These ideas will help your one-year-old’s birthday run smoothly
Even though your baby won’t remember their first birthday, it’s a major (and incredibly cute) milestone for parents—one that your kid will love to look back on when they’re older (be sure to save all the best pics in the Tinybeans app). You’ll probably choose the most adorable party outfit, soon to be covered in freshly baked (or bought!) smash cake. But with schedules to take into account and a lot of little personalities to cater to, how do you plan a party to remember that doesn’t end in disaster? Whether hosting a small gathering with family or a big blowout, these are the first birthday party ideas and tips that’ll ensure everyone has a great time—especially the birthday babe.
1. Respect the nap.
Happy, stress-free parties require a well-rested baby, so time the birthday bash around your baby’s naptime. While this may mean a different start time than Grandma expected, everybody (especially your child!) will have a better time if you work around the sleep schedule.
2. Create a quiet area.
Since parties with babies can mean tears and gleeful shrieks, setting up a secondary party area in another room or outside for guests to go to if they need a break from the festivities is a brilliant first birthday party idea. Set out non-electronic toys for babies who may feel overstimulated, and place chairs and snacks there for adults who want a spot for quiet conversation.
3. Designate photographers.
To ensure you capture the big moments and sweet snuggles with important folks, ask a few attendees to take charge of specific photo moments. That way you can focus on your child and guests—and end up in some of the photos, too! Take all the snapshots from the day and make them into a Tinybeans photo book to save your memories of the special day.
4. Choose a simple theme.
If planning a Pinterest-worthy party sounds too stressful, stick to a simple theme. Lifestyle guru and mother of two Camille Styles opted for a summer-themed party for her daughter’s first birthday and used hearts and the colors pink and orange to make the party look cohesive.
5. Or… skip the theme.
No, you don’t need a themed first birthday party. Promise. Instead, spend your money on fun first birthday activities your baby and guests will enjoy. Our favorite is the ball pit. Just buy an inexpensive kiddie pool and a lot of colorful plastic balls. Kids will love to play around in it, and you can set it up at home or in your backyard for your child to enjoy for years to come.
One of our favorite ideas when planning parties for one-year-olds olds is to snap pictures before baby gets sleepy or cake-covered and when you and your family are more relaxed and focused. To ensure you get great photos, make or order a small smash cake before the big day and do a low-key photo shoot without any guests around. Baby will be all smiles, and no one flipping through the scrapbook will ever know that the picture was taken on a different day.
7. Weather permitting, opt for an outdoor venue.
A park or playground can be the perfect party spot; all you bring is the cake, balloons, favors, snacks, and a table. The mess will be minimal in the great outdoors, and younger guests will have lots of space to run around.
First birthday party tip: Arrive early to stake out a spot in the shade, and tell guests what color balloons or decorations you have so they know where to find you. If the weather isn’t cooperating and you need to move the party to your home, make extra room indoors by moving furniture out of the party room so little legs can crawl or walk around.
8. Put older kids in charge of games.
Delegate, delegate, delegate. Older kids, like cousins or friends’ children, usually love to be given responsibility at parties, and they’re really good at getting the younger ones’ attention. Put them in charge of party games, music-making, singing songs, and more. Chat with the older kids (and their parents) in advance to ask what they’re comfortable doing and create a plan.
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9. Use a cupcake for smashing.
Smash cakes are all the rage with the one-year-old crowd and their photo-taking families, and while we say smash away, a tiny confection or cupcake works just as well with much less mess. You may even be able to salvage your child’s outfit for future events if you go for a less messy, smaller cake.
10. Personalize the party.
Highlight a few of your baby’s favorite things over the past year (first word! favorite food! favorite stuffed animal!) and make a poster you display at the party. This first birthday party idea from Kara’s Party Ideas lets guests learn about your baby and is worth snapping a photo of for your child to revisit in a few years. Better yet, make it a yearly tradition.
11. Create a time capsule.
Asking your guests to write the guest of honor a short letter to be read years from now tops our list of sweet first birthday party ideas. To ward off writer’s block, offer suggestions for what to write, such as helpful advice, a memory of the party or first year, or wishes for the future. Store the letters in a marked container that reads “Do not open until you turn 21” (or whatever age you like). For guests who can’t make it, ask them to email your submissions—print them out, and file them away for a future date.
12. Make your party treats self-serve.
Set up everything from drinks to dessert in advance so you can tell guests to help themselves, leaving you to focus on your child and having fun. For younger guests, prep cut-up fruit, applesauce pouches, and cups of Cheerios or snack crackers. For adults, a charcuterie board, crudites, and antipasto are always popular nibbles.
13. Keep it short and sweet.
Little people get overstimulated quickly and can’t handle too much of a good thing. Limit your party to two hours or less so everyone can leave on a positive note.
Capture all the cutest (and messiest) moments from baby’s big day—and share them with your family and friends near and far—with the Tinybeans app. The secure platform puts parents in total control of who sees and interacts with photos and videos of their kids.
Becoming a new mom is tough, but these postpartum self-care tips can help give you the nurturing you need.
Welcome to the rollercoaster ride of motherhood, where each day is a whirlwind of sleepless nights, a flood of emotions you never knew existed, and baby coos you wish you could play on repeat.
If you’re a new mom, congratulations on this incredible adventure you’re embarking on. Whether you’re just days, weeks, or months in, we can only imagine how the arrival of your tiny bean has left you feeling—unparalleled joy with a side of “oh gosh, I’m lost in a tornado of diapers and baby bottles”?
Though, it’s within this bittersweet chaos that you can easily forget the most crucial passenger on this wild ride…you. Yes, you, the superhero who brought a small human into the world.
As your friend, your confidant, and your friendly voice of reason, we’re here to help you navigate the postpartum journey (because you don’t need to do it alone!). From taking care of your mental health to recognizing when you need professional assistance and everything in between, let’s dive into our top postpartum self-care tips.
1. Take Care of You!
There’s no denying that parents put themselves on the back burner when it comes to their children. While you can’t help but make your little ones your number one priority, refusing to dedicate time for self-care can affect your overall parenting.
With your body requiring extra care and nourishment upon giving birth, it’s important to stay hydrated (is that water bottle on your nightstand empty?), eat a well-balanced diet rich in nutrients, and get some hard-earned rest—we know, it’s easier said than done! Incorporating gentle exercises into your routine can also expedite your recovery. It could be as simple as light walks or pelvic floor exercises, but the key is to move at your pace.
2. Keep an Eye Out for Signs of Postpartum Depression
Motherhood brings forth a lot of change, including a spectrum of ever-changing emotions. While some shades are less joyous than others, it’s crucial to recognize if you’re feeling trapped in a prolonged shadow of sadness, hopelessness, or worthlessness.
These feelings are correlated to postpartum depression, a type of mood disorder that affects up to 15% of women after childbirth. The medical condition, which is often mislabeled as “baby blues,” can develop within the first few weeks to months after giving birth. It’s also marked by other serious symptoms, like a lack of interest in once enjoyable activities, the inability to connect with your infant, and thoughts of self-harm. Acknowledge your feelings during this transitional period, and if you find yourself experiencing any of these symptoms, seek immediate help.
3. Seek Professional Help When Needed
Your mental health as a new parent is vital. Not only does it play a direct role in how you navigate the unpredictability of parenthood, but it also impacts the quality of your relationship with your baby. If you’re feeling like you need an outlet to work through what you’re experiencing, that’s okay. Know that seeking professional assistance is a courageous step—and one that should be met with praise and support.
With BetterHelp, an online therapy service, you can take appointments right from the comforts of your home, and on your schedule. That means you have a licensed therapist at your fingertips, available through text, phone, or video, all wrapped up in an affordable monthly subscription.
As the world’s largest therapy service, BetterHelp also gives you access to one of over 30,000 licensed therapists in their massive network based on your needs, preferences, and location, so you can match with a therapist in as little as just 48 hours. If you’re looking for a little extra support from other moms facing similar challenges, you can opt for group sessions. It’s like a virtual village just for you.
Moms, we know you carry the weight of the world on your shoulders, but navigating this new era shouldn’t be an act you bear alone. Finding a support system can be paramount for both your mental and emotional well-being, whether it’s your significant other, family, friends, or a mommy support group. Surrounding yourself with comfort, laughter, and shared experiences can be the safety net that’ll uplift you when you need it most.
5. Carve Out “Me Time”
Oftentimes, it’s easy for moms to fully embrace their role as caretakers, devoting all of their time and energy to their new bundle of joy. But it’s important to not lose sight of who you were before children, and to not forget about what brings you happiness and relaxation in the process.
Devote time throughout each week that puts your first, so you can maintain your identity outside of motherhood. Reconnect with hobbies you love, or indulge in a guilty pleasure—maybe a TV series that’s just for you. This time is crucial for recharging and preserving your mental and emotional health.
6. Recognize (& Celebrate!) How Far You’ve Come
With so much always happening at once, it’s easy to overlook the small victories of parenting. Take a step back and celebrate all that you’ve achieved and how much your baby has developed—because of you! Whether it’s your baby sleeping through the night or you mastered the art of one-handed diaper changes, these small wins contribute to your growth as a mother. Acknowledging them can give you the feel-good emotions you need to keep going.
7. Set Realistic Expectations
Hooray, you’ve been promoted to the new role of mom, but like any new job, this period comes with some adjustments and level setting. Set realistic expectations of what you can and cannot accomplish in one day to gift yourself some much-needed compassion and grace.
Consider simplifying your daily routines to manage the demands of caring for a newborn. Rather than going to the grocery store, try ordering your meals weekly from a meal delivery service. If you’re overwhelmed by neglected household chores, tackle one area of the house every few days or divide and conquer with your partner. Every day may not be picture-perfect, and that’s more than okay.
8. Nurture Your Relationship with Your Significant Other
Amidst the sleepless nights and never-ending sea of bottles, don’t forget to nurture the bond with your partner. Communication is key and understanding each other’s needs in this new chapter of life is a must. Even simple gestures can go a long way in maintaining a strong and supportive relationship.
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We’re not messing with the same old white elephant gift ideas, and you can get these in no time from Amazon
Are you totally over the same old white elephant gift ideas? Because we are. In fact, this particular gift exchange can be downright painful as you watch people pass around a re-gifted off-brand lotion set and try to laugh at another Big Billy Bass. We completely understand because we’ve been there. But this year? This year, we’re changing things up with this roundup.
The best white elephant gifts are either funny, ridiculous, useful, or actually cool. If they’re a combination of any of those, then all the better, but ideally, if your white elephant gift idea is at least one of those things, you did it right. And, you’ve come to the right place. We’ve got funny, practical, and downright goofy gifts (and we’re not sorry). The best part? They’re available on Amazon, so it takes just a day or two before they’re to your door. In the market for something a little more traditional, but still need it fast? Check out our last-minute gifts from Amazon post.
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A seasoned mom shares all the best ways to navigate the festive season with a wee one
They say it’s the most wonderful time of the year—and it is!—but even at the best of times the holidays can be a tad stressful, from travel logistics and finding the right gifts for everyone on your list to those less-than-subtle comments from relatives. Now throw a newborn into the mix and suddenly the season has an entirely new sense of magic, plus a fresh set of challenges as you navigate ever-changing sleep schedules, seasonal viruses, and an overwhelming number of commitments. As a mom of six, I’ve journeyed through my share of holidays with a new baby in tow (my third was born one week to the day before Christmas, and I really wish I’d had this list back then). Drawing from personal experience and expert advice, here are some tried-and-true tips for helping a new mom survive (or even thrive!) this holiday season.
1. In Good Health
No matter the season, keeping your babe healthy is always priority number one, but it’s especially important to be on guard with a newborn during the holidays. Baby’s immature immune system, large crowds gathering indoors, and the circulation of respiratory viruses make for the perfect storm. Dr. Priya Thomas, founder of Mindful Pediatrics & Adolescent Medicine and mom of three, explains the risk. “An adult who just has a cold can pass along RSV, which can become severe in young babies.” Her advice is to steer clear of the crowds, practice proper hand-washing, and ask others to do the same before holding your infant. “Parents should feel empowered in this area, as it’s a matter of the health of the newborn,” says Thomas. But she is quick to remind us that that doesn’t mean new parents need to skip all the fun with friends and family. “This is the time to be creative. You don’t have to miss out on the holiday cheer, just avoid the large holiday parties and opt for a more intimate gathering in your home,” she suggests.
As you spend more time with family and friends in the coming weeks, expect a flurry of questions and offers of unsolicited advice. (Take it from me, this time of year they’re as reliable as busy stores and even busier parking lots.) For example, if your little one’s sleep schedule coincides with a family event, you might hear remarks like, “We never cared about schedules in my day.” While these comments are often well-intended, they may not be helpful, especially when tender, postpartum emotions are swirling. To ease the pressure of responding in the moment, prepare a general response ahead of time, such as “We’re doing what we think is best for our baby.” Give your response with confidence and a smile, then gracefully transition the conversation to a more enjoyable topic. And, if tensions escalate still, take some advice from Theresa Gray, founder of Blooms of Grace Counseling. “If you’re noticing that you’re starting to feel anxious, angry or stressed, it’s okay to step away for a moment,” she shares. “Take deep breaths that fill your belly and relax your jaw and visualize a peaceful scene or memory.”
3. Baby Yourself
This time of year is all about giving, so go ahead and give yourself the gift of a break. “Self-care is often thought of as things like hot baths, mani-pedis, and shopping trips with friends, but those aren’t really the things that recharge us,” explains Gray. “Instead, self-care during this busy and highly sociable season might be to get up before the baby to prepare yourself and your heart for the day.” She continues: “It should include spending intentional time with your spouse or close friends and asking for help and communicating the needs and desires you have.”
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4. Respect the Nap… Or Don’t
With all of the added festivities, the holidays are notorious for throwing off routines. As the parent, you get to decide whether to toss your schedule to the wind or politely decline any events that may mess it up. In my early years of motherhood, I took the respect-the-nap-at-all-costs approach. Although I missed out on certain events, I enjoyed the outings I did take because I had a happy, rested sidekick. Now, six kiddos in, we tend to let baby nap on the go, and she generally thrives in the spontaneity. In the end, how much to alter your baby’s schedule over the holidays is up to you and the kind of kid you have. “There is wisdom in keeping to a schedule, as there is a physiological need for that, but some flexibility is good, too,” says Thomas. “I am all about being mindful of what works for your family.”
5. Layer Up
The weather outside can be frightful this time of year, so it’s especially important to dress your little one so that they’re warm and comfortable. Because infants aren’t able to regulate their body temperature yet, they can lose heat four times faster than adults—though that’s not a reason to keep them indoors, no matter how many times your grandma warns about catching your death of cold. “Your baby is not going to get sick from exposure to the cold, but do be mindful of low temperatures and proper clothing,” advises Dr. Thomas. Layering is the key to ensuring your tot doesn’t get too cold or too hot. The rule of thumb: Dress them in the same amount of clothing you’d wear yourself, then add a layer. Also, be sure little’s outfit includes a hat, as the head and face are where babies lose heat the quickest.
6. Travel Smart
If you’re hitting the road this year, it can be helpful to plan your drive around baby’s nap time or bedtime to help you travel in peace. If they’ll be awake for the drive, schedule in lots of stops for feeding and cuddling. If your babe is prone to fussiness in the car, consider a genius travel companion like this: the Baby Shusher. It has consistently calmed our crankiest car-bound babies (and also soothed their hyperventilating parents) for years. Another option is the Hatch portable sound machine, or just turn up the tunes. “Santa Baby,” anyone?
Now that you’re a parent, it’s time we break it to you: for the next decade, the holidays will be virtually synonymous with toys. So many toys. If you have family eager to load baby up with gifts, my seasoned-mom advice is to skip anything with batteries (a.k.a. noisemakers) and keep it simple. For young babies, an activity mat is a great choice, suggests Thomas. “You can do tummy time on the mat with a newborn even just for a few minutes,” she says. “Look for one with a mirror and different contrasting colorings and textures, things they can touch and feel or make sound.” For older babies, my go-to’s are wooden blocks, hand puppets, and board books, each of which develops their motor skills or fosters imagination and emotional connection.
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8. Slow Down
During the holidays, we often feel the pressure of doing more, but this is your permission to slow down. Replace the holiday “ho-ho-ho” with “no-no-no.” “Self-care sometimes means saying ‘no,’” Theresa explains. “You don’t have to do everything and be everywhere. Choose the things that prioritize the health of your family and the reason for the season.” (Read that again if people-pleasing is your kryptonite.) Letting the hustle and bustle of the holidays pass while you soak up the simple pleasures—quietly snuggling up on the couch with your favorite festive bevy and your tiny little elf—may be the best thing you add to your schedule this season.
9. Nobody’s Perfect
Sometimes, the most precious moments are the least perfect. It took me a long time to learn this. For years, I aspired to have the perfect Christmas tree (you know the one, straight from a Pottery Barn catalog), but with so many curious little hands moving things around, I’d have to rush to secretly redo the ornaments each night after bedtime. Now, looking back, I realize that I missed the magic in pursuit of perfection. Learn from my loss and let go of the idea that there is an “ideal” Christmas or Hannukah card, photo, or party. Instead, be present with your baby and enjoy the moment, no matter how imperfectly (or downright messily!) it unfolds.
This non-profit is all about moms supporting moms when it’s needed the most
Whether you’re a new mom or you’ve got a few years under your belt, there’s no question that life can be overwhelming. Between work, caring for the kids, cleaning up messes, doing a million loads of laundry, making weeknight dinners, and getting everyone where they need to be on time, finding even five minutes for yourself is considered a total win. So what does that say about moms in general? That. We. Need. Help. Even if we don’t feel like we can (or should) ask for it.
That’s why, when we discovered mom-of-two Jen Hamilton’s TikTok video about how her non-profit, Hot Mess Express, came into existence, all we could do was stand up and cheer. Leave it to a mom to know exactly what to do!
Hamilton tells the story in her now-viral video. “So a couple years ago, there was a post on Facebook in a local moms group. It was written anonymously, and it was by a girl who was a couple months postpartum with her second baby. She was asking for recommendations for a cleaning company to come in and help her clean her house because she was so overwhelmed.
“She said, ‘I don’t even have the money to do this but I can’t keep living like this.’ So people commented and were like, ‘Oh, reach out to this person or this company.’ But I was like, ‘We are missing something big here.’”
Hamilton took it upon herself to gather other local moms who could help, and they showed up in a big way.
“There were like eight or ten of us there. We had taken up a collection and we sent her and her family out for a fun day, and we spent the whole day cleaning, organizing, doing laundry. We went to Walmart and got things that they needed. We made sure that there was food in the house. We made crock-pot meals. We went all out. And that was the first ever Hot Mess Express mission,” explained Hamilton.
Since that first day, the non-profit has taken on a life of its own. It now has a nationwide reach with over 50 chapters, and there’s plenty of room for more. Hamilton no longer sits at the helm of Hot Mess Express, but her friend and fellow member, Girl, Same podcaster Brittnie Tran, was ready to take the lead.
I can not believe the amount of women interested in joining HME since @Jen Hamilton’s video! It is so beautiful to see and we are so excited to have you 💕 hotmessexpress.co @brittiniechristine @kay.la.dee @Easy Breezy Runner @tina1325 #volunteer#nonprofit#womensupportingwomen
Brittnie Tran recently explained her vision to Scary Mommy: “I would love to see enough Hot Mess Express chapters that we are accessible to as many women as possible. There are so many women who don’t know our group exists, suffering in silence thinking they are alone. That’s why we work so hard to normalize the struggles of motherhood and normalize asking for help.”
The struggle is, in fact, very real. A recent Pew study found that although women are earning more than ever and that there are more dual-income households than in the past, women in opposite-sex relationships are still contributing more to household duties than their partners. In these ‘egalitarian marriages’—meaning both partners contribute equally to the yearly income—women still spend an average of 4.6 hours a week on the same tasks to which their husbands contribute only 1.9 hours a week.
This is where Hot Mess Express comes in. Their mission states: “Hot Mess Express is a group of moms and caregivers who come together to rescue moms in need by doing the housework that can seem impossible. Whether these moms are dealing with postpartum depression, medical problems, social issues, or life burdens, Hot Mom Express is here to alleviate as much stress as possible by doing dishes, laundry, sweeping, mopping, and organization. Our goal is to leave these ladies with a more peaceful existence and give them a fresh start.”
In the sleep-deprived trenches of early parenthood, babies seem like enough to establish a deep connection
Something changed when I popped out a tiny human. Well, many things changed, like my sleep schedule, my boob size, and my ability to laugh without peeing (everyone knows that when you have a kid, you say goodbye to decent bladder control). But in this case, I’m talking about my friends. When I up and procreated, I became a leaky woman attached to a tiny, occasionally screamy, leaky baby.
My friends from graduate school grew wide-eyed and slowly backed away. I might leak on them. Worse, the baby might leak on them. Possibly, he could scream. In fact, he could scream, and I could leak, and they might see a nipple. They fled.
So I made The New Mom Rounds. I went to La Leche League. I started a babywearing group. I got really into that whole attachment parenting/breastfeeding thing because I met some other moms who were into it, so like, besties! Very few of those moms remain my friends years later. Most of them? They were not really friends.
Real talk: children are people you parent. They are not the basis for lasting friendship. In the sleep-deprived trenches of early parenthood, babies seem like enough to establish a deep connection. But in these relationships, you’re not exactly yourself—I know I wasn’t.
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I was no longer Eliza, who liked The Velvet Underground some times and pop punk at others; I no longer had a political agenda; and no one knew that in the before times, I had been a successful writer. No one cared. When I became a successful writer again and had mom friends, it was a cute side-note to my life, much like my musical tastes, my David Bowie obsession, my sexuality—everything that made me me.
My mom friends and I were bound together by two things: children, and how to properly parent them. That’s it. We talked about co-sleeping hacks and the best methods for removing spit-up from a sofa cushion, but not real-life issues, like “I had an eating disorder in high school. Now I’m on a restrictive diet so I can breastfeed a baby with protein intolerances, and it’s sort of messing with me.”
In the very early days of my children’s lives, these stifled friendships seemed like enough—and I truly did have a real friend or two. Sadly, they moved. Then, not long before Covid hit, I found myself sitting on a bench at the playground watching my three sons, while women traded Instant Pot recipes over my head. I asked them about TV. They changed the subject. I tried to talk about music. The same blank faces stared back.
Everyone’s not super into rock, but I’d expected more than “Who’s David Bowie?” I knew better than to touch politics.
“So my kid’s having trouble sleeping alone,” I said. The conversation began to burble.
It hit me: these women, who were so different from me—one rescued cats, one was an Evangelical Christian, one was hardcore into Disney—didn’t care about my life. Our differences didn’t matter because they were not relevant to our friendship. I was simply another mom at the table.
And after so many years of mom friends, I was ready to be Eliza again. But when I reached for her, she wasn’t there. I’d spent so long thinking about kids, writing about kids, making slime with kids, doing school with kids, and bonding over kids that I couldn’t remember who I was. I was floundering—I racked up quality time with my Kindle. I played games on my phone. Finally, I forced myself to make a list: what activities did I actually enjoy in the past? What did I do for fun before kids?
Then I tried those things on again to see what still fit. Some of those hobbies? Big old blah. Crocheting took too long, I realized. Paper maché and rando crafts, on the other hand, I was startlingly good at it.
I rediscovered teaching when my homeschool collective asked for help (I was good at teaching other people’s kids before I had my own, and I still am). I sought out like-minded friends who shared my interests rather than my sore boobs. We talk about writing sci-fi and Drunk History, not whose kid kicked who on the swing set.
Even the ones who do have kids know me as Eliza: they can tell you I like punk music and poetry and that I’m usually wearing Doc Martens, no matter the occasion. Some of them can’t remember my kids’ names. Some of them are my kids’ best friends’ moms. What matters: we talk about more important things than wake windows and baby-led weaning.
I’m forever grateful to those other women for giving me a place when I was a scared, new mom. But they only saw a scared, new mom; they didn’t see me. That went on for a long, long time—so long that I lost myself.
Now is the time to plan that big family trip for 2024 as these Black Friday travel deals are super hot
If your wanderlust has only gotten more intense this past year, we totally get it. Our favorite destinations are eager to welcome your family and they are offering some crazy deals to entice you to visit. These Black Friday travel deals include sun-drenched properties in California and Florida, as well as family-friendly resorts in Mexico and the Caribbean. Cruises and airlines are even getting in on the action for Black Friday 2023 and we are here for it!
Best U.S. Travel Deals for Black Friday & Cyber Monday
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Tenaya Lodge at Yosemite - Fish Camp, CA Tenaya Lodge at Yosemite is excited to announce a spectacular 30% discount on the best available rate. This deal will launch on Black Friday and continue through Cyber Monday. Click HERE for the deal link (set go live Black Friday).
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The Citizen Hotel, Autograph Collection Sacramento’s sophisticated politically themed The Citizen Hotel, Autograph Collection, located in the capital city’s vibrant downtown is buzzing with the year’s best rates and seasonal libations celebrating the magic of the holidays. In addition to 20% off room rates, guests will enjoy two complimentary craft cocktails at the property’s Michelin-recognized farm-to-table restaurant Grange Restaurant & Bar. The winter special is bookable starting 12:01 am on Friday, November 24 through midnight on Tuesday, November 28.
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Hotel La Jolla, Curio Collection by Hilton Bookable starting on Black Friday through the end of the year, Hotel La Jolla’s seasonal promotion gives guests up to 20% off its best rates plus a “pick your perk” option allowing them the choice of an extra treat to liven up their stay from two cocktails and a complimentary appetizer, a complimentary bottle of Champagne, or option for early check-in or late check-out. To book, click here and for more information, visit the property’s website at www.hotellajolla.com.
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The Hollywood Roosevelt| Los Angeles, CA Thelegendary boutique hotel and entertainment industry institution is long known as the epicenter for industry movers and shakers on Hollywood Boulevard. Home to vibrant new restaurant Shirley Brasserie, celebrating authentic French-Californian flavors, helmed by Chef de Cuisine Craig Hopson.
The Deal: Stay two (2) nights or more and get an extra night free. Booking window: 11/21 -11/29. Travel window: 11/22 – 3/31/2024. Book HERE.
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Margaritaville Hotel San Diego Gaslamp Quarter| San Diego, CA Following a nearly $30 million property-wide reimagination, Margaritaville Hotel San Diego Gaslamp Quarter is a distinctly Southern Californian take on the Margaritaville experience and is home to San Diego’s largest rooftop pool deck, vibrant and beachy accommodations, three dining and entertainment destinations to sip and savor, flexible meetings and events spaces, and thoughtful amenities.
Black Friday Deal: Stay a minimum of two nights and enjoy 30% off your accommodations, plus 50% off Valet Parking. Book by November 16 – November 29, 2023, and stay between November 16 – September 30, 2024. Book here.
Cyber Monday Deal: Unlock 35% off your stay (minimum 2 nights) and receive 50% off Valet parking. Your coastal escape awaits. Book by November 16 – November 29, 2023, and stay between November 16 – September 30, 2024. Book here.
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Mission Pacific Hotel| Oceanside, CA Mission Pacific Hotel is a vibrant 161-room beachside creative boutique. Bespoke and undeniably Southern Californian, the lively, expressive hotel is charged with local creative energy that speaks to sophisticated travelers who appreciate the unpretentious vibes of Oceanside.
The Deal: Save up to 30% off the best available room rate at Mission Pacific Beach Resort and receive a $30 credit at The Rooftop Bar – Oceanside’s hottest rooftop lounge featuring live DJs, cabanas, craft cocktails, Mediterranean bites, a pool and spa jacuzzi all with an oceanfront view. The booking link will go live before Black Friday and run through Cyber Monday on the Offers page, or guests can also call the reservations number at (760) 655-1332.
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Hotel Erwin| Venice, CA Located in the heart of Venice Beach, Hotel Erwin offers an oceanside stay just steps away from LA’s favorite restaurants, bars, shops and of course, the beach.
The Deal: 30% off Hotel Erwins most flexible rate along with a $50 food & beverage credit for Erwin’s General, open in the lobby for daily breakfast, lunch, dinner, coffee, and cocktails, plus free goodies at Ospi including 10% off The Window, $20 off Surf School and more. Travel window: now through March 31, 2024. Subject to availability. Book HERE.
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Mar Monte Hotel | Santa Barbara, CA A reincarnation of the historic 1930s Vista Mar Monte, the beachfront boutique lifestyle hotel offers modern amenities and design across three acres of Spanish-influenced grounds, including 200 reimagined guest rooms and suites, two food and beverage concepts – Lido Café and costa – a pool with oceanfront views and programming reflecting the local Santa Barbara culture and community.
The Deal: 30% discount on stays between November 2023 and February 2024 by using the code ‘LOCAL’ during booking. Note that Friday and Saturday nights require a two-night stay. Click here to book.
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Waldorf Astoria Monarch Beach(Orange County, CA): With newly renovated guestrooms, oceanfront golf course designed by renowned golf course architect Robert Trent Jones, Jr., spa, private beach club, three pools, and seven seaside dining options, this Black Friday, Waldorf Astoria Monarch Beach is offering:
Offer: Up to 50% off. Booking window: November 1 – November 26, 2023. Travel window: November 1, 2023 – April 30, 2024. Book Here or call and mention “Cyber Sale”
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Hilton Anaheim (Anaheim, CA) Orange County’s largest hotel, Hilton Anaheim is an official Disney Good Neighbor® hotel with select Disney® view rooms featuring private fireworks viewing, outdoor pool, waterslides, health club, organic fine dining and cocktails at Mix Restaurant and Mix Lounge, amusement park and Angels Stadium perks. This Black Friday, the hotel is offering:
Offer: 50% flash sale with rates starting at $110/night. Booking window: November 20 – November 27, 2023. Travel window: November 20, 2023 – March 31, 2024. Code “HPPAP2”
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San Diego Mission Bay Resort | San Diego, CA Set alongside Mission Bay, San Diego Mission Bay resort is the perfect destination for a beachside escape. The property offers beautiful views and luxurious amenities like a private beach, s’mores night under the stars and top-notch rooms and suites, and coastal Californian cuisine to enjoy every aspect of this seaside vacation destination.
The deal: Between November 24 through 28th, San Diego Mission Bay Resort is offering a refundable 20% off the best available room rate for stay dates between November 24, 2023 through May 22nd, 2024. The resort is also offering a non-refundable 30% off the best available room rate for stays between November 24, 2023 through November 28, 2024
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L’Auberge Del Mar | Del Mar, CA Located in the heart of the coastal Southern California village Del Mar, L’Auberge Del Mar boasts luxurious guest rooms, an upscale pool and pool bar, a coastal-inspired spa, al fresco dining overlooking the Pacific Ocean, and more.
The deal: L'Auberge Del Mar is offering a refundable 20% off the best available room rate for stay dates between November 23, 2023 through March 14th, 2024 OR a non-refundable 30% off for stays between November 23, 2023 through December 31, 2024. Full deposit is taken at time of booking.
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Kona Kai San Diego | San Diego, CA Set alongside its own private beach on Shelter Island, Kona Kai San Diego offers the quintessential San Diego experience with two inviting pools complete with private lounging cabanas, beautifully appointed guest rooms and suites, innovative programming for the entire family, coastal spa treatments, waterfront dining and more.
The deal: For trips booked from Nov. 23 - 28, Kona Kai is extending up to 20% off the best available room rate for stays from Nov. 23 through March 31, 2024.
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Estancia La Jolla Hotel & Spa | La Jolla, CA Following a recent $13.9 million renovation, Estancia La Jolla offers guests a luxurious stay with redesigned guest rooms and suites, stunning property grounds, a full-service spa, expansive pool deck and cabanas, and three outstanding on-site dining destinations.
The deal: Estancia La Jolla is offering a refundable 20% off the best available room rate for stay dates between November 24, 2023 through March 31st, 2024 OR a non-refundable 30% off for stays between November 24, 2023 through May 23 31, 2024. Full deposit is taken at time of booking.
The deal: Book our Cyber Winter Special where you buy three consecutive nights, and receive the 4th night free - Book a new reservation directly on our website, promotional code CYBER4FREE
Dates: Now through 12/31/23. Based on new reservations only, no blackout dates
How to book: Using the promo code YBER4FREE, only available on our website. The least expensive night of the stay is automatically comped. Available for lodging stays now through 3/31/24.
The deal: We will offer a 10% discount on bookings from now through February 29, 2024.
Dates: This offer excludes weekends (Friday and Saturday) as well as holidays. Blackout dates include November 24, December 23 - January 1st, January 15, February 14, February 18 & 19.
Where to book: This offer is only accessible by calling our Front Desk directly at 805-927-1329 (Little Sur) and 805-927-0012 (Moonstone Landing)
The deal: Save 25% for stays through March 14, 2024
Dates: November 8 - November 27
How to book: Online only. Only applicable to reservations made directly with the hotel. Cards must be present (can be virtual, mobile, or physical) when being used for payment.
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Silverado Resort, a legendary 1200-acre getaway in Napa Valley, CA:
CYBER WEEK OFFER:One-night stay is 20% savings; two-night stay is 25% savings; three-night or more stay is 30% savings.
Booking dates: 11/5/23 to 11/29/23; stay: 11/5/23 to 5/19/2024.
Terranea Resort located in Rancho Palos Verdes just south of LAX:
CYBER WEEK OFFER: Book a luxurious and spacious 1-2 Bedroom Bungalow, 1-3 Bedroom Casita, or Villa Residence and receive a complimentary third night plus $250resort credit.
Booking dates: 11/16 to 11/19/23; stay dates: 12/2/23 to 10/31/24.
Code BFCM3FREE at check-out. Some restrictions and blackout dates may apply.
CYBER WEEK OFFER: 20% discount off BAR (Best Available Rate). Booking dates: 11/16/23 to 11/29/23; stay: 11/16/23 to 8/31/24. Blackout dates and other restrictions may apply. For South Coast Winery Resort & Spa the promo code is BFCMSC with rates starting at $239; booking link available here. For Carter Estate Winery and Resort the promo code is BFCMCE with rates starting at $249; booking link available here.
CYBER WEEK OFFER for Black Friday and Cyber Monday exclusive offer is 30% off best available rate during the gift buying season. An additional 10% off for all Loyalty members (guests can enroll here).
Booking dates: 11/13/2023 to 11/27/2023; stay dates through 6/30/2024.
KSL Resorts’ five independent boutique hotels along California’s Central Coast:
CYBER WEEK OFFER: 25% savings for stays through 3/14/2024.
Booking dates: 11/8/2023 to 11/27/2023; stay dates: 11/8/2023 to 3/14/2024.
Booking for Avila Lighthouse Suites is available here; Pismo Lighthouse Suites available here; Paso Robles Innavailable here; Shore Cliff Hotel available here; and The Piccolo available here.
Colorado Travel Deals
The Broadmoor Situated at the gateway to the Colorado Rocky Mountains in Colorado Springs, The Broadmoor and its Wilderness Experience properties – The Ranch at Emerald Valley, Cloud Camp and the Orvis-endorsed Fly Fishing Camp – encompass 5,000 acres. The resort campus has 784 rooms, suites, and cottages.
The deal: 15% off all-inclusive Wilderness Experience stays for select dates in the 2024 season (April-October); Broadmoor exclusive of $269 nightly rates & suites available at 25% off of published rates valid for select dates in January 2024 through April 2024. Book between November 14 - December 1, 2023. More details and booking information here.
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The Brown Palace Hotel & Spa - Denver, CO Discover the epitome of luxury and elegance in the heart of Denver as The Brown Palace Hotel & Spa invites travelers and shoppers to celebrate Black Friday with an exclusive offer providing 30% off retail merchandise and BOGO service enhancements with any spa service, bookable Nov. 24-27, 2023, for redemption Nov. 28, 2023 to March 31, 2024.
Delaware Travel Deals
The Bellmoor Inn and Spa (Rehoboth Beach, DE) Between November 24 and November 28, 2023, The Bellmoor Inn and Spa is offering rooms at 24% off when you book a 2-night stay or more, with rooms starting at $189 after the discount is applied, for stays between November 24, 2023 and January 31, 2024. Book here with code CYBR
Hotel Bethany Beach (Bethany Beach, DE) Between November 24 and November 28, 2023, Hotel Bethany Beach is offering rooms up to 24% off, with rooms starting at $169 after the discount is applied, for stays between April 1, 2024 and August 31, 2024. Book here with code CYBER Bethany Beach Ocean Suites (Bethany Beach, Delaware) Between now and November 28, 2023, Bethany Beach Ocean Suites is offering rooms up to 20% off, with rooms starting at $189 after the discount is applied, for stays between now and January 31, 2024. Book here
Florida Travel Deals
The Don Cesar
Southernmost Beach Resort Situated along the southern limit of the famed Duval Street, the recently renovated Southernmost Beach Resort features classic coastal charm, unparalleled ocean views, and tons of family fun for a memorable stay in Key West’s Historic District. Boasting three palm-fringed pools, a signature restaurant, and four bars, this oceanfront resort will leave the kids begging to return.
The deal: Book between November 23 and November 28 and get 30% off + $100 Resort Credit per stay at Amara Cay and La Siesta. With each booking, a $5 Donation to Give Kids the World. A minimum of a 3-night stay is required. Offer is based on availability and valid for stays from December 1, 2023 – September 30, 2024.
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Opal Grand Hotel Collection – The Palm Beaches, FL This holiday season, a coastal getaway is a breeze when travelers stay at any four Opal Grand Hotel Collection resorts in Palm Beach County: Jupiter Beach Resort & Spa, Opal Grand, Delray Sands, and The Atlantic Suites on the Ave. From Nov. 27-28, guests can enjoy 35% off select dates and experience paradise at any of these luxe oceanfront resorts with the promo code OPFLSH.
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THE DON CESAR | ST. PETE BEACH, FLORIDA Opened in 1928, Florida’s iconic Pink Palace® The Don CeSar invites guests to relax and enjoy pristine private white sand beaches, spacious accommodations in one of the 277 guestrooms, including 36 luxurious suites, six food and beverage concepts and the award-winning Spa Oceana.
DEAL: Stay 3 nights, Save 30%. Book a minimum three-night stay during 11/21/23 - 12/5/23 for stays during 11/21/23 - 12/31/24. Includes a $100 resort credit per stay. Book HERE between November 21, 2023 through December 5, 2023 and use promo code: Cyber2023
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Hawks Cay Resort, the Florida Keys Hawks Cay Resort welcomes guests to the ultimate Florida Keys vacation experience with on-site amenities like fishing excursions, dolphin encounters, snorkel trips, and more. Plus, the new Pilar Bar hosts rum tastings and cigar pairings inspired by longtime Keys resident Ernest Hemingway.
This Black Friday, guests can take up to 45% off and receive a $50 resort credit plus daily breakfast for two during their stay. Bookable Nov. 14 through Nov. 29. Subject to availability, blackout dates apply.
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The Grove Resort & Water Park, Orlando Florida Black Friday/Cyber Monday 30% discount off of BAR rates. Booking window from November 16, 2023 to November 29, 2023. Can stay from November 16, 2023 to December 20, 2024. Book here
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Hilton Orlando (Orlando, FL) Hilton Orlando offers exclusive park perks plus seven restaurants, a full-service spa, multiple pools with a waterslide and lazy river plus a reimagined Lobby Bar and modernized chic decor following a major renovation of its lobby in fall 2022. This Black Friday, the resort is offering: 15% off best available rate and 50% off resort charge. Booking November 20 – December 1, 2023 for travel select dates for December 2023 – 2024 using code “P4” or SRP name ORLOC Special Offers
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Caribe Royale Orlando– Orlando, FL Caribe Royale Orlando recently debuted a completely reimagined, luxury travel experience that solidifies the resort as Orlando’s all-suite, premier destination for Disney-bound families, conveniently located a stone's throw from Walt Disney World and Orlando’s other top theme parks.
Deal: 30% off with $25 nightly F&B credit when booking direct for 2 consecutive nights or more. Booking Window: November 16-29, 2023. Travel Window: November 16, 2023-December 31, 2024. Book via the hotel’s website beginning November 16.
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Margaritaville Hollywood Beach Resort – Hollywood, FL Margaritaville Hollywood Beach Resort is your family-friendly tropical escape with 369-rooms, eight diverse bar and restaurant concepts, two pools, the famous FlowRider surfing simulator, year-round live entertainment, the St. Somewhere Spa, a kid’s club, paddle boarding and kayaking, and more.
Deal: Escape the winter blues and bask in the South Florida sun at Margaritaville Hollywood Beach Resort and save up to 20% when booking to stay between November 21, 2023 – June 30, 2024. Booking Window: November 20, 2023 – November 28, 2023. Book here during the booking window.
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Villatel Orlando Resort Villatel Orlando is now officially open for guests to enjoy. This 77-acre resort offers unparalleled convenience, providing easy access to Orlando's major tourism attractions. To celebrate the grand opening, the resort is turning Black Friday "blue" with an exclusive offer. By using the special code BLUEFRIDAY20, travelers can enjoy a fantastic 20% discount on all stays booked between Friday, November 24th and Sunday, November 26th for any future stays lasting at least 5 nights.
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Mayfair House Hotel & Garden Mayfair House Hotel & Garden has an exclusive cyber offer this holiday season for iPrefer Rewards members. Book a room for 2 nights and receive your 3rd night free and receive 30,000 bonus iPrefer Points for a two-night or more stay in 2023 or 2024.
Once people are signed up for iPrefer Rewards, they can use this booking link
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PGA National Resort unveiled an incredible $100 million transformation in February 2022 which touched every aspect of the celebrated property – including celebrity chef-helmed restaurants such as Top Chef Winner Jeremy Ford’s The Butcher’s Club, The Spa which was redesigned by V Starr, tennis star Venus Williams’ design firm, 21 two-bedroom, two-bathroom cottages designed by Serena & Lily, new pickleball courts, and more.
Book 3 nights and receive 30% off the best available rate. Book 5 nights and get 50% off the best available rate.
The Deal: Book between November 20th and November 27th and stay by 10/31/24, receive 30% off 3 or more nights! Rate does not include $35.00 Daily Resort Fee. Stay must be booked between 11/20/23 and 11/27/23, and completed by 10/31/24. Rates are subject to availability. Offer may not be combined with other promotions or special offers. Offer not applicable to prior reservations, groups or conventions. Blackout dates and other restrictions may apply. Maximum number of guests allowed in room: 4. Cancellation policy: 72 hours prior to date of arrival. Subject to hotel tax. Subject to a resort fee.
The Deal: Book between November 23 and November 28 and to 30% off + $100 Resort Credit per stay at Amara Cay and La Siesta. With each booking, a $5 Donation to Give Kids the World. A minimum of 3-night stay is required. Offer is based on availability and valid for stays from December 1, 2023 – September 30, 2024.
The Deal: Book between November 24-November 28 to receive:
25% Off Standard Rate at The Cloister or The Lodge for stays January-March 2024*
15% Off Standard Rate at The Cloister or The Lodge for stays April-August 2024*
25% Off Standard Rate at The Cloister or The Lodge for stays September-December 21, 2024*
10% Off Standard Rate at Cottages for stays January-December 21, 2024*
A $250 resort credit per stay for The Cloister and The Lodge.*
A $100 resort credit per Cottage per night of stay*
Valid for stays January through December 2024 excluding these blackout dates: March 24-31, 2024; May 23-26, 2024; July 1-6, 2024; August 30-September 1, 2024; November 17-23, 2024; November 27-29, 2024; December 22-31, 2024. Rate Code: BFRIDAY23
The Deal: Book between November 24-November 28 to receive:
25% Off Standard Rate at The Inn at Sea Island for stays January-March 2024*
15% Off Standard Rate at The Inn at Sea Island for stays April-August 2024*
25% Off Standard Rate at The Inn at Sea Island for stays September-December 21, 2024*
A 30-minute Topgolf Swing Suite session per stay.*
Valid for stays January through December 2024 excluding these blackout dates: March 24-31, 2024; May 23-26, 2024; July 1-6, 2024; August 30-September 1, 2024; November 17-23, 2024; November 27-29, 2024; December 22-31, 2024. Link to book here.
Hawaii Travel Deals
Aqua-Aston Hospitality
Hotel Wailea| Maui, HI Hotel Wailea, Relais & Châteaux offers Maui’s hottest hideaway with 72 suites spread across 15 tropical acres. This intimate, peaceful retreat is nestled within a lush tropical hillside perched 300 feet above the sea, with convenient access to island adventures by day – from beaches, water sports and golf to restaurants and shopping – and luxurious tranquility by night.
The Deal: Guests can enjoy a 25% off discount on stays of 3 nights or more. Available between 12/15/23 – 6/30/24 (subject to blackout dates). Hotel Wailea’s email subscribers have exclusive early access to the sale starting on 11/17/23. Public access to the sale is from 11/24/23 until 11/27/23. Promo code: FRIDAY2023; click here to book.
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Kaimana Beach Hotel| Oahu, HI Located at Waikiki’s best address along the Gold Coast of Oahu, Kaimana Beach Hotel is situated on the quietest end of Waikiki, yet just five minutes from the energy and excitement of Honolulu. The 122-room hotel has been an integral part of the fabric of Waikiki for more than five decades. The celebrated social hub of the hotel and a new culinary experience at the iconic Hau Tree is known for its beachfront brunch just steps away from the ocean.
The Deal: Guests can enjoy a 30% off discount on stays between 11/8/23 – 12/15/24. Kaimana’s email subscribers have exclusive early access to the sale starting on 11/8/23. Public access to the sale is from 11/22/23 until 11/30/23. Click here to book.
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White Sands Hotel| Waikiki, Hawaii Built in 1957 and reimagined for today, the White Sands Hotel includes 94 rooms and suites, exterior walk-up corridors, and private lanais that make it a vintage gem suited for contemporary island life.
PACIFIC 19 Kona| Kona, HI PACIFIC 19 Kona is a newly renovated and re-envisioned boutique hotel for independent travelers seeking stylish accommodations and authentic island experiences.
The Deal: 25% off. Booking window: 11/16/23 – 12/1/23. Stay window: 12/1/23 – 9/30/24. Book HERE.
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Aqua-Aston Hospitality – 25+ hotels and resorts in Hawaii 20% off at Aqua-Aston Hospitality’s properties on Oahu, Kauai, Maui and Hawaii Island. Visitors will love condo-style properties with resort amenities including Aston Kaanapali Shores, Aston Waikiki Beach Tower, Aston at the Whaler on Kaanapali Beach and more. A-List members (Aqua-Aston Hospitality’s loyalty program) also receive early access to the sale at 25% off.
Booking Window A-List Members: November 14 — 20, 2023; General Sale: November 21 — 28, 2023
Stay Dates: A-List Members: November 14, 2023 — December 20, 2024; General Sale: November 21, 2023 — December 20, 2024
Promo Code: General Sale:CYBERSALE
Louisiana Travel Deals
ONE11 Hotel (New Orleans, LA) ONE11 is offering 20% off rooms on November 24th, for stays through Feb. 1st. Starting Rate: $209 a night
Maine Travel Deals
Sandy Pines Campground Maine’s most elevated camping experience, Sandy Pines Campground, will offer travelers 20% off all Couples Camp Cottages reservations this coming Small Business Saturday, November 25th, and Cyber Monday, November 27th. Set in the lush of a serene salt marsh, the glampground provides travelers with the best of Maine summer, made more comfortable with air conditioning, mosquito nets, electricity, and top-of-the-line glamping accommodations.
Massachusetts Travel Deals
Hampton by Hilton Boston Seaport District (Boston, MA) Set near the waterfront and a five-minute walk from Flynn Cruise Terminal, Hampton by Hilton Boston Seaport District features an indoor pool, 24-hour fitness center, complimentary breakfast, and proximity to local dining, Leader Bank Pavilion and Boston Convention & Exhibition Center. This Black Friday, the hotel is offering:
Offer: 60% off the Park and Stay Package (for daily parking each night of stay). Booking window: November 25 – November 28, 2023. Travel window: January 1, 2024 – March 31, 2024. Code “S1G”
The Deal: Book between November 27 and December 2, 2023, and get up to 40% off a stay between November 30, 2023 and April 29, 2024, as well as select dates in fall. Additionally, book between November 24 and December 2 and receive a $200 resort credit per room on a 2024 summer vacation (valid for new reservations only; minimum stay restrictions and blackout dates may apply).
Montana Travel Deals
Explorer Cabins - West Yellowstone, MT Explorer Cabins in Yellowstone is thrilled to announce a remarkable 30% discount on the Best Available Rate, available exclusively for a limited time. This incredible offer will make its debut on Black Friday and continue through Cyber Monday, so mark your calendar for an adventure like no other. Click HERE for the deal link (set go live Black Friday).
Nevada Travel Deals
EL CORTEZ HOTEL & CASINO | LAS VEGAS, NEVADA The longest-running hotel & casino in Sin City, El Cortez Hotel & Casino offers a wide range of rooms to suit every style and budget, from the nostalgic charm of the Original 47 and Pavilion rooms to the contemporary luxury of the Tower Premium Rooms. Steeped in history since its grand opening in 1941, the downtown hotel embodies the timeless essence of Las Vegas effortlessly blending vintage allure with contemporary amenities.
DEAL: 25% off stays through August 2024. Book online starting November 24, 2023 through November 27, 2023
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Virgin Hotels Las Vegas, Curio Collection by Hilton(Las Vegas) Boasting contemporary guestroom chambers, ten immersive restaurants for group dining including Nobu, expansive pool with sleek seating and Mykonos vibes, VIP cabanas and more, this Black Friday, Virgin Hotels Las Vegas, Curio Collection by Hilton is offering:
Offer: 40% off best available rate; Booking window: November 20 – December 5, 2023. Travel window: November 20, 2023 – December 31, 2024. Book Here
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Whitney Peak Hotel In the “Biggest Little City” of Reno Tahoe, the vibrant Whitney Peak Hotel, located in the heart of Downtown, features 300+ contemporarily-designed staterooms with panoramic views of the surrounding nature and bustling city. For Black Friday and Cyber Monday the hotel is offering 20% off all bookings made between November 16-29. The property features a one-of-a-kind amenity with the Guinness Book of World Records “World’s Tallest Artificial Climbing Wall.” towering 164ft above Downtown.
New York Travel Deals
Sound View Greenport
NoMo SoHo - New York City Located in the heart of New York City’s SoHo neighborhood, NoMo SoHo’s guest rooms feature floor-to-ceiling windows with stunning views of New York City, in addition to the wildly popular NoMo Kitchen, an iconic restaurant with a glass atrium and intimate outdoor patio.
OFFER: From Black Friday through December 1, NoMo SoHo is offering 30% off all room types for stays through December 31, 2024. Guests can gain access to book by signing up for NoMo SoHo’s newsletter at www.nomosoho.com/subscribe/
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Sound View Greenport| Greenport, NY Sound View Greenport’s newly renovated seaside hotel and restaurant sits on 14 acres of private, waterfront land in the charming town of Greenport, New York.
The Deal: 35% off best available rate. Booking window: 11/16/23 – 12/1/24. Stay window: 11/9/23 – 5/23/24. Book HERE.
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33 Seaport Hotel (New York, New York) Dive into the gift of luxury at 33 Seaport Hotel with our Black Friday and Cyber Monday offer. Book between November 17 – 27 and enjoy 20% off your stay from January 1 – March 31, plus a daily breakfast for two. Act fast and embrace the allure of New York City! Book here
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Kixby Hotel Experience all that New York City has to offer this winter with an exclusive Cyber Monday and Travel Tuesday deal in honor of Kixby Hotel’s 120th anniversary and title of one of New York City’s longest-standing hotels. To celebrate the iconic milestone, Kixby is offering travelers a flat rate deal of $120 per night for a Lux King room for travel dates through March 2024. Guests must book online, linked HERE. Book Nov. 28-29. Travel dates: December 17, 2023 - March 28, 2024
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Walker Hotels (Tribeca & Greenwich Village) Sister properties located in two of New York City’s most iconic neighborhoods, Walker Hotel Tribeca and Greenwich Village are celebrating Black Friday and Cyber Monday this year with an exclusive 35% off next year’s holiday stays booked for November 16 – December 31, 2024. This limited-time rate at Walker Tribeca can be booked HERE and Greenwich Village HERE. Booking dates: November 16 – November 29, 2023
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Crowne Plaza HY36 – New York, New York Crowne Plaza HY36 is offering additional savings on their Book Early and Save rate, guaranteeing an additional 10% discount on weekdays and 12% on weekends for in-app bookings only. Travel Window: January 1, 2024 – August 31, 2024. Book through the IHG Hotels & Rewards App
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The William Vale (Williamsburg, Brooklyn) Cyber Monday Deal: From November 14th through December 14th, 2023, The William Vale will offer a special Cyber Monday deal where guests can book rooms at a special fixed rate starting at $185 / night for the Queen with Balcony for stays between November 14th through December 31st, 2024, using the promo code CYBER23. The lower rate of the year, bookings can be made HERE.
North Carolina Travel Deals
The Art of Living Retreat Center - Boone, North Carolina
The Art of Living Retreat Center offers a serene and rejuvenating wellness experience surrounded by nature in the Blue Ridge Mountains of North Carolina.
OFFER: Available to book from November 17 - November 27, Art of Living Retreat Center is offering 25% off Signature Retreats (Happiness, Stepping Into Silence, Meditation) and R+R Retreats for stays from December 2023 through March 2024
The Windsor Suites | Philadelphia, PA The Windsor Suites embodies the vibrant energy of Philadelphia the moment you arrive. It’s conveniently located on the iconic Benjamin Franklin Parkway, home to world-famous arts and cultural sites. Intersecting the downtown business district, travelers will experience an urban lifestyle from spacious suites with skyline views.
The Deal: 35% off luxurious One Bedroom Suites and Skyline Rooms. Booking window: Nov 15, 2023 – Nov 30, 2023. Stay dates:Nov 15, 2023 – Feb 29, 2024. Book HERE.
CYBER WEEK OFFER: With the purchase of a full-priced lift ticket, guests get a free Aquatopia Twilight Ticket. 2024 Camelbeach Season Passes are on sale for $99. To conquer the slopes during the day and hit the waves at night this is the perfect combo for round-the-clock fun at Camelback. Booking dates: Black Friday, 11/24/2023 to Cyber Monday, 11/27/2023 at 11:59 p.m. Booking link available here.
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Blue Mountain Resortin Palmerton, Penn., is a friends and family all-year resort in the Poconos:
CYBER WEEK OFFER: Bonus Bucks are awarded on gift card purchases and earn $10 in bonus bucks for every $100 spent on Blue Mountain Resort digital or physical gift cards. Booking dates: 11/24/2023 to 11/27/2023. Booking link available here.
South Carolina Travel Deals
HarbourView Inn, Charleston, SC - 25% off bookings made from 11/27 through 12/3 for travel by 12/31/24. Before discount, hotel starting rate $289/night
The Spectator Hotel, Charleston, SC – 23% off bookings made from 11/27 through 12/3 for travel by 12/31/24. Before discount, hotel starting rate $299/night
French Quarter Inn, Charleston, SC – 23% off bookings made from 11/27 through 12/3 for travel by 12/31/24. Before discount, hotel starting rate $289/night
Texas Travel Deals
Hilton Anatole
The Westin Riverwalk – San Antonio, TX The beautiful and newly renovated Westin Riverwalk, San Antonio invites travelers to celebrate Black Friday/Cyber Monday with an exclusive offer of 30% off rooms. Book between Nov. 24-27, 2023, and stay between Nov. 28, 2023 and March 31, 2024.
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Hilton Austin (Austin, TX) Situated in Downtown Austin with close proximity to Sixth and Rainey St nightlife, Hilton Austin is home to the first hotel location of F45 Training—one of the fastest-growing fitness experiences loved by celebrities, as well as a rooftop pool and the first Top Golf Swing Suite for an interactive tee-off experience inside the property’s energetic Austin Taco Project serving craft cocktails and fusion tacos. This Black Friday, the hotel is offering:
Limited time rates for Hilton Honors Members as low as $139 booking Nov. 24-27 with travel Dec. 1, 2023-Feb. 29, 2024. Book Here; Request “Honors Advance Purchase” or use code "HPPAP2"
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DoubleTree Suites by Hilton Hotel Austin (Austin, TX): The newly renovated DoubleTree Suites by Hilton Hotel Austin is situated two blocks from the Texas Capitol and features refreshed guestrooms, revamped pool deck, and onsite restaurant spotlighting the city’s culinary notoriety. This Black Friday, the hotel is offering:
Up to 30% off Advance Purchase when booking Nov. 24-27 for stays December 1, 2023 – March 31, 2024. Book Here with code "H2A"
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Embassy Suites by Hilton Austin Downtown South Congress (Austin, TX) Amidst scenic views of the Austin skyline with an indoor pool next to Lady Bird Lake and Congress Avenue Bridge, and Music Row which features dining, shopping and eclectic music venues. Embassy Suites by Hilton Austin Downtown South Congress’ Black Friday deal includes:
Up to 30% off Advance Purchase when booking Nov. 24-27 for stays December 1, 2023 – March 31, 2024. Book Here with code "H2A"
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Hilton Anatole(Dallas, TX) Hilton Anatole ishome to the largest U.S. hotel collection of art and antiques as well as the iconic JadeWaters pool complex featuring two 180-ft. water slides, lazy river, kids splash pad, leisure cove with swim-up bar and more. This Black Friday, the hotel is offering:
Up to 20% off the North Pole Adventure Room Package. The package includes two adult tickets to the North Pole Adventure Experience, daily $50 F&B credit, free wi-fi and 50% off parking. Booking Nov. 24-28 for stays December 8, 2023 – December 30, 2023. Book Here
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Hotel ZaZa– Austin, Dallas, Houston On Cyber Monday only, Hotel ZaZa is offering an exclusive deal. Book any date for any rate online and automatically receive a complimentary upgrade. Travel anytime within the next year (November 28, 2023 — November 28, 2024). Visit http://www.hotelzaza.com/ on November 27 and book any date at any rate for an automatic upgrade.
CYBER WEEK OFFER: 20% discount off BAR (Best Available Rate). Booking dates: 11/16/23 to 11/29/23; stay: 11/16/23 to 8/31/24. Blackout dates and other restrictions may apply. The promo code is BFCMCC. Booking link available here. Rates starting at $229.
Tennessee Travel Deals
Bode | Nashville, TN Located steps away from the restaurants, bars, and nightlife of Lower Broadway, Bode is on a mission to cater to both solo and group travel by offering chic suites ranging from one to four bedrooms in size. While on property, can’t-miss experiences include Dawn, the airy artisanal coffee shop, and Sidebar, their locally-loved craft cocktail bar.
The deal: 20% off stays through March 2024. Book HERE from November 15, 2023 through November 30, 2023
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Noelle | Nashville, TN Situated on the corner of Fourth Avenue and Church Street in downtown Nashville with Printer’s Alley at its back, Noelle is an immersive 222-room boutique hotel and creative gathering place, boasting an on-site luxury boutique, Keep Shop, and five imaginative food and drink concepts. Originally opened in 1930 as Noel Place, Noelle pays homage to the property’s Art Deco roots and is listed on the National Register of Historic Places.
The deal: Enjoy up to 24% off guest rooms and suites, a $24 dining credit, and 24% off retail. Offer is valid for stays between November 30, 2023 and November 30, 2024. Book HERE starting November 17, 2023 through November 29, 2023
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Rock Springs Retreat Center - Tennessee Located 45 minutes from Nashville, Rock Springs Retreat Center offers transformative retreats that focus on holistic wellness, combining fitness, nutrition, and lifestyle to help individuals achieve sustainable, long-term results.
The deal: From November 20 - December 1, guests can book one week and get the second week at 60% off for stays through February 29, 2024. Guests can book by contacting Rock Springs Retreat Center at 615-437-6524
Le Meridien Salt Lake City Downtown and Element Salt Lake City Downtown (Salt Lake City, Utah) Between November 24 and November 27, 2023, Le Meridien Salt Lake City Downtown is offering rooms 20% off, with rooms starting at $189 after the discount is applied, for stays between November 24 and March 31, 2024. Between November 24 and November 27, 2023, Element Salt Lake City Downtown is offering rooms 20% off, with rooms starting at $159 after the discount is applied, for stays between November 24 and March 31, 2024.
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Vermont Travel Deals
Topnotch Resort, Stowe, Vt is offering a Cyber Monday 2023 – One Night, One Room, One Hundred Dollars flash sale starting at 8:15 am ET on Mon. 11/27 (8:00 am ET for email subscribers). Only one room priced at $100 (excluding taxes and resort fees) is available per night between 11/27/23 and 8/31/24 on a first-come, first-served basis (total available rooms: 100). The sale ends when the 100 nights of reservations have been found and booked – they will go quickly so shoppers need to act fast!
Virginia Travel Deals
Skyland Resort - Luray, VA Skyland Resort in Luray, VA, is offering a 30% discount on the Best Available Rate. This incredible offer makes its debut on Black Friday and extends through Cyber Monday, so be sure to mark your calendar for a serene getaway amidst the mountains. Click HERE for the deal link (set go live Black Friday).
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Big Meadows Lodge - Stanley, VA Big Meadows Lodge is offering 30% discount on the Best Available Rate. This fantastic offer kicks off on Black Friday and extends through Cyber Monday, so make sure to mark your calendar for a serene retreat amidst the mountains. Click HERE for the deal link (set go live Black Friday).
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Airlie| Warrenton, VA Airlie offers an array of accommodations across seven landmark buildings, nestled into a serene village setting nestled on 300 rolling acres in Northern Virginia's picturesque countryside.
The Deal: Discounts start at 30% off per night. Booking window: Nov 17 to Nov 29, 2023. Stay dates: Nov 17, 2023 – Mar 31, 2024. Book HERE.
Washington DC Travel Deals
The Madison Hotel – Washington, DC The Madison’s exclusive "Winter in Washington" package, available for booking from Nov. 24-Dec.31, promises a cozy stay complete with breakfast for two, complimentary valet parking, and a leisurely late checkout. Guests are invited to toast to the season with two complimentary handcrafted seasonal cocktails at The Madison’s crown jewel, Lady Madison, DC’s premier cocktail lounge. Bookings are valid online for stays between Nov. 27, 2023-March 3, 2024.
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The River Inn |Washington D.C. The River Inn is a boutique hotel tucked away on a tree-lined street in the coveted Washington, DC neighborhood of Foggy Bottom. Centrally located four blocks from the Kennedy Center, three blocks from the metro, and five blocks to the picturesque shops and restaurants of Georgetown - there is so much to explore just steps away. The National Mall, Smithsonian Institute and White House are all just a quick metro ride away as well.
The Deal: 35% off regular rates. Booking window: Nov 16 to Nov 29, 2023. Stay dates: Nov 16, 2023 - Mar 31, 2024. Book HERE.
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Hotel Hive| Washington D.C. Deemed Washington D.C.’s first micro hotel, Hotel Hive is known for smaller rooms and bigger — more buzzworthy — experiences. Set in a historic building, the vibrant space is steeped in character.
The Deal: 35% off regular rates. Booking window: Nov 16 to Nov 29, 2023. Stay dates: Nov 16, 2023 - Mar 31, 2025. Book HERE.
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The Normandy Hotel|Washington D.C. Tucked just off Connecticut Avenue among the stately embassies and tree-lined streets of peaceful Kalorama, The Normandy Hotel is an inviting and residential retreat from the city. Steps from DC’s iconic Dupont Circle and a short stroll from eclectic Adams Morgan, The Normandy offers a uniquely DC experience that’s steeped in sophisticated charm – where every stay feels like coming home.
The Deal: 35% off regular rates. Booking window: Nov 16 to Nov 29, 2023. Stay dates:Nov 16, 2023 - Mar 31, 2026. Book HERE.
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Viceroy (Washington, DC) 35% off best available rate when booked 11/11-12/3/23. Valid for stays Nov. 11, 2023 through Dec. 31, 2024. =
Wyoming Travel Deals
Anvil Hotel| Jackson, WY On the doorstep of Yellowstone, in the vibrant town of Jackson, Anvil Hotel celebrates the wonder of Wyoming offering endless opportunities for outdoor adventure and exploration.
The Deal: 35% off best available rate. Booking window: 11/16/23 – 12/1/23. Travel window: 11/9/23 – 5/23/24. Book HERE.
Meliá Hotels International One of the leading leisure resort companies in the world with more than 400 hotels globally, Meliá Hotels International will be offering up to 50% off select hotel rates.
Great Wolf Lodge is giving families a reason to save this holiday season with exclusive deals for Black Friday and Cyber Monday. Great Wolf Resorts, Inc. is North America’s largest family of indoor waterpark resorts with locations across North America.
Black Friday Deal: Rooms starting at $24/person (minimum of 4 people). Booking Nov. 24, code FRIDAY, stay Nov. 24, 2023-Feb. 29, 2024
Cyber Monday Deal: Save up to 50% off with rates starting at $99.99/night. Booking Nov. 27, code CYBER, stay Nov. 27, 2023-Feb. 29, 2024
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Sandals Resorts & Beaches Resorts
The leading all-inclusive Caribbean resort brands,Sandals Resorts and Beaches Resorts, are turning Black Friday “blue” with their "Gift of Blue" sale, giving guests up to a $750 air credit and up to a $250 resort credit on vacations of seven nights or more at select properties including Beaches Turks & Caicos, the new Sandals Dunn’s River in Jamaica; Sandals Royal Curacao; and Sandals Saint Vincent debuting in 2024. Bookings can be made with the promo code GOB2023 between November 13, 2023 – December 21, 2023 for travel through November 3, 2024. Additionally, for every booking made between Thanksgiving and Giving Tuesday (November 23-28), $50 will be donatedto theSandals Foundation, the non-profit arm of Sandals Resorts International, to support its ocean conservation efforts, specifically the expansion of coral nurseries throughout the Caribbean, which hosts 10% of the world's coral reefs.
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Westgate Resorts Westgate Resorts is offering travelers a chance to kick back and relax this Black Friday with an exclusive offer of up to 50% of savings, bookable from Nov. 20-29, 2023, for travel from Nov. 20, 2023 to Feb. 29, 2024. With sought-after destinations such as Park City, UT; Orlando, FL; Las Vegas, NV; Gatlinburg, TN; Myrtle Beach, SC; and several more, Westgate Resorts accommodates every escape with luxurious spaces and breathtaking views. To book, visitors can visit westgateresorts.com and apply the promo code ‘Friday’ at checkout.
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The Kessler Collection | 10 Properties Nationwide This Cyber Monday, guests can experience the enriching ambiance of The Kessler Collection’s hotels for 24% off luxury stays from December 1 – March 31 when booking between November 27 and December 1. To book, click here.
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Sonesta Hotels Save up to 30% off when booking two nights minimum with promo code CYBER. Sonesta Travel Pass Members have early access to the promotion starting today (Nov. 2) to book a stay through November 30 for any time through April 15, 2024.
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Rosewood Hotels & Resorts will be hosting a Black Friday and Cyber Monday of 30% off best available rate promotion valid for bookings made from Friday, November 24th at 12:01 a.m. EST through Tuesday, November 28th at 11:59 p.m. EST for stays through June 30th, 2024. The promo code will be: CYBER23.
The deal: The brand will be offering up to 40% off portfolio-wide. Booking window is November 21 - December 5, 2023 for stays from November 21, 2023 - September 2, 2024.
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@hotel 50K+ hotels on the site will be more than 50% off their market price, while 200K+ hotels on the site will be more than 30% off their market price Sunday, November 19th to Friday, December 1st
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Virgin Hotels, the luxury lifestyle hotel brand from Sir Richard Branson, is launching Joy Behind Every Door – a new holiday campaign that’ll spread festive joy to travelers around the world. The new campaign will offer:
The year’s best savings with up to 30% off bookings made between November 13 to December 31, valid for hotel stays through the end of 2024
Surprise upgrades to Sir Richard’s Flat – the most luxurious suite available at all Virgin Hotels
A charitable donation for all bookings made on Giving Tuesday to help combat hunger this holiday season
Travel Deals for the Caribbean, Central America & South America
Hamilton Princess & Beach Club | Bermuda
Atlantis Paradise Island is offering a Cyber Week Sale for stays from January 2 through November 30, 2024, in The Coral, The Royal, The Cove, and The Reef Towers. The Cyber Sale is Atlantis’ biggest sale of the year, offering Savings of up to 25% + Resort Credits & More.
Early Access is available November 16 through 21, 2023 for Atlantis Paradise Island newsletter subscribers and loyal guests. Travelers can sign up for early access via the website here to receive the invite to these exclusive offers:
For stays from January 2 through April 30, 2024, guests will receive the 5th Night Free (20% savings on 5+ nights) PLUS a $500+ Resort Credit (the credit is equivalent to $100 per night, so a longer stay equals more resort credit!).
For stays from May 1 through November 30, 2024, guests will receive the 4th Night Free (25% savings on 4+ nights) PLUS a $400+ Resort Credit (the credit is equivalent to $100 per night, so a longer stay equals more resort credit!).
Public Sale is available from November 22 through December 1, 2023, and provides guests with their 5th Night Free (20% savings on 5+ nights) PLUS a $250 Resort Credit per stay for travel from January 2 through November 30, 2024.
During Black Friday, Cyber Monday, and Travel Tuesday, guests can save even more when adding on the popular Beverage or Marine Adventure Experience Credits to their reservations. For every $100 purchased, an additional $20 is added.
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Caribe Hilton | Puerto Rico Centrally located just minutes from the heart of Old San Juan, Caribe Hilton is a tropical oasis with three on-site pools, a zen garden, and a secluded beach where travelers can enjoy a bit of R&R with lots of local flair. Caribe Hilton offers a close-to-home Caribbean retreat, where guests have easy access to the rich culture of San Juan.
The deal: 30% off BAR in Ocean View Rooms and Suites & 2 Piña Coladas. Book Nov. 27-Dec. 3, 2023 for travel April - July 202. Visit here and use code 'P7'
The deal: Book between October 12th, 2023 - March 29th, 2024, and get 2 nights at 15% off, 3-4 nights at 20% off, or 5+ nights at 25% off. Valid on stays October 15th, 2023 - April 30th, 2024.
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Hilton Ponce Golf & Casino Resort(Puerto Rico): Oceanfront resort facing the Caribbean Sea with two outdoor pools, spray area, kids’ play area, mini-golf, tennis courts, casino, golf course, nearby cathedrals and more. Hilton Ponce Golf & Casino Resort is offering the following this Black Friday:
The deal: 20% off best available rate with a minimum two-night stay, continental breakfast for two adults and two children. Booking Nov. 24-27, travel Jan. 6-June 30, 2024. Book here with code “BF2024”
The deal: For new bookings made between Friday, Nov. 24th at 12:01 AM (EST) and Sunday, Nov. 26th at 11:59 PM (PST) get a 20% discount for stays of 3 nights in the All-Inclusive program and a 30% discount for stays of 4 nights or more in the All-Inclusive program. Valid only for stays through April 30th, 2024.
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Sonesta Resorts St. Maarten, St. Maarten Sonesta Resorts St. Maarten is a duo of stunning oceanfront, all-inclusive resorts in the Dutch Caribbean, comprised of the family-friendly Sonesta Maho Beach Resort, Casino & Spa and five-star, adults-only Sonesta Ocean Point Resort.
From Black Friday through Cyber Monday, Sonesta Resorts St. Maarten will offer 50% off standard room rate when booking a future stay with code BLACKFRIDAY online at sonestastmaarten.com. Available for stays between December 1, 2023 to December 21, 2024. Guests must stay three nights or more and pay in full at time of booking.
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Ocean Club Resorts, Providenciales, Turks & Caicos Ocean Club Resorts, two all-suite resorts located along the pristine Grace Bay Beach, provide the spacious accommodations, comforts of home such as a full kitchen or kitchenette, screened-in patio, and onsite range of activities.
Travelers who book a six-night stay at Ocean Club Resorts (the East or West location) this Black Friday through Cyber Monday will receive the seventh night free. Available for new bookings only made between Friday, November 24 – Monday, November 27, 2023, for stays April 1 – 30, 2024. Valid on accommodations ranging from Studio to One-Bedroom Suites. The promotional offer must be booked here online, use promo code BFCM.
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Windjammer Landing Villa Beach Resort, St. Lucia Reminiscent of a Mediterranean village, Windjammer Landing Villa Beach Resort brings luxury to the hillside of Labrelotte Bay. The 65-acre all-inclusive resort is the perfect backdrop for a romantic escape with private villas, seven dining options, a luxurious spa and more. Discover this year’s Black Friday sale and score the trip of a lifetime.
The Deal: Up to 60% off + a $250 USD Resort Credit (resort credit is only for stays 5+ nights). Visit the website to book on Nov. 20 - or sign up for windjammer’s newsletter to be the first to receive access. Booking Window: Nov. 20-28, 2023. Travel Window: Nov. 20, 2023 - December 18, 2024
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West Bay Club& Point Grace| Providenciales, Turks & Caicos Islands Point Grace is an intimate hotel with picturesque cottage accommodations on the award-winning Grace Bay Beach ideal for romance. West Bay Club is a luxurious oceanfront resort ideal for family getaways.
The Deal: Up to40% off; a three-night minimum stay required. Booking window: 11/23-11/28. Travel window: Now-12/31/2024.
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Grace Bay Club & Rock House | Providenciales, Turks & Caicos Islands Both properties are part of Grace Bay Resorts – the Caribbean’s leading independent luxury resort developer. Rock House is dubbed the “Caribbean Capri” and is a new Mediterranean-inspired luxury resort situated on the rugged, untouched limestone cliffs of Providenciales’ north shore.
The Deal: 30% off plus a $100 resort credit. Booking window: 11/23-11/28. Travel window: Now-12/31/2024. Blackout dates apply. Book via website (link will be available at midnight on 11/23).
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Rancho Santana| Nicaragua Rancho Santana is a sprawling 2,700-acre luxury retreat set on Nicaragua’s Emerald Coast. Boasting Central America’s premier surf breaks, a 6,000-square-foot treetop spa, three pools, a sea turtle sanctuary, four restaurants and more, watch a sea turtle hatching, hike, mountain bike and more.
The Deal: Enjoy 30% off, applicable to all accommodations with a flexible cancellation policy of 30 days without penalty. On Nov. 27, use code RSCYBER when booking HERE for stays until Nov. 1, 2024. A stay minimum of five nights is required. =
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Hotel el Convento | San Juan, PR The oldest member of the Historic Hotels of America, Hotel el Convento offers a tranquil retreat located in the heart of the vibrant San Juan.
The deal: 20% off all rooms
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Palacio Provincial | San Juan PR Located in the heart of Old San Juan, Palacio Provincial is a boutique hotel that flawlessly combines past and present. Providing unparalleled views of Old San Juan and San Juan Bay, hotel guests can soak up the Puerto Rican sunshine with lite bites and hand-crafted cocktails on the property’s rooftop pool and terrace space.
Coconut Bay Beach Resort & Spa’s deal is a chance for families to save on a great 2024 vacation experience.
Save $150 on a 5-night Premium All-Inclusive stay and $200 on a 7-night stay for travel 1/2/24 to 8/31/24. Valid for direct bookings November 24-30, 2023, only with promo code BLK DEALS at cbayresort.com or by calling toll-free 877-252-0304.
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The Somerset on Grace Bay (Turks & Caicos) Book between November 17th – 27th, 2023 for 30% savings on all accommodations, $250 resort credit per reservation (applicable to spa treatments and/or excursions booked through Concierge), daily complimentary breakfast. Offer is vaild for 4-night minimum stay; offer not applicable for existing reservations and subject to availability. Valid on stays from November 18th, 2023, to October 31st, 2024.
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Wyndham Grand Rio Mar (Puerto Rico) 50% off our best available rate. Book between November 24 and 27th and stay through November 24th and December 31, 2024.
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Wyndham Palmas Golf & Beach Resort (Puerto Rico) 50% off our best available rate. Book between November 24 and 27th and stay through November 24th and December 31, 2024.
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Hamilton Princess & Beach Club (Bermuda) Book between November 13th, 2023 - December 1st, 2023 and get 30% off. Minimum stay two nights, valid on stays November 13th, 2023 - December 31st, 2024.
Additional Deal: Book between October 12th, 2023 - March 29th, 2024 and get 2 nights 15% off, 3-4 nights 20% off, or 5+ nights: 25% off. Valid on stays October 15th, 2023 - April 30th, 2024.
The Deal: For new bookings made between Friday, November 24th at 12:01 AM (EST) and Sunday, November 26th at 11:59 PM (PST) get a 20% discount for stays of 3 nights in the All-Inclusive program and a 30% discount for stays of 4 nights or more in the All-Inclusive program. Valid only for stays through April 30th, 2024.
The Deal: Sale Away this Black Friday at the newly opened Goldwynn Resort & Residences and enjoy 20% off a stay when you book by November 30. 2 night minimum stay applies. Subject to availability. Stay must be booked between January 2- June 19, 2024.
The Deal: Escape your winter blues with savings up to 40% at Hilton Aruba Caribbean Resort and Casino! Book between November 24th to 27th, 2023 for stays 6 nights or longer for select stay dates in January – early April 2024.
Travel Deals for Mexico
Andaz Mexico City Condesa, Mexico City Nestled in the trendy Condesa neighborhood of Mexico City, Andaz Mexico City Condesa has emerged as a chic urban enclave for both locals and tourists alike since opening in January 2023. For Black Friday (booking window: November 16-29, 2023), the hotel is offering 25% off on all stays from November 16, 2023 to August 31, 2024.
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Fairmont Mayakoba, Riviera Maya, Mexico Nestled in the heart of the Riviera Maya, the newly renovated, 401-room Fairmont Mayakoba is a AAA Five Diamond resort set on 45 acres, within a private luxury community.
Now through March 29, 2024, guests can receive 20% off their rate for stays between October 15, 2023 and April 30, 2024 when they book directly on Fairmont Mayakoba’s website, HERE.
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Casa Kimberly, Puerto Vallarta, Mexico The former love nest of Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton, this luxurious nine-suite boutique hotel is situated in the heart of Puerto Vallarta and has stunning views of Banderas Bay and the red clay rooftops that dot the Sierra Madre Mountains. Today the carefully preserved hotel consists of a fine dining restaurant and tequila bar, original azure-tiled pool, and elaborate, individually designed suites with expansive terraces complete with outdoor private Jacuzzis. Lovers are welcome to ignite their passion while draped in the historic luxury of old Hollywood.
From Nov. 24-27, guests have the rare chance to book 50% off its magnificent suites for stays between December 1, 2023, and May 31, 2024. Sale does not apply to reservations from December 24 to January 3 and other blackout dates may apply. Use code CYBERCK to reserve at the discounted rate. Visit here to book.
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Hilton Los Cabos (Los Cabos, MX) With views of the Sea of Cortez and direct access to a cove-protected beach in Los Cabos, Hilton Los Cabos features access to four world-renowned golf courses, Enclave Beach Club, seven dining outlets, four oceanfront pools, beachside spa, and excursions from camel rides to sailing. This Black Friday, the resort is offering up to 35% off accommodations and $100 resort credit. Book Nov. 20-Dec. 15 for travel Jannuary 1 – September 30, 2024. Book Here
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Conrad Punta de Mita (Punta Mita, MX) Inside Punta de Mita's exclusive gated community, guests can enjoy personal concierge services in their suites with outdoor showers and plunge pools overlooking the Pacific Ocean, three outdoor pools and six oceanfront dining concepts including an onsite Agave Studio featuring over 100 different tequilas and mezcals.
Offer: Up to 40% off stay when booking Nov. 20-Dec. 15. Travel:January 1 – September 30, 2024. Book Here
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Colima 71 Mexico City's newest boutique hotel, Colima 71 will be offering 34% off all stays booked between Friday, November 24th through Monday, November 27th for stays from December 1, 2023 to June 30, 2024. This deal includes complimentary one-way transportation from the airport to hotel upon arrival, daily complimentary coffee service, and a Midnight Mezcal turndown service. Located in the district of Colonia Roma Norte, Colima 71's central location offers a quaint, yet modern hospitality experience to explore the best of Mexico City's rich culture and vibrant community.
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Velas Resorts For the annual Black Friday holiday, Velas Resorts in Mexico is offering up to 20% savings on the nightly rates plus added values like complimentary stays for kids and half off teens, airport transfers, unlimited access to the spa’s renowned hydrotherapy, suite upgrades, and more through 2024.
Grand Velas Riviera Maya: Exclusive benefits include a 50% off discount on roundtrip transportation, hydrotherapy access, and a 50% off discount for kids and teens.
Grand Velas Riviera Nayarit: Guests can enjoy a free round-trip transfer, hydrotherapy access, and a 50% off discount for teens.
Grand Velas Los Cabos: Guests can receive a 25% off discount on Governor, Presidential, and Royal suites for 4 night stays, along with a 50% off discount on a round trip airport transfer with a minimum three-night stay. Access to hydrotherapy and 50% off for teens is also available.
Grand Velas Boutique Los Cabos: Guests can enjoy a 50% off discount on round-trip transportation for a minimum three-night stay and $100 USD in Romantic Experiences credit.
Velas Vallarta: Benefits include round-trip airport transfers, complimentary upgrade from one-Bedroom Suite to one-Bedroom Luxury Suite (subject to availability), and a 50% off discount for teenagers.
Casa Velas: Travelers can enjoy a round-trip transfer and access to hydrotherapy.
Mar del Cabo: Guests can receive a 50% off discount on round-trip transportation and complimentary breakfast per stay. Guests can also enjoy a two-for-one on select Cabo Adventure activities such as outdoor adventures, Cabo arch tour, and a Camel safari with lunch.
Travel Deals for Europe
Borgo San Vincenzo
Grand Universe La Residenza | Lucca, Italy In the under-the-radar, yet coveted town of Lucca lies the brand new Grand Universe La Residenza, a property that was once the home to a family of Italian nobility, that offers spacious multi-bedroom units, and luxurious amenities fit for royalty. Grand Univers La Residenza makes for the perfect home base to explore the historic city.
The deal: 20% off on all BAR online rates when booking November 20 - November 27, 2023 for travel. November 20, 2023 - April 30, 2024. Email Info@granduniverselaresidenza.com with the subject line: Black Friday / Cyber Monday 2023 to book
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Renaissance Tuscany Il Ciocco Resort & Spa Nestled on the hill of an expansive 60-hectare estate in the heart of Italy’s most beloved region, the Renaissance Tuscany Il Ciocco Resort & Spa overlooks the mountainous Serchio Valley, one of the most unexplored areas of Italy. One hour from Florence and Pisa, the resort features 180 luxurious rooms, a spa, two restaurants, two swimming pools, on-site cooking lessons, and a variety of off-property excursions ranging from visits to local wineries, medieval towns, and more, giving travelers an authentic taste of Tuscany.
The deal: 20% off on all BAR online rate when booking November 20 - November 27, 2023 for travel November 20, 2023 - April 30, 2024. Email Reservation@renaissancetuscany.com with the subject line: Black Friday / Cyber Monday 2023 to book
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Borgo San Vincenzo, Montepulciano, Italy Tuscany’s newest luxury boutique hotel, Borgo San Vincenzo, is a reimagined 18th-century borgo named for the patron saint of winemaking, offering sophisticated wine-driven experiences inviting guests to immerse themselves in the region’s vibrant culture, breathtaking views, historic wine scene and culinary excellence.
The deal: 20% off on all suites in any season (4-night minimum stay), daily breakfast for two, complimentary e-bike rental for two days and €100 euros ($106) food & beverage credit when booking Nov. 23-27. Visit here to book.
The Deal:This year for Black Friday, Marine & Lawn Hotels & Resorts is offering up to 50% off stays. It's the brand's deepest discount of the year, valid at all five locations across Scotland and Northern Ireland, including the newly launched Slieve Donard and Dornoch Station hotels. Sign up for an email alert when the sale goes live at marineandlawn.com/black-friday-2023. Stays must occur by 31 March 2024, some restrictions may apply.
Travel Deals for Asia
Vakkaru Maldives Located in the heart of Baa Atoll on a secluded reef island with idyllic ocean views, powder-soft white sand and unique marine biodiversity, Vakkaru Maldives is a timeless resort sanctuary.
This year, Vakkaru has deals for Black Friday, Cyber Monday and Travel Tuesday.
Book Direct Benefits: Resort Credit of $100 per Villa per stay or $200 per Residence per stay
30% off on Merana Spa treatments
40% off on Ayurveda treatments and packages
20% off on selected watersports including Jetski, Seabob & Jetboard
Booking window: November 15 to December 6, 2023. Stay window: November 15, 2023 to May 15, 2024
Blackout dates: December 23, 2023 to January 10 2024; and March 23 – April 7, 2024
Black Friday Travel Deals on Airlines and Cruises
Windstar Cruises
French bee For the first time in French bee’s seven-year history as France’s beloved leisure airline – connecting US travelers to Paris from NYC, San Francisco, LA and Miami – they have launched a Black Friday deal offering:
Special Low Rates: Miami > Paris $389*; New York > Paris $387*; San Francisco > Paris $419*; San Francisco > Papeete (Tahiti) $499*; Los Angeles > Paris $419*
*Round trip price including tax and VAT for 1 person, in BASIC economy class. Subject to availability and price changes due to taxes and/or conversion rates.
Booking window: November 20– November 27, 2023
Travel window: November 20, 2023, to March 31, 2024
Windstar Cruises – Pick Your Perk! Select one on your upcoming/applicable cruise: free pre- or post-cruise hotel nights, up to $1,000 Onboard Credit, OR Premium Suite guests may select a free upgrade to an All-Inclusive Fare featuring Wi-Fi; unlimited beer, wine & cocktails; and all gratuities. PLUS enjoy reduced deposits of just 5%.
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Princess Cruises Princess Cruises has unwrapped its Black Friday and Cyber Monday deals, offering cruisers three great savings opportunities including up to 50% off 2024 and 2025 vacations, 50% off deposits, and the opportunity for third and fourth guests to sail for free.
Available now through Thursday, Nov. 30, the 50% off sale applies to all fare types including inclusive packages like Princess Plus and Princess Premier which add popular amenities like WiFi, beverages, desserts, fitness classes, crew gratuities and more at an even greater savings of up 65% when the inclusive package amenities are purchased separately.
The Deal: Up to 50% off 2024 and 2025 sailings, 50% off deposits, and the opportunity for third and fourth guests to sail for free.
American Queen Voyages Travelers looking for an unforgettable experience sailing America’s rivers will save up to $2,500 per stateroom plus FREE roundtrip air on select 2024 voyages when sailing on American Queen, American Countess and American Empress. Travelers will be able to book through American Queen Voyages website on the special offers page Nov. 22-27 for select voyages.
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Oceania Cruises Oceania Cruises is offering up to $3,000 off on specific sailings in addition to its already generous simply MORE value. In addition, travelers will receive 2for1 cruise fares, FREE roundtrip airfare, airport transfers, shore excursions, free champagne, wine & more, gourmet specialty dining and unlimited WIFI. Oceania Cruises Black Friday Sale will be offered on over two dozen sailings. Book Nov. 14-Dec. 5 for select voyages.
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Holland America Line
Holland America Line, a premium cruise line with a 150 year legacy, is offering up to 30% off all itineraries of 5+ days booked between November 17 and December 1, excluding Grand Voyages. Select cruises also include prepaid stateroom crew appreciation, resulting in an added value of up to nearly $700 per person depending on the length of sailing. Guests can save on cruise itineraries to worldwide destinations spanning Alaska, the Caribbean, Europe, Asia, Australia/New Zealand, South America and Antarctica. The reduced fare also applies to the cruise portion of an Alaska Cruisetour, combining an Alaska cruise with an overland tour to Denali and the Yukon. This deal is combinable with Holland America Line's popular 'Have it All" premium cruise package, perks include shore excursions, a beverage package, specialty dining and Wi-Fi.
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Uniworld Boutique River Cruises
Uniworld Boutique River Cruises, a luxury all-inclusive river cruise line with sailings in Europe, Egypt, South America and Asia, is bringing back its 12 Days of Christmas Event this year. A new offer will be unveiled each business day for 12 days, with the first deal unveiled on Black Friday. The offers will be completely different than last year, with unprecedented savings including 50% off popular cruises. Additionally, live as of November 1, guests can book new Cruise & Air combo savingsof up to $3000 USD on select journeys, with savings on popular European itineraries, including ‘Venice & Jewels of Veneto,’ ‘Portugal, Spain & the Douro River Valley,’ ‘Enchanting Danube’ and more, along with bucket-list trips outside of Europe like the ‘Peruvian Amazon & Machu Picchu Exploration’ sailing.
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Cruise Croatia
Cruise Croatia, specialists in luxury small ship cruises in Croatia, is offering $500 per cabin off any cruises departing in May 2024. With adults-only itineraries that take guests through Split, Dubrovnik, Opatija, and other highlights of Croatia, passengers will indulge in luxury on yachts featuring 38 passengers or less. Popular itineraries include the Luxury Split to Dubrovnik Balcony Cruise and Opatija to Dubrovnik Deluxe Balcony Cruise. This offer is valid for cabins booked between November 20th to December 8th, 2023.
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Crystal Cruises Now through December 10th, Crystal is offering exceptional deals for those who book online.
First-Time Crystal Guests Offer
Crystal is offering a $500.00 ($250.00 per person) As You Wish Shipboard Credit for new guests, applicable to select 2023 and 2024 departures.
Bookings must be made by December 10, 2023 to receive the credit
Solo Traveler Offer
When embarking on a solo adventure with Crystal, guests can enjoy special offers on select suites and voyages in 2023 and 2024 with award-winning gastronomy, butler service to make one feel perfectly at home, and personalized experiences that embrace the joy of traveling alone.
Bookings must be made by December 31, 2023 to receive the credit
Black Friday Travel Deals with Tour Operators & Other Travel Deals
TourRadar Adventure seekers will save on once-in-a-lifetime trips to coveted international destinations, from Australia to Peru.
The deal: From Monday, November 20 until Sunday, November 26 (thru 9:00 am/ET), access as much as 50% off numerous TourRadar trips. Unique Cyber Monday sales are also live from November 27-29 for organized adventures in 2024.
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EF Go Ahead Tours EF Go Ahead Tours’ Black Friday & Cyber Monday Sales will run from October 24th to November 30th. Travelers can save up to $600 off/$1,200 per couple with some itineraries discounted by 20% and more on tours through 2025. Plus there will be surprise lightning deals of up to $1,000 off over the month. These are steep discounts kept secret until the day of and will include future travel at reduced 2023 prices! Cyber Monday deals will include up to $1,000 off per individual or 10% off remaining sales, plus an extra $50 off when booking online.
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Go City Go City is the go-to app for travelers. With passes in more than 30 of the world’s best cities, Go City offers affordable access to top attractions and hidden gem tours and experiences that can act as a suggested itinerary and discovery tool for both regulars and first-time visitors alike. Get up to 50% savings off normal entry prices at top attractions + up to 10% off Black Friday Sale. Deal available Nov. 21-27 here
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Campspot, the platform redefining the art of camping and outdoor adventures, has unique Black Friday/Cyber Monday Camping Deals to enhance travel experiences without stretching your budget. Over Cyber Weekend, avail yourself of up to 50% off* on some of the top campgrounds across various destinations. (*Terms apply. Please refer to the terms and conditions listed for each deal)
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Contiki Contiki, the social travel company for travelers 18 to 35-years-old, is celebrating the cyber holidays with savings of up to 25% off on 60+ trips across six continents. On-sale trips include the brand-new South Korean Soul tour and the latest Africa addition, the Sea, Safari, and South Africa trip, plus fan-favorite European adventures such as the European Discovery and Italian Escape. Travelers can enjoy tours led by expert Trip Managers with hassle-free planning including accommodations, transportation and most meals. The public sale begins on November 17th and closes on November 30th.
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Trafalgar
Trafalgar, the leading guided vacation company, is offering savings on select 2024 departures between November 16- December 5. Travelers looking to book next year’s big adventure can score savings on more than 50 itineraries across the world, including all the travel must-haves from accommodations to transportation plus in-depth tours and off-the-beaten-path experiences. Holiday shoppers can save on top tours including $2,100+ off the iconic 22-day Highlights of Australia and New Zealand itinerary, $950+ off the 15-day wildlife-packed Best of South Africa or $900+ off a 15-day journey through North America's best National Parks with the Scenic Parks Explorer.
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Brendan Vacations
Brendan Vacations, the experts in Celtic travel, are offering 2024 travelers the chance to book an elevated experience through Ireland and Scotland with a bonus of $250 off per person for Private Chauffeur and Lux Self Drive trips or $200 off per person on Self Drive and Locally Hosted Rail experiences. Those interested in guided tours such as the Irish Experience and Britain and Ireland Panorama tour can enjoy 10% off of all guided itineraries. Between staying in historic castles to tasting whiskey and learning about the destination’s heritage, Brendan Vacations lends local expertise for the most authentic Ireland & Scotland experience.
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Unforgettable Travel
Unforgettable Travel, a leading luxury travel company, is offering $500 off any trip bookedfor 2024, with destinations including Europe, Africa, and Asia. From African safaris to honeymoon adventures, food & wine tours to small ship cruises, there is an Unforgettable journey for everyone. Adventure on the Highlights of Uganda gorilla-trekking experience, or relax in France on the Gourmet Paris & Bordeaux food & wine tour. Trip requests must be made between November 20th and December 8th, 2023, with the trip booked and deposit paid by January 31st, 2024.
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The popular kit from Hello Fresh is back, but supplies are limited
If you’ve ever watched Elf, you know all about the four main elf food groups: candy, candy canes, candy corn, and syrup. And if you’ve ever wanted to eat a perfectly balanced meal (by North Pole standards, anyway) you’ll want to order one of these Buddy the Elf spaghetti boxes from HelloFresh, stat.
The meal kit subscription service recently announced these extra special holiday boxes, which include all the ingredients you need to make two servings of Buddy’s breakfast spaghetti, will be back this year. And while adults might take one look at this plate full of noodles, chocolate, candy pieces, and (of course) syrup and feel a cavity coming on, kids are pretty much guaranteed to love the idea—and anyway, what’s wrong with a little candy for breakfast during the holidays?
According to a press release from HelloFresh, each kit comes with “everything needed to make Buddy’s iconic dish, featuring Colavita spaghetti, maple syrup, chocolate syrup, marshmallows, chocolate nonpareil candies, chocolate frosted pastries, and more.” As a bonus, in honor of 2023 being the 20th Anniversary of the theater release of Elf, this year’s kit includes two elf aprons, two plates designating the four main elf food groups, and a plastic storage bag (with stickers) for leftovers.
What’s even better is that you don’t need to be a HelloFresh subscriber to get your hands on one of these Buddy the Elf Spaghetti kits. They’ll be available for one-off purchase on a first-come, first-served basis at HelloFreshElfSpaghetti.com. $30 will get you a kit with enough sweet fixings to make two servings, plus a step-by-step recipe card to help you make the dish at home. Quantities are limited, so you’ll probably want to act fast if you plan to get your soon-to-be-sticky hands on a box. They go on sale on Dec. 4 at 12:25 pm EST, with a limit of one kit per purchase.
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Hilarious funny Christmas memes will put any frazzled parent in a good mood this season
Nothing soothes the soul like a good mom meme, and when it comes to the holidays it’s even truer. While our kids are off making merry memories, there’s an army of moms behind the scenes making it all magical––and funny. We’ve rounded up our favorite funny Christmas memes for moms guaranteed to give you a laugh, and if you haven’t had enough laughs, check out some of our favorite funny parents on Twitter.
Being a mom is hard. Being a new mom is harder. Nothing prepares you for the joy and awe (shock and terror) of holding your baby for the first time, regardless of how they made their way into your arms. Perhaps you have not slept in more than 30 hours. Perhaps you ache. Perhaps you’re floaty. Perhaps you’re under the influence of heavy painkillers. Congratulations! At this low ebb of your existence, you will now assume care of another human being for the first time. You deserve that Hunger Games finger-kiss and a stiff drink. Neither is forthcoming.
People are going to tell you terrible things. You will never shower again! You will never poop alone! Sleep will become a distant memory in the hazy caffeine tides of your life! However, they have an ironclad solution to all this nonsense. You will listen as they share it with all the fervency of a newly minted cult member. This makes being a new mom even harder. Suddenly, there are rules. You must obey the rules—or you will break the baby.
Take a deep breath; you will not break the baby. At this moment of doubt and panic, you don’t need more parenting advice. You’ve sifted through a Google’s worth of parenting advice. What you need is to take it easy on yourself and to remember that you are allowed to…
1. Feel scared, sad, and angry.
Sappy cards will call your child a “bundle of joy.” Newsflash: Your baby is a small human, not a gift bag of premium coffee. People will say they never knew love before seeing their newborn. But some moms feel apathy instead. Some become overwhelmed by their sudden and irreversible life change. Some doubt they made the right decision about this whole parenting thing. Some feel all these things. None mean you love your baby less. You can love them desperately, want them desperately, and still wish you could run away. These are not mutually exclusive, and you are not a bad person. Give yourself permission to feel whatever you’re feeling—without the guilt trip. You don’t deserve that.
2. Ignore parenting gurus.
The world demands you pick a parenting philosophy as if you were writing a corporate mission statement instead of keeping a human happy. These philosophies come with rules. Did you sign up for a new religion? No? Then play cafeteria: Pick what seems good and leave the rest. Dr. Sears does not know your baby. I used to run a babywearing group, and some babies hated to be worn. Dr. Ferber also does not know your baby; my kids would’ve lost their minds if I left them to cry. Take what works. Ditch the rest.
3. Ignore absolutes.
One bottle will not give your baby nipple confusion. Crying for two minutes will not lead to attachment issues. Wearing your baby will not spoil them. Ignore the all-or-nothing stuff. Take a deep breath. Does it sound extreme? It probably is.
4. Trust your instincts.
You know your baby best. If something feels wrong, it’s probably wrong; if something feels right, it’s likely right. You have common sense. Listen to it and your gut. Does your baby kick and scream when they’re swaddled? Maybe you shouldn’t swaddle them, even if conventional wisdom says you should. Does your baby vomit and scream after every meal? Maybe you’re right about that infant reflux thing. Always pay attention to your intuition.
5. Go full mama bear.
If a stranger touches your baby, you don’t have to smile. You can say, “Don’t touch my child.” If your pediatrician won’t believe that your baby’s ill, you can say, “We need to reevaluate this.” If your mother insists on using a bottle and you prefer breast, you can say, “No, this is what works for us, thanks.” Having a baby gives you permission, more than ever before, to stand up for yourself—and it’s easier because you’re standing up for a person you love. Be rude if you need to. Your baby is more important than someone else’s feelings.
6. Do “nothing.”
Who decided we should bring home a squally, inscrutable human being without language capabilities… and then clean the house in our “downtime”? Were they male? Severe amnesiacs? Sadists? Mom, park yourself on the couch and do nothing. Watch those TV shows you’re ashamed of. Drink tea. Wear a fancy robe. Your job is momming: You do not clean the house.
You may find this difficult. Lean on the authority of your tea and fancy robe. Seriously—they project devil-may-care noblesse oblige. You’ll feel fancy, and you’ll feel powerful, and you’ll remember: All humans are not the same; therefore, all babies are not the same. What worked for one person may not work for you. All those you-shoulds and you-have-tos should come with big asterisks: I don’t know you, your baby, or your life situation. What I’m about to say is conditional on many things, and you should probably ignore most of it anyway.
You have permission to ignore all advice. You have permission to take a deep breath and chill out. You have permission to ugly-cry. You have permission to sleep and shower as you see fit. New parenting is hard enough. Don’t make it harder by stuffing down your feelings or obeying rules that feel wrong. Trust yourself. You’ve got this.
