Photo: Alex Proimos via Flickr

According to new research, men who work long hours make their wives feel more stressed and rushed, but women who work long hours don’t have the same effect on their husbands.

study suggests that even though men are spending more time at home than they did in the 1960s, women, on average, still spend nearly 5 more hours a week on household chores than men do and double the amount of time tending to young children’s physical needs.

“The job demands of men affect women, but we didn’t find any evidence that the opposite was the case,” said co-author Lyn Craig, a sociologist at the University of New South Wales in Australia. “I think it’s because women have the responsibility to make the family work around the male job.”

The study also says that when men worked long hours (more than 50 hours a week), their wives reported feeling more rushed and spent more time multitasking on household duties. This was the case no matter whether the woman was not employed outside the home, employed full time or employed part time.

To read more about this research, visit Live Science.

What are your thoughts? Tell us in the comments below.

 

Kids have no filter, and sometimes the things that come out of their mouths are confusing, hilarious, or brutally honest. And sometimes they say things that’ll flat-out send a shiver down our spines. We’ve compiled a list of creepy things children have said to their parents, as shared by parents of Reddit. So sit back and prepare to be spooked.

I was tucking in my two year old. He said “Good bye dad.” I said, “No, we say good night.” He said “I know. But this time it’s good bye.” Had to check on him a few times to make sure he was still there.

– UnfotunateBirthMark

 

While changing my daughter in front of the open closet door. She kept looking around me and laughing. I asked her what was so funny. She said, “the man.” To which I replied, “what man?” She then pointed at the closet and said, “the man with the snake neck.” I turn around and nothing was there. I’m afraid to look into the history of my house to see if anyone hung themselves in the closet. At least she wasn’t scared.

– QuagmireDP

 

“Daddy, remember that time we died?”

– CtrlShiftZ

 

“Go back to sleep, there isn’t anything under your bed”.

“He’s behind you now”.

– ToastedCheesee

 

My 3 year old daughter stood next to her new born brother and looked at him for awhile then turned and looked at me and said, “Daddy its a monster..we should bury it.”

– Like_I_Was_Sayin

 

I was sound asleep, and at around 6am I was woken up by my 4 year old daughter’s face inches from mine. She looked right into my eyes and whispered, “I want to peel all your skin off”.

– psalm_69

 

My niece was sitting on the couch with a weird look on her face. Her mom asked her what she was thinking about, and she said, “I’m imagining the waves of blood rushing over me.”

– hrhomer

 

Not to me, but to his grandmother. He was cuddling with her and being very sweet (he was about 3 at the time). He takes her face in his hands, and brings his face close to hers, then tells her that she’s very old, and will die soon. 

– NotTomPettysGirl

 

“My brain is telling me to do things I don’t want to do.”

– Bortson

 

My daughter told me she wanted to live with me and my wife forever. She’s 17.

– I_Am_Not_Jesus

 

Photo courtesy of Emily is Skittles via Flickr

 

What was the creepiest thing your child has ever said to you? Tell us in the comments below!

 

Daphne Brogdon is already an accomplished standup comic, restauranteur and blogger (she created two websites for moms: Coolmom.com and Momversation). Up next for this mom of two is her own cooking show on the Food Network called Daphne Dishes where she’ll bring her own fresh, fun and humorous approach to feeding the family. We recently chatted with Daphne about her new show, tips for feeding picky eaters and what is always stocked in her pantry.

Red Tricycle: Do you have any family dinner traditions or routines?

Daphne Brogdon: During the week, I often feed my kids and then feed myself and my husband, if he is home. The kids need to eat earlier and sometimes I want to keep working a bit longer. If we all sit down together we share our “Rose, Thorn and Silly” of the day. It’s a nice ice breaker and way for us to connect.

RT: Are your kids picky eaters? Is there any dish or food that your kids just can’t-live-without now?

DB: Yes, all kids are I think. Vivien, 9, is much more open minded when it comes to food. Rex, 6, will often fall back on butter and spaghetti (only Spaghetti and NOT al dente). He could live on yogurt and bacon, and sometimes does. My daughter really likes my marinated tofu, and she is also a great fish eater. They both love fries of course!

RT: What do your kids like to snack on?

DB: Potato chips, stone fruit, cherries, pomegranates – summer fruits are popular in our household. Then, when they will decide they like something new, like a corn chip or cheese cracker, I run to get more, but typically by then the 2nd box has lost its allure. When that happens I move it up the shelf to the “kids won’t eat it anymore” height and my husband will finish it off.

RT: What is your best advice for parents of picky eaters?

DB: Add one new thing on a plate with some regulars. Don’t introduce anything if they are super hungry or tired, because it will never go over well at that point. Don’t tell them it’s good for them. Rex just went to a garden camp where they made hummus. He is not rushing to eat it, but he at least tried it, so it is good that it’s now on his radar.

RT: If we took a peek in your pantry and fridge, what are the 3 things you always have on-hand?

DB: Soy sauce, because it works with ALL proteins. Rice, a few kinds from off-beat to rice- a-roni. Broths, they are the base or the addition to so many great dishes, and are also a great way to reheat some foods without adding oil.

RT: If you had to choose one meal to eat for a year what would it be and why?

DB: Since my husband and I opened our new fast-casual restaurant Bombo, I’ve had more access to great fresh fish, so that’s influenced what I eat more of lately so I would have to say right now it’s fish and rice. I don’t feel heavy after eating it, plus it’s easy to vary the taste, add some lemon, some soy and honey.

Have you watched Daphne Dishes? Do you have any further advice to share about feeding a picky eater? Leave a comment below!

Mom, wife, and home cook, Daphne Brogdon, brings a fresh, fun and humorous approach to feeding the family. Whether it is for a PTA meeting or a gals’ night in, Daphne cooks up a storm with simple recipes that will feed a crowd and bring the family together. Learn more about her show by clicking here. 

 

 

 

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Need a fresh perspective? Nothing beats seeing the world flipped upside down: the sky is down, the grass is up, and all that blood rushing to your head is starting to make you feel a little giddy. In honor of National Upside-Down Day, we bring you ten ways to get your feet in the air and your head on the ground. Now flip out!

Photo: Familjen Helsingborg via Flickr

  1. The classic: Do a headstand.
  2. The show-off: Do a handstand.
  3. The acrobat: Tumble into a somersault.
  4. The bat: Hang by bent legs from the monkey bars.
  5. The daredevil: Ride a twisty roller coaster.
  6. The technicality: Walk around the house looking down into a large mirror—it will feel as though you are walking on the ceiling!
  7. The Yogini: Push up into bridge pose.
  8. The gymnast: Stick the landing on your cartwheel
  9. The swimmer: Dive off the board head first.
  10. The assist: Ask mom or dad to grab you by the ankles and PULL!

Do you have any ideas to add? Let us know in the comments below! 

—Erin Feher

Any parent will tell you that Freud was definitely onto something. Because there comes a time when it’s all about the potty for the Littles. Which kind of makes it all about the potty for you, too. And finding those family-friendly bathrooms when you’re out and about is nothing short of challenging. So we’ve snapped some pics of family-friendly potties that will put a smile on your face, and have your wee ones rushing to well, wee. From the lavish lounge for nursing moms to the family bathroom that could fit the entire Brady Bunch, we’ve got your back(side) covered! Click away!

South Side Haven

More of a VIP rock star lounge than a bathroom, the family restroom at Westfield Southcenter Mall provides plenty of space and even entertainment for families lookin’ to go. Spacious changing tables with trash bins in arm’s reach, private nursing stations with comfy chairs, both big and little potties with matching sinks in a lockable bathroom. Parents call that the “tears of joy” bathroom amenities list. But the wall puzzles, lounge chairs and family-friendly programming on the TV put this bathroom over the edge. Even the draw of the children’s play area (just right outside) might not be enough to pull the little ones away from this potty paradise!

Westfield Southcenter Mall
2800 Southcenter Mall
Seattle, Wa 98188

Find it: Near the children's play area (by Starbucks & Crazy 8)

A special “thank you” to our awesome Red Tricycle Facebook friends for their amazing suggestions on this one!

Know of another family-friendly bathroom around town? Share it with us in a comment below.

–Allison Sutcliffe

Photo thanks to: Seattle Children’s Museum

“Music gives a soul to the universe, wings to the mind, flight to the imagination and life to everything.” –Plato

Loads of research shows that music can uplift and restore the spirit–so much so, in fact, that I have a “go-to” playlist of music that makes me feel happy. At the top of my list? Ray Charles’s “I Can See Clearly Now”; Luce’s “Good Day,” Martin Sexton’s “Happy,” Paul McCartney’s “Maybe I’m Amazed,” and Van Morrison’s “Full Force Gale.”

With so many online services offering free music (I like Pandora) it is easy to make a go-to happiness playlist.  Make yours today.

Christine Carter, Ph.D., is a coach and the author of RAISING HAPPINESS: 10 Simple Steps for More Joyful Kids and Happier Parents.  A sociologist at UC Berkeley’s Greater Good Science Center, her goal is to help parents bring more joy into their own lives and the lives of their children.

Want more great tips?
Happy Mom Tip #1: Disconnect
Happy Mom Tip #2: Stop Rushing Around
Happy Mom Tip #3: Express Gratitude
Happy Mom Tip #4: Organize
Happy Mom Tip #5: Forgive Someone
Happy Mom Tip #6: Get Excited About Someone Else’s Good News
Happy Mom Tip #7: Celebrate a Mistake
Happy Mom Tip #8: Talk To Strangers
Happy Mom Tip #9: Share Your Good News
Happy Mom Tip #10: Flex Your Generosity Muscle
Happy Mom Tip #11: Be Kind
Happy Mom Tip #12: Take a Break 
Happy Mom Tip #13: Dance Around
Happy Mom Tip #14: Make Yourself Guffaw
Happy Mom Tip #15: Take a Stroll
Happy Mom Tip #16: Go Out and Play With Some Friends
Happy Mom Tip #17: Give Out Some Hugs
Happy Mom Tip #18: Find Some Inspiration
Happy Mom Tip #19: Get Out into Nature
Happy Mom Tip #20: Imagine Your “Best Possible Future Self”
Happy Mom Tip #21: Get Enough Sleep
Happy Mom Tip #22: Let Yourself Feel What You Feel
Happy Mom Tip #23: Expose Yourself to Someone Else’s Pain
Happy Mom Tip #24: Turn Off the Boob Tube
Happy Mom Tip #25: Don’t Buy That Thing That You Really Want
Happy Mom Tip #26: Take a Blatant Nap
Happy Mom Tip #27: Play a Game That Makes You Happy
Happy Mom Tip #28: Spend Some Time Alone
Happy Mom Tip #29: Take a Power Nap
Happy Mom Tip #30: Learn Something New
Happy Mom Tip #31: Have an Easy Morning
Happy Mom Tip #32: One Kind Thing.
Happy Mom Tip #33: Exhale. Twice.
Happy Mom Tip #34: Stop Stalling 
Happy Mom Tip #35: Make Your Task List More Fun
Happy Mom Tip #36: Ignore Your Kids
Happy Mom Tip #37: Take 20
Happy Mom Tip #38: Call a Friend
Happy Mom Tip #39: Lower Your Expectations
Happy Mom Tip #40: Commit to Kindness
Happy Mom Tip #41: Automate a Hassle
Happy  Mom Tip #42: Say No to Someone Besides Yourself
Happy Mom Tip #43: Hang Out with an Animal

photo courtesy of Relaxing Music via Creative Commons

Oh no, your kiddo has a runny nose and a cough. What could it be this time? Before rushing off to the doctor’s office, it pays to do a little research into your kid’s symptoms. With thousands of health-related websites and smartphone apps to choose from, finding the best can be daunting. We checked in with local doctors to find out which sites they recommend—and use themselves. Kristen Russell of Seattle Magazine writes:

I want trustworthy general medical information
Nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/

The National Institutes of Health’s website offers very good general health information and a good place to start for health-related searches.

I just heard a troubling health news report and want to find out if it’s true
healthnewsreview.org

A media watchdog website that casts a critical eye on television and other media reports, via a team of more than two dozen physicians, professors of medicine and health journalists.

I want to investigate my child’s symptoms
Swedish Kids Symptom Checker

Swedish hospital’s site for parents offers quick advice for coping with a wide variety of children’s symptoms, including possible causes and home treatments, and when to seek professional help.

I need reliable info about child health, safety and development
healthychildren.org

The American Academy of Pediatrics’ website is packed with information, tips and tools for parents, including a symptom checker, pediatrician Q&As, safety checklists and more.

Check out the rest of the list over at Seattle Magazine.

This is our weekly guest post from our friends at Seattle Magazine, which keeps readers on the pulse of restaurants, personalities, arts, entertainment and culture that reflect the tapestry of our dynamic landscape. We’ve teamed up for an exciting partnership to bring you a weekly dose of fantastic Date Night ideas throughout greater Seattle.

Wittlebee, a cool new mom-commerce site, has solved two major problems moms and dads face when outfitting their kids. Number one being annoyance at trivial logos and photos stamped on kids clothes. Yes, we mean those smiley faces or orange letters ruining  perfectly good tees. How many times have you spied a beautiful violet top hanging innocently in the sales rack, then you flip it around to find it has been defiled by something cheesy and totally not you? This is the same frustration new parents Sean and Laurie Percival, founders of Wittlebee, had when shopping for their first baby.

The second problem solved by Wittlebee: Shopping for little ones with your little one in-tow. You either drag the kids to the mall (we all know how much patience kids have for being hauled around a store that does not have toys or sugar) or you find some time (cause you have so much) to sprint out by yourself or steal a few naptime minutes for some online shopping. It’s sad to say, but shopping with kids usually makes for rushed purchases and meltdowns (for you and them!).

What’s the deal with Wittlebee?
Wittlebee is essentially a personal shopping service that muddles through the junk to ship you the best of the best kids clothes. Because kids are always growing, Wittlebee delivers a new box each month for $40. You will receive a combo of neutrals that easily mix and match to create fun outfits. A survey and a personal stylist will further assist you in customizing clothing choices for your kids, and don’t worry, you can pause or stop the deliveries at anytime.

This is the third recent start-up from Los Angeles incubator Science, headed up by former MySpace CEO, Mike Jones.

Online: wittlebee.com

–Katie Ludin

Our friendships and close relationships–both how many we have, and how positive they are–are one of the best predictors of our happiness. But in the hustle and bustle of everyday life, our friends often get short-shrift.

This week, make time to call a friend just to catch up. Better yet, schedule time to do this regularly, preferably at the same time on the same day each week. Odds are that you’ll feel happier when you get off the phone, and you’ll be shoring up your friendships for the long-haul.

We’ve teamed up with  our friend Christine Carter, to bring you 52 simple tips (one each Monday!) on bringing joy and happiness into your own Mommyhood. Get more happiness tips by taking the Raising Happiness class or by reading Christine’s blog.

Want more great tips?
Happy Mom Tip #1: Disconnect
Happy Mom Tip #2: Stop Rushing Around
Happy Mom Tip #3: Express Gratitude
Happy Mom Tip #4: Organize
Happy Mom Tip #5: Forgive Someone
Happy Mom Tip #6: Get Excited About Someone Else’s Good News
Happy Mom Tip #7: Celebrate a Mistake
Happy Mom Tip #8: Talk To Strangers
Happy Mom Tip #9: Share Your Good News
Happy Mom Tip #10: Flex Your Generosity Muscle
Happy Mom Tip #11: Be Kind
Happy Mom Tip #12: Take a Break 
Happy Mom Tip #13: Dance Around
Happy Mom Tip #14: Make Yourself Guffaw
Happy Mom Tip #15: Take a Stroll
Happy Mom Tip #16: Go Out and Play With Some Friends
Happy Mom Tip #17: Give Out Some Hugs
Happy Mom Tip #18: Find Some Inspiration
Happy Mom Tip #19: Get Out into Nature
Happy Mom Tip #20: Imagine Your “Best Possible Future Self”
Happy Mom Tip #21: Get Enough Sleep
Happy Mom Tip #22: Let Yourself Feel What You Feel
Happy Mom Tip #23: Expose Yourself to Someone Else’s Pain
Happy Mom Tip #24: Turn Off the Boob Tube
Happy Mom Tip #25: Don’t Buy That Thing That You Really Want
Happy Mom Tip #26: Take a Blatant Nap
Happy Mom Tip #27: Play a Game That Makes You Happy
Happy Mom Tip #28: Spend Some Time Alone
Happy Mom Tip #29: Take a Power Nap
Happy Mom Tip #30: Learn Something New
Happy Mom Tip #31: Have an Easy Morning
Happy Mom Tip #32: One Kind Thing.
Happy Mom Tip #33: Exhale. Twice.
Happy Mom Tip #34: Stop Stalling 
Happy Mom Tip #35: Make Your Task List More Fun
Happy Mom Tip #36: Ignore Your Kids
Happy Mom Tip #37: Take 20

photo courtesy of Tres Sugar

This week’s tip: Laughter really is the best medicine

Laughter lowers stress hormones (even the expectation of laughter can do this) and elevates feel-good beta-endorphins and the human growth hormone.  For this reason, find something that makes you laugh every time and keep it handy.

For me, it is watching my kids laugh (especially my daughter Molly, who is tiny but has a belly laugh the size of  Buddah).  All I do when I need a laugh is let them watch a few funny animal videos on YouTube or Animal Planet. They immediately dissolve in laughter, which then lifts my spirits when I laugh at them laughing!

What will you do to laugh today?

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We’ve teamed up with our friend Christine Carter, to bring you 52 simple tips (one each Monday!) on bringing joy and happiness into your own Mommyhood. Get more happiness tips by taking the Raising Happiness class or by reading Christine’s blog.

Want more great tips?
Happy Mom Tip #1: Disconnect
Happy Mom Tip #2: Stop Rushing Around
Happy Mom Tip #3: Express Gratitude
Happy Mom Tip #4: Organize
Happy Mom Tip #5: Forgive Someone
Happy Mom Tip #6: Get Excited About Someone Else’s Good News
Happy Mom Tip #7: Celebrate a Mistake
Happy Mom Tip #8: Talk To Strangers
Happy Mom Tip #9: Share Your Good News
Happy Mom Tip #10: Flex Your Generosity Muscle
Happy Mom Tip #11: Be Kind
Happy Mom Tip #12: Take a Break
Happy Mom Tip #13: Dance Around