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The Unapologetic Truth About Sober Parenting—from a Sober Mom

By Flow Belinsky

First of all, it’s hard. Parenting, I mean. Parenting is hard, no matter how you do it. Totally sober or drunk half the time, it’s not an easy job for anyone.

The hardest part of parenting for me is the anxiety. It’s more than just worries. It’s an embodied sensation, a tightening in my gut, a shallowness of breath that used to not go away until I had a drink or two.

Early on in my motherhood journey, I would use alcohol as a way to relax at the end of the day, to let go, to finally unwind after all that caregiving.

But after a while, I realized clearly that my seemingly harmless drinks at night had spiraled into a full-blown addiction. Even though I wasn’t drinking all day long, even though I was only having a drink or two every other night, I didn’t know how to unwind anymore without some wine or tequila—and I realized I had to stop.

My story is way more dramatic than that, but I won’t go into it here. That’s not the point. The point is what has happened on the other side of the drinking.

What I learned from being a sober mom is that sober parenting takes extra skills. When I stopped drinking, I had to learn how to achieve that calm and relaxed state that booze would give me, by myself. Meditation has been my number one tool. Also nature hikes, yoga, baths, reading, breathing, and singing all help. And, although these things are usually not as fun as a few margaritas, they do have their amazing and blissful moments.

Becoming a sober parent also meant I had to face all that emotional stuff I was trying to shove under the rug with my rosé. I found I actually still had a lot of trauma to heal around my experience of giving birth. I had a big pile of resentments I had to sort through. I uncovered wells of grief, rage, anger, sadness, guilt, and shame that needed to be sifted through and healed. None of that was accessible when I was drinking to self-soothe. I was suppressing my actual feelings. And the truth is, they really needed my attention.

Once I was able to give my attention to those neglected feelings in a real way through sobriety, things got a lot better. My stress levels went down. My anxiety became totally manageable. I experienced less depression. I felt less overwhelmed. I learned how to actually handle life.

But the best part was this: I became more present and loving with my kid. I didn’t feel like I needed to escape from her or numb out from motherhood anymore. I had actually processed and dealt with my emotional stuff; I had learned how to regulate my anxiety in a real way and I was able to be a way better parent than I was before.

Another truth about sober parenting, though, is that my social circles and activities changed. There was a while when I was pretty lonely and bored. But then I found other sober mom friends and started to fill my life with healthy activities.

I started waking up earlier and hiking. I started building a cool business that I love instead of feeling overwhelmed and unfocused. I started going out to dinner with whole tables of people who didn’t order drinks and we still had a lot of fun. I started going to meditation groups and finding new connections. I finished and published my book. My life got richer, fuller, and more diverse, and I got a lot healthier.

Being a sober parent has a lot of perks. I don’t have to worry about hangovers when my child wakes up at 6 a.m. and I have to be up with her. I don’t worry about being a little tipsy in the middle of the night when she needs me. I don’t have to worry about having a panic attack because I suppressed my anxiety and emotions with alcohol too many nights in a row. I don’t have to worry about not being able to drive her if there is an emergency.

All I have to worry about is the normal parenting stuff and how to best take care of all of us, including myself. And yeah, maybe I have to decline a few invitations to Mom’s Night Out to a bar. I have a few friends that I don’t hang out with much anymore because of how deep they are into drinking culture. I have to say no to the delicious-looking stout at the burger place and get a soda or some water instead. But those are all trade-offs I am happy to make.

Because the truth about sober parenting is that it actually is easier. Now that I have taken responsibility for my own emotions, now that I have learned how to calm down without external substances, now that I have enhanced my life with new hobbies and new friends, everything is better.

I have more energy, more happiness, better health, more interests, and a much better ability to be available and present for my child. And that is worth more than any drunken night out or calming nightcap in the evening. Being sober has made me a better parent and a better person, and that’s the truth.

Flow is an Author and Memoir Writing Coach for Womxn. Feeling the call to write your true life story into a book that inspires? Sign up to join a Free Memoir Writing Breakthrough Workshop through her website, and get the clarity and momentum you need to make it happen.

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15 Easy Hairstyles That Aren’t a “Mom Bun”

by Shahrzad Warkentin

Anyone can pull off these hairstyles for moms

Let’s be honest, when is the last time you gave your hair the attention it deserves? In honor of a well-deserved mom’s night out, we’ve got cute and easy hairstyles that put the mom bun to shame, and if you invest a few extra minutes in one of these hairstyles for moms you won’t be sorry. From pretty ponies to beautiful braids, these easy hair do’s will get you up and at ’em to take on the day. Looking for kid’s styles? Check this out.

Half-Up Braid Rosette

half up bun is an easy hairstyle
Lynzy & Co

Sure, you've mastered the half-up ponytails, but why not add a twist? This simple style from Lynzy & Co. takes a basic braid and twists it into a bun for a style that is equal parts casual and dressy.

Pineapple Updo

a pineapple updo is an easy hairstyle for curly hair
SimplyBiancaAlexa

A fun, but easy hairstyle to keep your curly or natural hair up and out of the way is a pineapple updo like the one shown in this easy-to-follow YouTube tutorial from Bianca Alexa. All you need is a little moisturizer and a scrunchie, and you’ll have a perfect updo in minutes.

Easy Boho Braid

side braid is an easy hairstyle for moms
Lauren McBride

Great for day two hair, this easy boho braid from Lauren McBride is great for keeping hair out of your face. Great for curly, straight, thick, or thin hair, this French braid style starts at the crown of your head and hangs down the style in a super chic style.

Side Swept Updo

a swept-up bun is an easy mom hairstyle
What's Up Moms

Bypass the mom bun entirely with this lookalike style that packs a bigger punch! This look is created by doing a half pony, then using the remaining hair to sweep around the back. Finish off this look from What's Up Moms by adding an adorable scarf! This look is an easy transition from summer to fall. 

Related: Mom Buns That Are Actually Stylish

Topsy Turvy Braid

Missy Sue via YouTube

We all love a good braid but not everyone has the skills or time to make one happy on a busy morning. We love this topsy-turvy braid from Missy Sue even more because it pairs perfectly with a hat! Whether you're prepping for a weekend getaway or rocking the school morning, this easy "braid" adds style in a cinch.

Simple Sleek Ponytail

a sleek ponytail is a great hairstyle for moms
Alex Gaboury

Ponytails are some of the easiest styles to pull off, but why not turn your everyday 'do into something more stylish? It's as simple as making a low pony, then using a section of your hair to wrap around your ponytail to create this sleek look that couldn't be simpler. Have curly hair? No problem! This style looks equally fab when it's a little messy, too. To see how it's done in person, check out the full tutorial from Alex Gaboury.

Two-Minute Rope Braid

rope braid hairstyle for moms
The Freckled Fox

This side rope braid is pulled together in two minutes and is great for thick, long hair. While the end result is simply stunning, the steps to achieving this look is really quite simple. Emily from The Freckled Fox shows us how it's done in her YouTube tutorial. 

Twisted Low Pony

a twisted low pony is an easy hairstyle
Bebexo

When you're tired of your regular ponytail, there's no shame in dressing it up. This one-minute version looks classy and put together, without taking up precious moments of your hectic morning. Sectioned hair is pulled into a ponytail, then the sides are twisted and wrapped around to give a twisted look that's more than fit for school drop-offs (or Zoom calls). See how easy it is by watching this tutorial by Bebexo.

A Headband with Style

A Beautiful Mess

Headbands are a go-to on those just-can’t-get-it-together mom mornings, but that doesn’t mean you can’t dress that look up a bit for a cute, compliment-worthy look. We love these easy headband hairstyle ideas from A Beautiful Mess that let you just get up and go without resorting to a baseball cap to hide your hair at school drop-off. All you need is a few bobby pins and a colorful wire headband or just a rolled-up scarf. 

 

Related: Bad Hair Days Be Gone! Hair Accessories We’ve Been Loving Lately

No Fuss Curls

SoCal Curls

Date nights and summer concerts are all about flowing tresses, but who has time for curlers or a curling iron to get those coveted beachy waves? Opt for a heatless curling rod headband, which gives you that look overnight. A total win for busy moms.

The Halo

Modeled by CurlGilrMomo, this easy hairstyle for natural hair looks like it takes serious effort, but it can, in fact, be done in just a few minutes. Besides giving your hair a beautiful updo, this look is a protective style, perfect for keeping your natural hair safe and healthy while it grows. Check out this fast and easy-to-follow video tutorial on YouTube to see how to get this effortless look.

Half Up

This tried-and-true style is probably one you’ve rocked before, but there are several easy ways you can jazz up the basic half-up hairdo, and make it a little more sophisticated. Something as simple as looping your hair a few times after pulling it back or using a unique clip to hold it in place can take this look to another level. For more half-up hairdos, check out our favorite easy looks here.

Twisted Ponytail

easy mom hairstyles
Shahrzad Warkentin

Ponytails are always an easy hair solution when you want to sweep your locks away from grabby baby hands. You can make this staple updo a lot more interesting by adding a twist. All you need are a few bobby pins. Simply pull your hair back into a high or low ponytail. Then separate a small section of your hair and wrap it around your hair tie. Secure the ends in place with a bobby pin or two.

Low Side Bun

This is an easy hairstyle that’s meant to look a little messy, so you don’t have to spend a lot of time perfecting those wayward strands if you have hair that’s hard to tame. Create a side part, and gather all your hair to the side in a low ponytail. Wrap your hair tie around and twist it while twisting your hair at the same time, and loop the band around one more time to create a loose messy bun. Use bobby pins to tuck in loose ends and give the bun more shape.

High Pony

a high ponytail is an easy hairstyle that isn't a mom bun
Erik Mclean via Unsplash

A high ponytail is an easy hairstyle that doesn't take much time at all and can be a lot of fun for moms. 

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Fairmont Mayakoba Is This Family’s New Favorite Destination

by Anne Hatfield

This 5 star resort in Riviera Maya offers upscale dining, babysitting services, and a new all-inclusive option

The last time we visited this property was in 2017, and we’re happy to report that now more than ever before, it’s worth the visit. The Fairmont Mayakoba underwent a serious makeover that was completed in 2022 and it now has a sleek new beach club, two more restaurants, an adults-only bar overlooking the ocean, two beautiful kids clubs, and freshly redesigned rooms and suites, too.

Most notably, it also now includes an all-inclusive option and free dining for children under 5. We went to test if all-inclusive and luxury could actually co-exist for a family, and we’re here to confirm the answer is undeniable: Yes. 

This year for spring break, Tinybeans sent its Chief Business Officer, Anne Hatfield, along with her husband, 4-year-old daughter, and 2-year-old son, to confirm if this resort still had everything needed to make a memorable family holiday.  Here’s Anne’s first-hand experience of everything she loved about her family’s stay at Fairmont Mayakoba.

Fairmont Mayakoba is hidden in 240 acres of tropical forest, marked by crystal clear waterways and cobbled roads suitable only for walking, bikes, and golf carts. The setting in nature makes it hard to believe you’re only 40 minutes south of Cancun. It feels remote, exclusive, and quiet in the ways you want it to be quiet when you’re on vacation. We took naps on the beach during the afternoons and slept like babies at night. 

The Food at Fairmont Mayakoba
The food wasn’t your average all-inclusive fair. It was fresh-caught seafood, beautiful cuts of steak, and the most bright, delicious fruit we could imagine. The cocktails were well-crafted and delicious, and we particularly enjoyed trying the Mexican wine on offer at both Tauro, the steak restaurant, and Ki, the Korean BBQ. For the record, the steak restaurant is Hawksmoor or old-school Smith & Wollensky levels of good. 

Ki, the Korean BBQ restaurant, isn’t included in the all-inclusive plan, but it’s definitely worth the added price. We used guest services to organize two babysitters to stay in the room with our two children, and we enjoyed an amazing mom-and-dad night out. The babysitters were two staff members we had met at the Kids Club and breakfast restaurant so we left the kids feeling confident they were in good hands, and they were. The cost of the babysitter service was 400 pesos per hour per sitter, which equals about $22 per sitter per hour. Being able to go away on vacation and still sneak in our weekly Thursday night date night made the cost worth it. The food at Ki was full of beautiful flavor, and cooking your own meat while overlooking the Caribbean ocean and with your feet in the sand is hard to beat.

Getting Around Fairmont Mayakoba

Golf carts are the main mode of transportation around Fairmont Mayakoba, which made for lots of fun, and also made you appreciate the grandness of the property. It truly feels like neverending miles of jungle tucked away alongside the Caribbean Ocean. It’s a 3-5 minute ride from the main rooms of the hotel to the beach, which makes even the journey to the beach an adventure. 

Kids Clubs at the Fairmont Mayakoba


Speaking of adventure, there are two kids clubs—one near the main pool area, and the other by the Beach Club. Both were beautifully designed, very comfortable, and felt like Montessori-meets-vacation spaces of wonder, and fun. Our 5-year-old daughter enjoyed visiting both clubs daily for an hour or two of arts and crafts.

Besides the kids club activities, there were also two small baby pools where we hung out most days and to our surprise, there was only one other family ever playing around in the pool with us. Next to the baby pools is another pool with a water slide, which was well-loved by the tweens. The layout of the pool area makes it so you can enjoy whatever mood you’re looking to enjoy, without interruption. The adults-only pool is a nice spot to enjoy a quiet read with a margarita, and some chips and guac. 

Speaking of a margarita, the Mexican food at the newly designed La Laguna restaurant with seating over the lagoon is heavenly. You can also order La Laguna food directly to your chairs poolside, which made eating lunch with two young ones easy, yet never compromising on quality and taste. Our favorite poolside meal? Don’t worry, we’ve got you covered. Fish tacos for the adults, and quesadillas dipped into a bowl of black bean puree for the kids. 

Throughout the course of our 1-week stay, we truly had not a single complaint. Our son even had a bad fall where he cut open his forehead, and the on-site doctor is knowledgeable, lovely, and professional. Could it get any better? Great service, great food, great medical care, and great memories? We don’t think so. 

As we were leaving, we saw another family who we met during our stay. We smiled in agreement when I said confidently “I think we are a Fairmont Mayakoba family now. See you next year?” We hope every spring break was as special as this one. 

All-Inclusive Highlights:

  • Unlimited dining and premium beverage service at Hix Bar & Lounge, Tauro Steakhouse, Brisas, Bassano Italian Restaurant, Fuego, La Laguna, and Cantina Esmeralda. 
  • Beach service during operating hours
  • MiniBar with soft drinks, local and imported beer, water, light snacks, and sweets available for your enjoyment in the comfort of your room
  • Includes In-Room Dining from 7 am to 10 pm subject to a $5 USD delivery and 15% service charge
  • Up to two children ages 17 and under stay free sharing the same room as their parents
  • Three hours of activities daily at the Kids Club for children ages 5-11
  • Children 5 and under dine for free when accompanied by an adult and selecting from the Children’s Menu at Fairmont Mayakoba’s restaurants

Our family’s Makakoba Property highlights:

  • Swimming in clean, pristine water thanks to the seaweed control barriers installed around the beach
  • Boat cruise around the lagoons to see the birds 
  • A visit to the Cenote cave to see the bats
  • The stingless bee collection
  • El Camaleón golf course, the first PGA TOUR golf course in Latin America and home to the Jim McLean Golf School
  • Tostadas at El Pueblito

Editor’s note: This trip was partially funded by Fairmont Mayakoba, but all opinions belong to the writer.

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The Best Date Night Movies Coming to Theaters in 2023

by Maria Guido

Book the tickets and call the babysitter

Nothing says date night like dinner and a movie. And since you’ve seen every child-friendly release since your kids were born, here’s a list of movies for adults; to be seen in all their big-screen glory without a cartoon character in sight. And if you’re lucky, they’ll be shown at one of those theaters with the giant reclining chairs and a bar. Okay, maybe the chairs are a bad idea for exhausted parents, but may you find these showing in a theater you love, kick back with your favorite adult, and enjoy them without a kid telling you they need to go to the bathroom—again.

John Wick Chapter 4

Everyone loves Keanu, and there’s something so satisfying about watching him play a ruthless, vengeful hitman. Fans of the franchise have been waiting for Chapter 4—put on a two-year hiatus thanks to COVID. There are also rumors the last installment of the franchise won’t deliver a happy ending for its beloved main character.  March 24

Air

Air is a good date night movie.
Amazon Studios

 

The movie about how the iconic Air Jordan sneaker came to be is directed by Ben Affleck and is stacked with a star-studded cast, including Viola Davis, who Michael Jordan apparently insisted play his mother. Also starring Matt Damon, Jason Bateman, Chris Tucker, and Affleck himself. April 5

Paint

Paint is a good date night movie.
IFC Films

 

This is sadly not a Bob Ross biopic, but Owen Wilson channels everyone’s favorite public television painter for his role in Paint. It’s a fictional comedy about Carl Nagle, a painter with a public television show who is worried when a younger, cooler painter starts to steal his spotlight. The movie is not based on any of Ross’ real-life experiences, but it’s clearly inspired by him, and because of that, we’re all in.  April 7

Sweetwater

Sweetwater is the story of Hall of Famer Nat “Sweetwater” Clifton, who made history as the first Black basketball player to sign an NBA contract. He was the star player for the Harlem Globetrotters at the time. It stars Everett Osborne as Clifton, Jeremy Piven, Cary Elwes, and Richard Dreyfuss.  April 14

Indiana Jones & the Dial of Destiny

Who didn’t grow up with Indiana Jones? And who doesn’t want to see Harrison Ford revising his role as Jones for the first time since 2008? This is the first installment of the franchise not directed by Steven Spielberg and also stars Phoebe Waller-Bridge, Mads Mikkelsen, Shaunette Renée Wilson, and Antonio Banderas.  June 30

Mission: Impossible, Dead Reckoning

Paramount Pictures

 

Tom Cruise has been playing Ethan Hunt, a member of a fictional spy agency called Mission Force, since 1996. 1996! His role kicked off a franchise lasting almost three decades, and 2023 sees the seventh installment of the franchise hitting the screen, with Hunt no doubt jumping off cliffs while keeping the world safe. There is reportedly a stunt in the upcoming film that involves riding a motorcycle off a cliff in Switzerland, then turning into a base jump. The footage above proves it.  July 14

Oppenheimer

Cillian Murphy stars as Robert J. Oppenheimer in this biopic about the physicist and “father of the atomic bomb.” The star-packed cast includes Florence Pugh, Emily Blunt, Matt Damon, Robert Downey Jr., Rami Malek, and Josh Hartnett. Directed by Christopher Nolan (The Dark Knight, Inception, Memento).  July 21

Barbie

Barbie is a good date night movie.
Warner Bros.

 

This trailer looks like a pink fever dream, and we are so here for it. Margot Robbie plays Barbie and Ryan Gosling is cast as her beau, Ken. The film’s supporting cast includes more exciting actors, including Issa Rae, America Ferrera, Kate McKinnon, and everyone’s favorite Marvel superhero, Simu Liu, in yet-to-be-revealed roles.  July 21

My Big Fat Greek Wedding 3

The plot has been largely under wraps, but Deadline reported that Greece is the setting for Toula and Ian’s (John Corbett) daughter Paris’ wedding. The third film is dedicated to Michael Constantine (Toula’s father, Gus), who died in August 2021. It won’t be the same without Gus running around with his bottle of beloved Windex, but we can’t wait to see the sparks between Vardalos and Corbett again.  September 8

The Hunger Games: Ballad of Songbirds & Snakes

The fourth installment of the franchise focuses on a young Coriolanus Snow (originally played by Donald Sutherland). It follows Snow’s involvement in the games and is set 64 years before the events in the original series—which means Jennifer Lawrence won’t be reprising her role as Katniss Everdeen.  November 17

Wonka

Warner Bros.

It’s about time we got an origin story for the most famously devious chocolatier of all time. Timothée Chalamet will play a young Willy Wonka, and we’ll reportedly see how he crossed paths with the Ooompa Loompas and ended up with his impressively creepy factory. Also starring Olivia Colman, Sally Hawkins, Rowan Atkinson, and Keegan-Michael Key.  December 15

Aquaman and the Lost Kingdom

Apparently, during the filming of the first Aquaman, Jason Momoa developed a story pitch for a sequel, and thanks to the huge success of the movie, it was greenlighted. Momoa is set to return to the big screen on the biggest movie day of the year, with Amber Heard as Mera and Ben Affleck reprising his role as Batman. “When an ancient power is unleashed, Aquaman must forge an uneasy alliance with an unlikely ally to protect Atlantis, and the world, from irreversible devastation.” Hopefully, the sequel will be just as jam-packed with slow-motion scenes of Aquaman emerging from the sea.  December 25

Legally Blonde 3

Reese Witherspoon will reprise her role as Elle Woods, and thank goodness, because who else could do this? The 2001 release brought us our favorite horoscope-obsessed, vegetarian law student who refused to let tired stereotypes and a remarkable jerk of an ex-boyfriend stand in her way of becoming a power lawyer. There’s no official release date yet, but the MGM site still says, “coming in 2023.”  TBD

 

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40+ Women-Owned Businesses Chicago Families Will Love

by Maria Chambers

Keep the shopping small and local and support the women in our city

March is all about girl power. Not only is it Women’s History Month, but International Women’s Day falls on March 8. This makes it the perfect time to support hardworking women, some of them moms, in our community. From circuses in the parks to delightful sugar-filled bakeries, dive into our list of women-owned businesses in Chicago.

Just Some of Our Favorite Women-Owned Businesses in Chicago We Love to Support

Metta Baby
Rachel Harangody's Metta Baby is Chicago's premier infant wellness studio with offerings including water stimulation, infant massage, baby yoga, parent/baby classes, music classes and more. The team is dedicated to promoting early developmental activities starting at two weeks that support motor, sensory, and cognitive skills while nurturing secure attachment between infants and their parents.

1921 N. Damen St.
Bucktown

Kido
Kido is a south loop kid's shop with a focus on positivity that sells books, clothes, puzzles and toys owned by husband and wife duo, Doug and Keewa. Along with the responsibilities of the store, Doug is a visual artist specializing in graffiti and murals and Keewa is a performing artist who sings jazz and plays characters. And, their kids are ridiculously adorable.

1137 S. Delano Ct.
South Loop

Oasis Face Bar

Oasis Face Bar
Leila Golding's newly opened Lincoln Park Oasis Face Bar takes the facial out of the spa, making it more budget-friendly and less time-consuming than a traditional spa experience. Her space is bright and beautiful and the estheticians are knowledgeable and friendly, so you still feel pampered. Book you or your partner a facial or schedule a family spa date. It's never too early to teach kids, boys or girls, the importance of a good skincare routine.

2136 N. Halsted
Lincoln Park

Katherine Anne Confections
When this local confectioner isn’t busy making mouthwatering truffles and caramels, it's drawing people with delicious hot chocolate in flavors like bittersweet, semisweet or salted caramel topped with homemade ‘mallows. The secret? Steamed whole milk and a creamy top that has 45% butterfat.

2475 W. Armitage Ave.
Bucktown

Nadia Girl
Owned by local mom, Briana Beazley, Nadia Girl makes tween clothing that not only feels and fits great but also helps girls feel more confident. All of the line’s designer duds are made of sustainable materials, with a portion of sales dedicated to organizations that empower girls through education.

Give Me Some Sugah
A potato chip cookie? Uh, yes, please. Lenore Lindsey is a South Side native who believes the secret to success is to do what you love, which led her to open Give Me Some Sugah in 2008. She's famous for her potato chip cookie, but also loves anything lime and keeps things interesting (and savory) with an ever-changing line-up of homemade soups. Due to health issues, Give Me Some Sugah will be closed Feb. 2-Mar. 31. But, let's show her some love and support when she returns to her beloved kitchen.

2234 E. 71st St.
South Shore

Purple Monkey Playroom
Jessica Roubitchek opened Purple Monkey Playroom when her daughter was just shy of turning 2. She wanted to give families a bright, nurturing destination for young children, parents and caregivers to have drop-in playdates, parties and more. They managed to sneak in a small design-on-a-dime renovation during COVID shutdowns, so they're excited to showcase their upgrades.

2040 N. Western Ave.
Bucktown

The Stork Bag
Chicago mom, Ericka Perry, created the Stork Bag after searching online for a care package to send her pregnant best friend who lived in Florida. When she didn't find anything that fit the bill, she created her own and a business was born. The Stork Bag care packages target specific needs based on where a mom is in her pregnancy or post-pregnancy, and they even offer rainbow care packages for moms who have lost a baby.

Goldfish Swim School
Kathy Ryan and her husband Bob co-own Goldfish Swim Schools in Roscoe Village and Wicker Park. They offer year-round swim instruction to ages 4 months to 12 years in a unique setting with highly trained instructors, small class sizes, shiver-free 90-degree pools and a state-of-the-art water purification system. Families with children of different ages and skill levels can conveniently have all of their swimmers in the pool during the same half-hour time slot.

2630 W. Bradley Rd.
Rosco Village

1930 W. Hubbard St.
Wicker Park

Mimi's Tot's Closet
Mimi's Tot's Closet sells seriously cool threads and some of the sweetest outfits for infants and toddlers you'll ever see. They are located inside Mimi's Vanity Room, which hosts sassy spa, paint and slime birthday parties—they also have a mobile spa service for at-home parties!

8442 S. Ashland Ave.
Washington Heights

Makoshey

Makoshey
Tired of the same old tight, short, and sparkly clothing options for their three girls, Kristen Flather and her husband Fred started Makoshey, a clothing company that focuses on comfy, stylish and durable duds made to keep up with girls who want to climb, explore, invent, dream, run, play and create. Makoshey’s t-shirts are proudly printed in Chicago and feature an ideal blended fabric pairing a super soft feel with reliable durability.

Lolita's Productions
Marisa Díaz-Arc is CEO of Lolita Productions LLC, which curates events that highlight Chicago Latinx entrepreneurs such as Lolita's Bodega's monthly pop-ups at Humboldt Park. They also produce the annual Puerto Rican Festival that celebrates the beauty of Puerto Rican culture. She is also the founder of Dándole Tech, a non-profit organization that provides education and repurposed technology for future leaders in need.

1440 N. Humboldt Park Blvd.
Humboldt Park

Art Makers Outpost
In 2019, Valerie Kahan decided she was done being torn between work and spending time with her kids. She set out to build a business of her own, Art Makers Outpost, an environmentally conscious art makers-space for young artists and adults. They work with local businesses to identify excess materials, recyclables and scraps that can be repurposed into art supplies for the studio.

609 South Blvd.
Evanston

Essie Marie's Dressings & Marinades
Itiona Scott grew up on the South Side of Chicago, the second youngest of 14 children. Her happiest memories were made in the kitchen watching her mom cook from scratch with zero need to measure. Losing her mom unexpectedly from heart disease at the age of 15 inspired a life-long devotion to healthy eating. Leapfrogging on the unwavering support she received from her mom as a child, Itiona started Essie Marie's Dressings & Marinades, which put a heart-healthy spin on her mom's best recipes.

Anupy Singla

Indian As Apple Pie
Cookbook author and journalist Anupy Singla wears many hats. She’s the author of three books, including Indian For Everyone a regular commentator on NPR, a culinary instructor and the founder of a fast-growing food and housewares company, Indian As Apple Pie. She’s also the mom of two girls. Pay a visit to her website where you can purchase her cookbooks, spices and other products, as well as find approachable recipes. 

Mindy's Bakery
Previously named Mindy's HotChocolate, Chef Mindy Segal of Mindy's Bakery switched things up and is now specializing in handcrafted sourdough bagels and bialys, babka, za'atar challah and seasonal pastries. Lucky for us, Mindy still has a sweet spot for the roasty-toasty drink she serves with a house-made marshmallow on top.

1747 N. Damen Ave.
Bucktown

Brown Sugar Bakery
Stephanie Hart notes that opening her own business, Brown Sugar Bakery, in 2004, gave her more time to focus on being a mom. As she transformed from tech consultant to mompreneur, baking up her "dangerously delicious" cheesecakes, cupcakes, cobblers, cookies and pies, she relished the extra time spent with her daughter. The bakery is best known for its specialty sweets, including sweet potato pie, peach cobbler and bread pudding as well as nearly 20 cake flavors, including German chocolate, red velvet, carrot and turtle.

328 E. 75th St.
Greater Grand Crossing

Le Chocolat du Bouchard
Get ready for sugar bliss. This french bistro owned by Cathy Bouchard serves a wide variety of decadent hot chocolates, along with cases of baked and chocolate goodies. We highly recommend their carrot cake, it's one of the best around.

127-129 S. Washington St.
Naperville

Monica + Andy
Monica Royer started her oh-so-adorable kids’ and baby shop for the sole purpose of making things better for moms and their babies, focusing on everything from better fabrics to better ways to shop. From this simple concept grew a space where moms come together to not only shop, but bond at one of the many events that encompass singing, dancing, bubbles, music, yoga, laughter and learning.

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Toys et Cetera
Learning and play intertwine at Nancy's toy shop, which is located in the historic neighborhood of Hyde Park. It's big on safe, eco-friendly fun that's also educational, developmentally and culturally sensitive. They've been going strong since 1976, so they have their finger on the pulse of what kids like. They seek out good craftsmanship and clever toy inventors.

1502 E. 55th St.
Hyde Park

The Dearborn
Sisters Amy and Clodagh Lawless opened The Dearborn in 2016 after 40-plus years of hospitality experience to provide guests a way to enjoy a working lunch, pre-theater drinks or family dinners any night of the week.

145 N. Dearborn St.
Loop

Chicago Boudoir Photography
When Liz Hansen founded her studio, she aimed to offer a Victoria's-Secret-style photoshoot experience for the everyday woman. She believes every woman, in every stage of life and in every size and shape, should feel empowered and celebrated. Her business focuses on a personalized experience for each client, so she limits the number of photoshoots each month to allow time for pampering.

896 Green Bay Rd. Ste. 12
Winnetka

2 Moms Media LLC
Sara Fisher and Caitlin Giles founded 2 Moms Media LLC in 2011 after the dynamic mom duo realized a need to improve how brands reach moms. They work with clients to create and execute integrated marketing campaigns that deliver real results in line with strategy and budget. Their services include media outreach, influencer management, grassroots marketing tactics, events, social media management, marketing analysis, brand positioning and more.

Cat & Mouse Game Store
Owned by LInda Schmidt and Adre LeMoine, this West Loop shop has grown-ups hooked with its focus on games, puzzles and brainteasers. Everyone that works at Cat & Mouse is seriously addicted to games and puzzles and the huge selection in the store reflects that. Staff members are always willing to demo a game and introduce your family to something new.

1112 W. Madison
West Loop

Vicinity Candles Etsy Shop

Vicinity Candles
Annie from Vicinity Candles Etsy shop sells candles inspired by local Chicago neighborhoods, with scents like Lakeview, West Loop, Old Town, Lincoln Park, Andersonville, Gold Coast, Pilsen, Wicker Park and Hyde Park. Each includes an insert that provides a glimpse into the neighborhood history which led to the inspiration for the scent.

Geppetto’s Toy Box
Like Pinocchio, your kiddo will want no strings to hold him down at this Oak Park treasure. Cut them loose to explore art kits, building blocks, puzzles, developmental diversions and lots more. The owners, Brandy and Eric Masoncup, stand behind "slow toys" — back-to-basics playthings that children need time to explore and grow from. To that end, you won't see a lot of beeps, flashes and electronic brouhaha on the shelves.

730 Lake St.
Oak Park

TinyHumanPrintCo

TinyHumanPrintCo 
Ashlee creates art prints that empower, educate and celebrate tiny humans.

Play

This hotspot is full of fun and educational finds, and it has a sweet nostalgic twist. Owner Ann Kienzle has worked in the toy biz for eons and stays on top of the latest innovations. She has a passion for the importance of play in a child's life and has created a well-designed space that inspires awe in all who step into one of Play's three shops.

3109 W. Logan
Logan Square

2462 N. Lincoln
Lincoln Park

5311 N. Clark
Andersonville

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zpd+a
Tai Kojro-Badziak is a partner with zpd+a, a Chicago-based architecture firm with projects nationwide. They focus on adaptive reuse, mixed-use/multi-family new construction, hospitality, senior housing and some residential. During Covid, she created a home studio that doubled as a kindergarten classroom. Running an architecture firm from home while simultaneously homeschooling isn’t for the faint of heart. She and her husband got through with deep breaths, giving each other and their daughter space to feel all the feels, hot baths and a decent amount of wine.

67 E. Madison
Loop

Dance Academy of Libertyville
Growing up in Chicago’s northern suburbs, Emily Winkler was pretty sure she’d be a teacher or dancer. Turns out, she was right on both accounts. Besides her day job as Director of Dance Academy of Libertyville, she's mom to yin and yang super duo Chloe and Phoebe, quick-witted, wickedly smart and has an unsinkable passion for encouraging and inspiring young people to reach their full potential.

746 E. Park Ave.
Libertyville

Melissa Salvatore

A Little Photo Studio
Growing up, Melissa Salvatore thought she’d be one of two things: A photographer or she’d live on a farm, wear overalls every day and marry a guy named Bob. Well, some poor schmuck named Bob missed out, because, lucky us, she chose photography. She provides a full-service experience, from photo session to design and print. Her team is made up of professional kid wranglers, designers and masters of printing and editing.

2868 N. Lincoln Ave.
Lakeview

Codeverse

Codeverse
Co-founder Katy Lynch created Coveverse to give kids an impactful first introduction to real programming. Their interactive coding platform, Codeverse Studio, gives kids all the developer tools they need to build real apps and games, giving life to their creative ideas.

Timeless Toys
This Lincoln Square mainstay owned by Martha and Harry Burrows is what we think Santa's workshop looks like—toys, toys, everywhere. Also, a big air of whimsy. Timeless Toys has been around since 1993 and is known for championing educational play. Go for games, puzzles, puppets, trikes, dolls, outdoor games, books and just about anything else your little tinkerer's heart desires.

4749 N. Lincoln Ave.
Lincoln Square

Pockimals
Tia, Hilary and Ana are childhood friends who are focused on maintaining the magic of childhood. Pockimals makes getting dressed ridiculously adorable with tiny stuffed animals equipped with buttons that secure them directly to custom-designed pockets. All items are produced with soft cotton to ensure comfort and no-scratchiness happiness.

Building Blocks Toy Store
Owner Katherine Nguyen fills every nook of her 3 toy stores with play-rich, high-quality toys and books. Building Blocks is known for its deep selection of Thomas, Brio and Chuggington trains, but you'll also discover lesser-known items. You'll find everything from developmental playthings for babies to science kits that grandparents can't keep their hands off of.

2071 N. Clybourn
Lincoln Park

3306 N. Lincoln
Lakeview

2130 W. Division
Wicker Park

Midnight Circus in the Parks

Midnight Circus in the Parks
Julie (Greenberg) Jenkins is one-half of the husband and wife team that created Midnight Circus in the Parks, a traveling circus show that performs under a big top in Chicago Parks every fall. They've raised over $900,000 for Chicago Public Parks to build play lots, provide new equipment and subsidize special programs for neighborhood parks.

Frog Temple Pilates
Randi Whitman was a professional dancer in her 20’s when she ruptured a disc in her spine. While trying to mend herself without surgery, she discovered pilates. Today Whitman teaches her clients how to strengthen their bodies as “a whole picture, vs. pieces and parts”, via Pilates, a form of low-impact exercise that aims to strengthen muscles while improving postural alignment and flexibility. Her bright, airy Bucktown studio offers group classes, private and semi-private lessons, as well as massage therapy.

1635 W. Cortland
Bucktown

AHF Body Chemistry
Born and raised in Chicago, Arnett Faulkner began paying close attention to ingredients in skin-care products when her son was born with severe eczema and she was diagnosed with breast cancer. Her research led her to conclude that pure essential and plant-based oils and natural ingredients are best for nurturing the skin. After sharing homemade products with friends, she yielded to the calling and created AHF Body Chemistry, a line of natural and organic whole body products.

Redline Athletics

Redline Athletics Old Irving
Ed and Laura Hosty are fellow parents and lifelong athletes who saw a need for a youth training program in Chicago that focused on speed, agility and strength training with an emphasis on injury prevention. Their new 12,000-square-foot facility trains kids ages 8-18 to become more athletic, more comfortable moving their bodies and more resilient so they can achieve success on every field of play. Redline Athletics welcomes kids across the spectrum of athleticism — all are welcome.

3800 N. Milwaukee Ave.
Old Irving

B Nude Candle Co
Natasha Ellis started making candles as a fun at-home activity with her kids. She enjoyed the collaborative, customized process of candle creation so much, she launched Be Nude Candle Co. Her playful spirit comes out with candle names like Grey Sweatpants, Namaste Away From Me and Tall, Dark & Handsome. For a fun date night or friend night out, consider booking one of her candle-making workshops.

190 N. Swift Rd., Ste. J
Addison

On Your Mark

On Your Mark Coaching & Training
Owner and Nike Master Trainer Emily Hutchins started the Youth Development Program at On Your Mark based on the principles of making young athletes better—not only their athletic performance but by teaching them to be well-rounded humans. In order to support sustainable long-term development, kids work on physical and mental strength, mobility, stability, agility and speed. 

1011 W. Monroe
West Loop

Brush Park Gymnasium
Feeling there was a lack of workout facilities that effectively catered to families wanting to maintain a regular fitness routine, mom of two Adrienne Farrel created a space where every family member can have access to high-quality health and wellness. And, she did it beautifully. The stunning facility has all the equipment needed for an effective adult workout, a kid's playspace with a climbing wall, hanging pod chairs, and a magnetic wall and outdoor space for parents to sit, chat and enjoy coffee while the kids play.

4646 N. Rockwell St.
Ravenswood

— Maria Chambers

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Chicago Hotels with Amazing Kid Amenities for Staycationing

by Wendy Altschuler

Skip the airport security lines and make your next family vacation a super suite staycation at hotels with everything from indoor pools to bikes for borrowing.

It hardly seems possible, but winter is fading behind us and spring is knocking at the door. Work a quick staycation into your family agenda and get ready to discover a new home away from home—luckily you won’t need to go far to find it. With amazing amenities, like requesting a gaming console delivered to your room or days spent lazing by the pool, you’ll be lucky if you can get your kids to check out of these hotels. Read through our picks for Chicago’s kid-centric hotel amenities that would make even Eloise go green with envy and be a tourist in your own city.

The Kimpton Gray Hotel

Why we love them: Family-focused complimentary amenities galore!

Kimpton Hotels is now offering complimentary children's kick scooters as an extension of the brand's popular bike loaning amenity. The Kimpton X Micro Kickboard scooters sport a custom design and color scheme and are available in two sizes for ages 2-5 and 5-12. Along with the kid-loved modes of transportation, the hotel also has a hand-picked selection of children's books, they're dog-friendly, yoga mats can be found in every room and they host a complimentary social hour every evening (5 p.m.-6 p.m.). 

122 W. Monroe Ave., Loop; Online: grayhotelchicago.com

Kimpton Hotel Monaco Chicago

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Hotel Monaco

Why we love them: This hotel is pet-friendly!

Located just a few steps away on Chicago's Riverwalk, you're located minutes from all of Chicago's best family destinations, from boat tours to Museum Campus. 

Hotel Monaco invites you to bring your pet along and even offers fun amenities for your furry friends like plush beds and complimentary bags to use on potty-break walks. In addition, they feature complimentary bike rentals and host a nightly wine hour from 5 p.m.-6 p.m. that you can opt to take to have served in your room. As a bonus, they sell everyone's favorite Jeni's Ice Cream by the pint. 

225 N. Wabash Ave., Loop; Online: monaco-chicago.com

The Neighborhood Hotel

Why we love them: All the comforts and coziness of home in close proximity to Lincoln Park Zoo, Fullerton Beach & oodles of restaurants and shops. 

Founded by travel enthusiasts, The Neighborhood in Lincoln Park offers a well-equipped, well-designed basecamp for staycationers. The apartment-style property features 14 stylish suites with stocked kitchens, washers/dryers, and a thoughtfully curated collection of art and accessories. Floorplans include 1-3 bedroom options, as well as a coach house. 

2616 N. Clark St., Lincoln Park; Online: theneighborhoodhotel.com

Sheraton Grand Chicago Riverwalk

Why we love them: Fabulous Riverwalk location and the indoor heated pool.

This pet-friendly hotel is a perfect home base for a family staycation, as it's steps away from Michigan Ave., the Riverwalk, Millennium Park, Navy Pier, and the Mag Mile. (Keep your eyes to the skies for Navy Pier's Wednesday and Saturday evening fireworks, end of May to Labor Day weekend!) 

Pack the swimsuits and goggles because kids will be making a bee-line for the indoor heated pool!

301 E. North Water St., Near North Side; Online: marriott.com

Hotel Zachary

Why we love them: Because we love the Cubs! Also, the architecture is stunning and the activities and energy in the area are rather special.

This relative Chicago newcomer will quickly become a favorite for Cubs fans, as it sits directly across from the iconic Wrigley Field and Gallagher Way, Wrigleyville's exciting town square. Visit during baseball season to soak up the energy that radiates in and around the stadium or plan your staycation around Gallagher Way's packed social calendar that includes outdoor movie nights, ice skating and Santa's workshop during the holidays, seasonal parties and more. This whole area has undergone a transformation every Chicagoan, suburbanite or urbanite, should see.

3630 N. Clark St., Wrigleyville; Online: hotelzachary.com

Radisson Blu Aqua Hotel

Why we love them: Radisson Blu Aqua Hotel is located in the world's second-largest building designed by a woman, Chicagoan Jeanne Gang—the first largest building is Gang's The St. Regis Chicago, opening this May.

It's easy to explore our city's rich culture from Radisson Blue Aqua Hotel as it's located within minutes from Mag Mile, Millennium Park, Grant Park and Navy Pier. Kids will love the indoor and outdoor pools, outdoor running track, fire pit, and full-size basketball court, while the parents can head to the steam and sauna rooms. The Lakeshore East Park is also located just behind the hotel. 

221 N. Columbus Dr., Loop; Online: radissonhotels.com

Four Seasons Hotel Chciago

Why we love them: Ice cream man who makes in-room sundaes, dedicated play space & 50-foot indoor pool

The kid game is strong with this one. Once kids check in using a special step stool to fill out their registration (name, age, and a promise to have fun), they enter the Sammy the Skyscraper passport program. During their stay, kids complete an activity in each outlet (spa, restaurant, and bell desk) to receive a stamp, which earns them free ice cream. You can also schedule an in-room visit from the ice cream man to treat the family to sundaes, and have complimentary toys and games delivered to the room. 

With all the above, a 50-foot indoor pool seen in Home Alone 2, and a concierge team ready to create a personalized itinerary, you won’t have time for anything but fun.

Note: Pool and spa facilities are temporarily closed until June 1, 2023. 

120 E. Delaware Pl., Gold Coast; Online: fourseasons.com

InterContinental Chicago Magnificent Mile

Why we love them: Indoor pool!

InterContinental puts you right in the middle of the action with walkable access to shopping, restaurants, cultural destinations and Lake Michigan. Keep an eye on their Offers page because they're always coming up with creative ideas to engage families like fort-building supplies, build-your-own cookie sets and packages that incorporate favorite cultural destinations. Even if they're not a fun package available, kids will be over-the-moon about the junior Olympic-sized swimming pool. 

505 N. Michigan Ave., Mag Mile; Online: icchicagohotel.com

The Langham, Chicago

Why we love them: Kid's Suite, a playroom just for kids & a 12-seat cinema showing kid flicks

Warning: Your family is going to want to make this place your home away from home because the Langham gets kids. Kids receive a Langham Bear that comes in a cute backpack and can hang about in the Kid’s Suite, the hotel’s playroom just for kids. The play space has everything from video games to board games, Lincoln Logs to mini electric guitars, and if that’s not enough, there’s a 12-seat cinema suite that can be reserved for private screenings.

Check out the indoor swimming pool with family changing rooms and showers (be sure to ask for a pool noodle for little swimmers!). Of course, there are kid-friendly menus throughout the hotel so picky eaters are welcome. You can also request a personalized bathrobe and slippers, and each kid receives a free cookie upon check-in.

They have several family staycation packages available, including stays that give private access to the pool and games or the cinema.

Note: As of press time, the Kid's Suite was closed until further notice. Please check their website for updates on re-opening. 

330 N. Wabash Ave., River North; Online: langhamhotels.com

The Robey Chicago 

Why we love them: Beyond having a great neighborhood location at the intersections of Damen, Milwaukee, and North Avenues, The Robey Chicago has amazing rooftop views that stretch in every direction, plus a cozy outdoor swimming pool! 

Families can book the Queen + Loft accommodations for a decent-sized room that has not only a queen-sized bed and twin bunk beds but also, a work desk and a fun schoolhouse vibe. Cafe Robey is perfect for brunch and dinner and when you're ready to explore Wicker Park and Bucktown, you'll be within easy walking distance to The 606, Building Blocks Toy Store, and plenty of restaurants, coffee shops, neighborhood parks, and more.  

2018 W. North Ave., Wicker Park; Online: therobey.com

Great Wolf Lodge

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Why we love them: The entire hotel is kid-focused, while still being fun for adults

Let’s be honest, the real thrill for kids when it comes to Great Wolf Lodge is the pools. And, the 80,000-square-foot indoor pool with slides and an interactive water fort treehouse and an outdoor pool with a cabana area has no chance of disappointing. In addition to the water play, you'll find a variety of activities including a ropes course, bowling, mini-golf, arcade and rock wall. For kids that like their fun to include a bit of thinking and intrigue, they’ll dig MaqiQuest, the brand’s exclusive live-action adventure game. Kids scour the resort using magic wands to uncover relics and runes needed to defeat dragons and goblins.

1700 Nations Dr., Gurnee; Online: greatwolf.com/illinois

 

Fairmont Chicago Millennium Park

Why we love them: Location, location, location 

The best part of this gem? It's just steps from Chicago's world-renowned museums, restaurants, and of course, Millennium Park, where your kids can take an obligatory Bean selfie. Enjoy numerous packages and hotel discounts when you book early, including the Weekend Escapes Offer, the Park and Stay Package, and the Embrace the Season offer. 

200 N. Columbus Dr., Millennium Park; Online: fairmont.com

Swissotel Chicago 

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Why we love them: Beyond being one of the best hotels along the Chicago River, Swissotel Chicago is mere steps from the Magnificent Mile and many of Chicago's award-winning attractions. 

Suites and adjoining accommodations are available for larger families. The Swissotel Kids Suite, a magical escape full of special amenities, is available year-round. You can expect the room, which is connected to a separate adult room, to be outfitted with age-appropriate games, toys, and books. Families can watch an in-room movie, inclusive of a movie theater welcome amenity, plus complimentary breakfast for two adults and two children at The Palm restaurant. 

323 E. Wacker Dr., New East Side; Online: swissotel.com/hotels/chicago/

Omni Chicago Hotel

The Omni Chicago

Why we love them: Backpacks full of fun activities & American Girl Doll package

Kids get an Omni Junior Chefs tote with a lunch bag, Annie's Organic Bunny Graham Friends Mix, Honest Kids organic juice box, to-go cup, crayons, activity book and a Say Goodnight to Hunger postcard. If kids color and return the postcard, a meal will be donated to Feeding America. 

The American Girl Place Package includes a set of doll pajamas, robe and slippers, an American Girl doll bed so AG has her own place to rest, American Girl bedtime books, cookies and milk turndown service and much more.

676 N. Michigan Ave., Mag Mile; Online: omnihotels.com

Loews Chicago and Chicago O'Hare Hotels

Why we love them: Kids amenities galore, electronics to borrow & child-proofing kits

Loews loves kids, but they obviously love parents too. Their signature Loews Loves Families program is designed to make overnights fun with a complimentary activity book, board games and books, baby bath amenities, and childproofing kits. The Streeterville location has PS3 systems, iPads, and pool toys available for loan. For pets, they offer gourmet in-room food service, specialized bedding, leashes, collars, and bowls. You can also request kid and pet-watching services for a night out. 

455 N. Park Dr., Streeterville; Online: loewshotels.com & 5300 N. River Rd., Rosemont; Online: loewshotels.com

Hilton Chicago O’Hare

Why we love them: Location next to the airport, which means you can start your vacation early

Make getting to the airport for those early flights a whole lot easier—and majorly affordable. On top of being directly connected to Chicago O’Hare’s domestic terminals thru underground walkways, so you don’t have to deal with iffy Chicago weather, you also get spacious studio suites with a large sitting area, king bed and sofa bed, 42-inch HDTV, mini-bar, WiFi and on-demand movies, video games and access to the indoor pool. Worried about trying to catch some z’s so close to the runway? Sound-resistant windows and blackout drapes will help with all that, so you can arrive bright-eyed and bushy-tailed at your final destination.

O'Hare International Airport, 10000 W. O'Hare Ave., Chicago; Online: hilton.com

Graduate Hotel Madison

Graduate Hotel

Why we love them: Super cool vintage summer camp vibe

This is stretching the staycation notion a bit, but we promise the short drive to Madison, WI will be worth it when you see what Graduate Hotels has to offer. They teamed up with Camp Wandawega and Land of Nod to create their own Camp Wandawega inspired suite.

Never heard of Camp Wandawega? What began as a speakeasy in the 1920s in now . . . well, basically an adult summer camp. All the charm of this retreat that features a fleet of vintage bikes, fishing boats, archery, a swimming beach and so much more is all rolled up into the Camp Wandawega suite in Madison.

The suite features a large main room with entertainment and sleeping areas with a king bed and a workstation, as well as an adjoining semi-private kid's room with bunk beds and a library stocked with summer camp-themed movies. Original camp artifacts such as an antique troopmaster hat, custom Sanborn canoe paddles, and Faribault Woolen Mills blankets are found throughout the space.

601 Langdon St., Madison, WI; Online: graduatemadison.com

Additional reporting by Maria Chambers & Jo Aaron

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Mom Gives a Viral Lesson in Tipping to Her Teenage Son

by Maria Guido

A mom sent her teen back to a restaurant after he left a terrible tip

It should be a requirement for every person to experience working in the service industry at some point in their life. It would make the lives of people in that industry so much easier if the people they were tasked with serving understood just how difficult it is—and how deserving those who work in that industry are of tips. Mom Danielle Foster is going viral on TikTok after her son came home from night out at a restaurant where he racked up a $104 bill—and only tipped $10.

“Johnny, you need to go get my wallet. You need to go get my Visa card, you need to go to the ATM, and you need to grab a $20 and drive your a** back to that restaurant because on a $104 check, $10 is a s**tty tip,” she yells. Her son stands giggling while she does.

@d.foster.president

😑 legit he’s driving his ass back there im so sorry legit 😩 I raised him better than this 😑 #momsoftiktok #momofteens #coolmom #tippingservers #waiter #waitress #workfromhome #remotework #momof3 #workingmom

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“I raised him better than this,” the caption on the viral video reads. When her son continued to giggle, mom broke it down for him. “It’s not funny. Do you know that guy might have kids?” she asked. “Do you know that $104 gets taxed on it? You’re going to go grab my credit card, get $20, and drive it back there.”

She posted an update a few days later to report that her son did, in fact, go back and make right on a terrible tip. She also explained that the young man didn’t realize he’d made a mistake: because he went to the restaurant with a $50 dollar gift card, the balance that he was left to pay was $54—so he thought $10 would be a fair tip.

It’s an honest mistake and another reason why having a job as a server should be mandatory for every person, period. But in absence of a law that requires that, it’s our responsibility to raise our kids to understand what tipping is and why it’s necessary. Servers generally make less than minimum wage and depend on tips for their living. All kids should be taught that tipping a server is part of the full-service restaurant experience.

@d.foster.president

Replying to @kelsielynnmarie my update 😘 #momsoftiktok #momofteens #coolmom #tippingservers #waiter #momof3 #workingmom #workingathome #waitress #workfromhome #remotework

♬ original sound – Danielle Foster

The mom emphasized that one of the downsides to her video going viral was that of course it solicited negative comments about her child. “I feel bad that people said stuff about my kid when he’s such a good kid,” she explained in the video. And she has some words for those who have an issue with tipping:

“If you don’t want to tip, don’t go out to eat.”

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Science Says You Should Grab Your Bestie & Hang Out—at Least Twice a Week

by Shahrzad Warkentin

Spending time with friends will actually boost your immunity

If you can’t remember the last time you had a girl’s night out, you’ll want to want to plan one ASAP. One study shows why women should spend time with friends—and it’s not just for the wine and laughs.

Researchers at the University of Oxford found that women’s overall health and well-being improved when they spent time with four best friends twice a week to partake in specific activities. According to the study, these activities include drinking beer, gossiping, and discussing rivals. The research found that women interact best by joking and talking about things that make them laugh.

The health benefits from these regular friend dates included a stronger immune system, faster recovery times from illness, a decrease in anxiety, and an increase in generosity. The optimal way to make the most of these benefits was to meet with up to four friends, any more and the probability of generating the necessary endorphins for happiness was decreased.

In an interview with Scientific American in 2017, University of Oxford researcher and evolutionary psychologist Robin Dunbar explained how common activities associated with friendship actually benefit our health: “Laughing together, jogging together, dancing together, singing together, telling emotionally wrenching stories, going to see weepy films—these activities buffer the body biochemically and immunologically against the kinds of coughs and colds of everyday life.”

How did the study figure out exactly how often you should see your besties? “The figure of twice a week comes from our findings that this is the amount of time that you typically spend with your closest friends/family,” Dunbar told The Huffington Post.

Despite all the benefits, the study found that only two out of five women actually have the time to go out with friends once a week and less so once they have kids. It’s not easy to make time for yourself, but clearly making the effort for mom’s night out is worth it.

 

 

 

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The Heat Is On: 9 Places Families Can Dine Outside Now

by Annette Benedetti

Although you might not think Portland’s rainy months and outdoor dining go together, we’re here to tell you otherwise

Often with Portland’s crisp winter weather comes an instinct to duck inside. But all that inside time has families looking for places they can spend time outside, without those pesky elements. How about a spot where you and the kids can be outside and stay warm while noshing on mouthwatering bites? Lots of Portland eateries have upped their outdoor dining game over the last few years. Now there are plenty of kid-friendly Portland restaurants with outdoor seating that includes heat. So the next time you get a hankering for an outdoor dining experience, head to one of our favorite spots, no matter what the season.

Plan a Night Out at a Kid-Friendly Portland Restaurant with Outdoor Seating That’s Covered & Heated

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1. Produce Row Cafe

Solidifying their reputation for satisfying national and international craft brews, diverse whiskeys and an enticing atmosphere since 1978 The Row is home to one of the best open-air heated patios in Portland. You’ll find more than wooden picnic tables for your little diners to prop up at, and a decorative maple tree planter and a concrete-paver patio covered with a clear vinyl dome. Heaters are strategically placed and will keep little bodies warm. The Row’s fresh, American-style lunch and dinner fare is seasonal, with options that will delight all ages.

204 S.E. Oak St.
Portland
Online: producerowcafe.com

2. Stormbreaker Brewing

Their two locations, one in St Johns and one on Mississippi, were both approved to take over their local streets, so you’ll be able to enjoy plenty of tables at either spot. Patio dining options include covered and heated seating, so even on the colder evenings your crew will stay comfortable. You’ll find a traditional taproom menu of great burgers, sandwiches, fish’n’chips, and chicken tenders. Award-winning beer included.

Mississippi Avenue
832 N. Beech St.
Portland

St. Johns
8409 N. Lombard St.
Portland
Online: stormbreakerbrewing.com

3. La Buca

This sweet neighborhood cafe on 28th and Burnside serves up great Italian food with a friendly staff. Along with excellent service, you can expect outdoor heated seating set apart from the street with wide planter boxes. Kids will enjoy their own menu with pasta and veggie choices, and parents will enjoy the affordability—and the wine.

40 N.E. 28th Ave.
Portland
Online: labucaitaliancafe.com

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4. Oaks Bottom Cafe

Located in the heart of Sellwood, this neighborhood public house is not only grown-up friendly but kid-friendly too. They serve a full kids menu from a hearty grilled cheese to chicken tenders that if somehow the kids don't finish you will. Seating is heated and outdoor. Bring your kids (and pups) to their heated sidewalk cafe for one of the coolest heated outdoor dining experiences Portland has to offer. Be sure to return when you have a sitter because their back patio, beer list and dinner menu is amazing. With their awesome location, great service, and accommodating space adding them to your family-friendly dining destination was an easy one.

1621 S.E. Bybee
Portland
Online: oaksbottom.com

5. Mississippi Pizza Pub

This bastion of kid-friendliness on Mississippi didn't let the pandemic stop them—they’ve actually expanded their outdoor seating. Covered dining is available. Order whole hot pizzas, bread sticks, salads, and drinks, then grab a spot outside to enjoy. 

3552 N. Mississippi Ave.
Portland
Online: mississippipizza.com

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7. McMenamins on the Columbia

You can't go wrong with Cajun tots and a view. Take the family to McMenamins on the Columbia on a clear day to watch the waterfront and a satisfying meal. The iconic restaurant chain not only has eclectic decor but also food and atmosphere for everyone. Enjoy getting out of the house and enjoying a truly amazing view, take a walk along the waterfront after to make a day of it.

1801 S.E. Columbia River Dr.
Portland
Online: mcmenamins.com

6. Teote MezcalerÍa

From the street (or even inside the main entrance) you’d never guess that this festive, eclectic restaurant with its bright blue exterior and metal artwork décor is home to a spacious, covered patio in the back. After ordering your meal at the counter—the fare is Latin American street food and includes its signature arepas and, a deep fried Venezuelan-style corn cake—head up the stairs to access the patio. There’s ample seating and large fire pit in the center that will keep little tykes toasty warm.

1615 S.E. 12th Ave.
Portland
Online: teotepdx.com

Related: The Dish on Where Kids Eat Free (or Under $5) in PDX

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9. Pizza Roma

Heated outdoor dining in SE Portland offers local families and yummy Pizza experience. Grab a slice of pie on Woodstock at Pizza Roma where you will find an outdoor setup that includes 15 tables and multiple outdoor heaters. This restaurants menu features tons of types of pizzas, hot sandwiches and more. You can even order growlers of beer. The kids will love their plate of meatballs and having tons of room to move.

4715 S.E. Woodstock Blvd.
Portland
Online: romapdx.com

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