The Lunar New Year begins Sunday January 22 and kicks off 15 days of colorful celebrations perfect for family fun
The Chinese New Year begins on January 22nd and there are family-friendly Lunar New Year celebrations of Year of the Rabbit all over the city! Immerse your kids in Asian culture at a variety of local festivals and events from downtown San Diego to Disney’s California Adventure. From lion dancing and colorful costumes to amazing entertainers and delicious Asian food, here’s the scoop on where to celebrate Chinese New Year in San Diego.
What is Year of the Rabbit & What Does the Year of the Rabbit Mean?
The Chinese zodiac relates each year to an animal, for a cycle of 12 years. Chinese New Year commences on January 22, 2023, which marks the beginning of Year of the Rabbit. The Rabbit is the luckiest of the Chinese zodiac signs and with it, is expected to bring prosperity, hope and calm.
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Lunar New Year Celebration: Lion Dancers
Jan. 20: Visit the library for this amazing cultural experience of watching traditional lion dancing with stunts and music. Event details.
San Diego Lunar New Year Festival
Jan. 20-23: Celebrate Lunar New Year at this epic festival which features dragon and lion dances, firecrackers, games, food and more. It's a festive environment you don't want to miss. Event times vary by day. Event details.
Lunar New Year Celebration at Disney California Adventure
Jan. 20-Feb. 15: Disney California Adventure Park ushers in a joyous tribute to Chinese, Korean and Vietnamese cultures with a Lunar New Year celebration that welcomes the Year of the Rabbit. This multicultural extravaganza will include highlights like Mulan’s New Year Procession, Hurry Home – a Lunar New Year Celebration, live holiday entertainment at the Paradise Garden Bandstand, a Sip and Savor Pass for Lunar New Year marketplaces, special appearances by popular Disney characters dressed in colorful attire, innovative menus with Asian cuisine, commemorative merchandise, kid-friendly crafts and activities, and festive décor. Event details.
Jan. 21: This Chinese Lunar New Year festival will include folk and traditional performances, arts and cultural exhibitions, lion dances and firecrackers, and plenty of family fun activities for the kids. More importantly, the festival is inclusive, pet friendly, and free with no admission cost. Event details.
Crafting for Kids: Chinese New Year Drums
Jan. 23: It's the Year of the Rabbit! Learn about Chinese New Year while making a traditional drum used in Chinese New Year celebrations. Event details.
Jan. 27-29: San Diego Tet Festival 2023 celebrates Year of the Rabbit, attracting more than 25,000 people every year from all over the city. This 3-day celebration features free admission, a number of new attractions, activities, games, food and live entertainment, including, but not limited to, A-list Vietnamese singers and performers, lion dancing, firecrackers, the Miss Vietnam of San Diego pageant, Step-Up Dance and Golden Voice. Event details.
Crafting Culture: Traditions of the Chinese Lunar New Year
Jan. 28: Learn the tale of how the Chinese zodiac came to be! We will also discuss the Chinese tradition of having a New Year’s eve dinner, placing a couplet at the door, using fire-crackers, and saying auspicious phrases during Chinese New Year period. Event details.
40th Annual San Diego Chinese New Year Fair
Feb. 4-5: The 40th Annual San Diego Chinese New Year Fair is coming! Celebrate the Year of the Rabbit with 15,000 of your closest friends on the corner of 3rd Ave. and J St. in downtown San Diego. The fair will go on, rain or shine. There will be traditional and cultural entertainment all day long on both days, lion dances, kung fu, traditional instruments, classic Chinese dances, and so much more, so don't miss out! You'll also enjoy food, family-friendly entertainment, crafts for kids and a dragon dance! Event details.
Here’s what to do when your child gets three of the same toy for Christmas
Wouldn’t it be great if everyone’s holiday resembled a scene depicted in a Norman Rockwell painting? It’s just not realistic—and where’s the fun in that, anyway? Smiles and tantrums, calm and kerfuffles, serenity, and debacles are all the things that make the holidays unpredictable and beautiful. Our holiday survival guide includes a list of possible snafus and tips to help you keep your cool.
Imagine you’re standing in the line of melting children and anxious parents waiting to overpay for that annual snapshot with the mall Santa. It's your turn and suddenly one of your little angels develops an irrational fear of all things Santa. Mr. Claus props your kid up like a wet noodle as you’re looking for the nearest exit.
Holiday Survival Guide Tip: What's the problem here? A cheesy mall snapshot capturing a Level 4 toddler freakout and an obviously annoyed Santa is Instagram gold. Get the shot, dig out their favorite lovie you’ve stashed in the diaper bag, and smile because this is a picture you’ll treasure.
Possible Snafu: Gift Duplication
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An adult who receives a duplicate gift will proclaim their love of the item while discreetly digging through tissue paper in search of a gift receipt, careful to preserve any tags. Children, however, are prone to reactions anywhere on the spectrum of matter-of-a-fact “I already own this” proclamations to window-shattering, rolling-on-the-floor screaming fits.
Survival Tip: Never underestimate the value of role-playing. Prepare them for the possibility this could happen and coach them on ways to respond— "No matter what you receive, just say 'thank you" It's also a great time to remind them it’s the thought, not the gift, that counts. Play a fun role-playing game and simulate opening something they already own, allowing yourselves to get a little silly. Should the situation occur, it’ll be an amusing wink-and-nod secret between you.
Once the pine-scented dust has settled, post-holidays, you’re left with a mountain of toys and tchotchkes that need to find a resting place in your already-busting-at-the-seams home. Finding space for the 25 spider rings and 16 pencils accumulated at the school Halloween party drove you to tears, and now you need to find space for a life-sized panda bear, Barbie’s Beach House, and Ken’s midlife-crisis cherry red Corvette.
Holiday Survival Guide Tip: Resist the urge to meet the garbage man at the curb come trash collection day and adopt a one-in, one-out rule. A couple of weeks before Christmas, review your kid’s wish list with them and explain in order to receive, they need to give. Be prepared: They’re resourceful little boogers and will try to convince you they can find space for it all—even if it means shoving things under chairs, stacking items precariously, or throwing out their underpants to make room in a drawer. Donate gently loved but no longer wanted toys to a worthy local nonprofit organization.
Toy manufacturers seem to enjoy the idea of parents wrestling with a mini screwdriver to get battery compartments open. And they usually don’t even throw us a bone by giving us the first round of juice with a starter set of batteries. What do you do if it's Christmas Day, no stores are open and Johnny cleared out his closet to make room for a life-like dinosaur that walks, talks, transforms, and is slated to crush his little sister’s My Little Pony herd?
Survival Tip: Do yourself a favor and buy batteries in bulk before Santa makes his rounds. For the most part, you know what gifts they’re receiving, so research the batteries requirements and be sure to have them on hand. Throw a few extra in the cart for the unexpected gifts from the family. While you're at it, grab a toothpick-sized screwdriver the next time you're at the hardware store— you're going to need it.
Holiday euphoria has fueled a sudden burst of energy and you have an inexplicable urge to bake 15 different types of cookies and a fruit cake. After a quick ingredient review, you realize you're a ¼ tsp. of vanilla away from your destiny, but your little one is napping. Even if he wasn’t, you risk getting stuck in line behind the people clearing out the bottled water supply preparing for snowmageddon because they spotted a flake.
Holiday Survival Guide Tip: Stock up on baking essentials. Most ingredients required for baking have a long shelf life, so if it takes you until Easter to use them all, no biggie. You can also get simple ingredients and lots of staples delivered to your home fast by using a food delivery service such as Instacart.
Maybe before you were a parent it brought you great joy to buy the most annoying gift you could possibly find for a sibling's kids. Why not? You didn’t have to live with it and plus, when you were little your brother teased you relentlessly, so he totally deserved to lose partial hearing because you gifted his two-year-old cymbals. The day of reckoning is upon you—the gifts your kid receives will be big, they will be loud and they’re going to have more pieces than stars in the sky.
Survival Tip: We can't help you here. If you fired the first shots, you have no choice but to accept an annoying gift or two. After the scores have been settled, initiate a peace treaty so no one needs to live in fear of what might be under the tree. Discuss parameters for gifts and work together to complete wish lists. If they break the treaty, you are well within your rights to unleash a wrath that can only be calmed by buying your niece or nephew a rambunctious puppy or a matching drum set for those cymbals.
Winter is coming, which means we’re daydreaming about chairlift rides and carving lines. If you’re hoping to get your kiddos excited about powder days and ski slopes, we’ve rounded up the best skiing lessons in and around Seattle to help get your kids comfortable on their boards and sticks. Before long, your little skier will be yelling, “Pizza pie and French fries!” and bombing down the hill. You better get ready to keep up! Read on…these lessons are filling up fast!
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Summit at Snoqualmie
Meet the Mountain The Summit at Snoqualmie offers a variety of skiing lessons for every age and ability, and great terrain for beginners and experts alike. Easily reached by traveling up I-90 through Snoqualmie Pass, you won’t miss the sprawling slopes. Summit at Snoqualmie is the closest ski area to Seattle, only about 45 minutes if you hit good traffic. It’s a perfect place to get some practices, and when tantrums inevitably hit, the car ride home won’t be too long. There are four different ski areas, all with a different tagline and thousands of skiable acres to explore. Summit West is the place to learn. Summit Central has something for everyone. Summit East is a fun playground ready to be discovered. And “when you’re ready” for a challenge, hop on over to Alpental.
Ski School Scoop Winter programs for your little shredders sell out fast, but the good news is spring is just around the corner. Spring ski season offers great conditions to learn how to ski and snowboard and also gives little fingers and toes a bit of a reprieve from the chilly, wet weather. The snowpack is also at its highest, so falls can be like landing on a snowy pillow. It’s a great way to minimize meltdowns–fingers crossed.
Multi-week skiing lessons are open now for registration. If your little ones are just starting out, we got an inside tip to book Thunderbirds (ages 4-6) in March or Central6 for spring. The four-week sessions for Thunderbirds occur on Saturday and Sunday, and Spring Central6 is a six-week program filling up for the end for February. Just remember, for multi-week lessons, you will need a pass or ticket, as those aren’t included in the lesson price. Plus, students must provide their own gear, or rent gear, and purchase a lift ticket or season pass.
Insider tip: If you plan to rent equipment, Summit recommends renting take home rentals and bringing them back for multi-week lessons. It will save you from standing in rental lines and losing precious minutes on the slopes.
Daily Lessons Daily beginner lessons are tailored to meet your family’s unique needs and are offered to kiddos 4 & up. Booking is available online. Lessons are available at Summit Central and Summit West. Reservations are required, and they are in high demand and may sell out fast. We’re sensing a theme–book early! It’s a pretty popular place, especially on the weekends, so don’t fret about braving the crowds. Even if you can't get into a lesson, they have ample places to ride the magic carpets. It's a great way to learn!
Insider tip: Remember to reserve online or over the phone before loading the skis on the rack. Reservations must be made at least 48 hours before the lesson date and time. Weekends and holiday book-up early, so sign up in advance!
West Kids Club and Central Kids Corral Days: Daily, 9 a.m.-7 p.m. Tickets: $199/per person
While you’re there, check out snow tubing. All the equipment is provided for a slipping and sliding good time. You’ll definitely want to bring your snow pants, jackets and gloves though! But if you happen to forget something, they have retail shops you can peruse.
COVID Info: Masks are required in all indoor facilities. Social distancing is also recommended.
Meet the Mountain Get ready to learn to ski at one of the most majestic resorts in Washington. With expansive views of Mt. Rainier, kiddos will be awed. Starting on Thanksgiving Day and running through mid-March, Crystal Mountain offers skiing lessons for all ages and abilities, starting as young as 4 years old. Daily youth lessons, for kids ages 4-12, provide an opportunity for young skiers and riders to gain confidence on the slopes as well as make memories that will last a lifetime. Taught by passionate and experienced coaches, half-day and full-day lessons are available.
Ski School Scoop Your little skier and snowboarder will learn at a designated area at the base of the mountain, and their indoor meeting area helps keep kids active and engaged when they are not out on the snow. Younger children are typically grouped in groups of three. The littlest future Olympians need more hands-on support as they get used to their boots and boards, but class sizes for older kids, who are likely more experienced, are larger. For the full-day classes, lunch is included—so don’t worry about packing that PB&J. Kids also get hot cocoa. Yum! Parents can check their kids in 30 minutes before the resort opens (8:30 a.m. on weekdays and 8 a.m. on weekends.), so get there early! Plan to pick up your kids between 3 p.m. and 4 p.m., after your day of solo schussing. Don’t be surprised if they don’t want to leave—your kiddos will be having too much fun!
Insider tip: Gear rentals are available for all ages as well, so don’t worry if you don’t have tiny boots, bindings and skis. Crystal Mountain takes the hassle out of all your equipment needs.
Good to know: Multi-week lessons are no longer available for skiers, but programs for snowboarders are. Cost starts at $499/per person.
Group Lessons Hours: Half-day lessons, 10 a.m.-noon & 1-3 p.m.; Full-day lessons, 10 a.m.-3 p.m. Cost: $175/child for half-day; $225/child for full-day
There are also lots of fun activities to enjoy after class. If you’re looking to kick off your boots and enjoy the scenic views, don’t miss out on the gondola. And dinner at 6,800 feet (with a killer view) is always a hit. Grab a bite at Summit House, Washington’s highest elevation restaurant at the top.
COVID Info: Masks are required indoors for all guests, regardless of vaccination status. Masks must meet CDC guidelines—no single layer buffs or perforated masks. Masks are recommended in outdoor areas such as lift lines, walkways and the base area, but are not required.
Ski School Scoop The KOMO Kids Program is a longstanding tradition at Mt. Baker. Geared toward kids ages 7-15 years old, the ski program is split into four-week sessions, and kiddos ages 4 and up are divided into groups by ages and abilities. To asses your ability, Mt. Baker has a handy ability guideline so you can find the right lesson that's right for you and your family. The sessions are fun and focused on safety and learning.
KOMO Kids Program Dates: Jan. & Feb. Days & Hours: Sat. & Sun., 9-11 a.m. Cost: $145/per child
Daily Lessons Private daily lessons ($225/per person) are also available, which is great for one-on-one instruction. These lessons are for kiddos ages 7 and up at last about two hours. Your kiddos will get to try their skills on the beginner terrain and tow their way along to hone their ski and snowboard skills—hold on tight! Reservations are strongly encouraged, as walk-in lessons have limited availability.
Insider tip: There are lots of great lodging options nearby the mountain, but parking is very limited. If you’re hoping to get a prime parking spot, get to the mountain early, or come for an afternoon ski session. Weekdays are much quieter than weekends, so plan accordingly.
COVID Info: Facial coverings are required for everyone when indoors, regardless of vaccination status, unless actively eating or drinking. They're also strongly recommended outside, when physical distancing isn’t possible.
If slipping and sliding in the snow and frosty fingers and toes don’t sound like an ideal place to learn to ski, head on over to Bellevue. Mini Mountain isn’t like the other resorts included here. For starters, it's indoors. They have three rotating carpets that can help little skiers get comfortable on skis, load and unload from a chairlift and have fun, all while learning from instructors with more than 30 years of experience. No need to bring anything, which makes getting out the door super easy. The indoor facility helps set kids up for success so when they finally make it to the snowy peaks and majestic slopes, they are ready to go. Mini Mountain has a boot fitting area, lounge and an area for gear rental. An added bonus, parents can relax on comfy leather couches and watch as kiddos perfect their pizza pie.
Lessons The great news about Mini Mountain is that you don’t need snow to learn how to ski—you can practice year-round, and many people do! Weekend lessons are currently booked out through January, but they have lessons throughout the week. Each lesson is about 20 minutes long, and kiddos get one-on-one attention from an instructor. They are able to teach kiddos starting from when they start to walk, but most children who enroll in lessons are 2 and up. Signing up for classes is a breeze. Simply call or register online. No need to worry about brining anything easier—everything is provided. Just sit back and imagine hauling down a mountain with your little one in tow.
Meet the Mountain Whistler Blackcomb, located in Whistler British, Columbia, is a majestic winter wonderland. With areas specifically designed for families, Whistler Kids Snow School offers an incredible atmosphere for your Littles to learn to ski or snowboard. And the snow school is just one of many family-friendly adventures you can embark on while visiting the mountain. From outdoor ice skating to tubing, there are plenty of other things to do that will bring a smile to your kiddos’ faces. Plus, there are hundreds of shops and dining options—more than 150 restaurants catering to all tastes and appetites, and 200 shops that will delight your inner window-shopper. If you needed more reasons to book your next family vacation to Whistler, they also offer camps, childcare and babysitting services. So, if you need a little time away after a long day on the slopes, your little adventurers are in good hands.
In between ski lessons and epic après ski adventures, check out the Magic Castle on Blackcomb, the Tree Fort on Whistler and the Enchanted Forest. These play areas are great for families of little ones, and a perfect excuse to kick off your skis and explore the magical outdoor playgrounds. The Magic Castle is located on Blackcomb Mountain in the Children's Adventure Park. The Tree Fort is located on Whistler Mountain, near the Big Red Express chairlift.
Ski School Scoop If you’re looking for weekday, multi-day ski lessons, Whistler Kids Adventure Camp is a great option for your youngest little skiers and snowboarders, from 3 years old to 12 years old. Kids get to learn from the same instructor throughout the duration of the camp, and they will also make lots of friends in a program packed with events, themes and activities. The camp also includes a hot lunch and snacks. Kids will ski for a full five days with instructions, starting at 9 a.m. and ending at 3:15 p.m. Plan to drop them off between 8:30 and 8:45 a.m. and picking them between 3 and 3:15 p.m.—plenty of time for you to get in more than a few sweet runs on the mountain!
Where:Skiers Plaza, Whistler Village Cost: $1,255/child
Daily Lessons If you’re looking for less of a commitment than a week-long camp, Whistler offers teen group ski and snowboard lessons, child group ski and snowboard lessons and private lessons for families and children, which can all be booked in advance. Group lessons are a full-day excursion, meaning you’ll have lots of time on the mountain and ski runs. Private half-day lessons are also available. As spaces are limited, Whistler recommends booking well in advance to ensure you don’t miss out. By booking in advance, you’ll also get all the paperwork out of the way which will save you time at drop-off. Don’t forget to bring a helmet and also lots of layers. Nothing ruins a fun day on the slopes like cold fingers and toes.
Good to know: Children ages 6 & under ski for free. Tickets can be collected from a conveniently located ticket window in the village.
Insider tip: If you’re planning on renting equipment, Whistler Blackcomb makes it incredibly convenient. They even have complimentary delivery! If you want to make getting out the door a breeze, it’s recommended that you pick up equipment the day before. That way you won’t have to rush the first day of ski school.
More Whistler Magic If you’re looking for something to get your heart racing, look no further than Blackcomb Mountain’s bubly™ Tube Park. No equipment is required, but you may need to be a bit brave and ready for an exhilarating rush. It's open weekends and holidays from 10 a.m.-6 p.m. and from 11 a.m.-6 p.m. on week days.
COVID Info: Face coverings are required in indoor settings including restaurants, lodging properties, restrooms, retail and rental locations. Face coverings will not be required outdoors but are required in gondolas.
Meet the Mountain Mission Ridge is located only about 12 miles outside of Wenatchee. It’s a great mountain for family skiing, and you’re likely to get lots of blue bird days—it boasts 300 sunshiny days a year, so pack your shades. The direr, higher and east-sidier (it’s on the eastern slope of the Cascades) destination means your family will enjoy light, dry powder when you’re bombing down the mountain. With more than 36 designated runs spread over 2,000 beautiful acres of skiable terrain, we can’t wait to book our trip!
Ski School Scoop Mission Ridge offers lots of different lessons for kids of all ages and abilities, but reserve your spot soon because space is filling up fast. Most of the multi-week lessons are already full, but here's the inside scoop to get in: call them today and get on a waitlist. If your little one is a snowboarder, there is still space. The Flyers programs are a great option for kiddos just starting out in the sport. The program is tailored towards the littlest skiers (ages 3-5) and snowboarders (ages 4-6) and the package includes lessons, lift tickets and rentals. What a deal! Your child gets paired with a youth instructor and gets a personalized one-on-one experience.
Mission Ridge also offers Kids Lessons for children ages 6-12. These lessons are a great way to introduce children to skiing and snowboarding. Kiddos will be grouped with other children of the same ability and age, so they’ll learn to ride and also make friends along the way.
For older kids who have more experience and are interested in becoming instructors, Mission Ridge offers a program called Cadets. It’s a unique offering that lets teenagers 13-15 improve their skills while learning to teach. The multi-week program prepares students to pass a Level 1 instructor certification and goes from December through March.
Kids Lessons Cost: $79 for lessons only; $119 for lessons, lift ticket & rental gear
Cadets Cost: $554/per person; includes season pass Dates: Sat. & Sun., from Dec. 11-Mar. 13
Insider tip: You won't find this online, but another awesome kid's program is the Night Bombers. The class will be offered for kiddos ages 6-12 and will open on their website shortly. The classes will have a ratio of five students to one coach, and skiers and snowboarders will be grouped by age and ability. Kids will be able to make friends and have fun exploring the mountain at night. More details will be coming soon.
Meet the Mountain About two hours from Seattle, Stevens Pass can be accessed through the beautiful and winding Cascade Loop Scenic Byway. Perched at the top of sweeping mountain views, right off the highway, Steven’s Pass is a winter wonderland for skiers and snowboarders alike. It offers 1,125 acres of diverse skiable terrain. Children of all ages and abilities have learned to ski there for decades, which is one of the reasons the mountain is so popular. Kids can enroll in both full- and half-day ski and snowboard lessons. Group lessons are small and offer a chance for kids to get comfortable on their skis and boards. Before too long, they’ll be cruising along–probably faster than you!
There are also lots of family activities in and around the resort. Bring a sled and explore the free family sledding hill and snow play area at the Steven’s Pass Nordic Center, located just five miles from the resort. Other activities including cross country skiing, skating and snowshoeing are also just minutes away. And if skiing at night sounds like a good time, don’t miss out on adventures after dark skiing with the family.
Ski School Scoop The group lessons are a great opportunity for children to engage in small groups with an instructor specifically trained to teach little ones, toddler temper tantrums and all. Group lessons are capped at a maximum of three to six participants, depending on the age group. Half-days are only available for the littlest skiers and snowboarders, and for those enrolled in the full-day group lessons (think: older kiddos) lunch is included. Stevens Pass recommends reserving ski and snowboard lessons in advance by booking through their website. You can also purchase a three-pack if you want to ensure you get your kiddos up at least a few times this year.
If you’re hoping to experience the mountain on quieter days, be sure to visit mid-week. Arriving early, before 9 a.m. also helps ensure parking is available and kiddos get to their lesson on time. Renting equipment ahead of time will also help alleviate some stress and keep you from waiting in lines. Morning check-in will be much smoother if your equipment is ready to go and sized correctly ahead of time.
Insider tip: Lift tickets are complimentary for kiddos ages 3–6.
Good to know: If private lessons ($539/per person for full-day) sound like a better fit for you and your family, this personalized approach to learning is also available. Included in private lessons is an expert instructor and also a nice perk of not waiting in lines. Yes, please!
Three-Pack Three Maximum Cost: $465/child (ages 3 &4); $555/child (ages 5 & 6); $585/child (ages 7-14)
Group Lessons Ages 3 & 4 Days & Times: Daily, Half-day, 9:30 a.m.-noon or 1-3:30 p.m. Cost: $149/child, mid-week; $169/child, weekends and holidays
Group Lessons Ages 5 & 6 Days & Times: Daily, Half-day from 9:30 a.m.-noon or 1-3:30 p.m.; Full-day from 9:30 a.m.-3:30 p.m. Cost: $149/child, mid-week; $169/child, weekends and holidays; $189/child, full-day mid-week; $209/child, full-day weekends and holidays
Group Lessons Ages 7-14 Days & Times: Daily, Half-day, 9:30 a.m.-noon or 1-3:30 p.m.; Full-day, 9:30 a.m.-3:30 p.m. Cost: $139/child, mid-week; $159/child, weekend; $179/child, full-day mid-week; $199/child, full-day weekends and holidays
COVID Info: All tickets, passes, lessons and services must be purchased online and masks are required in all indoor facilities. They're not required outdoors but are recommended in lift lines.
Summit Stevens Pass 93001 US Hwy. 2 Skykomish, WA Online: stevenspass.com
Mission Ridge Ski and Board Resort via yelp
Expert Advice for Beginning Skiers
Mark Music, Mission Ridge’s Ski School Director, offered up some great tips to help set kiddos up for success on the mountain. He says to focus on comfort and to set realistic expectations. Bring lots of layers, never keep boots out in the cold (your kiddos toes will thank you) and bring hand warmers. That’s the secret he says, having a balaclava or neck gaitor ready, both hand and feet warmers ready to deploy at any moment, and a pair of spare mittens to keep hands dry on a damp day. Also, make room for lots of breaks during the day and head to the bathroom before gearing up in the many, many layers you’ll be packing on your tiny skiers.
It’s also never too early to get a child used to their boots and skis. Before making a trip to the mountain, have your kiddo walk around the living room in their ski gear. It can be a fun way to make believe while also getting them comfortable with what will hopefully be their favorite winter attire.
Music says just getting to the mountain is something to celebrate. “Congratulate yourself for getting to the hill,” he says. “Don’t be hard on yourself. The primary goal is more about getting outside together and making some great memories you’ll be talking about years from now.”
Whether you choose to look back on the past year, or forward to 2023, your family will enjoy doing these New Year’s Day activities together
It’s that time of year and you’re going to need a stash of fun indoor activities for kids. While we can’t provide any mimosas with your New Year’s Day brunch, we’ve definitely got awesome traditions to start, activities to try, and other creative ideas to help you start the year right (there’s even a printable calendar craft for kids!). Scroll down to see them all. Happy 2023, y’all!
1. Tradition Kick-Off 2022 has been a memorable year, to say the least. Start an annual tradition by writing letters to open the next year. As the mini-time capsule gets going, you’ll have a memorable way to look back and ahead.
2. Make a Handprint Calendar Using a printable calendar, you can make a handprint calendar for 2023. Get the tutorial here.
3. Indoor Campout No matter where you live, it’s likely too chilly for the real deal, so pitch a tent in the living room, roll out sleeping bags on the couch, fashion a campfire and make sure to include some hot cocoa. Get inspired by these next-level indoor forts!
4. Cook Out Staying home is always a little sweeter when you can smell something delicious coming from the kitchen. We've got the best snacks for your hungry crew right here.
5. Movie Marathon Whether you cue up all three Cars, back-to-back Descendants, or you’re ready to commit the next generation to every single Star Wars installment, loosen up those screen time limits and go big for once. Psst! If you need more ideas for what to watch, check out our ultimate list of movies for kids.
6. Out with the Old You know when all you have to do is move the furniture around to get a brand-new perspective on it all? Show the kids how liberating it can feel to go new. Suggest a bedroom swap, a relief-effort donation round-up of old toys and clothes to make room for everything Santa may have just dropped off, or maybe even a fun (temporary) hair color!
7. Game Day Let the games begin and see who the New Year will crown the champion. Pick crowd-pleasers like Bugs in the Kitchen or Apples to Apples, build an ultimate Magna-Tiles mansion, or set up that sure-fire bet that may last well into 2023: Monopoly. This list has our favorite new board games that even parents will enjoy.
8. Bucket List Décor The new year is the ultimate opportunity for a fresh start. Keep up that energizing NYE energy with family plans for 2023: a new place to travel, an activity or sport to try, or an organization to help out. We love the idea of hanging your ideas up on the wall for year-long inspiration. Another great way to display goals for the new year is to create a vision board,
10. (Get to) Know Your Neighbors With everyone off from work and school, why not host a mugging for your neighbors? As nefarious as it sounds, muggings are a completely innocent (and oh-so-easy) way to entertain friends. Have each guest bring a coffee mug to use as a plate. You provide warm comfort foods that they simply ladle into their mugs (chili or soup, anyone?). The best part? Partygoers big and small can easily mingle while they munch, mug in hand.
11. Build A Puzzle Building a puzzle can be a long or short process, but it's always better with family. Carve out some time in your new year's day to dedicate to a puzzle everyone will love. At the end, the final product can even be made into a framed picture if you glue it with puzzle glue.
12. Photo Time No matter what your family does to ring in the New Year, we love the idea of streaming your “Best of 2022” photos on the TV to set the mood. Focusing on the family is what it's all about, after all.
These San Diego restaurants offer take-out and dine-in Thanksgiving meals for a stress-free Thanksgiving Day
Thanksgiving is the best holiday to gather family and friends around the table—especially when you’re not stressed about burning the bird or fitting all the side dishes in the oven at once. This year, give yourself (and your kitchen) a break—and support local businesses—by either ordering your Thanksgiving dinner from one of our favorite local restaurants that’s a hit with the kids, or dine-in at a top San Diego restaurant that’s open on Thanksgiving Day. We’ve also found the best bakeries for that perfect, made-in-San Diego dessert.
The Best San Diego Restaurants Open on Thanksgiving Day
Treat yourself to a meal you'll remember for years to come. Rancho Valencia offers a buffet stocked with everything from a cold seafood station to a full kids' buffet. There's live music from 11 a.m.-4 p.m. and desserts that'll have the whole family feeling grateful.
Cost: $195/adults, $55/kid (3-11); Kids under 3 dine free
In Little Italy, Chef Brian Malarkey adds a Mediterranean and Mexican-inspired flair to the traditional Thanksgiving spread. Guests can choose from a turkey roulade with lemon rosemary stuffing, lamb shank, or a brown butter blondie with pumpkin mousse.
Choose from any of the three Park Hyatt restaurants to book your Thanksgiving reservation this year. Ember & Rye and Ponto Lago both offer guests a sit-down dinner option, while The Park Hyatt hotel serves a Thanksgiving buffet from 11 a.m.-3 p.m.
Cost: $155/adults; $65/kid (3-12) for brunch and $125/person for dinner at Ember & Rye; $105/person for dinner at Ponto Lago; $140/adults and $60/kids at The Park Hyatt
This year, George’s at the Cove is serving a three-course prix fixe menu in the Ocean View Room with roasted turkey, along with sausage and chestnut-stuffed leg and potato puree with turkey gravy. The turkey special will also be available along with the regular menu at the Ocean Terrace and Level2. Don't miss George’s bourbon pecan and brown butter apple crumb pie, which you can also pre-order. Kiddos will love sitting at a premium table, closest to the sea, which includes credit toward food and drinks.
The iconic San Diego restaurant at the end of Harbor Island is offering a smorgasbord of seasonal favorites. The carving station will have free-range turkey with rosemary gravy and roasted tri-tip. Other accompaniments include clam chowder, brown sugar sweet potatoes with marshmallows, and creamy green beans. The grand seafood bar will have Maine lobster claws along with oysters and scallops on the half-shell.
Cost: $72/adult; $24/kid (age 6-12), kids 5 and under eat for free
Del’s Hideout, Pioneer BBQ or Coaster Saloon (Cohn Restaurant Group)
Bring this Thanksgiving BBQ Feast to your table this year from either of these three Cohn restaurants or choose to gather the crew and dine in. Either option will satisfy your family and keep you frazzle-free.
Order Deadline and Pick-Up: Place orders by: 3 p.m. on Nov. 22; pick-up Nov. 25 between 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Cost: Serves 6-8 servings for $190; add on a pie for an additional $20; Purchase the main a la carte: $115for turkey or $130 for brisket
Mix and match a cornucopia of delights by choosing all of your Thanksgiving dishes a la carte. Choose from roasted and carved natural turkey (fully cooked, heat and eat) and such delectable sides as Focaccia-leek & pistachio stuffing, caramelized Brussels sprouts, truffle parmesan mashed potatoes or a poached pear salad. It may take you a while to decide on the sweet ending with choices like Frangelico chocolate truffle lollipops to Meyer lemon bars or pies.
Order Deadline and Pick-Up: Place orders by noon, Nov. 21; Pick up or have it delivered on Nov. 23 Cost: Whole turkey is $155
Seaside Market in Cardiff, is known for its mouthwatering Burgandy Tri-Tip, infamously nicknamed "Cardiff Crack" by locals. And, this Thanksgiving, you can swap the turkey for their tri-tip Feast which comes with sides like roasted vegetables, candied sweet potato mash, broccoli gorgonzola salad, and more (served chilled in aluminum pans with reheating and serving instructions). Or, keep it traditional with their Complete Turkey Feast and side dishes. Seaside also offers a vegan meal with lasagna as the main dish. Whatever your crew is craving this holiday, you can order it at Seaside Market and sit back and relax because your meal is certain to be an utter crowd-pleaser.
Order Deadline and Pick-Up: 48 hours in advance Cost: $250 for Complete Turkey or Cardiff Crack Tri-Tip Feast that feed six; $90 for Vegan Feast that feeds 2-3 people
Ranch 45 is just what you need to help with holiday hosting. They offer traditional fare with a modern twist that'll impress any foodie at the table. Try their olive oil mashed potatoes or gluten-free carrot cake to switch things up this year—orders are fully cooked, heat and eat.
Order Deadline and Pick-Up: Place orders by Nov. 21; Pick-up from 10 a.m.–3 p.m. on Nov. 23 Cost: All items are ordered a la carte; approx. $185 for 3-4 servings
512 Via De La Valle Solana Beach Online: ranch45.com
Celebrate the season with Whole Foods Market's catering menu which has something for everyone. You’ll find the classics like organic turkey, and prime rib with all the sides, but also paleo-friendly paleo and vegan-friendly options that are fully cooked, ready to heat and eat. Holiday appetizer platters are also available.
Order Deadline and Pick-Up: All Holiday Selections orders must be placed a minimum of 48 hours ahead of pickup date and time Cost: Thanksgiving Extravaganza for 12, $569; Classic Thanksgiving Feast for 12 is $400
Take the hassle out of Thanksgiving Dinner this year and order out from Ruth’s Chris Steak House. They have a family meal that's chilled, fulled cooked and ready to heat and eat that serves four and includes roasted turkey and all the trimmings, including four personal pumpkin cheesecakes.
Order Deadline and Pick-Up: 48 hours in advance; pick-up on Nov. 23 from noon-6 p.m. Cost: 4 servings for $175
Bring home a fresh scratch-made feast just like grandma used to make. Choose from a Family Feast that serves 6-8 or a smaller Family Meal that serves four and you’ll get an herb-roasted cage-free turkey breast, mushroom stuffing, homemade gravy, sweet cranberry relish, artisan bread and a choice of two sides (everything comes chilled, fully cooked with heating instructions). Add on a scratch-made dessert made in-house by their pastry chef: mango tart, seasonal pumpkin & walnut layer cake or a Hummingbird Cake, among others. Order early, they sold out last year!
Order Deadline and Pick-Up: Order by Nov. 20; Pick-up on Nov. 22 or Nov. 23 Cost: A la carte sides $18 each; desserts are $24-$59; A turkey plate that serves one is $24; Turkey Family Meal serves four for $100; Turkey Family Feast serves 6-8 is $169
Chart House is big on holidays, which means you can expect a mouthwatering Thanksgiving dinner without having to lift a finger, except to carry the bags into the house. The Chart House Thanksgiving To-Go offers a choice of slow-roasted prime rib or turkey, stuffing, cranberry dressing, creamed spinach, mashed potatoes, and pecan or pumpkin pie.
Order Deadline and Pick-Up: Place orders by Nov. 18; Pick-up times are based on store hours—delivery is also available Cost: $105 for turkey, or $130 for prime rib for a group of four
Having your Thanksgiving meal delivered doesn’t get any easier than this! Order your classic Thanksgiving meal from Elijah’s and they’ll bring it right to your front door—all dinners are freshly cooked with no reheating is required! Just put it on the table and eat. Choice of turkey, beef brisket, or ham served with two classic side dishes to choose from, and add on an apple, pecan, or pumpkin pie for only $15 extra.
Order Deadline and Pick-Up: 48 hrs notice; Schedule a time with the restaurant for pick-up, delivery is available for an additional charge Cost: Servings are for 10 people, $179 for turkey dinner, $199 for beef brisket dinner, and $179 for spiral ham dinner
Southern California's go-to artisanal bakery for all things encased in crust, Pop Pie Co. will whip up your Thanksgiving pie the morning you need it. Choose from Salted Honey, Honey Bourbon Pecan, Pumpkin Pie, Salted Caramel Apple Crumble or Apple Crumble (vegan).
Order Deadline and Pick-Up: Place orders by Nov. 17 or until they’re sold out; Pick-up Wed Nov. 23 from 11 a.m.-5 p.m. or Nov. 25 from 11 a.m.-2 p.m. Cost: $35/pie
Top off your day of eating this year with a non-traditional Thanksgiving pie from Nutmeg Bakery. They’ve got all kinds of cream pies: Chocolate, Banana, Boston or Coconut; as well as Key Lime and Maple Pecan (gluten-free). But if you want to go the traditional route they’ve got you covered there with Apple Lattice, Apple Crumb and Pumpkin. Now if you want a Thanksgiving cake, well they’ve got plenty of options too with everything from Carrot Cake to chocolate chip cookie dough, vanilla (vegan) or lemon raspberry, orange cranberry, lemon blueberry, coconut rum hummingbird, Italian cream and oh so many more. Many of these options are gluten-free so be sure to ask.
Order Deadline and Pick-Up: Place orders with 72 hrs advance notice; Pick-up times are based on order Cost: $20-$35/pie
Tired of cooking the turkey every year? Put your feet up and let these Chicago restaurants serve up Thanksgiving dinner for the whole family
Thanksgiving is a time for family, friends and feasting—not freaking out about meal planning or burnt birds. Skip the hassle of time-consuming food prep by treating yourself and your loved ones to a Thanksgiving dinner that didn’t come from your kitchen.
Even better, there’s plenty of options on how to make the most of this special holiday meal. You can order provisions to-go, have Thanksgiving dinner catered, or do one better . . . and dine out. From smoked turkeys to pumpkin pies to all the traditional fixins’, Chicago’s best chefs have you covered. You only need to decide one thing: dine at your table or theirs?
Eataly Thanksgiving might not be an Italian tradition, but Eataly believes in giving thanks for bountiful harvests and fresh ingredients. Their turkeys are organic and raised humanely, so you can bring the signature Italian quality to your Thanksgiving feast. Complement your meal with their curated salumi & fromaggi board of cured meats and cheeses, freshly baked bread, or go for a selection of fresh seafood platters. Complete the meal with housemade Torta di Mele (apple tart) or Tiramisù della Nonna.
Pre-order before Nov. 19 by emailing Eataly at chi-catering@eataly.com. Available for pick up only November 23 & 24.
43 E. Ohio St. River North Online: eataly.com
Whole Foods Whole Foods has catered Thanksgiving meal packages for up to 12 people. They even have a vegan option for four. Meals includes sides such as green beans with roasted shallots or cranberry orange sauce. Order must be placed at least 48 hours in advance of pick-up.
Alinea
For the first time, world-renown Alinea is offering a Thanksgiving Dinner for either four or eight people. Indulge with baked brie en croute, roasted garlic and sage stuffing, cranberry and orange compote, and more. Be even more decadent by adding on French Winter Truffle Mac & Cheese.
Farmhouse Evanston Farmhouse is known for their hearty Midwestern comfort food, making them a great Thanksgiving Day option. Their Thanksgiving Buffet will run from 11 a.m.-7 p.m. and includes classics like turkey, ham, buttermilk smashed potatoes, green bean casserole, maple candied yams and more. $44 per person, $21 for children 10 and under.
I|O Godfrey I|O Godfrey at The Godfrey Hotel invites guests to enjoy a delicious Thanksgiving buffet featuring staffed action stations. This festive meal prepared by Executive Chef Alfonso Martinez offers something for everyone. $59 for adults. $15 for kids. Additionally, I|O is offering Thanksgiving To-Go for those doing home celebrations for 8-10 people. Thanksgiving To-Go orders must be placed in advance by Nov. 23rd.
Maggiano’s
Enjoy Thanksgiving family-style at Maggiano’s. Maggiano’s is serving up a three-course menu plus balsamic tomato bruschetta compliments of the chef, two pasta dishes, and two additional sides. Add a pitcher of sangria or rum punch!
Various locations throughout Chicagoland Online:maggianos.com
River Roast What could be better than feasting riverside for Thanksgiving? River Roast will be serving up a spectacular Thanksgiving dinner featuring herb brined & roasted turkey, grilled carrots, stuffing with house sausage, whipped Yukon potatoes and more! Finish it off with carrot cake, apple cobbler or pumpkin pie. $75 per person. Kids under 10 eat free.
RPM Steak
RPM Steak‘s special Thanksgiving Feast features local turkey breast, halibut, or a prime mid-west strip steak alongside traditional holiday sides and pecan pie. The four-course holiday spread is $105 per person.
The Smith Indulge in a three-course prix fixe menu with a choice of turkey three ways—roasted breast, braised leg or turkey pot pie, along with other options for non-turkey lovers. Dinner is $75 per person and includes fixings for the whole table.
Tortoise Supper Club Have turkey or hand-carved prime rib, and save room for the iced oysters and decadent pumpkin pie, at Tortoise Supper Club's Thanksgiving Grand Buffet on Thanksgiving Day, 11:45 a.m.-8:15 p.m.
Wildfire
Enjoy a family-style Thanksgiving dinner featuring roasted turkey, glazed salmon, beef tenderloin and all the traditional side dishes. Gluten-free items will also be available. The meal costs $64.95 per person, and $29.95 for children 12 and under. If you’re entertaining family and friends at home, Wildfire is also offering a Thanksgiving Party Platter Menu of all your favorites for carryout.
Locations in Chicago, Oak Brook, Lincolnshire, Schaumburg and Glenview Online:wildfirerestaurant.com
Restaurants That Will Cater Thanksgiving Dinner in Chicago
BLVD Steakhouse Toss the apron and make room for BLVD. Chef Johnny Besch has prepared a special menu full of Thanksgiving favorites for pickup Nov. 23 with offerings like confit turkey legs, brussel sprouts, and PQB sourdough stuffing. Order via BLVD's tock.
FireLake Enjoy Executive Chef Leonard Ventura's delicious food at home. The special Thanksgiving to-go menu includes packages that serve up to 12 people and include turkey and ham, served with imaginative and traditional sides like fire roasted mushrooms with crispy shallots, maple glazed yam and apple, green beans, cranberry stuffing, cheddar herb mashed potatoes with cider gravy, and more.
Frontier A hot Wicker Park restaurant specializing in game, oysters and tap brews brings the bounty to your home with their Thanksgiving-to-go package. Executive Chef Brian Jupiter offers guests the option of ordering a whole smoked Amish turkey to-go. The antibiotic- and hormone-free turkeys are offered cooked and cooled. Available sides include five-cheese mac & cheese, traditional mashed potatoes, cornbread stuffing, Brussel sprouts and string beans. Orders must be placed by Fri., Nov. 18, with pick-up up to Thanksgiving morning from 9 a.m.-noon. Meals can also be enjoyed in-house.
Prairie Grass Cafe Prairie Grass is taking all the thinking out of Thanksgiving dinner with a preset family-style meal, with wine pairings if you'd like, available for pickup on Thanksgiving Day. Orders must be placed by November 18, but beware, they may sell out!
The Smoke Daddy
Whole turkeys at this Wicker Park and Wrigleyville BBQ bastion are slow-smoked until heady and crisp; opt for Southern-style pulled turkey if you prefer your birds on the tender side. Or, skip the turkey this year and go with a glazed ham. Since families can’t exist on meat alone, the restaurant has housemade cornbread stuffing, green bean casserole, mac & cheese, mashed potatoes and turkey gravy at the ready, available by the quart. Orders are being taken through Nov. 18th for pickup on Nov. 22 & 23.
Weber Grill
Thanksgiving is finger-licking good when you’re greeted with a whole smoked turkey feast, and Weber Grill has flavor-filled party platters featuring all your fave fixins. We’re talking about maple whipped sweet potatoes, garlic mashed potatoes, Weber sausage stuffing, and classic pumpkin or apple pie. Whole turkey orders must be placed by Friday, Nov. 18th. All other orders must be placed by Tuesday, Nov. 22nd. Pick-up with reheating instructions on either the 23rd, or Thanksgiving Day between 10am and noon.
And, if you want Weber Grill to do all the heavy lifting, the restaurants plan to be open and are accepting reservations for a three course turkey dinner. $39.95 for adults. $15.95 for children under 12.
Fresh Picks In the spirit of their mission to make fresh, organic food readily available to everyone while supporting local farms, Fresh Picks is offering a Thanksgiving option. For those who would like to serve a locally grown feast, Fresh Picks features locally grown produce commonly found in holiday recipes. It's a great way to support local businesses, with the added benefit of skipping the grocery store lines. Plus, turkeys will additionally be available to order through two different Fresh Picks farms. Orders can be placed now!
Meal Village Meal Village offers affordable locally made, non-subscription-based comfort food on a same-day delivery basis. Look to them for all your made-from-scratch sides and sauces.
Just as we watched our babies transform into opinionated toddlers and then imaginative school-goers, our rising tweens reveal ever more of their personalities and passions that aren’t so little anymore. A big part of instilling confidence along the way is showing our respect for their self-expression—their rooms being an important extension of that. Read on for fun and inspiring tween room decor ideas to help make their space truly their own.
Wall space is one of the first terrains you may remember taking control of yourself, whether you collaged photos of friends or hung posters of your favorite bands (or 90210 stars). If your tweens have lived and played in their rooms since nursery-hood, it may well be time for a fresh coat of paint anyway (in a color or fun accent of their choosing). Then let them change up what most inspires them. If you have framed prints they want to update, sites like Etsy, Wayfair and Minted have a range of options and price points. A large bulletin board is easy to refresh, and storyboarding is also a great study tool for visual learners.
The experts at Highlights Learning say it’s a great idea to have a “school stuff” zone, so everything is in one place, making staying on top of schoolwork all the easier. If your tween doesn’t already have a study station, go for a desk that will last through this next stage of her education when she'll be working independently. If you’re short on space, set something up under a lofted bed, go DIY with a hideaway desk, or even retrofit a closet. (We have many more workstation ideas rounded up, too.) And don’t forget wall space when it comes to keeping workflow in check and in style, like a chalkboard calendar, functional pegboard or mounted storage.
Remember those early years of rounding up their toys, puzzles and miscellaneous “projects” every night before bed? Now that it’s their job to keep a tidy room, help your tween stay organized by stowing away anything on the loose in stylish storage bins, like these hand-crafted, 100% cotton, and naturally dyed baskets from Lorena Canals. We love that these are also machine washable and available in ash-rose, aubergine, black, and vintage blue.
It’s that time again to weed shelves and make room for all the new titles they’ll be bringing home in middle school. While they may be reading a fair share on tablets or computers, it’s essential to have real deal books within reach to keep encouraging reading for fun. For age-specific reading inspiration, check out our list of some of the best graphic novels for tweens and teens.
Update the Sleep Zone
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Just as you once transitioned that crib to a toddler or twin bed, it may again be time to re-think sleep. If you have space to work with, consider upgrading to a full or queen that will him off to college (and serve as future guest accommodations, too). Or, perhaps you’re keeping twin beds on hand for the sleep-over circuit now in full swing. No matter the sleeping arrangement, the bedding theme itself could most likely use a refresh.
Let Their Personal Passion Shine
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By this age, many tweens are well on their way to honing a sport, hobby or passion. Their personal space can certainly reflect that, be it a guitar propped in a corner for an aspiring shredder, an oversized world map for a traveler in training, or a printing service for a budding photographer’s latest shots. These metal wall signs from Pottery Barn are perfect for sports fans.
Re-Organize the Closet
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Just as their rooms do, closets should also grow and adapt as our kids do. Marty Basher, an interior design expert at Modular Closets, has some choice tips for tween parents when it comes to organizing closets. “Formal events, dances, concerts, and performances bring the need for more hanging space in the closet,” Basher says. “With their input you can create a space to hang jewelry and formal dresses or suits and uniforms and full-size sports equipment.” Basher also advises adding hooks, a full-length mirror, and shoe storage solutions. “Use under the bed storage for off-season shoes and boots and only have what they’ll need for the season in the closet. Make use of boxes and baskets for high storage of items they don’t use regularly but can reach now when they need them.”
Houseplants do so much to bring fresh air and energy to our interior spaces. So why not give your tween room a little something living to tend to that will give a little fresh O2 in return for a brain boost? You can even rent a plant for a few months to see how your tween does with the new responsibility.
Admitted to Arizona State University and Oakwood University at age 12, Wicker has already completed two and a half years’ worth of courses in just 12 months and has no intention of slowing down. Now the college junior is celebrating her early acceptance into the University of Alabama’s Heersink School of Medicine.
The future M.D. took to Instagram to share the news last week. “I graduated High school LAST YEAR at 12 years old and here I am one year later I’ve been accepted into Med School at 13. I’m a junior in college. Statistics would have said I never would have made it. A little black girl adopted from Fontana California. I’ve worked so hard to reach my goals and live my dreams,” she writes.
Wicker’s road hasn’t been easy. The teen takes two full course loads at both ASU and Oakwood University, attending virtually from Texas and flying in for lab courses.
Regarding her goals for the future, Wicker tells 12 News, “I really want to leave my mark on the world and lead a group of girls who know what they can do.”
As if getting into med school wasn’t enough, Wicker has also been honored as a 2022 Global Child Prodigy of the World in Science Awardee. “Thanking God for every open door and for allowing my gifts to make room for me,” the young genius says. “I make STEM look dope.”
The teen has dreams of becoming a viral immunologist, a doctor who studies viruses. Wicker says that her interest came from engaging with the world through her passion for volunteering.
Above all else, Wicker wants other girls of color to know they can do anything, especially as it relates to STEM. “I want to inspire girls. I want them to see that there are no limits.”
Last weekend, I opened my entryway closet to find a doll stroller wresting the hula hoop, a jump rope strangling the tennis racquets and a jumble of scooters knocking the vacuum over directly into my shin.
And that was my seasonal cue to purge. Out went the neglected badminton racquets, neon green plastic baseball bat and outgrown balance bike. And in swept the bliss I find in freeing up space.
My default is to shed toys, clothes and art projects the moment they become irrelevant. I eagerly donate, toss or pass them along to a neighbor or cousin to make room for the next hobby my kids adopt. And, frankly, every single thing I get rid of, is one less item I need to manage.
It’s exhausting to constantly pick up pipe cleaners and toothpicks before someone’s barefoot gets stabbed. I detest tripping over dolls, slipping on marbles, and peeling Elmer’s glue off the windowsill from a drying popsicle stick creation. It’s frustrating to wage war against Rubik’s cubes monopolizing the end table, Scotch tape clinging to the coffee table, and the collection of apparently important twigs that have made their home on our kitchen table.
Yet I wonder whether, in wishing away the physical inconveniences of apartment living with four kids underfoot, I am speeding too eagerly toward the tidiness—but also loneliness—that may mark the next stage of my life journey. I fear that I will miss the clutter of childhood when my children are grown. In that case, I wouldn’t trade our happy chaos for the world.
Now I’m grappling with whether it’s worth holding on to items my kids have physically or developmentally outgrown but may find joy in rediscovering as parents themselves. But signing up to store something for several decades is a big deal when you live in a two-bedroom Manhattan apartment. With space at such a premium, what I choose to keep must be worth the square footage it occupies, either for its sentimentality or practicality.
I awoke last night to use the restroom and glanced around the living room, frosted by the glow of city lights. We had tidied up before bedtime, so the scene lacked the tell-tale signs of children. My daughter’s cardboard sword from a wrapping paper tube had been tucked away in the dress-up cabinet. Sequined backpacks were nestled into their cubbies out of sight. Stuffed animals were squished into their basket under the bunkbed. Looking around in the darkness, you wouldn’t know this was home to our family of six.
I groggily flashed forward to what my apartment might look and feel like 20 years from now. Peaceful, organized, clutter-free—yet perhaps eerily so. In a moment of boredom or loneliness, will I look back and recall our stuff-filled rooms with nostalgia?
As I struggle to balance out my love of decluttering with a desire to keep what’s worth holding on to, I learn from the examples set by my parents and in-laws.
My mom kept many timeless toys from childhood that I loved seeing her unveil for my kids. Indestructible DUPLO bricks in a big blue bucket. Playmobil. Battleship. My American Girl doll Samantha. Chinese Checkers. Barbies from her own childhood. A matching game. Wooden shapes. Travel games that kept our little minds and bodies occupied on countless plane rides to see my grandparents. This makes me want to be able to pull a similar treasure trove out of a closet to share with my future grandkids.
However, I do realize that whatever cherished playthings I decide merit a few square feet of storage space may not ultimately hold the same special status for the next generation. Let’s just say my kids didn’t shed a tear when they accidentally decapitated Grandma’s vintage Barbie. They were more focused on squeezing as many Beanie Boos as possible into Barbie’s speedboat. And while the Playmobil kids with their click-on backpacks and stackable bunk beds provided a few moments of fun, that certainly hasn’t rivaled the endless hours my girls have spent playing make-believe with their Hatchimals or setting up a doll house full of Calico Critters.
As for my in-laws, what brought my kids delight during visits with them was the simplest household odds and ends—a plastic Santa, vases filled with fake flowers, clip-on earrings, a window screen, Kermit the frog, an old cosmetic case, and musty pillows that transformed an empty basement area into their playroom.
They didn’t require shelves of toys to make those trips meaningful. My son just needed a coloring book to spend pleasant hours working his way through while hanging out on the couch with Grandpa. My daughters simply needed Grandma to whip out her recipe card and ancient cookware so they could make a polka-dotted cake together. Their joy continued as they raided Grandpa’s ice cream stash in the freezer and devoured their sticky sweets on the front patio.
I hope to become of mix of these grandparent examples. I want to keep some treasures so I can show my descendants a bit of what childhood was like for their parents and me. But I don’t need a basement or attic packed with playthings. Photos, stories and a bookshelf stocked with my favorite puzzles, board games and art supplies will suffice.
In fact, what I most look forward to sharing with the next generation is the joy I have found in daily life. Creativity through writing, dancing and cooking; learning through museums, reading and conversations and experiencing beauty through nature, music and relationships.
These sources of joy require little to no storage space. Plus, sharing these pleasures with others sounds like the perfect way to usher in, rather than dread, this next stage of life.
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Kristin Van de Water is a former journalist and teacher who relies on humor, faith, and her mom crew to get her through the day. Raising four kids in a two-bedroom NYC apartment, Kristin is always on the lookout for life hacks to save time, space, money, and her sanity.
Making the change from baby to toddler room is easier than you think
Oh, the toddler years. With so much to learn and explore, these rising big kids exhibit an ever-escalating independent streak one minute and crave a cuddle the next. And their rooms should strike just that combination of stimulation and comfort, too. We rounded up toddler room ideas galore, whether you want ways to repurpose old baby gear, simple nursery upgrades or chic toddler room décor ideas just to change things up.
Even if your wall art doesn’t scream “baby,” rotating it is a fun way to refresh a space and inspire your rising big kid. Cue up Etsy and scroll through its gamut of printables (We love the ones spotted at NorseKids), many for as little as a few bucks, to commemorate family history or a recent vacation. If you have a little Frida or Picasso on your hands, frame homemade art, or, freeze this time of transition with a large canvas print of your big kid in action.
Does anything so starkly solidify the transition from baby to toddler quite like the conversion of the crib to a toddler bed or the upgrade to a big kid bed? Whenever the swap does occur, it’s a fun way to add decorative flair, whether it’s taking your tall toddler to pick out new sheets for a twin bed or going with bunk beds for siblings who share a room. Or, take things down a level with a CouchBed, which is exactly what it sounds like: a comfy cool-gel couch that easily converts into a bed. Without sharp corners or a high distance to fall as well as grey, blue, or tan covers that are washable and interchangeable, this bed will also withstand all kinds of spills—talk about a toddler perk.
It may be time to donate, or at least rotate, baby’s first books to make room for titles that will engage a toddler’s budding brain. Swap out those basic board books or whatever your babe has grown a little weary of (If you can’t bear to part with them, save them for a rainy day and your toddler will no doubt have renewed interest.). Restock the shelves with titles that serve developmental milestones on the horizon (like potty training and empathy building), as well as a few books to grow on. To inspire you, we have 100+ books every kid should read before they turn 12.
How many hours have you logged in that rocker? Whether you were feeding, cuddling or singing a baby back to sleep, these large chairs anchor many a nursery—and take up a lot of space. While a rocking chair is a darling way to organize a stuffed animal collection, you can also put that corner of the room to more regular use. Consider selling the glider or moving a rocking chair to a guest room to make room for little thrones, be it a beanbag or a mini armchair. If you want more of an art and activity station, check out our curated picks of kids' tables and chairs that fit every style.
While blackout curtains can be the cat’s pajamas for ensuring successful naps for babes, they can limit a lasting design. These whimsical new ones from Best Home Fashion will hang around long after your tot has stopped napping. Available in pink, mint, as well as a dark or light gray, the star cut-outs and sheer tulle overlay are the stuff that dreams are made of.
Get a Grownup Dresser
Ryan Pardini
Do you still have a changing pad taking up most of (if not all) of the dresser’s surface area? Ditch it! The toddler years are for potty training and learning to dress independently, which is a lot easier and safer to do down on the floor. Now you can finally adorn the dresser with new photos, an oversized stuffie, and toddler trinkets. If a detachable changing tray came with your dresser, they are often sturdy and already compartmentalized for diapers and wipes, so here’s a hack—put it at the bottom of a standard closet. It’s a great way to organize and slide out shoes, toys, or that bin of clothes waiting to be grown into. You can even get really streamlined and try out a clothing capsule for kids, which encourages independence.
Transitions like these are also in the details. Go through closets and shelving and purge bonafide baby items: the stack of burp cloths, the NoseFrida, half-empty tubes of creams and things, diapers that never got used, etc. It can be hard to part—we grow sentimental and may feel a little guilty, but fortunately, we found clever ways to upcycle that old baby gear. So, while you’re purging, think about turning muslin baby swaddles into toddler fashions, old diaper boxes into toy bins, or painted baby food jars into color-coordinated crayon containers.
Add an Epic Fort
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With many a game of hide-and-seek or imagined dragons and castles on the horizon, build a fort, pitch a tent or erect a teepee. Those tummy time blankets can now be used to build an absolutely epic hideaway.
Floor time is still important for toddlers, so consider a chic mat you don’t have to hide when guests arrive. These Toki Mats add a stylish touch to any room all on their own, are made of 100% natural materials, and their cotton covers are machine washable (to get you well beyond the spit-up years). Cushioned, too, tots can practice summersaults and you can feel more comfortable down on the floor. And if you plan to have another baby (or already have one) and want a safe place for your toddler and newborn to play together, this is a great solution.
