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30 Things You Have to Do in NYC Before Baby Turns One

by Mimi O'Connor

If you have a new baby in New York City, there are plenty of fun things you’ll want to do in the city that never sleeps while your little one isn’t doing much of it, either!

So your family size just increased by one? (Or two or three …) Congratulations! We know you’ve probably heard this—or already experienced it yourself—but “it” goes fast. Before you know it, your newest plus-one will age out of all those adorable NYC baby activities you planned. Before that happens, make the most of those first 12 months with this list of 30 things to do with a baby in New York City. Also helpful: what all new NYC parents need to know, and some of our favorite NYC Parenting Facebook groups and parenting groups to help you find your tribe.

 

1. Ride a carousel

Reactions can range from delight to wonder to fear (it’s hard to know which one) but hopping on a merry-go-round is more often than not a great time, and makes for awesome photo ops. Plus, this is your first, but certainly not your last trip on a carousel, so you’ll have a snap of your itty bitty on a horse for reference as he or she grows into the ride. Our recommendations? The carousel at Central Park is a classic, while the glass-enclosed Jane’s Carousel on a pier in Dumbo is a new favorite. (Here’s our list of the best carousels NYC has to offer.)

2. Explore Central Park

It’s one of the most famous public greens in the world, and for good reason. Use it! (You can read our complete guide to Central Park with Kids here!) There’s plenty in the park to keep those under 12 months occupied, including navigating the enormous Alice in Wonderland statue, watching ducks and model boats float in the Conservatory Water  and crawling around the open expanses of the Sheep Meadow and Great Lawn. Of course, there are plenty of playgrounds in the park as well, with sandboxes, swings, and water features for when it gets steamy.

3. Visit the Brooklyn Children’s Museum

It can be a little frustrating to take a child under one to a museum; they’re often still a little too, well, little to really get the most out of the offerings. Not so with the Brooklyn Children’s Museum, which while packed with stuff for older kids, features a robust area just for the smallest of visitors. Its “Totally Tots” area (designed for kids five and under) includes a “Baby Hub” filled with bright colors and playful shapes, padded surfaces, and lots of room to practice crawling and walking.

4. Join a mom’s group

You may not think of yourself as “the type” to join a mom’s group. No one really does. But mom’s groups are great for any number of reasons: they help you get info (on doctors, kids’ classes, baby-friendly restaurants and bars); they can help you find childcare, they can keep you from being bored out of your skull. They can also provide support and a sense of community. If that sounds a little hippie dippy to you, perhaps “Ohmygod Chloe is going through an insane sleep regression and I’m losing my mind has anyone experienced this and how long does it last?” can help illustrate how this is anything but touchy-feely. Try these on for size. Parenting Facebook groups are also a great way to connect. We like these in NYC. (If, however, you need some online support from professionals, these online childbirth, newborn care, and breastfeeding classes and support groups are here for you.) And hey, once you’ve found your tribe, you’re gonna need a place to meet up. We love these indoor spots where you can gather with your parents friends and their kids.

5. Have a family photo shoot

Do your own, or hire a pro to capture some of those early precious weeks and months. We love these NYC photographers for kids and families.

6. Crawl around a playspace

Looking for baby activities near you? Well, just like NYC is bursting with coffee shops and bodegas, it’s surprisingly bursting with playspaces, too. Most have areas reserved for the tiniest of visitors. Here’s our list of the top ones in the city. In Brooklyn? Check out these! Need a place in Queens? Check these out! 

7. Eat out

You might think you’re at the point in your child’s life when you can’t really go out to a restaurant with them. Parents of three year-olds would strongly disavow that notion, pointing out that now is the perfect time to roll into a restaurant and enjoy a meal while your little one naps, grabs some quality binkie time, or enjoys a bottle. (Three year-olds are much less easily amused.) It doesn’t have to be Per Se, and it doesn’t have to be at eight o’clock at night, but you and your partner deserve to leave the house and have someone else do the cooking. May we suggest brunch at one of these kid-friendly spots? And hey, if it’s nice out, check out these places to eat outside with kids!

Related: What New NYC Moms Need To Know

8.  Visit Governors Island

There’s always something happening on the island, and it’s a great place to spend the day with kids of any age. (Also: very stroller-friendly.) Plus, it’s open year-round now! See our guide to visiting Governors Island with kids here!

9. Watch a movie

When a new baby hits the scene, it can feel like you may never see a movie in the theater ever again—especially if it’s your first time at the kiddie rodeo. (While your movie-going habits may never return to their pre-baby levels, rest assured you will, in fact, watch a film on the big screen with your significant other sooner than you think.) But why wait? New York is home to movie theaters that welcome you and your little one for a screening featuring lowered volume and light levels, changing table-equipped restrooms and free admission for the tiny culture vultures. Check out Nitehawk Cinema’s “Hawks With Babies”  series every Tuesday afternoon, at both its Williamsburg and its  Prospect Park locations, which features first-run movies. At the Alamo Drafthouse in downtown Brooklyn, babes are welcome at the “Alamo for All” sensory-friendly screenings. Alamo also recently opened a theater downtown in the Financial District! See our full list of kid-friendly movie theaters here! 

10. Take a museum stroller tour

We won’t pretend your baby is getting any real cultural edification out of one of these kid-friendly tours, but it certainly can’t hurt to take an infant to the Guggenheim or the Whitney. Both museums offer tours specifically for parents and their babies. Note: this is also a great option for a mom’s group outing. (Many museums allow strollers, but contact one before you visit to be sure.)

11. Go on a stroller-friendly hike

If you’d rather get some fresh air, we also love these outdoor stroller hikes in and around NYC. Are you a Park Slope Parents member? They offer stroller tours of Green-wood Cemetery (particularly stunning in spring) several times a year.

12. Explore Brooklyn Bridge Park

A sprawling, riverside outdoor activity Shangri-La with views of Manhattan, Brooklyn Bridge Park is worth a trip with the little one. While many of the park’s features are created for kids skew older (they’ll love Slide Mountain and the Water Lab at Pier 6 in a couple of years) there is still plenty to enjoy here from “Swing Valley” to pint-sized playgrounds for crawlers on Pier 5, to lots of open, green space for lounging in the grass. Plus, a giant sand play area! PS: Williamsburg’s Domino Park is a similar, destination playground with water fun, too!

13. Take a swim class

They say that babies naturally know how to swim (or you know, something like that). It’s never too early to get kids in the water, and a swim class is another chance to bond with your child that actually serves a practical purpose beyond forming attachment. Here’s where you and your guppie can get kick-kick-kicking!

14. Hit up a drop-in class or open play

You don’t need to commit to eight or more weeks of a class to expose your baby to music, art, or just other babies. A great way to determine the best activity for both you and the little one, these one-offs are also an opportunity to chat with other parents who are navigating the whole process of raising a small human being. Plus: your living room isn’t a mess when it’s over. In Manhattan? These places are great!  Check out these drop-in spots in Brooklyn or these drop-in options in Queens!

15. Take a music class

There’s no shortage of classes where you and the little one can get your tune on in New York; it’s just a matter of what kind of music you want to play (or hear). For classic, multi-culti fare, try Music Together. Music for Aardvarks celebrates the experiences of being as city kid (most famously, in an ode to taxi rides). And there are so many more to consider as well. All of them are guaranteed to make use of instruments and at least once make you feel like an idiot as you prance around in a circle. But the kids, they love it.

16. Try some baby-friendly fitness classes, too

The yoga, swimming and kickboxing that you did while pregnant? You can do it with baby in tow! (Well, okay, maybe not the kickboxing). Harlem Yoga Studio is dedicated to being affordable and accessible to all moms and their babies, while The Yoga Room in Astoria and Long Island City brings a similar service to Queens, Bread & Yoga serves Inwood, and Brooklyn has Shanti Baby Yoga. Feel like swimming instead of omm-ing? Imagine Swimming and Take Me to the Water have locations around the city, while 92nd St. Y and 14th St. Y fulfill the needs of those looking for more than just swimming lessons, with other family programming.

17. Get a library card

If you’re already a fan and patron of the library, good for you. If not, you soon will be! Not only will your local branch keep your bedtime reading fresh, it also probably hosts lots of events like storytime, performances and more — for free! (Also: libraries can be a great rainy day hangout solution. Other families will be there, we promise.)

18. Score some gently-used and adorable duds

Sure, you should splurge on a super adorable ensemble from a spot like Jacadi or Livly or Two Kids and a Dog. But be prepared for your child to wear it for about half a minute. Then head to a spot for secondhand scores also barely worn at spots like Parachute Brooklyn,  Owl Tree and Jane’s Exchange. Or check out local online consignment boutique Consignment4kids.com, where you can score high-end clothes for cheap, perhaps make a few bucks and clear out the closets. (If your items don’t sell, the shop will take care of donations for you if you wish.)

19. Do whatever you want for Halloween

Future Halloweens will be filled with debate and much mind-changing, but this year it’s all you. Make your own, pay top dollar or score a mint-condition costume at a thrift store or consignment shop, but whatever you do, don’t stress and have fun. Need some inspiration? These are some of our favorite NYC-inspired costumes from Halloween 2021.

Related: NYC’s Top Parenting Groups

20. Go to the zoo

The zoo is one of those places you can’t wait for the baby to experience. Warning: it takes a while for them to really appreciate it. While that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t go, it does mean you should go the right one. The Bronx Zoo is great, but massive, and actually the better choice when kids are older and super psyched to see animals. Our choice for a lovely, manageable afternoon with some up-close-and-personal farm animal action as well as well-designed habitats is the Queens Zoo in Flushing Meadows Corona Park. The Prospect Park Zoo is also great and more compact, and has farm animals to interface with as well. (Hot tip: a family membership to the Wildlife Conservation Society gets you into all of the zoos—and the New York Aquarium—and offers other perks. It’s one of our favorite family memberships!)

21. Get a haircut

Some kids remain close to bald as a cue ball for what seems like ages, but even they typically need a haircut before the first year is up. Shops specializing in kids’ cuts can be found all over the city, and many do double duty as a toy or shoe store as well. Try one of these for the inaugural snip.

22. Learn how to wear the baby

Wearing the baby is not for everyone, but lately, it seems like it’s for a lot of people. (You kind of can’t beat the convenience of a strap-and-go baby transporting device; sometimes a stroller is just too much.) It can be tough to get the hang of it, though. Master the wrap with a baby-wearing class. We suggest The Wild (formerly Wild Was Mama) and Metro Minis/babywearing nyc for help getting in the sling of things.

23. Try a subscription service

Need some easy things to do with babies? A turnkey subscription service can make your life as a new parent so much easier, and, honestly, a lot more fun. Clothes, developmental toys, food: take your pick. You deserve it.

24. Consider a meal kit

You’ve got a lot going on. Try getting a meal or two a week handled with one of these meal kits. (We tried them all!) If that’s still too much work—trust us, we get it!—you can make things even easier by trying a meal delivery service.

25. Get out of town

Or, at the very least, get out of the neighborhood! Take the train to the beach.  Or the LIRR to a nearby town. Maybe go for a hike with the baby on your back. 

26. Don’t forget to ask for help!

From support groups to services that will clean your stroller, babysit, send you cloth diapers and more, we’ve rounded up where to visit or call when assistance is needed!

27. Get some good city-centric books

These are our favorite books featuring NYC for kids, and these are the indie booksellers who can get them to you!

28. Know when—and how—to just get it delivered.

Click here for all kinds of delivery services, from diapers to wine to toys!

Related: How to Throw the Perfect Playground Birthday Party

29. See some bright lights!

Get those neurons firing with some holiday display stimulation! Check out where to see holiday lights in NYC here!

30. Take a snap with Santa

Depending on your baby’s birth date, a Santa photo might ultimately be the equivalent of a dude in a red suit holding a blob in a holiday onesie. Still, if you celebrate Christmas, it’s a great way to mark the years, and the grandparents can’t get enough of it. These are our picks for where to find the man in the red suit!

 

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Couple Who Boldly Change Baby’s Diaper on an Airplane Tray Table Don’t See the Issue

by Christina Marfice

A couple was asked to stop changing their baby’s diaper on an airplane tray table, but somehow, they didn’t think they were the problem

There’s been a lot of debate lately about babies on planes—is it OK for them to make messes, cry, and do other normal baby things, or should they be banned from planes altogether? Obviously, no rational person thinks banning babies and toddlers from any public space is the answer, but this couple isn’t helping that argument. They got called out for changing their baby’s very dirty diaper on an airplane tray table and somehow didn’t see the issue.

This story comes (of course) from Reddit’s “Am I the A**hole” forum, where a recent flyer asked the internet to weigh in on whether she was in the wrong for asking the parents (very politely) to take their diaper activities to the plane’s bathroom.

AITA for asking a couple to stop changing their baby’s diaper in the middle of a plane?
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“I (28F) was on a flight for several hours today, seated behind a couple with a baby,” she wrote. “I’m a really nauseous flyer, so I took a Dramamine ahead of time and did my best to get some sleep during the flight. This didn’t happen because of the baby’s crying, but oh well, I know flights are scary and stressful for infants and there was nothing anyone could do about that.”

She continued, “What got to me was the couple changing their baby’s extremely stinky #2 diaper right in the middle of their seats, using the mom’s food tray as a changing table. We were at the back of the plane right by the bathrooms, which I confirmed had baby changing tables when I had to go back there to throw up after the smell hit me. I didn’t say anything the first time, but the second time I heard them go into the diaper bag a couple hours later I asked if they could please go use the plane bathroom instead of exposing everyone on the plane to the smell.”

Seems like a pretty reasonable request, right? Well, the mom in question didn’t think so.

“The mom went off on me and said I had no idea how stressful it is to travel with an infant, which is true—I don’t have kids,” OP wrote. “The flight attendant at the back of the plane agreed with me and asked them to only use the bathrooms to change their baby, plus a few minutes later the pilot made an announcement that all diaper changing needed to be done in the bathrooms, after which both parents looked extremely annoyed.”

Do we really need to break this one down? Airplane tray tables are small and flimsy—not even a convenient place to change your baby, especially when you have access to a bathroom that has an actual changing table. But beyond that, this is just gross. Those tray tables aren’t cleaned or disinfected regularly. Think of all the bacteria this baby’s bare bum came into contact with—and all the poor people who came after these rude parents and unknowingly ate and drank off that tray table. Absolutely not. Look, if parents are in a bind, need to change a pee diaper, and somehow can’t make it to the restroom, we can see attempting a fast change on the actual seat on a changing pad, but that’s where we draw the line. This was way over it.

Obviously, banning babies from flights is ridiculous. But banning parents like these ones? We could get behind it. And from now on, we’ll be thoroughly disinfecting our tray tables before using them.

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Portland’s Wonderfully Weird Family-Friendly Airbnbs

by Annette Benedetti

Waterfront cabins, treehouses, tiny houses, and more

From the weird to the wonderful local families looking for adventure are bound to find it in Portland (and nearby). So, when it comes time to planning your family vacation, you may just decide you want to a staycation, especially after you discover what the local Airbnbs have to offer. From treehouses to hobbit holes, whether you are planning a staycation or bringing your loved ones to the area for a visit, you are going to want to book one of the best airbnbs for families near Portland for your next vacation.

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Eagle's Nest Treehouse—Portland

Only a 10-minute drive from Downtown Portland, this Airbnb is the stuff dreams are made of. Let the kid in you come and play along with your own kids in this real treehouse held up by four separate trees! Play and sleep 18 feet up in the air and then zip line down to the ground. Or, take a giant soak in the "hot tub," with no chemicals so you don't have to rinse off getting in. A magical stroll through the woods leads to the suspension bridge up in the air. And, there's even a large hammock to relax in. 

Sleeps: 6

Online: Airbnb.com

Magic Barn—Portland

For a truly magical Portland experience, the Magic Barn (circa 1936) was a former sculpture studio. It was restored with old growth barn wood, and upcycled furnishings. It now has a kitchen, claw foot bath, baby amenities, and a jaw-dropping sculpture garden with giant whimsical pieces. Centrally located in one of Portland's most desirable areas--3 blocks to SE Hawthorne and Division's charming restaurant and boutique district--there's plenty to do within walking distance. A stay in this artistic space is sure to ignite the imaginations of both young and old. If you have a large party, you can also book the attached magical house.

For the kids:

Upon request, a portable crib, baby bath, and high chair are available. The sculpture garden is a space of wonders for kiddos to enjoy.

Online: Airbnb.com

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Hobbit Hole on Hawthorne—Portland

Cozy up in this work of art that is designed to make you and the kids feel like you are part of the Hobbit's epic adventures. From the furniture to the walls and ceilings this handcrafted, sustainable abode is inspired by the Lord of the Rings and is guaranteed to infuse your vacation with magic. It's made from reclaimed clay and tree roots, and you will discover reclaimed materials throughout the entire space. Don't worry, you won't go completely without a real-world experience. The space includes a kitchenette, central heating, and a lovely bathroom with all the toiletries. 

Staying in a Hobbit house will thrill any child, but it's extra neat that the owners included a high chair, Pack n' Play, children's toys and books, outlet covers and children's dinnerware. There's also a beautiful little yard for youngsters to enjoy.

Sleeps: 4

Online: airbnb.com

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Beautiful, Magical Treehouse—Mt. Hood

For a real mountain experience rent this luxury treehouse. This magical abode is suspended between three large fir trees on 20 acres of property at the base of Mt. Hood. It boasts four beds, so everyone has enough space, and comes with a composting toilet, mini-fridge, and microwave for a true glamping experience. There is a swirling, spiral staircase that inspires wonder as you ascend to your family suite where you will find about 200 square feet of space with a sleeping loft. The kids won't want to leave once they are settled in. And with a beautiful seating area below the treehouse, mom and dad might not want to either.

For the Kids
There is a one-acre pond with kayaks and a nearby zipline for plenty of adventure and busy little (and big) bodies. For the quieter set, there is a beautiful garden and a row boat to float around in. Onsite hiking, disc golf, horseshoes, basketball and a pendulum swing ensure everyone has something to do.

Sleeps: 4

Online: airbnb.com

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Hamilton House—Portland

Don't worry about packing anything but the clothes you intend to wear. This house is your temporary home and its dedication to kid-friendliness goes above and beyond. With three bedrooms and six beds, you can bring the whole crew and some of the kids' friends along as well. You'll save money staying in to eat because the gorgeous gourmet kitchen makes cooking feel a whole lot more fun than when you are at home! The two bathrooms come fully stocked so don't worry about bringing shampoo or soap, just show up and relax. The house has three smart televisions, an array of DVDs and VHS movies as well as cable for some evening entertainment. And there is plenty of yard space for little legs that need room to run. 

For the Kids
It's the little things that make a whole lot of difference when you are traveling with your kiddos. We love the fun bunk bed set up along with kiddie extras like the Pack n' Play, changing table, stroller, and safety locks on drawers with dangerous items. There's also a range of games and toys to keep even the youngest entertained so mom and dad can relax.

Sleeps: 10

Online: airbnb.com

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The Woodlands Cabin—Sandy, OR

The Woodlands House sits on five acres of wooded property. It is a beautiful 3 bedroom home (plus kids room) with two outdoor decks surrounded by beautiful trees. It's perfect for getaways or a trip to the mountains, as it's a 25 min drive from Mount Hood skiing, 15 minutes from hikes, and only 45 min from PDX.

The large deck off the main level which overlooks a trickling stream, is the perfect place to enjoy a cup of coffee and watch deer come to the water for a drink. The deck also features a large 6-person hot tub, that is perfect to soak your bones after a day of skiing or hiking.

Sleeps: 7
Online: airbnb.com

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What You’ll Really Use with the Second Baby

by Katie L. Carroll

Expecting… again? Take our word for it, these are the second baby must-haves that you’ll actually use

Congrats, baby number two is on the way! That means more love in your heart, but also more stuff in your home. And it begs the question: what do you really need? We asked parents with multiple children to weigh in on what items to keep, what to donate, and what to toss to create the ultimate list of second baby must-haves. As you’ll see, not everyone was in agreement, but that’s where your opinion comes in, because you’re an experienced parent now, too. For all the parents out there who have ever wondered “what do you need for a second baby?”—this one’s for you!

Before you start the sorting process, remember to give all items a thorough check and discard any that are past their expiration date, recalled, or have wear and tear that might pose a safety hazard.

a mom holds her new baby by a window feeindg him with a bottle, second baby must haves includes feeding accessories
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Feeding

“Make sure to keep fresh bottles and formula on hand for the second baby, even if you didn't use them with the first. You always want to be prepared in case you need them for a middle-of-the-night feeding.”—Julianne

“Don’t keep the baby food maker. I made all my first child’s baby purees. However, I found I couldn’t keep up with the peeling, dicing, steaming and mashing with my second and working full-time. Buying storebought ended up being so much easier and less stressful. If you’re concerned about the regulations in storebought brands, my pediatrician recommended checking the Clean Label Project website. Or, there are fresh baby food subscriptions you can join, such as Yumi.”—Ashley

“I liked having my same familiar nursing pillow for baby two. You can always get a new cover to freshen it up or make it match any new decorating you do.”—Kate

“We had extra breastfeeding pillows from keeping one at a parent’s house, so we donated one of those. We learned from baby one which bottles we didn’t like, so we gave away those extras.”—Kelly

Diapering

“One product I found that was not necessary was the changing table. The floor was so much easier as I was usually sitting on it anyway, and the older sibling was right there to help as well. Pulling out extra wipes was a helpful job and having the older sibling be a part of it made it special for her and easy to keep eyes on both kiddos, which was a mom win!”—Meghan

“Don’t keep a purse-style diaper bag. Get a diaper bag backpack instead! I had a crossbody style for my first, but being hands-free was so much easier with two.”—Ashley

“Between babies one and two, we switched to cloth diapers and so donated that horrible diaper genie!”—Andie

“After the first one, I realized the waste of the diaper genie and wipes warmer. A plastic shopping bag works just the same and is much cheaper than the refills, while the wipes warmer dries out the wipes too quickly.”—Shelly

“Keep the wipe warmer. I was a skeptic. I left it in the box. I mean, really—one more thing to plug in and maintain—so unnecessary, right? Well, three kids later, the youngest (now 4) still insists on a warm wipe when the pull-up comes off in the morning. And in retrospect, who can blame her—have you ever tried to use a cold wipe on a chilly morning? Case closed!”—Kelly

Sleeping

“I was so grateful to have kept our bassinet for the second baby.”—Kerry

“Keep the crib. I reused my crib and put my son straight into a big boy bed. But don’t keep the crib mattress. You want a firm, clean mattress for the new baby!”—Ashley

“Cribs are expensive, and getting a new one for every child would be incredibly wasteful. So long as it meets safety standards, it makes sense to tighten up all the pieces, give it a good cleaning, and buy new sheets for the next baby.”—Adam

Related: 13 Signs You're on Your Second Baby

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Clothing

“We have three boys, so we saved a lot of baby clothes, only getting rid of those that were stained or damaged. We kept it all organized by size in canvas storage containers and pulled them out as needed.”—Kate

“Don’t keep all the old clothes. I had a girl after having my son, and as much clothing as I saved to be practical, I found I couldn’t resist buying some new clothes. People also gifted or handed down plenty to me. Jammies, however, keep! You can never have too many and they’re all adorable. I loved seeing my daughter in her big brother’s shark and construction jammies for some reason.”—Ashley

Car Seat

“As a mom that had her second child five years later, so much had changed. My newest family member was over ten pounds, so the infant car seat was extra heavy. So we used a convertible one and wore him as much as we could.”—Meghan

“The JJ Cole Bundleme is an absolute lifesaver. The ease of zipping it right into the car seat and not having to worry about putting coats on and off is well worth it! With multiple winter babies, I couldn’t imagine not having it!”—Rebeka

Stroller

“Time to upgrade the stroller. I like the sit-stand type so my older kid can jump on and off.”—Christopher

“If you have kids close together, a sit-and-stand stroller is great. The older one wants to be independent but still gets tired easily so it's great when they want to hop off to walk with you.”—Shelly

“We never bothered with a double stroller since the boys are four years apart.”—Kerry

“I definitely kept the strollers. I held on to almost everything if I’m being honest!”—Lindsay

Related: The Ultimate Baby Registry Checklist for New Parents-To-Be

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Play Time

“I donated anything we never used with baby one, anything broken, chewing toys with plastic, gifts we didn’t use. Babies need very little. A soft place to play on the floor, a place to sleep, an eating chair, clothes, diapers, a car seat, stroller, and a few things to play with and teeth on.”—Kelly

“One baby item I made sure to keep was the swing. It was great for the baby to take an afternoon nap in. Or a safe spot to keep the baby entertained while I made dinner. There were even a handful of nights it helped during the witching hour when everyone was at wits' end! Definitely one of the most useful baby items in our house.”—Nicole

“The playmat is a must keep. It makes the dreaded tummy time a little more manageable. And older siblings love having a turn demonstrating all the toys to the new baby.”—Kate

“Keep any safe place to put the baby when things get hectic. This includes pack and plays, swings, seats and loungers. Also, just because your first didn’t like something doesn’t mean your second will be the same. I was gifted a baby swing that my son never enjoyed using, but my daughter loved.”—Ashley

“We kept my BabyBjörn bouncer, the jumper toys, my lightweight baby carrier, our swings, all of our ‘teach the ABCs’ toys, and our ride-on lion!”—Kerry

It’s Not All About the Stuff

“I’d say that after having one child, when you’re preparing to have a second, you realize how few of the things you registered for or got with your first that you actually used. All you really need are a crib (or similar), car seat, some clothes and diapers, and a stroller and/or carrier depending on your parenting style.”—Phoebe

“The best advice I can give to parents from going from one to two kids is to give yourselves time and some grace as you adjust. Say yes to help from grandparents or friends when they offer. Try to dedicate some special time every day to your first child when the baby sleeps or other parent is home and engage in a craft, walk, reading a book or just playing with toys.”—Lindsay

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27 Diaper Changing Must-Haves That Are Borderline Genius

by Kate Cartia

It’s a dirty job, but these are the best diaper changing tools out there to make it easier

Although it’s never the most fun duty out there, diaper changing is obviously a necessity. It’s part of the job. Whether you’ve never changed a diaper before or have experience in the game, you quickly become a master because babies don’t have an “off” button. Not to mention, the number of diapers babies go through indicates some valuable health information, including how much they’re eating, how hydrated they are, and more. That doesn’t make it anymore enjoyable, though. Of course, we’re not promising an enjoyable diaper changing experience here. However, we can promise to make it a lot smoother with the best diaper changing tools we’ve come across!

From cloth to disposable, we have solutions for every family. Childcare accessories and tools are always improving, so there’s a good chance we’ve found something that’ll make diaper duty easier for you. There are brand new ideas and improved versions of familiar products and time-tested tools. No matter how you do the changing thing, we’ve got the best diaper changing tools right here.

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Even when it seems like you diaper pail is sealed, there's always the risk of unpleasant odors. And nothing ruins that sweet baby smell like that! Enter the Munchkin UV Diaper Pail, with 4 gold LED lights that automatically sterilize internal surfaces and kill 99% of bacteria and viruses.

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LA Baby Diaper Caddy & Nursery Organizer

We love this caddy for its universal fit for changing tables, walls, dressers, or doors!

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Munchkin Diaper Change Organizer

If you'd prefer to go the tabletop organizer route, this one holds up to 20 diapers and has a flat top for wipes dispenser or white warmer!

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SnoofyBee Playtime Changing Pad

This genius changing pad includes a fold-up barrier to keep tiny hands from interfering with changing time!

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PINE Smart Baby Diapers

If your little one is prone to UTIs, these diapers from PINE Smart have an indicator line when it detects possible urinary tract infection.

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Sposie Diaper Booster Pads

It's incredible when your babe starts sleeping longer through the night, but sometimes your diaper can't keep up. These ultra-absorbent diaper inserts keep them drier, longer. 

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Spray Pal Cloth Diaper Sprayer and Splatter Shield Bundle

Make pre-rinsing cloth diapers so much easier with the Spray Pal Cloth Diaper Sprayer and Splatter Shield Bundle!

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Cloth Diaper Liners

These 100% biodegradable liners let liquid to pass through and allows for much easier solid cleanup and ultimately much easier diaper washing, too!

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Adjustable Cloth Diapers

If you're on the fence about cloth diapers, there's a good chance these highly-rated ones from Amazon will change your mind!

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GroVia Mighty Bubbles Laundry Treatment for Baby Cloth Diapers

This pretreatment breaks down waste stains and makes those cloth diapers good as new!

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Bumco Diaper Cream Spatula

This has to be one of the best inventions in diapers in a long time. Keep those fingers clean, make diaper cream application smooth and easy, and toss it in the diaper bag and you're set!

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Boogie No-Rub Diaper Rash Spray

This advanced diaper cream has over 13K Amazon reviews singing its praises!

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Eli & Ali Tush Swiper

The Tush Swiper fits on most tubes of diaper rash cream, and even has one specifically dedicated to Aquaphor users! We're keeping your fingers clean left and right.

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Munchkin Brica Out-N-About Collapsible Trunk Organizer & Diaper Changing Station

Never get stuck in a diaper emergency while you're on the go again! This trunk organizer from Munchkin has everything you need to stay prepared while you're out and about.

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Baby Changing Basket Station

Into a boho aesthetic for the nursery? This on-trend basket set makes a great baby shower gift!

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Baby Sensory Toy Bundle

One of the best ways to keep your little one from getting too squirmy or getting their hands dirty is a toy that they only see during diaper changes! This sensory set from Fat Brain Toys is sure to keep their attention.

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Hanging Diaper Organizer

Over 7K Amazon customers swear by this crib-side/changing table-side/playard-side diaper organizer!

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Dékor Classic Diaper Pail Gift Set

For parents who prefer to keep it simple, this classic diaper pail set with over a year's worth of liner refills is a must.

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wegreenco Reusable Bamboo Charcoal Cloth Diaper Inserts

These inserts pull moisture away from your baby's skin and keep odors at bay. Plus, they're washable and reusable!

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Ubbi Disposable Diaper Sacks

Make cleanup a breeze at home or on the go with these 20% recycled material-made diaper sacks! They even have a fresh scent that helps control odor and long handles for tying.

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Luli Bebé Monaco Diaper Bag

Trés chic! For the on-trend mama, this gorgeous vegan leather diaper back from Luli Bebé is it. It has a 100% stain-resistant exterior, smooth wipeable interior, a ridiculous amount of space, and can be worn as a backpack or over the arm. Luxury meets function? Almost 300 customers think so; they rated the Monaco Diaper Bag a full 5 stars! 

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shortyLOVE tillie Tote

shortyLOVE combines designer vibes with durable and sporty fabrications, making their bags ideal for moms! The tillie Tote opens wide enough to fit a pair of shoes (so baby's things are sure to fit!), has a bunch of pockets, a key fob, and a flat bottom so it stands up. It's also available in a bunch of on-trend color combinations! Pair it with the matching shortyLOVE merchant wallet for the ultimate in convenience.

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RUVALINO Diaper Bag Backpack

This diaper backpack from RUVALINO is Amazon's Choice for good reason: over 30K Amazon reviewers love it! With its waterproof fabrication, changing pad, and 17 pockets, it's easy to see why.

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Columbia Carson Pass Diaper Backpack

Into a rugged look? The Columbia diaper backpack with thermal bottle pocket, leak proof lining, and padded back for comfort is a win.

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Momcozy Universal Stroller Organizer

Attach this beauty to your stroller handle, or use it as a hand-carry caddy! Either way, the Momcozy organizer is an amazing way to keep everything you need at your fingertips!

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Gingko Baby Supa Tough Diaper Bag Organizing Pouches Set of 5

You're about to become the most organized parent out there! This set of diaper bag pouches keeps everything in order, and in theory, you could make any bag into a diaper bag with these.

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12 Kid-Friendly Breweries near Washington, DC

by Meghan Yudes Meyers

When you become a parent, your bar days may be over, but breweries are fair game! If you’re looking for a new place to hang for a family date, consider these brew pubs that check off all the family-fun boxes. On our list are kid-friendly breweries that boast a wide range of perks like old fashioned arcade games, made-for-digging sand pits, onsite playgrounds, fireside s’mores kits, kid-friendly menus and ample room to run around. From splash pad-adjacent Dacha Beer Garden in Navy Yards to worth-the-drive-for-a-playground Vanish Farmwoods Brewery in NOVA, here are the best family-friendly breweries to grab a cold one this summer.

Washington, DC

Dacha Beer Garden
With riverfront views, a kid’s play area and (if you’re lucky) a night sky filled with Nat Park fireworks, what more could you want? How about a near-by splash park to cool off during the summer. This place is so family-friendly, you can even bring your pup!

Insider tip: Also coming to The Yard this summer is The Cove, a reincarnation of Bardo that will also be a family-friendly spot to grab a brew. Expect a tropical vibe with fire pits, games and tented sandlots.

1600 7th Street NW
Navy Yard
Online: dachadc.com

Atlas Brew Works
This brewery is so kid-welcoming the event space often hosts first birthday parties. For older kids, you’ll find a number of classic arcades. Head here on the first Sunday of the month and they cost a dime. You’ll often find parent meet-ups at this Ivy City hangout, but if you want to kick back and relax sans kids, drop them off at The Lane Social Club down the street for 2 hours of fun-filled childcare.

Editor’s note: the tap room is temporarily closed for a summer refresh. While you wait for this Ivy City brewery to reopen, be sure to head to their Half Street location by Nat Park. Andy’s New York-style pizza makes this worth a visit with kids.

2052 West Virginia Ave NE #102
Ivy City
Online: atlasbrewworks.com

 

City State Brewing 
Follow this brewery’s event page for kid-friendly events like Kids, Eggs & Kegs and magic shows from the likes of The Great Zucchini. There is free goldfish, juice boxes ($1) and chips (.50) for little eaters. The open-air indoor seating is spacious and provides plenty of room for families to spread out. Bring packs of Play Doh or Wikki Sticks for tabletop activities. There are also onsite arcade games, skeeball and corn hole for those that need an active challenge.

Insider Tip: Thomas the Train lovers will love the City State Brewing’s front row seat to the rails. Over 85 trains pass by a day!

705 Edgewood St NE
Edgewood
Online: citystatebrewing.com

DC ‘Burbs

Eavesdrop Brewery 
Leave the hustle-and-bustle of all-things-metro behind at this rustic, barn-like brewery off Route 28 near Manassas. Tucked away behind a small, suburban strip mall, Eavesdrop offers plenty of space for kids (and adults) to run and play outdoors. You’ll find the usual beer-garden staples, like cornhole, on the property. The patio area is expansive with numerous picnic tables; outside food is welcome and encouraged. Weather permitting, there is an outdoor fire pit for roasting marshmallows. The indoor space is small, but does feature board games and a popcorn machine.

7223 Centreville Road Suite 115
Manassas, VA 20111
703-420-8955
Online: eavesdropbrewery.com

 

 

Port City Brewing Company
This tasting room has all the beer hall gaming classics for an entertaining afternoon: giant Jenga, ladderball, darts, cornhole and more. It’s the old school arcade games — which don’t cost a penny — that are sure to please the 6 & up crowd. Don’t forget to pack the pb&J sandwiches and mozzarella sticks when you hit this picnic-friendly brewery. Outside food is welcome!

3950 Wheeler Avenue
Alexandria, VA 22304
703-797-2739
Online: portcitybrewing.com

Solace Brewery Company 
This expansive tasting room has oversized picnic tables for families to gather over a board game. A foosball table, a pinball machine and an arcade game keep kids (and adults) entertained. If the kids get the tummy grumbles, grab some popcorn from the old-timey popcorn machine onsite.

Insider Tip: Head to near-by Steven F. Udvar-Hazy Center or Sully Historic Site to make this outing an all-day event.

42615 Trade West Drive
Sterling, VA 20166
703-345-5630
Online: solacebrewing.com

Denizens Brewing
The Denizens slogan says it all: “Unified by beer.” All are welcome at this Silver Spring beer hall, conveniently located off Georgia Avenue. Expansive rooms mean even parents with small children in tow can find a quite, un-crowded spot. The rooftop offers ample seating (but, note, there is limited shade outside). If hunger strikes, this brewery has a kid-friendly menu with crowd pleasers like chicken fingers .

1115 East-West Highway
Silver Spring, MD 20910
301-557-9818
Online: denizensbrewingco.com

Twinpanzee
If you enjoy family game night, bring your crew to this Sterling establishment for some beer and board games.  Twinpanzee offers games for all ages, including Candy Land, Operation, Chutes and Ladders, Trouble, Sorry!, Clue and more. There is also a Nintendo Entertainment System with over 30 games to challenge your loved ones with. Kids 16 and under are treated to free chips and juice. The brewery frequently hosts family-friendly events like kart racing.

10 Executive Drive
Sterling, VA 20166
703-791-9363
Online: twinpanzee.com

MacDowell Brew Kitchen

MacDowell Brew Kitchen

Craft beer aficionados regularly gather here with their littles who like to play and build sand castles on the year-round beach outfitted with a couple of fire pits for chilly afternoons. With a full menu, this is the perfect spot for a laid back weekend brunch.

Insider Tip: For more beach-themed dining, check out this guide. 

202 Harrison Street SE, Suite B
Leesburg, VA 20175
703-777-2739
Online: macdowellsbrewkitchen.com

Worth the Drive

Dirt Farm Brewery
Dirt Farm, nestled on the side of the Blue Ridge Mountains, not only serves exceptional beers but it offers outstanding views. If your crew is hungry, this brewery serves hand-tossed flatbread pizzas. You’ll find plenty of toys and attractions on-hand to entertain the little ones, like tubs of bubbles, monster-sized trucks and more. The most fun? Playing in the dirt, of course!

Insider Tip: Great Country Farm (owned by the same family that runs Dirt Farm) is at the foot of the mountain and a must-see stop.

18701 Foggy Bottom Road
Bluemont, VA 20135
540-554-2337
Online: dirtfarmbrewing.com

Vanish
Spend the day in the country at this Loudoun County brewery; set on over 50 acres, this rural establishment encourages guests to BYOG (bring your own games), enjoy over 20 beers on tap and make use of its wide open spaces. Enjoy the rural outdoor setting while playing corn hole or gaga ball and if the kids need to burn off some energy, there is a  a playground on site. This brewery often hosts special events with kid-friendly attractions like face painters.

Insider Tip: While you are in the area, be sure to check out Temple Hall Farm, a working farm open free to the public (and a short five mile drive from the brewery).

42264 Black Hops Lane
Leesburg, VA 20176
703-779-7407
Online: vanishbeer.com

 

 

Peabody Heights Brewery 
The largest brewery in Baltimore City is also the most kid-friendly; Peabody, located in the Abell Neighborhood, offers tours and tastings every Wednesday, Friday and Saturday. In addition to the industrial-style tasting room, you’ll also find outdoor seating. The real draw is the dedicated kid play space, that includes two bookcases filled with children’s books, a train table, ride-on toys and more.

401 E 30th Street
Baltimore, MD 21218
410-467-7837
Online: peabodyheightsbrewery.com

 

Harpers Ferry Brewery
This brewery is exactly 60 miles from the city; it’s a mini road trip, but well worth the drive for the breathtaking views of the Potomac River. Make a day of it by spending some time on the water, visit the nearby historic town of Harpers Ferry, or take a stroll down the C&O towpath.

37412 Adventure Center Ln
Purcellville, VA 20132
571-310-2543
Online: harpersferrybrewing.com

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Portland Eco Boutiques: Sustainable & Stylish

by Hannah Judge

Little bundles of joy, also known as babies, are deserving of nothing less than the utmost quality in all aspects of life. We understand that as a parent, you want your baby to be swaddled in, entertained by, and cared for with goods that are natural, organic, and nontoxic. But when you’re suddenly drowning in diapers, dealing with a new, baby-centric schedule, and trying to hang on to your sanity, how do you find the time to figure out where to get such goods? We’ve gathered up the best Portland-based child-focused eco boutiques and listed them here for your convenience. Read on for more!

Grasshopper

Yulia N. via Yelp

Located in the heart of the Alberta Arts district, this store for all-things-kids wants to make sure that you find that special something for your family or your friend's child. Whether you're interested in trendy, comfortable child attire or toys that invigorate a child's imagination, Grasshopper has exactly what you're looking for. The best part? Everything they sell is non-toxic and eco-friendly, meaning you can indulge without worry! Grasshopper is constantly adding new inventory to their store and listing it on their website, so head online to see what is available for you and your family today!

Where: 1816 NE Alberta, Portland OR
Hours: 11:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m., daily
Phone: (503) 335-3131
Online: grasshopperstore.com

EcoBaby Gear

Focused on providing Portland families with organic, natural, eco-friendly products, EcoBaby Gear is a family owned and operated business that treats you like a member of their own. They feature sustainably crafted rattles and teethers, feeding gear and baby skin care. Want to get out on the go? They sell strollers for your spring and summer time walks around the neighborhood! They also offer support groups for new parents and offer a host of family activities, including baby sign language! Don't hesitate to head out to their spot on Division today!

Where: 2122 SE Division St., Portland OR 97216
Hours: Mon. - Fri: 10 a.m. - 4 p.m.
Sat. 10 a.m. - 2 p.m.
Phone: (503) 233-4167
Online: ecobabygear.com/

The Bull and The Bee

Becca S. via Yelp

Travel a touch south of Portland and into the Moreland neighborhood to see what this baby boutique is all about! Need something for you sweet newborn? The Bull and The Bee have got your back. Dedicated to providing the little ones in your life with the highest quality, eco-friendly goods, this boutique covers everything from clothing and nursery items to bath and grooming products! Have a wishlist? They have a gift registry service! Need something for Easter? They've got seasonal goodies that will make your friends and family wonder where you got such great presents. Need more incentive? They're open seven days a week, meaning that whenever you can fit them in, they'll be there to help.

Where: 7044 SE Milwaukie Ave., Portland, OR 
Hours: 11 a.m. - 5 p.m. daily
Phone: (503) 235-2855
Online: bullandbeebaby.com/

Black Wagon

Organic and trend-setting, Black Wagon is where you need to go for all those clothing items and accessories on your list. Black Wagon’s merchandise runs the gamut from apparel, toys, books to furniture, bedding and decor, not to mention that more than half of their inventory is supplied by local Portland designers! They've got everything you need for you or your friends' kids, ages brand new to 12! Plus, they're stationed on Mississippi, meaning that you can roll out of their store in environment-approved, North Portland style!

Where: 3964 N Mississippi Ave., Portland OR 97227
Hours: 
Monday - Saturday: 11:00AM - 6:00PM
Sunday: 11:00AM-5:00PM
Phone: (503) 916-0000
Online at: https://blackwagon.com/

PoshBaby

Founded on providing the healthiest, eco-friendly, and stylish products, PoshBaby knows that design, reliability, and sound production are the trifecta when it comes to goods for your kids. PoshBaby refers to itself as a lifestyle boutique, and one trip to their store proves it! They've got it all, from furniture and sleeping gear to carseats and diaper bags. The founders are parents, so they get the hassle of a schedule and offer call-ahead ordering for in-store pickup! They want to make sure that you're having just as good of a time as your child will with the goods from their store, so PoshBaby does their best to make their products sustainable, stylish and affordable. Don't wait, head to their store in the Pearl District or jump online to check out their incredibly aesthetic website now!

Where: 916 NW 10th Ave., Portland OR
Hours: Mon. - Thu. 10:30 a.m. - 6 p.m.
Fri. & Sat.10 a.m. - 6 p.m.
Phone: (503) 478 - 7674
Online: poshbaby.com

—Hannah Judge

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17+ Best Last-Minute Christmas Gifts for Kids of 2021: The Ultimate Wishlist

by Dana Baardsen

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Santa (obviously) knows what the best Christmas gifts for kids are in 2021, so our little kiddies know right away something is off when they’re gifted something that really doesn’t have that wow-factor.

In 2021, kids know what the hottest gifts and toys are before opening them on Christmas morning, thanks to social media, the internet, and underground toy unboxing worlds on video platforms like YouTube and TikTok.

Kids may tell you straight up what they want (and so desperately need) for Christmas this year, but in case you’re running short on inspiration, this list will have you covered.

This Ultimate Christmas Wishlist includes top-selling toys, the most searched-for toys of 2021, award-winning toys, plus the gifts all the kids are talking about this season. (These toy and gift ideas for kids are brand new and fresh out of Santa’s factory for the 2021 holiday, too.) So, fill those carts and be the best Santa you can be this year! Happy shopping!

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CoComelon Official Musical Bedtime JJ Doll

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This soft, singing JJ plush doll is one of the most popular Christmas gifts for little kids this year. He's cuddly enough for bedtime, too!

 

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Tonka Truck 2021 Steel Classics Road Grader

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It just makes sense to gift a Tonka toy to a car- or construction-loving kiddo this year. This particular model is designed to flatten anything in its path! Plus, Tonka toys arrive from the North Pole in easy-to-wrap, classic Tonka packaging.

 

 

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Little Live Pets Gotta Go Turdle

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Okay, this may not be the classiest Christmas gift for kids, but it's a guaranteed favorite. Shelbert, the interactive Turdle, loves to chat back while on the potty, even when he's doing potty-like things. He may even make Santa laugh a little!

 

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Fisher Price 4-in-1 Ultimate Learning Bot

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This transforming holiday toy of 2021 will be your tots favorite thing to unwrap on Christmas morning. Turn this baby bot on, sit back, and enjoy the show!

 

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Magic Mixies Interactive Magical Misting Cauldron

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One of the hottest (literally cauldron-level hot) holiday toys of 2021 is the Magic Mixies Cauldron by Moose Toys. After combining all included ingredients (from potions to dust!), the toy will begin to bubble up some fog and reveal a little creature being born inside. Take the magical, interactive creature out and that's when the nurturing and fun begins.

 

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The Polar Express Ready-to-Play Christmas Train Set

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This classic Christmas gift is a gorgeous option for a grandparent to gift a sentimental kid this holiday season. This keepsake train toy will turn on and choo-choo, year after year.

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Madame Alexander 14

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This sweet baby doll by Madame Alexander is available in various skin tones and teaches our tots and little ones about the importance of adoption. Designed for ages three and up, Adoption Day Baby comes with her own cradle, changing table, paci, blanket, and diaper. Of course, a birth certificate is included to make things official.

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Little Live Scruff-a-Luvs Cutie Cuts

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This year, hot toys and gifts are all about paying it forward, and Cutie Cuts is the purrfect toy to teach that theme through pets. Shave, reveal, and style these little babes who need a bit more than just a touch of TLC.

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Zobmando!! The Santa Claus Game Christmas Family Board Game

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What could be cooler than opening up a Christmas-themed game on Christmas morning?

FurReal Cubby The Interactive Curious Bear

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This adorable interactive teddy will keep your tot or tiny kid entertained for hours on end. Cubby is so very lovable, he will be the center of attention through the new year.

Aerobie Sonic Fin Aerodynamic Football

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This hot holiday toy is perfect for kiddos who are into sporty activities. This aerodynamic football is ideal for perfecting throws and receiving.

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Starhig Magic Crystal-Growing Christmas Tree Kit

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This Christmas craft is a unique choice, but one that will be so appreciated on Christmas. Plus, once the crystal tree grows it can be used for a decoration.

LEGO 2021 Frozen Ice Castle Building Kit, 1,709 Pieces

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This gorgeous building kit by LEGO is a dream-come-true for kiddos (and adults) who can't get enough of the Disney film, Frozen.

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Hatchimals Crystal Flyers Starlight Idol

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Crystal Flyers are one of the top toys this holiday season, and it's no wonder why! With fantasy and whimsy being a staple of the season, this flying pixie is the perfect present.

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FurReal Moodwings Snow Dragon Interactive Pet Toy

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This whimsical Moodwings Snow Dragon is so magical. Kids learn to love and nurture this dragon which comes with 50+ surprises and interactions.

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Fanury Dinosaur Construction Vehicle

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Perfect for the kiddo who loves anything construction- or dino-related, this entertaining toy will provide hours of entertainment.

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Gojmzo Flower Garden Building Toy

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Your kid can turn the playroom into a gorgeous garden with this super fun building kit.

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Purrble Calming Pet Companion

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In a moment of stress or overwhelm, simply hug and hold a Purrble until their heartbeat slows to a gentle purr. What do you know? You've chilled out in the process, too. This hot toy of 2021 is perfect for all kids, but especially for our little ones who deal with sensory overload or anxiety.

Omy Color-Changing Markers

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This cool stocking stuffer contains color-changing markers which are perfect for journaling (aka decorating the diary), arts and crafts, and of course, creative school projects.

 

 

 

 

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How to Have Happy & Cooperative Toddlers during a Diaper Change

By Sarah Alperin

Always ask permission as a sign of respect and consideration for the child’s experience and perspective.

Approach with a gentle stride and a calm demeanor. Place your hand on their back and sweetly ask, “May I check your diaper? Then wait for 7-to-10 seconds, giving them time to respond.

When a child says “no” and it is necessary to change it, honor the “no” by responding, “I hear you, you aren’t ready, I can come back in a few minutes and ask again.” When you return, the intent and verbiage should be different. “I am back. It is time to change your diaper now. Are you ready?”

If a child says no again: “You still aren’t ready, I understand, hmmm, I am worried if the pee or poop sit in your diaper, it may give you a rash, and I want to keep your skin and body safe, it is time now.” Then acknowledge the disruption by explaining how you will support them. “I see you are busy playing, so I will do it quickly so you can come right back to play.” More respect and acknowledgment of them and their perspective. You are building partnership and modeling respectful behavior in relationships.

Stick with respect and offer choices, so they feel like they are in control. “Would you like to walk to the diaper table, or would you like me to carry you?” This is a crucial moment for the child, you, your relationship, and future diaper changes because you are honoring the child’s experience and this detail is not going to be lost on them. In fact, they are taking it all in, making notes on what respect feels like. You are planting some serious and powerful seeds in these moments.

If they resist moving and plant their feet or throw their body down, say (and this is a gem that you will use often) “Ah, I heard you say you wanted to walk, but now you are choosing to stay still, you are telling me you want me to carry you, I would be happy to help.” Then bend down, still with love and kindness, pick up their body and carry them to the changing table.

The key in these moments is to avoid engaging in this resistant behavior. Your only job is to steady the course, no matter what attempt at distraction your little throws your way. This is a stellar opportunity to practice acceptance of all choices. Whatever the child does, accept it, take it in, and adapt but steady the course. This diaper change Is happening, buddy.

Children want us to be leaders because it permits them to be leaders in their own lives. Even though they are making it hard for you, they are testing your relationship.

When you steady the course and don’t let them pull you into their distraction, they feel loved by you. When you let them distract you or wear you down and/or abandon your mission, they question your commitment to them, and you become untrustworthy.

Here is another opportunity to model respect and ask, “May I pick you up?”

Typically, they will raise their little hands to say yes. Asking if you can pick allows them to prepare their body to be picked up. As soon as you ask the question, their brains communicate to their bodies to flex the necessary muscles to prepare to be picked up. This enables your child to feel strong and participate when you pick them up. Grabbing a child to pick them up without warning is shocking and scary. Asking and waiting until you have their attention and permission will support them physically, mentally, and will build more trust between you both.

Now that the child is in your arms, gently and lovingly lay them down, supporting their head and entire body until they are lying comfortably.

Once the child is lying comfortably, take a breath, lay your hand gently on their belly and look into their eyes. Smile sweetly and ask, “Are you ready?” Wait for them to respond and then begin the diaper change.

First: Ask them to help while you remove their bottoms. “Will you please lift your legs in the air so I can remove your bottoms?” then watch as they gleefully shoot their legs in the air.

Second: Tell them what you are doing next. “I am going to use this wipe to clean your body. It may be a little cold.” Then gently wipe them and, if necessary, hold their legs up with a gentle, respectful grip.

Third: Hold the new diaper and show it to them. “I am going to put this fresh diaper on you now. Will you please lift your legs again?” They are usually thrilled to assist you in this way, and their legs go flying in the air. “Thank you! That is so helpful.” Then slide the diaper under their bottom and ask them to please lower their legs back down.

This level of commitment to respectful interaction around diaper changes will create a beautiful relationship between you and the children you care for. They will rarely resist having a diaper change because the experience will be rich in connection, and connection leads to cooperation.

Avoid giving children electronics to distract them during a diaper change. You will be teaching them to check out when someone is touching them.

Avoid negative responses to how their poop smells or how much they pooped. It is embarrassing and disrespectful to make fun of how a child’s body creates smelly or gross things. They will interpret it to mean they are gross or smelly. Stay neutral, matter of fact, no big deal, all in a day’s work.

Stay present with your little one when changing a diaper. Stay off the phone and avoid interruption until the diaper change is complete. Make eye contact as much as possible and talk with them about the details. They love you. They trust you. This is a beautiful time to honor them, teach them, and model kindness.

Sarah is a child behavior & respectful child care expert. She has been coaching parents in effective respectful care strategy for over 10 years. She makes complex parenting issues simple to navigate and her methods are clear, effective and provide immediate relief for both parent and child.ehavior specialist and

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