You won’t need your wallet with so many free activites for the whole family

Fun, kid-friendly activities for Seattle families don’t have to break the bank. And since we’re all trying to save a bit of money these days, being frugal with kids’ activities can help. Earn your adulting star today when you head to one of these places to get your play on with the kids. From play areas to petting farms to story times (almost) every day of the week, we’ve mapped out our favorite free things to do in Seattle for families.

1. Read Our Lips: Free Story Times

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Sit back and enjoy a good story at one of the many free storytimes around the city. The King County Library System offers an array of storytimes for every age and in different languages so all families can fall in love with a good book.

Families can also look beyond the library for storytimes. Head to Island Books on Mercer Island to enjoy Saturday storytime with Nancy Stewart, or check out the storytimes at your local Barnes and Noble. Add a little drama to your storytime at the Frye Art Museum’s Small Frye: Storytelling + Art, held on first Wednesdays. There’s also Inclusive & Cultural Storytime on the first Saturdays at the Highline Heritage Museum in Burien.

Remember that many children’s museums also host storytime as part of their programming. If you’ve got a membership, you can add them to your list of free things to do in Seattle. Storytimes are held daily at Seattle Children’s Museum, except Tuesday when they’re closed. But that’s okay because there’s storytime on Tuesday mornings at KidsQuest.

Related: 7 Great Indie Bookstores for Pint-Sized Bookworms

2. Get Outside

Speaking of storytime, families can also get outside and get reading when they check out the latest Pop-Up StoryWalk installation along a trail or at a nearby park. If one isn’t installed, you can still take the kids on a hike at one of our favorite city trails. The trails at Discovery Park, Seward Park, and the UW Arboretum never get old, and neither does a trip out to Maple Valley to check out the Gnomes Trail. If you’ve got a Discover Pass, you can chase waterfalls near Seattle with the kids pretty much all year long.

Even if you don’t, you can hike with a Park Ranger on the Eastside. The City of Bellevue offers free ranger programs at Lewis Creek, Mercer Slough, and Lake Hills Greenbelt multiple times monthly. While programs vary and require pre-registration, they’re all family-friendly and are a great excuse to get the kids outside.

Not so into hiking? Try a family bike ride.

3. Free Indoor Playgrounds

If you have a kid under five, you’ve logged a few hours at one of the many Seattle Community Centers drop-in play areas. But did you know you can get the crazies out for free any day of the week? That’s right. The community center drop-in programs are free with a Quick Card (register during your first visit) and are open for play with limited hours, Monday through Friday. Are you looking for a weekend option? Try Green Lake’s playroom—it’s open on Saturdays in the winter.

new free toddler play gym opened at Salvation Army Seattle White Center Community Center. Drop in for playtime Monday through Friday from 3:30 p.m. to 5 p.m. with your kids (ages 2-6) to enjoy toys, mats, and slides.

You can also take to the mall and pair a little shopping with your play experience. With the Kids Cove in Bellevue Square, the covered play area at U-Village, and the free kids play area at Westfield Southcenter, shopping malls are about more than just spending money these days. Although it’s not a playspace, Crossroads Mall’s Music on the Market Stage is free entertainment for the family that runs each weekend.

4. Visit The Center for Wooden Boats

This museum, dedicated to preserving and documenting maritime history, might be a frugal parent’s best friend. Kids love wandering the docks, getting up close and personal with tugboats, canoes, and sailboats (not to mention the seaplanes taking off nearby). If you can plan ahead, consider signing up for a free peapod boat rental on Wednesdays through Sundays. Or stop by on the second or fourth Thursdays for Tugboat Story Time at the floating Boathouse (be sure to check the events calendar to verify tugboat story time is running that week).

The warmer months offer even more free things to do in Seattle at the Center for Wooden Boats. On the first Thursday of the month, take advantage of the free Toy Boat Building at South Lake Union and Cama Beach on Saturdays. On weekends and first Thursdays beginning in June, the Center for Wooden Boats brings out ten beautifully crafted wooden boats for passers-by to test on the South Lake Union Boat Pond from 11 a.m.-2 p.m. ($5 suggested donation). Race them, time ’em, let them float leisurely along. Any way your littlest mate plays will be time well spent on the water.

The spray park at Lake Union Park is another fantastic and free way to spend a sunny day here. Pack a swimsuit and sunscreen during summer for this added maritime adventure. Remember that nearby MOHAI is always free for kids under 14, and the Kid-Struction Zone is open.

5. Sit & Sip at Kid-Friendly Coffee Shops

Hot coffee or tea and comfy spaces where kids can play make for a perfect outing any day of the week. From Sip and Ship in Ballard and Greenwood to Ballard Firehouse Coffee to Kaffeeklatch in Lake City and Third Place Commons in Lake Forest Park, there are a plethora of indoor havens that will keep parents and kids happy, all for the price of a cuppa Joe. Popular Eastside spots like mom-owned Bellden Cafe, the Issaquah Coffee Company, Coffeeholic Houseand Mercurys Coffee Co.’s spacious (and busy) locations offer the same.

6. See a Kindiependent Concert

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If there’s one thing toddlers can’t get enough of, it’s a chance to bust a move. That’s why we’re adding Mount Baker’s Kindiependent Kids Rock Series to our favorite free things to do in Seattle with kids. You can get tickets to see one of the coolest kindie rockers around for just $5 a person. Concerts run through April 1, 2023 for the current series.

7. Visit Animals

If Old McDonald is one of the songs in your musical repertoire these days, a trip to Kelsey Creek Farm in Bellevue is an absolute must. Kids love visiting with the cows, horses, bunnies, chickens, sheep, pigs, and more at this fabulous (free) farm in the heart of Bellevue. Families can also explore the walking trails that wind through the park, over the creek, and by the pastures. Bring a lunch to enjoy if it’s a dry day, and be sure to hit the playground when you’re there too.

But that’s not the only place to find furry and feathery friends that are always a safe bet for a fun day out with toddlers. There are lots of other places that don’t require you to drop any money to get your animal fix. Visit the horses at Woodinville stables, meet the resident animals at Farrel-McWhirter Farm Park if you’re on the Eastside. In the city you can look for ducks and turtles at Golden Gardens Park in the little pond by the bridge, grab a pair of binoculars and head to Discovery Park to look for more than 270 species of birds, or even stop by your neighborhood pet shop.

Related: 14 Wildly Fun Animal Farms & Petting Zoos to Visit Now

8. Explore Seattle Center

There’s a reason the Seattle Center is one of the top visitor destinations—it’s a blast! And you don’t have to spend a dime to keep the kids engaged. Let them wander around the sculpture garden, create cool sounds at the Sonic Bloom solar-powered art installation, run around the fountain (or jump in when it’s warm enough), play at the always-fun Artists at Play playground, and emote on the stage. 

Time your visit with a free Festál program, and you’ve got your day planned. And if you’ve got a membership to either Seattle Children’s Museum, MoPOP, or PacSci, that’s yet another option for free playtime in the heart of the city. The Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation Discovery Center is just a hop, skip, and jump away. Admission is always free, Tuesdays through Saturdays, during regular hours. You can even hop on the monorail (it’s just a few bucks for adults, and kids under 5 are free) to see Seattle from above.

Related: Your Guide to a Kid-Friendly Seattle Center

9. Hit a Local Park or Playground

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Never underestimate the power of a playground when you need an impromptu, free kid-friendly activity in the city. In fact, it’s one of the best free things to do in Seattle with kids, year-round, thanks to our mild climate. Seattle kids and families know how to handle the rain (hello, Muddy Buddy and a change of clothes for the car), so even during the wettest months, this is a trusted go-to activity.

Related: Your Guide to Seattle’s Best Playgrounds & Parks

10. Spend Time at a Museum

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Museums and toddlers can be hit or miss, so it’s hard to cough up admission fees for kids when a melt down and early exit are a distinct possibility. Fortunately, we’ve found some great museums that offer times for free admission for kids and have places toddlers can play and explore. Enjoy Free First Thursdays at these area favorites:

You can also score free museum passes (yes, we said free) through The Seattle Public Library and King County Library to some of our favorite places including: KidsQuest Children’s Museum, Seattle Aquarium, MoPOP, Wing Luke Museum, National Nordic Museum, Woodland Park Zoo, and more. These tickets require reservations in advance and they go quickly.

If you’re south of the city or are up for a drive, remember the Children’s Museum of Tacoma is always pay-as-you-will admission, and the Washington State History Museum offers free admission on the third Thursday of the month from 3 p.m.-8 p.m.

Related: The Ultimate Guide to Seattle’s Free (& Discounted) Museum Days

11. Visit a Lighthouse

The beaches around the Burrows Island Light Station offer a unique rocky landscape, which adds to the overall charm and attractiveness of the area. Families can enjoy the scenic views and experience the natural beauty of the surroundings. While the lighthouse may be closed to visitors during renovations, the Burrows Island Light Station grounds are open daily. Your crew can still explore and appreciate the outbuildings, adding to the overall experience of the visit.

Point Wilson Lighthouse is one of the iconic landmarks in Fort Worden State Park, situated just 60 miles northwest of Seattle, making it a perfect spot for a day trip. To gain access to this magnificent sight, bring your Washington State Discover Pass. The pass allows you to explore the lighthouse and the vast 432-acre park surrounding it. Point Wilson Lighthouse is particularly intriguing because its fully automated system allows it to operate seamlessly without a full-time operator.

Preschool is a big moment for toddlers and parents alike. It’s either the first time little ones are venturing from the nurturing confines of home, or you’re gearing up for the big transition from daycare.

As parents, this makes choosing a preschool paramount. From the school environment and education philosophy to the curriculum, teachers, and staff, there’s a lot to consider when touring facilities.

To help guide you as you’re scoping out the hallways, we’ve turned to the experts at Bright Horizons, a leading global provider of early education and preschool centers for over 30 years, for the top questions to ask when making the decision for your family.

Get ready to screenshot this list and take some notes!

1. How does your curriculum differ from other preschools?

Preschool can be a great launching pad for kindergarten, helping your little learner grow as a whole (cognitively, socially, and emotionally). As every school fosters a different educational philosophy, it’s important to investigate the curriculum to ensure it’s balanced to your educational standards. For example, a well-rounded program incorporates early math skills, literacy, language development, creative expression, music, and playtime.

2. What qualifications are required for all teachers and staff?

A school’s teaching staff is key in your child’s educational success. Ask if teachers (and substitutes) are required to receive training hours in the curriculum taught. Is there a minimum level of education required for teachers? Is there a trained nurse on staff? At Bright Horizons, teachers are encouraged to not only further their own education, but to also stay current on effective education techniques.

3. What’s your student-to-teacher ratio, and classroom size?

Smaller class sizes and a low student-to-teacher ratio (a.k.a. the number of students per teacher) can make all the difference in your child’s development. The lower the number, the more individualized attention your preschooler will receive on a daily basis.

4. What are your parental involvement and communication policies?

The saying that it takes a village extends well into the realm of education. Teachers and staff who encourage parental involvement, provide regular updates, host parent-teacher conferences, and allow opportunities for participation in school activities can set one preschool apart from the next. Toss in parental resources, like webinars, podcasts, and articles, as Bright Horizons recommends, and you’ve landed yourself a winner.

5. What is your approach to outdoor playtime?

There’s no denying that little ones love playtime, and fortunately, their desire for outdoor exploration actually aids in their development. As you tour preschools, assess how they incorporate outdoor play into their daily routine, and check out their outdoor spaces to see if it allows for exploration and connection to the great outdoors in a fun and safe environment.

6. Is potty training a requirement in order to enroll?

If your tot is in the process of potty training or will be during the preschool years, it’s crucial to understand the school’s policies. Some schools require children to be fully potty trained before enrollment, while others may offer support and flexibility during this milestone. Are they set up to be your partner in potty training?

7. What health, safety, and security protocols do you have set in place?

When considering schools, your child’s overall well-being is of the utmost importance. Inquire about health, hygiene, safety, and security protocols, as well as procedures for allergies, illnesses, and emergencies. Is there someone on staff trained to use an EpiPen, if needed? Is it equipped with updated equipment and resources? Are there regular security drills and training sessions for staff? Is there controlled access to the premises, and proper fencing?

Ultimately, take the time to visit in person and ask all of these questions (and then some!). And for a headstart on preschool centers that check off all the boxes, turn to brighthorizons.com. The best time to learn more about their early preschool programs is now, as they are currently open for fall enrollment!

You’ll get the sand beneath your toes and the slides they love so much

San Diego is home to some of the most breathtaking beaches in the country, so it makes sense that they would also have some of finest beachside parks too. These picturesque play spots deliver serene coastal views, cool ocean breezes, and maybe even some whale or dolphin spotting if you’re lucky. We’ve rounded up seven of our favorite beachside parks perfect for your next play date hang.

Kellogg Park

Right near the boardwalk in the heart of La Jolla Shores, you’ll find beautiful Kellogg Park. With a large grassy area that’s perfect for a game of frisbee or an afternoon picnic, as well as a top-notch playground, it’s one of our absolute must-dos in the city. The “Respect the Ocean” themed playground features a rubber surface system offering more support for tiny feet. There are also tons of swings and interesting structures to climb. During your visit, make sure to check out the life-size bronze statue of a baby gray whale that’s a perfect size for little explorers to climb. The family-friendly space has plenty of restrooms and showers if you fancy dipping your feet into the ocean, and the parking lot is open until 10 p.m.

Insider’s Tip: This park gets busy on weekends so make sure to arrive early if you want to claim some prime picnic space on the grass. Also, one block away on Avenida de la Playa, families can find a variety of cafés, shops, and sports rentals, as well as the Birch Aquarium just up the hill.

Kellogg Park
8200 Camino Del Oro
La Jolla

Fletcher Cove Park
Perched high above the Pacific in Solana Beach, popular Fletcher Cover Park reopened its playground this summer after a $400,000 refurbishment. Improvements to the playground include a new shaded structure to keep kiddos cool, a blue rubberized surface with a whimsical whale design, as well as new play equipment like a slide, monkey bars, swing set, ADA-accessible disc net climber, and stationary boogie board. The playground was purposely designed to accommodate a wider range of age groups and features new activities like a mini clubhouse and sensory panels for the under-5 set. If you have a basketball player in the family, they’ll also dig the new half-court that’s been completely resurfaced and leveled up with a new hoop and backboard. There are also restroom facilities on site, a free parking lot, and plenty of street parking.

Fletcher Cove Park
111 S. Sierra Ave.
Solana Beach

Tidelands Park
With scenic views of San Diego Bay and the Coronado Bridge, Tidelands Park has 22 acres of amenities to keep littles entertained all day long. There is an inclusive playground designed for kids of all abilities, four baseball fields, exercise stations, a fishing pier, picnic areas, paths for rollerblading, breathtaking art installations, and a bike strand that extends from Silver Strand to Old Ferry Landing. Plus, there is a small sandy beach if kiddos get the itch to create a sandcastle masterpiece. Facilities are plenty as well with a large parking lot and plenty of restrooms.

Insider’s Tip: If you take follow the bike path to Old Ferry Landing, you can grab a bite to eat at one of many restaurants in the area or catch the ferry to San Diego—bring your bike aboard for no extra charge!

Tidelands Park
2000 Mullinex Dr.
Coronado

Powerhouse Park
If you’re looking for stunning views of the sea and updated playground equipment, Powerhouse Park should be on your list. Recently renovated, the park features an ocean-themed playground with instruments to bang on, plenty of swings, a great climbing structure, and a sand play area. There’s also plenty of grass for a rousing game of tag and some swell walking trails to explore. And the cherry on top is not only is there a beautiful view of the ocean, but kiddos get an amazing view of the train whenever it passes by. Win-win!

Insider’s Tip: Mornings are best to avoid the crowds and be sure to bring an extra change of clothes and a towel since kids will get messy playing in the sand. Also, pay attention to street parking signs—some spots are free for two hours, but there are metered spots available as well.

Powerhouse Park
1658 Coast Blvd.
Del Mar

Port of San Diego

Spanish Landing Park
Spanish Landing Park gives families a dose of San Diego history along with beautiful views the marina. This very spot held the meeting of the 1769 Gaspar DePortola and Father Junípero Serra expeditions. So after you’ve Googled all of that and impressed the fam with your knowledge, you all can enjoy the groovy playground on the west side of the park, a sandy beach, interesting art displays, and plenty of picnic tables for a delightful afternoon meal together.

Spanish Landing Park
3900 N. Harbor Dr.
San Diego

Moonlight Beach
Located in a magical part of Encinitas right on the ocean is Moonlight Beach. This family-friendly beach has waves that are perfect for surfing and boogie boarding, as well as a great beach-themed (and shaded) playground just steps from the sand. The bright blue and gold structure features a climbable surfboard, slides and tons of other fun nooks and crannies to explore. Next to the playground is a large grassy area that has picnic tables when your hungry brood is ready for a snack.

Moonlight Beach
400 B. St.
Encinitas

Tyson Street Park
Easy walking distance from the pier, Tyson Street Park features a playground that’s just about as close to the water as you can be without getting wet. There’s a jungle gym with views of the Pacific, a large grassy area to run and play, and lots of picnic tables and restrooms. If your kiddos are begging to take a dip after they check out the playground, the summer months are a great time to do it since they close the water to surfers during the season, making it ideal for swimmers and waders.

Insider’s Tip: The park and beach are accessible via the stairs on Pacific St. where there is plentiful metered parking.

Tyson Street Park
121 S. Pacific St.
Oceanside

Do they do what they claim to do?

No matter how old you are, nobody is immune to those pesky mosquitoes, especially during the summertime. Whether outside by a campfire or in the backyard by the slip-n-slide, you or your kiddo have likely gotten a mosquito bite or three. If that sounds familiar, you might be looking for preventative measures to stop a bite before it happens or soothe an already itchy bite. Enter mosquito patches.

Most mosquito patches use well-known bug repellent ingredients to keep bugs like mosquitoes away—think citronella oil, lemongrass oil, peppermint oil, and geraniol. However, some mosquito patches also relieve bites once they’ve happened to minimize that annoying itch sensation.

As someone with sweet blood, I probably get 50 mosquito bites each year by simply going outside. I’m also the type of person who will scratch the heck out of them until they bleed (I know, it’s bad), but they are just so dang itchy sometimes. With that said, despite using insect repellent spray and bracelets, I’ve continued to get bit over the years, which is why I’ve decided to try patches this year.

I went on Amazon and purchased four different mosquito patches to see how they worked and whether or not they helped prevent these bothersome bites and soothe my already itchy ones.

BuzzPatch Mosquito Patch Stickers

To start my mosquito patch journey, I got my hands (or, shall I say, skin) on these colorful repellent stickers. The pack came with 60 vibrant stickers (10 sheets) with citronella oil and different funny faces to make them look more inviting. Although branded towards children, I had no problem using them as an adult since mosquitoes don’t discriminate.

As instructed on the packaging, I put these mosquito patches on my clothes before I went outside. I liked how I didn’t have to place it directly on my already sensitive skin, so extra brownie points were earned there. Plus, the instructions said they would last up to eight hours once applied, and sealed patches could be used for up to six months, so I appreciated their longevity.

Now onto the results: I didn’t get bit while wearing these stickers which was a bonus, but I did see countless mosquitoes flying around nearby. Essentially it got the job done, but I still had to swap some flies out of my general area. Personally, the scent of these stickers was a bit much for me as I’m sensitive to smell. If you’re looking at these for your kiddo, make sure they won’t be uncomfortable with the fragrance while in use.

Overall, for $15, I think this is a pretty solid choice for mosquito patches because they are comfortable, effective, and kid-friendly.

Cliganic Mosquito Repellent Stickers

Cliganic mosquito patches

The next time I braced myself to go in the great outdoors, I tried these essential oil-infused mosquito repellent patches. I placed a few on my clothes next to exposed areas of my body and let them do their magic.

I liked the circular shape of these patches and the fun images on each of them. They didn’t necessarily blend in with my clothes, but frankly, if it kept the bugs away, I didn’t care.

I found that peppermint oil and citronella oil did a great job of keeping the mosquitos away. As someone sensitive to smell, I appreciated how they were fragrant enough to be effective but not too much that I’d get nauseous.

With that said, this pack of 90 stickers costs $10, making it a steal. Adults can get 10-15 uses out of each pack and roughly 20-25 for children, so it’s worth the money.

Mosquito Guard 60-Pack Mosquito Repellent Stickers

This pack fell short of the rest with its overly plain and boring design. I mean, it was good when I had to wear them to a work engagement, but otherwise, they were pretty lifeless.

As advised on the packaging, I put these on my clothing near the exposed areas of my body. Unfortunately, I still got bit. Now, I can’t necessarily say the patch is at fault because, at the end of the day, there could be several reasons why I got bit. Although it was just two bites, it was still more than I got using the other two mosquito patches putting these towards the bottom of the list.

Plus, the smell of these stickers was very strong. I couldn’t keep it near my short sleeves because the smell was too pungent. Thinking back, I wish I placed these on my socks by my ankles to prevent bites down below.

Although they weren’t too pricey at $12, I was still disappointed with my purchase since they weren’t as effective as I hoped.

Quitch Bug Bite Itch Relief Patch

Quitch mosquito patches

Unlike the mosquito patches above, these were designed to be placed directly on the bites after they occurred. For the sake of this story, it was good I got bit while wearing the other patches because I put these to the test.

I placed the patches directly over my bites and noticed a significant relief in the itch and discomfort in minutes. According to the packaging, the stickers apply pressure to reduce the appearance of swelling, while the aloe and witch hazel soothes and relieves discomfort.

Roughly after 10 minutes of putting on the patch, I didn’t have that uncontrollable urge to scratch my skin off. My favorite part was that they didn’t irritate my skin when putting them on and taking them off.

Overall Thoughts on Mosquito Patches

These mosquito patches were pretty effective in preventing bites and soothing pre-existing bites. I think they are easier than bug spray, which doesn’t tend to get the job done as well and can get super sticky.

With that said, it’s important to read each package for guidance on how many stickers to use as they vary based on age, height, and placement.

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Have you ever had a “Bob Ross” painting night with your partner?

We get it, staying home for date night isn’t quite the same as calling a sitter and leaving the house. But just because you aren’t able to paint the town red doesn’t mean you can’t have a meaningful connection right at home. Whether you’re feeling competitive or creative, bookish or culinary, we’ve rounded up a list of at-home date night ideas that’ll inspire conversation, camaraderie, and maybe even a dance party or two. 

Have a Game Night

Probably one of the easiest at-home date night ideas to pull off, bust out an old favorite (because before Words With Friends, there was Scrabble) or raid the playroom and find out what all the fuss over Mouse Trap and Hungry Hungry Hippo is about. But don’t have too much fun—the kids are sleeping!

Have a Fancy Drink Challenge

Bring out your inner mixologist and crowd the kitchen counter with mixed drink ingredients. Challenge one another to see who can make the most creatively delicious martini. If you’re not feeling experimental, order some wine delivery and set up your tasting flight. Discuss your favorites and round it out with some cheese or chocolate pairings. 

Make a Bucket List

With a sheet of paper, a pen, and zero restraint, let yourselves dream big about your personal, couple, and family goals. Where do you want to go? What do you want to do or experience? Fill out the page and worry about reality later.

Organize a Bob Ross Painting Night

A quick search for “Bob Ross painting” on YouTube will land you classic episodes like “Secluded Bridge,” “Island in the Wilderness,” or “Lonely Retreat.” Set the scene at home with easels (or your dining room table), big sheets of watercolor paper (or those 8.5x11s from your printer), and all the paint and brushes you can find. Paint happy little trees in the comfortable quiet of one another, and frame the results (or stick them on the fridge). 

Set Up for a Dance Party

If your kiddos haven’t taken to ’80s pop as fervently as you’d like, stick a towel under their door, crank up the speakers, and pretend you’re at your cousin’s wedding with that amazing DJ who coaxed the Running Man and the Sprinkler out of your partner. If you’re in the mood, dress the part and put on your wedding guest finery—but leave your heels in the closet.

Related: The Best Date Night Movies Coming to Theaters in 2023

Plan a Cooking Class for Two

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Find a recipe on your favorite cooking blog that you’ve both been meaning to try, or do some sleuthing and attempt to replicate that dish from your favorite dinner spot. Used to eating a full meal with your kiddos before the sun even goes down? Aim for dessert instead, and try something that uses a fun tool (you know you want to caramelize something with a blowtorch) or a new-to-you ingredient.

Play 20 Questions

A quick Google search will lead you to lists upon lists of “questions for couples.” If you plan, you can also find decks of conversation-starter cards on Amazon or your favorite bookstore. Discover unexpected commonalities or differences, gain some new perspective on your spouse’s childhood, or imagine what you’d do if you both quit your jobs. We guarantee the dialogue won’t be dull.

Bookstore at Home

Plan by purchasing a decent stack of magazines and taking out those coffee table books you only bought for the covers. With matching mugs of hot chocolate, coffee, or tea and your favorite coffee shop tunes, you can recreate those “bookstore perusing” dates that aren’t the easiest with tykes in tow.

Scrapbook Assembly Line

This at-home date night idea also calls for advance notice: print out all your favorite photos from your last anniversary trip or that big family summer vacation or take a stroll down memory lane with images from your dating years. Make it as elaborate or simple as you want with photo mounting squares, patterned paper, captions, or themed stickers, and enjoy each other’s company as you relive your adventures and admit that cutting and gluing aren’t just for preschool.

Related: 16 Date Night Ideas for Busy Parents (Some Are Free!)

Organize a Zoom Double Date

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Chances are, you two have friends who are in the same boat. The good news? You don’t have to suffer alone! Schedule a Zoom or Facetime double date, setting a time for some shared screen time to commiserate and laugh together over the season you’re currently living in. Each couple can prepare their meals at home, uncork a bottle of their favorite, and share an hour or two in conversation. Of course, it’s not as great as seeing your friends in person, but it’s the next best thing.

Have an Indoor or Outdoor Picnic

If the thought of turning on the oven is way too daunting, just open the cheese drawer and the pantry, and spread out a cozy blanket. You can quickly turn your living room into a prime picnic spot with a stellar appetizer spread (some good chocolate also wouldn’t hurt), a few pillows and those champagne flutes you swore you’d use more often.

Order a Date in a Box

If these at-home date night ideas aren’t what you’re looking for, order something unique! There are several “date in a box” subscription products on the market right now, including DateBox, a curated box of goodies that provides a unique date experience right in the comfort of your home. Packed neatly in a box that ships right to your door, Datebox is the ideal way to try new date ideas without ever leaving the house (which is perfect when your little ones are sleeping and you can’t go anywhere). An example DateBox might include an “indoor camping adventure,” complete with a s’mores kit, a pour-your-own-pine-scented candle-making set, a deck of cards with game suggestions, and even a playlist suited for romance in the great outdoors.

Pick a New TV Show to Watch

When all else fails, pick a new must-watch TV show to turn on after the kids go to bed. After all, there’s only so much Bluey you can watch without needing a break.

Related: I Quit Drinking and Now Date Night Looks Different

Think: roughing it but with your own chef

If you haven’t experienced the wonder of a dude ranch vacation, you definitely need to add it to your family vacation bucket list. Where else can the kids spend the day learning horsemanship while you enjoy some relaxation at the spa? It’s the perfect balance of rustic and luxury.

This list has our top dude ranches for families that include all-inclusive dude ranches that feed you better than you’d eat at home (think chuck wagon dinners with all the fixins and gourmet breakfasts around the campfire). Many of these destinations also have amazing programs for kids and stargazing in the evenings. Need we say more?

Idaho Rocky Mountain Ranch | Stanley, ID

Mountains, streams, lakes, and some of the nation’s most glorious scenery can be found at Idaho Rocky Mountain Ranch. Perfect for multi-generational family gatherings, the 900-acre ranch offers the opportunity to slow down, sit by the fire, and play a game of cards with the Sawtooth Mountains in the distance.

What to do: The Ranch offers mountain bikes to borrow including a handful of kid-sized rides. There are loads of trails for hiking and a pond on the property where you can fly fish (catch and release only), try out stand-up paddle boarding, or head out to see if you spot the resident beaver while on the pedalboat. You’ll find a number of guided activities for guests including hiking, fly fishing clinics, and yoga. You can also book a massage appointment.

We definitely recommend booking a half-day horseback ride while at the Ranch. Stables are located just across the street from the Ranch and their knowledgeable guides will take you on the trails so that you can get a bird’s-eye view of the valley. There’s nothing like seeing this gorgeous area on the back of a horse!

Read more: Get Unplugged at Idaho Rocky Mountain Ranch

 

Lone Mountain Ranch | Big Sky, MT

While Big Sky is mostly known for its incredible skiing, Lone Mountain Ranch shines in the summer months. Located between Big Sky Resort and Yellowstone Park, the ranch features fine lodging in luxury, historic log cabins, dining at the Horn & Cantle Restaurant, and summer activities such as fly fishing, canoeing, Yellowstone tours, mountain biking, whitewater rafting, archery, and more.

What to do: Every Tuesday, the ranch hosts an authentic rodeo and live Western concert in the saloon, exclusive to guests throughout the summer season you can’t get anywhere else. Guests enjoy farm-to-table cuisine, evenings around a glowing campfire, scenic horseback trail riding, spectacular scenery, wildlife, and the overall Western atmosphere that leaves guests returning year after year.

Read more: lonemountainranch.com

 

BlissWood Bed and Breakfast Ranch | Cat Spring, TX

 

This spot is just under four hours from Dallas, but you’ll feel miles away from your everyday life. The B&B consists of 14 cabins and cottages of varying sizes, as well as glamping options (Grand Safari Tent, Conestoga Covered Wagon, Deluxe RVs). Continental breakfast is included with your room rate with the ability to add on the full meal plan for an additional cost if you wish.

What to do: Onsite activities include horseback rides, catch-and-release fishing, biking trails, trapshooting, archery, and so much more. Kids will especially enjoy the exotic animal safari where they can see bison, deer, and antelope.

Online: blisswood.net

 

Tanque Verde Guest Ranch | Tucson, AZ

One of the most distinctive resorts in Tucson, Tanque Verde has been welcoming families with scenic desert and mountain views for years. Guests can experience its varied history with miles of exciting horse trails, four tennis courts, and a bright swimming pool that sparkles in the Arizona sun. Visit the property’s 150 horses and enjoy southwestern cuisine and happy hour at the Dog House Saloon.

What to do: Breakfast rides, cowboy cookouts, and all the relaxation you need are central to a stay at Tanque Verde. Mountain biking, fishing, guided hikes, yoga and wellness activities, arts and crafts, tennis, and more are also available. Guest can take advantage of the robust kids’ program that includes a full day of activities including riding lessons, pool time, tie-dye, and all the cactus crafts you can imagine. Enjoy some relaxation time at the La Sonora Spa while the kids are taken care of (they won’t even miss you!). The Ranch just added an apiary and looks forward to having their own honey in the future.

Read more: tanqueverderanch.com

 

Callidora Ranch | Madison, GA

An hour from Atlanta you’ll find one of the only true dude ranches in the Southeast, Callidora Ranch. This operating cattle and hog ranch offers trail rides and agricultural tours along with luxury lodging so you can experience it all.

What to do: Spend your days on the ranch horseback riding, hunting, fishing, and swimming, They even offer photography classes, lasso lessons, and summer camps to keep the kids busy.

Read more: callidoraranch.com

 

The Ranch at Bandy Canyon | Escondido, CA

 

Does your family love the idea of camping, but the idea of “roughing it” in the great outdoors doesn’t sound so appealing? The Ranch at Bandy Canyon offers the perfect solution. Located in the heart of Southern California’s San Pasqual Valley, this rustic retreat allows you to enjoy all the comforts of home, yet be completely surrounded by nature.

Forget about pitching a tent and sleeping on the ground, The Ranch at Bandy Canyon has everything you need to experience the wilderness with the ease of modern-day amenities.

What to do: The Ranch offers all sorts of activities from horseback trail rides to swimming, hiking, biking, and more. And with cozy cabins and local wineries right outside your door, what are you waiting for?

Read more: Saddle Up for a Family Staycation at The Ranch at Bandy Canyon

 

JL Bar Ranch, Resort & Spa | Sonora, TX

 

Escape to the remote charm of JL Bar Ranch, an intimate ranch that sprawls across 13,000 acres of wide-open spaces, rolling hills, ancient oak trees, and wildflowers in Texas Hill Country. The ranch offers just 32 accommodations, a main lodge with a game room & bar/wine tasting room, indoor and al fresco dining venues with authentic Texas cuisine, cozy fire pits, a pool & hot tub, an intimate spa, and more.

What to do: The ranch offers fun outdoor activities including hiking, horseback riding, ATV/UTV adventures, yoga, 3D archery, a Jack Nicklaus putting/chipping green, incredible cowboy cookouts & more.

Read more: jlbar.com

 

Westgate River Ranch Resort & Rodeo | River Ranch, FL

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You'll love your visit to this Florida property with sleeping accommodations that kids will love—Conestoga wagons and glamping tents. These premium offerings are the latest addition to the unique lodging experiences available at this secluded luxury glamping resort, located one hour south of Orlando and two hours north of Palm Beach County, Florida.

What to do: The Ranch, which lies on 1,700 acres overlooking the scenic Kissimmee River, features horseback riding, an award-winning Saturday night rodeo, and much more. 

Read more: westgateresorts.com

 

Greenhorn Ranch | Quincy, CA

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Just north of Tahoe, you’ll find the gorgeous, off-the-beaten-path area of the Lost Sierras. Here you can really get away from it all and spend some time with your family among massive trees and native animals. Your stay at Greenhorn Ranch includes all your meals from taco night to the Saturday Night BBQ. If you are there on the night of their cookout, you can choose to take a trail or wagon ride to and from your meal.

What to do: At Greenhorn Ranch, cowboy culture takes center stage with horseback riding being one of the main activities on the Ranch. Adirondack chairs and hammocks dot the property and are the perfect spot for a relaxing afternoon. One of the biggest draws for kids is the pond that's just outside the saloon. Here little anglers can borrow a fishing rod and some worms to cast into the pond.  

Read more: Greenhorn Ranch is the Perfect Getaway for Families

Rainbow Trout Ranch | Antonio, CO

Transport yourself back to the cowboy days with a visit to Rainbow Trout Ranch. This High Sierra spot offers cozy cabins that families love with daily housekeeping and a porch to sit and enjoy the views. Meals are included with your stay and take place all over the property including near the river!

What to do: In addition to its exceptional children’s program, the ranch offers fly fishing, trapshooting, swimming, day trips to Taos, and more. Of course, horseback riding is a major focus with programs available for beginner to experienced riders. Spectacular all-day rides with waterfalls and views of the Continental Divide are among the offerings.

Read more: rainbowtroutranch.com

 

Alisal Guest Ranch | Solvang, CA

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Alisal Ranch is an old cowboy ranch—a working one that dates back to 1843—and it has been welcoming guests since the 1950s. One of our favorite things about Alisal is what a great job they’ve done combining the fun activities of a ranch with the pampering of a resort. The ranch feels low-key and welcoming to the whole family (where many resorts often leave you feeling like they wish you’d left the kids at home), but never skimps on the creature comforts. 

What to do: Whether you want to spend the weekend riding the range (or taking your first horseback lesson), eating at a campfire, catching fish, being pampered at the spa, listening to the roosters crowing, reading a book by the pool, gathering eggs, playing an 18 hole private golf course, tasting local wines or hiking, you’ll all find the perfect activities.

Read more: Saddle Up at This Central California Dude Ranch

White Stallion Ranch | Tucson, AZ

You’ll love the personal touch that comes with a visit to this family-owned Tucson dude ranch. With one of the largest private herds of horses in Arizona, the ranch is perfectly set up to take care of all riders from beginners to experts. Little kids can enjoy a ride guided by a lead line and older kids can qualify for fast rides, mountain rides, and all-day rides. Choose between all-inclusive and breakfast-only meal plans. Don’t miss out on the famous trail mix!

What to do: In addition to riding, you can enjoy rock climbing, e-biking, hiking, and archery. A heated pool is available for you to relax in after the day is done, plus a rec room for kids who just can’t get enough action.

Read more: whitestallion.com

 

The Toy Story bedroom is going to blow your mind

If you’re willing to stray from the Disney bubble, staying near Disneyland instead of at Disneyland has its perks: not only will you (probably) save a few bucks and get 10 times the space; but you may also score an abode with enough Disney touches to keep the magic going long after the park closes. How does staying in the Haunted Mansion sound? How about sleeping in a home with beds that double as Star Wars space pods? Sound fun? From princess castles to Pixar pads, here are our favorite Disney-themed Airbnbs near Disneyland.

This “Haunted Mansion” Airbnb

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This delightfully spooky bungalow recreates Disney’s Haunted Mansion ride so perfectly that you’ll want to head straight for the attraction (or the new movie!) once you make it through the night. Nods to the ride include a windowless chamber reminiscent of the “stretching room,” where long portraits of un-endangered mortals are not actually what they seem, and morosely-elegant bedrooms with interactive elements that’ll make you feel like you’ve checked into the creepiest (and coolest) hotel ever.

Note: Because of the requisite creepiness, we recommend kids over 8 for this spot, unless you’ve got little spirits who love to be (just a little bit) scared. In any case, the effects can all be turned off with a simple text to the host.

Sleeps: 8
Cost: $635/night
Online: Airbnb.com

Related: This Haunted Mansion-Inspired Airbnb is the Right Kind of Scary

This Airbnb That’ll Take You To a Galaxy Far, Far Away

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Luke and Leia would be totally at home in this out-of-this-world spot that brings the Star Wars galaxy to life. You won’t have trouble getting your little stormtroopers to bed when it means climbing inside their very own blue-lit space pods. There’s also a full arcade, movie theatre, and a backyard with minigolf, ping pong, a swing set, and a climbing structure—as well as life-size models of beloved Star Wars characters like C3PO and R2D2 positioned around the house.

Sleeps: 11
Cost: $651/night
Online: Airbnb.com

This 9-Bedroom Airbnb with Its Own Ball Pit, plus Star Wars and Fairy Rooms

Fairy bedroom in Airbnb near Disneyland
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It’s probably worth a few calls to see who you can round up to split the costs of this amazing Airbnb, which has over-the-top bedrooms for the kids and pristinely-designed bedrooms for the grown-ups. Little Skywalkers will be light saber-fighting over who gets to sleep in the Millennium Falcon bunk bedroom (but, no worries—it’ll fit at least five!), but for those who aren’t into Star Wars, there’s a “Dreamland” bedroom that looks like it was made for the Seven Dwarves. As for entertainment, the kids (and parents) won’t believe their eyes when they see there’s an actual ball pit room inside the home designed to look like a giant, immersive gumball machine. There’s also a foosball table, a ping pong table, and an assortment of games—not to mention a sizable pool and jacuzzi outside. For the grown-ups, there are six serenely (not themed!) decorated bedrooms, a stunning kitchen, a living room with a pool table, and three washer/dryer combos(!).

Sleeps: 16+
Cost: $1,561/night
Online: Airbnb.com

This Airbnb That’ll Make You Feel Like You’re in the Great Outdoors

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If you’ve ever wanted to stay at Disneyland’s Grand Californian resort but don’t want to shell out the $800+ it’ll take for a room big enough to fit your brood, this Airbnb may be the next best thing (maybe even better, since you get so much more space). Located just 6 minutes from Disneyland, this Orange County home has a log cabin theme—with modern perks like a home movie theater, sauna, and steam shower. When kids want their own “great outdoors” to play in, they can run wild in the backyard, which has a swing set, miniature teepee, mini golf range, climbing wall, ping pong table, and a small running creek.

Sleeps: 12+
Cost: $455/night
Online: Airbnb.com

This Airbnb with a Movie Theater for Little Avengers

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Avengers, assemble! Superhero-obsessed kids will be right at home inside this Marvel-themed Airbnb nestled in a residential neighborhood just 12 minutes from Disney. The house is outfitted with enough games to keep little ones busy, including a pool table, ping pong table, and various table games—plus a full arcade set to free-play. There’s also a massive movie heater room, with lush stadium seating for eight, and a backyard pool with Spidey toys at the ready. Don’t be surprised to see life-size statues of Spider-Man, Iron Man, and Captain America posed in various spots around the home. Your Instagram feed will love it.

Sleeps: 8
Cost: $576/night
Online: Airbnb.com

This Pixar-Inspired Airbnb

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Looking for something whimsical, this colorful Pixar-themed home will have you going, “Awwww” with every room.  The bedrooms are each themed after a different popular film, including an UP room, with balloons bunched up at the ceiling to whisk little imaginations into the sky; a Toy Story room with a triple bunk bed and a regular bunk bed—plus all the requisite toys positioned around the room; and a Monsters Inc. room that has an actual “bedroom door conveyer belt” at the ceiling that rotates when you push a button. Kids will love that all the rooms have big flat-screen TVs for binge-watching; but the best place to really get a good movie night is in the theater room, which has posh recliner chairs for 10. The theater is also home to an arcade with 5-stand up games and two driving games (all set to free play.)

Outside, there’s mini golf, a swing set, a see-saw, two coin-operated Cars rides for toddlers (that don’t actually require coins); a ping-pong table, and a slide. After all this, you may not even need to go to Disneyland.

Sleeps: 11
Cost: $630/night
Online: Airbnb.com

This Disneyland Dream Home Where Every Room is a Different “Land”

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This house is an immersive ode to all things Disneyland. Its four bedrooms recreate the spirit of the park, with each room themed after a different area: There’s a vintage Mickey room (above) that will make you feel like you’ve stepped foot into a black-and-white cartoon; a “Frontierland” room that feels like a woodsy cabin, with a real, working train that chugs in and out of the room on a track by the ceiling; an “Indiana Jones” room, with genie lamps perched on shelves and old maps clinging to the wall; and an “It’s a small World” room that has the iconic Small World facade painted on one wall and odes to the ride scattered throughout (it also has two bunk beds and a trundle so the room can fit a small world of its own!). There’s also an arcade and theater room that will keep the kids busy for hours.

The backyard is a park unto itself, with a mini golf course, a ping pong table, swings, a climbing structure, several playhouses, and a plethora of lawn games.

Sleeps: 9
Cost: $598/night
Online: Airbnb.com

Related: Magical Hotels Near Disneyland

This Cars and Princess-Themed Airbnb with Its Own Lazy River

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This upscale rental may be just as fun for grown-ups as it is for the littles. The two kids’ bedrooms are totally themed—with one room devoted to all things Lightning McQueen (there’s a racecar bed and a bunk bed, with beds for five kids); and a princess room with five twin beds lurking behind the doors and turrets of a floor-to-ceiling castle.  Parents will appreciate that the rest of the home’s seven bedrooms are upscale and elegant, with designer beds/linens; soft, neutral colors; and hardwood floors throughout. There’s also a game room, with leather couches, a pool table, and a foosball table.

Your own mini resort waits outside, with a (fenced-in) tropical pool with a rock slide, lazy river, and a sitting grotto hidden by double waterfalls. A side yard is separated from the pool area and has a playhouse stocked with toys, a grassy area, and an outdoor dining table with a BBQ. Relax in the hot tub and let the kids go wild.

Sleeps: 16+
Cost: $1,295/night
Online: Airbnb.com

This Affordable Ode to Mickey

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Want to save your money for all the things your kids will inevitably want to buy when you get to Disneyland? This 6-bedroom house is within walking distance to Disneyland and has enough Mickey-themed touches to get everyone in the spirit (while being budget-friendly). Walk inside the one-story abode and you’ll be met with floor-to-ceiling red, black, and white (Mickey’s favorite colors), with one room done in Dalmatian dots and another in big red and white spots. There’s also a “Fairies Room” with a castle bunk bed and a painted mural on one wall, and a Cars-themed room has a bunk bed and toddler Lightning McQueen racecar bed. In all, the place sleeps 16… all for less than a single hotel room might cost you elsewhere (of course, the inevitable Airbnb fees might change that).

Want to sneak out of the park before the nightly fireworks show clogs Main Street? No problem! You can watch the fireworks from the private backyard, which has a pool, dining area, and barbecue.

Sleeps: 16+
Cost: $192/night
Online: Airbnb.com

 

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