You love your air fryer, but sometimes you get caught up on what to use it for besides frozen snacks and store-bought meals. We’re here to tell you that you can make so many quick and delicious family dinners, and you should start with air fryer chicken recipes. From Tandoori chicken to chicken parmesan and some of the best wings you’ll ever eat, these easy dinner recipes take your air fryer prowess to the next level.

Looking for more quick weeknight meal ideas? Check out some of our other favorite air fryer recipes, one-pot meals, sheet pan dinner ideas, and 30-minute recipes that the whole family will love.

Air Fryer Chicken Breast

a picture of an air fryer chicken breast recipe
Pinch of Yum

If you need one good chicken recipe for an air fryer—we recommend this one from Pinch of Yum. Thin slices of chicken breast tossed in an array of spices with a pinch of sugar, it’s ready in 10 minutes and has 82 five-star reviews!

Tandoori Chicken

Tandoori chicken usually takes more time than busy parents have on weeknights, but this air fryer version from the Ministry of Curry cuts the cooking time down. The trick is to marinate your drumsticks overnight to be ready to go the next day. And, if your kids aren’t into spice, the recipe offers mellow alternatives to tone down the heat.

Bone-In Chicken Thighs

a picture of one of the easiest air fryer chicken recipes
Erin Clarke of Well Plated

This air fryer chicken recipe from Erin Clarke of Well Plated doesn’t require advance prep and only takes 20 minutes to get that crispy skin. Using seasoning you probably already have in your pantry means you can pull off this easy weeknight dinner just about anytime. Get the recipe from Well Plated.

Air Fryer Sesame Chicken

The secret’s in the deliciously sweet sauce when you whip up this easy weeknight dinner from Air Fryer Fanatics. It takes just over 30 minutes from start to finish, and you can make the rice and veggies to accompany the main meal while it’s in the air fryer.

Fried Chicken

a picture of air fryer chicken
Kristine’s Kitchen Blog

Fried chicken that’s not fried but tastes like it is? We like the sound of that. This recipe from Kristine’s Kitchen Blog requires about 20 minutes of prep time (to make the batter and coat the chicken), but the results are worth it!

Teriyaki Chicken

Air frying gives teriyaki sauce that yummy glaze you hope to obtain when making this popular dish. You can marinate the chicken for 30 minutes, but it isn’t necessary, especially when you’re short on time. If you decide to marinate your chicken thighs, set some marinade (that you didn’t use for the chicken) aside or use the store-bought sauce to toss with the thighs once they’re done. Get this recipe from Bites with Bri.

Related: 16 Simple Crowd-Pleasing Chicken Recipes

Chicken Parmesan

This classic comfort food dish gets an overhaul perfect for weeknights. While it only takes 12 minutes to cook your chicken, the trick is to flatten the breasts so they cook evenly and are juicy. Don’t forget to add your marinara and mozzarella cheese in the last few minutes! Get the recipe from I Wash You Dry.

Crispy Chicken Tenders

picture of air fryer chicken tenders
Kristine’s Kitchen Blog

If you can perfect an air fryer chicken tender recipe, you’ll have something that can be made quickly and will please even the pickiest of eaters. This version of a classic kids’ favorite from Kristine’s Kitchen Blog includes buttermilk, but she provides a substitute if you don’t have any on hand. Don’t forget the best part—the dipping sauces!

Air Fryer Chicken Wings

We had to include a chicken wing recipe, and this one from Feel Good Foodie is one of the best. There’s no breading involved, and only 30 minutes of marinating is required, so these can easily be whipped up on a weeknight or before a big game.

Garlic Parmesan Chicken Skewers

Parmesan garlic anything is music to our ears. These skewers are loaded with flavor and only take 35 minutes to make. Click above to get the recipe from Chef Marcelo Mintz.

Related: 18 Chicken Breast Recipes That Are Super Easy to Make

Chicken and Cheese Quesadillas

Bitz & Giggles

That leftover rotisserie chicken mentioned above? Here’s the perfect way to use it—making chicken and cheese quesadillas! This recipe takes 12 minutes from start to finish and tastes just as good as making them in a pan. Get more details from Bitz & Giggles.

Pickle-Brined Chicken Sandwich

A crispy chicken sandwich just hits differently. This version from Valerie’s Kitchen is first brined in buttermilk and pickle juice before being coated in a seasoned breading that crisps perfectly in an air fryer. The prep and marinating time is about two hours, and the cooking time is 25 minutes, so this air fryer chicken recipe is probably a good one to use on a weekend!

Air Fryer Whole Chicken

Spend with Pennies

A roast chicken is an ideal family dinner recipe. It’s always a crowd pleasure, plus you have leftovers to use for other quick meals when you don’t have time to cook. This recipe from Spend with Pennies cuts the cooking time by about 30 minutes and only requires three ingredients.

It’s no secret that Amazon carries a lot of products. Like…a lot. And even if you peruse often or check out all your ‘recommended items based on your searches’, there’s a good chance you haven’t even scratched the surface of surprising Amazon finds. But what if you’re missing out? What if you need plush microbes, pickle bandages, or mixed bug trail mix? You just never know. So we pulled together a list of surprising Amazon finds that are truly a little wild, but are also products customers just like you are actually buying!

Al Dente, the Singing Floating Pasta Timer

red floating pasta timer in the shape of a man with guitar
Amazon

Who among us doesn't need a floating pasta timer named Al Dente? Toss him in with your pasta water and he'll sing you a little tune when it's ready.

Al Dente, the Singing Floating Pasta Timer ($24.99)—Buy Here!

GIANTmicrobes Plagues of The 21st Century

a box of plush plague-themed keychains

We wish we'd known sooner that we could use Amazon for all of our Plagues of the 21st Century plush keychain needs. In fact, the whole GIANTmicrobes Collection is available.

GIANTmicrobes Plagues of The 21st Century ($27.95)—Buy Here!

Video Game Controller Magnet Set

white fridge with nintendo DES magnets
Amazon

Turn your fridge into one big video game controller because why wouldn't you? The 'screen' doubles as a dry-erase board, too.

Video Game Controller Magnet Set ($24.99)—Buy Here!

AlfaBot Window Cleaning Robot

window cleaning robot
Amazon

They had to get to a window cleaning robot at some point. This little guy suctions onto your window, sprays, and buffs away without you needing to pull out a stool.

AlfaBot Window Cleaning Robot ($199.99)—Buy Here!

Plastic Bag Holder Stand, Set of 4

Amazon

Marinating, meal prep, making kids' lunches—these stands keep those baggies open so you don't have to worry about spills or tips.

Plastic Bag Holder Stand, Set of 4 ($9.99)—Buy Here!

Boba Milk Tea Stationary Pouch

a pink boba tea shaped pencil case
Amazon

Can you look at this little boba milk tea stationary pouch, square in its little boba milk tea stationary pouch eyes, and say you don't want it? Can you? Available in 5 colors.

Boba Milk Tea Stationary Pouch ($7.99)—Buy Here!

Pickle Bandages

pickle shaped bandages
Amazon

These pickled plasters don't just protect cuts and scrapes; they also have a pickle-like texture. For some reason. But that's still pretty fun, right? (Latex-free, 24ct)

Pickle Bandages ($7.99)—Buy Here!

Flip-It! Bottle Emptying Kit

bottle emptying kit
Amazon

Pop one of the bottle adaptors (and leak-proof gasket) onto whatever product is running low, flip it over, and you have a squeeze bottle that lets you get out every last bit of the product!

Flip-It! Bottle Emptying Kit ($16.80)—Buy Here!

65" Inflatable Pool Roller Ring Float

Amazon

At the pool, on the beach, even in the backyard—this giant roller ring float inflates fast and is serious summer fun. *Children require full adult supervision when swimming and engaging in water activities.

65" Inflatable Pool Roller Ring Float ($47.99)—Buy Here!

Gear Shift Hoodie

gear shift with a novelty hoodie on it
Amazon

Does your gear shift get cold? Boy, do we have the product for you. Available in 7 colors.

Gear Shift Hoodie ($7.99)—Buy Here!

Laundry Detergent Drip Tray, 2pk

laundry soap drip tray
Amazon

Where has this been all our lives? Just slide it right under your value-sized laundry detergent dispenser and never worry about drips, drops, or dabs of sticky laundry soap again.

Laundry Detergent Drip Tray, 2pk ($12.14)—Buy Here!

Dissolvable Food Container Labels

roll of dissolvable food labels
Amazon

These are actually genius. Label all your food storage containers with what's in them, when they were stored, and when to use them by. Obviously, that's great, but these sticker labels dissolve as your wash the container they're on, so you don't have to worry about sticky residue or scraping. 

Dissolvable Food Container Labels, 200ct Roll ($16.99)—Buy Here!

Dear Smart Girl DIY Light-Up Headband

Amazon

A STEM activity and an accessory to flaunt their personality? Adding this one to our collection of summer-ready projects.

Dear Smart Girl DIY Light-Up Headband ($29.99)—Buy Here!

Erbies Edible Bug Mixed Trail Mix

bag of mixed edible bugs
Amazon

Here is a bag of bug trail mix. They're seasoned. That's what we know.

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Frog Sleep Mask

green sleep mask with frog eyes
Amazon

Have you ever wanted to freak out your bed partner? Us, too.

Frog Sleep Mask ($6.99)—Buy Here!

Dry Erase Sticky Notes

dry erase sticky notes
Amazon

Frameless, nesting whiteboard tiles that magnetically stick and align to one another? Genius. 

Dry Erase Sticky Notes ($34.99)—Buy Here!

Rechargeable Self-Stirring Mug

automatic stirring mug
Amazon

Available in either battery-powered or rechargeable, this mug stirs up your beverage with the touch of a button. Especially helpful when you have drinks that tend to settle after a bit.

Rechargeable Self-Stirring Mug ($21.99)—Buy Here!

Bungee Cords with Ball Ends

black bungee cords with ball ends
Amazon

These actually come in handy way more frequently than we thought. Electric cords, curtains, camping, umbrellas, sporting equipment...keep them around and thank us later.

Bungee Cords with Ball Ends ($15.99)—Buy Here!

RED FACTOR Compost Bin

bronze countertop compost bin
Amazon

This cute indoor compost bin can be placed right on your kitchen countertop to provide easy access at all times and it has a filter system that makes it totally odorless. Available in white and stainless, too.

RED FACTOR Compost Bin ($40.99)—Buy Here!

Inflatable Peacock Pool Float

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Amazon

There are two inflatable pool floats on this list. But this peacock simply couldn't be left off.

Inflatable Peacock Pool Float ($35.99)—Buy Here!

Adjustable Wall Stuffed Animal Organizer

corner hanging plush toy storage
Amazon

This has to beat those corner hammock things, right? The open design makes it easy for kids to store and take out their plushes, too.

Adjustable Wall Stuffed Animal Organizer ($20.99)—Buy Here!

Portable Cup Holder

attachable stroller cup holder
Amazon

This portable cup holder clamps onto tollers, rolling luggage, wagons—really anything with a handle—for serious convenience. It even includes a phone holder!

Portable Cup Holder ($8.48)—Buy Here!

Indoor Auto Shut Off Safety Outlet

outlet timer
Amazon

Never worry about whether or not you turned off your curling iron or if your slow cooker is still on with this timer safety outlet.

Indoor Auto Shut Off Safety Outlet ($11.79)—Buy Here!

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“What’s for dinner?” might be a parent’s least favorite phrase. You just got home from work, there are a dozen things to finish by yesterday, and you need to be at two different after-school activities in the next hour. And now you have to feed everyone a delicious meal—what gives? If you’re burned out on planning the evening meal but not excited about serving mac and cheese and dino nuggies yet again, we rounded up 11 easy family dinners to keep in your back pocket for those evenings when you just can’t. Some have store-bought shortcuts, and some use a slow cooker, but all taste great and require almost no prep work, yay!

If you want more easy family dinners, check out our favorite 30-minute meals and make-ahead meals perfect for busy weeknights.

Baked Ranch Bacon Chicken

With only five ingredients, you can make a rich and savory main meal with this simple recipe from The Cookie Rookie. The prep work is easy, and it all comes together in one casserole dish.

Oven-Baked Salmon

a picture of oven-baked salmon, an easy dinner idea
Kristine's Kitchen Blog

Salmon is a versatile and healthy fish that most kids will eat. This recipe from Kristine’s Kitchen Blog is ideal for busy nights because it’s a 30-minute meal with almost no clean-up required. What makes it especially good is the honey-dijon glaze you’ll use to baste it while it cooks.

3-Ingredient Creamy Tomato Shells

a picture of creamy tomato shells, an easy family dinner
Pinch of Yum

Pasta is one of the most versatile dinner options on the planet. With hundreds of different ways to prepare it, finding one that takes almost no time is a win for busy parents. This easy family dinner recipe from Pinch of Yum takes less than 30 minutes, and the secret is in the sauce!

The Viral Baked Feta Pasta

This dish went viral on TikTok a while back, and this is the original recipe that made it happen. The longest part is the roasted tomatoes and baked feta, and Feel Good Foodie has a faster stovetop version for those short on time (who isn’t?). Either way, you’ll get a savory pasta dish you can serve alone or as a side. For picky eaters, you can remove the roasted tomatoes from their portion.

Related: 19 One-Pot Pasta Recipes That Keep Dirty Dishes to a Minimum

French Dip Sliders

Warm, gooey French Dip sliders for dinner? Yes, please! The hardest part of this easy family dinner from Eating on a Dime is the time you’ll spend sauteeing onions to layer on top of deli roast beef and provolone cheese. If you’ve got picky eaters at home, just skip the onions on a few of the sliders.

Sheet Pan Pork Tenderloin

We love a good sheet pan dinner, and this one from No. 2 Pencil is as easy as it gets. It takes 25 minutes to bake this well-balanced meal in the oven, and with one pan to clean, it’s perfect for a night when you need something quick, filling, and flavorful.

Meatball Sub Bubble Bake

This is one of our favorite easy family dinners. Not only does it take 10 minutes to prep, but it also only takes about 20 minutes to bake. You’ll end up with a delicious one-pot meal with just four ingredients that older kids can whip up if you aren’t home. Get the recipe from Life with the Crust Off.

Pasta with Peas and Bacon

a picture of pasta with bacon and peas, an easy family dinner
iStock

A house favorite, this quick pasta is so tasty that the kids will be begging you to make it every week. You can even use pancetta instead of bacon! Get the recipe here.

Slow Cooker Teriyaki Meatballs

Anything made in a slow cooker is a godsend for busy parents. This easy dinner recipe from Persnickety Plates uses frozen meatballs, teriyaki sauce (store-bought or homemade, depending on your preference), and pineapple. Serve over rice with broccoli.

Sheet Pan Chicken Fajitas

a picture of sheet pan chicken fajitas, which is one of the best easy family dinners
One Lovely Life

This easy family dinner is great for busy nights because you can prep all the toppings while the meat and veggies are baked in the oven. One Lovely Life says you can use store-bought fajita seasonings if you don’t have time to make your seasoning blend.

Honey Garlic Shrimp

a picture of honey garlic shrimp, an easy family dinner
Sally McKenney via Sally's Baking Addiction

Shrimp cooks so quickly, and the marinating time in this super easy dinner recipe from Sally’s Baking Addition is only 15-20 minutes, so you can prep it, take care of something else, come back, and throw the shrimp in the pan. Five minutes later, you’ll be ready to serve it up. Our only recommendation is to cut back on the amount of honey.

 

Calling all lovers of Turning Red, Up, and Inside Out! Disneyland is putting its beloved Pixar friends front and center for the return of Pixar Fest, a celebration of the music, themes, and characters from its Pixar Animation Studios films. The Pixar-ification includes new food items, a reimagined fireworks display, a new parade, and a new immersive show that’ll have Disney toddlers freeze-dancing their wiggles away.

Here’s everything you need to know about the 2024 Pixar Fest, which runs now through Aug. 4 at Disneyland and California Adventure:

There’s a Reimagined Fireworks Show

Melissa Heckscher

If you can keep your tired Disney littles up until 9:30 p.m., it’s worth it. This totally upgraded reimagining of 2018’s “Together Forever” fireworks display includes projections, lasers, fireworks, pyrotechnics, and music—all set to familiar Pixar tunes. The magic happens all around you, with light projections spread across almost every visible surface up and down Main Street as well as splashed across Sleeping Beauty’s castle. Keep your eyes on the rooftops during the Coco scene and you might even see a few 10-foot-tall characters standing up there!

And, Disney has a few other new tricks up its sleeve, including a certain beloved hot air balloon that floats through the air amid the smoke…

Insider’s Tip: Want an easy exit? Watch the show in the middle of Main Street outside the Market House near the park entrance. There are so many cool light projections up and down Main Street that your littles will be sufficiently transfixed—and you’ll be happy for the easy out when the fireworks end.

The “Better Together” Parade Isn’t to Be Missed

Richard Harbaugh/Disneyland Resort

It starts with a cheerful team of rhythmic roller skaters (who manage to make eye contact or wave at every kid in the crowd!) and ends with an upbeat song you won’t get out of your head for the rest of the afternoon. The “Better Together” Pixar Pals Celebration Parade (a reworked version of 2018’s Pixar Play Parade) at California Adventure pays homage to iconic Pixar films such as Toy Story and Monsters, Inc. alongside newbies like Turning Red, Soul, Luca, and Inside Out. It’s short and sweet—a perfect midday break from the rides.

There’s an Immersive New Show for Kids Who Want to PLAY!

Melissa Heckscher

Need a place where your littles can get out some energy and NOT HAVE TO STAND IN ANY LINES? The new Pixar Pals Playtime Party is your spot! Part show, part dance lesson, part open playtime—guests of all ages can join in on the fun here as Fantasyland Theatre (in Disneyland Park) is transformed into a daytime fun zone. Learn some dance moves from Disney’s enthusiastic MCs; play an organized game of Red Light, Green Light; get your picture taken with Luca and Alberto from Luca or Wade and Amber from Elemental (it’s their first time appearing at Disneyland!); or, just enjoy the shaded break from the rides and watch some Pixar shorts on the big screen.

You’re Probably Going to Want Some of This New  Merch

Like it or not, it wouldn’t be Disney without a slew of new merch to match the event. So, naturally with Pixar Fest comes Pixar Fest gear and goods. Here are some of our favorite new items:

  • Pixar Fest crossbody bag – This non-gender-specific turquoise and orange crossbody bag is the perfect size for toting your wallet, phone, and Disney ticket on and off all those rides.
  • Alien Pizza Planet Popcorn Bucket – This new popcorn vessel is a bona fide toy! Straight from Toy Story, this Alien Pizza Planet truck has working lights and a little alien in the driver’s seat. There’s also an impressive replica guitar popcorn bucket ode to Coco; and a Doug bucket from the movie Up (but that one’s only available to Magic Key holders) that’s only  They’re all adorable (if a bit bulky—bring a bag to carry them in when your kid is done munching.
  • Themed medallions – If you’re a coin collector (or, at least, a collector of Disney gold medallions), you’ll want to get your hands on the new, limited-time Pixar-themed coins.
  • Custom Character Headbands – Yet another fun thing for your kids (or you) to collect, these cute character plushies slide onto specialized headbands to make for a fun new twist on Mickey ears. (Pssst: They’re already wildly popular at Hong Kong Disney!)

Come Hungry, Because All of the New Pixar-themed Food Items Look Amazing

David Nguyen/Disneyland Resort

Come on—you know this is the best part, right? As if you didn’t have enough choices of splurge-worthy eats, Disney chefs have been hard at work designing a new menu of Pixar-themed snacks, entrees, and treats for the park’s menu. Here are some of our faves (to learn where to find them in the parks, go to Disneyparks.disney.go.com):

  • Shake 2319 inspired by Monsters, Inc. – This vanilla, orange, guava, and pineapple shake is topped with shaved coconut, whipped topping, and an orange cone.
  • Fried Bologna Sandwich inspired by Up – Comfort food at its best, this sandwich is made of fried bologna, Monterey Jack cheese, mustard, and mayo on white bread. Served with house-made chips, cinnamon apples, and a pickle spear.
  • Inside Out Mac and Cheese – Match your mac to your mood! Choose from Joy’s “Yellow Comforting” mac and cheese with happy cheese puffs or Anger’s “Angry Red Hot” mac and cheese with spicy cheese crunch.
  • Pixar Fest Cake – Three gorgeous rainbow layers of sponge cake with cream cheese frosting. Your kid will want it for the rainbow.
  • Sea Monster Friends Parfait inspired by Luca – A four-layer parfait of graham cracker crumbs, mascarpone cheesecake, berry blue gelatin, and blue Chantilly, topped with a Luca chocolate medallion.

California Adventure has a new “Club”

Melissa Heckscher

When the sun goes down (or really a little bit before), Club Pixar will take over the Hollywood Backlot at Disney California Adventure featuring Dj-led music, live performances, free family games (like cornhole and magnetic fishing games), fun photo backdrops, a bar with specialty crafted drinks, and a “drive-in theater” where people can sit in the back seat of a 1950s-style Cadillac and watch animated shorts. It’s a nice place to spend a little time while you’re waiting to get on Guardians of the Galaxy just next door. Don’t be surprised if you see Mr. and Mrs. Incredible wandering the crowd as well!

Pixar Fest, included in regular Disney Parks admission, opened April 26 and runs through August 4.  For more information, go to Disneyland.disney.go.com.

Editor’s note: This trip was paid for by Disney Parks but all opinions belong to the writer. 

There’s one universal truth in parenthood—there’s never enough time to make dinner. We’re always running someone to soccer practice, fighting giant piles of laundry, and trying to work a full day in between. The solution: 5-ingredient recipes that you can whip up in a flash. These easy meals are very kid-friendly, and mostly rely on items you’re likely to already have in your pantry so you won’t have to make a separate trip to the store (who has time for that?). We’ve left out some of the more obvious choices because we know you’re already a pro at grilled cheese, taco Tuesdays, quick eggs, and the like. Consider your meal plan done!

Creamy Tomato Tortellini with Pesto

The base for this filling dish is cheese-filled tortellini, which is pretty much the most kid-friendly pasta around. Add some mini meatballs or sliced pre-cooked sausage if you want to up the protein in this dish.

5-Ingredient Lemon Chicken with Asparagus

Pinch of Yum 5-ingredient lemon chicken and asparagus
Pinch of Yum

Whether you go with chicken thighs or chicken breasts, this recipe from Pinch of Yum is super flavorful and easy to make. The citrus from the lemon is mellowed out with honey to satisfy those picky palates.

Ground Turkey Lettuce Wraps

We love how flavorful these lettuce wraps are. Butter lettuce works best and you can serve it over rice for those picky ones in your family.

Easy Crockpot Ranch Chicken

If your kid isn’t a Ranch fan yet, now is the time to indoctrinate them. This 4-ingredient recipe from The Cookie Rookie makes kid-friendly chicken in a veg-free sauce, so you’re more likely to avoid the mealtime tantrums.

5-Ingredient Coconut Curry

5 ingredient coconut curry
Pinch of Yum

There’s something super comforting about this coconut curry from Pinch of Yum. It uses chickpeas instead of meat so that means it will come together super fast.

Paleo Gnocchi Bolognese

Your family won’t even know that you’re using Trader Joe’s cauliflower gnocchi as the base of this delicious dish.

5-Ingredient Zucchini Fritters

This recipe is a great way to use up your summer bounty of zucchini. We suggest cooking them on your electric griddle if you have one.

Pa Amb Tomàquet (aka Catalan Tomato Bread)

Any vehicle for including more ripe tomatoes in our lives is a must-try. Also, this bread looks like a fun way to get the kids in on the cooking action.

Garlic Butter Chicken and Brussels Sprouts

Not only does this recipe only have 5 ingredients, but it’s a one-pot wonder as well. Chicken thighs, Brussels sprouts, and garlic are the main players in this flavorful dish.

5-Ingredient Chili

5 ingredient chili Gimme Some Oven
Gimme Some Oven

We love a chili recipe that comes together in a flash. You can even sub in meatless crumbles if you’d like to make this recipe from Gimme Some Oven vegetarian.

5-Ingredient Trader Joe’s Branzino

This recipe uses three of our favorite TJs items: branzino, lemony arugula salad kit, and frozen country potatoes.

One-Pot Pasta

Kristine's Kitchen Blog one pot pasta
Kristine’s Kitchen Blog

One-pot meals are a weekday dinner staple, and this one from Kristine’s Kitchen Blog serves up sausage with pasta. Bonus: You don’t even need to drain the pasta as it cooks right in the sauce.

Lemon Butter Scallops

5 ingredient lemon butter scallops Damn Delicious
Damn Delicious

Head over to Damn Delicious to snag this recipe that cooks up quickly and is great paired with asparagus or broccoli.

Quick Duck Stir Fry

A stir fry is a great way to use up any veg that might be sitting neglected in the bottom of your fridge. This one uses duck, but you could easily sub in chicken if you prefer.

Instant Pot Short Rib Ragu

Pinch of Yum 5 ingredient short rib ragu
Pinch of Yum

Our advice for this full-of-flavor recipe from Pinch of Yum is to double it. It’s that good.

Spaghetti Carbonara

Any meal that starts with cooking up some bacon is destined for greatness, and this spaghetti carbonara from Damn Delicious is no exception.

Instant Pot French Dip Sandwiches

You’ll get lots of flavor development in a short amount of time with this recipe from Amy + Jacky. We like to serve it on toasted ciabatta rolls topped with Swiss cheese.

Trader Joe’s Chicken Tikka Masala

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Our biggest dinnertime hack is using Trader Joe’s items to create a meal that is full of flavor and short on cooking time. This chicken tikka masala is the perfect option when you need dinner on the table ASAP.

Viral Feta Pasta Bake

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This recipe has been all over TikTok, and we totally understand the hype. You just throw some cherry tomatoes and feta in the oven to bake and boil up some pasta to mix in at the end. What could be easier?

Cacio e Pepe

We love that this pasta recipe is full of flavor but contains no visible vegetables that may turn your crew off dinner. Gimme Some Oven explains the easy steps to making this Italian favorite.

No-Fuss Prime Rib

Save this recipe for the holidays when time is short. You’ll impress your guests with homemade prime rib, we know it.

Trader Joe’s Lobster Bisque Pasta

Yes, this recipe uses Trader Joe’s lobster bisque to make the creamy sauce, and we are here for it.

5-Ingredient Chicken Lo Mein

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This is an easy (and cheap) way to make those ramen packets into a dinner the whole family will love.

New moms aren’t your average giftees. New schedules, new workday routines, and a whole new person make your usual go-to Mother’s Day gifts a little less reliable. Maybe a gift card for a night out is a little too soon, or a book might sit on the nightstand unread for months as their new family member gets acquainted. You’ll also want to skip any presents that are also kinda for the baby (a new breast pump is cool and appreciated, but not today). Simple, right? No worries. That’s why we’re here.

We’ve put together a guide that makes picking out the best gifts easy. Whether she’s your wife, friend, sister, daughter, coworker, or another loved one, these thoughtful and helpful presents are fantastic on their own, or combined with goodies for the new little one. Or, snag a few that she’ll love from this list and put together a sure-to-be-appreciated box or basket. Whatever you choose, these Mother’s Day gifts for new moms make sure they feel loved!

COS Oversized Crossbody

COS

For new moms, the days of tiny clutches and wristlets are on pause, but that doesn't mean style is out the window! This amazing oversized crossbody has room for everything mom needs and then some and it's perfectly lightweight. It's crafted from 100% recycled fabric in the signature pillowy texture and offered in a vibrant cobalt-blue shade along with several other great hues.

COS Oversized Crossbody ($135.00)—Buy Here!

Emerson Caftan in Organic Rainbow Stripe

Emerson Caftan

We're pretty sure we can thank Palm Royale for bringing back the caftan, and thank it we do. Caftans are the epitome of comfort and they're absolutely not just for around the house. Running errands, vacation, pool days, travel, after work, out of the shower...okay, maybe we'll buy two.

Emerson Caftan in Organic Rainbow Stripe ($198.00)—Buy Here!

'Great British Bake Off' Coloring Book

Amazon

Official Bake Off illustrator, Tom Hovey (he does all the illustrations for the show itself!) created this 90 page coloring book that's ideal for any GBBO enthusiast. New moms think about more than enough; this is a great way for her to unwind.

'Great British Bake Off' Coloring Book ($17.99)—Buy Here!

Mother Patch Trucker Hat by mother. hats

mother. hats

Who has time to wash their hair every day? Not us, and definitely not new moms. Help her keep it out of the way on no-wash days with one of these adorable trucker hats from mother.hats.

Mother Patch Trucker Hat by mother. hats ($38.00)—Buy Here!

Evereden Belly Serum Experience Set

two bottles of postpartum serums
Evereden

Ideal for pregnancy, postpartum, and beyond, this serum set smells incredible: Damask rose and pear or peony, raspberry, and peach, and it nourishes and soothes mom's sensitive belly after all the good work it did. It absorbs fast, feels amazing, and the bottles are so pretty, too!

Evereden Belly Serum Experience Set ($76.00)—Buy Here!

Classic Happy Face Bracelet by Lisa Gozlan

silver and gold stretch beaded smiley face bracelets stacked on arm
Lisa Gozlan

Although we're well-aware that the adjustment to new baby mode isn't always perfectly easy, this Y2K-vibey stretch bracelet is a great reminder to smile whenever the mood strikes your favorite new mom. Available in silver and gold finishes.

Classic Happy Face Bracelet by Lisa Gozlan ($88.00)—Buy Here!

BAGGU Puffy Cooler Bag

cooler bag with cherry and lemon prints
BAGGU

Whether she's returning to the office or managing her personal/professional life from home, this adorable cooler bag is a must. Encourage her to keep snacks, eye patches, breastfeeding supplies, and (of course) water all stocked up in this roomy bag that she can take with her to work or from room to room in her house as she goes about her day. She won't have to keep heading to the kitchen for provisions either way!

BAGGU Puffy Cooler Bag ($58.00)—Buy Here!

Soft Suede Clogs

KIDMI

This viral style clog is popular for a reason; they're wildly comfortable. Of course, they're also versatile for year-round wear, are really lightweight, easy, and come in multiple colors. But the most important part? They're. So. Comfortable. They'll give the new mom in your life a go-to pair of shoes she can wear around the house and run errands in, plus they can easily accommodate any leftover foot swelling (we've been there!).

Soft Suede Clogs ($39.99)—Buy Here!

Shiatsu Neck and Back Massager

beige neck massager
Nekteck

Almost 60k Amazon reviewers can't be wrong. This massager works her neck, back, lower back, and more with adjustable intensity, too!

Shiatsu Neck and Back Massager ($49.99)—Buy Here!

Jeni's Pint Club Ice Cream Subscription

Jeni's Ice Cream

Our shopping editor swears Jeni's is the best ice cream on the planet, and we're pretty sure every woman deserves an ice cream subscription. Every month, they'll receive a curated selection of four flavors (often before they’re on sale to the public!) delivered directly to their doorstep. Guaranteed frozen delivery? Yep, that's included, too.

Jeni's Pint Club Ice Cream Subscription (Starting at $199.00)—Buy Here!

Jin Soon Aura #2 Nail Color Trio

Jin Soon

Jin Soon is known for her line of celebrity-loved and deeply-pigmented 21-free nail colors. She proves that nail polish can be free of the gross stuff and long-lasting. This trio includes 3 lucious shades that inspire calm, joy, and comfort (though there are multiple colors available). It's the little things that help new moms feel a little more like themselves.

Jin Soon Aura #2 Nail Color Trio ($42.00)—Buy Here!

Beach & Picnic Blanket by Sunnylife

Mochi Kids

With Mother's Day arriving as we head into the summer, this beach and picnic blanket makes a perfect gift! It'll help encourage her to take some time to relax when she can, and it also works really well as a play space for the baby at home or out.

Beach & Picnic Blanket by Sunnylife ($70.00)—Buy Here!

Sofia Prism Cocktail Watch Ring from PASCAL

PASCAL

Oh-so unique and easy to wear, this watch ring has a beautiful pink face and is surrounded by lab-grown gemstones for some extra glitter. Available in 3 different color combinations.

Sofia Prism Cocktail Watch Ring from PASCAL ($105.00)—Buy Here!

BrüMate Era 40oz

mint green 40oz tumbler with straw
BrüMate

Keeping hydrated is important, but even more so when you're a new mom. We love a good tumbler, but the Era 40oz is totally leakproof, with a cup holder-friendly base, attached straw, and the ability to keep drinks cool up to 24 hours! Available in a ton of different oclors.

BrüMate Era 40oz ($44.99)—Buy Here!

Couch Cup Holder Tray

Elimiko

This couch cup holder tray is so genius, we're mad we didn't think of it first. With a versatile cup holder that keeps your beverages secure and the try prevents your remote and phone from slipping between the couch cushions. Available in 6 colors.

Couch Cup Holder Tray ($38.99)—Buy Here!

Leatherology Long Crossbody Phone Pocket

set of leather crossbody phone and passport holders
Leatherology

The Crossbody Phone Pocket from Leatherology is sleek and easy, making it ideal for travel, for throwing into a larger purse, and keeping her necessities together. Available in multiple color and customization options!

Leatherology Long Crossbody Phone Pocket ($45.00)—Buy Here!

andSons Signature Collection Chocolates

box of artisan chocolates
andSons

Giving mom chocolate isn't new, but these stunning ganaches and pralines from the andSons Signature Collection are more like edible art. Even the box features the work of LA artist, Matt Murphy. Available in boxes of 6-84 pieces (drool).

andSons Signature Collection Chocolates ($25.00+)—Buy Here!

Rattan Candle by Otherland

Otherland candle sitting on dresser
Otherland

Otherland's toxin-free candles let you feel comfortable burning in your home (especially important to new moms), and they're so pretty! We're partial to their Rattan candle—a blend of sandalwood, golden amber, and warm musk. 

Rattan Candle by Otherland ($40.00)—Buy Here!

Dusen Dusen Stripe Terry Bathrobe in Sea Stripe

NORDSTROM

Designer Ellen Van Dusen doubles down on her love of stripes with this cotton-terry robe that's the perfect example of dopamine dressing! Moms definitely need to start their day with some major comfort she can wear in all seasons. Available in two colorways, but this 'Sea Stripe' combo is really speaking to us right now.

Dusen Dusen Stripe Terry Bathrobe in Sea Stripe ($138.00)—Buy Here!

grace & stella Restoring Eye Masks

set of purple grace & stella undereye masks
grace & stella

If they're good enough for Jessica Alba and Leona Lewis, we're sold. And actually, grace & stella Eye Masks are a favorite of our group chat. They brighten, restore, and soothe fatigued under eyes and feel amazing. Keep them in the fridge for extra de-puffing!

grace & stella Restoring Eye Masks ($23.95)—Buy Here!

Porto's Favorites Bake at Home Bundle

assortment of sweet and savory pastries
Porto's Bakery

Porto's Bakery pastry chefs create bake at home goodies that are super easy and beyond delicious. The Porto's Favorites bundle includes their Cheese Roll, Potato Ball, Chicken Empanada, and Refugiado (guava and cheese strudel) so mom can have fresh comfort food treats that taste like homemade.

Porto's Favorites Bake at Home Bundle ($85.96)—Buy Here!

Ello Campy Vacuum Insulated Travel Mug

arm holding a peach camp travel mug in front of a field of yellow flowers
Ello

Moms around the world know all about cold coffee. This 16oz vacuum-insulated stainless steel travel mug is designed to keep drinks cold up to 10 hours and hot for 5 hours. Car-friendly and completely leakproof, the handle includes a cork inlay that makes it comfortable to hold, too. Available in multiple colors.

Ello Campy Vacuum Insulated Travel Mug ($17.99)—Buy Here!

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It’s the eternal dinnertime dilemma: how to get a healthy meal on the table while juggling a million other responsibilities. Our solution? Break out the baking trays, because sheet pan dinners are about to change your life. These easy dinner recipes are a cinch to make and even easier to clean up. You’ll serve up a hearty feast your family will devour and then be off to your next commitment in no time. Looking for other dinner recipes that don’t take too much work? Take a look at our favorite slow cooker recipes

Sheet Pan Grilled Cheese Sandwiches

The ultimate comfort food might have just gotten easier. By using a sheet pan, your family can customize their grilled cheese and you can make more than one at once. Get more details at Food for a Year.

Sheet Pan Garlic Butter Pork Tenderloin

What is it about pork tenderloin that makes it a perfect dinner for a cozy night at home? This recipe from No. 2 Pencil includes all the sides and only takes 25 minutes in the oven.

Teriyaki Chicken Sheet Pan Dinner

If there’s one thing (almost) every kid likes, it’s teriyaki chicken. This easy sheet pan dinner from Six Sisters Stuff calls for veggies too, but you can steam them for picky eaters or just skip them together.

Sheet Pan Smashburgers

Sheet pan smashburgers
The View from Great Island

Smashburgers you can make without a grill? We like the sound of that! This version of a hamburger is flatter than others, which gives it a crispy edge and locks in flavor. With this recipe from The View from Great Island, you can make it all in your oven in no time. 

Lemon Rosemary Chicken Thighs

Lemon rosemary sheet pan chicken thighs with veggies are ready to be served
Boulder Locavore

For a quick and easy dinner that looks like you've spent a lot of time in the kitchen (Shhhh! We won't tell!), try these flavorful lemon rosemary sheet pan chicken thighs with vegetables from Boulder Locavore. You won't even have to pre-marinate.  

Salmon Sheet Pan Dinner

A Salmon Sheet Pan Dinner is on a plate ready to be served
Weelicious

This recipe will get dinner on the table in 30 minutes! This salmon sheet pan dinner from Weelicious is delicious and so easy to clean up after a long day. 

Sheet Pan Nachos

Cait’s Plate

This recipe from Cait’s Plate is bound to be an instant favorite with your crew. You can customize the toppings to fit your family’s tastes, while still getting in plenty of veggies and protein. 

Sausage and Potatoes Sheet Pan Dinner

Smoked sausage and potatoes made from an easy sheet pan recipe
The Rustic Foodie

This Oktoberfest-inspired kid friendly sheet pan dinner from The Rustic Foodie is a year-round favorite. The smoked sausage pairs beautifully with red potatoes, and a tangy mustard glaze brings everything together. 

Shrimp Fajitas

Shrimp and veggies sit on a plate ready to be eaten after being made quickly for dinner
Meal Prep on Fleek

This lightning-fast dish from Meal Prep on Fleek is the perfect pick for busy weeknights. The shrimp and veggies cook up in less than 10 minutes and pair perfectly with a fresh pico de gallo and warm tortillas. 

Related: 10 Ways to Get Dinner on the Table Faster

Chicken Shawarma

Inquiring Chef

You can’t go wrong with this crowd-pleasing shawarma recipe from Inquiring Chef. The well-seasoned marinade makes the chicken super delicious, and your little ones can jazz it up at the table with toppings like tzatziki sauce, veggies, and hummus.

Caprese Chicken Sheet Pan Dinner

Nicole’s Tasting Spoon

Pretend you’re in Italy for the evening with this delish idea from Nicole’s Tasting Spoon. Like a Caprese salad, melty fresh mozzarella, ripe tomatoes, and basil pair perfectly with chicken breast.

Roasted Sweet Potatoes, Sausage and Broccoli

Sweet potatoes, broccoli and sausage that was roasted in a sheet pan as a quick, easy dinner
Kalyn’s Kitchen

Keep things simple and healthy with this great recipe from Kalyn’s Kitchen. Sweet potatoes, broccoli, and sausage go well together, especially when you add a balsamic glaze to the equation.

Related: 25 Easy Crock Pot Recipes to Try This Fall

Hawaiian Chicken Sheet Pan Dinner

A Hawaiian chicken recipe made in a sheet pan with pineapples, peppers and sweet potatoes
The Seasoned Mom

Sesame oil is the pantry item you'll need for this tray bake from The Seasoned Mom. It combines pineapples, peppers, and sweet potatoes for a fresh, sweet roast of Hawaiian flavors. When you're looking for an easy sheet pan dinner to lift the family's spirits, this is it. 

Chicken Enchilada Sweet Potato Fries

A sheet pan of chicken enchiladas, made as a quick and easy dinner
Erin Clarke at Well Plated

These Mexican chicken enchilada fries might sound like a side dish but topped with chicken, black beans, and corn, they're likely to become a filling family favorite. The good news is that the tray can be made a few hours ahead of time and reheated to crisp up when everyone's ready to eat. Get the recipe from Well Plated, and skip the jalapeño to make it an extra kid friendly sheet pan dinner. 

Bacon Potato Skins

Potato skins made with bacon and kale as an easy sheet pan dinner
Pinch of Yum

The humble baked potato goes a long way to filling empty tummies (check out this version in our archives). You can take it a step further with this irresistible combination of bacon and cheese in crunchy potato skins from Pinch of Yum. The kids won't even care that there's kale pesto involved! Don't be put off by the idea of scooping out and refilling potato skins—save the mash for later in the week—and treat the family to a baked potato meets pizza feast. Yum!

Baking Sheet Paella

A simple-to-make paella with fresh shrimp, chorizo, peas, and easy-cook rice
A Spicy Perspective

One of our favorite sheet pan dinners is this paella dish from A Spicy Perspective. Fresh shrimp, chorizo, peas, and easy-cook rice all layer up to make a meal the family will love. It's easy and delicious, plus it can be cooked and prepped in less than 30 minutes. Switch out the chorizo for a mild sausage alternative if the kids aren't into hotter flavors. 

Chinese Five Spice Pork Chops

A sheet pan dinner with pork chops, roasted broccoli and fresh pineapple chunks
Aggie's Kitchen

Marinated pork chops are the star attraction in this sheet pan dinner; they're complemented by roasted broccoli and fresh pineapple chunks. The only tricky bit is getting prepped with the marinade the night before, but other than that, this recipe from Aggie's Kitchen couldn't be easier—dinner will be ready in 20 minutes.

Chicken Fajitas

Quick and easy sheet pan chicken fajitas
Boulder Locavore

Kids will love these tasty sheet pan chicken fajitas from Boulder Locavore! Just 20 minutes of cooking time, and dinner can go straight from the oven to the table. Just wrap it in tortillas, and you're good to go. 

Pizza from Scratch

A pizza made from scratch as a quick, easy sheet pan dinner
The View From Great Island

Don't be put off by the idea of making pizza from scratch—this one shapes up in an hour and will be worth the extra effort. The View From Great Island will get you going on this recipe, and then you can add your family's favorite toppings.

Parchment Paper Fish

Fish in parchment paper is cooked as a sheet pan dinner
Weelicious

This recipe from Weelicious calls for the ingredients to be cooked in a parchment paper envelope, so the pan doesn't even need washing! It can also be adapted for different tastes, as you can swap out the Asian flavors of ginger and sesame for basil and tomatoes or add different veggies or cooked grains—whatever the kids will eat. The contents of the bag will be gently steamed for an easy dinner. 

Related: 10 Easy Dinners You Can Make for Less than $15

Pesto Chicken and Vegetables

NeighborFood

Chicken sheet pan dinners come in so many forms, and this one from  NeighborFood can be in your oven in less than 15 minutes. Then, 45 minutes later, the dishes are done and dinner's ready. Bone-in, skin-on chicken thighs, and pesto are the secrets here. 

One Sheet Pan Shrimp and Vegetable Dinner

Shrimp and veggies made in a sheet pan for a quick, easy and cheap dinner
Weelicious

This shrimp and veggie sheet pan dinner from Weelicious is delicious and easy! Everyone will love it and kids will love to help make it. This recipe is great for getting everyone together in the kitchen. 

Sheet Pan Sausage with Cabbage and Apples

Sheet Pan Sausage with Cabbage and Apples on a cooking sheet ready to be served
Weelicious

This tasty sausage with cabbage and apples recipe from Weelicious is simple to make and easy to clean up. Your family will love to eat this and your kids can help make it!

Today’s generation of kids might be living in a world with AI, self-driving cars, and other things we used to only see on The Jetsons, but whether it’s learning to cook or managing a budget, there are a few essential life skills kids need to learn as they grow. “For years, researchers believed life skills, like empathy and creative thinking, were innate. Today, we know these skills can be taught and practiced,” says Stephanie Malia Krauss, author of Whole Child, Whole Life: 10 Ways to Help Kids, Live, Learn, and Thrive. Most life skills for kids can happen when their stage and situation encourage and enable it. We asked K-12 educators and child development experts to weigh in on when your crew can master life’s major skills. 

Life Skills for Kids Ages 0-2

Nobody expects a baby to balance a checkbook. But there are skills that the two and under set should know before they leave this stage.

Clean Up (Everybody Everywhere)

When a child is 18 months old, they want to copy their caregivers. If you sweep the floor, they want to sweep the floor. Aghogho Boccardi, 7-12 grade educator and founder of Hope Like a Mother, started her kids on chores by having them pick up after themselves at mealtimes. “After a meal, they get down from the table and pick all the large chunks of food from the floor.” She makes it a fun game, and afterward, they help Mom with the handheld vacuum. Notably, she only started this activity when the children showed interest in wanting to sweep.

Swim

“Starting at three months old, babies can begin to learn the skills needed to have confidence in the water, such as breath control and the baby back float. From there, children that continue lessons will add to their skillsets as they master new strokes and set new challenges,” says Chris DeJong, five-time U.S. National Champion swimmer, and Founder and President of Big Blue Swim School.

According to the CDC, drowning is the leading cause of death for children aged four and under. The sooner your mini can master this life-saving skill, the better.

Life Skills for Kids Ages 2-4

By 30 months, most minis can follow simple two-step directions. They can also hold something with one hand while using the other to twist and pull. These developmental milestones mean you can introduce your kiddo to a new set of life skills.

Dress Themselves 

This is the age when children want to put on and take off their own clothes. Getting up and out of the house takes three times as long, but let them do it. According to Krauss, this is when children start developing fine motor control. Learning to fasten buttons and put on their shoes gives them much-needed practice with skills they can take into learning to write.

Set the Table

We’re not saying you should give your assistant the fine china. But at this age, you can ask your child to put a fork and (plastic) cup next to each plate on the table. Bonus: you won’t have to guess if they wanted the blue or red cup. Meltdown avoided!

Memorize Your Name and Phone Number

If your preschooler can sing the lyrics to their favorite song, they can learn the seven digits of your phone number. Make it a game so they want to play along. Test your little ones at different times of the day so they’ll remember your number even if they are alone and upset. 

Related: All the Chores Kids Should Be Doing, Based on Their Age

Life Skills for Kids Ages 4-6

learning how to do laundry is a life skill for kids
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“Elementary school is a foundational time for children to learn essential social, relational, and learning skills that they will use for the rest of their lives. Through play and projects, kids use, adapt, and strengthen their communication, relationship, and conflict management skills,” says Krauss.

Make Lunch

5-year-olds can learn cooking skills through the ‘cooking kit’ method. “By kindergarten, many children will be able to do the tasks necessary to make their own lunch if they are laid out for them. For example, they could make a peanut butter and jelly sandwich if you put peanut butter, jelly, bread, a butter knife, and a plate out for them. They may not have the executive functioning skills to be fully responsible for making their own lunch, though, and will need a little more development to be able to plan what to pack, pick out the ingredients, and assemble the lunch,” says Letty Rising, K-12 Montessori educator at Montessori Laboratory.

Get Their Own Snack

Everybody wins when your kindergartener can self-serve that after-school munch. Buy adult-approved options. Separate them into single-serve portions. Then leave them in an accessible, designated place, such as a lower cabinet or a drawer in the fridge. 

Gather the Laundry

Teach your crew how to use the laundry basket. Realistically, four-year-olds will need you to point at the things that go in the laundry. Kids this age will not remember to empty their pockets. And if your kindergartener is also in charge of cleaning up their room, you will find strange things stuffed in the basket along with their socks. Wash with caution.

It’s definitely easier to do the laundry yourself in the short term. But children who start learning now will be well-equipped to wash their laundry in the middle-elementary years. 

 

Life Skills for Kids Ages 6-8

Until six, most of your kids’ cleaning is heavily supervised and play-based. Rising says, “By the time children reach 6 years of age, they can be responsible for sweeping the floors as part of their chores, and likely also parts of cleaning the bathrooms like wiping down the counter.” This means caregivers can now pass on old chestnuts, such as “You were old enough to make the mess, so you’re old enough to clean it.” Huzzah! 

Run the Washing Machine

According to Dr. Ryan Sultan, board-certified child psychiatrist and Research Professor at Columbia University, children can now learn how to operate a washing machine and fold clean laundry. They will still need periodic reminders on how much detergent to use and how to avoid turning everyone’s whites a light pink.

Operate a Microwave Alone

Microwaving a meal is a big deal for the elementary school set. And they can do so much more than warm up yesterday’s dinner or cook a box of mac and cheese. YouTube is full of recipes for microwave-friendly meals. Spend time watching the videos together for added parent and child time. Budding chefs will need to learn basic microwave safety–no metal in the microwave!—before you turn them loose. 

Tie Their Shoes

Six-year-olds have the fine motor skills necessary to learn to tie their shoes. But thanks to the magic of Velcro, compressed morning schedules, and schools that insist on slip-on shoes, children are learning this skill later. According to a 2019 survey commissioned by OSGO to coincide with National Feet Week, “3 in 10 children are still unable to tie their shoelaces on leaving primary school.”

The only way kids can master this skill is with a lot of practice. If there’s no time in the morning for them to lace up their shoes, set aside time later in the day. Some children don’t care to practice this skill. If you have a reluctant lacer, dispense small rewards to get them on board. 

 

Life Skills for Kids Ages 8-10

learning about money is a life skill for kids
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Your not-so-mini is one of the big kids now. With greater ability comes the opportunity for greater responsibility.

Budget Money

In his book The Opposite of Spoiled, Rob Lieber says that the main point of an allowance is to help “kids learn to save and spend money, a skill they don’t get to practice in many other ways as they grow up.” Learning to delay gratification has a whole host of benefits. According to Lieber, adults who practice self-control as children are more likely to save money and own homes. Lieber’s three-jar method to budget money for saving, spending, and charitable giving is a great place to start.

Many parents discover another upside. Children are much less eager to spend their own money. While minis as young as six can begin to budget, the mid-elementary set has a clearer grasp of time. They will be far more impressed when you say, “If you want that iPhone, you’ll need to save your allowance for six years.”

Practice Online Safety

In a 2019 study from Common Sense Media, 8-12-year-olds spend 31% of their total screen time gaming. And whether they play on a smartphone, a console, or a computer, they can bump into players they don’t know. “One of the first things children need to understand about chatting online is that they could be talking to anyone from anywhere,” advises Philip Wride, Parenting & Education Coach.

“It’s important they know not to share personal information like their name, address, or photos of themselves. The same is true if they play games online–the people they are playing with could potentially be any age. If someone asks for their name, address, or a photo, the child must understand it is a red flag activity and that they should tell an appropriate adult.”

If possible, children should play games and use the internet in a shared space where they can keep an ear and an eye on the activity.

 

Life Skills for Kids Ages 10-12

“By the end of elementary school, most children can engage in increasingly complex and abstract reasoning and decision making. Academic assignments and learning activities engage them as problem solvers and critical thinkers,” says Stephanie Malia Krauss.

But it’s important to refrain from allowing academic work or sports to crowd out the critical life skills tweens will carry with them into adulthood. If your crew’s time is limited, consider giving them one or two chores and rotating the assignment every week. 

Take Out the Trash

Taking the garbage outside isn’t brain surgery. But there are several limiting factors to consider. Is your child strong enough to carry the bag? Are they tall enough to hoist it into the bin? Does your municipality require you to sort your trash into different containers? If the kitchen garbage is too heavy, start your tween off with the recycling. 

If your family lives in an apartment with a communal dumpster, your child may need situational awareness to avoid cars in the parking lot. Take your junior janitor with you when you toss the trash and progressively hand over the job. 

Make Simple Meals on the Stove

Kids can be taught how to cook on the stove in early elementary school. A tween trained in basic kitchen safety can independently scramble eggs, cook pancakes from a mix, or make a grilled cheese. They will learn best working with you, but more mature tweens can also follow (video or written) recipes. You’ll want to be on hand in case that grilled cheese turns into a flambé

 

Life Skills for Kids Ages 12 and Up

learning how to fix a bike is a good life skill for kids
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12-year-olds are nowhere near old enough to live independently, but this is a great time to help them hone the skills they will take into adulthood.

Cook Family Dinner

This is when cooking practice can really pay off. Teach your tween how to make a complete dinner, then add them to the weekly cooking rotation. If you don’t have the mental energy or cooking know-how to teach this skill, consider using a service like Hello Fresh or Chef’s Plate. Each meal comes with ingredients and step-by-step instructions. Watching your kid cook while you recover from a long day at work is almost like taking a spa day. Even better, your future college student won’t have to survive on ramen packs for four years.

Balance a Checkbook

“Balancing a checkbook is a complex task that requires an understanding of basic math and financial concepts. Generally, it’s best to wait until children are in middle school before introducing them to this skill. This will help ensure they have the necessary foundational skills required to complete the task effectively. Additionally, provide guidance on how to safely and accurately manage finances, such as avoiding overdrafts and using online banking tools if available,” recommends Kalley Hartman, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist of Ocean Recovery.

Start your middle schooler off with small steps. First, show them how to keep a running total of their credits and expenses. Then show them how to reconcile their tally against the bank balance. You can use a service like Greenlight or Mydoh or act as the bank by collecting receipts and adding them to a paper ledger two days later.

Perform Basic Home Maintenance 

According to Dr. Sultan, most tweens and teens are old enough to learn to change a lightbulb, unclog a drain, and reset the circuit breaker. Parents in the know will tell you that getting your teenager to unclog the toilet themselves is a game changer. And a great way to get them to use less bathroom tissue.

Teaching your kids essential life skills might feel overwhelming, but you’re not in it alone. “Kids can learn life skills anytime, anywhere, and with anyone. Children constantly observe, learn, and practice these skills at home, school, in the community, and in whatever activities they engage in. Like reading, some children will master skills more slowly and others more quickly. What’s most important is providing them with instruction, opportunities to practice, and assistance when they need it,” says Krauss.

Related: 12 Essential Life Skills Kids Can Learn from Travel

 

If staying at home has you feeling like you’re climbing the walls, we suggest climbing a treehouse instead! We’re talking about treehouses you can rent, and if that doesn’t sound like a dream both parents and kids can get behind, we don’t know what does. Views, fresh air, and a perspective most people don’t have every day. Plus, isn’t it nice when the location where you’re staying is a big part of the vacation itself? It can be so much better than the usual white hotel room. Whether you’re a really rustic group or prefer more of a resort vibe, these rentals are ready to host your family’s next getaway.

Live out your Swiss Family Robinson dreams at one of these epic vacation rentals for families that will satisfy every kid’s wish to sleep in a treehouse. Kids will love waking up in the trees while parents can enjoy modern conveniences like real bathrooms (YES) and coffeemakers. You can enjoy feeling on top of the world (without missing out on all the comforts you’re used to). Scroll through to find the perfect off-grid adventure with these treehouses you can rent.

PACIFIC NORTHWEST

The Klickitat Treehouse—White Salmon, WA

Airbnb

This 500-square foot alpine modern treehouse is fully supported by three Douglas Fir trees. It sits 20 feet above the ground at its highest point and floor-to-ceiling windows and skylights offer breathtaking views of the surrounding forest, the valley and Mount Adams. Enjoy all the Columbia River Gorge has to offer and sleep in the canopy of the forest. The treehouse sleeps six but you can rent out the adjoining tiny house to sleep an additional two people. 

Sleeps: 6
Cost: $343/night
Online: airbnb.com

See our other top picks for best Airbnb rentals in Seattle

NORTHERN CALIFORNIA

Silicon Valley Treehouse—San Jose, CA

Airbnb

This treehouse in San Jose has the most gorgeous view of the Bay Area from the lofted beds. You'll have sycamore trees poking through your living space that includes a kitchenette with cooking stove and mini fridge. The treehouse has its own bathroom. Make sure you arrive in time to catch the gorgeous sunset over the valley. Head to our San Jose guide for things to do in the area with your family. 

Sleeps: 4
Cost: $308/night
Online: airbnb.com

See the rest of our top picks for Bay Area family-friendly Airbnb stays here

Aptos Treehouse with Ocean View—Aptos, CA

Airbnb

Can't you just feel the chill vibe from this Aptos treehouse rental? Close to New Brighton State Beach, this rental offers nearby hiking trails and beach days galore. Mid-Century furniture fills the rooms where you can curl up for a good read after a day outdoors. Heated floors, Smart TV and a gorgeous kitchen will make your visit that much more comfortable. Read our Santa Cruz guide for ideas on what to do in the area. 

Sleeps: 6
Cost: $455/night
Online: airbnb.com

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Peaceful Treehouse with Ocean View—Aptos, CA

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Give your family the experience of a lifetime once you climb into the boughs of this unique destination. Located next to Nisene Marks Redwood Forest State Park, just outside of the city of Santa Cruz.. Visitors can enjoy forest and ocean views from any of the 3 decks. This spot is best for families with older kids. 

Sleeps: 6
Cost: $448/night
Online:
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SOUTHERN CALIFORNIA

Idyllwild Treehouse—Idyllwild, CA

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Escape into nature in Idyllwild at this large 12-sided cabin that has a giant tree holding up its center! This stunning rental is situated in a quiet neighborhood that's just minutes away from the heart of town. There's an expansive back and front porch, perfect for reading, outdoor dining or doing yoga as well as a pond filled with fish and a large outdoor hot tub. There's also an entertainment system featuring all your favorite streaming services, and you can broadcast music from your phone throughout the house speakers. The natural decor throughout the home makes you feel like you're truly sleeping in the trees.

Good to know: Infant/Toddler beds, furnishings and protections are available upon request.

Sleeps: 8 guests
Cost: $351/night
Online: airbnb.com

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Treehouse with Farm Stay—Fillmore, CA

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Drive about an hour north of LA and you'll discover this secluded treehouse in an orchard of orange and avocado trees. It's located on a working farm, complete with chickens, goats, ducks and more—which makes it an ideal spot for a parent-kid getaway (only two guests are allowed). The recently built treehouse boasts a comfy queen bed, cute kitchenette and a full-size shower. Watch the sunset from the large deck, complete with a fire pit to satisfy your s'mores fix. After dark, you and your little one can enjoy some stargazing far from the city lights. 

Sleeps: 2 guests
Cost:
$214/night
Online:
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San Diego Golden Hill Treehouse—San Diego, CA

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This haven is touted as an "urban oasis" since it's located in the bustling Golden Hill neighborhood of San Diego. The "cozy eclectic Southern California version of a tree house is elevated between two mature 30 foot trees." Enjoy the soaker tub and unwind in the reading nook before strolling to some great nearby restaurants. The elevated vantage point from the bedroom offers 180° views that include downtown, the Coronado Strand and even parts of Mexico on a clear day. Cap off the day with a good selection of board games or by watching the smart TV.

Good to know: The host advises, the bathroom is on the floor below the bedroom, so night-time urges can be an inconvenient trip.

Sleeps: 4 guests
Cost: $171/night
Online: airbnb.com

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Treehouse Adventure near Disneyland—Brea, CA

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Looking for a magical spot to stay near Disneyland (when it reopens, of course)? This treehouse is just 11 miles from the theme park, in the historic neighborhood of of Brea. Tucked in a residential backyard, it's completely private and has almost all the comforts of home—think Direct TV, Wi-fi , AC and more. Don't want to take the ladder down? No problem. There's a slide that kids are sure to love. 

Good to know: The full-size private bathroom is located next to the treehouse.

Sleeps: 3 guests
Cost: $154/night
Online: airbnb.com

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Lifeguard Tower Treehouse—Arroyo Grande, CA

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Although not a treehouse exactly, this authentic lifeguard tower has been converted into a treehouse-style room that's sure to delight kiddos. Beneath the tower is a play fort, swings, relaxation pod and slides. But that's not all: There's also a trampoline that can be used with parents' supervision. While kids may not want to leave, you are just 10 minutes from the ocean and downtown Pismo Beach.  

Good to know: When you rent the Lifeguard Tower, you also get the Boathouse, a studio with a queen bed, full kitchen, full bath, and sleeper sofa.

Sleeps: 4
Cost: $164/night
Online: airbnb.com

SOUTHWEST

The Treehouse On Lake Travis—Lakeway, TX

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Enjoy this peaceful beautiful lake view on the south shore of Lake Travis. The "Treehouse of Lake Travis" is newly renovated and offers a beautiful kitchen and a cozy fireplace. There is a swimming pool, hot tub, BBQ area and the Marina is steps away. 

Sleeps: 4
Cost: $263/night
Online: airbnb.com

Treehouse on a Farm—Celeste, TX

Farmstay treehouse inside kitchen
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This property doubles down as it's both a treehouse and a farmstay. Sleep in the trees and walk through a fairy forest in the midst of the lavender fields. During your stay, have a picnic or wander the gardens and visit Simon the donkey and Henry the goat. Bring your gear and fish in our well-stocked pond. 

Sleeps: 7
Cost: $392/night
Online: airbnb.com

ROCKY MOUNTAINS

Treetop Houses at East Zion Resort—Orderville, UT

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If you want to sleep in the trees with the comfort of a resort, this is the spot for you. These brand-new treetop houses have stunning views in all directions and breathtaking sunsets every night. Each treetop house is designed with its own private bathroom, kitchenette, fire pit, gas grill and air conditioning. Cool off at the on-site pool. There are other treetop homes on the resort property are available to rent if you have a big group. 

Sleeps: 4
Cost: $201/night
Online: airbnb.com

Rocky Mountain Treehouse—Carbondale, CO

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How cozy would it be to spend the night in this treehouse high above Cattle Creek? Climb up the staircase and you'll find a full kitchen and wood-burning stove. Bring your coffee and hot cocoa out to one of the decks and watch the stars. You can even bring your pets! 

Sleeps: 6
Cost: $566/night
Online: airbnb.com

Raven's Nest Treehouse—Columbia Falls, MT

A treehouse in Montana is one of the best Airbnbs for kids in the United States
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The Raven's Nest treehouse is a modern A-frame treehouse nestled on 5 private acres. This artistically designed two-story treehouse has all the luxury amenities you'll need for your next family vacation. There's no shortage of activities as it is within 30 minutes of Glacier National Park and minutes from Whitefish Mountain Ski Resort. The grand entrance to the Raven's Nest is an iron staircase leading you up into the trees. There are two outdoor deck areas, a full bathroom on the main floor and the second floor bathroom with a large soaking tub. Kids will especially love how two living trees grow through the treehouse interior of the Raven's Nest. There's a second treehouse on the property if you want to make it a multi-family visit. 

Sleeps: 6
Cost: $268/night
Online: airbnb.com

MIDWEST

Chicago Treehouse—Schaumburg, IL

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Glamp the night away in this cedar treehouse which is outfitted with a fireplace, air conditioning, private deck, kitchenette (with sink, microwave, fridge and coffeemaker), Wi-Fi and hi-def cable TV with premium channels. The treehouse comes with a full-size bed and a twin sleeping loft with feather bed comforters. Bathroom accommodations (somewhat less glamorous, but remember, you’re glamping) include a private RV-type toilet and covered outdoor shower with lots of hot water.

Down below (you can climb down the ladder or take the fireman’s pole shortcut), you’ll find the hot tub situated nearby a waterfall and koi pond. Dine al fresco in the beautiful garden cooking on the gas grill and enjoy your meal on the fire table.

Sleeps:
Cost: $266/night
Online: airbnb.com

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Boulder Ridge Treehouse—Bayfield, WI

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Nestled in the heart of berry country surrounded by pine trees, Boulder Ridge Treehouse is a handcrafted retreat where you can savor a northwoods experience with the emphasis on "woods." Lake Superior driftwood has been fashioned into beautiful railing enclosing an upstairs double loft with a catwalk joining two sleeping areas. Kids will love meeting the resident border collie, Janie. 

Sleep: 4
Cost: $299/night
Online: airbnb.com

Treehouse Village - The Box—Dundee, OH

The Box is a shipping container with a modern design that is set amidst the trees. At the end of the living area, you'll find yourself surrounded by huge windows looking high into the treetops! 

Sleeps: 4
Cost: $182/night
Online: airbnb.com

SOUTH

Greenbrier Beechhouse—Greenbrier, TN

Greenbrier Beechhouse

Escape the city life and head to this luxury treehouse getaway just 30 minutes north of Music City! Nestled on 11 private acres, the stunning Greenbrier Beechhouse provides the perfect weekend oasis. A dreamy swing bridge and spacious deck connect the 1 bedroom main treehouse to the cozy 1B/1BA guest pod with a private deck & outdoor shower. Cozy up around the gas fireplace inside the main house on cool evenings or roast marshmallows or enjoy a drink outside at the gas fire pit in the middle of the shared deck dining table.

Sleeps: 6
Cost: $280/night and up
Online: greenbrierbeechhouse.com

The Magnolia in Treehouse Grove at Norton Creek—Gatlinburg, TN

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Here in nature’s canopy, you will enjoy a luxurious stay in a one-of-a-kind location. Large windows are carefully placed to take full advantage of the forest landscape, while an energy efficient climate control system ensures the heat or chill in the air never disturbs you. Step out onto a covered viewing deck that soars above the ground as a smell the scent of pine on a gust of wind. Many other homes are available at Treehouse Grove if you wish to make it a group vacation. 

Sleeps: 4
Cost: $223/night
Online: airbnb.com

Treehouse Escape—Mountain View, AR

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Atop the trees of the Ozark Forest sits this treehouse that's the perfect spot for families to enjoy a weekend away. A deck surrounds the entire top level so you can really be one with the trees. There's a grill and fire pit outside for you to enjoy in the evenings. 

Sleeps: 4
Cost: $175/night
Online: airbnb.com

Eagles Nest Treehouse—Stanton, KY

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The kids will love the fairytale vibe when they stay in their very own treehouse for the night. Recline in a rocking chair and watch the sun set over the trees or try your hand at some stargazing on the deck overlooking the forest while listening to the nightly sounds of the forest.

Sleeps: 4
Cost: $170/night
Online: airbnb.com

NORTHEAST

The Canopy Treehouse—Sanford, ME

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Enjoy your tiny home in the trees! Although only 350 square feet, this home has everything you need for a delightful stay. Cook dinner in a full kitchen with a refrigerator, stove, oven, microwave and coffeemaker. Both the loft and the attached sleeping pod are furnished with queen beds. Enjoy your deck with a grill and a view of the trout pond, and your private hottub. 

Sleeps: 4
Cost: $449/night
Online: airbnb.com

Luxurious Treehouse Near Bar Harbor—Hancock, ME

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Rekindle the joy of being a kid as you revel in luxury suitable for grownups. This treehouse is nestled among maple, spruce, cedar, pine and birch. Spacious at 900 square feet, this treehouse offers such comforts as a whirlpool, sauna, kitchen, fireplace, seasonal outdoor shower and plenty of deck space. Pets are welcome. 

Sleeps: 8
Cost: $388/night
Online: airbnb.com

Treehouse Farm Stay—Rehoboth, MA

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Your family will enjoy this rustic off-the-grid accommodation in the trees overlooking farm fields to the south and the forest to the north. Fresh breezes blow through the open windows in the warm weather and the wood stove keeps the space cozy and warm in the cooler seasons. The treehouse is located on a working sustainable farm: vegetables, dairy goats, livestock guardian dogs, cats, heritage hogs, poultry, horses, sheep and a water buffalo are on the property. 

Sleeps: 4
Cost: $145/night
Online: airbnb.com

Treehouse at Bliss Ridge Farm—Moretown, VT

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When it comes to treehouses you can rent, this one is at the tip-top of 'whimsical'. You won't soon forget this Dr. Seuss-inspired, luxury treehouse perched at the top of an 88-acre, organic hill farm, further surrounded by 1000s of acres of wilderness. Designed by DIY network host of The Treehouse Guys, this is an authentic treehouse built within and around living trees. Enjoy private hiking from your door, as well as panoramic views of Vermont's Worcester Mountain range, including Camel’s Hump and Mt. Mansfield. You are truly secluded, yet only a 15-min drive from the heart of the Mad River Valley and Waterbury.

Sleeps: 7
Cost: $450/night
Online: airbnb.com

Tree House at the Shire—Conway, NH

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This quaint, rustic, little cabin in the trees was designed for a true family get away. If the desire is to unplug and get back to basics, this retreat is for you. Rural yet 15-20 minute drive to North Conway, you can take advantage of the outdoor living, whatever your passion.

Sleeps: 3
Cost: $119/night
Online: airbnb.com

SOUTHEAST

Secluded Intown Treehouse—Atlanta, GA

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This property is Airbnb's #1 most wish-listed property in the world and is described as being the most relaxing, romantic, dreamy and unique place you'll ever stay. So this one is probably more of a date night getaway or maybe a special occasion overnight with an older kiddo. What could be better than falling asleep in the trees and waking up to birds singing around you—all within the city limits? Located near Northside Drive in Buckhead, visitors here will have easy access to the interstate, Buckhead and Midtown. 

Sleeps: 2
Cost:$389/night
Online: airbnb.com

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White Oak Treehouse—Asheville, NC

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Take in the rustic, fairy tale vibe of this custom-made treehouse in the midst of towering white oaks. Recline in a rocking chair and watch the sunset over the mountains, or try your hand at some stargazing from the comfort of the deluxe double bed. There's an addition treehouse on the property if you want to make it a multi-family stay.

Sleeps: 4
Cost: $394/night
Online: airbnb.com

Eagle's Nest Treehouse—Shenandoah, VA

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Thrill your inner child staying in a treehouse, but with all the luxury you expect as an adult! This rustic luxury treehouse is nestled away 17 feet high in the treetops. Kids will especially love the 4-person hot tub and the lower patio area with swinging play forts. 

Sleeps: 4
Cost: $255/night
Online: airbnb.com

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Dear Husband,
I. need. more. help.

Last night was hard for you. I asked you to watch the baby so I could go to bed early. The baby was crying. Wailing, really. I could hear him from upstairs, and my stomach knotted from the sound, wondering if I should come down there and relieve you or just shut the door so I could get some desperately needed sleep. I chose the latter.

You came into the room 20 minutes later, with the baby still frantically crying. You placed the baby in the bassinet and gently pushed it just a few inches closer to my side of the bed, a clear gesture that you were done watching him.

I wanted to scream at you. I wanted to launch an epic fight that very moment. I had been watching the baby and the toddler all damn day. I was going to be waking up with the baby to feed him all damn night. The least you can do is hold him for a couple of hours in the evening so I can attempt to sleep.

Just a few hours of precious sleep. Is that too much to ask?

I know we both watched our parents fulfill the typical mother-father roles growing up. Both our mothers were the primary caretakers and our fathers were relatively hands-off. They were excellent dads, but they weren’t expected to spend a significant amount of time changing diapers, feeding, caring, and tending to the kids. Our mothers were the superwomen who maintained the family dynamics. Cooking, cleaning, and raising the children. Any help from dad was welcome but unexpected.

I see us falling into these family dynamics more and more each day. My responsibility to feed the family, keep the house clean, and take care of the kids is assumed, even as I return to work. I blame myself for most of it, too. I have set the precedent that I can do it. And in truth, I want to. No offense, but I’m not sure I want to know what a week’s worth of dinner would look like with you in charge.

I also see my friends and other moms doing it all, and doing it well. I know you see it, too. If they can manage it, and if our mothers did it so well for us, why can’t I?

I don’t know.

Maybe our friends are playing the part in public and secretly struggling. Maybe our moms suffered in silence for years and now, 30 years later, they simply don’t remember how hard it really was. Or maybe, and this is something I berate myself over every single day, I’m just not as qualified for the job as everyone else. And as much as I cringe just thinking it, I’m going to say it: I need more help.

Part of me feels like a failure for even asking. I mean, you do help. You are an amazing father, and you do a great job with the kids. And besides, this should come easy to me, right? Motherly instincts, no?

But I’m human and running on five hours of sleep and tired as hell. I need you.

In the morning, I need you to get our toddler ready so I can care for the baby and make everyone’s lunches and drink a cup of coffee. And no, getting the toddler ready does not mean plopping him in front of the TV. It means making sure he goes potty, giving him some breakfast, seeing if he wants water, and packing his bag for school.

At night, I need an hour to decompress in bed, knowing our toddler is asleep in his room and the baby is in your care. I know it’s hard to listen to the baby cry. Believe me, I know. But if I can watch and pacify the baby for the majority of the day, you can do it for an hour or two at night. Please. I need you.

On weekends, I need more breaks. Times when I can get out of the house by myself and feel like an individual. Even if it’s just a walk around the block or a trip to the grocery store. And some days when I’ve scheduled swim class and play dates, and it seems like I’ve got it all under control, I need you to offer to lend me a hand. Or suggest I go lie down during the kids’ naptime. Or start putting away the dishes without me suggesting it. I need you.

Lastly, I need to hear you’re grateful for all I do. I want to know that you notice the laundry is done and a nice dinner has been prepared. I want to know you appreciate that I breastfeed at all hours and pump when I’m at work when it would be easier for me to formula feed. I hope you notice that I never ask you to stay home from your networking events and sports activities. As the mom, it’s assumed I’ll be home all the time and always available to care for the kids while you’re out and I feed that assumption by, well, being home all the time.

I know it’s not how our parents did it, and I hate even asking. I wish I could do it all and make it look effortless. And I wish I didn’t need kudos for doing things most people expect from a mom. But I’m waving a white flag and admitting I’m only human. I’m telling you how much I need you, and if I keep going at the pace I’ve been on, I will break. And that would hurt you, the kids, and our family.

Because, let’s face it: You need me, too.

This post originally appeared on And What a Mom!

Hi! I’m Celeste. I consider myself a relatively new mom with two boys ages 4 and 2. Other titles I go by include: wife, health & wellness coach, marketing guru, avid reader (self-help books are my favorite), writer, travel/adventure seeker and fitness nut.