The best nursing clothes of 2023 are cute, comfortable, and convenient

When it comes to looking and feeling your best in the post-delivery haze, you’ll want postpartum styles that reflect your new mom lifestyle. You’re transitioning out of maternity clothes (though there’s no rush at all!), maybe feeling just a bit more like yourself as you get to know your new little one. Once you settle into a routine, starting to dress in anything other than the easiest thing available might start to look a little more appealing. Go at your own pace. But if you’re breastfeeding, no matter what your style is or how your days look, nursing clothes are a must-have.

So much of our identity is linked to our fashion sense. And when you’re getting used to your new identity as a mom, it can be difficult to figure out how to combine your pre-baby style with mommy-ready convenience. We need easy. We need washable. And when we’re nursing, we need easy access. As you adjust to a bunch of new experiences, shopping can be the last thing on your mind. We did the work for you. Some of the best nursing clothes are right here. From work-ready to stay-at-home comfy and everything in between, investing in “momwear” couldn’t be easier!

Mamalux Leakproof Lounge Dress

Luxe bamboo fabric, removable nursing pads (that stay in place even without a bra!), large pockets, and designed to flatter through all your mom stages! Available in Charcoal, Black, and Blush.

Mamalux Leakproof Lounge Dress ($98.00)—Buy Now

Mamalux Nursing Draped Bamboo Robe

Layering is ideal when you're nursing, and this ultra-soft robe includes a convenient draped front!

Mamalux Nursing Draped Bamboo Robe ($88.00)—Buy Now

JJwinks Sunrise Top

While not officially "nursing"-specific, JJwinks specializes in bra-free support, so this top (like all of their tops) makes nursing access easy!

JJwinks Sunrise Top ($124.00)—Buy Now

Ingrid + Isabel Classic Button Up Shirt

Dress it up, dress it down. You can't go wrong with a classic button up shirt! Available in Chambray, White, and Black Windowpane. 

Ingrid + Isabel Classic Button Up Shirt ($78.00)—Buy Now

David & Adley Pumping & Nursing Compression Tank

Compression = support, and this compression tank top allows you to nurse or pump in total comfort. Available in Black or Sand.

David & Adley Pumping & Nursing Compression Tank ($59.00)—Buy Now

Quince Tencel Jersey Maternity & Nursing Wrap Dress

A classic wrap dress is universally flattering and never goes out of style! Comes in either Navy or Black.

Quince Tencel Jersey Maternity & Nursing Wrap Dress ($44.90)—Buy Now

JJwinks Martini Maxi Dress

JJwinks signature no-bra-required support now comes in this fabulous maxi dress that's also available in Black and Charcoal!

JJwinks Martini Maxi Dress ($222.00)—Buy Now

Ingrid + Isabel Quinn Relaxed Shirt

From work to play, this relaxed shirt looks put together and feels great!

Ingrid + Isabel Quinn Relaxed Shirt ($79.00)—Buy Now

Quince Tencel Rib Maternity & Nursing Jumpsuit

We love, love, love a good jumpsuit! This one-and-done ultra-soft option comes in Black and Heather Grey.

Quince Tencel Rib Maternity & Nursing Jumpsuit ($49.90)—Buy Now

Tencel Jersey Maternity & Nursing Long Sleeve Tee 2-Pack

When you find a piece of clothing that works great, buy two! This 2-pack makes it easy. Available in Black/Dark Olive and Heather Grey/Navy.

Tencel Jersey Maternity & Nursing Long Sleeve Tee 2-Pack ($49.90)—Buy Now

XCVI Linen Folksy Jacket

This is the perfect lightweight jacket for spring and comes in this olive Hillside Pigment hue and Sunbaked orange.

XCVI Linen Folksy Jacket ($99.00)—Buy Now

Ingrid + Isabel Raw Edge Nursing Tee

A classic tee with a modern twist (and convenient nursing access).

Ingrid + Isabel Raw Edge Nursing Tee ($66.00)—Buy Now

SUNNYBUY Nursing Pajama Set

This versatile set comes in 10 colors, so you may want to grab a few!

SUNNYBUY Nursing Pajama Set ($42.99+)—Buy Now

XCVI Norris Crop Jumpsuit

This jumpsuit is so fashion-forward and is giving us major spring feels! Comes in cream-colored Cremini and rich olive Kombu Pigment.

XCVI Norris Crop Jumpsuit ($155.00)—Buy Now

3-Pack Nursing Tank Tops

A classic style that's available in so many color combinations, you'll for sure be set for spring and summer.

3-Pack Nursing Tank Tops ($39.99)—Buy Now

Quince Lightweight Cotton Cashmere Nursing Shawl

This one is so versatile! Use it as a nursing shawl, stroller blanket, carseat cover—you name it! Comes in Heather Oatmeal and Heather Grey.

Quince Lightweight Cotton Cashmere Nursing Shawl ($39.90)—Buy Now

Smallshow Side Split Nursing Dress

Machine wash, breathable, and available in a bunch of colors, this dress is a full win!

Smallshow Side Split Nursing Dress ($29.99)—Buy Now

3-Pack Pullover Cross-Front Cardigan

Especially during the transitional months, these cardigans can be thrown over tees and tanks! Available in several color combos.

3-Pack Pullover Cross-Front Cardigan ($43.95)—Buy Now

XCVI Lenchen Jacket Dress

This dress can go from desk to dinner and from the grocery store to brunch! It comes in colorblock Foothills, Navy, and olive Kombu Pigment.

XCVI Lenchen Jacket Dress ($144.00)—Buy Now

Bearsland Peplum Scoop-Neck Tee

Perfect to wear with leggings and comes in so many colors and prints!

Bearsland Peplum Scoop-Neck Tee ($22.99)—Buy Now

3-Pack Nursing Tees

Can't get enough tees, right? Especially versatile and soft ones!

3-Pack Nursing Tees ($31.99+)—Buy Now

XCVI Austen Shirt Dress

It's probably pretty clear that we're in love with shirt dresses, and this one can be worn from spring through fall!

XCVI Austen Shirt Dress ($128.00)—Buy Now

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A husband went to the internet for advice after giving his stay-at-home wife a performance review, and it went pretty much how you’d expect it to

We all have our strengths and weaknesses—those areas where we flourish and those that could use some improvement. That includes at work, at home, and as parents. But, as one husband learned in a painful way, pointing out your spouse’s weaknesses via a formal performance review is, um, not the move.

Oh, the Am I the As*hole subreddit. If you’ve never been to this delightful corner of the internet, it’s a place where anonymous people can explain a scenario and ask for judgment from strangers to determine whether they are an as*hole. This is where we find our performance-reviewing dad, who made the following post.

AITA for giving my SAHM wife a written performance review with suggested areas needing improvement?
byu/Garrbie inAmItheAsshole

In the post, he explains that he lives with his wife, her 13-year-old daughter, their 15-year-old niece, and a shared 6-year-old daughter. This dad feels like his wife plays favorites with the kids, constantly siding with the 6-year-old while punishing the teens too harshly.

“My wife has taught the youngest, she can blame others for her actions to avoid consequences,” he writes. “She just says the word, one of the teens will get punished without question. There’s no doubt, she is my wife’s favorite. I love her, but she’s becoming nothing more than an entitled brat.”

As an example, he shares a story of a time when all three kids broke a house rule (and the 6-year-old even lied about it!), but while the teens were punished, the younger daughter wasn’t.

“We’ve have had countless, tiring arguments. She’d either not see her faults, or we’d agree to do this and that, but it was never actually done,” the dad wrote. “I decided to write her a performance review, as a SAHM. Her areas in need of improvement, well it was a lot. But I touched on how she needs to listen better, stop being biased. Be fair in all her decisions, stop making rash decisions without taking all three kids into consideration. I recommended her to give each child the same amount of one-on-one alone time to speak, or just be with one another.”

So, there’s a lot to unpack here. Obviously, the spousal performance review went over just as well as you’d think it would—the wife was pissed. But from reading just the post headline, I was fully ready to take her side, 100%. After reading the whole post, I concur with the general consensus of the internet strangers who judged the post: everyone here sucks. The mom needs to stop playing favorites with her kids, and the dad needs to learn to communicate with her in a way that doesn’t scream, “I am a very serious businessman, and you are my subordinate employee, not my wife.”

Or, as one commenter put it, “Are you her EMPLOYER, because employers give performance reviews. Partners do not give performance reviews. Your family, INCLUDING YOURSELF, needs therapy. A lot of therapy. A LOT of therapy.”

That about sums it up.

All you need is love…and treats. We’ve got some pretty awesome local Bay Area shops that have put together great gifts—from beautiful charcuterie boards to cookie decorating kits, they have it all! So spread the love while supporting local businesses with treats that will bring a smile. We all need that.

Where to Find the Best Candy in San Francisco

Giddy

If the name is any indication, we're willing to bet your kids will leave this store feeling.. well, giddy.  You'll find high-quality candy from global and local producers but for Valentine's Day, we like to stock up on the Sour Pucker Up Lips and Cinnamon Heart Jelly Beans. 

2299 Market St.
San Francisco
Online: giddycandy.com

Hey, Cookie!

It all started when founder Christa Hill wanted to share her favorite cookies with friends at Dolores Park. Ten years and thousands of cookies later, she’s still at it, bringing smiles to her customers throughout San Francisco. Each cupid box comes packaged with colorful tissue, a festive bow, a handwritten message, and hand delivered to you.
 

Batter Bakery

This small-batch, boutique bakery in San Francisco is loved by residents in and out of the city. For Valentine’s Day, Batter Bakery is offering their signature cookie decorating kit in small or large, and includes shortbread cookies, royal icing, sprinkles, supplies and instructions. Also check out their heart-shaped cookies in unique flavors like lavender sea salt, chocolate hazelnut and red hot candy! Online ordering and nationwide delivery is available.

Online: batterbakery.com

Kokak Truffles

A passion project for chocolatier Carol Gancia, Kokak Truffles has become a Bay Area favorite. The beautifully designed chocolate bouquet truffle box comes in flavors like strawberry, hazelnut, and coffee, makes a great gift. For something even more decadent, the Chocolate Love Tower includes an assortment from the Castro Pride, pie, tea, liqueur-filled and dark chocolate collections. Boxes can be ordered for local SF delivery, curbside pick-up or shipped. 
 
 
3901 18th St.
San Francisco
Online: kokakchocolates.com

The Candy Store

This candy boutique doesn't offer just plain 'ole candy—it specializes in nostalgic candy that is difficult to find elsewhere. Think German gummy bears, Green Tea Kit Kat bars and imported Italian candy bars. We dare you to leave this store empty-handed! 

 

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Bakes by Eileen

Self-taught baker Eileen Wang in Alameda is all about beautiful desserts. For Valentine’s Day, grab a four-piece cupcake treat box that comes in flavors like red wine chocolate raspberry or vegan thin mint chocolate or go big with a dozen. We love the Tea Box for $70 that includes themed cupcakes, hot chocolate bombs, cookies, brownies, mochi and tea for a romantic afternoon tea or fun surprise to share with the kids. Pick-up in Alameda.

Le Bonbon's

Step into Bonbon's and you'll be transported to a delightful European candy store where they have it all—gelato, marzipan, truffles, fudge, Belgian chocolates and our very favorite chocolate-covered cherries. 

Brie Grazing Boards

Started by a single mom with a love for making food look beautiful, Karla’s charcuterie and cheese boards are full of little details and totally giftable. For Valentine’s Day, her gorgeous and delectable boards start at $60 and are in high demand so be sure to get your order in early! Check out her Instagram for inspiration and contact information.

Casa De Chocolates

Since 2012, this Berkeley boutique chocolatier has been creating unique, small-batch, high-quality artisanal chocolates inspired by a passion for the Latin American culture. For Valentine’s Day, Casa de Chocolates has their Amor (Love) Collection featuring beautiful gifts ranging from chocolate-covered strawberries to hand-painted chocolate roses. We love their assorted chocolate box with flavors like Petalo de Rosas, Guayabana, and Tequila, or the chocolate-covered strawberries and truffles. Shipping and pick-up available at their shop in Berkeley. 

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Sibby's Cupcakery

The San Mateo bakery has been around since 2004 serving delicious signature, seasonal and custom-themed cupcakes baked to order from scratch. For Valentine’s Day, Sibby’s is offering their mini cupcakes with themed flavors like heart confetti, double chocolate raspberry, red velvet and white chocolate passionfruit. Delivery is available from San Francisco to Sunnyvale and pick-up is by appointment only. 

Sweet Shop

Nestled within a Los Altos neighborhood, this charming community treat shop is where local kids come to spend their allowance on frozen yogurt, bulk candy, root beer floats and milkshakes. Parents will love that there are also sandwich and soup options along with coffee and the best part (as if it couldn't get any better) is that a portion of proceeds goes back to local schools. 

 

Meraki-X

17-year-old Shrobana Shangupta is making waves in the way of raising money for nonprofits like Sunday Friends and St. Jude’s in the San Jose area with her love of food. Self-taught and ambitious, her macarons have already cultivated a following with unique flavors like jelly donut and Nutella cheesecake. Share the love with a Valentine’s Day box with rose and vanilla cheesecake and dark chocolate ganache. Pick-up is available in San Jose. 

Made Out Of Dough

Started eight years ago, Made Out Of Dough is all about bringing the flavor. With savory scones and sweet pastries, they have been working the farmer’s markets around the Bay Area and wowing customers with yummy treats. For the special day, check out the Chocolate Covered Strawberry cake with fresh strawberries or the Vanilla Love cake with swirled pink vanilla.

SusieCakes

A crowd favorite, SusieCakes makes beautifully delicious cakes, cupcakes, cookies and pies made from scratch. For Valentine’s Day, the bakery is whipping up an I Heart You Box of four cupcakes in special flavors as well as a dozen mini rose cupcakes. For a fun activity, grab a cupcake or sugar cookie decorating kit. Pick-up and delivery are available at select bakeries, so be sure to check out the website for the closest one!

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Sift Dessert Bar

Family-owned since 2008, Sift Dessert knows the sweet stuff. With three locations in the Bay Area including Santa Rosa and Napa, Sift Dessert Bar makes beautiful cupcakes, macaroons, cakes and cuffles (cake and frosting blended together and dipped in chocolate). They have some fun boxes for Valentine’s Day including the gluten-free Conversation Crispy Bars and Macaroons box with rice crispy treats and the Hey Sugar Gift Box with whoopie cookies, gummy bears, sprinkles chocolate bar and a customized note. Shipping and store pick-up is available. 

Baked Blooms

Want to send some flowers but also cupcakes? Check out Baked Blooms in San Anselmo. This home-based bakery started by stay-at-home mom Sarah Thongnopneua makes cupcake bouquets arranged and decorated to look like a beautiful bouquet of flowers. You can order a seven-piece small bouquet of chocolate and vanilla cupcakes in red, white and pink floral design. Cupcakes are homemade and baked from scratch in small batches using real ingredients. Pick-up is available in San Anselmo with local delivery only in Marin at this time. 

Johnny Doughnuts

Artisanal doughnuts handcrafted with locally sourced, organic ingredients is the name of the game at Johnny Doughnuts. For Valentine’s Day, their Strawberry Bismark flavor is a must-try along with assorted doughnut holes in a variety of flavors and fillings, dressed up like a box of chocolates. Get your sweet tooth fix at one of their San Francisco, Marin or pop-up food truck locations!

Snow has finally arrived, transforming Tahoe into a wintry wonderland. It’s time to hit the road and see (and ski) the famed mountain resort

After a stifling summer with heat and smoke, we are so excited for winter at Tahoe! If your family is ready for some winter fun, we have all the tips on how to turn Tahoe into your winter wonderland playground below. For snow play and non-skiing/boarding activities, make sure to check out our sledding and tubing hill guide and either way, get ready to hit the slopes!

Where to Stay in Tahoe: The North Shore

Christine Lai

For those who prefer the north side of the lake, the Village at Northstar boasts a ton of comfy lodging options for you and the fam and most rooms come with a mini kitchen so you can cook up your own hot cocoa. Dine at the Bourbon Pub in the Village and go ice skating at the on-site rink.

Check out our insider's guide to skiing at Northstar with kids who never skied before. 

For an elevated experience, check into the Ritz-Carlton Lake Tahoe mid-mountain at Northstar. Expect five-star Ritz-Carlton service, with ski-in-ski-out convenience, plus a spa worth bribing your significant other to take the kids for a couple of hours. Two- and three-bedroom luxury residences make for an easy family retreat or upgrade your hotel room to concierge level for all those benefits.

If being close to the action is what you crave, the Village at Tahoe Palisades plunks you and the fam just steps from the gondola, lifts, shops and great restaurants of the former Olympic Village. Condos come in all sizes from studios to three-bedrooms, so there’s room for all. Bonus: many have hot tubs!

Tahoe Getaways also offers some stunning homes perfect for groups or large families, including some homes within residential community Mountainside at Northstar, which offers everything from ski butler, to a communal club house with a fitness center and heated pool, to back doors that open up right to the runs on the mountain.

Where to Stay in Tahoe: The South Shore

On the South side of the lake, there are sometimes better deals to be found, as well as some top-notch skiing. The Hotel Becket boasts gorgeous modern rooms and is located just across the street from Heavenly Village, which offers 4,800 acres of world-class skiing and snow boarding. The Landing Lake Tahoe Resort and Spa, a Destination Hotel, offers a popcorn cart, snowga (yoga in the snow!) and helicopter programming to take your visit the the sky! The all-suite Lake Tahoe Resort Hotel means extra room for families to spread out plus free breakfast (think: eggs and bacon!) is included in every stay so the family hits the slopes with full bellies.  

If you’re looking to team up with another family or simply prefer more space, (plus have your own yard for snowman-building and snowball-hurling) the widest array of options are found on vrbo.com or airbnb.com.

Where to Ski in Tahoe

Christine Lai

Some of you may be itching to get the little ones up on skis for the first time. If they’re ready to go for it, most of the larger ski resorts have ski schools that are perfect for tiny beginners. Palisade Tahoe's program takes kids as young as three and these “Pioneers" learn on the flats, with about a 3-to-1 student to teacher ratio. Slightly older kids (4-6) learn with the Explorers group. Northstar-at-Tahoe’s youth ski/snowboard  program takes three-year-olds and up as well.

Insider Tip: For first-timers, most resorts recommend starting off with a half-day, to keep their little legs from getting too tired, then checking them into day care so kids can have a blast while you go big on the slopes. Check out our full  guide to kids' ski and snowboard lessons.

But if the real thrill is teaching your little shredder yourself, there are plenty of slopes perfect for learning. The Little Dipper sits right behind the Ritz-Carlton and even has it's own mini chair lift, which tends to make kids extra excited about the whole snowy endeavor. Closer to Northstar Village, there are two Kids' Adventure Parks with tiny terrain perfect for the beginner to practice on.

Where to Sled, Skate, Sleigh & Snowtube in Tahoe

Snow Play in Tahoe: This outdoor adventure wonderland is perfect for families who have more on their wish list than skiing and snowboarding. While there are great options for downhill and cross-country here, we went nuts for the snow play area. Sledding (sleds provided!), tubing and even a snowball launch make this an all-in-one winter wonderland for kids (and grownups who may have forgotten the joy of coasting down a snow-covered hill on their butts). Ample parking and one ticket lets you play all day. There are fire pits, picnic tables and a food truck serving up sandwiches, hot cocoa and more.

11509 Northwoods Blvd.
Truckee
Online: tahoedonner.com

Sledding in Tahoe: Bundled-up kids will enjoy a sleigh ride pulled by horses: there’s one at Sand Harbor Nevada State Park, a family-run outfit. Dog-sledding trips might thrill older kids who can stand to be on a husky-pulled sled for an hour. Also check out Running Creek Dog Sled Rides if you think this classic outdoors adventure is a fit for your family.

If your tot prefers to pull his own sled, there are dozens of options for sledding hills and tubing parks all around the lake. If you’re planning to ski at one of the major resorts, you’ll be glad to know that Squaw, Northstar, Kirkwood and Sierra-at-Tahoe all boast tubing parks where kids can slide in a giant doughnut for a small fee. And the smaller resorts have some pretty tricked-out sledding hills these days, too: Soda Springs lets tots as little as three take its tow ropes to the Tube Express, or, for a slower ride, the Little Dipper; Granlibakken rents saucers (no tubes or toboggans). For good, old-fashioned classic sledding, there are some hills around the lake that do it old-school: BYO sled, and best of all, no fee.

Ice Skating in Tahoe: And let’s not leave out that classic winter pastime: ice skating! The year-round rink at Northstar (roller-skating in the summer) is in the center of the village, so parents can sip a hot toddy while kids twirl away in their sightline on the ice. And the resort at Squaw Creek’s outdoor rink makes a perfect photo op, with its Sierra backdrop and hot chocolate on hand.

Where to Eat in Tahoe with Kids

Pretty much any of the restaurants within the villages at Northstar or Squaw are perfect for filling up your snow covered crew any time of day. The Michael Mina Bourbon Pub is a great option for families looking for comfort food with all the beverages to go with it. But if you are venturing out to the towns, there are lots of family-friendly places to check out.

Dine in an old train car Jax at the Trax, which serves up thick milkshakes, sweet potato fries and even whipped cream topped Irish coffees for mom and dad. This Truckee favorite is almost always bustling, but the incredibly friendly staff will make sure you feel well taken care of. The menu is multiple pages long and even offers breakfast favorites served all day. Portions are large, so maybe pick a few favorites and go family style. Their chicken fingers are the real deal (as opposed to of the suspiciously shaped McNugget variety), so order 'em up.

For some special views, the lakeside dining at Riva Grill in South Lake Tahoe is surprisingly kid-friendly. Order up a Virgin Woody (the nonalcoholic version of their famous house cocktail) and soak up the scenery of that iconic lake.

For the best Frosty the Snowman pancakes in town, grab a table at Donner Lake Kitchen. It’s tucked behind the Donner Pines Market on Donner Pass Road. The service is as sweet as the M&Ms used for Frosty’s buttons, and the menu is extensive (we recommend the Bloody Marys for mom and dad). The portions are massive, but luckily they offer half sizes on the most monster-sized meals. They are only open for breakfast and lunch.

On your way in our out of town, be sure to fuel up at the Wagon Train Coffee Shop. Located in the heart of downtown Truckee, right on the strip, this place is a must visit for a taste of local flavor and fun. A model train runs on tracks suspended over the dining room and dozens of license plates and taxidermy trophy heads line the walls. The family business has been going strong for decades and their baked goods are out of this world. Just don’t try and ask what is in the biscuit’s sweet sauce—that’s proprietary. This place is a haven for thoughtful parents who want to let their partner sleep in, as they open up at 5:30 a.m. every morning and offer early bird pricing during those wee hours. 

Tips for Driving to Tahoe

During the snowy season, always carry chains when driving to Tahoe (unless you are driving a four-wheel-drive with snow tires). But if you come empty handed, there are always chain services selling and installing on the side of the road, and you'll pay from $50 to $75 for the whole shebang, without ever having to get out of your car.

 

Representative Jimmy Gomez made the House floor a lot more adorable when he brought his 4-month-old son with him to work—but his reason for doing so is the best part of the story.

Unpredictable work hours are nothing new for Representative Jimmy Gomez, a Democrat from California. He’s already served three terms, so he knows how working in Congress can be. But now that he has a four-month-old son, Hodge, he needs a little more predictability in his schedule so he can stick to his baby’s strict feeding times. And that’s why Gomez did the only thing a loving dad could do—he put on a babywearing sling and took little Hodge with him to the House floor for the Speaker votes this week.

“His feedings are at 7 in the morning, then four hours later at 11, then again at 3, then at 7 o’clock at night,” Gomez told NBC News. “He’s an alarm clock. At three hours he starts getting fussy and cranky, and that’s when you have to keep him occupied because once he gets to three and a half hours, that’s when he gets really upset.”

Gomez told NBC that he made sure to go to work with enough diapers, wipes, and bottles to have Hodge there all day, if necessary. The sling allowed the infant to see what was going on and smile at his dad’s coworkers, including Rep. Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez, who Gomez says insisted, “Give me that baby.”

But as any parent will know, not everything went perfectly according to plan.

“The first feed at 11 a.m. started at 10:45 a.m. and took an extra 30 minutes. Then he had a diaper blowout,” Gomez said. “I had to go and change him. Luckily there’s a men’s bathroom right across the hall from my office.”

Thanks to a recent update, all the restrooms in the Cannon House Office building on Capitol Hill have changing tables, including the mens’.

Gomez said taking his son to work with him was just what made sense for his family at the time, but he hopes the move has a rippling effect on working fathers everywhere.

“In the end, we have to normalize dads taking their kids with them, be it stay-at-home dads or working dads,” he said. “When I took him to the floor, I think people were surprised — but it wasn’t a big deal. I think it does send a powerful message that us guys need to do our part. We don’t risk our lives bringing children into the world — women do.”

An estimated 2.1 million dads stayed home with their kids in 2021, an 8 percent increase since 1989

By now, we all know that gender roles don’t serve anyone. And more and more, Americans are bucking traditional trends when it comes to work, household management, and childcare. According to new research from Pew, an estimated 2.1 million fathers were stay-at-home dads in 2021, which is an 8 percent increase since 1989.

Experts believe the rise of stay-at-home dads across the U.S. is, at least in part, because women are beginning to out-earn their male partners. Women have outpaced men at earning college and advanced degrees for over two decades now, and because of this, more men are choosing to give up their careers when full-time childcare is required. And with the dramatic rise in childcare costs in recent years, it’s becoming more and more necessary for families to have a parent stay home, rather than sending their kids to daycare.

Plus, with the rise in remote work and flexible work schedules, it’s becoming much more possible (and common) for men to work from home while caring for their kids. This means dual-income families are able to stay that way, even while having a parent stay home with the kids.

All these factors have converged during a time when dads are also taking a more active role in child-rearing than they ever have, historically. In 2016, fathers self-reported that they spent about eight hours a week taking care of their kids. While we’re going to ignore the fact that that’s still way too low, it is three times as many hours as dads reported spending engaged with their kids in 1965. The same trend is happening with household chores—2016 dads reported spending about 10 hours a week on chores, compared to just four hours in 1965 (moms, on the other hand, report spending 14 hours a week on childcare and 18 hours a week on housework).

The economic turmoil of the last few decades may be at play here. During the Great Recession, 2.2 million fathers became stay-at-home dads after losing their jobs. And during the COVID-19 pandemic, many men left the workforce and still have not returned—federal jobs numbers show that as of last month, there were 7 million U.S. men ages 25 to 54 who were unemployed and not looking for work.

Ring in 2023 with exciting Portland New Year’s Eve events and activities that have earned the kid-seal of approval

You and the kids might not make it to the strike of midnight, but thankfully that doesn’t mean you have to miss out on Portland New Year’s Eve events. In fact, there are still plenty of ways Portland families can ring in 2023 and still make it home before bedtime (plus a few that’ll keep you out a little past it). Whether your kids want to celebrate the Noon Year, get active with a retro activity, or simply want to take one last look at some of the season’s best attractions, we’ve got options for everyone. Cheers to a safe and healthy 2023!

Ring in the Noon Year at These Celebrations

Portland new Years eve where a young boy near a disco ball bubbles falling all around
Hands On Children's Museum

1. Gilbert House Children’s Museum

Join the Gilbert House Children’s Museum in Salem for their annual Noon Year’s Eve celebration. Who needs to wait up until midnight when you and the kids can start partying at 10 a.m. with holiday crafts, a hot cocoa bar, and all the usual amenities the museum offers. As soon as the clock strikes noon prepare for a fantastic balloon ball drop that'll thrill the kids. Cost includes general museum admission.

Date & Time: Dec. 31, 2022; 10 a.m.
Cost: $5/person (members); $15/person (non-members)

116 Marion St. N.E.
Salem, OR
Online: acgilbert.org

2. Hands On Children's Museum

Bring the kids to Olympia for the Hands On Children's Museum's unforgettable Noon Years Eve Party. This year's theme is "Shine Bright in the New Year." Expect lots of sparkle, shine, glimmer, and glow activities that tie into the theme like Dr. Science experiments, bioluminescence, shooting star launching, glitzy crafts, and a photo booth. The Noon Year’s countdown includes a dance party, ball drop, and parade every hour throughout the day. Our tip? Make your online reservations in advance and save $2 on admission.

Good to Know: The museum will have a sensory-friendly room and art space set up from 9 a.m.-4 p.m. so kids of all abilities can join in the fun throughout the day.

Date & Time: Dec. 31, 2022; 10 a.m.-4 p.m.
Cost: $17/person; Free, babies 17 mos. & under

414 Jefferson St. N.E.
Olympia, WA
Online: hocm.org

3. Erev New Year's Eve at Noon

Find all kinds of fun at the Mittleman Jewish Community Center the day before New Year's Eve. A bouncy house, face painting, games, and more will keep the kids busy before the clock strikes noon on the 30th. When it does, they'll be showered in beach balls, falling from the ceiling. RSVP is required for this event.

Date & Time: Dec. 30, 2022; 11 a.m.-12:30 p.m.

Mittleman Jewish Community Center
6651 S.W. Capitol Hwy.
Portland
Online: oregonjcc.org

4. Noon Year's Eve

Tots will get a kick out of this celebration at My Gym in Sherwood. A balloon drop will be part of the programming fun, and so will sparkling cider. But what your kids will love the most is the chance to climb and play at this indoor gym before and after the celebration. The event runs for 90 minutes, starting at 11 a.m.

My Gym Sherwood
16080 S.W. Tualatin-Sherwood Rd.
Sherwood, OR
Online: mygym.com

Skate & Roll Your Way into the New Year

kids roller stake around a rink at portland new years eve

5. Oaks Park Roller Rink

Rink in the New Year at Oaks Park. Expect a DJ, skate specials, party favors, and so much more at this family-friendly event that runs well past your kiddo's bedtime. Skates are available to rent.

Date & Time: Dec. 31, 2022; 7 p.m.-1 a.m.
Cost: $22/person; $5/spectator

7805 S.E. Oaks Park Way
Portland
Online: oaksamusementpark.centeredgeonline.com

6. Lloyd Center Ice Rink

The Lloyd Center ice rink is open for public skate on New Year's Eve from 1 p.m.-7:30 p.m. It's a great place place to celebrate the day without having to stay out too late with the kids. Every two hours starting at 1 p.m. and ending at 5 p.m., snow falls on the ice next to the magnificent 70-foot Christmas tree, and bonus—New Year's eve is a Rock 'N Skate evening. From 5:30 p.m.-7:30 p.m. a DJ will be spinning tunes and taking requests.

Date & Time: Dec. 31, 2022; 1-7:30 p.m.
Cost: $20/person; $4/kid, ages 2-3

953 Lloyd Center
Portland
Online: lloydice.com

7. Mountain View Ice Arena

Another ice skating option just north of the city, Mountain View Ice Arena in Vancouver will be hosting a New Year's Eve Skate. Best for families with big kids or little ones with plenty of energy, you'll have the chance to hit the ice for a few hours to celebrate the turning of the calenadar.

Date & Time: Dec. 31, 2022; 7:15-9:30 p.m.
Cost: $15/person

14313 Southeast Mill Plain Blvd.
Vancouver, WA
Online: mtviewice.com

8. King Pins

If you want to go big for the New Year, consider renting a New Year's Eve lane at King Pins. An early time slot will give you plenty of time to enjoy cosmic bowling with the kids while still making it home for the regular night time routine. Prizes, giveaways, and a big celebration are all part of this event your kids will remember. 

Date & Time: Dec. 31, 2022; 5:30 p.m.-1 a.m.
Cost: $125/lane (for group of 6)

3550 S.E. 92nd Ave.
Portland
Online: mykingpins.com

More Kid-Friendly New Year’s Activities & Events

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9. Storytime at Powell's

Bring the kids to hear The Magical Yeti by Angela Diterlizzi on New Year's Eve if you're looking for something fun to keep them entertained. 

Date & Time: Dec. 31, 2022; 10:30 a.m.

1005 W. Burnside St.
Portland
Online: powells.com

10. Straight No Chaser 25th Anniversary Celebration

There's something irresistible about Straight No Chaser's a cappella tuneage. Maybe it's the songs they choose, or the humor they bring along with it. Either way, your kids will be tapping along with this vocal phenomenon.

Date & Time: Dec. 31, 2022; 7:30 p.m.
Cost: Tickets start at $25

Keller Auditorium
222 S.W. Clay St.
Portland
Online: portland5.com/keller-auditorium

Last Chance to See Lights at These Amazing Displays

11. Check Out Holiday Lights

If you didn't make it out to see all the amazing holiday light displays around the city, New Year's Eve is your last chance to catch many. It's the final night of the popular neighborhood Peacock Lane display and Winter Wonderland at Portland International Raceway. Plus, ZooLights only has a few more days to go before going dark for the season. Get out there and see the displays while you still can.

Related: Electric Avenues: Holiday Light Displays That Really Shine

Grab your mittens and scarves, we’ve found the coziest family rentals in Big Bear, Idyllwild, and Mammoth Lakes

In the winter months, families all over the country escape to San Diego to enjoy the sunshine and warmer temps. For those lucky enough to enjoy San Diego weather year-round, it’s the time of year when we crave snuggling up in front of the fireplace with a cup of hot cocoa, watching the snowfall, and breaking out our fluffy mittens and scarves. A cozy cabin rental, within driving distance, is the answer to our wintertime wanderlust! From chilly days exploring nature or playing in the snow to unplugged evenings with big family fun. Check out these nearby Airbnb rentals in Big Bear, Idyllwild, Lake Arrowhead, Ojai, and Mammoth that are perfect for a getaway this winter.

Blackbird A-Frame with Mountain View—Big Bear Lake, CA

via Airbnb

Big Bear is an obvious choice for families that want to escape to the mountains. This A-Frame is perfectly located, tucked away in the trees of Lower Moonridge in Big Bear Lake. It's situated in the heart of it all, making it an ideal location for your winter adventures. It's a two-minute drive to Bear and Summit Mountain and a three-minute walk to the main ski shuttle. It's also so well equipped that you can just spend your time at home snuggled up to the vintage, wood-burning stove or unwinding in the hot-tub.

Sleeps: 7 guests
Price: Starting at $400/night
Online: airbnb.com

 

Whiskey Creek Cabin—Idyllwild, CA

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We wrote about the beauty of Idyllwild in our round-up of best fall weekend escapes and it's just as lovely in the winter. Relax beneath the tall pines and let the kids run wild at the Whiskey Creek Cabin in Idyllwild. This multi-level Airbnb is surrounded by nature and a welcome respite from city life. Cozy nights can be spent around the fire stargazing at the night sky or on the upper deck with a glass of wine while the kids play on the spacious property. Don't forget Fido on this family getaway, The Whisky Creek Cabin is dog friendly.

Sleeps:
Cost: $266/night
Online: airbnb.com

The Far Out A-Frame Cabin—Idyllwild, CA

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Sleeping loft for the kids? Check. Deck with hot tub surrounded by nature? Check. Retreat to this cozy A-frame cabin in the San Jacinto mountains that checks all the boxes for a relaxing family getaway. Situated on an acre of land, this mountain cabin has plenty of nature to explore yet is only one mile from the restaurants and shops in the center of town.

Sleeps:
Cost: $326/night
Online: airbnb.com

The Red Door Cabin—Idyllwild-Pine Cone, CA

Airbnb

Enjoy modern touches with the serenity of nature at The Red Door cabin in the wooded community of Pine Cove. Just minutes from the village of Idyllwild, this 3-bedroom cabin is at an elevation of 6,000 feet with 4 acres of forest to discover. After a chilly winter day exploring with the kiddos, soak into the modern free-standing tub in the master bathroom or the sunken jacuzzi on the deck.

Sleeps:
Cost: $301/night
Online: airbnb.com

Bohemian Cabin—Topanga, CA

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You're not going to get snow, but you may have a deer sighting! Hidden from the hustle of the city, this bohemian cabin in the Santa Monica Mountains will feel like it's worlds away from the stresses of city life. Spend quiet evenings in the outdoor cedar soaking tub, read a book with the kids in the hammock. or take to one of the onsite or nearby trails for a hike. With plush furnishings and luxurious details, this bohemian cabin will feel like a magical retreat.

Sleeps:
Cost: $605/night
Online: airbnb.com

Caravan Outpost Tiny House—Ojai, CA

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Ready for a cozy cabin, but urban dwelling is much more your thing? Check out this comfy bohemian tiny house at Caravan Outpost in Ojai. This unique property has 10 Airstreams and one tiny house available for rent surrounded by lush botanical gardens and stylish chill spaces. Families will love the plentiful assortment of games available and nighttime s'mores around the campfire.

Sleeps: 5
Cost: $237/night
Online: airbnb.com

The Canyon Lodge: Mammoth Lakes

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If you have skiers or snowboarders at home, think about a trip to Mammoth Lakes. This condo is just less than a half-mile from Canyon Lodge and a mile from The Village. It is a condo with a cabin feel, equipped with two bedrooms plus a loft, and two and a half bathrooms. The mountain retreat features wooden vaulted ceilings and large forest-facing windows to take in the scenery. The beautiful brick fireplace is perfect for a cozy family game night after a day on the slopes. 

Sleeps: 6
Cost: $105/night
Online: airbnb.com

Please note, prices listed were valid at the time of publication but rates can fluctuate at different times of the year. If you buy something from the links in this article, we may earn affiliate commission or compensation.

Are you looking for a cool, fun adventure that involves some snow? Look no further than the best snow tubing spots near the Bay Area

It’s no secret that some of the best snow-filled days are spent sledding down a giant hill with family and friends. And the best part about snow tubing is that little-to-no-skill is required (just a healthy dose of bravery and willingness) so everyone in the family can participate. These must-go sledding spots near the Bay Area are not only fun, but make a great overnight stay to boot. So dust off those winter coats, stir up some hot cocoa, put on your leg warmers, and get ready to play in the snow (and then some) at the best snow tubing and sledding hills near the Bay Area.

The Best Snow Tubing near San Francisco

1. Palisades Tahoe 

While our editors love skiing and snowboarding at Palisades Tahoe, for kids who aren't quite convinced they want to get up on skies, you can go snow tubing at the SnoVentures Activity Zone located at the Palisades base area adjacent to the parking lot. Online reservations are recommended.

Good to Know: Ikon Pass holders receive free snow tubing every Thurs. And don't miss Disco Tubing where SnoVentures Activity Zone comes to life with colorful LED lights, lasers, and live DJs from 5-8 p.m.

Cost: $42/weekday, $54/weekend 
Date:
Opens Nov. 24

1960 Squaw Valley Rd.
Olympic Valley
Online: palisadestahoe.com

2. Adventure Mountain

Nestled on over 40 acres at the top of Echo Summit, Adventure Mountain is South Lake Tahoe's best spot for sledding, tubing, and snow fun. It is family owned and operated, offering up to 15 machine-groomed runs and plenty of space for snow play. Be sure to stop by the lodge for some hot cocoa by the fire. You may buy, rent or bring your own equipment. Helmets are encouraged.

Cost: $40 midweek, $45 weekend 
Date: Weekdays 10 a.m.-3 p.m.; Weekends and holidays 9 a.m.-3:30 p.m.

Nebelhorn, Hwy 50, Echo Summit
South Lake Tahoe
Online: adventuremountaintahoe.com

3. Granlibakken

Operating since 1920, Granlibakken's popular 300-foot sledding hill is a worthwhile day spent outdoors. Bring the kids for their first sledding experience or sign them up for skiing and snowboarding lessons. Additional fun: The s'more kits are a hit with the littles and can be enjoyed around the fire pits.

Cost: $25/weekday, $35/weekend, $45/night sledding; free for children under 3
Date: Opens Nov. 24

725 Granlibakken Rd.
Tahoe City 
Online: granlibakken.com

4. Tahoe City Winter Sports Park

Outdoor fun awaits at this family-friendly sledding hill located adjacent to Lake Tahoe. Disc rental is included with your reservation, but no outside sleds are allowed. Reservations are required and limited walk-ups will be permitted.

Good to Know: In addition to the sledding hill, there's an outdoor ice skating rink and you can rent snowshoes here. 

Cost: $5/resident, $15/non-resident
Date: Ice rink opens Nov. 25; Sledding hill will open shortly after

251 N. Lake Blvd.
Tahoe City
Online: tcpud.org

5. Hansen's Resort

Hansen's Resort is home to a super-fun sledding and tubing hill with a 400-foot long hill, it's great for all ages.

Good to Know: Snow tubing sessions are an hour long along with complimentary parking to snowtubers.

Cost: $40/hour (5 & up); 4 and under free with paying adult

1360 Ski Run Blvd.
South Lake Tahoe
Online: hansensresort.com

6. More Fun Sledding Hills in Lake Tahoe

Check out these other sledding hills if you are in the Lake Tahoe area: 

  • Mt. Rose Sledding Hill
  • Donner Summit Sno-Park
  • North Tahoe Regional Park
  • Spooner Summit Public Sledding

Online: tahoereport.com

7. Spicer Sno Parks, Bear Valley

Within four miles of Bear Valley, there are three parking locations where you can find slopes to get your snow tubing fix. Lake Alpine Sno-Park is the pick of the bunch with some long, fast runs. Aside from some non-flush toilets there aren’t many amenities so pack a lunch and some warming drinks. Purchase your Sno Park passes online.

Cost: Passes are $5/day or $25/season pass. 
Date: Hours and dates vary and are dependent on weather

South Side of Highway 4 at Spicer Rd.
Bear Valley
Online: gocalaveras.com

8. Tamarack Sno-Park

Tamarack Sno-Park is located between Shaver Lake and Huntington Lake, about a 3.5-hour drive from the Bay Area.

Good to Know: You need to purchase a parking permit ahead of time.

Cost: $15/day, $40/season
Date:
Nov. 1-May. 30

41387 Tollhouse Rd.
Shaver Lake
Online: ohv.parks.ca.gov

9. Soda Springs Mountain Resort

The Soda Spring Mountain Resort is home to Tube Town, a huge snow tubing area with up to 20 lanes and a 400-foot surface lift to get you back to the top! The resort also caters specifically to kids with an area called Planet Kids—a playground that contains snow tubing carousels, snow tubing lanes, ski and snowboard learning areas, along with snow volcanoes to climb.

Cost: Varies by time and day
Date: Opens Nov. 25

10244 Soda Springs Rd.
Soda Springs
Online: skisodasprings.com

10. Leland Snowplay

A snow hill set in the Sierra Mountains provides a deluxe environment for tubing. Four small lanes are reserved for the littler kids to enjoy and gentle lifts guide you to the top of the hills. Tired of tubing? There are also separate play areas for snowman making, playing in snow castles, and a good old-fashioned snowball fight. Added Bonus: You can warm up and grab a bite to eat at the lodge featuring indoor and outdoor dining areas and a snack bar.

Cost: $29-$49
Date: TBA

34033 Leland Meadow Rd.
Strawberry
Online: snowplay.com

11. Northstar California

Visitors to the Northstar California Tubing Hill in North Lake Tahoe can enjoy an exciting ride down a 200-yard hill. Take the tow lift to the top of the hill and do it all again, either one at a time or in daisy chains with your family.

Cost: Tickets are available on a first-come, first-served basis only and are available for purchase at the Tickets & Season Pass Office in the Village at Northstar. 
Date: Opens Nov. 25

5001 Northstar Dr.
Truckee
Online: northstarcalifornia.com

Related: See Why Kid's Love Learning to Ski at Northstar California

12. Tenaya Lodge

Tenaya’s sledding and snow tubing hill is set near the world-famous Yosemite National Park in a gorgeous forest setting. There are two sledding hills, a big one for all and a kiddie one for little—both are complimentary to guests of the resort. You can rent sledding discs for half day or a full day. Want more fun? Teyana also offers a guided snowshoe hike, ice skating, and archery sessions.

Cost: Tickets are available on first come, first served basis
Date: Hours and dates vary and are dependent on weather

1122 Highway 41
Fish Camp
Online: tenayalodge.com