The latest big breakup isn’t between two superstar celebs. Instead, it’s The Gap and Old Navy that are parting ways.

The Gap recently announced the split, detailing what will happen to the two brands. Old Navy, which has seen stellar success in the past few years, will stand alone. The Gap, Athleta, Banana Republic, Intermix and Hill City will now all fall under the umbrella of a still yet-to-be-named new parent company.

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So why are the brands splitting? Gap Inc.’s Board Chairman, Robert Fisher, said, in a press statement, “Following a comprehensive review by the Gap Inc. Board of Directors, it’s clear that Old Navy’s business model and customers have increasingly diverged from our specialty brands over time, and each company now requires a different strategy to thrive moving forward.”

Fisher also added, “Recognizing that, we determined that pursuing a separation is the most compelling path forward for our brands—creating two separate companies with distinct financial profiles, tailored operating priorities and unique capital allocation strategies, both well positioned to achieve their strategic goals and create significant value for our customers, employees and shareholders.”

What does the split mean for you? If you’re an Old Navy customer, look for more good things to come. But if you’re a fan of The Gap, you may need to find a new mall fave to shop. According to recent reports, Gap Inc. plans on closing 230 specialty stores over the next few years—with the majority being in the United States.

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As of now, Gap Inc. hasn’t announced specific store closures or given any word on the fate of Gap Kids. The Gap (now and post-Old Navy split) will still have an e-commerce presence, making it possible for you to buy from the brand online.

—Erica Loop

 

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Co-parenting has plenty of challenges, but regardless of how you do it, the goal is always the same: raising happy, well-adjusted kids. Which is why the idea of “bird nesting” can actually be really important for families going through divorce. What is bird nesting, exactly?

The term “bird nesting” refers to the concept of keeping kids in one home after divorce or separation, while the parents take turns staying with the kids. The idea is to give kids more stability. Rather than having to travel back and forth between two different homes, kids have one house and one room that they call home, while their parents rotate between the family home and places of their own.

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Certainly not every family can afford a set up like this, but as Sherri Sharma, partner at Aronson, Mayefsky & Sloan, LLP, a matrimonial law firm in New York, explained to NBC News, “The way I’ve seen nesting done is not people having three homes, as most people, even quite wealthy clients, don’t find that feasible. Usually the parents have a studio apartment they share and rotate, and then keep the marital home where the children stay put.”

The benefits of bird nesting are pretty obvious, kids experience less disruption while dealing with the emotional rollercoaster of their parents splitting up. However, as Sharma explains, the idea is really only beneficial in the short term.

“I’ve never seen ‘nesting’ go on forever,” says Sharma. “A few months is okay but for longer periods (beyond six months), I think the uncertainty of not knowing what it will really be like to have separate homes can be confusing or anxiety-[inducing] for children.”

Celeste Viciere, a licensed mental health clinician, echoes the sentiment that bird nesting can be beneficial, but she warns that it can also have some downsides. “[Nesting] may feel confusing to a child,” she says. “Children may struggle with having amazing family memories in the house but feel unable to share them together anymore. It could also lead to a false sense of reality where they become hopeful that their parents could get back together.”

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Besides sticking to a short term period for transition, the concept of bird nesting works best with couples who are on good terms, which can lessen the stress and strain that might arise from the uncomfortable situation of sharing living spaces with an ex.

“Regardless of how you choose to divorce, being mindful of the potential effects to your kids is crucial,” says Viciere. “Some parents struggle with having difficult but realistic conversations with their kids in an effort to ‘protect’ them. Contrary to popular belief, you aren’t truly protecting your children by avoiding having these conversations. Rather, it hurts them when you aren’t being honest about what’s taking place.”

Viciere’s advice? Be up front and realistic about expectations for everyone involved. “Kids tend to already have an idea of what’s going on and are quite perceptive of their environments. It’s expected that kids will have a hard time with divorce, but if you can be upfront with them about what’s happening, and allow them to ask questions and have conversations around how they feel about what’s taking place, it will help in navigating them through the situation.”

—Shahrzad Warkentin

 

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You spend nine months cuddling your baby in that bump of yours. And the moment they pop out (okay, okay, we know it doesn’t really happen that easily), you’re all about staying as close to your brand-new little love as possible. Well, now science is saying that this instinct might be right on target. New research, from the Indiana University-Purdue University Indianapolis School of Science, may have found that taking a baby away from its mother can change brain function later in life.

So let’s start with the basics here—this was an animal study. That means scientists used animals (in this case rats) to model what happens to humans. (Because tearing newborn human babies from their loving mamas’ arms just to see what happens, later on, isn’t exactly on-the-level ethical.) Instead of taking baby people away from their mothers, they removed infant rats from their mamas for 24 hours at 9-days-old.

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The researchers scanned the rats’ brains later in life, as adults. And what did they find? As it turns out, the rats who were separated from their mothers had behavioral issues along with biological and physiological brain abnormalities. It’s possible that similar abnormalities in human brains could also develop as a result of early maternal separation.

And what does this all mean for humans? It’s possible that this type of trauma during infancy could lead to life-long problems that show up later in life, such as schizophrenia. While the researchers can’t make a complete connection between mom and child separation and this mental illness, they do feel that the potential implications for these brain changes warrant serious pause. And, of course, more attention.

—Erica Loop

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This has been a great year for new play spaces in the Q-borough—and we can add yet another one to the list! The recently-opened Peek-A-Booo (yes, with 3 Os) is an indoor playground in the heart of Flushing, Queens, and is a must-visit for kids 7 and under. There was some early buzz about this place, so we decided to see what all the fuss was about. Our verdict? When your 4-year-old sobs because they do not want to leave, it’s a good indicator about how much they enjoyed. Check out our review below!

It’s Huuuuuge! 
The 6,000 ft., ground-level Peek-A-Booo was founded by Yiejie (EJ) Wang, a Queens parent who previously operated a liquor store and really wanted to open a business that welcomed kids from all over the city—and was also a place where she could safely bring her son. Wang found the empty retail space in Flushing, and officially opened Peek-A-Booo (which has three o’s simply because, “it’s cute!”) in February.

You park your stroller to the left of the main entrance, stick your shoes in cubbies up front, and enter the very soft, padded indoor playground in just your socks. (You can purchase a pair for $2 if you or your kid forgets them.) Parents must sign a waiver for their kids, and everyone is encouraged to use hand sanitizer at the counter, before entering the space through a gate.

Overall, everything at Peek-A-Booo screams, “fun!”  The place is whimsical, inviting, and safe, with lots to do; it was constructed to meet all New York City safety standards and is also very colorful. (Wang says she wanted to make sure the various colors and overall aesthetic of the place photographed nicely when parents snapped pics of their kids having fun.)

Not One, But Two Ball Pits
The venue’s most popular attractions are its two—yes, two—huge ball-pits. The first one visitors encoutner has an interactive digital “video game” along its back wall that allows kids and parents alike to toss plastic ball-pit balls at the screen to ‘hit’ targets of creatures and emjois. Kids can also ride a purple slide into the mass of yellow, green, and orange balls.

The rear ball-pit features a central house structure in the middle that kids can climb into. There’s also a large ‘treehouse’ next to the first ball-pit with a wide slide that changes color and designs when you and your kids slide down.

Other must-dos include a trampoline with a swing, large, plastic cars to ride, and many climbing structures.

Kids can also play around in a large, closed-in sandpit complete with sand toys in its own little section. (Fancy feature: little lights make it look like little crabs and snakes are inside the sand in a fun not creepy way.)

While there’s a lot to enjoy here, Wang plans to incorporate a new play structure or set of toys every few weeks for variety.

Stay in Your Lane
For younger kids ages three and under, an area in the rear of the space has soft blocks, smaller climbing structures, mini basketball hoops, riding toys, and is also well-padded like the rest of the space.

The separation of the older kids and younger kids is a very nice touch; it prevents excited, older kids from racing around toddlers, and allows for toddlers and younger kids to have their own designated, private area to frolic. Also in the rear of Peek-A-Boo are more climbing structures and animal-shaped, car-like (solid) plastic structures to ‘ride.’

Employees walk around the venue making sure the space is clean and keeping an eye on the kids. But note: This is not a drop-off space; kids must be accompanied by an adult, and children should be seven or younger.

Party On, Kid!
Yes, they do birthdays, and the party room is located right in the center of the space. Packages range from $380 to $799 for kids 7 and under. Celebrations include playtime, food, cake, and your choice of party theme.

Note: When parties are held, either on weekdays or weekends, the space does not close down completely just for the party; instead the birthday child and their young guests are given a special bracelet and/or stamp to be ID’d. (However, just one party is held at a time.)

Basic But Important
Peek-A-Booo has two on-site bathrooms, and one has a changing table. There’s also a little section with tables and chairs for snack time, however, no food or drink is permitted near the ball-pits, climbing structures, and games.

In the future, Wang hopes to incorporate a mini cafe with coffee and teas, but for now the only food available for purchase on site are snacks, juices, and water, so if you plan on spending a few hours at Peek-A-Booo, bring along some food and expect to eat it in the designated snack section.

When we visited from 3:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. on a weekday, it was not too crowded at all, but it’s recommended you call ahead to make sure there’s space to play. especially on weekends.

The Price of Play
For now, pricing is as follows: A monthly membership is $99; Quarterly is $199, yearly is $399. “Punch cards” are also available for purchase for $200; after 10 sessions, you get 3 visits free.

There is a drop-in “all-day” fee of $25 for one child and one adult; it’s an additional $10 per adult. With the $25 all-day ticket, there’s no time limit on how long you can stay and play for the morning and/or afternoon. Hourly, it’s $15 per hour for one kid and one adult.

Cash or credit cards are accepted.

At press time, Peek-A-Booo was still new, so there is no official web site as of yet, but keep an eye on it’s Facebook page for updates and specials. (Prices and hours may adjust in the coming weeks/months.)

Currently, Peek-a-boo is open from 9:00 a.m. to 8:00 p.m., which is nice because if your kid needs to burn off some energy after school, stop on by, it’s worth the subway ride on the 7, or the drive.

135-17 Northern Blvd.
Flushing, Queens
718-888-8866
Online: facebook.com

Have you dropped by Peek-A-Boo? Tell us what you thought in the comments!

—Rachel Sokol

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The Kinder Egg, the most awesome combination of candy and toy, is one of the biggest global selling confections in the world. Unfortunately for American kids (and grown-ups) it has never been available in the US . . . until now. Prep your piggy banks and get ready for the most legendary candy you will ever devour/ play with.

Despite selling three and a half billion Kinder eggs every year, the candy has sadly been unavailable in the US because of a decades old law that bans confections containing non-edible items. Kinder Surprise, the most iconic version of the egg, which has been around since 1974, is a hollow chocolate egg with a plastic capsule inside. The plastic capsule contains a small toy, usually one that needs to be built out of several smaller parts, and you never know what toy you’ll get with so many thousands of options.

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The newest version of the Kinder egg, Kinder Joy, features two separately sealed halves of a plastic egg packaged together. One half contains milk-creme and cocoa flavoring with wafer bites that can be eaten with the included spoon. The other sealed half contains the toy. This clear separation is what finally allows American kids (small and big) to discover the joy that is a Kinder Egg.

As Fortune reports, the eggs will launch in grocery stores and candy shops across the country in the beginning of 2018. You won’t have to wait much longer to discover the surprise inside!

Are you excited about Kinder Eggs? Share your thoughts in the comments.

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From battles over attire to feuds about food, getting your little (and big) ones up and out the door in the morning can feel like tiptoeing around land mines. When tempers flare, it can not only make it hard to be on time, but also set a bad tone for the rest of the day. Read on to learn the one thing you can do to help mornings go a little smoother.

The short answer, according to experts, can be boiled down to one word: connectivity. Taking a moment to connect with your child and reinforce your loving bond can make a world of difference when it comes to making it through your morning routine without a meltdown.

As Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson, authors of The Whole-Brain Childexplain, connections in the brain that allow adults to function in tasks, like controlling emotions, multitasking, and using logic are still maturing in young children and can take up to twenty years to fully develop. In a study Siegel published in 2001, he found that brain development was linked to social interaction and emotional well-being during childhood. In other words, a strong, positive relationship between parent and child can help a child develop optimal brain connections as they grow.

So how does that help you in the heat of the morning rush? Besides developing cognitive functions in the long run, re-affirming your bond with your child each morning also connects you in the moment. According to clinical psychologist, Dr. Laura Markham, taking just a few minutes in the morning to snuggle up can “fill your child’s cup before the day starts, and reconnect after the separation of the night, which gives your child motivation to cooperate instead of fight with you. This is the best way to prevent morning whining and resistance.”

Have you tried this method to help work ‪through morning stresses? Share your thoughts in the comments.

 

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Graduating college is an accomplishment anyone would be proud of and an opportunity many are thankful for. For Jelina Sheppard, a mother who graduated Cum Laude with two Bachelor degrees, her experience was something special. She wrote a moving letter to her four-year-old son Karter, thanking him for the sacrifices he had to go through while she was in school. Her note is going viral on Facebook and Instagram, inspiring many parents.

Dear Karter,

For all those nights you had to fall asleep in the library, for all those times you had to watch cartoons alone because I needed to do homework, for the early mornings in daycare because I needed to be in class to being the last one there because I had to work, most importantly for the moments of separation because I needed to get this done, Thank you. You are the motivation for my heart to keep beating. I love you more than words can say. I finished because you needed to see me do it. I’m not strong because I want to be, I’m strong because I’m your first example. We’ve seen a lot and overcame a lot more.

To infinity and beyond, a mother’s greatest love. 💕 #‎iGraduated

How have your children inspired you? Tell us in the comments below!

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When choosing a place to settle down and raise a family, many factors come into play: career opportunities, location of family and friends, school districts, outdoor settings, etc. Yet, according to a study by WalletHub, some states are simply better to raise a family than others.

In the study, WalletHub’s data team evaluated and compared the 50 states and the District of Columbia based on 40 key indicators of “family-friendliness”– such as housing affordability, paid family leave, daycare quality, and (uh-oh!) divorce rate.

Read through for the rankings as well as some notable highlights from the study.

10 Best States to Raise a Family

1. North Dakota- Total Score: 65.81 (Ranked #2 in socioeconomics*)

2. New Hampshire- Total Score: 65.59

3. Vermont- Total Score: 65.24 (Ranked #1 in health and safety*)

4. Minnesota- Total Score: 65.22 (Ranked #2 in affordability*)

5. Nebraska- Total Score: 64.18

6. Massachusetts- Total Score: 63.98

7. New Jersey- Total Score: 63.84 (Ranked #1 in education and child care*)

8. Iowa- Total Score: 63.25 (Ranked #1 in affordability)

9. Connecticut- Total Score: 62.93

10. South Dakota- Total Score: 62.70 (Ranked #1 in family fun*)

10 Worst States to Raise a Family:

10. Alabama- Total Score: 44.32

9. West Virginia- Total Score: 44.27 (Ranked #51- in family fun)

8. Georgia- Total Score: 44.13

7. Arizona- Total Score:  43.56

6. Alaska- Total Score:  43.37 (Ranked #50 in health and safety)

5. Nevada- Total Score:  42.39

4. Louisiana- Total Score: 42.00

3. District of Columbia- Total Score: 41.13 (Ranked #51 in socioeconomics)

2. Mississippi- Total Score: 39.85 (Ranked #50 in affordability, family fun)

1. New Mexico- Total Score:  38.58 (Ranked #50 in education/child care, socioeconomics; ranked #51 in affordability)

Notable highlights:

  • The most affordable housing can be found in Iowa, Nebraska, the Dakotas, and Kansas, whereas homes in Massachusetts, New Jersey, California, Hawaii, and DC are the least affordable.
  • The lowest infant mortality rate can be found in California, New Hampshire, and Massachusetts, whereas Alabama, Mississippi, and Oklahoma have the highest.
  • The lowest childcare costs can be found in Mississippi and South Dakota, whereas District of Columbia and New York pay the most for child care.
  • Utah, North Dakota, and New Jersey have the lowest divorce rate. District of Columbia, Nevada, and Florida have the highest divorce rate.

*Categories:

  • Family Fun (includes number of attractions, fitness & recreational sports centers per capita, and average commute time)
  • Health & Safety (includes quality of public hospitals, infant mortality rate, water and air quality)
  • Education & Child Care (includes public high school graduation rate, child-care costs, and parental leave)
  • Affordability (includes housing affordability, median credit score, median family annual income, and employer-based retirement plans)
  • Socioeconomics (includes separation and divorce rate, share of families receiving food stamps, paid family leave, and job security)

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