Perinatal depression affects between 180,000 and 800,000 American moms each year and puts both women and their babies at risk of harm. Now a task force has determined how to prevent pre- and post-natal depression and it’s about time.

The United States Preventive Services Task Force has officially recommended that health care providers should seek out pregnant women and new moms with certain risk factors and make sure they receive counseling. While the panel looked at data in several prevention methods, including physical activity and antidepressants, counseling was shown to be the most beneficial.

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They found that women receiving one of two forms of counseling were 39 percent less likely to develop perinatal depression than those who didn’t receive any counseling. “We really need to find these women before they get depressed,” said Karina Davidson, a task force member and senior vice president for research for Northwell Health.

Access to care and affordability are often hurdles to women getting the treatment that they need. Luckily the official recommendation by the task force also means that insurers will be required to cover the services with no co-payments under the Affordable Care Act.

Risk factors that called for women to be evaluated and counseled include a personal or family history of depression, recent stresses like divorce or economic strain, traumatic experiences like domestic violence, or depressive symptoms that don’t constitute a full-blown diagnosis. Being a single mother, a teenager, low-income, lacking a high school diploma, or having an unplanned or unwanted pregnancy are also considered risk factors.

“This recommendation is really important,” said Jennifer Felder, an assistant professor of psychiatry at University of California, San Francisco, who was not on the panel. “This focuses on identifying women who are at risk for depression and proactively preventing its onset, using concrete guidelines.”

—Shahrzad Warkentin

 

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Dads, We Need to Talk about Postpartum Depression—because You Get It, Too

Post-natal depression doesn’t just impact moms. Dads can experience it, too and it can have some future implications on their kids as well. A study has revealed a unique link between depression in fathers and daughters.

New research published in the journal JAMA Psychiatry has found that one in 20 new dads suffer from depression in the weeks after their baby is born. The study also revealed that those daughters of men who experience post-natal depression were more likely to experience depression as well by age 18. The increased risk was small, but significant—but it didn’t impact sons.

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While it is unclear why girls specifically are more affected and at this specific age, the researchers believe it might have something to do with father-daughter relationships as girls go through adolescence. Another reason for the connection between dads and daughters might be that paternal depression is also linked to greater maternal depression which leads to greater family stress overall.

“We were also able to look at some of the ways in which depression in fathers might have affected children. It appears that depression in fathers is linked with an increased level of stress in the whole family, and that this might be one way in which offspring may be affected,” explained Professor Paul Ramchandani of the Faculty of Education, University of Cambridge.

He continued, “Whilst many children will not be affected by parental depression in this way, the findings of this study highlight the importance of providing appropriate help to fathers, as well as mothers, who may experience depression.”

—Shahrzad Warkentin

 

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The new year is here, the holiday cookies are eaten and it’s time to get started on those resolutions to get and stay fit. It’s so easy for us parents to use the kids as an excuse to not make it to the gym, but this list proves that children and exercise are not mutually exclusive. Love to dance? Strap your baby on and shake your groove thing. Need some downdog to get your mood up? Put your kid’s mat next to yours and set an example for wellness in the process. Are your kids the only ones feeling like they’re bouncing off the walls? Head to a trampoline park – together. Whether you want to work out with your child or give them a safe space to socialize while you sweat, there are fewer ways to justify staying home.

DROP THE KIDS OFF

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Flight Fit at Flight Fit N Fun
Parents can burn up to 1,000 calories in this hour-long low-impact class that takes advantage of the facility’s 15,000 square feet of trampolines and more. Plan to jump, crunch and push-up your way to health while kiddos ages 6 and younger can jump in the Kidz Zone for free.

Cost: $11/class, $16/two-class pass, $70/10-class pass
Where: 7200 Fullerton Road, Springfield, VA
When: 9:30 a.m.-10:30 a.m., Tuesday, Friday and Sunday; 8 a.m. and 9 a.m., Saturday
Online: flightfitnfun.com

UrbanFit Bootstraps at Urban Evolution
This strength-focused class for grown-ups happens alongside kids’ classes so everyone can get their fit on at the same time. This class starts with exercises designed to increase pull-up strength and climbing ability and ends with cardio to cover all your bases.

Cost: $20 drop-in rate
Where:  5505 Cherokee Ave., Alexandria, VA
When: check website
Online: urbanevo.com

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Barre3
Drop the kids in the Play Lounge while you take a class rooted in functional training with elements of ballet barre, pilates and yoga. The full-body, low-impact workout covers body alignment, isometric holds, and small and large movements, each of which target different areas of fitness, including strength and cardio.

Cost: $29/class, see website for packages; $8/play lounge or $72/10 pack
Where: 1832 14th St. NW; 1000 Wisconsin Ave. NW; 1243 1st St. SE; 4900 Massachusetts Ave. NW; 701 2nd St. NE; 4829 Cordell Ave., Bethesda; 715 Duke St., Alexandria; 2800 Clarendon Blvd., Arlington
When: Check website
Online: barre3.com

YMCA Anthony Bowen
It’s fun to stay at the YMCA! At least that’s the goal of the Child Watch and Cool Kids Club programs. The first is for ages eight weeks to 4 years and is free for YMCA members, while the latter is for ages 4-12 and costs $10/month and a $5 drop-in fee. Themes in the club include science and Lego engineering. For grownups, the group fitness opportunities cover it all: aerial yoga, barre, belly dancing, boxing, Bodypump, cycling, Tabata, yoga and Zumba.

Cost: Contact for info
Where: 1325 W St. NW
When: Check website
Online: ymcadc.org

MAKE IT A FAMILY AFFAIR

 

Stroller Barre
From the group that brought is Stroller Strides, there’s a new option that blends pilates, ballet and barre movements suitable for the pre- and postnatal woman. Plan to use exercise tubes, a stroller and the environment to promote toning and fat-burning.

Cost:
Where: 3415 8th St. NE, 225 7th St. SE
When: 10-11 a.m. Wednesday at Edgewood Arts Center, 9:30-10:30 a.m. Friday at Eastern Market
Online: dc.fit4mom.com

Mommy + Baby Fit at CrossFit South Arlington
Designed for pregnant and new moms, this class takes aim at getting your core strong to either carry a baby or get back in shape after giving birth. Babies are welcome to be part of the class, and women need clearance from their doctor to participate.

Cost: $25/day
Where: 607 S. Ball St., Arlington
When: Check website
Online: crossfitsoutharlington.com

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EarthTreks Climbing
Take your family’s fitness to new heights with a trip to EarthTreks. Rock climbers young and old can test out their bouldering or repelling skills during special family programs designed to help participants build strength, self-confidence, and trust. Open climbs are also a great and–at $5 a person–affordable way to test your climbing chops. And let’s not forget cross training: EarthTreks offers fitness and yoga classes designed to complement those climbing sessions.

3 Locations in Md. And Va.
Online: earthtreksclimbing.com

Baby Mombo
Nobody puts baby in a corner at this dance studio. Wear your baby as you dance your way through this 45-minute high-energy class. Geared toward all fitness levels, this class lets you feel the love while you feel the burn.

Cost: $15/drop-in, $80/six classes
Where: 4513 College Ave., College Park
When: 11-11:45 a.m. Tuesday
Online: bouncingbambini.com

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Bouncing Bambini
Looking to mambo and rumba your way to fitness? Look no further than Bouncing Bambini’s family-focused Zumbini and Baby Mombo classes. Zumbini combines Zumba-style music with dancing, singing, and instruments for a class where kiddos ages 0-4 and their caregivers will move and make memories at the same time. Bouncing Bambini’s newest addition is Baby Mombo, a high-energy babywearing dance class where you can sweat and smile with your little one cuddled close to you.

Online: bouncingbambini.com

Yoga for You and the Baby/Tots/Kids at Sun and Moon Yoga Studio

Get your Zen on with your kiddo at classes for babies, tots or kids. The studio defines babies as infants to near-crawlers, and the class focuses on post-natal safety for both body and mind. Exercises emphasize support for feeding, holding, lifting and carrying the baby, plus participants learn baby massage. For the tot crew – those who are on the move – the class incorporates yoga poses, stories, music and creative movement, while the class for kids ages 7 and up is an all-levels yoga class with breathing and relaxation techniques.

Cost: First class is free, $16/class
Where: 3811 Lee Highway, Arlington and 9998 Main St., Fairfax
When: From Jan. 2-April 16 — 10:30-11:15 a.m. Wednesday for babies in Fairfax; 11:30 a.m. Wednesday for babies, 11:30 a.m. for tots and 6:15 p.m. for kids in Arlington
Online: sunandmoonstudio.com

—Stephanie Kanowitz and Sarah Vogel

Being a new mama is exciting, but it can be overwhelming, too, especially here in NYC. But have no fear, new parents; help is here. From the best spot to see a movie, fix the stroller, or find like-minded parents, to the must-visit playspaces and smart ways to find a sitter, Red Tricycle can help you navigate new motherhood with ease. Take the below advice as you embark on the important task of raising a savvy city baby.

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1. Need to get out of your apartment already? With two Manhattan locations, apple seeds is an-all-in-one playspace that offers cute classes for kids of all ages, starting with newborns. Try Developmental Movement or Songs for Seeds. Your baby can have fun and you can talk to another human (adult). This play space also operates an adorable hair salon/children’s book and toy store called DoodleDoo’s if you’re in the market for a trim and a new toy.

10 West 25th St.
Chelsea212-792-7590

200 West End Ave.
Upper West Side
212-792-7591

Online: appleseedsplay.com

photo: Tot Squad

2. Spilled milk and slush-stains taking over your stroller? NYC Tot Squad is a mobile, eco-friendly cleaning service for strollers, car seats and more, and they recently opened a service center in Chelsea’s Buy Buy Baby!)  It’s amazing how dirty these must-have baby items can get after spills, winter weather and normal wear and tear. CleanBeeBaby can sanitize and deep clean your soiled baby gear at a local store or play space or make a house call if you’re in Manhattan.

photo: via Smart Sitting Facebook page 

3. Need a reliable, experienced sitter? New York is full of childcare services staffed with pros that will keep your babe safe while you work/do errands/administer self-care, and occupy and entertain your child when they are a bit bigger, too!

photo: via Emily H. on Yelp

4. Miss going to the movie theater? No, you don’t have to give up your cinema habit. Lots of movie theaters cater to families and kids, and Williamsburg’s Nighthawk Cinema even hosts movie screenings for parents and their babies. They show current releases, so you can catch up on the “it” flicks even though this is a big year for you.

5. Need advice about car seats? Call the Car Seat Lady! Even if you don’t have a car, you need a car seat to leave the hospital. The Car Seat Lady has a wealth of knowledge on everything from the best seats for traveling with to the best Zip Cars to rent if you’ve got a baby on board. She’ll also show you how to install seats correctly in both your own car and rental cars. A must-contact if you’re worried about safety on the road.

6. Never got around to taking that infant CPR class? It’s not too late! You can take Infant CPR all over the city, at most local YMCA chapters, the 92nd Street YJCC ManhattanTribeca Pediatrics locations, Raising Astoria and Little Hearts CPR, among many others.

7. Wishing you had a bra that actually fits? How many bra sizes have your worn in the last year? Keep up with your changing needs at expert fitters Rigby & Peller.  It is the place to shop for bras. By taking your exact measurements, trained stylists find you comfortable lingerie that actually fits and flatters.

1252 Madison Ave.
Upper East Side
Online: rigbyandpeller.com

104 Fifth Ave.
Flatiron

1051 Third Ave.
Upper East side

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8. Want some adorable/cool duds for the kid? The baby doesn’t care what it wears. In fact, as soon as it can, it is going to start trying to take it all off. But if you care, NYC is a bonanza of adorable baby and kids boutiques selling one of a kind items. So grab your infant and get ready to browse through the likes of Torly Kid  and Babesta downtown, Picnic in Cobble Hill and  Smoochie Baby in Williamsburg.

9. Building Baby’s library? Books of Wonder  , which caters to young bibliophiles, is a NYC institution, and opened an Upper West Side location as a companion to original downtown store. Inside, you’ll find current and rare books for kids of all ages as well as events ranging from writer launch parties and teen author festivals to story times.

18 West 18th St.
Flatiron
Online: booksofwonder.com

10. Need a doula? Your personal network is probably the best way to start, whether that’s your friends or OB/GYN, but The NYC Doula collective is a great resource, and helps make the cost of of doula accessible thanks to different pricing tiers. Birth Day Presence in Park Slope has a similar system.

11. Clueless about breast pumps? Even before your baby needs clothes, furniture or brain-boosting activities (remember, Kindergarten admissions is a scant five years away!), they need to eat. If you choose to formula feed, you’ll need bottles, nipples, a scrub-brush that can go deep, and possibly even a bottle warmer. For those you can go chain, like Babies-R-Us or even your local CVS or Duane Reade. But if you’re nursing, you’ll probably want more personalized attention to help you pick a bra, breast-pump, lotion and pillows. For that, check out The Upper Breast Side,  Yummy Mummy or Wild Was Mama.

12. Want some breastfeeding support? If you do choose to breastfeed, you may learn (many do) that you and baby do not join as one and float off on some endorphin-fueled cloud; it can take some practice to get the hang of it. For the record, the NYC Mother’s Guide to Breastfeeding is chock full of info. Check out your local La Leche League meeting to get help, or ask your pediatrician for a local recommendation. Breastfeeding support groups also meet regularly at community centers and spots like the JCC, your local Y, Raising Astoria in Queens and GUMBO in BrooklynDoctor Mona Gabbay specializes in issues with breastfeeding for families in the New York area (she makes house calls) and Board Certified Lactation Consultant Freda Rosenfeld is known in many circles as a boob whisperer.

12. In search of some Mommy & Me exercise?  Harlem Yoga Studio is dedicated to being affordable and accessible to all moms and their babies, while The Yoga Room in Astoria and Long Island City brings a similar service to Queens, Bread & Yoga serves Inwood, and Brooklyn has Shanti Baby Yoga. Feel like swimming instead of omm-ing? Imagine Swimming and Take Me to the Water have locations around the city, while 92nd St. Y and 14th St. Y fulfill the needs of those looking for more than just swimming lessons, with other family programming. And don’t forget the gyms that offer childcare (that’s the “Just Me” part).

photo: via The Great Room Facebook page 

13.  Looking for a place to connect with other families in Brooklyn? Check out The Great Room, a new spot in the Columbia Waterfront District founded by two therapists (and moms) who wanted “to provide a cozy, warm and safe space for parents to connect with each other, share resources, support others and be supported.” Drop-in with or without your kid for $10 and enjoy free coffee and tea, a play area for kids, a work area for parents, information and resources for families and a rotating roster of experts on parenting issues to consult with informally. Plus!: classes and activities for kids (sensory play, singalongs, play groups, Spanish) and adults (yoga, childbirth education, financial planning, breastfeeding support group, creative writing, infant/child nutrition, etc.) And there’s more: they’ve got a great outdoor space (with a play area for kids) and will host your party or event, too!

The Great Room
194 Columbia St.
Columbia Waterfront District
718-797-2469
Online: thegreatroom.org

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14. Need some postnatal recovery help? Check out an Everyday Athlete Postnatal Strength Session. It offers exercises, tips, and strategies to getting back to feeling like your pre-pregnancy self again!

One Brooklyn Bridge
Brooklyn Bridge Park
Online: everydayathlete.com

130 Clinton St.
Brooklyn Heights

photo: Deer Baby

15. Want to capture those precious first weeks with a photo? Hire a professional to make sure you get a good one. (also: holiday card: check!)

16. Have a budding gymnast? Jodi’s Gym offers two sessions offered for youngsters (9-14 months) with adult supervision – Teeny Tumblers, where you and Baby move and groove to music, and Jammin’ at Jodi’s, where you sing along while exploring musical instruments and props. Both classes are 45 minutes.

244 East 84th St.
Upper East Side
212-772-7633
Online: jodisgym.com

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17. Not exactly a top chef? Let someone else do the work and get some post-partum food delivered! 

18. Wish you had a few new mom friends? The city has no shortage of groups for new moms. Find one based on your neighborhood – HRP Mamas or Park Slope Parents, for example. Or, pick one based on your situation such as New York Newcomers or Executive Moms. Pick the perfect match from Red Tricycle’s list of NYC’s top parenting groups.

19. Looking to boost your baby’s skills? Based in Brooklyn, Bright Start Babies offers a variety of classes for expectant mothers, adoptive families, babies and children ages 6 weeks to 10 years old. Classes are held at TrueNorth Wellness and cover everything from tummy time and hugging to yoga and baby massage.

61 Tompkins Pl.
Cobble Hill
Online: brightstartbabies.net

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photo: The Peanut Life 

20. Want to show the world that you’re a NYC-proud parent? For hip, Big Apple-inspired baby clothes and accessories, swing by Piccolini for New York-themed chunky books, Tee’s, rattles, toys and more. Proceeds from many store items go to charity; and the store’s collection of girly accessories and rock band tees is gush-worthy.

230B Mulberry St.
Little Italy
212-775-1118
Online: piccolininyc.com

21. Thinking about going the cloth diaper route? Check out NYC’s cloth diaper service, Diaperkind.

22. Pining for a pre-natal massage? We have plenty of suggestions on where you can get that tension kneaded away.  If you’re near Park Slope and ready for a pre or post-natal massage from a specially trained masseuse, doula Lena DeGloma of Red Moon Wellness is your go-to woman. Good to know: Besides having magical hands, DeGloma also teaches holistic birth education classes for couples seeking a home or hospital birth and offers birth tub rentals.

641 President St.
Suite 203
Park Slope
Online: redmoonwellness.com

23. Looking for an easier way to get from Uptown to Downtown? Kid Car New York transports kids (solo, or with parent) safely throughout Manhattan in a large vehicle (read no stress about fitting your stroller in the trunk) with car seats. Other company options include car seat rental, seat checks, and pick up of a specific car seat (belonging to customer) to be used in a Kid Car. This means you don’t have to fumble to get your car seat into a cab fast or haul that stroller up and down the subway stairs. (Lyft and Uber now also offer a car seat option. Read our review of Lyft’s here!)

 

photo: Wild Was Mama Facebook page

24. Don’t know what to do with that baby wrap? At Wild Was Mama in Greenpoint, besides finding eco-friendly baby and lifestyle clothing and accessories, you can try on any baby carrier in the store. If you go before baby arrives, you can test the carriers with baby dolls to simulate real-life baby wearing. The laid-back, friendly staffers are always ready to help you get the right fit and teach you new ways to wear wraps. Tons of other stuff happens here, too, from parent meetups to classes to singalongs, this is a must-go for all new parents!

272 Driggs Ave.
Greenpoint
Online: wildwasmama.com

photo: Mom in Balance

25. Looking to get back in shape, head outside and find community? Try Mom in Balance, the workout all the moms in Europe are doing! 

26. Need a mommy makeover? Manhattan mom and makeup artist Debra Rubin-Roberts, launched Mommy Makeup, a cosmetics line catered to busy moms; a full face can be applied in just a few minutes (ahhh…some alone time…) and the web site also has informative skincare videos.

27. Broken stroller? If your stroller breaks, have no fear – it can be repaired. Enter Stroller Spa. Based in Manhattan and Brooklyn, Stroller Spa not only rents strollers to visiting moms, but will repair yours if it’s broken, too.

28. Need a baby kimono? Of course you do! Just when you thought you couldn’t coo enough over baby clothes, along comes Lucky Wang. Their insanely adorable baby kimonos can be worn every season, alone or layered with other garments and has easy-to-tie ties and snaps. Various locations, Manhattan

29. Desperately seeking sleep? Aren’t we all? If you’re looking for a night nanny, post-baby, so you can score some extra shut-eye, contact Gentle Hands. The company’s Night Nannies help parents guide their baby to sleep throughout the night and help care for baby while you get some much-needed rest.

30. Ready to let the kid roam? Check out our favorite indoor playspaces in around the city,  as well as our guides to those in Brooklyn and Queens. The options are (almost) infinite!

Did we miss anything? What do you think new NYC moms need to know about?

— Rachel Sokol

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Whether your little is yet to make an appearance, is no longer so little, or anywhere in between, there’s a yoga studio in Chicago that will leave them feeling a bit more zen. Read on to plan your yogi-in-training’s next date with the mat.

photo: courtesy of freestocks.org via flickr

For Expecting Mamas
You’re probably already familiar with the benefits of prenatal yoga, but head to Sweet Pea’s Studio, Chicago’s first family yoga center, where moms are treated to so much more than a yoga class.  Whether you choose to attend childbirth classes, book a massage or drop-in on a breastfeeding clinic, this studio is sure to help you find a tribe and be the best mama you can be!

Sweet Pea’s Studio
3717 N. Ravenswood Ave. #214
Lakeview
773-248-9642
Online: sweetpeasstudio.com

For Bouncing Babies
If you’re looking for an activity that will benefit you and your baby, head to Cocoon Care for their Baby and Me Yoga Class or any other post-natal class, because your little is welcome to join! In the Baby and Me Yoga Class, not only will you build your own strength, but you’ll also build a bond with your bundle of joy.

Cocoon Care
409 W. Huron, Suite 100
Near North Side
312-265 0615
Online:cocooncare.com

For Terrific Toddlers
You might think your toddler can’t do yoga because sitting still is just so difficult, but check out the schedule from Buddha Belly Kid’s Yoga for classes to keep toddler’s entertained and grounded. These classes nurture toddler’s natural desire to move and play, while focusing on poses that help them relax. Private lessons are available for kids of all ages.

Buddha Belly Kid’s Yoga
Online: buddhabellykidsyoga.com/

photo: Tula Yoga

For a Crowd
If you want to give yoga a whirl with the whole family in tow, head to Tula’s Family Yoga on Sundays at 3:30 p.m. Families up to 4 people can participate in the class that includes breathing exercises, dancing, story time and relaxation for only $12.

Tula Yoga
2827 W. Belden Ave.
Logan Square
773-620-9945
Online: tulayoga.net

Gratitude Yoga also offers a family class that welcomes young and less young.  On Saturdays at 12:30 p.m. the all-ages class introduces your crew to relaxation techniques like meditation and journaling, while having fun!

Gratitude Yoga
510 W. North Avenue
Old Town
630-803-7157
Online: gratitudeyogachicago.com

For School Age Kiddos
By the time your littles are in school, they can make decisions on their own regarding health and well being. Encourage them to check out Yogakids at Ahimsa Yoga Studio on Oak Park where they’ll learn techniques that encourage self-control, maturity and well-being, while maintaining a focus on good times!

Ahimsa Yoga Studio
441 South Blvd.
Oak Park
844-295-0922
Online: Ahimsayogastudios.com

photo: Bloom Yoga

For Everyone
At the accessible Bloom Yoga Studio, they make it their mission to have something for all ages and stages of yoga practice.  From prenatal yoga to story time yoga to teen yoga, Bloom Yoga Studio can support your family through all of life’s stages.  Check out their programs to help your kids develop lifelong healthy habits.

Bloom Yoga Studio
4663 N. Rockwell
Ravenswood
773-463-9642
Online: bloomyogastudio.com

Share your favorite place to practice yoga with your littles in the Comments below.

— Lisa Snart

Of course pregnancy is a gift unto itself, but it can also be stressful mentally and physically. There won’t be much time to recharge after the baby arrives, so that’s why we have babymoons, or vacations before the little one’s birthday. Check out these local options for pampering through massage and food or an all-out escape from city life – all within driving distance of your OBGYN.

Photo: W Hotel

For those who, well, need to stay nearby
No need to go far to get pampered. Head to the W Hotel for a trendy spot a stone’s throw from the White House. In fact, sneak a peek at it from the POV Rooftop lounge before or after heading down to Bliss Spa for a 75-minute Great Expectations Massage. It takes aim at swelling and stimulates circulation. Bonus: Come back for a post-natal Rookie Mom Rubdown Massage and Toning Treatment, which targets the tummy area. 

W Hotel
515 15th St., NW
202-661-2400
Onlinewwashingtondc.com

Photo: Ayren Jackson-Cannady

For those who are bringing their entire family
So, the crew wants to tag along? You’re in luck! A new “D.C. Explorers package” ($299, through Sept. 30) gives locals the opportunity to wander the city, completing challenges like finding a specific name on the Vietnam War Memorial. Included in the package are overnight accommodations, Free metro passes and complimentary overnight parking. How it works: After checking into your room, you download the City Hunt app and login to the hotel’s specific scavenger hunt. You’ll be given clues that will lead you through nooks and crannies, and to statues and monuments. You’ll snap pics and take videos along the way to document the fun. Best part? Expecting mamas can join in on the fun or stay behind for a dip in the pool, a facial at the spa, or an uninterrupted meal for one (er, two) at Fyve, the hotels base restaurant.

1250 South Hayes St. (Arlington, Va)
703-415-5000
Online: ritzcarlton.com

Photo: Inn at Little Washington

For those seeking to cure cravings
Try the Inn at Little Washington. Well known for its food, gorge on “enduring classics” such as pan-roasted Maine lobster with fennel pollen on tomato butter with garlic custard, and grilled carrots and young coconut with toasted cashews on parade. Who doesn’t love a parade, really? When the food coma hits, head to one of the inn’s 24 bedrooms and suites or to one of several nearby homes available for rent. Bonus: Kitchen tours are included with a stay.

Middle and Main Sts. (Washington, Va)
540-675-3800
Online: theinnatlittlewashington.com

Photo: Holladay House

For those who need a pre-bundle of joy
The circa 1830 Holladay House offers a babymoon package (starting at $189 plus the room rate) that includes an in-room pregnancy massage (add a second in-room massage for Dad for $90), a fruit and preggo-friendly cheese tray, a bottle of sparkling non-alcoholic cider or grape juice, gourmet chocolate, and a gift certificate for dinner at a nearby restaurant. Bonus: Visit the home of President James Madison, situated three miles west of the inn.

Holladay House
155 W. Main St. (Orange, Va)
540-672-4893
Online: holladayhousebandb.com/babymoon.html

Photo: Savage River Lodge

For the naturalist
Savage River Lodge sits amid 700 acres of Maryland state forest lands. Stay in the lodge, a cabin or a yurt – a 30-foot diameter round structure with a private deck. The Babymoon Package ($350 plus lodging rate) includes one night in a yurt, a snack basket, Republic of Tea Get Maternal Tea, a mug and a teddy bear keepsake. Available Sunday through Thursday only, you can add on a prenatal massage for $100 or a one-hour maternity photo shoot for $275. Bonus: The bridge crossing the river’s headwaters is a recycled military bridge that was slated to go to Bosnia. 

Savage River Lodge
1600 Mount Aetna Rd. (Frostburg, Md)
301-689-3200 
Online: savageriverlodge.com

Photo: Inn at Perry Cabin

For those craving a laidback (zero-gravity) pool
When you visit the Inn at Perry Cabin you’ll be surrounded by luxury and relaxation. There are lush gardens, a gorgeous pool, and the waters of the Miles River to keep you visually enthralled. When you’re not sunning your bump by the pool you can enjoy a variety of resort activities, an afternoon getting your relax on at the spa where they offer services for moms-to-be, or time shopping in the surrounding towns where you can also get a little history lesson on Talbot County, Maryland.

Inn at Perry Cabin by Belmond
308 Watkins Lane (St. Michaels, Md)
410-745-2200
Online: belmond.com

Have you been on an amazing local babymoon? Tell us about it in the comments section below. 

—Stephanie Kanowitz

Even if you know how important it is to take “you” time, your busy schedule (and selfless mama brain) says no way. So classes at the new XO Fitness in Sherman Oaks are just what you need: it’s amazing for your body and brain and simultaneously benefits your family, because not only will you increase your overall fitness, but also your endurance, posture and attitude. You’ll come back from a class so happy and energized, your family will beg you to go back!

So Zen, So Pretty, So Clean
You walk in and it’s gorgeous. Clean, minimal, looks like the design of a hip new restaurant. Relaxing. Well, take a deep breath and enjoy a zen moment, because that’s about to change. For the next 50 minutes, you’re going to have your butt kicked, in the best possible way.

Meet Sara Lewis, Your New Inspiration (and Friend!)
Founder/Creator Sara Lewis started out as an athletic yet uncoordinated and unfitness-y kind of gal. So you can relate to her, and she can relate to you. After struggling to find a class that would address cardio needs while also making sure to strength train the core, upper and lower body, she came up empty. After trying everything: Pilates, barre, bootcamp, Cross-Fit, yoga, boxing, rowing, dance and ballet, she realized that class didn’t exist. So she’d better invent it.

One Class To Rule Them All
This is why we love her. She gets that busy moms need everything all at once. We can’t take 8 different classes a week. And we’re used to multi-tasking. We bore easily. So she opened her first studio with this in mind, and has now expanded with an even larger new place, XO: Cross Over Fitness. The format here includes boxing and cardio, reformers, springboards, weights, rowers and heavy bags. It’s the ultimate, full body experience. One 50-minute class to rule them all.

Let It Be Hard
Sarah is currently pregnant with her second child, and can help you adjust your workout for wherever your body is in motherhood: pregnant, post-natal, or even “Oh my god, the kids are getting older and I haven’t been in a gym in years.” But don’t think she’ll take it easy on you. She says, “My philosophy is: Let it be hard; it already is. Let’s not deny that what we are doing is tough, but instead, let’s embrace that this is hard and we are stronger and better for it.”

And you will be. Stronger and better.

Three Strikes, You’re In!
There are three good reasons why it’s easy to avoid the gym. And XO Fitness knocks out all of them.

One: Gyms and classes are dirty, with all those sweaty bodies sharing equipment. Nope, this place is the cleanest we’ve seen. Spotless. Cleaned thoroughly between classes, there are new boxing gloves and wipes readily available for you to use.

Two: It’s too hard figure out the equipment or moves. Not the case here. Yes, there’s a learning curve. The first class you figure out what to do (and when you want to do it—we always want to end with the boxing at Station A, FYI). But by the third class, you got it. And the unbelievably nice and helpful instructors will give you pointers if you’re confused.

Three: No time for classes. Well, this takes less than 50 minutes, and frankly the mix of pilates, abs, and core strengthening will help your posture, bone density and other pains (like back) that you’ve been picking up as you pick up baby. So, really, you’re saving time now and in the future…

No excuses left.

5 Quick LA Mama Fit Tips From Sara:

  1. Here’s an easy change everyone can make that will change your life. One of the best pieces of advice I received when I was first getting certified in Pilates was while sitting at desk laptop, keep elbow to your ribs.  I had never realized I was slouching so much at my computer—the place I was sitting 2-3 hours a day!
  2. A (Realistic) Key to Daily Sanity in 12 Minutes:  Do 1 minute plank in the morning, give yourself 10 minutes of alone time midday (sitting in your car/at your desk/while you’re nursing/napping your baby etc.) to close you eyes and just breathe, and 1 minute plank in the evening.  It will change your life.
  3. My favorite place to exercise outdoors is hiking Runyon Canyon. They just renovated it and you can bring kids and dogs.
  4. If you’re pregnant, you can and should continue your fitness routine, what you have been doing leading up to your pregnancy, as long as you have the OK from your Doctor.  Try not to be intimidated by rules.  Listen to your body, YOU know it best!
  5. My favorite post workout snack in LA is the Acai bowls at Juice Crafters.  The day I went into labor, I was eating 2 of them a day.

Classes are offered daily, and you can find a time that fits your schedule from 6 a.m.-9 p.m.  You can pay for a single class at a time ($25) or buy class packs to save money.  Your first month is only $95 for unlimited classes.

And finally, here’s why you have zero excuse not to go; the first class is free. So, go do something for you. We’re giving you permission. In fact, consider it mamma’s orders.

XO: Cross Over Fitness
13950 Ventura Blvd.
Sherman Oaks
818-506-8411
Online: thecrossoverxo.com

What’s your favorite get and stay fit tips?  Share them in the comment section!

—Meghan Rose, photos by Meghan Rose and XO: Crossover Fitness

Having a newborn drains some zzzz’s for both parents; there’s no doubt about it! But according to a new book, dads are the ones more sleep deprived. According to The Informed Parent: A Science-Based Resource For Your Child’s First Four Yearsfathers are more fatigued from working “longer hours.”

Photo courtesy of Big D2112 via flickr

In one example, a 2004 study of 72 couples used wrist trackers during the first post-natal month to gather sleep activity. The studied showed that fathers had less sleep than mothers because the moms appeared to play catch-up during daytime hours when fathers (at work) were unable to do so. Is this true in your household?

Who’s more sleepy in your household? Tell us in the comments below!