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Trick-or-Treat in LA’s Most Fa-BOO-lous Neighborhoods

by Jennifer O'Brien

Your go-to guide for trick-or-treating in Los Angeles—plus where to go see spooky-fun yard haunts and over-the-top decor

Whether your littles will be parading the streets as Barbie and Ken or Taylor and Travis this Halloween, we’ve got the scoop on the most fang-tastic neighborhoods in town to take them trick-or-treating. These spooktacular spots have everything – oversized candy bars, animatronic monsters, homemade haunted houses, mazes, and more witches than you can shake a broomstick at. And, if you want to get an early jump on all the frightful festivities, we’ve included some tricked-out yard haunts to get you in the Halloween spirit.

The Best Places to Trick-or-Treat in Los Angeles

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Trick-or-Treating Near DTLA

1. Silverlake 

The popular Silver Lake Halloween street party takes place along Armstrong Ave., and the best part is it’s closed to vehicle traffic, so you can feel safe gathering goodies. If you prefer a less crowded stroll, head to North Coronado St. between Sunset Blvd. and Scott Ave. Several houses level up the Halloween theatrics, yard haunts, and special effects. The rest of the neighbors also love to gussy up and greet the trick-or-treaters. Note: Parking is snug in the hills, so park on Sunset and walk up. Where: Sunset and Coronado.

2. Angelino Heights

Trick-or-treating on tree-lined streets filled with historic Victorian homes? Sign us up! Residents love getting into the fun while handing out impressive treats from their decked-out houses. It’s a parent’s photo op dream. You can also swing by the mansion used in the “Thriller” music video at 1345 Carroll Ave. And obviously, you have to do the zombie dance—we won’t judge. Where: Carroll Ave. and Douglas St.

Westside Trick-or-Treating

3. Santa Monica

Our fave spot for little goblins who tire quickly (read: complain endlessly) is Gillette’s Regents Square, where you can spare tiny feet a long trek and still load up on candy and costume compliments. Another swell spot (and another celeb haunted locale) in Santa Monica is 16th St.—north of Montana between Alta and Georgina. It can be a bit spooky for tots, so maybe save this one for older kids. Where: Gillette’s Regents Square

4. Pacific Palisades

This Palisades neighborhood is overflowing with parents, kids, and beautifully decorated Halloween houses. Some residents even get into the “spirit,” handing out wine and hot toddies to parents. We have your attention now—do we? The narrow Alphabet Streets north of Sunset (also known as North Village) are the most trick-or-treat friendly blocks, with street names that go in alphabetical order—perfect for remembering where you started and how many streets it will take to get back. Where: Monument and Bashford St.

5. Brentwood Glen

This pocket neighborhood just west of the 405 Fwy is ideal for toddlers enjoying their first trick-or-treat experience. The community is filled with lovely family homes located very close to one another, most of which have fab decorations. There are also several kid-friendly ‘haunted’ houses and very few cars. Plus, you can pop by the nearby Brentwood Country Mart for dinner before or after. Where: The ‘Alphabet’ Sts. between Church and Beloit.

6. Beverly Hills

One look at the famous Spadena House (the “Beverly Hills Witch House”) at 516 Walden Dr., and you’ll know you’ve come to the right place for Halloween. We highly recommend getting there 5-5:30 p.m. to beat the crowds. The flats of Beverly Hills make walking easy breezy, and big homes mean even bigger candy bars and smiles from your sugar-crazed brood. Where: Walden Dr.


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Where to Trick-or-Treat in Mid City

7. Hancock Park

This picturesque neighborhood is known for its over-the-top decorations and extraordinary candy hauls, so it usually draws busloads of trick-or-treaters. These homes are seriously spookified from top to bottom, with homeowners treating Halloween like an Olympic sport. You may even catch an occasional celeb handing out candy here as well. Where: North of Wilshire Blvd.

8. Melrose

This sidewalk-friendly neighborhood south of Third St. and west of Fairfax is bustling on Halloween with plenty of doorbell ringing, candy-giving, and oohing and aahing over yard décor. Have a friend in the neighborhood? Hang at their house for pre-party shenanigans, then gather your loot in big groups. And most importantly, don’t forget an extra Reese’s for your darling parents—seriously. Where: Sweetzer Ave. and Drexel Ave.

Where to go Trick-or-Treating in The Valley

9. Sherwood Forest in Northridge

Not only can you take your little Robin Hood trick-or-treating in a mythical-sounding place, but this neighborhood usually goes all out with unique features, including a front lawn haunted maze and a Hogwarts-esque castle, complete with gargoyles. Where: Near the Valley Performing Arts Center, south of Nordoff and west of Balboa.

10. Burbank

This quiet neighborhood is home to many Disney folks who take Halloween very seriously. The homeowners here tend to go all out with decorations worthy of a movie set, and a few even set up haunted houses and shows on their lawns. But most of all, the friendly folks and swell candy make for a wonderful Halloween. Where: Mariposa and Valleyheart.

11. Studio City 

This modest neighborhood, just west of Laurel Canyon, is the go-to spot for families living in the surrounding hills. It’s like one big block party featuring homes decorated to the hilt with pumpkins galore, haunted scenes, and witches’ brews. Residents say that more than 700 little candy-gobbling goblins routinely make their way down these streets, so it’s a lively and fun atmosphere. Begin your pilgrimage on Mound View and fan out to the surrounding streets. Where: Laurel Terrace and Mound View.

12. Toluca Lake

Toluca Lake is the stuff of legends when it comes to trick-or-treating. Supposedly, Bob Hope used to personally give out full-sized candy bars at his home in the tiny neighborhood just off the 134 Fwy. We can’t vouch for the story’s authenticity, but Toluca Lake has jumped on the idea that they do Halloween better than anyone else. It’s hard to argue with that once you realize the neighborhood is closed to traffic, filled with tricked-out homes (loads of industry folk live here and love to show off their prop and set design skills), and there’s plenty of candy. Where: Toluca Estates Dr. and Valley Spring Lane.

13. Sierra Madre

We love this spot for its small-town vibe and gorgeous craftsman-style homes that always understand the assignment regarding elaborate Halloween décor. Also, being in the foothills of the San Gabriel Mountains means lots of trees and a chance for kids to scuffle through crunchy leaves as they make their way down the streets—providing a much-needed dose of nostalgia to East Coast and Mid-West parents. Where: Baldwin and Alegria.

Where to Trick-or-Treat in Pasadena

14. Old Pasadena

While the festivities in Old Pasadena can’t be topped with all the shops handing out candy, costume contests, and more, check out these two neighborhoods for some good old-fashioned trick-or-treating. Families are out in full force, pulling little ones in wagons while older tykes charge safely from house to house, filling their bags. Where: Monterey Rd. between Windsor Pl., Diamond Ave., Marengo Ave. and Fair Oaks.

Visit-Worthy Halloween Haunts in Los Angeles

If you’re looking for a little appetizer before the main course on Halloween, may we interest you in a deliciously sinister yard haunt? These homes and locales are tricked out to the nines when it comes to spooktacular decor and homemade haunted house fun. Whether you drive by or stroll through them, they’re worth the trip. Make sure to check them out online beforehand to gauge each location’s scare level—some are fab for all ages, while others have freaky clowns…and we’ll just leave it at that.

1. Circus of Nightmares in Burbank

One word—clowns. Like waaaay too many of them. And man, do they have issues. This year’s Circus of Nightmares presents “Spectre,” which might be their creepiest event yet. Stop by this family-friendly(ish) display filled with evil clowns and other circus spookiness if you dare. Organizers promise to provide “extra frights” on weekend nights, so you’ve been warned.

Where: 113 S Brighton St., Burbank
When: Oct. 18-31 with live shows on 20, 21, 27, 28 and Halloween, Sunset-10 p.m.
Online: instagram.com/circus_of_nightmares

2. Rotten Apple 907 Haunt in Burbank

This private home Halloween attraction started as a child’s birthday party and has grown to become a destination that has drawn in thousands of visitors for the past 30 years. On average, over 4,000 people walk through the haunted house doors yearly! This year’s attraction, titled “Let’s Go to the Movies,” is bound to garner stark raving mad reviews. Admission is free, but donations are requested to support the Volunteers of Burbank Animal Shelter.

Where: 907 N. California St., Burbank
When: Oct. 21, 22, 28, 29, 31 from 7 p.m.-10 p.m.
Online: rottenapple907.com

3. Beverly Hills Witch House

If Real Housewitches of Beverly Hills was a thing, there’s only one place the gals would park their blinged-out broomsticks—the Spadena House, a.k.a. the “Beverly Hills Witch’s House.” The fabled Tudor-style house was built in 1920 as a set for silent films, including Hansel and Gretel. With its steepled brown rooftops, exposed stone, and ramshackle shutters, it doesn’t need decorations; it’s Halloween-ready year-round.

Where: 516 Walden Dr., Beverly Hills

4. Yard Haunts in the Venice Canals

This four-block area goes all out for Halloween with pumpkins and twinkle lights strung along the canals and even some boats sporting ghoulish displays. The narrow walkways get crowded come Halloween, so you may want to check it out during the week when there are fewer people.

How to Get to the Canals: Park in the parking lot at the end of Venice Blvd. and walk south on the boardwalk to 25th Ave. From there, you’ll see a sign and a walkway for the canals leading you into the area.

5. The Holiday House in Mar Vista

This mind-blowing Halloween walk-through display is run by multiple computers and control panels and features animatronics, atmosphere effects, and theater-grade light fixtures. Entry is free but donations are welcome. On Halloween, the house will be handing out candy.

Where: 3547 McLaughlin Ave.
When: Sept. 9 – Nov. 2, 6p.m. – 10 p.m. nightly
Online: marvistaeggcompany.com

6. Witch City in Santa Clarita

Double, double toil and trouble; fire burn and cauldron bubble. Witches abound at Santa Clarita’s Witch City yard display. This year’s show is more extensive and spookier than ever, with 13 custom witches, loads of animatronics, and creepy props.

Where: 25420 Via Jardin, Santa Clarita
When: Sept. – Nov. 1, 7 p.m. – 11 p.m. nightly
Online: witchcityhaunt.com

7. Sombras Cemetery in Santa Clarita

The residents of this forgotten cemetery are restless and disturbed. They could use a little company and are waiting just for you. (cue Vincent Price’s laugh here). This family-friendly graveyard display features lights, sound, moving props, and fog.

Where: 26041 Sombras Ct., Santa Clarita
When: Oct. 13, 14, 20, 21, 27, 28, 31. Weekdays and Sun. leading up to Halloween are lights only, while all other days feature full effects.

Make sure to capture all the fall fun—and share them with your family and friends near and far—with the Tinybeans app. The secure platform puts parents in total control of who sees and interacts with photos and videos of their kids.

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10 Instagram-Ready First Day of School Signs (That Keep Your Kids’ Privacy in Mind)

by Kate Cartia

Mark the new year with these adorable first day of school signs

While we didn’t have first day of school signs back in our day, we’re surprised it took us so long to figure out how great they are. Not only do they add a really cute element to your back-to-school photo ops, but they also help us keep our pictures straight (if you’ve gotten your pictures mixed up, you’re not the only one). Plus, who doesn’t love a good Instagram and Tinybeans moment? Additionally, with the popularity of these boards, you can easily snag one without having to rely too heavily on your DIY skills.

We definitely want to make sure that our kiddos’ privacy is protected, though. As this viral TikTok video points out, there’s a lot of information first day of school signs include. Of course, we all want to share our darling littles on their big day. But we’re making sure we keep the info on our signs limited. We also suggest double-checking your social media privacy settings. Or, keep using your Tinybeans app to safely and privately share your first day of school memories. These signs are perfect for them.

Wooden Chalkboard Sign

ZICOTO

This sign is reusable and made for chalk markers, so you can actually use it for more than just school—camp, activities, daycare, and more. Wooden Chalkboard Sign ($7.99)—Buy Here!

Round Sign with Magnetic Banners

CJingpo

This round sign includes three changeable magnetic banners—Kindergarten, Preschool, and a blank one for you to use however you'd like. Round Sign with Magnetic Banners ($18.99)—Buy Here!

Framed Chalkboard Sign

GSM Brands

With space for your kiddo's name at the top (share it only where you feel safe doing so!) and fun graphics, this is a super cute option for elementary school kids. Framed Chalkboard Sign ($15.99)—Buy Here!

First Day of School Pencil Sign

AMINORD

A bright pencil shape that's reusable and simple for all the first days. First Day of School Pencil Sign ($17.99)—Buy Here!

Personalized White Board Sign

Etsy/Paola Brown

Pick the color and name, then just add the details with dry-erase markers year after year. Personalized White Board Sign ($36.00)—Buy Here!

Classic Letter Board

MAINEVENT

The ultimate in customization, plus year-round decor (if you're into that sort of thing), letter boards are a great way to go. Classic Letter Board ($19.95)—Buy Here!

Pre-Printed FIrst & Last Day Signs

Denise Albright

If you want to keep your back to school pictures uniform, these printed back to school signs come with every one you need for preschool through college. Pre-Printed First & Last Day Signs ($18.97)—Buy Here!

Laser Engraved Wooden Sign

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If you prefer a more rustic look, this sweet sign delivers. Pick the font you'd like to have engraved and then get your dry-erase markers ready. Laser Engraved Wooden Sign ($45.00)—Buy Here!

Personalized Photo Frame Prop

Personalization Mall

For the kiddos who are larger than life, this fun big photo frame says it all. Personalized Photo Frame Prop ($34.99)—Buy Here!

First Day of School Banner Bundle

Maisonette

The first day is exciting, so it only makes sense to take snaps of them waving one of these banners. This comes in a set of 6, too, so you're all set until junior high. First Day of School Banner Bundle ($99.00)—Buy Here!

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‘Eggshell Parenting’ Is As Bad & Stressful As It Sounds

by Christina Marfice

A licensed clinical psychologist on TikTok explains what “eggshell parenting” is and why you should strive to avoid it

All kids deserve a home where they feel safe, loved, and secure—where they know that no matter what happens, they’ll always have a safe harbor to return to. But sadly, that’s not what all kids have. One clinical psychologist is shining a light on a common “parenting style” that’s pretty much the exact opposite of this: she calls it “eggshell parenting.”

Dr. Kim Sage went viral on TikTok for describing this parenting style, which she says makes kids feel as though they’re “walking on eggshells” because their parents’ moods are unstable and unpredictable.

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Eggshell parenting and emotionally unpredictable, unsafe parenting often creates a lifetime of hypervigilance in us —and a deep belief that there’s no such thing as real safety in relationships.💔#eggshellparent #toxicparent #walkingoneggshells #emotionallyimmatureparents #narcissisticparent #drkimsage

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Eggshell parenting is “a way of putting your child in a position where they have to always be hyper-vigilant to what may or may not happen next,” she explained. “Even if you’re loving and safe and wonderful, if it follows that you can be unsafe at the core, you are not safe.”

The result is kids who constantly feel insecure, cautious, and afraid of making the wrong move—like they’re walking on eggshells so they don’t set off their parents.

In her video, Sage gives this example: “The parent’s mood is like being on a roller coaster. You never know what to expect, but there’s always going to be significant high highs and low lows. Basically, emotionally, you never know what to expect, but you have to prepare for the part where it’s not safe.”

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Sage has gone on to make tons of other videos about eggshell parenting—both for people who are parents now and for people who may have grown up with these types of parents. She explains how to identify eggshell parenting (hint: if you’re reading this and wondering if you’re an eggshell parent, your self-awareness is already high enough that you’re probably not), and gives people tips on how to break the eggshell cycle.

If you were raised by eggshell parents, she says, it will likely take some active work to make sure those patterns don’t emerge as you raise your own kids. The first steps to take: work on regulating your own emotions so they aren’t changing on a dime. Then, take responsibility for your own actions and apologize to your kids if a sudden emotional switch or outburst left them reeling.

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Outdoor Eats: 17 Kid-Friendly Restaurants with Patios

by Jeff Totey

On a sunny day, you can see why everyone wants to live in the Pacific Northwest, but we know that you can’t take the good weather for granted, so when the opportunity arises, dine alfresco! We’ve rounded up a great list of family-friendly spots with views of the water and the happenings down the road each with menus that will please even the pickiest eater (even if it’s you!) So grab the sunscreen, and pack a few extra snacks into your diaper bag, these restaurants offer more than a chance to eat outside—many have views that will make you want to sit and stay awhile.  

Dukes Seafood

Did you know that there are seven Dukes Seafood restaurants? And did know that you can dine al fresco at six of them? They know what the people want. Good food and good views. Begin your meal with an “appeteaser” or a shared plate. Enjoy a dinghy-sized bowl of their award-winning clam chowder before your big meal with a “Duketail” beverage. Kids don’t like seafood? They’ve got you covered here as well offering burgers, chicken strips, linguini noodles, and more.

2516 Alki Ave. SW, Seattle
7850 E. Green Lake Dr. N., Seattle
1111 Fairview Ave. N., Seattle
757 Southcenter Mall, Tukwila
240 W. Kent Station, Kent
3327 Ruston Way, Tacoma

Online: dukesseafood.com

Bongos

What a fun place! Located just off Green Lake, Bongos prepares Caribbean food with a backyard flair. Having transformed an old gas station into a restaurant, they describe the place as “practically a theme park ride” with a colorful paint job. They even have their own sandpit with bright plastic shovels and buckets. Oh, and the food is pretty good too.

6501 Aurora Ave. N., Phinney Ridge
Online: bongosseattle.com

Ivar's Mukilteo Landing

Ivar's Mukilteo Landing serves up everything from simple grilled Alaska Sockeye salmon sandwiches to whole Dungeness crabs. But you can't beat the original 1938 recipe for Ivar's Alaska True Cod Fish 'n Chips alongside the classic white clam chowder while watching the ferry boats come and go. The outdoor deck offers spectacular 180-degree views of Possession Sound. They also feature an extensive kids' menu with non-seafood choices for those who prefer not to partake.

710 Front St., Mukilteo
Online: www.ivars.com/mukilteo-landing

Demetris Woodstone Taverna

Your young fam won't mind that you're dining on small plates of tapas if they've got their own plates of pasta and butter sauce. Nope. Neither will they mind that you're enjoying a glass of fine wine with a view to match if they have a cheeseburger slider to chew on. They won't even get antsy when you order bacon-wrapped dates, Chicken Souvlaki, or even a Charcuteries plate as long as they have a kid-sized pizza. All kidding aside, Edmond's Demetris Woodstone Taverna offers a large menu, excellent service, and outdoor dining all day long.

101 Main St., Edmonds
Online: demetriswoodstonetaverna.com

Pike Place Market

Pick up your favorite Market food, we’re talking Honest Biscuits, Matt’s in the Market, Shug’s Soda Fountain, and more, and enjoy them at one of over 20 outdoor patios throughout the Market. Market restaurants have been leaning in, and you'll find more outdoor spots for dining here than ever before. Copacabana, Falafel King, and Miss Cafe are great casual spots to stop and grab a bite. And you can't go wrong with a trip to Shug's. You'll find all the Market's fantastic eateries along the cobblestone walkways, in the Secret Garden, in Post Alley, and along First Avenue and Western Avenue. Sound and city views? It doesn’t get any better than this in the summer.

Pike Place Market, 85 Pike St., Seattle
Online: pikeplacemarket.org

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Mezzanotte

Pasta and plane lovers will love Mezzanotte's spacious outdoor patio in the heart of Georgetown. Stop in after a trip to the Seattle Drum School, Fantagraphics or the eclectic Georgetown Trailer Park Mall for a dish of homemade pasta and plate of roasted carrots (trust us, they're worth it) on a sunny day. Although there isn't a kid's menu, the pasta dishes are simple, so even the pickiest of eaters can find something to fill their tummies. And the planes overhead (they're on the Boeing Field flight path) will keep the kids entertained throughout the meal. Our tip? Bring coloring pages or a few table games to keep the kids busy so you can sit back, relax and enjoy the meal.

1210 S. Bailey St., Seattle
Online: mezzanotteseattle.com

RELATED: 11 Hidden Gems around Seattle We're Pretty Sure You've Never Visited

Magnuson Cafe & Brewery

The shores of Lake Washington never looked so good as they do with a pint from this Magnuson brewhouse in hand. You’ll love sinking your teeth into this locally sourced pub fare that features burgers, tacos, and salads as much as the kids do. And with plenty of umbrella-covered tables and these cute covered "houses" where families can gather no matter the weather, this outdoor dining spot makes grabbing a bite easy. Hint: it also makes a wonderful lunch stop after your class at Arena Sports or when you need a break along the Burke Gilman.

7801 62nd Ave. N.E., Seattle
Online: magnusonbrewery.com

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Ballard Pizza Company - Frelard

Won’t your kids be surprised when you tell them you’re going for takeout, but you end up on the outdoor patio at this favorite local pizza joint instead. Ballard Pizza Company specializes in New York-style pizza made with PNW ingredients and aged dough. Patio seating here is self-serve. All you have to do is order your favorite pie (we’re partial to the Veggie Bomb, but dig the Bianco too), wait for a text, then pull up a picnic bench and enjoy a slice with your crew.

1040 Leary Way N.W., Seattle
Online: ballardpizzacompany.com

Marination Ma Kai

What started as a food truck has morphed into a successful mini-chain of local eateries for the folks at Marination Mobile, but Ma Kai is their shining star: a laid-back restaurant perched on West Seattle’s shore with an unparalleled view of the city skyline. The menu is Hawaiian with a Korean influence—tacos are a popular choice, though the fish and chips (only available at this location) are stellar. Kids may enjoy the salty Spam musubi, the perfect precursor to the sugary Hawaiian shave ice for dessert. Board the water taxi from downtown for a door-to-door adventure, complete with an outdoor dining experience.

1660 Harbor Ave. S.W., Seattle
Online: marinationmobile.com

 

Agua Verde Café

Eating outdoors can’t get much cooler than this: at Agua Verde, you can nosh on a large outdoor deck that overlooks the kayak rental area. So, as you and the kids share a basket of chips and fresh salsa from the serve-yourself bar, you can check out kayakers paddling in and out of the dock. Don’t miss the mangodillas! These quesadillas with fresh mango and melty cheese are a hit with diners of all ages! Psst... bring your kayaks if you've got 'em for an afternoon paddle.

1303 N.E. Boat St., Seattle
Online: aguaverdecafe.com

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Elemental Pizza

It’s hard to go wrong with a wood-fired pizza for dinner with the kids. That’s one of the reasons Elemental Pizza’s U Village is a great outdoor dining spot for Seattle families. Enjoy the people-watching while you dig into their creative pizza combos that are true crowd-pleasers. If you’re looking for less crowded times, try going on a weekday. But if pizza is how you roll on the weekends, you’ll probably get a table quickly if you can avoid peak dining times. If all else fails, you can wander the Village, cell phone in hand, and wait for them to call when your table’s ready.

2634 N.E. University Village. St., Seattle
Online: elementalpizza.com

 

Anthony’s HomePort – Everett

The views of the Everett waterfront are just as impressive as this popular restaurant. If you've got small kiddos, try snagging an outdoor table at lunchtime. That’s because the menu prices are cheaper and the selection choices are more kid-friendly. Kids can choose from a variety of favorites including bay shrimp macaroni & cheese, clam chowder and fish tacos. Reservations are recommended.

Good to know: Next door to Anthony’s HomePort, Anthony's Woodfire Grill offers both surf and turf with the same views but cheaper prices. This restaurant also tends to be a little more relaxed and less busy too, making it a great choice for families.

Anthony's HomePort: 1726 W. Marine View Dr., Everett
Anthony's Woodfire Grill: 1722 W. Marine View Dr., Everett

Online: anthonys.com/restaurants

RELATED: Your Guide to Kid-Friendly Restaurants in Seattle

Red Mill Burgers

Seattle icon Red Mill Burgers has been featured on Oprah and the Food Network. But to Seattle locals, it’s just a great place to grab a delicious burger and some onion rings with the family. Red Mill is known for cooking up a huge stack of bacon for topping burgers, hand-blending fresh milkshakes (try banana or peanut butter) and offering wonderful outdoor picnic tables for eating in the sun. It's casual-fast outdoor dining at its best.

Phinney Ridge Location: 312 N. 67th St., Seattle

Interbay Location: 1613 W. Dravus St., Seattle

Online: redmillburgers.com

 

The Fisherman’s Restaurant and Bar

Located on Pier 57, home of Seattle’s Great Wheel and Wings Over Washington, The Fisherman’s Restaurant and Bar features views of said Wheel, Puget Sound and downtown Seattle. In addition to standard, fresh fish dishes, you’ll find a collection of other unique plates including the west coast fish taco, wild citrus halibut taco, shrimp mac 'n' cheese and the PNW Captain’s Plate that includes portions of king salmon, halibut, Alaskan pollock, panko prawns and fried calamari steak strip. The patio (and the view) are open for dining, and reservations are recommended, especially on the weekends.

1301 Alaskan Way S., Seattle
Online: fishermansrestaurantseattle.com

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The Spot West Seattle

You gotta love a spot that serves waffles until 4 p.m. and offers live music a few times a week. Whether you bring the kids for an early breakfast-for-dinner meal or to enjoy music on the patio, this new-ish spot on the accidental island won't disappoint. And if you can't find a "spot" here, you can be rest assured, Luna Park Cafe is just next door, so you've got options. 

2920 S.W. Avalon Way, Seattle
Online: thespotwestseattle.com

 

Lombardi’s Italian Restaurant & Wine Bar

Lombardi’s features fresh and delicious true Italian dishes that will please the palates of those both young and old. In fact, while Mom and Dad dine on such dishes as Salmon Picacata, Roman Style Lasagna, or Scampi Diavolo, the kids can have their own extensive menu of delights to choose from (at very reasonable prices) including spaghetti, cheese ravioli, and pepperoni pizza. Lombardi’s is a great spot to dine on a hot summer night since it often gets a cool summer breeze and if you time it just right, you can enjoy free "Music at the Marina" within view during the summer months.

1620 W. Marine View Dr., Everett
Online: lombardisitalian.com

Additional reporting by Chelsea Lin, Sara Billups & Katie Kavulla

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12 Tips for Raising an Independent Thinker

by Kipp Jarecke-Cheng

#12 is really important

As parents, our greatest wish for our children is for them to be happy, healthy, and confident. Experts agree that curiosity and independent thinking are key ingredients to ensuring the development of these positive character traits; however, there is still often cultural and societal pressure for kids to conform to predetermined ideas and behaviors. 

Raising kids who stand up for what they believe in and who march to the beat of their drums can be a delicate balancing act, but it’s essential to fostering a strong sense of self. According to says Carole Kramer Arsenault, a licensed family therapist, and founder and CEO of Boston Baby Nurse, “Independent thinking children develop higher levels of confidence and have increased self-esteem. Children who are independent thinkers use their own experiences to interpret the world instead of believing everything they are taught by parents, teachers, society, etc.”

We asked child behavior and early education experts for their advice on how to foster confidence and independent thinking in any child. Here are their 12 best tips for raising an independent thinker.

1. Model and share the behaviors, values, and ideals you want your independent kid to possess.

Modeling and sharing with your child what you believe and what you value—early and often—will ensure that she grows up with a solid ideological foundation as she develops her sense of self. “Parents who communicate what they value with their children raise children who value communicating with their parents,” says Mica Geer, an American early education specialist based in Stuttgart, Germany. Geer adds that it’s a two-way street and parents also need to hear what their children value, too. “It may seem like the ramblings of a child, but when a kid is sharing her thoughts, parents need to really listen.”

2. Let children know that failure is an essential part of learning and growing.

Young children are like sponges: they’ll absorb virtually everything around them. Encouraging kids to learn through their failures instead of giving up when things get tough will empower them in the long run. According to the Child Mind Institute, a nonprofit organization that supports families and children coping with mental illness and learning disabilities, “trial and error is how kids learn, and falling short on a goal helps kids find out that it’s not fatal.” By learning to embrace a misstep, a child may be spurred to put in the extra effort the next time, learning a valuable lesson. 

3. Expose your child to different cultures, foods, and multicultural/multiethnic experiences.

“Encouraging your child to play and interact with other kids from all cultural and ethnic backgrounds and diverse socio-economic circumstances can open a child’s mind to different worldviews and opinions,” says Kramer Arsenault. Early exposure to the wider world—to different cultures, people, and even food—teaches a child that the world is vast and open to lots of possibilities.

Related: 10 Things That’ll Help You Raise Resilient Kids

4. Instead of simply pushing independence, encourage self-reliance.

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Dr. Jim Taylor, a San Francisco-based psychologist, says becoming an independent thinker is achieved through the pursuit of self-reliance. “As human beings, we are social creatures incapable of being truly independent. Instead of raising independent children, I want you to raise self-reliant children.” Dr. Taylor defines self-reliance as “confident in your own abilities and able to do things for yourself.” For children, that means encouraging the development of essential life tools that include cognitive, emotional, behavioral, interpersonal, and practical skills.

5. Tell your kids that practice makes perfect—or at least makes pretty great.

While experts agree that there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to instilling confidence and independence in children, most recognize that values can and do change with time, age, and experience. The Center for Parenting Education provides useful resources for helping parents raise caring, responsible, resilient children, including practical exercises that parents and children can work on together to share and explore their basic life values.

6. Allow your kids to act their age.

One of the greatest and longest-lasting gifts a parent can give to a child is confidence. However, a parent can undermine a child’s confidence by creating expectations that are unrealistic or not age-appropriate. Carl Pickhardt, a psychologist, and author of 15 parenting books says, “When a child feels that only performing as well as parents is good enough, that unrealistic standard may discourage effort. Striving to meet advanced age expectations can reduce confidence.” Instead, he says parents should celebrate accomplishments big and small as well as encourage children to practice skills to build competence.

Related: I’m Raising My Kids to Be Financially Responsible & Independent. You Can, Too

7. Define and set clear boundaries for your child.

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It may seem counter-intuitive, but defining and establishing clear boundaries and expectations will help a child feel a greater sense of independence and confidence. According to Geer, “reasonable boundaries that are based in logic and frequently reinforced actually do more to encourage kids than constantly changing expectations.” She adds that parents sometimes equate expectations with limitations, but kids always are looking for things that make them feel safe and in a safe environment to build their own ideas. 

8. Give your child the space to grow, learn and explore.

Younger children especially are trying to assert their independence in ways that may come across as defiant or disorderly to some parents. But experts caution not to overreact or jump in to correct too quickly. “Research shows that parents who are over-involved in an activity that a child is doing, who take over, those kids don’t develop a sense of pride, adventure, and willingness to try new things,” says Dr. Linda Acredolo, professor emeritus of psychology at the University of California at Davis. Instead, Dr. Acredolo says children need the space to try—and fail on their own to learn and move forward.

9. Give responsibilities to your child at an early age.

Whether it’s simple household duties like taking out the trash or doing the dishes, assigning chores to children can give them a sense of accomplishment as well as set them up for understanding that seeing through the completion of tasks is essential throughout life and part of being a successful person. “By making them do chores… they realize, ‘I have to do the work of life in order to be part of life,’ ” says Julie Lythcott-Haims, a former Stanford University dean and the author of How to Raise an Adult.

Related: 10 Ways to Help Boost Your Kid’s Confidence

10. Encourage your child to ask questions and share their opinions.

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Rather than enforcing your own perspective or dismissing your child’s questions, encouraging your child to question things and share their opinions and genuinely listen will help them gain confidence in their ideas. “This shows the child that his viewpoints matter. Parents should engage in actively listening to what their child has to say. When a child feels listened to he feels valued,” says Kramer Arsenault. And feeling valued will enhance your child’s self-esteem and confidence. 

11. Teach children that they have agency over their minds and bodies.

Children rely on so much from their parents and caregivers when they are young, but as they transition from childhood into adolescence, one of the most important lessons they need to learn is that they have agency over their minds and bodies. Parents can help facilitate the transition of their children’s dependence to greater independence by ensuring that their kids know the choices they make have consequences. The Center for Parenting Education has a helpful resource for helping parents and children navigate effective discipline and consequences. 

12. Trust your kids.

According to Dr. Jim Taylor, there are two kinds of children: independent and contingent. Contingent children are dependent on others for how they feel about themselves, while independent children are intrinsically motivated to achieve. Trusting that your child has learned the right lessons will allow him or her to flourish in their independence. “If your children are independent, you have provided them with the belief that they are competent and capable of taking care of themselves. You gave your children the freedom to experience life fully and learn its many important lessons,” says Dr. Taylor.

 

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Cool French Baby Names That Are About to Be the Next Big Thing

by Nameberry

Think Sohan, Camélia, and Tidiane

You know when you see a child (or a picture of one) and think, “Dang, that kid is cooler than I’ll ever be”? That’s how we feel when we hear a lot of the most popular names in France.

I mean, imagine having a playdate with little Capucine or Timéo. You just know they’ll turn up with strong style choices, creative game ideas, and snacks that make you drool (but that your kid probably won’t eat).

If you want a head-turning cool name with international appeal, looking at hot French baby names is a great place to start. Imagining them on all those chic bébés might just make you see them in a new light.

Aminata

The name Aminata is a girl’s name meaning “trustworthy, faithful.” This elaboration of the Arabic amīn, meaning “trustworthy” or “to feel safe” was a fast riser in 2022.

Brune

The name Brune is a boy’s name of French origin meaning “brown.” Possibility for a dark-haired babe.

Camélia

The name Camélia is a girl’s name meaning “camellia flower.” Flower name that is fairly popular in France, but little used (either in this spelling or Camellia) by English speakers.

Célestin

The name Célestin is both a boy’s name and a girl’s name meaning “heavenly.” You may be familiar with Celeste, but have you considered this beautiful choice for a boy, currently highly fashionable in France, derived from the Latin Caelestis (“of the sky; heavenly”).

Garance
The name Garance is both a boy’s name and a girl’s name. Garance is the vivid deep red color that comes from the madder flower, and that has become a fashionable name for baby girls in France in recent years.

Hélios

The name Hélios is a boy’s name of Greek origin meaning “sun.” It is the name of the young Greek sun god, brother to the moon goddess Selene, who rode across the sky each day in a chariot pulled by four horses.

Loup
The name Loup is a boy’s name meaning “wolf.” A rare French name derived from the Latin lupus “wolf”. It is most often found in the compound name Jean-Loup, as in Jean-Loup Chrétien, an astronaut and the first Frenchman in space.

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Mahaut

The name Mahaut is a girl’s name meaning “battle-mighty.” A medieval French form of Matilda (equivalent to the English Maud) that’s made a comeback in France in recent years.

Malo

The name Malo is a boy’s name of Breton origin meaning “shining hostage.” Malo, the name of an important sixth-century Breton saint who founded St. Malo, the charming port town in Brittany—is considered quite au courant in France right now, ranking firmly in the Top 100.

Mazarine

The name Mazarine is a girl’s name. Mazarine is a deep blue color also used as a first name in honor of Cardinal Mazarin, a leader of France in the 17th century. As a first name, Mazarine is as charming as it is unusual.

Fanta

The name Fanta is a girl’s name meaning “captivating, a woman who abstains.” A West African version of the Arabic name Fatima, is also used by diaspora communities, e.g. in France.

Ninon

The name Ninon is a girl’s name of French origin meaning “grace.” It is a sweet and charming French nickname for Anne, à la Manon for Marie.

Sohan

The name Sohan is a boy’s name. Sohan is a modern French invention. It may be related to Jean or a variation of the similar name Yohan.

Swann

The name Swann is both a boy’s name and a girl’s name meaning “nature and literary name.” A unisex French name that ranks in the Top 200 for boys and the Top 500 for girls there, inspired by a character with the surname Swann in Marcel Proust’s In Search of Lost Time.

Tidiane

The name Tidiane is a boy’s name meaning “follower of Tijaniyyah Sufism.” This rare name comes from Tijaniyyah, an order of Sufi mysticism from North Africa. It is used among African diaspora communities in France.

Related: Revealed! The Top Baby Names of 2023 (So Far)

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10 Real-World Skills Kids Should Have Before High School

by Tonilyn Hornung

Parents aren’t going to be doing it all forever

There’s so much thought and pre-planning that goes into getting your teen ready for high school. You’ve run through the schedule and school layout, researched some teachers, and reviewed piles (oh, and piles) of paperwork. So, now that’s all done, is there anything else you can do to support your almost high-schooler in taking this big leap? We asked three experts to share their knowledge when it comes to learning those all-important coping skills for teens. You know, the ones that won’t be listed on their freshman-year syllabus.

1. Keeping track of all the things.

Until now, it’s been mostly your parenting brain helping your kid remember homework assignments, soccer practices, and those all-important school projects. With high school around the corner, let your teen step out of your brain and into theirs by keeping track of their own responsibilities. “Most schools have Learning Management Systems where teachers post assignments, etc. Students should train themselves to check those daily,” says Michael Roemer, Ph.D., and Director of Global Education at Trinity Valley School.

Apps like Remind and Band are useful when it comes to planning, and viewing calendars, and educators can communicate with their students here. In addition to these apps, teens can make lists or use a calendar to remember homework and important things after school. Roemer suggests trying out different organizational methods to find one that works best. “Kids need to try several things in elementary and middle school so that they have their own ‘system’ in place by high school,” Roemer says.

2. The value of making checklists.

Studies show that people perform better when they write down what they need to do. And writing out a checklist list when it comes to daily tasks gives us structure and visual aid for what needs to be accomplished. Teach your teen how to make their very own to-do list for homework or after-school commitments.

There are great list-making apps like Bear In Mind and Lists To-do that can be fun and easy to use or you can go old-school and write it out in a notebook. Writing out your list breaks up screen time and oh, wait for it…physically writing improves memory function and supports clear thinking skills. Also, research shows if you take a minute to doodle or decorate your list, this action helps you relax and think creatively—and your checklist just looks snazzier.

3. Self-reliance means setting a morning alarm.

Your kid waking up without your help may seem impossible, but sometimes the simplest tasks teach the most valuable lessons. “Responsibility is so important for kids,” says Paige Schueler, a child educator with Slate Run Elementary. “Recognizing that all of our actions have positive or negative consequences is vital for kids as they become adults.”

Empowering your almost high-schooler with responsibilities like setting a morning alarm builds confidence, and gives your teen more of what they’re craving—independence. “I think what’s most important is realizing that life doesn’t make excuses for us, so learning to be self-reliant and responsible is huge,” Schueler says.

4. Conversational skill basics.

Knowing how to hold a conversation helps kids build connections, make friends, and learn to ask for what they need. Dr. Katie Smith, a licensed clinical and child psychologist, says one way to work on gaining confidence when interacting with friends and authority figures is to practice.

“Encourage kids to talk to others outside their normal sphere—servers, store clerks, and neighbors,” Dr. Smith says. “Encourage them to make eye contact and remember that nonverbal communication skills make an important first impression (posture, facial expression, eye contact) that let others know you’re open to socializing.”

This type of consistent practice can empower your teen and deepen their understanding of talking and listening. Some kids need practice with a reciprocal conversation, and here Dr. Smith suggests going over this skill with them. “When asked a question, respond, then follow up with a question,” she says.

5. Knowing emergency protocols.

It can be nerve-wracking to talk to your kids about emergency situations and how to handle them. But having honest and age-appropriate discussions about these situations supports your teenager in feeling competent and in control. If we have a plan we’ve talked about and practiced, we’re more likely to automatically start plans and panic less, Roemer says. So, make sure your teen knows how and who to call for help depending on the emergency.

Schueler teaches her students—and her own kids—that it’s important to be aware of their surroundings. “I teach them to be aware of the situation they’re in and ask questions like: Do you feel safe? Are there people around that may not look safe? Are there circumstances that may not look safe?”

So, help your kids recognize unsafe and potentially dangerous situations and then give them the tools they need to leave. In some cases, you can create pre-planned exit strategies like a “blame parents” text code if your teen recognizes an uncomfortable situation and needs an out.

6. Doing (and folding and putting away) laundry.

Showing your teen how to wash, dry, and fold their own laundry is a good way to teach them accountability and the cause and effect of consequences. Because, guess what… if you don’t wash your dirty underwear or your favorite shirt, you won’t have it to wear the day you need it. Showing them how to take care of their belongings also reveals the real work behind what used to be parental magic. If you’re wondering if your kids’ white load will end up pink, Dr. Smith says, “A good thing to keep in mind is that if they can do it for themselves, they should.”

7. Awareness in social situations.

So, you’ve probably noticed the lightning-fast speed at which your teen’s mood can shift. One minute you’re the coolest parent ever and the next, well… not so much. This is due in part to hormonal fluctuations and developmental changes in the brain, which makes feelings run strong. Teens are learning how to process their emotions and are becoming more socially aware by recognizing the feelings of those around them, according to the University of Minnesota.

You can support this life skill for teens by bringing awareness into your everyday life. Asking your kid how they’re feeling so they can check in with themselves, using favorite TV/book characters to discuss their feelings and reactions, and/or modeling healthy ways to interact with those around you are all ways to support them. Becoming socially aware allows your teen to build strong positive relationships and develop deeper levels of empathy.

8. Understanding basic money matters.

Giving your teen the practical steps to deal with money not only helps them understand its value, but this conversation opens up the door for a lifetime of understanding. Explain the principles of saving and spending. Then talk to them about the cost of groceries or show them how to comparison-shop the price of that new game they so desperately want.

If you’re working with an allowance, apps like FamZoo or Step can help you navigate money management in a hands-on way. And don’t forget you can always set up a savings account and teach your kid the time-honored skill of balancing a checkbook. When learning any new skill like dealing with money, patience and support go a long way. “Kids are going to make mistakes, and that’s natural and a part of learning. So, let them fail, but be there to support them and help them recover and grow,” Roemer says.

9. Advocating for yourself.

Grade school is a time when your protective parenting instincts kick in, causing you to step in and stand up for your kid. But high school can be a time for your teen to learn how to speak up for themselves. “From a young age, our school and my family teach our kids to ‘use their big voice’ and tell the person what don’t like and what they would like instead,” Schueler says.

When it comes to self-advocacy, Schueler explains that it’s important we take steps to change society’s thinking that we’re rude or inconsiderate when telling someone we’re not comfortable in a certain situation. “And that starts with making teens more comfortable with expressing their opinions in a polite way,” Schueler adds.

The good news is parents can totally help their teens practice this life skill. “Adults can model for kids what it looks like to ask for guidance or support,” Roemer says. When this kind of culture exists, Roemer says it’s easier for teens to feel like advocating for themselves is what they should be doing, and that it’s more than okay, it’s expected. Learning how to speak up for yourself is a critical life skill that will serve them well as they move into adulthood, but be sure to meet your teen where they are. Dr. Smith suggests if your teen feels they cannot approach a teacher with a question or concern, find other ways that support like helping them write an email.

10. Preparing a meal.

You don’t have to be ready to be on Top Chef Jr. to know how to make a tasty meal. Preparing a simple breakfast, lunch, or dinner bolsters confidence and teaches responsibility. And yup, you guessed it; these are all qualities that can help make the transition from grade school to high school easier. “Keep in mind that our job as parents is to release confident, self-reliant, and independent young adults into the world,” Dr. Smith says. This means teaching them skills like preparing a meal (or setting their morning alarm) because, as Dr. Smith says, “self-reliance leads to confidence and independence.” And these are life skills for teens that are a critical part of their path to becoming an adult.

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10 Beach Reads You’ll Get Lost In

by Maria Guido

Dive into these must-read books perfect for vacation or anytime

Spring is here, the weather is getting warmer, and the dream of long beach days is on the horizon. Even if long beach days aren’t on your horizon, there is still the possibility of some long, wistful days spent with… a book. We’ve all heard the term “beach read,” and although its origin has never been pinpointed, there is a by-name association that beach read books are light, fluffy, and vacation-themed. We’d like to think they’re moving beyond that; to anything you can dive into and get lost in.

If your to-be-read list isn’t growing as quickly as usual, we’re here to help. Here are a bunch of books to dive into—from social commentaries that manage to be fun to good, old-fashioned love stories.
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Self Care: A Novel by Leigh Stein

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If you've ever scrolled through Instagram and wondered if wellness influencers really exist the way they do on screen in real life, Self Care by Leigh Stein is for you—because let's face it; we all know they don't. It's about two female cofounders of a wellness start-up. Maren Gelb is on a forced digital detox, thanks to a viral tweet that is not being very well received. Her partner, Devin Avery, is the outward projection of insufferable perfection, but inwardly—a mess. It's a quick, readable romp about reckoning with yourself when your "brand" is all about... self care.

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Happy Place by Emily Henry

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If your love language is stories about smart moody men and even smarter, moodier women finding each other in this loveless world—Emily Henry is the author for you. Henry is a "beach read" master who delivers intelligent, fun dialogue and main characters you want to hang out with (or sleep with). It's the perfect recipe for a day in the sun with your head buried in a book. A Happy Place finds newly-broken-up couple Harriet and Wyn struggling to keep their game faces intact while they spend a week with their friends in a cottage in Maine—a getaway that's been a yearly tradition in their friends group for the last decade. They haven't told their friends about their breakup yet, and faking it for the week is turning out to be a little harder than they thought it would. Witty banter? Check! Sexual tension? Check! Totally relatable end-of-relationship crap? Check!

Sunshine Nails is one of the best beach reads for summer 2023
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Sunshine Nails: A Novel by Mai Nguyen

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Vietnamese refugees Debbie and Phil Tran have carved out a comfortable life for themselves in Toronto thanks to their family nail salon. But when a flashy nail salon chain opens across the street, their world turns upside down. Their landlord is threatening to jack up the rent and they are daily reminded that the garish competition is winning. When their daughter returns home after a messy breakup, the family comes together to dream of ways to take their rivals down. So much thought went into crafting these characters and telling a more and more common gentrification story—you'll truly be hanging on every word to see how everything unfolds for this family. Pre-order your copy today (releases on July 4th, 2023).

Romantic Comedy is one of the best beach reads of 2023
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Romantic Comedy: A Novel by Curtis Sittenfeld

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Sally Milz is a sketch comedy writer for a show that airs every Saturday night. Sally's happy with her career and totally satisfied with the occasional random hook-up—let's just say she's kinda given up on her search for love. When one of her co-writers starts dating a glamorous actress who guest hosts the show, Sally wonders why random, totally mediocre men are constantly landing incredibly hot women way out of their league—and why the same doesn't seem to hold true for women. That is, until super-hot popstar Noah Brewster is the musical guest one week, and he and Sally immediately hit it off. Romantic Comedy is as much a relevant social commentary as it is a blast to read—and that's hard to pull off.

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Once More With Feeling: A Novel by Elissa Sussman

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From the novelist who brought us Funny You Should Ask (which you should also totally read), comes the sophomore love story Once More, With Feeling. Katee Rose thinks she's living the dream as a famous pop star dating another wildly famous pop star, but her whole world implodes when she hooks up with someone who has always been her friend—and also happens to be her boyfriend's bandmate. Now she's living her life as plain old Kathleen Rosenberg and she's fine with it, that is, until an opportunity arises to thrust her back into the spotlight. An opportunity brought to her by Cal Kirby, the "friend" that derailed her entire life. This manages to be a relatable story about being human, the choices we make, and the feelings we can't deny. Pre-order your copy today (releases on May 30th, 2023).

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You Could Make This Place Beautiful: A Memoir by Maggie Smith

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"This place could be beautiful, right? You could make this place beautiful..." ends Maggie Smith's wildly well-known poem about the state of the world and raising children in it. The stunning words now represent the title of her new memoir, You Could Make This Place Beautiful, widely regarded as one of the most anticipated books of 2023. This is not a light book. It's heartbreaking and eye opening, and underline-worthy. It's about life and marriage and family—and expertly manages the most difficult lesson; that life is never what you expect and harder than you imagine. It's an instant New York Times bestseller, and worth all the hype.

The Charm Offensive is a best beach read for 2023
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The Charm Offensive by Alison Cochrun

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If you love a certain bachelor-based reality TV show and you love a good love story, The Charm Offensive is for you. Dev is a man who's always believed in fairy tales, so it makes sense that he produces the biggest fairy tale of all; a long-running TV show that brings people together. When disgraced tech wunderkind Charlie becomes the show's bachelor, Dev wonders if he'll be able to get the quiet, stiff, anxious man in front of him camera ready—and ready to find a woman. Turns out Dev and Charlie have more fireworks than any of the contestants on the show, and what develops is a super cute love story all about who makes you feel safe and how to find what you truly need.

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You Made a Fool of Death With Your Beauty: A Novel by Akwaeke Emezi

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Feyi lost the love of her life five years ago in a tragic car accident and is desperately ready to learn how to enjoy something again. She's putting the pieces of her life back together; she's a successful artist, she has a ride-or-die best friend, and she's dipping her toes in the world of casual hook-ups. She's not ready to move on in any real way, until she meets someone who whisks her away for a whirlwind summer luxury trip. But the trip takes a dangerous turn when she falls deeply for someone who isn't who she came with—and might be the most complicated person she could have fallen in love with. No one writes like Emezi, and this book is stunning and satisfying. Pre-order a copy today (releases on June 8th, 2023).

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Killers of a Certain Age: A Novel by Deanna Raybourn

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Described as "James Bond meets the Golden Girls," this fun story does not disappoint. Four women have spent their lives as the deadliest group of assassins out there, but when they reach retirement age, they soon figure out that the organization that's been employing them has some very permanent plans for their future. They have to rely on experience and each other to get themselves out of this kill-or-be-killed situation. You'll devour this book for the action and appreciate it for the social commentary regarding just when exactly it is that women become disposable.

Related: 10 Books So Good You’ll Cry When They’re Finished

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Woman Shares How MIL Taking Delivery Room Pics & Sending Them to Family Ruined Her First Birth

by Christina Marfice

A woman’s viral TikTok video calling out bad mother-in-law behavior is all the evidence we need for allowing moms to ban anyone from the delivery room

The moment your child is born (and all the time you spend in labor leading up to it) should be a special memory that you treasure with your most loved people—your partner, maybe your own mom, and whoever else you choose to allow in the delivery room. The key word here is “choose”—one woman is going viral on TikTok for sharing her birth story, and how a couple of uninvited (by her) guests ruined the entire memory for her. It’s enough to make any mom see red.

Bramty Juliette, a social media influencer, podcaster, and mom of three, shared the story on her podcast, BRAMTEA, which she co-hosts with her husband, Luis Espina.

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When she was 19 years old and pregnant with their first daughter, Bramty explains how there were only two people she wanted in the room with her when she gave birth: Luis and her mom. But Luis wanted his own mom to be present, too, and he insisted on it, despite his wife’s wishes. And when the time came, he also invited his aunt in, which, oof.

“When you give birth, it’s about the wife, it’s about the mom,” Bramty said, adding that at the time, Luis didn’t agree. “She’s the only one giving birth. She’s the one going through things physically and mentally. Whatever she’s comfortable with is most important. But you didn’t have that mentality. You had your mom’s back most of the time.”

So when her water broke and she headed to the hospital, Bramty found herself in a room with Luis, her mom, his mom, and his aunt. And that’s not even the worst part.

“I remember your mom and your aunt taking pictures of my vagina while I was pushing,” she said. “Then later find out that your aunt had sent those pictures to family members.”

Excuse me, they what? In what world is that an appropriate thing to do?

The commenters basically exploded with all the rage we’re feeling right now.

“I would have lost my mind,” one wrote. Another added, “That’s sounds so traumatizing. I’m so sorry you had to go through that as your first labor experience.”

Let this be the story that finally settles this debate: the only person who gets a say in who is in the room during a birth is the person giving birth. During such a vulnerable time, they deserve to feel safe, loved, and supported. Full stop.

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