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How to Get Your Toddler Ready for a New Sibling

by Allison Sutcliffe

When I was pregnant with my second, my OB accidentally spilled the baby beans to my almost-three-year-old. I was lying on the exam table, holding the measuring tape at the top of my oversized belly when it happened. My doctor casually leaned over and asked my son if he was excited about becoming a big brother.

My toddler cycled through all the feels—excitement, confusion, shock—before shooting me a look that let me know it was time to let him in on the secret. While we weren’t necessarily keeping the news from my firstborn, my husband and I weren’t exactly advertising it either. Turns out we had already done a few things that clinical psychologist Maureen Turner agreed were good first steps.

As she explains, “kids thrive on connection and consistency,” and any time a baby enters a family this gets uprooted in parents’ lives. By trying to keep things as consistent as possible and carving out special time for your sibling-to-be, you can help them through this major life change. Here are Maureen’s top tips to prepare your toddler for a new baby.

Don’t attempt any big transitions around the time of baby’s arrival

Maureen suggests not making any major transitions right before or after the baby’s arrival. So if your toddler is taking up prime crib real estate (as ours was), make sure to move them to a different bed well before the baby needs the crib (as we did). It’s also not a great time to start potty training, retire a comfort paci or transition from sippies to big kid cups. Try to maintain a consistent environment and routine as much as possible during this time.

Related: I Knew My Kids Needed to Have Siblings but We Got So Much More

Try to keep routines as consistent as possible

Part of that overall consistency is figuring out what part of your family’s daily routine you can maintain once the baby arrives. For me, it was naptime. Maybe the bath time/storytime/bedtime trifecta is a stalwart in your house. Or maybe it’s gathering for family dinner. Whatever it is, building in predictability is key to helping toddlers with this exciting change, according to Maureen.

Help foster a connection with the new baby

In addition to moving our son into his big kid bed, we also added one of my favorites—The Berenstain Bears: New Baby—to our nighttime reading in anticipation of the baby’s arrival.

Maureen says that fostering connections between soon-to-be sibs and a new baby should be a cornerstone of adding to your fam. Take, for example, reading the Berenstain Bears book. Talking with my son about how he would soon be a big brother and exploring his questions and thoughts was a great way for him to connect with his soon-to-arrive sister and me. Signing kids up for a siblings class, having them make something special for the baby, like a painting or a story, or even picking out a special gift to give the baby are all ways that parents can help their older kids connect with the latest addition.

Related: 10 Playtime Activities for Babies & Older Siblings

Remember that your toddler may still act out

It’s hard to anticipate all the changes that come with welcoming a baby, but come they will. And when it comes to challenging toddler behavior, you count on that too. Maureen reminds parents to “interpret behavior changes as communication.” Young kids don’t have the emotional vocabulary to express complicated feelings or needs. It’s one of the reasons carving out special time to connect with them daily once the baby arrives is important.

In the end, that unexpected nudge from my OB forced my hand in a good way. While things weren’t warm-knife-through-butter smooth when the baby arrived (but then again what part of parenting is?), we made it to the other side as a family of four… and eventually five.

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Rock the Rainbow: Pride Month 2023 Products to Help Your Crew Celebrate All Year

by Kate Cartia

These are some of the must-have Pride Month 2023 goodies we’re loving this year

It’s (somehow) already June. Yeah, we have no idea how that happened so fast, either. But it did. And that means Pride Month 2023 is here. The time when the LGBTQIA+ community and its allies come together to honor the progress made in the fight for equality and to recognize the major work that still lies ahead. Of course, there are vibrant parades and festivities. But Pride Month is also an important platform to amplify the voices and stories of queer individuals, fostering a sense of inclusivity and acceptance. It’s also the perfect time to talk to our kiddos about all the love and different identities that make the people we’re surrounded by so fantastically diverse.

In recent years, an increasing number of companies have stepped up to support the LGBTQIA+ community by launching a wide array of Pride products and we’re so here for them. These colorful and empowering items not only showcase solidarity but also provide a means for individuals to express their identities and spread awareness. From rainbow-inspired goodies to products created by members of the community itself, they all contribute to the ongoing quest for equality, acceptance, and, most importantly, inclusion. Tinybeans is here to support all families, and these are some of the Pride Month 2023 products that will help you and your family do the same, all year long.

The Pride Rainbow Bouq

Bouqs

The Bouqs limited-edition Rainbow Bouq celebrates love in all its forms and helps support the Los Angeles LGBT Center. The Los Angeles LGBT Center provides more LGBTQ+ community programs and services than any other organization in the world, including healthcare, housing, education, and more—which are available for free or at low-cost. In honor of Pride Month, 20% of Net Profits from the Rainbow Bouq will be donated to the Los Angeles LGBT Center. The Pride Rainbow Bouq (Starting at $54.00)—Buy Here!

Qalo Rainbow Silicone Ring

Qalo

Whether you wear it in place of your wedding band for daily activities or you just slip it on for fun, this silicone ring from Qalo is it. With the help of your purchase, Qalo is making a contribution to the fight to end suicide among LGBTQIA+ youth. Qalo Rainbow Silicone Ring ($29.95)—Buy Here!

Disney PopCase Pride

Popsocket

A built-in phone grip makes this case a win for Pride Month and all year long. Disney PopCase Pride ($50.00)—Buy Here!

KISS Nails USA Pride Collection

KISS Nails USA

These aren't your mom's old school press-on nails. In fact, our Shopping Editor wears them constantly and swears she gets a full 2 weeks of wear out of them. KISS also offers haircare, lashes, and more in addition to their hero press-on nails. Their Pride Collection has a ton of fun designs, but if super colorful isn't your style, you can check out all their nail styles here and know that you're supporting a company that donated $50K to the Trevor Project. KISS Nails USA Pride Collection (Starting at $9.49)—Buy Here!

Cratejoy Momo's Book Box

Cratejoy

Diversify your kiddos' library. Every month you’ll receive 2 books from a collection of carefully curated book topics, including books featuring strong intelligent female characters, diverse families, different family structures, books that celebrate uniqueness, and books that delve into languages and cultures. Available for ages 0-3 and ages 4-8. Momo's Book Club from Cratejoy (Starting at $12.99)—Buy Here!

James Baldwin Graphic Crewneck T-Shirt by The Phluid Project

Macy's

"Not everything that is faced can changed, but nothing can be changed until it is faced."—James Baldwin 
This quote tee by LGBTQ-owned brand The Phluid Project is the perfect reminder that we can all affect change. James Baldwin Graphic Crewneck T-Shirt by The Phluid Project ($25.00)—Buy Here!

Bombas Pride Collection

Bombas

Bombas aren’t just regular socks. Not only do they feel like you're walking on clouds; they also donate one for one. One of the organizations they've supported for the last 5 years is the Ruth Ellis Center, which gives much-needed resources to LGBTQIA+ people in need of support. The Bombas Pride Collection includes socks, tees, undies, and even goodies for babies, toddlers, and older kiddos. Bombas Pride Collection (Starting at $15.00)—Buy Here!

Target Pride Collection

Target

Every year, we look forward to Target's Pride Collection launch, and they delivered. Dresses, books, home decor, and everything else you could possibly want to celebrate. Target Pride Collection—Shop Here!

Pantone Pride Mug

Pantone

The experts of all things color, it makes sense that Pantone would offer this mug that helps you percolate with Pride. Your purchase further supports the Copenhagen Pride occurring in Copenhagen, Denmark. Limited quantities. Pantone Pride Mug ($30.00)—Buy Here!

'They, He, She: Words for You and Me'—Gender Inclusive Pronoun Board Book for Babies & Toddlers

Amazon

Help your younger babes start learning about the different pronouns they'll encounter at school and during play, while also helping them understand what pronouns feel best for them, too. It's never too early to start learning how to make those around us feel included. They, He, She: Words for You and Me—Gender Inclusive Pronoun Board Book for Babies & Toddlers ($12.99)—Buy Here!

Rainbow 'Hate Has No Home Here' Outdoor Flag

Zulily

A double-sided yard flag that helps you to proudly display your Pride and support. Rainbow 'Hate Has No Home Here' Outdoor Flag ($9.99)—Buy Here!

The Children's Place Pride Collection

The Children's Place

If family matching makes Pride Month feel extra special to your crew, The Children's Place has something for everyone from baby to mom or dad. The Children's Place Pride Collection (Starting at $4.99)—Buy Here!

Iridiana Bracelet Set by Sterling Forever

Sterling Forever

This is such a fun set to dress up or down. It comes in either silver or gold and can be worn together or alone, but always to show off your Pride. Iridiana Bracelet Set by Sterling Forever ($85.00)—Buy Here!

Pottery Barn Pride Collection

Pottery Barn Kids

The Williams Sonoma/Pottery Barn family of brands is honoring Pride Month by donating to The Trevor Project with every purchase from their Pride Collection, including this adorable kids beach towel. Pottery Barn Pride Collection—Shop Here!

Old Navy Pride Family Matching Collection

Old Navy

The leader of all things family matching, Old Navy made sure to bring it this Pride Month with tees, shorts, and more, for the whole family. Old Navy Pride Family Matching Collection (Starting at $5.00)—Buy Here!

CamelBak Pride Collection

CamelBak

The CamelBak Pride Collection will support the local Petaluma organization (where CamelBak's HQ is), Amor Para Todos, to help unlock greater access to the outdoors for its members, friends and community-at-large. Amor Para Todos is a community-led organization whose mission is to join with schools and communities in an innovative, intersectional approach to cultivate more gender and LGBTQIA+-affirming environments for our youth. It also includes a $10,000 monetary donation from CamelBak. CamelBak Pride Collection (Starting at $16.00)—Buy Here!

Pretty Honest Candles

Pretty Honest Candles

The clean burning, biodegradable soy candle brand Pretty Honest Candles is donating 10% of all sales through the month of June to the Trevor Project. They smell fantastic and the company is Black- and woman-owned. Pretty Honest Candles (Starting at $28.00)—Buy Here!

Either/Or The Fisher Sandal

Either/Or

The ethically made modern footwear brand is donating 3% of profits of all sales during the month of June to GLSEN, an organization that works to ensure that LGBTQ students are able to learn and grow in a school environment free from bullying and harassment. The Fisher Sandal is a summer staple with s super light sole, buttery soft Italian leather, and two versatile neutral colors. Either/Or The Fisher Sandal ($269.00)—Buy Here!

'Danny Loves Pasta'

Amazon

In Danny Loves Pasta, TikTok celeb @dannylovespasta teaches you how to make your own colorful and creative fresh pasta, unlike anything you can find at the store. With no special equipment needed, you can take simple ingredients like flour, eggs, beets, and spinach, and turn them into vibrant works of delicious pasta art in every color of the rainbow. Backed by Giada De Laurentiis and with celeb fans like SZA, former lawyer Danny lives in New York’s Hudson Valley with his husband and their daughter. Danny Loves Pasta ($26.99)—Buy Here!

Bath & Body Works Pride Collection

Bath & Body Works

Your favorite bath and body brand is celebrating with a bright, happy fragrance in candles, perfume, lotion, and more. They're also donating $100K to the It Gets Better Project. Bath & Body Works Pride Collection (Starting at $6.95)—Buy Now!

Keyzar Butterfly Pendant

Keyzar

Keyzar is donating 100% of profits of the Butterfly Pendant throughout the month of June to The Trevor Project, an organization that focuses on suicide prevention efforts among the LGBTQ+ community and offers a toll-free telephone number where confidential assistance is provided by trained counselors. Keyzar Butterfly Pendant ($750.00)—Buy Here!

Happy Planner Pride Collection

Happy Planner

Happy Planner teamed up with artist Peggy Dean of The Pigeon Letters, a proud LGBTQ+ and woman-owned small business, kicking off Pride Month to celebrate and support the LGBTQ+ community. On behalf of Peggy Dean, Happy Planner will be making a donation to The Trevor Project, the leading suicide prevention and crisis counseling organization for LGBTQ young people. Happy Planner Pride Collection (Starting at $5.99)—Buy Here!

Williams Sonoma Pride Rainbow Wreath, 30"

Williams Sonoma

Naturally air-dried integrifolia leaves are layered in a gorgeous rainbow pattern in this indoor/outdoor wreath from Williams Sonoma. Williams Sonoma Pride Rainbow Wreath, 30" ($139.95)—Buy Here!

'The Good Hair Day'

Amazon

Noah dreams of long hair, even though most boys he knows don't have long hair, in this sweet story about self-expression and embracing our most authentic selves. The Good Hair Day ($18.99)—Buy Here!

I Love Tyler Madison Beyonce Striped Racerback Dress

I Love Tyler Madison

I Love Tyler Madison is a woman-owned brand (named after rescue dogs Tyler and Madison) is donating 10% of all sales through the month of June to the Trevor Project. Featuring banded edges and racerback straps for a sporty, chill vibe, this uber-comfy racerback dress flows with your body, made from a luxurious yet lightweight Ponte di Roma stretch. The relaxed silhouette flatters every shape and is versatile enough to go literally anywhere, too. I Love Tyler Madison Beyonce Striped Racerback Dress ($55.00)—Buy Here!

Hanna Andersson Pride Capsule

Hanna Andersson

For the month of June, the pajama pros at Hanna Andersson are donating 10% of all profits from their Pride Capsule to PFLAG International. Summer family matching jammies have never looked so good. Hanna Andersson Pride Capsule (Starting at $35.00)—Buy Here!

Flex Reusable Menstrual Disc

Flex

Flex makes alternatives to traditional menstrual products, like the Reusable Flex Disc. It provides all day comfort that's great for you and excellent for the planet. Flex is also proud to be a LGBTQ+ company, in both its founding and in its nontraditional ways of supporting menstrual health. Flex Reusable Menstrual Disc ($34.99)—Buy Here!

From Flex: "We’re calling out “Pridewashing” and centering our efforts on the individual stories and experiences of people in the LGBTQ+ community. Every menstruator should be proud of who they are."

The North Face Pride Collection

The North Face

The North Face is rocking Pride Month with its newest collection featuring tanks, shorts, caps, and more with bold splashes of color that we can't get enough of. The North Face Pride Collection (Starting at $30.00)—Buy Here!

Tipsy Elves Adult Rainbow Jumpsuit

Tipsy Elves/Amazon

Seriously comfortable and super duper festive, this jumpsuit will be your favorite thing to relax in. Tipsy Elves Adult Rainbow Jumpsuit ($59.95)—Buy Here!

Duct Pride Rainbow Tape

Duct Tape/Amazon

From practical fixes to art projects, Duct Tape's Pride Rainbow Tape is so much fun. Decorate laptops, water bottles, picture frames, and anything else you want to add some Pride to. Duct Pride Rainbow Tape ($9.99)—Buy Here!

Unisex UA HOVR Phantom 3 Slip Pride Shoes

Under Armour

This year's UA Pride collection supports Unmatched Athlete, WorldPride, and Rainbow Labs, each with the goal of providing safe places for LGBTQ+ athletes and allies to play and compete. Pair all that awesomeness with Under Armour's signature comfort and style and you have a serious pair of supportive sneakers. Unisex UA HOVR Phantom 3 Slip Pride Shoes ($140.00)—Buy Here!

Beach Outfitters Gender-Neutral Hoodie

Beach Outfitters/Amazon

This one is giving roll of Lifesavers and we think it's awesome. It's also perfect if you're looking for a year-round way to showcase your Pride and support. Beach Outfitters Gender-Neutral Hoodie ($46.95)—Buy Here!

Baby, Toddler, & Kids Knee-High Socks

Amazon

Keep them covered from sports to school and everything in between with these colorful knee socks. Baby, Toddler, & Kids Knee-High Socks ($12.00)—Buy Here!

Carter's Pride Collection

Carter's

Carter's is celebrating Pride, not only in who we are, but in our families—no matter what it looks like. Check out the PJs, onesies, and tees. Carter's Pride Collection (Starting at $6.00)—Buy Here!

UGG Pride Slides

UGG

These beauties are available in the style pictured or in black and rainbow. Either way, they're incredibly comfortable. You can also feel good about your purchase, since UGG is donating $125K to the Trevor Project. UGG Pride Slides ($90.99)—Buy Here!

Free Mom Hugs Tee

Etsy

All us moms are here to hug it out, no matter who you are. It's our superpower, and we've got absolutely everyone covered. No exceptions. Free Mom Hugs Tee ($11.39+)—Buy Here!

LGBTQIA+ Quotes Printables

Etsy

Whether you're decorating a classroom, play room, bedroom, or anywhere that needs a little pizazz, these printable quotes are a win. LGBTQIA+ Quotes Printables ($11.00)—Buy Here!

Harper WIlde Pride Bundle

Harper Wilde

Ultra-cozy undies brand Harper Wilde is launching a Pride collection, donating 100% of proceeds during the month of June to The Okra Project, a non-profit providing mutual aid support to Black Trans People. The limited edition Pride collection includes a Tote Bag ($20) and a special edition of the Lounge Scoop Bralette ($47), both designed in partnership by queer artist Caitlin Bunnie (@liberaljane). When bundling the products, you can score them for the discounted price, too. Harper WIlde Pride Bundle ($58.00)—Buy Here!

 

Goldenerre Rainbow Star Rhinestone Bracelet

Goldenerre

Goldenerre's best-selling rhinestone bracelet gets a rainbow glow up in silver, gold, or rose gold. Goldenerre Rainbow Star Rhinestone Bracelet ($60.00/each)—Buy Here!

Super Smalls Rainbow Edit

Super Smalls

Super Smalls—our favorite accessories brand for kids—is donating 10% of sales from their Rainbow Edit to Live Out Loud, an organization that inspires and supports LGBTQ+ youth by connecting them with supportive leaders and role models. Super Smalls Rainbow Edit (Starting at $15.00)—Buy Here!

Mickey Mouse Disney Loungefly Pride Mini Backpack

Fun.com

Get dressed for Pride and everyday events with this officially licensed mini rainbow backpack. Inspired by the Pride flag, 10% of the purchase price from each sale of the Loungefly Mickey Mouse Pride Backpack until December 31, 2023 will benefit GLSEN, whose mission is to create safe and inclusive environments for LGBTQ+ youth in K-12 education. Mickey Mouse Disney Loungefly Pride Mini Backpack ($79.99)—Buy Here!

Pride Ring & Hoop Earring Set

Made by Mary

Live your life in color with the vibrant set that includes both the Pride ring and a pair of hoop earrings. For the month of June, Made by Mary is proud to be donating 10% of net proceeds from the Pride Collection to the Trevor Project. Made by Mary Pride Collection ($60.00—$108.00)—Buy Here!

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Middle School Graduation Gifts That Prove You Still Know What’s Cool

by Kate Cartia

Put a smile on their braces-wearing faces

Middle school graduation gift ideas? Don’t even get us started. Okay fine, let us share our two cents on this one. The thing with middle school graduation is that it’s a pretty big deal. It’s not high school, but it’s also not elementary school. It’s the transition between childhood and preteen years. So, you want to get a gift that’s not too immature or too grown up. Middle school graduation gift ideas can be tough to come up with, especially when you want to find something that’s both thoughtful and age-appropriate.

There are plenty of classic gift options, but as we remember all too well, their image is ultra-important. So, really, it doesn’t hurt to also keep in mind it truly is the thought and the gift that count with tweens. And that’s totally okay! It’s completely normal and absolutely part of growing up. We rounded up some of our favorite middle school graduation gifts that (since we’re still ultra-cool and with it) we feel pretty confident they’ll love (and love showing off to all their friends!). The transition from middle to high school is a big deal and we’ve got the gifts to commemorate it!

Doomlings

Doomlings

They're getting more independent, but an easy way to keep them close a little longer is by rounding up the crew and playing a game that they'll actually want to play. Doomlings is quirky, funny, and perfect for family game night. It works as a 2 player game and up to a party of 6, so it's great for summertime staycations, road trips, and camping weekends, too. With over 4,000 5-star reviews, you seriously can't go wrong. Doomlings ($24.99+)—Buy Here!

Real Review: "I got this for my nephews (ages 8 and 10) and not only did they love it, the whole family did! Loads of fun, really easy to pick up how to play, and really cute graphics!"—Mylène H.

Preppy Aesthetic Wall Collage Kit

Amazon

No middle school graduate wants bare walls, so make sure they're covered with this kit! Preppy Aesthetic Wall Collage Kit ($10.99)—Buy Now!

“You're Like Really Pretty” Large Neon Sign by Ancient Neon

Ancient Neon

We are very much anti-blank-walls around here, and Mean Girls quotes are evergreen, right? “You're Like Really Pretty” Large Neon Sign by Ancient Neon ($99.99)—Buy Now!

Kane Revive Sneakers

Kane Footwear

Designed for athletes and busy kids alike, these recovery sneakers are breathable, sustainable, and feel incredible on! They come in a bunch of colors and are gender-neutral. Kane Revive Sneakers ($75.00)—Buy Now!

iWalk Portable Phone Charger

iWalk

TikTok isn't going to scroll itself! Don't let them get stuck with a dying phone (which is like, the worst thing ever). This super cool charger comes in 6 colors to match their phones, too. iWalk Portable Phone Charger ($34.99)—Buy Now!

Photo Hanging Clip String Lights

LECLSTAR/Amazon

These are the days they want to remember, so give them a place to display all those precious photos! Photo Hanging Clip String Lights ($15.98)—Buy Now!

Jordan Brooklyn Fleece Plaid Pullover Hoodie

Nike

Jordan gear will never go out of style, and this sharp plaid hoodie will be the one they reach for over and over again. Jordan Brooklyn Fleece Plaid Pullover Hoodie ($36.97)—Buy Now!

Sprinkles Cupcakes

Sprinkles

There's nothing quite like a fancy dessert delivery to make them feel a little more grown up! Sprinkles Cupcakes Favorites Dozens Box ($75.00)—Buy Now!

"Believe in You" Cuff

SAM and LORI/Amazon

This is such a sweet cuff with a hidden message (just in case they get a little embarrassed by sentiment—we were 13 once, too)! "Believe in You" Cuff ($12.97)—Buy Now!

LEGO Technic App-Controlled Transformation RC Toy Car 42140

Target

Although we're missing their little baby hands grabbing for Duplo Blocks, this LEGO Technic App-Controlled RC Car is a build your middle schooler will have a blast with! LEGO Technic App-Controlled Transformation RC Toy Car 42140 ($149.99)—Buy Now!

6 Piece Gold Heart Charm Necklace & Earrings Set

Evise

Set them up with a whole jewelry wardrobe for the new school year! This set is perfect for mixing and matching. 6 Piece Gold Heart Charm Necklace & Earrings Set ($12.90)—Buy Here!

DIY Journaling Kit

Amazon

Middle school to high school means big feelings, and getting tweens into journaling their feelings is a great way to teach them healthy ways of handling them. DIY Journaling Kit ($19.99)—Buy Now!

Everyday California Floating Waterproof Snapback Surf Hat

Everyday California

Not only is this a cool hat, but it's also waterproof and floats! Whether they're into water activities or not, this is perfect especially for the spring and summer. Everyday California Floating Waterproof Snapback Surf Hat ($36.00)—Buy Now!

Initial Travel Jewelry Case

Amazon

We all love initialed goodies, and these adorable travel cases are available in all the letters of the alphabet! Initial Travel Jewelry Case ($14.99)—Buy Now!

Inspirational Nylon Bracelet

HGDEER/Amazon

An actual rugged piece of cool jewelry that they'll be happy to wear daily, especially since they'll remember the accompanying message! Inspirational Nylon Bracelet ($14.99)—Buy Now!

Evil Plans & Stuff Composition Notebook

Amazon

Are they in their Wednesday Addams era? This is the composition book/notebook/journal for them! Evil Plans & Stuff Composition Notebook ($5.99)—Buy Now!

Pottery Barn Teen Light Up Wall Shelf

Pottery Barn Teen

These shelves are seriously cool. Display pictures, projects, or their prized sneakers! Pottery Barn Teen Light Up Wall Shelf ($169.00)—Buy Now!

Adventure Initial Necklace

Amazon

Freshman year in high school is the start of an adventure, no question. This necklace reminds them to embrace it! Adventure Initial Necklace ($13.99)—Buy Now!

Solid Ruffle One-Piece Swimsuit

Evsie

Help them celebrate the summer before high school with this adorable ruffle swimsuit from Maurices little sister line, Evsie. Solid Ruffle One-Piece Swimsuit ($24.90)—Buy Here!

Hydro Flask 40 oz Wide Mouth with Flex Straw Cap

Hydro Flask

Gen Z loves their water vessels (and we do, too), so the new spring 2023 colors (Grapefruit, Dew, Lupine, and Oat) from Hydro Flask are  must-haves! Hydro Flask 40 oz Wide Mouth with Flex Straw Cap ($54.95)—Buy Now!

Govee 32.8ft Color Changing LED Strip Lights

Govee

It sure seems like we're proud supporters of the customized lighting movement. And that's because we are. The LED strip lights from Govee has vivid colors and lots of options for customization. Govee 32.8ft Color Changing LED Strip Lights ($22.99)—Buy Now!

Pave Lightning Bolt Nap Earrings

Maison Miru

Remind them how powerful they are with these lightning bolt nap earrings from Maison Miru! What makes them nap earrings? The flat backs mean they can wear them all the time, even to sleep! Pave Lightning Bolt Nap Earrings ($85.00)—Buy Now!

Throw Throw Burrito

Target

It's a combination of a card game and dodgeball! Players go head-to-head collecting cards, earning points, and throwing squishy toy burritos at one another. From the creators of The Oatmeal and Exploding Kittens, this game is a whole lot of fun! This card game takes 5 minutes to learn and 15 minutes to play. You had us at "burrito". Throw Throw Burrito ($24.99)—Buy Now!

Casetify Reset Check Apple Watch Band

Casetify

High school schedules can be chaotic, so keep their access to their calls, emails, and calendars, right on their wrist in style! Casetify Reset Check Apple Watch Band ($52.00)—Buy Now!

'How to Draw Cool Stuff'

Amazon

This step-by-step guide makes it easy for anyone to get the hang of, well, drawing cool stuff! How to Draw Cool Stuff ($14.39)—Buy Now!

Gabbi Ruched Hobo Handbag

JW PEI

This ultra-popular and highly-rated handbag comes in a ton of colors and has enough room for the essentials! Gabbi Ruched Hobo Handbag ($67.99)—Buy Now!

Too Faced Better Than Chocolate Cocoa-Infused Eye Shadow Palette

Too Faced

A combination of age-appropriate neutrals and fun pops of sparkly colors make this the perfect on-your-way-to-high-school palette! Too Faced Better Than Chocolate Cocoa-Infused Eye Shadow Palette ($45.90)—Buy Now!

TOSY Ultimate Disc LED

TOSY

This light up flying disc isn't a plain old Frisbee! As the original and patent-pending invention, the TOSY Disc is 100x brighter than any other light-up flying disc. It looks super cool, especially when you throw it outdoors at night! TOSY Ultimate Disc LED ($39.99)—Buy Now!

Confetti Clear Backpack & Lunchbox

Packed Party

How fun is this set? We all love a matching moment, and making it sparkle is the icing on the cake! Confetti Clear Backpack & Lunchbox ($68.00)—Buy Now!

Star Projector with Bluetooth Speaker & White Noise

Rossetta/Amazon

Transform their room with this Northern Light projector! Sync music up with the projection so it moves with the beat, too. Star Projector with Bluetooth Speaker & White Noise ($39.99)—Buy Now!

Keyboard Key Caps

Flyte

Dress up your keyboard to reflect your style! There are multiple color combinations to choose from, too. Keyboard Key Caps ($64.99)—Buy Now!

My Pretty Strap Honeycomb Apple Watch Band

My Pretty Strap

This swanky band is perfect for pairing with every outfit of the week! It also comes in silver, rose gold, and a dreamy space grey. My Pretty Strap Honeycomb Apple Watch Band ($39.99)—Buy Now!

Herschel Little America Backpack Pro

Herschel

Use it for school, as a cooler (it's insulated!), and everything in between. Herschel's iconic backpacks are designed to last for years! Herschel Little America Backpack Pro ($140.00)—Buy Now!

STM Goods Chargetree

STM Goods

Charge all the essentials—phone, watch, and AirPods—all at one time with the super fast and powerful (and compact!) Chargetree from STM Goods! STM Goods Chargetree ($119.95)—Buy Now!

Athleta Excursion Mini Belt Bag

Athleta

Belt bags are having a moment right now, and we're loving the Mini Excursion from Athleta for our soon-to-be high schoolers! They're the perfect size for anything they need, keep them hands-free, and come in 4 colors. Seriously trending gift? Check! Athleta Excursion Mini Belt Bag ($49.00)—Buy Now!

Crocs Classic Clog

Foot Locker

Love 'em or hate 'em, Crocs are back in a big way. It probably has a lot to do with how comfortable they are, but it doesn't hurt that they come in a bunch of colors and styles, too. Crocs Classic Clog ($39.99)—Buy Now!

Allkinds Bath & Body for Kids & Teens

Allkinds

Bath & body essentials they’ll use on a daily basis. The six Allkinds collections have their own active ingredients, colour, theme, and 100% natural signature fragrance. Sweet Talk, Lazy Days, Cosmic Choc, Superfresh, Hey Vacay, and more! They smell unbelievable and are perfect for mixing and matching, too. Allkinds Bath & Body for Kids & Teens—Shop Now!

Fujifilm Instax Mini 11 Instant Camera & Accessory Kit

Fujifilm/Amazon

We mentioned the importance of pictures, so make sure they have some to display with this Fujifilm Instax Mini 11 Instant Camera! It comes with everything they could need for capturing important moments. It also comes in four colors! Fujifilm Instax Mini 11 Instant Camera & Accessory Kit ($134.99)—Buy Now!

12’’ Screen Magnifier for Smartphone

Amazon

If they're into watching a lot of movies and videos on their phone, this screen magnifier doubles their screen size! It also looks really darn cool. 12’’ Screen Magnifier for Smartphone ($16.95)—Buy Now!

HP Sprocket Portable 2x3" Instant Color Photo Printer

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A handy little device that allows them to print pictures directly from their smartphones right onto sticky-backed paper? How brilliant is that? HP Sprocket Portable 2x3" Instant Color Photo Printer ($79.99)—Buy Now!

UGG Jella Clear Slide Sandals

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The jellies from our youth are back, but way more chic. These Jella Slides are perfect for the pool, and if your middle schooler is anything like ours, they look pretty cute with socks, too! They come in multiple colors, also. UGG Jella Clear Slide Sandals ($95.00)—Buy Now!

Y2K Bracelets

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Yep, we said "Y2K". Believe it or not, the styles we wore in high school while wondering if all the computers in the world would shut down on New Year's Eve 1999 are back. We'd be lying if we said we weren't eyeing these bracelets for ourselves. Y2K Bracelets ($9.99)—Buy Now!

Sunset Lamp

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Golden Hour at any hour! This fun lamp makes it happen. It's awesome for relaxing, TikTok videos, pictures, and more! Sunset Lamp ($23.99)—Buy Now!

Jake Meets Kate Affirmation Aesthetic Wall Decor

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We're all about the affirmations, and this set will help them remember what you already know about them. Jake Meets Kate Affirmation Aesthetic Wall Decor (Unframed) ($19.99)—Buy Now!

Chenille Cosmetic Bags Set

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Organization skills are a must in high school, so help them start strong with these cute cosmetic bags! Chenille Cosmetic Bags Set ($39.99)—Buy Now!

Flower Hair Claw Clips

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Neutral colors that go with everything and so much more fun than regular elastics! Flower Hair Claw Clips ($11.99)—Buy Now!

Sharper Image Candy Dispenser

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M&Ms, jelly beans, peanuts, gumballs—whatever they're into, this dispenser is perfect. After all, now that they're going into high school, you can show that you trust them to keep candy in their rooms. Maybe. Sharper Image Candy Dispenser ($21.99)—Buy Now!

Tortilla Blanket

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Maybe they don't use their baby blankets anymore, but who wouldn't want to be wrapped up like a burrito?? Tortilla Blanket ($19.99)—Buy Now!

MYNT3D Professional Printing 3D Pen with OLED Display

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Hold the magic of 3D printing in your hand with the MYNT3D Professional 3D Pen! Now you can use FDM technology in any application from drafting and prototyping to spatial learning and 3D sculpting. Young artists and budding engineers will adore this! MYNT3D Professional Printing 3D Pen with OLED Display ($59.99)—Buy Now!

Athleta Girl Pleat Perfect Skort

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Skorts are back, baby! This one from Athleta Girl comes in a bunch of color and is ideal for school, practice, and play. Athleta Girl Pleat Perfect Skort ($45.00)—Buy Now!

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Mom Shows Good Sense by Dumping Loser Husband Who Does Nothing for 6 Days

by Christina Marfice

A mom’s TikTok video is going viral after she time lapsed cleaning up after her kids—and her good-for-nothing husband who helped them make all the mess

At this point, there’s just so much research that shows that chores, childcare, and the mental load of running a household fall disproportionately on women in heterosexual relationships, even when both partners work full-time jobs. It’s a well-documented reality, and while some men do step up, the vast majority of them just don’t. One mom’s viral TikTok is a heartbreaking example of being shouldered with being the “default parent” despite having a partner, and we’re only cheering because the mom in the video dumped her useless loser of a husband.

Lynalice Bandy (@5kids5catssomedogstoo on TikTok) shared the powerful time lapse video, which shows her cleaning up her house that has been absolutely wrecked by her five kids and their basically absent dad, who was supposed to be caring for them while she worked six 10-hour days.

@5kids5catssomedogstoo

#divorce #parentingfail #messyhouse #whenwomen #depressionanxiety #clean #satifying

♬ SUN GOES DOWN – Andreas Roehrig

After not even a week with her gone, this house (that another fully functional adult also lives in) is cluttered with piles of clothes, trash, and food all over every surface and all the floors. In the time lapse, Bandy painstakingly tidies every room, leaving the house sparkling and spotless at the end.

“I’d like to pretend I’m not the only one who cleans here but as you can see these rooms don’t get much attention when I’m not here,” she wrote in the video’s text overlay. “Every single day I’ve gotten home from work I’ve been met with one disaster to another caused by inattentive parenting.”

She goes on to list some of the messes her soon-to-be ex-husband could have prevented, like shampoo spilled on carpets, nail polish on nugget covers, and a DIY haircut done with kitchen scissors. All of this happened while her husband—the kids’ dad—was in the house and fully capable of engaging with his children, but he was “busy” working on cars instead.

Bandy notes in this video that she has plans to move out of the house, but the housing market in her area is too expensive.

“My soul aches without a place to feel safe and happy,” she writes. Ugh. Our souls ache for her.

In a follow-up video, Bandy reveals that she has moved out (good for her!). But that video shows her back at her ex’s house cleaning it because (surprise!) he still doesn’t bother, and this mom wants any environment her kids spend time in to be clean and safe.

@5kids5catssomedogstoo

I am always willing to help when asked #cleaning #cleantok #timelapse #messyroom #depressionhouse #singleparenting #adhd #divorce

♬ Stubborn Love – The Lumineers

We only hope that Bandy finds peace and happiness, and whoever this absolutely useless man is, that he learns to step up for the sake of his kids.

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Indoor Birthday Party Spots for When the Chicago Weather Won’t Cooperate

by Maria Chambers

From glam parties to ninja warrior parties to indoor skydiving, these Chicago spots really deliver the fun

Let’s face it unless your child’s birthday is in July or August, you might not want to plan an outdoor party. Even if it is warm enough, you’ll need a backup plan in case of rain. You also need to think about sun exposure and providing shade to beat the heat. A temperature-controlled venue sure makes things easier.

If you need to plan a kid’s party, whether it be during a chilly month, or you just want to avoid all the contingency plans that come with an outdoor party, we are here to help. There are tons of creative indoor options in Chicagoland for kids who like to play music, bake, jump around, and everything in between. There are even parties that bring the festivities to you! Read on to get some great ideas for an indoor birthday party.

Best Indoor Birthday Spots in Chicago for Active Kids

Altitude
Chicago’s first trampoline play space and activity center features state-of-the-art trampoline entertainment as well as a variety of activities such as Wipe-Out, Basketball, Dodgeball, Rock Wall, Foam Pit, Trapeze, Kids Court for toddlers, and a parent lounge for adults.

Locations in West Loop & Skokie
Online: altitudechicago.com

Brooklyn Boulders
This place will make your wall-climbing kids straight-up giddy. They offer several indoor rock climbing terrains for your guests to conquer and knowledgeable instructors are there every step on the way up, up, up. 

West Loop
Online: brooklynboulders.com

CircEsteem
Walk a tightwire, learn to juggle, or teeter-totter on a gym wheel. Whether your birthday kid aspires to join Cirque du Soleil or just wants to learn a new trick or two, these fetes give kids a chance to experience circus arts in a fun and safe environment.

Evanston
Online: circesteem.org

Goldfish Swim School
Party-goers enjoy exclusive use of the facility, while staff guide your guests through games, races, and water fun, or simply lifeguard as they monkey around in the 90-degree pool. After you’ve all dried off, enjoy pizza, cupcakes, and drinks in the decorated party area.

13 locations throughout Chicagoland
Online: goldfishswimschool.com

iFly
Following training with an instructor, your little birthday birds will enter a vertical wind tunnel and experience the freedom of flight. Back at home, your child can see their flight session on the DVD included with the birthday package.

Lincoln Park, Naperville, & Rosemont
Online: iflyworld.com

Ultimate Ninjas
Windy City Ninjas and Ultimate Ninjas have merged and will continue to offer some of the best birthday parties in town. This birthday party spot is pretty exciting, with parties led by pro Ninjas from NBC’s American Ninja Warrior, so kids get to celebrate with their favorite stars climbing walls, taking on obstacles, and dominating at dodgeball.

Northcenter
Online: ultimateninjas.com

Best Indoor Birthday Spots in Chicago for the Sports Lovers

Hi-Five Sports Club
Pick your favorite sport from soccer, baseball, football, kickball, dodgeball, hockey, lacrosse, or capture the flag, and Hi-Five will plan and staff the fun for up to 25 of your closest pals, either at one of their locations or wherever you choose.

Several locations throughout Chicagoland
Online: hifivesportsclubs.com

Naperville Yard and Westmont Yard
Two words make this venue unique. Nerf Wars. While nerf mischief between siblings happens on the regular, take the battle, (and wartime cleanup), out of your house. A party includes access to a play structure, inflatables, field games, invitations, goodie bags, and more!

Naperville
Online: napervilleyard.com

Westmont
Online: westmontyard.com

POW! Kids
For kids who harbor fantasies of being a superhero, ninja warrior, or any other leaping, jumping, or swinging creature, Pow! Kids offers fantastic options. The base party gets kids moving with relays, obstacle courses, and agility exercises, with optional add-on themes like ninja, nerf skills, martial arts, or superhero.

West Loop
Online: powgymchicago.com

TOCA Players Indoor Sports Center
Tailor a birthday party package to different age groups so little ones aren’t overwhelmed and big kids escape boredom. Young kids stick to kickball and t-ball, while big kids play more competitive games like flag football or soccer.

Naperville
Online: playersindoor.com

Wicked Ball Bubble Soccer Arena
You won’t run out of things to do with packages that include bubble soccer, nerf wars, meltdown, zombie wars, archery, inflatable boxing, and so much more. They can also bring the party to you.

Lombard
Online: wickedballchicago.com

Windy City Fieldhouse
The choice is yours at this mega-complex where sports rule. Pick from scavenger hunts, basketball, soccer, kickball, capture the flag, batting cages, and more. Everything is customizable and you can hop from one sporting pursuit to the other. They also offer virtual scavenger hunts parties so friends and family from afar can participate.

Logan Square
Online: windycityfieldhouse.com

Best Indoor Birthday Spots in Chicago for the Music Makers

Merry Music Makers
This very popular music studio hosts parties too! Kids participate in a musical activity or craft before being led in a 30-minute customized sing-along by one of the many talented teachers. Afterward, it’s time for presents, food, and cake.

Lakeview
Online: merrymusicmakers.com

The Music Playhouse of Chicago
Children will be engaged in 45 minutes of musical fun. Perfect for kids ages 1-5, with singing, dancing, and instrument play. The Sing and Play Interactive Party comes to your home or another venue of choice.

Lakeview
Online: themusicplayhouseofchicago.com

Best Indoor Birthday Spots in Chicago for the Future Chefs

Nick’s Pizza and Pub
Nick’s Pizza and Pub offers the coziness of hosting at home, with none of the clean-up. Party guests get to visit the kitchen to make their own pizza and while that cooks, take a fun behind-the-scenes tour of the restaurant. Not only that, but their menu offers built-in fun with a scavenger hunt and we highly recommend the signature colossal cookie dessert.

Crystal Lake & Elgin
Online: nickspizzapub.com

Oui Chef
First up? Apron decorating! Once they’re properly dressed, birthday guests will make cupcakes, an entree of the guest of honor’s choice, lemonade, fresh fruit spritzer, and fruit salad. And, finally, they indulge in their creations!

Lincoln Park
Online: ouichefchicago.com

Schoolhouse Kitchen & Studio
Choose from among a donut shop party, a soft pretzel party, pasta & cupcake party, and more, or customize your own menu. More elaborate menus for adults & families are available at the Portage Park location. It’s delicious, hands-on fun, and the best part is. . . you get to sit back and enjoy!

Portage Park, River Forest, & Wicker Park (coming soon)
Online: iloveschoolhouse.com

Best Indoor Birthday Spots in Chicago for Gamers

Ignite Gaming
You can take the kid off the video game, but you may never get the video game out of the kid. Celebrate their day and their skills with all their friends. Over 150 multiplayer games available on reserved gaming stations, pizza and drinks, and a personal party host make this venue a no-brainer.

Skokie
Online: ignitegaming.com

Lucky Strike
Eat, Play, Bowl. Choose between reserved bowling lanes, arcade time, or a combination of both. Lots of games to choose from for all ages.

Lakeview & Streeterville
Online: luckystrikeent.com

Play and Spin
It would be hard not to have a good time here. In addition to the arcade, there is laser tag, VR games, go-karts, a rock wall, and inflatable obstacle courses.

Niles
Online: playandspin.com

Best Indoor Birthday Spots in Chicago for Something a Little Different

Archery Custom Shop
Learn a new skill and make like Robin Hood at an archery-themed party. Kids learn how to shoot the target safely in a one-hour workshop, followed by cake and birthday festivities. Everyone has a blast popping balloon targets.

Forest Park
Online: archerycustomshop.com

Aqua Mermaid
How often do you get to swim with mermaids? Party guests slip into mermaid/merman tails and learn how to swim like a mermaid while playing games and completing challenges. A truly magical birthday experience either in their pool or yours.

University of Illinois
Online: aquamermaid.com

Dad’s Slot Cars
This retro-cool spot has an old-fashioned soda counter where kids can sing Happy Birthday over decadent ice cream delights after they customize and race model cars on an 8-lane track.

Des Plaines
Online: facebook.com/Dadsslotcars/

Medieval Times
Give your little prince or princess a birthday that’ll make them feel like the star of the castle by adding a side of jousting. Celebrate the big day while watching 6 knights battle it out fast and furious on real horses and enjoy a feast fit for royalty.

Schaumburg
Online: medievaltimes.com

Snapology of Chicago

What kid doesn’t love Legos? Snapology parties include LEGO® themed birthday party builds, an activity surrounding the build, and a party facilitator who will set-up, conduct activities, and clean up all materials, whether the party is at your place or theirs.

Lakeview
Online: snapology.com

Spotlight on 3
Pamper your princess, fashion diva, or budding rockstar for their special day. They will be treated like royalty as they adorn luxurious robes and receive facials, mani/pedis, hand/shoulder massages, or funky hairdos. Customize your package to include karaoke, runway training, or a dance party.

Lakeview
Online: spotlighton3.com

Best Parties in Chicago that Come to You

GameTruck Chicago
Bring the arcade to you. State-of-the-art technology, 60+ games, and a total party atmosphere ensure a hassle-free celebration. Serving the Chicago area, including Chicago, Naperville, Wilmette, and Bloomingdale.

Online: gametruckparty.com

The Great Scott
Even parents will get a good chuckle when this magician begins his show by engaging the audience with hilarious jokes that are so great, you’ll wish you could trick him into staying longer. Virtual shows, that put the magic in your own hands, are also available.

Online: thegreatscott.com

Mad Science
Science is fun and these party people prove it. Making slippery slime, silly putty, and super balls are just some of experiments that guests can do—and take home. They offer add-ons like an awesome rocket launch, goody bags with science-themed toys, or the tastiest science project of all, cotton candy making.

Online: chicagowest.madscience.org

Miss Jamie
If your birthday star just can’t stop the music, a completely customizable party with Miss Jamie from the Farm is a must! She’s well-known for her original barnyard tunes and magical puppet friends that share the stage during her interactive sing-along, dance-along performance.

Online: miss-jamie.com

Smarty Pants
You’ll wish you were young enough to star in The Big Balloon Show hosted by Smarty Pants and his wife, Miss Dena. This ultimate performance art ends with a larger-than-life balloon creation made on the spot for the birthday star. We’re talking a giant airplane that stays inflated for an entire week.

Online: smartypantsworld.com

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13 Books for Kids Who Love ‘Percy Jackson & the Olympians’

by Amber Guetebier

If your kids are as obsessed as ours are with Percy Jackson and his epic adventures with the gods and monsters of Greek mythology, there’s great news. Thanks to Rick Riordan, there’s a trend in new stories in the vein of epic, fantasy adventures that weave together modern kids and ancient myths. Many are part of Rick Riordan Presents, a series curated by the author himself. Others are entirely original and equally enjoyable. If you’re looking for books like Percy Jackson, look no further. Be sure to check out our favorite graphic novels for teens and books for kids who love the Wimpy Kid series if you need more reading material for your older kids!

The Tristan Strong book series are books like Percy Jackson.

The Tristan Strong Series

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In the thrilling three-book series by Kwame Mbalia, the author does for African mythology and folk tales what Riordan has done for Greek mythology. The story begins with a seventh-grade hero, Tristan Strong, who isn't feeling very strong after the death of his best friend, Eddie. During Tristan's summer stay at his grandparent's home in Alabama, Eddie's journal (which is precious to Tristan) is stolen by a strange creature. Tristan chases after it, and "accidentally" punches a hole into a land rich with monsters, haunted ships, and boiling seas. Mbalia weaves black American folk heroes like John Henry and Brer Rabbit with African gods and mythos. Our kids have devoured all three books in this series. Ages: 8-12

The Aru Shah book series are books like Percy Jackson

The Aru Shah Pandava Series by Roshani Chokshi

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Another beautifully written three-book series in the Rick Riordan presents line, this gem features a fierce, 14-year-old heroine, Aru Shah. and her adventures in the Otherworld, based on characters and landscapes from the epic Hindu poem, the Mahabharata. The richness of author Roshani Chokshi’s voice and humor is present throughout. Ages: 8-12

Race to the Sun is a Native American children's book

Race to the Sun

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One of the newest books in the “Rick Riordan Presents” series (which graced us with such home runs as Tristan Strong and Aru Shah) Nebula- and Hugo-award winning, Indigenous/Black author Rebecca Roanhorse brings the epic adventures of a young Navajo girl, Nizhoni Begay, who turns out to be a monster-slayer. Learn about famous heroes and monsters of the Navajo as your route for Nizhoni, her twin brother Mac, and her best friend Davery, in this page-turning novel for middle-grade readers that does not disappoint. Ages: 8-12

Pilar Ramirez and the Escape from Zafa

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This epic adventure-style book like Percy Jackson written by Julian Randall addresses a topic few history books cover: the Trujilo dictatorship of the Dominican Republic and the many people who were forced to flee their beloved country. Families were torn apart. Loved ones went missing. Inspired by Randall’s family history, the novel is written from the point of view of Pilar, a 12-year-old girl whose own cousin went missing during the dictatorship. When Pilar attempts to learn her cousin’s fate, she is magically transported to Zafa: an island rich with beautiful creatures and sinister monsters, and the most feared of them all, El Cuco, the terrifying Dominican boogeyman. Pilar must face them all to rescue her cousin from the island’s prison. Kids will cheer for Pilar’s success and learn about the significance of the historical events that impact not only the history of the Dominican Republic but also the history of the United States and the immigrant experience. Ages: 8-12.

 

Solimar: The Sword of the Monarchs

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New from Disney Hyperion, this book like Percy Jackson introduces readers to soon-to-be princess Solimar, a Mexican heroine on the brink of her Quinceañera and her official coronation. When she visits a nearby magical forest on the eve of her big day, she discovers she has the magical gift of foretelling the future, which proves to be a blessing and a curse. Written by Newbery Honor Medal winner Pam Muñoz Ryan. Available Now. Ages: 8-12.

Theo Tan and the Fox Spirit

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In Jesse Q. Sutanto's action-packed adventure novel, we meet Theo Tan, a young Chinese American boy devastated when his older brother Jamie dies in a terrible accident. And he definitely does not want to inherit his dead brother’s spirit companion, a fox spirit named Kai. But Jamie’s death doesn’t seem to be just a simple accident and Jamie has left clues behind. Together with the fox's cunning, they investigate a world rich with Chinese gods and monsters. Ages: 8-12.

Try the Land of Stories series for books like Percy Jackson.

The Land of Stories Series

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This popular five-book series by Christopher Colfer features twins Alex and Conner who leave home and find themselves in a magical world where they encounter many characters from the fairy tales they’ve been reading since they were little. Ages: 8-11.

"Lia Park and the Missing Jewel" is a book like Percy Jackson.

Lia Park and the Missing Jewel

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Hot off the press from Jenna Yoon, in this book like Percy Jackson, you'll meet 12-year-old Lia Park, a middle schooler with strict parents who sneaks out to a birthday party with dire consequences. She’s not just breaking her parent’s rules, she’s breaking a protection spell. Lia now must rescue her parents from the undersea kingdom of the Dragon King in Korea. Ages 8-12.

The Last Fallen Star is a book like Percy Jackson

The Last Fallen Star (A Gifted Clans Novel)

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Presented by Rick Riordan, Graci Kim debuts the heroine Riely Oh in the first novel in this series. Riley, an adopted Korean-American girl is part of a family of Korean healing witches. Her big sister is initiated and soon, Riley will be thirteen, old enough to join the witches herself. But because she is adopted, Riley worries she won’t have the powers. Her sister comes up with a plan and together they embark on a journey into a world of fantastic beasts and magic. Ages: 9-12.

And of course…

Rick Riordan also has authored several other epic series himself, just in case you didn’t know! 

The Heroes of Olympus series

The Trials of Apollo series 

The Magnus Chase and the Gods of Asgard series 

The Kane Chronicles

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17 Pregnant Superstars Who Did Things We Can Only Dream Of

by Kate Schweitzer

Who runs the world? These women continue to prove that they do, bump and all

Rihanna just so happened to announce that she was pregnant with her second child while on the job. Before her Super Bowl half-time show performance was even off TV screens around the nation, social media feeds erupted in shock and awe. Whenever a woman does an impressive thing while pregnant, it seems to make international news. But the truth is, soon-to-be mothers—from star athletes to powerful CEOs—have long been dominating their fields, bump included.

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1. Rihanna

Rihanna’s performance during the Super Bowl LVII half-time show, a nonstop 14-minute medley of her greatest hits, should have been impressive enough, considering it was less than a year since she gave birth to her first child. But in true iconic fashion, she used the moment—without a single costume change and while suspended on a glass platform in the middle of the arena, no less—to reveal to millions that she’s pregnant again.

Related: Rihanna Says Being a Mom Inspired Her to Perform at the Super Bowl

2. Amber Miller

A 27-year-old Illinois woman gave birth mere hours after completing the 2011 Chicago Marathon. She said her doctor gave her permission to complete the race, as long as she walked at times, which she did. Even still, she beat her husband’s time in the race and completed it in just 6.5 hours.

3. Amal Clooney

The prominent human rights lawyer went to the United Nations on International Women’s Day in 2017 to encourage the organization to investigate allegations of genocide against ISIS, but publications at the time wrote about how “George Clooney’s wife” was there “showing off her baby bump.” Yes, she was pregnant at the time, but the social media buzz led to a global conversation on how societies view women even as they are doing incredibly important work.

4. Gal Gadot

In addition to battling supervillains on the set of Wonder Woman and Justice League, Gal Gadot was also battling morning sickness. The actress and filmmakers, she told Rolling Stone, went to great lengths to hide her pregnancy on-screen and on-set, where she discreetly filmed intense action scenes. “I didn’t want attention,” she said. “The default should be that women get the job done, but there’s a long way to go and a lot of reprogramming that needs to be done to both genders.”

Serena Williams dressed in yellow hits a ball on the tennis court,
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5. Serena Williams

She is considered one of the greatest tennis players of all time, and yet it was still a shock to fans when they discovered—after the fact—that Serena Williams won the 2017 Australian Open, which secured her record-breaking 23rd Grand Slam singles title, while secretly pregnant. She didn’t publicly announce her pregnancy, with daughter Olympia, until several weeks later.

6. Marissa Mayer

When Marissa Mayer was appointed the new CEO of Yahoo in 2012, it was already notable news: female CEOs at public tech companies are incredibly rare, and at 37 years old, she was also one of the youngest. But, just before her first day on the job, she announced that she was six month pregnant. This trailblazing news made her the first-ever pregnant CEO of a Fortune 500 tech company.

7. Keke Palmer

Hosting Saturday Night Live for the first time is stressful enough, but using the monologue to announce your pregnancy? Only Keke Palmer could pull that off so hilariously. The actress “set the record straight” during her SNL debut by revealing her several-months-along baby bump. “It is bad when people on the internet spread rumors about you, but it’s even worse when they’re correct,” she joked.

Related: Keke Palmer Gives Birth to Her First Baby

8. Regan Schreiber

In 2001, Regan Schreiber, who was an all-American swimmer at Penn State in the 1990s, swam the English Channel—which is 30 miles long—while 11 weeks pregnant. She completed the feat in 9 hours and 30 minutes.

9. Kayla Donnelly

The British soldier served in Afghanistan for seven months while unknowingly pregnant in 2010. According to the Daily Mail, she thought she’d been gaining weight from high-calorie army rations. The baby was born just two weeks after Kayla Donnelly returned from service.

10. Alison Hargreaves

The British mountain climber was six months pregnant in 1988 when she climbed the incredibly dangerous north face of the Eiger mountain in the Alps. Her other accomplishments include soloing all the great north faces of the Alps in a single season and for scaling Mount Everest alone without supplementary oxygen or support from a Sherpa team. Although she later died while descending the summit of K2, the second-highest mountain on earth, her son went on to become a record-breaking solo climber as well.

11. Jacinda Ardern

The New Zealand Prime Minister realized she was pregnant just six days before she took office on Oct. 26, 2017, and that was following a political campaign in which she took a firm stance on the double standard women of child-bearing age face when applying for jobs. “It is a women’s decision about when they choose to have children,” she said at the time. “It should not predetermine whether or not they are given a job.” Following the birth of her child, she was the first world leader to take maternity leave, for six weeks, while in office.

12. Aimee Roseborrough

The physical therapist had been rock climbing for 14 years already, so she didn’t think it was a big deal that she kept at the sport, at Joshua Tree National Park, until she was 37 weeks into her first pregnancy and past 34 weeks with her second. “I do kind of get to forget that I’m so huge and, at times, uncomfortable,” she told Good Morning America, noting that her pregnancy hormones aided in her flexibility.

13. Ali Wong

The comedian recorded not one but two hit Netflix standup specials while pregnant, and both were rule-breaking in their own right. In the 2016 taping of Baby Cobra, Ali Wong made previously taboo jokes about pregnancy, miscarriage, and motherhood while seven and a half months pregnant. Then, in 2018, she taped Hard Knock Wife while extremely pregnant, yet she never mentioned her pregnancy in the hour-long performance at all.

14. Alysia Montaño

This Olympian is now known as the “pregnant runner” with good reason. She crossed the finish line of the 800-meter race at the 2014 U.S. Track and Field Championships while 34 weeks pregnant with her first child. Then, she returned in 2017—this time, four months pregnant with her second child—to run the same race.

15. Kerri Walsh Jennings

When Kerri Walsh Jennings won her third Olympic gold in beach volleyball at the London Olympics in 2012, she was also keeping a brand-new secret: after a missed period and feeling “moody and touchy” throughout the games, the athlete realized she was five weeks pregnant with her third child. “When I was throwing my body around fearlessly, and going for gold for our country, I was pregnant,” she told TODAY.

16. Nur Suryana Mohamed Taibi

The Malaysian sports shooter gained international fame during the 2012 London Olympics, in which she competed while eight months pregnant. Although she did not advance beyond the qualification round in the women’s 10-meter air rifle event, she is known as the most pregnant Olympian ever.

17. Beyoncé

Similar to Rihanna, Beyoncé announced her pregnancy on stage, complete with a dramatic mic drop, at the very end of her performance of “Love on Top” at the MTV Video Music Awards in 2011. She didn’t stop there: in 2017, when she was several months pregnant with twins, she sang two songs from her Lemonade album—“Love Drought” and “Sandcastles”—in a stunning performance at the Grammy Awards.

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10 Best Luxe Babymoon Destinations Close to San Diego

by Aimee Della Bitta

All the best places to indulge in a luxurious babymoon getaway without getting on a plane

Travel planning may be a little more complicated these days, but that doesn’t mean deserving moms-to-be can’t indulge in a relaxing, rejuvenating babymoon. Thankfully, there are top-notch resort and hotel—some with daypasses—right here in our own backyard that offer everything you need for the perfect pre-baby vacation. From private suites adorned with ocean views and personal fire pits to poolside cabanas and prenatal massages, these local spots offer a slice of paradise for a San Diego babymoon—just what the doctor ordered.

The Top 10 Babymoon Destinations near San Diego

1. Best Babymoon in Del Mar: L'Auberge Del Mar

L'Auberge Del Mar has always been known for its service and elegance but the local resort is leveling up. A multi-million-dollar transformation has been completed and guests can expect to be amazed by a fresh new experience in guest rooms, an expansive new bar and pool area, as well as waterfront dining at Adelaide—an exquisite outdoor restaurant concept with can't miss house-made green juice and breakfast burritos for breakfast and must-order burrata with summer peaches for dinner. 

1540 Camino Del Mar
Del Mar, CA 
Online: laubergedelmar.com

2. Best Babymoon in Laguna Beach: The Ranch at Laguna Beach

A quick drive north to The Ranch at Laguna Beach will make all those babymoon dreams come true. This boutique ranch resort is nestled in the majestic Aliso and Wood Canyons in the heart of Orange County. Parents-to-be will find extra privacy because all rooms are accessed via outdoor corridors and feature private patios or porches without a singe elevator or cramped hallway in sight. Relax at the pool, play 9 holes of golf, savor beachside bites at Lost Pier Cafe, or cozy up by the fire on The Porch to hear live music daily as the sun sets and moon rises over the canyon wall. It’s a romantic and restorative getaway, and a peaceful place to connect before the baby arrives.

31106 S. Coast Hwy.
Laguna Beach, CA
Online: theranchlb.com

3. Best Babymoon in Encinitas: Alila Marea Beach Resort

Alila

This warm, modern resort took inspiration from the coastal town's vibe and is decorated in natural stone, warm woods and clean lines. And while there are plenty of rooms (130 coastal and garden view rooms and suites), we recommend choose one of the first floor "Fire Pit Rooms" which all have a spacious deck complete with a private fire pit and absolutely stunning garden or coastline views.

Guests will enjoy easy access to Ponto beach and your very own Beach Ambassador to reserve lounge chairs and umbrellas or help you round out a day at the beach with a picnic. If you'd rather soak up the sun at the pool instead, go for an elevated poolside experience with a cabana and lunch from The Pocket, which serves up the flavors and culture of Southern California and the Baja Peninsula (hello tacos!).

When you're ready to bliss out, head to the spa and book the Nourish prenatal massage (60 minutes for $235), which is a Swedish-style massage that utilizes prenatal-safe massage techniques and products to nurture your skin.

2100 N. Coast Hwy.
Encinitas, CA 
Online: alilahotels.com

 

4. Best Babymoon in Coronado: Glorietta Bay Inn

Winner of top 10 romantic island inns, this is an ideal spot to connect with your partner before baby arrives. Take advantage of the attentive, caring staff on hand to make every detail of your stay relaxing. Schedule an in-room prenatal massage and lounge by the pool. Enjoy a complimentary breakfast in the morning, relax beachside or play games in the parlor. You'll leave feeling connected and revived. Depending on your style preference pick a contemporary room or a mansion room, either way you'll be thrilled. 

1630 Glorietta Blvd.
Coronado, CA
Online: gloriettabayinn.com

5. Best Babymoon in Carlsbad: Omni La Cost Resort & Spa

Once your little one arrives, your day trip to Carlsbad will probably include a trip to LEGOLAND. But, pre-baby, the place to visit is The Omni La Costa Resort & Spa. It's a paradise for parents-to-be. You'll instantly feel stress drift away as you drive into this Carlsbad resort. The Spa at La Costa was named a nationwide favorite but we think taking a dip at the Edge Adult Pool before retreating to your private cabana would be relaxing enough. Cap off the evening with dinner at VUE or Bob's Steak House. 

2100 Costa Del Mar Rd.
Carlsbad, CA
Online: lacosta.com

6. Best Babymoon in San Juan Capistrano: The Inn at Mission San Juan Capistrano

Located in the heart of historic downtown San Juan Capistrano, just steps away from the awe-inspiring ruins of the mission, the Inn at the Mission San Juan Capistrano is a truly romantic, intimate destination for babymooners. Spacious, hacienda-inspired suites are beautifully appointed with high ceilings, mission-style grand armories, chandeliers, private balconies, with some offering large soaking tubs for two. Couples can enjoy an intimate olive oil tasting in the Olive Grove alongside local wines, dine on classic Spanish cuisine with a modern twist at Ysidora, and savor distinctive craft mocktails (for mom) and cocktails under the stars on the expansive restaurant patio. The Spa at the Mission also offers various rejuvenating treatments utilizing natural oils infused with on-site herbs for a relaxing experience.

31692 El Camino Real
San Juan Capistrano, CA
Online: marriot.com

7. Best Babymoon in San Diego: Fairmont Grand Del Mar

Lavish in luxury at this Mediterranean-inspired resort located in the Los Penasquitos Canyon Preserve, close to Torrey Pines State Beach. Whether it's a relaxing, restorative maternity massage at The Center for Wellbeing's spa, dinner and "mom-mocktail" under the twilight at Amaya, or a quiet bubble bath in one of hotel's deep soaker tubs, you'll find it here. Have breakfast in your room on the terrace overlooking the beautiful views, then, take on the day or relax and revive—your choice, your day. 

Read more about why we love vacationing at Fairmont Grand Del Mar.

5300 Grand Del Mar Court
San Diego
Online: granddelmar.com

 

 

8. Best Babymoon in Rancho Santa Fe: Rancho Valencia Resort & Spa

Rancho Valencia Resort & Spa is touted as the "perfect combination of luxury and romance for parents-to-be," and it honestly sounds like something out of a dream. Indulge at the spa with wildcrafted, organic treatments and freshly pressed juices, book a private yoga or meditation session for two or relax by the poolside cabana with VIP wait service. 

5921 Valencia Cir.
Rancho Santa Fe, CA 
Online: ranchovalencia.com

 

9. Best Babymoon near LA: Terranea Resort

Take your staycation to the next level in this luxury eco-resort perched right above the Pacific Ocean (and just a quick 31 miles from DTLA). It’s a dream destination on 102 spectacular acres of natural beauty, wildlife and unparalleled views. Kick back and enjoy the panoramic ocean vistas from one of their four pools or join a daily guided coastal nature walk and learn all about the local flora and fauna. After you’ve worked up an appetite, there are eight restaurants to satisfy your every culinary craving. Just make sure you leave time to book their "Mommy-to-Be" Massage.

100 Terranea Way
Rancho Palos Verdes
Online: terranea.com

10. Best Babymoon in Santa Barbara: Hotel Santa Barbara

Feel the freedom of a road trip to the American Riviera, aka Santa Barbara. Stay at the historic Hotel Santa Barbara in the heart of downtown and stroll to museums, the SB Public Market, shops and great dining. At the hotel, you'll enjoy plush robes, cozy beds and gourmet, locally-made croissants at the continental breakfast before you set out for the day. Whether you hit the beach or a relaxing sunset sail, this gorgeous seaside town is sure to be just the R&R you need before the little one arrives. 

533 State St.
Santa Barbara, CA 
Online: hotelsantabarbara.com

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Jason Kelce’s Pregnant Wife Is Bringing 2 OB-GYNs to the Super Bowl Just in Case

by Christina Marfice

Eagles center Jason Kelce’s wife, Kylie, will be 38 weeks pregnant on the day of the Super Bowl—so she’s bringing two OB-GYNs just in case

For Jason Kelce, the star center for the Philadelphia Eagles, the Super Bowl is going to be a family affair. During a recent episode of the podcast he shares with his brother, New Heights with Jason and Travis Kelce, Jason laughed as they described the upcoming “Kelce Bowl,” since he plays for the Eagles, and Travis plays for the Kansas City Chiefs. The two teams are set to square off on Feb. 12.

“Are mom and dad sitting on your sideline? Are they sitting on my sideline?” Jason joked.

Travis replied, “We do have to figure that out because we each get a certain amount of tickets, and I feel like you’re going to have more of a family-oriented thing.”

That’s certainly true—Jason went on to explain that he’s bringing Kylie and her parents, plus their two daughters, 3-year-old Wyatt and 22-month-old Elliotte Ray. But because the couple is currently expecting their third baby, they’ll have a couple of important, special guests in their cheering section.

As Kylie confirmed to PEOPLE magazine, she’ll be bringing, not one but both of her OB-GYNS to the game. “They’re both my OBs on a regular basis, but I didn’t necessarily want one to be by themselves. All hands on deck.”

She went on to say that the discussion over a potential Eagles’ Super Bowl appearance began back in the fall when the team was in the middle of an eight-game winning streak. “They were undefeated then, and we just had a moment of, ‘Hypothetically speaking, the due date lines up very well with a Super Bowl date. If we happen to need to discuss that, would someone be open to coming with me?’ ” Kylie said.

“And of course, they were very understanding of the situation and said, ‘Of course, hypothetically speaking’ that someone would be able to accompany us.” (Who would turn that down, after all?)

The news originally broke when her husband announced their plans during that same podcast episode mentioned above.

“Kylie’s bringing her OB because she’s going to be 38 weeks pregnant at the game,” Jason said.

Travis about summed it up when he replied, “Dude. Dude!”

But hey, as this soon-to-be dad of three already knows, sometimes you just gotta do what you gotta do.

“That could be a super Kelce Bowl. If she has a baby in the stadium, it’s officially scripted,” Jason joked

The Kelce family is clearly ready. Recently, Jason shared a hilarious video of Wyatt singing the “Fly Eagles, Fly” fight song from her crib.

“Apparently Wyatt is pretty pumped about the Eagles win last night too,” he wrote in the caption. “Woke up to her singing the entire fight song this morning in her crib.”

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An Expecting Dad Asked for Advice about Childbirth and Moms Delivered

by Christina Marfice

An expecting father asked Twitter for advice about childbirth, and the result was a thread that’s absolutely packed with moms’ wisdom

When an expecting dad is getting ready for the arrival of his baby (especially if it’s his first one), he likely has a whole lot of questions. One expecting dad decided to crowdsource one of his biggest questions, taking to Twitter to ask for advice on what dads can do to make childbirth easier on their partners. The resulting thread is full of moms who absolutely delivered.

“A big question for anyone who has given birth: What is one thing that your partner did, said or brought to the hospital that really helped you through your birth experience?” Dave Whiteside, a soon-to-be dad from Ontario, Canada, wrote on Twitter. “Expecting dad hoping to support his wife in the best ways possible here ready to take notes.”

It didn’t take long for moms to start filling the thread with their best advice. And, as anyone who has given birth will recognize, these nuggets of wisdom are exactly what Whiteside needs to know going into his first baby’s birth.

There’s this great advice about showering a new mom with attention and praise, both during the birth and after it.

And this advice about keeping family up-to-date, while also creating a record of everyone’s love and support.

The advice kept pouring in, letting Whiteside know everything from what to bring to the hospital to how to work with hospital staff to make sure his wife got the best possible care—including being her advocate with the doctors and nurses, something that came up several times.

But one of the best moments came when the Twitter thread was shared on Instagram, where even more people weighed in—including Kelly Ripa.

“Do you mind if i eat?” And “I’m going to the batting cages since you’re gonna be here a while,” she wrote. Clearly, Mark Consuelos could have used this thread.

Later, Whiteside followed up to thank all the moms of Twitter for their advice, and explain a little more why he and his wife chose to crowdsource their childbirth recommendations.

“We have never been in this situation before and she has never given birth, so we’re taking shots in the dark at what would work best for her,” he wrote. “We don’t know what we don’t know. So why not stand on the shoulders of giants?”

And good thing he did, because now this advice is out there for everyone to use.

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