There are all types of books for toddlers to introduce them to reading and spark their imagination

With growing attention spans and endless curiosity, toddlers are the perfect audience for read-aloud books. They’re ready for all the humor, rhyming text and interactive elements that picture books have to offer. We’ve divided both new titles and classics into categories that are of high interest to youngsters and their parents. So whether you’re looking for the perfect bedtime tale or a story about friendship or vehicles, you’ll find it here with our top 40 favorite books for toddlers.

Bedtime Books for Toddlers


Toddler Books Guess How Much I Love You

Guess How Much I Love You

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Little Nutbrown Hare and Big Nutbrown Hare compete to see how much they love each other in this classic bedtime story by Sam McBratney. Anita Jeram’s neutral-toned illustrations are the perfect calming visuals. Show your little ones how you love them to the moon and back each night.


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A Book of Sleep

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As night falls, owl is awake and ready to observe the sleeping habits of other animals, like pigeons that sleep with one eye open and penguins who huddle in a bunch. This quick read, written and illustrated by Il Sung Na, gives readers time to luxuriate in the swirling, patterned pictures.


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Llama Llama Red Pajama

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When Baby Llama has trouble falling asleep and Mama Llama doesn’t respond fast enough, all the drama ensues. Author/illustrator Anna Dewdney uses simple rhymes and charming illustrations to bring alive the pajama-clad character in a nighttime scenario parents will likely recognize.


Baby, Sleepy Baby

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With the help of natural elements like the clouds and the moon, family members sing their baby to sleep. It’s no wonder this bedtime story reads like a lullaby as author Atinuke based the text on a song her father used to sing. The illustrations by Angela Brooksbank are like a dream lulling your toddler to sleep.


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Good Night, Good Night

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In this longer version of the classic The Going to Bed Book, author and illustrator Sandra Boynton brings more bedtime shenanigans for toddlers to enjoy. It has all the animal characters and fun rhymes of the original board book, but now it’s bigger in size and includes a bonus song.


Go To Sleep In Your Own Bed

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Author Candace Fleming and illustrator Lori Nichols bring the childhood concept of not wanting to sleep in your own bed to the farmyard. Will the animals ever settle down in their own beds? With a refrain that matches the title, this is one parents can relate to and toddlers will enjoy chiming in on.

Books for Toddlers about Emotions


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The Color Monster

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Toddlers can explore and untangle common emotions—like sadness, anger and happiness—in a safe way with Anna Llenas' color monster. There’s a different color for each emotion with collage-style illustrations and a sweet surprise at the end.


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The Feelings Book

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The bright, childlike illustrations from author and illustrator Todd Parr express the many feelings and moods young children experience. With a silly and sympathetic approach to what can be a heavy topic, this book shows toddlers that all their emotions are okay.


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The Pout-Pout Fish

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A pouty fish spreads his gloomy mood all throughout the sea, and it seems no efforts to cheer him will work. It takes a big surprise to turn his frown upside down! Fun rhymes with repetitive verses by Deborah Diesen and colorful pictures by Dan Hanna add playful touches that will have young readers doing anything but pouting.


The Bad Seed

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Once a seed goes bad, can it ever be good again? Toddlers will laugh out loud as they explore the answer to this question told from the unique point of view of a “baaaaaaaaaad” sunflower seed. Author Jory John’s amusing take on acting out is enhanced by the humor in the illustrations by Pete Oswald.


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The Rabbit Listened

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When a young child’s amazing block creation gets knocked down, different animals try to make it better. None of them quite get it right until a rabbit comes along to be by the child’s side and listen. Cori Doerrfeld’s expert use of straightforward language and white space combine for a story that arms toddlers with a way to deal with disappointment.

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Humorous Books for Toddlers


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Don’t Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus!

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Breaking the fourth wall, a bus driver asks children readers not to let the pigeon drive the bus. Hilarity ensues as the pigeon’s pleading to drive the bus turns into a full-on tantrum! This Caldecott Medal winner by Mo Willems is the first of many pigeon stories that will delight young readers.


Dozens of Doughnuts

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LouAnn is a bear who wants to fill up with doughnuts before hibernating, but her friends keep dropping by until there are no more left. Author Carrie Finison’s rhyming text includes a fun refrain that gets interrupted by the “ding dong” of a doorbell, and toddlers will love chiming in on it. Brianne Farley’s doughnut illustrations will make readers’ mouths water.


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The Book With No Pictures

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This book doesn’t need pictures to have little ones and adults laughing out loud! Author and actor B.J. Novak—yes, the one from The Office—exploits the fact that all the words in the book have to be said aloud to get readers to say all kinds of silly words and phrases.


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Dinosaur Kisses

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Having just hatched, a little dinosaur explores the world. When Dinah sees a kiss, her attempts to try one go all wrong as she stomps, chomps and whomps her way into trouble. A silly read from author and illustrator David Ezra Stein with a main character to match!


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Soaked!

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It seems like it’s going to be a boring, rainy day for a grumpy bear. Add in a hula-hooping moose, a badger with an umbrella, and a sweater-clad rabbit, and it turns out being soaked maybe isn’t so bad. Author and illustrator Abi Cushman’s expressive characters bring so much personality to an already witty story.


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Don't Push The Button

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This interactive book makes it okay for toddlers to break the one rule of not pushing the button. When they do, hilarious things happen with Larry the purple monster! Encourage your child’s curiosity in this first in a series of rule-breaking books written and illustrated by Bill Cotter.

Books for Toddlers about Friendship


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Bear Came Along

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In this Caldecott Honor book by Richard T. Morris, Bear sets out on the river alone. As each new group of animals comes along, they learn an adventure is better with friends. The expressive illustrations by LeUyen Pham bring the story and the characters to life for little readers!


Little Elliot, Big City

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Little Elliot is an elephant who often feels small in the big city. When he helps an even smaller creature, they form a lasting friendship. This is the first in a series of books by author and illustrator Mike Curato that are sweetly nostalgic with relatable themes for toddlers and older readers alike.


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Penguin and Pinecone: A Friendship Story

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Penguin knows the pinecone he found in the snow belongs in the forest, but it’s hard to say goodbye to a new friend. The next time Penguin visits Pinecone, he sees how love can grow even when friends are apart. Author and illustrator Salina Yoon’s bright and straightforward illustrations will draw in young readers.


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When A Dragon Moves in

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A boy’s imagination and the perfect sandcastle bring a dragon friend to life. The illustrations by Howard McWilliam add to the mischief in this delightful story by Jodi Moore. It will keep toddlers laughing and guessing whether the dragon is real.


Toddler Books Stick and Stone

Stick and Stone

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When a pinecone pokes fun at Stone, Stick stands up for him and a friendship forms. Then it’s Stone’s turn to help when Stick gets in trouble. The sparse, rhyming text written by Beth Ferry is filled with a cleverness that is matched by the lively illustrations of Tom Lichtenheld.


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Bear Is A Bear

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Any child with a favorite stuffed animal or lovey will relate to the friendship between a girl and her bear in this tale by Jonathan Stutzman, illustrated by Dan Santat. Parents will also enjoy being along on the journey as the girl grows and her relationship changes with her stuffed animal.

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Classic Picture Books for Toddlers


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The Very Hungry Caterpillar

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The die-cut pages of Eric Carle’s wildly popular story about a hungry caterpillar create an interactive experience for toddlers. The illustrations are colorful, and the story is playful. As the caterpillar eats its way through the days of the week, it also finds a way into the hearts of readers.


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Corduroy

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When toy bear Corduroy notices he has lost a button, he goes on a nighttime adventure to find it in the department store he calls home. When morning comes and his button is still missing, it takes the love of a little girl to show Corduroy what home really is. This classic character from author and illustrator Don Freeman has been sparking the imagination of young readers for more than 50 years!


Toddler Books Where The Wild Things Are

Where the Wild Things Are

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Join in on the wild rumpus as misbehaving Max sets off on the journey of a lifetime to the island of the Wild Things. The distinct and detailed style created by author and illustrator Maurice Sendak earned him a Caldecott Medal. It’s a tale that has entertained generations of readers!


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Harold and the Purple Crayon

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In a celebration of the imagination, author and illustrator Crockett Johnson lets little Harold use his purple crayon to create this classic tale. Toddlers will see themselves in the character of pajama-wearing Harold and delight in the twists of what he draws with his purple crayon.


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Chicka Chicka Boom Boom

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Toddlers get a fun introduction to the alphabet as all the letters climb up the coconut tree. The chanting text by Bill Martin Jr. and John Archambault reads like a song, and the bold illustrations by Lois Ehlert add movement to the story.

Books about Vehicles for Toddlers


Little Blue Truck

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A spirited cast of animals accompanies Little Blue on a ride where they lend a helping hand to a dump truck that gets stuck in the mud. Alice Schertle’s rhyming text is filled with truck and animal sounds, and Jill McElmurry’s illustrations bring out the quirkiness of each character. This is the first in a series of adventures to take toddlers on a ride!


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Freight Train

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Young readers will experience the unique feeling of watching a freight train roll by as they turn the pages of this concept book about colors. Author and illustrator Donald Crews doesn’t need many words to create a sense of movement, and the bold Caldecott Honor illustrations will help toddlers learn their colors.


Love Is A Truck

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This quick read by Amy Novesky fits the attention spans of toddlers. The high-contrast reds against the greyscale illustrations by Sara Gillingham will be of high interest to any truck enthusiast. So many ways to love a truck and each other!


Toddler Books Good Night Good Night Construction Site

Goodnight, Goodnight, Construction Site

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Roll into bedtime as the tough trucks of the construction site settle down for bed. Toddlers will see that the trucks have a bedtime routine a lot like their own and that even cranes snuggle up with teddy bears. The rhyming text by Sherri Duskey Rinker and soothing sunsets of Tom Lichtenheld’s illustrations will lull little ones to sleep.


Race Car Dreams

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This tale about a tired race car will have your toddler shifting down for bed rather than racing around the house. With rhythmic stanzas by author Sharon Chriscoe and dreamy, nighttime scenes from illustrator Dave Mottram, it’s a great, relaxing read for energetic youngsters.


Toddler Books My Truck Is Stuck

My Truck Is Stuck

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Reinforce counting skills in a subtle, fun way when a truck gets stuck in a pothole. Sharp rhymes by Kevin Lewis include a refrain for toddlers to repeat during the reading. Illustrator Daniel Kirk includes a mystery of the truck’s disappearing load that will have youngsters wanting to take another look at the book.

Inspirational Books for Toddlers


Toddler Books The Wonderful Things You Will Be

The Wonderful Things You Will Be

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In this touching read-aloud book from Emily Winfield Martin, a parent muses on all the possible things their child could become. Toddlers will love looking at all the different babies and children, especially in the wordless gatefold that beautifully demonstrates the book’s message in picture form.


Toddler Books All Are Welcome

All Are Welcome

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Celebrate the diversity of a classroom in this tale by Alexandra Penfold, illustrated by Suzanne Kaufman in a bright palette of colors. The rhyming text with the refrain of “All are welcome here” is an inclusive introduction to school for any toddler about to start a more structured daycare or pre-k setting.


Toddler Books Outside In

Outside In

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The lyrical text by Deborah Underwood reminds readers of all the ways the outside world influences their lives, even when inside. The Caldecott Honor ink and watercolor illustrations by Cindy Derby invite readers into the beauty of nature in this thoughtful reminder of what awaits outside.


Love Makes A Family

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From a weekend tea party to a kiss at bedtime, this sweet ode to families of all types by author and illustrator Sophie Beer shows some of the ways they share their love. The vibrant illustrations are eye-catching and detailed enough for repeat reads.


The Day You Begin

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The award-winning team of author Jacqueline Woodson and illustrator Rafael López explore what it feels like to be different. The young characters discover that even though it can be hard, sharing your differences creates a space in the world for everyone.


Go Be Wonderful

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From her first cries to the first day of school, Daisy’s extended family celebrates all the ways she is wonderful. This encouraging read about unconditional love by Donna Gephart is complete with illustrations by Francesca Chessa that showcase the vibrant personality of the young main character.

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Boston is known for many things. Our great sports teams. Fantastic attractions that bring visitors from all over the world. And the city’s storied history (who else can claim a molasses flood or the largest art heist in the world?). So we thought it would be fun to gather up the city’s popular places, people and historically significant spots and turn them into a list of Boston baby names for a little fun and inspiration. Whether you’re expecting, or you just want to see how your kiddo’s name stacks up, these Boston-themed baby names are all the inspiration you need. Read on to find out just how “Boston” your kiddo really is.

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Abigail

A powerful woman in American history, Abigail Adams was one of the founders of the United States, bearing the designations of second First Lady and first Second Lady. She is well known for her numerous letters to her husband John Adams that are filled with complex, political discussions. 

Amelia

While the first woman to fly across the Atlantic originally hails from Kansas, Amelia Earhart moved to Medford, MA with her mother and sister following her mother's divorce. Amelia makes a powerful middle or first name that definitely stands the test of time. 

Beacon

Boston parents have a number of street names that work well as baby names, with Beacon topping the list. You could even go for Bea as a girl's name. 

Benjamin or Franklin

One of the founding fathers of the United States, Benjamin Franklin was born in Boston in 1706. A scientist and inventor, Franklin is most known for his discoveries relating to electricity. 

Brockton

A suburb of Boston, Brockton makes a strong first or middle name, with Brock as a nickname. 

Brookline

We love this name for a girl as it differs from the more popular Brooklyn. It pays homage to this neighborhood just a few T stops past Kenmore Square. 

Brady

This one's for you, Patriots fans. Quarterback Tom Brady has made the names Thomas and Brady popular among fans in recent years. We'll have to wait and see if his recent split from the team will change that trend.  

Bruin

Another for the sports fans out there, Bruin pays homage to the hometown hockey team and makes a good middle name (or dog name, for that matter). 

Cambridge/Cam

We love the name Cambridge for a girl with Cam as the nickname. This name conveys a brilliant sophistication of the college town that is home to Harvard, with a double meaning for sports fan, acknowledging Boston Bruins president Cam Neely. 

Celt

Boston is steeped in Irish history and this name (pronounced "Kelt") is the ultimate. Bonus: it doubles as a Boston Celtics reference. 

Charles

The Charles River is an 80-mile river that meets the Atlantic Ocean in Boston and Charles (or Charlie) are classic names we love. 

Chelsea

Named for a neighborhood in London, this working class city just north of Boston is bordered on three sides by water. 

 

Clara, Clarissa or Harlowe

Clara Barton (born Clarissa Harlowe Barton) was a pioneering American nurse who founded the American Red Cross and was born in North Oxford, MA. Barton is noteworthy for doing humanitarian work and civil rights advocacy at a time before women had the right to vote. 

Conan

Irish Catholic comedian Conan O'Brien hails from Brookline, MA where he attended school through high school, followed by nearby Harvard University. 

Copley

Copley Square, named for painter John Singleton Copley, is a public square in Boston's Back Bay neighborhood. This Boston baby name would be great for either a boy or a girl. 

Dorothea 

Name your child after 19th century activist Dorothea Dix who lived in Boston with her grandmother for much of her childhood. She drastically changed the medical field and championed causes for both the mentally ill and indigenous populations. 

Duncan/Dunkin

Only the most die hard fans would choose the more unique spelling of this name, which pays homage to the coffee company that got its start in 1950 in Quincy, MA. 

Fenway

While this name may be more popular for pups than children, Boston Red Sox fans are a dedicated bunch and have been known to give this Boston baby name as a middle name to their human children. Plus, naming your kid "Green Monster" is out of the question, right?

Isabella

Isabella Stewart Gardner was a long-standing American art collector, philanthropist and patron of the arts who founded the museum with her name in the early 1900s.

Jasmine

Parents raised in the '80s will know why this name is on our list. Anyone who watched the Cosby Show spinoff, A Different World, is hip to Boston-born actress Jasmine Guy, who played the part of Whitley Gilbert.

John, Jack or Kennedy

It's no surprise to see these popular names around Boston as the Kennedy family has a long history in Massachusetts.

Jordan 

This '80s-throwback name is popular for both boys and girls, especially for fans of the boy band New Kids on the Block that hails from Dorchester, MA. 

Logan

You don't have to be an aviation geek to name your offspring after Boston's seaside airport. 

Lois

Maybe you and the kids have seen the works of this respected artist gracing the walls of the Boston Museum of Fine Arts or at the National Center for Afro-American Artists (NCAAA) in Boston. Born in 1905, Lois Mailou Jones' successful career spanned continents and decades. 

Lucy (or Stone)

In 1847, Lucy Stone of West Brookfield, MA graduated from Oberlin and became the first Massachusetts woman to receive a college degree. She spoke out for women's rights and against slavery at a time when women were discouraged and prevented from public speaking. 

Mary (or Eliza)

It's no secret that there are tons of Catholic families raising kids in Boston, so this name may seem obvious to include. But we're giving it a second look as a way to honor the work of Mary Elize Mahoney, the first African-American nurse to work in our country's hospitals. She worked for 15 years, while she waited to be let into nursing school, and was only one of four students (out of 43) who actually graduated. 

Quincy

We love this name for either a boy or a girl and it has long-standing Massachusetts roots with Quincy, MA being known as the "birthplace of presidents." Both John Adams and his son John Quincy Adams were born there. When the town split from Braintree, it was named Quincy after Colonel John Quincy, maternal grandfather of Abigail Adams and after whom John Quincy Adams was also named

Revere

Prominent Boston silversmith Paul Revere is best known for his midnight ride to alert the colonial militia in April 1775 to the approach of British forces before the battles of Lexington and Concord. The town of Revere, MA was named after him in 1871. 

Skylar

Do you really know anything about Boston if you haven't seen Good Will Hunting? We think not. The name Skylar was made popular after Minnie Driver played a character with this name in the movie that was written by Cambridge, MA friends Matt Damon and Ben Affleck. 

Tremont

This prominent street in Boston takes you along the Boston Common, through Boston's Theater District and across the Massachusetts Turnpike (affectionately know as the "Mass Pike"). We love it as a boy's name. 

Trinity

Trinity Church is located in the Back Bay neighborhood of Boston and was founded in 1733. 

—Allison Sutcliffe & Kate Loweth

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LA may be one of America’s most visited cities, but for locals and those in-the-know who have already done the main attractions around LA, there are some pretty special, hidden gems sprinkled all over this city. These are just the sort of places and experiences that confirms why we love living here (and for rainy day suggestions, check out our LA guide to must-visit quirky museums). Certify your street cred. and see if you’ve ever been to these hidden gems in LA.

Victoria Beach Pirate Tower: Located in Laguna Beach, this ominous-looking 60-foot tower (originally used as an enclosed staircase for the homeowners to access the beach) was built in 1926. Just to the south of the tower is another long-forgotten structure—a circular pool. And while the pool, over time, has partially filled up with sand, water still collects inside when the tide is high enough for waves to crash in on it. 

To Access the Victoria Beach Pirate Tower: Only accessible during low tide, walk to the north end of Victoria Beach (public beach access is next to: 2713 Victoria Dr. where there is a long stairway that eventually takes you to the north end of the beach). Go past the rock outcropping at the base of the cliff, continue walking around the bluff, over the rocks and past another sandy beach section. You will reach the pool first (which sits in front of a modern staircase) and then you'll see the tower that stands north of the pool. 

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Flight Path Museum and Learning Center LAX

This museum hosts a great collection of airline artifacts, including a display of over 600 airline uniforms from 68 airlines around the world, and walks you through the history of LAX. Tours of the resident corporate DC-3, a 1940s airplane that was deregistered in 1951, are sometimes available. This is the only aviation museum situated at a major airport—with the added bonus is being able to watch the planes taxi, take-off and land at adjacent LAX. Free parking is available. 

Insider Tip: If your crew gets hungry but still wants to continue watching planes land at LAX, head over to The Proud Bird—just 6 minutes away by car. 

Hours: Open Sat., noon-4 p.m.
Cost: $5 for adults, $3 for kids

6661 W Imperial Hwy.
Los Angeles
Online: flightpathlax.com

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St. Vincent's Court: Originally serving as a delivery area for now-defunct department store, this little alleyway has been transformed over time into LA's very own little Europe—complete with picturesque cobblestone streets, colorful storefronts and must-dine Mediterranean and Middle-Eastern restaurants. 

To Access St. Vincent's Court: Located between Broadway and Hill St. in DTLA, this alley is accessible off of the north side of 7th St. 

Ballona Discovery Park

Described as a “Museum without walls,” Ballona Discovery Park encourages visitors to learn about the natural and cultural history of the Ballona Wetlands. This secret gem encourages kids to romp and explore the two-acre native garden and wildlife habitat replete with native plant demonstration gardens, including a pollinator and medicinal garden. There’s also an interpretive Watershed Walk that follows the movement of water through every habitat from the mountains to the ocean.

Cost: Free.
Hours: Open every day from dawn until dusk.

Ballona Discovery Park
13110 Bluff Creek Dr.
Playa Vista
Online: ballonafriends.org/ballona-discovery-park

San Vicente Mountain Park Nike Missile Site: Located west of the Skirball Cultural Center, this historical spot, according to MRCA, "Was one of sixteen Los Angeles area Nike-Ajax supersonic anti-aircraft missile launch sites. During the Cold War, Nike sites were located in defensive rings surrounding key urban and industrial areas throughout the United States. The original radar tower now provides visitors with spectacular views of the Santa Monica Mountains, the Encino Reservoir and San Fernando Valley, and the Los Angeles Basin. It is one of the region’s premiere locations to watch a Western sunset." The area is now home to mountain biking, trails, equestrian trails and picnic areas.

To Access the Nike Missile Site Lookout Tower: Located at 17500 Mulholland Dr., Encino, head west along Mulholland Dr. The road curves north to merge into Encino Hills Dr., and eventually, you'll see a sign for Encino Hills Dr. pointing to the right—this is where you want to take a left, and Mulholland Drive turns into an unmarked dirt road. In a couple hundred feet, a yellow gate welcomes you to the base of the park. You can keep driving to the tower if the next gate is open otherwise, you can hike the well-marked path—it's under 1-mile to the lookout tower.

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BAPS Shri Swaminarayan Mandir: This free-to-visit Mandir (a Hindu place of worship) is the fifth traditional Hindu Mandir located in North America. Located an hour outside DTLA, this SoCal architectural gem's exterior is made from pink sandstone imported from India while the interior is covered in marble from Italy.

The lower floor of the Mandir is home to an interactive exhibition on the history, culture and wisdom of Hinduism. Visitors can learn about the origin, beliefs, and values of Hinduism, and how this ancient religion is thriving today throughout the world. Inside the Mandir, you'll see intricate carvings across the walls, ceiling, columns and displays of murtis. There's open space for people to pray and worship on the floor. The gift shop has a variety of food (make sure to get the samosas!), snack, teas, incense and souvenirs. 

Good to Know: As this is a place a worship, please follow and respect signs and fellow guests. Be prepared to take off your shoes as you enter the Mandir, and please cover your shoulders and knees per the website's guidelines.

15100 Fairfield Ranch Road,
Chino Hills
Online: baps.org

Japanese Garden at the Donald C. Tillman Water Reclamation Plant

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Currently free to visit, "Suiho En" (the garden of water and fragrance) is a quiet and peaceful 6 1/2 acre garden featuring three gardens in one: a dry Zen meditation garden, a “wet-strolling” garden, and a tea garden all of which are irrigated entirely by wastewater. 

Good to Know: While the garden alone is worth the visit, once life returns to normal, come back and make reservations for tea service at the Shoin Building—an authentic 4 1/2 tatami-mat teahouse adjacent to the tea garden. 

Hours: Mon.-Thurs., 10 a.m-3:30 p.m. Advanced reservations required and can be booked up to 10 days in advance.
Cost: Free

6100 Woodley Ave.
Van Nuys
Online: thejapanesegarden.com

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The pandemic has wreaked havoc on a number of areas of our lives, and even our shopping habits have been impacted. No doubt you’ve heard of the dreaded “supply chain issues,” as you’ve tried to pick up something as basic as a pair black leggings for your kiddo, only to find the displays empty.

While many big box stores have struggled to get seasonally-relevant inventory in stock, it turns out the place to be is actually discount stores. Supply chain issues do not impact these types of shopping models as negatively and here’s why: big-brand stores are continuing to sell off extra inventory to these stores that is out of season while still battling shipping delays that are keeping their own shelves empty.

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The Wall Street Journal is reporting that late-arriving clothing and other merchandise is flying off discount store shelves, while stores like Gap and Express try to figure out what to do with the merchandise that is still sitting stranded on cargo ships.

Discount stores are making the best of this situation and it shows. Ross Chief Executive Barbara Rentler explained during the company’s March 1 earnings call that it has been “able to capitalize on the volatility in the supply chain. We see more potential opportunities in front of us from closeouts.”

It’s not just the sitting cargo ships that are presenting a problem for retailers. Gap Inc. has reported that factory shutdowns in Vietnam created an eight to 10-week delay, while Express has decided to hold $12 million worth of inventory from the fall to sell at outlets because it didn’t arrive in time last year, per the WSJ.

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Rather than wait for your fave department store to stock up, discount stores have a solution. CEO of Burlington Michael O’Sullivan says that there are “some really terrific buying opportunities” that include great seasonal fall product coming later this year.

There is good news on the horizon: retailer stockpiles are growing which hopefully means no more empty displays and access to basics. In the meantime, hitting up your local T.J. Maxx might be the best way to snag some screaming deals, because who cares if that blouse you love is “last season?”

 

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Celebrate Black History, Atlanta families, when you explore the city’s Civil Rights sites, landmarks, and museums

In Atlanta, we walk in the footsteps of Civil Rights leaders during Black History Month and every month. No matter what month it is, take the opportunity to honor and acknowledge Black contributions by taking a closer look at some of Atlanta’s (and our nation’s) most important historical sites—many of which we probably pass in carpool every day. Brush up on Black history with a Black history tour or history lesson, and see our city through entirely new eyes.

Black History Museums in Atlanta

Visit the Apex Museum

The Atlanta Black History Museum in the Sweet Auburn Historic District is packed with knowledge of the Black experience from Africa to America. While the museum focuses a great deal on slavery, it also takes a deep dive into African culture, Black inventors, and Black leaders. Exhibits span from “Africa the Untold Story,” where visitors can learn about the African continent over the past 6,000 years, to “Sweet Auburn Street Pride,” which helps visitors experience a more localized history of Black life in Atlanta.

135 Auburn Ave. N.E.
Atlanta
Online: apexmuseum.org

Visit the MLK National Historical Park

What do you know about the Civil Rights Movement? Learn something new about the people from the past—famous and not-so-famous—who played a part in the movement. The Visitor Center, Historic Ebenezer Baptist Church, and Freedom Hall are open from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Tuesday-Friday. The Birth Home is open for limited ranger-led tours. Fire Station No. 6 is staffed by park volunteers and is open when volunteers are available. All sites are free to the public.

450 Auburn Ave. N.E.
Atlanta
Online: nps.gov

 

Spend a Day in the Sweet Auburn Historic District

During the 1920s, Auburn Avenue became the commercial center of Black Atlanta. The phrase "Sweet Auburn" was coined by businessman and civil rights activist John Wesley Dobbs, the Unofficial Mayor of Sweet Auburn, and the maternal grandfather of Atlanta's first Black mayor, Maynard Jackson. Today, the avenue is home to the Sweet Auburn Springfest, the Caribbean Festival & Parade, and the Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Day Parade. Here's the best way to spend a day in the Sweet Auburn Historic District: on a regular day, you'll find historical sites on every corner, small and large museums, and plenty of good places to grab lunch.

Online: sweetauburnworks.com

Visit The King Center

Begin your tour of the Martin Luther King Jr. Center by following the Civil Rights Walk of Fame, past the statue of Mahatma Gandhi, and proceed to the Martin Luther King, Jr. National Historic Site Visitor Center, where you can reserve a ticket for Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.'s birth home. Proceed east on Auburn to enter the King Center’s outdoor campus where you can view the crypt of Dr. and Mrs. King, the Eternal Flame, the Freedom Walkway, and the Reflecting Pool. Walk eastward along the pool to Freedom Hall, where you can learn more about Dr. King, Mrs. King, and The King Center through immersive exhibits.

449 Auburn Ave. N.E.
Atlanta
Online: thekingcenter.org

Visit The National Center for Civil & Human Rights

The National Center for Civil and Human Rights believes in justice and dignity for all, and the power of people to make this idea real. They inspire visitors with immersive exhibitions, dynamic events and conversations, and engagement and education/training programs. Be sure to download their “Across Generations” intergenerational conversation starter for you to use on your visit. 

100 Ivan Allen Jr. Blvd. N.W.
Atlanta
Online: civilandhumanrights.org

Morehouse College, MLK's Alma Mater

Morehouse College, founded in 1867, is a historically Black, private liberal arts college for men. One of the college’s most distinguished alumni is Martin Luther King, Jr., who graduated in 1948. Inside The Martin Luther King, Jr. International Chapel you'll find a Hall of Honor, with 158 oil portraits of world leaders in the civil and human rights movement, and a bust of Mahatma Gandhi. Outside, you'll find a bronze statue of Dr. King, and the burial crypt and towering obelisk for Dr. Howard Washington Thurman.

830 Westview Dr. N.W.
Atlanta
Online: morehouse.edu

Student Movement Marker

At the former site of Yates & Milton Drug Store, which is now the Student Center on the campus of Clark Atlanta University, you can find a Georgia Historical Society marker that tells the story of the Atlanta Student Movement, which began when three Morehouse College students—Lonnie King, Joseph Pierce, and Julian Bond—formed the Committee on the Appeal for Human Rights and involved all the historically Black institutions of the Atlanta University Center (AUC). AUC students conducted sit-ins at segregated lunch counters throughout Atlanta, movie theaters, parks, and the Georgia State Capitol. When the students targeted the Magnolia Room at Rich's Department Store in downtown Atlanta, Martin Luther King, Jr. and his brother A.D. King joined them and were arrested with 77 student demonstrators. Protests continued over the next year until desegregation was achieved.

Corner of James P. Brawley Dr. SW & Atlanta Student Movement Blvd.
Atlanta

greg keelen via unsplash

Rep. John Lewis Mural

This 70-foot mural of the late Rep. John Lewis is located on the east side of the current Renaissance Walk building. Lewis was a politician and civil rights leader who served as the U.S. Representative for Georgia's 5th congressional district. Located in an area downtown with much historical significance, you'll be walking in Lewis' footsteps if you go to pay this mural a visit. The Butler Street YMCA building, where civil rights leaders met in the 1960s, is directly south of this mural, and dozens of historical churches and businesses surround it in the Sweet Auburn Historic District. 

219 Auburn Ave. N.E.
Atlanta

Atlanta History Center

The exhibit Black Citizenship in the Age of Jim Crow at the Atlanta History Center explores the Black struggle for full citizenship and racial equality that unfolded in the 50 years following the Civil War. It was created by the New York Historical Society in collaboration with the National Museum of African American History and Culture, and has a particular focus on local stories and artifacts. After checking out this virtual exhibit, pay a visit to the Smith Family Farm on the grounds of the Atlanta History Center, then to the Swan House to imagine these historic sites through the eyes of Black people during the time of their full operation.

130 W. Paces Ferry Rd. N.W.
Atlanta
Online: atlantahistorycenter.com

Ebenezer Baptist Church

Each Sunday, visitors from around the globe join church members at the historic church where Dr. Martin Luther King served as Pastor—in person at Ebenezer or via Ebenezer Everywhere—to experience Ebenezer’s history. The doors are open to all, and in addition to visiting the original church, you should be sure to check out the Visitor's Center, the nearby King Center, Birth Home, World Peace Rose Garden, and Behold Monument.

407 Auburn Ave. N.W.
Atlanta
Online: ebenezeratl.org

Atlanta Black History Tours

African American Burial Grounds Tour at Oakland Cemetery

Throughout February, Historic Oakland Foundation hosts guided walking tours of Oakland Cemetery’s historic African American Burial Grounds, with stops at the final resting places of a few Atlanta pioneers, including Carrie Steele Logan, founder of Atlanta’s first orphanage for African American children; William Finch, one of Atlanta’s first African American city councilmen; Bishop Wesley John Gaines and Julia A. Gaines, pastor and First Lady of Big Bethel A.M.E. Church; and Maynard Jackson, Atlanta’s first African American mayor.

248 Oakland Ave. S.E.
Atlanta
Online: oaklandcemetery.com

Civil Bikes

Civil Bikes brings a fresh perspective to Civil Rights. Explore Atlanta's history and human rights issues on a guided bike tour that takes you to places that make Atlanta unique. Check out an upcoming schedule of Atlanta walking and bike tours of greater Atlanta, Georgia's storied Sweet Auburn, and historic West End neighborhoods. All tours are family-friendly and can accommodate any level of cyclists (or walkers!). Once you register for your Civil Bikes walking or bike tour, you will receive an email with details on where and when to meet, where to park, what to bring, and more.

Online: civilbikes.com

Atlanta Black History Tour

The Atlanta Black History Tour follows the trail of Atlanta’s Black history while illuminating black life and achievement in the city from pre-Civil War to the present day. Unlike bike or walking tours, the Atlanta Black History Tour allows you to relax in a comfortable motorcoach as you tour the historical landmarks of Atlanta. The tour showcases Atlanta’s Black neighborhoods and highlights the homes of its leading citizens.

Online: atlblackhistorytour.com

Worth the Drive

You'll find over 20 significant Black historical sites in Athens, including Morton Theatre, Gospel Pilgrim Cemetery, and First African Methodist Episcopal Church—all ideal for a self-guided day of tours.

In Savannah, you'll find The Ralph Mark Gilbert Civil Rights Museum, which chronicles the civil rights struggle of Georgia's oldest Black community from slavery to the present.

Head to coastal Sapelo Island to experience African-influenced Gullah-Geechee culture. It's open for tours throughout the year.

RetailMeNot has created a list of companies that have announced their reopening plans and schedules. You will need to check with your local store for updated hours and the latest information as policies might vary by location. Each retailer will be following safety procedures pursuant to local guidelines. 

Shopping Mall

Abercrombie & Fitch

The retailer has started to reopen select stores based on state and local regulations, including locations in Atlanta, Boise and Dallas, and will continue to open on a rolling basis. Upon reopening, staff will follow safety and health procedures, including the use of personal protective equipment, social distancing, contactless payment options and more.

 

American Eagle

American Eagle has reopened 43 stores and plans to open another 600 by the end of May. As stores reopen, the retailer will implement a host of new health and safety measures, including offering masks and hand sanitizer to all customers, curbside pickup, a touchless return process, temperature screening and more. Although the retailer will still allow customers to try on items in fitting rooms, each room will be sanitized after. Any garments not purchased will be quarantined in a box for 24 hours.

 

Apple

Apple closed all locations outside of China during the coronavirus pandemic, but the company now has plans to reopen in certain U.S. locations after reopening in Austria, Australia and South Korea. Apple will begin by reopening with five stores in Alabama, Alaska, Idaho and South Carolina.

The tech retailer is still encouraging customers to purchase items online when possible, and will focus on providing customer service and support through the Genius Bar at open locations.

 

Bed Bath & Beyond

The company plans to reopen approximately 20 retail locations, including its Christmas Tree Shops brand, by May 22, subject to state and local guidelines. buybuy BABY and Harmon stores have remained open during the pandemic to provide essential goods.

 

Belk

As of May 1, the department store has reopened stores in South Carolina, Georgia, Tennessee, Arkansas and Oklahoma. Stores will begin by opening with limited hours from noon to 6 p.m., limiting the number of people in store to ensure social distancing standards and offering curbside pickup.

 

Best Buy

Starting in early May, Best Buy began opening 200 stores on an appointment-only basis. Appointments can be made online or by phone and will include a detailed check-in process before each appointment where a sales associate walks through safety guidelines for customers.

 

Chico’s

Starting May 4, Chico’s began the rollout of three phases of reopening. First, the fulfillment of national orders through store inventories; second, buy-online-pick up in store (BOPIS) including contactless curbside pickup; and third, the introduction of a new shop-by-appointment service for all brands, including Chico’s, White House Black Market and Soma.

 

David’s Bridal

The bridal shop began reopening some stores at the end of April by appointment only and expects to have all stores open for appointments beginning in June. In addition, customers can book a virtual appointment to meet one-on-one with an expert stylist.

 

Dick’s Sporting Goods

The sporting retailer has reopened almost all of their 850 U.S. retail locations with nearly half open for in-store shopping and the others open for contactless pickup. The company has implemented various safety measures, including new social distancing protocols, sanitizing carts and baskets, requiring teammates to wear face coverings and more.

 

Dillard’s

Starting May 5, the company will reopen 55 locations in 11 states, including Utah, Texas, Arkansas, Colorado and Florida. The company will monitor government guidelines to open all stores “as soon as possible.”

 

Express

The clothing retailer has reopened select stores in Georgia and South Carolina with plans to open all 300 stores by Memorial Day, May 25, based on local regulations and mall guidelines. Stores will implement social distancing, provide contact-free customer service and payment options, limiting store capacity and other safety features.

 

GameStop

As of April 21, GameStop reopened stores in Georgia and South Carolina with the “potential to reopen” locations in other states and countries in the coming weeks.

 

Gap

The retailer has reopened a small number of stores in Texas and plans to reopen the rest of its 800 locations—including Old Navy, Athleta, Gap, Banana Republic, Janie and Jack and Intermix stores—in the U.S. by the end of May. Stores will have reduced hours, a limited number of customers allowed in stores, and team members will be supplied with reusable face masks to wear during their shifts.

 

Hobby Lobby

The crafting retailer has begun to open some stores in states where it is deemed an essential business. There is no plan yet for further reopenings.

 

Kohl’s

Kohl’s has reopened stores in 14 states as of May 11 and plans to continue reopening based on state and local guidelines. The company will implement new health and safety best practices, including limiting store hours, social distancing measures, a new returns process and others.

 

Macy’s

The department store began reopening stores in early May, including locations in Georgia, Tennessee, South Carolina, Oklahoma, Texas, Colorado and Utah, and plans to reopen all stores by mid-June. New safety practices include increased air ventilation in all stores, social distancing practices, gloves and masks required for staff and suspended services that require close contact.

 

Nordstrom

The retailer has opened select locations in Texas and Nordstrom Rack stores in Oklahoma, South Carolina, Tennessee and Texas with updated safety measures.

 

Saks Fifth Avenue

The company has reopened a select number of stores, including locations in Atlanta and Palm Beach, and plans to offer Curbside Pickup and Returns at select locations. New cleaning and safety measures include mandatory face coverings and daily health checks for associates, reduced occupancy, and additional safety measures for dressing rooms and beauty areas.

 

Simon Malls

The largest mall chain in the U.S. began reopening locations in select states, including South Carolina and Georgia, at the beginning of May. The company will provide free CDC-approved masks and hand sanitizer to shoppers who ask for them and make temperature testing free and available using infrared thermometers.

 

Stein Mart

The company has begun to reopen stores with new safety protocols, including closing fitting rooms and allowing customers to try on at home and make returns, requesting shoppers wear face masks, social distancing measures and contactless checkout.

 

Ulta

As of May 11, the beauty retailer opened 180 stores in Texas, Arkansas, Oklahoma and several other states. Testers will no longer be available, and the company is also implementing mandatory face coverings for all associates, hand sanitizer available for use and limited occupancy.

 

Urban Outfitters

As of May 12, the retailer and owner of Anthropologie, Terrain and Free People brands, has reopened select stores in 19 states, including Texas, Florida, Colorado and Rhode Island. In-store safety precautions include cashless checkout, reduced hours, mandatory masks for employees and contactless pickup at select stores.

 

Williams Sonoma

As states begin to reopen, Williams Sonoma is also opening select locations. The retailer will implement a host of safety measures, including encouraging customers to wear a face mask and requiring it in certain locations, limiting the number of people in store, daily wellness checks for associates and more. Call your local store to confirm hours and safety procedures.

—Jennifer Swartvagher

Featured photo: Marcin Kempa on Unsplash

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Few places are as magical as NYC during the holidays. (Have you seen all those lights?) Sure, we may be a little biased, but all it takes is one visit this time of year to convert any doubters. If you’re visiting and want to make the most of the magic, or if you’re local and want to cross things off your Holidays in NYC bucket list, here’s one of the first things you should do: check out the Christmas windows in NYC. From Macy’s to Bloomingdale’s and everything in between, we’ve rounded up the best decorated windows in the city. Make sure your phone is Insta-ready and brace yourself for some (festive) crowds. It’s totally worth it.

Macy's Herald Square

Mimi O'Connor

Let’s start with the O.G. of Christmas windows. This year, Macy’s theme is Believe in the Wonder. Go on a journey with “Santa Girl” as she discovers the spirit of Santa lives within our hearts. Spectators can expect to see some chrome, LED lights, and 3D objects blending together to tell the story, creating a spectacular sight befitting Macy’s storied holiday window legacy.

Macy’s Herald Square
151 W 34th St.
Herald Square
212-695-4400
online: macys.com

The Windows at Sak's Fifth Ave

Jeff Kern via flickr

Sak’s gets a special mention because its display is two-fold. A huge light show plays across the store’s impressive facade every 10 minutes thanks to LED lights and 3D projectors. And if that wasn’t enough, they also have themed holiday windows, too. The holiday windows this year are celebrating the cinematic release of Frozen 2, and are guaranteed to bring visitors to Arendelle like never before. Plus, they also have exclusive Frozen 2 merch and an Enchanted Forest Immersive Experience happening inside the store.

Sak's Fifth Ave.
611 Fifth Ave
Midtown
212-753-4000
online: saksfifthavenue.com

Bloomingdale’s

Joe Schildhorn BFA.com

The windows at Bloomingdale’s this year are just stellar… literally. The Out of This World theme honors the 50th anniversary of the moon landing. The windows will feature holographic shopping bags, gift boxes, a special catalogue—and even zero gravity. Outer space has never looked so glamorous. 

Bloomingdale’s
59th Street and Lexington Avenue
Midtown
212-705-2000
online: bloomingdales.com

Bergdorf Goodman

Kevin Harber via Flickr

Head over to Bergdorf’s for some Good Times. That’s actually the theme of the store's 2019 holiday windows. You can expect the luxury department store to go all out while telling the story, as usual. And let’s be honest: who doesn’t want to have good times this holiday season?

Bergdorf Goodman
754 5th Ave.
Midtown
800-558-1855
online: bergdorfgoodman.com

Tiffany & Co.

Tiffany & Co. via IG

“Tiffany blue” will feature prominently in the jeweler's holiday windows this year. The stunning display will of course include some of their best and brightest jewelry. You know, in case you need some ideas for your gift lists.

Tiffany & Co.
727 5th Ave.
Midtown
212-755-8000
online: tiffany.com

Chelsea Markets

Alyssa L. via Yelp

A little off the typical windows beaten path, and not exactly a window display, Chelsea Markets gets an honorable mention for their wonderland of holiday lights. The entire market is transformed into an illuminated wintry wonderland, thanks to a bright canopy of twinkling lights. 

Chelsea Markets
75 9th Ave.
Chelsea 
212-652-2111
online: chelseamarket.com

Luminaries at Brookfield Place

Courtesy of Brookfield Place

Also on the honorable mention list: Luminaries at Brookfield Place. This light show features colorful lighted lanterns on display up above. Visitors can also make a digital "wish" and watch it come to life in the lanterns!

Brookfield Place
230 Vesey St.
Battery Park City 
online: artsbrookfield.com

— Jesseca Stenson

featured image: Troy Tolley via flickr

 

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The world’s first candy department store is opening in New Jersey and get ready for a major sugar rush.

IT’SUGAR, the first department store dedicated entirely to candy, will have it’s home in the American Dream Mall in New Jersey, which is set to open this October. IT’SUGAR already has more than 100 locations across the country, but with three levels and 22,000 square feet this will be the largest location by far, leaving you feeling as if you’ve walked into Willy Wonka’s factory.

According to ChainStoreAge, IT’SUGAR will feature every candy you love plus so many more you’ve never even heard of. With that much space, over 10,000 choices of every variety from chocolates and truffles to gummies and lollipops will line the store shelves. Greeting guests at the front door will be a massive 60-foot-tall Statue of Liberty made entirely of candy.

“This concept has been a dream of mine for over 25 years and our IT’SUGAR team is thrilled to partner with American Dream to finally make it a reality,” said Jeff Rubin, founder and CEO, IT’SUGAR. “There is nowhere else like American Dream and we look forward to immersing the property’s millions of guests into the world of IT’SUGAR.”

No word yet on when the candy department store will officially open, but it will be located next to the DreamWorks Water Park entrance and near Nickelodeon Universe Theme Park and the property’s NHL-size ice rink.

—Shahrzad Warkentin

Featured photo: IT’SUGAR via Instagram

 

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Every family has its non-negotiables—until life forces you to renegotiate.

Growing up, Christmas traditions held a weight like no other. In particular, visiting the Dayton’s department store Christmas display in downtown Minneapolis was a given. Nothing—not even living across the county in California—could stand in the way of this childhood staple.

From infancy into adulthood, I looked forward to Dec. 26, when we would meander our way through a life-size version of our favorite fairytales, from Beauty and the Beast and Peter Pan to Puss in Boots and Pinocchio. Most people enjoyed the show on their way to see Santa. We came for the display itself—and of course couldn’t resist the after-Christmas sales. Our reward for waiting patiently in line was a gigantic sugar cookie (caked with frosting!) and an ornament to match that year’s theme.

When I became a mom a few years ago, I was eager to share the magic of these living storybooks with my own kids. I could picture their little faces lighting up in awe and wonder at all the colorful characters and dazzling sets. I eagerly anticipated sharing a sugar cookie as I helped my kids pick out an ornament each to hang on our tree.

As I had done for 30 years on the day after Christmas, we dashed through the chilly parking garage, over the sky bridge, up a gazillion escalators, and around the bend to discover…wait a minute. The doors were closed! Apparently, when Santa returned to the North Pole on Christmas Eve, they shut the display down as well instead of staying open through New Year’s as before. In 2016 the store closed for good.

When traditions like this threaten to die off, it’s a shock to the system. Thankfully, as parents, we knew all too well how to think on our feet and used those closed doors as a lesson in resilience and adaptability. We had to reimagine our non-negotiable. That meant we shopped for our annual ornaments at the Mall of America instead. Admittedly less charming, but still pretty awesome.

This year brought another major shock wave when my husband, kids, mom and I opted for a warm-weather trip to Florida instead of our traditional gathering with extended family. The Midwest had been my Christmas home for 32 years, so this decision meant the bittersweet end of an era.

I was tired of being tied to traditions (even though I loved them!) just because that’s how things had always been done.

It was always Minnesota and Wisconsin. Always Dad’s side and then Mom’s side. Always fighting off sub-zero temperatures to play in the snow. Always card games and board games late into the night. Always elaborate dinners served on china and elegant platters of peanut butter blossoms for dessert. Always plenty of summer sausage and wild rice to nosh on while cheering on the Packers or Vikings. Always me making excuses not to eat the herring.

And always nice, long chats with the aunts about life, love and the Lord. Our lives would collide for a few days together after months and miles apart. We would catch up on what life was currently throwing our way and mourn the losses of the year. We would marvel at what God has accomplished in us and through us over the last 12 months. We would share our hopes and dreams for the year ahead and anticipate whatever new phase of life the New Year would bring.

And each new year has, indeed, thrown some major life changes our way. In the last decade, my family has seen college graduations, new jobs, cross-country moves, engagements, weddings, new houses, pregnancies, new babies, cancer diagnoses, divorce, memory loss and death.

My immediate family’s commitments and priorities used to center around Minnesota and Wisconsin. Now, my brother has in-laws to visit and my dad gained a whole new extended family (grandkids and all!) when he married my stepmom. Both my grandmothers passed away recently, reshaping all our connections to the motherland. Matriarchs hold us together even in their frailer moments when cancer and strokes intrude. Without the draw of Grandma, my cousins, parents and I are sticking to the coasts.

To be honest, I’m mourning a little bit this Christmas. “Home” seems so distant. Will it feel like Christmas away from the coziness of my favorite armchair by the fire? I can’t believe I packed swim goggles, sunscreen and sand toys rather than snowsuits, scarves and slippers.

As parents, growing kids make us experts at flexibility. They force us to keep learning, strategizing and making the most of whatever circumstance comes next, including this current flavor of Christmastime travel. We will figure it out—one day and one year at a time—just like we do with every facet of parenting.

This year we’re trying out new traditions with a Florida spin. We’re making our own ornaments and hanging them on a homemade tree. And while it may not be a Dayton’s display, the palm trees lining the streets look quite festive with their twinkle lights.

When we search for 2019 flights, I’ll know that, armed with Christmas traditions galore, I can embrace the spirit of the season and be at peace in sand or snow.

Kristin Van de Water
Tinybeans Voices Contributor

Kristin Van de Water is a former journalist and teacher who relies on humor, faith, and her mom crew to get her through the day. Raising four kids in a two-bedroom NYC apartment, Kristin is always on the lookout for life hacks to save time, space, money, and her sanity.

Even if your little sprouts seem to set up a grudge match over just about everything: choosing the Friday night movie, toppled LEGO towers, and endless hours of she-touched-me-again, in the end, a brother or sister is a built-in best friend. (Who better to help drive Mom crazy or snicker with at Dad’s creative cooking?). Flip through the album to see our picks for best picture and chapter books celebrating the ultimate family bond.

Max’s Dragon Shirt

Age: 3-7

Ruby and her little brother Max, that rascally bunny of few words, take an adventure-packed trip to the department store. Although their mother gave them five dollars to buy a new pair of pants for Max, they end up coming home with something very different. As in all their books, Max is stubborn, Ruby is bossy, but together, they’re somehow the all-American brother/sister combo of our imagination.

Available at indiebound.org, $5.99.

What’s your favorite book about siblings? Share with us in a comment below!

— Emma Bland Smith