It’s back-to-school time—at Build-A-Bear Workshop! Bear Builder University is enrolling students now, and we’ve got the deets on how your kiddo can score a space.

In its most educational experience yet, BAB is offering children the chance to become professional bear builders. That is, at least for the day.

photo: Courtesy of Build-A-Bear Workshop

Bear Builder University is a hands-on program that gives kids the chance to create their very own furry friend, as a Build-A-Bear Bear Builder.

The one-and-a-half to two hour workshops include a new furry friend (priced $22 or under), one clothing item, one sound or scent, a child-sized bear builder apron and a Bear Builder U diploma—and that’s all for $35! Classes start on Sept. 21 and go through Sept. 28. Adult supervision is required.

To find a participating BAB location and enroll your child, click here.

—Erica Loop

 

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Your kiddo has a minivan-full of pool floats, but what about you? Now there’s a motorized version that turns a typical blow-up tube into your very own boat!

With GoBoat you get all the water-filled fun—without the bulky bother. Now you don’t have to worry about securing an awkwardly shaped contraption to the roof of your car or buying a hitch for your SUV.

What exactly is GoBoat? At its most basic, it is a motorized pool float. But it’s also so much more: it’s light-weight, portable and you can use it as a bumper boat! That means hours of lake, river or creek-side fun.

While the motorized float may sound like an awesome idea for the kiddos, the GoBoat instructions note, “Operators must be 16 years old or under the direct supervision of an adult.” You should always wear a properly fitted life vest and take the same precautions you would when driving an actual boat. That means no margaritas on the motorized float and steer clear of swimmers.

Visit GoBoat’s website for more information on this fab float and how to order one for yourself!

—Erica Loop

Featured photo: The GoBoat via Instagram 

 

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Ahhh summer! We all have those pinterest worthy ideas planned in our minds and the boards with enriching and educational crafts and activities that entertain the kiddos for all of two minutes. In case you don’t know the recommended AAP (American Academy of Pediatrics) screen time rules, here they are:

  • No screen time, except for video chatting, for 18 months and younger.
  • Only high-quality programming and/or apps with adult supervision and interaction for 18 -24 months.
  • 1 hour per day with parents co-viewing for appropriateness and high-quality for ages 2-5.
  • Set appropriate limits with lots of screen-free time for ages 6 and older.

Now, I’m pregnant in the Florida summer, with a threenager who constantly tells me she is bored (I didn’t even realize this was a thing for little kids!). I am also of the mindset that boredom builds character so I don’t have my little one’s day all planned out. She goes to pre-school 3 times a week and I do my best to go on a few outings or playdates throughout the week. But, again being pregnant in the blazing, summer, Florida sun, most days I just want to stay home and watch TV all day myself. So, as I try to limit her screen time, she sometimes ends up sitting with me on the couch binge-watching the very age-inappropriate Lucifer on Netflix.

As I tried to assuage my guilt, which my mother assured me I should not have since she used to sit me in front of sesame street and go about her day and I turned out just fine thank you, I came across this great idea from NetNanny.com about giving my daughter age appropriate chores and educational activities before screen time.

The idea goes that you set up a chart with some simple chores to do prior to screen time such as brush your teeth, brush your hair, eat breakfast and clear the table. Then you add to the chart a list of educational items like 20 minutes of reading, 20 minutes of coloring, build something, do a craft, play outside, etc. and only when they have completed the chores and x amount of items from the educational side can they watch screen time.

Now, I was skeptical but I set this up for my little one and she did all the chores and ALL the educational/enriching activities and didn’t even ask to watch TV or use the iPad until the evening! My mind was blown. So, I just had to share it. I am also pretty sure this will not work all the time, but it definitely helps in setting a routine for her and getting her to think of more things to do on her own instead of constantly stating that she’s “so bored.” I feel like it helps put the responsibility on her shoulders. “You’re bored? Well here are some ideas figure it out.”

So, this summer, give it to your kiddos, let them come up with stuff to do and don’t be so quick to give in to their plea for screen time (be strong mommas!)

 

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While some kids thrive at free play during recess, others may find playing—or even interacting with their classmates during recess—overwhelming. Enter the Buddy Bench, a bench that some schools are installing to help students feel less alone and isolated. Read on to find out what the Buddy Bench is all about and how you can install one at your school.

So, What Is the Buddy Bench?
The concept is simple: any child sitting on a Buddy Bench indicates to his peers that he would like company. Whether kiddo is feeling overwhelmed, shy or just having an off day, sitting on the bench means he would like someone to talk to or play with.

Raising Money for a Buddy Bench
Girl Scouts recently posted on their Instagram page, a photo of Ariana who used the money she raised selling cookies to buy a Buddy Bench and donate it to her school. A portion of the caption reads, “It’s a piece of playground furniture that has the power to promote inclusion and empathy.”

Ariana joins Christian—and likely countless others—who in 2013 had a buddy bench installed at his Elementary School after hearing about this concept from a school overseas (read more of Christian’s story here).

Interested in installing a buddy bench at your school? Click here for some strategies to make it happen.

Buddy Bench Requires Supervision
Carole Lieberman, MD, psychiatrist and author of Lions and Tigers and Terrorists, Oh My! How to Protect Your Child in a Time of Terror opened up to Parents.com. She tells them that “sometimes bullies can take advantage of the vulnerability of the kid who sits down hoping to make a friend. It could be tempting for bullies to make fun of them.” So, if you or your family are passionate about bringing a Buddy Bench to your own school, we suggest speaking with teachers and administration about how best to supervise it.

— Erin Lem

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As summer approaches, we all look forward to spending time at the pool, river, or beach. Fun in the sun and water sports are a great was for families to spend time together but it’s important to be water safe. It’s easy to focus on snacks, sunscreen and water toys, but drowning is the second most frequent cause of death for children up to age 14. It’s important to role model water safety behaviors as well as teach older children how to protect themselves and keep help watch younger children.

1. Dedicated Watcher.
When children are in or near the water, have a dedicated adult keep watch. It only takes a few minutes to silently drown so having someone watch at all times it vital. While others unpack the car, set up the chairs, grab snacks, or get the kayaks ready, make sure all children are either out of the water or directly supervised.

Direct supervision requires an effort to remove distractions. Cell phones should be put away, ear buds should be taken out or the speaker volume for music should be set to low. Conversations with others should allow for your focus to be on the children with your chair or standing position such that you can see the children at all times. It’s easy to get distracted with a quick call or searching for a snack in a beach or pool bag but these can be the precious seconds or minutes when your attention is needed to save a child who needs helps in the water. Remember that parents and caregivers are responsible for the safety of children in your care, even if there are lifeguards.

2. Wear Life Jackets.
It is important to Invest in proper-fitting, Coast Guard-approved personal flotation devices or PFD’s which are also called life vests or life jackets. The most popular PFD is a puddle jumper. No matter which st‌yle you choose, check the PFD for the proper weight range, comfortable fit, and especially a stable face-up position in water.

You should test your PFD in a swimming pool with the infant or child. To check for a good fit, pick the child up by the shoulders of the PFD. If the PFD fits right, the child’s chin and ears will not slip through. Parents and care givers should remember that inflatable toys and rafts should not be used in place of life jackets. If children are not wearing a life jacket, watchers should be in the water with the children, no more than arm’s length away.

3. Listen to Lifeguards.
Whether at the beach, visiting a lake, or heading to our community pool, always swim in designated areas with lifeguards. Lifeguards are often employed on a 1:100 ratio based on the expectation that parents or care givers will provide direct supervision of their children. Children under 10 years old must be accompanied and constantly supervised by a parent or care giver over 16 years of age. It’s important for adults role model appropriate behavior by following all lifeguard instructions and ensuring their children are respectful of the rules.

4. Respect the Environment and Aquatic Life.
When planning a day of fun on the water, it’s important to check the weather conditions. Adverse weather includes a high heat index or thunderstorms as they may impact water activities. As a storm or thunderstorm approaches, pools and other activities should be stopped, and the water evacuated when there is a threat of a lightning strike

Whether at the river or beach, it’s important to assess the conditions and be respectful of all aquatic life. Different beaches and states have different colored flags and assigned meanings, so be sure to ask the lifeguard if you’re not sure what the flags signify. In general, red flags indicated the beach may be closed or there is a high hazard caused by surf or strong currents. Yellow flags indicate a moderate hazard and that waters may be rough, and care should be taken if you are not a strong swimmer. Green means low hazard with calm conditions but be aware that currents will naturally push you down the shore. A purple flag indicates there is potentially dangerous marine life such as jellyfish which have been spotted in the area.

Many enjoy visiting the beach but please leave all animals alone including sea stars, sand dollars, and animals in seashells. Teach children to look at the wildlife without interfering or touching. When handled by humans, even when handled gently, these delicate animals are often so severely injured, the interaction leads to their death.

5. Limit Alcohol.
Adults often enjoy the summertime and water sports with alcoholic beverages including beer, wine, and liquors. For everyone’s safety, avoid drinking alcohol before or during swimming, boating, water skiing, and other water sports. Do not drink alcohol while supervising children as alcohol reduces balance, coordination, and judgment, and its effects are heightened by sun exposure and heat.

6. Know and Teach Swimming Skills.
Teaching children to swim can be a fun activity for both the adults and the children. Children ages 2 to 4 years old are coordinated enough to being learning to swim. Kids under 4 years old and who do not know how to swim should wear life jacket, even in the pool. Kids over 4 years old should take swimming lessons. As children learn water skills, remember that they are not yet strong or independent swimmers and still require full supervision. Don’t assume that a child who knows how to swim isn’t at risk for drowning. All kids need to be supervised in the water, no matter what their swimming skills.

Water play is an important part of summer fun and these tips will help you safety enjoy the local pool or beach!

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Do you have summer on the brain? With warm weather on the horizon, it’s almost pool season! That means days soaking your well-sunscreened self in the sun while watching the kiddos splish and splash for hours on end.

While pool-filled days are fun for the whole fam, they also come with safety risks. Even though you might gate, fence and otherwise childproof your backyard pool, there’s still more that you can do to protect your child. Obviously adult supervision is the number one way to reduce the risks. But if you’re still looking for more, check out the genius devices that alert you to movement in the would-be-still water—pool alarms!

Lifebuoy Pool Alarm System

This pool alarm may come with a hefty price tag ($290), but it comes with plenty of perks. The alarm sounds when anyone or anything falls into the pool, using multiple sensors and a techy micro-processor to keep the kids safe. And bonus, you can control it with a smartphone app!

Smartpool PE23 Pool Eye

Amazon

The PoolEye ($120) is battery-powered, comes with a remote and has a loud siren to alert you when anyone steps, splashes or accidentally falls into the water.

Poolguard PGRM-2

Amazon

Made for in-ground pools, this alarm ($199), is built to detect the movement of a one-year-old child (or anyone/anything similarly sized). Use this model in pools up to 800 square feet.

 

—Erica Loop

Featured photo: Marc Richards via Pexels

 

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We’ve all been there—both as parents and personally (even if we don’t remember it): teething. The crying kiddo, the pain, and the fact that you’d do pretty much anything to stop the insanity. But what about those teething necklaces and bracelets your mom friends rave about? Well…about that.

The U.S. Food and Drug Administration recently issued a statement recently issued a warning to parents and caregivers of young children about how teething jewelry—worn by your cranky baby or the caregiver—can actually be potentially dangerous.

Photo: Alex Smith via Pexels 

How can parents soothe teething pain, anyway? Teething gels aren’t a great solution, either; the FDA notes that benzocaine-containing products (such as gels, sprays or ointments) can lead to a potentially life-threatening condition that reduces the red blood cells’ ability to carry oxygen.

If you can’t use a gel or cream, what can you use? It’s this very question that leads plenty of parents to teething jewelry. Often marketed as a safe, “natural” alternative to other products, these items look like necklaces or bracelets are typically made from amber, marble, silicone or wood.

Following reports of serious injuries and tragically, strangulation deaths, the FDA now cautions parents to avoid teething jewelry altogether. If you think that adult supervision will reduce the risks, think again. According to the FDA, a seven-month-old infant choked on a wooden beaded teething bracelet—while under parental supervision. Luckily, the child was okay following a trip to the hospital.

The new warning from the FDA stresses using alternatives to soothe teething pain—and of course, avoiding teething jewelry. Instead, gently massage your baby’s gums with clean fingers. The American Academy of Pediatrics notes that you can give your kiddo a firm rubber teething ring (but not the frozen kind). Always inspect the teething ring for damage and supervise your child while they’re gumming it.

—Erica Loop

 

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It is well-known that having a baby is tough on a marriage. The time and responsibility that babies demand will inevitably leave less alone time for the couple, not to mention the financial and mental strains that it places on the relationship. But these challenges, if approached in the right way, can be used to strengthen the relationship rather than tear it apart. More importantly, there are so many positive things that the arrival of a baby brings.

We have to work together as a team.

There is a lot more to do on a daily basis than when it was just my husband and I. There are bottles to wash, bedtime routines to follow, diapers to change, and much more. In addition, we still have to keep the house clean, go grocery shopping, cook meals–all of the “adulting” we had to do before. These tasks can add up quickly, and because a baby requires supervision during all of his waking hours, there is a narrow window of time to get everything done.

In order to keep our household in functioning order, my husband and I must plan ahead and work together. We must be a constant communication about what needs to be done and what we need help with. We have to be more versatile (and less picky) about who does what. Long gone are the days when I was always the one who did laundry and my husband was always the one that took out the trash.

We appreciate each other’s strengths more.

When we have the opportunity to take care of a little one, we discover strengths about ourselves and about each other that we didn’t know were there. I didn’t realize how many things I could do one handed or how quickly I could find a lost pacifier in the middle of the night.

My husband is particularly skilled at making my son laugh. He can do impressions of animals, sing silly songs, and tickle him in just the right spot to get him going every time. Watching a grown man act ridiculous for the sake of a smile is heartwarming and priceless.

Our “alone time” is more precious.

Between diaper changes, nap times, feedings, and entertaining the baby, it can be hard for us to find time to be alone with each other. We have a few hours to ourselves every night, after our son goes to bed. Because this time is so limited, it becomes much more valuable, and we don’t take it for granted.

We use the time to have meaningful conversations, catch up on our favorite shows, and share meals together. It’s also one of the few opportunities that we have to connect in the bedroom, making it that much more passionate and exciting.

We celebrate new milestones together.

It is such a gift, being able to share in the triumphs of our baby boy and all of his firsts with my spouse. Seemingly mundane things that we, as adults, take for granted, are presented in a totally different perspective when a baby does it for the first time.

We were so proud the first time he waved at us, clapped his hands, slept through the night, learned how to crawl, and more recently, turning one! And the best part is that there are so many more to look forward to.

We became a family.

When my husband and I first got married and bought our own house, we started feeling like grown-ups for the first time. But it wasn’t until we had our son that we truly felt like a family. Within a marriage, it can be tough to always put the relationship first and us as individuals second, but when a baby comes into the picture, there is no doubt where the priorities lay. Having a common goal brings all of us closer together and automatically transforms the three of us into a family—and our house into a home.

 

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I am a first generation Chinese-American wife, mother, scientist and writer. I started my blog, Hot & Sour, to create a space that is honest and relatable. I write about the reality of motherhood, a multicultural identity and all the things that define my life and who I am.

If you yearn to offer your kids the freedom to build stuff, go exploring and get thoroughly filthy (all without messing up your own home!) Shangri-La awaits at the Huntington Beach Adventure Playground. Modeled after the no-holds-barred, free-form adventure playgrounds of Europe, the Huntington Beach outpost is one of only two such places in Southern California and is now open for the summer. So hop in the car and bring a change of clothes (and shoes), a sense of fun and get ready to get dirty!

photo: Charlie G. via Yelp

Creation Station
This place looks nothing like a typical playground, and that’s exactly what makes it so beautiful. In place of jungle gyms, you’ll find hand-built tree forts, and in place of a rinky-dink water feature, you’ll find a giant makeshift waterslide and an entire lake that kids can paddle across atop wooden rafts. Perhaps the most innovative feature is the access kids are given to tools — and yes, that includes real hammers, nails, and even saws, just like grown-ups use. Children may check out a hammer and nails and grab some scrap wood to go add their own finishing touches to the existing tree forts, an enticing proposition for Bob the Builder fans and their HGTV addict parents.

photo: Erin Harris

There are also rock climbing walls and a tire zip line, for those that want to get airborne.  And while there is staff on hand to oversee the tool use and make sure kids don’t get hurt, it’s a great place for parents who don’t think kids need constant helicoptering and supervision. They’re really free to explore here. The biggest rule is no running, so remind the kids of that before you set them loose.

photo: Erin Harris

Wet and Wonderful
You don’t have to be a budding contractor to have a blast at the Adventure Playground, but you do have to love getting wet and muddy (and what kid doesn’t?). There’s a delightfully low-tech water slide that essentially consists of a tarp laid into a ditch in a hill, watered down by a playground attendant holding a hose. The ride culminates in a giant muddy puddle: pure hog heaven.

photo: Erin Harris

The rafting lake has a similarly timeless feel, bringing to mind the stories of Mark Twain. Kids line up to slosh through the shallow water to the nearest wooden raft, grab a paddle, and then push themselves across the water, inevitably bumping into each other along the way. (Note: Closed-toe sneakers are absolutely mandatory for everyone at all times at the Adventure Playground, even in the water, so make sure to bring older pairs that you don’t mind getting soaked and muddy. Keens don’t count! Bring a towel and change of clothes while you’re at it. There are changing rooms available for post play clean up.)

photo: Erin Harris

Where, When & How Much?
The Adventure Playground is located within Huntington Beach Central Park and will be open for the summer from Jun. 18-Aug. 17; Mon.-Sat. from 10 a.m.-4 p.m. The playground is closed on Sun. and July 4.

It’s best suited to kids 5-12, but kids as young as 3-4 will have a blast; they’ll just require more of your eyes and hands-on supervision. The cost of admission is $3 per child (cash or check), and adults are free. Advance reservations are required for groups of 10 or more.

To find the playground, follow Talbert Ave. to the Central Library, and then park in the lot on the east side of the library buildings. Follow the pathway heading northeast away from the parking lot and look for the large hand-painted sign that says “Adventure Playground,” which will point you toward the entrance.

photo: Charlie G. via Yelp

That hand-painted sign in your harbinger that this is a no-frills adventure. Porta-potties are available, as are picnic tables for lunches (along with juices and snacks for sale), but there are no traditional restaurants (or even bathrooms).  You can use the bathrooms at the library also, but you will want to do that as soon as you get there or after you’re cleaned up and ready for the car ride home so you don’t trek in your mud! (And note that the library doesn’t open until 1 p.m. on Mon., so the porta-potties are your only option.)

You may also wish to bring blankets or chairs for grownups who need play breaks, as well as a bag for those muddy clothes and towels to dry off (there are cold showers and changing areas) before changing into your clean clothes.

Adventure Playground
7111 Talbert Ave.
Huntington Beach
714-842-7442
Online: huntingtonbeachca.gov/residents/parks_facilities/parks/huntington_central_park/Adventure_Playground.cfm

Where do you take the kids where they can explore and get down and dirty?  We’d love to hear your adventures in building and making muddy messes!

—Erin Harris

Trampolines? Been there. Ride a bike down a steep hill? Done that. It’s clear your amateur adrenaline enthusiasts need more than the standard rush. To help you quench their thirst for thrills, we searched high and low for the coolest climbing walls we could find. From a quick DIY to a jaw-dropping outdoor design, flip through the slideshow to see 11 incredible climbing walls for kids.

The Ultimate DIY

For anyone who wants to build a wall on the fly, may we suggest checking out the brilliant setup over at Design for Mankind? Faced with an energetic three-year-old, Erin’s handy hubby whipped up a rock climbing wall without the actual “rocks,” and it was a smash hit. If you want to DIY your own version, Design for Mankind has the how-to.

photo: Erin Loechner via Design for Mankind

 

Editor’s note: While we adore these walls, we want to stress that all climbing should be done under a supervision of an adult. Happy climbing!

Would you put in a climbing wall for your kids? Tell us in a Comment below!

—Gabby Cullen