In honor of Mother’s Day, we’re putting the spotlight on 23 influential women/working moms in SoCal who inspire us with their vision, missions, products, service to the community, work ethic, imagination, strength, fortitude and more. From Vanessa Bryant to the mother at the helm of Dr. Seuss Enterprises, and the founder of Baby Tula to the founder of The Honest Kitchen, read on to be wowed by local moms who are changing the world for the better.

Vanessa Bryant

Mamba & Mambacita Sports Foundation

Vanessa Bryant recently experienced an unimaginable tragedy––yet she’s continuing a legacy to help others. Her husband, Lakers basketball legend Kobe Bryant, and daughter Gianna, died in a helicopter crash in January 2020. In the wake of their death, she has renamed Kobe Bryant's charity organization the Mamba & Mambacita Sports Foundation, honoring 13 year-old Gianna, whose nickname was Mambacita. The Foundation is focused on creating a positive impact through sports and aims to help kids in underprivileged communities develop learning skills, enhance character traits and expand personal values that empower and inspire self-confidence. 

Susan Brandt, President of Dr. Seuss Enterprises, L.P.

Susan Brandt

Working alongside the visions of Dr. Seuss is something that would inspire any parent. For Susan Brandt, it’s all about sharing the wonder of Dr. Seuss’ world and making kids and their families happy. She loves bringing joy to kids, whether by introducing a new generation to Ted Geisel’s (Dr. Seuss's) wonderful stories and characters with books or by bringing families together to enjoy his films and television shows. Brandt is also the mother of two sons: Liam James, 19, and Aidan Patrick, 17. She enjoys spending time with her kids playing games and exercising together. She’s proud of having raised two boys as wonderful, caring and compassionate young adults.

Kathryn Cloward, Founder and CEO of Kandon Unlimited, Inc. 

Kathryn Cloward

Kathryn Cloward, also known as “Kathryn the Grape," wears many hats. Cloward is an award-winning book series author, performing songwriter, media publisher and producer, director, entrepreneur and mother. She founded her award-winning media company, Kandon Unlimited, Inc., in 2010 to independently publish the series of children’s books she wrote featuring “Kathryn the Grape®.” Since then, Kandon Unlimited has expanded to become a full spectrum media publishing and production company. Cloward admits that she is inspired daily by her 13 year-old son, Landon, as well as ordinary, everyday moments. As a parent, she tries to be mindful about not over-scheduling, and enjoying spending time simply being together. Aside from Landon being her greatest pride and joy, Cloward is extremely proud of the positive impact she has made through her books and songs. 

Shanna Nelson, President, Jazzercise, Inc.

Shanna Nelson

Shanna Nelson is inspired that the work Jazzercise does helps people lead healthier and happier lives, and she witnesses this in every class they teach. As president of the company, Nelson loves that Jazzercise has provided thousands of opportunities for women business owners through their franchises. “I feel really lucky that I get to not only oversee the business and programming side, but also teach the program myself as I’ve been an instructor since I was 18!” said Nelson. She is also a mother of two daughters: Skyla, 17 and Sienna, 14. Now that her daughters are older, she can see how they value education, being kind to people, their strong values and morals, and she takes a deep breath and thinks all the hard work, sitting through homework, conversations and “being there” for them has paid off.

Ula Tuszewicka, Founder and President, Baby Tula

Baby Tula

Baby Tula was born out of a practical need. After Ula Tuszewicka’s daughter, Amelia, was born, she and her husband, Mike, wore her predominantly in a sling and loved how convenient babywearing was for both parents. When their son was born a few years later, they discovered the ease of ergonomic carriers. After trying several that didn’t quite work, they asked a family member to sew one for their specifications and it was perfect. Ula and Mike continued to make baby carriers for family and friends. They eventually turned the passion project into a business and created Baby Tula in order to fulfill their mission to promote babywearing worldwide. Ula oversees the company, while also being a mom to three kids!

Lucy Postins, Founder and President of The Honest Kitchen

Lucy Postins

Although she's the founder and president of The Honest Kitchen, Lucy Postins didn’t start with the goal of creating a pet food company. In 2002, in an effort to help her Rhodesian Ridgeback, Mosi, with ear infections and skin problems, Postins started mixing up fresh ingredients in her kitchen to create a raw food diet. When she saw how much Mosi’s health improved on the new recipes, Postins realized she could help other pets as well, and The Honest Kitchen was born. All the ingredients are human grade, minimally processed, organic when possible, sustainable and the end product is a labor of love. She oversees company operations while still making time to be a mother to her children.

Lynne Banach, Founder and Creative Director, Sakura Bloom

Sakura Bloom

Lynne Banach is proud of being a small business owner that makes her products right in their San Diego studio. The mission of Sakura Bloom is to simplify and beautify modern parenting through the use of baby carriers made out of exquisite natural fibers, including organic Irish linens, Indian dupioni silks and southeast Asian wild silks. The hand-crafted artisan baby slings are designed for infants all the way up to 45-pound toddlers. Banach partners with local artisans and family run businesses like hers that share the same values and goals. When she’s not brainstorming new ideas and implementing them, she spends her time as mom to her two children, Teja and Jai.

Judy Forrester, CEO of The New Children's Museum

Judy Forrester

Judy Forrester joined The New Children’s Museum in 2015 to lead one of San Diego’s most unique educational and artistic institutions, while establishing a sustainable business model for the museum. She will be leaving her position this summer after significant accomplishments to the downtown mainstay. Museum attendance has grown more than 40 percent on her watch. They’ve also grown their program and exhibition space, increased the budget, and because of a community outreach expansion program, 25 percent of attendees visit the museum for free or significantly reduced cost. Forrester achieved all this while also being a mother to three children.

Juliana Flores, Owner of Pachis Art Studio

Juliana Flores

Juliana Flores started Pachis Art Studio as a brick-and-mortar store with a single mission: to support the healthy development of art in kids. Unlike other art programs, Pachis is focused on teaching kids life skills through art making and exploration, with curriculum designed with important elements for a little one’s personal development. Recently, she transitioned to an online forum and sells art kits to foster creativity. Juliana and her husband, Cesar, moved to San Diego from Tijuana, Baja California in 2009. They now live in Linda Vista with their 3 year-old and newborn daughters. Juliana believes having a business geared towards kids has helped her tremendously to create a balance between being a business owner and mom. When she’s not working, she enjoys going to the beach and picnics, doing art and having deep conversations with her little one.

Christy Heiskala, Victim Advocate

Christy Heiskala

Christy Heiskala gave up a long and lucrative career to start anew, teaching child sexual abuse prevention and advocating for victims. As a victim advocate, this La Mesa mom helps parents navigate the very complicated process if their child has been a victim of negligence or abuse. She is also a Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) for kids whose parents are going through dependency court. Her passion grew out of advocating for the conviction of a local teacher who was molesting his second and third grade students for seven years. Christy worked tirelessly to assure the instructor had his teaching credential revoked, ensuring countless kids be spared. Christy lives in La Mesa with her husband, biological daughter (Jaiden); step-daughter (Kaya); and step-son (Lee).

Shannon Higgins, Founder of Studio Barre

Shannon Higgins

Shannon Higgins, a South Carlsbad mom of three, is a true warrior. She merged her passion of fitness and business to create Studio Barre, a national ballet barre-based workout studio and franchise. She’s also extremely proud to be a breast cancer survivor after undergoing chemotherapy and two surgeries. While Shannon credits the doctors for treating her, she is happy she never let the disease get her down and that she was able to keep her family life as normal as possible. She also started a blog to educate and share her journey. Shannon opened her first Studio Barre studio when her youngest son, Joey, started kindergarten with the vision of creating a “happy place” for women to not only workout, but also hang out.

Carly Garrett, Teacher and Girl Scout Troop Leader

Carly Garrett

Carly Garrett wears many hats. This Western La Mesa/Rolando mom of two (Ethan and Maddie) is a teacher of a continuation high school. She spends her days helping students in danger of being high school dropouts, a job in which she was named District Teacher of the Year. She also started the Palomar Scholarship Foundation, a non-profit organization that provides financial assistance to kids from her high school who are often the first in their families to go to college. However, her proudest “hat” is serving as the leader of Girl Scout Troop 6190 of La Mesa for nine years and counting. Carly admits being a part of the 17 Girl Scouts’ lives is one of the greatest honors of her life. They do thousands of hours of community service and five of her troop members earned the Presidential Volunteer Service Medal from President Obama in the past two years. Carly likes to remind people to buy cookies from the older girls (other than the younger girls) because “big girls” have big dreams and goals too.

Cathy Nguyen, Health Educator at California State University, San Marcos

Cathy Nguyen

For more than 20 years, Cathy Nguyen has been educating, advocating and empowering college students to lead healthy lifestyles and make responsible choices through various health promotion programs. She also volunteers as a sexual assault response team (SART) advocate for Center for Community Solutions, a non-profit that operates the only rape crisis center in the city of San Diego along with a countywide 24-hour bilingual crisis helpline. This San Marcos mom has two kids: Tristan and Kaitlyn, both of whom are budding entrepreneurs. In addition to working full time, volunteering and being a mom and wife, Cathy is the co-founder of several online businesses that distribute to Amazon. She and her family are big Disney fans and are working on their goal of visiting all the Disneyland parks in the world. So far, they’ve visited four out of six parks, and are already planning their trips to the Shanghai and Hong Kong parks.

Michelle Lomelin, Founder of Sweet Petite Confections

Michelle Lomelin

Michelle Lomelin launched Sweet Petite Confections after leaving a two-decade career in fashion design. In her role as chocolatier and shop owner, Michelle creates and sells bonbons, meltaways, barks, salted caramels, custom chocolate business cards and ice cream, and teaches candy-making classes to families. Michelle lives in Bay Park with her two sons, Santiago and Kaleo, and started Sweet Petite Confections so she could make her own schedule, while being a mom and business owner at the same time. After overcoming the fear of “What if …” she’s launched a successful business, and at the same time, can attend field trips and teach art in her kids’ classrooms.

Jennifer Tandy, Owner/Founder of Nightingale Music Studios

Jennifer Tandy

Nightingale Music School was born out of Jennifer Tandy’s strengths in music and a love of kids. This former professional musical theater actress started with a small "mommy and me" music class out of her home, which turned into a successful business in the Bird Rock community that has served thousands of families in San Diego over the last 14 years. Jennifer also successfully launched satellite locations in South Park and La Mesa. Aside from her love of music, Jennifer is a strong advocate for public education and has advocated for her cluster of local schools. As a result of her advocacy, many schools have the strongest academic and enrichment programs in San Diego County. In turn, her work reshaping public schools has changed the community as well, and was recognized by being named the Honorary Mayor of Pacific Beach for the year 2014. When she’s not teaching music and running Nightingale, Jennifer enjoys camping trips or a National Park visits with her husband and three children. She credits her three children as her creative, musical inspiration.

Music Watson, Chief Communications Officer, San Diego County Office of Education

Music Watson

This Del Cerro mom is responsible for bringing classrooms into living rooms. As the Chief Communications Officer for San Diego County Office of Education, Music Watson is passionate about the power of public education to change the lives of individuals and whole families. She describes her job as using different media vehicles to help connect two audiences. The first is the 70 percent of California's voters who don't have kids in K-12 public schools, and the second are parents like Music whose daughter, Michaela, is in public school. Music credits her parents for helping her be successful in her career. “Until they retired, my dad was a blue collar worker and my mom was a school secretary,” said Music. “Neither of them earned a four-year college degree. I'm really proud of the hard work I put in––with their encouragement and support––that saw me through college and graduate school, and now to a successful career. I owe them a debt of gratitude for the decisions they made that led me to have access to high-quality education, and I'm proud of the fact that I pay that forward through my job.”

Salina Yoon, Author and Illustrator

Salina Yoon

Salina Yoon is an award-winning and bestselling author and illustrator of more than 160 books for kids. She travels to book festivals, conferences, bookstores, and schools all around the country to share her books and inspire the love of reading and writing and literacy. While her “Penguin” picture book series has been the most popular, she is most proud of the book “Be A Friend,” which celebrates individuality, encourages self-acceptance and promotes kindness and friendship. One of Salina’s proudest accomplishments is something that many moms can relate to. As a work-at-home mom, Salina was always sharing her creative space with family. So one day, she claimed a room and made it her own personal reading and writing space. She encourages all moms to claim a space of their own in their home. Salina lives in the San Elijo Hills community of San Marcos with her husband Chris Polentz (also an artist), and their two sons, Max and Mason. She has yet to outgrow her love of reading to her sons before bedtime.

Leng Caloh, Former Technology and Innovation Manager at KPBS

Leng Caloh

Aside from spending time with PBS characters like Daniel Tiger, Leng Caloh’s career can be described as bringing technology and people together in ways that educate and inspire — whether it’s technology for public use, or technology to help KPBS public broadcast staff better serve the public. Leng made an unexpected name for herself in 2007 when she led the KPBS web team in covering the October 2007 wildfires online, using Twitter (back when hardly anyone knew what it was) and Google MyMaps (which was just a few months old at the time). While that was a challenging week for everyone in San Diego, both professionally and personally (Leng hardly saw her toddler daughter), it changed the course of her career, and started KPBS on the path towards converging its radio, television and web news coverage. Personally, this Bonita mom is proud of her decision to have a home birth VBAC with her second daughter, after her first was born breech in a planned caesarian. Leng and her wife are proud parents of three kids: Siddha, Ananda and Treonte.

Amy Cullinan, Scientist, STEM Advocate and Communications Professional

Amy Cullinan

Originally from the Midwest, Amy Cullinan describes herself as a scientist, turned communications professional, work-at-home mechanical engineer, who has been married ten years to a San Diego native. This Rancho San Diego mom has one daughter, Samantha, who is in the first grade. She currently manages social media for Illumina, a global biotechnology company headquartered in San Diego, and was previously a science and technical writer. Before that, she was a research scientist investigating viruses and the human immune system. Amy is moved by helping the next generation discover what they want to do, and is proud that she built the social media program from the ground up, for one of the smartest companies in the world. She loves spending time with her daughter, inspiring her to learn about science through “Science Sundays,” which Amy team-teaches through a group of like-minded friends.

Kristen Elgo, National Events Manager for PIRCH

Kristen Elgo

Kristen Elgo’s mom hat touches every aspect of her life. She’s a full-time working mom, Boy Scouts and Girl Scouts mom, soccer mom, running mom, and volunteers at her kids’ elementary school. This Mira Mesa mom is coming up on 14 years of marriage to her college sweetheart, Mike, and has two kiddos: Branden and Kaileigh, and two mini daschunds, Sumo and Geisha. She has what many consider a dream job: creating fun executive events in PIRCH showrooms designed to show off all the amazing products and features at the company. One of her proudest personal accomplishments has been running over the last four years, and competing in 12 half marathons and the full Rock and Roll Marathon. While waking up at 5 a.m. for a regular running group meet-up is early, she always feels fulfilled after the hour.

Amanda Bonds, Senior Program Manager at Words Alive

Amanda Bonds

Amanda Bond’s mission is simple: to bring reading and books to all kids. She is the Program Manager for Words Alive, a literacy non-profit leading a movement to make reading matter in San Diego. This Hillcrest mom to 2 year-old Starling is most proud of starting the organization’s Family Literacy Program that empowers parents from under-served communities with confidence, techniques and materials to feel confident reading with their kiddos. On a personal level, Amanda and her husband, Tony (both transplants from Austin, TX), have had Sunday dinner with the same group of friends nearly every week for more than five years. She has worked hard to establish her “framily” (friend-family) and truly believes in the importance of connection and developing a support-system for each other as parents. And they love coming up with new recipes and eating delicious dinners once a week for five years.

Amanda Allen, Attorney

Amanda Allen

Amanda Allen is a business and real estate attorney (with a specialty in working with breweries and wineries), and she launched Enrich, a co-working space for lawyers. This mom to 3 year-old Jasmine Jane has been practicing law for eight years and started her solo practice when Jas was only one. Amanda is extremely proud of launching Enrich. While it felt outside of her comfort zone to do, she’s happier about that professional accomplishment than any award she’s received. While Amanda is a successful attorney, business owner and mom, she’s committed to living a healthy lifestyle. She loves doing crossfit, and says working out has been her therapy and her rock. Amanda’s favorite thing to do with Jasmine is dance, and they can be seen busting moves in the car, bagel shop, gym and in the living room.

Maggie Unzueta, Chef and Writer, Mama Maggie's Kitchen

Maggie Unzueta

Maggie Unzeta is passionate about authentic Mexican food, and about preserving and promoting the richness of her culture through cuisine. She shares the true flavors of Mexico to the United States and the world through her blog, Mama Maggie’s Kitchen. Throughout her life, she’s lived in different parts of Mexico and has traveled to 22 of the 31 states in Mexico and sampled the unique foods of each region. She’s also mom to a 12 year-old son. With Mama Maggie's Kitchen turning 10 this year, she has been a work-from-home mother since he was a small kiddo. She’s extremely proud of her blog and how its grown and flourished over the years, and believes her son and family are her biggest accomplishments.

—Leah R. Singer

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From being at home to hearing the news, there are A LOT of words buzzing around about COVID-19 and it’s almost impossible for kids not to hear scary facts and stories. Unfortunately, the situation IS scary and without even meaning to, we can create more fear or anxiety around it for our kids.

That’s the boat author and mom Sara Olsher found herself in. With a daughter with high anxiety, Sara has found that explaining to her daughter the facts in a way that kids can understand actually made her daughter feel better. Which is why she wrote What Happens When the Coronavirus Changes EVERYTHING?: Explain the Science of COVID-19 and How Staying Home Affects a Kid’s Day-to-Day Life. 

The book is currently available for a free download here or you can buy the paperback version on Amazon. She’s also created a shelter-in-place calendar set to help kids know what to expect each day.


It’s not the first time Sara has found herself facing a difficult situation and having to explain it to her daughter. First, it was divorce. And then in 2017, she was diagnosed with invasive breast cancer and once again had to explain something very, very hard and scary, to her young child. She founded Mighty+Bright to help kids and families deal with difficult situations: using books and customizable magnetic calendars, Mighty+ Bright products aim to give children a sense of control (and therefore calm).

Learn more about Sara’s story and Mighty + Bright products at:

mightyandbright.com 

—Amber Guetebier

All images courtesy Sara Olsher/Mighty + Bright

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With the everyday hustle and balancing act of managing work, kids’ school lunches, homework, chores, and meal planning, people tend to leave little time to really think about long-term health and wellness. Let’s face it—society is surrounded by cancer-causing pollutants that oftentimes feel like a losing battle, but it’s not.

The effects of how we feed our brains positive messaging is as equally important as what we put in, on and around our bodies for our own longevity and well-being. Nutrition is a lifest‌yle that directly impacts lifespan. The fact is that people do have control over the body’s ability to fight, neutralize and prevent disease, and it all starts with a change in the acidic foods consumed, maintaining high-alkalinity in meal-planning, and balancing overall pH in the system.

Natural Wellness Solutions

Dr. Ahmad Nooristani. a licensed medical doctor in the field of internal medicine with 15 years of experience in practicing medicine, has taken care of thousands of patients in both in inpatient (hospital setting) and in outpatient settings (clinics, private practice). He has always combined mainstream medicine with alternative medicine to create a well-balanced plan for his patients.

As a medical doctor, Dr. Nooristani’s focus an application of the tools provided throughout years of training and is fully geared toward using drugs. Also, the overall national response to medical issues tends to be more reactive, as opposed to being proactive. This led Dr. Nooristani to dive deeper into what else may affect human bodies, and the reason behind these unimaginable diseases, as well as what can be done to prevent these diseases from even occurring. This has evolved into Dr. Nooristani’s mission in uncovering a solution that combines medicine with diet, supplements and exercise that has resulted in surmounting success.

Nutritional Impact on Disease

Nutrition plays a vital role in overall well-being and can even be one of the causes of cancer. Proper diet not only has a preventive effect on cancer, but will also slow it down. Eating a wide variety of plant-based foods is a smart start. Fruits, vegetables and grains contain hundreds of health-promoting antioxidants and phytochemicals cannot be derived from a dietary supplement.

For optimal impact, Dr. Nooristani recommends dietary choices that offer the best protection if they are combined with the following:

* Regular exercise

* Maintaining a healthy weight

* Decreasing alcohol intake and remaining smoke-free

* Participating in recommended cancer screenings (i.e., mammogram, colonoscopy, pap smear, etc.)

Here are Dr. Nooristani’s top 10 cancer-fighting food recommendations to incorporate into family meals:

1. Dark Green Leafy Vegetables (the darker the better): Spinach, collard greens, romaine lettuce, and other dark green leafy vegetables are excellent sources of several cancer-fighting substances. Their capacity to have antioxidant properties make them a great choice to fight against cancer. Broccoli is at the top of the chart, followed by cabbage and kale.

2. Cranberries: With their deep red color, cranberries not only  boost the immune response, but also help cells detoxify harmful substances.

3. Carrots: Carrots contain several essential nutrients, including vitamin K, vitamin A and antioxidants that also support the immune system.

4. Garlic & Onion (the darker the better): Garlic, onions, scallions, chives, and leeks have tons of antioxidant value. Their cancer-fighting abilities, due to several sulfur-based compounds, also have a big impact in preventing gastrointestinal cancers.

5. Grapes (the darker the better): Grapes, especially red and purple, have been known to contain antioxidant and anti-inflammatory compounds.

6. Fatty Fish: Fish, to include salmon and mackerel, are rich in essential nutrients, such as vitamin B and Omega-3 fatty acids. They are preventative against colorectal cancer.

7. Walnuts: All nuts exhibit cancer-preventing properties, but scientists have studied walnuts more than other types of nuts. Walnuts play a role in preventing breast cancer.

8. Whole Grains: Many compounds in whole grains have health-promoting properties. They are especially important in decreasing the chance of getting colorectal cancer and breast cancer.

9. Winter Squash: Squash, butternut and pumpkin all have antioxidants as well as preventative benefits in decreasing the chance of getting cancer.

10. Green Tea: Green Tea contains antioxidants with anticancer properties. Drinking green tea regularly has been associated with lower risk for cancers of the bladder and gastrointestinal (digestive) tract.

For more information on Dr. Nooristani’s approach to maintaining the body’s optimal immune response and disease prevention visit balance7.com.

Photo: Balance7

Ruthi Davis is a the Founder of Ruth Davis Consulting LLC with over two decades of success in advertising/marketing, media/publicity, business development, client relations, and organizational optimization for a variety of clients. Ruthi is a proud mom and influencer in the parenting and family market as founder of the Superfly Supermom brand.

I remember the day my heart was broken. It was in the early morning hours of May 12th. Wearing the baggy pink sweatpants I purchased the night before, I sat in a stiff vinyl hospital chair. My body was curled up into a tight little ball and I watched my mother take her last breath. It still infuriates me that the barbaric double-mastectomy wasn’t enough; that her breast cancer had to spread and take her life, too. In some ways, it had taken portions of my life right along with it.

They say you never really get over the loss of a loved one, you just learn to cope with the empty hole that’s left in your heart. I tend to agree. Twelve years have passed and I’m not over it yet. These past twelve years I kept finding myself in scenarios where the empty hole aches its ugly reminder that it’s still here. Some scenarios arrived quickly, like the breast cancer awareness marathon. I signed up intending to walk in celebration of my mom being a breast cancer survivor. Instead, I walked in her memory.

Sometimes, the ache will bubble up when I least expect it. Like the time I was in a dressing room at the local mall. I was stepping in to a pair of jeans when I heard a teenager in the stall next to me arguing with her mom over something trivial. It was more than I could bear. I shut my eyes tightly, willing the bickering to stop. What I would give to be able to have one more day out shopping with my mom! I sobbed silently in the dressing room until they left.

Other times the ache throbbed as expected. I couldn’t celebrate Mother’s Day anymore. I wouldn’t eat her home cooking ever again. Christmas has never been the same. I couldn’t call my Mom when I met my future husband. Walking down the aisle, I couldn’t look over to see her at our wedding. I couldn’t share the joy of purchasing our first home with her and the millions of times in between when I needed her advice, I couldn’t ask.

Yet, nothing could have prepared me for the ache I’ve felt since becoming a mother. When I found out I was pregnant, I was riddled with so many unanswered questions. I had terrible morning sickness; did she struggle with that too? I was scared when my water broke and the contractions began. Was she frightened too?

Looking for answers, I dug through the old cardboard box of mementos my mom had left behind. I pulled out my old baby book and flipped through the yellowed pages. Half was filled with dates and various facts, the remaining blank pages filled only with good intentions. I couldn’t help but chuckle. My daughter’s baby book also had blank pages that I had been meaning to get to until acclimating to life with a baby got the best of me. Even still, I couldn’t help but feel a little disappointed. Our infant daughter wailed when she received her first round of vaccines. I cried right along with her and dreaded ever vaccine appointment thereafter. Did my mom cry with me too? As I sifted through the old photographs, I found myself wanting to know more about that snapshot in time. I looked excited for my first day of school, how did my mom feel seeing her baby growing up so quickly?

I resent that breast cancer caused all of these questions and more to remain unanswered. But buried deep in my resentment I also found determination. Cancer may have taken these moments from me, but I refused to ever give it a chance to take the details of these moments away from my daughter too.

I opened my laptop and began writing a blog for her. Each post is a letter to my daughter. I tell her all the things I wish I had the opportunity to talk to my mom about. I tell her how loved she was from the moment we found out I was pregnant with her. I explained that sending her off to her first day of preschool was rough on me and it was a tough day for her too. We could have ended the day accepting it wasn’t the best and would try again tomorrow, except we didn’t. Cancer has taught us that life is too precious to settle. We came home on that rainy first day of preschool, put on our rain boots and went right back out into it. Instead of remembering what a rough day we had, we now remember it as the day we happily splashed through the mud puddles. My letter explains to her that the picture that accompanies it is more than playing in the rain. It’s about finding the good in the not so optimal hand that life has dealt to you. It’s about seizing the opportunity to take a rough day and turning it around into something more meaningful. Without the letter, this message may have been missed.

Anytime I find myself wishing I could ask my mother a question, I use it as inspiration to write a letter to my daughter to answer it for her. She’s too young to ask these questions now and I can only hope that I will be here to answer them when she does. But if life throws us a curve ball, my letters will be here for her when she’s ready. I began creating a guided journal to help other mothers do the same.

I don’t think that I’ll ever stop resenting cancer, but I’m thankful for its persistent reminder that life is fragile and every day we have with each other is a day to be cherished.

Do you have a story about how breast cancer has impacted your life as a parent? We want to hear it! Join our October Breast Cancer Awareness conversation and share your story today.

Robin Reynolds is a writer, blogger and contributing author for Chicken Soup for the Soul. Her daughter is the inspiration for her blog Dear Jalen where she chronicles her daughter’s childhood in written letters. Robin is on a mission to encourage other parents to do the same. Visit Dear Jalen to learn more. Follow her on FacebookTwitter, and Instagram.

Early detection is critical when it comes to fighting cancer. A new tool developed by MIT can anticipate the development of breast cancer in women up to five years in advance.

In a recent blog post, MIT announced the collaboration between MIT’s Computer Science and Artificial Intelligence Lab and Massachusetts General Hospital. The team has worked together to develop a new deep-learning model that can predict from a mammogram if a patient is likely to develop breast cancer as many as five years in the future.

This new diagnostic tool is based on over 60,000 patients’ mammograms and known outcomes, discovering subtle patterns in breast tissue that are precursors to malignant tumors. It has already placed 31 percent of cancer patients in the high-risk category, compared to 18 percent from traditional modes of diagnosing.

Because this tool is based on actual hard data, rather than suggestive behaviors, it allows for a more comprehensive approach that is free of bias. This means that it is equally successful in predicting a diagnosis in women of color as in caucasian women—and it is also risk-based and not age-based as in previous models.

MIT and MGH hope that this new tool can lead to accurate, early detection of breast cancer for more women and that it might be applied to other types of diseases that face similar detection hurdles.

—Shahrzad Warkentin

Featured photo: DarkoStojanovic via Pixabay

 

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For the first time in two decades The Food and Drug Administration has just proposed new mammogram guidelines and all women should be aware of the new recommendations.

Mammograms aren’t exactly something women look forward to, but they are important and necessary to protecting your health. However, the FDA believes that one important factor in breast cancer screenings hasn’t received enough attention until now. Based on research by the the National Cancer Institute, breast density can a be a major factor in developing breast cancer, but only 36 percent of women surveyed by Hologic, Inc. say they have ever discussed the term with their doctors.

For the uninitiated, breast density refers to the amount amount of glandular tissue and connective tissue in relation to the amount of fatty breast tissue. The higher the amount of glandular tissue and connective tissue the denser breasts are.

The FDA’s new guidelines propose a standard density assessment to be included in mammogram summary letters and patient records. It would also establish nationwide density categories, which right now vary from state to state.

No word yet on when these new mammogram guidelines will go into effect, but in the mean time women can and should bring up the subject of breast density with doctors at their annual exams.

—Shahrzad Warkentin

Featured photo: DarkoStojanovic via Pixabay

 

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You know them from the morning news or late night talk shows or even your favorite childhood movies, but some celebrities have more than just a dazzling red carpet walk up their sleeves. From Today‘s Hoda Kotb to late night funny man Jimmy Fallon to beloved Joanna Gaines, these famous folks have penned some pretty awesome kids books. Read on to see books that will make a great addition to any kids’ shelf.

You Are My Happy by Hoda Kotb

Harper Collins

Hoda Kotb is a woman who wears many hats—she's an Emmy-award winning broadcast journalist and host of Today; a breast-cancer survivor and breast-cancer awareness advocate; and she's the mom to a beautiful baby girl. She's also a children's book author. Last year (2018) Hoda wrote the heartwarming (and New York Times bestseller) I've Loved You Since Forever, a book celebrating the timeless love between a parent and child. This year (Mar. 5, 2019) Hoda has written You Are My Happya story best read while curled up next to your own little lovebug. Told from the point of view of a mama bear talking with her baby bear as they settle down for bedtime, the story is an excellent reminder to take your children through their day—the good and the bad—and keep those lines of communication open. And best of all, it reminds your own little bears just how happy they make you. Just as with I've Loved You Since Forever, Harper Collins has made sure Kotb's poetic words are showcased by the art of Suzie Mason. 

Ages: 4-8

Available here as of Mar. 5, 2019. 

We Are the Gardeners by Joanna Gaines

Joanna Gaines via IG

You first came to know her and Chip on Fixer Upper but since have grown to love her from the shelves of Target to the pages of her grown-up design book Home Body. Now you and your kids can join JoJo and her kids on a garden adventure. Learn about how the Gaines family learned to garden, from the first little fern that Chip brought home for Jo. Get inspired to garden with your fam, too. Beautifully illustrated by Julianna Swaney, we think you'll fall in love with this book, with gardening and with the Gaines family all over again. Available Mar.26. 

Ages: 4-8

Preorder here. $15.99

Everything Is Mama by Jimmy Fallon

Snag this sweet story—just released in Jan. 2019—in board book format for your bestie who just had a baby, or grab a hardcover copy to giggle over together with your LO. Everything Is Mama, by Jimmy Fallon and Miguel Ordonez, features different animals teaching their own children that there are other words in the world. That is, other than mama. The perfect, adorable follow-up to Fallon's bestselling Your Baby's First Word Will Be DADA

Ages: 1-3

Find a copy here, $6.91 

The Book with No Pictures by B.J. Novak

You may know him as Ryan from ˆThe Office, but your kids will never forget B.J. Novak for writing this hilarious book. As promised, there are no pictures—but don't let that defer you. A perfect book to read together, the book encourages kids to "trick" an adult into reading it out loud. You'll find yourself giggling right along with the kids when you declare that you "eat ants for breakfast, right off the rug!" and other nonsensical things. 

Ages: 5-8

Click here to get it. $10.99

Of Thee I Sing: A Letter to My Daughters by Barack Obama

Amazon

Former President Barack Obama penned this sweet book in 2010. Written as a love letter to both his girls and to amazing Americans past, present and future, from all races and backgrounds, it’s the kind of wish for our children that makes parents weepy. But the message of strength and determination, as well as the history lessons of great men and women makes it a universally appealing book. It’s beautifully illustrated, too, by Loren Long. 

Ages: 6 & up

Find your copy here. $12.99 hardcover. 

The Hank Zipzer Books by Henry Winkler

Penugin Random House

You might think of him as the iconic Fonz from Happy Days, but these days Henry Winkler is keeping busy with a popular children's book series about Hank Zipzer: a high-spirited and funny boy who has learning differences. Inspired by Henry WInkler's own childhood as an undiagnosed dyslexic, the adventures of this loveable kid make an excellent read for children of all ages: our editor loved reading them as bedtime stories to her son. The books are printed in a special font, called Dyslexie, which helps children with dyslexia be able to read it easier. Because each letter is spaced apart, it appears more open and readable, a win for any young reader, really. Co-authored with the talented Lin Oliver, there are current 12 "Here's Hank" and 17 Hank Zipzer books. 

Find out more about Henry Winkler and the series at: penguinrandomhouse.com 

Ages: 6-8

Grab the first "Here's Hank" book for just $5.99 here.

My Mom Is a Foreigner but Not to Me by Julianne Moore

Chronicle Books

Bestselling author and award-winning actress Julianne Moore pays homage to all the Muttis, Mammas, and Mamans who are from another country with this 2017 story that is as relevant today as it ever was. Not her first foray into children's books, Moore is also the author of the popular Freckleface Strawberry books. Funny and heartwarming, much like the author herself, this sweet story is completed with perfect illustrations by Meilo So and is a celebration of the diversity of our country and the unity of motherhood. 

Ages: 5-8

Get a copy for yourself right here. $8.99

"The Land of Stories" Series by Chris Colfer

Amazon

Chris Colfer, beloved as Glee song-and-dance man, is also the author of six popular chapter book fairy tales. "The Land of Stories" books follow twins Alex and Conner as their reading exploits come to life and they encounter fairy tale plots and characters IRL. Released in 2018 as a complete set of six paperbacks, you can find the boxed set for just $34. Great bedtime stories! 

Ages: 8-12 

Buy the complete set here for $34. 

Randi Rhodes, Ninja Detective Books by Octavia Spencer

Simon & Schuster

She's won an Academy Award, a Golden Globe, a BAFTA award and more for her work as an actress in films like The Help, Hidden Figures and Fruitvale Station, but Octavia Spencer win your kids' hearts with this spirited series about Randi Rhodes, a flaming-hared ninja detective. There are two books in the series (so far): iThe Case of the Time-Capsule Bandit  and The Sweetest Heist in History. Picture Nancy Drew with the problem-solving skills of Encyclopedia Brown (but the coolness of his sidekick Sally Kimball) as a 12-year-old Bruce Lee devote and you’ve got a good idea of where this book goes. Throw in some super-cool play-along activities and this becomes a book kids tear through. And we love the diverse cast including Latino and African-American characters. Both books include awesome illustrations by Vivienne To. 

Ages: 8-12

Find them here. $7.99/each.

Tell Me Again About the Night I Was Born by Jamie Lee Curtis

Amazon

She’s Hollywood royalty, the daughter of Tony Curtis and Janet Lee. She also starred in A Fish Called Wanda and True Lies. But your kids actually know her as one of their favorite authors! Tell Me Again About the Night I Was Born is perhaps the seminal kid’s book on “where babies come from” when they’re adopted. It’s told with a matter-of-fact-ness and loads of love that make this a perfect explanation of adoption for kids who were adopted, and also for those who weren’t. Our next favorite book that Curtis wrote is definitely Today I Feel Silly and Other Moods That Make My Day, a great book for talking about feelings. To be honest, you can't really to go wrong with this actress' literary canon for kids. Illustrated by Laura Cornell. 

Ages: 4-8

Get it here. $6.99 in paperback (also comes in board book and hardcover). 

The Remarkable Farkle McBride by John Lithgow

Amazon

With Emmy, Tony and Golden Globe wins, not to mention two Oscar nominations, what don’t know actor John Lithgow from? FootlooseThe World According to GarpDexter? Though it was Lithgow’s first book, and he’s written several others through the years, The Remarkable Farkle McBride is still our favorite. It uses a remarkable little boy, who gets so bored he must learn a new instrument every year, to illustrate how all the instruments in the orchestra look and sound. With rhymes so clever and pictures so funny, kids won’t realize they just read the equivalent of a music appreciation class. If your kids like this book, also get Lithgow’s Never Play Music Right Next to the Zoo, which comes with a CD of him singing the book with an orchestra! 

Ages: 3 and up 

Find your copy here. $8.99

— Amber Guetebier & Meghan Rose

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When Brandon, Brenda, Kelly, Dylan, Steve, David, Donna and Andrea graduated over a quarter of a century ago, who would have expected a Beverly Hills, 90210 reboot? Well now it looks like the gangs heading back to the Peach Pit—because Tori Spelling just confirmed a reunion!

During an interview with Access Live the actress/reality star dished after being asked about recent pics of Spelling, along with former cast members Jennie Garth, Brian Austin Green and Ian Ziering. What looked like a casual brunch between friends was really a between-meeting coffee break. That’s right, Spelling confirmed that the 90210 gang was indeed talking to networks about a show reboot.

After getting cheers (and who would cheer this littler slice of ’90s nostalgia?), Spelling asked, “Did I just confirm something that wasn’t known?” Um, yes! The former-Donna Martin actress went on to add that it is the “OG” crew back together again, playing “heightened” versions of themselves. The only exceptions being Luke Perry (due to potential Riverdale conflicts) and Shannen Doherty. While Doherty’s character Brenda was obviously central to the show, the actress’s recent battle with breast cancer has made her return an unknown as of now.

So when can we expect 90210 to return to the small screen? While there’s no debut date as of now, Spelling did say that the show will air sometime in 2019.

—Erica Loop

Featured Photo: Courtesy of 90210 Productions/FOX

 

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When it comes to business, there’s goals, and then there’s goals. These kids are putting millionaires to shame with their ideas that give back, inspire and make the world a better place. And there’s no better way to feel rich. Read on to find out why you should never underestimate the power of a kid. 

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1. The Kid’s Charity That Feeds Kids

Entrepreneurial spirit can strike anyone, at any time, no matter their age. At just seven-years-old, first grader Kaden Newton already started his own charity organization in early 2017: Mac & Cheese and Pancakes. And he has collected well over 24,000 “kid-friendly” and “kid-approved” food items, like (you guessed it) Mac & Cheese. That’s nearly 28,000 pounds of food collected in two months time. He’s received items from Egypt, Puerto Rico and almost every state via his Amazon Wishlist. Read more about it here.

photo: Walter Miranda 

2. The Bra That Detects Cancer

Many women have a love/ hate relationship with their bras, but there’s nothing to hate about a bra that could help its wearer discover signs of breast cancer. An 18 year-old student from Mexico has designed a bra that can do exactly that, after being inspired by his own mom’s battle with breast cancer. Julian Rios Cantu invented the EVA, which can detect breast cancer. The young entrepreneur runs his own company, Higia Technologies, and built the bra to primarily help women who are genetically predisposed to cancer. The bra is equipped with about 200 biosensors, which can map the surface of the breast and then detect changes in shape, weight, and temperature. The data can then be sent to a computer or mobile app for analysis. The idea is to replace self-diagnosis, which isn’t always effective. Read more about Juan’s amazing story here.

photo: TreesForTheFuture via flickr 

3. The Kid Who Planted One Million Trees (Make That One Trillion)

When he was just nine-years-old Felix Finkbeiner had a goal: to plant one million trees in his home country of Germany. He was in the fourth grade. He started with just one tree, in front of his own school. His campaign quickly went viral and gained media international media coverage.  He was soon invited to speak to the European Parliment and attend UN conferneces. He reached his goal of planting one-million trees in German in 2011, at the age of 13. But he was not done. To date, Finkbeiner is 19. He founded Plant-for-the-Planet and his organization, together with the UN’s Billion Tree campaign, has planted over 14 billion trees in more than 130 countries. So he’s got a bigger goal: one trillion trees. Plant-for-the-Planet has trained over 55,000 “ambassador” who are trained in workshops on how to become climate activists in their own home town. Most of his trainees are between the ages of 9 and 12! Join the campaign!

photo: Shahrzad Warkentin

4. The Science Subscription Box Created by an Eight-Year-Old

Created by an eight-year-old, Angeleno Max (now nine) invented this monthly subscription kit to entice kids ages 5-10 to develop a love of all things science. Each kit revolves around a storyline starring Max and his younger sister Grace. They discover their grandfather’s secret time machine and use it to travel back and meet famous scientists and inventors, like Thomas Edison or the Wright Brothers, who will help them solve a science related mystery. The stories are inspired by The Magic Treehouse series, explains Max’s mom, Jacki, who helps Max run his start-up company and bring to life all his amazing story ideas and experiments. Click here to learn more.

 

photo: Heather Smithers via flickr 

5. The Girl Who Is Saving Bees

By age 11, Mikalia Ulmer has done more than many adults have in their lifetime. She’s an entrepreneur, protector of the honey bee, educator and student. She is the founder of Me & the Bees Lemonade, a company that uses her grandmother’s special recipe for lemonade with flaxseed and honey. She started selling her special lemonade recipe at kids’ entrepreneurial events and on roadside stands, and later won a deal on “Shark Tank.” Mikalia sells Me & the Bees Lemonade at Whole Foods Market and several food trucks and restaurants. She also gave the introduction of President Obama at a United State of Women forum. But her drive goes beyond making a profit. She donates a percentage of the profits from the sales to local and international organizations fighting to save the honeybees.

photo: willourceyfrogs.com

6. The Boy Who Can Feed a Nation

When Will Lourcey was seven-years-old, he saw a homeless man holding a sign that read “need a meal.” When Will’s parents explained to him that there are so many people in the world who don’t have food to eat, this Ft. Worth kiddo decided to “be a doer, not a watcher” from that moment on. He wanted to make a difference, so Will gathered some friend, made a plan, and he started FROGs (Friends Reaching Our Goals, Inc.). This kid-run organization sets out to inspire and mobilize other others to make positive change. As a result, Will and FROGs has provided more than 500,000 meals for the hungry through local food banks and FROGs Dinner Club. They’ve helped pack 80,000 backpacks with food through Backpacks for Kids, and served more than 10,000 families through the Mobile Food Pantry. Learn the latest and make your own donation here.

7. The Lemonade Stand By Kids, For Kids

What kiddo doesn’t want to set up a lemonade stand? Teach your little ones a humanitarian lesson by encouraging them to donate proceeds from their summer stand through Alex’s Lemonade Stand Foundation and fight childhood cancer “one cup at a time.” The foundation was started by Alexandra “Alex” Scott who was battling cancer and vowed to raise money to fight the illness. By the time Alex died in 2004, she raised $1 million and has inspired kids across the country to sell lemonade for a great cause. Alex’s Lemonade Stand Foundation makes it easy to get started. All you need to do is register your lemonade stand’s location, date and time. You’ll receive a free fundraising kit in the mail and a personal fundraising coach to assist you with any questions.

Whose your favorite kidtrepreneur? Tell us about them in the comments below! 

On March 13, 2015, when I was 8 weeks along in my first pregnancy, I was diagnosed with breast cancer. This time in my life that I had so looked forward to was suddenly filled with uncertainty and fear. At the time, it seemed like a curse. And obviously, nobody wants to hear the words, “you have cancer,” especially when you’re pregnant. At first I thought the timing couldn’t be worse. 

But my baby, Nico, was a blessing. He dragged me out of my self-pity and helped me focus on the light at the end of the tunnel (him), and he has continued to do so since his arrival last September. If it hadn’t been for him, that infamous lump on my left breast would have gone undetected for much longer.  He helped me survive. 

I like to define “survivor” as anyone who has lived through the words, “you have cancer.” Survivorship for me is doing my best to not dwell on the “what if’s” and “why’s” of cancer, but to be present with my miracle baby. Just like he helped me focus on him during my pregnancy, he deserves my attention on the outside. He saved my life. He saved my spirit. I owe it to him to be here with him 100%. He reminds me every day that I am the luckiest person in the world. He fought with me through surgery and chemo, and he made me a mom. Truly, we are both survivors. 

The fear is still there, looming in the background. It rears it’s ugly head whenever I’m approaching a scan or mammogram, or on significant dates like the anniversary of my diagnosis.  When I experience things like headaches and minor aches and pains, my mind immediately assumes it’s cancer. And I still deal with things like chemo brain and chronic pain from the surgery and radiation. I’m working through what I’ve come to learn is ptsd, which is common for people diagnosed with cancer. My treatment technically ended last Christmas Eve, but I’m still recovering.   

It’s been over a year and a half since the day I heard those life-changing words, but I can still recall the details of that moment with acute clarity. The exact spot I pulled my car over on Belmont Avenue when the doctor called me with the test results. The hesitation and reluctance in her voice. The crushing words, “it is cancer.”  The only thought I could vocalize: “will my baby be ok?” Her answer: “I don’t know.”  And I remember the gut-wrenching fear that followed as a dear friend drove me home while I sobbed. I remember saying over and over again, “how will I ever sleep again?” How could I ever escape this terror? At the time, it seemed impossible.

But here I am, over a year and a half later. Smiling and laughing. Breathing. Sleeping (as much as my 13 month old early bird son will let me). Doing my best to not take for granted this life that I now know is so fragile. I guess you could say I’m surviving. 

Do you have a story about how breast cancer has impacted your life as a parent? We want to hear it! Join our October Breast Cancer Awareness conversation and share your story today.

Beat breast cancer while I was pregnant with my son, who just turned one. Still trying to find a new normal after becoming a mom and being diagnosed with cancer at 33 years old. I teach music and yoga to kids, I'm married to a chef so I never cook.