After weeks at home, the days are starting to blur together. Abundant family time is beautiful and challenging. Can you relate?

I’m moving more slowly. No need to rush, no hurry. Life has become relatively simple. I’ve been doing plenty of rolling around on the floor with my 6-month-old. We listen to the birds, gaze at the trees, watch for butterflies. My mind wanders.

Part of me feels guilty. An inner voice admonishes, “Stop being lazy, you should be making progress, get back to doing (fill in the blank).”

“Shhh!” I respond to that nagging voice. “Be quiet, I’m daydreaming!”

I’ve learned from experience that this slowing down is valuable, it’s prime time for letting the dreams flow. This is where the magic happens. We have been gifted a mindfulness pause. We have an opportunity to go slower and explore our wild ideas; to visualize a new future. This unusual time may allow us to reconnect with our imaginations, individually and as families. Daydreamers aren’t limited by geographic restrictions, we can go anywhere!

“Logic will get you from A to B. Imagination will take you everywhere,” said Einstein.

Our family business began as a daydream over a decade ago. Just prior to rolling up our sleeves and building our jungle lodge, we embarked on a two-month kayaking adventure on Baja’s Sea of Cortez. My father, brother, and I spent 8-to-10 hours a day paddling on a journey of nearly 1000 miles of wilderness. Though our arms moved rhythmically and our bodies were confined to the kayaks, our minds were free to roam.

We had an abundance of family time. As we paddled hundreds of miles of pristine coastline, I unleashed my daydreams, opened to vast possibilities. I lost myself in the peaceful dance of the water currents and ripples. With each mile of coastline, our eco-lodge dream morphed. “Questions and answers shot through my head like arrows. Some hit the target, others missed by a mile. Bull’s-eyes were collected and safeguarded in my mind.” My brother became my devil’s advocate; poking holes in my wild ideas, ultimately making our shared vision stronger.

With this abundance of time at home, why not open our minds and teach our kids the power of daydreams? So many children are told to get their heads out the clouds. Now is an ideal time to rewire that thinking.

Why is it that daydreamers have gotten a bad rap, while visionaries are celebrated? Visionaries like Yvon Chouinard (Patagonia founder) or Steve Jobs (Apple co-founder) were daydreamers long before they took action. Einstein was a classic daydreamer, yet consider all that he achieved! Daydreaming is an essential prerequisite to action.

Let’s take this opportunity to pause, surrender to our daydreams, and see where they take us—as parents and as children. May the family daydreams flow! Be realistic (we are all beholden to the laws of gravity), but don’t hold back.

As we unleash our daydreams, may we have the strength and courage to embrace inevitable change, transition, and whatever comes next. We will boldly reach for the next trapeze bar of life.

“Sometimes, I feel that my life is a series of trapeze swings. I’m either hanging on to a trapeze bar swinging along or, for a few moments, I’m hurdling across space between the trapeze bars. Each time I am afraid I will miss, that I will be crushed on unseen rocks in the bottomless basin between the bars. But I do it anyway. I must. It can be terrifying. It can also be enlightening. Hurtling through the void, we just may learn to fly.” Danaan Parry

 

Known as “The Jungle Mama”, Tamara Jacobi is the author of Wildpreneurs:A Guide for Turning Passion into Business (HarperCollins Leadership, Feb. 2020) and founder of the Tailwind Jungle Lodge on the Mexican Pacific. Tamara is loving the adventure of motherhood! Her son Zephyr was born on Oct, 2019. 

Do you find yourself googling what a VSCO girl is or do your teenagers cringe when you don’t use “Yeet” correctly in a sentence? Then we have the resource for you. This past Christmas, 16-year-old, L.E. Acuff, daughter of author and speaker Jon Acuff, gifted her dad a handmade guide to all things social media.

Acuff Meme

“It is the most amazing thing ever,” Jon Acuff wrote in an Instagram post about the gift. “She spent weeks making this and each page is funnier than the last.”

While Jon Acuff received the guide a few months ago, he only recently shared his epic gift on Instagram. He wrote, “The table of contents includes phrases I should know, memes I should know and even a special note about TikTok.” She thought of everything, even including an “About the Author” page. 

Acuff Meme

L.E. Acuff created the guide to help her dad out with today’s popular slang and memes. She said that she wanted to make him a gift that was both useful as well as funny. She said, “Also, I felt like he needed to be educated on the current memes.”

One of the memes L.E. Acuff highlighted is the “Woman Yelling at a Cat” which features a screen capture of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills cast members Taylor Armstrong and Kyle Richards followed by a picture of a confused-looking cat sitting behind a dinner plate. This meme took off last June and still remains popular. 

If you need a refresher on the World Record Egg, JoJo Siwa or Peppa Pig, L.E. Acuff has you covered. Next to each topic, there is a detailed explanation.

Acuff Meme

L.E. Acuff tried to encompass memes that she felt were important and popular but also funny, such as the Area 51 memes. She liked that she could find so many high quality variations. 

As for Jon Acuff, one of his favorite memes is the video of the “Calm Down” lady simply because she has crazy eyes! 

—Jennifer Swartvagher

All photos courtesy of Jon Acuff

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Military kids learn to be resilient at an early age. Children who have a deployed parent may experience extra stress and anxiety. Thirteen-year-old Jayden Kirkpatrick, the son of a Marine Corps veteran, knew how it felt when his father was deployed so he wanted to help other military kids. 

When Jayden heard about the Daddy Doll Challenge he knew that he wanted to raise money to give back and help other children. Jayden’s first Daddy Doll was gifted to him on his first Christmas while his father was deployed to Iraq. While surrounded by family in Inidana on Christmas morning, there was a knock on the door. A box was delivered to Jayden containing his doll with a speaker. The message that played was Jayden’s dad saing, “I love you, Jayden.” Since then Jayden and his brother have had three Daddy Dolls. 

People from the community and local businesses have donated to Jayden, as well as many others from out of state. So far he has raised enough money to pay for 105 dolls and Daddy Dolls is matching his donation. 

—Jennifer Swartvagher  

Photos courtesy of Tiffany Kirkpatrick

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Great Wolf Lodge is celebrating a major milestone. The resort recently welcomed its 50 millionth guest!

So who made history as number 50 million? According to the resort, the Kavcak family from Harmony, New Jersey took the honors.

In celebration of this milestone, Great Wolf Lodge gifted the Kavcaks with 50 one-night stay vouchers—and one simple instruction. Instead of using the vouchers for themselves, the Kavcaks must share the free overnight stays with deserving individuals and families in their community.

Of the experience, Chris Kavcak said, “We were completely surprised to be named as the 50 Millionth guest family today at Great Wolf Lodge Poconos, and thrilled to be able to celebrate this event with the resort.” The lucky winner continued, “My wife and I have been bringing our three girls here for the last five years and have made amazing memories. We love the opportunity to pay it forward by gifting 50 stays to deserving members of our community so they can enjoy Great Wolf as much as we have over the years.”

Murray Hennessy, chief executive officer for Great Wolf Resorts, added, “We’re excited to not only celebrate our 50 millionth guest, but also to allow the Kavcak family an opportunity to pay their good fortune forward and share the Great Wolf experience with 50 deserving families.”

Along with the 50 free stay vouchers, Great Wolf Lodge is celebrating their 50 millionth guest with a special discount offer. Visitors to the resort can get up to 50 percent off standard rates for midweek stays through Mar. 5. 2020. To reserve your room at the special rate visit Great Wolf Lodge’s website or call 1-888-960-WOLF (9653) and book your suite by the end of the day on Jan. 25, 2020. Don’t forget to use the promo code 50MIL to get your discount!

—Erica Loop

Photos: Courtesy of Great Wolf Lodge

 

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Comedian and Instagram content creator, LGND, recently gifted his two-year-old daughter, Aria, a banana and things did not go as planned. In this now-viral video, we watch Aria unwrap the fruit, only to exclaim with absolute glee. Watch below. 

 

LGND captioned the clip, “I tried giving my daughter the worst X-mas gift ever and I didn’t expect this reaction.” So far, the video has garnered almost 750,000 views since it was posted. 

We simply can’t get enough of this sweet girl and the joy she exudes.

—Jennifer Swartvagher

Featured photo courtesy of Jill Wellington via Pexels

 

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Last year Ryan Reynolds was tricked into donning an ugly Christmas sweater by his pals Hugh Jackman and Jake Gyllenhaal. This year the actor and dad is putting it on once again, for a very good cause.

Reynolds shared a sweet animated video on Instagram with the caption, “The Sweater Returns! Merry Xmas and Happy Holidays.”

The short film retells the story of how Reynolds came to be tricked into wearing the ugly Christmas sweater. After which a title card reads, “Every holiday story deserves a magical ending.” The video then shows pediatric patients in the hospital wearing identical holiday sweaters, all gifted by Reynolds in hopes of spreading some holiday cheer.

If you’re hoping to gift some holiday magic of your own, you can buy the same sweater at TipsyElves.com.

—Shahrzad Warkentin

Featured photo: Ryan Reynolds via Instagram

 

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Do you count down the days until Hallmark’s holiday movies return for the season? If you’re already planning to curl up with a cozy blanket and the Hallmark Channel, why not get paid $1,000 while you’re at it?

CenturyLink wants to pay a lucky fan to spend 12 days watching 24 Hallmark holiday movies. All you have to do is complete a short questionnaire and upload a two to three-minute video showing off your joyful Christmas spirit. You also have to be somewhat social media savvy and be willing to share your movie marathon with your followers.

If you’re chosen for the dream job, you’ll be paid $1,000 to watch and critique Hallmark’s holiday movies for 12 days. You’ll post on Facebook, Instagram or Twitter each time you watch a movie with the hashtags #CountdowntoChristmas and #HallmarkDreamJob.

The winner will also be gifted with a Hallmark movie watching kit, which includes a streaming service subscription, packet of hot cocoa, box of Christmas cookies, string of fairy lights, mini Christmas tree and plenty of Hallmark swag. Get started by completing the application here. The application period is open now until Dec. 6.

—Shahrzad Warkentin

Featured photo: Hallmark Channel via Instagram

 

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To some parents, the signs are obvious: falling grades, incomplete homework, and anxiety before tests can send a loud, clear signal that your child could use an extra push from a tutor.

Oftentimes, however, the need for a tutor may not be as apparent. Students with good grades, who are bright and curious and who excel at certain subjects may not seem like obvious candidates. But the reality is that kids of all interests, abilities, and academic performance levels can benefit from tutoring —not just those who are struggling.

Here are three unlikely students who may be able to take learning to a new level with the help of a tutor.

1. The Perfectionist: “Exceptional.” “Smart.” “Quick to learn.” Any parent would swell with pride to hear a teacher apply these words to their child. But although the early elementary school years may breeze by for superstar students, parents may notice concerning behaviors start to emerge later on. Kids who are praised for being “smart” and who are used to succeeding easily may come to interpret “smart” as being able to do things without effort. Over the years, perfectionist students begin to shy away from subjects that challenge them. Such students come to see mistakes as something to be ashamed of rather than a valuable chance to learn. Instead of pushing themselves to do better, perfectionists may start dismissing themselves as “just bad at science” or “too uncoordinated” for sports.

How can tutoring help your “perfectionist” child? One of the most valuable, long-term benefits tutoring can inspire in a child is a “growth mindset” — the recognition that you can improve your abilities if you set your mind to it. It is important to introduce this concept to your kid at an early age, so they learn to grow and stops comparing their academic success to others. Through tutoring, your student can discover that growth is possible and take charge of their own learning.

2. The “Gifted” Child: Is your student observant, curious, or prone to intense interests? Do they spend hours on a new hobby and think or talk of nothing else? Does your youngster bombard you with questions about the number of orca whales in Florida or why there are so many different languages in the world? Does she notice things that other children or even you yourself may overlook? If you answered “yes” to any of these questions, you might have a gifted child on your hands.

Gifted children can benefit from tutoring in a couple of ways. Bright and curious kids may not feel challenged by the curriculum supplied in schools. Not only can tutors provide more stimulating material, but they can help boost self-esteem by allowing students to flex their strengths. And for children with an interest or talent in a specific subject—such as art, music, or robotics—tutoring can help them channel their curiosity and build skills in that area.

3. The Underperformer: This can be a tricky child to recognize. Underperformers might earn good grades and appear to be functional students on the surface. However, underperforming kids may be coasting by without reaching their potential. Instead of challenging themselves, these students tend to do the minimum amount of work while avoiding participation, extra credit, or leadership opportunities.

If you suspect your kid may be an underperformer, tutoring can motivate your child by helping them set active goals. A tutor can help incorporate your student’s interests into a subject and encourage them to engage with and analyze the material they’re learning—as opposed to merely memorizing facts. In addition, a tutor can help identify and address distractions that could be contributing to underperformance.

Of course, these are only a handful of the many types of learners that may excel with the help of a tutor. Tutoring not only helps to boost grades and improve test scores, but it allows youngsters to build effective work habits, hone social and behavioral skills and practice self-paced, self-directed learning. And, perhaps most important of all, tutoring helps students develop a growth mindset: the confidence that they have the power to improve their abilities through hard work and determination.

Alexia Mezzini is the co-founder and COO of My Tutor Lab, an education technology company that connects students with verified tutors for one-on-one private sessions. Alexia is a highly sought-after speaker on topics of the supplemental education industry and building upon students’ tremendous knowledge and skills.

The economy is looking pretty good… if you happen to be a kid. A new study reveals that kids allowance is increasing at a faster rate than wages in America.

A recent survey conducted by The Harris Poll on behalf of the American Institute of CPAs (AICPA) polled 1,002 U.S. adults on the subject of kids’ allowance. What exactly did it find?

The survey found that kids are taking in an average of $30 per week, which adds up to $1,500 a year. The average rate for hourly chores is $6.11, up 38 percent from 2016. Meanwhile, the average hourly pay rate for all Americans increased by just 10.5 percent ($25.43 in 2016 vs. $28.11 in 2019) according to the Bureau of Labor Statistics.

More than 4 in 5 Americans believe kids should receive an allowance, with 52 percent agreeing that every cent should be earned and linked to chores. While a quarter (27 percent) believes it should be partially earned and partially gifted. Two-thirds of American parents give their kids an allowance of some sort, while 75 percent said the most important purpose of providing an allowance to kids is to teach them about the value of money and financial responsibility. Unfortunately, the survey found that allowance money is rarely saved.

photo: Rawpixel via Pexels 

Luckily the AICPA has some advice for parents looking to teach their kids about the importance of savings. “Rather than giving your child money to spend freely, consider an allocation process that rewards them for both short- and long-term thinking. Encourage them to set aside a percentage of the money they earn each week for certain spending categories like outings with friends, short-term savings, and long-term savings such as a college fund. Encourage even more savings by offering to match their long-term savings stockpile dollar for dollar,” says David Almonte, CPA member of the AICPA Financial Literacy Commission.

It’s important to have an open dialogue with your kids about money as well. The more often you engage your kids in financial discussions, the more likely they are to learn.

“Let your child set their own goals and help guide them towards them. Along the way, teach the principles of saving and budgeting. If a new game console is on their want list, show them how to calculate the amount that needs to be saved each week to reach that goal. For instance, if they receive $30 a week, but want a $240 gaming system, remind them that their goal equals eight weeks of allowance. Then, if there is temptation to splurge on a spontaneous item, like candy in the check-out aisle, ask whether it fits into their budget. This will help teach how skipping short-term wants can help them reach their long-term goals,” advises Monica Sonnier, CPA member of the AICPA Financial Literacy Commission.

—Shahrzad Warkentin

 

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In just two short years Target has managed to roll out Drive Up service in all 50 states, making those shopping trips so much easier for moms across the country.

Whether you have a baby that just fell asleep in the car or you simply want to avoid hours perusing the toy aisle with your toddler, the ability to pull up to Target and get everything you need without ever leaving the car is nothing short of a miracle. In the two years since Target Drive Up service was first announced the company has managed to add the feature to nearly 1,750 stores in 50 states.

photo: Courtesy of Target

“We’ve heard the message loud and clear from our guests: They absolutely love the ease and convenience of Drive Up, whether they’re shopping for household essentials, road trip snacks or baby gear,” says Dawn Block, senior vice president, digital. “So our team has worked hard to rapidly expand the service since its introduction less than two years ago to all 50 states. And the work’s not done. The team’s continuing to find ways to make the service even better.”

If you haven’t had a chance to try Target Drive Up yet, it’s a complete shopping game changer. All you have to do is shop for items in the Target app and select Drive Up at checkout. The app will notify you when your order is ready, usually no more than an hour later. Then you can pull up to your local Target and have everything delivered to your car. Occasionally you might even be gifted with some free samples when you pick up your order. Talk about a win-win.

—Shahrzad Warkentin

 

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