If they can brush their teeth, they can also get out the door on time (We promise!)

School mornings can be a busy and sometimes stressful time when your kids are little. But as they get older, there’s a whole bunch of things they can be doing on their own to help out! Not only does it make your morning run a little smoother, but it also helps kids develop necessary life skills, gain confidence and become well-rounded, competent adults. Here’s our list that’ll help you set morning chores for kids—one they can definitely handle on their own each school day by the time they’re 10.

1. Get out of bed on their own. When they’re babies, going in to get your kids out of the crib and up for the day is a sweet moment. But if you’re still going in and waking up your kid long after the wee baby stage, you may want to pass that task over to them. They can—and should be able to—get themselves up for school independently. Every day. And if they’re late? It’s not your fault, mom.

2. Get dressed. This sounds pretty obvious, but getting dressed with zero micromanaging from you is key. It may be tempting to check and see if your kids remembered to put on underwear, or if their shirts and pants match, but this is another skill they can totally master on their own. Besides—letting them express themselves with their wardrobe is fun!

3. Make their breakfast. Again, it sounds like an easy morning chore. But encouraging your little scholars to make healthy choices and take control of their breakfast from a young age is the best way to help them eat well—plus it frees up your morning!

4. Make their own lunch—or at least help. Younger ones (like kindergarten-aged kids) may need some help with this. But for the most part, getting your kid involved in choosing and making their own lunch means they’ll likely eat the entire thing! It’s also a great opportunity to teach them about balanced diets.

5. Tidy up their own mess. So they’ve made breakfast and packed their lunch, and now there are dishes everywhere! Kids need to know they need to tidy up after themselves as well. This morning chore is great for helping them develop important life skills.

Related: 12 Ways to Help Your Kids Master the Morning Routine

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6. Pack their school bag. Kids will sometimes tell their teachers “Oh, my mom forgot to pack <insert various items here> in my backpack today.” And teachers generally respond with “Did your mom forget it? Or did you?” Gotcha, kid! If they need to remember something, they need to put it in their bag themselves.

7. Keep track of their library books/homework, etc. If it’s library day and suddenly your kid’s book is missing, it’s not your job to find it. They’re definitely old enough by now to keep track of all their own things—including where they left their homework.

8. Decide what outerwear they’ll need that day. Arguments over appropriate footwear and outerwear for all types of temperatures are never fun. Let your kids decide if they need that spare pair of mittens in the winter. One cold, wet, miserable day without them, and they’ll likely make good decisions!

9. Brush their teeth. Despite needing a billion and one reminders when they’re little, as they get older, kids should really be able to remember to brush their teeth—and do it properly—before each school day.

10. Get out the door on time. Getting out the door seems to be one of the toughest tasks when the kids are really young. But as they get older, this is another task they should be able to handle themselves. It’s really all about raising our kids to be competent adults one day—and that means that they’re going to have to arrive at places on time.

Related: 5 Simple Ways to Help Your Kid Establish a Morning Routine

Cue the fireworks—it’s the season for red, white, and blue!

Get into the patriotic spirit by getting crafty with the kids. We’ve gathered up a bunch of easy, festive Fourth of July crafts that will give your Independence Day a little extra oomph. They’re super simple and you probably have a lot of stuff on hand already. From DIY noisemakers to star-spangled slime, and even 4th of July crafts for toddlers, scroll down to see them all!

Fourth of July Painted Rocks

A sweet and simple way to celebrate the Fourth of July. Kids can paint them in advance and hide them around your neighborhood for their friends to find.

Fourth of July Popsicle Stick Garland

Check out the quick video above, and add this to your list of easy Fourth of July crafts.

Fourth of July Firework Rings

One of the best use of pipe cleaners we’ve seen in a while, this is another easy and fun project to add to your list of Fourth of July crafts for kids!

Paper Plate Purses

Your kids will be the most fashionable ones at the Fourth of July Parade with these simple paper plate purses from Pink Stripey Socks.

4th of July Firework Craft

Your kids will love the creative freedom of this Fourth of July craft and you’ll love the easy clean up. They can use the Q-tip to make fireworks with dots, lines, swirls, or anything they come up with.

Paper Towel Print Firework Craft

This simple firework craft is one of our favorite 4th of July crafts. It requires almost zero skills, takes little time, and is always fun for kids.

Coffee Filter Fireworks

This coffee filter craft is a simple and fun Fourth of July craft for your kids! Simply have them draw their firework design on the coffee filter, cut the edges, and spritz with water.

Rocket Launchers

a rocket launcher made from paper cups and rubber bands as a fourth of July craft
KiwiCo

Gather up cups and rubber bands and in minutes you’ll be watching a fire-free backyard rocket-launch contest. We love that this is an interactive, fun activity that you can do before darkness falls. Check out the easy-peasy way to make your own rocket launchers at KiwiCo’s blog.

 

Lollipop Topiary

a bouquet of lollipops for a fourth of July craft
Gluesticks

Expecting a crowd this Fourth of July? This delicious lollipop topiary dreamed up by Gluesticks is an easy, kid-friendly centerpiece sure to make any party pop. Don’t be surprised if they sample a few of the supplies as they work!

 

Patriotic Paper Chain

red, white and blue paper chain for a 4th of July craft
A Pumpkin and a Princess

We love this paper chain from A Pumpkin and a Princess because it’s so easy to make with the little ones. Drape this 4th of July craft over your mantle or table for an extra festive touch.

Firecracker Noisemakers

Metal cans decorated red, white and blue to look like firecrackers for a 4th of July craft
Paging Supermom

Let freedom ring with these firecracker noisemakers. The project comes together in less than five minutes and is sure to have your whole crew celebrating in style. Grab a metal can, wrap it in a patriotic pattern from Paging Supermom, then get ready for serious noise. 

Statue of Liberty Accessories

A Paper crown and torch like the Statue of Liberty as a fourth of July craft
Buggy and Buddy

America’s gal comes to life with this patriotic Fourth of July craft from Buggy and Buddy. Drama kings and queens will love getting the chance to dress up as the Statue of Liberty and parade around with a crown and torch. 

4th of July in a Jar

red, white and blue glitter in a jar to look like fireworks for a fourth of July craft
504 Main

Capture the spirit of Independence Day in a jar with this whimsical no-fire fireworks craft from 504 Main. It reminds us of a patriotic snow globe! 

Flags for the 4th

Cupcake liners colored to look like the American flag for a fourth of July craft
Make and Takes

This fun Fourth of July craft from Make and Takes will have everyone begging to sit at the kids' table. Leftover paper plates make the perfect canvas for this after-dinner activity. 

Red, White, and Blue Windchime

Metal cans painted like the American flag for a fourth of July craft
Creative Green Living

Forgo the craft store and instead scavenge materials for this eco-friendly project directly from your recycling bin. Using basic tools and a little craft paint, Carissa at Creative Green Living transformed tin cans into a festive and functional wind chime for the backyard.

Star Stained Glass Window Decal

A patriotic window suncatcher in a star shape for a fourth of July craft
Kinder Craze

Maria of Kinder Craze created this awesome project to get her kindergarten class into the stars-and-stripes spirit. Your kids will love layering the red, white, and blue tissue paper to create their very own “stained glass” window, and this colorful Fourth of July craft doubles as great window décor for your celebration. 

Spark-less Sparkler

A plastic handle with red, white and blue metallic material gathered at the end to look like a sparkler as a fourth of July craft
Merriment Design

While the ’80s kid in us still mourns for real-deal sparklers (the fiery kind), the 21st-century parent in us is totally relieved that it’s no longer acceptable to send your kids out with fire sticks. That said, we’re thrilled to get our sparkler fix with a super cool craft like this sparkless sparkler from Merriment Design. Break out the chopsticks, ribbon, and party garland, then craft your way to the coolest, safest sparkler around. 

Super Cute Centerpieces

Cupcake liners connected to straws to become fourth of July craft flowers
Fireflies and Mudpies

We love a craft that does double duty, and these cute cupcake liner flowers from Fireflies and Mudpies do just that. They would make a really fun centerpiece for any backyard BBQ, and the kids will love that their Fourth of July crafts are taking center stage. 

 

There’s a color-by-number here!

Math can be fun, and these free printables prove it! We’ve rounded up math worksheets for kids, from kindergarten math worksheets and math worksheets for 1st grade to early elementary level math problems. Whether you’re homeschooling or just want some extra math practice for the kids, check out these free printables.

Color by Number

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This fun color-by-number worksheet is perfect for Pre-K kids. Download it here

Number Line Printable

math worksheets for kids
Math-Drills.com

Help your budding scholars practice their counting skills with this number line printable from Math-Drills.com. Get your copy here

Simple Addition

math worksheets for kids
Dadsworksheets.com

DadsWorksheets.com has space-themed addition sheets waiting for your astronaut to solve! You can score your free printable here.  

Telling Time

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Work on telling time with this clock printable. You'll have to cut out the hands and attach them to the face for nonstop time-telling practice! Get your copy from 2ndGradeworksheets.net here

Place Value Worksheet

math worksheets for kids
2ndgradeworksheets.net

Have your tiny mathematicians practice finding the place values of the underlined numbers in this printable from 2ndgradeworksheets.net. You can grab your copy of it here.

Related: 15 Cool Coloring Pages & Worksheets for Kids

Matching Numbers

Math-Salamanders.com

Your kindergartener will love matching the numbers to these fun pictures. And Math-Salamander.com has tons more to choose from. Find this printable here.

Picture Addition

Dadsworksheets.com

This intro to word problems from Dadsworksheets.com is perfect for elementary schoolers. Having a visual to help with addition helps kids find the solutions. Get your copy here

Coloring and Counting

Math-salamanders.com

Preschoolers will love the fact they can color and count these fun pictures. Math-Salamanders.com has a bunch of printables to choose from. Get this one here.

Kindergarten Shape Practice

Little Dots

Little Dots makes it super easy for kids to break down different shapes, like with this circle practice sheet. Find other shapes on their site to round out the lesson. 

Preschool Number Sequence Sheet

math worksheets for kids
Math-Salamanders.com

Math-Salamanders.com helps the littlest students practice number sequences with these fun sheets. Count to five and download your copy of this sheet here.

Pre-K Matching Worksheet

LittleDots.com

Help your preschooler match the patterns on the socks with this worksheet from Little Dots. Then have fun coloring in the patterns!

Money Worksheets for 1st Grade

Math-Salamanders.com

First graders can use this sheet from Math-Salamanders.com to work on recognizing coins and their value. Get your copy of the sheet here

Find the Differences

math worksheets for kids
LittleDots.com

Which of these is not like the other? Kids will work on finding the shapes that aren't quite the same in this worksheet from LittleDots.com.

Bug Bar Charts

K5 Learning

Kindergartners can group, sort, and count with this fun bug graph! Download it from K5 Learning

 

Ordinal Numbers

Discussing the order of numbers becomes easier with this chart! Download it from mathworksheets4kids.com.

Stop saying these homophobic slurs and help break the chain of hurtful speech.

In a vulnerable time like this, communication is incredibly important. Our kids are relying on us more than ever for education, and social development. So, how do we avoid unintentionally hurtful words and teachings that we ourselves may have learned by accident? Linguistically speaking these terms and phrases can be considered a “pathogen”—they’re “Word Germs.”

Perhaps you can recall a time when a parent or grandparent taught you a word or spoke aloud an idea that was offensive to you, or to people you cared about. You, when you decided not to repeat it, were the first link that broke that instructional chain of thinking and speaking. 

After surveying an NYC-based LGBT & Ally Performer network, we have come up with 10 commonly used words and homophobic slurs that you may not have known were offensive to the LGBTQ+ community and some alternative options that will promote our children to grow up to be compassionate and intelligent advocates for justice in their classrooms, social circles and future homes. 

“No, that’s for girls/boys.”

that's a girl toy is one of the homphobic words to stop saying
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Kids are naturally curious and like to try out all different kinds of playtime activities as well as clothing options. Playing house, playing with trucks, or building LEGO sets are formative activities for young kids of any gender. Additionally, playtime, for households with multiple children, is a social activity. It’s not rare or wrong for a brother and sister to play cars, dolls, or dress-up pretend games together, so why do we enforce separation when it comes to other activities?

For example, when your son wants to try makeup or wants his nails painted, it can simply be because activities such as those are calming and involve spending quality time with you, or perhaps an older sibling. When a young girl plays with tools or has an interest in mechanics/building, not only are those creative activities the foundation for important skills she will need as an adult but are also a bonding activity for her and a parent and/or sibling. Though these activities aren't indicators that your child will grow into an LGBTQ+ adult, your reaction will be remembered if they begin having questions about their gender and sexuality, so responding positively and openly will set a trusting foundation for your relationship when they need your help finding those answers later in life. Celebrating your child’s curiosity will ultimately bring you closer together.  

“He’s a little ladies’ man/She’s going to give her Daddy trouble when she’s older.”

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It's a known fact: babies are cute. And it's exciting to see their personalities take form. When babies/toddlers are social and bubbly, sometimes adults will remark in a way that indicates when they grow up, they’ll have plenty of romantic attention. Comments like this could potentially make your child fear making gestures of affection, particularly in front of you or other adults, in case they would be ridiculed or embarrassed. It also establishes an expectation that in adulthood, your child will be heterosexual.

Maybe you can recall having a “kindergarten boyfriend/girlfriend” who waved at you at pick-up or held your hand on the playground. These sorts of gestures of friendship and closeness among young kids should be encouraged. It teaches kids to be honest about their feelings and establishes a place in their life for kind gestures and affection, rather than concealment of emotions and violent outbursts.

These types of comments can also set a tone that same-sex relationships or the need for physical comforts such as hugs or hand-holding outside of a romantic relationship are "strange" or “abnormal.” Instead, it's important to encourage your children to be openly kind to their friends and classmates, without jokingly hinting that something else lies beneath those actions.   

"Be more ladylike."

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Whether she was climbing a tree or sitting bowlegged in a chair, every single girl has heard this phrase at least once growing up. This saying is damaging to every girl, establishing limitations on what girls can and cannot do. In the same way that "no, that's for boys" discourages girls from exploring interests in male-dominated fields, "act like a lady" teaches girls to consider themselves an "other" to boys, even something less than boys. While, of course, we want to teach children manners, how to be polite, to say "please" and "thank you," and to treat everyone with kindness and respect, comments like this make girls resent being born as girls.

It also assumes that a child's sex and gender match one another. Jo March from Little Women, the "blueprint" for how we view tomboyism, often remarked that she was "the man" of the family, cutting her hair short, wearing trousers, and refusing to do "girly" things like needlepoint or flirt with boys. She, like many young girls, rebels against conventional expectations of girlhood/womanhood. So, it's unsurprising that theorists have wondered whether Jo was gay or transgender. Allowing girls to breathe a bit as they develop, leaving room for any activities regardless of her sex will help her in expressing her gender identity later in life.

 

Related: 5 Trivia Questions for Pride Month

“You’re so brave for being out.”

be an LGBTQ ally by erasing these homophobic slurs out of your vocabulary
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While it comes from a place of kindness, and of understanding that there are plenty of people who are still intolerant of the LGBTQ+ community, telling a gay person "you're so brave" reinforces that being gay is an abnormality. Not every gay person is completely out, some are only out to friends or friends and a portion of their family. You may have heard "but I haven't told my uncle" or "but I'm never telling my Nona." This homophobic slur subtly assumes that a gay person wants to talk about their struggle to openly accept their sexuality. Saying instead, "I'm here for you if you need to talk (coming out, your intolerant relatives, being bullied at school, feeling confused, etc.)" establishes that you're an ally, and they're in control of when they bring up potentially traumatic events. You could also say, "I'm happy that you're so happy," or "I'm glad you've found your significant other."

“I’m not gay but.../I'm no homo...” 

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We'd love to say the reminder is unnecessary, but we'll say it anyway: stop saying this homophobic slur or any variation of it. Whether you think Lupita Nyong'o is beautiful or you love spending time with your best friend, you don't have to reaffirm the admiration of a celebrity or the strength of your love as platonic. This is another phrase that alienates LGBTQ+ people, making it seem as though gay people are abnormal, and there's a necessity to keep reaffirming you do not belong to that group. It makes it seem as though there is some fear attached to being mistaken for gay as if there is some punishment that may be involved. It's much easier to simply say "I'm really happy we're friends" or "I love the time we spend together" to someone you care about without adding the addendum at the end.

“I have a great gaydar.”

LGBTQ ally at a pride parade
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We've all heard some version of it: "I always knew ____ was gay!" or, "With style like that, it was obvious!" or to the opposite effect, "But you don't look like a lesbian?" Employing your "gaydar" assumes that there is one single way of being gay. When in fact, gay people and their experiences are just as diverse as anyone else. It also gives gay people a reputation for being "sneaky" as if being in the closet is an act to fool or trick people, but those with "gaydar" are more adept at seeking out the lie. Instead of telling your friend/child/family member that you always knew they were gay, try saying "That's great!" Or if they tell you they're transgender or nonbinary, ask questions like "What does that mean for us going forward?" and "Do you have a new name or pronouns?" and "How can I best support you in this?" Showing you're listening and you care is the most crucial step in making the person you care about feel loved and accepted.

“But, are you sure? Have you ever dated a (person of the opposite sex)?”

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Even members of the LGBT+ community are guilty of this one. It's natural to be curious about how someone came into their sexuality, but ultimately it's not your business. Often times gay and transgender folks experience "internalized homophobia" where, it's difficult not to listen to the voices of bullies, politicians, clergy members, and even characters on television, who tell them they're "looking for attention" or "just haven't found the right person" or "can't possibly know unless they tried." You wouldn't ask a straight person how they knew they were straight if they'd never been in a same-sex relationship, so why the curiosity when it comes to gay people?

“I don’t mind what you are but, you’ll always be my little boy/girl to me.”

homophobic slurs to stop using today
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It's understandable that a change such as your child's gender can be shocking. Especially when discussions of reassignment surgery, hormone therapy and legal measures (regarding name, insurance, official documents, etc.) follow. Fond memories of watching your child grow up will potentially feel like a "Before" and "After" and perhaps, your child will not remember those precious moments with the same fondness, as they will remember them as a time of closeted-ness. It is so crucial in helping your child to feel accepted for who they are, to let go of the "Before" and "After" mentality. Talking openly about your concerns, and listening to theirs will help you better understand each other's needs. Sometimes decisions about how best your child can live their life happily as their preferred gender will require several conversations and lots of research. Tackle those moments of doubt by listening to what your child needs. Help them find an LGBTQ+ network, and as their parent, talk to adults who went through the same thing at their age, and what they needed/wish they had, as far as parental support.

“That’s gay.”

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This phrase has somewhat fallen out of fashion in the last ten years but it still comes up, particularly around the adolescent schoolyard. The sentiment is simple: all things stupid, inconvenient, weird, loud, gross, tedious, annoying, and so forth, are branded "gay" instead. With a vocabulary so rich and diverse with words that describe the things that irritate us, why continue to choose the word gay at all? It reinforces the notion that there's something inherently wrong with being gay. If you hear it said by someone you know or even someone you don't, it's easy to correct, "Did you mean (new word)?" or "Gay isn't a synonym for (new word)." Setting an example for your kids in this way, when they hear these pathogen-like phrases (especially when they're uttered by others in your presence), will help them not only learn not to say these things but also why it's important not to.

The “Reclaimed Slur”: “Fairy,” “Queen,” “Queer,” “Dyke,” “Faggot,” “Tranny,” “Cross-Dresser” 

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This last one is a little trickier than the others. Sometimes, you will hear members of the LGBT+ community use terms that seem offensive, or you've heard them used offensively before. There isn't one single opinion from the community about these terms. Some people find it liberating to use words that were once meant to damage them as a signifier of pride or self-love. Others prefer to leave homophobic slurs in the past. However, at one point in history, the words "Gay" and "Lesbian" were also slurs, so it's difficult to come down decidedly on one side of the argument or the other.

Ultimately, “slurs” can only be reclaimed by the parties they were originally used to bully. Even if you hear someone call themselves an offensive word, it does not mean they’ve permitted you to use that word to describe them as well. Communicate with your child, friend, or family member, and ask them how you should refer to them—there’s almost always a straightforward answer. Whether it be “Sometimes I call myself a dyke, but please call me a lesbian in conversation” or “I’m gay, but I also use the word queer, so you may too when talking about me.” 

As with any marginalized group, the best thing you can do to support the LGBT+ community is to listen to and amplify their voices whenever/wherever you can. Educating yourself is the first step to becoming an LGBTQ ally to those you care about.

Related: 14 Inspiring LGBTQ Books for Kids

Don’t let the weather put a damper on your party plans—pick a spot where kids can climb, jump, and clown around!

With unpredictable weather and park reservations booking up months in advance it’s nice to know there are so many fun creative indoor options around the Bay Area. If your kid one wants to host a pottery class, learn ballet, or pretend to be a Ninja Warrior there is an option for you! These birthday party locations from Marin to San Jose will get your kids moving and will take the pressure off you.

Indoor Birthday Spots in San Francisco

AcroSports

AcroSports

AcroSports is a non-profit that has been teaching kids about physical activity for over 20 years. Choose from tot parties for ages 1-4 and kid parties for 5 & up. You'll get time on the trampolines, gymnastics bars, rock wall, foam pit, rainbow tunnel, obstacle courses, and aerial apparatus. Coaches supervise time on the floor. At the end of the party, your guests will join you in the party room for cake time.  

639 Frederick St.
San Francisco
Onlineacrosports.org

Peek-a-Boo Factory

With locations in Livermore, Daly City, and San Francisco, Peek-a-Boo Factory is all about letting kids get all their energy out. The three-level play structure features a variety of slides, obstacle courses, tunnels, bridges, swings, a zip line, a sea saw, sit and spins, a trampoline, and more. Designed for the 12 and younger set it has a separate area for toddlers and new crawlers. Parties run about two hours and include playtime in all areas. Want to save some cash? The facility allows fruit and veggies trays, drinks, cupcakes, and cake at no extra charge. 

5411 Geary Street
San Francisco
Online
peekaboofactory.com

 

Culinary Artistas 

Culinary Artistas

If you have a little chef in the house hosting a cooking class birthday at Culinary Artistas is the perfect way to host a party that is unique, fun, and low-stress. The team takes care of everything while your kids play and learn intuitive cooking. Kids can make a 1 or two course meal or dessert, or even have a cooking contest if your kids like to compete. It is BYO food, drink, and alcohol for the adults, and water is served for children. Located in Ghirardelli Square it's the perfect place to relax while your kids laugh and learn!

851 Beach St.
Online: culinaryartistas.com

The Rabbit Hole Theater

For a truly magical birthday look no further than The Rabbit Hole Theater. Located in Noe Valley The Rabbit Hole Theater offers theater games, puppet shows, crafts, and more. Your kids will be thoroughly entertained! All you need to provide are snacks, drinks, and the cake, the Rabbit Hole crew will take care of the rest.

800 Diamond St
San Francisco
Online: therabbitholetheater.com

Randall Museum

This lovely nature museum tucked away behind in Corona Heights has amazing views of the city and is a fabulous spot for a kid's birthday. Kids can do an art project before visiting the wildlife or train town. 

199 Museum Way
San Francisco
Online: randallmuseum.org

Indoor Birthday Party Spots for Kids in the East Bay

Swings and Wings

Swings and Wings

This sensory-focused and neuro-affirming play space is perfect for indoor parties! Designed by an Occupational Therapist for kids 6 months to 8 years, your kids will love building their skills through play. They offer five packages so you are sure to find one that fits your needs. 

2307 Blanding Ave
Alameda
Online: www.swingsandwings.com

Oakland Ice Center

Kids love to skate? How about lessons, free skate time, and cake? Oakland Ice is a great birthday party spot for those that have been all about hitting the ice. Two hours on the ice with "Party Captains" take guests through a lesson and game featuring the birthday boy/girl. Then it's off to the party room for pizza and cake provided in the package price. 

519 18th St.
Oakland
Online: oaklandice.com

Créatif

Host a paint party full of creativity and excitement. This beautiful art space is able to host parties for all ages from toddlers to adults. Party organizers will plan your event so you can relax and enjoy.

5480 Sunol Blvd, Suite 2
Pleasanton
Online: creatif.com

Spirited Play Labs

The space is designed for kids 0-6 with a focus on supporting families with unique needs and disabilities. The 3.000-square-foot space hosts three group rooms and a mini kitchen to support your hosting needs, along with parking and the option to have your party decorated for you!

2220 Camino Ramon
San Ramon
Online: spiritedplaylabs.com

Indoor Birthday Spots for Kids on the Peninsula

Movement: Climbing, Yoga, Fitness

Movement: Climbing, Yoga, Fitness

If the kids are into climbing anything and everything, how about a climbing party at Movement: Climbing, Yoga, Fitness? Staff will get the kids climbing and having fun, creating the most memorable party of the year. Parties are available for kids 5-13 and all climbers must be at least 40 lbs. Note: they do not allow food or cake on site and you cannot rent out any of the rooms for cake. 

100 El Camino Real
Belmont

815 Stewart Drive
Sunnyvale

924 "Old" Mason Street
San Francisco
Online: movementgyms.com

La Petite Playhouse

Another hands-off play space where kids can run around to their heart's content for 75 minutes is La Petite Playhouse in Redwood City. There are big slides, tunnels to run through, a sports court, and climbing structures in an underwater theme which is all yours during the party. Parents of little ones can bring crawlers and new walkers without worrying about being stepped on with a separate area made just for them. 

1264 Oddstad Drive
Redwood City
Online: lapetiteplay.com

Best Indoor Birthday Party Spots for Kids in the South Bay

Sessions Academy of Movement

Sessions Gym

This is a super active party that’s fun for all ages from kindergarten and up. You’ll feel like an American Ninja Warrior when you take on obstacle courses, parkour games, freerunning, and other age-dependent activities. Kids will flip for the acrobatics they get to do into the stunt bag. Outside food and drinks are permitted, so be sure to stock up on some much-needed H2O and energy bars to keep those kids going! 

2016 Senter Rd.
San Jose
Onlinesessionsgym.com

Immersive Gamebox

Kate Loweth

This is the spot for all your gaming-obsessed kids and teens. Head to Valley Fair and don your motion-tracking visor to immerse yourself in games with themes like Angry Birds, Shaun the Sheep, and more. There are games for ages 5 and up so you can bring the whole fam! We also got the inside scoop that they'll soon be adding games that are appropriate for even younger ages. Bonus: all the jumping around means everyone will get a bit of a workout while having fun. 

The Valley Fair location has tables for snacks and cake if you want to plan a birthday party. They allow you to bring in outside food and drinks, and you can even get pizza and other food delivered from mall food vendors. 

Valley Fair and coming soon to Stonestown Galleria 
Online: immersivegamebox.com

Palo Alto Junior Museum and Zoo

Have your birthday at the zoo! The museum and zoo will provide a science activity and a private room. All you have to do is provide the cake. This is ideal for kids from birth to 9 years old.

1451 Middlefield Rd.
Palo Alto
Online: paloaltozoo.org

Tutu School

For your little dancers host a mini ballet class and story time birthday party. With locations all over the Bay Area, you can easily find one close to you and enjoy a sweet little dance party.

Online: tutuschool.com

Rockin' Jump

If jumping is your game, then Rockin' Jump is your place. A room full of trampolines is definitely going to get the kids good and tired. They will love the dodgeball area where they can battle their friends. The foam pit is always a favorite for those looking to try out some tricks. Parents will enjoy ample seating (hello massage chairs) and free WiFi. Parties include jump time and use of the party room.  Other locations are in Fremont and San Carlos.

1901 Monterey Rd.
San Jose
Onlinesjo.rockinjump.com

Safari Run

This multilevel indoor play structure is perfect for your adventurous little ones. The Safari Theme makes the space even more exciting for your next birthday. 

341 North Amphlett Blvd.
San Mateo, CA

1180 Kern Ave.
Sunnyvale, CA
Online: safarirun.com

Best Indoor Birthday Locations for Kids in Marin

Rebounderz

Rebounderz

Talk about kid heaven! Rebounderz has it all—a massive trampoline room, four-lane foam pit, trampoline dodgeball area, and even a huge climbing structure for kids 2-12. Challenge your party guests to a timed run through the Ninja Warrior Course and then celebrate victory with pizza afterward. Bonus for parents, this party is completely hands-off with food, drinks, and socks included in the party package. 

555 Rohnert Park Expressway West
Rohnert Park
Onlinerebounderzrohnertpark.com

Redwood Empire Gymnastics

Named one of the best party spaces in the Bay Area, Redwood Empire has customized parties catered to parents' time, budget, and kids' ages. Birthday party guests are led through warm-ups and have access to equipment such as floor, rings, bars, beams, trampoline, zip line, air track, and the foam pit. 

434 Payrah St.
Petaluma
Onlineregymnastics.com

Fox & Kit

If you are looking to host an elegant affair for both parents and kids, Fox & Kit is just right for you. This beautifully curated space has a gorgeous play structure alongside an espresso bar the adults will love!

1031 C St.
San Rafael
Online: foxandkit.com

Glazed and Confused 

For a truly memorable birthday host a pottery class! Wheel throwing and hand building are both available.

846 4th St.
San Rafael
Online: glazeandconfused.com

Additional reporting by Sandra Lee & Kate Loweth

Let’s celebrate the incredible women in Chicago’s history who have shaped our city.

Mark your calendars for International Women’s Day: Monday, March 8! Now an annual celebration, the first International Women’s Day was held in 1909 in honor of the garment worker’s strike in New York, where women protested against unacceptable working conditions. Progressive-minded, powerhouse women of Chicago have long been shaping local policy and the unique culture of our city, sometimes in ways that have proliferated across the country.  Read on to hear how Chicago women have impacted our city’s history and share these inspirational women with your kids!

Jane Byrne

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Born in the Lakeview neighborhood, absolute legend, Jane Bryne became the first female elected to the office of Mayor in the US in 1979, at a time when Chicago was the 2nd largest city in the country.

Things to Do: Jane Byrne only served one term, but in that short time she spearheaded and originated many of the activities we enjoy today. She helped to create what is now the Taste of Chicago, lead the revival of Navy Pier to become a popular tourist attraction and was the first mayor to march in the Gay Pride Parade. Look ahead to a well-spent summer in Chicago enjoying the activities laid out for us and supported by our first female mayor. 

Kittahawa

"A group of Potawatomi people exhibiting a variety of dress, including a war bonnet", ca. 1920

A Potawatomi woman named Kittahawa was the first-known permanent settler in Chicago, arriving around 1790. Married to Haitian-born immigrant Jean Baptiste Point DuSable, Kittahawa's strong relationships with Native American groups was integral in the success of the family's trading post. Their home and trading post, which was once a flourishing trading hub between Europeans and Native Americans, is commemorated by Pioneer Court at 401 N. Michigan Ave. 

Things to do: Visit Pioneer Court at 401 N. Michigan to see where the Kittahawa's family home and trading post originally stood. Also, Field Museum is home to more than 300 Potawatomi artifacts and they began a 3-year renovation project in 2018 to create a more meaningful Native North American Hall.

Maggie Daley

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Maggie Daley was the wife of Chicago's longest-serving mayor, Mayor Richard M. Daley, who held the position for 22 years. Well known for dodging the spotlight, but staying highly involved, she started the successful After School Matters. The non-profit provides high school teens with after-school and summer opportunities in the arts, leadership, sports and STEM fields. In her honor, Chicago created Maggie Daley Park, one of the coolest urban parks in the country with both lake and city views, mini-golf, a climbing wall, skating ribbon, green space and climbing structures.

Things to do: Winter, spring, summer or fall, visit Maggie Daley Park. The skating ribbon is perfect for newbies because of the railing that lines the path. During warm weather months, it's a hub of activity with golfing, a massive park and a climbing wall. Learn more about After School Matters, how to get involved or participate in their programming, via their website

Oprah Winfrey

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How lucky are we that Oprah chose Chicago to host her now-iconic Oprah Winfrey show? She has amassed a beautifully positive legacy that will transcend generations, and any kid would be lucky to carry her name. But, boy, are those some big stilettos to fill.

Things to do: Although Oprah is no longer in Chicago, her former personal chef, Art Smith, opened a farm-to-table oasis in Gold Coast named after her former Indiana Property, Blue Door Farm. Blue Door Kitchen & Garden lets the seasons dictate the menu and dedicates itself to cultivating strong relationships with responsible, sustainable purveyors. Kids will devour Chef Art Smith's famous fried chicken.

Catherine O'Leary

The Great Chicago Fire of 1871 destroyed over 17,000 buildings and 3.3 square miles and many locals like to hold on to the utterly tall tale that it was caused by Catherine O'Leary's cow knocking over a lantern in her barn. It's fun to speculate, but we'll never know the real cause of the fire and Catherine O'Leary and her framed cow are forever cemented in our history. 

Things to do: Help from all around the world came in to support the 100,000 people left homeless by the famous fire, including the United Kingdom. Their generous donation spurred the establishment of our beloved Chicago Public Library. Up until that time, paid membership libraries were the common practice. Whenever you visit the library, think of Catherine and her infamous cow. 

When you're bopping around town, reference this great Smithsonian Magazine article that documents places you can still see remnants of the Great Chicago Fire. 

Ida B. Wells

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Ida B. Wells was an African-American wife, mother, investigative journalist, educator and early leader in the Civil Rights Movement, having been freed by the Emancipation Proclamation during the Civil War at the age of 16. She was arguably one of the most famous black women during her time, working to combat prejudice and fight for the equality of African-American women. She started the Negro Fellowship League, which helped find housing, jobs and provided a social and political outlet for black people in Chicago. Her work to educate black women on their voting rights helped to elect the first black alderman in the city, Jessie De Priest in 1951.

Things to do: Due to the profound impacts Ida had on the Chicago community, the city voted to rename Congress Parkway to Ida B. Wells Dr., in 2018. It runs from the Jane Byrne Interchange, where it insects the Kennedy, Dan Ryan and Eisenhower expressways, and ends at Columbus Drive in Grand Park.

Incorporate Ida B. Wells: Let the Truth Be Told by Walter D. Myers into family reading time and celebrate the legacy of this remarkable Chicagoan. 

Gwendolyn Brooks

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Chicagoan Gwendolyn Brooks has the honor of being the first black author to win the Pulitzer Prize in 1950. She was Poet Laureate of Illinois, 1968-2000, and poetry consultant to the Library of Congress. 

Things to do: You can see Gwendolyn Brook's typewriter on display in the Tools of the Trade exhibit at the American Writers Museum located on Michigan Ave. Read A Song for Gwendolyn Brooks by Alice Faye Duncan, which celebrates the life and voice of the celebrated poet. 

Mary Bartelme

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Mary Bartelme was the first female judge in Illinois and she devoted her life to reforming the treatment of women and children in the state court system. Her career began as a Chicago Public School teacher before she worked to become one of the city's first female lawyers. Three years after being admitted to the Illinois Bar, she was appointed Public Guardian of Cook County and established America's first juvenile court system. She donated her own home in Chicago to establish Mary's Club, a group home dedicated to teaching young girls important life skills. 

Things to do: Visit Mary Bartelme Park in West Loop. They 2.71-acre park features a fountain plaza, a children's play area, a sunken dog park, an open lawn area, a viewing hill and enclosed seating area. Five stainless steel gates at the park's northwest entry act as a gateway to the park and emit a fine mist of vaporized water. A perfect cool-down opportunity for families on hot summer days. 

Jeanne Gang

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Jeanne Gang forever changed the second-to-none Chicago skyline with her design of Aqua Tower, currently the largest building in the world designed by a woman. This Chicago native also designed the beautiful Nature Boardwalk in Lincoln Park, the Writers Theatre and the new Solstice on the Park in Hyde Park. 

Things to do: Take a drive by Aqua tower at 225 N. Columbus Dr. to see Jeanne Gang's creation. The 82-story building is home to a hotel, offices, apartments, condos and one of Chicago's most expansive green roofs. Take the kids to Radisson Blu Aqua Hotel Chicago for indoor camping. They'll love the new toy and coloring book they receive, eating sweet treats and sleeping in their very own tent in the room. The third-floor terrace offers s'mores by a fire pit to add to the camping experience. 

Margaret Burroughs

Margaret Burroughs was a visual artist, writer, poet, educator and arts organizer who co-founded the DuSable Museum of African American History with her husband in 1961and helped to establish the South Side Community Art Center. The DuSable Museum of African American History is one of the first museums in the country dedicated to black history and culture. 

Things to do: The Southside Community Arts Center is hosting From the Center, a retrospective of works created by Faheem Majeed over the last 20 years. As the former Executive Director and Curator, Majeed's works are especially attuned to the history and legacy of this 80-year-old arts institution. Visit the DuSable Museum of African American History in person when they reopen and in the meantime, check out their list of virtual events

Jane Addams

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In 1931, Jane Addams became the first female American to be awarded the Nobel Peace Prize. She founded Chicago Hull House, one of America's most famous settlement houses, and is recognized as the founder of social work as a profession in the United States. She was also co-founder for the American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU). At Hull House, she established a kindergarten for children of working mothers, created the first public playground and public gymnasium and worked on social reform issues including juvenile courts, immigrant issues, women's rights, public health & safety and child labor reform. 

Things to do: Until they're ready to reopen, virtually visit the Jane Addams Hull-House Museum, which serves as a memorial to social reformer Jane Addams. The Museum utilizes two of the original house buildings: The Hull Home and the Resident's Dining Hall, which has seen some of the world's most prominent thinkers, artists and activists. Its vibrant programming makes connections between the influential residents who once called Hull House home and present-day social issues. 

 

For those moments when your sitter cancels or you’ve got a last-minute meeting try flexible, drop-in childcare near Portland

Life is busier than ever with more parents working from home. While it’s nice to have the kids in the house, sometimes you need a little peace and quiet so you can get work done, whatever that may be. Luckily there are plenty of places offering drop-in childcare near Portland that’s both flexible and affordable. Childcare that works around your schedule and is available when you’re in a pinch? We couldn’t think of a more useful tool for busy Portland parents.

WeVillage

This popular flexible childcare spot takes in kids in the morning, for an afternoon or an evening. It accepts kids ages 6 weeks to 12 years old. Parents with infants will love the beautifully and specially designed rooms that provide safe and stimulating programs for your little one. The play-based preschool curriculum is a win with local families looking to get their kiddos ready for Kindergarten. There's an über convenient online reservation form on their website, making their service even more simple to use.

Ages: 6 weeks-12 years

1901 N.E. Broadway
Portland
Onlinewevillage.com

Grandma’s Place

If you need flexible, part-time childcare on the east side or in North Portland, this favorite childcare spot has three centers to choose from. The staff is heavy on teaching language skills, including baby sign language and Spanish language programming for bigger kids. They also offer interest centers for children including math, science, imaginative play, and reading.

Ages: newborn-12 years

Clark Family Center
2740 S.E. Powell Blvd.

Clark Family Annex
2706 S.E. Powell Blvd.

Rose Quarter
1730 N. Flint St.
Online: gpelc.net

Little Vikings

Students, staff and faculty at PSU can leave little ones at this weekday drop-in center that's right on campus. They offer walk-in, reserved or occasional care for up to 5 hours a day, 20 hours per week. Ask about their activity kits for parents to check out to keep their little ones busy during meetings or study sessions.

Ages: 6 weeks-12 years

1136 S.W. Montgomery St., Ste. 101
Portland
Online: littlevikings.org

Peak Academy

Located in Lake Oswego, this awesome flexible daycare option offers a variety of licensed, academic early childhood programs for children ages 1 to 12 years-old. The options are flexible and quality educational experiences while being taught by trained professionals in an enriching environment. Parents can choose from school readiness programs, no-school day camps, and drop and go care.

Ages: 1-12 years

464 First St.
Lake Oswego, OR
Online: peakacademy.com

Baerly Big Drop In Day Care

Serving the west side, near Washington Square Mall, this drop-in center offers late night options for parents and construction toys, dress up duds and sometimes field trips for munchkins. Parents like the individual care given to each child, and the array of activities available for all ages and the flexible hours. Reservations are not required, but they are strongly recommended.

Ages: 2 ½-12 years

9225 S.W. Hall Blvd., Suite. B
Tigard, OR
Online: bbigwebsite.wixsite.com

Wedged between homework and fundraising forms in the kindergarten folder was a letter to parents: It advised us of an upcoming active shooter response drill. Words like armed intruder spread across sentences on school letterhead detailing the session for students. The following week, stuffed between readers, handwriting and math practice papers was a new note addressing the tragedy at the Tree of Life Synagogue, outlining activities the children would participate in to honor first responders and victims of the tragic event.

I found myself staring at the school papers, formulating a dialogue in my mind. A conversation difficult for adults alone, but now necessary to have with my daughter.

We cover things quickly—I’m lucky to get this five-year-old to sit and focus for just a few minutes. We discuss the ALICE acronym (alert, lockdown, inform, counter, evacuate), and she tells me what she’s responsible for during the event of an active shooting: “We run and hide, throw things at the bad guy and get out.” My stomach turns. Our local police officers equipped with firearms were unable to fully protect themselves from bullets sprayed by the shooter who injured and killed innocent people near Mr. Rogers’ real-life neighborhood—a tight-knit community located across a few steel bridges from us.

This talk is tough. I let her take the lead and let me know what she learned, chiming in with my own what would you do scenario. The most important element I ask my child to take away from our conversation is to always be aware of your surroundings. This message I will ingrain in her mind every time we arrive in a public place. “Look for exits and identify a quick and easy way out in case of emergency. Be aware of where you’re sitting, and if possible, never have your back to the main entrance.” Unsettling, right?

Our conversation isn’t long. She wants a snack and some crayons to color, bored by my big words and requests to repeat after me.

Hearts are heavy, and it’s hard not to notice the sadness surrounding the city of Pittsburgh. I’m shaken knowing my little girl is at school, bowing her head on the playground in a moment of silence. I’m unsure if she fully understands what is going on—reoccurring acts of gun violence are forcing her to grow up too soon.

Our children are being trained to defend themselves. The ALICE acronym is now as important as the ABCs. Our little ones are learning survival skills to run, hide and fight for their lives because dangerous people are hurting others with automatic weapons laws protect.

No matter how much we are divided on politics and personal rights, it’s small acts of kindness that cement us. Writing thank-you notes to first responders, delivering sympathy cards to family members grieving lost ones and donating blood to victims of gun violence show we love and support one another and the communities we live in. For those taking a stand against the evil of intolerance and hate growing around us at an alarming rate, I cannot help but think of Pat Benatar’s song “Invincible.” The battle cry chorus reminds me of every one of us echoing we are #StrongerThanHate.

“We can’t afford to be innocent / Stand up and face the enemy / It’s a do or die situation / We will be invincible.”

Originally published Nov. 2018.

As managing director of two children—19-months apart in age on purpose—Sara has hands-on experience in human development, specializing in potty pushing, breaking up baby fights and wrestling kids into car seats. When there's a moment to look away, she's writing for the web, blogging and building websites.