There’s no denying that between Virginia, Maryland and Washington DC, there are some pretty amazing communities in our part of the US. We’ve sifted through suburban sprawl and urban charm to find these stand-out neighborhoods that are PACKED with family-friendly perks. Whether you are new to the area, looking to relocate within the DMV or just interested in a new neighborhood to explore on a weekend, this guide is for you.

In the District

Mount Pleasant, Washington DC

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Located in the Northwest quadrant of Washington, DC,  Mount Pleasant is a culturally diverse, community-driven, kid-friendly neighborhood with a quiet suburban character. They have their own main street (Mt. Pleasant St.), historic row-houses, tree lined streets and a charming park. Chain stores won't be found here. There are no single family homes. The average townhouse between November 2021 and April 2022 costs $1,341,854. Condos and flats average $585,242. Apartments buildings are also available within the community. The walk score in Mount Pleasant is an impressive 97. Three quarters of the neighborhood’s residents don’t even need a car to get to work. The green and yellow Metro lines run through the Columbia Heights metro stop in the community. 

Neighborhood Perks: If you live in Mount Pleasant some of your favorite neighbors will be those that live in the National Zoo. Admission to the zoo is free and the tree lined sidewalks make this a perfect escape, even in the DC summer heat. All the cool kids dine at Elle, the local hybrid cafe-bakery-restaurant, that offers an impressive selection of pastries, fancy coffees and a respectable breakfast and lunch menu. Haydee’s Restaurant is also a must try for authentic El Salvadorian dishes. Rock Creek Park is a boundary to Mount Pleasant on the north and west. If you have a National Parks Passport, get your stamps at the Nature Center. You can also pick up a booklet with activities that when completed can earn you a Junior Ranger badge. Enroll in Tinkergarten for fun, outdoor, activity-based classes for toddlers, preschoolers and young kids (designed for kids ages 1-8). The focus is purposeful outdoor play (we wish they offered adult classes!). Every Saturday morning Lamont Park hosts a farmer’s market featuring fresh local meat, produce and live music. The farmers market is open 9 a.m.-1 p.m. from Apr. 1st to Dec. 23rd. 

 

Anacostia, Washington DC

Smithsonian Anacostia Community Museum

Once known as Uniontown, Anacostia is one of DC’s oldest suburbs, catering originally to Navy Yard employees. One of Anacostia's most famous residents was Frederick Douglass. His home, Cedar Hill, is now a historic site run by the National Park Service. There are 500 homes that comprise the Anacostia historic district. Many constructed in the early to mid 1900s and feature 2 story cottages, Italianate-style architecture and Queen Anne-style homes. Single family homes sold between November 2021 and April 2022 averaged $608,857. Federal style townhouses from the same era are also available and average $468,156. A small number of condos are in Anacostia and average $325,950. Getting in and out of this family-friendly neighborhood is convenient, but during rush hour you’ll spend a little more time getting from place to place on I-695, I-295, Pennsylvania Ave. and Suitland Pkwy. The Green Line services the Anacostia Metro and there are multiple transit bus stops throughout the community.

Neighborhood Perks: The Smithsonian Anacostia Community Museum, dedicated to shining a light on everything from local culture and history to the challenges and struggles facing contemporary urban communities. The museum is always free (there is also free, onsite parking) and offers free community events like a 6-week hands-on gardening course or a live in-person lecture.  If you are looking for places to walk, run and bike, Anacostia has you covered. Connecting the east and west sides of the Anacostia river at the 11th Street bridge and South Capital Bridge is the Anacostia River Walk Trail. You can access the Kenilworth Aquatic Gardens and enjoy thousands of water plants in bloom from May to early fall. Kids and kids at heart love the (free) roller skate rental at Anacostia Park. This park also houses an impressive pirate ship playground. Check out the local establishment, Open Crumb, a Black-owned scratch kitchen bringing a taste of West Africa to Washington. DC. Fried chicken, Cajun shrimp, roasted salmon, mac and cheese and a rotating selection of homemade desserts grace the menu daily (get a few orders of the House Buns, you can thank us later). 

 

Chevy Chase, Washington DC

Avalon Theatre

Not to be confused with Chevy Chase, MD, the DC neighborhood, Chevy Chase, offers residents a quiet break from the city, which is located just next door. Officially opened in 1907, Chevy Chase was developed as one of the City’s first street car suburbs that allowed Federal workers the option to toll into work and then return home to greener, calmer streets. Mostly all single-family, the houses are large (especially for DC standards) and the styles reflect the year built. You’ll find colonials, bungalows, Tudors and an occasional Victorian. The average sales price of these homes from November 2021 to April 2022 is $1,588,181. Townhomes average $1,010,557 and condos $689,968. There are numerous playgrounds and green spaces for kids to run and play. Commuting into the city is easy with a straight shot down Connecticut Avenue if you prefer to drive, or the closest Metro station is in Friendship Heights on the Red Line, with Metro Center a fifteen-minute ride away. Transit buses run through the area as well.

Neighborhood Perks: Despite the close proximity, you don’t need to head downtown if you don’t want to. Located along Connecticut Ave, just south of Chevy Chase Circle is a 3 block stretch of restaurants, cafes, locally owned businesses, a Safeway and the Avalon Theatre. Don’t miss Politics and Prose, an independent bookstore store and cafe that has been around for almost 40 years. They offer author talks, writing classes and readings throughout the year (even ones designed for young readers and writers). These establishments are within walking distance to many homes. The Friendship Heights shopping district is home to the area’s higher-end luxuries like Tiffany and Saks Fifth Avenue. You’ll also find a Whole Foods and family-friendly restaurants like the Cheesecake Factory and Maggiano’s Little Italy. Interested in community involvement? The Chevy Chase Citizens Association was founded in 1909 by residents with a mission to “foster community and improve the quality of life in both our neighborhood and our city”. They host events throughout the year that include Chevy Chase DC Day, Spooktacular in Oct. and Public Safety Family Fun Days in the summer. Worth the mention is the access to Rock Creek Park is a huge plus for residents. You’ll never tire of a visit to this respite that allows you to recharge and unwind underneath majestic trees and on the 32 miles of winding trails. 

 

Virginia

Kingstowne, Alexandria

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Location, location, location is top of the list of perks for this Alexandria, VA planned community located just 12 miles from Washington DC. Despite your close proximity to the city, two metro stops (Franconia-Springfield and Van Dorn Street) and the Capital Beltway, the 1,200 acres of green space and tree lined streets make you feel like you're miles away from the hustle and bustle. With 5,300+ residences there is a home for everyone’s taste. Single family homes, traditional colonials and some contemporary styles built between the late 80s and early 2000s had an average sales price from November 2021 to April 2022 of $896,139. Townhouses, making up the majority of the housing in Kingstowne, averaged $613,314 and a handful of condo sales made their average sales price $375,800. You can also find apartments and houses to rent within the community. Residents enjoy several miles of walking trails, two outdoor swimming pools, tennis and volleyball courts, numerous tot lots, an aerobics studio and two fitness centers. The Kingstowne Towne Center is home to all your shopping, dining and leisure needs (there’s even a post office). You’ll enjoy 3 grocery stores, multiple restaurants including Bone Fish Grill, Noodles & Company and Firehouse Subs, dry cleaners, hair and nail salons and a World Market to name just a few. 

Neighborhood Perks: Kid-friendly amenities abound in Kingstowne. Living here means your family is just a short 3.5+ miles away from Lee District Park. Operated by Fairfax County, this public park is unlike any other. You’ll find year-round activities that include a playground, tree house, paved interactive trail, carousel and sprayground for cooling off in the summer. Bonus, all activities are accessible for all kids. A covered picnic area and bathrooms mean you can play for hours. Stop by Smallcakes Cupcakery and Creamery off Mt. Vernon Ave. for a well deserved treat after a trip to the park. Living in Kingstowne means weekend visits to Nalls Produce who has been a staple of the community for over 60 years. In addition to a wide selection of produce and landscape plants, check out their monthly meal kits and "Nalls Kids Club" that hosts in-person kids crafting events with Ms. Laura like their make a thumbprint-painted terra cotta pot in May. 

Cascades, Sterling

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Located on 2,500 acres along the Potomac River north of Rt. 7 in Loudoun County is the master-planned community of Cascades. Developed mostly in the 1990s (you will find some homes built in the 2000s), Cascades offers a variety of housing options (6,500 residences in total), recreation and close proximity to shopping and dining. Single family homes are predominately 3 stories in a traditional center hall colonial design, with an average home price between November 2021 and April 2022 of $851,695. Townhouses with an average sales price of $593,660 and condos averaging $413,776 are scattered throughout the development. Falcon’s Landing, a Military Retirement Community, and Cascades Overlook Apartments round out the housing options. Residents have endless opportunities to enjoy time outside with an impressive trail system that connects the community, 5 swimming pools, 14 tennis courts, 25 tot lots, 10 multi-purpose courts and a soccer field. Two elementary schools, Horizon Elementary and Potowmack Elementary, are located within Cascades. 

Neighborhood Perks: Located within Cascades is the Cascades Marketplace Shopping Center filled with shopping, dining and a public library. Sundays in Apr. through Dec. you can support your local farmers by shopping the Cascades Farmers’ Market and year round take the kids to SkyZone to get out all their energy on the trampolines, obstacle courses and giant slides. One of Cascade’s resident’s best kept secrets is access to Algonkian Regional Park. This 883 acre NOVA Regional Park managed facility offers everything from Potomac River access to hiking trails to playgrounds to an 18-hole golf course to Volcano Island, an impressive water park open seasonally. This oasis is often overlooked by other Loudoun residents and crowds are especially low on weekdays. Wildlife viewing is almost guaranteed in the early morning and as the sun begins to set. You can even rent a cabin on the river for a peaceful getaway that allows you private access “after hours” to the entire park. For a family night out grab dinner at Chuy's Tex Mex followed by a treat at Abbott's Frozen Custard, both located at the Cascades Overlook Shopping Center. 

 

 

Reston

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Housing options in Reston are predominantly townhouses (average sales price from Nov. 2021 to Apr. 2022 is $577,068). Single families average $926,875 and condos $379,806. Building started in 1964 and continues now (mostly condos near the 2 metro stops, one open at Wiehle Ave. and one at the Reston Town Center slated for opening in 2022). Many addresses in Reston belong to the Reston Association, this is a large HOA that has a set of covenants, architectural guidelines and provides amenities such as pools (14 total), tennis courts, tot lots, basketball courts and walking paths to Residents. Members pay around $700/ year on top of their cluster HOA fees for the Reston Association amenities. The Reston Association also hosts dozens of community events each year, such as Community Yard Sales, a Spring Festival, Summer Movies and an annual favorite of kids of all ages, Totally Trucks, where you can see all the trucks that keep Reston beautiful.

Neighborhood Perks: Live, Work, Play! This was Robert E. Simon’s, the Founder of Reston’s (his initials of RES + ton, the English abbreviation for Town, make up the name) vision for his revolutionary planned community that is recognized as the most successful in the US. Reston is not incorporated and it isn't classified as a town, city or even a county... it is a community. With a population of about 70,000 people there is a small town feel to the place built to accommodate those that loved the country and those that loved the city. All of Reston is connected by an intricate trail system that winds through golf courses, under roads and mostly under trees. Simon did not want to see houses and shopping centers when you drove along the road, so towering oak trees give way to residential streets throughout the community. Man-made lakes were created for storm water management and recreation (no swimming, but pontoon and paddle boats and kayaks allowed). The most famous being Lake Anne, the home to the last original shopping plaza remaining in Reston, is found around this lake. The mid century modern vibe mixes with a European flair, and a statue of Mr. Simon sits on a bench (feel free to take a selfie). Housing, 4 restaurants, a coffee shop and the Reston museum are housed at Lake Anne Plaza. The Reston Town Center is the impressive modern shopping and dining destination for Reston residents. You’ll find gourmet dining at Barcelona Wine Bar, North Italia and PassionFish Restaurant. Casual dining options include Pot Belly, Sweetgreen and La Madeleine. Don’t miss a chance for a treat at Pitango Gelato.  Anthropologie, Apple, Athleta…that’s just getting you through the first part of the “A”s in the shopping directory, the list of well known brands goes on and on. Free concerts are held at the Town Center in the summer and the holiday parade featuring NYC style floats, soars down the TC’s main drag every Dec. Dance around the fountain across from the seasonal ice skating rink and spot Hermes with his winged feet balanced at the very top. 

 

Maryland

 

Kentlands, Gaithersburg

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Looking for a Maryland Community that meets multigenerational needs, is walkable to schools and shopping and encourages neighbors to be friends? You’ll find all this and more in the Kentlands Development in Gaithersburg, MD. Development began in 1988 and today you’ll find an established community that many never want to leave. Streets were designed in a neo-traditional style with houses pushed close to the road and alleyways behind the homes. Single family homes, on small lots, sold for an average of $1,097,429 between November 2021 and April 2022. Townhouses average $692,200 and condos $409,838. Multiple apartment buildings and Kentlands Manor, an age restricted housing development, are also available within the neighborhood. Walkability is key for people who choose to reside in Kentlands. Without ever getting in your car you can access tot lots, swimming pools, jogging trails and the Kentland Market Square, an open-air shopping destination with a pet store to a ramen restaurant and everything in between. When you need to leave you’ll find multiple transit options such as the Shady Grove Metro stop within a 15 minute drive (metro buses available from the neighborhood) and the MARC train at Washington Grove, a 10-17 minute drive depending on time of day. 

Neighborhood Perks: The City of Gaithersburg and the Kentlands Citizens Assembly organize multiple community events each year. There are Fourth of July festivities, Memorial Day Barbeque, Oktoberfest and an annual 5K race. Have a horse lover in your family? Head towards Poolesville and you’ll find multiple options for horse riding lessons and boarding. The Potomac Horse Center (PHC) is a public facility leased from the Maryland-National Capital Park and Planning Commission. Their focus is on extensive teaching programs.  They have “Mini Mites” classes for 5-8 year olds up to adult lessons. Horse boarding is also available. You’ll also have easy access to Seneca Creek State Park when you can enjoy picnicking, boat rentals, hiking trails, horseback riding and biking trails and a tire playground. Dinner at Dog Haus Kentlands Biergarten is a must. Kids will be happy with their kids meals options (corn dogs, hot dogs, chicken tenders) and parents will enjoy trying their extensive gourmet hot dog options with unique toping such as basil aioli, picked jalapeños and smoked bacon.

Riverdale Park, Riverdale

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If being near a college campus is your vibe, check out Riverdale Park, located near the University of Maryland College Park Campus, which mixes older homes with newer condos, all the amenities on your must-have list and some bonus perks too. Modest sized homes, built from the early 1900s to the 1980s, mostly ranch style and cape cod, dominate the single family market in Riverdale Park. The average single family from November 2021 to Apr. 2022 will run you $427,140. If you prefer a lower maintenance option, townhouse style condos built by Stanley Martin Homes were constructed in the past 5 years. The average price is $582,475, over $100,000 more than the average single family, but offers more square footage in comparison. Apartments are plentiful due to the close proximity to the college campus. A MARC train stop and four Metro stops (Greenbelt, College Park-U of Maryland and West Hyattsville) are located within close proximity. Community involvement is highly encouraged with Community Walks (meet-ups with Town Council members, town staff and neighbors for discussing ideas and concerns and performing micro-cleanups of public space),Holiday Market and Festival of Lights in Dec. and participation in the National Night Out each Aug. 

Neighborhood Perks: The Station is the most recent addition to historic Riverdale Park. Bear Square, with the impressive blue sparkly bear, sets the tone for the art-inspired space. A mix of commercial and residential with a high-end hotel and anchored by Whole Foods Market, The Station is fulfilling its promise of being a walkable, family-friendly community destination with ample green space. There’s a playground onsite to wear out the littles before you hit the grocery store. For an escape from urban life, check out Watkins Regional Park. The State park offers paved and natural trails, the Old Maryland Farm, a tennis bubble, nature center, antique carousel, mini golf and a train. 

Downtown Frederick

Visit Frederick

Big city with a small town feel is what locals say living in Downtown Frederick is like. Lovingly maintained 18th and 19th century architecture line the streets and take you back in time. Friendly shopkeepers get lost in conversation with you. There are almost no chains, mom and pop stores abound. You aren’t stuck in a time capsule, though. Downtown Frederick is hip and cool and historic and fresh, as are the historic housing options. Row Houses built in the late 1800s and early 1900s with an average sales price from Nov. 2021 to Apr. 2022 of $423,791 are the most prevalent housing option. Some single family homes exist and their average price is $410,050. Residential and commercial are intertwined in the downtown district. 

Neighborhood Perks: Residents love strolling through Carroll Creek Park with its water lily filled canal in the summer and the Sailing through the Winter Solstice lighted sailboat display from Nov. through Mar. There is always something happening downtown to draw you in, from Bluegrass concerts to art shows. Families love grabbing a bite at Pistarro's where you can see the pizza being made and kids get a ball of dough to keep them busy while they wait. Dancing Bear Toys and Gifts sells battery-free toys and visiting the quirky gift store, Retro Metro, never gets old. A visit to the Roads and Rails Museum never gets old. Each visit you'll find something in the miniature train world that you missed before. There are lots of pop culture references like the Simpson's family and a famous scene from the movie Twister (admission is $10 for adults. $5 for kids over 3).  Residents don’t spend all their time shopping and eating downtown. There are multiple options for enjoying nature right within town limits. Baker Park, located on the western edge of Downtown, is a 44 acre recreational space with playgrounds, tennis courts, athletic fields, a lake, public pool and more. Mullinix Park and East Third Street Park have playgrounds. A short drive away is South Mountain Creamery, a working dairy farm where you can take a self guided tour, feed calves, watch the milking operation and try Frederick’s own ice cream flavor, Monocacy Mud, at Karen's Country Store. Cunningham Falls State Park offers an easy waterfall hike and lake for seasonal swimming and Catoctin Wildlife Preserve lets you observe exotic animals from the comforts of a safari bus. 

 

—Elissa Olechnovich

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We’re in the thick of spring, and with summer just ahead, it’s time to start planning impromptu adventures like picnics and playdates with the kids. So pack up your picnic basket, and gather your gear, these Boston parks offer plenty of grassy spots (some shade too) and kids play areas. You plan the menu, and we’ll map out the places that will keep your kids busy for at least an afternoon. Head to one of the best Boston picnic spots on the next sunny day.

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Boston Public Garden
It’s no surprise that the first public botanical garden in the country tops our list. What better place to bring your blanket, basket and sense of play than to the Public Garden on a warm spring day. After you’ve had your fill of picnicable goodies, you’ll find plenty of ways to play with the kids. The Public Garden monument walking tour gives everyone a chance to stretch their legs and kids the chance to run around a bit. A ride on the swan boats is always a thrill, equal only to riding the carousel at the Boston Common, just across the way.

Langone Park
This north end park got a facelift last year, and the brand new playground equipment, picnic tables and bocce ball courts make it a great place to eat and play in Boston. Bring your basket full of goodies, and enjoy the water views while you fill your bellies. Be on the lookout for the USS Constitution across the harbor (and maybe walk over to take a tour while you’re at it). It’s also a great spot to teach your kids a bit about the great molasses disaster of 1919. When all is said and done, play basketball or just let the kids run around to get those wiggles out.

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Christopher Columbus Waterfront Park
Another patch of green in the dense city, Christopher Columbus Park has unbeatable views on a sunny day thanks to its prime location. You can pack your own lunch or grab something quick to eat from one of the many restaurants in the area. When all is said and done, head to the playground with the kids to burn off some of that after lunch energy. Be sure to smell the sweet roses at the rose garden and make a wish in the fountain before heading home.

Rose Kennedy Greenway
One of the best spots in Boston to have an impromptu picnic (check out the food truck schedule to see what’s cooking), families will find more than a patch of green at this city park. Kids can take a spin on the Greenway Carousel (open daily, 11 a.m.-6 p.m.), splash in a fountain during the summertime or enjoy community events year-round. Plan your picnic around one of the SaturPLAY sessions or when your favorite cornhole team is playing.

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Arnold Arboretum
With over 280 acres to explore, you could stay all day at this vast garden refuge. Free and open to the public year-round, Arnold Arboretum is an oasis to everyone that visits. Pull up a grassy spot anywhere you please to enjoy your lunch. Then it’s time to let the kids explore. They can read a book outside, play wildlife bingo or go on a photo hunt. Once the Visitor Center re-opens, families can one again check out the Discovery Packs and Engineering backpacks that unlock kids imaginations as they experience the garden.

Larz Anderson Park
Expand your picnic plans with grillables and head to Larz Anderson Park in Brookline. The city’s largest park, it’s got all the room your family needs to spread out, play and eat. When the snow flies, it’s a popular sledding spot. But now that spring is here, your kids will enjoy kite flying and hill rolls on the slopes. There’s a playground to occupy little ones, and a pond too. And the nearby Larz Anderson Auto Museum offers up alternative play when you need a change of scenery. This is definitely a destination park for Boston families.

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The Esplanade
Another waterfront park, this Charles River gem has something for everyone. While you can definitely enjoy an afternoon snack at Fiedler Field, taking a seat on the floating docks will give your picnic a different twist. But before you sit down, let the kids explore one of the three playgrounds found here. Balance bikes or scooters are a must, and locals know the Esplanade is also where you’ll find concerts at the Shell and guided tours that give you the inside scoop on the park’s history, art and more.

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Earth Day is a great reminder to love and cherish our planet and we can do that through books, reducing plastic waste and even upcycled crafts! So whether your Earth Day celebrations involve taking to the streets for climate change, attending an Earth Day festival or helping with a beautification or habitat restoration project, let’s remember that every day can be Earth Day.

California State Parks Foundation
Celebrate Earth Day the  entire month by signing up for an Earth Day Kit or drop by an REI to pick up gloves and a compostable trash bag and get to work on beautifying your community. The foundation is also sponsoring community events at Half Moon Bay (Apr. 9), Angel Island State Park (Apr. 16) and Candlestick Point (Apr. 23), pre-registration required.

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April 16 

Earth Day at Oakland Zoo
Join the zoo’s “Regeneration Celebration” for a day of action, fun and exploration combined with their centennial birthday celebration!

We Love Earth Festival
Education and family-friendly activities at this festival will all be geared towards learning about creating a climate-friendly home, sustainable eating and energy use as well as climate advocacy.

April 22

March and Rally for Our Earth
Take to the streets to rally for a better earth in celebration of Earth Day as we push for a more sustainable future.

Earth Day Walk & Talk
Join a guided sunset walk at the Wetlands Edge Park & trail while learning about the environmental and climate changes challenging the wetlands. Hikes leave every half hour beginning at 5:30 p.m. for an easy 1.5 mile flat loop with the last hike leaving at 7 p.m.

Aquarium of the Bay

April 23

Golden Gate Conservancy
Volunteers ages eight and up can help out at Crissy Field, Ocean Beach or Stinson Beach through habitat restoration or beach clean ups.

Earth Day SF
Build environmental awareness while enjoying neighborhood fun with  live music, kid’s activities and vegan chef demos all while celebrating our planet. 

Earth Day Celebration on the Green at Alemany Farm
Come to the farm on Earth Day for kids games, farm tours, live music and “Ask a Gardener” sessions. 

Restore and Create: Earth Day Beach Clean-up and Art-Making
Families can engage in making art with natural elements of Stinson beach followed by some clean-up love after.

Earth Day Clean Up Richmond
Unity Park needs you! Beautification, weeding and clean-up projects are all available to help out with. 

Oakland Clean up
Join the community in the 28th annual clean up at creeks, neighborhood sites and parks all throughout Oakland. 

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I Heart Oakland-Alameda Garbage Clean Up
Clean up teams choose to work “on land” by foot or “on water” through rented kayaks or SUP so that you get some exercise while cleaning up the waterways and surrounding areas. 

San Leandro Family Earth Day Festival
Casa Peralta is host to this festival with hands-on kids activities and crafts such as a  zero-waste bird feeder craft and  eco-pledge tote decorating, a story time, sidewalk chalk and more. Be sure to bring a  reusable cup for free coffee and have kids bring a toy for the "Buy Nothing" Toy Swap!

Berkeley Waterfront Cleanup
Meet at the Nature Center and spend your Earth Day beautifying the waterfront. 

Earth Day on the Bay
The Marine Science Institute celebrates Earth Day with events on land through a BioBlitz and on water with a discovery boat voyage. 

Coyote Valley Earth Day Celebration
Join Santa Clara Open Space staff and other special guests on a walk, arts and crafts and honey sampling and check out the rest of the week’s Earth Day celebrations.

Earth and Arbor Day Festival
Hands-on activities, food trucks and live music will bring the community together to learn about environmental issues and solutions in this family-friendly festival.

Earth Day Trail Clean Up
Ages 10 and up can join in to give a little love to Guadalupe River Park with beautification projects. 

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April 24

Spring Into Green
After a two year hiatus, Spring into Green is back in Los Gatos! Plant trees, check out the Farmer’s market, live music, family-friendly activities, information booths and a bike safety course will all be back, too! 

Muir Woods Earth Day
Join in habitat restoration and boardwalk care to celebrate Earth Day at Muir Woods.

Earth Day Napa
This year the Earth Day Napa community cleanup features ten different sites so a bring a bucket, gloves and then head to the Napa Earth Day Festival after!

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At Home
If you’d rather celebrate Earth Day at home (and save gas which is also environmentally friendly!), check out the following options: 

National Park Service Virtual visit 
Pick a park. ANY park. Virtual visits means you can get up close and personal with a national park through digital tours or webcams at any time from anywhere. Where do you want to go? 

City Nature Challenge
The annual City Nature Challenge is set to take place in cities throughout the world in two parts from April 29-May 2 with the picture taking of animals and plants and May 3-8 for identification of what was found. The global event, co-organized by the Natural History Museums of Los Angeles County and San Francisco’s California Academy of Sciences, calls on current and aspiring community scientists, nature and science fans, and people of all ages and backgrounds to observe and submit pictures of wild plants, animals, and fungi using the free mobile app iNaturalist

Disney X National Geographic 
Three new titles are being released in collaboration by Disney and National Geographic: Disneynature’s Polar Bear, a wildlife nature story about…you guessed it, polar bears; Explorer: The Last Tepui which is National Geographic’s newest “Explorer” series following Alex Honnold from Free Solo to the Amazon jungle and The Biggest Little Farm: The Return, based on an award-winning documentary about a couple who ditch urban Los Angeles life to live on a farm and grow their own food. 

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My husband ordered me a few books for mothers about parenting when I was in a funk, and all I could do after skimming each of them was chuck them across the room. “Your tribe,” “mommy circle,” “trusted group of friends.” The foundational element of sanity in each book was the same: find other moms you can connect with and share and support one another.

But what if you don’t have mom friends?

Each book explains how and where to find these friends—join a club, class, community events, post on mom meet-up forums—and even realistically explains that it takes time and trial-and-error to find the right people to form genuine connections with.

Right.

Well, not everyone has that. I currently live in a foreign country where I don’t speak the language, and there aren’t any ex-pats in the area with young children. There are no playgroups, clubs or meet-ups, and the majority of the locals send their babies to daycare at a very young age. It wasn’t until my oldest was school-aged, and I enrolled her in an international school, that I saw a bunch of kids under the age of 5.

For four years, I was flying back and forth between countries and changing cities, so making real friends was not going to happen very quickly. Also, as a first-time mom, and now with two kids, my life was 24/7 babies, so there was no time or way to cultivate a social circle with nap schedules, breastfeeding and no family or outside support. I was so overwhelmed with taking care of my children’s needs, maintaining a relationship with my husband and connecting with my parents over the phone, yet I found myself so lonely.

And ya know, that’s a very boo-hoo-sounding first-world problem. I fully recognize the women out there who are too busy and too stressed working 2-3 jobs, living far from or without family. All the fear and stress that consumes their minds to provide the basics probably helps mask the emotional emptiness that having no one to call a friend does to a woman. Solo, overworked moms, I am absolutely in awe of you. I see you.

To be fair, I am a private, unsocial person by nature. I like people, I do, and I am really good at introducing myself and making people feel welcome, but after that, you’ll probably never hear from me again. I hate the follow-up, making a plan, committing to a date. I just can’t do sustained small talk until that acquaintance/friend barrier is broken. I have no childhood friends, school friends, university friends or old co-worker friends I stay in contact with. I am just a loner by nature, I guess.

But motherhood brings out a deep primal need for community, for connection. Not only to have someone to watch a kid for two seconds, or to help do mundane things with like errands, chores, cooking and having play dates, but to have someone who completely knows what it is like—an unspoken understanding so that all the gross, private, personal, awful, wonderful things can be shared with no disclaimers, context or explanations. Maybe I just romanticize what having these sorts of friends must be like, but reading and viewing the volumes of content on the miracles of mom friends, it sounds just magical.

Being a lifelong loner prepared me somewhat, but there was a rough two-year period I thought I would lose my mind from the need for kinship.

So, lonely mama, I know how it feels. I know that deep longing and yearning, all while being completely unwilling or unable to put oneself out there to try to get what it is you feel you’re missing. You can get through it, though, you can. It hurts, and it’s taxing, but it’s possible.

Honestly, I found a lot of comfort imagining the pioneer women who settled far out and away from much else. That sounds very random, but it was a solid example of women who ventured out to nowhere and had to make do with what and who they had. Many managed to raise families on their own, husband aside. If that was possible, what I feel is not unique or impossible to get through now. There are countless examples throughout time and place of lonely mothers who survived, all without self-help books or mommy groups. Maybe some resonate with you.

And in a way, after so long, I kind of like my super tight-knit family unit. It’s manageable. It’s compact. There isn’t any social drama to worry over or handle. I can count my people on the one hand, which is peace-inducing, at least for me. I feel a sense of pride that I am doing this mothering business on my own. Sure, I want some mom friends, but I am strong enough and seasoned enough to know I don’t need them.

I wish I could give an easy self-help-style solution. Yet after chucking so many of those kinds of books against the wall, lamenting that every solution could not be my solution, I know that isn’t always possible. Reading the words of those who feel the same is the most reassuring way to handle some sanity on the hard days. I don’t feel like I need to find you because I know you will find me. So when you type into google looking for solutions for ‘I’m so lonely and ‘I don’t have any mom friends,’ I hope you may unexpectedly land here.

I know you’re lonely, mama, and I am telling you that you can do it, from one loner to the next.

I am an expat, wife, mother, writer, and teacher (in training). Currently living in South Korea, I am married to a Greek, and raising my intercultural girls. Despite being a steadfast introvert, I enjoy writing and sharing my perspectives on motherhood, history and teaching, and life in general. 

This month we’re highlighting special ways to celebrate and honor Black History (including 46 places you can support Black-owned businesses in LA) with your family. From South Central and Leimert Park, to Santa Monica and DTLA, Los Angeles has several, incredible landmarks and institutions that recognize the deep, rich history and culture of LA’s black community and are absolutely worth visiting not just this month but all year long.

South Central L.A.

Black History in LA: African American Firefighter Museum

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After temporarily closing during the pandemic, the African American Firefighter Museum has reopened its doors to visitors three days a week. Historic Fire Station 30, originally opened in 1997 as a dedication to the first 100 years of African American firefighters in LA. The museum is home to vintage firefighting gear, photos and lots of unique memorabilia dedicated to the pioneering African American firefighters in Los Angeles.

Hours: Tues. and Thurs. 10 a.m.-2 p.m., and Sun. 1 p.m.-4 p.m.

1401 South Central Ave.
South Central LA
Online: aaffmuseum.org

Black History in LA: Ralph J. Bunche House

This charming Victorian bungalow on E. 40th Place is the childhood home of Dr. Ralph J. Bunche, the first person of color to win the Nobel Peace Prize. Dr. Bunche received the distinguished honor in 1950 for his role as a mediator in the Palestine conflict in the Middle East. He was also involved in the formation of the United Nations and was awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom by President John F. Kennedy.

Raised in South Central Los Angeles, Bunche graduated as valedictorian from Jefferson High School and went on to get his college degree at UCLA where he was again valedictorian. His home briefly served as a museum, but it was foreclosed on in 2009. Although the home remains a historic-cultural monument, it is now a private residence. 

1221 E. 40th Place
Los Angeles
Online: laconservancy.org/locations/ralph-j-bunche-house

Black History in LA: Watts Towers

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There’s never been a better time to visit Watts Towers, one of the most remarkable pieces of public art in the United States. Seventeen interconnected sculptures form towering spires made of broken dishes, bottles, tiles, pottery, rocks, seashells and more—items salvaged from the area by Simon Rodia in the early part of the 20th century.

Today, the Watts Towers Art Center is said to “Serve as a beacon of light for arts education and a conduit for social change.” They display contemporary art, provide complimentary guided tours outside the fence of the Towers, and offer art classes to local youth and special needs adults.

Tours: Guided tours outside the fence of the Watts Towers are free of charge and are available every half hour Thurs.-Sun. from 10:30 a.m.-3:00 p.m.

1727 E 107th St. 
Los Angeles
Online: wattstowers.org

Black History in LA: Central Ave. Jazz Corridor

If you listen closely, you can almost still hear the swinging and soulful sounds of jazz legends like Miles Davis, Dorothy Dandridge, Duke Ellington, Nat King Cole and Billie Holiday echoing throughout South Central’s historic Central Ave. Jazz Corridor. As the beating heart of jazz music on the West Coast from the 1920s to 1950s, some of the most groundbreaking musicians in the world played here and continue to be celebrated today through all of the incredible landmarks along the corridor.

Dunbar Hotel
Originally known as Hotel Somerville, the Dunbar Hotel located on Central Ave. was built for the West Coast convention of the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People in 1928. According to the Los Angeles Conservancy, "The hotel provided first-class accommodations for African Americans in segregated Los Angeles, who were denied comparable lodging elsewhere."

Once regarded as the finest black hotel in the nation, the Dunbar hosted many prominent players in the Central Avenue jazz scene, including Louis Armstrong, Duke Ellington, Count Basie, and Bessie Smith. After falling into disrepair for several decades, the hotel was lovingly restored and reopened in 2013. Today, the hotel as the centerpiece of Dunbar Village, is an affordable housing project for seniors and families—some of its residents were even active participants in Central Avenue’s jazz scene during the 1960s.

4225 S. Central Ave.
Los Angeles
Online: laconservancy.org/locations/dunbar-hotel

Leimert Park

Black History in LA: Leimert Plaza Park

Located in the vibrant heart of the Crenshaw District, Leimert Plaza Park has long been a site for community events and celebrations, including the Kwanzaa Heritage Festival, the Day of the Ancestors: Festival of Masks and the beloved Leimert Park Art Walk that takes place the last Sun. of every month. In 2021, as part of an effort by the local leaders and businesses, the park's central fountain was restored, and new plants, grass and flowers were added to the landscape.

Tip: The Leimert Park Station is scheduled for completion in about a year as part of the future Metro Crenshaw/LAX line. The underground station will have direct access to Leimert Park Plaza.

4395 Leimert Blvd.
Leimert Park
Online: leimertparkvillage.org

Black History in LA: Vision Theater

Opened in 1932 as the Leimert Theatre, this historic art deco treasure was a movie theater until the 1960s. Actress Marla Gibbs purchased the building in the early '90s and renamed it the Vision Theater. Since the late '90s, the Vision Theater has been owned by the City of Los Angeles and is currently undergoing a major renovation to create a state-of-the-art performing arts venue. According to the Vision's Facebook page, the goal of the theater is to "produce and present diverse world class theater, music, and dance concert productions, along with offering a variety of cultural forums; and to serve as a center for community meetings." The theater hopes to reopen later in 2022.

3341 W. 43rd Pl.
Leimert Park
Online: facebook.com/thevisiontheatre

Black History in LA: Eso Won Books

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Founded in 1987, independent Black-owned store, Eso Won Books, takes its name from the African term “EsoWon,” which means “water over rocks.” Eso Won strives to be "a living proverb as it provides fluid, safe, stirring opportunities that flow to a reservoir of knowledge for all people to experience.”

In addition to its impressive selection of books on the African American experience and the African Diaspora, Eso Won has hosted authors including President Barack Obama, Maya Angelou, Muhammed Ali, Ta-Nehisi Coates, Misty Copeland, Toni Morrison and more.

Hours: Tues.-Sat., noon-4:00 p.m.

4327 Degnan Blvd.
Leimert Park
Online: esowonbookstore.com

Santa Monica

Black History in LA: The Inkwell in Santa Monica

The next time you head to the beach, share an important history lesson with your kids and visit what was once known as The Inkwell, located on the western end of Pico Blvd. and extending to Bicknell St. The name comes from a derogatory label used by white Angelenos during the Jim Crow era, when African Americans came to this beach to avoid bigotry and create a space of their own.

Today, the name and its origins represent a time in LA's history that should not be forgotten. In 2008, the City of Santa Monica officially recognized The Inkwell and Nick Gabaldon, the first documented African/Mexican American surfer, with a landmark plaque at Bay St. and Oceanfront Walk that reads “A Place of Celebration and Pain.”

Learn more about the history of the Black community in Santa Monica, and the racism Black-Angelenos faced, here.

Bay Street & Oceanfront Walk
Santa Monica
Online: smconservancy.org

Black History in LA: Phillips Chapel CME Church

Beginning in the 1890s, Black families settled in the small neighborhood around Broadway between 4th and 6th Streets, in Santa Monica. The heart of the community would eventually be the Phillips Chapel Christian Methodist Episcopal Church, located in an old Colonial Revival schoolhouse on the corner of 4th and Bay. In 2005, Phillips Chapel was designated as a City of Santa Monica landmark.

2001 4th St.
Santa Monica
Online: smconservancy.org

More Places to Visit & Learn About Black History in LA

Black History in LA: California African American Museum

Located near USC, the California African American Museum (CAAM) is a hub of resources to explore the African American diaspora in Los Angeles and beyond. In addition to rotating exhibitions, CAAM has an impressive permanent collection and “aims to represent the diverse contributions of African Americans in the United States, but also to interpret how the past has affected identity in the present.”

Good to Know: There is no café inside CAAM, so it might be a good idea to bring food for a picnic or grab a bite at one of the eateries nearby.

Hours: Tues.-Sat. 10 a.m.-5 p.m., Sun. 11 a.m.-5 p.m., closed Mon.

600 State Dr.
Exposition Park

Online: caamuseum.org

Black History in LA: The Museum of African American Art (Temporarily Closed)

The Museum of African American Art is a nonprofit cultural and educational institution dedicated to the interpretation, promotion, and preservation of art by or about people of African descent and their contributions to world culture.

The Palmer C. Hayden Collection is a central part of the permanent collection at MAAA, giving the public insight into the life and work of one of the leading artists of the Harlem Renaissance. The Palmer C. Hayden Collection includes the John Henry Series, a narrative art series of 12 oil paintings by Palmer C. Hayden illustrating the story told in the Ballad of John Henry. 

Note: At press time, the museum remains closed to visitors due to COVID, but you can join their email list to keep abreast of future reopening plans.

4005 Crenshaw Blvd., 3rd Fl.
Los Angeles
Online: maaala.org

Black History in LA: Los Angeles Public Library

The Los Angeles Public Library has reopened to visitors, and they always make a point to commemorate Heritage Months with plenty of wonderful events and learning opportunities. The LAPL has a great some great resources online as well, including a list of children’s non-fiction book about African American history.

Online: lapl.org

–Jennifer O’Brien

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Every year as the holidays wrap up, we start to focus on good habits and goal-setting for the new year ahead. Maybe you want to work out more, go to bed earlier, clean out your closet or even try to spend less time on your phone. Your children may be curious about the routine changes they see their parents implementing and may even want to participate—something that should be encouraged.

Just like adults, children thrive on healthy routines with little goals to strive toward. Setting daily habits allows kids to experience continued growth socially and emotionally by helping them develop self-regulation skills, gain responsibility and build confidence.

How do we help our children set these reasonable, consistent routines?

A great rule of thumb is to choose a small number—just one or two goals to start for younger children and no more than four for older children. You can certainly add more as your kids achieve success with the original habit(s). But keeping a small number allows them to understand clearly and concisely the priorities they will be working toward and will enable them to stay focused.

Keep in mind that children should choose which new routines they select. Providing the opportunity for choice allows your little ones to have some autonomy with selection, which will make them more inspired to practice the habits they have chosen.

Here’s what to do when establishing healthy routines with your kids:

1. Together, make a list of potential goals using pictures for visual cues and allowing your children to pick. Some ideas include trying new foods, eating healthier snacks, enjoying more nature/outside activities, engaging in more mindfulness activities and participating in community events. You can include tasks to help out around the house, too.

2. Keep the list and photos in a visible location to serve as a reminder.

3. Consider making a chart of the habits with pictures, and don’t forget to include a completed side. Allow your children to physically move the photos into the completed section once the goal has been achieved, which will allow them to feel a sense of pride.

4. Review progress and give praise as they succeed. Offer words of encouragement when progress is delayed to help your child continue to strive for success at their chosen routine.

You and your children can start the year out in a healthy way by setting small, achievable and beneficial practices for 2022. If you’re looking for resources to help you and your children explore developmentally appropriate ways to practice good character in the year ahead, head over to Kiddie Academy’s website to download the Character Essentials Activity Book.

Photo: Kiddie Academy

Joy has over 20 years of experience in early childhood education. As Vice President of Education at Kiddie Academy Educational Child Care, she oversees all things curriculum, assessment, training and more. Joy earned a B.S. in Education from Salisbury University.

Whether you are a new mom, or a well-seasoned coraller of kids, a little extra support never hurt. Finding moms to turn to for advice and lean on as you make your way through all of the stages of motherhood is an important part of staying healthy, happy and top of your game for your kiddos. The following is a list of Portland moms groups offering local parents support. Read on to find out more.

Day Hike Moms
This is a Day Hike Group for moms and their children in the Portland area. This is a way to get out of the house, out of a rut, to explore nature with your kids and to become part of nature again. It is a great way to exercise, feel some serenity, and teach your children about what life is outside the city.

Jewish Moms 
Connecting Jewish Moms across Portland, to each other, to community events and to their Judaism. Members share  great activities, fun bargains, questions, events and outings that a Portland Jewish Mom would enjoy... especially in the rain!

Mamapedia
Mamapedia connects moms at every stage of their children's lives to compelling content from the source they trust most: other moms. Every day, moms turn to Mamapedia.com for advice on everything moms need: parenting, health, family, finance, pregnancy, nutrition, and travel; and on children of every age from infant to adult. Our vibrant local community network (formerly known as Mamasource) offers a place where moms can connect with each other in a supportive environment that serves as their very own local online moms group.

Portland Moms
This Facebook group is where fun, child loving, Portland area moms can share ideas and meet others. This is for the Portland mama looking to share kid-related tips, stories, deals, and adventures with other Portland parents.

Portland Mom Collective
Portland Mom Collective is a community — online and off — of women raising kids in the PDX area. The group is passionate about bringing moms together in a supportive community and encouraging you in your parenting journey.

Related: These Facebook Groups Keep Portland Parents Connected

 

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Mothers of Preschoolers (MOPS)
MOPS is a place to find friendship, community, resources and support for you as a woman and mother so you're not alone. Moms have found community through MOPS for almost 40 years - MOPS is the mothering authority. MOPS holds and shares the collected wisdom of mothers and experts.

New Moms of Portland
New Moms of North Portland is a small group for new moms in and around North Portland that meets for support, play dates and to get out of the house and have fun. This group is a safe place to vent, share, ask for help, and support each other without judgement. Keeping the group small makes it easier to foster trust and build real friendships.

Oregon Moms
Whether you're a new mom searching for the best Oregon has to offer kids, or an experienced Oregon Mom who'd like to share some wisdom on raising kids in Oregon - Oregon Moms FB Group is the perfect tribe for you. Learn about fun places, events for families, and your candid, insightful input and reviews can be added.

Single Parents 
This group is for single parents of young children who would like to get together for regular play dates in Portland.

Portland-Area Working Moms
The purpose of this FB group is to provide a place for moms to discuss issues unique to working parents. Moms give each other support, input and advice on topics that working mom face in daily life.

The Portland Step Mom Facebook
The Portland Step Mom Facebook is a club for step moms to share experiences, difficulties and triumphs with other step moms in the Portland area.

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For many of the estimated 172 million of us who celebrate Halloween, this year will still be a little funky as COVID remains a challenge and group gatherings can still carry risk. As parents, we only get a few front row seat to our kiddos’ Halloween joy. So, we all likely want to make Halloween as sweet as possible. How best to do that? Think like kids.

Take Your Cue from Kids about Halloween

During times like these kids are simply better at adapting than we are because they tend not to focus on the loss of what is “ideal.”

So, we decided to take our Halloween cues from them. Last year, our Tinkergarten team talked with 30 kids ages 3-8 around the country about what they loved most about Halloween. Then, we put our heads together to imagine ways to deliver on the parts of Halloween that truly matter to kids—even in the year of COVID!

‘Tis a Season, Not a Night

Many of the things kids love about Halloween are not directly related to trick-or-treating, events, or Oct. 31st itself. So, why not shift our focus from a single big night to make Halloween more like a festival instead?

Why not celebrate Halloweek—7 days full of things that make the Halloween season magical?!

For example, my three kids made a Halloweek idea chart that includes things like: decorate; fire pit; carve Jack-o-lanterns; make Halloween brew; and costume hike with friends.

Our team is so inspired that we’ve developed a free, downloadable Halloweek Calendar of activity plans, complete with a different way to play and celebrate Halloween and nature every day!

It’s Really about Costumes & Pretending

The chance to don a costume and pretend to be someone or something else is clearly at the heart of Halloween for kids. And it makes total sense: kids’ brains more easily blend reality and fantasy, which is how they develop the foundation for higher order thinking skills.

In our house, so much delight is derived from discussing, planning, procuring and test-driving costumes—long before Halloween! And in our interviews, one 6 year old remembered being bummed that his mom wouldn’t let him wear his costume all the time last year.

TIP: Lean into the costume. Welcome kids to brainstorm what they’d like to be. Just buy or make your costume a little early this year so kids have extra time to enjoy wearing it (and have some duct tape ready if they love it too hard before the big day!).

Make it Magical

So much of what makes Halloween special is the magic. Try out the following easy, playful activities to add a dose of magic to your holiday.

DIY Activities around Halloween

Explore pumpkin seeds: Pumpkins are full of magic, whether or not you turn them into a jack-o-lanterns. They also offer marvelous ways to balance your child’s sensory system and teach early math and science lessons!

Make pumpkin boats: Explore floating and even pretend to help tiny friends set sail in your very own pumpkin boats!

Stir up Halloween Brew: Grab a pot (or your carved out pumpkin), some water and make your very own “Halloween Brew.” Add fall scents like cloves or cinnamon sticks or “secret ingredients” (aka baking soda and vinegar) to tickle the senses and add discovery.

Want to kick off with a story? Read Room on the Broom by Julia Donaldson

Consider Parades & Gatherings

One thing that several older kids mentioned loving were school or community events that offer the chance to wear your costume and see all of the costumes other kids are wearing.

As an elementary school principal in Sleepy Hollow, New York (my all-time favorite Halloween town), I had the  pleasure of presiding over our Halloween costume parade. It was a major highlight of the kids’ year (and mine) and it took only a mere 4 loops through the school parking lot in the middle of the day to feel the magic and snap a great photo for parents.

Tips for a Successfull Halloween

Remember that, for a little kid, parades can happen in many different ways and on many different scales—they can even just happen in the living room. Meet up with friends in costume and go for a socially distant walk around your local park. Enjoy playdates with the small circle of friends you see often. Video conferences in costume are pretty fun, too. Add some spooky music and turn it into a party!

You can also do some magical “night time” things like dress up and go for a lantern walk or take the moon for a walk in your costumes to bring back some of the excitement kids get being out at night on Halloween. Have a fire pit? Make s’mores and stay cozy.

Don’t Forget the Sweets!

And, yes, our young interviewees may have mentioned the candy a few times, too. There is something spectacular about just walking up to your neighbor’s house and getting candy in quantities nearly all of our surveyed kiddos only see on Halloween. But, if your house is like ours, it’s also pretty wild to navigate the highs and lows of early November as small bodies process all of that candy—so maybe we could still have sweets but enjoy a year without all of the gluttony?

Pro Tip: Weave sweets into your Halloween, even if you can’t go door to door for candy. Build in some excitement by talking with kids or doing a little research about sweet treats you could make or buy that you don’t usually have, or that are just SUPER delicious. Here are a few sites with super fun Halloween baking ideas.

Want to build in a little of the thrill? Hide candy around the yard or neighborhood and welcome your kiddos, and maybe even a few close friends, to go on a hunt!

Or, in some places, if you want to trick or treat in a safe, distant way, you can team up with a smaller circle of families to walk or drive between each other’s homes and “trick-or-treat” just between the few of you, keeping your distance as you go.

However your Halloween or Halloweek shapes up this year, we wish you a most spooky, special and sweet holiday!

This post originally appeared on Tinkergarten.

After 18 years as an educator, curriculum developer and school leader, Meghan has her dream gig—an entrepreneur/educator/mom who helps families everywhere, including hers, learn outside. Today, Meghan serves as co-founder and Chief Learning Officer of Tinkergarten, the national leader in outdoor play-based learning. 

Kids are happily back at school, so instead of scheduling an epic road trip, you may want to keep it short and sweet with a daycation. We’ve got the perfect spot that’s just a drive away from both San Diego and Los Angeles; a trip to the blossoming and ever-evolving city of Temecula. Most people know Temecula for its flight of wineries, but the city is also home to amazing parks, farms and restaurants that families will love. Keep scrolling for everything you need to know to plan your visit.

Where to Eat & Drink

Brunch Spot
Toast Restaurant in Temecula is a must! You'll feel a cozy and homey ambiance immediately upon entering the restaurant. Combine that with the beautifully crafted foods and it makes for an experience you and your kiddos won't forget. From Babyccinos for the kids to Crab Cakes Benedict, Creme Brulee French Toast and Shrimp and Grits, there's something for everyone to savor here.

31093 Temecula Pkwy.
Temecula, Ca
Online: toasttemecula.com

Coffee Break
Head to Vail Headquarters, where you'll find every locals' favorite coffee shop, The Press Espresso. Enjoy your cup of jo in peace while the kids experience the rustic play area right outside the shop— we're pretty sure a playground adjacent to a coffee shop is every parent's dream! Once you're adequately fueled, it's time to explore the public square. In addition to being a hotspot for community events, it's enclosed by various eateries, a food hall, a brewery and many cute shops, including a kid-friendly art studio.

Fun Tip: The square was built from restored structures dating back to the roots of Temecula and there's plenty of information and historical artifacts that your littles are sure to love starting with the fact that REAL cowboys once roamed the same dirt paths they see today. 

32115 Temecula Pkwy.
Temecula, Ca
Online: the-press-espresso.myshopify.com/

Dinner Destination
Oscar's Brewing Company sits atop a hill overlooking Temecula Duck Pond. It has an in-house brewery, a highly-rated menu, beautiful décor, a comfortable atmosphere, and views that speak for themselves. After dinner, take a family stroll around the pond for a perfect way to end the evening.

29375 Rancho California Rd,
Temecula, Ca
Online: Oscarsbrewingcompany.com

Family-Friendly Winery
Visit Longshadow Ranch Winery, where you can relax while the kids explore the play structure, zipline and farm animals! If you can make it on a Saturday for Bonfire Nights, you'll also get to enjoy live music and BBQ fireside!

39847 Calle Contento
Temecula, Ca
Online: Longshadowranchwinery.com

Where to Play

Ivanna Elias @temeculagrown

Temecula Pump Tracks
Located at Ronald Reagan Sports park, you will find two free pump tracks available to bikers, scooters and skateboards of all ages and levels! The pump track is a continuous loop of asphalt hills where riders can cruise without pedaling by relying on a pumping motion created with the track. The tracks can get very crowded but are so much fun and worth the effort! One of the tracks is very large and challenging, capable of thrilling even the most advanced BMX rider, whereas the mini track, right next to it and much smaller, can be ridden by toddlers not even two years old!

30875 Rancho Vista Rd.
Temecula, Ca
Online: Temecula.gov

Harveston Lake Park
This park is a beautiful place to go for family fun. Enjoy all the views, as you stroll on the cemented walkway surrounding the lake about a mile long. Afterward, play at the large playground and then surprise your little sailors by renting a pontoon boat on the lake! The boat rentals are powered by pedaling, can hold up to six passengers including pets, and are only available on the weekends. The rental stand offers snacks and there is also a small market within walking distance if you'd like to have a small picnic on the water.

40299 Balboa Dr.
Temecula, Ca
Online: Temecula.gov

Pennypickle's Workshop
Located in the heart of Old Town Temecula, this museum is anything but ordinary. As your kids rummage through the home of a wacky scientist, they will be learning hands-on as they explore wild (and mostly half-finished) gadgets, experiments and inventions. Make sure to check their hours online as they are open Tues.-Sun. with various two hour sessions to choose from. Afterward, take a walk through Old Town and pick up a treat from Old Town Sweet Shop, which claims to have the largest selection of retro candy in the Inland Empire, just a few blocks from the museum.

42081 Main St.
Temecula, Ca
Admission: $10/person
Online: Pennypickles.org

Where to Go for Seasonal Fun

Carrie P. via Yelp

Peltzer Pumpkin Farm
For fall only, Peltzer Winery opens up their pumpkin farm. The list of activities includes pony rides, train rides, a petting farm, gem panning, face painting, carnival games, and even mini John Deere carts to ride on. The winery also remains open. Make sure to check out their event schedule online because you can often find food trucks and live music to enjoy at their outdoor picnic bench dining area.

39925 Calle Contento
Temecula, Ca
Online: peltzerfarms.com

Halloween Carnival
Old Town Temecula will be hosting the community's annual Halloween Carnival. Old Town is a must-see for any Temecula visit. Here you can walk the wooden boardwalks among western-era buildings as you explore all that this shopping, dining, and entertainment hub has to offer. The carnival will be centralized at Town Square Park, where you can enjoy various carnival games and activities. There will also be a costume contest on the front steps of City Hall,  a spooky maze at the Temecula Valley Museum, and trick-or-treating from participating Old Town merchants.

Oct. 29, 5:30-8:30
41902 Main St.
Temecula, Ca
Online: Temecula.gov

––Ivanna Elias

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