Meeting other like-minded moms and dads isn’t always the easiest task. We’ve searched San Diego for clubs and meetings that will help you connect with other parents while your little one might make a friend or two. Whether you like working out, hiking, exploring the city, or just grabbing a coffee, no matter your child’s age, we’ve got a treasure trove of groups for you. So scroll down and find that perfect match for you and your crew.
Work it out! Whether it's during pregnancy or with a wee one in tow, meet a group of moms who shape it up (with you). From Stroller Stride® and Fit4Baby to Stroller Barre and Body Back, this group offers classes for all stages of motherhood. So, find a group of friendly moms and get your workout on. Meet-ups all over San Diego. Also, if you're unsure, the first class is free.
The purpose of the local newcomer's clubs is to help its members to meet new people, learn about the community and discover how to get involved in the things that make their local area unique. These clubs are very active and open to receiving new members.
Nature and nurture go hand-in-hand and this local group helps families connect to nature. The group has two to three outdoor adventures per month both during the week and the weekend. Mini-groups meet for hikes, campfires, tide-pooling, and other cool stuff!
Getting a little one to latch on can be trickier than it looks. This moms group offers support from other moms on breastfeeding and weaning your little one. Their free meetings provide a nurturing environment, especially to new moms just learning the ropes. Also, there are groups for moms with toddlers too.
The MOMS Club is a national non-profit organization whose initials stand for "Moms Offering Moms Support." This club is a support group for the stay-at-home mother of today who's seeking activities for herself and her kids and is proud of her choice of at-home mothering. MOMS Club has two chapters in the San Diego area serving the Poway Unified School District, Escondido, and San Marcos.
Let the kiddos run free while you talk to other mamas about tips for bringing up your brood. If you have twins, triplets, quadruplets (or more), then this is the group for you. Receive "big-sister" mentoring from moms who have older multiples, join the age-based playgroups, buy/sell events, or new parent get-togethers. Further, find out what to do when your kiddos run in more than one direction all at the same time!
Calling all dads! Whether you're married, single, working, or a stay-at-home dad, this group is for you. You'll find several meet-ups per month at parks, museums, and sporting events. In addition, this group hosts a Dad's Night Out to socialize, relax and talk about everything. Meet-ups occur during the week and on weekends to make room for everyone.
Word of mouth! This local network grows quickly. Many moms in this group have wee ones age three and younger. Also, regular play dates are hosted by the same mamas for consistency; however, they are open to new members who want to host. Even more, if you like to swap clothes or nab a mom's night out, this is your group too. Lastly, there's no cost to attend.
San Diego has some of the best weather in the country and Hike It Baby encourages families to get outside and enjoy it! Groups meet several times a week, are geared for ages 0-6, and include toddler waddles and stroller walks.
Mothers of Preschoolers (MOPS) is an international organization with many local chapters in the San Diego area. The group's goal is to provide connection and support for all moms believing that amazing things happen when moms come together. The group organizes playdates, guest speakers, and "moms night out," among many other things.
If an easy-to-plan Seattle staycation is all you’ve ever wanted, there’s no better time than spring break to give it a try. Especially since the region has some of the best attractions in the world, right in your backyard. Sleep in a perfectly made bed and let someone else do the cooking, while avoiding those long lines at the airport, when you book your family’s vacation at one of these seven Seattle-area escapes.
Lakedale Resort at Three Lakes
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Stay: Just a ferry ride or float plane away! Lakedale Resort at Three Lakes touts a "one of a kind experience and a breath of fresh air," but that only begins to describe the tranquil magic families create on this 82-acre property on San Juan Island. For starters, choosing an accommodation is part of the joy. An elegant lakefront hotel, log cabins, yurts, canvas cabins for glamping and a lake house family vacation rental are all on the menu. Decide what fits your family's personality and dive in.
The lakefront hotel is wonderful for groups with young adults sixteen and older, no pets please. The stunning great room and fireplace were made for board game competitions and fine wine sipping. Davy Crockett fans will love the log cabins, which hold up to six guests and two pooches. Families will settle in to these cabins for serious bonding. For closer but even hipper living quarters, order up a deluxe yurt. They feature King-size beds with flannel sheets, flat screen TVs, private hot tubs and wet bar. The Littles will enjoy cuddling up to doze on the full size sleeper, with flannel duvet and linens. This is glamping staycation-style.
Walk To: It will be hard to leave your cozy home away from home, but Lakedale Resort at Three Lakes is all about the outdoors. Pursue games of chess on a giant chess set, or try ping pong, bocce ball or horseshoes. Three fresh spring water lakes offer gentle swimming areas and rentals a-plenty (paddle boats, row boats, kayaks, stand-up paddle boards and canoes). You can also take your kids fishing. The lakes are plentifully stocked with wide-mouth bass and trout (psst...permit required).
Good Eats: The lodge & hotel offer complimentary breakfast that tempts taste buds with options like Lakedale signature granola, homemade jam and egg dishes. For all other accommodations, bring in food for cooking or barbecue fun. The General Store on site is open on weekends starting in May, and seven days a week from June 1 to Labor Day. Hot espresso drinks, sandwiches, salads, wine, beer, groceries, ice cream, and camping and fishing gear (including bait), ice, wood and more are available for purchase.
A short drive away, The Company Store in Roche Harbor is open for sundry and grocery needs. Madrona Bar & Grill serves fish and chips, rockfish tacos plus more yummy snacks guaranteed to please tiny tots. And Friday Harbor Ice Cream Company is a wonderful treat on a warm evening.
Don't Miss: San Juan Island Zip Tour is adrenaline-fueled family bonding for ages 8 and up. Newbies welcome. The experience takes three hours but is only one mile from the resort.
If you and the kiddos desire a quieter setting, The Maxwell Hotel is a great option. While the hotel is nestled in a quieter Lower Queen Anne neighborhood, it’s just a skip and a hop to the Seattle Center. A quick monorail ride will take you to the sights and sounds of downtown. And with the hotel’s complimentary shuttle service and loaner beach cruisers, you’ll have plenty of transportation options. But make it back in time for the Afternoon Delights of coffee and the hotel's signature pineapple cupcakes!
Stay: Kings, duet queens and suites are available. All rooms feature complimentary wifi, a microwave with popcorn welcome packet, and a mini-fridge for storing cold items. The indoor pool is a bright, sunlit space and super kid-friendly: it only goes to 4’ deep.
Good Eats: The Pineapple Bistro & Bar, in the lobby, offers espresso and locally baked goods from 6:30-11:30 a.m. and is open from 11:30 a.m.-10 p.m. ('til 11 p.m. Thurs.-Sat.) for beer, wine and craft cocktails as well as locally sourced starters, brick oven pizzas, sandwiches and a daily happy hour from 4-6 p.m. The best part? Guests are welcome to enjoy their Pineapple Bar purchases anywhere in The Maxwell Hotel lobby, so you can make happy hour a family affair.
Don’t Miss: The Dashing Through the Snow Promo has been extended through the end of April! Take 15% off your stay by booking online with the code WINTER19, or just mention it on the phone at 866-866-7977.
300 Roy St. Seattle, WA 98109 206-286-0629 Online: staypineapple.com
Four Seasons Hotel Seattle
"Urban Retreat" conjures chic images not always associated with spring break. Think again! Imagine the wow your kids will have jumping into an outdoor heated infinity pool, with views of the Sound. Find it at Four Seasons Seattle—the only pool of its kind in the area. Almost every room has a spectacular view of the water as well. Afternoon treats are served in the lobby every day after 3 p.m., from house made s’mores and ice cream cupcakes, to caramel apples and macarons.
Adults will enjoy the most extensive collection of Pacific Northwest artwork outside a museum or gallery. Kids will revel in the vacation welcome gift. Let the staff know your munchkins' ages so they can enjoy fun treats like cookies and milk for tiny tots, or root beer and popcorn for tweens. Kid-sized robes and slippers are available, as are cribs, baby toiletries, and diaper genies for packing ease. Add in other convenient touches, like step stools in the bathroom so kids can reach the sink, and bath toys for the deep soaking tubs and you've got the perfect home-away-from-home getaway.
Good Eats: Find fabulous fare at in-house Goldfinch. The kids' menu is as much fun as the LEGO stacking utensils and coloring sheets that accompany it.
Walk to: Enjoy Four Seasons Hotel Seattle's excellent location near Pike Place Market, Seattle Art Museum, Seattle waterfront, the Great Wheel, shopping, theater, music and more. Book the Space Needle VIP Experience for that truly OMG moment. Your family will tour the iconic monument an hour before it opens to the public with a private photographer capturing every WOW. Breakfast bites and coffee included.
Don't miss: Make room for everyone with 30% off a second guest room when booking two nights at Four Seasons Hotel Seattle, 25% off 60 day advance purchase or third night free when booking two nights. Restrictions apply.
99 Union St. Seattle, WA 98101 206-749-7000 Online: fourseasons.com
Fairmont Olympic Hotel
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The historic Fairmont Olympic Hotel is so fancy it will make the littles feel like they're Eloise living at the Plaza. It wouldn't be spring break without pool time, and the gigantic indoor pool delivers, with plenty of floaties and pool toys. Note: The renovation currently underway won't affect your fun, per the hotel concierge.
Stay: Check out the locals-only Resident's Rate for a whopping 20% off your stay with ID.
Good Eats: The Fairmont’s Shuckers Oyster Bar restaurant offers a tasty Kid's Menu. Even better, kids five and under eat for free! Nearby Sweet Iron Waffle Bar has waffles to please any kid, young and old, while Potbelly Sandwich Shop offers warm, grilled namesakes.
Walk To: The Seattle Public Library has a gigantic children’s section and fun events every week. The Seattle Waterfront, Seattle Great Wheel, Olympic Sculpture Park, Seattle Aquarium, Seattle Art Museum, Pike Place Market and Pioneer Square, are all a short hop, skip, Link, Lyft, or walk away.
Don’t Miss: When making your reservation, ask for special kids' bath amenities. They will have tiny bath robes, special products and fun kids' stuff waiting in the rooms.
411 University St. Seattle, WA 98101 206-621-1700 Online: fairmont.com
Kimpton Hotel Monaco Seattle
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The Kimpton Hotel Monaco Seattle might seem too glam for the fam but it's not: It's fun for the fam! Upon checking in, curious kiddos receive an adventure map to go exploring. The lobby library loans out kid-friendly bedtime stories. Upon request, Land of Nod teepees and play tents will be delivered to the room, and custom lunch pails with activities, snacks, and gum are also available. These fun extras are also freebies! The venue lies just steps away from major sights and sporting events, so grab your two legged and four legged creatures and set off an urban adventure.
Stay: Kings, queens and suites are available. All rooms come complete with wifi, pillow top beds, and flat screen TVs. Check online for hotel promotions—they offer a Northwest resident rate.
Good Eats: The hotel’s restaurant Outlier offers seasonally-driven global fare such as Seafood Laksa and Duck Bolognese, as well as brick oven pizzas for sharing. The restaurant has a back patio space, perfect for dining out during warm spring days. The Kid's Menu includes choices so tasty you’re going to wish you were under 12.
Don’t Miss: If you're looking to see the city on two wheels, complimentary hotel bicycles are available to use during your stay. Hotel Monaco hosts an evening wine hour from 5 p.m. to 6 p.m. every day, showcasing local vineyards sp parents can sip and unwind, while sodas, snacks, and treats keep the minis at bay.
1101 Fourth Ave. Seattle, WA 98101 206-621-1770 Online: monaco-seattle.com
Embassy Suites by Hilton
Nestled in the Pioneer Square neighborhood, the Embassy Suites by Hilton Seattle sits right next door to the King Street Station and just steps away from CenturyLink Field. Families traveling into the city via Link light rail, car, or ferry will find the hotel’s convenient location a major perk along with its proximity to some of the city’s top tourist attractions. Access the Seattle Great Wheel, Seattle Aquarium, Pike Place Market and Seattle Art Museum, along with a plethora of restaurants, eateries, and specialty shops all within one mile of the hotel.
Stay: The Embassy Suites by Hilton Seattle is composed of two glass towers, boasting ahh-mazing views of downtown Seattle and Elliott Bay. The spacious two room suites--perfect for a family of four--each feature a separate living area, private bedroom, and a mini kitchen. Each room features an Amazon Echo so your kids can ask for additional towels, room service, or the soundtrack to Frozen 2. If you’re hoping to take in the city’s gorgeous views from your room, be sure to upgrade to a premium suite or go big and book an exclusive Embassador suite on the top floor.
Good Eats: Each morning, families can enjoy a free made-to-order breakfast in the hotel's second floor dining hall. In the evenings, families can take advantage of complimentary drinks and snacks at the hotel’s evening reception inside Zephyr Bar. Bring the whole crew into Zephyr between 5:30 p.m.-7:30 p.m. (it’s 100% kid-friendly) and let them nosh on tasty snacks and drinks while you enjoy an assortment of Northwest-inspired wine, beer, and craft cocktails. For another easy, tasty option walk down the block to Cone & Steiner for yummy sandwiches, local brews, and any sundries you need. For late owls or early risers, Seattle institution 13 Coins is located in the hotel's lobby. 24 hour breakfast, lunch or dinner is just an elevator ride away.
Walk To: It's Sounders season and the hotel could only be closer if it was on the pitch. So why not take in a game? Go Sounders! Or march the kiddies to the Seattle waterfront with stops at the Seattle Great Wheel, Pirate’s Plunder, Old Curiosity Shop, Wings Over Washington, Seattle Aquarium and Olympic Sculpture Park. Then, venture to Magic Mouse Toys in Pioneer Square, Pike Place Market, and Seattle Public Library. Make your way over to the Seattle Center to explore the International Fountain, Artists at Play playground, Seattle Children's Theater, Pacific Science Center and MoPOP. Want to see a bit more of the city from the water? Argosy Cruises on Pier 69 offers daily cruises along Elliott Bay and excursions to Tillicum Village.
Don’t Miss: If the weather cooperates, the outdoor rooftop deck with killer views of the Seattle skyline and Elliott Bay will not disappoint.
Embassy Suites by Hilton Pioneer Square 255 S. King. St. Seattle, WA 98104 Reservations: 206-859-4400 Online: embassysuites.com
Hyatt Regency Lake Washington
Courtesy of Shubha Tirumale Photography
Stay: If the Hyatt Regency Lake Washington didn't exist, staycation would invent it. Upon entering the welcoming lobby, the lake view and Seattle skyline seem to say "Leave it all behind." Grab a chair on the outdoor patio and start relaxing while the kids splash and play. Be sure to pre-order the Kids Glamping Package for $40. Well worth the delight in their eyes when the room is opened and a teepee replete with cozy pillows, soft blankets and S'mores plates greet them. Book a suite to give the group a play room, and pack swim suits and a favorite floatie for the indoor pool and hot tub.
Good Eats: Water's Table, the on site restaurant, masters the art of fine dining alongside family feasting. The kids cookie decorating option is a creative way to entertain fidgety diners--it's complimentary so pre-order with ease. There is also a 24 hour-market available for last minute snacks, souvenirs and goodies.
Walk To: Bordering the hotel is a wonderful playground within the 57-acre Gene Coulon Memorial Beach Park.
Don't Miss: Nearby Skykart Indoor Racing Center, Henry Moses Aquatic Center and the Museum of Flight make stimulating field trips and Woodinville wine country is lovely for more adult group entertainment.
1053 Lake Washington Blvd. N. Renton, WA 98056 425-203-1234 Online: hyatt.com
Whether you’re looking for brand new ways to improve your family’s health or you’re already a healthy bunch, it’s never too early or too late to add some new ideas into your repertoire. Health is a journey, and different techniques will work for different people and families better than others. Whether you have little ones who are hardly old enough to toddle or you’re chasing after growing tweens and teens, getting healthy is all about finding the methods that work for all of you.
There are so many health hacks out there for those interested in living a more conscious life, whatever that looks like in your household. While of course, if you find yourself or any of your kids in a medical quandary or serious emergency, you should head to the doctor’s office or hospital immediately, there’s no reason why you can’t use little tips and tricks to improve your health before that happens! If you’re on the hunt for the best hacks around, here are some amazing ways you can make room for a little more healthy living in your family.
1. Go On Walks Together
Going on walks is one of the best ways to get in a bit of exercise while you spend quality time together. Since it’s a fun and leisurely activity, you almost don’t think of it as exercise, even though it definitely is. While you give your mind a break, you can also move your body and get some sunlight.
2. Always Eat Breakfast
It can sometimes be tempting to skip breakfast, especially if you tend to be busy often and the whole family is running out the door in the mornings. However, eating breakfast can be more beneficial than meets the eye—in fact, eating a healthy breakfast encourages more balanced choices throughout the rest of the day. So even if you eat something small, this one is a hack that can go far.
3. Freeze Your Fruits & Veggies
For another money-saving and waste-cutting hack, this food trick is one of the best out there! If your family doesn’t always finish the foods you bring into the house, you don’t need to let them go to waste. In fact, you can simply save fresh produce for later by sticking them in the freezer. Simply cook up those veggies later and blend up the fruit for smoothies, and you can save both money and food!
4. Always Bring Snacks
Sometimes you don’t know when hunger is going to hit you, and that especially goes for kids! Rather than searching for junk food when you’re out and chowing down on snacks with sugar and preservatives, you can pack snacks to keep on you when you go out so you—and the kids—don’t go hungry or looking for junk food snacks.
5. Stay Hydrated
Just like keeping snacks on you so you and the kids don’t need to worry about finding junk food when you’re out, it’s also important to keep a water bottle on you so you can stay hydrated throughout the day. Water keeps you energized and feeling good in your body, so you shouldn’t forget to drink your water every day!
6. Make Time for Meditation
Meditation is a great way to take care of your mental health as a family. While some people do not realize that kids can meditate and benefit greatly from the process, teaching kids to meditate early on can aid in emotional development, communication and mental health—notably, the same benefits that most adults see, too. Even if you just carve out five minutes each day, meditating can be a great habit for your family.
8. Get On a Sleep Schedule
If you have kids in your house, you’re likely well aware of the kind of sleep that they need to grow and function. But everybody needs sleep—parents, kids and teens alike. Ideally, you should be getting at least eight hours of sleep each night, and one of the best ways to do that is by getting on a sleep schedule. Yes, a set bedtime for you and the kids!
Health Hacks for Your Family
There are so many ways to feel a bit healthier in your household, and it’s all about finding the ones that work with you and running with them. From freezing fruits and veggies to developing healthy sleep habits, there are so many choices for turning your home into a healthy space for everyone there. Do you have any favorite health tips you swear by?
Kara Reynolds is the Editor-in-Chief and founder of Momish Magazine. A mom of four and matriarch to her big blended family, Kara wants nothing more than to normalize differences in family structures. She enjoys peeing alone, pancakes, and pinot noir - but not at the same time.
There’s so much to love about multigenerational travel with your extended family. It’s a time when grandparents and grandkids can bond, parents can get the occasional break, and everyone can explore the world together all while on a family vacation.
There are also some specific challenges that come from family trips that include older and younger family members in the same group, though. And sandwich-generation parents would do well to adjust expectations when it comes to traveling with older relatives and children. With COVID-19 vaccines soon to be widely available in the U.S., more and more multigenerational families will finally be able to take a long-awaited trip together again. If that includes your family, here are four key secrets for traveling with grandparents. Ignore them at your peril.
1. Work with Different Ages & Different Interests.
It’s okay that your kids’ and your parents’ interests don’t align perfectly. On a well-balanced family vacation, there’s room for smaller groups of people to break off and do the things that interest them. That’s a long way of saying: Don’t make your toddler sit through the three-hour meal your parents have booked at a nice restaurant (it’s going to disappoint everyone), and don’t force your parents to spend the day horseback riding at a dude ranch (unless they want to, in which case, they are heroes). The point isn’t to do everything together, it’s to be able to come back together as a whole family for quality time and fun activities that suit the whole crowd, from young children to teens to adults.
2. Respect Individual Needs. Some people need naps (both young and old). Some simply can’t walk for miles (again, both young and old). Others just need a little downtime now and then to recharge and read a good book. There are all sorts of physical limitations that kids, especially young kids, and grandparents, particularly older grandparents, bring with them on a multigenerational trip. To expect everyone to keep up with the fittest members of the family is unrealistic. Instead, cut everyone some slack when it’s time for group activities and aim for the achievable. Your entire family will be happier.
3. Embrace a Slower Pace. The little ones and oldest members of your extended family tend to need a little more time to recharge than the rest of us. Rather than seeing that as a burden, think about it as a lesson for us all to slow down and enjoy a little more unstructured, unscheduled vacation time. Not only will you make room for everyone to be on their best behavior the rest of the time, but you also create opportunities for spontaneous connection that come out of being relaxed, on vacation, and with the people you love.
4. Choose a Trip the Entire Family Will Love. Some family-friendly destinations are custom-made for multigenerational travel. We’re looking at you, national parks, and national park lodges. You too, Walt Disney World. And don’t forget a family-friendly cruise ship, or all-inclusive resorts—especially resorts with a kids club.
Look for destinations that not only cater to families with little ones but ones that offer something for the entire family—from young children and teenagers to parents and grandparents (not to mention aunts and uncles on an extended family vacation). In other words, think of it this way—a multigenerational family vacation is a lot like real estate: location matters. A lot.
We all know how it is, kids outgrow their bikes in what seems like an instant and you are shopping for the next size. We wanted to spread the word to Bay Area parents about Community Bikes in Santa Rosa as they are currently inundated with kids bikes that need to go now. You can get a barely-used ride at a great price. Read on for the full scoop!
Community Bikes is a reuse and repair training program that takes donated bikes, tunes them up and sells them to parents like you. Because of the pandemic, parents have been donating lots of bikes when they went up in size. Community Bikes currently has an overstock of kids bikes from balance bikes all the way up to 20-inch big kid bikes (and adult sizes, too!).
If these bikes aren’t sold, they have to be donate for scrap to make room for new donations.
Their current stock includes brands like Trek, Schwinn, Navarro, Magna and Specialized. Prices range from $30-120 (with deals to be made!) so you can get a sweet deal on a sweet bike.
Last Sunday, I was super motivated to clean and organize all of the toys! I have really been wanting to do this before Christmas. Parents, do you ever get overwhelmed by all of the toys, clutter, and those pesky little broken pieces everywhere?
I like cleanliness, organization and things just being put away. Of course, with three little boys, I have learned to live with it, their mess that is. The boys do put away toys every night before bed but they have not been organized and put in their proper place every time. (Plus, they have a Daddy who may be the messiest of them all…) So, I took four hours straight to get the toys where they needed to be and also many large piles of items to get rid of by either donating or just trash. We are donating baby toys and things in good condition that need a new home in order to make room for the new things that they may be getting for Christmas. We are trashing or recycling the broken things, the very old puzzles, and other items that have a million little pieces—half of which are missing. I am also trashing or donating any free and cheap things they got over the years that are never played with any longer such as happy meal toys.
I will share a lot of what I have done to get the toys in order but today I am concentrating on the organization of LEGOS specifically. Check out my Instagram page where I’ve saved everything in my stories under the highlight “Organization.”
It may seem very simple, just sort by color, but as a Mom to three LEGO-loving boys, I have learned a lot about precisely how to best keep them organized for good.
Here are my tips for parents helping to sort and store their children’s’ LEGOS.
Assess what you have. Bring them all to one common area where you can look everything over and see all of it together.
Find appropriate storage. We have a small tool organizer from Akro Mills. I highly recommend this one. It was Hunter’s favorite Christmas gift last year, not kidding! He is in 1st grade and loves organization like his Mama. We also have a tall stand-up drawerfor larger completed pieces and all of the manuals that come with LEGO sets.
When assessing and sorting, you just have to start somewhere. I took the biggest pieces out—things that were built or half-built and set them aside for the larger stand-up drawer.
Next, sort by color. Start with what you have the most of. For us, it was black and gray. Ask for help here, Hunter (7) and Deacon (5, almost 6) were helpers. Wyatt (2) was not into it. Many hands make light work!
Also, make separate piles for things that are not LEGOS bricks such as LEGO people, windows/doors, windshields, tires, and so forth. These things can have their own drawer.
Do not waste your time taking pieces apart. Some things have 5-10 small Legos put together. This may be something they are working on and so I just put it in the color drawer that it is mostly.
Now you can pull out the drawers and put them on the floor or table when ready to play. Keep the built pieces in the larger storage container and then encourage them to sort and clean up when done with the LEGOS for the day. Eventually, they will get into the habit and will be doing this on their own.
Use the LEGO plates for building! This will help to keep what they are building and so it won’t break or get destroyed. (LEGO plates can be pricey but also make a great Christmas gift.) I do not personally recommend off-brand, it is a different quality.
This will be a constant job but it will help in the end. My boys are so happy to have it organized because it helps them to play and build more easily for years to come.
This is not for 3-year-olds (or younger). Wyatt is ready to destroy everything I have done. It won’t be worth your time and energy for them to just dump out all of the nicely organized containers. If you have a young one, keep your older kids’ nicely organized LEGOS out of their reach!
Anyway, I bet you never knew so much went into keeping LEGOS! But when you are a Mom to three boys who happen to all love building, you learn a few things along the way. I remember spending countless hours with my brother and friends at our babysitters playing with LEGOS, just building for hours upon hours. Our family loves them so much and is a great break from screen time and especially in the wintertime when they may not be able to play outdoors. Getting organized now will help you to feel ready for all of those holiday and Christmas gifts!
I always love to hear from you, if you have more tips to share, please do!
Located in Bloomington, Indiana I am a wife, full-time working Mom to 3 boys, a part-time graduate student & a writer. I am also an optimist, problem solver, peacemaker, gardener, runner and a crazy-busy mom just trying to enjoy each moment. I truly value my friends, family and my mommy tribe.
Make room under your tree. The iconic Reese’s brand is bringing you some fun new offerings for the holiday season. If you love peanut butter and chocolate, these items are the perfect festive treat.
Reese’s White Elephant
There are no surprises here. This is a White Elephant gift that everyone will vie for. This new Reese’s product takes the classic peanut butter filling you love, wraps it in white crème and molds it into an unmistakable shape perfect for any holiday party. The box even features a “To and From” label so there is no need to wrap it. The Reese’s White Elephant will be available nationwide, for a limited time, in a 6 oz. box.
Reese’s Peanut Butter Nutcrackers
Make room under your tree because Reese’s Peanut Butter Nutcrackers are coming. This new festive look will be available for a limited time, in 10 and 7.8 ounce bags.
Reese’s Peanut Butter Mystery Shapes
The elves have been busy. Reese’s Mystery Shapes are returning to the holiday lineup this year. No matter which shape you get, you are guaranteed that perfect ratio of peanut butter and chocolate. These sweet shapes will be available nationwide, for a limited time, in standard 10.8 and 7.8 ounce bags.
Reese’s Miniatures Mega Cane
Reese’s is introducing its longest holiday candy yet. Perfect for sharing or for enjoying all to yourself, this nearly 2-foot long candy cane is packed with Reese’s Peanut Butter Miniatures wrapped in gold, green and red foils. The canes will be available nationwide, for a limited time.
Scrolling through Instagram you’ll find a vast assortment of accounts to engage with. Some will capture your heart while others will make you think. Here are 12 inspiring Black moms you should connect with and follow now.
Kelsey Adams
New mom and traveling maven takes her followers on a real and raw look at postpartum and body positivity.
NJ mom to #jiggyandjuju, Zumba queen and go to for quick and easy 30 minute meals. She just left city life for a backyard and beautiful house in suburbs.
Twin mama + one is an award winning author, children’s clothing designer and lifestyle blogger. She’s the ultimate guide for creating healthy, happy and fun bonding between siblings.
Are you noticing that everyone around you seems to have taken two steps back? Your baby used to sleep through the night, your preschooler used to be potty trained, your teenager used to be less sassy, you used to get along with your spouse, but enter COVID-19, and all that seems to have changed. At least for now.
What’s going on? Why do kids and adults regress (go back to old ways), during times of stress? Perhaps we are subconsciously asking to be cared for in a needed way. It’s like wanting to wrap up in a blanket, huddled in the fetal position.
Maturity requires increased inward “management” by the frontal cortex to ensure our behaviors comply with societal expectations and what we already know. During times of stress, all this goes out the window and we start acting more by instinct. This process can be physiologically explained in terms of blood flow changes in the brain during stress response system activation, but also, regressive behavior “works”—it serves an important purpose. Even though regressive behaviors can be problematic, our subconscious has its own wisdom. Our kids whine or cry, our teenager throws a tantrum, our potty-trained child has an accident, and we pay attention! Maybe this is partly what our kids are asking for right now. But they don’t just need our attention, but the inward emotions are asking for their attention and need to be addressed.
So what do we do?
First of all, know this is temporary. And common.
Also, consider the following suggestions:
1. Look for the message behind the emotion or the behavior and respond to that. For example, if your child has started wetting the bed again, instead of going on a tirade asking your child why in the world they can’t be dry anymore, sit down with them and say something like this: “I noticed you haven’t been dry the past couple nights even though it’s something you are really good at. It’s okay. Sometimes this happens when there’s extra stress hanging around like there is with this pandemic. What are some things you’re worried about right now?”
2. Teach your kids (and keep in mind yourself) that emotions are messages. If we can acknowledge our feelings with kindness and non-judgment, we can get to the root of what’s needed and solve what needs to be solved.
3. Communicate with your kids. Ask them what they know about coronavirus and what they want to know about it. Ask them what they’re specifically worried about. Share information and news in a developmentally appropriate way. On my website, I list some of my favorite resources to teach kids about coronavirus.
4. Support your child and take time to connect with them in a meaningful way. According to a large study about toxic stress in childhood, the most powerful buffer that improved physical and emotional health outcomes for kids was the presence of a supportive, caring adult. Even though it may feel that options for outings are limited, sharing the time is more important than the specifics of the activity. While maintaining social distancing recommendations, take a walk, have a patio picnic, watch a movie together.
5. Allow yourself to have boundaries too. Just because your child is stressed, doesn’t mean you have to let them sleep in your bed every night if you don’t want to. Meet your children’s needs in ways that honor your own. As parents we do find ourselves making various accommodations based on our children’s needs–this is part of parenthood. But when those accommodations cross important personal lines (which are individual to each parent), the cost outweighs the benefit. Stress is added to the system, rather than removed. To safeguard against these “costly accommodations,” we need to pay attention to our inward responses. If an important boundary has been crossed, we may need to speak up and creatively seek a new solution that meets our child’s needs as well as our own.
6. Try yoga. Really. Experts such as psychiatrist Bessel van der Kolk have taught us that we hold stress in our bodies, not just our minds. This is especially true for kids, who have less sophisticated ability to communicate complex emotions through words. Yoga can transition us from one emotional state to another through physical movement. Certain poses evoke a sense of calm, others evoke a sense of power.
7. Learn and practice mindful self-compassion. I teach my clients to use the reflective “NMLK” exercise. The acronym comes from a reflected segment of the alphabet. N is for “notice” the emotion, M is for “make room” for it, L is for “locate” the feeling in your body and “look deeper” to gain insight about it, and K is for respond with “kindness.” Dr. Tara Brach teaches a similar practice but uses the acronym “RAIN.” She has several free meditations and even a free half-day virtual retreat.
Parents, keep up the great work. You have the hardest but most amazing job on the planet. This too shall pass!
For more about behavioral stress and kids, check out Dr. Mary Wilde and connect with her on Instagram.
I am an integrative pediatrician, author and mom of 8. I am the owner of Imagine Pediatrics Behavioral Health and Wellness and creator of the Overcoming Childhood Anxiety online courses and the Compassion Parenting program. I love singing, hiking and eating ice cream! Learn more at drmarywilde.com.
You need an escape. Grandparents are coming. Or maybe friends with kids are arriving. Whatever the reason, these kid-friendly hotels offer perks and family-friendly festivities for you and your crew. Find your perfect place to stay and play from our picks below.
Hyatt Regency Lake Washington
Julietta Skoog
If the Hyatt Regency Lake Washington was a painting, the title would be "Chillin' by the Lake". Upon entering the vast but welcoming lobby, the lake view and Seattle skyline seem to envelop the back of the hotel, beckoning guests to grab a chair on the outdoor patio and let the relaxation begin. Opened in 2017, this hotel is already a neighborhood favorite and community staple. Brimming with goodies for the little ones, families can check in knowing their vacation or staycation will be spectacular. The safety first, faux-mini fire pit sets the mood and s'mores are just as tasty without the melted chocolate option. Grab pool toys and swimsuits for year-round indoor pool and hot tub splashing, or for lake side leisure in the warmer months. Water's Table is highly recommended as it masters the art of fine dining alongside family feasting. Also recommended to please carnivores is the Akaushi Tomahawk Ribeye, a platter of exquisitely cooked aged marbled beef perfect for groups sharing.
Can't-miss kid perks: Pre-order the Kids Glamping Package for $40. Well worth the delight in their eyes when they open the door and a tepee, replete with cozy pillows, soft blankets and s'mores plate greets them. The kid’s cookie decorating option is a creative way to entertain fidgety diners - it's complimentary so pre-order with ease.
Good to know: Hyatt Regency Lake Washington at Seattle's Southport is conveniently located near Skykart Indoor Racing Center, Henry Moses Aquatic Center and the Museum of Flight for more group entertainment
1053 Lake Washington Blvd N. Renton, WA 98056 425-203-1234 Online: hyatt.com
Kimpton Alexis Hotel
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Seattle is synonymous with great music and downtown Seattle still plays that '90s beat if you listen carefully. The Kimpton Alexis Hotel cherishes its convenient downtown location and proudly displays art that hints to the Emerald City's iconic music scene. Good thing the rooms aren't from that era. The recent $14-million guest room renovation blends the backdrop of the Pacific Northwest with elegant simplicity—the colors seem to flow in from the sky, sound and evergreen trees. Families can experience this and more with the Junior Suite, an 825-square-foot room with elevated living space plus an extra TV and sofa. Plus, who doesn't love dress up fairy wings, dinosaur play sets, giant checkerboard and checkers, movie trivia and books that are among the available delights. For the budding photographer, parents can rent a mini Polaroid camera and film for eight hours of artistic exploration. Whatever you choose, the experience will be stylish and entertaining for the whole fam.
Can't-miss kid perks: Take it up a notch with on-demand packages for kids. The Movie Night Package ($75) delivers a popcorn machine and candy bars for a full theatrical experience. Or cozy up with the Hot Cocoa Bar ($32) that provides cocoa mix, house made marshmallows, flavored syrups, whipped cream, and chocolate shavings, plus a bonus for adults: add booze for an additional $9/person. The Kids Mystery Box ($25) offers toys and fun for three age ranges: 3-5, 6-9 & 10-12.
1007 1st Ave. Seattle, WA 98104 206-624-4844 Online: alexishotel.com
Westin Seattle
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The Westin Seattle loves to welcome families and has incorporated that into their slogans. Wonder Awaits With Westin Family means all guests should leave feeling better than when they arrived, and kids are no exception. Westin Family programs were designed to ignite curiosity and creativity. In order to encourage this, the Westin Family Package offers up to 50% off a second room with connecting rooms based on availability. Bring the in-laws, grandparents and aunties, bring ‘em all! Plus, at check-in, children are welcomed with a Westin Family Travel Journal and a local activity guide full of engaging activities and plenty of pages for kids to jot down their findings. Grab the coloring pencils and pens and head out to the Space Needle, Chihuly Garden and Glass and the Seattle Center, as all those sights are right in the Westin's backyard.
Can't-miss kid perks: Make meal times green (as in saving) because kids eat for free from the Westin Eat Well Menu for Kids, with the purchase of an adult entrée. Thanks to expert input from doctors, dentists and chefs at SuperChefs™, the options on the Westin Eat Well Menu for Kids are both delicious and nutritious. Happy parents, happy kids.
1900 5th Ave. Seattle, WA 98101 206-728-1000 Online: marriott.com
Four Seasons Hotel Seattle
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Four Seasons Hotel Seattle presents its artistic side and its delicious side right in the lobby when guests check in. The property has the most extensive collection of Pacific Northwest artwork outside of a museum or gallery, and features pieces of art from the '40s and '50s, selected and organized by Virginia Wright, Seattle’s most prominent arts patron and collector. Even better, afternoon treats are served in the lobby, from house made s’mores and ice cream cupcakes, to caramel apples and macarons every day after 3 p.m. What child wouldn't love a welcome snack while parents peruse fine art? At meal time, head to the in-house, upscale Goldfinch. The kids' menu is as much fun as the LEGO stacking utensils and coloring sheets that accompany it. After dining take advantage of the heated outdoor pool, available year-round, or the babysitting option for an additional fee. Then it’s time to enjoy Four Seasons Hotel Seattle's excellent location near Pike Place Market, shopping, theater, music and more. Wanna escape? The Family Getaway special offer is available: Mar. 14–Apr. 13, 2020.
Can't-miss kid perks: Make kids feel extra special with an age-appropriate welcome gift. Let the staff know your munchkins' ages so they can enjoy fun treats like cookies & milk for tiny tots or root beer & popcorn for tweens. Kid-sized robes and slippers are also available, as are cribs, baby toiletries and diaper genies. Whew! That makes packing easier. Add in other convenient touches like step stools in the bathroom so kids can reach the sink and bath toys for the deep soaking tubs and you've got a perfect home-away-from-home getaway.
Insider tip: Make room for everyone with 30% off a second guest room when booking two nights at Four Seasons Hotel Seattle.
99 Union St. Seattle, WA 98101 206-749-7000 Online: fourseasons.com
Fairmont Olympic Seattle
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Families know that the Fairmont Olympic Seattle is the place to go for holiday festivity. Year-round the hotel lobby is decorated to the hilt with seasonal attire that provides hours of wonder and awe for small tots, juniors and the young at heart. This year the Fairmont Olympic Seattle will undergo a massive renovation with completion planned for summer 2020, welcoming a fully transformed lobby that will present a new social experience for guests and locals, introduce a new bar, and debut a new restaurant. In the meantime, take advantage of the Stay Longer deal with 25% off one to two nights, and 30% off of three or more night stays. The whole gang will feel pampered, while well-designed amenities for families will make the kids feel at home. After tucking them in for the night, arrange for a babysitter through the concierge service then hit the town and enjoy Seattle's burgeoning cocktail scene. Adults only. Check in to check out the transformation of one of Seattle's most renowned hotels.
Can't-miss kid perks: It's touches like children's menus that are available in the restaurants and via in-room dining that make this a great stay for families. Plus, tiny ones under five eat for free at Shuckers Restaurant. Kids' bathrobes and no-tear shampoo highlight the amenities that make everyone feel good about their stay.
411 University St. Seattle, WA 98101 206-621-1700 Online: fairmont.com
Kimpton Hotel Monaco Seattle
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Kimpton Hotel Monaco Seattle boasts a jaw-dropping lobby as well as a dramatic, yet playful, ambiance throughout the hotel. The glitter and glam of the Greek-inspired meets Art Deco vibe must be seen to be appreciated. All the glamour could feel too stuffy, but Kimpton Hotel Monaco Seattle is an all-ages favorite. The property is pet-friendly, which allows parents to look like a superhero to Fido or Fluffy as well. The venue lies just steps away from major sights and sporting events, so grab your two-legged and four-legged creatures and set off on an urban adventure. Before you head out, be sure to ask for a custom lunch pail with activities, snacks and gum. This no-charge extra will help make the most of your day.
Can't-miss kid perks: We're crushing hard on generous (and complimentary) adds that let parents look like heroes without breaking the bank. It all starts with an adventure map to explore the best kid-friendly and free sights. The lending library in the lobby bursts with bedtime stories, and upon request, Land of Nod tepees and play tents will be delivered to the room for more magic-making at bedtime.
Tacoma is a hidden gem that surprises and delights. Just a quick jaunt down the freeway, Tacoma awaits, filled with family-friendly fun and the kind of artistic edge Seattle families love. This is a wonderful staycation option and an excellent educational trip for growing minds. Hotel Murano has museum-worthy glass art on each floor. Grab an adult bevvy and let the kids to do what they have always wanted to do: push every button in the elevator. The multi-level museum-quality glass display truly astounds. Book the Hey There, Hot Shop package and learn the art of glass-blowing to take home some art of your own making. Hotel Murano is just a hop, skip and a jump away from the Children’s Museum of Tacoma, the only pay-as-you-will museum of its kind in the United States. And the Pacific Seas Aquarium at Point Defiance Zoo & Aquarium is just a year old, so amaze the kiddos and check out the juvenile hammerhead sharks. Whatever you and your crew decide to explore, The Mountain City Sea Attraction Pass was designed with families in mind. It's the best way to see the main attractions in Tacoma and Pierce County at a 50% discount on admission. "You'll Like Tacoma" is this city's slogan, but we think, "You'll Love Tacoma" is more like it.
Can't-miss kid perks: With the touch of a button kids can get a pint of hand-crafted ice cream delivered to the room, from local fave Ice Cream Social.
Insider tip: Use the family discount promo code TACOMA or book through this link for an exclusive discount.
Pro tip: February is Seattle Museum Month and that means big savings (50% off admission) for guests staying at these hotels (with the exception of Hyatt Regency Lake Washington & Hotel Murano) when they visit Seattle-area museums. With over 40 participating museums, there’s every reason to stay and play now. Think of it as the excuse you need to dive into Octopus Week at the Seattle Aquarium, visit the new Burke or get messy at KIDIMU. The full calendar of events has all you need to plan your stay.
