mummy Isolo, Daddy Moyo instead of their first names. I remember when I heard one of the elder cousins referring to my aunt, whom I had known for years as Mummy Temidayo by a different name. I was like, “Whoa, is that her first name?” So I thought, hey, Aunty Bose sounds way cooler than Mummy Temidayo, at least, it was less of a mouth full.

I received the lecture of a lifetime the day I tried calling her Aunty Bose. That’s when I knew there were rules behind the names and that the ruling nomenclature wasn’t by default. Then I knew that it was either Mummy Temidayo or Mummy Ikeja (Ikeja is where she lived). The only exception to this rule was when you knew the aunt or uncle before they married or started having children. Of course, in that case, the aunt or uncle didn’t have a child to steal their identity. Now let’s get into the bizarre stuff.

My Christening & the Pet Name that Won’t Go Away

My wife and my brother’s wife are quite close. For some reason, they both decided to call my elder brother and me the same pet name: Babe. My wife had decided earlier before we started having children that we weren’t going to follow tradition. That meant no changing our identities to prefixes of our first child’s name and no naming ourselves after a location. But with the use of a pet name, our children won’t still know our first names, which was cool.

It started with “Babe” to my wife and “Daddy” to my daughter. That seemed like a relatively simple and logical arrangement that didn’t seem to stray too far from tradition. But now it seemed the tables have turned and tradition has flipped on its head.

Now, I’ve become Babe to everyone! My daughter calls me Babe like it’s my first name.

“Babe! I need a snack!”

“Babe! Please, I’m hungry!”

I hear my brother is facing the same thing too. His son calls him Babe!

So do I sit her down and give her the same lecture I received years ago? Will being strict about what she calls me cause a strain in our relationship?

Well, she’s just six anyway. She’ll probably outgrow it, right?

Olugbenga is a Professional Writer focusing on Spirituality and Motivation. He writes actively on Medium Publications. He runs cloakoffire.com, where he writes on spirituality and olugbengawrites.com to offer professional writing services. When he is not writing, he plays house with his wife and two daughters, who all call him Babe.

Everyone knows that the best way to raise a child that likes to read is for the entire family to read. The child should see the parents reading, lots and often.

But that’s not the way it happened in my family. Oh, my folks could read; they just didn’t.

I never remember my father reading anything when I was a child. He got his news from the television. He might thumb through an issue of American Rifleman at the car wash. But he didn’t read books while we were kids.

(Later in life, when he was bedridden with bone cancer, a family friend who worked for the library would bring him bag after bag of Zane Grey and Max Brand and Louis L’Amour novels, which he devoured. But I digress.)

Despite the lack of reading that went on in the house, there was always plenty of stuff to read. Little Golden books and Bible stories at first. I learned to read at my mother’s side, as she read storybook after storybook to us girls. Although she didn’t read for herself, she read to us.

My sister read some. Every year she would start to read Under the Lilacs while sitting under the lilac bush, ironically, in our backyard. (I don’t know if she ever finished it.) When she reached the horse-mad stage, she read Black Beauty, My Friend Flicka, Misty of Chincoteague, and anything else equine-related she could get her hands on. Her reading tastes were largely satisfied with that.

I think the thing that turned me into the voracious reader I am today was not the example of my parents, but the sheer amount of literature that was available. Our parents purchased sets of children’s books. (I can’t remember what was in that series now besides Under the Lilacs and Uncle Remus Stories, which gave me fits with the dialect.) We had collections of Nancy Drew books and Tom Swift books.

My mother had a subscription to Reader’s Digest, but I don’t remember her reading it, or the Reader’s Digest Condensed Books that sat in fat rows on our bookshelves. When we weren’t making Christmas trees of the magazines by folding the pages, I read them and the Condensed Books. That’s where I acquired my taste for true adventure, I think. It’s not that big a leap from “Drama in Real Life” to Jon Krakauer’s Into Thin Air. I first discovered To Sir, With Love as an R.D. Condensed book, then devoured everything I could get my hands on about teaching, my career goal at the time.

We also made extensive use of the public libraries and the ever-awesome bookmobile, since my parents’ middle-class income couldn’t keep pace with my reading tastes. And there were used book stores, too, where I could swap a grocery bag full of books for another.

There was no way my parents could screen my reading matter, so they didn’t even try. I didn’t receive a very balanced reading education or a very sophisticated one. I read whatever interested me, from novelizations of The Man from U.N.C.L.E. to histories of Russia. I discovered Dr. Seuss and The Hobbit and Erma Bombeck. “Serious literature” I got from school, but love for reading came at home.

Having parents that read is a good thing, and no doubt it does help turn some children into reading mavens.

But if you ask me, letting a child explore reading at her own pace and through her own interests can be as effective as any planned course of literature or example of parents perusing the great books.

It worked for me.

This post originally appeared on butidigress.blog.

Hi! I'm a freelance writer and editor who writes about education, books, cats and other pets, bipolar disorder, and anything else that interests me. I live in Ohio with my husband and a varying number of cats.