A frustrated mom posted a TikTok video when the neighbors’ kids used her family’s playhouse without permission—and it’s divided the internet
Growing up in the early ’90s, my siblings and I treated the whole neighborhood like it was our backyard. We joined all the other local kids, roving around on our bikes, moving from one yard to another, never paying much attention to things like property lines. But the thing was, we were always all together, so at least one person who lived on each property was present. A frustrated mom took to TikTok when her neighbors’ kids came over to use her family’s playhouse when her kids weren’t even there, and she wants to know if she’s overreacting or if these kids are seriously entitled.
“Do other people’s neighbors do this? We have an open backyard, which means that there’s no fences and we can’t put fences up because we don’t have a pool,” TikTok creator @s_hubby14 says in the beginning of her video, which she films through the window of her house. “So, our neighbors just come into our backyard and literally play on our structure and don’t ask us and they just play like they…. own it, like it’s a communal backyard just because we don’t have fences.”
She explains that she let it slide the first few times it happened because her own kids went outside to join the neighbors, but this time, the interlopers are out there alone and she’s creeped out.
“They have a pool. What if I just, what if they came home, and I was just in their f*cking pool? Like, this is so weird to me!” she says.
She also explains that she works in a law office, so she worries about the liability of the situation, which is what would concern me, too.
“What if one of them gets hurt? Then our homeowner’s insurance [is] the one that’s getting sued,” she says. Yep. That was my first thought, and that’s why if I were in her shoes, I would be politely but firmly telling these kids they can’t play in my yard without asking.
Of course, the comments were a bit divided. Some people told the mom this was a good opportunity to make friends in the neighborhood.
“Make friends with them and share each other’s park and pool any time,” one commenter wrote.
But many more were on the mom’s side, saying it’s her property, her rules.
“Nope. They gotta go,” one replied. And in this case, we agree.
Plan a unique family vacation and go yurt camping where nature and fun meet
When it comes to yurt camping, Washington is a great place to be. After all, we’ve got some of the best glamping spots around, and they’re pretty close to Seattle, too. But don’t take our word for it. Plan a new camping adventure with the kids when you book a yurt. You’ll enjoy the combination of off-grid life and a few down-home comforts. Each one is a beautiful launching point for other outdoor adventures. It sounds like a reason to road trip to us! Keep reading to find your perfect yurt and get a few pointers.
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Cape Disappointment State Park
The 14 yurts at Cape Disappointment will not be a disappointment; they are some of the nicest in the state. Each is just a short walk to the beach and includes bunk beds that sleep three, a full-size futon, small end table and even a lamp and heater! Outside you will find a picnic table, fire pit with grate and a deck that is ADA accessible. A RV pad with utility hook up is located nearby and available for an additional fee.
Distance from Seattle: Cape Disappointment is at the furthest southwest point of the state of Washington, over three hours from Seattle. Cost: $64-$79 per night, depending on the season, plus a non-refundable reservation fee. Reservations: parks.state.wa.us or 888-226-7688
Coulee Playland Resort
Head east of the mountains, near the Grand Coulee Dam, to stay in these cool, equipped yurts. Each one includes a microwave, refrigerator, private BBQ area, tables chairs, and a walk around spacious deck. Not so shabby for “camping!” Each yurt sleeps up to five people and includes a futon sofa and futon bunk bed. Add in two new-in-2020 pontoon boats available to rent and you've got the makings of a memorable staycation.
Distance from Seattle: Nearly four hours from Seattle in north central Washington. Cost: $65-$99 per night, depending on the time of year. Fee based on five people; extra persons are $6 each. Reservations: 509-633-2671 Online: couleeplayland.com
This spectacular saltwater beach park is located along the beautiful shores of Port Susan. With its 3,300-foot shoreline and lush evergreen forests, Kayak Point Park offers a rich setting for pier fishing, windsurfing, picnicking, hiking, camping and boat launching. Don't forget to pack your crab pots and fishing poles! Each of the 10 yurts sleep five people and include electricity, hardwood floors, screened windows, locking door, lights and wall heater to keep you cozy warm and dry; two yurts (2 & 4) are ADA accessible and yurt 7 has a wrap-around deck. Outside each yurt has its own picnic table and fire pit. A village picnic shelter for yurt guests is exclusively yours for outdoor cooking, dining and gatherings. Yurt Villages include lighted walkways, and nearby heated restroom with showers.
Good to know: The yurts are located in Yurt Village, so expect to get to know your neighbors. Yurt 10 is located just outside the village in a hook-up campsite which can accommodate three additional visitors in up to two tents or one RV.
Distance from Seattle: About an hour north of Seattle, just of I-5 at Smokey Point. Cost: $70-$95 per night, depending on the time of year. Reservations: snohomishcountywa.gov or call 425-388-6600.
Kanaskat-Palmer State Park
Being located so close to the city, Kanaskat-Palmer is a popular yurt camping destination for Seattle families–spend less time on travel and more time on having fun! Yurts include bunk beds that sleep three, a queen-sized futon, overhead light and small end table. You supply your own linens and blankets. Outside you will find a picnic table, fire grill, utility hookup and a deck that is ADA accessible. Bathrooms and showers are nearby. Pets are allowed in yurt 16 with a $15 (plus tax) pet fee per night. Don’t forget fishing poles for the river!
Distance from Seattle: Only about an hour southeast of Seattle, just past Maple Valley. Cost: $50-$79 per night, depending on the time of year, plus a $6.50 to $8.50 non-refundable reservation fee. Reservations may be made nine months in advance of your arrival date. Reservations: parks.state.wa.us or 888-226-7688
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PNW Waterfront Yurt
This pet and family-friendly yurt is located in the heart of Puget Sound on the island of Vashon, known for its quaint, laid-back, nature-loving community. A short ferry ride away from both Seattle and Tacoma. You'll find a nature and activity lover's paradise, with available kayaks, fantastic biking, hiking paths, beachcombing and walking trails. It is an authentic glamping experience with no power, only battery-powered lights, and no running water.
Distance from Seattle: By car or ferry, about one hour Cost: from $150 per night Reservations: hipcamp.com
Hideaway Glamping
Escape to two acres of peacefulness and leave behind the busy city life. The small hobby farm offers two options for glamping - a Yurt and a Bell Tent. Your private getaway is separate from the main farm, but you can explore and participate in farm activities. Enjoy the company of Nigerian dwarf goats, indulge in fresh fruits like apples, pears, plums, and blackberries, and take in the beauty of the Iris flowers. Wildlife thrives here, and nearby walking and biking trails await you.
Distance from Seattle: About an hour and a half from Seattle Cost: from $110 per night Reservations: hipcamp.com
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Lakedale
The serene 82-acre property on San Juan Island boasts seven, 24-foot-diameter yurts in Yurt Village, tucked into a private forest surrounded by Fish Hook Lake. Glampers will enjoy 450-square-feet of modern, light-filled luxury, including a pillow-top king bed with flannel duvet cover, en suite bathroom with shower, wet bar and refrigerator, plus electricity, a large flat-panel TV and a queen-size sleeper sofa. The yurts can sleep up to four guests and each comes with a spacious 180-square-foot private deck complete with hot tub, dining table and chairs, a BBQ and Adirondack chairs. Lakedale provides an abundance of outdoor activities as well, including fishing, biking, swimming, canoeing, kayaking, hiking and boating to keep the active of yurt campers happy and entertained.
Distance from Seattle: On San Juan Island, about 3 hours from Seattle including a ferry ride from Anacortes. Cost: $325/night Reservations: lakedale.com or 800-617-2267
Doe Bay Resort & Retreat
Doe Bay Resort & Retreat
Looking for a new way to discover Orcas Island? Book a yurt at Doe Bay Resort and Retreat. Yurts are available year-round, although some only include Queen beds and bedding from May through October. If you're looking for a yurt with a few comforts from home, book an "On Grid" yurt. These come with electricity, a minimal heat source and year-round Queen bed and bedding. "Off Grid" yurts come with Queen bed/bedding from May 1-Oct 31.
Distance from Seattle: Over three hours from Seattle, including a ferry ride from Anacortes. Cost: $67-$140 per night for double occupancy; $20 for each additional person over age 13. Doe Bay is a five-night minimum stay resort during the summer months, with a three- or four-night minimum for holidays. Reservations: 360-376-2291 Online: doebay.com
Grayland Beach State Park
Grayland Beach State Park is in a fantastic location, right on the ocean for lots of beachcombing fun. The yurts all include bunk beds that sleep three, plus a queen-sized futon, electricity, heat, an interior light and small end table and can accommodate up to five people. Outside you will find a picnic table, fire grill, electric outlet and a deck; bathrooms and showers are nearby. Pets are allowed in some yurts with a $15 (plus tax) pet fee per night. An adjacent RV pad with 30-amp electrical service/water may be rented at the park for an additional fee upon check in.
Distance from Seattle: On the Washington Coast, just past Aberdeen, about 2.75 hours from Seattle. Cost: $69-$89 per night, depending on the time of year, plus a non-refundable reservation fee. Reservations may be made nine months in advance of your arrival date. Reservations: parks.state.wa.us or 888-226-7688
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Pacific Beach State Park
The yurts at Pacific Beach are all within walking distance of the beach and the park’s sandy beach and breezy climate make it the perfect spot for families who like kite flying, sand castle building, beach exploring and bird watching. Each yurt sleeps five and is furnished with bunk beds that sleep three, a full-size futon, small end table, overhead light, electrical outlet and heater. Outside you will find a picnic table and a covered entry way that is ADA accessible; bathrooms are accessible to those with disabilities and token operated showers are nearby. An adjacent RV pad with 30-amp electrical service/water may be rented at the park for an additional fee upon check in.
Distance from Seattle: Located on the Washington Coast of the Pacific Ocean, about 2.75 hours from Seattle. Cost: $59-$84 per night, depending on the time of year, plus a $6.50 to $8.50 non-refundable reservation fee. Reservations may be made nine months in advance of your arrival date. Reservations: parks.state.wa.us or 888-226-7688
Paradise Point State Park
Located on a river, Paradise Point has easy access to the freeway and clean yurts and facilities. Each yurt sleeps five and includes bunk beds that sleep three, a queen-sized futon for two, electricity and heat, plus an overhead light, one outlet and small deck. Be sure to ask for a yurt that is as far away from the freeway as possible to avoid the hum of the nearby traffic. Outside you will find a picnic table, fire grill and a small deck that is ADA accessible. A RV pad nearby is available for an additional fee.
Distance from Seattle: About 2.5 hours south of Seattle, just off I-5 between Kelso and Vancouver in southwest Washington. Cost: $55-$69 per night, depending on the time of year, plus a $6.50 to $8.50 non-refundable reservation fee. Reservations may be made nine months in advance of your arrival date. Reservations: parks.state.wa.us or 888-226-7688
River Meadow Park is easy to get to from Seattle, so you can spend less time in the car and more time exploring this cool park and the riverbank. The six yurts are located in a fruit orchard and are some of the largest in the state at 20-feet in diameter. Yurts sleep 5-8 people and one is ADA accessible. Outside you will find a picnic table and fire pit and some cool mosaic art that gives each site its own personality. Advanced reservations are required, as is a two-night minimum stay in these yurts.
Distance from Seattle: Just over an hour north of Seattle, near Arlington. Cost: $60-$90 per night, depending on the time of year. Reservations: 425-388-6600 Online: snohomishcountywa.gov
Seaquest State Park
Squeeze in a little history on this yurt camping trip–the yurts at Seaquest are within walking distance of the Mount St. Helens Visitor Centers. Each yurt sleeps five and is located in a wooded area. The yurts include a queen-size futon, a bunk bed that sleeps three, small end table and heater. Outside you will find a picnic table and fire pit with grate. Pets are allowed in yurt 2 with a $15 (plus tax) pet fee per night.
Distance from Seattle: Just over two hours south of Seattle via I-5. Cost: $55-$79 per night, depending on the time of year. Reservations may be made nine months in advance of your arrival date. Reservations: parks.state.wa.us or 888-226-7688
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Tolt MacDonald Park & Campground
Tolt MacDonald Park and Campground offers a little something for everyone—from RV and tent camping, to yurt and camping container camping. The 574-acre park sits at the point where the Snoqualmie and Tolt Rivers meet and features stunning views of the river and Cascade Foothills. Tolt has six yurts that sleep up to six people. Each yurt comes furnished with two double/single bunk beds, night stand, heat, electricity, deck, picnic table and fire ring. All yurts are located on the west side of the park across the Snoqualmie River and two of the yurts have wheelchair accessibility.
Good to know: These yurt sites are walk-in only and require crossing the park's 500-foot suspension bridge (wagons may be available for use from campground host). Camping season opens March 1, and is available only by reservation, at least 10 days in advance. All sites can be reserved up to one year in advance by calling the Camping Line at 206-477-6149. There is a two night minimum required stay and a maximum stay of seven days.
Distance from Seattle: About 40 minutes east of Seattle in Carnation. Cost: $55-$65/day or $390/week during peak season. Reservations: kingcounty.gov or 206-477-6149 (voicemail only)
Thousand Trails of Mt. Vernon RV Campground
This large, private campground has a two yurts available that sleep five. Don’t miss all of the family-friendly activities here including a great outdoor pool (and little wading pool for young kids), a miniature golf course and tons of organized family activities during the summer. The 20' diameter yurt includes a double bed with bunk overhead and a futon that converts to a double bed. The 20' diameter yurt also comes with a bathroom with a shower, kitchen with range, sink and refrigerator, plus microwave, gas BBQ grill and a color TV/VCR with satellite dish receiver. The 16' diameter yurt is Fido-friendly and comes with a double bed with twin bunk on top, one futon double bed and a picnic table, grass pad and fire pit. Restrooms and showers are located nearby.
Distance from Seattle: About an hour north of Seattle, just off I-5. Cost: Rates vary based on date and yurt size. Reservations: thousandtrails.com or 888-481-6348
Westport is a haven for surfers in Washington and you’ll be just a quick drive away (less than five minutes) at Twin Harbors Beach. The yurts sleep five and include a bunk bed that sleeps three, a queen-size futon and a small end table, plus heating and electricity. A nearby concrete RV pad with utility hookup may be rented for an additional fee. Twin Harbors’ yurts are close together, so be prepared to make friends with your yurt neighbors!
Distance from Seattle: On the Washington coast, about 2.5 hours from Seattle. Cost: $55-$79 per night, depending on the time of year. Reservations may be made nine months in advance of your arrival date. Reservations: parks.state.wa.us or 888-226-7688
Yurt Camping Tips:
1. Most yurts come with furniture–bunk beds with mattresses and sometimes a small couch and/or a small table. For some, you bring your own bedding and other camping accessories.
2. Yurts often have a door that locks, which is great for stashing your goods while you’re out exploring and keeping your food tucked away from curious wildlife.
3. Depending on the yurt location, some are hooked up to electricity. Every parent realizes the value in this–even hardcore camping parents!
Additional reporting by Kristina Moy & Katie Kavulla
Planning a vacation to Southwest Florida? We’ve broken down fun activities to do with kids in and around Fort Myers, no matter their ages.
Florida and summer vacations with children practically go hand-in-hand. There are activities almost everywhere you turn, family-friendly resorts and hotels (with some options for waterfront access, might we add), incredible eco tourism, white-sand beaches, and, of course, year-round sunshine.
As you begin your search for the perfect destination in the Sunshine State, we’re here to narrow down your results with one special location that delivers excitement and family bonding: Fort Myers and its surrounding areas.
Located in the southwest region of Florida and along the Gulf of Mexico, the greater Fort Myers area is a go-to for families looking for a wholesome vacation. The destination’s secluded islands, beloved beaches and welcoming neighborhoods offer relaxation, outdoor recreation, and most importantly, kid-approved adventures for every age. So whether you have infants, threenagers, tweens or teens, Fort Myers has exactly the activity to keep them (and you!) all smiles.
Editor’s Note: For updated reports on Fort Myers’ beach conditions and current openings, head to visitfortmyers.com/beaches.
For Infants: Ages 0 – 2
Roam Unique Gardens & Take a Train Ride at Lakes Park
Lakes Park has a garden haven that’s perfect for little learners to explore and play. Head to the children’s garden for hands-on activities and musical play stations that are whimsically designed in shapes of flowers, lily pads and trees, as well as the fragrance garden for a picturesque succulent collection that provides photo opps everywhere. Stop by the Railroad Museum of Southwest Florida, located right at the park, for sights of historic locomotives, railroad tracks and artifacts. Our favorite activity is the mile-long, miniature train ride that takes you through the woods, lakes and a tiny village depicting the area during the 1950s.
See Manatees at Manatee Park
As the name touts, you can catch a glimpse of manatees at this stroller-friendly destination during cooler Florida months, from late December through February. Though if you’re planning to go during the summer, the Manatee Park also has a breathtaking butterfly garden that’s certain to wow tiny eyes and on-site playgrounds for a nice baby buggy break. Did we mention parking is only $5 and the restrooms are clean and spacious? That’s a win-win in our book!
Spend a Day by the Pool with a Resort Pass
In Fort Myers and its surrounding areas, being close to a pool or beach is convenient for combatting long days in the sun—especially with an infant in tow. While resorts in the area offer these amenities, some vacation rentals and Airbnbs in non-coastal communities may not. To get all the perks of a resort, from splash pads and lazy rivers to poolside bars, without having to stay there, purchase a day pass for a one-day indulgence. Depending on where you book, prices can range from $25 up to $115 per adult, with most offering free entry for infants.
For Toddlers: Ages 3 – 5
Set Sail on Salty Sam’s Pirate Cruise
Mini pirates will rejoice on this Gulf of Mexico sailing adventure where kiddos can board a 65-foot pirate ship for 90 minutes worth of pirate-themed fun: face painting, games, sword fighting and treasure hunting. Salty Sam’s Pirate Cruise is available at both 11 a.m., leaving you with the rest of the day to explore Fort Myers, and 7:30 p.m. for a golden hour, sunset cruise. Upgrade your toddler’s package (boarding pass included!) for special souvenir items that’ll get them into character, like an eye patch, pirate hat, toy cutlass, and, of course, a bag full of buried booty. Moms and dads, help yourself to a “parent only” drink at the galley.
Let ‘Em Play at Coconut Point Mall
Although some can argue that malls and tots don’t go hand in hand, we’re here to tell you that this outdoor mall has just what you need to keep cries at bay. With an interactive children’s play area, your tots can play in the 14-foot-tall walk-in castle (that’s guarded by a moat and two giant alligators!), crawl through a dragon cave and run across a family of turtles. Although the play area is technically outdoors, it’s completely covered, so your kids can run around in the shade on extremely warm or rainy days. There’s even ample seating that’ll give you a moment to rest as you watch your little ones make friends. Coconut Point Mall also has a Build-A-Bear Workshop, Five Below, a toy store and countless restaurants for an in-between-shopping meal.
Enjoy a Day of Outdoor Fun at The Shell Factory & Nature Park
A Fort Myers staple, The Shell Factory & Nature Park is brimming with outdoor activities that’ll take up your entire day (now that’s what we call easy planning). Your children can ride the carousel for only $1, toss water balloons at the “water wars” station and go gem mining with their very own sifter and sandbag loaded with treasures. The park also features paddle boats and bumper boats for on-the-water fun.
For Big Kids: Ages 6 – 10
Spot Wildlife on a Hike Through J.N. “Ding” Darling National Wildlife Refuge’s Trails
Need to burn off some of your kid’s never-ending energy? J.N. “Ding” Darling National Wildlife Refuge is the perfect place to get them moving and also introduce them to native Floridian wildlife. The 7,600-acre wildlife refuge is home to 51 types of reptiles and amphibians, 32 mammal species and more than 245 species of birds. Walk or bike the 4-mile, round-trip Indigo trail to spot alligators, night herons or white ibises, or sign up with Tarpon Bay Explorers to take a guided 90-minute tram tour.
Collect Seashells at Gasparilla Island State Park
About an hour-and-a-half-drive from Fort Myers, Gasparilla Island is a must-visit. You’ll be able to enjoy the experience of southwest Florida’s beaches without all the crowds. Swim, snorkel or fish the gorgeous blue-green water then wander the shoreline that offers unmatched seashell collecting. Before the sun sets, though, head to the nearby Port Boca Grande Lighthouse. Originally built in 1890, this beautifully-preserved lighthouse now houses a family-friendly museum filled with “please touch” exhibits (local bones, fossils and shells).
Take on Epic Water slides at Sunsplash Family Water Park
Time to unleash your inner child. As the largest waterpark in Cape Coral (a quick 20-minute drive from Fort Myers), Sunsplash Family Water Park boasts over 14 acres of water-filled fun, from slides and tube rides to pools, a lazy river and a play area (including toddler-sized slides) for younger swimmers. Thrill seekers in your clan won’t be able to get enough of the park’s 30-foot-high slide tunnels and the 457-foot single or double rider tube rides, which is one of the longest slides in Florida. The minimum height requirement for most single rides is 48 inches tall, whereas double riders who are accompanied by an adult must be a minimum of 36 inches.
For Tweens & Teens: Ages 11+
Grip it and Rip it at Popstroke
Older kids will appreciate this family-friendly golf and outdoor dining concept that provides a contemporary take on your traditional mini golf outings. Featuring two 18-hole putting courses that were designed by Tiger Woods himself, Popstroke has a full-service menu with appetizers, entrees, dessert and cocktails (yes, please!). There’s even an ice cream parlor with 24 different flavors of cold, creamy goodness to keep you cool in the heat. If you have little ones in the group, there’s also a children’s playground to keep them happy, too.
Try Your Hand at Stand-Up Paddleboarding with Gulf Coast Kayak
A trip to Fort Myers isn’t complete without an aquatic adventure. Gulf Coast Kayak provides guided tours for both first-time and experienced stand-up paddleboarders. Book their two-and-a-half nature tour to sharpen your skills and explore the Matlacha Pass Aquatic Preserve. You’ll have the chance to learn about the Calusas who paddled the same waters, while keeping an eye out for dolphins, manatees and stingrays.
Experience All the Thrills at Gator Mike’s Family Fun Park
Gator Mike’s Family Fun Park packs in a ton of activities that’ll take more than one day to experience. If time permits, you could head to this outdoor adventure park over the span of your vacation to explore all there is. We’re talking go-karts, rock climbing, aerial ropes, ziplining, mini-golf, an ax-throwing range and a paintball course. Gamers will also appreciate the indoor arcade, where prizes are up for grabs. There’s truly something for everyone here!
There’s so much thought and pre-planning that goes into getting your teen ready for high school. You’ve run through the schedule and school layout, researched some teachers, and reviewed piles (oh, and piles) of paperwork. So, now that’s all done, is there anything else you can do to support your almost high-schooler in taking this big leap? We asked three experts to share their knowledge when it comes to learning those all-important coping skills for teens. You know, the ones that won’t be listed on their freshman-year syllabus.
1. Keeping track of all the things.
Until now, it’s been mostly your parenting brain helping your kid remember homework assignments, soccer practices, and those all-important school projects. With high school around the corner, let your teen step out of your brain and into theirs by keeping track of their own responsibilities. “Most schools have Learning Management Systems where teachers post assignments, etc. Students should train themselves to check those daily,” says Michael Roemer, Ph.D., and Director of Global Education at Trinity Valley School.
Apps like Remind and Band are useful when it comes to planning, and viewing calendars, and educators can communicate with their students here. In addition to these apps, teens can make lists or use a calendar to remember homework and important things after school. Roemer suggests trying out different organizational methods to find one that works best. “Kids need to try several things in elementary and middle school so that they have their own ‘system’ in place by high school,” Roemer says.
2. The value of making checklists.
Studies show that people perform better when they write down what they need to do. And writing out a checklist list when it comes to daily tasks gives us structure and visual aid for what needs to be accomplished. Teach your teen how to make their very own to-do list for homework or after-school commitments.
There are great list-making apps like Bear In Mind and Lists To-do that can be fun and easy to use or you can go old-school and write it out in a notebook. Writing out your list breaks up screen time and oh, wait for it…physically writing improves memory function and supports clear thinking skills. Also, research shows if you take a minute to doodle or decorate your list, this action helps you relax and think creatively—and your checklist just looks snazzier.
3. Self-reliance means setting a morning alarm.
Your kid waking up without your help may seem impossible, but sometimes the simplest tasks teach the most valuable lessons. “Responsibility is so important for kids,” says Paige Schueler, a child educator with Slate Run Elementary. “Recognizing that all of our actions have positive or negative consequences is vital for kids as they become adults.”
Empowering your almost high-schooler with responsibilities like setting a morning alarm builds confidence, and gives your teen more of what they’re craving—independence. “I think what’s most important is realizing that life doesn’t make excuses for us, so learning to be self-reliant and responsible is huge,” Schueler says.
4. Conversational skill basics.
Knowing how to hold a conversation helps kids build connections, make friends, and learn to ask for what they need. Dr. Katie Smith, a licensed clinical and child psychologist, says one way to work on gaining confidence when interacting with friends and authority figures is to practice.
“Encourage kids to talk to others outside their normal sphere—servers, store clerks, and neighbors,” Dr. Smith says. “Encourage them to make eye contact and remember that nonverbal communication skills make an important first impression (posture, facial expression, eye contact) that let others know you’re open to socializing.”
This type of consistent practice can empower your teen and deepen their understanding of talking and listening. Some kids need practice with a reciprocal conversation, and here Dr. Smith suggests going over this skill with them. “When asked a question, respond, then follow up with a question,” she says.
5. Knowing emergency protocols.
It can be nerve-wracking to talk to your kids about emergency situations and how to handle them. But having honest and age-appropriate discussions about these situations supports your teenager in feeling competent and in control. If we have a plan we’ve talked about and practiced, we’re more likely to automatically start plans and panic less, Roemer says. So, make sure your teen knows how and who to call for help depending on the emergency.
Schueler teaches her students—and her own kids—that it’s important to be aware of their surroundings. “I teach them to be aware of the situation they’re in and ask questions like: Do you feel safe? Are there people around that may not look safe? Are there circumstances that may not look safe?”
So, help your kids recognize unsafe and potentially dangerous situations and then give them the tools they need to leave. In some cases, you can create pre-planned exit strategies like a “blame parents” text code if your teen recognizes an uncomfortable situation and needs an out.
6. Doing (and folding and putting away) laundry.
Showing your teen how to wash, dry, and fold their own laundry is a good way to teach them accountability and the cause and effect of consequences. Because, guess what… if you don’t wash your dirty underwear or your favorite shirt, you won’t have it to wear the day you need it. Showing them how to take care of their belongings also reveals the real work behind what used to be parental magic. If you’re wondering if your kids’ white load will end up pink, Dr. Smith says, “A good thing to keep in mind is that if they can do it for themselves, they should.”
7. Awareness in social situations.
So, you’ve probably noticed the lightning-fast speed at which your teen’s mood can shift. One minute you’re the coolest parent ever and the next, well… not so much. This is due in part to hormonal fluctuations and developmental changes in the brain, which makes feelings run strong. Teens are learning how to process their emotions and are becoming more socially aware by recognizing the feelings of those around them, according to the University of Minnesota.
You can support this life skill for teens by bringing awareness into your everyday life. Asking your kid how they’re feeling so they can check in with themselves, using favorite TV/book characters to discuss their feelings and reactions, and/or modeling healthy ways to interact with those around you are all ways to support them. Becoming socially aware allows your teen to build strong positive relationships and develop deeper levels of empathy.
8. Understanding basic money matters.
Giving your teen the practical steps to deal with money not only helps them understand its value, but this conversation opens up the door for a lifetime of understanding. Explain the principles of saving and spending. Then talk to them about the cost of groceries or show them how to comparison-shop the price of that new game they so desperately want.
If you’re working with an allowance, apps like FamZoo or Step can help you navigate money management in a hands-on way. And don’t forget you can always set up a savings account and teach your kid the time-honored skill of balancing a checkbook. When learning any new skill like dealing with money, patience and support go a long way. “Kids are going to make mistakes, and that’s natural and a part of learning. So, let them fail, but be there to support them and help them recover and grow,” Roemer says.
9. Advocating for yourself.
Grade school is a time when your protective parenting instincts kick in, causing you to step in and stand up for your kid. But high school can be a time for your teen to learn how to speak up for themselves. “From a young age, our school and my family teach our kids to ‘use their big voice’ and tell the person what don’t like and what they would like instead,” Schueler says.
When it comes to self-advocacy, Schueler explains that it’s important we take steps to change society’s thinking that we’re rude or inconsiderate when telling someone we’re not comfortable in a certain situation. “And that starts with making teens more comfortable with expressing their opinions in a polite way,” Schueler adds.
The good news is parents can totally help their teens practice this life skill. “Adults can model for kids what it looks like to ask for guidance or support,” Roemer says. When this kind of culture exists, Roemer says it’s easier for teens to feel like advocating for themselves is what they should be doing, and that it’s more than okay, it’s expected. Learning how to speak up for yourself is a critical life skill that will serve them well as they move into adulthood, but be sure to meet your teen where they are. Dr. Smith suggests if your teen feels they cannot approach a teacher with a question or concern, find other ways that support like helping them write an email.
10. Preparing a meal.
You don’t have to be ready to be on Top Chef Jr. to know how to make a tasty meal. Preparing a simple breakfast, lunch, or dinner bolsters confidence and teaches responsibility. And yup, you guessed it; these are all qualities that can help make the transition from grade school to high school easier. “Keep in mind that our job as parents is to release confident, self-reliant, and independent young adults into the world,” Dr. Smith says. This means teaching them skills like preparing a meal (or setting their morning alarm) because, as Dr. Smith says, “self-reliance leads to confidence and independence.” And these are life skills for teens that are a critical part of their path to becoming an adult.
Not sure how to fill your long sun-shiny days in the Windy City? This Chicago summer bucket list has plenty of summer activities to choose from
Smile. Play. Giggle a ton. Hit up a street fest. Repeat. Good—you’ve got the basics of a perfect summer in Chicago. But, it doesn’t end there. There’s no such thing as “the lazy days of summer” when there’s this much going on in the Windy City. It’s prime time to explore all Chicago and the surrounding area has to offer, from visiting large-scale outdoor art exhibits to cheering on dragon boats. Not sure what to prioritize as the top summer activities to tackle with your kids? We’ve created the ultimate Chicago summer bucket list of activities for you to read through. Whether you challenge yourself to tackle every last activity or you plan to pick just a few favorites to add to your calendar, you’re sure to enjoy everything this warm-weather Chicago summer activities lineup has on tap.
Navy Pier's Pride Fest Honor Pride Month at Navy Pier's Pride Fest, Jun. 24. Celebrate equality, love and the LGBTQ+ community with a daylong celebration that includes live musical performances.
Dragon Boat Race for Literacy Experience a traditional Chinese Dragon Boat Race, Jun. 24, as 30 boats head down the Chicago River from Ping Tom Memorial Park. Take in the colorful sites, sounds, and smells as you learn more about the Chinese and Asian cultures.
Day Out with Thomas Thomas is pulling up to the Illinois Railway Museum—and he's big enough for kids to hop on for a ride. Along with a 20-minute train ride at Day Out with Thomas, Jul. 16, 16 22 & 23, there are themed games and activities, storytelling and the opportunity to meet Sir Topham Hatt.
Ducky Derby Watch as more than 50,000 yellow rubber duckies splash their way into the Chicago River during the Ducky Derby, Aug. 10. Put a duck in the game by adopting your own for only $5 and raise money for Special Olympics Illinois.
Chicago Air & Water Show Daredevil pilots perform aerial stunts over the lake and downtown Chicago at theChicago Air & Water Show, Aug. 19 & 20.
Of the Earth at Morton Arboretum The new exhibition features five large-scale sculptures—created from reclaimed tree branches and other natural materials gathered from various locations throughout the Arboretum's 1,700 acres—by Polish American artist Olga Ziemska. Of the Earth explores the philosophy that "we are nature."
North Shore Sculpture Park Walk. Bike. Run. Skip. Gallop. However you make your way down North Shore Sculpture Park's two-mile trail, you're sure to enjoy the sights. The paved path is lined with sculptures from artists across the world.
Ice Age Giants at Brookfield Zoo Beginning June 23, visitors to Brookfield Zoo will get to discover some of nature's most colorful creatures—butterflies! Observe as they fly around the pond and land on some flowers—or possibly even on you! The Butterflies! exhibit also features a "pupa room" where you can watch the transformation from pupa to caterpillar to butterfly!
Art of Brick at MSI Museum of Science & Industry's Mold-A-Rama exhibit helps tell the story of the beloved retro machines that make plastic figurines right before your eyes.
Boats at Chicago Children's Museum Water is the perfect plaything, and in the new Water City experience, children of all ages and abilities can determine their own experiments, narratives, and sensory explorations of the physical properties of water. The exhibit connects water play and STEM experiences for the next generation of young explorers and their families.
Bristol Rennaisance Faire Grab a sword and shout, “huzzah!” The Bristol Renaissance Faire is a full-on homage to Elizabethan England complete with costumed characters, period music, jousting tournaments, acrobatic and comedy acts, rides, games and food.
Mozart Immersive: The Soul of a Genius State-of-the-art video mapping and ground-breaking animation help to craft the 18th-century destinations of Mozart's world like never before. Unlike visually focused experiences, the Mozart Immersive: The Soul of a Genius is audio-centric and features recompositions of 17 selected works from the musician's repoertoire.
Pixar Putt Pixar Putt, the fan-favorite pop-up, returns to Navy Pier this summer. The mini-golf experience, made up of 18 fun and interactive holes inspired by the stories, characters, and icons from some of Pixar's most beloved films—like Toy Story, The Incredibles, Finding Nemo, Inside Out, Wall-E, and Coco—will take your kiddos to infinity and beyond!
Sharpen Your Tiny Pencils for Miniature Golf Mini-golf. Putt-putt. Goofy golf. Adventure golf. Shorties. No matter what you call it, you have a blast playing it. Most of Chicago’s miniature golf courses are pure, kitschy fun and are only open for a limited time each year.
Make Friends with Fireflies at an Outdoor Movie The best way to watch a flick in Chicago in the summer is at an outdoor movie theater. There are parks, nature centers, drive-ins and even rooftops reeling family favorites all summer long. (BYO chairs, blankets and maybe even your own popcorn.)
Family Time at Morton Arboretum's Arbor Evenings Unwind with family and friends on Wednesday evenings at Morton Arboretum's Arbor Evenings. Listen to live music, play lawn games and enjoy food and drinks surrounded by the Arboretum's beautiful trees.
Twilight Tunes at Brookfield Zoo Every Friday and Saturday in July, the zoo welcomes guests of all ages to Twilight Tunes, an evening filled with music, food and drinks, animal encounters and a laser light show.
Attend a Street Fest Chicagoans live for street fest season. Have a blast with art, cars, animals and music. . . and that’s just the start!
Beat the Heat at a Local Splash Pad Lazy days at the pool are a summer must. Even better? Raging days at splash pads. From neighborhood gems to all-out amusement park-style destinations, you and your tot will be happy to cool off without taking a dunk or forking over much moola.
Have Gallons of Fun at Raging Waves Treat the family to a fun day at Illinois' largest waterpark, Raging Waves. You'll find 32 water slides, a huge wave pool, three kiddie pool areas, a relaxing lazy river, 43 private cabanas and more.
Take a Family Boat Tour Break from watering holes and splash pads and add adventure to your water play this summer with help from Chicago boat tour companies. You’ll learn a bit of city and architectural history and take in a whole lotta gorgeous views cruising Lake Michigan and Chicago River.
Try a Fun New Restaurant Infuse fun into your dining this summer with themed restaurants in Chicago that let kids' imaginations run wild.
Hit Up a Hot Dog Stand Love ’em or leave ’em, hot dogs are big in Chicago. And, if your kids haven’t begged for one yet, they will soon—and they get a pass on the sacrilege of using ketchup. Grab one at a legendary Chicago hot dog spot and turn eating into an adventure.
Staycation in One of the Best Cities in the World Summer is not the time to be heading out of town, as it's the best time to be a Chicagoan. But sometimes a break from your own four walls is needed and we found hotels in Chicago that are great for families.
Have a Sleepover with Mother Nature Take your family on a glamping trip where making memories is the only agenda. Lock arms with Mother Nature while you camp in style with special touches like cozy beds, stocked kitchens, and even air conditioning. Gather ideas that'll impress the kids with these backyard camping ideas to try.
Go Adventuring at The Forge The Forge: Lemont Quarries' 300-acre adventure park includes the largest aerial adventure course in North America and gives you access to four over-water ziplines, 5 miles of hiking trails, mountain biking, paddlesports, and a dedicated kids’ zone. All summer long they have family programming like movie nights, camps and biking classes.
Watch a Chicago Dogs Home Game As of last season, there's a new baseball team in town and they're paying homage to Chicago's favorite street food, HOT DOGS! Catch a Chicago Dogs game with the family at the beautiful Impact Field in Rosemont.
Find a Bike Trail Live every nice-weather day to the fullest, shall we? On the top of the list, dust off those bikes, grease the chains, strap on a brain bucket and get those legs pumping on a bike path. From the shores of Lake Michigan to the furthest reaches of the suburbs, here are our favorite spots to cycle as a family in Chicago.
Play in the Cubs Front Yard Gallagher Way at Wrigley Field has a full line-up of summer programming. From exercise classes and markets to family movies and music.
Butterflies & Blooms at Chicago Botanic Garden Immerse yourself in a habitat filled with hundreds of winged beauties and pretty petals at Butterflies and Blooms.
Set Out on a Hike Step out of the urban jungle for fresh air, unforgettable scenery and a chance to spy on animals in their natural habitat on one of our favorite hiking trails.
Be Mesmerized by Blue Man Group Easily one of the most recognizable performance groups, the Blue Man Group performs high-energy percussive shows mixed with a little of their own brand of comedy. They’ll have you tapping your toes and laughing along as they go on a journey into sound.
Send Your Heart Racing at 360 CHICAGO Shoot 94-floors high and then lean (and squeal ... and maybe cry a little) 30-degrees over the city with 360 CHICAGO and TILT.
"Just Don't Look Down" at Skydeck Chicago If you're brave enough, walk the 4.3 feet into a glass box—The Ledge—at Skydeck Chicago, Willis Tower's heart-pumping attraction. Before you head up, check out their new museum that's packed with Instagramable photo opps and fun facts about this city we love.
Find a New Favorite Museum When you're craving something new and culture's on the menu, check out a super-secret museum that's just a mini road trip away.
The little-known playground in Upper Chevy Chase makes a great backdrop for Star Wars fans
DC’s beautiful monuments, iconic buildings, and National Parks make the perfect backdrop for family photos. But if you want to capture your kids in their natural environment, the playground is your best bet. The DC area boasts some of the most Insta-worthy playgrounds in the country, some even winning awards and worldwide attention. From an oversized pirate ship aground by the Potomac River to Wizard of Oz-themed play structures (complete with the Wizard’s castle) here are some of the most extraordinary, seriously fun, and downright inventive playgrounds around town that are worth featuring on your Instagram feed.
This playground has it all: a toddler play area for the littles, a massive climb-on structure that is possibly the largest piece of playground equipment in DC (!), cabin-like structures, a water spray pad, and more. There are mature trees surrounding this play area and the toddler area is completely shaded (perfect for these dog days of summer!). If your little wants to cool off without getting sprayed, there is also a water table.
Sometimes kids just need to run around and play and zipline…in the middle of a metropolitan city! When that happens, take them to this private school playground. Open to the public when the Beauvoir School is closed (typically after 6 pm weekdays and on weekends), this playground was designed with the idea that outdoor play is as imperative to children’s development as anything else. You’ll find formations and spaces for kids of all ages, including swings, climbing structures, wooden bridges, and even a super fun zipline.
Approximately a 30 min. trip from downtown DC, this park is worth the drive. Once you arrive (note: there is ample parking), follow the yellow brick road (follow, follow, follow, follow) to a magical, Wizard of Oz-themed playground. Slide down Dorothy's ruby slippers and climb up Emerald City's castle. Due to the Insta-worthy play structures, this no-admission park can get crowded. If the park feels too peopley, head to Watkins Playground #2, a less coveted play space that has ample room to run around. You will also find an antique carousel and a miniature train within this park.
Editor's Note: The miniature train is closed for restoration during the 2023 season.
Fairlington Playground
Your eagle-eyed kids will spot this newly renovated playground blocks away. What they’re spying is the top of Fairlington Park’s cool (and tall) climbing structure. Not for the faint of heart the ropes course-style equipment comes with a floating bridge and an enclosed, curvy slide. The rest of the playground comes with a sandbox for littles, hard seat swings, and artificial turf throughout. Bonus: Water fountains are on-site and restrooms are in the adjacent community center.
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photo: Cabin John Regional Park
Cabin John Regional Park Want to see what Montgomery County’s best and biggest park looks like? Then head over to Cabin John Regional Park. Geared for all ages this park offers loads of the usual slides and climbing structures but the “reel” (put intended) photo opp here is the ride-on miniature train. Hiking trails and the Locust Grove Nature Center make for an amazing sensory-filled afternoon. Nearby fields and tennis courts entice the adults and the whole family can whiz around on skates at the indoor ice rink.
Anacostia Park Playground Just on the heels of celebrating their centennial, Anacostia Park is the place to be and you’ll definitely want to check out their playground! Along the peaceful banks of the Anacostia River, little pirates can meander and find a massive pirate ship! This themed-playground is probably the greatest enticement at this park with three separate play areas. Kids can climb aboard the sails and mast—and then slide on out! Anacostia Park also has tennis and basketball courts, as well as a roller skate park with free skate rentals.
The organic structures in this park celebrate the Fibonacci Sequence (a series of numbers starting with zero where each number is the sum of the two that precede it. The ratio of numbers in this series best represents the Golden Ratio. This playground is so hip Mental Floss named it one of the top 16 coolest play structures in the world!
When your new baby bundle arrives, every little life event feels like front-page-worthy news. You likely feel like a geyser ready to gush, but not everyone is going to want baby bulletins 24/7. Especially not your friends without kids, who may be struggling to find their place in your new life. Here are five tips and tricks on how to stay close with your child-free friends after your new addition arrives.
There are many reasons people are childless. Some are by choice, but if your friend is struggling to conceive (or hasn't met the right partner), it might be best to tread lightly on the baby bulletins. In fact, waiting for your friend to inquire about your newest addition is best (but hard to do!).
2. Keep Up with Traditions
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If pre-baby you got together for brunch once a month or took a yearly girls’ getaway, make a point of prioritizing these special events. You may not have the time (or energy!) to keep up with your previous social plans, but carving out the time and space for events that foster meaningful connections is key.
3. Make Your Friend the Headliner
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Chances are, you and your babe are the center of a lot of people’s attention (yours, your partner’s, your parents…. You get the idea!). When you're together, turn the spotlight onto your dearest friend and let them share their week's (or month’s) highlight reel uninterrupted. Meeting up while your baby sleeps helps you give her your undivided attention. Asking your friend to join you on a stroll or hike while you push the stroller is a great time to catch up. Or grab some coffee or a quick lunch while baby dozes in the buggy.
4. Save Your Parenting Woes for Other Parents
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You’re exhausted. We get it—down to our core! But telling non-parent friends they couldn’t fathom your next-level fatigue won’t win you any bestie awards. Parenting struggles are best shared with other new moms; they get it and will have mom-tested advice. If you need more support, try finding a local mom group to commiserate with.
It's important to carve out child-free time with your best pals, but if your ride-or-die friend treats your newborn like her next of kin, it might be time to make room for an honorary auntie. Including your child-loving (but child-free) friend in kid-friendly and family-friendly activities means you get to see your bestie more often, and she's just that much closer to you and your child.
Winter is coming, which means we’re daydreaming about chairlift rides and carving lines. If you’re hoping to get your kiddos excited about powder days and ski slopes, we’ve rounded up the best skiing lessons in and around Seattle to help get your kids comfortable on their boards and sticks. Before long, your little skier will be yelling, “Pizza pie and French fries!” and bombing down the hill. You better get ready to keep up! Read on…these lessons are filling up fast!
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Summit at Snoqualmie
Meet the Mountain The Summit at Snoqualmie offers a variety of skiing lessons for every age and ability, and great terrain for beginners and experts alike. Easily reached by traveling up I-90 through Snoqualmie Pass, you won’t miss the sprawling slopes. Summit at Snoqualmie is the closest ski area to Seattle, only about 45 minutes if you hit good traffic. It’s a perfect place to get some practices, and when tantrums inevitably hit, the car ride home won’t be too long. There are four different ski areas, all with a different tagline and thousands of skiable acres to explore. Summit West is the place to learn. Summit Central has something for everyone. Summit East is a fun playground ready to be discovered. And “when you’re ready” for a challenge, hop on over to Alpental.
Ski School Scoop Winter programs for your little shredders sell out fast, but the good news is spring is just around the corner. Spring ski season offers great conditions to learn how to ski and snowboard and also gives little fingers and toes a bit of a reprieve from the chilly, wet weather. The snowpack is also at its highest, so falls can be like landing on a snowy pillow. It’s a great way to minimize meltdowns–fingers crossed.
Multi-week skiing lessons are open now for registration. If your little ones are just starting out, we got an inside tip to book Thunderbirds (ages 4-6) in March or Central6 for spring. The four-week sessions for Thunderbirds occur on Saturday and Sunday, and Spring Central6 is a six-week program filling up for the end for February. Just remember, for multi-week lessons, you will need a pass or ticket, as those aren’t included in the lesson price. Plus, students must provide their own gear, or rent gear, and purchase a lift ticket or season pass.
Insider tip: If you plan to rent equipment, Summit recommends renting take home rentals and bringing them back for multi-week lessons. It will save you from standing in rental lines and losing precious minutes on the slopes.
Daily Lessons Daily beginner lessons are tailored to meet your family’s unique needs and are offered to kiddos 4 & up. Booking is available online. Lessons are available at Summit Central and Summit West. Reservations are required, and they are in high demand and may sell out fast. We’re sensing a theme–book early! It’s a pretty popular place, especially on the weekends, so don’t fret about braving the crowds. Even if you can't get into a lesson, they have ample places to ride the magic carpets. It's a great way to learn!
Insider tip: Remember to reserve online or over the phone before loading the skis on the rack. Reservations must be made at least 48 hours before the lesson date and time. Weekends and holiday book-up early, so sign up in advance!
West Kids Club and Central Kids Corral Days: Daily, 9 a.m.-7 p.m. Tickets: $199/per person
While you’re there, check out snow tubing. All the equipment is provided for a slipping and sliding good time. You’ll definitely want to bring your snow pants, jackets and gloves though! But if you happen to forget something, they have retail shops you can peruse.
COVID Info: Masks are required in all indoor facilities. Social distancing is also recommended.
Meet the Mountain Get ready to learn to ski at one of the most majestic resorts in Washington. With expansive views of Mt. Rainier, kiddos will be awed. Starting on Thanksgiving Day and running through mid-March, Crystal Mountain offers skiing lessons for all ages and abilities, starting as young as 4 years old. Daily youth lessons, for kids ages 4-12, provide an opportunity for young skiers and riders to gain confidence on the slopes as well as make memories that will last a lifetime. Taught by passionate and experienced coaches, half-day and full-day lessons are available.
Ski School Scoop Your little skier and snowboarder will learn at a designated area at the base of the mountain, and their indoor meeting area helps keep kids active and engaged when they are not out on the snow. Younger children are typically grouped in groups of three. The littlest future Olympians need more hands-on support as they get used to their boots and boards, but class sizes for older kids, who are likely more experienced, are larger. For the full-day classes, lunch is included—so don’t worry about packing that PB&J. Kids also get hot cocoa. Yum! Parents can check their kids in 30 minutes before the resort opens (8:30 a.m. on weekdays and 8 a.m. on weekends.), so get there early! Plan to pick up your kids between 3 p.m. and 4 p.m., after your day of solo schussing. Don’t be surprised if they don’t want to leave—your kiddos will be having too much fun!
Insider tip: Gear rentals are available for all ages as well, so don’t worry if you don’t have tiny boots, bindings and skis. Crystal Mountain takes the hassle out of all your equipment needs.
Good to know: Multi-week lessons are no longer available for skiers, but programs for snowboarders are. Cost starts at $499/per person.
Group Lessons Hours: Half-day lessons, 10 a.m.-noon & 1-3 p.m.; Full-day lessons, 10 a.m.-3 p.m. Cost: $175/child for half-day; $225/child for full-day
There are also lots of fun activities to enjoy after class. If you’re looking to kick off your boots and enjoy the scenic views, don’t miss out on the gondola. And dinner at 6,800 feet (with a killer view) is always a hit. Grab a bite at Summit House, Washington’s highest elevation restaurant at the top.
COVID Info: Masks are required indoors for all guests, regardless of vaccination status. Masks must meet CDC guidelines—no single layer buffs or perforated masks. Masks are recommended in outdoor areas such as lift lines, walkways and the base area, but are not required.
Ski School Scoop The KOMO Kids Program is a longstanding tradition at Mt. Baker. Geared toward kids ages 7-15 years old, the ski program is split into four-week sessions, and kiddos ages 4 and up are divided into groups by ages and abilities. To asses your ability, Mt. Baker has a handy ability guideline so you can find the right lesson that's right for you and your family. The sessions are fun and focused on safety and learning.
KOMO Kids Program Dates: Jan. & Feb. Days & Hours: Sat. & Sun., 9-11 a.m. Cost: $145/per child
Daily Lessons Private daily lessons ($225/per person) are also available, which is great for one-on-one instruction. These lessons are for kiddos ages 7 and up at last about two hours. Your kiddos will get to try their skills on the beginner terrain and tow their way along to hone their ski and snowboard skills—hold on tight! Reservations are strongly encouraged, as walk-in lessons have limited availability.
Insider tip: There are lots of great lodging options nearby the mountain, but parking is very limited. If you’re hoping to get a prime parking spot, get to the mountain early, or come for an afternoon ski session. Weekdays are much quieter than weekends, so plan accordingly.
COVID Info: Facial coverings are required for everyone when indoors, regardless of vaccination status, unless actively eating or drinking. They're also strongly recommended outside, when physical distancing isn’t possible.
If slipping and sliding in the snow and frosty fingers and toes don’t sound like an ideal place to learn to ski, head on over to Bellevue. Mini Mountain isn’t like the other resorts included here. For starters, it's indoors. They have three rotating carpets that can help little skiers get comfortable on skis, load and unload from a chairlift and have fun, all while learning from instructors with more than 30 years of experience. No need to bring anything, which makes getting out the door super easy. The indoor facility helps set kids up for success so when they finally make it to the snowy peaks and majestic slopes, they are ready to go. Mini Mountain has a boot fitting area, lounge and an area for gear rental. An added bonus, parents can relax on comfy leather couches and watch as kiddos perfect their pizza pie.
Lessons The great news about Mini Mountain is that you don’t need snow to learn how to ski—you can practice year-round, and many people do! Weekend lessons are currently booked out through January, but they have lessons throughout the week. Each lesson is about 20 minutes long, and kiddos get one-on-one attention from an instructor. They are able to teach kiddos starting from when they start to walk, but most children who enroll in lessons are 2 and up. Signing up for classes is a breeze. Simply call or register online. No need to worry about brining anything easier—everything is provided. Just sit back and imagine hauling down a mountain with your little one in tow.
Meet the Mountain Whistler Blackcomb, located in Whistler British, Columbia, is a majestic winter wonderland. With areas specifically designed for families, Whistler Kids Snow School offers an incredible atmosphere for your Littles to learn to ski or snowboard. And the snow school is just one of many family-friendly adventures you can embark on while visiting the mountain. From outdoor ice skating to tubing, there are plenty of other things to do that will bring a smile to your kiddos’ faces. Plus, there are hundreds of shops and dining options—more than 150 restaurants catering to all tastes and appetites, and 200 shops that will delight your inner window-shopper. If you needed more reasons to book your next family vacation to Whistler, they also offer camps, childcare and babysitting services. So, if you need a little time away after a long day on the slopes, your little adventurers are in good hands.
In between ski lessons and epic après ski adventures, check out the Magic Castle on Blackcomb, the Tree Fort on Whistler and the Enchanted Forest. These play areas are great for families of little ones, and a perfect excuse to kick off your skis and explore the magical outdoor playgrounds. The Magic Castle is located on Blackcomb Mountain in the Children's Adventure Park. The Tree Fort is located on Whistler Mountain, near the Big Red Express chairlift.
Ski School Scoop If you’re looking for weekday, multi-day ski lessons, Whistler Kids Adventure Camp is a great option for your youngest little skiers and snowboarders, from 3 years old to 12 years old. Kids get to learn from the same instructor throughout the duration of the camp, and they will also make lots of friends in a program packed with events, themes and activities. The camp also includes a hot lunch and snacks. Kids will ski for a full five days with instructions, starting at 9 a.m. and ending at 3:15 p.m. Plan to drop them off between 8:30 and 8:45 a.m. and picking them between 3 and 3:15 p.m.—plenty of time for you to get in more than a few sweet runs on the mountain!
Where:Skiers Plaza, Whistler Village Cost: $1,255/child
Daily Lessons If you’re looking for less of a commitment than a week-long camp, Whistler offers teen group ski and snowboard lessons, child group ski and snowboard lessons and private lessons for families and children, which can all be booked in advance. Group lessons are a full-day excursion, meaning you’ll have lots of time on the mountain and ski runs. Private half-day lessons are also available. As spaces are limited, Whistler recommends booking well in advance to ensure you don’t miss out. By booking in advance, you’ll also get all the paperwork out of the way which will save you time at drop-off. Don’t forget to bring a helmet and also lots of layers. Nothing ruins a fun day on the slopes like cold fingers and toes.
Good to know: Children ages 6 & under ski for free. Tickets can be collected from a conveniently located ticket window in the village.
Insider tip: If you’re planning on renting equipment, Whistler Blackcomb makes it incredibly convenient. They even have complimentary delivery! If you want to make getting out the door a breeze, it’s recommended that you pick up equipment the day before. That way you won’t have to rush the first day of ski school.
More Whistler Magic If you’re looking for something to get your heart racing, look no further than Blackcomb Mountain’s bubly™ Tube Park. No equipment is required, but you may need to be a bit brave and ready for an exhilarating rush. It's open weekends and holidays from 10 a.m.-6 p.m. and from 11 a.m.-6 p.m. on week days.
COVID Info: Face coverings are required in indoor settings including restaurants, lodging properties, restrooms, retail and rental locations. Face coverings will not be required outdoors but are required in gondolas.
Meet the Mountain Mission Ridge is located only about 12 miles outside of Wenatchee. It’s a great mountain for family skiing, and you’re likely to get lots of blue bird days—it boasts 300 sunshiny days a year, so pack your shades. The direr, higher and east-sidier (it’s on the eastern slope of the Cascades) destination means your family will enjoy light, dry powder when you’re bombing down the mountain. With more than 36 designated runs spread over 2,000 beautiful acres of skiable terrain, we can’t wait to book our trip!
Ski School Scoop Mission Ridge offers lots of different lessons for kids of all ages and abilities, but reserve your spot soon because space is filling up fast. Most of the multi-week lessons are already full, but here's the inside scoop to get in: call them today and get on a waitlist. If your little one is a snowboarder, there is still space. The Flyers programs are a great option for kiddos just starting out in the sport. The program is tailored towards the littlest skiers (ages 3-5) and snowboarders (ages 4-6) and the package includes lessons, lift tickets and rentals. What a deal! Your child gets paired with a youth instructor and gets a personalized one-on-one experience.
Mission Ridge also offers Kids Lessons for children ages 6-12. These lessons are a great way to introduce children to skiing and snowboarding. Kiddos will be grouped with other children of the same ability and age, so they’ll learn to ride and also make friends along the way.
For older kids who have more experience and are interested in becoming instructors, Mission Ridge offers a program called Cadets. It’s a unique offering that lets teenagers 13-15 improve their skills while learning to teach. The multi-week program prepares students to pass a Level 1 instructor certification and goes from December through March.
Kids Lessons Cost: $79 for lessons only; $119 for lessons, lift ticket & rental gear
Cadets Cost: $554/per person; includes season pass Dates: Sat. & Sun., from Dec. 11-Mar. 13
Insider tip: You won't find this online, but another awesome kid's program is the Night Bombers. The class will be offered for kiddos ages 6-12 and will open on their website shortly. The classes will have a ratio of five students to one coach, and skiers and snowboarders will be grouped by age and ability. Kids will be able to make friends and have fun exploring the mountain at night. More details will be coming soon.
Meet the Mountain About two hours from Seattle, Stevens Pass can be accessed through the beautiful and winding Cascade Loop Scenic Byway. Perched at the top of sweeping mountain views, right off the highway, Steven’s Pass is a winter wonderland for skiers and snowboarders alike. It offers 1,125 acres of diverse skiable terrain. Children of all ages and abilities have learned to ski there for decades, which is one of the reasons the mountain is so popular. Kids can enroll in both full- and half-day ski and snowboard lessons. Group lessons are small and offer a chance for kids to get comfortable on their skis and boards. Before too long, they’ll be cruising along–probably faster than you!
There are also lots of family activities in and around the resort. Bring a sled and explore the free family sledding hill and snow play area at the Steven’s Pass Nordic Center, located just five miles from the resort. Other activities including cross country skiing, skating and snowshoeing are also just minutes away. And if skiing at night sounds like a good time, don’t miss out on adventures after dark skiing with the family.
Ski School Scoop The group lessons are a great opportunity for children to engage in small groups with an instructor specifically trained to teach little ones, toddler temper tantrums and all. Group lessons are capped at a maximum of three to six participants, depending on the age group. Half-days are only available for the littlest skiers and snowboarders, and for those enrolled in the full-day group lessons (think: older kiddos) lunch is included. Stevens Pass recommends reserving ski and snowboard lessons in advance by booking through their website. You can also purchase a three-pack if you want to ensure you get your kiddos up at least a few times this year.
If you’re hoping to experience the mountain on quieter days, be sure to visit mid-week. Arriving early, before 9 a.m. also helps ensure parking is available and kiddos get to their lesson on time. Renting equipment ahead of time will also help alleviate some stress and keep you from waiting in lines. Morning check-in will be much smoother if your equipment is ready to go and sized correctly ahead of time.
Insider tip: Lift tickets are complimentary for kiddos ages 3–6.
Good to know: If private lessons ($539/per person for full-day) sound like a better fit for you and your family, this personalized approach to learning is also available. Included in private lessons is an expert instructor and also a nice perk of not waiting in lines. Yes, please!
Three-Pack Three Maximum Cost: $465/child (ages 3 &4); $555/child (ages 5 & 6); $585/child (ages 7-14)
Group Lessons Ages 3 & 4 Days & Times: Daily, Half-day, 9:30 a.m.-noon or 1-3:30 p.m. Cost: $149/child, mid-week; $169/child, weekends and holidays
Group Lessons Ages 5 & 6 Days & Times: Daily, Half-day from 9:30 a.m.-noon or 1-3:30 p.m.; Full-day from 9:30 a.m.-3:30 p.m. Cost: $149/child, mid-week; $169/child, weekends and holidays; $189/child, full-day mid-week; $209/child, full-day weekends and holidays
Group Lessons Ages 7-14 Days & Times: Daily, Half-day, 9:30 a.m.-noon or 1-3:30 p.m.; Full-day, 9:30 a.m.-3:30 p.m. Cost: $139/child, mid-week; $159/child, weekend; $179/child, full-day mid-week; $199/child, full-day weekends and holidays
COVID Info: All tickets, passes, lessons and services must be purchased online and masks are required in all indoor facilities. They're not required outdoors but are recommended in lift lines.
Summit Stevens Pass 93001 US Hwy. 2 Skykomish, WA Online: stevenspass.com
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Expert Advice for Beginning Skiers
Mark Music, Mission Ridge’s Ski School Director, offered up some great tips to help set kiddos up for success on the mountain. He says to focus on comfort and to set realistic expectations. Bring lots of layers, never keep boots out in the cold (your kiddos toes will thank you) and bring hand warmers. That’s the secret he says, having a balaclava or neck gaitor ready, both hand and feet warmers ready to deploy at any moment, and a pair of spare mittens to keep hands dry on a damp day. Also, make room for lots of breaks during the day and head to the bathroom before gearing up in the many, many layers you’ll be packing on your tiny skiers.
It’s also never too early to get a child used to their boots and skis. Before making a trip to the mountain, have your kiddo walk around the living room in their ski gear. It can be a fun way to make believe while also getting them comfortable with what will hopefully be their favorite winter attire.
Music says just getting to the mountain is something to celebrate. “Congratulate yourself for getting to the hill,” he says. “Don’t be hard on yourself. The primary goal is more about getting outside together and making some great memories you’ll be talking about years from now.”
Even though the holidays are coming, there are still a ton of free things to do in San Diego with kids this month
The holidays are coming and while that means more money for special occasions, gifts and hot chocolate, that doesn’t mean you can’t still have fun in San Diego for free. Fleet Week is here and along with it, a bevy of fun, free events the whole family will love. Don’t miss out some (free) special story times at Lido Village Books and Athenaeum Music and Arts Library and one of our favorite times of the year? A chance to explore our local National Parks for free.
Free Things to Do in San Diego That Are Always Free
Become a Skater Babe: Follow in San Diegan Tony Hawk's footsteps and take your board to roll with it, flip, jump and carve at one of San Diego's many thrilling skateparks.
Join a Park Ranger Program at OneofSanDiego’sManyParkTerrains: You can head down to the coast at Cabrillo for Park Ranger walks at the lighthouse, or drive up the coast to Carlsbad’s wildlife viewing with the junior rangers, or move inland for a wildlife tracking hike or nature story time at Mission Trails or go south for a guided bird walk at the Tijuana River Estuary. Click here for the full list of park ranger programs nearby.
Visit Seaport Village: Window shop, wander along the bay, watch the ships go by, listen to live music in the food court, and watch the kites fly—all in Seaport Village.
Hit the Beach: Of course, we can never really get sick of the beach. From stretches of shimmery sand at Coronado's Silver Strand to boogie boarding near the cliffs of Torrey Pines and making waves in Del Mar, nothing is more iconic than a beach day here in San Diego. Want to explore a new beach this summer? Check out our guides to the best local beaches for the kids and the best beaches to take your dog in San Diego.
Visit the Best Playgrounds in San Diego: Discover where kids can slide through a giant bunch of grapes or commandeer a pirate ship on our list of the best San Diego playgrounds.
Explore Chicano Park in Barrio Logan: Vivid, lively murals depict aspects of San Diego’s Mexican-American heritage including mythology and immigration. Kids especially love the Children’s Mural, which represents drawings and paintings from kids that attended two local elementary schools. Chicano Park is a great place to go with kids and give them an art lesson. Visit the park's interactive website to explore the murals' history and artists before your visit.
Get Instagram-famous: Capture a super photo-op at one of these Instagrammable murals.
The Sanford Children's Library at the Central Library: The library's Dr. Seuss murals and thousands of books make it a fun, inviting space for kids. Park in the underground lot and get validation to park for free for the first two hours.
Queen Califia’s Magical Circle: The colorful, whimsical sculpture garden that is Queen Califia's Magical Circle will delight kids. Make a day of it and check out this additional interactive public art for the whole family.
Check Out Not One, but Two Historic San Diego Ranch Houses: The Los Peñasquitos Ranch House is the second oldest standing residence and was built in 1823 by the recipients of the first Mexican land grant in San Diego County. Take a hike around the area, then check out the goats, chickens, veggies, and have some fun in the large open spaces for playtime.
Then head to “Carlsbad’s Sleeping Beauty” to see the Leo Carillo Ranch House and prance with the peacocks and play on authentic ranch and farming equipment. Don’t forget to pack a picnic!
Explore Old Town to see the birthplace of California: Settled in 1769, many of the buildings in Old Town were built in the early 1800s, which is pretty amazing in itself. See the mission, run around on the green or walk through the village, taking in the sights of old San Diego by visiting Old Town.
Uncover San Diego's Hidden Gems: A house perched off the edge of a building, secret messages in the sand and more unbelievable sights that will wow and delight your brood—these free hidden gems in San Diego are fun to discover whether you're a tourist or a bonafide local.
Travel builds confidence, teaches us to be better environmental stewards, and shows us how to deal with things that don’t go exactly as planned
There is something about getting out of your familiar home environment that teaches all sorts of lessons, especially for kids. Road trips can show us the importance of planning ahead, while trips to foreign countries can help us tap into skills like negotiation and problem-solving. Traveling with kids at any age is super important as it lets them see the differences in the world outside of their home as well as how people are similar, even a continent away.
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1. Patience
There’s so much about travel that requires patience, from both adults and kids alike. The whole airport experience involves so much waiting in line that you are often drained before you even take off. Learning that often things are out of our control and we need to be patient is a skill we could all use a little more practice with.
2. Navigation Even from a young age, kids can have fun helping you navigate. You can draw up a rudimentary map that has major landmarks on it for little ones, or give older kids an actual map with the destination marked to see if they can follow along. For tweens and teens, learning to navigate a subway system without an app is a skill that will serve them well.
3. How to make friends
Little kids have the amazing ability to make friends at the playground in two seconds and that can be true even when you are in another country. Seeking out playgrounds when you travel is a great way for kids to gain confidence in themselves when meeting kids they don’t know. You can search on your map app for playgrounds nearby or use an app like Playground Buddy that maps them all out for you.
4. Trying new foods
If you have kids who are die-hard members of the chicken nuggets club, you might think that a trip to somewhere that (gasp!) might not offer chicken nuggets is a pretty terrifying thought. It’s often when we are faced with no other choice than to try something new that we find a new favorite. (But we support you if you need to keep those favorite snacks in the backpack, in case of emergency!)
5. Problem-solving
From packing your suitcase to determining what train you need to get on, there are so many opportunities to develop your problem-solving skills while traveling. You can even take it a step further by asking kids, “what would you do in this situation?” when you are faced with a tough question so that they can really think it through themselves before you take over. It’s also good to rehash a stressful situation after it is over and everyone has calmed down: “Well, that didn’t go as planned! What could we have done differently?” You are out of the stress of the moment but everyone learns from it.
6. There’s a world beyond our neighborhood
There’s so much learning that can be done when we leave the confines of our familiar neighborhood and visit somewhere else. Kids can be astounded by things as simple as how to people deal with snow on a daily basis (when coming from a warm climate) or why some countries don’t refrigerate their eggs in the grocery store.
7. Communication skills
It’s important when you visit another country to learn how to say simple phrases like, “please,” “thank you,” “how much does this cost,” “excuse me,” and “hello.” It demonstrates that you value the other culture and aren’t just “lazy Americans.” We can use apps like Google Translate as a crutch but often the gist of what you need to communicate can be provided even when you don’t share a common language.
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8. Physical skills
A family vacation may push you to try activities beyond your comfort zones like ziplining, hiking, snorkeling, and mountain biking. These might not be activities you pursue in your everyday life, but just the experience of trying new things makes you more willing to try more new things in the future.
9. Memories above things Suitcases have a limited size and you can’t bring home every trinket or stuffie you come across on your family vacation. But you know what can definitely be taken home with you? Memories of your time together. Memories of the night you stayed up late playing in a city fountain. Memories of when mom almost got left behind on the subway. These are what will last long after the stuffie has been donated.
10. How to protect our planet
Something like seeing the impact of sunscreen on our delicate coral reefs or learning about how species have become endangered due to the carelessness of humans can create a passion in kids to become better environmental stewards. Ultimately, travel can turn us away from the “me-me-me” attitude to a more external view.
11. Responsibility
Taking care of their luggage, managing spending money, and not leaving possessions behind in hotel rooms are just a few of the ways that kids can practice responsibility while traveling.
12. Self-confidence
Probably our favorite skill that kids learn while traveling is gaining confidence in themselves. Travel teaches you whether you like quiet, small towns or large, bustling cities. Are you more of a relaxing beach person, or an on-the-go history buff? The opportunities for self-discovery while traveling are endless!
