It happens so fast. You wake up to your phone, earbuds, tablet, whatever, fully charged. 100%. And, since technology has come so far, it stands to reason that even if you’re an active user, it’ll stay charged, or at least, charged enough, until the end of the day. Or at minimum, until dinner. Maayyyyybe faster on vacation (Spring Break is coming up, afterall), but still. Except for the days when it doesn’t. Enter: a serious need for portable phone chargers.
Letting your kids play games on your phone while you drive 20 minutes out of the way to the one Whole Foods that always has the Sonoma Chicken Salad (maybe we’re having a craving at the moment, but you get our point). The days when you have soccer practice to daycare pickup to a late Zoom meeting to a dance recital barely give you enough time to catch your breath, much less charge your phone. Family vacations when it’s camera-critical. And, of course, when your little ones are particularly cranky and will only calm down if that one aquarium video with the lo-fi music plays on a loop. All of that drains your batteries (physically and mentally, we know). Don’t get stuck without a full backup power source with these pretty darn cute portable phone chargers. Hey, you need all that juice to share those day-to-day (even the ultra-busy ones) pictures to your Tinybeans app, right?
Colorblock Sunset Power Pod
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Up to 19 hours of extra battery life and no cords? Perfect. The Power Pod from Casely has a secure MagSafe magnet, but even without MagSafe-compatible devices, it can wirelessly charge! Plus, it's small as a credit card and light as a deck of cards. There are lots of other prints available, too.
Does it literally fit in your wallet? Of course it does. Give your phone (iPhone and Android—it includes built-in cables for all of them!) a 30%-100% boost with this cute phone charger. It comes in 3 colors, too.
The iWalk phone charger went viral because it's just that good. It's also really easy to use your phone while it's charging and comes in a ton of colors and prints. The cable is built right in, too. This one is specifically for iPhones with Lightning compatibility, but check out all of iWalk's chargers to find one that works for your device.
Get over 78 additional hours iPhone 15/14/13/12, iPad, or Samsung Galaxy. It provides power through its USB-C port and dual USB-A ports, allowing you to charge up to three devices at the same time. Available in 3 colors. (And take a look at Belkin's other portable chargers for all your devices, too!)
Okay, we wouldn't call it cute in a fits-your-aesthetic way, but the FuelRod is a sleek, small, portable phone charger that works with almost any device, thanks to the three included cables. Oh, and you can recharge or swap out your FuelRod at any FuelRod kiosk across the country (conveniently located in places where using your phone is a must).
Bulk be gone! The keychain portable phone charger from Kliyne is perfect for keeping with you no matter where you go. You know, since you'll have your keys, anyway. It comes in black and pink
Charge your USB-C and Lightning-compatible devices at the same time with this handy little double-output charger. It's lightweight and thin so it's really easy to toss in your bag and have a backup! Available in several prints, too.
It's not just cute; it also works as a kickstand for your device and it clips right onto the back of your phone, so you can keep using it normally while you charge. Available in 4 colors and works with USB-C devices.
This cutie comes in a bunch of different colors and offers charging for USB-C and Lightning Cable devices. It's credit card-sized, so you don't have to worry about any bulk, either. There are 7 fun colors available!
If you can handle toting around a lipstick, you have room for this charger! According to the brand, it automatically detects your device and provides the fastest charging speed for your phone. This is one that you'll use your own cable for. Available in 3 colors.
Who among us doesn't need more than one portable phone charger? This 2-pack of lipstick-shaped chargers are really adorable, and they have built-in LED flashlights. Double-check the device compatibility, since you'll be using your own cable with these.
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Start your family band by crafting some awesome homemade instruments. Most of these are super easy to make, and kids will have a blast banging on a tin can drum, shaking DIY maracas, and making some tunes. Looking for other creative projects for kids? Check out our collection of crafts for toddlers, classic paper crafts for kids, and things kids can make with toilet paper rolls.
Why Are Homemade Instruments Important?
Making and playing homemade instruments allows kids to use not only their artistic creativity but their musical creativity as well. In addition, according to the Ethnomusicology Review, “When fully engaged in musical invention, children can develop their naturally imaginative and participatory approach to learning.”
A rain stick makes the prettiest sound, and it’s very easy to make one at home with a few simple items. We love the tutorial for this found over at Kid Made Modern.
Perfect for toddlers who aren't ready for the real thing, we love this cardboard guitar spotted over at Pink Stripey Socks. You can paint it in any design, too!
Kids can twist and twirl these homemade hand drums to their heart's content! Find the tutorial over at Minted.
Bongo, Shaker, Güiro All in One
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This fun little instrument is really three in one! Kids will enjoy shaking it or playing it as a drum and it's super easy to make. Get the tutorial over at Mama.Papa.Bubba.
This adorable nature-themed tambourine-like DIY instrument is the perfect addition to a May Day celebration or even just a day outside. Easy to make, you can find the tutorial from Buggy and Buddy.
If you've got a serious hankering for DIY projects, this adorable xylophone kids can play along to "Do-Re-Mi" from The Sound of Music fits the bill. From Lovely Indeed, you'll need to make a trek to the home-improvement store for all the materials, but the chic design and good sound quality mean you'll want to keep it out instead of stashing it away somewhere. Be sure to check out all the other adorable projects over at the Sound of Music Crafting Corner.
This super cute and colorful homemade instrument is as much fun to make as it is to play. Get the scoop on how to do it yourself over at And Next Comes L.
Paper Plate Tambourine
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This little DIY instrument packs a jingle and it's a great use for paper plates left over from a birthday party. If you have the plain white ones, even better, though because then your little maestro gets to decorate her own. Get the complete step-by-step here.
It's one of the world's oldest instruments, and your kids can make their colorful version in one afternoon. The secret to making it look real? Earth-toned paint colors. You can find the entire tutorial over at KiwiCo.
For an outside-the-box take on a homemade instrument, you’ve got to try this “chicken in a cup” from All for the Boys. It’s super easy to put together using household items, and kids will get a kick out of the squeaky sound it makes.
If you've got a cereal box and a couple of rubber bands lying around, you've got a guitar! Made by Joel has the super simple how-to. Older babies and toddlers can help you decorate the cereal box with stickers or washi tape, then get to strumming. No cereal box? Rubber bands stretched around a loaf pan will produce a similar effect.
Keep it simple (but still super fun) with this sweet DIY instrument idea from Red Ted Art. Kids can paint the “drums” however they want, and then they’ll have a blast discovering the different sounds they can make with kitchen utensils.
Banging on a pot with a wooden spoon is practically a rite of passage in babyhood. Why not take it a step further and construct an outdoor music wall for your kids like this one from PreK + K Sharing? Scour your house for any seldom-used odds and ends that make a fun sound (or hit up your favorite thrift store), then use a hammer and nails to secure a section of fencing.
Easter Egg Maracas
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Shake to the sound of rice with these easy-peasy maracas. All you need is rice, plastic spoons, easter eggs, and tape! Best part? These shakers have been tried and tested by lifestyle blogger and mom of three, Katelyn Fagan of What’s Up Fagans, and they are certified to play at a decent volume without being too annoying.
Explore sound and science with Buggy and Buddy’s homemade kazoo. With simple materials that you’re bound to have at home, this kazoo is perfect for vocal tots who love to spend their days humming and singing. What a fun homemade instrument!
Did you know empty containers hold a secret melody? All you need are some rubber bands, a shoebox, and split pins; then your quick-fingered tot can get their twang on. For the key to perfect, magical sound, check out the tutorial over at Minieco.
With a little more time and effort, your wooden mandolin is set to last much longer than your musician’s first gig. Hello Bee has an awesome tutorial on making a mandolin that’s worthy of being part of a kid-sized Philharmonic.
Strum up a tune with bobby pins. This experiment and discovery project by Pi'ikea Street explores how different sounds can become just by changing one object.
Ring in a merry afternoon with these bell shakers. This tutorial from craft blog Hello Bee requires some drilling, but the modern look and long-lasting build are worth it. Now your littlest can join the family band with just a wriggle of the wrist!
We love these sensory bin shakers because they'll extend sensory play time. It's also easy for your kids to make on their own. Head over to Fun-a-Day to see how to make your own.
with additional reporting by Taylor Clifton, Amber Guetebier, and Gabby Cullen
We know it’s so easy to get wrapped up in the day-to-day grind, and we’re right there with you. But we’ve also noticed that life moves a lot more smoothly when we feel especially connected with our partners. Problems get solved faster, stress is reduced, and that feeling of being supported just can’t be beat. And you know what? You’re both due for one of those little romantic getaways where PDA is highly encouraged (public and private displays of affection, that is), chicken nuggets aren’t on the menu, and remembering why you love each other is almost guaranteed. These romantic Airbnbs are just the place to do it.
Below are some of our favorite leave-the-kids-at-home-for-this-trip destinations around the U.S. Beaches, forests, cottages, and mansions are all included in these romantic getaways. You and your honey can start reconnecting just by picking one together (and isn’t that part of the fun?). Now, you two love birds, pick your pleasure (wink) and get ready for some well-deserved alone time.
Hygge Hus | Deming, WA
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What Makes It Special: The Danish word ‘hygge’ means an overall vibe of coziness and comfort that leads to a feeling of contentment. So, yeah, Hygge Hus had us from the start. It’s the dreamiest mountain cabin that includes an outdoor 4′ cedar hot tub with views of the forest all around you. Talk about romance.
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Guest Rating: 4.99/5 stars
What Guests Are Saying: “5+ stars for property and for hosts! Everything about this stay was flawless start to finish. We will definitely be returning for future visits. Sharing this home with friends and coworkers as a great weekend escape!”—Andrea, December 2023
What Makes It Special: A guest house with a tropical garden and stunning pool? Perfection. Add a tiki hut and beach access and you have all the makings of a super memorable destination.
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Guest Rating: 4.94/5 stars
What Guests Are Saying: “A beautiful intimate oasis with privacy, peace and quiet. I will definitely stay here again on my next visit to Miami. Thank you for our stay in your lovely cottage.” Gena, October 2023
What Makes It Special: Two words: suspended. bed. Suspended bed! This property is extremely private, with an outdoor hot tub and shower, so you can reconnect with nature. And, more importantly, with your sweetheart.
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Guest Rating: 4.91/5 stars
What Guests Are Saying: “This place is UNBELIEVABLE! Peaceful hardly says enough. Alina also paid attention to my needs– I told her it was my husband’s birthday & she left a little surprise for him. I couldn’t be more happy & grateful.” Terri, December 2023
What Makes It Special: Spa access? That’s a clear ‘yes’, but there’s more. This apartment is located in one of the highest areas in Sedona, the view is outstanding, and the romantic kiva fireplace just adds to the romance. That’s why you’re going, right?
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Guest Rating: 4.97/5 stars
What Guests Are Saying: “Magical, Magnificent, Marvelous….need I say more? By far one of the most special Airbnb’s in Sedona. The views are amazing! Iona and Huib have transformed a very unique property into a tranquil, private and peaceful retreat for your Sedona stay. So many special touches to make you feel welcome and comfortable! A true gem! Can’t wait to return to Eagle Dancer!” Bridgette, November 2023
What Makes It Special: First of all, you absolutely can’t beat the view of beautiful Carbon Beach, especially with that daybed overlooking the ocean. And, of course, there’s beach access for those long walks together.
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Guest Rating: 4.97/5 stars
What Guests Are Saying: “We spent the weekend at Malibu Suites for my husband’s birthday. The photos do not give it the full feel of this beach front slice of heaven. If you love peace, golden sunsets, soft sand at your door step, walks/hikes and nightlife at your fingertips (Nobu bar and restaurant conveniently next door) this is the place. I have driven past Carbon Beach countless times and was so happy to finally have the chance to spend a weekend here. Thank you Malibu Suites staff for making this a trip of a lifetime!!” Toni, October 2023
What Makes It Special: Remodeled from an old barn, this darling little guest house cottage in Orland, ME, is surrounded by 3.5 acres of wooded area and is set completely independently and away from the main house (a beautiful 18th century home!). It’s just a short walking distance from the Orland River, too. If you have Anne of Green Gables dreams, this is the place to live them out (and yes, we know that took place in the late 19th century, but we’re sticking with our Anne idea).
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Guest Rating: 4.99/5 stars
What Guests Are Saying: “We were blown away by this gorgeous place and the extra mile hospitality. It was very pretty with all the quintessential New England vibes and absolutely [spotlessly] clean. Everything you could need and wish for for a relaxing, cosy and peaceful stay in Maine.” Lucy, October 2023
What Makes It Special: Yes, that is indeed a luxury tent you’re looking at that essentially offers 5-star amenities. Hot tub. Heated outdoor shower. Deep soaking tub in a gorgeous bathroom. It’s surrounded by woods and definitely gives us lovey-dovey vibes.
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Guest Rating: 4.87/5 stars
What Guests Are Saying: “We booked the nest for our honeymoon and it was absolutely perfect! It was private and cozy, but close enough to town to get dinner or so fun nearby activities. All the amenities were amazing and we just could not have enjoyed our stay anymore!” Sidney, December 2023
What Makes It Special: This fully customized tiny home feels anything but tiny when you’re surrounded by some of the most expansive views in the country! It sits on more than an acre of land and surrounded by alfalfa farms and the magnificent East Zion White Cliffs. The extra touches (including a hot tub!) make this one incredible space.
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Guest Rating: 4.93/5 stars
What Guests Are Saying: “The adobe provided a luxurious place to crash and relax after a long day of hiking in Zion! They thought of everything from provided coffee and creamer to a super comfy bed, an amazing hot tub, a fantastic and trendy shower/bathroom, and we even used the washer/drier! And the view was unreal! It was exactly the relaxing getaway that I needed. 10/10 will recommend to anyone traveling to Zion!” Melissa, June 2023
What Makes It Special: It goes without saying, but look at it. With an open floor plan and a property surrounded by the Hudson Valley woods, this stunner is heated geothermally and power comes from solar power. It’s secluded, but honestly, this house is a vacation in itself.
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Guest Rating: 4.91/5 stars
What Guests Are Saying: “10/10. Pictures do not do it enough justice. I was truly blown away by how amazing this place was. Such good energy inside we ended up cancelling some plans just to hangout in the house. [You] will not be disappointed if [you] stay here!” Joe, November 2023
What Makes It Special: The Rhino Room at Brookside Vineyard is bringing the romance (as vineyards tend to do). The property itself is secluded and situated on 3 acres and includes a semi-private patio with views of the vineyard and walking garden. It’s one of 2 guest suites, but the only shared space is the driveway, so you’ll still have plenty of privacy!
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Guest Rating: 4.98/5 stars
What Guests Are Saying: “Our stay at the Rhino Room was wonderful! The location was absolutely stunning. Quiet, peaceful, beautiful, and almost made you want to just stay on property. It was a quick drive to everything you might need, and the room was spotless & cozy. We definitely plan on taking another trip and staying here again!!” Josephine, January 2024
What Makes It Special: Talk about luxury + seclusion. This jaw-dropping treehouse nestled on stilts 15′ up in the trees. The view is unmatched from the beautiful wraparound lanai, and even the bathroom makes you feel like you’re showering outdoors thanks to the floor-to-ceiling windows (don’t worry—it’s still private!). It’s a true level of paradise.
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Guest Rating: 4.85/5 stars
What Guests Are Saying: “This was the most uniquely beautiful Airbnb property I’ve ever stayed at. The treehouse was decorated incredibly and was squeaky clean. I recommend this Airbnb to couples looking for a romantic getaway. 5/5 stars for me. I would love to stay again! We really enjoyed our stay here.” Jamie, December 2023
What Makes It Special: Quintessential Florida is all bundled into Sugarpoppy Cottage in Key West. A private pool, quiet street, and tropical hues make this one fabulous retreat.
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Guest Rating: No rating yet
What Guests Are Saying: “Loved our stay at Sugarpoppy! it was very clean and easy to find, and the check in and check out process was super simple. we had an issue with an AC unit and the Last Key team was there within an hour to take a look and they fixed it almost immediately, but also took our schedule into account and even sent us out to dinner while the work was done. loved the location super close to the action but really quiet. the backyard and pool felt like our very own private oasis and we spent a lot of time there! looking forward to staying with Last Key again when we come back to Key West!” Anna, June 2021
What Makes It Special: The mountains. The huge pool. The mid-century modern atmosphere that Palm Spring is known for. We’re so in love with this space and how close it is to downtown Palm Springs, too.
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Guest Rating: 4.98/5 stars
What Guests Are Saying: “The Dream Home was an amazing place for me and my husband to sit back, relax, and enjoy Palm Springs. Everything was nice and clean, and was presented exactly as described and photographed. Steven and his team were friendly and quick, but thorough, on the walk through as we checked in. A few of my colleagues that have never been to Palm Springs want to book the Dream Home, too! Lovely little place.” Claire, November 2023
What Makes It Special: Located in the heart of the French Quarter, this historic mansion was built in 1820 and includes high ceilings, original wood floors, and a location that’s hard to beat in the Big Easy. The space has a balcony overlooking Dumaine street and Bourbon street and even includes a gorgeous common area courtyard.
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Guest Rating: 4.58/5 stars
What Guests Are Saying: “Exceeded expectations. Host went above and beyond for us and the location was perfect. I would definitely stay again.” Makai, October 2023
What Makes It Special: This boho New Mexican retreat is set in a 1950’s dance studio and includes original floors and beams. Including an interior hammock, an open space, and a clawfoot tub. It’s so whimsical (and Instagram-able!).
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Guest Rating: 4.98/5 stars
What Guests Are Saying: “This casita and the whole Taos experience felt like pure magic. The casita is gorgeous and has the most beautiful energy and feel. It’s well-equipped, incredibly cozy and decorated in a boho style that flows impeccably with its history and the surroundings. We felt right at home here and can’t wait to return again.” Sanam, January 2024
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When it comes time to plan your kids’ birthday bash, it’s enough to try and figure out the cake, the games, and the party favors. The last thing you need to worry about is the party theme. No worries. From the Taylor Swift birthday party ideas to the still-popular princess and Super Mario Bros. party themes, we’ve got the goods on the hottest kids’ birthday party ideas for 2024.
Unicorns are always a popular birthday party idea for kids, but in 2024, with Thelma the Unicorn heading to Netflix, we think they’ll be even bigger. Get some ethereal inspiration from San Diego’s Starry Eyed Events’ gorgeous Elegant Pastel Unicorn Soiree gallery (because, you know, unicorns don’t do parties. They do soirees).
Want to keep young unicorn lovers busy? Try this DIY unicorn horn headband that is an absolute must for your little guests.
There are three secret ingredients to pulling off this party: tulle, gold glitter, and a princess cake. Skip on over to Mint Event Design to see more inspiring pictures. And check out our review of Cakest and other DIY baking kits.
Messy Parties
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Ditch the nice clothes and let your kids get messy! Our original messy art party uses squirt guns, mega-canvases, shaving cream, and paint-filled eggs to get kids' creative juices flowing. You can also throw a slime party (check out our favorite videos on making slime here), a DIY craft party or a mad scientist party complete with a potion-making station.
Sleep-Under
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Instead of a sleepover, why not a sleep-under? Perfect for younger kids or kids who aren't ready to make the jump to a whole night, invite friends over around dinner time, and plan fun "nighttime" activities like karaoke, a dance party, glow-in-the-dark games, outdoor games you can play in the dark or even crafts.
Does your little gamer love Sonic? Turns out, a lot of other people’s kiddos dig the feisty blue hedgehog, too. Since Sonic 3 hits theaters in 2024, we’re betting this kids’ birthday party idea will be everywhere this year. Find a plethora of Sonic birthday party supplies on Amazon.
The new Super Mario Bros. movie is now streaming, and kids love it just as much as when it was in theaters. Since the classic Nintendo game never goes out of style, we think this birthday party idea will be even more popular in 2024. Get inspired with tons of ideas over at Kara's Party Ideas.
Spa Party
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Who wouldn't want to celebrate their birthday with a full spa treatment? Drop cucumber slices in water, offer cozy robes and slippers, and twirl their hair up in a towel for a day of pampering that includes manicures, pedicures, and facial masks.
The Star Wars franchise may be decades old, but the force is still going strong thanks to The Mandalorian, Andor, Ashoka, and the Star Wars attractions at Disney parks. Young Jedi will love this party plan that includes DIY lightsabers, a droid-decorating station, and a Death Star piñata from Spaceships and Laser Beams.
Want something female-centric for your budding Rey? This Millennium Falcon party from Kara's Party Ideas will get your little girls ready for action.
Gather round, swifties! Between her sold-out Eras tour and being Time’s Person of the Year, Taylor is hotter than ever. Expect her fans to want to celebrate with friendship bracelets, her songs on shuffle, and a lip sync contest.
Booking time at a ropes course, zipline, rock-climbing venue, trampoline park, or laser tag arena is a kids’ birthday party idea that’ll still be strong in 2024. While most of these courses tend to be for children ages 8 and up, it can sometimes depend on kids’ comfort levels. It’s always good to let parents know in advance, usually a necessity because waivers need to be signed and grownups need to have some kind of activity alternative for kids who decide against it at the last minute (including the birthday kid) like a simple art or hands-on craft. Most places will have a party room for rent.
Video Game Truck Parties
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If you have a game-obsessed kiddo at home, consider renting a video game truck to show up for a few hours. This birthday party idea has been popping up more in the last year or so, and we expect it to be even bigger this year.
With so many new family movies coming in 2024, a fun kids' birthday party idea we think will be extra popular is a movie theater party! Either look into options for renting out a theater or opt to purchase a row of seats for your kid and their friends.
If you're looking to entertain the always-hard-to-please teens and tweens or give younger kids a challenge, an escape room birthday party can provide hours of entertainment (and boost critical thinking skills). Either plan your celebration at a professionally crafted escape room game spot in your neighborhood or create a DIY escapist birthday party at home.
This birthday party theme was huge in 2022, and we expect the trend to get even bigger this year. Play “name that TikToker,” try a (safe) TikTok challenge, do TikTok dances, and make a TikTok with your party guests. Click here for more ideas.
Watch these Black history movies with your kids and learn as a family
These Black history movies for kids were hand-picked to give the 10 and younger set an opportunity to watch and learn about some of the experiences, challenges, and triumphs of the Black community. Watch these movies with your child to tap into important conversations you can have during Black History Month and throughout the rest of the year.
This Scholastic Storybook DVD includes narrations of four children's books about the civil rights movement and Black history. It manages to explain how Black people were treated unequally in a way even preschoolers can understand on a basic level.
Recommended for ages 4 and older Quality: 4 out of 5 Directed by Paul R. Gagne, Melissa R. Ellard Scholastic, 2010
This is the uplifting true story of Janet Collins, whose dedication and determination led her to become the first African-American ballerina in the country to perform at the Metropolitan Opera House. Narrated by Chris Rock, this inspirational film can teach kids a lot about the lingering effects of slavery and racism in Jim Crow America.
Recommended for ages 5 and older Quality: 4 out of 5 Directed by Saxton Moore Sweet Blackberry, 2015
Narrated by Queen Latifah, this short movie about Garrett Morgan is a great primer on the history of a famous Black inventor and on the fascinating places where ideas originate.
Recommended for ages 5 and older Quality: 4 out of 5 Directed by Karyn Parsons Sweet Blackberry, 2007
The Journey of Henry Box Brown is an educational, uplifting short film that tells the true story of a former enslaved person who shipped himself to freedom in a crate in a harrowing 27-hour journey. It’s a perfect introduction to Black history.
Recommended for ages 5 and older Quality: 4 out of 5 Directed by Karyn Parsons Sweet Blackberry, 2005
This powerful drama provides a great way to open discussion with kids about racial issues. Direct and sensitive, it personalizes a portrait of America's arduous struggles to break free of racism.
Recommended for ages 9 and older Quality: 5 out of 5 Directed by Michael Pressman HBO, 1988
A Ballerina's Tale examines the life and career of Misty Copeland, the first African-American principal dancer at New York's American Ballet Theater. Not only is Copeland a significant role model for any young girl who dreams of a career as a dancer, but she's also emerged as an important example for the Black community.
Recommended for ages 9 and older Quality: 4 out of 5 Directed by Nelson George Sundance Selects, 2015
This documentary about one of the country’s top jazz bands in the mid-‘70s is full of inspiring messages and strong role models. The Kashmere Stage Band was an all-Black high school band from Houston that not only revitalized the predominantly Black school but also revolutionized the entire concept of the stage band.
Recommended for ages 9 and older Quality: 4 out of 5 Directed by Mark Landsman Roadside Attractions, 2011
Based on the nonfiction book by Margot Lee Shetterly, Hidden Figures is the true story of three brilliant Black women who worked for NASA in the 1950s and '60s as "human computers.” This is a story that needed to be told—and it's told in a triumphant manner.
Recommended for ages 10 and older Quality: 4 out of 5 Directed by Theodore Melfi Twentieth Century Fox Film Corporation, 2016
Remember the Titans tells the inspirational true story about the struggles and victories of a newly-integrated high school football team in 1971 in Alexandria, Virginia. It’s a deeply moving film about the courage of individuals and the power of sports to transcend perceived and ingrained differences.
Recommended for ages 10 and older Quality: 4 out of 5 Directed by Boaz Yakin Walt Disney Pictures, 2000
Woodlawn is a faith-based drama inspired by true events at a Birmingham, Alabama, high school in 1973. The movie focuses on how a sports chaplain helped convert nearly the entire Woodlawn High School football team to born-again Christianity after it was desegregated, helping the players deal with racial strife on and off the field.
Recommended for ages 10 and older Quality: 3 out of 5 Directed by Andrew Erwin and Jon Erwin Pure Flix Entertainment, 2015
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President’s Day is a National Holiday that celebrates both George Washington and Abraham Lincoln. The official day is celebrated on the third Monday of February. From where he was born to how much education he had, read on for a few more fun facts about George Washington.
1. He was born on Feb. 22, 1732, at Pope’s Creek, Virginia
2. His family arrived in America in 1657 on a ship called the Sea Horse of London.
3. He was an excellent dancer.
4. He did throw a silver dollar across the Potomac River. The Potomac is over a mile wide, and silver dollars did not exist then. His grandson once said that George threw a piece of slate across the Rappahannock River in Fredericksburg, which is narrower.
5. He had no middle name.
6. The cherry tree story is just that: a story. The tale is that as a little boy, Washington chopped down a cherry tree in his family’s yard and told his father the truth even though it meant punishment. This story was fabricated by Mason Locke Weems, a bookseller who wrote the first biography about Washington (after George died in 1799).
7. George Washington had bad teeth and was afflicted with many dental diseases and pain, but his teeth weren’t wooden.
8. Washington’s white hair was not a wig, although he did powder his hair for the white appearance. Click here for a tutorial on how to rock the style.
9. He only had a grade-school level education.
10. George Washington never had any biological children.
11. A fun fact about George Washington is that he was the United States’ first mule breeder.
Time to learn what “Bruh, you left no crumbs on the field” means
When it comes to middle school slang, the first thing that comes to mind is Timothée Chalamet’s hilarious skit on SNL. And while kids today aren’t exactly that bad, some of the phrases they’re using are… confusing, to say the least. In a TikTok video, Mr. Lindsay, a middle school SPED teacher, shares all the words he’s heard in just one week. Though you’ve probably heard a few of them, most are going to require translation.
After all, as Mr. Lindsay points out, “If we don’t know what they’re saying, how do we know if they’re being inappropriate or not?” From “riz” to “left no crumbs,” here’s a breakdown of common middle school slang words parents should know. (Note: A number of these terms have been adopted from African-American Vernacular English.)
On God: A way of saying someone is telling the truth, a version of “I swear to God.”
She ate: Describing someone who looked amazing or did something perfectly.
Left no crumbs: A shortened version of “ate and left no crumbs,” meaning someone did something so well they took all the talent or skills for themselves and left none for anyone else.
Riz: Romantic appeal or charm/charisma. Being a smooth talker, having that “something special,” willing to put oneself out there.
GYAT: A shortened version of Godd*&*, typically used when referring to someone with a curvy backside. You might even hear something like “level 1 GYAT” or “level 10 GYAT.”
Fanum Tax: This word originated with a Twitch streamer who would jokingly eat parts of his friend’s meals. According to this YouTube video, Fanum himself claims it means “feed your friends.”
Cap: Lying for no reason. “Bruh, why you capping? I know you’re grounded from your phone.”
Bet: Kids use this term for a few different meanings, but the most common use is as “okay” or “agreed.” It also is a way of confirming a true statement.
Bruh: While this term stems from the word “brother” or “bro,” nowadays, it can be used for just about anything: to say hello, to convey disappointment, excitement, boredom, or whatever.
Gassing you up: To inflate a person’s ego, give them props and compliments, or lift them up when they feel down.
It’s giving: This is used to convey a similarity to a person or thing or even an era. For example, “Her outfit is giving ’90s.” It can also be shortened to convey a positive vibe. “It’s giving,” meaning you like it.
For real for real: Used to emphasize complete honesty. “For real for real, I aced that test.”
This goes dummy hard: A term often heard on TikTok that’s used to express admiration for something or someone exceptionally awesome. If you hear your kid say, “He went dummy hard on the field,” it means the player had a fantastic game.
Simping: From the word “simp, which has been shortened from “simpleton.” It refers to a boy who is so into a girl they can’t do anything but think about them. Someone who is “simping” on someone else will do almost anything for that person. For example, Kid A says, “I can’t wait to leave class, find Annie, and see what she’s doing.” Kid B says, “You’re simping,’ bro.” Usually has a negative connotation.
You’re not him: You aren’t that guy, and you’ll never be that guy.
Yeet: To throw something fast and hard, preferably screaming “Yeet” while doing so. It’s typically used when throwing something forcefully that you don’t care about.
Snatched: Popularized by the LGBTQ+ community, it takes the place of “perfection” or “on point.” For example: Your makeup is snatched.
Pick-me energy: Comes from the term “pick-me girl,” a person who does almost anything for male validation, including changing styles, interests, and hobbies to be accepted. It has turned into an insult, not unlike “simp,” and is almost always used negatively.
Slay: First popularized among the Black LBGTQ+ communities in the ’80s and ’90s, this term describes incredible fashion, music, and dance performances; it has expanded to mean “amazing job” for almost anything, similar to the term “killed it.” “Yes, girl, slay!”
Dead a**: A Gen Z and Gen Alpha way of saying “in all seriousness.”
Drippy: Used to express something cool or awesome, especially regarding fashion and clothes. It can be used to emphasize that a person has so much swag.
Bussin: Something is delicious. “My mom’s chicken casserole is so bussin.”
Safe to say, middle school slang has changed drastically from when we were roaming the halls. But hey, now that you’re more familiar with these terms, you might be able to work them into conversation with your big kid. Whether that makes you cool or a total dork remains to be seen.
Brrr! Baby, it’s cold outside. But have no fear. Even when the weather’s chilly and you’re snowed in, there’s lots that you and your little one can do to fight cabin fever and explore the winter wonderland. Here you’ll find nine of our favorite snow day activities for babies and young toddlers.
1. Indoor Beach Day
It’s too cold outside for swimwear, but that doesn’t mean you can’t go swimming. Try a mid-day bath to break up tired routines. Most babies adore water play anytime. Throw in a few plastic cups and floating ducks and you have the makings of your own beach party.
2. Shadow Puppet Show
When it’s dark and dreary outside, lights shine even more brightly inside. Bust out the flashlights and shadow puppets and impress your little one with an oversized bunny hopping across the wall and the silly interpretive dance her teddy bear can do under the spotlight.
3. Sensory Play with Snow
Snow can be used in place of sand or play dough, at least until it melts. Scoop up a bunch and bring it inside. Then, set your little one up on towels, get out measuring cups and spoons, and watch your baby build, scoop, and explore the squishy, cold wonder. You can find eight more fun snow sensory play ideas here.
4. Play With Your Food
When you’re trapped inside, sometimes you need to throw the rules out the window. Plain yogurt with a little food coloring added in makes the perfect medium for finger painting. Edible play dough is also easy to mix up. Try this simple oatmeal dough or a brightly-colored mix with Kool-Aid.
5. Go Sledding
They may not be ready to careen down hills, but little ones sitting up independently can chill in a sled, like this one, and enjoy the snow. Bundle up your babe and play Rudolph by pulling them around with a rope. Bonus: you get to battle cabin fever with a little exercise.
6. Snow is Your Canvas
Take a cue from childhood fave The Snow Day and head outside to make tracks in the fresh, pristine snow. Pull on snow boots and stomp around. Budding walkers love to follow a trail or build a new one. Then, make patterns in the snow by drawing lines with a stick.
7. Bubbles
Blow a few bubbles inside for instant baby-mesmerizing magic. Then, if you’re willing to brave the chilly weather, go outside and make your own frozen bubbles. The temperature needs to be 10 degrees Fahrenheit or below for the trick to work. If that’s too cold for you, create semi-solid creations indoors by carefully freezing soap bubbles on a plate in your own freezer.
8. Paint Some Snow
Sometimes the best canvas for a young toddler is a frosty one. Bundle up your little Picasso to sit in the snow outside or fill a bin with snow for some indoor artistry. Now fill a few bowls with water and a few drops of a different food color in each to create the “paint.” Give your baby or toddler a paintbrush and let them craft a melty masterpiece. Bonus: No worries if they taste the paints.
Even those of us who love planning travel can appreciate the ease of an all-inclusive family vacation. You don’t have to worry about making reservations for meals, the kids are taken care of at top-notch kids’ clubs, and the service makes you feel relaxed and pampered. These family-tested properties from the U.S. to France to Costa Rica have dialed in what families want when on vacation. Scroll through to find a new property to add to your must-visit list.
Club Med Michès Playa Esmeralda | Michès, Dominican Republic
Club Med
The first resort in the undiscovered region of Miches, Club Med Michès Playa Esmeralda is situated on 93 acres and a 2,000-ft stretch of untouched white sand beach, offering families the ultimate luxury tropical getaway.Families will enjoy a stay in La Perla, an exclusive area featuring 16 oceanfront family suites and four oceanfront penthouses with a rooftop terrace and multiple bedrooms, andaccess to a private family pool, family bar, and private cabanas. Kids under 6 stay free and you can even book your flights with your stay for added convenience.
With kids’ clubs for every age from 4-month-olds to tweens, you know that your kids are going to have an experience they won’t soon forget. The property even has special areas for teens to gather and participate in activities like flying trapeze, archery, and windsurfing. Adults can indulge in some R&R in the adults-only Zen Oasis area, the perfect tropical hideaway for rest, relaxation, and wellness, ensuringtotal peace of mind.
White Villas Resort | Turks and Caicos
White Villas Turks & Caicos
White Villas Resort in Turks and Caicos provides guests with the perfect combination of a private vacation villa, with all the services of an all-inclusive experience. Being family-owned, they understand the unique needs of families while on vacation and prioritize providing both a breathtaking setting and the necessary amenities (outdoor gym and movie theatre, vehicle rentals, private boating, chef services, and much more) for a fun and stress-free experience. Your family or extended family will love having their own private home base to return to after a day spent exploring. 20 minutes from the airport and 5 minutes to Grace Bay Beach means you don’t have to spend any time getting to the fun.
Dreams Los Cabos Suites Golf Resort & Spa | Los Cabos, Mexico
From the moment you arrive at Dreams Los Cabos, you will feel the relaxing vibes take over. Located on the Sea of Cortez, this all-inclusive resort for families is just a 30-minute ride from the airport and an even shorter ride to downtown Cabo San Lucas. Families can spread out in a suite that comes with a separate kitchen area, balcony, 24-hour room service, and so much more. All-inclusive amenities include access to a number of a la carte restaurants including French and Italian cuisine, seafood, and steak. Get your fill at the breakfast buffet with Mexican favorites and a made-to-order omelet station.
The main pool is at the center of the resort and includes multiple areas with lounge chairs, a swim-up bar, and even a water slide for the kids. Be sure to look for the massive iguanas sunning themselves near the waterslide. Send your kids to the Explorers Club and head over to the adult’s-only pool near the seafood restaurant. Here you’ll find a quieter zen vibe with another swim-up bar. Nightly entertainment and movies on the beach are a family highlight.
Falcon’s Resort by Melia | Punta Cana, Dominican Republic
Falcon’s Resort by Melia
We’re pretty sure that your dream family vacation includes things like top-notch food, a stunning beach, massive suites, and an amazing kids club—but does it also include an amusement park? You’ll get this and so much more when you visit Falcon’s Resort by Meliá in Punta Cana, Dominican Republic. All the rooms are suites and you’ll love that even when at max occupancy you’ll never have to fight for a lounge chair by the pool.
Along with some serious relaxation vibes, this all-inclusive resort embraces the “resortainment” experience with tons of activities available throughout the day to keep kids (and parents) busy. When the kids find out that you also have access to next-door Katmandu Park during your stay we know they’ll never want to leave!
Puerto Vallarta is just a short flight from much of the U.S. and it’s the ideal destination for foodies, parents, and beach-loving kids. Velas Vallarta offers massive suites, activities for all ages, an amazing kids’ club, and so much more. You’ll love that all the rooms at this property are condo-style which means you’ll have a living room and kitchen in addition to your bedrooms and bathrooms.
Connected by a fun waterway, the two main pools are the center of the action at Velas Vallarta. The activity pool has a swim-up bar, water volleyball net, and activities throughout the day like water aerobics. The other pool has a more tranquil vibe with loads of shaded lounge chairs surrounding it. There’s even a mini pool for the kids right near the kids’ club. You’ll love walking the long stretch of beach right in front of the property.
If your ideal all-inclusive resort for families includes skiing in the French Alps and then enjoying a post-ski massage, you’ll want to check out the newly-opened Club Med Tignes. Set in the picturesque French town of Val Claret, Club Med Tignes is a brand-new property with ski-in/ski-out access to some pretty epic mountains. Even before you arrive, you are being taken care of as a transfer from the airport is the first part of your all-inclusive stay. Whether you fly into Lyon or Geneva, it’s about three hours to get there from the airport (but you won’t be driving so you can enjoy the stunning views).
Not only are ski lessons included for the whole family, but the staff will literally get your kids from their PJs into their ski gear and out on the mountain without any assistance from you. It’s all-inclusive taken to a whole other level and we are here for it.
Divi & Tamarijn All-Inclusives: This pair of beachfront all-inclusive resorts are perfect for families with younger children, as kids under 12 stay, play, and eat for free at Tamarijn. The Sea Turtles Club is a free activity center open for children aged 4 to 12, where parents can leave their kids to play while they enjoy the rest of the resort. Borrow bikes to cruise around the property and the island, and then spend time exploring underwater sea life while snorkeling in the pristine waters of the Caribbean.
Salmon Falls Resort | Ketchikan, Alaska
Salmon Falls
Conveniently located just 90 minutes from Seattle, Salmon Falls Resort has catered to discerning adventurous families for more than 30 years and offers thrilling Alaskan adventures paired with an authentic lodge-style resort experience. Ketchikan is located at the southernmost entrance to Alaska’s iconic Inside Passage and is best known as the “Salmon Capital of the World.” The popular guided and self-guided fishing excursions will be offered along with standouts including a floatplane fishing adventure, wildlife-watching boat safari, ethical bear watching, eco-kayaking tours, and more. Three meals per day, airport transfers, fishing gear, accommodations, and fish processing are all included in rates.
Martinhal Lisbon Chiado Luxury Hotel & Apartments| Portugal
You may have been to properties that deem themselves “family-friendly” but the Martinhal properties take this to a whole new level. Martinhal Chiado is the world’s first luxury family hotel in a city center and it is the ideal spot to stay with your family in Lisbon.
In addition to thoughtful in-room amenities like step stools and high chairs, all of the rooms here are apartment-style with kitchens and a washer-dryer combo. Even larger families can feel at home here with two-bedroom suites available that include a room that sleeps four kids in bunk beds! Need a baby bath, diapers or bottle warmers? The Baby Concierge is available to provide these items to you for your stay.
They have an incredible kids club program that covers ages six months and up. Kids can visit the kids club from 9:30 a.m. to 6 p.m. and there no additional cost, it’s all included in the room charge. A special “pajama club” offers childcare services (for an additional fee) until 10 p.m. each evening, allowing parents to enjoy a night out in Lisbon.
Turtle Beach by Elegant Hotels, All-Inclusive | Barbados
Turtle Beach
At Turtle Beach, kids can immerse themselves in local culture by becoming honorary Bajan. The resort offers a fun-filled course where kids can learn the local lingo and try their hand at cooking Bajan dishes. The whole family can also unwind together just like the locals do, with activities such as beach cricket, calypso dance lessons, and dominos challenges. With excursions to discover the island’s gems, pastry-making demonstrations, and authentically Bajan pop-up bars to relish local, authentic treats and snacks, there’s plenty to choose from to make lasting family memories together.
Planet Hollywood Costa Rica, An Autograph Collection All-Inclusive Resort, Gulf of Papagayo, Guanacaste
If you are looking for the star treatment, look no further than Planet Hollywood Costa Rica. Tucked away in Papagayo Bay, this resort is excellent for families, and generally, the bay is great for swimming. Do you have a rising star or a fashionista? With singer/songwriter classes, drama, and showtime classes, and a wardrobe room, this kids club for kids 4-12 years of age offers something different from the usual. A large selection of tours is available at an extra cost and they include transportation from the resort. From horseback riding through tropical scenic trails, cocoa plantation tours, walking inside an active volcano crater, and raft tours along the river, you’ll definitely find something your family will enjoy.
Hilton Rose Hall Resort & Spa | Montego Bay, Jamaica
Hilton
Hilton Rose Hall Resort & Spa is an all-inclusive, beachfront resort in Jamaica that offers world-class amenities perfect for the entire family, including a championship golf course, a private beach, a top-of-the-line spa, a waterpark, and 11 upscale restaurants, bars, and grills. The rooms and suites capture the island feel with tropical-style features, spectacular views, private balconies, and a laid-back sitting area.
Spend your days at Sugar Mill Falls, one of Jamaica’s largest water parks that’s right on the property. Snag an inner tube and head down the lazy river, or head to the waterfalls for the ultimate zen experience. Poolside concierges will bring you all the umbrella drinks your heart desires.
Mountains, streams, lakes, and some of the nation’s most glorious scenery can be found atIdaho Rocky Mountain Ranch. Perfect for multi-generational family gatherings, the 900-acre ranch offers the opportunity to slow down, sit by the fire, and play a game of cards with the Sawtooth Mountains in the distance.
The Ranch offers mountain bikes to borrow including a handful of kid-sized rides. There are loads of trails for hiking and a pond on the property where you can fly fish (catch and release only), try out stand-up paddle boarding, or head out to see if you spot the resident beaver while on the pedalboat. You’ll find a number of guided activities for guests including hiking, fly fishing clinics, and yoga. You can also book a massage appointment.
We definitely recommend booking a half-day horseback ride while at the Ranch. Stables are located just across the street from the Ranch and their knowledgeable guides will take you on the trails so that you can get a bird’s-eye view of the valley. There’s nothing like seeing this gorgeous area on the back of a horse!
Grand Palladium is, through and through, the classic type of all-inclusive resort for families you imagine visiting in Mexico. But while other brands may have gotten too big or crowded, with the quality of food and service inevitably decreasing, these guys do it right. White Sand is one of four resorts on their Riviera Maya compound (sister resorts “Colonial” and “Kantenah” are also family-friendly, whereas the fourth, TRS Yucatan Hotel, is adults-only), which allows guests the unique opportunity of having both an intimate resort feel while being able to access the amenities (restaurants, pools, and more) of the neighboring resorts. If your kids (or spouse!) tend to get bored in one place quickly, this is the perfect answer.
Kids will love the interesting animals they encounter, whether real (there is a large flock of flamingos that live on the property, as well as plenty of cute coatis, iguanas, and more) or “Raggs” (the resort mascots, colorful dog characters that entertain children throughout the resort by singing, dancing, reading stories, and posing for photos)
Villa del Palmar at the Islands of Loreto | Loreto, Mexico
Villa del Palmar
Located on the eastern coast of Mexico’s Baja California Peninsula, Loreto has remained a hidden gem locale. Loreto is best known for its secluded, unspoiled setting on the Loreto Bay National Marine Park, a UNESCO World Heritage site. Villa del Palmar at the Islands of Loreto overlooks the gorgeous Sea of Cortez, complete with four restaurants featuring fresh, local cuisine; 39,000 square foot Sabila Spa; and five sparkling pools. Guests can choose from an array of suites and penthouses, including options that can sleep up to 12 people.
Families can book the all-inclusive package, which includes everything they need for limitless fun, including access to a number of the resort’s facilities, a plethora of onsite activities including paddleboards and kayaks to explore the incredible underwater wildlife the destination is known for and entrance to various theme nights hosted at the resort. Guests opting for the all-inclusive plan can also splurge on an unlimited selection of food and alcoholic beverages at the resort’s restaurants and bars.
One of the most distinctive resorts in Tucson, Tanque Verde Ranch has been welcoming families with scenic desert and mountain views for years. Guests can experience its varied history with miles of exciting horse trails, four tennis courts, and a bright swimming pool that sparkles in the Arizona sun. Visit the property’s 150 horses and enjoy southwestern cuisine and happy hour at the Dog House Saloon. Their all-inclusive package means you’ll be taken care of with fresh-made meals throughout your stay.
Breakfast rides, cowboy cookouts, and all the relaxation you need are central to a stay at Tanque Verde. Mountain biking, fishing, guided hikes, yoga and wellness activities, arts and crafts, tennis, and more are also available. Guest can take advantage of the robust kids’ program that includes a full day of activities including riding lessons, pool time, tie-dye, and all the cactus crafts you can imagine. Enjoy some relaxation time at the La Sonora Spa while the kids are taken care of (they won’t even miss you!). The Ranch just added an apiary and looks forward to having their own honey in the future.
The Fairmont Mayakoba underwent a serious makeover that was completed in 2022 and it now has a sleek new beach club, two more restaurants, an adults-only bar overlooking the ocean, two beautiful kids clubs, and freshly redesigned rooms and suites, too. Most notably, it also now includes an all-inclusive option and free dining for children under 5.
Fairmont Mayakoba is hidden in 240 acres of tropical forest, marked by crystal clear waterways and cobbled roads suitable only for walking, bikes, and golf carts. The setting in nature makes it hard to believe you’re only 40 minutes south of Cancún. It feels remote, exclusive, and quiet in the ways you want it to be quiet when you’re on vacation.
Golf carts are the main mode of transportation around Fairmont Mayakoba, which made for lots of fun, and also made you appreciate the grandness of the property. It truly feels like neverending miles of jungle tucked away alongside the Caribbean Ocean. It’s a 3-5 minute ride from the main rooms of the hotel to the beach, which makes even the journey to the beach an adventure.
Punta Cana is a popular tourist destination in the Dominican Republic known for its stunning white sandy beaches, crystal-clear waters, and tropical climate. The beaches in Punta Cana are among the most beautiful in the world, with miles of soft, powdery sand and turquoise waters. When it comes to places to stay when traveling with young children, you will 100% want to stay at a resort known for children’s programs and we definitely recommend Nickelodeon Resorts, Punta Cana.
This beachfront property tops our list of best all-inclusive resorts for families as it has direct access to the beach and some of the rooms are literally steps from the beach. The beach is great for walking or frolicking in the waves and is not too far from the pool, the beach bars, and restaurants. The rooms are on the side of the resort closest to the beach, and the waterpark is on the other side. It’s easy to get around the resort with shuttles and golf carts driven by staff and running continuously all day. If you are not experiencing mobility challenges, it’s about a 5-minute walk from the rooms to the waterpark once you’ve familiarized yourself with the layout of the property.
A short drive from Playa Conchal, you’ll find Playa Flamingo, a golden sand beach with stunning sunsets. Whether you are going for a wedding or a family trip, Margarita Beach Resort goes all out. With daily beach and resort activities and many excursions for you to explore, you won’t have trouble staying busy (if that’s your jam). Their family suites have the family in mind, offering kids their own bunk bed and space, even in a shared room. The beach is excellent for long walks. Since Flaming Beach is along Brasilito Bay, the waters tend to be calmer than many other beaches in Costa Rica.
Additional reporting by Claire Zlobin & Jenny Hart
Do you, like me, seem to run on anxiety, caffeine, and your children’s leftovers? Are you perpetually in a rush and pretty sure you’ve forgotten… something? (What was it?!) What if, and stay with me here, you were able to set aside that feeling of chaos and actually find joy?
Yes, it sounds cheesy. But don’t roll your eyes just yet. It’ll only take a few minutes a day. OK, so that sounds like a late-night infomercial (remember those?), but it’s true. While you can’t move to a commune and cultivate free-range sunflowers, you can take a few minutes to hit the pause button. Here are some easy ways to switch things up and make the whole family happier.
1. Have a whatever-makes-you-happy hour or a “yes day.”
One mom changed her life (yes, really) with what she calls a “whatever-makes-you-happy hour.” You know that ferocious hour sometime around dinner when kids turn feral? Rather than fighting it, this mom runs with it. For those 60 minutes, her kids do whatever they’d like, barring cruelty or serious danger, while she and her husband kid back with the adult beverages of their choice. This sounds daringly 1970s-ish, but it works. Her kids experience the joy of running wild. She has time to kick back. When it’s over, they come together and eat dinner as a calm, reconnected family (and clean up before bed).
Alternatively, try a “yes day.” We spend our lives telling our kids no. Why not spend a day, an afternoon, an hour, saying yes? Yes to board games or jump-rope competitions or ice cream for dinner or fairy wings in public. Check all the ground rules in this post (note: No danger allowed and set a budget!), then go forth and make some incredible memories together.
2. Make time to play.
You can waste your whole life on your phone, so set it down. Actually, stuff it in a drawer because it’ll inevitably go off. Everyone, including kids, now gets to spend an electronic-free hour doing . . . well, whatever they love other than electronics (remember books? They’re made of paper). Before dinner is a great time for this, so is the hour before bed. Hang from the ceiling if you want, but do what you love.
3. Remember that absence makes the heart grow fonder.
You’ll love your children even more if they aren’t around all the time. I promise. Prioritize alone time—for them and you. You could go the cheesy self-care route and take a bubble bath. You could craft. You could watch a TV show that isn’t geared toward five-year-olds. You could also go on a date, which I hear is something adults do from time to time. Reconnecting with your partner will help you find some sanity. Leave your phone in your bag while you’re at it!
4. Show some love.
Snuggle with your kids—science says it’s good for you. Hugging makes us happier, healthier, and less anxious, which is something your whole family deserves. After cuddling with the younger set (so long as they’re game), set your sights on your significant other. Sex therapist Vanessa Marin shares that a nightly makeout session that doesn’t lead to anything more is a pretty solid idea and may even prevent those in long-term relationships from becoming “touch-avoidant.” Sounds like a fun thing to try. I mean, a therapist recommended it.
5. Surprise and delight.
Life can be a real grind. While we can’t permanently decamp to a tropical paradise, we can break up the mind-numbing routine with moments of unexpected fun. No, you don’t have to go all manic pixie to do it: Give your kids dessert for dinner. Surprise them with a night of mini golf. Announce an impromptu movie night or declare a pajama day.
6. Un-schedule from time to time.
No, you can’t drop everything, but you can pick and choose. You don’t have to do every single activity presented to you. Take a weekend off from planned fun. Part ways with that sport your kid doesn’t love. Skip the birthday party. There are so many demands on your time; prioritize a few and let the others go. After all, kids spend their lives hurrying up. Give them—and yourself—a chance to chill.
7. Dedicate 10 minutes a day to each kid.
The experts behind Big Little Feelings call it the “10-minute miracle.” No phones, no siblings, just dedicated parent-and-kid time with no correcting or criticizing. For those 10 minutes, go all in on whatever game/bonkers make-believe scenario/craft activity your kid wants. Doing so should help curtail acting out—after all, many kids get extra unruly when they’re in need of connection and attention. Spend a bit of time every day giving it to them.
8. Practice gratitude.
There are lots of ways to do this. You can sign up for volunteer opportunities, talk about the things you’re thankful for (on more than just Thanksgiving), make a good deed calendar—whatever works for your family. But make sure you insist on the importance of giving back to others and being grateful for what you’ve been given. Life can seem too big and too busy, so stop and count your blessings, then pass them on to someone else. It’s one of the most important things you can do for your kids.
9. Share the smallest moments for the biggest smiles.
Remember those family photo albums with the plastic sheets you’d peel apart to lay down your favorite printed pics? That ship has sailed. Now you can create the most amazing time capsule for your family on the Tinybeans App (your kids will thank you one day when they’ve stopped rolling their eyes) and share all of your sweetest and silliest moments with family and friends. They’ll delight in seeing that first waddle or goofy smile each time they get an alert, and you’ll get a solid dose of joy every time they comment or react.
10. Host an impromptu dance party.
Turn up that music and dance! Oh, and sing along. Toddlers will love it. Older kids might try to hide. Don’t let them. Instead, crank the volume louder. Dancing is good for you. So is joy. Give yourself room to feel it.
11. Always have something to look forward to.
Make sure there’s always something good on the way—a trip to the ice cream shop, a birthday party, a night with friends. This goes for your kid and you. Then when times get tough, there’s always a light at the end of the tunnel. We need this more than you’d think: If the slog seems endless, we’ll quit. But with our eyes on the prize, we’re all. gonna. make. it.
