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These brilliant ideas will help you survive—and even enjoy—your next family adventure

When it comes to a road trip, it’s often about how you get there, not where you’re going. Make sure that journey is memorable for the right reasons with a few tips and road trip hacks we’ve road-tested ourselves. They might not prevent the inevitable “Are we there yet?” but we know they will ease some of the other trials of taking a long car ride with kids. And to mix it up, try our list of car games when they need a break from the screens!

1. Give the kids the map. Hand over your GPS during times of the trip when you actually know where you are going. Let the kids “navigate” and tell you which way to turn. Or hand them a road map and have them help figure out the route. Get tips on teaching kids how to read a REAL map here.

2. Bring enough headphones for each kid. It will ward off any complaining or whining. If your crew likes to listen to or watch the same thing, try BuddyPhones, kid headphones that come with an audio splitter for sharing.

3. Surprise observations. During the trip, have each person write down an observation or memory from the day. If you’re traveling more than one day, do it each day of the journey, there and back. Don’t share what you’ve written until you are home. Then have each family member read out loud their main “thought” for the day. It’s okay if it’s, “I wish we were there” or “I saw a giant clown on the side of the road.” You’ll get some laughs and relive the trip in a new way.

4. Use a shower caddy for mess-free eating. Tired of balancing lunch on your lap? Give each kid—and yourself—a caddy so that meals are contained in one neat place.

5. Stash plastic cutlery and napkins in the glove box. It’ll make eating in the car that much easier.

6. Make a killer playlist. It can make or break a road trip. Trust us. Find family friendly tunes, starting here.

7. Beat the sniffles. Use a rubber band to lash a full tissue box to an empty one. Use the empty one to dispose of used tissues right after using, so they don’t end up all over the car/on the floor/in your snacks.

8. Make up some car bingo. Purchase a stack of ready-made car bingo games, or go the simple route by making a “checklist” of cool things you see on the road. The first person to fill up a checklist gets to pick where you make a pit stop for dinner.

9. Hang a shoe organizer on the back of each front seat. Big kids will be able to reach for books, snacks, and games on their own (and ideally they’ll be able to put everything back, too).

Related: The Ultimate Guide to the American Road Trip

campers in an RV using road trip hacks
Adam Clark

 

10. Kick off your shoes. For long rides, many kids like to take their shoes off. Let them, but have a bag handy to stash the shoes or keep them by the door of your RV, so they’re easy to find for pit stops.

11. Download Sit or Squat. You’ll be able to scout clean bathrooms on your route. This is a road trip hack you can’t live without.

12. Chuck garbage into a plastic cereal container or old wipes box. They usually have lids so your vehicle won’t smell like Eau de trash. Put them throughout your RV or car!

13. Pack clothes in stackable laundry baskets (instead of suitcases). The idea is that each traveler has their own basket filled with clothes and other belongings (diapers, lovey, etc.). It’s much easier to see if you’re forgetting anything and it’s a cinch to load and unload.

14. For impatient travelers, use “Sticky Note Time Tabs.” How it works: Write increments of time (i.e. 1:15, 2:15, 3:15) on sticky notes and adhere them to the center console below the clock. Kids pay attention to when the clock time matches the sticky note time. When they notice it, you remove the sticky note (and give them a surprise, if you’re feeling generous).

15. Organize a glow stick dance party while driving at night. There’s nothing fun to see out the windows, so might as well bring the fun inside your vehicle. Hip hop hooray to kiddos’ fave tunes and score major brownie points for your efforts.

16. Cover seats with a fitted sheet. Be prepared for a mess by stretching a sheet over the seats. When you get to where you’re going all you have to do is shake the sheet out and BAM!… your ride is spotless once more. One of our more genius road trip hacks if we don’t say so ourselves.

17. Make edible necklaces for the journey. String flavorless floss with things like cereal, grapes, and pretzels. It will fill their bellies and keep them busy at the same time.

18. Get snap happy. Give the kids disposable cameras (or old smartphones) so that they can take pictures of what you’re driving by for a travel log.

19. Let the creative juices flow. Since playdough can get stuck in floorboards (and hair … and under fingernails), bring along a roll of aluminum foil and/or a box of pipe cleaners—both can be molded into shapes, animals, and skyscrapers.

20. Nip car sickness in the bud. If you or your kiddo gets nausea from reading on the road, simply tilt your head from side to side for it to go away. Just try it!

21. When you see a fun road stop… stop! This is how road trip memories are made. If you’re the planning type, visit roadtrippers.com to map out a few awesome layovers, and be sure to check out our favorite roadside attractions, too.

22. Pack a potty. This is an important road trip hack if you’ve got potty-trained littles: Open and lay a disposable diaper into the bottom of a toddler potty. If you’ve got miles to go before the next rest stop, pull over and let them use this—the diaper will soak up a #1 and contain a #2 until you find a proper spot for disposal.

23. Have plenty of other screen-free activities on hand. When your kids are bored of playing car bingo (it’s inevitable), have something else from our list ready to go.

Related: 16 Roadside Attractions You’ve Got to See to Believe

 

These brands make it so easy to jump on the organic baby clothes train

If you’re a parent, you know how important it is to keep your little ones safe and comfortable. In total fairness, even if you’re not a parent, you know babies have much more delicate skin than adults. Oh, and that everything goes in their mouths (clothes included). None of that is really news, per se, but it’s definitely info that’s becoming more and more talked about. Organic baby clothes are trending. Even the most die-hard, brand-loyal moms and dads are paying closer attention to what their kiddos’ clothes and toys are made from. And with good reason. There are some incredible kids brands (and we’d know!), but there’s still products out there treated or made with stuff you probably don’t want near your littles.

That’s why more and more parents are turning to organic baby and toddler clothes. Not only are they made from natural materials without harmful chemicals, but they’re also super soft and gentle on baby’s delicate skin. Beyond that, there’s the added bonus of being better for the planet all around. And listen. No one is saying you have to go 100% natural and organic all the time. If that’s not realistic for you and your crew, then stick with what works for you. Even making a couple of swaps from your usual buys to organic and natural options occasionally can make a difference. We’ve made it easy, too, by rounding up a list of organic and natural baby and toddler clothes for every budget, lifestyle, and fashion sense.

Carter's Little Planet

Carter's

Designed to inspire a love for the great outdoors, the newest styles in the Little Planet line feature woodland prints, cozy plaids, and heirloom fabrics made from certified organic cotton and sustainable materials. Available in sizes newborn to toddler. Carter's Little Planet ($11.99+)—Buy Here!

Tabeeze Fuss-Free Baby Dressing

Tabeeze

The top of this ingenious bodysuit has snaps that make dressing and undressing much easier. No need to struggle with getting the bodysuit over your baby's head or squirmy hands, and removing the bodysuit after a blowout is a breeze. Unsnap the shoulder snaps during nursing too, to maximize your skin-to-skin contact. These bodysuits (and their Snappy Tees and Zippy Leg Rompers) are chemical-free, made in the U.S., come in white, gold, blue and rust (with colors coming from mineral-based dyes) and are designed from GOTS-certified organic cotton. Tabeeze ($18.00+)—Buy Here!

Pip Pea Pop

Pea Pip Pop

This gender-neutral bodysuit is made with organic pima cotton and has both snaps and a two-way zipper for easy diaper changes. Add a matching attachable bib ($7) to catch drool or other spills and your little one can live in this all day every day. Comes in white with one of nine different designs, from dancing dinosaurs to flamingos. Personalize it ($10) for a bougie baby touch. Pip Pea Pop ($36.00+)—Buy Here!

Goumi

Goumi

Goumi's organic footies come with either two-way zippers or snaps and have reinforced knees to withstand baby's crawling adventures. You can convert the footies to open-footie pajamas in warmer weather or if your baby prefers it. It also makes it easier for walkers to roam without slipping. Also be sure to check out Goumi's toddler, kids, and adult collections, too. Goumi Footies ($38.00)—Buy Here!

Hanna Andersson

Hanna Andersson

Hanna Andersson is our go-to spot for super-soft, extra comfy 100% cotton organic PJs. Hannas last through wash after wash after wash, meaning you'll be able to pass that cute sleeper on down to younger kids and it'll look nearly new. Plus, these comfy PJs, rompers, and onesies come in bright colors and loads of prints, so you can always find something to match your little one's current loves. Hanna Andersson Baby Bodysuit ($12.00+)—Buy Here!

TØY

TØY

We love the soft, neutral-colored baby jumpsuits, bodysuits, and kimono bodysuits from TØY. The GOTS-certified organic cotton pieces are never treated with bleaches, softeners, retardants, or anti-shrinkage chemicals during the production process, and the clothes are either undyed or safely dyed with fiber-reactive, azo-free dyes. TØY ($15.00+)—Buy Here!

Pact

Pact

Pact's baby clothes are made of soft 100% organic cotton in fair trade-certified factories, so they're easy on your baby's skin, and easy on the planet. They're also really affordable. Pact Bodysuit ($12.00)—Buy Here!

Finn + Emma

Finn Emma

With sustainable organic-cotton clothes made with eco-friendly dyes and handmade toys, Finn + Emma's line of products have all the ingredients for perfect baby shower gifts. We love the stylish patterns, like the adorable graphic on this onesie, and that the clothes are designed for easy dressing with thoughtful touches like lap shoulders. Finn + Emma ($19.00+)—Buy Here!

Burt's Bees Baby

Burt's Bees Baby

Burt's Bees line of baby and toddler clothes includes all the classics (think sleepers and onesies) and a few dressier items, too. We love these super soft short-sleeve bodysuits for playing, sleeping and layering. Burt's Bees Baby ($13.95+)—Buy Here!

Under the Nile

Under the Nile

Under the Nile's 100% organic cotton is extra-special: it carries a seal of authenticity for its super-soft Egyptian cotton. This all-in-one snap baby footie features an embroidered carrot and will make your munchkin look good enough to eat. Fabric and dyes are free of all sorts of things, like formaldehyde, lead and PVCs, that you don't want anywhere near your little one. Under the Nile Carrot Side Snap Footie ($15.00)—Buy Here!

Pehr

Pehr

All of Pehr's baby duds are made from 100% organic cotton. The line comes in sleepers, rompers, tops, pants, hats, bibs and more, in solids, stripes, florals and sweet prints. Pehr Criss-Cross One-Piece ($28.00)—Buy Here!

MORI

MORI

MORI's organic cotton and bamboo fabric is very soft and earth-friendly. We love that you can pick single pieces, like zip-up sleepers and stretch diaper-friendly yoga pants, or order up a full set with everything your new little one needs. MORI Ribbed Zip Summer Romper 4-Pack ($97.50)—Buy Here!

All the products listed are independently & personally selected by our shopping editors.

If you buy something from the links in this article, we may earn affiliate commission or compensation. Prices and availability reflect the time of publication.

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Turn open after-school time into a creative adventure in a flash

It’s a weekday afternoon between school and whatever practice is on the family calendar. Kill a few minutes with a quick and easy art activity for kids. With minimal supplies and almost zero set-up effort, we promise you won’t be holding back the urge to scream over complicated steps or time commitments. After all, when it comes to crafts, we’re all about less is more (most of the time). 

Pointillism Art with Q-Tips

We love this one because there’s no need to wash brushes when the kids are done. You can also use a pencil eraser and stamp pads for even less mess and easier cleanup!

Printable Art Activities

little girl enjoying art activities for kids

Let's face it, when it comes to quick and easy art activities for kids, sometimes it's best to print out some coloring pages and toss crayons and markers on the table. That's why we've got tons of free printables for kids like mermaid coloring pages, T-Rex coloring pages, Stegosaurus coloring pages, and one collection that has a little bit of everything.

Tie Dye Coffee Filter Art

Little Bins for Little Hands

Making tie-dye shirts is a multi-day process, so this activity from Little Bins for Little Hands incorporates all the fun of tie-dying without the hassle. Coffee filters are the perfect canvas to watch colors spread and combine, and they dry out pretty quickly too.

Frozen Chalk Paint

frozen chalk paint can be used in art activities for kids
Mini Monets and Mommies

You can make these ice cubes ahead of time and have them ready to go. This art activity for kids is ideal if you have loads of those teeny tiny chalk nubs hanging around the bottom of your art bin. Grind them up, add some water, freeze, and let your child draw her afternoon away.

Ziploc Finger Painting

plastic bag painting is a fun art activity for kids
Shelley Massey

It doesn't get any easier than this, friends. With nothing but a ziplock baggie and paint, you've set your pint-sized Picasso (and yourself) up for endless fun. Another option is to tape the bag to a window or a door so you can see light filter through the designs, or add glitter to bags for extra sparkle.

Clay Finger Paint

Mini Monets and Mommies

You want your creative kid to go wild with rainbow finger paints. Um, but you’re not into the idea of spending your Monday night cleaning Jackson Pollock-esque splatters from the walls. Swap in soft modeling clay for the actual paints. Pull it into pieces and “paint” it onto cardboard. It’s a totally low-mess art activity that lets your little one create a textured "painting."

Related: 15 Ways to Play with the Kids That Take 10 Minutes (or Less)

Recycled Texture Collage

Mini Monets and Mommies

Reuse those old worksheets, tissue paper, and anything else in a collage. Glue these onto a cardboard base, creating textures and patterns. Kids can practice scissor skills, explore through their senses and create collages that are either abstract or look like “something” real.

Plastic Wrap Process Art

process art activities for kids
Buggy and Buddy

If you've got Saran Wrap at home, you're halfway there with this art activity for kids from Buggy and Buddy. Even better, you'll need to leave the paper alone overnight to dry, so there's less chance of a wet mess. 

Paint with Nature

Hands On As We Grow

Paintbrushes, who needs them? Not your child. Get some fresh air after school and gather a few natural items. When your child has plenty of pinecones, stems, sticks and other nature-y items ready, paint like Hands On As We Grow did!

Felt Patterns

Cut shapes out of craft felt in different colors. Your child can press the shapes against a full felt sheet to create patterns. Oh, and this one is reusable too.

Foam Prints

Reuse Styrofoam plates or trays. Use a craft stick to ‘draw’ a design, add tempera and press onto a piece of construction paper. Wash the plates and reuse them, making as many prints as your child wants—in different colors. When the prints are dry, add onto them with paint, chalk or markers.

Related: 6 Fantastic Benefits of Arts & Crafts for Kids

We’re hopping down the bunny trail and straight to boys Easter outfits

Easter dresses are undeniably darling, but for all the boy moms out there, truth be told, it can be easier to find the golden egg than to find appropriate duds for your dapper little dudes. Of course, we all know that there’s not really any such thing as boys clothes and girls clothes. But if your kiddo isn’t a dress-wearer, it really can be tricky to find Easter-ready looks. Dresses do take center stage this time of year, and while we absolutely love them, we want to make sure the No Dresses Crew gets to look and feel just as great. There’s really no shortage of boys Easter outfits if you know where to look. Lucky for you, you’re looking here, and we’ve got you covered!

Whether you and your family is dressing to the nines on Easter Sunday or keeping it casual for the egg hunt and brunch, there’s something for every kiddo in our list. Some of our favorite retailers are rocking this whole boys Easter outfit thing this year, so we put them all right here in one place for easy shopping! It’s never too early to get hoppin’ when it comes to holiday outfit hunting. So put down those jelly beans (just for a minute, we promise) and check out our (non-dress) Easter outfit picks!

Authentic Blazer

Boden

Even at this age, throwing a blazer on over a cute shorts outfit is the easiest way to amp up their look! This adorable one from Boden is machine-washable (we think that's icing on the cake).

Authentic Blazer ($79.00)—Buy Now!

Red Striped Seersucker Chino Shorts ($44.00)—Buy Now!

 

Colorblock Oxford Shirt

Rockets of Awesome

Pair this handsome shirt with white shorts, khaki chinos, or their fave jeans and you can't go wrong!

Colorblock Oxford Shirt ($35.00)—Buy Now!

Nautica 4-pc Oxford Floral Vest Set

Macy's/Nautica

A pastel floral-print shirt with a plaid bow tie and paired with a button vest and pull-on style pants!

Nautica 4-pc Oxford Floral Vest Set ($64.50)—Buy Now!

Easter Plaid Poplin Shirt

GAP

This one has all the colors of the season and would look great with the blazer from Boden!

Easter Plaid Poplin Shirt ($34.95)—Buy Now!

Rustic Stripe Shirt + Shorts

Rylee and Cru

Neutral and light is never a bad idea in the spring and summer! Plus, kids in linen is just adorable.

Rustic Stripe Shirt ($52.00)—Buy Now!

Rustic Stripe Bermuda Shorts ($52.00)—Buy Now!

Pink Lightning Bolt Chino Shorts

Target

A little bit of spring + a little bit of electricity = one cool pair of Easter shorts!

Pink Lightning Bolt Chino Shorts ($15.00)—Buy Now!

Chambray Blazer

Target

You already know how we feel about blazers, and this lightweight one goes with everything!

Chambray Blazer ($35.00)—Buy Now!

Polo + Shorts Set

Carter's

Dress this set up or down (or both, depending on your plans!).

Polo + Shorts Set ($22.00)—Buy Now!

Easter Bunny Graphic Tee

The Children's Place

For your relaxed Easter, this tee is definitely the way to go!

Easter Bunny Graphic Tee ($4.99)—Buy Now!

Spring Celebrations 2-Pc Set

Gymboree

Cotton poplin. Bright colors. Embroidered bunny. This set has it all.

Spring Celebrations 2-Pc Set ($50.93)—Buy Now!

Embroidered Bunny 2-Piece Set

Gymboree

A hip hoppity hipster bun is just what we need for Easter brunch!

Embroidered Bunny 2-Piece Set ($46.28)—Buy Now!

Oxford Shirt + Shorts Set

Macy's/Nautica

Preppy vibes? We've got 'em right here with this sweet little set!

Oxford Shirt + Shorts Set ($75.00)—Buy Now!

Mr. Steal Your Eggs Set

Amazon/MA&BABY

Well, this could not get cuter (or more comfortable!).

Mr. Steal Your Eggs Set ($23.99)—Buy Now!

Multi-Color 3pc Set

Gymboree

If 2 pieces aren't enough for your little bunny, this 3-piece set includes an embroidered carrot button down!

Multi-Color 3pc Set ($86.91)—Buy Now!

Orange Bunny Bowtie Set

Amazon

Keep them festive and cool in case your Easter Sunday looks like a warm one.

Orange Bunny Bowtie Set ($8.98)—Buy Now!

CK Tan 3-Pc Set

Amazon

We love the color combination of this set. It's so dapper!

CK Tan 3-Pc Set ($42.50)—Buy Now!

3-pc Jeans Set

Amazon

Talk about sharp! This is such a cool set that doesn't require a full suit to have a big impact!

3-pc Jeans Set ($33.99)—Buy Now!

Bold Blue Stripe Button-Down

Hanna Andersson

The muslin fabrication is easy on their skin and lightweight for them to wear over and over again through the summer!

Bold Blue Stripe Button-Down ($38.40)—Buy Now!

Floral Button-Down

J.Crew Factory

Spring flowers on a dark background make this great alone or as a layer and a way to add a pattern to their whole look!

Floral Button-Down ($34.50)—Buy Now!

Classic Linen Suit Jacket & Shorts Separates Collection

Macy's

This collection features spring colors that you can mix and match! Coral, pink, tan, sage, and more.

Classic Linen Suit Jacket & Shorts Separates Collection ($40.00-$110.00)—Buy Now!

Bunny Sweater, Madras Shirt, & Seersucker Shorts

Janie and Jack

Maybe we wish this came in adult sizes. But since it doesn't, we'll have to settle for this Easter Bunny pic-ready outfit!

Bunny Sweater ($41.99)—Buy Now!

Madras Plaid Shirt ($34.99)—Buy Now!

Striped Seersucker Shorts ($32.99)—Buy Now!

Suede Penny Loafer Sneakers ($47.99)—Buy Now!

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Portland kids are heading back to school, and this year classes will take place in person. It’s time to freshen up that quarantine wardrobe and get your young learners ready to look sharp for the first day. Back-to-school shopping doesn’t have to break the bank as these resale options have everything you need. Read on to find out which consignment stores we recommend.

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Beanstalk

With two locations, Beanstalk has been a trusted family-owned consignment shop around Portland for years. Step into either location in Montavilla or Fremont and find a large range of quality clothes, shoes (like rain boots), gear, toys and books. Fremont carries premie up to child size 8, while the Montavilla location goes all the way up to size 14. You’ll also find a kids play area for some peace and quiet so you can finish your back-to-school consignment shopping. Beanstalk keeps a customer wish list of asked-for items and donates weekly to charitable organizations and families.

Fremont
3527 N.E. 15th Ave.
Portland

Montavilla
8021 S.E. Stark St.
Portland

Online: beanstalkpdx.com

Piccolina

Don't miss this Portland store on your back-to-school consignment shopping trip. Specializing in hip, fun, and even locally handmade clothing, Piccolina carries kids stuff from newborn to size 10, as well as some carefully chosen maternity pieces. The store works with local artists to find unique handmade and vintage toys and goods for a really special treasure. Their clothes tend to be high-quality brand names like Hanna Andersson, Naartjie, Petit Bateau and more. All items are gently used at great prices.

4416 S.E. Woodstock Blvd.
Portland
Online: piccolinaresale.com

Related: Sustainable & Stylish: Portland Eco Boutiques to Know

Hoot-n-Annie

This popular consignment store in the Hillsdale Shopping Center recently opened a second location in Barnes Miller Village back in 2020, and both are well stocked and wonderfully organized. They offer high quality clothing (for kids, moms, maternity and even accessories), safety gear, books, bath time goodies and toys. Every price range and style is covered, and things are constantly rotating to offer plenty of choices. They even offer a baby registry for expecting parentscome in and make a wish list, and they’ll send your invited guests all the info.

Insider tip: Plan to shop on Wednesdays when Hoot-n-Annie's hosts Wee Wednesdays, from 10:30-11:30 a.m. Hint: it alternates between the two locations.

Hillsdale
6308 S.W. Capitol Hwy.
Portland

Barnes Miller Village
7365 S.W. Barnes Rd.
Portland

Online: hootnannie.com

Rock It Resell

This family store sells to everyone and is sure to check off a few boxes on your back-to-school consignment shopping list. With a combination of great women’s clothing as well as toys, clothes, shoes and more, there’s a lot to look at. They’ve been curating resell choices for more than 30 years with two locations. Visit their flagship store in Cedar Mills, their sister store, Pitter Patter Family Consignment (308 E. 1st St., Newberg) or head online to see even more options.

12640 N.W. Cornell Rd.
Portland
Online: rockitresale.com

Black Wagon

Conveniently located in the heart of North Mississippi Avenue, Black Wagon receives rave reviews from Portland parents for its warm customer service, open layout (don’t hesitate to bring the stroller) and fantastic selection of children’s shoes, clothes, toys and books. Whether you’re looking for Vans, Toms, Native shoes or a new pair of Hatley boots, Black Wagon has got what you need with its handpicked selection of both independent and well-known labels.

3964 N. Mississippi Ave.
Portland
Online: blackwagon.com

Related: Oh Baby! Portland’s Best Baby Boutiques

A little girl plays on the floor with a car at a consignment shop
Bella Stella

Pinwheels

Pinwheels is a cute little store on Clinton Street, in a space formerly occupied by Piccolina’s. Cute jungle murals cover the walls, and racks and racks of clothes await. The store is full of great goodies, but if you can’t make it in person, they also do a brisk business over Instagram—just DM them your top pick and they’ll send you a Paypal invoice.

2700 S.E. 16th Ave.
Portland
Online: pinwheelsresale.com

Sweetpea’s

With new items put out daily, the fun finds don’t stop at this sweet Sellwood store. A giant bookshelf full of books offers plenty of choices, while clothes up to size 8 swing gently on the racks. The little ones can play while you shop for clothes, toys, games and special treasures from local artists.

8235 S.E. 13th Ave.
Portland
Online: sweetpearesale.com

Pipsqueak Resale Boutique

Pipsqueak is a high quality resale boutique, carrying brand-name clothing at friendly prices. Their gently loved toys, baby furniture and clothes are all clean and well-organized, and the secure location inside Vancouver Mall makes it easy to find. You can find a whole wardrobe’s worth of stylish, cute clothes here. Our big tip? Don’t miss the dollar rack.

8700 N.E. Vancouver Mall Dr.
Vancouver, WA
Online: pipsqueakresale.com

Related: Give Great Gifts: Portland's Top Indie Toy Stores

OK, that’s an exaggeration…she didn’t really almost ruin my marriage, but she did make me very twitchy and short-tempered with my husband for a few weeks.

It started out innocently enough: One morning, my perennially messy husband began bemoaning the state of his dresser, as he tried in vain to locate an undershirt without pit stains or holes in it from within a tangled wad of old t-shirts.

“You should read that tidying up book,” I said sarcastically. To which my husband replied, “What are you talking about?”

After I explained the basic premise of Marie Kondo’s “The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up” which was so hugely popular a few years back, I noticed a foreboding twinkle in my husband’s eye. Next thing I knew, he’d downloaded the audiobook and was listening to it every morning as he got ready for work.

His obsession began slowly, presenting itself in his innocent yet sweeping suggestions of how Kondo would handle my ongoing fight against the after-school clutter that my children amass—with graded papers spilling out over the dining room table and squished school snacks littering the bottoms of backpacks. At first, it was kind of endearing that he was noticing what I struggle with on a daily basis and offering sympathy and advice (albeit unsolicited advice).

Then, a week or so later, my husband quietly observed me tussling with our Tupperware cabinet. As I tried to find just the right storage container with matching lid for leftovers, he said, “Have you ever considered holding each of those storage containers in your hand and asking yourself, ‘Does this bring me joy?’” This was the first of many times in the coming weeks that my eyes rolled violently back in my head and I cursed the day that I ever uttered the words “Marie Kondo” to my oblivious husband.

But the straw that broke the camel’s back was the day that he suggested that “we” (meaning I) change the way that “we” (I) fold our laundry to better facilitate the ease with which we can find what we’re looking for in our dresser. I’d had enough.

You see, I’m the laundress (if you will) in our house. I’m the one who pre-treats stains, washes, dries, folds and hangs our laundry. It’s a job that I actually (mostly) enjoy—I find it meditative to quietly fold clothes and I enjoy the scent of fresh laundry—call me crazy. Also, I have it down to a science. I have a certain way that I do things. Certain days I launder bed linens and towels. Certain ways I sort delicates from denim and certain ways I fold t-shirts, socks and towels. Don’t question my madness and please don’t accuse me of proliferating a 1950s housewife stereotype because I’ve already done all of this myself. But this is what works for our family. And so it is.

So, you can imagine the offense that I took when my husband, who has maybe used the washing machine once in our marriage—and, in spite of holding a degree in technology, still seems wholly unable to figure out how it works—suggested that I was doing the laundry wrong. That’s when my head just about exploded. But I humored him and let him earnestly teach me the “roll technique,” while fully planning to go about folding the clothes my own damn way as soon as he’d left the room.

But then, something unexpected happened: I started working at perfecting “the roll” and I figured it out. I began to see the value in it. I found that I was easily able to fit more shirts in our drawers and was able to find just the shirt that I needed without upending the whole drawer in the process. Rather quickly and unexpectedly, Kondo’s method of rolling t-shirts turned our drawers into organized, easily navigable laundry holders. Maybe Kondo—and my husband—were onto something here… grumble, grumble.

As the weeks passed, the verve with which my husband initially embraced the “KonMari” lifest‌yle began to wane. While he has steadily kept up the momentum of many of the ideas and organizational tips that the author explains in her book, he has let go of some of the more rigid habits (for instance, he’s finally stopped uttering the words, “Does that bring you joy?” and I’m forever grateful because that was annoying as all hell).

And I’ve actually continued to implement the roll method of laundry folding. I think it’s safe to say that I am not only a believer now, but also a proponent of the whole idea (but don’t tell my husband this).  Another good thing to come from this journey is that now my husband often helps me fold laundry, so that’s an improvement in our previous division of the laundry labor.

All in all, I like the ideas that Kondo presents in her book. Nothing that she writes is particularly earth-shattering, but she does offer a fresh perspective on organization. What challenged me most was my husband reading one book on organization and thereby declaring himself the resident expert on de-cluttering and laundry. Ultimately, though, the KonMari method effected change in our home and I think that my husband has a new appreciation for what I do on a daily basis to keep our home functioning. Also, I’ve learned to be more judicious with my self-help book suggestions from now on. Be careful for you wish for…

Originally published May 2017.

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I'm Jenny, a married, sober mother to two kids and a whole gaggle of pets. I've lived in Texas my whole life and am the by-product of two dyed-in-the-wool Southern families. As a result, I can write a phenomenal, heart-felt thank you note and never wear white shoes after Labor Day.

Here’s an idea. Make it easy on yourselves and skip the usual flowers, cards, chocolates and lunch this Mother’s Day. Instead, pick the perfect present from the list of ideas below. From a real bathroom break to not cleaning a single thing all day, we’ve got what moms really want for Mother’s Day. Scroll down for the goods (and a laugh or two).

1. Private bathroom breaks all day long.

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No one is allowed in the potty when mom is going. Even if she’s in there for a long, long time. No cheating by yelling through the door to ask what she’s doing in there. That’s just bad manners, and your mother taught you better than that. Anyway, it’s Mother’s Day, so she doesn’t have to answer.

2. A full day of clothing compliance.

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Mom picks the outfit, the children wear it. No questions asked. No temper tantrums. No complaints about itchy sweaters, tight sleeves, uncomfortable waistbands, hating jeans/dresses/socks/boots/fill-in-the-blank. The kids just wear the clothes with a smile. Ahhh…a gal can dream, right?!

3. Every child grooms him or herself all day.

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Imagine a 24-hour period of time where mommy doesn’t have to help blow noses, wipe one tush, or brush one head of hair. It could happen!

4. A one-day pass from cleaning the house (Yes, that includes the kitchen.).

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She will not be making beds, picking up clothes off of the floor, and no, honey, she doesn’t think it would be a great idea to have your whole family over for a Mother’s Day brunch unless you’re planning to cook and clean up the whole thing by yourself. OK? Love ya!!

5. 24-hour remote control.

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Say so long to Paw Patrol and Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood. Mama’s playing couch commando today, and she’s headed over to BRAVO to see her friends the Real Housewives. Back-to-back hours of catty bickering between grown women. Sounds marvelous!

6. An entire afternoon of silence.

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There will be no arguing, fighting, bickering, nagging or whining for one whole afternoon (we'd settle for one hour...or even five minutes!). The only noise will be the sound of mom sipping her wine while watching Netflix on the device of her choice, turning pages of an actual book, or taking a long, uninterrupted nap.

7. To hear two simple words.

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Thank. You. That's it. Letting mom know she's appreciated goes a long, long way. Psst! A hug makes it feel even more special.

 

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Kids are dirty little beings. It’s a fact. I’m pretty sure that my 5-year-old is some sort of magical dirt magnet—as soon as he is dressed in the morning, his shirt is instantly covered with some mysterious stain or goo. I worry that his teachers think that we do not wash his clothes since he often arrives at school with a uniform shirt smudged in slime. Apart from changing his clothes in the minivan upon arrival at school, I’m at a loss for how to avoid this situation.

So—I’ve decided to embrace it. My kids are dirty. Even my 8-year-old girl is dirty. With summer coming, the dirt factor is only going to increase.

Secretly, I love it.

It means that they are getting down, getting dirty and really PLAYING. Like kids should do! Like we used to do before WiFi and OnDemand.

We were recently at a family festival where there was a bin of dirt with worms in it for kids to dig in and explore. My three little dirt-mongers LOVED it. They could not get enough of it. They soon passed up the mini rakes and shovels to dig with their bare hand to find all the slimy friends buried below.

I was saddened to see so many parents trying to steer their kids away from the bin of worms. “Ewwww!” and “gross!” were often uttered. By the adults. Did they not know the magic that the worm contains? The joy that crosses a child’s face when their worm slithers and squirms across their hand? That’s really when kids learn. They learn how the worm moves by squeezing and contracting its muscles. These are things we can’t truly see by reading a book or watching a video on YouTube. You have to feel it with your hands.

I wanted to tell the parents to embrace the worms. To allow their little ones to get a little dirty and just see what happens. The opportunity to be eyeball level with an amazing creature like a worm is very limited. Our kids are learning from us so how about we put aside our notions of what is dirty and “gross” and just let our kids explore for themselves.

This is especially true for our girls. They are held to a higher, cleaner standard. But why? Why must they sit with their ankles crossed while the boys get to have all the fun exploring? Playing in the outdoors is great for both body and mind—it develops creativity and physical skills like balance and coordination, and gives us a glimpse of the world beyond just us. It shows us how small we are on this big planet. Aren’t these good lessons for our girls to learn too?

Take this summer to embrace the dirt, or better yet, revel in it! See what fun can come when you let the kids get a little dirty. Go on a hike. Spend the night camping in your backyard. Splash in a stream. See what bugs are buried under your garden stones.

You may be surprised by what fun you have!

Kate is a a Bay Area native with three kids. She loves the outdoors, Bloody Marys and reality TV. Her life goal is to see more of the world! 

Instead of paying full price for clothes your kids will (probably) outgrow overnight, check out these resale shops! In a fashion forward town like LA, we have lots of stores that specialize in gently used, designer, vintage and good old-fashioned “play” clothes at a fraction of the price. Scroll down to suss our top shopping spots in the city for school and beyond.

Best Kid's Consignment Shops in Culver City

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Noodles Kid's Resale Shop: In business for over 20 years, this resale shop is loaded with gently used clothing and baby gear. Expect reasonable pricing (PS: Check out their coupons on their website) and one of the best costume selections we've seen. 

4907 Sepulveda Blvd.
Culver City
Online: noodlesresale.com

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Best Kid's Consignment Shops in Los Angeles

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Spoiled! If you'd rather dress your little one in Gucci rather than Gap but don't want to pay those high-end prices, head to Spoiled!—a resale and consignment boutique that focuses on luxury clothing brands, mostly from Europe, for children ages 0 to 16 years. We love the filter option on their website where you can choose your brand or size preference. 

8178 Melrose Ave.
Los Angeles
Online: spoiledfashionz.com

Best Kid's Consignment Shops in Manhattan Beach

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Children's Orchard: This is a sure spot for Manhattan Beach mamas. The store is filled with gently used clothing, toys, books and even baby gear (strollers and the like) for kids 0-12. While they are not accepting clothing in exchange for store credit, they are accepting equipment, toys and shoes. Tip: you'll get more bang for your buck if you go with store credit. Be sure to check their Facebook and Instagram pages for updates on their frequent (and beloved) dollar tag sales (yep, where hundreds of items on sale for just $1).

2701 Sepulveda Blvd.
Manhattan Beach
Online: childrensorchard.com/stores/manhattan-beach-ca

 

Best Kid's Consigment Shops in Silver Lake

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Grow Kid Grow: This resale boutique is filled to the brim with gently used clothing for from newborn to big kid (they're expanding their sizes every year, and include maternity and some mom-wear, too). The racks are nicely organized by size and it doesn't take much to uncover some amazing finds for a fraction of their original price. Peruse while your kdis play at the train table. Be sure to check the sale rack out front for the biggest deals and there is always a sample sale rack inside the store the highlights local designers. There are also incredible vintage pieces throughout the store that will make you swoon. One of the greatest perks is friendliness of the folks in the store. If you're looking for something specific, give them a call and they'll be happy to take a look and let you know if they have what you're looking for. You can sell your old clothes, books or toys by appointment to make the deal especially sweet. And if you're in need of a birthday gift there are plenty of gently used toys, books and new handmade items that you won't be able to pass up. One stop shopping at its finest.

4310 W. Sunset Blvd.
Silverlake
Online: growkidgrow.com

 

Best Kid's Consignment Shops in Eagle RocK

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The Green Bean: This Eagle Rock spot is more than just a boutique. Sure, there are gently used (and adorable) clothing, but there's also an array of new and used shoes, toys, books, gear and locally handcrafted goods. They offer 40% of resale in store credit or 30% in cash for items you bring in, in sizes 18 months to youth size 8. Baby gear is also accepted on consignment. 

5060 Eagle Rock Blvd.
Eagle Rock
Online: thegreenbeangoods.com

Best Kid's Consignment Shops in Burbank

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Wear It Once Wear It Twice: This boutique is full of like-new clothing and shoes from top brands. The store is well organized so you can find exactly what you're looking for (and perhaps a few surprises along the way). Bring in your tots gently used clothing by appointment and receive cash or store credit. Hint: you'll get 50% return if you take the store credit. While you're there, be sure to check out their selection of toys, books, furniture and baby gear. There a little bit of everything here.

1725 W Verdugo Ave.
Burbank
Online: wearitoncewearittwice.com

Best Kid's Consignment Shops in Sierra Madre

Rowan & Co. Kids Shop: Find tons of options for kids from clothing, toys, and books for kids (newborns to pre-teens) plus expecting parents (baby gear and more). Expect to find contemporary styles from in-demand brands like Zara Kids, Mini Boden, Hanna Andersson, and Natives. Keep an eye out for their 100% organic cotton options to their racks as well as one-of-a-kind vintage pieces. Their enviable stash comes from local parents, who trade in their items and earn 40% of the resale value in trade credit that can be used in store on purchases so you know you're getting cool, curated clothes. 

18 W Sierra Madre Blvd.
Sierra Madre
Online: rowanandco_kids

Urban Kids Consignment

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Urban Kids organizes a massive four-day kids consignment event, four times a year. What started as a hobby, grew into such such a hit that it draws thousands of families looking for gently-used kids clothing, shoes, toys, baby gear and so much more. Not only can you sell (most who participate make between $200-$300 per sale, in addition to cleaning out their closets), buy (and save 50%-90% off retail), Urban Kids also donates truck loads of gently used children’s items after each event to families that need them the most. It's a win-win-win situation.

Find details for all the upcoming sales online by visiting the website below.


Online: urbankidsconsignment.com

L.A. Kids Consignment

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COVID UPDATE: The sales have moved online! Pick up purchased items curbside.

L.A. Kids is the largest of the local consignment sales in LA and has multiple sale locations. You will find and huge selection and here you can buy and sell gently used clothing, toys and gear for newborn babes to your pre-teens. Prices are 50-70% off retail prices. And if you want to make a real investment you can purchase VIP passes online to avoid the crowds and get first pick. Also, volunteers get into the private pre-sales early. LA Kids Consignment hold 6-7 sales per year.

Find details for all the upcoming sales via the link below.

Online: lakidsconsignment.com

 

Hit the Flea Markets

LA has a fantastic list of flea markets that sell vintage and used clothing. Hit a couple of these before school starts and you and your little fashionistas will be set.

 

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—LeTania Kirkland Smith & Andie Huber

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