When it comes to household chores, you’ve got plenty of tasks to go around. More importantly, when kids are required to pitch in and help with age-appropriate chores, they’ll learn how to cooperate, gain a sense of independence and feel a sense of accomplishment. If you’re wondering what exactly to put on your chore chart for kids, we’ve broken it down by age, from toddlers up to tweens. From picking up toys to helping with dinner, here is our ultimate chore list for kids.
Age-Appropriate Chores for Ages 2-3
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Pick up the toys.Ask your toddler to help clean up when playtime is over, instead of doing it at the end of the day when you’d rather be watching Netflix instead of cleaning up DUPLO blocks.
Wipe up small spills. This is an easy one and is especially important if they are the ones that made the mess. Don't make a big deal, just let them know they need to clean up after themselves.
Put shoes away. A toddler can easily put his shoes away, especially if there's a special bin or shelf for footwear.
Put dirty clothes in the hamper. Show your little one where clothes go before he chooses his own drop spot.
Match socks. An easy way to let someone else worry about why there's always one sock missing.
Throw away trash. Kids can start putting trash in its proper place at an early age.
Pick up sticks in the yard. What's more fun than collecting sticks?
Sort the groceries. Preschool-aged kids can help you put away things like cereal, snacks, canned goods, and other things that aren't too heavy or breakable.
Chore List for Kids Ages 4-5
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All of the chores listed above.
Put away clean utensils. It’s the little things!
Brush their own teeth. This is an easy self-care chore that any preschooler can tackle.
Fold washcloths or napkins. Something small and square is the perfect first item to have your pre-k kid learn how to fold.
Make their own bed. This is a tough one because busy school mornings can get in the way. Weekends are wide open, however, and there’s nothing like a made bed to give your home a clean, fresh feeling.
Collect the mail. This one doesn't even feel like a chore.
Bring their belongings in from the car. Whether it's their toys or backpack, four-and five-year-olds are old enough to make sure everything gets inside at the end of the day.
Help prep a basic meal. If kids with knives don't sound like a good idea, there are plenty of other things they can do. Think: gather ingredients, measure spices, crack and whisk eggs, grate some cheese, flip pancakes, and more.
Wipe down surfaces. Kids this age are perfectly capable of spraying, wiping, and cleaning down a surface. Especially if they are the ones that made the mess in the first place.
Take control of their school gear. Stop gathering your kids’ stuff every night or morning. These early years are the right time to set up good work habits.
Water the plants. This is a great chore to help develop organizational skills. Have your kid schedule a once-a-week date with a watering can on the calendar.
Help carry in groceries. Unless you're using the multiple trips to and from the car as your cardio for the day.
Set and clear the table. You prepared the meal, so your kids should help to set and clear the plates. Simple as that.
Put away laundry. Imagine a place where the laundry gets put away instead of collecting dust in a basket somewhere. It can be a reality, we promise!
Feed pets. Your grade-school-aged kid loves the dog, the chickens, and the family turtle. Well, no time like the present to teach him how to take care of something smaller than he is.
Chore List for Kids Ages 8-10
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All of the chores listed above.
Basic home maintenance. At around 10, kids can begin to do small tasks around the house that helps with upkeep like putting in new lightbulbs, changing batteries, and hanging small pictures.
Load and unload the dishwasher. Most days, after unloading, the thing fills right back up and needs to be unloaded again. Your early tween is an ideal candidate for helping out with this daily task.
Help with recycling and garbage. Older kids can sort recyclables, empty wastebaskets, and help pull trash cans in from the road. It’s also a good way for them to learn about consumption and to see where waste goes.
Vacuum the rugs. The best part about handing off this task is that your kids will have to keep their rooms picked up in order to fulfill their duty.
Dust shelves, blinds, and furniture. A Swiffer duster makes this chore a breeze.
Clean the mirrors in the bathrooms. Older kids are strong enough, and usually tall enough to reach the top of the mirror by now. Pass the Windex.
Move clothes from the washer to the dryer. Most kids ages eight and up are tall enough (and old enough) to start helping with the laundry. If there are items you don't want in the dryer or if you like to use a certain heat setting, be sure to show the kids the ropes in advance.
Walk the dog. Take pet care to the next level by asking your tween to take on giving Fido his daily workout.
Help with grocery shopping. Give your big kid his own list at the store, and arrange to meet up at the checkout. You'll cut your shopping time in half!
Vacuum out the car. She's already tackled vacuuming the living room and her bedroom. Add on the family car once a month or every other week.
Babysit for siblings or relatives in small increments. Whether it's to take charge at a social or family gathering or leave your tween in charge for 30 minutes while you run a quick errand, this is a good age to test the waters for child care.
Rake leaves. Before you can mow the grass, the leaves need to be raked. Tweens can handle this, plus it's a great way to keep them outside and off tablets.
Change their own bedsheets (and keep the bed made). This is a chore that only takes a few minutes, but it's a game changer when it comes to feeling like you're on top of the mess.
Becoming a new mom is tough, but these postpartum self-care tips can help give you the nurturing you need.
Welcome to the rollercoaster ride of motherhood, where each day is a whirlwind of sleepless nights, a flood of emotions you never knew existed, and baby coos you wish you could play on repeat.
If you’re a new mom, congratulations on this incredible adventure you’re embarking on. Whether you’re just days, weeks, or months in, we can only imagine how the arrival of your tiny bean has left you feeling—unparalleled joy with a side of “oh gosh, I’m lost in a tornado of diapers and baby bottles”?
Though, it’s within this bittersweet chaos that you can easily forget the most crucial passenger on this wild ride…you. Yes, you, the superhero who brought a small human into the world.
As your friend, your confidant, and your friendly voice of reason, we’re here to help you navigate the postpartum journey (because you don’t need to do it alone!). From taking care of your mental health to recognizing when you need professional assistance and everything in between, let’s dive into our top postpartum self-care tips.
1. Take Care of You!
There’s no denying that parents put themselves on the back burner when it comes to their children. While you can’t help but make your little ones your number one priority, refusing to dedicate time for self-care can affect your overall parenting.
With your body requiring extra care and nourishment upon giving birth, it’s important to stay hydrated (is that water bottle on your nightstand empty?), eat a well-balanced diet rich in nutrients, and get some hard-earned rest—we know, it’s easier said than done! Incorporating gentle exercises into your routine can also expedite your recovery. It could be as simple as light walks or pelvic floor exercises, but the key is to move at your pace.
2. Keep an Eye Out for Signs of Postpartum Depression
Motherhood brings forth a lot of change, including a spectrum of ever-changing emotions. While some shades are less joyous than others, it’s crucial to recognize if you’re feeling trapped in a prolonged shadow of sadness, hopelessness, or worthlessness.
These feelings are correlated to postpartum depression, a type of mood disorder that affects up to 15% of women after childbirth. The medical condition, which is often mislabeled as “baby blues,” can develop within the first few weeks to months after giving birth. It’s also marked by other serious symptoms, like a lack of interest in once enjoyable activities, the inability to connect with your infant, and thoughts of self-harm. Acknowledge your feelings during this transitional period, and if you find yourself experiencing any of these symptoms, seek immediate help.
3. Seek Professional Help When Needed
Your mental health as a new parent is vital. Not only does it play a direct role in how you navigate the unpredictability of parenthood, but it also impacts the quality of your relationship with your baby. If you’re feeling like you need an outlet to work through what you’re experiencing, that’s okay. Know that seeking professional assistance is a courageous step—and one that should be met with praise and support.
With BetterHelp, an online therapy service, you can take appointments right from the comforts of your home, and on your schedule. That means you have a licensed therapist at your fingertips, available through text, phone, or video, all wrapped up in an affordable monthly subscription.
As the world’s largest therapy service, BetterHelp also gives you access to one of over 30,000 licensed therapists in their massive network based on your needs, preferences, and location, so you can match with a therapist in as little as just 48 hours. If you’re looking for a little extra support from other moms facing similar challenges, you can opt for group sessions. It’s like a virtual village just for you.
Moms, we know you carry the weight of the world on your shoulders, but navigating this new era shouldn’t be an act you bear alone. Finding a support system can be paramount for both your mental and emotional well-being, whether it’s your significant other, family, friends, or a mommy support group. Surrounding yourself with comfort, laughter, and shared experiences can be the safety net that’ll uplift you when you need it most.
5. Carve Out “Me Time”
Oftentimes, it’s easy for moms to fully embrace their role as caretakers, devoting all of their time and energy to their new bundle of joy. But it’s important to not lose sight of who you were before children, and to not forget about what brings you happiness and relaxation in the process.
Devote time throughout each week that puts your first, so you can maintain your identity outside of motherhood. Reconnect with hobbies you love, or indulge in a guilty pleasure—maybe a TV series that’s just for you. This time is crucial for recharging and preserving your mental and emotional health.
6. Recognize (& Celebrate!) How Far You’ve Come
With so much always happening at once, it’s easy to overlook the small victories of parenting. Take a step back and celebrate all that you’ve achieved and how much your baby has developed—because of you! Whether it’s your baby sleeping through the night or you mastered the art of one-handed diaper changes, these small wins contribute to your growth as a mother. Acknowledging them can give you the feel-good emotions you need to keep going.
7. Set Realistic Expectations
Hooray, you’ve been promoted to the new role of mom, but like any new job, this period comes with some adjustments and level setting. Set realistic expectations of what you can and cannot accomplish in one day to gift yourself some much-needed compassion and grace.
Consider simplifying your daily routines to manage the demands of caring for a newborn. Rather than going to the grocery store, try ordering your meals weekly from a meal delivery service. If you’re overwhelmed by neglected household chores, tackle one area of the house every few days or divide and conquer with your partner. Every day may not be picture-perfect, and that’s more than okay.
8. Nurture Your Relationship with Your Significant Other
Amidst the sleepless nights and never-ending sea of bottles, don’t forget to nurture the bond with your partner. Communication is key and understanding each other’s needs in this new chapter of life is a must. Even simple gestures can go a long way in maintaining a strong and supportive relationship.
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Do you, like me, seem to run on anxiety, caffeine, and your children’s leftovers? Are you perpetually in a rush and pretty sure you’ve forgotten… something? (What was it?!) What if, and stay with me here, you were able to set aside that feeling of chaos and actually find joy?
Yes, it sounds cheesy. But don’t roll your eyes just yet. It’ll only take a few minutes a day. OK, so that sounds like a late-night infomercial (remember those?), but it’s true. While you can’t move to a commune and cultivate free-range sunflowers, you can take a few minutes to hit the pause button. Here are some easy ways to switch things up and make the whole family happier.
1. Have a whatever-makes-you-happy hour or a “yes day.”
One mom changed her life (yes, really) with what she calls a “whatever-makes-you-happy hour.” You know that ferocious hour sometime around dinner when kids turn feral? Rather than fighting it, this mom runs with it. For those 60 minutes, her kids do whatever they’d like, barring cruelty or serious danger, while she and her husband kid back with the adult beverages of their choice. This sounds daringly 1970s-ish, but it works. Her kids experience the joy of running wild. She has time to kick back. When it’s over, they come together and eat dinner as a calm, reconnected family (and clean up before bed).
Alternatively, try a “yes day.” We spend our lives telling our kids no. Why not spend a day, an afternoon, an hour, saying yes? Yes to board games or jump-rope competitions or ice cream for dinner or fairy wings in public. Check all the ground rules in this post (note: No danger allowed and set a budget!), then go forth and make some incredible memories together.
2. Make time to play.
You can waste your whole life on your phone, so set it down. Actually, stuff it in a drawer because it’ll inevitably go off. Everyone, including kids, now gets to spend an electronic-free hour doing . . . well, whatever they love other than electronics (remember books? They’re made of paper). Before dinner is a great time for this, so is the hour before bed. Hang from the ceiling if you want, but do what you love.
3. Remember that absence makes the heart grow fonder.
You’ll love your children even more if they aren’t around all the time. I promise. Prioritize alone time—for them and you. You could go the cheesy self-care route and take a bubble bath. You could craft. You could watch a TV show that isn’t geared toward five-year-olds. You could also go on a date, which I hear is something adults do from time to time. Reconnecting with your partner will help you find some sanity. Leave your phone in your bag while you’re at it!
4. Show some love.
Snuggle with your kids—science says it’s good for you. Hugging makes us happier, healthier, and less anxious, which is something your whole family deserves. After cuddling with the younger set (so long as they’re game), set your sights on your significant other. Sex therapist Vanessa Marin shares that a nightly makeout session that doesn’t lead to anything more is a pretty solid idea and may even prevent those in long-term relationships from becoming “touch-avoidant.” Sounds like a fun thing to try. I mean, a therapist recommended it.
5. Surprise and delight.
Life can be a real grind. While we can’t permanently decamp to a tropical paradise, we can break up the mind-numbing routine with moments of unexpected fun. No, you don’t have to go all manic pixie to do it: Give your kids dessert for dinner. Surprise them with a night of mini golf. Announce an impromptu movie night or declare a pajama day.
6. Un-schedule from time to time.
No, you can’t drop everything, but you can pick and choose. You don’t have to do every single activity presented to you. Take a weekend off from planned fun. Part ways with that sport your kid doesn’t love. Skip the birthday party. There are so many demands on your time; prioritize a few and let the others go. After all, kids spend their lives hurrying up. Give them—and yourself—a chance to chill.
7. Dedicate 10 minutes a day to each kid.
The experts behind Big Little Feelings call it the “10-minute miracle.” No phones, no siblings, just dedicated parent-and-kid time with no correcting or criticizing. For those 10 minutes, go all in on whatever game/bonkers make-believe scenario/craft activity your kid wants. Doing so should help curtail acting out—after all, many kids get extra unruly when they’re in need of connection and attention. Spend a bit of time every day giving it to them.
8. Practice gratitude.
There are lots of ways to do this. You can sign up for volunteer opportunities, talk about the things you’re thankful for (on more than just Thanksgiving), make a good deed calendar—whatever works for your family. But make sure you insist on the importance of giving back to others and being grateful for what you’ve been given. Life can seem too big and too busy, so stop and count your blessings, then pass them on to someone else. It’s one of the most important things you can do for your kids.
9. Share the smallest moments for the biggest smiles.
Remember those family photo albums with the plastic sheets you’d peel apart to lay down your favorite printed pics? That ship has sailed. Now you can create the most amazing time capsule for your family on the Tinybeans App (your kids will thank you one day when they’ve stopped rolling their eyes) and share all of your sweetest and silliest moments with family and friends. They’ll delight in seeing that first waddle or goofy smile each time they get an alert, and you’ll get a solid dose of joy every time they comment or react.
10. Host an impromptu dance party.
Turn up that music and dance! Oh, and sing along. Toddlers will love it. Older kids might try to hide. Don’t let them. Instead, crank the volume louder. Dancing is good for you. So is joy. Give yourself room to feel it.
11. Always have something to look forward to.
Make sure there’s always something good on the way—a trip to the ice cream shop, a birthday party, a night with friends. This goes for your kid and you. Then when times get tough, there’s always a light at the end of the tunnel. We need this more than you’d think: If the slog seems endless, we’ll quit. But with our eyes on the prize, we’re all. gonna. make. it.
Ride the rails, set sail for adventure, take in the big city, and so much more
We know that families are eager to get out there and see the world—and 2024 is going to be the year that they do it in a major way. We expect to see lots of families taking those big trips with both domestic and international destinations on the agenda for 2024. Airfare prices continue to remain high but there are more and more ways to find cheaper flights including a bunch of lower-cost airlines that have added US routes this past year. Road trips aren’t going away either as families pretty much have these down by now. Where will 2024 take you?
Low-Cost Airlines Can Get You Where You Need to Go for Less
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Chances are you are familiar with low-cost domestic airlines like Southwest, Frontier, and Spirit but did you know that there are low-cost airlines that will take you to Europe, Tahiti, Japan, and loads of other spots beyond the U.S.? Airlines like French bee, PLAY, Norse, and ZIPAIR have been adding routes from the U.S. in recent years and they are a great option for families looking to spend less on airfare.
We've flown French bee to Paris and Tahiti with kids and found it to be very comparable to other carriers like American Airlines and United. Just make sure you know what is included in your fare and what will incur an additional cost (like checked baggage, seat selection, and meals) before you book with these airlines so there are no surprises.
Credit Card Points Offer a Way to Hack the System
Not everyone is interested in playing the credit card points game but those who know how to work the system often share that they can get some pretty great deals using signup bonuses. Websites like The Points Guy and NerdWallet are great places to start learning about what credit cards work best for travel and what deals are on the horizon. If you time your credit card sign-up right, many programs will gift you enough miles for free tickets. Plus, these travel cards often offer perks like free Global Entry or TSA PreCheck which are key in making your travel experience the best it can be.
Families Want to Ride the Rails
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According to Pinterest, 2024 brings slow travel to the forefront. After the busyness of 2023 with everyone getting back into travel in a big way, 2024 will have families slowing it down and looking for more mellow ways to travel. We predict that this will lead to more families will riding the rails for their next vacation. Nobody has to drive, your sleeping quarters are included, and you get to see some of the most gorgeous areas of the country. Bonus: it's super eco-friendly. From trains that take you to five national parks, to those that take you from New England to Florida, there's so much exploring to do.
All-Inclusives Are Worth the Money
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Once thought of as a honeymoon-only extravagance, families are turning toward all-inclusive properties for vacations, especially when traveling with grandparents. Nobody has to cook, you know what you're going to spend in advance and kids will love getting to order mocktails from the swim-up bar. Some of our favorite spots: Club Med Miches Playa Esmeralda in the Dominican Republic, Villa la Valencia Beach Resort & Spa in Los Cabos, and Margarita Beach Resort Ambergris Cay in Belize.
Cruising Is Back in a Major Way
Cruising has seen a major uptick in the past year and we are looking forward to checking out new ships like Royal Caribbean's new Icon of the Seas in 2024. Set sail for Alaska to catch the salmon run or book your vacation on the Disney Wish for a trip that's full of character breakfasts and kid activities.
Those looking to cruise on a smaller scale should look to adventure cruise companies like UnCruise and Adventure Canada where you can expect small ships, small crews, and only a few hundred passengers. Bonus: Families will find that expedition cruising offers a level of personalization that you can't get on other cruises.
Back to the Big City
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The last few years have seen road trips and national parks vacations getting their time in the spotlight. According to Expedia, cultural capitals like Edinburgh, Lisbon, Tokyo, Dublin, and Sydney are going to see a lot more travel focus for 2023. We can get on board for that!
Spend Some Time in a National Park
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With over 400 national parks in the United States, chances are there are quite a few nearby that you have yet to explore. According to Airbnb, national parks travel will be a huge focus for 2024 and we can understand why. National park trips are particularly fun for families as they give kids (and parents!) a little history lesson and a big dose of fresh air at the same time. Check out these national parks that are particularly kid-friendly from California all the way to Maine. While you are at it, check this list to see what days are free at the national parks for 2024.
Road Trips (Still) Reign Supreme
The past few years really brought back our love of the road trip. If you are itching to find a new destination for 2024, check out this list of our favorite road trips in the U.S. and find unique Airbnb rentals you can reserve along the way. Before you head out, peruse this list of road trip hacks to get your crew prepared for the long journey, and download some of our favorite podcasts for kids so you don't have to fight over the radio station.
We want to go big with our travel plans but the actual planning of the trip is most definitely not part of the fun. Leave the planning and execution of your trip up to experts like Exodus Travels. You can book a private trip for your family, or join in a small group with other families that have similarly-aged kids to make it even more fun. Whether you go self-guided or have an expert there to show you the way, this type of travel is definitely the way to go for families.
Many of us have developed our love of the great outdoors these past few years and we'll be looking for off-the-grid adventures for our 2024 trips. Think about a kayak trip in Yellowstone or a ranch vacation complete with a hot spring pool in Idaho. There are tons of awesome options out there with no WiFi in range.
Ride Off into the Sunset in an RV
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While most of us never considered RV travel as a fun option for a family, it has exponentially increased in popularity in recent years and we expect this trend to continue into 2024. If you are a total RV newbie, we suggest leaving the planning to the experts when you book your first RV trip. Think you can handle it on your own? Rent an RV, grab yourself a WiFi hotspot, and head out on the road to give road schooling a try. You can even try out the rad stylings of a camper van!
Cozy Cabins to Get Away from It All
There's something so restorative about a weekend in the woods. Cabin rentals have become super popular and we don't expect that to change in 2024. They offer families time together, many times without WiFi, and you can even bring your dog.
Make It a Micro-cation
If time and money are tight (hello, inflation), consider a micro-cation for your next family trip. These four-day-or-less trips allow you to see someplace new and get a break from everyday life. It's a good way to get the kids used to traveling without having to pack a ton of gear for everyone. Surprise the kids with a last-minute trip and see a new part of the country.
Take the Family Glamping
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Glamping gives you the best of both worlds—the smell of a campfire in your hair and an actual bed to sleep on. You won't have to schlep all of your camping gear with you, everyone gets a better night's sleep, and you still get time out in the woods away from WiFi and civilization. Check out some of our favorite spots for glamping including loads of options in California.
Yes, it’s okay to have a life that doesn’t always revolve around your kids
There are lots of things that are challenging about being an adult—bills, jobs, and having to decide what to make for dinner every night are just a few of them. Studies have shown that parents in the U.S. feel some of the highest levels of burnout in the world, and oftentimes these less glamorous tasks can take over and lead us to lament the drudgery that is adulthood.
One way to combat those feelings of parental burnout is by having activities, interests, and friendships outside of your parental responsibilities. Parenting expert and psychologist Dr. Lucie Hemmen recently took to TikTok to explain what a gift it is for older kids to see at least one parent showing them what’s great about being an adult. Although she directly addresses teens, we think the message applies to those elementary-aged kids as well.
“Teenagers, simply put, get so much out of having at least one parent making adulthood look good to them,” explains Dr. Hemmen. “When you express joy or interest or curiosity about anything in your life, you are showing your teenager that growing up is a cool thing. That being an adult is a cool thing. That living life can be really fun. And that is just so important for teenagers.”
Dr. Hemmen gave this list of things you should be sharing with your big kids:
pursuing your own interests
having adventures
continuing to model growth and a zest for life
starting new projects
Kids need to see that we continue to learn and grow, even as adults. Plus, taking time for yourself leaves you refreshed and ready to tackle the relentless of parenthood when you return. In addition, modeling healthy relationships outside of your family unit shows your kids what it is like to be a good friend so that they can do the same themselves.
Having independent interests has a second benefit that shows up when your kids become teens and naturally start pulling away from you. As the experts at Grown and Flown have explained, parents who have friends and activities they enjoy without their kids often feel less abandonment when their kids head off to college or onto the next part of their adult life.
Consider this a sign to finally pick up crocheting or go on that solo trip you’ve always wanted to!
A seasoned mom shares all the best ways to navigate the festive season with a wee one
They say it’s the most wonderful time of the year—and it is!—but even at the best of times the holidays can be a tad stressful, from travel logistics and finding the right gifts for everyone on your list to those less-than-subtle comments from relatives. Now throw a newborn into the mix and suddenly the season has an entirely new sense of magic, plus a fresh set of challenges as you navigate ever-changing sleep schedules, seasonal viruses, and an overwhelming number of commitments. As a mom of six, I’ve journeyed through my share of holidays with a new baby in tow (my third was born one week to the day before Christmas, and I really wish I’d had this list back then). Drawing from personal experience and expert advice, here are some tried-and-true tips for helping a new mom survive (or even thrive!) this holiday season.
1. In Good Health
No matter the season, keeping your babe healthy is always priority number one, but it’s especially important to be on guard with a newborn during the holidays. Baby’s immature immune system, large crowds gathering indoors, and the circulation of respiratory viruses make for the perfect storm. Dr. Priya Thomas, founder of Mindful Pediatrics & Adolescent Medicine and mom of three, explains the risk. “An adult who just has a cold can pass along RSV, which can become severe in young babies.” Her advice is to steer clear of the crowds, practice proper hand-washing, and ask others to do the same before holding your infant. “Parents should feel empowered in this area, as it’s a matter of the health of the newborn,” says Thomas. But she is quick to remind us that that doesn’t mean new parents need to skip all the fun with friends and family. “This is the time to be creative. You don’t have to miss out on the holiday cheer, just avoid the large holiday parties and opt for a more intimate gathering in your home,” she suggests.
As you spend more time with family and friends in the coming weeks, expect a flurry of questions and offers of unsolicited advice. (Take it from me, this time of year they’re as reliable as busy stores and even busier parking lots.) For example, if your little one’s sleep schedule coincides with a family event, you might hear remarks like, “We never cared about schedules in my day.” While these comments are often well-intended, they may not be helpful, especially when tender, postpartum emotions are swirling. To ease the pressure of responding in the moment, prepare a general response ahead of time, such as “We’re doing what we think is best for our baby.” Give your response with confidence and a smile, then gracefully transition the conversation to a more enjoyable topic. And, if tensions escalate still, take some advice from Theresa Gray, founder of Blooms of Grace Counseling. “If you’re noticing that you’re starting to feel anxious, angry or stressed, it’s okay to step away for a moment,” she shares. “Take deep breaths that fill your belly and relax your jaw and visualize a peaceful scene or memory.”
3. Baby Yourself
This time of year is all about giving, so go ahead and give yourself the gift of a break. “Self-care is often thought of as things like hot baths, mani-pedis, and shopping trips with friends, but those aren’t really the things that recharge us,” explains Gray. “Instead, self-care during this busy and highly sociable season might be to get up before the baby to prepare yourself and your heart for the day.” She continues: “It should include spending intentional time with your spouse or close friends and asking for help and communicating the needs and desires you have.”
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4. Respect the Nap… Or Don’t
With all of the added festivities, the holidays are notorious for throwing off routines. As the parent, you get to decide whether to toss your schedule to the wind or politely decline any events that may mess it up. In my early years of motherhood, I took the respect-the-nap-at-all-costs approach. Although I missed out on certain events, I enjoyed the outings I did take because I had a happy, rested sidekick. Now, six kiddos in, we tend to let baby nap on the go, and she generally thrives in the spontaneity. In the end, how much to alter your baby’s schedule over the holidays is up to you and the kind of kid you have. “There is wisdom in keeping to a schedule, as there is a physiological need for that, but some flexibility is good, too,” says Thomas. “I am all about being mindful of what works for your family.”
5. Layer Up
The weather outside can be frightful this time of year, so it’s especially important to dress your little one so that they’re warm and comfortable. Because infants aren’t able to regulate their body temperature yet, they can lose heat four times faster than adults—though that’s not a reason to keep them indoors, no matter how many times your grandma warns about catching your death of cold. “Your baby is not going to get sick from exposure to the cold, but do be mindful of low temperatures and proper clothing,” advises Dr. Thomas. Layering is the key to ensuring your tot doesn’t get too cold or too hot. The rule of thumb: Dress them in the same amount of clothing you’d wear yourself, then add a layer. Also, be sure little’s outfit includes a hat, as the head and face are where babies lose heat the quickest.
6. Travel Smart
If you’re hitting the road this year, it can be helpful to plan your drive around baby’s nap time or bedtime to help you travel in peace. If they’ll be awake for the drive, schedule in lots of stops for feeding and cuddling. If your babe is prone to fussiness in the car, consider a genius travel companion like this: the Baby Shusher. It has consistently calmed our crankiest car-bound babies (and also soothed their hyperventilating parents) for years. Another option is the Hatch portable sound machine, or just turn up the tunes. “Santa Baby,” anyone?
Now that you’re a parent, it’s time we break it to you: for the next decade, the holidays will be virtually synonymous with toys. So many toys. If you have family eager to load baby up with gifts, my seasoned-mom advice is to skip anything with batteries (a.k.a. noisemakers) and keep it simple. For young babies, an activity mat is a great choice, suggests Thomas. “You can do tummy time on the mat with a newborn even just for a few minutes,” she says. “Look for one with a mirror and different contrasting colorings and textures, things they can touch and feel or make sound.” For older babies, my go-to’s are wooden blocks, hand puppets, and board books, each of which develops their motor skills or fosters imagination and emotional connection.
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8. Slow Down
During the holidays, we often feel the pressure of doing more, but this is your permission to slow down. Replace the holiday “ho-ho-ho” with “no-no-no.” “Self-care sometimes means saying ‘no,’” Theresa explains. “You don’t have to do everything and be everywhere. Choose the things that prioritize the health of your family and the reason for the season.” (Read that again if people-pleasing is your kryptonite.) Letting the hustle and bustle of the holidays pass while you soak up the simple pleasures—quietly snuggling up on the couch with your favorite festive bevy and your tiny little elf—may be the best thing you add to your schedule this season.
9. Nobody’s Perfect
Sometimes, the most precious moments are the least perfect. It took me a long time to learn this. For years, I aspired to have the perfect Christmas tree (you know the one, straight from a Pottery Barn catalog), but with so many curious little hands moving things around, I’d have to rush to secretly redo the ornaments each night after bedtime. Now, looking back, I realize that I missed the magic in pursuit of perfection. Learn from my loss and let go of the idea that there is an “ideal” Christmas or Hannukah card, photo, or party. Instead, be present with your baby and enjoy the moment, no matter how imperfectly (or downright messily!) it unfolds.
With a little planning—and forgiveness—surviving the holidays without losing your temper is possible
It’s the holiday season—you’re supposed to be happy, jolly, merry… right? RIGHT? Maybe not entirely. If you’re like most parents, the holidays come with equal parts Christmas cheer and seasonal stress. On one hand, we want to spoil our kids and feel their joy as they tear off the wrappings of their brand-new bikes or coveted toys—on the other, on the other, we can’t help but see red (the bad kind) as a result of all the ways they act out leading up to the big day.
And it’s no wonder: Between the added expenses, event overload, family drama, and travel plans, there can be more than merriment lurking behind those “perfect” holiday moments. In fact, according to a C.S. Mott Children’s Hospital report, one in six parents reports being more stressed during the holidays (with moms reporting twice as much stress as dads). As for what causes most yuletide woes, parents ranked holiday shopping, keeping kids healthy, household finances, party planning, meal-making, and criticism from family members as the biggest offenders
The holidays usually mean increased spending, a change of schedule, interaction with extended family, and of course, less sunlight, says Los Angeles-based psychologist Tara Klein. “We need to be extra careful about self-care during this time to have the emotional resilience for all the ups and downs that go along with the holidays.”
What that means is with planning—and forgiveness (of you and your kids!)—surviving the holidays without completely losing it on your little sugarplums is possible. Here’s how to make it happen:
Find Ways to Alleviate Financial Stress
If you’re worried about how to afford all those gifts—you’re not alone. A poll conducted by debt resolution company Beyond Finance found that more than two-thirds of people said holiday spending ups their stress levels—82 percent worried they won’t be able to pay for all the gifts they want to buy. Here are some tips for surviving the holidays when it comes to finances:
Make a budget—and stick to it. Be realistic about what you can spend and map out your gift-giving list on paper. Then, be sure to stick to your plans! Need some help? Microsoft offers this free budget-making template
Get creative with gifts. You don’t have to buy all your gifts; there are plenty of crafts and “I Owe You” items that your family and friends would be just as happy to receive. Offer your scrubbing skills to a relative in need of a car wash. Spend the evening babysitting for a friend overwhelmed with her littles (Best. Gift. Ever.). And, DIYers: From fresh-baked cookies to homemade photo gifts, this is your chance to shine!
Take advantage of free shipping. While there is an anxiety-ridden rite of passage to braving the mobbed post office during the days before Christmas—it’s unnecessary. Save money on shipping by taking advantage of stores that offer free shipping for purchases.
Be honest with family members. It’s OK to simmer down the expectations. Tell your extended family members that your budget is tight this year and that they’ll receive “creative” gifts (or just cards) instead of pricey gifts. Most people will welcome your honesty—it may even take the load off them, too—and you’ll feel better knowing everyone knows what to expect.
Learn How to Handle the Constant “I WANTs” from Your Kids
Is your child summoning her inner Veruca Salt whenever you take her to Target? Deep breaths! It’s hard to handle the barrage of “I wants” that can possess our kids during the holidays, but it’s not entirely their fault. After all, every ad and conversation they have about Christmas likely has to do with gift-giving. So the wanting is normal, but it’s the demands you need to curb. Here’s how to manage:
Make a Wish Board to help kids feel heard. Parent coach Abigail Wald—author of a Parenting Survival Deck that includes tips for handling tricky kid behaviors (click here to get the “Want Wanter” card for free!)—recommends that families make a Wish Board to help kids organize their holiday wants.
“Let them put every single thing that they want on there. Then, throughout the next month or two, you can help them physicalize it by cutting out little pictures and moving things up and down the list of where they want them. It can become a fun little connective art project that the two of you have together, which takes down some of the wanting,” says Wald.
She also suggests checking back in with the list: Every time your child thinks they would have played with that one thing, put a checkmark by it; whichever has the most checkmarks by the end might be what they want the most.
Talk about giving. We all know what the holidays are supposed to be about, but to the typical kid, it’s all about getting presents. Help your kids see it in a different light by talking about what your family will give the grandparents or other extended family members; have them make small gifts to pass out to friends, neighbors, and teachers; take part in a neighborhood toy drive or an “Adopt a Family” campaign. The more they experience the joy of giving, the less they may want.
Take pictures. When your child begs for a particular toy at a store, pull out your phone and take a picture of the item to add to their special Wish List. Often, acknowledging what the child wants by photographing it is enough to quiet the wanting.
Teach them how to properly accept gifts (even the ones they don’t like). It might not be easy to watch, but it’s normal for kids to complain when they open a sweater instead of a Switch. Your kid is not “spoiled “or “ungrateful;” they’re just a developing human that hasn’t refined their filter. Yet.
To help, try this: Wrap an assortment of random items—a rock from the driveway, a toddler fork, a stick—and put them wherever you open holiday gifts. Then, take turns opening gifts and showing an exaggerated level of gratitude over each thing (OMG, “I’ve always wanted a fork like this!” “Thank you so much! This rock will look perfect on my dresser!” or “Wow, this stick is PERFECT!”). You’ll get enough giggles to get the point across, and hopefully, your kids will transfer the game to real life when they receive their next sweater.
Try to Keep (at least some of) Your Kids’ Routines
For kids, veering from the everyday routine can be a recipe for disaster. And even though the holidays can mean no school, travel, and a candy-lined upheaval of the norm, you can still keep at least some of your regular rituals, including finding time for naptime and following traditional bedtime routines.
As Harvard Health Publishing Senior Faculty Editor Claire McCarthy, MD, states, “As tempting as it may be to let kids stay up late and sleep late throughout the holidays, try to stay within an hour of usual times, except for special occasions (like New Year’s Eve). Same goes for mealtimes (be sure your kids get three healthy meals a day, preferably with you and not in front of the television).”
Keep Kids Busy—Especially During Family Gatherings.
If your kid has something to do, they are less likely to be tugging on your arm demanding attention or melting down on the living room floor over a broken candy cane. Bring toys or games to keep your toddlers busy during family gatherings, and let older children help by passing out hors d’oeuvres or taking guests’ coats.
Make a List of All the Events—and Decide Which Ones to Skip
School concerts! Holiday office parties! Family gatherings! Santa! There is so much going on over the holidays that it’s easy to get overwhelmed. But YOU DON’T HAVE TO DO IT ALL. Write a list of all the events happening over the month and decide which ones you can do and which ones you can cut. Then, put all those things on a family calendar that everyone can see. This way, you don’t overextend yourself (and your kids know what to expect). The more relaxed you feel, surviving the holidays without losing it on your kids won’t feel so unattainable.
Keep a Designated Friend on Speed Dial
If you’re worried about surviving the holidays without losing it, Wald advises finding a “listening partner” for when times get tough. “I love to have a speed dial buddy—a friend I can text or call when I need to check in. You can feel alone even amid a lot of people, so it’s nice to have someone who knows your life, who knows your kids, who’s got your back, who you can text or call from the bathroom, from the car, or while you’re going for a walk. Just someone who can help you regroup and get grounded again,” she says.
Surviving the Holidays Means Remembering It Doesn’t Have to Be Perfect
Melissa Heckscher
The entire holiday season is a little like my 2019 holiday card. It took so long to get my three kids to sit still with corresponding “Happy. New. Year” signs that we attracted a small crowd of onlookers who chuckled at my Sisyphean efforts to corral the trio into a picture with at least three open pairs of eyelids (because after a while, that was my bare minimum). The moments leading up to the photo were filled with arguing, frustration, and the promise of candy, but all I see now is that perfect picture and those sweet smiles.
Wald offers sage advice about surviving the holidays, “It’s the things that happen year after year that they will remember most, so if a particular holiday time winds up pear-shaped, don’t worry. It doesn’t need to be perfect; it’s the fact that it’s happening at all that matters.” So be gentle with yourself and allow yourself—and your kids—some grace.
Now is the time to plan that big family trip for 2024 as these Black Friday travel deals are super hot
If your wanderlust has only gotten more intense this past year, we totally get it. Our favorite destinations are eager to welcome your family and they are offering some crazy deals to entice you to visit. These Black Friday travel deals include sun-drenched properties in California and Florida, as well as family-friendly resorts in Mexico and the Caribbean. Cruises and airlines are even getting in on the action for Black Friday 2023 and we are here for it!
Best U.S. Travel Deals for Black Friday & Cyber Monday
California Travel Deals
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Tenaya Lodge at Yosemite - Fish Camp, CA Tenaya Lodge at Yosemite is excited to announce a spectacular 30% discount on the best available rate. This deal will launch on Black Friday and continue through Cyber Monday. Click HERE for the deal link (set go live Black Friday).
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Wuksachi Lodge - Sequoia National Park, CA Wuksachi Lodge is delighted to announce a spectacular 30% discount on the Best Available Rate. This offer will launch on Black Friday and extend through Cyber Monday. Click HERE for the deal link (set go live Black Friday).
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Sensei Porcupine Creek Kick off the new year right with a luxury wellness experience at Sensei Porcupine Creek. Guests who purchase a gift card of $5,000 or more will receive a $500 per night wellness credit, which can be used for booking spa services, private consultations with a Sensei Guide, or golf or tennis fees. Gift cards will be available for purchase starting in November, with more information on the Sensei Porcupine Creek website. Deal is valid from Nov. 24-27
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The Coachman Hotel Situated between the majestic vistas of Heavenly Mountain and the serene tranquility of Lake Tahoe, The Coachman Hotel located in South Lake Tahoe offers a cozy and approachable stylish retreat for travelers who relish a nature-driven getaway. For a limited time, the 103-room boutique property is offering guests who book from Black Friday to Travel Tuesday 10% off rates, a waived resort fee, complimentary snack basket, and bottle of Champagne for select two-night stays from November 26, 2023 through June 30, 2024.
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Carmel Mission Inn Carmel Mission Inn, a stylish boutique hotel located in the idyllic seaside community of Carmel, just minutes from Carmel Village and the city of Monterey, is offering up to 30% off its best available rates for stay dates from November 24, 2023, through March 31, 2023. Bookable from Black Friday through Travel Tuesday. For more information, or to book visit www.carmelmissioninn.com.
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The Citizen Hotel, Autograph Collection Sacramento’s sophisticated politically themed The Citizen Hotel, Autograph Collection, located in the capital city’s vibrant downtown is buzzing with the year’s best rates and seasonal libations celebrating the magic of the holidays. In addition to 20% off room rates, guests will enjoy two complimentary craft cocktails at the property’s Michelin-recognized farm-to-table restaurant Grange Restaurant & Bar. The winter special is bookable starting 12:01 am on Friday, November 24 through midnight on Tuesday, November 28.
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Hotel La Jolla, Curio Collection by Hilton Bookable starting on Black Friday through the end of the year, Hotel La Jolla’s seasonal promotion gives guests up to 20% off its best rates plus a “pick your perk” option allowing them the choice of an extra treat to liven up their stay from two cocktails and a complimentary appetizer, a complimentary bottle of Champagne, or option for early check-in or late check-out. To book, click here and for more information, visit the property’s website at www.hotellajolla.com.
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The Hollywood Roosevelt| Los Angeles, CA Thelegendary boutique hotel and entertainment industry institution is long known as the epicenter for industry movers and shakers on Hollywood Boulevard. Home to vibrant new restaurant Shirley Brasserie, celebrating authentic French-Californian flavors, helmed by Chef de Cuisine Craig Hopson.
The Deal: Stay two (2) nights or more and get an extra night free. Booking window: 11/21 -11/29. Travel window: 11/22 – 3/31/2024. Book HERE.
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Margaritaville Hotel San Diego Gaslamp Quarter| San Diego, CA Following a nearly $30 million property-wide reimagination, Margaritaville Hotel San Diego Gaslamp Quarter is a distinctly Southern Californian take on the Margaritaville experience and is home to San Diego’s largest rooftop pool deck, vibrant and beachy accommodations, three dining and entertainment destinations to sip and savor, flexible meetings and events spaces, and thoughtful amenities.
Black Friday Deal: Stay a minimum of two nights and enjoy 30% off your accommodations, plus 50% off Valet Parking. Book by November 16 – November 29, 2023, and stay between November 16 – September 30, 2024. Book here.
Cyber Monday Deal: Unlock 35% off your stay (minimum 2 nights) and receive 50% off Valet parking. Your coastal escape awaits. Book by November 16 – November 29, 2023, and stay between November 16 – September 30, 2024. Book here.
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Mission Pacific Hotel| Oceanside, CA Mission Pacific Hotel is a vibrant 161-room beachside creative boutique. Bespoke and undeniably Southern Californian, the lively, expressive hotel is charged with local creative energy that speaks to sophisticated travelers who appreciate the unpretentious vibes of Oceanside.
The Deal: Save up to 30% off the best available room rate at Mission Pacific Beach Resort and receive a $30 credit at The Rooftop Bar – Oceanside’s hottest rooftop lounge featuring live DJs, cabanas, craft cocktails, Mediterranean bites, a pool and spa jacuzzi all with an oceanfront view. The booking link will go live before Black Friday and run through Cyber Monday on the Offers page, or guests can also call the reservations number at (760) 655-1332.
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Hotel Erwin| Venice, CA Located in the heart of Venice Beach, Hotel Erwin offers an oceanside stay just steps away from LA’s favorite restaurants, bars, shops and of course, the beach.
The Deal: 30% off Hotel Erwins most flexible rate along with a $50 food & beverage credit for Erwin’s General, open in the lobby for daily breakfast, lunch, dinner, coffee, and cocktails, plus free goodies at Ospi including 10% off The Window, $20 off Surf School and more. Travel window: now through March 31, 2024. Subject to availability. Book HERE.
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Mar Monte Hotel | Santa Barbara, CA A reincarnation of the historic 1930s Vista Mar Monte, the beachfront boutique lifestyle hotel offers modern amenities and design across three acres of Spanish-influenced grounds, including 200 reimagined guest rooms and suites, two food and beverage concepts – Lido Café and costa – a pool with oceanfront views and programming reflecting the local Santa Barbara culture and community.
The Deal: 30% discount on stays between November 2023 and February 2024 by using the code ‘LOCAL’ during booking. Note that Friday and Saturday nights require a two-night stay. Click here to book.
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Waldorf Astoria Monarch Beach(Orange County, CA): With newly renovated guestrooms, oceanfront golf course designed by renowned golf course architect Robert Trent Jones, Jr., spa, private beach club, three pools, and seven seaside dining options, this Black Friday, Waldorf Astoria Monarch Beach is offering:
Offer: Up to 50% off. Booking window: November 1 – November 26, 2023. Travel window: November 1, 2023 – April 30, 2024. Book Here or call and mention “Cyber Sale”
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Hilton Anaheim (Anaheim, CA) Orange County’s largest hotel, Hilton Anaheim is an official Disney Good Neighbor® hotel with select Disney® view rooms featuring private fireworks viewing, outdoor pool, waterslides, health club, organic fine dining and cocktails at Mix Restaurant and Mix Lounge, amusement park and Angels Stadium perks. This Black Friday, the hotel is offering:
Offer: 50% flash sale with rates starting at $110/night. Booking window: November 20 – November 27, 2023. Travel window: November 20, 2023 – March 31, 2024. Code “HPPAP2”
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San Diego Mission Bay Resort | San Diego, CA Set alongside Mission Bay, San Diego Mission Bay resort is the perfect destination for a beachside escape. The property offers beautiful views and luxurious amenities like a private beach, s’mores night under the stars and top-notch rooms and suites, and coastal Californian cuisine to enjoy every aspect of this seaside vacation destination.
The deal: Between November 24 through 28th, San Diego Mission Bay Resort is offering a refundable 20% off the best available room rate for stay dates between November 24, 2023 through May 22nd, 2024. The resort is also offering a non-refundable 30% off the best available room rate for stays between November 24, 2023 through November 28, 2024
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L’Auberge Del Mar | Del Mar, CA Located in the heart of the coastal Southern California village Del Mar, L’Auberge Del Mar boasts luxurious guest rooms, an upscale pool and pool bar, a coastal-inspired spa, al fresco dining overlooking the Pacific Ocean, and more.
The deal: L'Auberge Del Mar is offering a refundable 20% off the best available room rate for stay dates between November 23, 2023 through March 14th, 2024 OR a non-refundable 30% off for stays between November 23, 2023 through December 31, 2024. Full deposit is taken at time of booking.
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Kona Kai San Diego | San Diego, CA Set alongside its own private beach on Shelter Island, Kona Kai San Diego offers the quintessential San Diego experience with two inviting pools complete with private lounging cabanas, beautifully appointed guest rooms and suites, innovative programming for the entire family, coastal spa treatments, waterfront dining and more.
The deal: For trips booked from Nov. 23 - 28, Kona Kai is extending up to 20% off the best available room rate for stays from Nov. 23 through March 31, 2024.
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Estancia La Jolla Hotel & Spa | La Jolla, CA Following a recent $13.9 million renovation, Estancia La Jolla offers guests a luxurious stay with redesigned guest rooms and suites, stunning property grounds, a full-service spa, expansive pool deck and cabanas, and three outstanding on-site dining destinations.
The deal: Estancia La Jolla is offering a refundable 20% off the best available room rate for stay dates between November 24, 2023 through March 31st, 2024 OR a non-refundable 30% off for stays between November 24, 2023 through May 23 31, 2024. Full deposit is taken at time of booking.
The deal: Book our Cyber Winter Special where you buy three consecutive nights, and receive the 4th night free - Book a new reservation directly on our website, promotional code CYBER4FREE
Dates: Now through 12/31/23. Based on new reservations only, no blackout dates
How to book: Using the promo code YBER4FREE, only available on our website. The least expensive night of the stay is automatically comped. Available for lodging stays now through 3/31/24.
The deal: We will offer a 10% discount on bookings from now through February 29, 2024.
Dates: This offer excludes weekends (Friday and Saturday) as well as holidays. Blackout dates include November 24, December 23 - January 1st, January 15, February 14, February 18 & 19.
Where to book: This offer is only accessible by calling our Front Desk directly at 805-927-1329 (Little Sur) and 805-927-0012 (Moonstone Landing)
The deal: Save 25% for stays through March 14, 2024
Dates: November 8 - November 27
How to book: Online only. Only applicable to reservations made directly with the hotel. Cards must be present (can be virtual, mobile, or physical) when being used for payment.
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Silverado Resort, a legendary 1200-acre getaway in Napa Valley, CA:
CYBER WEEK OFFER:One-night stay is 20% savings; two-night stay is 25% savings; three-night or more stay is 30% savings.
Booking dates: 11/5/23 to 11/29/23; stay: 11/5/23 to 5/19/2024.
Terranea Resort located in Rancho Palos Verdes just south of LAX:
CYBER WEEK OFFER: Book a luxurious and spacious 1-2 Bedroom Bungalow, 1-3 Bedroom Casita, or Villa Residence and receive a complimentary third night plus $250resort credit.
Booking dates: 11/16 to 11/19/23; stay dates: 12/2/23 to 10/31/24.
Code BFCM3FREE at check-out. Some restrictions and blackout dates may apply.
CYBER WEEK OFFER: 20% discount off BAR (Best Available Rate). Booking dates: 11/16/23 to 11/29/23; stay: 11/16/23 to 8/31/24. Blackout dates and other restrictions may apply. For South Coast Winery Resort & Spa the promo code is BFCMSC with rates starting at $239; booking link available here. For Carter Estate Winery and Resort the promo code is BFCMCE with rates starting at $249; booking link available here.
CYBER WEEK OFFER for Black Friday and Cyber Monday exclusive offer is 30% off best available rate during the gift buying season. An additional 10% off for all Loyalty members (guests can enroll here).
Booking dates: 11/13/2023 to 11/27/2023; stay dates through 6/30/2024.
KSL Resorts’ five independent boutique hotels along California’s Central Coast:
CYBER WEEK OFFER: 25% savings for stays through 3/14/2024.
Booking dates: 11/8/2023 to 11/27/2023; stay dates: 11/8/2023 to 3/14/2024.
Booking for Avila Lighthouse Suites is available here; Pismo Lighthouse Suites available here; Paso Robles Innavailable here; Shore Cliff Hotel available here; and The Piccolo available here.
Colorado Travel Deals
The Broadmoor Situated at the gateway to the Colorado Rocky Mountains in Colorado Springs, The Broadmoor and its Wilderness Experience properties – The Ranch at Emerald Valley, Cloud Camp and the Orvis-endorsed Fly Fishing Camp – encompass 5,000 acres. The resort campus has 784 rooms, suites, and cottages.
The deal: 15% off all-inclusive Wilderness Experience stays for select dates in the 2024 season (April-October); Broadmoor exclusive of $269 nightly rates & suites available at 25% off of published rates valid for select dates in January 2024 through April 2024. Book between November 14 - December 1, 2023. More details and booking information here.
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The Brown Palace Hotel & Spa - Denver, CO Discover the epitome of luxury and elegance in the heart of Denver as The Brown Palace Hotel & Spa invites travelers and shoppers to celebrate Black Friday with an exclusive offer providing 30% off retail merchandise and BOGO service enhancements with any spa service, bookable Nov. 24-27, 2023, for redemption Nov. 28, 2023 to March 31, 2024.
Delaware Travel Deals
The Bellmoor Inn and Spa (Rehoboth Beach, DE) Between November 24 and November 28, 2023, The Bellmoor Inn and Spa is offering rooms at 24% off when you book a 2-night stay or more, with rooms starting at $189 after the discount is applied, for stays between November 24, 2023 and January 31, 2024. Book here with code CYBR
Hotel Bethany Beach (Bethany Beach, DE) Between November 24 and November 28, 2023, Hotel Bethany Beach is offering rooms up to 24% off, with rooms starting at $169 after the discount is applied, for stays between April 1, 2024 and August 31, 2024. Book here with code CYBER Bethany Beach Ocean Suites (Bethany Beach, Delaware) Between now and November 28, 2023, Bethany Beach Ocean Suites is offering rooms up to 20% off, with rooms starting at $189 after the discount is applied, for stays between now and January 31, 2024. Book here
Florida Travel Deals
The Don Cesar
Southernmost Beach Resort Situated along the southern limit of the famed Duval Street, the recently renovated Southernmost Beach Resort features classic coastal charm, unparalleled ocean views, and tons of family fun for a memorable stay in Key West’s Historic District. Boasting three palm-fringed pools, a signature restaurant, and four bars, this oceanfront resort will leave the kids begging to return.
The deal: Book between November 23 and November 28 and get 30% off + $100 Resort Credit per stay at Amara Cay and La Siesta. With each booking, a $5 Donation to Give Kids the World. A minimum of a 3-night stay is required. Offer is based on availability and valid for stays from December 1, 2023 – September 30, 2024.
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Opal Grand Hotel Collection – The Palm Beaches, FL This holiday season, a coastal getaway is a breeze when travelers stay at any four Opal Grand Hotel Collection resorts in Palm Beach County: Jupiter Beach Resort & Spa, Opal Grand, Delray Sands, and The Atlantic Suites on the Ave. From Nov. 27-28, guests can enjoy 35% off select dates and experience paradise at any of these luxe oceanfront resorts with the promo code OPFLSH.
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THE DON CESAR | ST. PETE BEACH, FLORIDA Opened in 1928, Florida’s iconic Pink Palace® The Don CeSar invites guests to relax and enjoy pristine private white sand beaches, spacious accommodations in one of the 277 guestrooms, including 36 luxurious suites, six food and beverage concepts and the award-winning Spa Oceana.
DEAL: Stay 3 nights, Save 30%. Book a minimum three-night stay during 11/21/23 - 12/5/23 for stays during 11/21/23 - 12/31/24. Includes a $100 resort credit per stay. Book HERE between November 21, 2023 through December 5, 2023 and use promo code: Cyber2023
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Hawks Cay Resort, the Florida Keys Hawks Cay Resort welcomes guests to the ultimate Florida Keys vacation experience with on-site amenities like fishing excursions, dolphin encounters, snorkel trips, and more. Plus, the new Pilar Bar hosts rum tastings and cigar pairings inspired by longtime Keys resident Ernest Hemingway.
This Black Friday, guests can take up to 45% off and receive a $50 resort credit plus daily breakfast for two during their stay. Bookable Nov. 14 through Nov. 29. Subject to availability, blackout dates apply.
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The Grove Resort & Water Park, Orlando Florida Black Friday/Cyber Monday 30% discount off of BAR rates. Booking window from November 16, 2023 to November 29, 2023. Can stay from November 16, 2023 to December 20, 2024. Book here
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Hilton Orlando (Orlando, FL) Hilton Orlando offers exclusive park perks plus seven restaurants, a full-service spa, multiple pools with a waterslide and lazy river plus a reimagined Lobby Bar and modernized chic decor following a major renovation of its lobby in fall 2022. This Black Friday, the resort is offering: 15% off best available rate and 50% off resort charge. Booking November 20 – December 1, 2023 for travel select dates for December 2023 – 2024 using code “P4” or SRP name ORLOC Special Offers
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Caribe Royale Orlando– Orlando, FL Caribe Royale Orlando recently debuted a completely reimagined, luxury travel experience that solidifies the resort as Orlando’s all-suite, premier destination for Disney-bound families, conveniently located a stone's throw from Walt Disney World and Orlando’s other top theme parks.
Deal: 30% off with $25 nightly F&B credit when booking direct for 2 consecutive nights or more. Booking Window: November 16-29, 2023. Travel Window: November 16, 2023-December 31, 2024. Book via the hotel’s website beginning November 16.
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Margaritaville Hollywood Beach Resort – Hollywood, FL Margaritaville Hollywood Beach Resort is your family-friendly tropical escape with 369-rooms, eight diverse bar and restaurant concepts, two pools, the famous FlowRider surfing simulator, year-round live entertainment, the St. Somewhere Spa, a kid’s club, paddle boarding and kayaking, and more.
Deal: Escape the winter blues and bask in the South Florida sun at Margaritaville Hollywood Beach Resort and save up to 20% when booking to stay between November 21, 2023 – June 30, 2024. Booking Window: November 20, 2023 – November 28, 2023. Book here during the booking window.
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Villatel Orlando Resort Villatel Orlando is now officially open for guests to enjoy. This 77-acre resort offers unparalleled convenience, providing easy access to Orlando's major tourism attractions. To celebrate the grand opening, the resort is turning Black Friday "blue" with an exclusive offer. By using the special code BLUEFRIDAY20, travelers can enjoy a fantastic 20% discount on all stays booked between Friday, November 24th and Sunday, November 26th for any future stays lasting at least 5 nights.
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Mayfair House Hotel & Garden Mayfair House Hotel & Garden has an exclusive cyber offer this holiday season for iPrefer Rewards members. Book a room for 2 nights and receive your 3rd night free and receive 30,000 bonus iPrefer Points for a two-night or more stay in 2023 or 2024.
Once people are signed up for iPrefer Rewards, they can use this booking link
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PGA National Resort unveiled an incredible $100 million transformation in February 2022 which touched every aspect of the celebrated property – including celebrity chef-helmed restaurants such as Top Chef Winner Jeremy Ford’s The Butcher’s Club, The Spa which was redesigned by V Starr, tennis star Venus Williams’ design firm, 21 two-bedroom, two-bathroom cottages designed by Serena & Lily, new pickleball courts, and more.
Book 3 nights and receive 30% off the best available rate. Book 5 nights and get 50% off the best available rate.
The Deal: Book between November 20th and November 27th and stay by 10/31/24, receive 30% off 3 or more nights! Rate does not include $35.00 Daily Resort Fee. Stay must be booked between 11/20/23 and 11/27/23, and completed by 10/31/24. Rates are subject to availability. Offer may not be combined with other promotions or special offers. Offer not applicable to prior reservations, groups or conventions. Blackout dates and other restrictions may apply. Maximum number of guests allowed in room: 4. Cancellation policy: 72 hours prior to date of arrival. Subject to hotel tax. Subject to a resort fee.
The Deal: Book between November 23 and November 28 and to 30% off + $100 Resort Credit per stay at Amara Cay and La Siesta. With each booking, a $5 Donation to Give Kids the World. A minimum of 3-night stay is required. Offer is based on availability and valid for stays from December 1, 2023 – September 30, 2024.
The Deal: Book between November 24-November 28 to receive:
25% Off Standard Rate at The Cloister or The Lodge for stays January-March 2024*
15% Off Standard Rate at The Cloister or The Lodge for stays April-August 2024*
25% Off Standard Rate at The Cloister or The Lodge for stays September-December 21, 2024*
10% Off Standard Rate at Cottages for stays January-December 21, 2024*
A $250 resort credit per stay for The Cloister and The Lodge.*
A $100 resort credit per Cottage per night of stay*
Valid for stays January through December 2024 excluding these blackout dates: March 24-31, 2024; May 23-26, 2024; July 1-6, 2024; August 30-September 1, 2024; November 17-23, 2024; November 27-29, 2024; December 22-31, 2024. Rate Code: BFRIDAY23
The Deal: Book between November 24-November 28 to receive:
25% Off Standard Rate at The Inn at Sea Island for stays January-March 2024*
15% Off Standard Rate at The Inn at Sea Island for stays April-August 2024*
25% Off Standard Rate at The Inn at Sea Island for stays September-December 21, 2024*
A 30-minute Topgolf Swing Suite session per stay.*
Valid for stays January through December 2024 excluding these blackout dates: March 24-31, 2024; May 23-26, 2024; July 1-6, 2024; August 30-September 1, 2024; November 17-23, 2024; November 27-29, 2024; December 22-31, 2024. Link to book here.
Hawaii Travel Deals
Aqua-Aston Hospitality
Hotel Wailea| Maui, HI Hotel Wailea, Relais & Châteaux offers Maui’s hottest hideaway with 72 suites spread across 15 tropical acres. This intimate, peaceful retreat is nestled within a lush tropical hillside perched 300 feet above the sea, with convenient access to island adventures by day – from beaches, water sports and golf to restaurants and shopping – and luxurious tranquility by night.
The Deal: Guests can enjoy a 25% off discount on stays of 3 nights or more. Available between 12/15/23 – 6/30/24 (subject to blackout dates). Hotel Wailea’s email subscribers have exclusive early access to the sale starting on 11/17/23. Public access to the sale is from 11/24/23 until 11/27/23. Promo code: FRIDAY2023; click here to book.
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Kaimana Beach Hotel| Oahu, HI Located at Waikiki’s best address along the Gold Coast of Oahu, Kaimana Beach Hotel is situated on the quietest end of Waikiki, yet just five minutes from the energy and excitement of Honolulu. The 122-room hotel has been an integral part of the fabric of Waikiki for more than five decades. The celebrated social hub of the hotel and a new culinary experience at the iconic Hau Tree is known for its beachfront brunch just steps away from the ocean.
The Deal: Guests can enjoy a 30% off discount on stays between 11/8/23 – 12/15/24. Kaimana’s email subscribers have exclusive early access to the sale starting on 11/8/23. Public access to the sale is from 11/22/23 until 11/30/23. Click here to book.
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White Sands Hotel| Waikiki, Hawaii Built in 1957 and reimagined for today, the White Sands Hotel includes 94 rooms and suites, exterior walk-up corridors, and private lanais that make it a vintage gem suited for contemporary island life.
PACIFIC 19 Kona| Kona, HI PACIFIC 19 Kona is a newly renovated and re-envisioned boutique hotel for independent travelers seeking stylish accommodations and authentic island experiences.
The Deal: 25% off. Booking window: 11/16/23 – 12/1/23. Stay window: 12/1/23 – 9/30/24. Book HERE.
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Aqua-Aston Hospitality – 25+ hotels and resorts in Hawaii 20% off at Aqua-Aston Hospitality’s properties on Oahu, Kauai, Maui and Hawaii Island. Visitors will love condo-style properties with resort amenities including Aston Kaanapali Shores, Aston Waikiki Beach Tower, Aston at the Whaler on Kaanapali Beach and more. A-List members (Aqua-Aston Hospitality’s loyalty program) also receive early access to the sale at 25% off.
Booking Window A-List Members: November 14 — 20, 2023; General Sale: November 21 — 28, 2023
Stay Dates: A-List Members: November 14, 2023 — December 20, 2024; General Sale: November 21, 2023 — December 20, 2024
Promo Code: General Sale:CYBERSALE
Louisiana Travel Deals
ONE11 Hotel (New Orleans, LA) ONE11 is offering 20% off rooms on November 24th, for stays through Feb. 1st. Starting Rate: $209 a night
Maine Travel Deals
Sandy Pines Campground Maine’s most elevated camping experience, Sandy Pines Campground, will offer travelers 20% off all Couples Camp Cottages reservations this coming Small Business Saturday, November 25th, and Cyber Monday, November 27th. Set in the lush of a serene salt marsh, the glampground provides travelers with the best of Maine summer, made more comfortable with air conditioning, mosquito nets, electricity, and top-of-the-line glamping accommodations.
Massachusetts Travel Deals
Hampton by Hilton Boston Seaport District (Boston, MA) Set near the waterfront and a five-minute walk from Flynn Cruise Terminal, Hampton by Hilton Boston Seaport District features an indoor pool, 24-hour fitness center, complimentary breakfast, and proximity to local dining, Leader Bank Pavilion and Boston Convention & Exhibition Center. This Black Friday, the hotel is offering:
Offer: 60% off the Park and Stay Package (for daily parking each night of stay). Booking window: November 25 – November 28, 2023. Travel window: January 1, 2024 – March 31, 2024. Code “S1G”
The Deal: Book between November 27 and December 2, 2023, and get up to 40% off a stay between November 30, 2023 and April 29, 2024, as well as select dates in fall. Additionally, book between November 24 and December 2 and receive a $200 resort credit per room on a 2024 summer vacation (valid for new reservations only; minimum stay restrictions and blackout dates may apply).
Montana Travel Deals
Explorer Cabins - West Yellowstone, MT Explorer Cabins in Yellowstone is thrilled to announce a remarkable 30% discount on the Best Available Rate, available exclusively for a limited time. This incredible offer will make its debut on Black Friday and continue through Cyber Monday, so mark your calendar for an adventure like no other. Click HERE for the deal link (set go live Black Friday).
Nevada Travel Deals
EL CORTEZ HOTEL & CASINO | LAS VEGAS, NEVADA The longest-running hotel & casino in Sin City, El Cortez Hotel & Casino offers a wide range of rooms to suit every style and budget, from the nostalgic charm of the Original 47 and Pavilion rooms to the contemporary luxury of the Tower Premium Rooms. Steeped in history since its grand opening in 1941, the downtown hotel embodies the timeless essence of Las Vegas effortlessly blending vintage allure with contemporary amenities.
DEAL: 25% off stays through August 2024. Book online starting November 24, 2023 through November 27, 2023
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Virgin Hotels Las Vegas, Curio Collection by Hilton(Las Vegas) Boasting contemporary guestroom chambers, ten immersive restaurants for group dining including Nobu, expansive pool with sleek seating and Mykonos vibes, VIP cabanas and more, this Black Friday, Virgin Hotels Las Vegas, Curio Collection by Hilton is offering:
Offer: 40% off best available rate; Booking window: November 20 – December 5, 2023. Travel window: November 20, 2023 – December 31, 2024. Book Here
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Whitney Peak Hotel In the “Biggest Little City” of Reno Tahoe, the vibrant Whitney Peak Hotel, located in the heart of Downtown, features 300+ contemporarily-designed staterooms with panoramic views of the surrounding nature and bustling city. For Black Friday and Cyber Monday the hotel is offering 20% off all bookings made between November 16-29. The property features a one-of-a-kind amenity with the Guinness Book of World Records “World’s Tallest Artificial Climbing Wall.” towering 164ft above Downtown.
New York Travel Deals
Sound View Greenport
NoMo SoHo - New York City Located in the heart of New York City’s SoHo neighborhood, NoMo SoHo’s guest rooms feature floor-to-ceiling windows with stunning views of New York City, in addition to the wildly popular NoMo Kitchen, an iconic restaurant with a glass atrium and intimate outdoor patio.
OFFER: From Black Friday through December 1, NoMo SoHo is offering 30% off all room types for stays through December 31, 2024. Guests can gain access to book by signing up for NoMo SoHo’s newsletter at www.nomosoho.com/subscribe/
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Sound View Greenport| Greenport, NY Sound View Greenport’s newly renovated seaside hotel and restaurant sits on 14 acres of private, waterfront land in the charming town of Greenport, New York.
The Deal: 35% off best available rate. Booking window: 11/16/23 – 12/1/24. Stay window: 11/9/23 – 5/23/24. Book HERE.
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33 Seaport Hotel (New York, New York) Dive into the gift of luxury at 33 Seaport Hotel with our Black Friday and Cyber Monday offer. Book between November 17 – 27 and enjoy 20% off your stay from January 1 – March 31, plus a daily breakfast for two. Act fast and embrace the allure of New York City! Book here
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Kixby Hotel Experience all that New York City has to offer this winter with an exclusive Cyber Monday and Travel Tuesday deal in honor of Kixby Hotel’s 120th anniversary and title of one of New York City’s longest-standing hotels. To celebrate the iconic milestone, Kixby is offering travelers a flat rate deal of $120 per night for a Lux King room for travel dates through March 2024. Guests must book online, linked HERE. Book Nov. 28-29. Travel dates: December 17, 2023 - March 28, 2024
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Walker Hotels (Tribeca & Greenwich Village) Sister properties located in two of New York City’s most iconic neighborhoods, Walker Hotel Tribeca and Greenwich Village are celebrating Black Friday and Cyber Monday this year with an exclusive 35% off next year’s holiday stays booked for November 16 – December 31, 2024. This limited-time rate at Walker Tribeca can be booked HERE and Greenwich Village HERE. Booking dates: November 16 – November 29, 2023
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Crowne Plaza HY36 – New York, New York Crowne Plaza HY36 is offering additional savings on their Book Early and Save rate, guaranteeing an additional 10% discount on weekdays and 12% on weekends for in-app bookings only. Travel Window: January 1, 2024 – August 31, 2024. Book through the IHG Hotels & Rewards App
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The William Vale (Williamsburg, Brooklyn) Cyber Monday Deal: From November 14th through December 14th, 2023, The William Vale will offer a special Cyber Monday deal where guests can book rooms at a special fixed rate starting at $185 / night for the Queen with Balcony for stays between November 14th through December 31st, 2024, using the promo code CYBER23. The lower rate of the year, bookings can be made HERE.
North Carolina Travel Deals
The Art of Living Retreat Center - Boone, North Carolina
The Art of Living Retreat Center offers a serene and rejuvenating wellness experience surrounded by nature in the Blue Ridge Mountains of North Carolina.
OFFER: Available to book from November 17 - November 27, Art of Living Retreat Center is offering 25% off Signature Retreats (Happiness, Stepping Into Silence, Meditation) and R+R Retreats for stays from December 2023 through March 2024
The Windsor Suites | Philadelphia, PA The Windsor Suites embodies the vibrant energy of Philadelphia the moment you arrive. It’s conveniently located on the iconic Benjamin Franklin Parkway, home to world-famous arts and cultural sites. Intersecting the downtown business district, travelers will experience an urban lifestyle from spacious suites with skyline views.
The Deal: 35% off luxurious One Bedroom Suites and Skyline Rooms. Booking window: Nov 15, 2023 – Nov 30, 2023. Stay dates:Nov 15, 2023 – Feb 29, 2024. Book HERE.
CYBER WEEK OFFER: With the purchase of a full-priced lift ticket, guests get a free Aquatopia Twilight Ticket. 2024 Camelbeach Season Passes are on sale for $99. To conquer the slopes during the day and hit the waves at night this is the perfect combo for round-the-clock fun at Camelback. Booking dates: Black Friday, 11/24/2023 to Cyber Monday, 11/27/2023 at 11:59 p.m. Booking link available here.
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Blue Mountain Resortin Palmerton, Penn., is a friends and family all-year resort in the Poconos:
CYBER WEEK OFFER: Bonus Bucks are awarded on gift card purchases and earn $10 in bonus bucks for every $100 spent on Blue Mountain Resort digital or physical gift cards. Booking dates: 11/24/2023 to 11/27/2023. Booking link available here.
South Carolina Travel Deals
HarbourView Inn, Charleston, SC - 25% off bookings made from 11/27 through 12/3 for travel by 12/31/24. Before discount, hotel starting rate $289/night
The Spectator Hotel, Charleston, SC – 23% off bookings made from 11/27 through 12/3 for travel by 12/31/24. Before discount, hotel starting rate $299/night
French Quarter Inn, Charleston, SC – 23% off bookings made from 11/27 through 12/3 for travel by 12/31/24. Before discount, hotel starting rate $289/night
Texas Travel Deals
Hilton Anatole
The Westin Riverwalk – San Antonio, TX The beautiful and newly renovated Westin Riverwalk, San Antonio invites travelers to celebrate Black Friday/Cyber Monday with an exclusive offer of 30% off rooms. Book between Nov. 24-27, 2023, and stay between Nov. 28, 2023 and March 31, 2024.
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Hilton Austin (Austin, TX) Situated in Downtown Austin with close proximity to Sixth and Rainey St nightlife, Hilton Austin is home to the first hotel location of F45 Training—one of the fastest-growing fitness experiences loved by celebrities, as well as a rooftop pool and the first Top Golf Swing Suite for an interactive tee-off experience inside the property’s energetic Austin Taco Project serving craft cocktails and fusion tacos. This Black Friday, the hotel is offering:
Limited time rates for Hilton Honors Members as low as $139 booking Nov. 24-27 with travel Dec. 1, 2023-Feb. 29, 2024. Book Here; Request “Honors Advance Purchase” or use code "HPPAP2"
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DoubleTree Suites by Hilton Hotel Austin (Austin, TX): The newly renovated DoubleTree Suites by Hilton Hotel Austin is situated two blocks from the Texas Capitol and features refreshed guestrooms, revamped pool deck, and onsite restaurant spotlighting the city’s culinary notoriety. This Black Friday, the hotel is offering:
Up to 30% off Advance Purchase when booking Nov. 24-27 for stays December 1, 2023 – March 31, 2024. Book Here with code "H2A"
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Embassy Suites by Hilton Austin Downtown South Congress (Austin, TX) Amidst scenic views of the Austin skyline with an indoor pool next to Lady Bird Lake and Congress Avenue Bridge, and Music Row which features dining, shopping and eclectic music venues. Embassy Suites by Hilton Austin Downtown South Congress’ Black Friday deal includes:
Up to 30% off Advance Purchase when booking Nov. 24-27 for stays December 1, 2023 – March 31, 2024. Book Here with code "H2A"
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Hilton Anatole(Dallas, TX) Hilton Anatole ishome to the largest U.S. hotel collection of art and antiques as well as the iconic JadeWaters pool complex featuring two 180-ft. water slides, lazy river, kids splash pad, leisure cove with swim-up bar and more. This Black Friday, the hotel is offering:
Up to 20% off the North Pole Adventure Room Package. The package includes two adult tickets to the North Pole Adventure Experience, daily $50 F&B credit, free wi-fi and 50% off parking. Booking Nov. 24-28 for stays December 8, 2023 – December 30, 2023. Book Here
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Hotel ZaZa– Austin, Dallas, Houston On Cyber Monday only, Hotel ZaZa is offering an exclusive deal. Book any date for any rate online and automatically receive a complimentary upgrade. Travel anytime within the next year (November 28, 2023 — November 28, 2024). Visit http://www.hotelzaza.com/ on November 27 and book any date at any rate for an automatic upgrade.
CYBER WEEK OFFER: 20% discount off BAR (Best Available Rate). Booking dates: 11/16/23 to 11/29/23; stay: 11/16/23 to 8/31/24. Blackout dates and other restrictions may apply. The promo code is BFCMCC. Booking link available here. Rates starting at $229.
Tennessee Travel Deals
Bode | Nashville, TN Located steps away from the restaurants, bars, and nightlife of Lower Broadway, Bode is on a mission to cater to both solo and group travel by offering chic suites ranging from one to four bedrooms in size. While on property, can’t-miss experiences include Dawn, the airy artisanal coffee shop, and Sidebar, their locally-loved craft cocktail bar.
The deal: 20% off stays through March 2024. Book HERE from November 15, 2023 through November 30, 2023
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Noelle | Nashville, TN Situated on the corner of Fourth Avenue and Church Street in downtown Nashville with Printer’s Alley at its back, Noelle is an immersive 222-room boutique hotel and creative gathering place, boasting an on-site luxury boutique, Keep Shop, and five imaginative food and drink concepts. Originally opened in 1930 as Noel Place, Noelle pays homage to the property’s Art Deco roots and is listed on the National Register of Historic Places.
The deal: Enjoy up to 24% off guest rooms and suites, a $24 dining credit, and 24% off retail. Offer is valid for stays between November 30, 2023 and November 30, 2024. Book HERE starting November 17, 2023 through November 29, 2023
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Rock Springs Retreat Center - Tennessee Located 45 minutes from Nashville, Rock Springs Retreat Center offers transformative retreats that focus on holistic wellness, combining fitness, nutrition, and lifestyle to help individuals achieve sustainable, long-term results.
The deal: From November 20 - December 1, guests can book one week and get the second week at 60% off for stays through February 29, 2024. Guests can book by contacting Rock Springs Retreat Center at 615-437-6524
Le Meridien Salt Lake City Downtown and Element Salt Lake City Downtown (Salt Lake City, Utah) Between November 24 and November 27, 2023, Le Meridien Salt Lake City Downtown is offering rooms 20% off, with rooms starting at $189 after the discount is applied, for stays between November 24 and March 31, 2024. Between November 24 and November 27, 2023, Element Salt Lake City Downtown is offering rooms 20% off, with rooms starting at $159 after the discount is applied, for stays between November 24 and March 31, 2024.
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Vermont Travel Deals
Topnotch Resort, Stowe, Vt is offering a Cyber Monday 2023 – One Night, One Room, One Hundred Dollars flash sale starting at 8:15 am ET on Mon. 11/27 (8:00 am ET for email subscribers). Only one room priced at $100 (excluding taxes and resort fees) is available per night between 11/27/23 and 8/31/24 on a first-come, first-served basis (total available rooms: 100). The sale ends when the 100 nights of reservations have been found and booked – they will go quickly so shoppers need to act fast!
Virginia Travel Deals
Skyland Resort - Luray, VA Skyland Resort in Luray, VA, is offering a 30% discount on the Best Available Rate. This incredible offer makes its debut on Black Friday and extends through Cyber Monday, so be sure to mark your calendar for a serene getaway amidst the mountains. Click HERE for the deal link (set go live Black Friday).
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Big Meadows Lodge - Stanley, VA Big Meadows Lodge is offering 30% discount on the Best Available Rate. This fantastic offer kicks off on Black Friday and extends through Cyber Monday, so make sure to mark your calendar for a serene retreat amidst the mountains. Click HERE for the deal link (set go live Black Friday).
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Airlie| Warrenton, VA Airlie offers an array of accommodations across seven landmark buildings, nestled into a serene village setting nestled on 300 rolling acres in Northern Virginia's picturesque countryside.
The Deal: Discounts start at 30% off per night. Booking window: Nov 17 to Nov 29, 2023. Stay dates: Nov 17, 2023 – Mar 31, 2024. Book HERE.
Washington DC Travel Deals
The Madison Hotel – Washington, DC The Madison’s exclusive "Winter in Washington" package, available for booking from Nov. 24-Dec.31, promises a cozy stay complete with breakfast for two, complimentary valet parking, and a leisurely late checkout. Guests are invited to toast to the season with two complimentary handcrafted seasonal cocktails at The Madison’s crown jewel, Lady Madison, DC’s premier cocktail lounge. Bookings are valid online for stays between Nov. 27, 2023-March 3, 2024.
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The River Inn |Washington D.C. The River Inn is a boutique hotel tucked away on a tree-lined street in the coveted Washington, DC neighborhood of Foggy Bottom. Centrally located four blocks from the Kennedy Center, three blocks from the metro, and five blocks to the picturesque shops and restaurants of Georgetown - there is so much to explore just steps away. The National Mall, Smithsonian Institute and White House are all just a quick metro ride away as well.
The Deal: 35% off regular rates. Booking window: Nov 16 to Nov 29, 2023. Stay dates: Nov 16, 2023 - Mar 31, 2024. Book HERE.
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Hotel Hive| Washington D.C. Deemed Washington D.C.’s first micro hotel, Hotel Hive is known for smaller rooms and bigger — more buzzworthy — experiences. Set in a historic building, the vibrant space is steeped in character.
The Deal: 35% off regular rates. Booking window: Nov 16 to Nov 29, 2023. Stay dates: Nov 16, 2023 - Mar 31, 2025. Book HERE.
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The Normandy Hotel|Washington D.C. Tucked just off Connecticut Avenue among the stately embassies and tree-lined streets of peaceful Kalorama, The Normandy Hotel is an inviting and residential retreat from the city. Steps from DC’s iconic Dupont Circle and a short stroll from eclectic Adams Morgan, The Normandy offers a uniquely DC experience that’s steeped in sophisticated charm – where every stay feels like coming home.
The Deal: 35% off regular rates. Booking window: Nov 16 to Nov 29, 2023. Stay dates:Nov 16, 2023 - Mar 31, 2026. Book HERE.
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Viceroy (Washington, DC) 35% off best available rate when booked 11/11-12/3/23. Valid for stays Nov. 11, 2023 through Dec. 31, 2024. =
Wyoming Travel Deals
Anvil Hotel| Jackson, WY On the doorstep of Yellowstone, in the vibrant town of Jackson, Anvil Hotel celebrates the wonder of Wyoming offering endless opportunities for outdoor adventure and exploration.
The Deal: 35% off best available rate. Booking window: 11/16/23 – 12/1/23. Travel window: 11/9/23 – 5/23/24. Book HERE.
Meliá Hotels International One of the leading leisure resort companies in the world with more than 400 hotels globally, Meliá Hotels International will be offering up to 50% off select hotel rates.
Great Wolf Lodge is giving families a reason to save this holiday season with exclusive deals for Black Friday and Cyber Monday. Great Wolf Resorts, Inc. is North America’s largest family of indoor waterpark resorts with locations across North America.
Black Friday Deal: Rooms starting at $24/person (minimum of 4 people). Booking Nov. 24, code FRIDAY, stay Nov. 24, 2023-Feb. 29, 2024
Cyber Monday Deal: Save up to 50% off with rates starting at $99.99/night. Booking Nov. 27, code CYBER, stay Nov. 27, 2023-Feb. 29, 2024
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Sandals Resorts & Beaches Resorts
The leading all-inclusive Caribbean resort brands,Sandals Resorts and Beaches Resorts, are turning Black Friday “blue” with their "Gift of Blue" sale, giving guests up to a $750 air credit and up to a $250 resort credit on vacations of seven nights or more at select properties including Beaches Turks & Caicos, the new Sandals Dunn’s River in Jamaica; Sandals Royal Curacao; and Sandals Saint Vincent debuting in 2024. Bookings can be made with the promo code GOB2023 between November 13, 2023 – December 21, 2023 for travel through November 3, 2024. Additionally, for every booking made between Thanksgiving and Giving Tuesday (November 23-28), $50 will be donatedto theSandals Foundation, the non-profit arm of Sandals Resorts International, to support its ocean conservation efforts, specifically the expansion of coral nurseries throughout the Caribbean, which hosts 10% of the world's coral reefs.
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Westgate Resorts Westgate Resorts is offering travelers a chance to kick back and relax this Black Friday with an exclusive offer of up to 50% of savings, bookable from Nov. 20-29, 2023, for travel from Nov. 20, 2023 to Feb. 29, 2024. With sought-after destinations such as Park City, UT; Orlando, FL; Las Vegas, NV; Gatlinburg, TN; Myrtle Beach, SC; and several more, Westgate Resorts accommodates every escape with luxurious spaces and breathtaking views. To book, visitors can visit westgateresorts.com and apply the promo code ‘Friday’ at checkout.
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The Kessler Collection | 10 Properties Nationwide This Cyber Monday, guests can experience the enriching ambiance of The Kessler Collection’s hotels for 24% off luxury stays from December 1 – March 31 when booking between November 27 and December 1. To book, click here.
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Sonesta Hotels Save up to 30% off when booking two nights minimum with promo code CYBER. Sonesta Travel Pass Members have early access to the promotion starting today (Nov. 2) to book a stay through November 30 for any time through April 15, 2024.
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Rosewood Hotels & Resorts will be hosting a Black Friday and Cyber Monday of 30% off best available rate promotion valid for bookings made from Friday, November 24th at 12:01 a.m. EST through Tuesday, November 28th at 11:59 p.m. EST for stays through June 30th, 2024. The promo code will be: CYBER23.
The deal: The brand will be offering up to 40% off portfolio-wide. Booking window is November 21 - December 5, 2023 for stays from November 21, 2023 - September 2, 2024.
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@hotel 50K+ hotels on the site will be more than 50% off their market price, while 200K+ hotels on the site will be more than 30% off their market price Sunday, November 19th to Friday, December 1st
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Virgin Hotels, the luxury lifestyle hotel brand from Sir Richard Branson, is launching Joy Behind Every Door – a new holiday campaign that’ll spread festive joy to travelers around the world. The new campaign will offer:
The year’s best savings with up to 30% off bookings made between November 13 to December 31, valid for hotel stays through the end of 2024
Surprise upgrades to Sir Richard’s Flat – the most luxurious suite available at all Virgin Hotels
A charitable donation for all bookings made on Giving Tuesday to help combat hunger this holiday season
Travel Deals for the Caribbean, Central America & South America
Hamilton Princess & Beach Club | Bermuda
Atlantis Paradise Island is offering a Cyber Week Sale for stays from January 2 through November 30, 2024, in The Coral, The Royal, The Cove, and The Reef Towers. The Cyber Sale is Atlantis’ biggest sale of the year, offering Savings of up to 25% + Resort Credits & More.
Early Access is available November 16 through 21, 2023 for Atlantis Paradise Island newsletter subscribers and loyal guests. Travelers can sign up for early access via the website here to receive the invite to these exclusive offers:
For stays from January 2 through April 30, 2024, guests will receive the 5th Night Free (20% savings on 5+ nights) PLUS a $500+ Resort Credit (the credit is equivalent to $100 per night, so a longer stay equals more resort credit!).
For stays from May 1 through November 30, 2024, guests will receive the 4th Night Free (25% savings on 4+ nights) PLUS a $400+ Resort Credit (the credit is equivalent to $100 per night, so a longer stay equals more resort credit!).
Public Sale is available from November 22 through December 1, 2023, and provides guests with their 5th Night Free (20% savings on 5+ nights) PLUS a $250 Resort Credit per stay for travel from January 2 through November 30, 2024.
During Black Friday, Cyber Monday, and Travel Tuesday, guests can save even more when adding on the popular Beverage or Marine Adventure Experience Credits to their reservations. For every $100 purchased, an additional $20 is added.
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Caribe Hilton | Puerto Rico Centrally located just minutes from the heart of Old San Juan, Caribe Hilton is a tropical oasis with three on-site pools, a zen garden, and a secluded beach where travelers can enjoy a bit of R&R with lots of local flair. Caribe Hilton offers a close-to-home Caribbean retreat, where guests have easy access to the rich culture of San Juan.
The deal: 30% off BAR in Ocean View Rooms and Suites & 2 Piña Coladas. Book Nov. 27-Dec. 3, 2023 for travel April - July 202. Visit here and use code 'P7'
The deal: Book between October 12th, 2023 - March 29th, 2024, and get 2 nights at 15% off, 3-4 nights at 20% off, or 5+ nights at 25% off. Valid on stays October 15th, 2023 - April 30th, 2024.
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Hilton Ponce Golf & Casino Resort(Puerto Rico): Oceanfront resort facing the Caribbean Sea with two outdoor pools, spray area, kids’ play area, mini-golf, tennis courts, casino, golf course, nearby cathedrals and more. Hilton Ponce Golf & Casino Resort is offering the following this Black Friday:
The deal: 20% off best available rate with a minimum two-night stay, continental breakfast for two adults and two children. Booking Nov. 24-27, travel Jan. 6-June 30, 2024. Book here with code “BF2024”
The deal: For new bookings made between Friday, Nov. 24th at 12:01 AM (EST) and Sunday, Nov. 26th at 11:59 PM (PST) get a 20% discount for stays of 3 nights in the All-Inclusive program and a 30% discount for stays of 4 nights or more in the All-Inclusive program. Valid only for stays through April 30th, 2024.
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Sonesta Resorts St. Maarten, St. Maarten Sonesta Resorts St. Maarten is a duo of stunning oceanfront, all-inclusive resorts in the Dutch Caribbean, comprised of the family-friendly Sonesta Maho Beach Resort, Casino & Spa and five-star, adults-only Sonesta Ocean Point Resort.
From Black Friday through Cyber Monday, Sonesta Resorts St. Maarten will offer 50% off standard room rate when booking a future stay with code BLACKFRIDAY online at sonestastmaarten.com. Available for stays between December 1, 2023 to December 21, 2024. Guests must stay three nights or more and pay in full at time of booking.
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Ocean Club Resorts, Providenciales, Turks & Caicos Ocean Club Resorts, two all-suite resorts located along the pristine Grace Bay Beach, provide the spacious accommodations, comforts of home such as a full kitchen or kitchenette, screened-in patio, and onsite range of activities.
Travelers who book a six-night stay at Ocean Club Resorts (the East or West location) this Black Friday through Cyber Monday will receive the seventh night free. Available for new bookings only made between Friday, November 24 – Monday, November 27, 2023, for stays April 1 – 30, 2024. Valid on accommodations ranging from Studio to One-Bedroom Suites. The promotional offer must be booked here online, use promo code BFCM.
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Windjammer Landing Villa Beach Resort, St. Lucia Reminiscent of a Mediterranean village, Windjammer Landing Villa Beach Resort brings luxury to the hillside of Labrelotte Bay. The 65-acre all-inclusive resort is the perfect backdrop for a romantic escape with private villas, seven dining options, a luxurious spa and more. Discover this year’s Black Friday sale and score the trip of a lifetime.
The Deal: Up to 60% off + a $250 USD Resort Credit (resort credit is only for stays 5+ nights). Visit the website to book on Nov. 20 - or sign up for windjammer’s newsletter to be the first to receive access. Booking Window: Nov. 20-28, 2023. Travel Window: Nov. 20, 2023 - December 18, 2024
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West Bay Club& Point Grace| Providenciales, Turks & Caicos Islands Point Grace is an intimate hotel with picturesque cottage accommodations on the award-winning Grace Bay Beach ideal for romance. West Bay Club is a luxurious oceanfront resort ideal for family getaways.
The Deal: Up to40% off; a three-night minimum stay required. Booking window: 11/23-11/28. Travel window: Now-12/31/2024.
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Grace Bay Club & Rock House | Providenciales, Turks & Caicos Islands Both properties are part of Grace Bay Resorts – the Caribbean’s leading independent luxury resort developer. Rock House is dubbed the “Caribbean Capri” and is a new Mediterranean-inspired luxury resort situated on the rugged, untouched limestone cliffs of Providenciales’ north shore.
The Deal: 30% off plus a $100 resort credit. Booking window: 11/23-11/28. Travel window: Now-12/31/2024. Blackout dates apply. Book via website (link will be available at midnight on 11/23).
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Rancho Santana| Nicaragua Rancho Santana is a sprawling 2,700-acre luxury retreat set on Nicaragua’s Emerald Coast. Boasting Central America’s premier surf breaks, a 6,000-square-foot treetop spa, three pools, a sea turtle sanctuary, four restaurants and more, watch a sea turtle hatching, hike, mountain bike and more.
The Deal: Enjoy 30% off, applicable to all accommodations with a flexible cancellation policy of 30 days without penalty. On Nov. 27, use code RSCYBER when booking HERE for stays until Nov. 1, 2024. A stay minimum of five nights is required. =
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Hotel el Convento | San Juan, PR The oldest member of the Historic Hotels of America, Hotel el Convento offers a tranquil retreat located in the heart of the vibrant San Juan.
The deal: 20% off all rooms
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Palacio Provincial | San Juan PR Located in the heart of Old San Juan, Palacio Provincial is a boutique hotel that flawlessly combines past and present. Providing unparalleled views of Old San Juan and San Juan Bay, hotel guests can soak up the Puerto Rican sunshine with lite bites and hand-crafted cocktails on the property’s rooftop pool and terrace space.
Coconut Bay Beach Resort & Spa’s deal is a chance for families to save on a great 2024 vacation experience.
Save $150 on a 5-night Premium All-Inclusive stay and $200 on a 7-night stay for travel 1/2/24 to 8/31/24. Valid for direct bookings November 24-30, 2023, only with promo code BLK DEALS at cbayresort.com or by calling toll-free 877-252-0304.
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The Somerset on Grace Bay (Turks & Caicos) Book between November 17th – 27th, 2023 for 30% savings on all accommodations, $250 resort credit per reservation (applicable to spa treatments and/or excursions booked through Concierge), daily complimentary breakfast. Offer is vaild for 4-night minimum stay; offer not applicable for existing reservations and subject to availability. Valid on stays from November 18th, 2023, to October 31st, 2024.
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Wyndham Grand Rio Mar (Puerto Rico) 50% off our best available rate. Book between November 24 and 27th and stay through November 24th and December 31, 2024.
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Wyndham Palmas Golf & Beach Resort (Puerto Rico) 50% off our best available rate. Book between November 24 and 27th and stay through November 24th and December 31, 2024.
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Hamilton Princess & Beach Club (Bermuda) Book between November 13th, 2023 - December 1st, 2023 and get 30% off. Minimum stay two nights, valid on stays November 13th, 2023 - December 31st, 2024.
Additional Deal: Book between October 12th, 2023 - March 29th, 2024 and get 2 nights 15% off, 3-4 nights 20% off, or 5+ nights: 25% off. Valid on stays October 15th, 2023 - April 30th, 2024.
The Deal: For new bookings made between Friday, November 24th at 12:01 AM (EST) and Sunday, November 26th at 11:59 PM (PST) get a 20% discount for stays of 3 nights in the All-Inclusive program and a 30% discount for stays of 4 nights or more in the All-Inclusive program. Valid only for stays through April 30th, 2024.
The Deal: Sale Away this Black Friday at the newly opened Goldwynn Resort & Residences and enjoy 20% off a stay when you book by November 30. 2 night minimum stay applies. Subject to availability. Stay must be booked between January 2- June 19, 2024.
The Deal: Escape your winter blues with savings up to 40% at Hilton Aruba Caribbean Resort and Casino! Book between November 24th to 27th, 2023 for stays 6 nights or longer for select stay dates in January – early April 2024.
Travel Deals for Mexico
Andaz Mexico City Condesa, Mexico City Nestled in the trendy Condesa neighborhood of Mexico City, Andaz Mexico City Condesa has emerged as a chic urban enclave for both locals and tourists alike since opening in January 2023. For Black Friday (booking window: November 16-29, 2023), the hotel is offering 25% off on all stays from November 16, 2023 to August 31, 2024.
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Fairmont Mayakoba, Riviera Maya, Mexico Nestled in the heart of the Riviera Maya, the newly renovated, 401-room Fairmont Mayakoba is a AAA Five Diamond resort set on 45 acres, within a private luxury community.
Now through March 29, 2024, guests can receive 20% off their rate for stays between October 15, 2023 and April 30, 2024 when they book directly on Fairmont Mayakoba’s website, HERE.
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Casa Kimberly, Puerto Vallarta, Mexico The former love nest of Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton, this luxurious nine-suite boutique hotel is situated in the heart of Puerto Vallarta and has stunning views of Banderas Bay and the red clay rooftops that dot the Sierra Madre Mountains. Today the carefully preserved hotel consists of a fine dining restaurant and tequila bar, original azure-tiled pool, and elaborate, individually designed suites with expansive terraces complete with outdoor private Jacuzzis. Lovers are welcome to ignite their passion while draped in the historic luxury of old Hollywood.
From Nov. 24-27, guests have the rare chance to book 50% off its magnificent suites for stays between December 1, 2023, and May 31, 2024. Sale does not apply to reservations from December 24 to January 3 and other blackout dates may apply. Use code CYBERCK to reserve at the discounted rate. Visit here to book.
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Hilton Los Cabos (Los Cabos, MX) With views of the Sea of Cortez and direct access to a cove-protected beach in Los Cabos, Hilton Los Cabos features access to four world-renowned golf courses, Enclave Beach Club, seven dining outlets, four oceanfront pools, beachside spa, and excursions from camel rides to sailing. This Black Friday, the resort is offering up to 35% off accommodations and $100 resort credit. Book Nov. 20-Dec. 15 for travel Jannuary 1 – September 30, 2024. Book Here
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Conrad Punta de Mita (Punta Mita, MX) Inside Punta de Mita's exclusive gated community, guests can enjoy personal concierge services in their suites with outdoor showers and plunge pools overlooking the Pacific Ocean, three outdoor pools and six oceanfront dining concepts including an onsite Agave Studio featuring over 100 different tequilas and mezcals.
Offer: Up to 40% off stay when booking Nov. 20-Dec. 15. Travel:January 1 – September 30, 2024. Book Here
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Colima 71 Mexico City's newest boutique hotel, Colima 71 will be offering 34% off all stays booked between Friday, November 24th through Monday, November 27th for stays from December 1, 2023 to June 30, 2024. This deal includes complimentary one-way transportation from the airport to hotel upon arrival, daily complimentary coffee service, and a Midnight Mezcal turndown service. Located in the district of Colonia Roma Norte, Colima 71's central location offers a quaint, yet modern hospitality experience to explore the best of Mexico City's rich culture and vibrant community.
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Velas Resorts For the annual Black Friday holiday, Velas Resorts in Mexico is offering up to 20% savings on the nightly rates plus added values like complimentary stays for kids and half off teens, airport transfers, unlimited access to the spa’s renowned hydrotherapy, suite upgrades, and more through 2024.
Grand Velas Riviera Maya: Exclusive benefits include a 50% off discount on roundtrip transportation, hydrotherapy access, and a 50% off discount for kids and teens.
Grand Velas Riviera Nayarit: Guests can enjoy a free round-trip transfer, hydrotherapy access, and a 50% off discount for teens.
Grand Velas Los Cabos: Guests can receive a 25% off discount on Governor, Presidential, and Royal suites for 4 night stays, along with a 50% off discount on a round trip airport transfer with a minimum three-night stay. Access to hydrotherapy and 50% off for teens is also available.
Grand Velas Boutique Los Cabos: Guests can enjoy a 50% off discount on round-trip transportation for a minimum three-night stay and $100 USD in Romantic Experiences credit.
Velas Vallarta: Benefits include round-trip airport transfers, complimentary upgrade from one-Bedroom Suite to one-Bedroom Luxury Suite (subject to availability), and a 50% off discount for teenagers.
Casa Velas: Travelers can enjoy a round-trip transfer and access to hydrotherapy.
Mar del Cabo: Guests can receive a 50% off discount on round-trip transportation and complimentary breakfast per stay. Guests can also enjoy a two-for-one on select Cabo Adventure activities such as outdoor adventures, Cabo arch tour, and a Camel safari with lunch.
Travel Deals for Europe
Borgo San Vincenzo
Grand Universe La Residenza | Lucca, Italy In the under-the-radar, yet coveted town of Lucca lies the brand new Grand Universe La Residenza, a property that was once the home to a family of Italian nobility, that offers spacious multi-bedroom units, and luxurious amenities fit for royalty. Grand Univers La Residenza makes for the perfect home base to explore the historic city.
The deal: 20% off on all BAR online rates when booking November 20 - November 27, 2023 for travel. November 20, 2023 - April 30, 2024. Email Info@granduniverselaresidenza.com with the subject line: Black Friday / Cyber Monday 2023 to book
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Renaissance Tuscany Il Ciocco Resort & Spa Nestled on the hill of an expansive 60-hectare estate in the heart of Italy’s most beloved region, the Renaissance Tuscany Il Ciocco Resort & Spa overlooks the mountainous Serchio Valley, one of the most unexplored areas of Italy. One hour from Florence and Pisa, the resort features 180 luxurious rooms, a spa, two restaurants, two swimming pools, on-site cooking lessons, and a variety of off-property excursions ranging from visits to local wineries, medieval towns, and more, giving travelers an authentic taste of Tuscany.
The deal: 20% off on all BAR online rate when booking November 20 - November 27, 2023 for travel November 20, 2023 - April 30, 2024. Email Reservation@renaissancetuscany.com with the subject line: Black Friday / Cyber Monday 2023 to book
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Borgo San Vincenzo, Montepulciano, Italy Tuscany’s newest luxury boutique hotel, Borgo San Vincenzo, is a reimagined 18th-century borgo named for the patron saint of winemaking, offering sophisticated wine-driven experiences inviting guests to immerse themselves in the region’s vibrant culture, breathtaking views, historic wine scene and culinary excellence.
The deal: 20% off on all suites in any season (4-night minimum stay), daily breakfast for two, complimentary e-bike rental for two days and €100 euros ($106) food & beverage credit when booking Nov. 23-27. Visit here to book.
The Deal:This year for Black Friday, Marine & Lawn Hotels & Resorts is offering up to 50% off stays. It's the brand's deepest discount of the year, valid at all five locations across Scotland and Northern Ireland, including the newly launched Slieve Donard and Dornoch Station hotels. Sign up for an email alert when the sale goes live at marineandlawn.com/black-friday-2023. Stays must occur by 31 March 2024, some restrictions may apply.
Travel Deals for Asia
Vakkaru Maldives Located in the heart of Baa Atoll on a secluded reef island with idyllic ocean views, powder-soft white sand and unique marine biodiversity, Vakkaru Maldives is a timeless resort sanctuary.
This year, Vakkaru has deals for Black Friday, Cyber Monday and Travel Tuesday.
Book Direct Benefits: Resort Credit of $100 per Villa per stay or $200 per Residence per stay
30% off on Merana Spa treatments
40% off on Ayurveda treatments and packages
20% off on selected watersports including Jetski, Seabob & Jetboard
Booking window: November 15 to December 6, 2023. Stay window: November 15, 2023 to May 15, 2024
Blackout dates: December 23, 2023 to January 10 2024; and March 23 – April 7, 2024
Black Friday Travel Deals on Airlines and Cruises
Windstar Cruises
French bee For the first time in French bee’s seven-year history as France’s beloved leisure airline – connecting US travelers to Paris from NYC, San Francisco, LA and Miami – they have launched a Black Friday deal offering:
Special Low Rates: Miami > Paris $389*; New York > Paris $387*; San Francisco > Paris $419*; San Francisco > Papeete (Tahiti) $499*; Los Angeles > Paris $419*
*Round trip price including tax and VAT for 1 person, in BASIC economy class. Subject to availability and price changes due to taxes and/or conversion rates.
Booking window: November 20– November 27, 2023
Travel window: November 20, 2023, to March 31, 2024
Windstar Cruises – Pick Your Perk! Select one on your upcoming/applicable cruise: free pre- or post-cruise hotel nights, up to $1,000 Onboard Credit, OR Premium Suite guests may select a free upgrade to an All-Inclusive Fare featuring Wi-Fi; unlimited beer, wine & cocktails; and all gratuities. PLUS enjoy reduced deposits of just 5%.
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Princess Cruises Princess Cruises has unwrapped its Black Friday and Cyber Monday deals, offering cruisers three great savings opportunities including up to 50% off 2024 and 2025 vacations, 50% off deposits, and the opportunity for third and fourth guests to sail for free.
Available now through Thursday, Nov. 30, the 50% off sale applies to all fare types including inclusive packages like Princess Plus and Princess Premier which add popular amenities like WiFi, beverages, desserts, fitness classes, crew gratuities and more at an even greater savings of up 65% when the inclusive package amenities are purchased separately.
The Deal: Up to 50% off 2024 and 2025 sailings, 50% off deposits, and the opportunity for third and fourth guests to sail for free.
American Queen Voyages Travelers looking for an unforgettable experience sailing America’s rivers will save up to $2,500 per stateroom plus FREE roundtrip air on select 2024 voyages when sailing on American Queen, American Countess and American Empress. Travelers will be able to book through American Queen Voyages website on the special offers page Nov. 22-27 for select voyages.
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Oceania Cruises Oceania Cruises is offering up to $3,000 off on specific sailings in addition to its already generous simply MORE value. In addition, travelers will receive 2for1 cruise fares, FREE roundtrip airfare, airport transfers, shore excursions, free champagne, wine & more, gourmet specialty dining and unlimited WIFI. Oceania Cruises Black Friday Sale will be offered on over two dozen sailings. Book Nov. 14-Dec. 5 for select voyages.
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Holland America Line
Holland America Line, a premium cruise line with a 150 year legacy, is offering up to 30% off all itineraries of 5+ days booked between November 17 and December 1, excluding Grand Voyages. Select cruises also include prepaid stateroom crew appreciation, resulting in an added value of up to nearly $700 per person depending on the length of sailing. Guests can save on cruise itineraries to worldwide destinations spanning Alaska, the Caribbean, Europe, Asia, Australia/New Zealand, South America and Antarctica. The reduced fare also applies to the cruise portion of an Alaska Cruisetour, combining an Alaska cruise with an overland tour to Denali and the Yukon. This deal is combinable with Holland America Line's popular 'Have it All" premium cruise package, perks include shore excursions, a beverage package, specialty dining and Wi-Fi.
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Uniworld Boutique River Cruises
Uniworld Boutique River Cruises, a luxury all-inclusive river cruise line with sailings in Europe, Egypt, South America and Asia, is bringing back its 12 Days of Christmas Event this year. A new offer will be unveiled each business day for 12 days, with the first deal unveiled on Black Friday. The offers will be completely different than last year, with unprecedented savings including 50% off popular cruises. Additionally, live as of November 1, guests can book new Cruise & Air combo savingsof up to $3000 USD on select journeys, with savings on popular European itineraries, including ‘Venice & Jewels of Veneto,’ ‘Portugal, Spain & the Douro River Valley,’ ‘Enchanting Danube’ and more, along with bucket-list trips outside of Europe like the ‘Peruvian Amazon & Machu Picchu Exploration’ sailing.
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Cruise Croatia
Cruise Croatia, specialists in luxury small ship cruises in Croatia, is offering $500 per cabin off any cruises departing in May 2024. With adults-only itineraries that take guests through Split, Dubrovnik, Opatija, and other highlights of Croatia, passengers will indulge in luxury on yachts featuring 38 passengers or less. Popular itineraries include the Luxury Split to Dubrovnik Balcony Cruise and Opatija to Dubrovnik Deluxe Balcony Cruise. This offer is valid for cabins booked between November 20th to December 8th, 2023.
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Crystal Cruises Now through December 10th, Crystal is offering exceptional deals for those who book online.
First-Time Crystal Guests Offer
Crystal is offering a $500.00 ($250.00 per person) As You Wish Shipboard Credit for new guests, applicable to select 2023 and 2024 departures.
Bookings must be made by December 10, 2023 to receive the credit
Solo Traveler Offer
When embarking on a solo adventure with Crystal, guests can enjoy special offers on select suites and voyages in 2023 and 2024 with award-winning gastronomy, butler service to make one feel perfectly at home, and personalized experiences that embrace the joy of traveling alone.
Bookings must be made by December 31, 2023 to receive the credit
Black Friday Travel Deals with Tour Operators & Other Travel Deals
TourRadar Adventure seekers will save on once-in-a-lifetime trips to coveted international destinations, from Australia to Peru.
The deal: From Monday, November 20 until Sunday, November 26 (thru 9:00 am/ET), access as much as 50% off numerous TourRadar trips. Unique Cyber Monday sales are also live from November 27-29 for organized adventures in 2024.
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EF Go Ahead Tours EF Go Ahead Tours’ Black Friday & Cyber Monday Sales will run from October 24th to November 30th. Travelers can save up to $600 off/$1,200 per couple with some itineraries discounted by 20% and more on tours through 2025. Plus there will be surprise lightning deals of up to $1,000 off over the month. These are steep discounts kept secret until the day of and will include future travel at reduced 2023 prices! Cyber Monday deals will include up to $1,000 off per individual or 10% off remaining sales, plus an extra $50 off when booking online.
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Go City Go City is the go-to app for travelers. With passes in more than 30 of the world’s best cities, Go City offers affordable access to top attractions and hidden gem tours and experiences that can act as a suggested itinerary and discovery tool for both regulars and first-time visitors alike. Get up to 50% savings off normal entry prices at top attractions + up to 10% off Black Friday Sale. Deal available Nov. 21-27 here
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Campspot, the platform redefining the art of camping and outdoor adventures, has unique Black Friday/Cyber Monday Camping Deals to enhance travel experiences without stretching your budget. Over Cyber Weekend, avail yourself of up to 50% off* on some of the top campgrounds across various destinations. (*Terms apply. Please refer to the terms and conditions listed for each deal)
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Contiki Contiki, the social travel company for travelers 18 to 35-years-old, is celebrating the cyber holidays with savings of up to 25% off on 60+ trips across six continents. On-sale trips include the brand-new South Korean Soul tour and the latest Africa addition, the Sea, Safari, and South Africa trip, plus fan-favorite European adventures such as the European Discovery and Italian Escape. Travelers can enjoy tours led by expert Trip Managers with hassle-free planning including accommodations, transportation and most meals. The public sale begins on November 17th and closes on November 30th.
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Trafalgar
Trafalgar, the leading guided vacation company, is offering savings on select 2024 departures between November 16- December 5. Travelers looking to book next year’s big adventure can score savings on more than 50 itineraries across the world, including all the travel must-haves from accommodations to transportation plus in-depth tours and off-the-beaten-path experiences. Holiday shoppers can save on top tours including $2,100+ off the iconic 22-day Highlights of Australia and New Zealand itinerary, $950+ off the 15-day wildlife-packed Best of South Africa or $900+ off a 15-day journey through North America's best National Parks with the Scenic Parks Explorer.
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Brendan Vacations
Brendan Vacations, the experts in Celtic travel, are offering 2024 travelers the chance to book an elevated experience through Ireland and Scotland with a bonus of $250 off per person for Private Chauffeur and Lux Self Drive trips or $200 off per person on Self Drive and Locally Hosted Rail experiences. Those interested in guided tours such as the Irish Experience and Britain and Ireland Panorama tour can enjoy 10% off of all guided itineraries. Between staying in historic castles to tasting whiskey and learning about the destination’s heritage, Brendan Vacations lends local expertise for the most authentic Ireland & Scotland experience.
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Unforgettable Travel
Unforgettable Travel, a leading luxury travel company, is offering $500 off any trip bookedfor 2024, with destinations including Europe, Africa, and Asia. From African safaris to honeymoon adventures, food & wine tours to small ship cruises, there is an Unforgettable journey for everyone. Adventure on the Highlights of Uganda gorilla-trekking experience, or relax in France on the Gourmet Paris & Bordeaux food & wine tour. Trip requests must be made between November 20th and December 8th, 2023, with the trip booked and deposit paid by January 31st, 2024.
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The 2023 guide to buying a Christmas tree in Los Angeles whether it’s a pre-cut tree, one that you cut down yourself, potted, flocked, or fake—it’s all inside
The first step in jumpstarting the Christmas spirit? Getting your tree of course! Most Christmas tree lots and farms open the day after Thanksgiving although there are a few that open a little earlier if you can’t wait to inhale that fresh-fir scent. Whether you’re looking to cut a Christmas tree yourself, wondering where to buy a Christmas tree nearby, or want to experience a whole holiday Christmas tree-buying adventure, there are plenty of options when it comes to finding the perfect Christmas tree in and around Los Angeles. From genuine tree farms to pop-up tree lots filled with live Christmas trees, these are the best spots to buy Christmas trees in LA, including some Christmas tree lots with a little extra Christmas spirit on the side.
Where to Buy Your Christmas Tree in Los Angeles & the Westside
All of the Mr. Jingles lots are staffed with friendly tree-huggers and have plenty of fresh-cut, sustainable trees at these Christmas tree lots. Trees are sourced from both Oregon’s Cascade Mountains and North Carolina. And if you want a 2' or a 17' Christmas tree, it's all here.
Holiday Trimmings: Online orders and delivery are available now. They also offer installation as well as tree removal services. Don't forget to shop their garlands, wreaths, ornaments, lights, and decor available at this spot. PS: Every tree comes with a stand but if you have your own Christmas tree stand, bring it so they can attach your tree to it (and will make sure it's straight before sending you on your way).
Various Locations: Hollywood, West LA, Original Farmers Market, Woodland Hills and Torrance Online:mrjingleschristmastrees.com
Shawn's Christmas Trees
With over 40 years of selling trees on LA’s Westside, these guys know their stuff and you’re all but guaranteed to come home with the tree of your dreams. And with a bigger and better tree lot than years past, you'll find fan-favorites like Silvertip Christmas trees, Nordmann, Grand, Noble and Douglas (these originate from Oregon) as well as crowd-pleasing Frasers (brought in from North Carolina because of their quality to stay fresh and last longer).
Holidays Trimmings:They also offer fire retardant and tree flocking treatments. If your door needs some love, Shawn’s also features 6 different size wreaths for more Christmas decor. They also offer delivery on the westside and Christmas tree removal service.
Choose from their sustainable selections of Nobles, Silvertip trees, Douglas Fir, and Nordmann trees (handpicked from family farms in Washington and Oregon), and add merry home accents like mistletoe, boughs, fresh greenery, plus wreaths and ornaments galore.
Holiday Trimmings: Mr. Greentrees also provides online and phone purchases, delivery and installation services, as well as custom orders. Rumor has it that celebs like to frequent this spot, so keep your peepers peeled if star sightings float your boat.
Delancey Street is one of the country's leading residential self-help organizations. Every year, Delancey Street runs Christmas tree lots in various locations across the county (LA location is in Manhattan Beach) between Thanksgiving and Christmas and is used as an important training school in the basics of sales, particularly for new residents.
Holiday Trimmings: Delancey Street Trees also carry mistletoe, indoor tree lights, decorated wreaths, living potted pines, tree removal bags, and water bowls for trees. Flame retardant is also available. Additionally, they offer commercial decorating services in LA.
Christmas trees at this local lot are hand-picked from Washington state—arriving weekly in batches to ensure the freshest of the fresh. Bonus points? Some of the nicest, friendliest staff in the city who are eager to help you pick out your perfect evergreen.
Holiday Trimmings: You can have your tree trimmed on-site for free and you can purchase lush boughs and wreaths here too.
Tina’s welcomes families with a warm, friendly atmosphere, and you can choose your perfect fresh-cut tree from their assortment of Noble, Douglas, Grand Firs, Frasiers and Silvertips. Wondering which tree is best for you and your family? Don’t hesitate to ask for Tina’s help in finding the perfect tree–she's been running a successful Christmas tree business since 1977 and is truly the matchmaker of trees. Describe what you need (size, smell, how long you want it to last, etc.) and she’ll match you with the perfect variety for you.
Holiday Trimmings:If you’ve got tall ceilings or big rooms to fill, this is the place for you. Tina's stocks an impressive selection of massive 14’ to 15’ trees, and offers custom flocking and fire retardant. They also have an assortment of wreaths and garlands.
How lovely are their branches? Very. All of the trees at Santa and Sons come from a family-run Oregon farm, using sustainable farming methods that have been certified by the Coalition of Environmentally Conscious Growers. Their trees come with a big price tag, but you’re getting a super fresh fire that’s environmentally conscious and stunning to boot. You and your tiny tree people can choose from an array of Douglas Fir, Nordmann Fir, and Noble Fir Christmas trees, ranging anywhere from 3’ to 11’ tall.
Holiday Trimmings:Not only do they offer home delivery but they also offer online ordering and their signature "U-Pick Webcam" Service. Simply call the lot, tell them what kind of tree you're looking for, and they'll livestream your options!
For something in between the neighborhood tree lot and a cut-your-own farm, consider a trip to Underwood Family Farms—a favorite spot for kids' birthday parties in LA and for kids born in Dec. this place is a no-brainer). While the farm doesn't grow its own trees, this one-stop shop stocks plenty of fresh-cut options (Noble, Grand, Fraser, Nordmann, Douglas Fir, and Silvertip trees are from Big Wave Dave’s Christmas Trees from Ventura), as well as mistletoe, wreaths, garlands and stands.
Wondering where you can cut your own Christmas tree in Los Angeles? Make the trip to this festive Somis farm early in the season for the best selection of choose-and-cut Monterey Pines. They've also got a large supply of pre-cut Noble and Nordmann Firs if you don't want to get your hands dirty. For even more holiday fun, visit during special weekends when there'll be pony rides, a petting zoo, and pics with Santa!
Pining to recreate childhood memories of tromping through the forest to cut your own tree? Frosty's Forest is the place for you. Additionally, they offer candy canes and festive Christmas music. If you don’t feel like chopping, they’ve also got living trees in containers.
Located just over 60 miles from DTLA, this Riverside farm offers an authentic tree-picking experience with a huge selection of cut-your-own pines (plus potted options, just in case).
Holiday Trimmings: Tree flocking is available and the staff on the farm will help you shake your tree (to shed any loose needles), wrap it, and add a stand. While there, kids can sneak in a visit with Santa (bring your camera!) and take advantage of the free bounce house, candy canes, and popcorn while parents can enjoy the free coffee.
This family-owned operation now runs two farms, one in Simi Valley (since 1971) and the other in Thousand Oaks (since 1972). Both destinations offer a variety of cut-your-own options, including Noble, Pine, Grand, Fraser, and Nordmann plus fragrant Monterey Pines, hardy Aleppo Pines and Leyland Cypress. As with other u-chop spots, there are also pre-cut trees, along with wreaths and more festive evergreen decor.
Holiday Trimmings: Flocking, garland and wreaths are available for purchase and for those that can't make it here in-person, online ordering and delivery is available as well.
Aldik Home: For more than 60 years, Aldik Home has provided home decor enthusiasts with high-quality silk flowers, silk foliage, floral arrangements, custom artificial trees, home decor, artificial Christmas trees and Holiday decor. Get inspired by their amazing Christmas displays in their Van Nuys showroom where you'll encounter thousands of ornaments, luxurious ribbon, LED lights and, quite possibly, some of best artificial Christmas trees in the country.
7651 Sepulveda Blvd. Van Nuys Online: aldikhome.com
Let’s be honest, almost everyone yells at their kids sometimes. Just picture your average busy morning trying to get everyone out the door: One of them starts whining or picks a fight with their sibling and you’re about to be late, again. You feel your frustration beginning to bubble up and before you know it, you’re shouting at everyone because you just need to GET OUT THE DAMN DOOR! Someone (maybe you) starts to cry and then everyone starts their day feeling terrible.
While it’s totally normal to blow your top occasionally, studies show that it’s not a very effective parenting strategy, it doesn’t help your kids behave any better, and it can lead to loads of negative outcomes in the future (behavioral and emotional, among others). But even if you know that yelling is bad, how do you break the habit?
“There are very few people who do not yell,” says Dr. Michele Locke, a registered clinical psychologist specializing in child, adolescent, and parenting psychology in Toronto. “Most people do.” But that doesn’t mean you can’t improve your relationship with your littles. Here are some simple steps to help you stop yelling at your kids and get a handle on your behavior.
1. Consider How You Were Raised
How you behave has a lot to do with how you were treated as a kid yourself. “One of the main reasons that we yell is that we were raised in that kind of environment,” says Dajana Yoakley, a peaceful parenting coach in Little Rock, Arkansas.
If you come from a family of yellers, it can feel ingrained in you to react that same way, explains Locke. For example, when you were a child and had a big emotion, like anger, if the adults responsible for you yelled at you during your outburst, you learned that your big emotions led to a negative outcome in someone that you loved.
“When you become a parent and your kids have those same emotions that you had as a kid, your reaction is habitual, because you’re actually trying to shut down the emotion almost like you’re reacting to your own little self,” says Locke. Hence the yelling.
But that doesn’t mean you can’t change. Understanding why you react that way is half the battle, and the other half is practice. If you can’t get there through parenting books, podcasts, or practice, which can be a tall order for a busy parent, therapy is another great option.
2. Know Your Triggers
“Parents yell because they are burnt out, exhausted, or triggered,” says Locke. Parents are most likely to yell before bedtime, when they’re rushed or overstimulated, or when their child activates a feeling in them that they can’t regulate, she explains.
Notice how your body feels in the moment right before you yell, during the yell, or right after, recommends Yoakley. Maybe your heart is racing, or you start to sweat. “You have to really tune into your body as an instrument to tell you the clues of what you’re feeling. If you don’t know what you’re feeling, then you can’t change what you’re feeling,” says Yoakley.
Once you start to recognize the feeling that you’re about to blow up, you can start to get a handle on it. There are also a few other things you can do to dial down your rage in the moment. If possible, remove the immediate stressor. Late for dinner? Takeout (or cereal) it is. Your kid doesn’t want to wear rain boots? Throw them in their backpack instead. If everyone’s hungry and tired, throw some snacks at the situation, which can regulate everyone’s blood sugar and take things down a notch.
3. Anchor Yourself
If you’re getting overwhelmed, and feel a yell building, try and remove yourself from the situation, or take a pause before you react. If you can safely leave your children for a moment, Locke recommends heading to the bathroom and putting an ice pack on your skin, or taking a few deep breaths to remind your body that it’s not an emergency. Breathing techniques, like the five-finger breathing technique, can help bring some calm, plus you can teach it to and model it for your kids. This mindfulness technique can help you find that mind-body connection, with no props required.
The key is really to stop yourself before you fall into the same pattern of overreaction. Let your kids misbehave for a few minutes longer so you can be ready to approach them calmly and lead by example. “Do whatever you have to do to anchor yourself in the moment and ask yourself, how do I move into this situation and be a sturdy leader?” says Locke.
4. Recognize the Vicious Cycle
“Shouting can work in the moment, but what happens long term is your child begins to shout too, and the relationship becomes more disconnected and ruptured,” says Yoakley.
The reason it might feel like yelling works to stop the bad behavior is because it’s scary and activates your kids’ fear response, says Locke. “It doesn’t teach them anything about what to do next time,” she says. “You just have to increase the intensity and frequency of your yelling.”
Plus, your child learns that shouting is the only way that someone will listen to them. “You’re trying to get them to stop yelling by doing the same thing,” says Locke. Yelling is bad for kids for a variety of reasons. It’s associated with depressive symptoms and can put them at risk of developing lasting mental health problems. Harsh parenting practices can even change your child’s brain structure. Yikes!
But not yelling doesn’t mean you can’t help your children manage their behavior. “A sturdy tone is different than a yell,” says Locke.
5. Practice Self-Compassion
After you yell, notice how you talk to yourself. Instead of saying “I’m such a horrible parent and my kids are the worst,” or “I’m sure other people never have this problem,” try and offer the same kindness you would to a friend, says Yoakley. Tell yourself, “This is so hard right now,” and validate how you feel. When you validate your own anger or shame, it takes away some of its intensity, says Yoakley.
6. Repair, Repair, Repair
“Everyone’s going to yell at their kids sometimes,” says Locke. “The most important thing is what you do after the fact.” Repair is critical after a yelling match. What does repair mean? It’s more than just an apology, says Yoakley. Once everyone is feeling calm, have a conversation with your kids and take responsibility for how you behaved.
Locke provides a sample script of how to talk to your kids after a big shoutfest. “I got overwhelmed. My frustration came out as yelling and here I am, trying to have kids who don’t yell so I’m really working on that. And I’m sorry that it came out that way.”
Explain to your kids, even if they’re really small, that it’s something you’re working on and that it’s a “you” problem, not a “them” problem, says Locke.
“It’s important to tell your kids that it’s never okay for you to yell at them. Even if you were angry,” says Yoakley. Ask them how the fight made them feel. Did it make them feel sad, or scared? Let them express their feelings and wrap up the repair with a hug.
It’s pretty easy to get into a shouting routine and use it to get your kids to listen. Many parents yell at their kids when they’re not paying attention, when they spill their water (again!), or when they just won’t do the thing you’ve asked. While it’s one thing to occasionally yell when your kids misbehave, it’s another behavior altogether when you use it consistently. Your kids are more likely to tune you out, and you’re more likely to feel even worse about yourself.
If you know you’re going to blow on occasion, like when your kids decide it’s WrestleMania time, try and dial back your regular, everyday shouting. Instead of yelling up the stairs that “Dinner is on the table NOW,” calmly walk closer to them and announce that it’s time to eat. Or if you sense a shouting match coming with a kid who doesn’t want to clean up their toys, try completely flipping the script and using the “whisper technique.”
8. Set Yourself Up for Success
If you find you just can’t get on top of things, it’s time to get proactive. Is the morning rush always a huge trigger? What can you do the night before to make it easier and prevent a situation where you end up yelling? Set expectations for your kids and yourself. Ask them to pick out their clothes the night before. If breakfast is always a disaster, simplify what you offer. If you can, Locke recommends getting up earlier than your kids so that you have a few moments to yourself before the chaos begins. You can use a reward chart with before-school tasks if the morning is really dragging, but kids should get the hang of things if you have clear and consistent expectations and you don’t ask them to do too many things at once. Whatever event usually causes the most issues, ask yourself what you can do to get through those stressful moments more smoothly.
9. Keep Working On It
Two things can be true, says Yoakley. You can yell and be a good parent. The more you practice remaining calm and controlling the shouting, over time you’ll likely yell less, and your kids will cooperate more.
“As long as you keep trying, that’s more important than never yelling,” says Locke. “I think when we shame parents, it actually makes them less able to change.”
