A favorite holiday movie is “Christmas Vacation.” And one of the most memorable (and hilarious) scenes is the squirrel flying out of the Christmas tree. While funny in the movies, the threat of Christmas tree mishaps can actually be quite serious.   

Unsecured Christmas trees can topple over and cause serious injury, especially to a young child, and according to reports, Christmas tree fires are the deadliest of household fires. On average, one in every 32 reported Christmas tree fires results in a death compared to an average of one death per 143 total reported home fires.

Here are a few simple tips to ensure a beautiful and safe holiday season. 

1. Select a fresh tree. The tree should be green with needles that bend, not break. For pines and spruces, branches should be tough to pull, and fir trees should have needles that snap when bent. Also, look for a trunk sticky with sap.

2. Secure the tree. This will prevent it from accidentally falling over. If possible, make sure the tree stand is not on thick carpeting. Screw some eye-hooks into the wall and thread fishing line through the tree and tie to the hooks.  

3. Keep ornaments high. This is true especially for families with young children. Place ornaments off the lower limbs and consider using a gate around the tree to prevent kids from getting too close. Ditch the glass ornaments for non-breakable. 

4. Go hi-tech. Safer Alarms Inc. just released a first of its kind Christmas tree fire detector that looks like an ornament. While it looks like traditional tree decor, the ornament wirelessly connects to an alarm placed elsewhere in the home like near where you sleep. If the ornament detects unsafe heat, the alarm will sound (and continue to sound even if the ornament catches fire).

5. Water, water, water. Make sure the tree holder always has enough water. Cut an inch off the bottom of the trunk; fresh wood can absorb more water, so the tree will stay fresher longer. 

6. Be mindful of placement. Always place your tree at least three feet away from heat sources like fireplaces, radiators, candles, heat vents or lights. Only use indoor lights indoors and look for the UL label. Do not use any lights that are broken and make sure sockets are in good condition, and that there are no frayed or bare wires. Keep light off lower branches that pets or babies could reach as they might chew on the wire. Be sure to turn the lights off whenever you leave the house. And if you have ornaments that light up with an off/on switch, be sure to turn off as well.

I'm a mom to 4 kids - my first died of SIDS and my second has Intellectual Disabilities. I'm the step-mom to another two. My husband has MS. I write about how to keep everyone in the family happy, safe and sane - especially women!

Buying the latest tech gadgets is anything but cheap. Still, technology has become a major part of modern life. Thus, it is practically impossible to live without it. However, if you are resourceful, there are a wide range of effective ways in which you can reduce the money you spend on gadgets. Get acquainted with five simple tips to do that.

Sell Your Old Devices

Before thinking about purchasing the latest iPhone or tablet, you should first think about selling or trading your old device, as there is a wide range of retailers that offer you this opportunity. The newer your gadget is, the more credit you can receive in exchange. You should consider opting for companies that offer credit in exchange, as there are others that typically provide users with gift cards. Another way you can earn money after your older device is selling it on eBay.

Determine Your Needs

Before considering updating your gadgets, you should determine the amount of storage space you genuinely need. This way, you won’t get tricked by a clever salesperson to purchase more than you need. Your gadget purchases ought to meet your individual requirements; there’s no reason to buy expensive gadgets if you don’t have use of it.

Consider Online Shopping

If you didn’t consider online shopping before, it’s time you did that. Shopping online offers you the possibility to browse for hours before deciding on a particular product and get acquainted with the price range, particular properties and everything you need to know about the gadget you have in mind. Even though it requires a lot of your patience, it’s significantly convenient as online shopping offers you a wide range of great deals and coupons you can take advantage of.

When Possible, Opt for Free Software

Whether you were aware of the fact that you can opt for free software or not, there is a wide range of online services that provide users with free, equally effective free services. This software offers the same functions without additional, exorbitant costs. Still, while this alternative is not always available, you should always browse for obtaining products that meet your needs for lower costs. Simply reimburse yourself with patience and start browsing online.

Consider Skipping the Extended Warranty

While some people consider extended warranty to be an official guarantee that their products will be protected for a longer amount of time, the truth is that the steep prices to extended warranty cost increasingly more than the amount of money you would pay in the worst case scenario where you have to fix your gadget. As a matter of fact, retailers make larger sums of money from selling extended warranty than from the product themselves. Most of your gadgets will work perfectly, and in case they break down, the amount of money you saved will imminently cover the possible expenses associated with repair. Skipping extended warranty will undoubtedly help you save money, that’s a given.

This post originally appeared on TechCo.

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You just got rid of your last bag of stuff that didn’t sparky joy à la Marie Kondo, and now your house is a streamlined dream. According to top organizing pros and minimalist gurus, keeping it that way is easier than you might think. Don’t believe us? It’s true. We got the best in the business to offer their favorite simple tips on how to declutter—all you need to do is find an extra five or 10 minutes to make it happen. Keep reading to see them all.

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Put your clothes away. 
Houzz contributor and organizing professional Patricia Lee says one of the easiest ways to make sure your house has less clutter is to put your clothes away. Hang them up, put them in the dirty clothes, stash the folded stuff in your drawers. It only takes a couple of minutes at the end of the day, yet it allows you to maintain a clean space.

Finish the quick tasks ASAP.
According to Joshua Becker, author of the best-selling The Minimalist Home, clutter is often a result of procrastination—decisions put off or small jobs left unfinished. His simple rule? “If a job can be completed in less than two minutes, do it now. Take the garbage out, scrub the pot, return the remote control, or place your dirty clothes in the hamper. Every time you see a task all the way to completion, a source of clutter is avoided.”

courtesy Practically Perfect

Get the kids involved.
Joni and Kitt from LA-based organizing firm Practically Perfect suggest getting the rest of your family in on the daily action. "Kids are more than capable of completing a few tasks each day to maintain a tidy home. Placing their shoes into a basket by the door, hanging their backpacks and coats on a hook, tossing their dirty laundry into the proper place... When the right systems are set up, it's easy and fun!"

Make a clean sweep.
Think of all those flat surfaces around the house—the desk, the counter, the table. Cheryl Smith, the owner of Consider It Done, a home organization company, emphasizes how important it is to keep these areas clean. Not only are those surfaces magnets for random stuff that doesn't get put away, but when they are clear, it's easier to clean!

Keep a box at the ready.
One super easy way to deal with clutter as it occurs? Keep a box handy for donations. Natalie Wise, author of The Modern Organic Home: 100+ DIY Cleaning Products, Organization Tips, and Household Hacks, says it’ll be easier to actually get stuff out of your house that way because “as you go about your daily tasks, anything you can purge has a spot to go immediately.”

Stash your stuff.
In theory, open-plan shelving sound incredible. In reality, having to keep it looking like it did in your Pinterest dreams is well, hard. Cleaning pro and entrepreneur of Chore Bliss, Jack Prenter, suggests getting a few storage boxes instead. “On a daily basis, take everything that's on the floor and put them back into the storage box. Rather than having to neatly organize things because they are visible, you can throw them in there and hide them away, saving yourself a huge amount of time.”

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Ditch the little things.
Kelly Jane McCann, The Organizing Maven, suggests doing a sweep once a week to get rid of the little things. She says “take 10 minutes to move through your space and remove all the items that are past their useful life. It’s what we call the low hanging fruit—it's the no longer useful, the expired, the broken, and the abandoned. Often these items are just plain rubbish, like empty shampoo bottles left on shower ledge, expired grocery flyers, or packaging left over from mail orders. If you don't take action on these items they quickly become clutter.”

Learn how to multitask.
Sarah Giller Nelson, decluttering pro and owner of Less Is More suggests to do two things at once, like clearing out a kitchen drawer while you are waiting for coffee to brew, or de-cluttering the kids' medicine cabinet while you are waiting for the bathtub to fill.

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Take care of the packaging.
With Amazon and other online shopping options, organizers are seeing more and more packaging laying around homes. Professional organizer Nonnahs Driskill of Get Organized Already stresses the importance of getting boxes out of the house as soon as possible. “This is a new category of clutter I am finding in every house I visit,” she says. The tradeoff? “Consider the hassle of breaking down your boxes and separating trash from recycling as a trade-off for not having to drive to the store to shop.”

Change the way you buy.
If you want to keep more stuff from coming in, then, according to Denaye Barahona of Simple Families, you need to change the way you buy for the family. “Once you declutter, the only way to stay decluttered is to buy more intentionally,” she says.

Denaye Barahona via Simple Families

Only keep the stuff you use every day on hand.
Another great tip from Simple Families is to make sure anything in your command center/mud room are items that you use every single day. These spots often become literal drop zones for things that go discarded or are left to collect dust, therefore cluttering your space. “Turn it into an active space instead of using it as a storage space,” says Barahona.

Set a timer.
Trying to declutter can be overwhelming. Felice Cohen, author, Professional Organizer and Motivational Speaker suggests giving yourself a set amount of time to tackle a space. “Set a timer on your phone for 10 minutes, half an hour, an hour, depending on your energy, then work in one area. When the timer goes off, stop, you're done. This eliminates the feel of having to do too much at once. What often happens is you're motivated by the progress you've done, so in that case, reset the timer and go again.”

—Gabby Cullen

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When it comes to bonding with the fam, we’re taking a page from one of our fave celeb mamas and checking out Joanna Gaines’ family traditions. The busy mom of five manages a business empire, a gorgeous home, family meals, and of course—her hilarious husband and kiddos.

The next time you’re looking for ways to bring your family together for some wholesome fun, check out some of JoJo’s simple tips on spending time together.

Sundays at Home As a Family

It’s no surprise the Gaines family is beyond busy, and that’s why setting aside time together is important. For Joanna and the fam, Sundays work best and since Crew joined the clan, they find themselves happy to be spending time together and at home. If you’re looking to emulate a full family day, just find a time that works best for you and yours!

 

Baking Biscuits

Weekends are for baking! While the Gaines tradition involves biscuits (hello, Texas), the important part is just spending time together in the kitchen. Involving kids in the day to day routine of cooking and home keeping not only teaches them life skills, but makes wonderful memories, too.

 

Breakfast in Bed

Oh Chip Gaines, we didn’t know it was possible to love you even more! The contractor and dad has been known to surprise his wife with breakfast in bed and we tend to agree that it’s a great way to spend time together. Involve the kids in the prep work and show them how surprises can be a great way to show you care.

 

Family Dinners

Joanna Gaines recognizes the importance of family meals and involves her kiddos when it comes to time in the kitchen. Time at the table is important not only to have a break from all those screens, but to develop meaningful conversation, communication skills and as a simple way to stay involved in your kids lives.

 

Homemade Cards & Gifts

There’s nothing quite like a homemade gift or card and it’s a long-standing tradition for the Gaines family to exchange them on special events. This is an easy tradition to adopt into your own family, encouraging creativity and heartfelt sentiments you can’t usually find at Hallmark.

 

Family Projects

From involving their kids on demo day, to helping decorate fixer uppers, to running the family garden, the Gaines involve their kids in tons of family projects. Age is no issue when starting projects from big to small, and you can help forge a strong family bond by doing the same. Let the kids help out on home projects, encourage their entrepreneurial spirit and practice working together!

––Karly Wood

Feature photo: Joanna Gaines via Instagram

 

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The following is shared from one of our favorite moms, Amanda Carlisle of AFewShortcuts.com.

We are always on the go during the Summer. The one thing that happens more often than I would like to admit is someone gets hangry. Here are my go-to tips to avoid the hangries and keep the entire family full of energy and happy while you are out having fun this summer.

1. Meal Plan

I feel like we think about food all of the time, but as a mom of three, it helps a ton to have a meal plan. Just a simple idea about what we are eating for each meal. A simple meal plan helps me stay prepared and fight off the hangries when it comes to the entire family. It is like your secret battle plan for winning this whole Mom thing. Knowing is half the battle. Have you seen a pack of hangry kids during the summer? NOT a pretty thing.

2. Wholesome Snacks

When meal and snack time roll around reach for a snack that will help you stay fuller longer and help fuel your day with the energy you need without the hangry crash. Some great options are Jif® Peanut Butter, nuts, hummus dip and veggies, yogurt, and these new Jif® Power Ups, Jif’s new line of chewy granola bars and creamy granola clusters.

Both Jif® Power Ups™ Granola Bars & Jif® Power Ups™ Creamy Clusters have absolutely no corn syrup and a balance of 5g of protein, 2g of fiber, good fats and most importantly, peanuts are #1 ingredient. Jif® Power Ups™ are wholesome, balanced snacks that will help keep kids energized throughout the day. The best part is I don’t need to feel guilty if I steal a pack or two.

3. Pack Snacks

I look like I am moving out every time we leave the house. Can any other moms relate?

Pack Snacks!!!

Pack Snacks!!!

Pack Snacks!!!

It is so important to pack snacks and have some great options with you when you are leaving the house for the day. After a day out shopping, at the park, at the pool, or just exploring your town the hangries are bound to happen. Have you ever tried to buckle in a hangry toddler into a car seat? They really should come with an extra warning label for that.

When you pack a snack bag and fill it with great options like these Jif® Power Ups™ Chewy Granola Bars you can keep the hungry monsters at bay and happy until their next meal. Mix it up and have more than one flavor or choice, so your kids feel like they are in charge of their snack destiny.

Bonus! It also helps avoid those unexpected drive-through trips, or run into the convenience store for food. Those add up quick. So not only are you avoiding the hangries, you are saving money too. Look at you winning at life!

4. Hydrate

I know we are talking about being hangry and not about hydration but the two go hand and hand. Staying properly hydrated can help your metabolism work at its best. In turn, it helps you know when you are truly hungry. Keep a bottle of water (or two) around just in case. It is a great idea to stay super hydrated during the summer anyway. It is hot out there!

5. Educate Yourself

You may not always have a meal plan or remember to pack snacks, so educate yourself on the options that are available to you. Be aware of filling, healthy choices in your area or that your local stores offer.

While you may not be prepared with a snack bag, you can avoid the hangries by being educated about the choices that are around you and making the right decisions. It is effortless to run into a grocery store and grab a box of Jif® Power Ups™ Granola Bars and some fruit to avoid those hangries.

What are your tips for avoiding the hangries? Leave them in the comments below

 

Jif® Power Ups™ sponsored These 5 Simple Tips to Avoid the Hangries. I avoided the hangries while writing it by snacking on some Jif® Power Ups™ Creamy Clusters. All opinions are 100% my own.

 

Amanda Carlisle is a mom of 3 who loves to direct others on life’s happy adventures through food, crafts, and family fun on her blog AFewShortcuts.com

 

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Today Is Nature Photography Day
It will be gone in a flash.
1

Go old school today (as in pre-iPhone era) by making your own pinhole camera to capture the world around you. Get our four-step tutorial by clicking here.

2

Follow in the footsteps of American Girl, Lea Clark as she photographs her exciting adventure in the brand-new movie, Lea to the Rescue.

3
Inspire your Ansel Adams wannabe with our beginner tutorial that includes three simple tips for documenting nature and a cool nature photography scavenger hunt.
Today’s photo challenge theme: wear an animal mask. Take a photo and share with us on Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram. Don’t forget to tag #Happy100SanDiegoZoo.

{ Today’s ideas brought to you by American Girl’s Lea to the Rescue }

If they have graduated from T-ball and mastered the underhand pitch, it’s time to learn a few secrets of pitching like a pro. And even if they never throw a perfect game (or even pitch at all) figuring out these fascinating hand positions is a fun activity all on it’s own!

Two Seam Fast Ball

–Hold the ball with two fingers close together inside with or along the narrow seams, or across the narrow seams.

Check out some videos and an in-depth explanation of the two seam fastball pitch from youthpitching.com/grips.html

 

Change Up

–Grip the ball deep in the hand, balanced and loose. The ball should rest up against the top ridge of the palm or at the base of the fingers.

Check out some videos and an in-depth explanation of the change up pitch from youthpitching.com/grips.html

Curveball
–As with most other pitches, grips for the curve ball will vary. But generally the pressure on a curve ball is provided by the middle finger and thumb. The index finger is just along for the ride.

Check out some videos and an in-depth explanation of the curveball pitch from youthpitching.com/grips.html

These are just a few simple tips to get you started, but if for a more in-depth look at pitching practices, check out http://www.youthpitching.com/grips.html, where real coaches weigh in and share their secrets.

Have any pitching tips of your own? share them with us in the comments below! 

–Erin Feher

All images courtesy of youthpitching.com/grips.html

Twinkling lights, crackling fires and jingle bells in the air. These sure signs mark the beginning of the holiday season, but nothing says quintessential Christmas quite like carolers at your door. While this old school tradition might seem daunting with the tot lot in tow, it’s more than do-able. Make a new family tradition this year and use our simple tips to make your caroling adventure one to remember.

1) Layer like you mean it. Ooh, baby it’s cold outside doesn’t even begin to cover some of those blustery winter nights. So be sure to dress the brood accordingly. Scarves, hats, big wooly mittens and boots are where it’s at. They keep everyone warm and toasty, and ready to belt out that next verse. Hey, if the kids are warm, they stay happy, so you can sing a little longer.

2) Add some flair. You may not need 37 piece of flair exactly, but when it comes to caroling accessories, you’ve got to have a few. Think Gleek Chic (it’s a new thing, trust us) when making your selection, because caroling is one of those times you need to dress the part. Plus, your kiddos will love it! Christmas kitsch like Santa hats, reindeer antler headbands and those blinking Christmas light necklaces you swore you’d never buy (but secretly always wanted to) were made for nights like these. Just remember to wear them like a boss!

3) Get the band back together. It’s time to unearth those musical instruments you hid so well. You know, the ones from kid-less relatives. Caroling is the perfect time for those jingle bells, countless kazoos and wooden clappers that were once the soundtrack of numerous impossible-to-hear phone conversations. And the best part about bringing these noise makers to the party? The Tiny Tim’s and Tina’s of the bunch can join in, too. Even if they can’t sing the words, they can still bang a drum. All together now!

4) The more the merrier. Rally the troops and call the neighbors! There are carols to be sung. And group caroling adds to the party. Just be sure to take a head count every once in a while. 

5) Sing for a cause. In the spirit of the season, consider collecting for a local charity or food bank. Whatever route you choose, have a little information about the organization at the ready. Then carry an envelope, bring a sled or pull a wagon for the donations (and possibly tired toddlers). And if you post the name of the charity on your ride, we’ll bet you won’t even have to ask. All season’s a go with this spirited bonus!

6) If you build it they will come. If you’re worried about trudging through snow or the kidlets tiring out after just two houses, try a one-stop-shop. Call local nursing homes and hospitals, or your fire department and police stations to offer up some Christmas cheer in the form of family carolers. This one requires a little prep and a good 15 minutes of songs. But those little voices singing out some Christmas faves are a big pull with these crowds. It’s a definite two-birds, one-stone sitch where the little wigglers stay and happy and warm while giving back to the community. The only question is who wants to emcee this rockin’ event?

7) To everything turn, turn, turn. So there’s this thing that the mini me’s sometimes do called “not sharing.” But caroling is a great time for them to share among a group. Let the littles take turns picking the songs, ringing the doorbells, or even selecting the next house to visit. Big buy in and some serious ownership of your new tradition are just added bonuses! And it’s okay, they don’t need to know they’re practicing a life skill. We won’t tell!

8) Less is more. For the tiny tots especially, stick with about 3 songs (give or take) that they really know and can sing. Then, break them out at every house. Don’t worry, your neighbors won’t know you’re playing a short bench. The only question is how many times can you handle the Jingle Bells refrain? Dashing through the snow! 

9) The piece de resistance. The final chapter of any caroling adventure is always the creamy cup of hot cocoa with marshmallows (candy cane stir stick optional) for the kiddos at the end. They earned it!

Do you have a Christmas caroling tip to share? Leave it in a comment below.

–Allison Sutcliffe

Photo thanks to: Victoria Ledford’s 22 and Counting blog, Sarah Rasmussen, Erin Cranston

Our friendships and close relationships–both how many we have, and how positive they are–are one of the best predictors of our happiness. But in the hustle and bustle of everyday life, our friends often get short-shrift.

This week, make time to call a friend just to catch up. Better yet, schedule time to do this regularly, preferably at the same time on the same day each week. Odds are that you’ll feel happier when you get off the phone, and you’ll be shoring up your friendships for the long-haul.

We’ve teamed up with  our friend Christine Carter, to bring you 52 simple tips (one each Monday!) on bringing joy and happiness into your own Mommyhood. Get more happiness tips by taking the Raising Happiness class or by reading Christine’s blog.

Want more great tips?
Happy Mom Tip #1: Disconnect
Happy Mom Tip #2: Stop Rushing Around
Happy Mom Tip #3: Express Gratitude
Happy Mom Tip #4: Organize
Happy Mom Tip #5: Forgive Someone
Happy Mom Tip #6: Get Excited About Someone Else’s Good News
Happy Mom Tip #7: Celebrate a Mistake
Happy Mom Tip #8: Talk To Strangers
Happy Mom Tip #9: Share Your Good News
Happy Mom Tip #10: Flex Your Generosity Muscle
Happy Mom Tip #11: Be Kind
Happy Mom Tip #12: Take a Break 
Happy Mom Tip #13: Dance Around
Happy Mom Tip #14: Make Yourself Guffaw
Happy Mom Tip #15: Take a Stroll
Happy Mom Tip #16: Go Out and Play With Some Friends
Happy Mom Tip #17: Give Out Some Hugs
Happy Mom Tip #18: Find Some Inspiration
Happy Mom Tip #19: Get Out into Nature
Happy Mom Tip #20: Imagine Your “Best Possible Future Self”
Happy Mom Tip #21: Get Enough Sleep
Happy Mom Tip #22: Let Yourself Feel What You Feel
Happy Mom Tip #23: Expose Yourself to Someone Else’s Pain
Happy Mom Tip #24: Turn Off the Boob Tube
Happy Mom Tip #25: Don’t Buy That Thing That You Really Want
Happy Mom Tip #26: Take a Blatant Nap
Happy Mom Tip #27: Play a Game That Makes You Happy
Happy Mom Tip #28: Spend Some Time Alone
Happy Mom Tip #29: Take a Power Nap
Happy Mom Tip #30: Learn Something New
Happy Mom Tip #31: Have an Easy Morning
Happy Mom Tip #32: One Kind Thing.
Happy Mom Tip #33: Exhale. Twice.
Happy Mom Tip #34: Stop Stalling 
Happy Mom Tip #35: Make Your Task List More Fun
Happy Mom Tip #36: Ignore Your Kids
Happy Mom Tip #37: Take 20

photo courtesy of Tres Sugar

This week’s tip: Laughter really is the best medicine

Laughter lowers stress hormones (even the expectation of laughter can do this) and elevates feel-good beta-endorphins and the human growth hormone.  For this reason, find something that makes you laugh every time and keep it handy.

For me, it is watching my kids laugh (especially my daughter Molly, who is tiny but has a belly laugh the size of  Buddah).  All I do when I need a laugh is let them watch a few funny animal videos on YouTube or Animal Planet. They immediately dissolve in laughter, which then lifts my spirits when I laugh at them laughing!

What will you do to laugh today?

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We’ve teamed up with our friend Christine Carter, to bring you 52 simple tips (one each Monday!) on bringing joy and happiness into your own Mommyhood. Get more happiness tips by taking the Raising Happiness class or by reading Christine’s blog.

Want more great tips?
Happy Mom Tip #1: Disconnect
Happy Mom Tip #2: Stop Rushing Around
Happy Mom Tip #3: Express Gratitude
Happy Mom Tip #4: Organize
Happy Mom Tip #5: Forgive Someone
Happy Mom Tip #6: Get Excited About Someone Else’s Good News
Happy Mom Tip #7: Celebrate a Mistake
Happy Mom Tip #8: Talk To Strangers
Happy Mom Tip #9: Share Your Good News
Happy Mom Tip #10: Flex Your Generosity Muscle
Happy Mom Tip #11: Be Kind
Happy Mom Tip #12: Take a Break
Happy Mom Tip #13: Dance Around