We generally want our kiddos to say “yes” to the wonders of life, from trying out experiences as a family, a range of foods at the dinner table and different ways of thinking in the classroom. They now have a new role model with an eager attitude in Archibald Strutter, the literary-protagonist-turned-animated-star of the new Netflix series, Dreamworks Archibald’s Next Big Thing. Hitting the small screen on September 6, families now have a new show to enjoy together.

Archibald, so you know, is one confident chicken, envisioned by Tony Hale, star in his own right of Veep and Arrested Development and co-author with Tony Biaggne and Victor Huckabee of the original children’s book. Now Hale, as the voice of Archibald, joins famous guest voices like Julia Louis-Dreyfus and RuPaul to bring Archibald’s world—which is all about celebrating the journey, not just the destination—to life. Read on for valuable lessons little viewers can take away from Archibald’s adventures.

 

1. Say, “Yes!”
Whether he’s buzzing about with trusty sidekick Bea in his hometown of Crackridge, or flapping around his egg-shaped home with siblings Sage, Finly and Loy, Archibald doesn’t let a comfort zone stop him. Instead, he’s game to say “yes” to whatever opportunity comes his way, be it having a go at breakdancing, exploring a mysterious cave, trying a funny-looking fruit or getting to know a giant whale. He’s never afraid to give it a try.

2. Be a Cheerleader
Archibald also encourages others to tag along. After all, you don’t have to be the best or the brightest at something in order to embrace the experience. Let’s be clear: this encouragement isn’t about peer pressure. Archibald respects others while seeing the benefits of celebrating life’s little joys and stretching one’s wings in the process.

3. Show Your True Self
Youngsters are bound to relate to one of the different characters on the show, be it outdoorsy Sage, musical Finly, scientist Loy or Archibald himself, who doesn’t let anyone or anything pigeon-hole him. He is a chicken, after all, and he’s living life to its fullest. Whenever we express our truest selves, it’s all the easier to do so.

4. Look for the Best
While making the most of the moment leads to exciting adventures, some sticky situations are bound to ensue—like, er, taking the door to a rocket ship rather than a restroom. The lesson here is that Archibald doesn’t let setbacks sour his attitude. He stays positive about the situation at hand as well as his cohorts. As Archibald would exclaim, “I’m going to go with adventure!”

Tune in to watch season 1 of DreamWorks Archibald’s Next Big Thing, exclusively available on Netflix on September 6.

— Jennifer Massoni Pardini

all photos courtesy of DreamWorks Animation

In the United States, children as young as second graders have joined a rapidly growing body of youth who vape. Intervention by parents, caregivers and community leaders is necessary to protect kids of all ages who have developed this unhealthy habit.

The Food and Drug Administration (FDA) has declared that vaping is an epidemic. Former FDA commissioner Scott Gottlieb has expressed that the vaping problem caught the agency off-guard. According to Gottlieb, vape manufacturer Juul is the prime catalyst of the crisis.

In an interview, Gottlieb recalled delaying a process that would have placed vape products under increased FDA scrutiny. Now, however, Gottlieb believes he may have made a mistake.

Today, parents and caregivers must protect children from a range of potential dangers. Vaping is the latest addition to this unfortunate list. You can learn how to protect children from the latest addition to one of the many things that threaten their welfare by understanding a few facts about the product.

In 2015, Juul quickly captured 40% of the vape market. Unfortunately, a large segment of its consumers encompasses teens. Approximately 3 million high school students used a vape product in 2018, according to government research.

According to Stanford scientist Bonnie Halpern-Felsher, her research shows that Juul products contain an astronomical level of nicotine. Most vape products contain nicotine levels that vary between 1% to nearly 2.5 %. Juul vape products, however, contain a nicotine level of 5%. Since the study, the company has introduced vape products with 3% nicotine.

In a CNBC documentary, Juul CEO Kevin Burns has apologized for his role in contributing to the vaping epidemic. During an interview for the documentary, Burns empathized as a fellow parent.

He expressed that his company has responded to the problem by ceasing all social media promotions and recalling fruity vape products that appeal to teens. Nevertheless, criticism of Juul continues, and in the company’s San Francisco base of operations, government officials have banned vape products entirely.

How Big Is the Problem?

Statistically, if someone doesn’t start smoking by the age of 26, they never will. Every day in the United States, over 3,000 teens smoke their first cigarette, and over 2,000 of them decide to start smoking daily.

As a parent, guardian or even a community leader, there are ways that you can help to prevent vaping among youth.

Youth are at risk due to a range of products, including vapes, cigarettes, cigars, cigarillos, hookahs, and smokeless tobacco. Many tobacco products are now flavored and marketed in the same fashion as candy – making them appealing to youth.

In 2018, one study showed that 30% to nearly 40% of high school children used vape products, and a 2017 study showed that more than 30% of youth who used vape products started smoking cigarettes, compared to a little over 8% of those who didn’t vape.

Contrary to manufacturers’ claims, a Yale study shows that vaping does not help people quit smoking. Instead, vaping increases the risk of smoking, and consumers face the same health risks when they vape as they do when they smoke cigarettes – if not more.

Case in point, a Children’s Hospital study has revealed that vape products contain chemicals that pose a greater risk of causing cancer than cigarettes. The same study also found that teens often use vape products to hide the smell of marijuana.

Vape manufacturers countered the commercially adverse effects of the studies by launching products in a range of enticing flavors. Resultantly, 43% of high school and middle school students have tried the product. Due to this outcome, the Surgeon General declared vaping an epidemic in December of 2018.

Juul’s marketing practices have specifically targeted the youth population. In September 2018, the US government seized thousands of the company’s documents detailing its marketing and advertising practices.

On November 2018, Juul responded by announcing through its social media channels that it will discontinue any social media engagement with the public. This announcement was an abrupt about-face from 2015 when Juul launched a $1 million scholarship contest awarding those who wrote the best essays about the benefits of vaping.

How Can I Make a Difference?

American Heart Association (AHA) spokespersons express that public health campaigns reinforced by parental guidance have proven effective at stymieing teen vaping. AHA representatives recommend that parents start talking to children about the harmful effects of nicotine products as early as kindergarten.

However, they warn parents not to pressure children into accepting their point of view. Instead, suggests representatives, parents should maintain an ongoing two-way dialogue about the topic.

Also, parents should prepare their children to deal with peer pressure. Role-playing may help in this regard.

Furthermore, suggest AHA spokespersons, parents should refrain from punishing teens who vape. Instead, guardians should express that they understand the lure of the product and how it causes addiction. Empathy, as it turns out, may prove more productive instead of punishing teen smokers.

More importantly, parents should show rather than tell, when it comes to teaching their kids that smoking is a bad idea. Parents who don’t want their kids to smoke should lead by example and not smoke themselves. AHA officials also suggest that parents maintain a smoke-free home and prohibit smoking in their house and vehicle.

You can find out more about teen smoking cessation by visiting the American Heart Association website.

Sarah Daren has been a consultant for startups in industries including health and wellness, wearable technology, and education. She implements her health knowledge into every aspect of her life, including her position as a yoga instructor and raising her children. Sarah enjoys watching baseball and reading on the beach. 

While homeschooling hasn’t been as mainstream as a traditional public or private school education, it’s become a growing trend as more parents rethink their children’s educational experience. Homeschooling in the digital age is steadily growing in popularity—and here’s why you might consider turning your own living room into a classroom.

Recent data collected by the U.S. Department of Education shows that homeschooling has grown by 61.8 percent over the last decade. Now 2 million kids—or 4 percent of the total youth population in the United States—are homeschooled.

photo: Pragyan Bezbaruah via Pexels 

As homeschooling mom Alison Davis of Williamstown, New Jersey explained to Business Insider, “You’re not going to be put in a work environment where everybody came from the same school and everybody is the same age.” Davis added, “In my opinion, the traditional school atmosphere is not the real world at all.”

While Davis’s remarks represent just one parent’s opinion, there are plenty of studies to back up the claim. A 2009 study of standardized testing in the United States found that homeschooled students scored in the 86th percentile. Other research has shown that homeschooled students are more likely to get accepted into college and perform better academically while they are attending. There’s also the social aspect, in which homeschooled students don’t have to deal with things like peer pressure and cliques.

Homeschooling isn’t for everyone, but it certainly has some advantages that are worth considering, Davis notes. “Schools have to bring in all these extra testing and courses and electives to try to make it resemble the real world,” Davis says. “But that can never happen unless you’re actually living in it.”

—Shahrzad Warkentin

 

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I know, I can’t believe it either. Your sweet and tiny baby is no longer quite so teeny tiny. She’s probably approaching toddlerhood and moving around like a mad woman. Gone are the days of putting the baby down and expecting her to remain there contentedly.

You might have always known that you wanted a second baby at some point, or you might have been on the fence after you had your first. But more and more frequently you’ve found yourself wondering: are we ready for another one?

It doesn’t help that from your baby’s first birthday onward you’ve probably been getting the question, “When’s the next one coming?” There’s no great answer. The lack of sleep combined with the whole scale change to your life during infancy, it may be something you feel like you’re never ready to tackle.

The age old question – should we have another or shouldn’t we, is something that many couples debate for years. If you’re having a second baby, make sure you know what to expect and that you’ve gotten your financial plan in order.

If you’ve been on the fence for a while and are debating having another, check out these tell-tale hints that you may be more ready than you think to take the plunge. Here are the top ten signs that you might be ready for another baby:

1. Everything seems SO tiny.

Was your little one ever really that little?

2. You can’t quite remember the last time your babe had that new baby smell.

I mean, she smells good, but that specific new baby scent seems to have disappeared overnight.

3. You’re in the midst of or have considered potty training.

Okay, when your kiddo pees all over the floor or poops her pants you’re probably not in the optimal frame of mind to be considering adding to your brood. However, if you’re close to potty training that means you’re almost out of diapers. Which meann…You could do it again.

4. Your firstborn carries around baby dolls and asks for a baby.

This is adorable and also maddening. As if you weren’t having a hard enough time deciding on whether or not to have another baby, you now have to worry about disappointing your current child.

5. You finally lost all the baby weight from the first go round.

I know, right? You finally hit that goal on the scale and now you might be willing to ruin it?! This is a good time because it signals your body is back in a pre-baby equilibrium. Getting pregnant when you still have 10 to 20 pounds to lose just makes it harder to get all off in the long run. Starting from neutral is a much better choice.

6. Sleeping through the night is no longer something that only happens to other people..

That first year I know it felt like you might never sleep again. And then, once it happened you were afraid for months it was going to go away. Once you’re solidly sleeping through the night again it’s SO hard to consider going back. But, it’s a reminder of how far you’ve come. And you now know that even with another kid, you will sleep again. Eventually.

7. Sitting down and actually eating as a family isn’t a foreign concept. You haven’t had to eat with a baby in one arm for months now.

If you’ve been having real family meals it means that your little is now sitting in his or her own chair and feeding herself. This is a huge win and means your arms are free to now feed another one if necessary. (Or you could just enjoy feeding yourself for awhile.)

8. Everyone in your kid’s class at daycare now has a baby sibling.

This is NOT to say that you should have a baby because everyone else did. It’s just that once your older child starts seeing everyone else with sisters and brothers, she’s inevitably going to ask where hers is. No one should peer pressure you into adding to your family, but once all your kid’s friends have siblings you can bet you’ll get the question.

9. You’re no longer breastfeeding.

It’s so hard to think about getting pregnant when you’re still nursing and your body isn’t fully your own. Once you’ve weaned and have had some time to get back to your former self, you may be a little more willing to get pregnant and share yourself again.

10. You’ve blacked out labor from the first time.

It’s true. No one would ever have another child if they didn’t black out labor. Even if you, in theory, remember your birth experience, almost everyone blacks out the pain at some point. If you remembered in every acute detail what it was like there would be no siblings.

Should you have another baby?

That’s not to say that EVERYONE wants a second baby. There are actually studies that prove mothers of one are happiest. Just because you have nostalgia about those baby coos doesn’t always mean you’re ready to add to your family. Definitely weigh the pros and cons for your family, your goals, and your personal situation before you commit to a decision.

No one can tell you when you’re actually ready for a second baby. It’s something only you and your family can truly know. However, if you’ve experienced enduring nostalgia or hit any of the milestones above, you might just be more ready than you think!

Carly is a mom, wife and brand marketer who is passionate about talking about the reality of motherhood. She blogs about parenting, awesome products and productivity at The Mamma's List. Her hope is that sharing tips and tricks will help other moms and make this parenting gig easier for all of us. 

Here’s what I imagine my toddler would say when she’s sleeping–if she could talk like a grownup.

“Hi. My name is Sloane. I may be sleeping now but as soon as I wake up I will immediately start talking, planning, playing, goofing and asserting what I want.”

“Some may say that I can go from zero to 100 in 2.5 seconds. I don’t always listen (sometimes I do!) but when I do—I immediately start enforcing these rules on everyone else around me. My nanny Tami tells me this is not the best way to make friends.”

“I do love people, so I learn to go with the flow…sometimes. In my quest for authority and control, I started trying to enforce these rules on adults—but then I almost lost my fruit snacks. Not worth it.”

“This may be hard on some people now but once I get bigger it is all going to pay off. I will write screen plays, lead business people, make people laugh and say “no “to peer pressure. Then last, but not certainly least, I will get to do my favorite job—which is to be a doctor. But for now, I’ll live in my own little world doing what I want, when I can.”

“I’ll embrace the discipline, the protection, the wrestle and the struggle so that I can be the best version of me…someday. I’ll keep caring for boo boos, learning how to love friends and even, dare I say, listening to my adults!”

“I’m a good kid. Goofy, funny, pretty and smart.”

“And if I learn this now—I’ll be better later.”

This post originally appeared on Tami Brown- Facebook & instagram.

I’ve been a nanny for two little girls long term and in some moments they have felt like my own.  I’ve aquired wisdom, refinement and hilarity along the way and would love to share my jokes and lessons. I also love God, people, good stories, healthy food, long walks, graphic arts, painting and writing.  

Three years ago on a day just like today, kids around Seattle went back to school after winter break. My daughter grudgingly pulled on her coat and picked up her backpack, just eight years old and already resentful. We had had a lovely two-week break full of holiday activities and baking, movie watching and general hijinks.

Going back to school seemed like a death sentence to her—and this wasn’t the first time we’d seen this story play out.

Even in kindergarten, our normally good-natured little girl was miserable. She attended an immersion school in an urban neighborhood, had many friends and participated in after-school programs. I took a leadership role in the PTA and felt I was doing everything right. My own childhood barely saw my parents, so I figured anything I did was already an improvement.

Still, crying fits ensued most mornings. My brain was so sculpted to traditional roles of parents, children and society that I couldn’t wrap my head around what could be wrong. “It will get better,” my husband would say. “She’s only in kindergarten. Next year she’ll be more used to school.”

But she wasn’t. First grade became a bigger struggle and my confusion abounded. She was a happy kid, smart and well-adjusted. No one was picking on her and her teacher was awesome. Second grade rolled around and I was hopeful in the fall we had worked out the kinks. By Christmas I was ready to throw in the towel and the day we went back after winter break—so we did.

I submitted the equivalent of a student resignation and took my baby home. I cried. She cried. We had no clue what to do.

We were lucky to be in a situation which could afford a trial homeschooling period. My husband owned his own business and I was flexible to stay home. The logistics were in our favor, but my head wasn’t in the right place. I later learned this is a crucial transition period called “de-schooling” where both parent and child step away from school entirely (similar to a summer vacation) and take a mental and emotional detox. This period can last as long as you need it to, whether it be weeks or even months.

For me, I felt like a fish out of water. This is a constant theme in the homeschooling community. Parents feel like they’re making a mistake, doing more harm than good and completely out of their league. I LOVED school as a kid. My husband and I had both been model students, yet we still felt unqualified to serve as teachers to our daughter. We truly believed a magical formula existed in schools that we could never replicate at home.

I have never been more wrong about anything. The Washington Homeschool Organization was a fantastic resource for me. Paraphrasing from its website: “You’re probably not going to get the homeschooling thing completely ‘right’ from the start… You can’t mess up your kids any faster than the schools would have. It may take a while to find the groove that works for you and yours–and that’s okay.”

Three years later, many conclusions have been made clear to me:

“School” and “education” are two completely different things. School is an institution we created for children to endure, but education goes on at each person’s own pace and happens every day for an entire lifetime.

Homeschooled children are nearly free of peer pressure. Mismatched socks and unbrushed hair? Homeschool students would rather compare their kooky habits than make fun of them.

Structure is what often kills a child’s desire to learn. Once we removed the regime from my daughter’s daily schedule, the tears stopped and she blossomed into an intelligent, active learner. Her education now is matched to her own pace, her own interests and her own learning st‌yle.

There are several learning st‌yles. My husband is a “thinker.” He can add math problems in his head and grasp difficult concepts just by imagining them. I am a “watcher.” I love cooking demos and how-to videos. I can master something on my own just by watching someone else do it. My daughter, however, is neither of these. She is a “do-er” and must physically hold objects in her hand and write things down to understand them. I failed at first because I was acting like a teacher at a whiteboard, showing how to do something instead of letting her do it herself.

I realize now the reasons my daughter hated school revolved around the common core curriculum. I’m not saying it’s a bad idea (though the Singapore Math she was being forced to learn deserves a special level of hell). The problem is how each student is expected to fit into the exact same box, without respect to the individual’s pace and maturity level. My daughter is now a 5th grader, but is easily two grade levels ahead in science and history, but two grades behind in ELA. Every child is mentally and emotionally distinct.

Many (most) parents suffer through difficult situations because they feel there isn’t an alternative. I was and still am, thankful every day we have this opportunity. My daughter is nearing an age where she can stay home and school herself if I need to find a full-time job again.

Don’t be afraid to take the plunge. Resources for homeschool families are everywhere if you know where to look and books galore are available on the subject. My favorite recent read was Dumbing Us Down: The Hidden Curriculum of Compulsory Schooling by John Taylor Gatto.

You will survive. You will adapt. Your children will be better for it. Lewis Carroll got it right when he wrote, “I knew who I was this morning, but I’ve changed a few times since then.”

Maggie and her family roost in the Pacific Northwest and share their travels, homeschool field trips, curriculum ideas and lifest‌yle tips from a city-based homestead. Maggie is a cooking enthusiast and avid student of history and science. She's also mother to an "old soul" tween daughter. 

Executive Chef Brendan Collins has the culinary career most chefs can only dream of. He began cooking in his native England at the age of 15 and has never looked back. From cooking in Michelin-starred kitchens from London to Los Angeles, Chef Collins has attained extraordinary success in his culinary career, but it’s his family that’s the main passion in his life. Chef Collins currently lives in Los Angeles with his wife Eden and their daughter Saffy and he recently shared some insights with Red Tricycle about his life as a dad and a full time chef of two restaurants (Waterloo & City in Culver City and Larry’s in Venice), his favorite quick and easy kids recipes, and tips on how to get his daughter to try new foods.

As a working parent, what’s your go-to dinner recipe when your time in the evening is limited? 
Roasted chicken breast with mac and cheese, and salad for me and Eden, simple, easy and absolutely no drama!!

Are there any surprising foods that your kids love that you never thought to serve them?
Recently and out of nowhere Saffy loves cherry tomatoes, with a touch of olive oil, vinegar and sea salt.

What’s your best technique for getting your kids to try new foods?
Both mine and Edens parents live thousands of miles away from us so Saffy became more of a sidekick always by our/Edens side. We take her everywhere we go and with everyone that we go with, so she has very well developed table manners and pallet, probably because she felt peer pressure from being the only kid at a full table of adults. On the occasion that she out right refuses to even try something and we are not talking about veal kidneys here, then i threaten to stop taking her to the hello kitty store on our weekly daddy/daughter dates, it works every time!! 

What did your family eat for dinner last night? 
Pork and soy ramen, chicken gyoza, and tofu i did not cook it but it was delicious as Saffy quite rightly pointed out

If we took a peek in your kids lunch box, what would we find?
Cherry tomatoes, peeled baby carrots, roast turkey, cheesy gold fish, hummus and cucumber (peeled and seeded, i mean really?? yes madam!!).

What’s the one food that you can’t live without?
I pretty much live two lives — one is at the restaurant where i could not live without pork and every last bit of it including the blood, and at home it’s vinegar, cabernet sauvignon, balsamic, and most importantly malt, which we use as a condiment in our house. It goes on and in everything.

Chef Collins even shared with us his favorite quick and easy kids recipes including grilled chicken meatballs, mozzarella and tomato salad, and fried rabbit Southern/British style. Our mouth is watering — is yours?

Chef Brendan Collins is the Executive Chef and founder of Larry’s Venice and Waterloo & City in Culver City. England-native Collins has worked in a variety of Michelin-starred establishments throughout London and Los Angeles during his acclaimed career. Chef Collins currently resides in Los Angeles with his wife Eden Rountree Collins and their daughter Saffron Rose Collins.