Expecting… again? Take our word for it, these are the second baby must-haves that you’ll actually use

Congrats, baby number two is on the way! That means more love in your heart, but also more stuff in your home. And it begs the question: what do you really need? We asked parents with multiple children to weigh in on what items to keep, what to donate, and what to toss to create the ultimate list of second baby must-haves. As you’ll see, not everyone was in agreement, but that’s where your opinion comes in, because you’re an experienced parent now, too. For all the parents out there who have ever wondered “what do you need for a second baby?”—this one’s for you!

Before you start the sorting process, remember to give all items a thorough check and discard any that are past their expiration date, recalled, or have wear and tear that might pose a safety hazard.

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Feeding

“Make sure to keep fresh bottles and formula on hand for the second baby, even if you didn't use them with the first. You always want to be prepared in case you need them for a middle-of-the-night feeding.”—Julianne

“Don’t keep the baby food maker. I made all my first child’s baby purees. However, I found I couldn’t keep up with the peeling, dicing, steaming and mashing with my second and working full-time. Buying storebought ended up being so much easier and less stressful. If you’re concerned about the regulations in storebought brands, my pediatrician recommended checking the Clean Label Project website. Or, there are fresh baby food subscriptions you can join, such as Yumi.”—Ashley

“I liked having my same familiar nursing pillow for baby two. You can always get a new cover to freshen it up or make it match any new decorating you do.”—Kate

“We had extra breastfeeding pillows from keeping one at a parent’s house, so we donated one of those. We learned from baby one which bottles we didn’t like, so we gave away those extras.”—Kelly

Diapering

“One product I found that was not necessary was the changing table. The floor was so much easier as I was usually sitting on it anyway, and the older sibling was right there to help as well. Pulling out extra wipes was a helpful job and having the older sibling be a part of it made it special for her and easy to keep eyes on both kiddos, which was a mom win!”—Meghan

“Don’t keep a purse-style diaper bag. Get a diaper bag backpack instead! I had a crossbody style for my first, but being hands-free was so much easier with two.”—Ashley

“Between babies one and two, we switched to cloth diapers and so donated that horrible diaper genie!”—Andie

“After the first one, I realized the waste of the diaper genie and wipes warmer. A plastic shopping bag works just the same and is much cheaper than the refills, while the wipes warmer dries out the wipes too quickly.”—Shelly

“Keep the wipe warmer. I was a skeptic. I left it in the box. I mean, really—one more thing to plug in and maintain—so unnecessary, right? Well, three kids later, the youngest (now 4) still insists on a warm wipe when the pull-up comes off in the morning. And in retrospect, who can blame her—have you ever tried to use a cold wipe on a chilly morning? Case closed!”—Kelly

Sleeping

“I was so grateful to have kept our bassinet for the second baby.”—Kerry

“Keep the crib. I reused my crib and put my son straight into a big boy bed. But don’t keep the crib mattress. You want a firm, clean mattress for the new baby!”—Ashley

“Cribs are expensive, and getting a new one for every child would be incredibly wasteful. So long as it meets safety standards, it makes sense to tighten up all the pieces, give it a good cleaning, and buy new sheets for the next baby.”—Adam

Related: 13 Signs You're on Your Second Baby

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Clothing

“We have three boys, so we saved a lot of baby clothes, only getting rid of those that were stained or damaged. We kept it all organized by size in canvas storage containers and pulled them out as needed.”—Kate

“Don’t keep all the old clothes. I had a girl after having my son, and as much clothing as I saved to be practical, I found I couldn’t resist buying some new clothes. People also gifted or handed down plenty to me. Jammies, however, keep! You can never have too many and they’re all adorable. I loved seeing my daughter in her big brother’s shark and construction jammies for some reason.”—Ashley

Car Seat

“As a mom that had her second child five years later, so much had changed. My newest family member was over ten pounds, so the infant car seat was extra heavy. So we used a convertible one and wore him as much as we could.”—Meghan

“The JJ Cole Bundleme is an absolute lifesaver. The ease of zipping it right into the car seat and not having to worry about putting coats on and off is well worth it! With multiple winter babies, I couldn’t imagine not having it!”—Rebeka

Stroller

“Time to upgrade the stroller. I like the sit-stand type so my older kid can jump on and off.”—Christopher

“If you have kids close together, a sit-and-stand stroller is great. The older one wants to be independent but still gets tired easily so it's great when they want to hop off to walk with you.”—Shelly

“We never bothered with a double stroller since the boys are four years apart.”—Kerry

“I definitely kept the strollers. I held on to almost everything if I’m being honest!”—Lindsay

Related: The Ultimate Baby Registry Checklist for New Parents-To-Be

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Play Time

“I donated anything we never used with baby one, anything broken, chewing toys with plastic, gifts we didn’t use. Babies need very little. A soft place to play on the floor, a place to sleep, an eating chair, clothes, diapers, a car seat, stroller, and a few things to play with and teeth on.”—Kelly

“One baby item I made sure to keep was the swing. It was great for the baby to take an afternoon nap in. Or a safe spot to keep the baby entertained while I made dinner. There were even a handful of nights it helped during the witching hour when everyone was at wits' end! Definitely one of the most useful baby items in our house.”—Nicole

“The playmat is a must keep. It makes the dreaded tummy time a little more manageable. And older siblings love having a turn demonstrating all the toys to the new baby.”—Kate

“Keep any safe place to put the baby when things get hectic. This includes pack and plays, swings, seats and loungers. Also, just because your first didn’t like something doesn’t mean your second will be the same. I was gifted a baby swing that my son never enjoyed using, but my daughter loved.”—Ashley

“We kept my BabyBjörn bouncer, the jumper toys, my lightweight baby carrier, our swings, all of our ‘teach the ABCs’ toys, and our ride-on lion!”—Kerry

It’s Not All About the Stuff

“I’d say that after having one child, when you’re preparing to have a second, you realize how few of the things you registered for or got with your first that you actually used. All you really need are a crib (or similar), car seat, some clothes and diapers, and a stroller and/or carrier depending on your parenting style.”—Phoebe

“The best advice I can give to parents from going from one to two kids is to give yourselves time and some grace as you adjust. Say yes to help from grandparents or friends when they offer. Try to dedicate some special time every day to your first child when the baby sleeps or other parent is home and engage in a craft, walk, reading a book or just playing with toys.”—Lindsay

Get ready to be amazed by these indoor playgrounds for kids that have trampolines, monster slides, rock climbing, and more entertainment

The year-round sunshine in San Diego gives families the ability to spend time outdoors hiking the best trails in SoCal, exploring San Diego tide pools, and even catching some waves at our kid-friendly beaches (for those brave enough to withstand cold Pacific waters) along the coast. But sometimes, it’s nice to head indoors which is why we’ve rounded up the best indoor playgrounds San Diego has to offer throughout the county. Kids of all ages will love these wonderlands with features like animal slides, giant bounce houses, and wall-to-wall trampolines.

1. Fandory Factory

This one-stop-shop offers the ultimate workspace for working parents and a super cool play space for kids. The combination of an indoor entertainment experience for your kids while providing an office/workspace for you is a unique must-visit spot. Whether you need just a desk to work for a few hours, a place to meet a colleague or a simple change of scenery from your home office, Fandory Factory is a great solution. The kid-size indoor play town offers visitors of all ages the chance to play and use their imagination as they enjoy a shopping trip at the market house, cook a meal in the kitchen, or play on the slides of the treehouse. 

16787 Bernardo Center Dr. Ste 7
San Diego
Online: fandory.com

 

2. KidWonder

KidWonder is a kinetic learning academy looking to inspire kids through physical activity to find their passion and gain confidence. They're an indoor playground, the first American ninja warrior gym in San Diego, and they also have gymnastics classes, along with mom's day out events, pre-K prep, and more. In addition, they host birthday parties and have tons of activities for kids of all ages.

4735 Point Loma Ave.
San Diego
Online: kidwonder.us

3. The New Children's Museum

The New Children's Museum offers plenty of indoor play and fun. Don't miss one of our favorite installations—Teatro Piñata, a traveling theatre caravan. Behind its curtains, nothing is as it seems. This is the world of Teatro Piñata. In this immersive theatre installation, the caravan theatre is a portal to an expansive and surreal backstage world. Much like a piñata, what’s inside brings delight to children who crack it open. Discover a ticket booth with a secret tunnel, step up on stage and put on a show, dress up in colorful costumes in the backstage dressing rooms, play with shadow puppets, and more.

Kids will also love Whammock! It's a giant hammock they can climb and swing across. 

200 West Island Ave.
San Diego
Online: thinkplaycreate.org

4. Pump it Up

Whether it's a giant slide or bounce house that your half-pints love, this is a great place to release that stored up energy. You'll have to be 34 inches to play, and you can find plenty of open days to fit your schedule. What's more, plan your next party here, and they do everything for you.

12760 Danielson Ct., Ste J
Poway

445 Ryan Dr., Ste. 103
San Marcos
Online: pumpitupparty.com

5. Westfield North County

Shop and play! Head out to this indoor mall in North County San Diego where there's plenty to do. From great shops to a giant animal play area, little bunnies can have tons of fun. What's more, the play area is free. When done, head to the inside food court for a bite to eat. Choose from options like pizza, Chinese food, and a giant cinnamon roll for dessert. Before you head out, treat tots to a ride on the mall's indoor train.

272 East Via Rancho Pkwy
San Diego
Online: westfield.com/northcounty

 

6. The Playground

Located at Grossmont Center Mall, The Playground is a little kid's version of indoor play heaven complete with ball pits, foam block pool, inflatables, trampolines, ride-on toys, basketball hoops, cars, and play centers including a grocery stand that encourage imaginative play.

5500 Grossmont Center Dr.
La Mesa
Online: theplayground4kids.com

7. My Gym Children's Fitness Center

Swing on over to My Gym Children's Fitness Center, Poway where you can explore their state-of-the-art facility and meet the staff while the kiddos play on the equipment and join in the revelry of music, dance, games, puppet shows, storytimes, gymnastics, and indoor play. My Gym offers structured classes for kids aged 6 weeks to 10 years old. Their classes incorporate circle time, dance, song, relay, games, gymnastics, puppet shows, and much more.

12222 Poway Rd., Suite 18-19
Poway
Online: mygym.com

8. The Backyard at The Nat

The San Diego Natural History Museum's nature-inspired indoor play area called The Backyard is designed for kids five and younger. This serene setting gives little ones a chance to explore the natural world while parents sit back and observe. Tiny tots ages 0-2 will dig in the garden bed and have a safe, soft space to do tummy time and grasp a variety of textures. Ages 2-5 can do activities like dressing up like familiar animals and crawling on a giant ladybug. Kids can also pot flowers, read books, sort shapes, and solve puzzles.

1788 El Prado
San Diego
Online: sdnhm.org

9. Play City

Play City truly is a world of fun for kids ages 0-12. Featuring an indoor inflatable playground and massive play structures, this is the place to go to tire out those tots. Speaking of tots, Play City has a designated toddler zone, especially for ages 1-3 making it a choice spot as an indoor playground for toddlers. Add to that? A carpeted area just for babies 0-1. Parents will love that you can bring in your own food and enjoy lunch at the tables while your kids are in view on the play structures.

871 Showroom Pl., Ste. 105
Chula Vista
Online: playcityeastlake.com

10. Rockin' Jump

This indoor trampoline park is suitable for tots, tweens, and teens, but they do something really special for the six and under set three times a week. For two hours and an affordable price, first graders and younger can have a fun, safe time. The older tots and parents will love the two basketball hoops and the foam block pits. Don't miss the dodgeball arena, slam dunk zone, and vertical ops. 

8190 Miralani Dr.
San Diego
Online: rockinjump.com

11. FUNbelievable

FUNbelievable will especially please parents with kids spaced multiple years apart. Crawlers and new walkers can claim the corner lot of this Lakeside play spot. A ball pit, a small blue slide, and soft crawl-on toys are encased by a perimeter of soft foam blocks. While FUNbelievable appeals to those 12 and under, the older set is thoroughly entertained by the neighboring play structure that includes taller slides and mazes. 

11655 Riverside Dr.
Lakeside
Online: funbelievableplay.com

12. San Diego Children's Discovery Museum

Looking for an indoor playground near Escondido? This pirate ship and slide that's enclosed by a nautical-like gate is a choice spot. Kids can prepare play food in the ship's rear galley before venturing to the lot's backyard where bubble tables and a stage with foam blocks await. When they've grown hungry for snacks prepared by you, there are some picnic tables by the garden where they can fuel up before romping around the shaded archeological digging site.

320 N Broadway
Escondido
Online: sdcdm.org

13. Gymboree

Classes at Gymboree Play & Music are arranged by age for kids five and younger, so your little ones will experience age-appropriate activities with their peers. A class begins and ends with circle time and the middle is filled with themed activities that are played out with playground-like structures that were constructed specifically for infants and young toddlers. Young babies will get the thrill of possibly going down their first slide, early explorers will crawl through tunnels, and they'll be gently schooled on just how to interact with others their age. 

4340 Genesee Ave.
San Diego
Online: gymboreeclasses.com

14. Kid City at Fleet Science Center

Consider exploring Kid City on a Residents' Free Day, the first Tuesday of each month, when admission is on the house. The second floor five and under play area is smaller than others on this list, but it's enough to keep the younger set well entertained. A grocery store with a moving conveyer belt sits prominently in the middle and little shopping carts may be seen whizzing down the room's main street. Babies will gawk with wonder as their plastic ball gets sucked up by a tube and they'll eagerly watch as toddler learners watch their ball filter through wheels and various contraptions that carry them up, down, and around the wall. 

1875 El Prado
San Diego
Online: rhfleet.org

15. Altitude

Bounce it out! The dedicated kids' court makes this indoor trampoline spot a must-do for little tykes. Even more, there are plenty of activities for bigger kids––like trying the trapeze that lands in a foam pit. You can head to the main court for major bouncing action, joust on a beam, or try your skill at the rock climbing wall. Kids won't be able to get enough of this trampoline park.

1928 Hacienda Dr.
Vista
Online: altitudevista.com

It’s that time of the week again!

We’re back with our favorite money-saving sales this week and oh boy, have we got some good ones for you. We’ve scoured the web and our own email inboxes to find our favorites and we’re pretty sure you and your wallet are going to love what we’ve come up with. Did someone say 50% off? It’s us. We did. Keep reading to see where we’re saving this week!

Maisonette's Fall Sale

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Maisonette's Fall Sale: Up to 50% Off (Prices as Marked)

Maybe we squealed when we saw this ridiculously adorable party dress ($68.00 From $51.00). Perfect for upcoming holiday happenings, or paired with edgy sneakers to tap into their inner fashionista. (PS: If you think you've seen us sing Maisonette's praises before, we're obsessed with their Halloween costumes! But remember, cutoff for Halloween orders is 10/14!)

Golden Star Party Dress (From $51.00) Here

Maisonette's Fall Sale: Up to 50% Off Here

Janie & Jack's Fall in Love Sale

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Janie & Jack's Fall in Love Sale: 20% Off Online + up to 60% Off Sale Items (10/7 - 10/10)

How darling is this Horse Toile French Terry Sweatshirt ($44.00 Now $37.99)? Make it a set with the little joggers and headband!

Horse Toile French Terry Sweatshirt ($37.99) Here

Janie & Jack's Fall in Love Sale: 20% Off Online + up to 60% Off Sale Items (10/7 - 10/10) Here

Macy's Fall Fab Sale

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Macy's Fall Fab Sale: 25%-60% Off (Ends 10/10)

If you're as obsessed with matching family pajamas as we are, this "Hey Boo" set ($12.99 starting at $9.99), created exclusively for Macy's, needs to go in your collection!

Hey Boo Family Matching Pajama Set (Starting at $9.99) Here

Macy's Fall Fab Sale: 25% - 60% Off Here

American Girl's Friends & Family Sale

American Girl's Friends & Family Sale: $20 Off + 3x AG Points When You Join AG Rewards (restrictions apply)

Corinne Tan is the American Girl Doll 2022 and we love everything from her ski boots to her adorable rescue puppy!

Corinne Tan American Girl Doll w/Book, Accessories, and Dog ($170) Here

AG Rewards Sign Up Here

GAP's Big OOTD Event

GAP's Big OOTD Event: 40% Off Reg. Style Prices with Code TREAT + Additional 10% Off with Code ADDIT

We're firm believers in the idea that you can't have too many sweaters, and this gorgeous Shaker-Stitch Pocket Sweater ($59.95 $32.37 with Codes TREAT and ADDIT) is going to live in our wardrobe rotation!

Shaker-Stitch Pocket Sweater ($32.37 with Codes TREAT and ADDIT) Here

GAP's Big OOTD Event: 40% Off Reg. Style Prices with Code TREAT + Additional 10% Off with Code ADDIT Here

DockATot Friends & Family Sale

DockATot's Friends & Family Sale: 25% Off Sitewide with Code FNFSAVE (Through 10/9)

If you haven't heard of the DockATot, you're in for a treat! This award-winning docking station is created as a safe place for babies to lounge, play, cuddle, work on tummy time, have diaper changes, and more (all supervised, of course!). It's also great for travel.

DockATot Delux+ Dock ($175 Now $131.25) Here

DockATot Friends & Family Sale: 25% Off Sitewide with Code FNFSAVE (Through 10/9) Here

Lord & Taylor's Friends & Family Sale

Lord & Taylor's Friends & Family Sale: 25% Off with Code LT25FAMILY

A white tee with a little extra oomph? Yes, please! This Cool Mom graphic tee is perfect under a flannel or jacket.

Prince Peter Cool Mom Graphic Tee ($48.00 Now $36.00) Here

Lord & Taylor's Friends & Family Sale: 25% Off with Code LT25FAMILY Here

 

Personalization Mall's Bestsellers Sale

Personalization Mall's Bestsellers Sale: Up to 40% Off Bestselling Personalized Gifts & Up to 70% Off Early Doorbusters (10/4 - 10/9)

It's hard to not absolutely love personalized gifts, even if they're for ourselves! These adorable Boo, Spooky, Welcome Personalized Pumpkins ($24.99 Now Starting at $16.99) are great for Halloween through Thanksgiving. 

Boo, Spooky, Welcome Personalized Pumpkins (Starting at $16.99) Here

Personalization Mall's Bestsellers Sale: Up to 40% Off Bestselling Personalized Gifts & Up to 70% Off Early Doorbusters Here

Pipette's October Sale

Bottle of Pipette baby wash

Pipette's October Sale: 30% Off First Order with Code SQUALANE30, Free Halloween Tote with $40+ Purchase (10/7 - 10/24)

We're probably Pipette's biggest fans, but we have great reasons to be! Their bestselling Baby Shampoo + Wash is tear-free and gentle. Clean, effective, eco-friendly skincare. Done, done, and done.

Pipette Baby Shampoo + Wash ($10.00) Here

Pipette's October Sale: 30% Off First Order with Code SQUALANE30, Free Halloween Tote with $40+ Purchase (10/7 - 10/24) Here

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Wait until you see the McDonald’s french fry toddler Halloween costume!

There’s no doubt your little pumpkin will look adorable in any costume, but if you’re eager to flex your creative spirit this Halloween and pull out all the stops for that must-have photo op, you’ve come to the right place. From stunning and elaborate to creative and hilarious, we’ve narrowed our top picks for the cutest and most clever toddler Halloween costumes. We can almost hear the “oohhs” and “awwws” now!

Teal, Yellow and Pink Butterfly

If you’re looking for a unique, show-stopping costume, this butterfly flutters to the top of the pack. To make this exact costume you’ll need Martha Stewart paints, stencils, and plenty of cardboard. Head over to Tell Love and Party for all the details.

Cabbage Patch Doll

The beauty of this toddler Halloween costume is that you can order it! Now, will they keep the wig on long enough to hit the trick-or-treat circuit? That’s another question all together.

Circus Animal Cookie

This circus animal cookie costume hits all the right notes. It’s colorful, cozy, and completely original. Visit A Joyful Riot for all the details on how to re-create this sprinkled-covered costume. Although this tutorial was technically designed for a baby, you can easily adapt it for a toddler or big kid. Just buy bigger clothes and be prepared to cut out a few more circles—it’s that easy!

Related: Family Halloween Costumes That Are a Freakin’ Delight

BB-8 & Rey

Halloween costume inspo is bubbling over on Lauren Mancke’s Insta feed. The talented designer highlights a costume (or three) a day throughout October. Mom to twin girls and a son Fox, she motivates everyone to scratch that creative itch and go big this season! She also offers tons of great ideas on family costumes, like this deep sea Odessey your whole crew will love.

Pretty Peacock

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It may not feel like it, but the amount of time you’ll get to dress your kids up for Halloween is finite. So why not go all out while you can? This Peacock costume is stunning and will make for the most beautiful photos. Use this image as inspiration or follow this step-by-step tutorial to create a similar look.

Carousel Horse Toddler Halloween Costume

Save those amazon boxes! This DIY costume uses the most versatile material around—cardboard. Find all the details on A Joyful Riot, including a template that will get you on your way to replicating this amazing Carousel horse for your sweet trick-or-treater.

McDonald’s French Fry Box

The cutest fast food order we’ve ever seen. Even better, the accessories you’ll need can be picked up with a quick trip through the drive-through!

 

Astronaut Jetpack Costume

Sure you can find an astronaut costume online, but if you want to shoot for the stars you can create your own. Check out Bravery Magazine for all the details on how to make this out-of-this-world costume.

Related: Deceptively Easy Baby Costumes Made with a Onesie

Treasure Chest

Ahoy, me hearties! Why not turn your biggest treasure into a pirate’s booty this Halloween? Use this costume by Wild Ink Press as inspiration to turn that cardboard box into a golden treasure chest. Even better, you can play along by dressing up as a pirate yourself. Family costume, complete!

Awesome Octopus

Sewing skills are required for this adorable octopus costume, which comes complete with soft, squishy tentacles for your little one to play with. If you’ve got the skills and some time, the final result is so worth it. Check out the project at Mermagblog.

Army Guy

Halloween only comes around once a year! So if you don’t mind going through lots of green spray paint, this costume will turn heads and make your little soldier the talk of the town. Check out the full tutorial here. 

Rainbow Wagon

Incorporating a wagon into your toddler’s costume is brilliant for so many reasons. So, when we saw this rainbow weather costume from Studio DIY, we instantly fell in love. Use the wagon as a base, toss your little cloud in, and you’re guaranteed a night of trick-or-treating that doesn’t need to end early! There are tons of options for turning it into a family weather costume, like the sun and rain you see here or even a snowflake or lightning bolt for siblings.

Baby Owl Toddler Halloween Costume

Toddler Halloween Costume
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Whooo is the cutest child around? Yours, of course. This DIY costume takes a little time and patience, but it’s worth it to see your baby owl looking cuteand feeling comfortablein the final result. For step-by-step instructions, go to The Love Notes Blog.

Birthday Cake Costume

A birthday cake for Halloween! Yes, please. This sweeter-than-sugar costume is just what you need to flex your creative spirit and give your little one a costume they’ll never forget. A Subtle Revelry shares all the details on how to make this dreamy fit.

Tiny Toadstool

Wispy House

This teeny, tiny toadstool makes an excellent sidekick for a mini Mario Bros or a fairy princess. Wispy House has all the info on how to make this magic mushroom.

 

Andy Cohen announced the birth of his daughter, Lucy Eve, to the world on April 29, 2022. Just weeks later, Lucy was photographed with Uncle Anderson Cooper, casually sporting a blinged-out Snoopy shirt and $400 Fendi pants gifted by Denise Richards, while lounging in a luxe Strawberry Thief Deluxe Dock-a-Tot.

Check out Anderson, Lucy, and the elegant lounger:

Dock-A-Tots are offered in a variety of stylish colorways and quality fabrics, plus the line offers trendy nursing pillows and decor accessories to match. Every Dock-A-Tot is designed to give baby a safe, designated space to lounge and relax and they’re amazing to use for tummy time, too! If you’re trying out Dock-A-Tot for the first time, be sure to brush up on the brand’s safety tips.

More recently, the luxe baby line launched their Surrealist Dreams line which features brand new Dock-A-Tot designs and sun-shielding cabana kits to match:

surrealist dreams new dock-a-tot release

dock a tot cabana review

Whether you’re a first-time nursing mama, a seasoned SAHD, or any particular parent in between, Dock-A-Tot is one of the key baby products on our must-have list. Classy and convenient, you’ll get plenty of use out of your Dock-A-Tot whether you need a place to prop baby for an at-home photoshoot or a safe space for baby to lay whether at home or on-the-go. Bookmark this page for the latest Dock-A-Tot news!

 

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Holding on to baby gear for your next child is a smart move, saving you both money and time. Unless these items pose a risk to your child’s health or safety. So pack up the baby clothes, books and toys and then read on to find out how to safely reuse baby gear for your next child.

A word of caution: For anything you keep, check to make sure there have not been any recalls, that no pieces are missing, and that everything is intact and in good working order before you sacrifice storage space to it.

What to Ditch

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Mattresses
There is some evidence that used crib mattresses pose an increased risk of sudden infant death syndrome. While the risk is higher from mattresses from a different home, there is still a slightly increased risk of SIDS when a mattress is reused by a sibling. Additionally, the American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that babies sleep on a firm, flat surface. Many mattresses become soft and develop divots with use. This means used mattresses may be unsafe.

Nipples
Nipples for baby bottles are usually made from silicone or rubber, and both substances break down over time. They can also degrade after exposure to heat from repeated washings. For this reason, you should replace nipples for baby number two.

Pacifiers
Like nipples, pacifiers are normally made from materials that do not stand the test of time. There is also a risk that older pacifiers may break off of their base, posing a choking hazard. Given how inexpensive pacifiers are, it makes sense to replace them all. 

Think Before You Keep

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Car Seats
It's never a good idea to buy a used car seat, since there is no way to be sure its safety wasn't compromised in an accident. However, if you want to reuse an older sibling's car seat, it might be safe to do so. The most important thing to check is that the car seat has not expired. If the car seat is past its use-by date, or if it has ever been in an accident, get rid of it. Otherwise, it's usually safe to use a car seat for a younger sibling as long as all parts are intact. Keep in mind that car seat technology is constantly evolving, so even if your old car seat is still in good shape it might be a good idea to invest in a new car seat with better safety features. 

Breast Pump
It's perfectly safe for many mothers to reuse their own breast pumps for a second child. All parts should be sterilized and checked for signs of mold before use. Most parts can be sterilized by placing them in boiling water for 5 minutes or using a specially designed microwavable pouch. It is not safe to use a breast pump that has previously been used by another woman, with the exception of hospital-grade pumps. There is a risk of contamination from bacterial or viral particles that can make a baby sick. Many insurance companies cover a new breast pump for each pregnancy, so check your coverage before making a decision.

Keep It

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And now for the good news about how to reuse baby gear the safe way.

Crib
Most cribs are sturdy and can safely be used for multiple children, as long as the mattress is replaced. Make sure your old crib meets current safety standards and check for recalls. If there are features now considered unsafe, such as drop sides or large spaces between slats, it's time for a new crib. Otherwise, reusing a crib can save you a bundle. 

High Chair 
High chairs may get dirty, but most are built to take a beating. As long as your high chair has no broken parts, remains stable and there is no risk of baby sliding out, it's likely safe for you to reuse this essential item. 

Stroller 
Strollers are one of the most reused items for second babies for good reason! Well-made strollers last a long time and remain functional even if the fabric fades. Unlike car seats, safety features have not changed much over time. If you don't need to upgrade to a double stroller once a new bambino appears on the scene, chances are good it's perfectly safe to use your stroller for another child.  

Bottles
Most baby bottles can be cleaned and sterilized easily. That means it's safe to use them for multiple babies. But make sure to replace those nipples.

Slings and Carriers
Baby slings, wraps and carriers generally hold up over time. As long as there are no broken buckles and straps remain taut, it's likely safe to reuse your favorite carrier.

Playmat

Babies need a lot of tummy time. Luckily, most play mats and baby gyms can be cleaned and reused safely.

Baby Bath
If your baby bathtub is free of cracks and mold there is no reason it can't be used again! 

Cloth Diapers
Although there may be a little bit of a "yuck" factor, cloth diapers are safe to reuse for a second child. It's very easy to wash cloth diapers and make them good as new. 

Bouncers
Baby bouncers are a lifesaver for many parents of newborns, since they give their arms a much needed break. As helpful as they are, this essential piece of gear is relatively simple. That means there is not much that can go wrong, making most safe to reuse for your next baby.

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Parenting secret: One of the best resources for parenting advice is other parents. Whether you’re a first-time parent, a mom of twins, a father looking to connect with other dads or in search of some neighborhood families to share info with, there’s an NYC parenting group for you. Read on to find your fit. For more ways to connect try these NYC Parenting Facebook groups. For ideas on what to do with your new addition, check out things to do before your baby turns one, and what all new NYC parents need to know.

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A Mother is Born
Sometimes the best resource for Parenting 101 can be found by turning to another mother with some serious child-rearing knowledge.  A Mother is Born is a business owned by a mother, Meredith Fein Lichtenberg, who also happens to be a registered international board-certified lactation consultant, certified childbirth educator, non-fiction writer, among other talents.  The business offers pregnancy and parenting services for New York City moms.  The website provides insights, tips, events, and information on classes and groups for pregnant couples, new moms, working moms, and moms seeking lactation advice.  Meredith Fein Lichtenberg teaches group and private childbirth classes, prenatal workshops, new mom classes, and offers private consults to smooth the transition for moms going back to work.

Online: amotherisborn.com

Bad Moms of Long Island
One of the newer entries to our list, the Bad Moms of Long Island Facebook group was started by LI mom Jesse Curatolo back in September of 2018. It's a strictly no-judgement zone, and venting is encouraged! (If you get on a high horse, you'll be asked to leave.) Sorry dads—this one is just for moms. Talks of in-person meetups for the group are in the works for 2019.

Online: facebook.com

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Big City Moms
Big City Moms was founded by city moms for city moms, and its biggest event is one no expectant mother or growing family should miss.  Biggest Baby Shower Ever, held in NYC (and many other cities, including Atlanta, Chicago, Los Angeles, Miami, and San Francisco) is a jam-packed event that promises and delivers and event filled with gear, info, demonstrations, and more. (Mocktails for all!) Expect to be pampered, receive goodies galore and gain some helpful information about the whole having-and-raising-a-baby thing. Plus, over 100 vendors attend hoping to seduce expecting parents with some of the newest and best baby and parenting products on the market.

Beyond this epic event, other Big City Moms upcoming events include UES New Moms Support Group weekly get together, Infant and Toddler Safety and CPR Class, Nanny Safety Class, and an Expectant Moms Dinner.  The website includes a blog that offers tips for parents and those expecting, the hottest trends in the industry, as well as chances to win amazing baby products and more.  The company was formed over 12 years ago and while they have accrued over 300,000 members throughout the years, they also acquired some hefty celebrity fans such as Jessica Alba, Christopher Gavigan, Susan Lucci and Kimberly and James Van Der Beek, to name a few.

Online: bigcitymoms.com

BoCoCa Parents
“BoCoCa” is not a widely used term but it means something for those families immediately south of Downtown Brooklyn. (It’s a blended word combining the names of three adjacent Brooklyn neighborhoods: Boerum Hill, Cobble Hill, and Carroll Gardens.  BoCoCa Parents is a restricted Yahoo Group that is a free network for local parents residing in one of these three neighborhoods and boasts almost 11,000 members.  The mission of the group is “to establish community and communication amongst Bococa's families and to provide our children with opportunities in which to play, cultivate friendships and establish their roots”.  This group is an active and evolving forum for sharing information and advice, making connections, finding and selling items, arranging playdates, and much more.

Online: groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups

Bowery Babes
Once upon a time, in 2005, a group of women took a prenatal yoga class on Bowery Street, and they just couldn’t quite get enough of each other so they formed a group.  Bowery Babes has evolved ever since and has become a large collection of local moms in Lower Manhattan.  The group is a NY non-profit that supports women from the time they are expecting through motherhood, and offers endless amounts of opportunities to thrive in a lively and loving community.  From playgroups to classes, organized events and book clubs to night outs and daddy brunches, holiday parties and FREE beauty mornings, you can plug right into this group's energy and keep on ticking.  If that hasn’t sold you, they also offer discounts and educational lectures on parenting.

Online: bowerybabes.com

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The Bronx New Mommies Group Inc.
This mommy group was formed by necessity in 2002 when a new mommy by the name of Roxanne Taylor felt a strong need to bond with other moms that shared similar interests and yet she didn’t know how to make such connections happen.  Enter, The Bronx New Mommies Group, which grew from a group into a non-profit organization and then a registered charity.  This social support group offers a range of support group meetings, activities and special events geared toward fostering a positive and nurturing community for parents and their families. Its website includes a resource directory that lists some key resources such as Walk Safer NYC, Parent Pledge Project, and more.  But it doesn’t stop there.  Their Sister Group, Dynamic Metro Moms, is geared towards moms with older children from 11 to 13 years old.

Online: bronx-new-mommies-group.org

Dynamic Metro Moms
Sister Group to The Bronx New Mommies Group, this Bronx-based mommy group offers an abundance of weekly social activities, classes and events for moms and their kids throughout the year, as well as special interest clubs including fitness bootcamp, yoga club and more.  Upcoming events include an Annual Summer Outing and Mini Spa Party.

Online:  dynamicmetromoms.com

Families First Brooklyn
Founded by two therapists and parents themselves, Families First is a not-for-profit member based early childhood center located in Cobble Hill. The organization offers parents and caregivers a safe and nurturing place to bring their young children.  Among many things, it holds a Moms’ Meet Up every Friday at 11:30 a.m., where you can meet with other moms to talk about a variety topics, express ideas, and share and gather advice in a supportive environment.  This meet up does not require membership or a fee to participate.

Online: familiesfirstbrooklyn.org

First Time Upper West Side Moms
For just 10 dollars a year, this group will give you a huge Upper West Side slice out of the Big Apple, from midtown to Harlem.  First Time Upper West Side Moms can be found on Meetup.com and offers moms and dads literally hundreds of free and/or heavily-discounted events each year. Parents can get discounts on a variety of classes such as music, baby sign, soccer, pilates and yoga, as well as trips to museums and zoos, diverse special events, and an assortment of get togethers at local libraries, Whole Foods, and local cafes and restaurants. Plus: stroller walks for those who want to burn off some extra calories.

Online: meetup.com/Upper-West-Side-Moms

HRP Mamas
With over 2,000 members, the Hudson River Park Mothers Group serves as a vital and active community for mothers and expectant moms that reside in Lower Manhattan.  There are many benefits to this group such as their online social network of verified Lower Manhattan neighborhood moms, weekly playgroups that meet in a comfortable and welcoming place and are facilitated by membership coordinators, educational events arranged through the group, and discounts at local retail stores.  But what really stands out as a must for Lower Manhattan moms is this group's New Moms Group Series.  Guided by childhood development educators, this weekly get-together for moms and their newborns or infants provides a child-friendly place to share experiences and get support on challenging topics ranging from sleep, development, and establishing routines to issues finding childcare.

Online: hrpmamas.com

Hoboken Family Alliance
While there are many niche parent groups in Hoboken, one of the biggest and most active is the Hoboken Family Alliance. The HFA produces several big events throughout the year, including an all-schools open house and "Cabin Fever," a big summer camp open house event. It also sponsors several philanthropic initiatives, such as a school supply drive in the fall and holiday toy drive in December. Events include holiday party in December and a "spring fling"  event that includes Hoboken's biggest egg hunt.

Online: hobokenfamily.com

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LGBTQI GROUPS

API Rainbow Parents
API Rainbow Parents provides information and support to Asian-Pacific Islander (API) families with a family member who is lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender (LGBT). The group is open to parents, other relatives and family members, and friends, as well as to LGBT people themselves. API Rainbow Parents helps families in the same way as PFLAG NYC’s other regular support groups, but has a special focus on meeting the cultural and language needs of API families. Find them on Facebook here

Online: pflagnyc.org

Black Family Circle
This is a free online meeting that provides a safe space for individuals who identify as Black and who have lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ+) loved ones. The group provides family-to-family support with a focus on the intersection of acceptance and one’s experience as a member of the Black diaspora. The group meets online on the fourth Sunday of every month from 3:00 to 4:30 p.m. starting Sunday, July 26. Register in advance to receive a link to the Zoom meeting; the link is not posted publicly, so you must register to attend each meeting. To register and to receive more information, click here.

Love Makes a Family
PFLAG NYC has now launched a support group for Latino families in collaboration with Oasis Latino LGBTS Wellness Center. “El Amor Hace la Familia - Love Makes a Family” is a group of parents and LGBTQ people that has come together for mutual support. The group meets every second Saturday of the month at 10 a.m. at Oasis Wellness Center. The group uses primarily Spanish, but flexibly uses English and Spanglish too. 

Online: pflagnyc.org

The TransFamilies Project (TFP) 
The TransFamilies Project (TFP) is a support group for parents, relatives and friends of transgender children. No matter when a child disclosed his/her gender identity issues, or what stage of transition he/she is in, the TransFamilies Project is a place to meet understanding friends, share important information, and get (and provide) support. Meetings are currently twice a month online, and will take place in Greenwich Village when in-person meetings resume. For questions about the group, please contact group leader Judy Sennesh through PFLAG NYC at transgender@pflagnyc.org. Please note: If you are going to bring someone with you to a TFP meeting who is younger than high-school age, notify Sennesh prior to the meeting.

Online: pflagnyc.org

Marlene Meyerson JCC

Marlene Meyerson JCC Manhattan
Located on the Upper West Side, Marlene Meyerson JCC Manhattan's mission is to create “opportunities for people to connect, grow, and learn within an ever-changing Jewish landscape."  Among the many types of programs and classes offered by the JCC are those geared to family life including breastfeeding and tummy time for new parents, parenting resources that offer infant CPR classes, a dad's meetup brunch and a bump bash complete with mock-tails for expectant parents. You'll also find prenatal and postnatal fitness classes here, such as innovative and safe yoga and water classes, as well as caregiver programs.

Online: jccmanhattan.org

 

JC Families
A great resource for all things parenting in Jersey City, JC Families is a go-to for info on local events, family-friendly businesses and school options for all ages. You'll also find listings for childcare, kids' stuff for sale, and more.

Online: jcfamilies.com

 

Long Island City Parents Meetup Group
Established in 2007, this active Meetup group is more than 1000 parents strong. Members use it to coordinate playdates, parties, readings, workshops, and events, as well as advocate for improved playgrounds, schools, and housing. To join, you must live in the 11101 or 11109 zip codes or neighboring areas of Astoria, Greenpoint, or Sunnyside.

Online: meetup.com/LICParentsGroup

Lower East Side / East Village Parents
Lower East Side and East Village parents and parents-to-be are invited to register and visit this online forum that connects local parents and covers a broad range of topics such as sleep, feeding, pediatricians, caregivers and challenges in parenthood.
Online: lesparents.com

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Manhattan Twins Club
As one of the largest multiples communities in the United States, this 25-year-old nonprofit club was founded with the mission to provide support for parents of twins and those expecting multiples.  The club offers events throughout the year (many of them free) which address perennial parenting topics, hosts friendly get-togethers such as family picnics and parent socials.  A sampling of this years’ past events includes Twiniversity 101 to help parents.

Online: manhattantwinsclub.org

MOMally Astoria
Founded by lactation consultant, parent coach, and sleep consultant Andrea Scannell, MOMally Astoria has both an active Facebook group and Meetup calendar. (There's also a general parenting FB group.) Members can request access so they can plan meetups, playdates, etc., and Scannell aims to have mom-hosted, free area events posted daily. She's also hosted experts on New York State family leave policy and District 30 schools. Past events with local parents include holiday parties, crafting events and singalongs.

Facebook group: facebook.com

Meetup: meetup.com/momallyastoria

Website: momally.com

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The Moms Groups
Founded by parent and lifestyle coach Renee Sullivan in 2008, this NYC mommy group is one of the most expansive, hosting groups in the Upper East Side, Upper West Side, Union Square, Chelsea, Flatiron, and Midtown in Manhattan, and Carroll Gardens, Cobble Hill, Brooklyn Heights, Williamsburg and Park Slope in Brooklyn.  The Moms Groups hold weekly sessions mostly led by either Renee Sullivan or therapists on her team and caters to Expectant Moms, New Moms, Moms of Older Babies, and Second Time Moms.

Online: themomsgroups.com

Motherhood Later than Sooner
If you’re 35 or older and you’re a mommy, then you may want to join this group.  Motherhood Later than Sooner is a group formed by Robin Gorman Newman, who at the age of 42 became a mom and found it hard to connect to the younger moms.  This midlife moms group offers online and face-to-face support for mothers who are 35+ and want to be a part of a community of moms that are raising kids later in life.  Benefits of this group include mom group meetings, moms night out dinners, family events, as well as discounts on products and services.

Online: motherhoodlater.com

The New Mom Support Group
This community-funded group found on Meetup.com offers Queens Moms (and Dads!) with kids 0-3 years of age a place to vent about parenthood safely and without judgement.  For nine dollars a month, members can participate in Meetup activities such as play dates, stroller walks, Mommy and me classes and activities for dads.  While the title of the group sounds exclusive, stay at home dads, expectant moms, second time moms, and moms with older children are also welcome.

Online: meetup.com/New-Moms-Group-of-Queens

Newport Mommy
Another Jersey City group, Newport Mommy is more than 4,300 families strong. Head here for nanny leads and info, local news and events, classifieds, parenting resources, birthday party ideas and more!

Online: newportmommy.com

 

NYC Dads

NYC Dads Group
Finally, a parent group that is just for Dads!  There are so many mommy groups that may mention the word “dad” but don’t cater to them.  NYC Dads Group is a community started by dads with the simple desire to share similar benefits of being part of a parenthood community as those found in staple mommy groups.  The mission of this group has expanded beyond NYC and across the nation, and has become City Dads Group.  Meetups include outings, Dads’ Night Out, workshops and special events.  Partnering with Boot Camp for New Dads, a nationally-acclaimed 20 year old program for training dads-to-be, this group offers a Boot Camp facilitated by a nationally-certified trainer for expectant fathers and new dads that want to learn baby-raising basics.

Online: citydadsgroup.com/nyc

New York Single Parents Meetup Group
Founded in 2006, this Meetup.com group offers single parents a community to connect with other single parents.  With over 2,500 members, this group not only hosts activities for single parents and their kids to meet and make new friends, but also serves as a springboard for special events happening in the city geared toward single parent families.  A recent meetup like this was the Microsoft Youthspark Free Weekend Summer Camp for Kids, which offered single parents a free, in-store summer camp for their children.

Online: meetup.com/singleparent

Parents of NY Teens
The Italian proverb “Little children, headache; big children, heartache” may resonate particularly with parents raising kids in the city that doesn’t sleep.  But this Yahoo group makes it a heck of a lot easier by offering a place for parents of teens and young adults located in the five boroughs to unite and confront the challenges of raising city kids head on.  They actively post on their Facebook page and their blog site to keep parents informed and plugged in.

Online: ponytya

 

Park Slope Parents

Park Slope Parents
This parenting group originally began in 2002 on Yahoo groups as a way for local parents to connect and exchange ideas on a number of parent-related topics.  The membership base grew and grew, which led to the development of a PSP website.  The website covers a lot of territory in content and offers expectant parents, new parents and working parents that live in Park Slope, Brooklyn, New York and the surrounding neighborhoods an extensive amount of local resources, parenting information, tips and advice, and organizes local family events throughout the year. The group is also host to a diverse range of subgroups for parents looking to connect with other members of similar professions, interests and life situations.

Online: parkslopeparents.com

SoHo Parenting
Located in its namesake neighborhood, SoHo Parenting is a center offering myriad services to new and expecting parents, as well as parents of older children. While many of its services, such as advice on sleep or developmental issues are fee-based, its popular ParenTalk blog offers help on a wide range of parenting topics.

Online: sohoparenting.com

Sunnyside Moms
Queens moms in Sunnyside and nearby Woodside gather at this Facebook group and in real life to exchange info about all things parenting in their neck of the woods. It's more than 2,000 members strong, so that a lotta knowledge!

Online: facebook.com

UES Mommas
With nearly 28,000 members, this private Facebook group for moms on the Upper East Side is a go-to forum for advice on everything from breastfeeding, local resources and shops to sleep issues, childcare, and preschool. (You can also score second-hand gear like strollers, furniture and more.) Yes, you'll find strong opinions here, and the community is not without drama, but aren't diversity and people with a point of view why we all love NYC?

Online: facebook.com/UES-Mommas

UES Mommas
With nearly 28,000 members, this private Facebook group for moms on the Upper East Side is a go-to forum for advice on everything from breastfeeding, local resources and shops to sleep issues, childcare, and preschool. (You can also score second-hand gear like strollers, furniture and more.) Yes, you'll find strong opinions here, and the community is not without drama, but aren't diversity and people with a point of view why we all love NYC?

Online: facebook.com/UES-Mommas

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Experts recommend 6-8 well-baby visits during the first year. If you’re thinking, what’s up, doc, you’re not alone. Read on to find out what to expect from each doctor’s appointment, what you should bring and how to get the most out of your visit.

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What to Bring with You

Reference documents: driver’s license, insurance card, hospital documents from baby’s birth, information about family members’ health history and allergies

Baby necessities: burp cloths, extra diapers and wipes (the doctor will remove baby’s diaper), hand wipes, baby bottle, a blanket in case baby gets cold, a lovey or favorite stuffed animal, a pacifier if you use them

Mom necessities: an extra shirt in case of spit-up, water and a snack in case you have to wait for the doctor. Once your baby is eating solids, bring snacks for them too.

Questions: Keep a list on your phone or in a small notebook so you can jot down questions when you think of them. Bring a printed version of the questions to your appointment so you don’t forget anything and can write down your doctor’s answers.

What Happens at a Well-Baby Pediatrician Appointment

Each appointment will vary depending on baby’s age, but here's what you can expect:

Measurement of your baby’s height, weight and head circumference to monitor your child’s growth curve; plus a discussion of that curve

A head-to-toe physical exam, including eyes, ears (and hearing), mouth, neck, skin, heart, lungs, abdomen, hips, genitalia and legs

A discussion of your child’s physical and cognitive development

Vaccinations, at most visits, if you’ve chosen them

Time for you to ask questions and bring up concerns

Read on for specifics of each visit.

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Day 3-5 Well-Baby Visit

In the first week of your child’s life, pediatricians will do a physical exam; measure baby’s height, weight and head circumference; and observe baby’s behavior, reactions and reflexes.

Don’t sweat it: It’s common for babies to lose some body weight after birth. They typically gain it back by the time they hit two weeks old. As your doctor tracks your child's physical growth and tells you which percentile they're in, remember that the actual numbers and percentages are usually less important than whether your child is growing steadily along their curve.

Topics to discuss:

SIDS and creating a safe sleep environment

How often and how much your child eats

Frequency of wet diapers and bowel movements, and what bowel movement look like

Your child’s growth curve

 

1-Month Well-Baby Visit

At this visit, in addition to taking measurements, doing a physical exam and checking development, your doctor may give your child a second hepatitis B shot (they typically received the first right after birth).

Don’t sweat it: It’s normal for your child (and you!) to cry when they get shots. Shots are typically done at the end of the visit so you can comfort your child with cuddles and nursing or a bottle before you leave.

Topics to discuss:

○ What to do if your child is inconsolable in the evenings (aka the witching hours)

If your child is dealing with diaper rashes, baby acne or cradle cap, the doctor can give you advice on how to treat these conditions

How often you're doing tummy time

Whether your child needs vitamin D drops

How your baby is sleeping

How often and how much your child feeds

Frequency of wet diapers and bowel movements, and what bowel movements look like. Hard, dry poop could indicate constipation, and mucousy, soft stools can signal a food intolerance.

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2-Month Well-Baby Visit

Your child will likely receive immunizations at this visit, if you've chosen them. The doctor will also check your baby’s head control and posture.

Don’t sweat it: Some babies feel discomfort in the day or two after shots, so be prepared to notice a change in your child’s behavior and energy level. Offer extra cuddles and comfort, and clear your schedule if you can.

Topics to discuss:

If your child is dealing with colic, constipation, diaper rashes, baby acne, reflux, sleep or feeding issues, the doctor can give you advice

Whether your child needs vitamin D drops

How your baby is sleeping

How often and how much your child feeds

Frequency of wet diapers and bowel movements, and what bowel movements look like

Whether your baby smiles yet

How you characterize your baby’s temperament. If your child seems weepy, restless or uncomfortable, your doctor can explore possible causes

How you’re feeling. If you’re experiencing postpartum depression or anxiety, you should bring it up to your child’s doctor and your own.

 

4-Month Well-Baby Visit

Your child will receive more immunizations, if you've chosen them, and may receive a hemoglobin screening to test for anemia. The doctor will also begin looking for, and discussing with you, age-appropriate milestones for your child.

Don’t sweat it: Babies develop at their own pace, so don’t assume the worst if your child hasn’t reached a certain milestone. Tell your doctor if your child is losing skills they once had or if you’re concerned about any aspect of their development (like crawling, talking, hearing, eyesight).

Topics to discuss:

Whether your child needs vitamin D drops

How your baby is sleeping

How often and how much your child feeds

Frequency of wet diapers and bowel movements, and what bowel movements look like

Age-appropriate milestones, such as whether your child can roll over, sit up with support, push up from their belly, grab items and kick with both legs.

Whether your baby communicates by babbling, squealing, laughing, copying caregivers’ facial expressions and sounds

 

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6-Month Well-Baby Visit

More standard tests and (sorry) immunizations. Your doctor may also do a lead screening, as older homes can have lead paint, which, in high doses, can be harmful to babies. Your child may also receive a tuberculosis test and, if any teeth have popped through, your doctor will want to see them. Since babies are likely to crawl soon, it’s a good time to talk to your doctor about ways to childproof your home.

Don’t sweat it: Childproofing your home doesn’t have to mean spending a lot of money. Here are 14 DIY babyproofing tricks to make your home safe as your baby gets more mobile.

Topics to discuss:

If it’s time to start your child on solid food. And, if so, which foods your doctor recommends

If your child has teeth, how you should care for them

Age-appropriate milestones, such as whether your child is rolling over in both directions, sitting up without support, showing interest in their environment, babbling and imitating sounds and expressions

Whether your baby needs vitamin D drops

How your baby is sleeping

How often and how much your child feeds

Frequency of wet diapers and bowel movements, and how bowel movements change after introducing solid foods

 

9-Month Well-Baby Visit

In addition to the standard tests, a review of baby’s oral health and perhaps immunizations, your doctor will look more closely at your baby’s development. The doctor will likely ask you questions about how your child moves and interacts with you.

Don’t sweat it: If your child has any developmental delays, your pediatrician can give you valuable resources. Early intervention in the form of physical therapy or speech therapy can help your child develop new skills.

Topics to discuss:

Age-appropriate milestones, such as crawling, saying words, responding to their name, pointing, using the pincer grip, feeding themselves, playing games with you or others

If your child is experiencing separation anxiety or fear of strangers

How you should care for your child’s teeth

Whether your baby needs vitamin D drops or gets enough from solid foods

How your baby is sleeping

How often and how much your child eats (breastmilk/formula and solids)

Frequency of wet diapers and bowel movements, and what bowel movements look like

 

12-Month Well-Baby Visit

You’re a pro at this point and know what to expect at these doctor visits. But as you've learned with babies, they're always learning new things and changing their routines, so you'll have lots to discuss at this and future appointments.

Don’t sweat it: You’ve almost made it through year one, with all the big changes and sleeplessness that goes along with it. You can handle whatever year two throws at you.

Topics to discuss:

Age-appropriate milestones, such as whether your child is pulling themselves up, cruising along furniture, walking, pointing, saying words, responding to what you say, playing games with you or others

How you should care for your child’s teeth

Whether you should introduce cow's milk into baby's diet

Whether your baby needs vitamin D drops or gets enough from solid foods

How your baby is sleeping

How often and how much your child eats (breastmilk/formula and solids)

Frequency of wet diapers and bowel movements, and what bowel movements look like

 

 

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