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The Best Products to Tackle Your Baby’s Common Skin Conditions

by Kate Cartia

Seeing your perfect baby’s skin develop irritation or dryness is such a huge bummer. We hate it when they’re uncomfortable, and knowing that their skin is especially sensitive makes baby skin concerns so much worse. But take a deep breath. We’ve got the solutions to common skin conditions right here!

Of course, we do want to mention that you should always consult your baby’s healthcare provider with any questions about baby skin concerns. Even though it’s more likely that most issues aren’t serious, your doctor is there to help. We’re fans of the products below, but they’re not a substitution for medical advice. Keep reading for our picks to get that sweet baby skin soothed and happy!

Diaper Rash

Definitely one of the most common baby skin concerns, diaper rash is caused by irritation, infection, and/or allergies. The diaper itself can rub up against their skin repeatedly, resulting in irritation. Infections are caused when urine changes the skin’s pH levels, and that lets bacteria and fungi grow more easily. Materials and ingredients that stop diapers from leaking also prevent air circulation, creating a warm, moist environment where bacteria and fungi can thrive, causing a rash. It’s also possible your little one has allergies that cause a reaction to diaper ingredients, detergents, etc.

Change your baby’s diaper often and consider rinsing their bottom with warm water every few changes (just scooping water with your hand over them or using a gentle spray bottle works). Let their skin dry completely after every change and you can pat it with a soft cloth to make sure there’s no moisture. And, of course, diaper cream is a great idea. Creams and ointments with zinc oxide or petroleum help soothe and protect. Apply it generously, like cake frosting (sorry) at each diaper change.

If your baby’s diaper rash doesn’t improve, gets worse, is accompanied by a fever, or you have any other concerns, talk to your kiddo’s doctor ASAP. That’s what they’re there for, so don’t hesitate if you have questions.

Boudreaux’s Butt Paste Maximum Strength

tube of diaper rash cream
Boudreaux’s Butt Paste

With close to 50K Amazon reviews, Boudreaux’s Butt Paste Extra Strength seals out moisture for instant protection that lasts through the night and helps keep your baby’s booty dry.

Boudreaux’s Butt Paste Extra Strength ($7.12)—Buy Here!

A+D Treat Diaper Rash Cream

tube of diaper rash cream
A+D

Zinc oxide, dimethicone, and soothing aloe all work together in A+D Treat Diaper Rash Cream. Try using it at the first sign of diaper rash; it starts to work on contact!

A+D Treat Diaper Rash Cream ($5.47)—Buy Here!

Tush Swiper Diaper Rash Cream Applicator

The Tush Swiper is compatible with most diaper rash creams and pastes and make application so much easier and less messy. Just screw it onto your product tube, swipe it on, and cap it when you’re done. Check out the Tush Swiper multipacks for diaper bags and changing spots around the house.

Tush Swiper Diaper Rash Cream Applicator ($9.99)—Buy Here!

Drool Rash

Drool rash symptoms include small patches of raised, red bumps and/or chapped, red, and irritated skin around your baby’s mouth, chin, and into the neck. The cause is pretty straightforward—saliva settled on your little one’s delicate skin and, over time, causes irritation. It can increase during teething, too, so monitoring the food you give your babe when they’re experiencing drool rash is a great idea to see if anything they’re eating might be contributing.

The best course of action for treating drool rash? Limiting how much contact drool has with your baby’s skin. Also, avoid over-rubbing their skin to reduce any chance of additional irritation.

Copper Pearl Drool Bibs

set of 4 drool bibs for babies
Copper Pearl

Bandana bibs work especially well for drooling babies because they’re extremely absorbent and soft for all-day wear (*do not leave these or any bib on your baby during nap or sleeping times). These come in a bunch of colors and styles, too.

Copper Pearl Drool Bibs ($19.95)—Buy Here!

Aquaphor Baby Healing Balm Stick

aquaphor healing balm stick
Aquaphor

Aquaphor is one of the most popular skin protectant for both adults and babies, and it’s ideal for drool rash. It provides a barrier between skin and saliva and adds moisture back into irritated skin. We’re loving the convenient, mess-free stick so you can take it anywhere and avoid using your fingers (if you don’t want to!).

Aquaphor Baby Healing Balm Stick ($10.08)—Buy Here!

Baby Eczema

What causes baby eczema? According to the National Eczema Association, the exact cause is unknown, but researchers know that it does start with a combination of environmental allergens and genetics. Along with itchy, red, and inflamed skin, eczema can cause even more severe allergies because it weakens your little one’s immune system, can cause blisters, and breaks down skin barriers that protect from skin disease. But don’t panic. NEA is also fast to assure us that mild and more severe symptoms of baby eczema can be treated.

Your pediatrician may prescribe a steroid or antihistamine, so you’ll of course want to follow their directions. Older babes can also wear protective mittens to prevent their little nails from scratching and itching, and, since food allergies can trigger an eczema flare-up, considering what an eczema diet might look like for your little one is a great idea, too.

As for at-home treatments (with doctor’s approval), keep an eye out for products that have the Seal of Acceptance from the National Eczema Association.

Cetaphil Baby Eczema Soothing Lotion

bottle of cetaphil baby lotion
Cetaphil

Cetaphil Eczema Soothing Lotion has a colloidal oatmeal formula that’s soothing and protecting for babies 3 months+.

Cetaphil Eczema Soothing Lotion ($12.87)—Buy Here!

WaterWipes

package of waterwipes
WaterWipes

Plant-based and plastic-free, WaterWipes are perfect for your little one’s delicate skin. They’re also made using only 99.9% purified water and a drop of fruit extract.

WaterWipes ($11.97)—Buy Here!

Evereden Protecting Baby Body Wash & Shampoo

bottle of evereden shampoo and body wash
Evereden

Evereden Baby Protecting Body Wash & Shampoo is formulated with ceramides, squalane, and seaberry seed oil to lock in moisture while comforting your baby’s skin; it’s even created specifically for newborns.

Evereden Baby Protecting Body Wash & Shampoo ($24.00)—Buy Here!

Crane Cool Mist Humidifier

elephant shaped humidifier
Filters Fast

Quiet and effective, this cool mist humidifier from Crane adds moisture to the room for almost 12 hours, helping to soothe and moisturize your little one’s skin (not to mention helping with allergies, congestion, and coughs!). We also love the auto-off function when the water tank is empty. You can use it year-round, too!

Crane Cool Mist Humidifier ($69.99)—Buy Here!

Honest Hypoallergenic Baby Laundry Detergent

bottle of honest company laundry detergent
The Honest Company

The Honest Company Baby Laundry Detergent is hypoallergenic and safe for sensitive skin, so you won’t have to worry about additives or synthetic scents irritating your baby’s skin. It’s still a powerful stain fighter and uses plant-derived ingredients to get your laundry super clean!

Honest Hypoallergenic Baby Laundry Detergent ($16.99)—Buy Here!

Cradle Cap

Scaly and greasy aren’t words we really want to use when it comes to our new baby’s skin, but with cradle cap, that’s the result. Don’t worry, though! Cradle cap—a type of seborrheic dermatitis—usually shows up in infants and typically goes away within a few weeks or months. Another reason to breathe a little easier? According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, cradle cap isn’t caused by an allergic reaction or an infection. It doesn’t happen from poor hygiene either.

See a doctor if the area becomes weepy, crusted, or you notice changes or discomfort. Otherwise, you don’t actually need to treat cradle cap. There are ways to remove the scaly buildup, though! The AAP recommends washing their hair every other day with a mild baby shampoo—don’t use a medicated product without doctor’s instructions. For especially tough patches, you can rub some coconut oil or petroleum jelly with a gentle massage or a soft baby brush, leave it on overnight, then gently wash and massage with a brush. Don’t pick or scratch the scaly patches off; that can lead to infection and irritation.

Frida Baby Oh Cr*p Cradle Cap 3-Step Cradle Cap System

cradle cap treatment system
Frida Baby

If you want to try a system specifically designed for cradle cap, Frida Baby is a great option. Complete with baby spinge, brush, comb (with storage stand), and a scalp treatment mask + conditioner spray. Infused with soothing aloe plus calendula extract, both products work without any yucky additives to replace and lock in moisture!

Frida Baby Oh Cr*p Cradle Cap 3-Step Cradle Cap System ($34.47 bundle)—Buy Here!

Cradle Cap Brush Set

set of 3 soft cradle cap brush scale removers
Mr. Lion

These cradle cap brushes are really highly-rated. The soft silicone prevents scratching and irritation, but definitely make sure you’re still being super gentle when using!

Cradle Cap Brush Set ($4.99)—Buy Here!

Coconut Oil for Cradle Cap by Coconut Essentials

jar of baby coconut oil for cradle cap
Coconut Essentials

Chemical-free and full of the good stuff for loosening up cradle cap, Coconut Baby is a soothing blend of coconut, grape seed, and sunflower oils.

Coconut Oil for Cradle Cap by Coconut Essentials ($14.99)—Buy Here!

Baby Acne

It’s possible you won’t only encounter acne when your kiddo hits puberty. Don’t be surprised if your baby starts showing those familiar little bumps; according to the American Academy of Dermatology, about 20% of newborns develop a form of the condition called neonatal (baby) acne. Typically, it shows up around 2 weeks, though there are some babes who are born with it. Unlike acne we see in preteens and teenagers, baby breakouts aren’t caused by their own hormones; they’re actually caused by those produced by your own body. Mom’s hormones are still circulating within their systems from pregnancy. But before you blame yourself (please don’t!), you’ll also want to remember that, as  St. Thomas Medical Group points out, your baby’s pores are still aren’t totally developed and are therefore more sensitive to irritants.

You’ll often see it on their little cheeks or nose, though it can develop in other places. Neonatal acne clears up by around 6 weeks. And don’t worry! It’s really not something you need to sweat. It’ll rarely leave a scar and just goes away on its own. If your little one develops breakouts after 6 weeks, that neonatal acne becomes infantile acne. Infantile acne occurs most often between 3-6 months and does become something you’ll want your baby’s doctor to take a look at. Your baby is more active around this age, so your doctor can help prevent scarring, determine whether or not it is actually acne, and to rule out any other health conditions or product causes.

Speaking of products, do not use any products designed for acne on your baby. That includes any acne soap, lotion, or other chemicals. There’s actually no specific product (other than one possibly prescribed by your doctor) for treating baby acne. But there are options that can prevent exacerbating it and products designed for babies prone to baby acne.

Breast Milk for Baby Acne

three drops of milk
Canva

Breast milk for baby acne treatment is one of the most common suggestions. While we haven’t found any double-blind, placebo-controlled studies with an official protocol for breast milk as baby acne treatment, we do know that there are lots of proven benefits to breast milk as topical treatment for other skin conditions. Unless your doctor says otherwise, there’s no harm in expressing a few drops of breast milk and gently applying it to your baby’s acne breakouts. In fact, our own Bump & Baby Editor did that for her own little ones.

MUKIN Baby Washcloths

two stacks of baby washcloths
MUKIN

To avoid any chance of scratching or scarring from baby acne, sticking with extremely soft fabrics and cloths is key. These baby washcloths are specifically designed for baby skin prone to irritation and are made without harsh chemicals or dyeing processes.

MUKIN Baby Washcloths ($15.99)—Buy Here!

KeaBabies Isla Fitted Crib Sheets

two sets of crib sheets on crib mattresses
Maisonette

Sticking with the focus on non-irritating fabrics for baby acne, KeaBabies Isla Fitted Crib Sheets are made with ultra-soft and highly breathable viscose from bamboo, the temperature-regulating fitted bed sheet is perfect all year round.

KeaBabies Isla Fitted Crib Sheets ($32.96)—Buy Here!

 

 

 

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Cool Baby Products Most Parents Don’t Know About

by Kate Cartia

Ready to elevate your parenting game with some rockstar baby products? There’s a good chance you haven’t heard of these clever, creative, new, and, frankly, some of the best products for newborns and babies! We’ve scoured the market to bring you a curated list of must-have items that will make life with your little one easier, safer, and a whole lot more fun. From clever gadgets to cozy essentials, these underrated gems are some of the best products for newborns and babies that are sure to become your (and your babe’s!) new favorites.

Fisher-Price On the Go Baby Dome

Fisher-Price

Whether you're at home or on the go, the Fisher-Price On-the-Go Baby Dome offers a safe and cozy spot for your babe to play or nap. With a sun-blocking canopy and removable toys, it's perfect for outdoor adventures, overnight stays away from home, and just adjusting from room to room. It easily folds up and has handles for carrying! There are more colors and styles available here, too.

Fisher-Price On the Go Baby Dome ($64.99)—Buy Here!

ByHeart Whole Nutrition Infant Formula

ByHeart

If you haven't heard of ByHeart Infant Formula, we have the low down. Their mission? To create the best formula on earth. ByHeart's ingredients include:

  • Alpha-Lac—According to ByHeart, they’re the first and only US-made infant formula brand to add alpha-lac at breast milk levels. Research suggests that this growth-supporting protein supports easier digestion. 
  • Lactoferrin—They've also included lactoferrin (an ingredient that's found in early breast milk which is rarely added as a unique ingredient to infant formula). Lactoferrin supports baby’s immune system and gut health.
  • Whole + Partially Broken-Down Proteins—Whole proteins are full of nutrition, but may be harder to digest, while broken down proteins are easier-to-digest but don’t deliver all the benefits of whole proteins. Many formulas use one or the other. Breast milk has both, and ByHeart does, too.
  • Organic, Grass-Fed Whole Milk (Not Skim)—Research shows that whole milk fats (such as naturally occurring MFGM) play an important role in baby’s brain development and growth.

ByHeart is also awarded the Clean Label Project Purity Award! To get that honor, a product has to be tested for 400 contaminants. ByHeart tests for over 700 and is created using small-batch blending in their factories in Iowa, Pennsylvania and Oregon. *Editor's Note: Always check with your pediatrician to determine the right formula for your baby's unique needs

ByHeart Whole Nutrition Infant Formula ($42.00+, Subscribe & Save Options Available)—Buy Here!

Doddle & Co. Pop & Go Pacifier

red and pink doodle & co baby pacifiers
Doodle & Co.

Say goodbye to dirty pacifiers with the Doddle & Co. Pop Pacifier! This silicone pacifier features a built-in protective cover that pops closed when it's dropped, keeping the nipple clean and germ-free. Squeeze and roll opposite corners together, and you're ready to stash baby's pacifier anywhere.

Doddle & Co. Pop & Go Pacifier ($18.99)—Buy Here!

Evenflo Gold Revolve360TM Extend All-in-One Rotational Car Seat

Evenflo 360° car seat
Evenflo

The Evenflo Gold Revolve360TM Extend All-in-One Rotational Car Seat is next level! Believe it or not, this car seat spins a full 360 degrees, making it a breeze to get your kiddo in and out of the car. It's like having an extra pair of hands. It also includes the peace of mind of the SensorSafe with real-time alerts to keep you connected to your little one when they're in the back seat. Plus, it's super safe with its steel-reinforced frame and extra-long rear-facing mode. Now you can hit the road knowing your little one is riding in style and safety. From 4lbs - 120lbs.

Use code TINYBEANS15 for 15% off sitewide ! (Valid through May 6, 2024)

Evenflo Gold Revolve360TM Extend All-in-One Rotational Car Seat ($429.99)—Buy Here!

Tiny Love Magical Tales Black & White Gymini

black and white baby play mat
Tiny Love

Stimulate your little one's visual development with the Tiny Love Magical Tales Black & White Gymini. Featuring high-contrast colors and engaging toys, this play mat encourages sensory exploration and tummy time. It includes a musical hedgehog, soft plush cloud, wind chime badger, fox rattle, mobile, and more!

Tiny Love Magical Tales Black & White Gymini ($55.99)—Buy Here!

Dr. Noze Best NozeBot Electric Baby Nasal Aspirator

electric baby nasal aspirator
Dr. Noze Best

Created by a pediatric ENT, this electric baby nasal aspirator is not messing around. The nosepiece only requires two fingers, leaving other fingers free to stabilize your baby's head. It gives you a whole hand back and includes 3 levels of hospital-grade suction so your little one can breathe, sleep, and eat even when they're stuffy.

Dr. Noze Best NozeBot Electric Baby Nasal Aspirator ($134.99)—Buy Here!

The Poppy Crossbody Diaper Bag

a mom with a crossbody diaper bag and two small children
The Poppy Brand

The Poppy Crossbody is part diaper bag with a compartment for your baby essentials, and part purse with a separate compartment for your essentials. Multiple zippered and open pockets, a key leash and detachable pacifier leash, an elastic pocket with an opening for wipes, and an adjustable and removable shoulder strap all make this the new diaper bag we've been dreaming of. Available in 4 colorways.

The Poppy Crossbody Diaper Bag ($160.00)—Buy Here!

Dr. Brown's 2-in-1 Dry & Prep Silicone Mat

rainbow shaped baby bottle and cleaning brush holder
Dr. Brown's

Your new kitchen sidekick! This handy mat not only keeps your countertops clean and dry during bottle prep but also doubles as a drying rack for your baby's feeding essentials. With its non-slip design and easy-to-clean silicone material, it's a must for busy parents (aren't all parents?).

Dr. Brown's 2-in-1 Dry & Prep Silicone Mat ($29.99)—Buy Here!

Cradlewise Smart Crib & Bassinet

series of images demonstrating the Cradlewise baby cradle
Cradlewise

The Cradlewise Smart Crib is a game-changer in the world of baby sleep solutions. This innovative crib uses built-in sensors and AI technology to monitor and respond to your baby's sleep patterns, automatically adjusting rocking motions and white noise levels to soothe your little one back to sleep without the need for parental intervention (basically, fewer middle-of-the-night wake-ups for both you and your little one!). Everything is controlled by and monitored in the app, so you'll never miss a thing (even if you don't have to get up).

Cradlewise Smart Crib & Bassinet ($1399.00+)—Buy Here!

4moms Cleanwater Baby Bathtub

4moms

Baby skin needs extra love, so having them avoid sitting in anything but fresh water for any length of time is a good idea. The clean water reservoir holds fresh water for rinsing while dirty water flows out of the side drain (especially ideal since you can't keep a diaper on them during bathtime). The built-in color-coded digital thermometer helps you identify a safe comfort zone, maintaining the perfect temperature. Newborn - 6+ months.

4moms Cleanwater Baby Bathtub ($69.99)—Buy Here!

BEABA Up & Down Rocker

mom sitting on couch next to her baby who is in a baby bouncer
BEABA at Pottery Barn

The BEABA Up & Down Rocker is a versatile and super cool addition to any nursery. With its adjustable height and recline positions, this rocker grows with your baby from infancy through toddlerhood, giving them comfort and support for feeding, napping, and playtime. Its sleek design not only makes it an eye-catching piece of furniture (seriously! This is one you don't have to put away every day!) but it adds to its longevity, too. 

BEABA Up & Down Rocker ($229.95)—Buy Here!

Babocush Bouncer & Cushion Combo

Babocush

The Babocush Bouncer & Cushion Combo is a must-have for parents of babies with colic, reflux, and frequent gas discomfort. This innovative combo includes a cozy cushion that mimics the feeling of being cradled in a your arms, combined with a gentle bouncer to provide comforting internal "heartbeat" and vibrations. It can also be converted into a toddler seat as they get older!

Babocush Bouncer & Cushion Combo ($287.00)—Buy Here!

The Peanutshell Play Ring

baby laying in the middle of a donut style play cushion
Peanutshell

With a super soft and textured cover and 360° support, the Peanutshell is the perfect play + lounge combination. The cover is machine-washable and the ring is inflatable, so it all folds flat for easy travel and storage!

The Peanutshell Play Ring ($39.99)—Buy Here!

Babyletto Kiwi Electronic Power Recliner & Swivel Glide

cream colored nursery chair glider and rocker
Babyletto

Comfort meets convenience with the Babyletto Kiwi Electronic Recliner and Swivel Glider. This stylish chair features electronic reclining and swiveling capabilities, making late-night feedings a breeze. Plus, its modern design will elevate any nursery decor style!

Babyletto Kiwi Electronic Power Recliner & Swivel Glider ($799.00)—Buy Here!

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13 Baby Myths Parents Can Officially Stop Worrying About

by Alicia Cox Thomson

Babies don’t come with a manual, but they do come with lots of unsolicited opinions on how to raise them best. Mothers have been passing down their wisdom (and so many old wives’ tales) for generations, and while some of that info is valid a lot of it can be disregarded as outdated baby myths. “There are tons of things you can learn from the generation before,” says Dr. Whitney Casares, author of Doing It All: Stop Over-Functioning and Become the Mom and Person You’re Meant to Be and Gerber pediatric consultant. “The most important thing, however, is to fact-check them with a doctor to make sure it’s up to date with current recommendations.”

Since good advice can be a new parent’s saving grace, we’ve enlisted Casares to help us debunk the less-than-solid suggestions—everything from babies needing to poop daily (false) to the idea that you can spoil an infant (super-duper false). Here are 13 common baby myths that could definitely use a background check.

1. You can spoil a baby with too much affection.

Let’s get this one out of the way first for the folks who need to hear it: You cannot spoil a baby. Think about where babies came from—they’re used to a warm, dark, cozy space. Now they’re out in the world and it’s scary. “Our job as parents is to attend to our baby when they are feeling unsure of themselves in the world,” says Casares. “Babies are learning from their parents about attachment, safety, and security. They need to know that there’s someone to care about them.”

2. Babies need to bathe daily.

Babies never really need a daily bath, but this is especially true in the first days of life. That white, cheesy substance that’s all over your baby’s skin when they’re born is a biofilm called vernix caseosa and it’s there for a reason. “Vernix includes ceramides which are an important barrier for the skin, keeping all that good moisture in and allergens out,” says Casares. “The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) recommends that parents can keep that on as long as possible.” After that early stage, daily baths are a personal choice. The most important thing is to pay attention to your baby’s hygiene, comfort, and safety in the bath. There’s also research that speaks to the importance of maintaining their skin’s moisture barrier with regular moisturization after baths—this can actually help prevent allergies.

Related: 10 Totally Typical (but Weird) Things That Babies Do

3. Giving your baby a pacifier can cause nipple confusion.

Not true. Studies have shown that pacifiers do not interfere with breastfeeding, but there are some things to consider. The AAP recommends waiting until breastfeeding is well-established, meaning baby is eating well and gaining weight, but overall it’s a decision that’s best left up to parents. Plus, there are other positives beyond a happy baby; according to the AAP, sucking a pacifier at nap or bedtime can reduce the risk of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS).

4. You must burp a baby after every feeding…or else.

There’s something slightly ominous when it comes to burping advice, but rest assured: “Your baby will not explode if they don’t burp,” says Casares. “It’s always good to attempt to burp them after every feed, but nothing major is going to happen.” Some gas could get trapped and they may be a bit more fussy, but it usually works its way out. In fact, a 2014 study that compared burped and non-burped babies found no difference in the incidence of colic between the two groups, though they did find that the burped infants were significantly more likely to spit up.

That being said, if you’re going to give it a good go at any time, Casares says before bed is worth prioritizing because that could allow them to sleep more easily. And, well, sleep is everything for parents.

5. Your baby will doze longer if you put some rice cereal in their milk.

While we’re on the topic of sleep, this one is patently untrue and actually dangerous, though you may have heard it from your mom or mother-in-law. While they mean well, a study back in the ’80s that measured whether babies given rice cereal in their bedtime bottles were more likely to sleep through the night found no significant trend or consistent tendency of either group to sleep better than the other. And what’s worse, the AAP has stated that rice cereal in a bottle (known as RIB) is a choking hazard for babies.

Related: How to Create a Calming Bedtime Routine for Baby

6. Babies should drink water. Or they shouldn’t.

New parents may hear both versions of this baby myth. Here are the facts from the AAP: Babies six months and over who are consuming solids can drink a small amount of water, about 4-8 oz. a day. Babies younger than that or who aren’t consuming solids get all of their hydration from breast milk or formula.

7. Babies need to poop every day.

“It’s OK if your baby doesn’t poop every day as long as they are feeding well…and when the poop does come out that it’s normal consistency, soft, without any little pebbles or blood,” explains Casares. Speak with your pediatrician if anything seems amiss, but otherwise, if your baby is happy, you can put your fecal fears to rest.

8. Babies who hit milestones early are gifted.

Simply untrue… and kind of laughable. As a mother of two, I could leave it at that, but Casares agrees. “No, a baby who hits a certain milestone early does not mean they’re going to be the world’s most important genius.” (Parents, fear not, they’ll always be your little genius.) More importantly, if your baby is not meeting any of the expected developmental milestones, make sure that you discuss it with your pediatrician.

9. Babies prefer to sleep on their bellies.

If grandma tells you that in her day babies slept so much better because they put them down on their tummies, and in your sleep-deprived state you almost relent, listen up: Casares stresses that back is best. “The AAP recommends that all babies be put to sleep on their backs in a safe sleep environment, which means that it’s a firm breathable mattress with nothing else in the crib or the bassinet.” Once a baby can roll themselves from back to tummy things might change, but there’s no need to worry. “Sometimes babies will prefer to sleep on their bellies and if they can roll over, lift their head up, and clear their airway, it’s OK.”

Related: 8 Dos and Don’ts of Baby Sleep

10. All fevers should be medicated.

“One of my professors in my medical training said, ‘Fever is your friend.’ It can be a sign that your body is fighting off an infection,” explains Casares. “I recommend that parents treat a fever with a fever reducer if it is higher than 102 degrees Fahrenheit.” With that said, the younger a baby is, the more concerning a fever is to a pediatrician. Under one month is a medical emergency; under three months you still need to talk to a doctor and seek help right away.

11. You have to introduce solids in a very specific way.

Every single baby is different. What matters most when you’re introducing solids, explains Casares, is that you’re paying attention to your baby’s development and making sure that they’re physically and developmentally ready to start eating food—which means that they can sit up unassisted, that they can actually swallow the food, but also that they have interest. Generally speaking, “you want to feed the rainbow and try a variety of foods,” she says.

Furthermore, while it was once believed that a baby should be older before trying allergens, current guidelines recommend proactively introducing allergens like peanuts and eggs into their diet soon after they start solid foods. “Research is showing that introducing those allergens into your baby’s diet earlier on may help lower the risks of developing food allergies,” says Casares.

12. Newborn babies can’t see much.

From birth, babies can actually pick up on things that are across the room and see objects in their periphery, according to the American Academy of Ophthalmology, but their primary focus is on what’s much closer to them (around 8-10 inches). Over the first month, as their retinas develop and their pupils begin to dilate and take in more light, infants mostly see in black, white, and shades of grey and prefer items that are within a few feet of them, but soon after they start to see color, too.

And yes, little babies go crosseyed a lot and their eyes seem to jerk around without their permission, but that doesn’t mean they can’t see—rather, it’s a symptom of the fact that they don’t have complete control over their eye muscles just yet.

Related: A month-by-month guide to what babies can see

13. You will love and bond with your baby instantly.

This is a gentle reminder to all parents who have struggled with the expectation that they will fall in love instantly: It’s not always the case and that’s OK. Casares stressed that you’re not alone. “It took me a moment to love my first baby even as a pediatrician, especially because she was really fussy when she was born and had colic,” says Casares. “And now I love her until the end of the earth.” If you’re worried about how you feel, however, checking in with loved ones or your doctor is always a healthy choice.

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When Can Babies Safely Sleep on Their Stomach?

by Erin Pepler

As a new parent, you’ve probably heard the phrase ‘back to sleep’ more times than you can count—an excellent reminder that infants should be placed on their backs whenever you lay them in their crib. This safe sleep guidance has been around for years and continues to be echoed by sleep experts and the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP), which notes that babies should also be in their own sleep space with no other people, no blankets, and no added materials like stuffies. But you’ve also probably seen lots of photos of babies sleeping on their tummies all scrunched up like little roast chickens. Plus, Grandma won’t stop talking about how in her day babies slept however they wanted. So what’s a new parent to do? We spoke to Dr. Sara Siddiqui, a pediatrician at Hassenfeld Children’s Hospital in New York, to find out when babies can safely sleep on their stomachs.

What are the risks of placing an infant to sleep on their stomach?

The main reason safe sleep guidelines recommend placing an infant on their back when you put them to sleep is because it reduces the risk of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS). “Evidence suggests that when infants are placed on the stomach to sleep, decreased movements and decreased airflow cause an increase in carbon dioxide near the mouth and nose area, potentially causing respiratory suppression,” Dr. Siddiqui explains. By creating a safe sleep space and placing your baby on their back to sleep, you’re significantly reducing their risk of SIDS—knowledge that should help parents sleep better through the night, too.

Some parents think there are risks associated with back sleeping, like their little ones being more likely to choke if they spit up or to develop flat head syndrome (or plagiocephaly). But both are unfounded, according to the safe to sleep guidelines from the National Institute of Health. When babies sleep on their backs, their trachea is positioned above the esophagus, making it hard for fluids to travel against gravity and cause them to choke, whereas on their stomachs the trachea is beneath the esophagus and it’s easier for fluids to make their way to the lungs. Either way, babies very rarely choke in their sleep. Flat heads are also not a concern if your tot is doing tummy time and moving around during the day—plus, they typically resolve themselves.

What should you do if your infant rolls onto their stomach at night?

This is a tough one, because while ‘back to sleep’ is definitely best, babies will start repositioning themselves at some point—and the answer isn’t necessarily to roll them over every time it happens. If your baby has the strength and coordination to roll one way (from back to stomach), they’ll soon develop the ability to roll back over again, at which point you can confidently let them sleep in any position they like after placing them down on their back. You can reposition them if you want, but it’s okay to let them move around in their sleep. Don’t be tempted by products that claim to keep babies positioned on their backs, as they have not been proven safe and may actually increase risk.

“I do not recommend anything in the crib area including bumpers, blankets, sleep positioners, or [weighted] sleep sacks as these could lead to potential suffocation in infants,” Siddiqui says. Non-weighted sleep sacks are fine, she confirms, but any sort of weighted blanket or sleepwear poses a threat to your infant’s safety.

Should you stop swaddling your baby once they start rolling over?

Yes—once your baby is on the move, a sleep sack (or a cozy sleeper and no sleep sack) is safer than swaddling, experts agree. The Safe Sleep guidelines advise that you should stop swaddling your infant once they’re able to roll over, reminding parents that swaddling your baby doesn’t actually reduce their risk of SIDS.

Related: 8 Dos & Don’ts of Baby Sleep (So Everyone Gets More Rest)

Essentially, once an infant can roll onto their stomach, they need to be able to roll back—something they may not be able to do if restricted by a swaddle blanket. The NIH affirms Siddiqui’s view that parents should avoid weighted sleep sacks and swaddles, which have not been proven safe for use. Not only do these products restrict movement, they may restrict an infant’s ability to breathe by placing added weight on their bodies. This is particularly dangerous because infants’ rib cages are still developing in those early months, which makes it harder for them to expand their chests and breathe properly. The best sleep environment for an infant is one that’s basically empty—just your baby in a crib or bassinet, in their pajamas, with nothing else on or around them.

So, when exactly can babies sleep on their stomachs?

There’s no magic age, but most infants develop the ability to roll from their front to their back when they’re between four months and six months old (at which point the risk of SIDS drops significantly). You should still place your baby on their back at bedtime, but once they’ve reached this stage, it’s normal for them to reposition themselves throughout the night. If you’ve created a safe sleep environment that follows medical advice, you don’t need to worry about this movement. We all move in our sleep to find the comfiest position—babies included! The guidelines recommend putting your babe down on their back until their first birthday.

What other risks should be avoided?

While ‘back to sleep’ is the best-known safe sleep strategy, there are other ways parents can reduce risk. In addition to putting babies to sleep on their backs, it’s best to keep them away from secondhand smoke at all times and make sure they aren’t too warm at night, as overheating is thought to contribute to some cases of SIDS. Respiratory illnesses are another potential risk factor, so consider asking visitors if they’ve been unwell recently before letting them get close to your little one.

There are also ways to lower your child’s risk of SIDS by supporting their physical development. “Babies usually learn to roll from stomach to back, and then back to stomach as they become stronger,” Dr. Siddiqui says. “Tummy time is essential in this process.” By practicing tummy time with your baby, you’re helping them develop the core strength and coordination they need to roll safely from their stomach to their back. It’s not just about preventing a flat head—it’s also a safe sleep strategy!

And while bed-sharing isn’t recommended, room-sharing is. The Mayo Clinic suggests having your infant sleep in the same room as you, but not in the same bed, for a minimum of six months. Exclusively breastfeeding your baby (or giving them pumped breast milk) has also been linked to lower instances of SIDS—the longer you breastfeed, the lower the risk is, though the exact reason is unclear.

Sweet dreams for baby and parents

Getting your baby to sleep through the night may be a challenge, but at the end of the day, safe sleep habits are simple: place your infant on a firm, flat surface, avoid loose materials and weighted products, and always remember ‘back to sleep’ when positioning your child in their crib. If you have additional questions, Dr. Siddiqui suggests reaching out to your family doctor for answers and advice. “It’s essential to practice safe sleep practices with all infants,” she says. Talk to your child’s care provider, ask those questions, follow medical guidelines, and know that you’re doing a great job creating a safe sleep space for your baby.

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6 Ways Your Baby Says ‘I Love You’

by Kim Shiffman

A parent’s endless love for their baby can feel like a one-way street. Despite doing everything you can to keep this little blob happy, sometimes your babe just won’t stop screaming in your face, and that’s when you might start to wonder if they even like you. They do, of course—and they even show it! But unlike smiling or crawling, your infant declaring their love isn’t a neatly charted milestone, and the early signs your baby loves you can be so subtle that you may just be missing them. Here are a few ways your little bean is actually letting you know just how much they adore you.

1. They gaze at you.

Newborns don’t see particularly well—they’re highly sensitive to bright light, and for their first two months, their eyes often do not work together very well, according to the American Academy of Ophthalmology. But as the weeks go by, they’ll gain the ability to focus on objects that are close, and along with bright colors and large shapes, they’re fascinated by faces, particularly those of their caregivers. “Infants are drawn to faces, and when they’re being fed in particular, they’ll stare up at you and it’s a loving experience,” says Dr. Joanne Cummings, a clinical psychologist in private practice in Toronto. Get up close and let them take in all the features of your face, as they build up the connection between you and all the good things in life that you bring them.

Related: Hang in There: 25 Things New Moms Need to Hear

2. They turn toward your voice.

Despite being surrounded by fluid, infants can hear sounds when inside the womb, and they fall in love with the comforting consistency of their mother’s heartbeat and voice. Once they’re on the outside, your voice continues to represent comfort and security during a time of chaos and change. That’s why you might notice that your little one turns their head toward you when you speak, even when being held by another caregiver they love.

3. They love your cuddles.

When your baby is tired, upset, or overstimulated, do they calm right down if you scoop them up and hold them close? Or, even better, nuzzle their head into your neck a little? That’s love, baby! Your little one is saying they want and need your comfort. “In the newborn stage, babies are generally more comforted when they’re held by an attachment figure like mom or dad,” says Cummings. “As they get better control of their bodies, that’s when you can see them snuggle into you or caress you during feeding.” Of course, not all babies are cuddlers, and if yours rejects the snuggles it most certainly doesn’t mean they don’t love you or that there’s anything wrong with them. Physical touch might not be their love language—or at least not at this stage in their life—and that’s OK.

4. They smile at you.

There’s maybe nothing sweeter in the world than your baby’s first smiles. They usually show up around the six-week mark, give or take, but around four months is when babies will smile to engage you and show their love. “Often in the first weeks, they smile when they’re dreaming, or some say it’s because of gas, but after six weeks, when they’re looking at you directly and smile, you’ll know it’s a social smile,” says Cummings.

How you respond to those smiles is important. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, responding quickly and enthusiastically lets babies know they’re important to you and can trust you. It also shows you’re interested in and value them, which contributes to their developing self-esteem.

Related: 10 Totally Typical (but Weird) Things That Babies Do

5. They’re comforted by your smell.

It may seem strange that a tiny baby—who barely knows night from day and literally doesn’t realize their hands belong to them—could recognize and be comforted by a specific odor, but science proves it. In one study, crying newborns were presented with an article of clothing that smelled like their mom and they stopped crying, while a clean piece of clothing didn’t do a thing. In another study, babies showed a distinct preference for a cotton swab with their mother’s breast milk on it. Your baby loves your scent because they love you!

6. They’re sad when you leave.

Although it can break your heart when your baby reaches and cries for you as you’re leaving, it’s also pretty strong evidence of their love and attachment. “This occurs over the first 18 months of life that they become distressed when you leave,” says Cummings. Just don’t be surprised if they freak out when you return, too, like when you pick your baby up from daycare and they cry hysterically. They definitely aren’t upset that you’re back. Rather, Cummings says they’re more likely just overwhelmed by their big emotions—and those most definitely include their love for you.

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Black-Owned Businesses for Babies & New Moms

by Eva Ingvarson Cerise

Discover new favorites with these Black-owned online businesses that sell must-have items for pregnant women, new moms, babies, and toddlers. From pregnancy necessities and breastfeeding support to baby clothes, books, and toys, these companies were built with quality and representation in mind. If you’re heading to a baby shower soon, this list has lots of great options for both mom and baby.

Lucy Lue Organics
Made with premium organic cotton, these stylish, solid-colored baby essentials are made to last from season to season, and to be handed down. Check out the timeless bodysuits, bloomers, rompers, pants, tops, hats and more.

Shop at lucylueorganics.com

Sun & Lace
Each of these adorable moccs, boots, oxfords, mary janes, and bella janes (their signature style) are handcrafted by owner Briana in her Wisconsin studio. These are heirloom-quality shoes in neutral colors with sweet and stylish details.

Shop at sunandlace.com

Kammy Kids
This is the place to find graphic bodysuits and t-shirts with sayings you’ll love: “little love,” “best friend,” “new to the crew,” “big bro” and our favorite, “milk’n it.” These will take your Insta photos to a whole new level.

Shop at kammykids.com

Junobie
These breast milk bags just changed the pumping game. They’re made from 100% food-grade silicone, they’re reusable, and they’re safe for the dishwasher, microwave, freezer or oven. With milk bags, boxes, jars and cups, they have everything you need to store your liquid gold.

Shop at junobie.com

What Little Wonder
Dress up your nursery with these modern and bohemian knit blankets, perfect for tummy time, cuddles, naps, and reading. Also great for staying warm during stroller walks.

Shop at whatlittlewonder.com

Yinibini Baby
We especially love the cute designs that are hand-screen-printed on organic cotton onesies. In addition to baby clothes, Soyini George’s shop also sells bibs, books, toys, teethers and more.

Shop at yinibinibaby.com

Happy Mango
Get baby gear, nursery necessities, toys, clothes, and everything you need for bathing and feeding. The Black-owned business sells top brands and offers a baby registry you can fill with items on your wishlist.

Shop at shophappymango.com

Tippy Tot Shoes
A great spot to buy luxury shoes for your favorite babies, from crib shoes to walking shoes. Search the stylish selection of classic, vintage, and retro styles for timeless kicks you’ll love.

Shop at tippytotshoes.com

Coco’Pie Clothing
Celebrate black girl beauty with these cute clothes, pillows, and accessories for babies and young girls. The website also sells natural hair care to keep those gorgeous locks healthy and nourished.

Shop at cocopieclothing.com

KaAn’s Designs
The Greens family owns this parenting lifestyle brand of tees and accessories for kids and the whole family. Check it out for cool sayings, holiday collections, and matching outfits for siblings, mommy & me, daddy & me, and more.

Shop at kaansdesigns.com

Kido
Shop by age for clothing, books, toys, activities and more at this family-owned shop based in Chicago. Run by married creatives Doug and Keewa, he designs prints for shirts while she drives the vision and curates the shop.

Shop at kidochicago.com

Miles and Milan
Minimalist yet fashion-thoughtful is the aesthetic of Shennel Fuller’s shop of clothing basics and fashion pieces. The casual joggers, hoodies, tees, and sweatshirts come in solids and simple designs. One cute bodysuit made Oprah’s Favorite Things list.

Shop at milesandmilan.com

The Rooted Baby Co.
“Rooted in love. Rooted in culture” is the mantra behind this online shop celebrating the founders’ Ghanaian background. The baby items are designed with authentic African print fabric or are inspired by the Ghanaian people. Find bows, swaddles, gift boxes and more.

Shop at rootedbabyco.com

Ade + Ayo
Enjoy the beauty of African design with these baby and toddler clothes, accessories and toys. Founder Temidayo Adedokun designs and curates the collection of beautiful and practical items.

Shop at adeandayo.com

Minibrook
We love these stylish clothing essentials for kids. The mix-and-match solids and stripes are the epitome of casual cool and built for playtime.

Shop at minibrook.co

Brave + Kind Bookshop
Shop for inclusive board books, picture books, chapter books and cool toys and accessories. The book bundles takes the guesswork out of shopping for gifts.

Shop at braveandkindbooks.com

Tinkypoo
The colorful designs on these diapers feature super cute babies who are Black, Brown, Asian American and Pacific Islanders. In addition to being adorable, they’re absorbent and made with plant-based ingredients. Available in newborn to size 4.

Shop at tinkypoo.com.

Stina & Mae
Founded by new mom Mishell Ekunsirinde when she couldn’t find a changing mat she liked, Stina & Mae sells organic, high-quality products for modern mamas and babies, including mats, snuggle blankets, nursing pads, bibs, burp cloths and cotton wipes. Buy items individually or choose a beautiful gift box curated with eco-friendly baby essentials.

Shop at stinaandmae.com

Cozy n Cute Kids Boutique
The kids’ clothes at the Cozy N Cute Kids Boutique are cute, comfortable, and always on trend. You’ll find cool sayings, sweet ruffles and fun prints you and your child will love. This online kids clothing store was founded by Priscilla Wesson, a Black mom with two daughters from Long Island, NY. She launched her online shop in June 2020 and focuses on practical everyday styles for young kids, with affordable prices, great deals and top-notch customer service.

Shop at cozyncutekidsboutique.com

Milky Mama
Milky Mama was created by Krystal Nicole Duhaney, a registered nurse, board-certified lactation consultant and breastfeeding mother of two. She began her business making lactation cookies and has branched out into brownies, iced tea, lemonade, smoothie mix and herbal supplements, all to help women maintain their milk supply. The website also offers breastfeeding support from a team of lactation consultants, doula services and a Moms at Work Program to assist corporations in supporting breastfeeding employees in the workplace.

Shop at milky-mama.com

Pretty Please Teethers
When mom Kelli had trouble finding safe, stylish, natural handmade items for her babies, she decided to make and sell her own. Her teethers, pacifiers, pacifier clips, rattles, bibs and snack cups are functional and beautiful with minimalist flair, in soft and stylish colors. All of the products are handmade and designed in Utah and made from food-grade silicone and natural beechwood.

Shop at prettypleaseteethers.com

Mila Christina
The beautiful and durable cashmere (yes, cashmere!) baby bodysuits from Mila Christina help regulate body temperature and are soft on baby’s sensitive skin. These gorgeous turtleneck bodysuits come in soft, classic colors and have buttons at the bottom and up the turtleneck for easy on and off. Founder and creative director Ollia Njibaloh created the bodysuits to keep her own daughter warm and comfortable.

Shop at milachristina.com

Healthy Roots Dolls
Show your love for curly girls with a Zoe doll from Healthy Roots Dolls. The company’s first doll, Zoe is 18 inches tall with a soft cloth body torso and vinyl limbs. Best of all, her gorgeous dark, curly hair is washable and styleable! Leave her hair down or put it in braids, puffs and other beautiful styles. Founder Yelitsa Jean-Charles was inspired to create more diverse toys while studying illustration at the Rhode Island School of Design. With a grant from Brown University and support from Kickstarter backers and other groups, she made her dream come true, and now creates dolls like Zoe that make lots of little girls’ dreams come true.

Shop at healthyrootsdolls.com

The Stork Bag
We love this pregnancy gift created by Ericka N. Perry for bringing a smile to mamas: Pregnant women receive a cute, reusable bag full of useful products handpicked by moms, geared toward the trimester, postpartum, or to moms expecting a rainbow baby after a pregnancy loss. The company also sells pregnancy journals, baby products, body products, and more.

Shop at thestorkbag.com

King + Lola Kids 
Jasmine Walker started her kids fashion business while pregnant with her second child and completing her MBA degree. King + Lola sells children’s clothing and accessories, including eco-friendly and upcycled items. The products are all made in the USA with fabrics from around the world. The company gives back to charities and nonprofit organizations.

Shop at kingandlola.com

Little Muffincakes Baby Boutique
From blankets and bibs to burp cloths and bodysuits, the products from Little Muffincakes Baby Boutique are adorned with sweet images of Black kids at play. Through relatable imagery and high-quality products, they aim to promote self-acceptance and self-esteem.

Shop at littlemuffincakes.com

HarperIman
The mother-daughter duo behind HarperIman dolls are committed to designing dolls of color that reinforce to children of color how important, smart, talented, creative and beautiful they are. Choose from keepsake dolls, baby dolls, tea party dolls, more to love dolls, or order a custom doll, when available.

Shop at harperiman.com

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The Best Hands-Free Breast Pump, Based on Your Exact Needs

by Kate Cartia

Breastfeeding is no small task and pumping shouldn’t add more to your already-full plate. It’s a necessity for lots of moms, whether they exclusively pump, work outside the home, or just want the peace of mind of backup milk. And we know that pumps have come a long way since the days of lugging around a huge machine that sounded like construction equipment. Now, moms can pump while still tackling our day, thanks to the advent of the hands-free breast pump.

With that kind of convenience, it’s tempting to just grab the first one you see, but comfort is major here, and each pump offers something different. So take a look at some of our favorite hands-free breast pumps below to find one that almost does all the work for you! We’ve also included links to insurance coverage information, and really encourage you to check with your health insurance provider for your personal plan’s coverage specifics. 

Jump to:
WillowGo
Medela Freestyle
Momcozy V2
Elvie Stride Plus
Spectra 9 Plus
TSRETE S12
BabyBuddha Portable

Editor’s Note: Some of the brand Instagrams linked below include nursing moms experiencing breast milk overproduction. If this is a trigger for you, feel free to jump right to the product links. Everyone’s breastfeeding journey is different, and absolutely all of it is worthy of celebration.

WillowGo Pump

It’s 2024 and we refuse to be tied to our breast pumps. The WillowGo makes that so, so easy. It’s the wearable, fully in-bra pump (no bulky cords for us, thanks) with 15 levels of customizable, hospital-grade suction that can be adjusted per side.

hands holding wearable breast pumps
Willow

With a tug-and-release latch that makes it super comfortable (rated 100% comfortable by real moms, according to Willow) 45° leak-proof mobility, and an app-connected control, you can pump and live your life at the same time. Dreams do come true! For information about WillowGo Pump insurance coverage, see here.

WillowGo Pump ($349.99)—Buy Here!

Medela Freestyle Pump

Medela is synonymous with quality breast pumps, so you’re probably not surprised to see them pop up on our list. There’s a good chance you’re familiar with their MaxFlow Breast Pump, which we’re big fans of (along with 3,800 Amazon reviewers!), but we’re loving the Medela Freestyle Hands-Free Breast Pump.

a brown purse with a Medela Freestyle pump inside next to glasses and lipstick
Medela

Along with being incredibly lightweight, the discreet pump fits right in your pocket while the anatomically designed cups stay comfortable and avoid localized compression. Connect with the Medela Family App for easy tracking and you have another breast pump win from the Medela geniuses. To check on insurance eligibility through Medela, grab more information here. 

Medela Freestyle Pump ($249.99)—Buy Here!

Momcozy V2 Breast Pump

Nine adjustable suction levels and a fully hands-free design put the Momcozy V2 Pump high on the list of best breast pumps. It’s oh-so-quiet and the double-sealed flange keeps the cups secure.

woman pushing a stroller outside while wearing a wearable breast pump under her white tank top
Momcozy

The pump itself is so small and easy to tuck onto your pocket or waistband. It comes with 4 flange sizes and only 4 parts to clean, too. We’ll take that any day. Check out how Momcozy has collaborated with DME (Durable Medical Equipment). suppliers to get your pump covered by your insurance here.

Momcozy V2 Pump ($199.99)—Buy Here!

Elvie Stride Plus Pump

Hospital-grade performance (a whopping -300 mmHg!) with a hands-free, in-bra design that lets you go anywhere while pumping makes the Elvie Stride a super popular choice among pumping moms.

a product image of an elvie stride hands free breast pump and phone app
Elvie

It’s available in the original Stride and the Stride Plus, which includes a 3-in-1 carrying case for moms on the go (aren’t we all?). Your pick. You can’t lose either way. To see your eligibility to save on Elvie breast pumps with insurance, more info is available here.

Elvie Stride & Stride Plus Pump ($269.99+)—Buy Here!

Spectra 9 Plus Portable Pump

Spectra has climbed to the gold standard of breast pumps in recent years between their S1 Plus Rechargeable Electric Breast Pump, the S2 Electric Pump, and the Spectra Synergy Gold Double Adjustable Pump. One of the newer additions to the Spectra fam is the portable S9 and it’s definitely taken off.

Spectra

Like all Spectra pumps, the 9 Plus is hospital strength with a true ‘closed’ system, creating a barrier between outside contaminants and breastmilk. There are even several massage settings to make pumping as comfortable as possible. To explore insurance coverage on Spectra pumps, use their lookup tool here.

Spectra 9 Plus Portable Pump ($145.85)—Buy Here!

TSRETE S12 Pump

The TSRETE S12 Pump is one of the most affordable quality hands-free pumps available. It’s excellent even as a backup to keep at work or for traveling.

pink wearable TSRETE breast pumps
TSRETE

With an LCD display (all you have to do is look down to see what’s going on!), a memory function, and USB charging, this pump easily stands with its higher-end counterparts. Connect with your health insurance carrier about coverage for TSRETE pumps.

TSRETE S12 Pump ($89.99)—Buy Here!

BabyBuddha Portable Pump

Although the original model of the BabyBuddha Portable Pump isn’t a traditional and discreet wearable, the Hands-Free Pump Collection Cups are available on their site for in-bra wear! You can also bundle the pump and the cups and save an extra $10.

a product image of the BabyBuddha breast pump
BabyBuddha

This is definitely one small-but-mighty pump, thanks to the 15 different settings and unique suction patterns. It’s also extremely quiet, so you won’t miss a beat. For insurance coverage information, check out the BabyBuddha information page here.

BabyBuddha Portable Pump ($169.99)—Buy Here!

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11 Things That Should Be on Your Daycare Checklist

by Oz Spies

Set up your child for a great start with this list of must-haves

Diapers? Check. Lunch? Check. A sleepy child? Check! If you’re wondering what to pack for daycare, and even if your childcare provider has a list of items kids will need on a typical day, some things can make all the difference in your little one’s day. From weather-appropriate gear to a family photo, here’s your handy daycare checklist of must-haves and why they’re important.

1. Labels
Slap your kid’s name on everything, from bottles to clothes. We love Mabel’s Labels because they’re pre-printed with your child’s name, come in easy-to-use packs, and stay put through hundreds of washings. Put waterproof labels on your child’s bag, lunch bag, jacket, and inside shoes. If your child has food allergies, order allergy labels, too.

2. Bottles & Liquids
Depending on how long your little one will be at daycare, you’ll need baby bottles plus breast milk or formula or, for older kids, a leak-proof water bottle. Be sure to pre-measure the formula. Most daycares have refrigerators or freezers available to keep liquids cold.

3. Lunch Bag & Bibs
You’ll also need a lunch bag and bib if your little one eats solid food. An insulated lunch bag is best, as it keeps food cool and can be used later on for picnics and other excursions. We love the PackIt lunch bags with built-in cold packs.

4. Diapers & Wipes
Gather up diapers in the right size, and send off as many as your little one will need at the start of each week, with a few extra just in case. It’s easiest to label diapers with a Sharpie. Be sure to send a labeled pack of wipes, too. And pack diaper cream if your little one is prone to rashes.

5. Spare Clothes
Pack at least two spare outfits for your child. You never know when your little one will have a blowout or get food or art supplies on themselves, and childcare centers don’t usually have spare clothes in every size. Check the size and seasonality of the spare clothes in your bag every two or three months so your kiddo isn’t stuck in shorts two sizes too small in January. Oh, and don’t forget extra socks!

6. Medication
If your child takes medication regularly, bring a brand new bottle with you in its original packaging. Most daycares have very specific requirements due to licensing and keeping little ones safe. Be sure to follow those requirements carefully so your baby’s medication is readily available and can be dispensed by daycare staff when needed.

7. Sunscreen & a Hat
You want your baby’s skin protected during outdoor playtime, so packing baby-friendly sunscreen is a must. Send a labeled bottle of your favorite sunscreen, and add a sun hat for extra coverage.

8. Weather Gear
Fresh air is brain food for babies, and most daycares bring kids outside as often as possible, even if it’s just for a few minutes. That means toddlers might stomp around in puddles or stare up at snowflakes. Pack weather-appropriate gear (boots, jackets, hats) so your little one is comfortable, no matter the weather.

9. A Family Photo
Many daycares put family photos up on their walls or have them in a readily available photo album. Little ones love to look at pics of their family members—just like we do. Check with your child’s school to see if they have specific requirements for what types of photos to send.

10. Lovies
Lovies make the transition from home to daycare a little easier, so it’s a must on our daycare checklist. Remember, while it’s a good idea to pack a favorite snuggly item, don’t send something irreplaceable (or buy a backup), as blankies can disappear. Also, ask if your daycare center has policies on what you can and can’t bring. Order a pair of matching lovies, like the snuggly offerings from Bunnies by the Bay, or the two-packs of security blankets from Copper Pearl, and you’ll be all set. A few days before the big drop-off day at daycare, hold the lovie to give it some of your comforting scent.

11. Lists of Your Little One’s Likes & Dislikes, Plus Paperwork
Does your baby love a good lullaby before naps or hate avocados? Daycares usually send home paperwork that includes a getting-to-know-you child form, plus essential information like medical history and development and milestone updates. Fill out these forms and include any additional information your baby’s caregivers might need so they can take good care of your sweet babe.

Make sure to snap some photos of their first day of daycare—and share them with your family and friends near and far—with the Tinybeans app. The secure platform puts parents in total control of who sees and interacts with photos and videos of their kids.

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How to Stop Breastfeeding When the Time Comes

by Abigale Schreier

When to wean your baby is an extremely personal decision, but if you feel like your time has come, read on to get a sense of how it’s done

Breastfeeding can be a magical experience for some, and the literal embodiment of “touched out” for others, but there comes a time in every lactating person’s journey when it’s time to say goodbye to the cuddles and cracked nipples and wean that baby. Maybe you’re about to head back to work and breastfeeding/chestfeeding isn’t an option anymore, or you might be past the recommended duration (six months, says the AAP) and just feel ready to give it up. Or maybe you hated every second of it so far and don’t want to do it anymore. And that’s fine! Everyone has their own unique experience, but when your time comes, how do you stop breastfeeding?

There are a few things to consider if you’re ready to wean, like if your baby has started solids yet, and whether you’re stopping before a year and switching to formula or after a year with no substitutions. Whatever the case, be sure to discuss your plan of action with your doctor or a certified lactation consultant. We spoke to a few lactation consultants to get a sense of what the process looks like so that you both have a smooth transition (because it’s an adjustment for you, too!).

How to stop breastfeeding

“Weaning a baby is very individual for each mother and baby or babies,” says Deedee Franke, a registered nurse and certified lactation consultant at Mercy Medical Center. “Before trying to wean, mom should make sure she’s physically and emotionally ready, assess how the baby may respond, and if the baby is under 1 year, make sure they can physically take a bottle and tolerate formula.”

In an ideal world, weaning is also a process, not a one-time event, explains Amy Peterson, IBCLC and lactation consultant for Evenflo. “As a baby breastfeeds less often over time, the milk supply begins to decrease and mom remains comfortable.” This helps avoid painful complications that come from stopping suddenly, like clogged ducts and mastitis.

As always, if your baby is suffering from discomfort related to reflux, starting solids, or teething, or if they’re sick, all bets are off and you can pick up where you left off once they’re back to normal. The same goes for times of major transition (like moving, starting a new daycare, or going through a big developmental milestone).

Interestingly enough, Peterson says that as soon as your baby takes their first bite of food, the weaning process naturally begins. “Over time, babies replace breastfeeding with other foods and drinks, and they replace the physical closeness of breastfeeding with other routines and forms of snuggling.”

How do you know when to stop breastfeeding?

When you stop breastfeeding is an extremely personal decision. The short answer is simply when you feel like you’re finished. If you’re exhausted and not getting any joy out of the process, then it could be time to consider weaning.

If you’re a little more flexible, Peterson says there’s a time when weaning can be more of a mutual decision between mom and baby. “When your baby begins eating more food, and breastfeeding dwindles to naps and nighttime, it could be a good time to start weaning.” But if a mom is struggling emotionally with breastfeeding or has come to resent it, it’s perfectly understandable to start the process earlier, she adds.

If you feel like you’re at this stage in your breastfeeding journey, here’s how to stop breastfeeding as seamlessly and painlessly as possible—for everyone involved.

How do you wean a baby gradually?

How you choose to wean is different for each parent, but experts agree that the best means to the end is a gradual process. This helps protect your breasts from painful complications and helps ease the emotional transition for both parties involved. Enlisting the help of a lactation consultant to cater a plan specifically to your needs is always a great option, but here are a few tried and true techniques for gradually weaning day feeding.

Drop one feed at a time:

Franke says, “In general, I would recommend dropping one feeding every three to four days and replacing it with a bottle.” Start with the feed your baby seems least interested in, and since your breasts are so enticing to your little nugget, see if someone else can do the bottle feed. Babies under a year need replacement feeds of formula or pumped breastmilk, whereas babies over a year who have a variety of foods and drinks are good to drop without replacing.

Once you’ve both settled into a new routine with one less breastfeeding session, move on to the next one and do it all over again, say the NHS. This gradual process can take anywhere from a few weeks to a few months.

Don’t offer, don’t refuse:

Another option, according to the La Leche League International (LLLI), is to practice the “don’t offer, don’t refuse” routine (this is best for older babies, as infants need to eat more regularly). This means you breastfeed your child when they ask, and don’t offer when they don’t ask. Whenever your breasts get uncomfortably engorged, express a bit of milk to take the edge off (but not enough to signal your body to produce more milk). Note that this method can take longer than dropping feeds over time.

Find new routines:

It’s always helpful to be proactive. Look at your daily routine and anticipate times you’d normally nurse that can be substituted with a bottle or something else—an activity, a snack, a visit from friends, or a walk in the park, to name a few. The LLLI also recommends enlisting help from someone else in your household to pitch in when baby would normally nurse (like first thing in the morning).

Shorten or postpone:

Lastly, you can try postponing sessions (they may get distracted and forget to ask again) or shortening the length of a feed—and Kelly Mom recommends making a game out of it. Tell your baby they can nurse until you’re done counting to 20 or singing their favorite song to help ease the transition.

How do you stop breastfeeding at night?

When your baby is around 4 to 6 months or 12 to 13 pounds, they are developmentally capable of sleeping through the night, according to What to Expect. This means they can snooze for up to an 8-hour stretch. Some parents try to stop middle-of-the-night feeds as soon as they can, while others find themselves night-weaning toddlers. Remember, every child is different and so is every family, so there’s no one-size-fits-all way to do it.

Drop feeds gradually:

In the same way you would with day weaning, it’s ideal to drop one feed at a time to slowly transition your breasts and avoid complications. When they feel uncomfortably full at night, express enough milk to take the edge off.

Load them up during the day:

If you’re still nursing during the day but weaning breastfeeding at night, minimize distractions during day feeds so your kid takes in more milk, and fill them up right before bedtime. They may be full enough from all the daytime milk to not need as much at night, says Kelly Mom. It’s also helpful to give your baby or toddler extra snuggles during the day (night nursing can be a way to get extra cuddles, so load them up when the sun’s out).

Send in backups:

Just like with daytime weaning, you can have someone else in your household take over nighttime feeds with the bottle, or have them go in just for comfort. Try shushing or rubbing baby’s back first to see if they’ll fall back asleep without milk; whenever you do feed a little who’s woken up in the night, keep it short and sweet.

Switch up your routine:

For older babies or toddlers who don’t need a solid feed before bed, try starting a new bedtime routine, says Kelly Mom. You can give them water if they’re thirsty and a snack if they’re hungry, rather than centering the routine around breastfeeding. Keep the cuddles plentiful and swap in a new book or song to make it feel fresh.

Try a dream feed:

Some parents find dream feeding helpful when night-weaning younger babies. This means quietly getting your sleeping baby a few hours after putting them down (around your bedtime) and feeding them in their dark room while they’re awake but still very drowsy, says Babycenter. This way, they’re more likely to fall asleep quickly when you put them back down, though this doesn’t work with all babies.

Since there are so many different ways to night wean, it’s helpful to contact your local lactation consultant for for a plan catered to your specific situation. “Weaning the night feeding depends a lot on the baby’s age and the expectations of the parents,” Franke says. She adds that every situation is different and it’s hard to give a set general guideline because there’s no one-size-fits-all when it comes to weaning nighttime breastfeeding. “I would suggest that a mom talk to a lactation consultant about her specific goals and expectations prior to planning and executing the plan.”

The La Leche League International website also offers a way to reach out to LLLI leaders in your area for advice and help. Additionally, Peterson recommends the book, Good Nights by Jay Gordon for more information about night weaning.

What are the risks if you don’t wean properly?

If you don’t wean properly, there are some risks involved for you and your breasts. “Overfull breasts can lead to plugged ducts, mastitis, and even abscesses,” Peterson says. “It is best to hand express or pump to relieve fullness—not enough to support milk supply, just to the point of comfort as needed.” And hopefully by using gradual weaning techniques, your breast milk will lessen and later dry up without pain or complications.

How long does it take for breast milk to dry up?

This varies from person to person. It generally takes a few weeks before your breasts stop feeling full and producing as much milk, but it can take much longer before there’s no milk at all—and that’s nothing to be concerned about. “Remnants of milk can linger for a year or more, noticed if mom’s hand expresses in the shower,” says Peterson. “This is totally normal.”

Is my child ready to wean?

Your child will make it pretty clear if weaning is moving too fast, they’re just not ready, or if now isn’t a good time, according to LLLI. You may notice more night wakings or daytime tantrums, new anxieties or fear of separation, clinginess, or regressive behaviors. In this case, take a break from weaning and try again in a little while, when your kid may feel more ready for the transition.

Weaning can be an emotionally charged time for both mom and baby. If you’re feeling depressed, anxious, or overwhelmed, speak to your healthcare provider to help find the support you need.

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