Photo: Michelle Manske via Henry & Higby

They say a parents’ work is never done and with back to school around the corner that saying will definitely be even more true. In many ways, the end of the work/school day is really just the beginning between making dinner, signing paperwork, monitoring home work, cleaning out backpacks, putting art projects away and gearing up for the next day’s after school activities. And, while we can’t stop the chaos, we can give you a few tips for managing it and answering the school age question—what do I do with all the stuff that comes home after school?

  • Find a Dump Zone: The best way to start taming the chaos is to create a dump zone. It may seem obvious but the fact is that having one area in your home where the kids can put their stuff when they come home from a day at school or play will make a huge difference. If you don’t have one now, create one—preferably near the door they use to get in and out of the house—with (ideally) a bin and a hook for each child to use for their school stuff. This will cut down on the questions about where their things are and should help make wrangling them in the morning go a bit smoother.
  • Storing After School Gear: As kids get older and start doing more after school activities, you need to find a spot for sports gear. Ideally the dump zone (see above) would work for this gear as well but it isn’t always the case particularly in small apartments and as the gear and the kids get bigger. If the gear is too much for a spot near the front door, spend some time finding a spot elsewhere in the home to store it—a shelf at the top of the closet, under the coats in the coat closet, under the bed if that space isn’t claimed yet or even a hook in the hall. Until it has a home it will likely be thrown on the floor and in the way of the rest of the family.
  • Creating a Command Center: A large part of taming the chaos is handling the paperwork coming in from school, from doctors and after-school activities. This is where having your own personal dump zone—a parental command center so to speak—becomes important. A space with a paper tray or hanging file for each member of the family and the supplies you need to deal with it (think pens, stamps, staplers, etc.) so you can keep the paper moving along.
  • Archiving Art: Kid artists can be quite prolific so getting a handle on the art coming into the house on a daily basis can be a job in and of itself. Decisions need to be regularly made on how to display it, store it and archive it. We recommend getting your child involved in the decision making process each week and have them help pick the three pieces of art (or four or two—whatever your preference) that they are going to keep and which are going to be photographed before being removed from the home. Thankfully there are also a plethora of services available now for archiving art so you can create a book that can be referenced down the road. Check out these options for archiving your budding artists greatest hits so you can clear some of the clutter at home: ARTKIVECanvsly, and Art My Kid Made. For more in-depth artwork storage ideas, check out this story.
Annie Draddy Michelle Manske
Tinybeans Voices Contributor

Michelle Manske and Annie Draddy are organizers and co-founders of Henry & Higby, a professional organizing company in New York City. They spend their time helping individuals and families get more organized and hopefully experience a little peace in their place through the process. 

Remember back in eight grade when you were totally into the surfer fashion craze, even though you lived in a totally landlocked suburb? Well file this latest summer-time, beachy jewelry trend under ‘everything old is new again’.

Puka shells are making a comeback—in a major way. From bracelets and bangles to necklaces and earrings, you’ll find these perfectly puka picks almost everywhere in the next few months. If you’re looking for a little inspo, check out these surfer-esque selections.

Potessa Natural Shell Beads

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If you want that throwback look, this puka shell necklace is pretty much the same thing you had when you were 14. It's simple, adjustable and comes with a pretty rad price-point ($11.99). 

Angelfly Anklet or Braclet

Amazon

When your tween or teen jumps on the puka trend, this anklet/bracelet ($12.99) is the perfect pick!

Creatyi Handmade Natural Shell Beads

Amazon

Go for a pop of color with this fun fashion ($12.99). 

Macramental Seashell Earrings

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A boho chic look is easy with these macrame shell earrings ($16.25) that you can find on Etsy!

—Erica Loop

 

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Me organized? More like organized chaos. Life and stuff can be categorized, put in files and bins. But it takes effort. With a bunch of kids, it’s required, unless I want to be overrun by kids’ papers, projects and just general junk. Even when I had only one kid, I kept blocks in bins, craft stuff together and puzzles in bags. Stuff stays nicer for longer if you keep it organized, together and useful.

Here are simple organizational hacks for practically every room in the house. Here’s a tip before you even get started: buy some bins!

Kitchen

Think proximity. Put the most-used products and utensils at hand, in drawers near sink or stove and less-used items up higher or down lower. I keep all wooden utensils in one drawer right next to my stove, since most of my cookware will scratch with metal.

Keep dishcloths and towels within arms reach of the sink. Empty the dishwasher daily to avoid backlog on the countertop.

Living Room

If you allow toys in your living room, family room or den, get a toy box with a cover or use the ottoman. Many coffee tables have hiding places below the surface for keeping magazines or other clutter. Stand at the entry to the room and find a piece of furniture, like a sofa, loveseat or chair, to visually hide any loose toys or the toy box.

Bedrooms

Daily, kids (and parents) need to make their beds and handle laundry. This is not so much a hack as a vital life skill kids need to learn, unless your Au Pair will supervise their chores or you have a maid service. Seriously though, very little children can learn to put away toys, shoes and laundry, which is most of what makes kids’ rooms a nightmare after a week or two of no intervention.

Weekly, we “tidy to the corners” and sweep or dry mop. Underbed storage is vital, as are shoe holders and closet organizers.

Office

Don’t let bills and random paperwork clog your world! Get organized with folders to keep kids papers, home papers, bills and so on, hopefully in a file holder or small filing cabinet. For whole home organization, use a whiteboard (which can be accidentally erased), Google calendar or my favorite, a cork board. The trick to efficiently using any of these methods is to utilize and check them habitually!

Laundry

Hopefully, yours is out of sight, out of mind. Hampers and laundry baskets can be kept in kids’ rooms or in a shared bathroom. To keep the flow of laundry moving in my house, I remind the kids each morning (or every other) to deliver their dirty laundry to the bathroom basket for cleaning. They help me sort the loads, carry to the basement and start the machine.

The idea is to eliminate clutter and create a peaceful environment for your family. The holidays created quite a bit of clutter in my house and probably in yours, too. It’s been weeks and I am still beating it down.

Create a place for everything that is important and then be sure to put things in their place. Another helpful hint to eliminate clutter is to be sure to put away stuff after you use it. It sounds simple, but how often do you just set something aside rather than put it back where you found it? Regular habits can be just as useful to organizing your home as can bins, holders and organizers from the home store.

 

Go Au Pair representative, cultural childcare advocate, Mom to six great kids, I earned my BS at RI College and MEd at Providence College. My hats: educator, tutor and writer of local blog for Go Au Pair families and Au Pairs. Baking, gardening, reading and relaxing on the porch are hobbies.

The recent changes to the Flickr photo policy mean one thing for many users—you need to back up your photos. Do it now—don’t lose all those baby pics!

Just in case you haven’t heard about this major change, Flickr made a serious policy change when it comes to storage space. Instead of allowing free photo storage, the site will now either limit the number of photos a member can add to under 1,000 or require them to pay $50 for unlimited storage.

Flickr initially gave members until Feb. 5 to back up their pics or face deletion. But due to server issues (along with user complaints), the site is extending its deadline. Reports surfaced recently that long download times and the inability to download more than 500 photos at one time have made it near-impossible for high-storage users to get their pics in time.

So how long do you actually have to complete a Flickr photo backup? Members with 1,000+ photos now have until Mar. 12 to back up their excess pics. If you choose to do nothing, Flickr will start deleting the oldest photos first after that date. To backup your photos use the master download everything button (caution here, this may take waaaay more time than you would like) or create a download request for individual pics. You’ll get a zip file from Flickr with your photos.

—Erica Loop

Featured Photo: Stock Snap via Pixabay

 

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Even on the best of days, being a working parent is tough—especially if you’re the captain of your family, which is my way of saying you’re the go-to, primary caregiver. Doesn’t “captain” sound better? One way to remove some of the peripheral junk that makes being a working mom feel so hectic is to work from home.

There’s a constant juggle between work priorities, home priorities and all the obstacles in between. What to wear to work? How will the commute be this morning? When was the last time I exercised? Did I catch a cold from Coughing Susan in the next cubicle? And those are just the concerns we have about our days. Our brains are also flooded with thoughts about our kids, spouses and partners, parents, neighbors, friends. It’s a lot.

Luckily, working from home is more of a possibility than ever before. Between 2005 and 2015, regular remote work in the U.S. grew 115 percent. And as of 2017, 43 percent of U.S. workers now work remotely at least occasionally, up from only 9 percent in 2007.

If you’re wondering whether you could work remotely, the answer is absolutely yes. The stereotype of a fresh college grad working from his parent’s basement for a start-up company couldn’t be further from the truth. The average remote worker is 46 years or older, has at least a bachelor’s degree, earns a higher median salary than an in-office worker and works for a company with more than 100 employees. And slightly more women (52 percent) than men (48 percent) work from home.

As a working mom, a career coach for remote job seekers and a remote worker myself, I want to help you work this way! Landing a remote job involves many elements of a traditional job search, but with a few key things to know as you search for jobs.

Let’s get you started searching for your own work-from-home job with these six smart steps.

1. Use the right keywords when you’re searching online.

Don’t use work-from-home or work-at-home when you’re searching job listings online (reading articles like this, about working from home, is okay). Scammers use those phrases to attract unsuspecting job seekers into employment scams. Instead, stick with keywords like telecommute job, remote job and virtual job because legitimate companies tend to use those most often.

2. Research remote-friendly companies.

Some companies are much better at hiring and utilizing remote workers than others. Check out FlexJobs’ annual list of the 100 Top Companies for Remote Jobs which features the companies that hire the most remote workers each year. And Remote.co features interviews with over 100 mostly or fully remote companies, including their most common job interview questions!

3. Play up your previous remote experience.

Have you ever worked from home? Even occasionally or casually? Maybe your kids were home sick from school. Or you were waiting for the cable to be installed. Or the weather was terrible so you skipped the commute. Maybe you worked from home at a regular interval. Or perhaps you completed volunteer projects, classes or certifications from home. All of this counts as remote work experience–and that’s exactly what remote-friendly employers want to see.

Update your resume and cover letters with any previous remote work experience you have, even occasional. Use phrases like “experience working remotely” or “five years of regular remote work” to tell employers you’ve got what it takes.

4. Play up the skills you have that would make you a good remote worker.

Even if you don’t have previous remote experience, you likely have many of the skills it takes to be an effective remote worker. Being able to focus and work independently, comfort with technology and troubleshooting, time and task management and communicating through email, phone, IM or chat are all important. These skills should be listed on your resume, mentioned in your LinkedIn profile and discussed during your job interviews.

5. Put a Technology Skills section on your resume.

Companies that hire remote workers also want to know that you’re quick with technology, but many of the job seekers I coach don’t have any mention of this on their resumes!

Include a list of remote-specific tech you’re familiar with, such as IM programs (Slack, Google Chat), file sharing (Dropbox), document collaboration (Google Drive), video conferencing (join.me, GoToMeeting, Skype) and other remote collaboration tools. A note about your ability to learn new programs quickly is a nice touch.

6. Use your network.

Whether you’re searching on job boards, LinkedIn or pitching clients so you can work remotely as a freelancer, it’s vital to involve the people you know in your search. One of the simplest ways to do this is to check LinkedIn before you apply to each job.

See who you might know at the company (strong ties) or who your connections know at the company (weak ties). Leverage those strong and weak ties to help get your application referred to a human being with hiring power within the company.

Remember these tips as you start your search for a remote job and you’ll soon be dropping your commute and professional wardrobe to work from home in your fuzziest slippers

FlexJobs was created in 2007 to provide a trusted, more effective, friendly, and overall better way to find professional remote and flexible jobs.  We were founded by job space pioneer Sara Sutton after she had been looking for a flexible job after starting her family. She realized that millions of others were just as frustrated by the ads, scams, and inefficiencies on other job boards that wasted her time in finding a good flexible job, and so she decided to create the solution she was looking for.

It wasn’t our original intention, but somehow FlexJobs has become a leader in the flexible job movement that's currently disrupting the traditional workforce. Today, FlexJobs is the leading job search site specializing in the best remote, part-time, freelance, and flexible jobs available. 

According to recent reports, the fave children’s retailer Gymboree is closing all 900 of their stores. And yes, that includes one of the Gymboree Group’s other store chains, Crazy 8.

Gymboree Group initially filed for bankruptcy in June 2017. With a report of more having more than $1 billion in debt at the time, the company closed nearly 375 stores. Unlike other major retailers, at the time Gymboree was able to get rid of plenty of debt (a reported $900 million!) and come out on top. But alas, the good fortune couldn’t continue, and if a report from The Chicago-Sun Times is accurate, all Gymboree stores could close as early as this week.

Photo: Philip Pessar via Flickr

Earlier this week, The Wall Street Journal broke the news that the company is set to file for bankruptcy protection for a second time. So, what does this mean for all of your local Gymboree, Janie and Jack and Crazy 8 stores? According to a strategic review announcement that Gymboree released on Dec. 4, 2018, the company is in the process of reviewing their options. These options include closing all Crazy 8 stores and “significantly reducing” the number of Gymboree stores in 2019.

Following the strategic review statement, Gymboree’s current CEO, Shaz Kahng, published an online letter to consumers on the retailer’s website. The letter confirmed that the company has decided to file for Chapter 11 bankruptcy protection and will indeed close all Gymboree, Gymboree Outlet and Crazy 8 stores. Kahng also added that the company is trying to preserve the Janie and Jack brand by selling that part of the business.

For more information, read the full statement about Gymboree closing here.

—Erica Loop

 

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When one Reddit user asked, “What is your mom’s catch phrase?” in the r/AskReddit subreddit, they got some awesomely amazing responses. Hey, us moms can be pretty funny sometimes—especially when we’re not trying to be. And before you belt out your own mama’s hilariously “mom-like” saying, remember that someday your kiddo may be sharing the super-silly things that you say!

While we might associate some mom catch phrases like, “You’ll shoot your eye out!” (A Christmas Story) and “I’m not like a regular mom, I’m a cool mom” (Mean Girls), sometimes truth is stranger—and far more hilarious—than fiction. Here’s a roundup of some of the funniest mom catch phrases Reddit users had to share.

1. And they weren’t even shopping at Whole Foods.

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2. She’s not wrong.

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3. “Water is the essence of life.”

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5. Definitely one to file away for later.

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6. The modern version of, “Were you raised in a barn?!”

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7. Up in here, up in here.

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8. Uh oh—this kid figured out our secret Mom Code!

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9. Some catch phrases develop later in life, it seems.

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10. Now we have something new to try at red lights.

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Check out the whole thread if you’re looking for more hilarious mom catch phrases—and maybe pick up some inspiration for a new catch phrase to try with your kids!

—Erica Loop, with Keiko Zoll

Featured Photo: Nick Caputo via YouTube

 

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If it’s not even lunchtime yet and you’ve already had to mediate more injustices than Ruth Bader Ginsberg, then the Amazon Alexa Kids Court skill could be just the thing you’ve been looking for.

Kids Court is a new free skill on Amazon Alexa and Judge Lexy is the honorable digital judge that presides over all unfair kid matters. After you ask Alexa to open Kids Court you’ll hear the sound of a blaring bugle and a gavel rapping bringing the court to order. Judge Lexy then asks for statements from both parties, calls any witnesses and asks for any evidence to be presented. Finally, a verdict is issued and you can get back to life as normal… until the next battle emerges in about two minutes.

The verdict also comes along with a silly dare that the losing party has to do, like try to stand on your hands. Hopefully, it’s funny enough to make kids forget the sting of a loss, but if they still aren’t happy with the outcome they can file an appeal.

The Alexa skill was designed by Adva Levin who explained that the idea is for kids to “learn to stand up for themselves in a calm manner, to articulate their problems coherently, and to take responsibility for their actions.” Of course, just because it was designed with kids in mind doesn’t mean you can’t use Judge Lexy to settle some grown-up disputes too, like when someone tries to get out of diaper duty.

If you’re feeling uneasy at the thought of airing all your dirty laundry to Big Brother, don’t worry as the app is compliant with the Children’s Online Privacy Protection Act, which means no data is stored… or so the AI overlords want you to think.

Would you use Kids Court to settle family arguments? Tell us your thoughts in the comments.

—Shahrzad Warkentin

 

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Your imaginative little artist is all about taking out the paints, markers, glue, glitter, yarn and paper. But, what about putting it all away? Um, that kind of never happens. So you end up stashing the supplies in the first empty shopping bag you grab or tossing them into a junk cabinet. Yup, you’re in need of some artsy organization—right now. Before your child’s crafting cascade takes over your home, scroll down to check out these simple (yet totally genius) storage solutions!

photo: Mini Monets and Mommies

1. Tape It Up
You have a zillion used tissue boxes sitting around. You could toss the boxes. Or, you could reuse those boxes and turn them into colorful craft storage. Break out a rainbow of duct tape, and use it to decorate an empty tissue box. Now it’s ready to hold pencils, markers, paintbrushes, pipe cleaners and more.

photo: Lolly Jane

2. Dino Designs
Who has a dino-loving kiddo? Yep, that’s you. Then this rad storage jar DIY from Lolly Jane is your child’s dream. Oh, and you can also store your child’s play dough or modeling clay in it. That makes this crafty storage solution fabulous and totally functional.

photo: Just A Girl Blog

3. Caddy Up
All of those art supplies won’t organize themselves. Just A Girl Blog created this cute caddy that makes storage so, so, so simple. You can separate all of your child’s supplies into individual spaces, and move them from room to room in this portable (and awesome) option.

photo: Mini Monets and Mommies

4. Egg Them On
Wait! Don’t throw away that old egg carton. As long as it’s clean (no random egg shells or gooey drips), you can reuse it as a craft caddy. If you have loads of loose glitter, craft sand or anything that’s similarly small, tame it with this recycled storage “bin”. Just close the top when your littler crafter is done for the day, and pack the carton away.

photo: Sew Many Ways

5. File It Away
The mountain of scrap fabric and felt that your child is amassing may just be taking over. Tossing it all into a box is making your organizer-self go kind of crazy. Instead, sort it all out, and file it away like Sew Many Ways did.

photo: Damask Love

6. Spin a Yarn
Craft storage can look pretty too. Damask Love made this baker’s twine organizer that you can also use for spools of yarn, floss or ribbon. Not only will it organize all of those loose ends, but it makes a sweet little display too.

photo: Ana White

7. DIY Dream
Craft storage gets fantastically functional with this homemade table from Ana White. Your child can sit and draw to her heart’s delight, and it also stores all of the artsy items. That’s right, your child can store their materials inside of the table—and not in a desk type of way.
photo: Gabby Cullen

8. Kit and Caboodle 
Any child of the ’80s and ’90s will remember the Caboodle. With layers of trays, organizing supplies for creative work has never been so easy. Plus, the super solid latch ensures not one bit goes astray.

9. Cute Crayon Caddy
As if traveling doesn’t present enough packing challenges when you have kids in tow, add on a craft bag and you have a recipe for a mega-mess. Don’t lose all of those crayons in the cracks and crevices of the minivan. Instead, load them into a DIY crayon caddy. Simply reuse an old travel diaper wipe container, turning it into a crayon-sized holder. If you have more than a few crayons (or want to store markers and pens too), reuse a regular-sized diaper wipe container.

Do you have your own crafty storage solution? Share it in the comments below!

— Erica Loop

If you’re like many parents who’ve bought Johnson & Johnson Bedtime products in hopes your baby will sleep better, you may be awarded some money. Johnson & Johnson have agreed to pay $5 million to settle four class-action lawsuits that the company falsely advertised its baby bedtime products as “clinically proven” to help babies sleep better.

Photo: Top Class Action Lawsuits

The lawsuit alleges that Johnson & Johnson knew that there were no clinical studies that proved the products actually helped babies to sleep better, therefore having no basis to make that claim.

Parents state they paid more for the Bedtime products over other soaps and lotions based on the marketing claims. Parents who acted as plaintiffs in the suit say they used the “bedtime” products as directed by Johnson & Johnson, yet the items did not help their babies sleep better.

If you’ve bought one or more of the following Johnson & Johnson “bedtime” products within the United States or any U.S. territories between July 1, 2010 and August 31, 2016, you may be entitled to receive $3 per product– up to 10 products with no proof of purchase:

  • JOHNSON’S® BEDTIME® Baby Bath
  • JOHNSON’S® BEDTIME® Baby Lotion
  • JOHNSON’S® BEDTIME® Baby Moisture Wash
  • JOHNSON’S® Baby BEDTIME® Washcloths
  • JOHNSON’S®  BEDTIME® Baby Bubble Bath & Wash

If interested, you must file a claim here before Dec. 19, 2016: JOHNSON’S BEDTIME BATH PRODUCTS CLASS ACTION SETTLEMENT